You say that like its not a necessity, there would be no need to looksmax if the halo effect wasn't so prevalent or if nature benefitted ugly people in any way. You are unwilling to admit other people have more controll over our lives, and individuals have less than we admit. Beyond dating this goes for job interviews, social settings/aquiring friends etc.
@@DestroAzureDx yea but thats also like saying if you have money, all those things you said would go better for you too. It really isn't a necessity, as long as you have the bare minimum its all good. If you're an outlier you gotta have something else to compensate.
Im a 5’3 Puerto Rican guy and lemme tell you what I understand to be the message I receive. So at my height not only am I told to kms or to become a ladyboy, but I’m also told it would be unethical for me to have kids. This “ultra optimization of genes” era we now live in is going to push more and more people into depression, anxiety, and dare I say, suicide. No thanks, I’ll put the phone down and focus directly on myself.
When I was much younger I was known as the pretty/cute guy in school. A lot of girls crushed on me and hit on me. And there were two girls in particular who used to follow me around during gym class and call me "sexy eyes". I was very shy back then, so I didn't really handle the attention well, but I still received it. Once I got to high school, I had a pretty serious bike accident that left with me with a large scar on my chin. It was a huge hit to my confidence and a lot of the female attention I previously received went away. I was depressed and had body dysmorphia for a good while. I had this thought that maybe once I get to college people will be wiser and less superficial. Boy was I wrong. People were more superficial and technology amplified that. I struggled with dating and self-image issues pretty much the entirety of college and I also started balding at 20 which made me even more insecure. I was borderline suicidal for a good chunk of college. It has been rough because I see everything around me just getting increasingly superficial and I saw how much looks affected my life. I wish it wasn't that way and our society just found a way to remove this huge source of suffering for people, but we haven't. And honestly I think most people don't care about lookism being an issue, mainly because selecting for attractiveness is something so hard wired into our DNA.
The only reason you've noticed this is because you're intelligent. If you were dumb you probably wouldn't be thinking about it at all because these things would have never crossed your mind and you would have continued to live life like nothing happened.
Looksmaxing epicdemic is mainly caused by Wmn high standards and social media giving them the choice to pick the top genes. Back in our parents day, it was pretty easy as an average guy to find an average girl at a young age and marry young. Now wmn have so many choices due to apps and SM, they will naturally try to pick and fight tooth and nail for the best they think they can get (doesn't have to be models, probably two points above their looks). This leaves lots of man with nothing until they hit 30-35 that's when w start wanting to settle down. In fact, there was a cool broad population (random sampling) study showing that most Young M were single and most young W were not single. There's another study (with the same methodology) saying that almost 70 percent of relationships now start online.
I’m not a looksmaxxer type of person but I am a personal trainer and the pressure to look “like a personal trainer” that people idealize at all times is real. People will actually make comments about it - usually the ones that don’t understand that when you are sweaty, full pump (often supplemented), in good lighting and flexing and taking 10 photos and using one good one isn’t the same as walking around in regular clothes with no pump out somewhere. Also the unrealistic expectations they have already of what a personal trainer “should” look like. I don’t worry about it as much as I used to but it’s still on my mind often.
I'm looking forward to watching this video. Honestly we're living in a time where imperfections are considered "defects" or "make someone ugly." - maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that the most beautiful people I've ever met are those who DIDN'T look "perfect."
Genetic stability is another topic not talked about, what’s more useful good looking face or traits associated with function intelligence and planning?
I lost 80 here, just to still end up ugly. I turned into a muscular ogre due to my face, hearing any comment about my weight positive or negative makes me want to hurt people
out of all the self help and personality developement channel i follow out there , ur top tire . i feel like my kinda person while watching your channel . thank you so much , your videos has been soo helpful for me .
@@Alex-on8yu no you're just fucking idiot buddy I wish you black pillers could here how pathetic you sound but then that would actually lead to growth and you guys don't care about that just bitching and moaning
It didnt ruin it it opened your eyes to cause and effect. Remember if you ever have social struggles just remember theres a guy out there who doesnt have to try to not have the same struggles as you and possibly has the inverse of your problem too much success in dating and in life
Social skills are overrated in dating, and in other social settings too though to a lesser degree. All you need is to act semi-normal, the rest is all looks. The fact that people think saying the right thing at the right time will somehow override the deep rooted, subconscious, hardwired reaction of disgust someone feels when looking at you is astonishing to me.
