Dear Future Wifey S2, E214: Heal First (Edwin Henderson)

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  • Опубликовано: 3 ноя 2024

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  • @sscott504
    @sscott504 3 года назад +101

    I'm so happy to hear this man also realizes a "man" has to be Submitted to God just as well as the wife being submitted to her husband...so many men miss that part!

    • @frankyncfballmom8000
      @frankyncfballmom8000 3 года назад +4

      Yessssss. God should be the husband's head as he leads the wife🙌🏾

    • @barbiegirl7437
      @barbiegirl7437 Год назад

      Excellent point, preach it 👏

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 3 года назад +73

    This message really resonated with me. Being a veteran myself who struggles with PTSD I have the tendency to not allow myself to become vulnerable in a relationship. I have learned that in order to love and receive love, I have to trust and open myself up.... slowly. Thank you brothers for the content.

    • @sheambitious29lachelle17
      @sheambitious29lachelle17 3 года назад

      Wishing you the absolute best

    • @chrisparker6249
      @chrisparker6249 3 года назад +1

      @@sheambitious29lachelle17 Thank you 🙏💗

    • @ashleyuzor
      @ashleyuzor 3 года назад +1

      This entire podcast including the military analogy was absolutely edifying. Thank you!

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +1

      Everything will be alright in Jesus name.

    • @chrisparker6249
      @chrisparker6249 3 года назад

      @@ladennayoung2939 Thank you 🙏❤️

  • @aprilbrown6739
    @aprilbrown6739 3 года назад +46

    The elevation of your podcast since honoring God with your body is TRANSFORMATIVE! God has done this. Another powerful episode!

  • @shareenladd1048
    @shareenladd1048 3 года назад +56

    Yes kingdom men line up please. We as kingdom women are waiting. We are not going to settle for unkingdom men! We are proud of you and rooting for you. We are praying for our kingdom men!

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  3 года назад +2

      Thanks

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +1

      In Jesus name. Amen. They must take their position as the head of the church and family.

    • @K_PE
      @K_PE 3 года назад +1

      Yes Lord!!! Let's bring them forth....it's time!!!! Jesus!!!

    • @frankyncfballmom8000
      @frankyncfballmom8000 3 года назад +2

      AMEN. Lifting Kingdom Kings (and Queens) up in prayer daily. Edify and Interceding 🙏🏾

    • @sheambitious29lachelle17
      @sheambitious29lachelle17 3 года назад

      Amen yes! No more settling 🌼

  • @Contentcreator139
    @Contentcreator139 3 года назад +30

    Dear Lord, please make me a safe space for future hubby to come home to.

  • @lynwilson9259
    @lynwilson9259 3 года назад +63

    "If we can be that submitted to a man, why can't we do that for our Heavenly Father?"

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  3 года назад +2

      Facts!!!!!

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +11

      We are supposed to be submitted to God before we are supposed to be submit to our husband. Many people are not ready for marriage mentally, emotionally, or spiritually.

    • @lynwilson9259
      @lynwilson9259 3 года назад +1

      @@ladennayoung2939 Indeed!

    • @K_PE
      @K_PE 3 года назад +1

      My whole soul was convicted. That was directed to me 😩😩 Gotta do better

    • @lynwilson9259
      @lynwilson9259 3 года назад +1

      @@K_PE frfr! Me too!!

  • @nicholaswilliams3241
    @nicholaswilliams3241 3 года назад +3

    WHEW. Edwin is speaking my journey over the past year. That surrender does something different 100%. But I just told a friend of mine going through a breakup that when you truly surrender, in the beginning we’re still nervous about letting go and letting God, but He is so loving that He will show us evidence of the blessing of our surrender. He will take something so small and multiple it beyond what we could even dream of. And He gives that evidence to show us that when we surrender and as long as we stay aligned under Him, He will take care of everything that we need and will manifest what is before us.

