It is called a risk for a reason 🤷🏾♀️, but I don't think i can be that cold even tho they put me on the spot. I wouldn't say yes, but I would just give them a passionate huge and then take their hand and start walking away from the crowd. And go off on them because most likely they they would leave me anyways for rejecting their public proposal
Yes, you could tell she felt every word Jeannie spoke when she talked about the congratulations coming in after you say yes. I remember all too well when Adrienne was real with fans about that engagement.
Loni is a mess LOL the way she googled while the ladies are talking. One of the perks of working from home! I don't blame her though I wanted to know who that friend was too that Garcelle talked about. Jeannie brought up a good point if the two of you never spoke about marriage you have no right proposing like that. No one should be put on the spot where they end up looking like the bad one because you chose to propose in front of people. Its sad what happened to that guy but like Jeannie said once you say yes, it becomes harder to break things off. Just be honest.
Hard to back out of a yes. I would whisper in his ear that I will tell u later. Give him a sexy kiss if his breath is good and thank the audience, smile and wave.😊
Loni’s face is BEAAATTTT I lovveeee her lashes here! And I’m feeling her whole look too! All of the ladies look great this season as they always do!❤️I love it here😌 Showing love from the Bahamas 🇧🇸
Gotta say, I was realll nervous about Garcelle, but I think actually she's a great fit! Doesn't try to overpower, but also gets her opinions in, knows how to counter without being combative.... Welcome Garcelle!❤🙌
Or....she just doesn’t want to be married. I don’t mean to be that guy but Loni has expressed before just how much she doesn’t wanna be married. It surprised me when Garcella (idk how to spell her name so forgive me please) didn’t know why Loni didn’t want to be married when she said it countless times before on the show. Yes I see where you were going with bringing up how she is now in a relationship despite her saying she didn’t want one as evidence, but I know for a fact that Loni draws the line at marriage. Marriage isn’t this...final level of a relationship like people make it out to be. Society makes marriage seem like your relationship isn’t true if you’re not married when that’s not the case. Marriage is literally a legal document, a paper, that basically says you and your partner are now responsible by law to take care of each other and your body belongs to other person by law. It’s not this testament of your love. I know a lot of people (my mother is one and a lot of family members) who will never ever get married because they saw all the bs that could happen with it if the partner wanted out or wasn’t who they thought they were.
Thank you. What's the point of saying yes if you will return the ring back later 🤔 might as well say no and not waste each other's time if you don't want to get married
I think ideally everyone would be like “ well if you truly don’t want to be proposed to with that particular person and you don’t feel like they are your soulmate or your life partner then don’t feel pressured to say yes “ but sometimes out of fear of breaking a man’s heart or out of fear being judged by the public for making such a personal and meaningful decision for your personal happiness... sometimes women choose just for that second to say yes because they don’t want the man to feel like they did all the work and went through so much for nothing ! So I’m the moment just to save them and yourself embarrassment say yes ! But if you want to talk things out and see what’s happened afterwards have a genuine conversation and see if you guys can end things amicably cuz idc if the ring is big, idc if the D or P is good... if your heart is not in it... you shouldn’t be either ! You come first ! I mean look at Jeannie & Adrienne.... knowing their proposal stories I can see why they feel differently now... and I respect it ! Cuz Although both of their exes did something in their own way and it was public..: I think in the midst of the love and the feeling of wow this person finally took the next step... it’s also wondering whether or not you truly want to be with this person knowing some things that were exposed or shown in your relationship prior to them asking... like Freddy for Jeannie got her father and mothers aide of the family together just for the proposal and proposed to her in Vietnamese got a screen projector to show all their best moments and I think because of the effort he put forth she said yes...whereas Adrienne was lowkey in a subtle toxic relationship where her ex Lenny seemed like he was too cool for the public display of affection bs and then when HE was ready decided to propose and it seemed like considering she always pushed for every step to be taken and he finally took the iniative despite all of the red flags she still said in the heat of the moment YES ! But seeing that their CURRENT did more intimate proposals to them I truly understand and I love to see the growth and the evolution of their personal opinion and character !