Ive never been more grateful to have a dad in my life. I couldn't imagine stumbling across something like this at 14-15, I would've definitely fallen for it.
your looks literally determine people's impression on you, determine how you see yourself, your confidence, your everyday life, i could go on and on... anyone who says looks don't matter is hard coping
@@CozyBunniLook. Yes there are dozen examples of looks saving someone’s life or having a big advantage. But how would sugar daddy’s and sugar babes work if „all is about looks“? All these blackpillers just rot in their basement instead of just TRYING to get girls. And yes, I’ll give you the point that they could be treated better slightly by society. However, a rich, famous and smart person will be appreciated more.
@Cozy-Cooking yeah but let me add perspective. If looks are all there is to a person, then there is no need for personality, for friends, for partners who bond. There would be no chance to change impressions or warm up to someone because their appearance in this dystopia is their only value and worth. It's not all that severe, extreme or black or white. Think of all the ugly short billionaires and millionaires and other success stories. Nobody really focuses on their appearance as much as on their story and achievements.
Maxxing shouldnt be beyond maintainng a healthy weight,going to the gym ,skin care and a balanced diet.trying to use a hamner to smash ur face or starving yourself is dabgerious .
@@DestroAzureDx and how do you know you are ugly ? have you interacted with women to know this or it was a black piller dude who told you that ? We can't all have giant jawlines like handsome Squidward or we would be looking more like clones and less like humans .Just do the basic and you will be fine .All these bone smashing ,starving yourself of food for weeks(starve maxxing) and doin jaw implants and putting scalding hot water on your eyelids to get the famed hunter eyes is just over the top and super cringe .when a woman is attracted to you she is not looking at if u have a huge jawline or perfect cantor tilt .
Beauty standards are going to get even worse in the future. All I can say is I'm glad I'm comfortable with my physical appearance. It's really sad how much people seem to hate themselves.
your looks literally determine people's impression on you, determine how you see yourself, your confidence, your everyday life, i could go on and on... anyone who says looks don't matter is hard coping
@Cozy-Cooking They do matter, but they're not the end all be all to life. If someone doesn't want to fuck with me because I don't fit their perception of beauty, then that's a them problem. It's like people are obsessed with wanting the entire world to like them. It's weird. It gives pick me behavior.
your looks literally determine people's impression on you, determine how you see yourself, your confidence, your everyday life, i could go on and on... anyone who says looks don't matter is hard coping
@@noderzleadgenyou're right, that doesn't take away the fact that in order to "mantain" something you first need to get it. That's what bluepillers don't understand. If you're sub5 you wont ever get a chance to prove your worth to anyone, because they wont care.
@@noderzleadgen You can be smart, funny, interesting, a great listener, etc. At the end of the day people just don't want to look at you. If you're persistent enough, people will tolerate your presence so they can appear nice, but it doesn't mean anything.
@@snark567Looks don't get you far with people, it only gets you a good first impression. Ask yourself this question? Do you value people in your life, according to how they look? Is the most good looking person, the most valuable person to you? Our parents age, our friends age, they become less attractive physically, so they are less worthy every year? NO :)
I just wanna mention that whitemaxxing is quite common in Asian countries. Heck, we have ads on TV that claim to make the skin fairer than our original complexion. It's been a thing even before the internet
Hello friend, I haven't visited your channel for a while and I'm so happy to see how you've grown. I started watching your videos 3 years ago and I can assure you that you changed my mentality and that helped change my life. Thank you for existing
Sucks that this looksmaxxing thing is a thing but life has unfortunately taught me looks matters a lot more then we want to believe. Especially in dating. Goes for both sexes but maybe even harsher for men nowadays with dating apps. Nothing wrong with cleaning up one's appearance by having healthy routines (diet, excercise, going outside etc. ) but the difficult thing is where do we set the limit... I myself have had braces, had a hairtransplant and quitted caffeine (gave me dry and itchy skin and lips) and feel good about those changes.
Man it goes even beyond. Look around, most women are using makeups , fillers , surgeries.... It's fake but even a fake beauty is entitled to have a handsome man because it's what she sees in the mirror. It took me a while to realize why suddenly every girl has Angelina jolie lips. How dumb i was. Men need to find their own way of faking beauty to balance it.
