I need a transcript of this episode .... My ex said I was goofy=> don’t change yourself based off of a counterfeit. 🤯My ex really did call me goofy and there was something about the way he said it. I felt self conscious and there was a change. I remember my mom even noticed the change and told me she missed my wild laugh. Long story short, after counseling, prayer and healing……I’m back😁
Discovered Pastor Flowers and his wife when I was going through the loneliest break up. God used him in my life. I am married now and amazed at how far I've come.
That was exactly the time I had discovered him too. He and his wife really helped me during that time. God definitely used them to healed my heart during that time
Oh I know this is going to be THE BEST episode. He is wise beyond his years. Jerry came to give the people what they want. These 2 Brothers 2gether is a POWERHOUSE ❤️
Yes. I saw his name and picture and got so excited. Love that guy. This is one of those episodes that I can't watch passively. I need to clear my space and set the atmosphere so that I'm 100% present.
Yesss sista I agree. I watch part on my lunch break and the remainder later (now) and I'm learning so much and God is confirming so much to me ...oh my goodness
Mr. Flowers is the voice this generation needs when it comes to navigating Kingdom connections and relationships. He gives sound, effective, practical advice that is shifting how we show up in our relationships. We appreciate you brothers for having this conversation. One of my top favourite episodes! Thanks again LT ❤🙏🏾
Pastor Flowers and his wife get to the point and I love it. No sugar coating! He is one of the best guests you’ve had. Too many gems were dropped. I pray someone gets deliverance from this message!! Thank you Laterras !!
As a woman that's in her "waiting" season, this whole episode was extremely needed and so refreshing to hear ESPECIALLY coming from men. You have no idea how much you have confirmed what GOD has been trying to show me and tell me for years. Culture will literally have you out hear thinking, no man will ever truly wait, go through his process of healing and deliverance on top of being faithful to GOD before HE will align him to his wife. That season of waiting is so important.. its not easy at all, can be very lonely and scary, but at the end of the day I trust GOD. His Way over MY WAY ... PERIODT ❤️
Thank you for this podcast. As a single 52 year old woman, an elder in my church who’s never been married, this is certainly an education. Thank you for being obedient to the Holy Spirit! Watching Christians being transparent exposing the challenges of relationships in 2023. Thank you.
I saw a quote recently that said *the longer you entertain what's not for you, the longer you postpone what is* and it really helped to strengthen my resolve to put a stop to this bad cycle that I keep allowing myself to fall into. I'm 100% convinced that there is something on the other side of this hurdle that the enemy doesn't want me to get to. Something that I need to get to to really propel my relationship with God and his purpose in me. I Have To Get It Done.
I’m here for all of Laterras’ dramatics; the sitting back in his chair, the silence when a gem is dropped, “ there it go “, the heavy breathing which means “ bruh you talking h to me” or you hit it on the nail. I feel all of it. 😂 Too many gems dropped in this episode. TOOOOO MANY! My morning is COMING! I’m just gonna say, 🗣 Good Morning in advance”. Jerry Flowers said, and I quote, “ We preach too much that it’s your season that people don’t know how to navigate when it’s not”. 🗣 What’s his cash app??? Because this right heeeeeeere!
Yes! Jerry Flowers and his wife have helped me with my walk of abstaining from sex since 2016. God moved me to Houston and now I’m happy to be a part of the church. So glad he’s on the show. Thank you both for your obedience to God. I’m writing this before watching and I know its on point. 🔥
The amount of times I stopped/ rewind to write, ponder take a breath shake my head call myself out. This was Sunday service on a Wednesday I need a nap. Way too good! 🙏🙌
You BETTA bring Pastor Jerry back. His wife prayed over me at a conference 3 years ago when i was at a dangerously low point in my life. I'm very grateful for the two of them. They really have me in my Word differently these last three years. The Flowers are Kingdom minded. So many pastors are popularity and culture minded and I pray you dont have those pastoral counterfits on the show as we are in need of good fruit like this, not rotten shiny fruit.
Pastor Flowers is deep. May God bless this podcast, the host and his entire team. When others around me are being blessed I realize my ❤blessings❤ are around the corner.
“The toll of making a choice in a season is your mind.” 🤯 I can’t even get through the beginning of this episode because I can relate to the price I had to pay and it cost me too much.
I didn't want this interview to end... like I was so sad when it was over 😢😢 please bring him back for more. I am watching it again right now. Sooo goood ❤
Thank you for acknowledging that sometimes it's NOT your season! It's unnerving to hear "the church" say it's YOUR season to EVERYONE! Sometimes it's not. 🙌🏾
LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING! I am not even halfway through the episode!!!! The truth is heavy! I have been asked all the time ,”why don’t you date you need to know what you like.” “ why don’t you have sex with him so you know what to do when you get married?” “ Virgins don’t know anything” I have always said, sex is a discovery. I get the privilege of knowing my spouse in the most intimate of ways. I get to know him. Why would I “train” or “prepare” to be with him by knowing other people who are not him? Pastor Flowers is killing it!! Mannnnn I love this podcast! ❤
That's golden pastor Flower. Not everyone is your audience. In fact some people may not be your audience now, but will become your audience in a different season in their lives when the Lord has them ready to receive you. Your work will do what it does for years to come and even after you live this earth. God bless you sir. I am your student, and I am growing daily.