@@britbritnicole she definitely knew. But she had invested so many years into the relationship at that point she didn’t want to walk away empty handed.
It annoys me how Loni never wants people to get into her business..but in previous seasons, she would continue to pry and pry with the other hosts until they told information. Keep The same energy Loni..
I honestly don’t have a problem with how a man proposes unless like loni said y’all discussed it ahead of time that marriage was not an option but I also thank you should be honest about how you feel!!!!!!!
Nique L, how would you react if your partner surprised you with a public proposal after cheating on you? Would you tell them in public or would you wait to tell them in private?
But I’m sorry that makes no sense to me tbh because you’d already know when the day comes of proposal. So what’s the point of acting or looking surprised if you remembered or talked about it already tbh lmaoo😅😄🤷🏽♀️🥴 Look No offense just speaking in general but that’s like planning a birthday party then telling them you are going to do so only for them to what fake being surprised lmaoo it wouldn’t be the same in my opinion or genuine even for that matter.
It would have been funny if while Loni was saying "James knows not to come with a ring" then James actually came with a ring and proposed. 🤭🤭 Yeah, I feel like Loni didn't want to get married because she hadn't found the one. But now (before this conversation) I believe if he would have asked her she would have said yes with a prenup.
Right lmaoo she probably didn’t even see that coming either or probably wasn’t even expecting it lol😂😅😁 which was so funny cause neither was I lmaoo I just had to laugh right along with them😊🥴😁 sorry Garcelle 😊🥴🤭☺️
Yes sometimes you stay just bcoz you justify how your partner is not a bad person but you know theyre not what you really want and you end up settling!!!!
I agree with Jeannie but to save the public humiliation it may help to say, " This is so sweet and touching hun, but I am not ready right now." in front of everyone to prevent the whirlwind of congratulatory calls and also save him from the pain of rejection.
My fiancé knew I didn’t want to get married maybe ever. I talked about it all the time. He asked me any way. It really put me on the spot. I said yes, but it’s been a year and a half and I haven’t started planning lol. It felt disrespectful. I said yes because I do want to be with him, and didn’t want him to feel hurt or that I didn’t want to spend my life with him. I still don’t know what to do. FELLAS - Do NOT put this on your girls.
I think you and him need to have a serious conversation. Explain to him that you guys don't have to be married to be committed and in love. I will be praying for you both! 😀😀💗💗
Say no straight up. NEVER FEEL PRESSURED to say yes just to protect someone's feelings. KNOW THE PERSON YOU'RE ASKING. Your taking a risk asking in public, more if you never talked about marriage at all. Period!
If you and your partner are already discussing marriage, try to get an idea of how your partner wants to be proposed to. My husband proposed to me in private because we discussed it. He knows I'm uncomfortable with being the center of attention.
Garcelle talked as much as she did, and she had a different perspective, the perspective of the child. She might not be a mother but she knows first hand what it feels like to have a mother who doesn't put herself first.
@@mikamiks2475 I know, my mom's the same way, and it hurt me to see her make so many sacrifices for my sister and I at the expense of her happiness. I told her it was ok many times to be selfish and do something that made her happy but she never did. And that unhappiness sometimes turned to anger. It made me feel guilty, and like I was a burden. I know she doesn't think that way, but that's how it felt sometimes. Your kids will still love you even if you do something for your own happiness. Sometimes the way you feel on the inside reflects in how you treat them. Also children notice more things than parents give then credit for, they're not blind.
I hate how adrienne asked Loni, "would you embarrass him in public or embarrass him in private?“ like are you just ignoring the fact this man will have completely disregarded your feelings and decision about not wanting marriage! That's on him now TF.