Reminds me of the book "The uglies". In that universe everyone goes through a specific cosmetic procedure to make them more "attractive" (ie exactly the same as everyone else). Later on in the book you discover the consequences of the procedure. In many ways that sort of world is becoming reality. Everyone is so desperate to become MORE, but at what cost?. MORE attractive, MORE wealthy, MORE popular etc. There's no end to it and it isn't until the consequences show up to bite everyone in the ass that they regret it. But by then it's too late...
This is one of the biggest newer societal/cultural issues of recent that truly disturbs and disgusts me. The sheer amount of narcissism and superficiality surrounding this all is so disgusting. I completely understand why *most* people do this, though, as it revolves around their insecurities and the infinite pressure social media has placed upon society to be perfect and incredible in every aspect of life but my god is our society spiraling down into insanity faster and faster day by day.
nope nobody asked perfection on everything, you completely missed the point. You are only tasked with being attractive, you could literally be a criminal and as long as you are handsome no one will care. You are right about it being superficial tho, but that's just human nature.
@@Gian_sasis this satire cus you are not tasked with being more attractive simply because there isn't much you can do as a man to look attractive women can wear makeup and change their face but as a guy the best you can do is go on low bf. Beauty is not a choice you can only control to an extent and accept your place im society
It's impossible to deny that some people are more beautiful than others but like you said there is major variance plus there are other factors that make people attractive, such as achievements, confidence, sense of humour etc
As long as it is only women, it's ok, right? But now that it also affect men, it's so much worse!! Boo f'ng hoo!! It's about time men deal with the same sh*t women have been dealing with for centuries!!
Beauty is being rewarded more than ever due to social media. Sole social media influencers and OF models earn millions monthly. You live life on a hard mode if you are unattractive
I used to be on ED Tumblr in the late 2010s, and it was genuinely a kind community of people trying to not be alone in their mental illness (which most of them were aware that they had). Ofc there were some pro ana accounts but the majority were not that bad, this is insanely dark compared to that
One line that struck me is that when you focus on developing more areas of your life and expanding your interests you will feel more confident without the need to enhancing your looks, as so they won't be an obstacle in your life. It resonated with me as when I was young, I felt so insecure because of the dark circles under my eyes because it made me feel like an old man. I would avoid eye contact with people. My voice would unintentionally sound dim and tired "like an old man". Real, your insecurities and fears can affect your behavior and personality. It always made me feel inadequate and awkward when I was about to act like a child.It ruined me. But once I got into self-improvement: going to the gym, practicing gratitude, reading psychology books, connecting with deep people and having deep conversations with my family as well as focusing on my future and my daily life have improvemaxxed my life. I didn't give my eyes a thought since then and the once painful self consciousness eradicated. Felt confidence going through my body like crazy and stopped capitalizing on what superficial people think and say abt me
You're being delusional man. He is trying to convince you your looks don't matter in other areas of life but that is false. The halo effect and genetic determinism is very real as is the inverse concept of it from jobs, how many friends you make, dating, how easily things come to you, even how much muscle you put on in the gym and how those muscles appear or how quickly you lose weight is effected by your genetics. Even body builders and anyone else that takes steroids is victim to this. The only way to not have your looks affect your life is to live in complete solitude which is really just other people pushing you away and even how well you handle the solitude is dictated by your genetics
@@DestroAzureDx Well before you say I'm "delusional" I didn't say or mean that I was ever after that careless about my looks. I said it stopped being such a hurdle and having such a negative impact on my realtionships and on my personality. Looks will always matter and as you said , the halo effect is real. But the point of my comment is that it stopped having a big negative impact on my life as I expanded my interests on other things, that doesn't mean I think looks are pointeless
@@gibs40 i see. All I hear from that observation about your looks however is that you don't look as bad as the bottom 10% of males and your genetics weren't bad enough to make you end up below average
Massive cope. Everyone is superficial and everyone judges by your looks whether it's consciously or not, saying the opposite does make your delusional. There no amount of "focusing on yourself bro!" that's gonna make up for you knowing people feel disgusted by you on an instinctual level as soon as they see you. Did doing all that manage to distract you from this horrible reality at least a bit? Good for you. But we have to be honest here and admit that if you're unattractive you miss out on lot crucial things and just focusing elsewhere won't make the cut. And i say this as someone who has plenty of hobbies and loves learning among other productive things. My regrets, bad treatment in the past from my family and my peers, opportunities i missed out on due to my looks haunt me on a daily basis.