  • @blazinleotexas8562
    @blazinleotexas8562 3 года назад +18

    I loved Edwin on Ready for Love. He is so genuine & transparent. Thank you both for all the gems dropped during this episode. I’m in for the marathon. Thank You JESUS!

  • @mommyme6073
    @mommyme6073 3 года назад +10

    It's been 2 years and I have been crying literally every day thinking back about my mistakes what I could have done differently but I realize that I wasn't ready for marriage because I didn't take the time out to know me my wants my dislikes my strength my weakness most of all a relationship with God and now that I am going through my season of reconnected back to myself and get a full understanding of who I am I know I will be a better wife the second time around when God is ready to open that door onto to me! Heal gain wisdom and learn from your lack of knowledge! Marriage is not to be taken lightly! God is speaking!

    • @cherlyclark5232
      @cherlyclark5232 3 года назад +5

      Walk your journey into betterment and not bitterness for you are truly worthy of a King. Do not look in the rear view mirror of life because you have moved beyond that location and journeying on to another arena. The Queen has arrived go forth and get your Crown.

    • @mommyme6073
      @mommyme6073 3 года назад

      @@cherlyclark5232 🙏Amen! Thank you!

    • @sheambitious29lachelle17
      @sheambitious29lachelle17 3 года назад

      Well said! I concur my love .. you are loved and worthy

  • @benitaallen2702
    @benitaallen2702 2 года назад +3

    First of all, there is nothing sexier than a man uplifting the name of Jesus! I love how you both were able to testify and give God the glory while running in place 🙂 Awesome episode!

  • @LatinafortheLord
    @LatinafortheLord 3 года назад +7

    The Cosby show wow my generation right there! I'm 44 years blessed in the Lord PRAISE THE LORD! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
    I absolutely appreciate the transparency on these podcasts! There are seasons of singleness in the Lord that are more difficult more trying/testing then others but it's a blessing to have a community of those of the faith and like-mindedness be so raw..... ESPECIALLY as Men thank you! It's healing for me God bless you all!

  • @maameabena5969
    @maameabena5969 3 года назад +2

    Every word spoken is powerful. I made a vow two years ago to preserve my body and wait until I come into union with my kingdom husband. During this journey my spiritual walk comings to grow and I feel myself being more anchored in Christ. As you stated when you are aligned within your walk with God you don't miss or fall into the desires of the flesh. Thank you for this and for your amazing podcast

  • @akamissjay
    @akamissjay 3 года назад +7

    "When a door closes, get over the hurt and pain and realize that there is an opportunity on the other side of that door."

  • @turklatasha191
    @turklatasha191 3 года назад +9

    I was surprised, yet relieved to hear Edwin say that he wanted to "build" with his future wife. Oftentimes men want the woman to have everything "built" (put together) from the very beginning. It gives me hope that there are still good God fearing men that are realistic when it comes to relationships.❤👍

  • @verytangi9572
    @verytangi9572 3 года назад +3

    I’m loving the episodes when men/ brothers uplift and edify one another. I’m praying my boys will naturally do that for one another as they grow.

  • @lediawhiteside9964
    @lediawhiteside9964 3 года назад +6

    This Message has truly been a blessing. After spending time with the Lord, I’m praying for the fruits of the Spirit in my future Marriage. Then exercising for self care and this Podcast was a notification on my phone. I can relate to your guest today , (working and working). Blessings to All.

  • @MooreMakeup1
    @MooreMakeup1 3 года назад +7

    I love me some Edwin! I was rooting for him from the beginning of the show, I could sense his authenticity from jump! Icing on the cake that he’s a man of God ❤️. Enjoyed this interview and hearing him speak his truth 🤗 ... praying he finds the best friend he desires in a woman.

  • @akamissjay
    @akamissjay 3 года назад +1

    "Our experiences aren't only for us" ... Love that! So true... When we are committed to healing, we can then heal others. There is so much power in allowing the lesson to be greater than our experiences.