I was waiting for Jeannie's response because she has said before that she would say Yes at the time then privately say No.even about her engagement she mentioned before(i think she was still married) that she sais and then took Freddie to the side and said "but can we talk about this".i love the consistency in her stories.she really is an honest person.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a spontaneous proposal, but it depends on the couple. I don’t ever see Loni changing her mind about marrying again, but if so, fine. But the ladies don’t need to keep forcing the issue.,
Marriage is too serious a step to be going into spontaneously. You definitely needed to talk beforehand to find out from your partner if they're ready for it and if they even want to marry at all. It may not sound all that romantic but it's the responsible thing to do.
I think public proposals are only a good idea if the couple did talk about marriage before and knows that they want to spend their lives together. So it is a lesser risk to get a no and embarrass yourself. It is a bad idea if you didnt talk about it and even know what the opinion of the partner is .
If a man has the BALLS TO PUT YOU ON THE SPOT to be asked to marry, then they should KNOW that they will be on the SPOT for a 50/50 response. So they should have the gusto to take either answer like a man. At the end of the day, if they LOVE YOU LOVE YOU - They will be by your side, "humiliated" or not
It's the context you put it. Neglecting your children and putting them in danger for your happiness. That's not right but knowing that u do take care of your children and just not doing for yourself and taking time that's different.
The proposal should not be a surprise. Y'all should be on the same page. If you are absolutely shocked that he would ask you to marry him then y'all have communication problems and do not need to be getting married right now💀
Ladies you look awesome! Loni!!! You look sooooooooo goood and I love when you give us a discussion based on your research of laws etc. of each situation. Girl! 💪💪💪
First tweet was stupid, who cares about someone's son- obviously she's one of those women obsessed with their son like he's her man. If ppl don't know 100% that they will receive a yes, why ask at all?
Speaking from experience, when a man proposes in public, he's doing it more for the praise and competition. He's showing off to the men AND women. You're more of a prop. When he proposes in private just the 2 of you and put a lot of thought into it on his dime, he's in it for you.
I don't understand people who do this. If you really love someone you should know if they want a public proposal. Some people love it and others don't. How do you even not know that she does not want to get married in that moment. Communication people!
Bad idea unless you’re 1000% sure the person will say yes. I’ma tell your no of it’s a no. I feel like you usually know if the person will say yes or no, if you are unsure you embarrassed yourself.
That's true. If you're not intimate then obviously the guy is going to propose quicker. That's why I don't trust Tamara's husband. I really don't believe he didn't have sex with other people for the entire 6 years they dated. He took so long to propose.
I think she made the right call bc she's always said she doesn't want to be married again. Now if she said she's open to the idea then James could propose and she might give in bc he influenced her decision. Whereas now she made no promises or changed her tune and can really think without added pressure.
Garcelle I do the same thing… I always buy a gift for myself every Christmas and wrap it and put it under the tree with the label saying “from me to me”
Why are people proposing without having had a conversation beforehand? I think the issue isn’t public proposals, the issue is proposals taking place when there have been little to no conversations about an engagement so it’s at least expected by the person being proposed to. When you’re getting engaged , the engagement should be a shock, not the actual asking,
Here is the thing as long as the two people are on the Same page and I stress and that is something Both want and have had that conversation on marriage. So yes to public proposals, as along as both parties have had that conversation about the future together. So one want find themselves looking crazy when one says No.
Ok I had a similar situation although we had discussed it and I told him I would want it to be a private proposal He decided to do it on Christmas in front of all my family I said yes and 3months later I called it quits
Garcelle looks like a whole black barbie
i was staring at her the entire time . She is stunning
Yasss!!! Im👏here👏for👏it. Just Beautiful.
She's gorgeous!
GIRL!!! She looks amazing!
RIGHT?! been having a crush on her as a kid since the jamie foxx show 😍
Save him the humiliation? He did that to himself. Don't put me on the spot like that.
periodt
It's not malicious when people do it you can still say No. 🙄
EXACTLY!!!
👏🏻
Damn😅
Do not public propose if you haven’t talked about marriage with the person.