Oh, I was so looking forward to this! I did 2 seasons of Wife Academy with Jerry and Tanisha and it was life changing. The Lord is using them mightily to heal men and women in the body of Christ. I praise God for giving you the wisdom to know who to invite in each season. Love you, brother, and I love watching your journey of healing and growth!!
I definitely gotta share this with my egroup, we love Pastor Jerry Flowers... God always on time. I really appreciate and can resignate with his cuffing season messages..I have never be single in my adult life during cuffing season until I summited myself to God for the last 3 years .Blessings Latarras.
“Love is not seen only by what you do but also by what you don’t do”! That was a word!! Been following the Flowers for years. Wouldn’t expect anything less but great wisdom from this video.
Sir! Endure is making a commitment to remain even when the desire to remain has left. WHEW!!! YESSSS LORD! 37 years and counting. Thank you for your service in the Kingdom!!
Jerry Flowers is awesome! So much wisdom was dropped in this episode. His wife did not give him access to certain parts of her life until he was serious. This is exactly what I said I would do moving forward. Confirmation!!! Very few people think forever or covenant. The thought they have is I can always get divorced, so I'll get married. Or they choose to not share their lives with their spouse and keep things a secret. Then they want to know why things aren't working out. You're living on secrets, that's why!! "Endure is a commitment to remain even when the desire to remain is gone." Powerful and true! Beautiful letter. ❤❤
Ok, I'm watching this episode, again, I guess a year later. There are soooo many gems here. Laterras, BRING HIM BACK, PLEASE! Looking forward to the next time, on DFW. Thanks!❤
Pastor Flowers be dropping some GREAT gems! I found him on Tik Tok a couple months ago and it was the best find! He is such an inspiration. I could listen to him speak for hours. Great interview!!!
Been following the cuffing season series by Pastor Jerry Flowers, and oh Lord,this episode, wisdom galore. Thank you Laterras for this platform. God bless you, lots of love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪
I’m new to this channel but I am a long time follower of the Flowers. Ima make my testimony short for y’all ! I first start following Redifinedtv in 2018 right at the start of my last heart break. I was sick and tired of being played and playing myself in relationships and Situationships. So I started focusing on my relationship with God and asked him to just continue to prepare me if I am suppose to be a wife but don’t bring no man to me unless he is my husband!!! I start listening to Jerry and Tanisha and I got healed in my single stage. A little over a year later I met a business partner who became a good friend. He wasn’t “my type” and I immediately got the brother vibes too, we were just great associates. However, God had showed me a different view of him one day and I start feeling some type of way .. so I started to pray about that feeling and God reveled that he was my husband. Of course I kept praying asking The Lord if it was really Him telling me this and not the devil or myself 🤣 and he kept making it clear that it was him and it was true. So I said okay .. what should I do ?and as blatant as can be he basically told me to shut up and don’t say anything. Fast forward we still business partners and I’m with him every weekend but can’t say nothing lol He never showed any interest just kept it professional… 5 months later he calls me and says I’ve known for a while and my mom yelled at me about it the other day on my birthday but God told me that your my wife so I have to do what’s right but I would like to court you !!!! Y’all I was SHOOK!! Lol Fast forward 8 months later we got married ! I say all that to say The Flowers helped me in my single stages… then in our courting and pre martial stage and now in our marriage !!! Nobody knew we were dating until we posted our wedding photos.. yes read that again 🤣👏🏾 When I say we are so thankful for their ministry y’all don’t even understand how much we truly are !! I hope they bless you guys as they have for my family! And if you like clean but good faith based music Listen to my husband and I mixtape on all platforms called JUST MARRIED - By Mr Frosti and Jdagrees .. we tell our testimony as individuals and as a couple on our journey to each other. I hope it blesses you too 🥰 Thanks for reading if you made it this far lol
What a very powerful episode! I have went through cycles each year in the “cuffing season”. This time around I refused to repeat the cycle. Your letter to your future Wifey really resonated with me….this season of my life is all about my submission and discipline. I want what MY FATHER has for me. No longer will I entertain a counterfeit. Thank you Jesus!
If I ever move to Houston, I’d join his church. I listen to his podcast, daily. I love his ministry and I’m so thankful to God that Pastor Flowers has followed God’s directives.