  • @totalpeace9030
    @totalpeace9030 3 года назад +19

    I am thankful Laterras Whitfield for all this wonderful content. I am absolutely ready to meet my future husband. I have been investing time and money by reading books, watching podcast. I have a therapist and a coach with the focus of making sure i heal from any past things. My job is take my time and develope the friendship. I follow you on other platforms. Thank you much I hope our paths cross one day. God bless you.

  • @thyrajoseph2720
    @thyrajoseph2720 Год назад

    Awesome interview! These are the types of interviews I want my son to listen to so he can understand that he is not alone with his struggles. I'm so happy I went back to these old episodes. ❤

  • @fleshia3524
    @fleshia3524 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for the opportunity to hear this conversation between two strong yet vulnerable men of God.
    Please keep doing what you’re doing - it gives me hope!

  • @meeshascuisine8278
    @meeshascuisine8278 3 года назад +6

    Sir, you are changing lives! Loved this episode. I pray that this podcast snowballs into something greater than what you could have imagined.🙏🏾 Blessings.

  • @stephnewhitfield7954
    @stephnewhitfield7954 3 года назад +2

    Totally agree. I wish more people would be more vulnerable in when it comes to their emotions. Tears are a release to the soul.That is how you connect with others, heal, and progress as a person emotionally.

  • @mdrenewed
    @mdrenewed 3 года назад +1

    "When the enemy comes in like a flood, God will raise a standard and with every temptation, He provides a way of escape." Sometimes, that escape comes through a podcast that a 6-year old accidentally clicked on RUclips. This obviously, wasn't the 1st time I listened to this conversation but it still felt new, speaking to me directly. The timelessness of this content, is a reminder of why one needs to be obedient and on assignment. Thank you. 🙏🏾

  • @LovesJourney1
    @LovesJourney1 3 года назад

    This message spoke volumes to my spirit. Being a single mom and suppressed childhood traumas taught me to not let anyone in. It took years to understand my service skills were hindered and I couldn’t allow anyone to service me. Opening up and writing my story along with giving back to my community gives me new life

  • @angiep.4362
    @angiep.4362 3 года назад +1

    I sat at dinner on my birthday (Dec. 31st) and said to my friends “God is sending me the word ‘INTENDED/INTENTION’, and 21’ will be that”. Hearing this today gave me even more affirmation.

  • @Nahnie-jb8wo
    @Nahnie-jb8wo 3 года назад +6

    I love his heart for God. We didn't get to see this on the show. What a hard worker!

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад +6

    That is because Samson was captivated by the right things, and he perceived it to be a safe space. When in reality he was not in a safe space. His image of her was distorted, and he chose his romantic partner based off of the wrong things. But I get the message that you were trying to convey about being a comfort to a man if you will. But men have to learn that women need the same thing.

  • @Divine_Guidance
    @Divine_Guidance 2 года назад

    This was beautiful! It's refreshing to hear men discuss being submitted to God and being intentional about the way they live and pursue relationships.

  • @Discoveringtherealtruth
    @Discoveringtherealtruth 3 года назад

    It’s encouraging and enlightening to hear strong men discussing abstinence, healing & surrendering to God 🙏🏼

  • @K_PE
    @K_PE 3 года назад +30

    First of all, this man of God is absolutely FINE!!!! I mean the FINE that makes no sense. Ok...back to the message 😊

    • @meekmeka7331
      @meekmeka7331 3 года назад +2

      Yes he is

    • @K_PE
      @K_PE 3 года назад +3

      @@meekmeka7331 Look! I never knew a fine specimen of a brotha until I saw him. My Lord!!! And he's a man of God with a great head on his shoulders. That's rare but I pray God sends him the woman he needs.

    • @teresareese5707
      @teresareese5707 3 года назад +1

      I Completely Concur💕

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 3 года назад

      You didn't see him on the show Ready to Love, prior to being on this podcast?