Right
That’s a GREAT point 🤣
I disagree!! If they're bold enough to propose in public they need to be prepared in case u say no..dont act shocked😂😂
Hell yeah😂😂😂
It is called a risk for a reason 🤷🏾♀️, but I don't think i can be that cold even tho they put me on the spot. I wouldn't say yes, but I would just give them a passionate huge and then take their hand and start walking away from the crowd. And go off on them because most likely they they would leave me anyways for rejecting their public proposal
Thank you.
Yes I agree You can’t take my option away
Honestly, I wouldn't say anything. I'd probably freeze up and faint or have a panic attack because I've got social anxiety.
‘To answer your question Garcelle... I’m gonna move on to the next subject’ Loni is too much 😂
Garcelle “you really moving on” 😂😂😂
Yeah I think we all remember Adrienne's forced proposal. So glad she's actually happy now.
Yes, you could tell she felt every word Jeannie spoke when she talked about the congratulations coming in after you say yes. I remember all too well when Adrienne was real with fans about that engagement.
Nope. I would hate a public proposal
Same!
Me too!
Me too. I am so private and low-key 😩 I hate attention or large crowds
Agreeed don’t pressure me or I’ll embarrass you
Would be my worst nightmare lol
I wish garcelle had been an original host..she’s so great, I would have loved to see her interact with the audience and do the corny skits
So true
shes annoying. I wish she'd leave
@@melloncollieinfinitesadness you leave
Ehhhh her ass a lil messy
I don’t miss those skits, but yes to the Garcelle addition
I would rather be proposed to in private, it's more intimate and if I didn't want to say yes me saying so would be better for the both of us.
I would hate hate hate a public proposal. I'm such a private person and like low-key things lol
Publicly love me instead
Right wit u gurl💯💯
Loni is a mess LOL the way she googled while the ladies are talking. One of the perks of working from home! I don't blame her though I wanted to know who that friend was too that Garcelle talked about.
Jeannie brought up a good point if the two of you never spoke about marriage you have no right proposing like that. No one should be put on the spot where they end up looking like the bad one because you chose to propose in front of people. Its sad what happened to that guy but like Jeannie said once you say yes, it becomes harder to break things off. Just be honest.
@Lady Scorpio No
its angie harmon
Hard to back out of a yes. I would whisper in his ear that I will tell u later. Give him a sexy kiss if his breath is good and thank the audience, smile and wave.😊
@@monicaperry8663 if the breath is good 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I googled it too😂
There should be a marriage discussion months in advance. Like “if I asked you to marry me how would you feel about that”
Loni’s face is BEAAATTTT I lovveeee her lashes here! And I’m feeling her whole look too! All of the ladies look great this season as they always do!❤️I love it here😌 Showing love from the Bahamas 🇧🇸
Yess her makeup looks amazing today❤️
Gotta say, I was realll nervous about Garcelle, but I think actually she's a great fit! Doesn't try to overpower, but also gets her opinions in, knows how to counter without being combative.... Welcome Garcelle!❤🙌
So Jeannie said yes to Freddy and remained uncertain for 10 years. Definitely better to say no at the proposal
She said she didn’t know he wasn’t the one until the 1st year of marriage
Ehhh I think she knew deep down inside. She's said that she wasn't ready when he asked.
@You Tried It! source?
She said it" it gets worse for you to pull out"
I love Garcelle. She is intelligent. She listens and do not interrupt.
How Loni look 15 years younger than before quarantine?
She looks sooooo good!
Because she’s doing her own makeup
Black don’t crack! 😁
I think the proposal should be a surprise not the engagement itself.
Literally!!!! Yes!!!
Yes!
Exactly.
What’s the difference between them like the both of them? I don't understand I thought they were the same thing at first!
I have a feeling Loni will get married, the same way she said she didn’t want a relationship
Right! She used to be the most vocal about all the benefits of being single. Always seemed like a front to me.