@@swagnegrocongucci134 u also didn't get the point did you? I was meaning that I didn't let it get in my way, I found other more meaningful areas in my life to focus on that bring me fulfillment, but did I say I stopped caring about my looks and that people don't or didn't care about my looks anymore ? Ur the cope here
This is what happens when people don't have a purpose. They focus on hyper specific details expecting they will solve their entire life problems. I guarantee your life won't improve if your nose tilt is 1mm different or your jawline 1mm wider. Being a well adjusted member of society and not constantly focus on things you can't control will
This is a lie. Your life will worsen with a misshapen nose amongst other features. You're hyperfixating saying it people obsessing over 1 feature. First it could be valid that that feature ruins your entire facial attractiveness or contribute to other features being worse. For example a huge nose is rarely helpful to a face. Another example of the latter is how having protruding ears can affect your headshape. The issue is people still have hope after realising thier less pleasant features. If they didnt have that they wouldn't do things like bonesmashing and accept they're ugly and most people are going to reject them.
@@DestroAzureDx My point is: if someone has a fulfilled life let's say a family, friends, hobbies a nice job, and so on, they will not focus on trivial things they can barely control and don't matter like a small facial "deformity". Fixing someone's life rarely has anything to do with how attractive they are unless that person is genuinely ugly and hard to look at. The problem with hyper fixating on details that don't matter is that you start viewing all your problems through that lens. This can become a self fulfilling prophecy of low self esteem because of X thing and when getting rejected the justification is "it HAS to be because of this detail I personally obsess over". Kinda like people who think that every criticism has to do with their skin colour, gender and so on. It screams no self awareness. This is something looksmaxing fosters. If you're thinking of doing it either you are really ugly (which fair enough) or you're very unfulfilled because the thought of optimizing your face shouldn't cross your mind. Although taking care of yourself and improving your looks is greatly recommended a big part of maturing is accepting you will never be perfect. That, ironically makes you someone way more attractive than someone who obsesses over details that no one will ever notice except you. Part of being confident is, paradoxically, being ok with your imperfections while still trying to become better. And by becoming better, focusing solely on looks is not becoming better, it's becoming shallow
@@ricardvs7329 you assume these looksmaxxers don't do both hard and soft looksmaxxing. Both the healthy and the unhealthy. Alot of the time peoples motivation is like a carpet, you can't pull it out from under them piece by piece, Looksmaxxing doesn't foster it it is the product and cause and effect of competing for women or even just female validation. Ontop of what makes a good life. What we glorify in music etc. People take it as direct proof of how desired you are unless you are attractive. None of this is my opinion it is simply fact dictated by peoples actions/ reactions. Lastly I'll say it again, most of the things you listed outside of sometimes a jobare heavily impacted by your looks, your parents may push you to do certain things depending on your looks, be that if you look good or bad, you may not have any friends due to your demenor from how you were treated in the past/currently, the people you're surrounded with may like something you can't truly partake in due to your looks like partying and clubbing they may not even want you around if they're trying to meet new people or pick up girls or they may want you around just to make themselves look better. You can argue I have biases and a warped lens of perception, just acknowledge your own as well
I mean... Look at how much one mugshot changed jeremy meeks life. After what happened at that day, people finally woke up and realised how shallow the world is and your looks can literally turn you into a multi millionaire
"I guarantee your life won't improve if your nose tilt is 1mm different or your jawline 1mm wider." If I had your double digit IQ I'd be blissfully unaware as well.
1 percent are pretty, but the thing is, as long as EVERYONE ELSE realize that there is something called pretty privilege, they will more and more be able to see through it. So people should learn about this at school. This is a GREAT vid. So many people are in denial and in stead of waking up and realizing they are scammed, they spend their time emulating the top 1 percent…. 1. The only thing I recommend to people is to ALWAYS stay in good shape. Dont need to be fitness, but at least body able to move. 2. sleep well 3. eat well 4. work/life balance 5. laugh a lot and be honest
It's about men realizing looks matters for attracting the opposite gender just as much as it matters for women, if not more. Women were told to them from their childhood and they know very well how to improve , with makeup, surgeries, fillers... But so many men are clueless. These looksmaxing communities are just trying to find ways to compete and find ways for men to improve their looks. Men have lost this competition for a long time.
that would be the solution to school shooters , bullying and most of our social problems. If women were educated from an early age about what they're attracted to and why they're only attracted to a small percentage of men , this would have a huge impact on the top percent in looks man and thus would balance out dating. Women are unaware most men are unattractive because they are invisible, they only have eyes for attractive (top 5-10%) of men and this creates a supply-demand issue...all women being part of the rotation of those top 5-10% men making those man players (much harder for them to commit due to the large amount of options these men have) and making the rest of men miserable. If women could understand the 80-20 rule , they will make MUCH better choices when it comes to relationships.
