I think the term “energy vampire “ is actually an excellent analogy on many levels. I appreciate your videos and your Human Magnet Syndrome book. It really opened my eyes and helped me put words to a lot of what I had experienced from her.
Consider this hypothesis. The vampire metaphor is not using a modern myth to describe this thing in the real world but that the myth as we know it might actually be a metaphorical description of these behaviors. The fall of the house of usher is imo the best vampire story ever written and is a wonderful description of addictive and parasitic behavior destroying a family. Just a thought. When I was young I couldn't see why the people who said that they loved me destroyed me every time I started to make progress at anything positive and I still can't say that I really understand it. But now I see that those creatures were being true to their dark nature and that many others deal with the same things. Thanks for the nice video.
For sure.. its word for word. Two faces. Retractible covert preditor teeth.. super villent when cornered.. bran stokers.. come closer my love.. raaah.. steaked and her husband going mad.. but vampire hunter said she was gone.. nothing left of her but evil conduit.. the leeser vampire bitting rats coz he still had empaty.. weakness to the grandiose..
Have you seen the movie “Renfield” with Nicholas Cage? Excellent depiction of how Dracula emotionally manipulates his servant through inducing shame… as Renfield tries to break free of his own guilt in a codependency group.
For me I had to realize that there is a real give and take in a healthy relationship and it's not drama filled, that's the difference. Since I was programmed to react by my parents to certain behavior I had to reboot my brain. When i meet manipulators male or female I pay attention to how they make me feel, how they manipulate and how it affects me emotionally so i can be aware and react accordingly and not play into their tactics of manipulation.
I can't deny that much of what you said resonates with my own experience. However, I come from a place where perseverance rises with the sun, where each day teaches us to overcome challenges. Perhaps that has been my weakest point in this situation-because even perseverance requires recognizing one's place. I persist because I believe everyone deserves a chance, just as someone once believed in me. But the difficulty in these power dynamics lies in what I might become if I push too hard. In the psychology of relationships, the real issue is what is lost and what is gained in these emotional battles. What’s truly at stake is life and love-both of which slowly grow silent under the weight of these struggles. And as we bear the weight, we tend to forget the fairness we once saw in love.
For real. Thinking about how much time and energy I've spent on and had taken by these parasites is devastating. People should be taught how to avoid these horrible situations at a young age. It's extreme abuse. Unfortunately, the system is still set up to allow these parasites free range on the rest of us. Good self care is important! Take care of yourself out there! ❤
Loved your book HMS and your videos on YT!! Shark example seems more of a symbiotic relationship because the shark benefits from the fish too. When Dealing with the NPD (parasite) there is no benefit to the SLD only constant draining . The more the SLD gives the more is expected thus the “dance “ continues. SLD types get addicted to being needed and being the savior, so they can feel good about themselves, but deep inside they end up feeling used and exploited. Funny thing is both people kinda know what’s happening to some extent, but like a dealer and an addict they keep going back. Conditioning in humans is hard to change. It requires luck and grace then awareness and willingness to break free. 🙏🍀
The bible has one whole page ... Word for word .. saying watch out for these evil vile personas.. and their mo,s.. Jorden peterson has a good description of bampire cluster b,s.. its a great rant. And so descriptive how evil clusters can be.
P.S. Have you ever stopped to realize that behind all your efforts to set yourself free from the "Narcissist" that you are actually instead revealing your theology and the history of your people?
You have it almost the opposite at least in one vantage point..the codependent is also the empty one that gets their meaning from the narcissist..you are lost lol
I think it's wrong to label the victims as having a disorder, the term "self love deficit addiction" is degrading, and somewhat victim shaming, as is the term codependent also. Narcissists are predators, they are skilled con artists.
Yet, the narcissists only have the ability to abuse CERTAIN people. Just like we all come across parasites in the environment, but only certain people get parasitic infections, under certain conditions. The differing factor is the victim, not the parasite. You don't have the power to control anyone else except yourself. So, you might as well take the responsibility of figuring out what it is about you that is continuing to attract and ALLOW these parasites to latch onto you. Its for your own benefit.