Pastors Flowers dropped so many nuggets of wisdom...biblical truth! PLEASE BRING HIM BACK AGAIN... 🙏🏽❤️🙌🏾 #MasterTheFlesh #KeepItPrivateUntilItsPermanent #TakeNotesNotOffense #HowBeautifulItIsToLetThingsGo
I'm just 25 minutes into this Podcast and ALREADY so "spiritually full" because of all the insightful and revelatory 'bread crumbs" this guest has already served up. I just might have to push away from the "Table," and let all these wonderful nuggets of wisdom and knowledge digest before I can feast on any more. Each Podcast of Dear Future Wifey I've watched has taken me to a higher awareness and level of understanding on how men think, and the unintentional mistakes I've made in past relationships. I KNOW these Podcasts are God sent because I couldn't afford relationship counseling on my current budget, but God is providing me with so much needed answers and information through these Podcasts so that when He does send me the man I've been praying for over the past ten years, i won't "blow the blessing." These Podcasts are truly a Ministry and a blessing for ME and so many other clueless women and men! Thank you Laterras R. Whitfield for being wise enough to accept this obvious calling God has on your life! These episodes are helping SO MANY people --- single and married.
Love how Jerry and his wife remain true to the Gospel on all platforms! This host was moved by the holy spirit. Amen! And thank you for reminding the body to keep our kingdom standards and eyes on Christ!
So true I believed I was an introvert for so long. I told people I know now and they laughed at me. I am getting to the real me no emotional oppression just sincere peace love and joy.
Oh my Lord! This podcast is a blessing. The necessity of Detoxing in singleness, the withdrawals he talked about are real!! I thank God for the Flowers teachings/encouragement.
THIS IS THE BEST PODCAST EVER 🙌🏾 👏🏾 ..... I GET HEALING, MENTORING, KNOWLEDGE, WISDOM, UNDERSTANDING, CLARITY, & SO MUCH MORE! KEEP DOING YOUR THING & I PRAY THIS SHOW CONTINUES TO GROW ♥️♥️
Pastor Jerry on DFW! He has singlehandedly mentored me on relationships for the past 4 years. Such a gift to the body. I always thank God for His obedience whenever I get the chance to.
When I saw Pastor Jerry was the guest speaker I knew this was going to be 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥‼️ I love listening to him. He is the TRUTH and not afraid to tell you what the Bible says WITHOUT sugarcoating it. He breaks it down very well too if you’re someone like me who struggles with understanding the text. Great podcast!!!
This is EPIC !!! I’ve been watching Jerry Flowers for a few years now and he is a vessel used by God and I truly appreciate his mind. I also love how Laterras timing is so good, he is listening to the voice of God because God’s timing is always perfect. Thanks to the both of you for helping ME and so many people!! ❤
Glad to see you had Pastor Flowers on your podcast. I found him during COVID and have been watching him ever since. He is such a great teacher. Refreshing to see a real pastor teaching what is real and truly cares about seeing people heal, so they can be who God called them to be, so they can walk in their purpose and draw men and women onto Christ. Thanks to the both of you. Continue to let God use the both of you.
This episode was HEAVILY LOADED from beginning to the end gem non-stop...what can i say?? God bless you both and thanks LRW for being a blessing.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
So when I saw the DFW short for this episode several weeks back, it intrigued me enough to go check out Pastor Jerry. My goodness, the way he speaks/teaches reignited my flame for the Lord's purpose for my life more intensely 🔥🔥🔥 So now fast forward and I'm finally watching this episode and he dropped a gem that hit me like a lightning bolt and gave me revelation that I hadn't even sought from the Lord 🥺⚡🤯
When you said you wasn't coming to play this season....you meant that!! These last few episodes youve come with guns blazing!! Straight 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥!! Jerry was awesome, bout to go follow. It was sooo many gems in this episode, I have to re-watch and share. Can't wait for the next one!! Blessings to you both!!
Let me tell you something this message Jerry messages always come right on time! Being in your 20’s in a generation that makes “sneaky linking and cuddle season” the new normal makes it hard to be authentic. Most of us crave a genuine love but set ourselves up when we settle for what the flesh wants. I’ve made it my mission to be authentic love on myself spend time alone now until god is ready to send my better half! Thanks Jerry 💕🙏🏽
When love knocks on the door of your heart, fear wont cause you to act like you not home!!! This is my biggest concern!!! Pastor Flowers, I needed this episode in so many ways. Laterras, your honesty is priceless and your responses keep me laughing!!! Stay LIT
I get blessed by Jerry and his wife all the time!!! They lay so much knowledge before we even get to prayer!!! True power couple in Christ❤❤ God is pleased
This episode, has me speechless… idk what to type… Gems, facts, poetry, lite. Thank you Divine Creator, for you continue to show me the fruits of those that follow your words… and are obedient to your call… I thank you for this season, this episode.. these sentences, your words…May it continue to permeate the minds, hearts and souls… this is the season of the Godly ordained couples… ase 🍃🍃🍃
This was Amazing! Powerful jems in this cuffing season! His perspective and content is so relatable. This one will be on Repeat!P.S. I think him and his wife should come on next time to represent kingdom marriages!