Limb lengthening has been around for 70-80 years now... And its mainly used to fix your imbalance of legs and its not as dangerous as you made it sound. And theres a thing as masseter muscles in the jaw area which do grow if you eat hard food...
Yeah, this side is when things took a bad turn, there's more videos on looksmaxxing than on being of service and a man of value. It's gotten to a point where some coaches have been removed from my notification bell because it's all about looks,
Very good video, fell for looksmaxing myself for months. Glad i was out of it by the time my little brother started getting into his looks and fitness. Trying to be the older brother i wish i had.
Craniofacial development during childhood makes up half of your beauty in modern society with modern diets. Good craniofacial development = forwardly protruded jaw, defined jawline, compact midface, narrow hunter eyes, hollow cheeks, side cheeks that stick out e.t.c.
The guys on the looksmaxxing forums warning the young kids that wonder on the website remind me of when a young kid (under 12) tries to join edtwt. Everyone else feels like it’s too late for them to ever fully recover so they warn the kids who are just starting to develop an ed because they’re not too far gone.
I feel like hardmaxxing (and "self improvement") has gained so much traction because with the world moving faster and faster people can't accept the fact that human body doesn't change as fast as they think it should
Yeah discovering this is making me think I'm a narcissist, I wish I could just forget about this, I'd rather just absorbed with following God instead of making my looks my god
Ok, one more thing I thought of so I came back to comment this. I admit that I will be more quick to follow someone on social media that looks attractive or has looks that I deem attractive. But it hardly ever lasts because of the lack of substance they have to offer. And the ones I follow despite the way they look is because they actually enrich my life with values beyond anything that sole attractiveness could ever offer.
Doesn't matter. Your follow and if a few hundred people do the same thing as you can lead to someone getting recognition or a career or money from social media. Meanwhile the ugly dude who is actually entertaining has either a much slower start or doesnt start up at all.
cole is white, tall, average face with a wide frame. he's a 6 minimum, keep that in mind while listening to someone talk about looks. the well-fed never understand the hungry.
Exactly. A better looking Asian man gets far less women than Cole does. All this video did was prove the looks max communities point. You never see ugly men making these videos.
as a 15 year old guy who lost 40lbs this is stupid i prefer health over looks now since dying because i went under the knife for surgery is not what you want on your grave
dont diet when you are young it will greatly stunt your growth long term, eat in a caloric surplus and do physical activities(you can go to the gym but dont lift heavy)
I don’t understand why suddenly the notion that women too prioritise looks over any other attribute and men are trying to improve their looks to increase their chances in dating as standards get progressively higher and higher is taboo. It’s widely accepted that men prioritise looks in women, and thus have products to improve their appearance (makeup, etc), so why can’t men increase theirs without ridicule? I know people think face ratings are weird but at the end of the day certain ratios on faces are objectively attractive. People in general only care about and will treat you according to looks, something I learnt the hard way, both good and bad. I went from being seen as a loser to then getting direct compliments on my looks once I started taking care of myself. It sucks the way the world is, but we live in it at the end of the day, you might as well try to play by the rules.
You got few things wrong. Hard maxing is only spending money on surgeries or fillers or some cosmetic procedures but softmaxxing is mewing, chewing and and jelqing
Love yourself the way God created you. Yes you can find natural ways to improve yourself like with skin care, good hygiene, haircut, etc. but dont become obsessed with your looks to the point where you neglect showing compassion and love to others or you start comparing yourself to others..
I'm soooooo Glad I'm not obsess with the pretty boy trend. I'm completely free for it. Than again I am a total introvert, the last thing I want is attention.
Attraction for majority of parts is objective. I hope you realize there are some type of women who deliberately choose unattractive partners, thats because they want to always be seen as the most attravtive partner and these type of women would hate it if their partner is.more attractive than them. Subjectivity is influenced by culture for example. In some countries it's seen good if a woman is obese, others no
@@ksilofo Hey I guess it someway there’s that less competition in some way shape or form in a dating perspective. Of course the culture stuff in one way to think about it.