I AGREE!! 😘
Agree
She’s probably already married the way she dodged that question
Or....she just doesn’t want to be married. I don’t mean to be that guy but Loni has expressed before just how much she doesn’t wanna be married. It surprised me when Garcella (idk how to spell her name so forgive me please) didn’t know why Loni didn’t want to be married when she said it countless times before on the show. Yes I see where you were going with bringing up how she is now in a relationship despite her saying she didn’t want one as evidence, but I know for a fact that Loni draws the line at marriage. Marriage isn’t this...final level of a relationship like people make it out to be. Society makes marriage seem like your relationship isn’t true if you’re not married when that’s not the case. Marriage is literally a legal document, a paper, that basically says you and your partner are now responsible by law to take care of each other and your body belongs to other person by law. It’s not this testament of your love. I know a lot of people (my mother is one and a lot of family members) who will never ever get married because they saw all the bs that could happen with it if the partner wanted out or wasn’t who they thought they were.
Garcelle is so gorgeous!!
ew
@@melloncollieinfinitesadness In case anyone hasn't told you recently, you're also pretty :)
@@melloncollieinfinitesadness You don't call someone ew, she is gorgeous hater.
She absolutely gorgeous inside out I love her
I think Garcelle is talking about Angie Harmon, Im old enough to remember
Edit: oh well she confirmed it 😂😂
Garcelle looks amazing! 😍
ew
Say no. If you don't want to marry them. No matter where or when he did it.
Thank you. What's the point of saying yes if you will return the ring back later 🤔 might as well say no and not waste each other's time if you don't want to get married
I think ideally everyone would be like “ well if you truly don’t want to be proposed to with that particular person and you don’t feel like they are your soulmate or your life partner then don’t feel pressured to say yes “ but sometimes out of fear of breaking a man’s heart or out of fear being judged by the public for making such a personal and meaningful decision for your personal happiness... sometimes women choose just for that second to say yes because they don’t want the man to feel like they did all the work and went through so much for nothing ! So I’m the moment just to save them and yourself embarrassment say yes ! But if you want to talk things out and see what’s happened afterwards have a genuine conversation and see if you guys can end things amicably cuz idc if the ring is big, idc if the D or P is good... if your heart is not in it... you shouldn’t be either ! You come first !
I mean look at Jeannie & Adrienne.... knowing their proposal stories I can see why they feel differently now... and I respect it ! Cuz Although both of their exes did something in their own way and it was public..: I think in the midst of the love and the feeling of wow this person finally took the next step... it’s also wondering whether or not you truly want to be with this person knowing some things that were exposed or shown in your relationship prior to them asking... like Freddy for Jeannie got her father and mothers aide of the family together just for the proposal and proposed to her in Vietnamese got a screen projector to show all their best moments and I think because of the effort he put forth she said yes...whereas Adrienne was lowkey in a subtle toxic relationship where her ex Lenny seemed like he was too cool for the public display of affection bs and then when HE was ready decided to propose and it seemed like considering she always pushed for every step to be taken and he finally took the iniative despite all of the red flags she still said in the heat of the moment YES ! But seeing that their CURRENT did more intimate proposals to them I truly understand and I love to see the growth and the evolution of their personal opinion and character !
So in conclusion both Freddie and Lenny had no business proposing lol.
Right I agree Adrienne kinda already knew he wasn’t right for her
@@kendraroche8014 basically 🤣
@@britbritnicole she definitely knew. But she had invested so many years into the relationship at that point she didn’t want to walk away empty handed.
👏👏👏
It annoys me how Loni never wants people to get into her business..but in previous seasons, she would continue to pry and pry with the other hosts until they told information. Keep
The same energy Loni..
Garcelle’s makeup and outfits are always on point!
I honestly don’t have a problem with how a man proposes unless like loni said y’all discussed it ahead of time that marriage was not an option but I also thank you should be honest about how you feel!!!!!!!
@Hybrid Vigour so her man is not a man then?
