How to raise a kid without legs | Interview with y parents (emotional)

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  • Опубликовано: 19 дек 2024

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  • @BH-el4rs
    @BH-el4rs 3 года назад +73

    Way to go mom, for being an ADVOCATE for your son, even against the doctors wishes. A good parent knows what their child needs.

  • @lauramcmillan9592
    @lauramcmillan9592 3 года назад +111

    “You wiped your butt same as er’body else” is top notch dad energy.

    • @EloLeChan
      @EloLeChan 3 года назад +3

      I really like his dad lol

  • @noone-um4hk
    @noone-um4hk 3 года назад +144

    I was born blind and the doctor said I would have severe learning disabilities. They gave my mother information on it and suggested it might be better to send me to some type of medical care facility, My Mom also fought them on this and they hated her. But, she continued to do exercises with me when I was a baby, and by the time I was one I was no longer blind. Going through school I was in AP classes and had no problem going through college and earning my Master's Degree. Just goes to show you that doctors don't always know what is best for your child.

    • @ASMRJey
      @ASMRJey 3 года назад +11

      I had something similar but not as severe as yours. I had a period in my childhood where I was really scared of fire and would run out of the house every time my mum cooked something in the kitchen because I was scared of the house burning down. I think I saw something in the news about a house burning down due to a left on stove so that triggered it. They took me to a doctor and he told my parents (without doing any checks whatsoever) that my brain was probably underdeveloped for my age and that I will not make it through school because I would be too stupid for that (not his exact words, but that’s how he meant it). Fast forward a year and my anxiety of my house burning down suddenly disappeared. I got into primary school and was the best student from day one till the end of primary school and continued to be one of the bests in HS. So yeah... doctors aren’t always right and if it’s is something very serious: get a second opinion.

    • @private13
      @private13 3 года назад +4

      @@ASMRJey that is crazy! Doctors like that should probably just quit practicing medicine..

    • @brittanypierre3104
      @brittanypierre3104 3 года назад +1

      @@private13 medicine isn’t perfect

    • @private13
      @private13 3 года назад +4

      @@brittanypierre3104 ...did you not read either of these stories? They are both examples of bad doctors.
      Of course medicine isn't perfect. That is why it's called practicing medicine. As in there is always something to learn no matter how long you've been doing it.
      Know-it-all doctors who shut people down like that need to check themselves or quit 🤷‍♂️

    • @brittanypierre3104
      @brittanypierre3104 3 года назад +2

      @@private13 lol I’m not gonna argue with you sir. These are educated people we’re talking about, they go by the book and they mean you no harm. They have oath in contract to only do the best for patients. That being said, going by the book may not work for every patient as there are millions of variations within circumstances regarding illness and conditions. Even the best of the best physician can get it wrong. Saying they should quit their job when they are doing what they went to school for is silly. Why don’t you try diagnosing and treating people with your big bad uneducated self not knowing shit since you think you know it all.

  • @asherroth2086
    @asherroth2086 2 года назад +9

    Seeing your parents in this video I now understand how you turned out to be so amazing!

  • @madcitywendy
    @madcitywendy 3 года назад +34

    Bravo! As a trained medical social worker I just applaud your parents courage and conviction! And I celebrate you and everything you have built in your life.

  • @gabrielaparadamorose6183
    @gabrielaparadamorose6183 7 лет назад +56

    So much of who you are comes directly from your awesome parents. They should be forever proud!

    • @Spencer2TheWest
      @Spencer2TheWest  7 лет назад +9

      You're so sweet Gabby and you are so right. Just like your kids. :-)

  • @rosalindadevine8965
    @rosalindadevine8965 7 лет назад +41

    You & your parents are so brave & courageous. So much strength. You guys are such inspirations. ❤

    • @Spencer2TheWest
      @Spencer2TheWest  7 лет назад +4

      Thanks darling! All that I am came from them!

  • @BH-el4rs
    @BH-el4rs 3 года назад +12

    You and your parents are nothing less than a true testament to the human spirit, to pure love, courage and strength. God bless you all.