My God! My God! My God! The truthfulness, the rawness and the nuggets of this episode that were dropped has filled my entire heart. I’ve followed Pastor Jerry Flowers and his wife on their RUclips channel for a few years while on this journey of waiting for Kingdom Marriage. I took so many notes in this episode and my soul has been edified. Please have Pastor Jerry back again! God knows #FULLSurrender 🙌🏾
I’m excited & I just pressed play! You got a real one today! Absolutely LOVE he & his wife’s teachings & all things Redefine TV. Got my notebook out ready to take notes & quotes. Q: Pastor Flowers… do you wake up dropping bars?! 🤯🔥 Love the way this guy’s brain works. He gives you the biblical ABC’s…Sesame Street style. Simple, yet thought provoking. Congratulations on the new addition!
I have watched every episode of the dear wifey podcast But this one!! Lordy,! Lordy! Lord! Jerry!!! I am at a lost for words, so I'll just say THANK YOU! The most impactful episode personally. I am a single mom of a 7-year-old boy, and you spoke to me. God Bless you
Navigating my season: This episode was for me. It took a year for this episode because it took a year for me to RECEIVE it.❤️🙏🏼 I watched this podcast twice already. 51:31- 37 was my whole message: 🎯Spot on (God always drops next level in front of you before you go next level. So you can take notes not take offense🎤). I'm at the stage of my Final Rose 🌹. God has be praying for my future husband in the area of Lust vs Purpose (Foundation) And self discipline (Spiritual Discernment) in the area of Exterior vs Intentional Interior makings of the individual. Well Done Laterras, Well Done. King amongst Men❤️🙏🏼🙌🏼
I need a transcript of this episode .... My ex said I was goofy=> don’t change yourself based off of a counterfeit. 🤯My ex really did call me goofy and there was something about the way he said it. I felt self conscious and there was a change. I remember my mom even noticed the change and told me she missed my wild laugh. Long story short, after counseling, prayer and healing……I’m back😁
Welcome back my sister!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Im goofy and weird but fun too. Happy to have you back!
I’m goofy too! Embrace it
Praise God sis! Glad to hear that 🤗❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I'm goofy too! Welcome back!
Discovered Pastor Flowers and his wife when I was going through the loneliest break up. God used him in my life. I am married now and amazed at how far I've come.
Wow what I'm going through to. That's beautiful ❤️
That’s exactly how I found him as well. Now I call him my pastor in Texas 😂
That was exactly the time I had discovered him too. He and his wife really helped me during that time. God definitely used them to healed my heart during that time
Oh I know this is going to be THE BEST episode. He is wise beyond his years. Jerry came to give the people what they want. These 2 Brothers 2gether is a POWERHOUSE ❤️
Yes. I saw his name and picture and got so excited. Love that guy. This is one of those episodes that I can't watch passively. I need to clear my space and set the atmosphere so that I'm 100% present.
I knooooow 🥰🥰🥰🥰 everything is wisdom love it
Yes, I agree! 🎯💯
@@NYCAppl3 Yes, same here, same here.
JERRRY!! He came to snatch wigs off per usual. When he speaks it's so well understood and relatable. Glad to finally see him on the podcast!
Kill the Goliath! Wow, awesome. You're doing a great job. I have been ministered to.
Ikr? It’s abt time he came on this podcast! 😅😍
Best episode
😂
Keep it until it’s permanent. 💯
"Keep it private until it is permanent" So much to take home from one episode.
I need to come back and rewatch it with my pen and paper to take notes.
Exactly
Me too...I promise I Am... This right here is absolute 🔥...
Right!!! Dropping gems all throughout the episode!!!
Agreed
Yesss sista I agree. I watch part on my lunch break and the remainder later (now) and I'm learning so much and God is confirming so much to me ...oh my goodness
Mr. Flowers is the voice this generation needs when it comes to navigating Kingdom connections and relationships. He gives sound, effective, practical advice that is shifting how we show up in our relationships. We appreciate you brothers for having this conversation. One of my top favourite episodes! Thanks again LT ❤🙏🏾
Pastor Flowers and his wife get to the point and I love it. No sugar coating! He is one of the best guests you’ve had. Too many gems were dropped. I pray someone gets deliverance from this message!! Thank you Laterras !!
To God be the glory!
Jerry is always on point and his therapy Thursdays my God
Lisssssssssten, you spoke WISDOM for a lifetime, “keep it private until it’s permanent”💜
Amen
Amen
I had to learn this
I did this and when I say it's a blessing 🙌🏾. Satan does not have access to your relationship without an invitation from you or your wife/husband.