Nique L, how would you react if your partner surprised you with a public proposal after cheating on you? Would you tell them in public or would you wait to tell them in private?
I agree
But I’m sorry that makes no sense to me tbh because you’d already know when the day comes of proposal. So what’s the point of acting or looking surprised if you remembered or talked about it already tbh lmaoo😅😄🤷🏽♀️🥴 Look No offense just speaking in general but that’s like planning a birthday party then telling them you are going to do so only for them to what fake being surprised lmaoo it wouldn’t be the same in my opinion or genuine even for that matter.
Adrienne was totally on point here.
Her point about her mom not prioritizing her own happiness really resonated with me.
Same!
damn loni is so messy lmaoo
Garcelle! They did a good move with bringing her in!
It would have been funny if while Loni was saying "James knows not to come with a ring" then James actually came with a ring and proposed. 🤭🤭
Yeah, I feel like Loni didn't want to get married because she hadn't found the one. But now (before this conversation) I believe if he would have asked her she would have said yes with a prenup.
Exactly
Loni: to answer your question Garcelle........I’m going to move onto the next subject
Everybody:😂😂😂😂😂😂🤨🤨🤨
7:10
Right lmaoo she probably didn’t even see that coming either or probably wasn’t even expecting it lol😂😅😁 which was so funny cause neither was I lmaoo I just had to laugh right along with them😊🥴😁 sorry Garcelle 😊🥴🤭☺️
There is a point when you have to put ur self first. But not all the time.
When they first added Gracelle, I was a bit nervous. Now that I’m watching I’m pleasantly surprised and I feel that she is a good fit. You go girl!!!!
Anyone went searching for "wedding proposal Jay Leno?"
The fear in that poor woman's eyes! And when they brought her dad out, omggggg.
I googled who got married on jay leno and got divorced😂😂
Don't have to. Loni did it for us lol
Something about this show feels off lately....not anyone individually but just like the vibe feels less personal and real.
I think they are still adjusting.
The friend Angie Harmon was married for 15 years. That was a bad example. 15 years. You stayed with someone you didn’t want to marry for 15 years. 🙄
Yes sometimes you stay just bcoz you justify how your partner is not a bad person but you know theyre not what you really want and you end up settling!!!!
You will be trying to make it work, life is full of uncertainty so sometimes you get it later.
You will be trying to make it work, life is full of uncertainty so sometimes you get it later.
Well what she said was that the proposal was all about him. She never said she didn’t want to marry him.
Well I mean that lasted better than some or most marriages in general nowadays so it’s kind of an accomplishment tbh
So happy to see an upload😄 brightened my day
I agree with Jeannie but to save the public humiliation it may help to say, " This is so sweet and touching hun, but I am not ready right now." in front of everyone to prevent the whirlwind of congratulatory calls and also save him from the pain of rejection.
@-- but whether u are man or woman, if u love someone or even just like them, dont u think u wouldn’t want to embarrass them?
That matching lipstick to the shirt tho 😘😍😍😍 garcelle is so prettyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
My fiancé knew I didn’t want to get married maybe ever. I talked about it all the time. He asked me any way. It really put me on the spot. I said yes, but it’s been a year and a half and I haven’t started planning lol. It felt disrespectful. I said yes because I do want to be with him, and didn’t want him to feel hurt or that I didn’t want to spend my life with him. I still don’t know what to do. FELLAS - Do NOT put this on your girls.
Break up him.
Let him go
I think you and him need to have a serious conversation. Explain to him that you guys don't have to be married to be committed and in love. I will be praying for you both! 😀😀💗💗
its time for you guys to break up. You want two different things in life.
Say no straight up. NEVER FEEL PRESSURED to say yes just to protect someone's feelings. KNOW THE PERSON YOU'RE ASKING. Your taking a risk asking in public, more if you never talked about marriage at all. Period!
I miss Tamara 🤣
Me too 😔
I’m fine with Tamera gone
I don't know what's going on with Adrianne but she more stunning than usual these days.