    • @nxtchpforme9154
      @nxtchpforme9154 3 года назад

      This is the rational AGAINST SOCIALISM, RACE THEORY. Help make individuals to be functional.

  • @SimiSilver
    @SimiSilver 3 года назад +10

    You’re the spitting image of your incredible Mom! I have five kids. Your parents are obviously patient and loving 🥰🥰

  • @ChrisW228
    @ChrisW228 3 года назад +2

    I empathize so much with your mother. I have some serious illnesses, and I find that a lot of doctors can’t separate between facts and opinion. I always respect that they are telling me accurately what the problem and the options are. I sometimes disagree with them regarding which option to take. As your parents said... the choice your doctor would make in your shoes, isn’t necessarily the choice you would make.

  • @mishybear42
    @mishybear42 3 года назад +4

    How blessed everyone is to have your videos to look at if they should find themselves with a disabled kid!! Thanks for sharing your life!

  • @impressionsphotoboothatlan6266
    @impressionsphotoboothatlan6266 3 года назад +2

    Your parents are great. Very smiley and transparent

  • @boblossie3192
    @boblossie3192 3 года назад +12

    Wowwww...... I've seen and commented on several of Spencer's videos and just about always comment on how spectacular and exceptional he is. Not to take away form you buddy - but it's clear that you come from pretty remarkable parents. You are what you are - in great part - because even though life threw challenges at you from the get-go - life also had you come into the space of these two to raise you, shape you, and give you the space and support to allow you to grow into who you really are. My only frustration is that I didn't get to be your neighbor!

  • @marcicunningham3889
    @marcicunningham3889 7 лет назад +20

    I love everything about this!! It's so true to real life, your dad is typical Kenny and your mom is just the nicest lady in the world. I love them both, and they did a great job!! On top of which, they were like, practically children themselves when they did it!!

    • @Spencer2TheWest
      @Spencer2TheWest  7 лет назад +1

      Right?!?! Remember that time you scared us in our tent in our backyard and my dad left us for dead?

    • @marcicunningham3889
      @marcicunningham3889 7 лет назад +3

      Spencer2TheWest of course I do. I love scaring people, but your family is especially satisfying!

    • @charitysibanda7525
      @charitysibanda7525 3 года назад +1

      @@Spencer2TheWest your family are so kind and carring

  • @tom-ss2mn
    @tom-ss2mn 3 года назад +7

    You have great parents. I can see why your such a good person

  • @carolpickering7657
    @carolpickering7657 7 лет назад +14

    Thank you for sharing this! Sure have awesome parents!
    Always impressed with you Spencer!

    • @Spencer2TheWest
      @Spencer2TheWest  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks Carol! Jake also has some awesome parents...and grandparents.

  • @DMV8662
    @DMV8662 3 года назад +2

    Im a SHRINERS HOSPITAL Alumni!!! I spent 3 years as an inpatient from 1967-1970.......

  • @nigisttamiru8672
    @nigisttamiru8672 7 лет назад +8

    What a beautiful story, thank you for sharing it.

  • @denisecaringer4726
    @denisecaringer4726 3 года назад +2

    I love your parents. So wise.

  • @case1962
    @case1962 3 года назад +2

    *"We didn't want to leave you to somebody!"* (With jovial laughter, all around.)
    Your parents are cool AF.
    I see where you get it from.

  • @cud981
    @cud981 3 года назад +2

    You are a straight up badass , keep up the good work.

  • @cosettelewallen4281
    @cosettelewallen4281 3 года назад +1

    Such an endearing and lovable family dynamic...lucky!

  • @spreadlove1777
    @spreadlove1777 3 года назад +2

    He is way more able than me with all my limbs😫 or “normal” surely inspirational. Thanks man

  • @jasminejohnson5368
    @jasminejohnson5368 2 года назад

    Beautiful family! Blessings ❤️

  • @lucyann5561
    @lucyann5561 3 года назад

    You are a blessing to others my dear

  • @mandymoffatt
    @mandymoffatt 3 года назад +1

    Your fam is so cute😊 I love how they advocated for you!