  • @stephnewhitfield7954
    @stephnewhitfield7954 3 года назад +5

    Yes, being hard on yourself because you want to do better. Thank the Lord God sees us a more than what we see.

  • @kiesha82
    @kiesha82 3 года назад

    I literally held in my shout the whole 59 minutes and 14 seconds of this podcast. This was such a blessing to hear and see what God is doing in the lives of men. Praying for you both 🙏🏾

  • @aldrennapope7588
    @aldrennapope7588 3 года назад +6

    I had to learn to let God love on me and heal me, so I can love the one he created to love me.

  • @dwslady77
    @dwslady77 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for this episode. Mr. Henderson's testimony was like a breath of fresh air. Many gems were dropped. "Living life intentional."❤

  • @cookingwithchefgilliang5405
    @cookingwithchefgilliang5405 3 года назад +2

    Wow Edwin such an amazing Man of God.. your realness..growth & transparency encouraging.. God Bless you in all you do 🙏🏾👏🏾😘

  • @shareenladd1048
    @shareenladd1048 3 года назад +12

    I need a snapping fingers emoji for that poem 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

  • @Courie11e
    @Courie11e 3 года назад

    Maaaaaan this is one of the BEST podcast so far. I love how he shares the example of the healing process and comparing it to running a marathon

  • @sweetpepperlove
    @sweetpepperlove 3 года назад +25

    I am learning a lot o this channel, especially the healing episodes. Just lost my fiance 8 months ago...so moving on is so scary...I feel guilty even thinking about it. Maybe you'd like to tackle that angle in the future?

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  3 года назад +8

      Wow! You have my condolences. Blessings to your heart.

    • @mrkmaker
      @mrkmaker 3 года назад +11

      My condolences ❤. You can check out the Committed Podcast. The episode "When Lightening Strikes Twice" is about love after loss.

    • @sweetpepperlove
      @sweetpepperlove 3 года назад +5

      @@mrkmaker thank you so much dear. I will definitely check it.🙏

    • @coreyhaga2623
      @coreyhaga2623 3 года назад

      Sorry for your loss 🙏🏽

  • @jarhonda2702
    @jarhonda2702 Год назад

    Love to see MEN being open and transparent like this

  • @lediawhiteside9964
    @lediawhiteside9964 3 года назад +4

    Oh my God, “the soul ties” OMG, you preaching to me. Wow

  • @nadinemutoni4279
    @nadinemutoni4279 3 года назад +2

    I am always excited to see who comes on the show. God is using you to heal so many people. May his grace be your share.

  • @empressona
    @empressona 3 года назад +1

    This was an entire word.. Everything that you two member and talking about resonated with me and is what I'm working on.

  • @lonamkuzo3143
    @lonamkuzo3143 3 года назад

    I appreciated Edwins' candour,he seems genuine.Your pointing out the similarities of following military authority and Kingdom authority was so spot on Laterras! Enjoyed the pod😉keep them coming!!!

  • @missnurseeri
    @missnurseeri 2 года назад

    That running story was a prophetic word for me. I am in tears. Lord how You love me. ❤️

  • @tanyaholland8542
    @tanyaholland8542 3 года назад +6

    We have to trust God in all things. Even when we can't see him,he'll always show up creating strength in US. Whenever, wherever & however man can't, God will.
    Trust in God first and he'll do the rest.

    • @sylvietapos807
      @sylvietapos807 3 года назад

      Amen!!! 🙏🙏🙏 Thank you so much for the reminder.

    • @roshundaallen4679
      @roshundaallen4679 3 года назад +1

      Surrendering means to die to Self!!!!
      This touch my heart.
      Godly man encouraging each other. I Love it. Another heart touching episode Thank you for sharing your journey.

    • @tanyaholland8542
      @tanyaholland8542 3 года назад

      Absolutely ... I enjoyed this, men encouraging, uncovering and discovering truth. In which strengthens women's hope in seeing good solid Godly men stepping up to the forefront.