@@R0yalBeauty77 amennn
As a woman that's in her "waiting" season, this whole episode was extremely needed and so refreshing to hear ESPECIALLY coming from men. You have no idea how much you have confirmed what GOD has been trying to show me and tell me for years. Culture will literally have you out hear thinking, no man will ever truly wait, go through his process of healing and deliverance on top of being faithful to GOD before HE will align him to his wife. That season of waiting is so important.. its not easy at all, can be very lonely and scary, but at the end of the day I trust GOD. His Way over MY WAY ... PERIODT ❤️
*Amen.*
Amen
Amen
Thank you for this podcast. As a single 52 year old woman, an elder in my church who’s never been married, this is certainly an education. Thank you for being obedient to the Holy Spirit! Watching Christians being transparent exposing the challenges of relationships in 2023. Thank you.
“When love knocks on the door of your heart ,fear won’t cause you to act like your not home “
preach Pastor Flowers ! 🙌🏾
I saw a quote recently that said *the longer you entertain what's not for you, the longer you postpone what is* and it really helped to strengthen my resolve to put a stop to this bad cycle that I keep allowing myself to fall into. I'm 100% convinced that there is something on the other side of this hurdle that the enemy doesn't want me to get to. Something that I need to get to to really propel my relationship with God and his purpose in me. I Have To Get It Done.
I’m here for all of Laterras’ dramatics; the sitting back in his chair, the silence when a gem is dropped, “ there it go “, the heavy breathing which means “ bruh you talking h to me” or you hit it on the nail. I feel all of it. 😂 Too many gems dropped in this episode. TOOOOO MANY!
My morning is COMING! I’m just gonna say,
🗣 Good Morning in advance”.
Jerry Flowers said, and I quote, “ We preach too much that it’s your season that people don’t know how to navigate when it’s not”.
🗣 What’s his cash app??? Because this right heeeeeeere!
Yes. I love the dramatics and laughter
Yes! Jerry Flowers and his wife have helped me with my walk of abstaining from sex since 2016. God moved me to Houston and now I’m happy to be a part of the church. So glad he’s on the show. Thank you both for your obedience to God.
I’m writing this before watching and I know its on point. 🔥
Amennn
You don't know how loyal someone is until they are presented with opportunities. 🎯
The amount of times I stopped/ rewind to write, ponder take a breath shake my head call myself out. This was Sunday service on a Wednesday I need a nap. Way too good! 🙏🙌
"Who is the best person that compliments the assignment, the calling on my life." This is where I am.
Great respect for men that prioritize standards and purpose! #BuildTogether👏🏿
You BETTA bring Pastor Jerry back. His wife prayed over me at a conference 3 years ago when i was at a dangerously low point in my life. I'm very grateful for the two of them. They really have me in my Word differently these last three years. The Flowers are Kingdom minded. So many pastors are popularity and culture minded and I pray you dont have those pastoral counterfits on the show as we are in need of good fruit like this, not rotten shiny fruit.
“Keep it private until it’s permanent”…..that’s a WHOLE word❤❤❤❤
Pastor Flowers is deep. May God bless this podcast, the host and his entire team. When others around me are being blessed I realize my ❤blessings❤ are around the corner.
Thank you.
@@DearFutureWifey y’all gotta do a part 2! It’s only right!
Pastor Jerry Flowers will get us together linguistically every time!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 The anointing on his life is a gift to us all! We thank you GOD! ❤️
"Wrong relationships cause you to be what you were not cosmically created to be" love it 😘
The residue and afterbirth of counterfeits is fear. Whew! 👏🏿
Loving the wisdom and transparency!
"Do you know how many people say the devil is a liar but then treat God like he is?" wow! wow!😭🙆♀
“The toll of making a choice in a season is your mind.” 🤯
I can’t even get through the beginning of this episode because I can relate to the price I had to pay and it cost me too much.
I didn't want this interview to end... like I was so sad when it was over 😢😢 please bring him back for more. I am watching it again right now. Sooo goood ❤
Thank you for acknowledging that sometimes it's NOT your season! It's unnerving to hear "the church" say it's YOUR season to EVERYONE! Sometimes it's not. 🙌🏾
I hate when Pastors say that! It is NOT 10k people seasons!
@@pinnakal1 right! 😒
Jerry has been anointed for a time such as this. What a necessary guest on Dear Future Wifey. Thank you!
YES ‼️
"Forever is a long time to not be observant" 🔥🔥🔥 Whew.
Jerry Flowers NEVER disappoints!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥
Omg!!!! Pastor Jerry!!!! You got him on here!!! Whew!!!
It's powerful!
PASTOR JERRY FLOWERS IS THE TRUTH!!!!! HE SPEAKS TO AND FOR OUR GENERATION/CULTURE LIKE NO OTHER 👏🏾👏🏾
LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING! I am not even halfway through the episode!!!! The truth is heavy! I have been asked all the time ,”why don’t you date you need to know what you like.” “ why don’t you have sex with him so you know what to do when you get married?” “ Virgins don’t know anything” I have always said, sex is a discovery. I get the privilege of knowing my spouse in the most intimate of ways. I get to know him. Why would I “train” or “prepare” to be with him by knowing other people who are not him? Pastor Flowers is killing it!! Mannnnn I love this podcast! ❤
That's golden pastor Flower. Not everyone is your audience. In fact some people may not be your audience now, but will become your audience in a different season in their lives when the Lord has them ready to receive you. Your work will do what it does for years to come and even after you live this earth. God bless you sir. I am your student, and I am growing daily.