  • @deefromtx5530
    @deefromtx5530 3 года назад +2

    What a lovely family. ❤️

  • @crystaledwards9878
    @crystaledwards9878 3 года назад +4

    Gosh, your dad reminds me of my own dad. Such a Wyoming guy.

  • @mariesrodriguez8680
    @mariesrodriguez8680 3 года назад +3

    VERY GOOD LOVING PARENTS.

  • @NameLessOne0500
    @NameLessOne0500 3 года назад +1

    I love your channel! It's so insperational. Sometimes when I'm having a tough time or need some inspiration I come to your channel!

  • @julierocketqueen6257
    @julierocketqueen6257 3 года назад +1

    Rock star parents right here 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @nxtchpforme9154
    @nxtchpforme9154 3 года назад +1

    Love the way dad discussion.

  • @judymoye4368
    @judymoye4368 3 года назад

    Love the family dynamics!!

  • @shelley9263
    @shelley9263 3 года назад +1

    Spencer, your parents are awesome and so are you! I’m like your Mom, and I’m a Mom of 2 young adult boys, I never just agree with a Doctor! I always go into an appointment well equipped with knowledge and knowledge is power. ❤️🍀

  • @fabfabfab1556
    @fabfabfab1556 3 года назад +1

    Such sweet parents ❤️😍🙏

  • @berrycarbs
    @berrycarbs 3 года назад +1

    Wonderful parents!

  • @LL-sq8se
    @LL-sq8se 3 года назад +3

    Great parents ❤️

  • @allancuseo7431
    @allancuseo7431 3 года назад +3

    Tons of strength

  • @VintageVegans
    @VintageVegans 5 месяцев назад

    Really nice family. ❤❤❤

  • @aminalouiske8538
    @aminalouiske8538 3 года назад

    God bless your parents

  • @thatcrazydaisey3437
    @thatcrazydaisey3437 6 лет назад +4

    That dog just laying there😝 btw your parents are amazing I saw you at WE believe Sain John and you are so inspiring and amazing

  • @LaDimplez91
    @LaDimplez91 3 года назад

    I love them!!! Your dad so chill and honest.. "you were spoiled rotten"🤣 and your mom so real and easy going. No wonder you've got such an awesome personality! ♡

  • @violetmartha916
    @violetmartha916 3 года назад +4

    Well clearly Monroe had heard the story a couple of times 😉😂 Seeing your lovely parents...now it all makes sense. 💘

  • @TheSweeter71
    @TheSweeter71 5 лет назад +1

    LOVE YOU.

  • @Kate-ws4vp
    @Kate-ws4vp 3 года назад +10

    Pinhead, lol!! Our son wanted to name his little sister (almost 3 years younger) Jennifer Meatloaf Wheelbarrow...we didn't name her that... ; ) Your parents are wonderful people!

    • @MummaQuan
      @MummaQuan 3 года назад +3

      My little cousin wanted to name her baby sister Lennon pretzel and my son wanted to name his little sister Starla, he even brought a plush star to the hospital for her when she was born 😂 he was pretty mad we didn’t name her that.

    • @greddaaa1209
      @greddaaa1209 3 года назад

      My brother wanted my parents to call me Julia Pineapple

  • @cosettelewallen4281
    @cosettelewallen4281 3 года назад

    I love your hat Spencer!

  • @robertmas320
    @robertmas320 3 года назад

    What his dad says at 4.56 is very very true

  • @eppityrrell8236
    @eppityrrell8236 3 года назад

    Your the image of your mom same smile and laugh

  • @cookielove9310
    @cookielove9310 5 лет назад +3

    I LOVE YOUR MOM AND DAD! GLAD MOM DOESN'T TRUST DOCTORS LIKE THEIR GOD. YOUR SO LUCKY TO HAVE SUCH SMART AND LOVING FAMILY.😀😎

  • @xemmyQ
    @xemmyQ 3 года назад +1

    oh wow! you're the spitting image of ur dad!