  • @taurus43lady21
    @taurus43lady21 3 года назад +9

    I was waiting for Edwin to be on this show when I watched him on Ready to Love! 😊

    • @koik1551
      @koik1551 3 года назад +2

      He's a solid.. I really want the best for him..

  • @snbrooks3707
    @snbrooks3707 3 года назад

    I have been a subscriber for a little while but it's been hit and miss with watching but I almost screamed when y'all started speaking the word of God to each other a little over 1/2 way through!!! C'mon kings speak encouragement to each other and y'all reinforced my hope in kingdom men! Thank you!

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  3 года назад +1

      That's my dude!

    • @snbrooks3707
      @snbrooks3707 3 года назад

      It was beautiful. When we learn to continuously speak words of the Father and life to one another, He will honor that and reconnect our homes and relationships. Keep up the heart work 💕

  • @louellaedwards730
    @louellaedwards730 2 года назад

    There is something intimate about cooking together. Making memories...special moments

  • @Dr.K.Harris
    @Dr.K.Harris 3 года назад

    Dying to self...each and every day. Partial obedience is still disobedience. God values obedience over sacrifice. 🙌🏾 It's imperative to make the necessary adjustments to be in His perfect Will....so much better than his permissive one. This confirmed many things for me....thankful to be in the midst of my own process of spiritual development.

  • @christnme1106
    @christnme1106 3 года назад

    Absolutely love the conversation & transparency between men of GOD. I agree a man definitely needs to heal before pursuing a relationship. When we allow GOD to take over, everything will fall in place according to HIS WILL. GOD BLESS

  • @maryannrussell7263
    @maryannrussell7263 3 года назад +1

    In submitting to God we must remember our bodies cannot be used for gratification of a women or a man because we are totally submitted to God until he approves our lifelong partner. It's the gift of discernment that the supreme being will guide us step by step without a second thought. Glory to God this is where our trust and faith comes together as in partnership giving glory to God because he will show you and your partner that this is a spiritual relationship like never beforehand. Its not good for a man to touch a woman which is saying that protection is given for both because God made us in his image and he is our protection safe guarding his children to the altar....If we listen to the spirit, ask for a sign from God and watch Him work...Trust Him! He is the greatest father,brother, friend and husband...Love this future wife show.

  • @catherinewright1872
    @catherinewright1872 3 года назад

    The power of a changed mind to heal, grow, love and grace.

  • @MTeeGmore
    @MTeeGmore 3 года назад

    When you die to that part and get in the WILL of God like God wants you to be... Everything else is non in void. I know the feeling, it’s truly a serene and peaceful place. Awesome point. 👏👏

  • @kimenglish9764
    @kimenglish9764 3 года назад

    I love that no show is the same. I was once married to a military man and @25 was very naive to PTSD. The marriage ended with off and on domestic abuse for 7yrs. It is great to see him use his experience for God’s glory. I have been healed from the abuse for many years & advocate for women with my Nonprofit 501c3 Organization. What I also love is the transparency from you so that your guests are comfortable with their Truth! 🙌🏾 to another show

  • @simpleeme0247
    @simpleeme0247 3 года назад +3

    Mr. Whitfield... I have to be mindful of where I am when I'm listening to or watching your podcast because the praise that erupts sometimes is not understood by most. I'm shaking my head like I don't know if I'll be able to take two more poems but also there's been a standard forming in my life that I can only thank God for your obedience. Thank you seems so small.

  • @milashani
    @milashani 3 года назад

    Mister Whitfield as a regular viewer of the podcast and from a casual observation - the work and changes that God is doing in your life is so evident. I've notice that you not only quote the Word, but also I notice the conviction that undergrid your contextual use of the Word.
    Another great episode & poem was 🔥! I appreciate your passion and purpose shared with us.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  3 года назад +1

      To God be the glory. Thank you so much for joining me on this journey

  • @londathomas2481
    @londathomas2481 3 года назад

    Being in God’s perfect will. Thank you. Allowing God to give you that grace🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼. Waiting on my King. Learning it’s worth the wait. Filling this time with self love.