Jeanine Mai, y’all really do not give Loni a chance to speak and sometimes she is not included in the conversation so hence her on Google being nosey.
This show would be nothing without Jeanie. From the very beginning of the show this was my stance.
If you and your partner are already discussing marriage, try to get an idea of how your partner wants to be proposed to. My husband proposed to me in private because we discussed it. He knows I'm uncomfortable with being the center of attention.
Exactly- I’m guessing the fiancé should know his woman like why are you proposing if you’re not at that stage
I LOVE Jeannie but I feel sometimes she doesn’t let others fully finish speaking and over talks :(
Very true, mothers need help even when in a marriage let alone a single parent. Thank you for saying this.
I agree with Garcelle... I love how my husband proposed, because it was just us
Garcelle is so smart like jeannie
They are all smart.
I like Adrienne, who isn't a mom, was the one talking the most during the mom segment lol
Garcelle talked as much as she did, and she had a different perspective, the perspective of the child. She might not be a mother but she knows first hand what it feels like to have a mother who doesn't put herself first.
I’m a mum and she’s right you know. She’s a daughter and she’s coming from that perspective. I never thought about it that way.
@@mikamiks2475 I know, my mom's the same way, and it hurt me to see her make so many sacrifices for my sister and I at the expense of her happiness. I told her it was ok many times to be selfish and do something that made her happy but she never did. And that unhappiness sometimes turned to anger. It made me feel guilty, and like I was a burden. I know she doesn't think that way, but that's how it felt sometimes. Your kids will still love you even if you do something for your own happiness. Sometimes the way you feel on the inside reflects in how you treat them. Also children notice more things than parents give then credit for, they're not blind.
What Garcelle said about kids is SO TRUE. It was a good lesson.
I hate how adrienne asked Loni, "would you embarrass him in public or embarrass him in private?“ like are you just ignoring the fact this man will have completely disregarded your feelings and decision about not wanting marriage! That's on him now TF.
As a new mom, its been so hard to take time to care for myself. I believe having that time to pamper urself is needed postpartum.
I'm like Loni. I don't want to get married. Not everyone wants to be married. Also, big no to public proposals.
i love garcelle!! she’s so real
I really like Garcelle as part of The Real! I hope she stays on!
I love this girl chat!
Garcelle gworl YASSSS
Hi
“Is auntie Loni’s booked then you can call Jeanne! I’ll give you my credit card!” 💀 🤣
Thanks Loni, I needed to know.
I was waiting for Jeannie's response because she has said before that she would say Yes at the time then privately say No.even about her engagement she mentioned before(i think she was still married) that she sais and then took Freddie to the side and said "but can we talk about this".i love the consistency in her stories.she really is an honest person.
Started watching this show December 2019 and love it !! So I’ve been binge watching. I laugh, cry, think and rethink. 🤓
i feel.like she could have been a perfect host from the begining
I was about to Google to Loni lol 😂😂
Garcelle is just stunning. She is so gorgeous and I love her on the show : )
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a spontaneous proposal, but it depends on the couple. I don’t ever see Loni changing her mind about marrying again, but if so, fine. But the ladies don’t need to keep forcing the issue.,
Marriage is too serious a step to be going into spontaneously. You definitely needed to talk beforehand to find out from your partner if they're ready for it and if they even want to marry at all. It may not sound all that romantic but it's the responsible thing to do.
I think public proposals are only a good idea if the couple did talk about marriage before and knows that they want to spend their lives together. So it is a lesser risk to get a no and embarrass yourself. It is a bad idea if you didnt talk about it and even know what the opinion of the partner is .
If a man has the BALLS TO PUT YOU ON THE SPOT to be asked to marry, then they should KNOW that they will be on the SPOT for a 50/50 response. So they should have the gusto to take either answer like a man.
At the end of the day, if they LOVE YOU LOVE YOU - They will be by your side, "humiliated" or not
Guy rule.. she says no, the relationship is over
It's the context you put it. Neglecting your children and putting them in danger for your happiness. That's not right but knowing that u do take care of your children and just not doing for yourself and taking time that's different.