Oh, I was so looking forward to this! I did 2 seasons of Wife Academy with Jerry and Tanisha and it was life changing. The Lord is using them mightily to heal men and women in the body of Christ. I praise God for giving you the wisdom to know who to invite in each season. Love you, brother, and I love watching your journey of healing and growth!!
I did a season of Wife Academy as well! I so agree with this comment! Such impactful content 🙌🏾🔥
Yes been waiting for this one! Thanks for having Pastor Flowers on and blessings to his wife and family and church!
I definitely gotta share this with my egroup, we love Pastor Jerry Flowers... God always on time. I really appreciate and can resignate with his cuffing season messages..I have never be single in my adult life during cuffing season until I summited myself to God for the last 3 years .Blessings Latarras.
Oh this episode is going VIRAL!!! And Pastor Flowers will be back!!! 🔥🔥🔥
“Love is not seen only by what you do but also by what you don’t do”! That was a word!! Been following the Flowers for years. Wouldn’t expect anything less but great wisdom from this video.
Sir! Endure is making a commitment to remain even when the desire to remain has left. WHEW!!! YESSSS LORD! 37 years and counting. Thank you for your service in the Kingdom!!
This🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Jerry Flowers is awesome! So much wisdom was dropped in this episode. His wife did not give him access to certain parts of her life until he was serious. This is exactly what I said I would do moving forward. Confirmation!!! Very few people think forever or covenant. The thought they have is I can always get divorced, so I'll get married. Or they choose to not share their lives with their spouse and keep things a secret. Then they want to know why things aren't working out. You're living on secrets, that's why!! "Endure is a commitment to remain even when the desire to remain is gone." Powerful and true! Beautiful letter. ❤❤
The journey of learning how to please each other will strengthen intimacy in that area…love that.
Jerry just be hitting in his messages. God has blessed this man. @37:15
Goodness!! This is definitely one of those episodes you have to save to come back to. This was really fulfilling!!
Ok, I'm watching this episode, again, I guess a year later. There are soooo many gems here. Laterras, BRING HIM BACK, PLEASE! Looking forward to the next time, on DFW. Thanks!❤
One of the best episodes I've watched... Just when I thought it couldn't get any better.🔥🔥
This South African is impacted😁🙌🏿
Pastor Flowers be dropping some GREAT gems! I found him on Tik Tok a couple months ago and it was the best find! He is such an inspiration. I could listen to him speak for hours. Great interview!!!
Mr. Jerry Flowers is truly God-given. Grateful for him being a servant for the Father’s glory ❤
The wealth of wisdom that has just been exposed, I know, has helped so many people be better, healthier, and more aware!
Yessss Mr Flowers!! Hoping for an episode with Mrs Flowers too 👌🥰
What a great episode! Like you Laterras, I will have to re-watch this. I had to save this one.. wow
Been following the cuffing season series by Pastor Jerry Flowers, and oh Lord,this episode, wisdom galore. Thank you Laterras for this platform. God bless you, lots of love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪
That "Don't Rush the Wait" is my favorite!
I’m new to this channel but I am a long time follower of the Flowers. Ima make my testimony short for y’all !
I first start following Redifinedtv in 2018 right at the start of my last heart break. I was sick and tired of being played and playing myself in relationships and Situationships. So I started focusing on my relationship with God and asked him to just continue to prepare me if I am suppose to be a wife but don’t bring no man to me unless he is my husband!!! I start listening to Jerry and Tanisha and I got healed in my single stage. A little over a year later I met a business partner who became a good friend. He wasn’t “my type” and I immediately got the brother vibes too, we were just great associates. However, God had showed me a different view of him one day and I start feeling some type of way .. so I started to pray about that feeling and God reveled that he was my husband. Of course I kept praying asking The Lord if it was really Him telling me this and not the devil or myself 🤣 and he kept making it clear that it was him and it was true. So I said okay .. what should I do ?and as blatant as can be he basically told me to shut up and don’t say anything. Fast forward we still business partners and I’m with him every weekend but can’t say nothing lol He never showed any interest just kept it professional… 5 months later he calls me and says I’ve known for a while and my mom yelled at me about it the other day on my birthday but God told me that your my wife so I have to do what’s right but I would like to court you !!!! Y’all I was SHOOK!! Lol Fast forward 8 months later we got married !
I say all that to say The Flowers helped me in my single stages… then in our courting and pre martial stage and now in our marriage !!! Nobody knew we were dating until we posted our wedding photos.. yes read that again 🤣👏🏾 When I say we are so thankful for their ministry y’all don’t even understand how much we truly are !! I hope they bless you guys as they have for my family! And if you like clean but good faith based music Listen to my husband and I mixtape on all platforms called JUST MARRIED - By Mr Frosti and Jdagrees .. we tell our testimony as individuals and as a couple on our journey to each other. I hope it blesses you too 🥰 Thanks for reading if you made it this far lol
THIS!!!! I don’t think people understand how much it means when someone sees you and creates a space for you to authentically be yourself.