  • @louiseottley4995
    @louiseottley4995 3 года назад

    U know what i love about this show is the Honesty from the Host and guests and the men oh my they are not afraid to be vulnerable and thats what i am looking for in a Husband keep up the good work Mr whitfield may God continue to keep u in your going out and commin in ❤❤🇹🇹🇹🇹

  • @kiesha82
    @kiesha82 3 года назад

    "You are not an F-boy, You are a Kingdom Man". That is powerful⚡

  • @tommyd1059
    @tommyd1059 2 года назад

    I needed to hear this episode. As a Marine Veteran I understand I kw what it's like dealing with PTSD. I was told I was screaming in my sleep once a few years ago. I thank God years later I decided to get help. Sheesh. Everything Edwin was saying I am right there. I took the Vow also but Lord it's tough at times and at the weirdest moments. I'm pushing though.

  • @cynthiahillian
    @cynthiahillian 3 года назад

    It blesess me to see a veteran, brother.. Doing it. Getting the help and getting the help. God bless you. It will take a special women... May she find you and you her.

  • @mccbern06
    @mccbern06 3 года назад

    I stumbled upon this channel and Wow! What an amazing conversation between two emotionally mature men! Men who are willing to converse on topics such as this are rare. Thank you for discussing authentic "self-discovery" and the meaning of why it is so important. I accept the words spoken on your Podcast today and will continue on
    my path of self-discovery and inner healing. I am Liberated!

  • @haroldweston5034
    @haroldweston5034 3 года назад

    This message is so real and has helped me deal with everything I am dealing with right now. This is a true blessing

  • @machellesparks4575
    @machellesparks4575 3 года назад +1

    You for sure hit the nail on the head with that shirt. I was NOT going to comment until I actually heard that come out your mouth, so good job Theo. I liked the part where you all discussed getting laid off, as being a set up to move to the next step. Great discussion all the way men!

  • @msesspotradioshow7459
    @msesspotradioshow7459 Год назад

    Great job! I almost threw my mouse! I love the transparency. Thank you for helping us all heal. Ms E

  • @vanessakay7133
    @vanessakay7133 3 года назад

    Mannn Laterras you were preaching!!! I know this episode will help so many. The transparency is powerful!

  • @crystallove7437
    @crystallove7437 3 года назад

    I’m so very proud of you two young men.
    You’re very transparent and mature in your walk. Thank you for your ❤️. I love you guys. Stay strong in the Lord!

  • @yogimitchell6206
    @yogimitchell6206 3 года назад

    The Power of healing and the healing process is always amazing. God will bring you through it! Forgive yourself first (I needed that part). Thank you both for confirmation.....

  • @nicholebrown9474
    @nicholebrown9474 3 года назад

    That rap/poem was fire!! Keep up the good work Kingdom men. It makes my heart smile to see our Kingdom men of color yielding and maturing in the Lord!! I’m praying for you’ll and pray you all find your purpose partner.

  • @patriciascorner4686
    @patriciascorner4686 3 года назад +2

    I really liked the ecosystem imagery he used for relationship.
    "Love Edition", that's beautiful.

    • @sylvietapos807
      @sylvietapos807 3 года назад +1

      That was a great perspective, great food for thought!

  • @mdrenewed
    @mdrenewed 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for another great episode! The Lord knows how to move us and order our steps, I realize that no experience/ exposure is wasted. Women struggle with self-care as well, our nurturing nature makes it easy to pour into our environment and end-up running on empty. Functioning from that space made me resent and despise the very things I valued and enjoyed because I started to believe that, outside of my acts of service, I didn't matter.....So, my view of my surroundings, through those lenses, caused me to detach, disconnect and isolate. Learning to make self-care a priority, is essential but I could only be intentional about it once I started to view myself and my world through healed eyes.