Fun Fact: I look like so many characters from both video-games and anime, and here I never knew I had look-alikes especially from video-games and animes together
Looksmaxing is good alsong as you don’t obsess over it and also improve yourself in other aspects of life Also mewing is soft maxing not hard maxing it’s just having proper tongue posture
@@ColeHastingsI think they’re a lot more important than you imply in this video. I see far too many people live incredible lives due to their appearance / genetics, and far too many people with mediocre or crappy lives due to their genetics. Most of the “looksmaxxers” you were talking about on that website are people that were probably dealt shit genetics and refuse to give up on life without a fight. Too me that’s a lot more admirable than throwing in the towel 🤷🏽♂️
The thing jelqmaxxing actually works. I have thousands of 🐔 that has seen growth but it takes 2-3 years for1.25 inches growth thats maxx you can do girth its upto you. Mewing also works. You did just a tad bit above the surface level research cole but some of things like bome smashing is stupid doing surgeries is stupid. But there are something you can do. its upto you in the end to action
I am pretty sure mewing doesn't work at my age anymore (mid 20's) for improving facial features, but I guess it's worth doing for other benefits. And if it happens to improve facial features down the line that's a nice bonus
Mewing works, at least it is for me and I am 42 years old. I have been doing it for a little over 2 months and my haw line is way better, my cheek bones are more chiseled and my under eye support is better, my teeth are stronger and straighter and my double chin is almost gone.
Nobody talks about the other side of being "extremely attractive". You let go of yourself, shave your head bald because you can't handle the pressure that comes with it. It's mentally tiring getting attention everytime you go out I just want to feel normal & treated like a normal person
I had that treatment for 2 yrs of my life. Felt like a leper. No joke, took a major bump to my mental health. Couldnt even have a normal dining in a restaurant without people staring and looking hypnotized. It definitely should be talked more how we need beautiful people to be respected in their privacy.
@@Alanpoeta I know but it's the truth. The only perk is that I can apply for any job, say that I didn't finish college or high school...and i still get the job
Hey Cole, waht's your opinion on leg lengthening surgery? And would you do a video about it? It's probably hard to relate for you at 6'2. But I have empathy for guys who are like 5'5 or shorter and are living in europe for example. I live in Scandinavia where the average male height is just shy of 6ft (182cm) and I feel tiny being 5'8. I don't know if this topic is relevant enough for you to make a whole video about it, but I would definitely be interrested
It's like steroids, or lying on your resume. It's fake. It won't provide you with lasting satisfaction. You HAVE to accept your circumstances to ever get anywhere.
I will give you a advice do it with paley he has a 100% track record with the exception of one post in a forum, even then the probability of dying in a plane is probably greater than getting botched by him, you can get 6 inches with 200k, moneymaxx and do it, iam from a rquite rich family if I could black pill my parents I would do it, fortunately iam young and I am right now average height at my country@@bro918
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The brainrotmaxxing and comparingmaxxing is unreal when internetmaxxing
Best way to crymaxx
What the actual fuckmaxxing is going on??
Looksmaxing is a sad sign of the times. Superficiality maxed to the hilt.
Sadly
And ALL that do looksmaxxing are Omega Males, trying to be something they're not.
Its unbelievable that people don't consider commenting under such valueable peoples comments.
You say that like its not a necessity, there would be no need to looksmax if the halo effect wasn't so prevalent or if nature benefitted ugly people in any way.
You are unwilling to admit other people have more controll over our lives, and individuals have less than we admit.
Beyond dating this goes for job interviews, social settings/aquiring friends etc.
@@DestroAzureDx yea but thats also like saying if you have money, all those things you said would go better for you too.
It really isn't a necessity, as long as you have the bare minimum its all good. If you're an outlier you gotta have something else to compensate.
Im a 5’3 Puerto Rican guy and lemme tell you what I understand to be the message I receive. So at my height not only am I told to kms or to become a ladyboy, but I’m also told it would be unethical for me to have kids. This “ultra optimization of genes” era we now live in is going to push more and more people into depression, anxiety, and dare I say, suicide. No thanks, I’ll put the phone down and focus directly on myself.
it's normal height for your country i think!?
Well solved
Eugenics is the future...