Thank goodness for the comments section for the gems I can come back to
What a very powerful episode! I have went through cycles each year in the “cuffing season”. This time around I refused to repeat the cycle. Your letter to your future Wifey really resonated with me….this season of my life is all about my submission and discipline. I want what MY FATHER has for me. No longer will I entertain a counterfeit. Thank you Jesus!
Yes I love Redefined TV and Pastor Flowers content! Can’t wait to finish watching, I know it’s going to be a wholeeeeee word
"You don't get the fruit the same day you plant the seed"...Wow!! Jerry was on fire! "Romance intoxicates discernment" Extremely Powerful!
Jerry said “I don’t even know what I just said bruh I’m just flowin’ “😂 …
Thank you!
If I ever move to Houston, I’d join his church. I listen to his podcast, daily. I love his ministry and I’m so thankful to God that Pastor Flowers has followed God’s directives.
Did not disappoint! I'm married 10 years and I still enjoyed this particular broadcast thank you for another home run💕
Pastors Flowers dropped so many nuggets of wisdom...biblical truth! PLEASE BRING HIM BACK AGAIN...
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#MasterTheFlesh
#KeepItPrivateUntilItsPermanent
#TakeNotesNotOffense
#HowBeautifulItIsToLetThingsGo
Can’t go wrong with Jerry. My favorite God servant. He keeps so real and relevant to what we as believers in these days and times need. Great episode.
I'm just 25 minutes into this Podcast and ALREADY so "spiritually full" because of all the insightful and revelatory 'bread crumbs" this guest has already served up. I just might have to push away from the "Table," and let all these wonderful nuggets of wisdom and knowledge digest before I can feast on any more.
Each Podcast of Dear Future Wifey I've watched has taken me to a higher awareness and level of understanding on how men think, and the unintentional mistakes I've made in past relationships. I KNOW these Podcasts are God sent because I couldn't afford relationship counseling on my current budget, but God is providing me with so much needed answers and information through these Podcasts so that when He does send me the man I've been praying for over the past ten years, i won't "blow the blessing." These Podcasts are truly a Ministry and a blessing for ME and so many other clueless women and men! Thank you Laterras R. Whitfield for being wise enough to accept this obvious calling God has on your life! These episodes are helping SO MANY people --- single and married.
Yes bring Jerry back!! It was not enough!! I need more! Love love love this episode!!❤❤
Love how Jerry and his wife remain true to the Gospel on all platforms! This host was moved by the holy spirit. Amen! And thank you for reminding the body to keep our kingdom standards and eyes on Christ!
So true I believed I was an introvert for so long. I told people I know now and they laughed at me. I am getting to the real me no emotional oppression just sincere peace love and joy.
Finally!!!
Friends first is never bad, it's foundational
Pastor Jerry is the truth! I'm excited to watch!
Yes, Pastor Jerry Flowers!!!Thankyou for having him, his point of view and amazing words of wisdom!... Next up Please Tony Gaskins 🙏
Oh my Lord! This podcast is a blessing. The necessity of Detoxing in singleness, the withdrawals he talked about are real!! I thank God for the Flowers teachings/encouragement.
THIS IS THE BEST PODCAST EVER 🙌🏾 👏🏾 ..... I GET HEALING, MENTORING, KNOWLEDGE, WISDOM, UNDERSTANDING, CLARITY, & SO MUCH MORE! KEEP DOING YOUR THING & I PRAY THIS SHOW CONTINUES TO GROW ♥️♥️
Pastor Jerry on DFW! He has singlehandedly mentored me on relationships for the past 4 years. Such a gift to the body. I always thank God for His obedience whenever I get the chance to.
I love Pastor Flowers! Thanks for y’all biblically addressing sex ❤
Pastor Flowers never disappoints 👑👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Thank you Laterras, this meeting was long anticipated. God bless you both 🙏🏾💞
I love this brother in Christ. He is beyond blessed and His Wife. And he is doing the Will of God.
When I saw Pastor Jerry was the guest speaker I knew this was going to be 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥‼️ I love listening to him. He is the TRUTH and not afraid to tell you what the Bible says WITHOUT sugarcoating it. He breaks it down very well too if you’re someone like me who struggles with understanding the text. Great podcast!!!