  • @zettedavis2184
    @zettedavis2184 3 года назад +2

    You guys have done my heart good. I was thinking that the men pool was slim to none. Come on brother slay that poetry.

  • @nynightnurse
    @nynightnurse 3 года назад

    1st I must say season two of the podcast is on 🔥 fire!
    2nd I pray Edwin's journey continues so the Father can do His will in him. I'm so glad he is getting therapy and learning to allow people to help him with his mission. That is part of the walk. I know - I struggled/ struggling with it also.
    3rd It would be awesome if the next show would also have another man of God. I'm interested in seeing a brother who has hit a tough patch (incarcerated, illness, bankruptcy, etc) be restored through his faith, heal, grow, build, get married, etc and share that prospective.
    4th well done on another great topic & guest
    Blessings on you 🙏🏾

  • @lynRen0
    @lynRen0 Год назад

    This episode touched me. I spent 24 years in Law Enforcement, lost my marriage, wasn't present for my children and was so angry and easily agitated. My Damascus Road was treacherous💔 But God... I too was diagnosed with PTSD, severe depression and social anxiety, I was on the same medication that made me a walking zombie. I too was had problems at work... But God.... God healed me, God softened my heart, God allowed me to forgive myself from guilt, shame and condemnation. I know all things work for the glory of God. Thank you for this. Ugh, he's such a Good GOOD Father🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Thank you❣

  • @dl2310
    @dl2310 Год назад

    That Gordon Gartrell was the first thing I noticed! Dope!
    I was waiting for a beat to drop with that poem , Laterras! You're a great writer.

  • @msshawbear
    @msshawbear 3 года назад +1

    This was awesome and a blessing. When the pandemic first started I herd the Lord say how can you want a man to do something for you that you don't do for yourself. Meaning I have to take time for me and do it without feeling bad about doing it. And buy flowers or a surprise gift for myself.

  • @CamilleEssick
    @CamilleEssick 2 года назад

    This conversation blessed my soul and provided so much encouragement.

  • @melaninqueenfit
    @melaninqueenfit 3 года назад +2

    Amen! That salt and pepper fine! Ok back to the video❤️

  • @shaywatts6338
    @shaywatts6338 3 года назад

    EDWIN!!! My favorite guy on Ready to Love. I enjoyed hearing his background story. It gave more insight on his “why.” Best wishes to you sir!

  • @Archpope01
    @Archpope01 Год назад

    This is amazing, powerful stuff. You speak of the power of abstinence so much I feel that God is asking that of me. Trying to be L.I.T. and taking it one day at a time. Thank you for your messages.

  • @divinelychosen5554
    @divinelychosen5554 3 года назад

    Wow! You did verbal gymnastics with that poem Laterras 😁.I love it.
    I thoroughly enjoyed this episode with yourself and Edwin. I felt both of you were having a private heart to heart and we were all secretly eavesdropping. This is truly kingdom men connecting and sharing....so beautiful. I love, loved when you offered to be his accountability partner when he becomes ready for the commitment.
    Once again thanks for inviting us into your heart's conversation. God bless you both on your journey. Shalom🙏🏽

    • @essedarden4690
      @essedarden4690 3 года назад

      That's what he did - offered abstinence accountability?

  • @benitaallen2702
    @benitaallen2702 2 года назад

    I heard that !!! You were rocking those poetic words from the heart! God bless

  • @sylviaa5785
    @sylviaa5785 3 года назад +1

    This is a real man right here! Love it.

  • @yoloallday5975
    @yoloallday5975 2 года назад

    I know this seems crazy, but seriously the level of conversation, seriously So thankful to have found this podcast. I honestly ALMOST gave up on finding a brother of this type of mindset❤Thank you God for the reveal

  • @humblewarrior7593
    @humblewarrior7593 3 года назад

    This was awesome to see. Your influence, Laterras is helping to confirm what God is speaking into the lives of real kingdom men and we were blessed as viewers to see the transformation happen. When your focus is to stay in the Will of God miracles happen! I know God will continue to bless the both of you men of God in your commitment to honor Him.