Ross, what are you doing harping on and profiting on these issues that you have covered before many, many times before bro. Only the truth sets people free. Now you tell me, how do unbelieving Jews who have rejected their own Messiah and had the Romans crucify Him have anything of value or Truth to give to people to set them free from evil? Seriously.
Ross, what are you doing harping on and profiting on these issues that you have covered before many, many times before bro. Only the truth sets people free. Now you tell me, how do unbelieving Jews who have rejected their own Messiah and had the Romans crucify Him have anything of value or Truth to give to people to set them free from evil? Seriously.
@pmorgan777 Psychology is a pseudo science that has only been around 200 years. In those two hundred years have societies gotten any better? The answer is a resoundingly no!
Clearly, you're ment¤lly ill. Holding a J€w responsible today for what their ancestors did hundreds of years ago is ins¤ne!😒 Literally ins¤ne. So, am I not supposed to accept any knowledge from any teachers that have descendants who were sI¤veholders, just because I'm bl¤ck? You need to come to grips with reality and let the de¤d lay with the de¤d, AS THE BIBLE SAYS.
I think the term “energy vampire “ is actually an excellent analogy on many levels.
I appreciate your videos and your Human Magnet Syndrome book. It really opened my eyes and helped me put words to a lot of what I had experienced from her.
I like to call them psychological vampires personally. Really sucks having to live around them and related to them.
"Let the parasyte starve or let them learn how to feed themselves other way"
I asked my husband of 27 what he found so attractive about me in the beginning he said my energy
Scary
Thank you for your videos. They have helped out tremendously. I am now learning to create healthy boundaries after 65 years.
Consider this hypothesis. The vampire metaphor is not using a modern myth to describe this thing in the real world but that the myth as we know it might actually be a metaphorical description of these behaviors. The fall of the house of usher is imo the best vampire story ever written and is a wonderful description of addictive and parasitic behavior destroying a family. Just a thought.
When I was young I couldn't see why the people who said that they loved me destroyed me every time I started to make progress at anything positive and I still can't say that I really understand it. But now I see that those creatures were being true to their dark nature and that many others deal with the same things. Thanks for the nice video.
For sure.. its word for word. Two faces. Retractible covert preditor teeth.. super villent when cornered.. bran stokers.. come closer my love.. raaah.. steaked and her husband going mad.. but vampire hunter said she was gone.. nothing left of her but evil conduit.. the leeser vampire bitting rats coz he still had empaty.. weakness to the grandiose..
Love is care.. so if they dont care they dont love and ate liers " come closer my darling.. then bite.. "
Its grooming.. to latch on..
From what I have seen personally, the care takers (SLDs) also tend to have a lot more stress and health problems.
Have you seen the movie “Renfield” with Nicholas Cage? Excellent depiction of how Dracula emotionally manipulates his servant through inducing shame… as Renfield tries to break free of his own guilt in a codependency group.
For me I had to realize that there is a real give and take in a healthy relationship and it's not drama filled, that's the difference. Since I was programmed to react by my parents to certain behavior I had to reboot my brain. When i meet manipulators male or female I pay attention to how they make me feel, how they manipulate and how it affects me emotionally so i can be aware and react accordingly and not play into their tactics of manipulation.
I think if it's healthy it would produce clarity and not utter confusion
Hey, thank you Doc. Keep up the good work. This really helped me.
Get yourself some dewormer!❤
Yes lol
Ivermectin 🙂
I can't deny that much of what you said resonates with my own experience. However, I come from a place where perseverance rises with the sun, where each day teaches us to overcome challenges. Perhaps that has been my weakest point in this situation-because even perseverance requires recognizing one's place. I persist because I believe everyone deserves a chance, just as someone once believed in me. But the difficulty in these power dynamics lies in what I might become if I push too hard. In the psychology of relationships, the real issue is what is lost and what is gained in these emotional battles. What’s truly at stake is life and love-both of which slowly grow silent under the weight of these struggles. And as we bear the weight, we tend to forget the fairness we once saw in love.