Yes! we’ve been waiting on Mr. Flowers episode! Can’t wait to get into this episode! 🙏❤👏
Ok! I got my popcorn ready 🍿
Whewwww! Keep it private til it’s permanent! That has blessed me this morning and is confirmation!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
This is EPIC !!! I’ve been watching Jerry Flowers for a few years now and he is a vessel used by God and I truly appreciate his mind. I also love how Laterras timing is so good, he is listening to the voice of God because God’s timing is always perfect. Thanks to the both of you for helping ME and so many people!! ❤
Glad to see you had Pastor Flowers on your podcast. I found him during COVID and have been watching him ever since. He is such a great teacher. Refreshing to see a real pastor teaching what is real and truly cares about seeing people heal, so they can be who God called them to be, so they can walk in their purpose and draw men and women onto Christ. Thanks to the both of you. Continue to let God use the both of you.
This episode was HEAVILY LOADED from beginning to the end gem non-stop...what can i say?? God bless you both and thanks LRW for being a blessing.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
So when I saw the DFW short for this episode several weeks back, it intrigued me enough to go check out Pastor Jerry.
My goodness, the way he speaks/teaches reignited my flame for the Lord's purpose for my life more intensely 🔥🔥🔥
So now fast forward and I'm finally watching this episode and he dropped a gem that hit me like a lightning bolt and gave me revelation that I hadn't even sought from the Lord 🥺⚡🤯
Omg!!!!! Two of my favorite people!!!!! Pastor Jerry Flowers is an amazing leader.
When you said you wasn't coming to play this season....you meant that!! These last few episodes youve come with guns blazing!! Straight 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥!! Jerry was awesome, bout to go follow. It was sooo many gems in this episode, I have to re-watch and share. Can't wait for the next one!! Blessings to you both!!
Let me tell you something this message Jerry messages always come right on time! Being in your 20’s in a generation that makes “sneaky linking and cuddle season” the new normal makes it hard to be authentic. Most of us crave a genuine love but set ourselves up when we settle for what the flesh wants. I’ve made it my mission to be authentic love on myself spend time alone now until god is ready to send my better half! Thanks Jerry 💕🙏🏽
When love knocks on the door of your heart, fear wont cause you to act like you not home!!! This is my biggest concern!!! Pastor Flowers, I needed this episode in so many ways. Laterras, your honesty is priceless and your responses keep me laughing!!! Stay LIT
Jesus!! I so needed this! Thank you Lord for allowing me to see this video during this time. I felt such a weight lifted after watching 🙏🏽. God bless
I get blessed by Jerry and his wife all the time!!! They lay so much knowledge before we even get to prayer!!! True power couple in Christ❤❤ God is pleased
I’ve been waiting on this one for a long time!!!
This episode, has me speechless… idk what to type… Gems, facts, poetry, lite. Thank you Divine Creator, for you continue to show me the fruits of those that follow your words… and are obedient to your call… I thank you for this season, this episode.. these sentences, your words…May it continue to permeate the minds, hearts and souls… this is the season of the Godly ordained couples… ase 🍃🍃🍃
Jerry’s reward will be great in the Kingdom. You’re helping so many of God’s people!
Jerry he's full of wisdom woooh am blessed to be part of this thank you God bless you all
This was Amazing! Powerful jems in this cuffing season! His perspective and content is so relatable. This one will be on Repeat!P.S. I think him and his wife should come on next time to represent kingdom marriages!
My God! My God! My God! The truthfulness, the rawness and the nuggets of this episode that were dropped has filled my entire heart.
I’ve followed Pastor Jerry Flowers and his wife on their RUclips channel for a few years while on this journey of waiting for Kingdom Marriage. I took so many notes in this episode and my soul has been edified. Please have Pastor Jerry back again! God knows #FULLSurrender 🙌🏾
I’m excited & I just pressed play! You got a real one today! Absolutely LOVE he & his wife’s teachings & all things Redefine TV.
Got my notebook out ready to take notes & quotes.
Q: Pastor Flowers… do you wake up dropping bars?! 🤯🔥
Love the way this guy’s brain works. He gives you the biblical ABC’s…Sesame Street style. Simple, yet thought provoking.
Congratulations on the new addition!
His thought process is so admirable!
I have watched every episode of the dear wifey podcast But this one!! Lordy,! Lordy! Lord! Jerry!!! I am at a lost for words, so I'll just say THANK YOU! The most impactful episode personally. I am a single mom of a 7-year-old boy, and you spoke to me. God Bless you
Navigating my season: This episode was for me. It took a year for this episode because it took a year for me to RECEIVE it.❤️🙏🏼 I watched this podcast twice already. 51:31- 37 was my whole message: 🎯Spot on (God always drops next level in front of you before you go next level. So you can take notes not take offense🎤). I'm at the stage of my Final Rose 🌹. God has be praying for my future husband in the area of Lust vs Purpose (Foundation) And self discipline (Spiritual Discernment) in the area of Exterior vs Intentional Interior makings of the individual. Well Done Laterras, Well Done. King amongst Men❤️🙏🏼🙌🏼
To God be the glory
@@DearFutureWifey Hallelujah Amen 🙏🏼❤️🙌🏼
I am speachless. You don't get the fruit the same day you plant the seed. He has touched and spoken into every area of my life. Thanks