  • @jxavier1844
    @jxavier1844 3 года назад

    This is one of my favorite conversations from your show. Thank you

  • @CarolynGamble
    @CarolynGamble 3 года назад

    This is such a powerful topic! Sharing in my group, Avoiding Toxic Relationships! Now approaching 350K Members!

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  3 года назад

      Thank you so much. You and I should do a Live in your group. Is it on facebook?

  • @caiyamoncrief9573
    @caiyamoncrief9573 3 года назад

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I love everything about this! We love to see men (& women) healing! God is so good❤️🙌🏾

  • @aquaadams8483
    @aquaadams8483 3 года назад

    Thank you! I've really been enjoying the conversation with all the male guests. Just to hear the heart and soul so humbled and pure; there's nothing like. What if the world would respond that way? Laterras, with each video I see and hear the great and wonderful things that GOD is doing within you. I so excited to see your elevation!

  • @sylvietapos807
    @sylvietapos807 3 года назад +4

    Good morning Laterras, and good morning to everyone 👋 Thank you so much for the new episode! I am watching it now, and I will be back later to share my thoughts.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  3 года назад +1

      Good morning

    • @sylvietapos807
      @sylvietapos807 3 года назад +1

      This whole conversation was L.I.T., and it so warmed my heart! Thank you so much for having him on. I have more I would like to say, however I need to get ready for work, so I will comment more later. I loved this whole conversation, and one of the many nuggets was when God told you " Laterras, you are not an F... boy, you are a Kingdom man." 👏👏👏 Amen!!! Thank you for sharing that with us, and for being willing to raise your standards for yourself. I am so happy for your future wifey. She will get to enjoy the fruit of your obedience 🙏🥰😘
      You are a blessing Laterras, please keep being obedient to God. In so doing, you are showing us what can happen when we do. I also loved it when you said that you don't have sexual urges any more, because God met you there, and He is helping you. So powerful a statement! 🙌🙌🙌

  • @koik1551
    @koik1551 3 года назад +2

    This is amazing and am loving this. And Edwin is a great man.. Am glad he's doing well...

  • @vinciacloete2764
    @vinciacloete2764 3 года назад

    That poem, - the words, the flow, the depth, 😭🔥🔥🔥

  • @IAmMonicaDenise
    @IAmMonicaDenise 3 года назад

    Powerful analogy about the “marathon” of life. Excellent conversation from the vantage point of Godly men.

  • @weovercome
    @weovercome 3 года назад

    🙌🏽 God (Abba) is getting the called ready..This is refreshing

  • @stephaniec22
    @stephaniec22 3 года назад

    THANK YOU,,,,I love an appreciate the safe place you and the podcast has made for men to talk to one another on such a open ..honest level. Keep up the 'God work' you are doing! As a single women it is good to hear this content. Peace and blessings too you Laterass

  • @mslynnjones2637
    @mslynnjones2637 2 года назад

    I love your podcast. This is such a blessing to listen each night I always learn so much. God is awesome! ❤️❤️

  • @MsHobbs-mu3wm
    @MsHobbs-mu3wm 3 года назад +3

    Dat Gordon Gartelle is EVERYthing!...🤗🤗😂😂

  • @Queenbelieveit
    @Queenbelieveit 3 года назад

    Encouraging, similar situation happened in reference to job loss. Happy more time to help my daughter with homeschooling and figuring it out.... my business.... Great show! God always is faithful and will see you through.

  • @paulachambers7756
    @paulachambers7756 3 года назад +1

    This was wonderfully transparent and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I could only give one 'like' so I gave it 5 stars 🌟 🌟🌟🌟🌟
    Thank you 😊