The proposal should not be a surprise. Y'all should be on the same page. If you are absolutely shocked that he would ask you to marry him then y'all have communication problems and do not need to be getting married right now💀
I just came for Garcelle's amazing look. She's so gorgeous.
Ladies you look awesome! Loni!!! You look sooooooooo goood and I love when you give us a discussion based on your research of laws etc. of each situation. Girl! 💪💪💪
Every episode I’m loving Garcelle more and more
I LOVE the developing chemistry between these ladies!! Good talk!! ❤❤❤
Heck no!!!!! The special moment is between you two no need the audience.
First tweet was stupid, who cares about someone's son- obviously she's one of those women obsessed with their son like he's her man. If ppl don't know 100% that they will receive a yes, why ask at all?
Just love her Garcelle so much. Beautiful haitian woman🎈just like me 🎈🎈🇭🇹🇭🇹
Speaking from experience, when a man proposes in public, he's doing it more for the praise and competition. He's showing off to the men AND women. You're more of a prop. When he proposes in private just the 2 of you and put a lot of thought into it on his dime, he's in it for you.
Me looking up the Jay Leno Proposal
Did you find out who it is? Lol
Angie Harmon
I don't understand people who do this. If you really love someone you should know if they want a public proposal. Some people love it and others don't. How do you even not know that she does not want to get married in that moment. Communication people!
I love Garcelle for this show!! She’s very respectful, elegant and classy. She’s perfect fit I wish she was here instead of Amanda 🙄
Bad idea unless you’re 1000% sure the person will say yes. I’ma tell your no of it’s a no. I feel like you usually know if the person will say yes or no, if you are unsure you embarrassed yourself.
Garcelle is amazing 😍😍 the star of the show, such a good addition!!
If you don't know for a fact that she wants a public proposal then don't give her a public proposal.
But Jeannie said she wasn’t gonna have sex I mean the guys gonna propose next to have sex
That's true. If you're not intimate then obviously the guy is going to propose quicker. That's why I don't trust Tamara's husband. I really don't believe he didn't have sex with other people for the entire 6 years they dated. He took so long to propose.
Why fake the funk who cares what people think not they choice
That’s not right she moved on but be in everyone’s else’s business
She was just being funny... everybody knows Loni is like this...she’s a COMEDIAN... it was not that deep
As always
I think she made the right call bc she's always said she doesn't want to be married again. Now if she said she's open to the idea then James could propose and she might give in bc he influenced her decision. Whereas now she made no promises or changed her tune and can really think without added pressure.
I’m like Loni 😂
💀proposals shouldn't be a surprise anyway. If you're not sure you're on the same page, then don't propose.
Garcelle I do the same thing… I always buy a gift for myself every Christmas and wrap it and put it under the tree with the label saying “from me to me”
Why are people proposing without having had a conversation beforehand? I think the issue isn’t public proposals, the issue is proposals taking place when there have been little to no conversations about an engagement so it’s at least expected by the person being proposed to. When you’re getting engaged , the engagement should be a shock, not the actual asking,
This really hits home I needed this!
Here is the thing as long as the two people are on the Same page and I stress and that is something Both want and have had that conversation on marriage. So yes to public proposals, as along as both parties have had that conversation about the future together. So one want find themselves looking crazy when one says No.
This resonated so well with my relationship with my mother! 🥺🥺 so spot on!! Agree with this 100%%% love you guys 🤍
It’s the “awww” at the end for me😂
Ok I had a similar situation although we had discussed it and I told him I would want it to be a private proposal He decided to do it on Christmas in front of all my family I said yes and 3months later I called it quits
I am really enjoying their topics this season..i love their dynamique and Garcelle is doing a good job 🙌
Lol @prettyboyfredo yall made it to the real😂😂😂😂 this photo is fake news guys... they are youtubers but I get the point