For real. Thinking about how much time and energy I've spent on and had taken by these parasites is devastating. People should be taught how to avoid these horrible situations at a young age. It's extreme abuse. Unfortunately, the system is still set up to allow these parasites free range on the rest of us. Good self care is important! Take care of yourself out there! ❤
Loved your book HMS and your videos on YT!! Shark example seems more of a symbiotic relationship because the shark benefits from the fish too. When Dealing with the NPD (parasite) there is no benefit to the SLD only constant draining . The more the SLD gives the more is expected thus the “dance “
continues. SLD types get addicted to being needed and being the savior, so they can feel good about themselves, but deep inside they end up feeling used and exploited. Funny thing is both people kinda know what’s happening to some extent, but like a dealer and an addict they keep going back. Conditioning in humans is hard to change. It requires luck and grace then awareness and willingness to break free. 🙏🍀
Everybody needs people. The narcissist decreases your self-esteem.
Thank you!
They don't just decrease it, they actively seek to destroy it.
@@almondmilksodathey take it and leave you thinking of ways to get it back
Wow! "Say no to the parasite, let the parasite starve, or figure out a way to feed itself" 😮😢
Wow! I’ve lived through this recently
How do they drain the blood of another narcissist if they get into relationship with someone just like them?
I am NOT in love at all with anyone at all and it was far more than one filthy parasite stealing too.
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The bible has one whole page ... Word for word .. saying watch out for these evil vile personas.. and their mo,s..
Jorden peterson has a good description of bampire cluster b,s.. its a great rant. And so descriptive how evil clusters can be.
Does the battery negative receive... Or suck/ take the possitive charge !? 🧐🤨🧟
Join the dark force skyboy !!!
Never !!
P.S. Have you ever stopped to realize that behind all your efforts to set yourself free from the "Narcissist" that you are actually instead revealing your theology and the history of your people?
You have it almost the opposite at least in one vantage point..the codependent is also the empty one that gets their meaning from the narcissist..you are lost lol
And how much studying about human psychology, OUTSIDE OF RUclips, have you done?🙄😏 The nerve!😒
@@GB_008rather than just providing an ad hominem attack..you’re just mad 😡 that you know I’m at least partly right..get over it lol
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I think it's wrong to label the victims as having a disorder, the term "self love deficit addiction" is degrading, and somewhat victim shaming, as is the term codependent also. Narcissists are predators, they are skilled con artists.
Yet, the narcissists only have the ability to abuse CERTAIN people. Just like we all come across parasites in the environment, but only certain people get parasitic infections, under certain conditions. The differing factor is the victim, not the parasite.
You don't have the power to control anyone else except yourself. So, you might as well take the responsibility of figuring out what it is about you that is continuing to attract and ALLOW these parasites to latch onto you. Its for your own benefit.
Ross, what are you doing harping on and profiting on these issues that you have covered before many, many times before bro. Only the truth sets people free. Now you tell me, how do unbelieving Jews who have rejected their own Messiah and had the Romans crucify Him have anything of value or Truth to give to people to set them free from evil? Seriously.
Ross, what are you doing harping on and profiting on these issues that you have covered before many, many times before bro. Only the truth sets people free. Now you tell me, how do unbelieving Jews who have rejected their own Messiah and had the Romans crucify Him have anything of value or Truth to give to people to set them free from evil? Seriously.
What does religion have to do with mental health remedies/tactics to combat abuse?
@pmorgan777 Psychology is a pseudo science that has only been around 200 years. In those two hundred years have societies gotten any better? The answer is a resoundingly no!
Clearly, you're ment¤lly ill. Holding a J€w responsible today for what their ancestors did hundreds of years ago is ins¤ne!😒 Literally ins¤ne. So, am I not supposed to accept any knowledge from any teachers that have descendants who were sI¤veholders, just because I'm bl¤ck? You need to come to grips with reality and let the de¤d lay with the de¤d, AS THE BIBLE SAYS.
Who needs the abuse of the church…?
@petersnow150 Who said anything about churchianity?