  • @denisegreene8441
    @denisegreene8441 3 года назад +1

    Doctors are not God, although some sure think they are. I was a sickly baby and one pediatrician told my mom my legs would straighten out when they fixed my bowel issues. She called him a quack and told the nurses he was not to touch me. Another doctor told her I was hydrocephalic, again she knew I wasn't. Granted my mum had some medical training but she wasn't a Dr. And she could spot an idiot a mile away.
    Parents generally know their kids better than some doctor who sees them for one aspect of your life.

  • @despitecovid283
    @despitecovid283 3 года назад +1

    I was always so curious who raised you to be this amazing, when I saw you on Tiktok. Your parents are fucking amazing. (Can we swear on RUclips? Sorry!) Mad props to your parents. 🙇

  • @rhondabeckwith8782
    @rhondabeckwith8782 3 года назад +1

    Interesting! I agree with your folks. I worry about your shoulders, do they ever get sore? Do you think in later years they will give you problems? I can only believe not all pple would be able to tolerate and be so adaptable. You are very special in many many ways. Are you aware of that?

  • @kyleerosee3
    @kyleerosee3 7 месяцев назад

  • @randalllaue4042
    @randalllaue4042 3 года назад

    Lucky to have social media, good and bad...

  • @lydon65
    @lydon65 3 года назад +3

    You look SO like your Mum

  • @DrRobertMPick
    @DrRobertMPick 3 года назад

    You look just like your Mom!

  • @nxtchpforme9154
    @nxtchpforme9154 3 года назад +3

    Hard to believe in the 1980s double strollers were not around??

  • @charitysibanda7525
    @charitysibanda7525 3 года назад

    I have a sister doesn't have legs like you l want her to be active jus like you dear wish you the best

  • @williamstevenson2166
    @williamstevenson2166 3 года назад +1

    Your parents are cute, but your dad is gorgeous 🤫🤫🤫😀😀😀

  • @nxtchpforme9154
    @nxtchpforme9154 3 года назад +2

    Not clear how he sits?? Ribs. Pelvic bones??

  • @resourceress7
    @resourceress7 Год назад

    How to raise a kid without legs? Lift him with your arms. ;)

  • @kristannablue
    @kristannablue 3 года назад

    You look just like your mom!

  • @grlgrl7047
    @grlgrl7047 3 года назад +3

    But seriously... How old were your parents when your mom gave birth to you? I mean, was your dad 10 years old? Hehe jk / Found you channel a week ago, been watching all the videos!

  • @psychicmediumleoshelton5027
    @psychicmediumleoshelton5027 3 года назад

    🥰👍🏾💪🏾

  • @rochellethundercloud346
    @rochellethundercloud346 3 года назад

    Your dad looks like bill engvall

  • @TDS.Harper
    @TDS.Harper 3 месяца назад

    Your parents are so right about what the doctors know, and what they think they know, versus what your parents knew first hand. Yeah sure, doc, EVERYONE wants to walk...
    No leggies, no walkies. Simple!

  • @josuegarcia402
    @josuegarcia402 2 года назад

    Like

  • @Batwoman09
    @Batwoman09 7 лет назад +4

  • @randalllaue4042
    @randalllaue4042 3 года назад

    No brother or sister?

  • @22lyric
    @22lyric 3 года назад

    What's the difference between God and a doctor? God doesn't think he's a doctor.

  • @nxtchpforme9154
    @nxtchpforme9154 3 года назад

    No backbone. From USA shriners.. Why let the parents leave the baby. Did they see this in vitro. How many would abort??

  • @theleebs1959
    @theleebs1959 3 года назад +2

    I mean it's a great vid but I can't get past the typo

  • @randalllaue4042
    @randalllaue4042 3 года назад

    Did you figure out how tall you would have been? You probably figured out from forearms what size feet you would have had...