1930s repeated@@jessikafischer20
Your son will be short, girls will not want him and other guys will not respect him, have a girl or dont reproduce mi amigo 👍
When I was much younger I was known as the pretty/cute guy in school. A lot of girls crushed on me and hit on me. And there were two girls in particular who used to follow me around during gym class and call me "sexy eyes". I was very shy back then, so I didn't really handle the attention well, but I still received it. Once I got to high school, I had a pretty serious bike accident that left with me with a large scar on my chin. It was a huge hit to my confidence and a lot of the female attention I previously received went away. I was depressed and had body dysmorphia for a good while. I had this thought that maybe once I get to college people will be wiser and less superficial. Boy was I wrong. People were more superficial and technology amplified that. I struggled with dating and self-image issues pretty much the entirety of college and I also started balding at 20 which made me even more insecure. I was borderline suicidal for a good chunk of college. It has been rough because I see everything around me just getting increasingly superficial and I saw how much looks affected my life. I wish it wasn't that way and our society just found a way to remove this huge source of suffering for people, but we haven't. And honestly I think most people don't care about lookism being an issue, mainly because selecting for attractiveness is something so hard wired into our DNA.
Brother, People like me can understand you, Don't loose hope
The problem is it's wired in DNA so people will instinctively drove into them
The only reason you've noticed this is because you're intelligent. If you were dumb you probably wouldn't be thinking about it at all because these things would have never crossed your mind and you would have continued to live life like nothing happened.
Beauty matters more than ever cuz people are more insecure than ever.
Fr 🙌✨
Looksmaxing epicdemic is mainly caused by Wmn high standards and social media giving them the choice to pick the top genes. Back in our parents day, it was pretty easy as an average guy to find an average girl at a young age and marry young. Now wmn have so many choices due to apps and SM, they will naturally try to pick and fight tooth and nail for the best they think they can get (doesn't have to be models, probably two points above their looks).
This leaves lots of man with nothing until they hit 30-35 that's when w start wanting to settle down. In fact, there was a cool broad population (random sampling) study showing that most Young M were single and most young W were not single.
There's another study (with the same methodology) saying that almost 70 percent of relationships now start online.
No, it always mattered. You can do some looksmaxxing and see it yourself. :-)
I’m not a looksmaxxer type of person but I am a personal trainer and the pressure to look “like a personal trainer” that people idealize at all times is real. People will actually make comments about it - usually the ones that don’t understand that when you are sweaty, full pump (often supplemented), in good lighting and flexing and taking 10 photos and using one good one isn’t the same as walking around in regular clothes with no pump out somewhere. Also the unrealistic expectations they have already of what a personal trainer “should” look like. I don’t worry about it as much as I used to but it’s still on my mind often.
Bro you jumpscared me with that intro lol
😂
I'm looking forward to watching this video. Honestly we're living in a time where imperfections are considered "defects" or "make someone ugly." - maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that the most beautiful people I've ever met are those who DIDN'T look "perfect."
Would have to agree
Genetic stability is another topic not talked about, what’s more useful good looking face or traits associated with function intelligence and planning?
or these imperfections have a story, like me finding another beauty mark on my lower stomach discovered from working out
Absolutely agree ❤
I lost 150 pounds. Can’t begin to tell you how I view people now that I’m not a ghost to women anymore
I lost 80 here, just to still end up ugly. I turned into a muscular ogre due to my face, hearing any comment about my weight positive or negative makes me want to hurt people
Keep going for your health at least, bro.
Trust me brother I understand. Lost about 130 pounds and the difference is night and day.
I went from 281 to 190 and the world is a more friendly place. Unbelievable 🤯 how nice humans are all of a sudden
Been on both sides several times. Once you realize how primitive and superficial people are it no longer gives you joy interacting with them.
All I see is looks now because of this
Fr
Ngl when I was researching for this video I did too for like a day or two. Just gotta stop consuming the content and your brain will go back to normal
So true. Every time I see a person I just have to check their canthar tilt and ramus length..
You always seen looks even when you not realizing you will not like lizzo no matter what
So stop lying to yourself and improve
@@No--bodylikesme I’m not complaining and I already know about looksmaxxing
There's no changing this either. Adapt or perish
Bro you're under every video
@@klutchedup9 That means you are too
@@TwistedLullabies it wasn't a personal attack
@@klutchedup9 I know
You mean mog or get mogged
The best intro I've ever seen
out of all the self help and personality developement channel i follow out there , ur top tire . i feel like my kinda person while watching your channel . thank you so much , your videos has been soo helpful for me .
From one brother to another STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM THE PILLS
I'm not afraid of other people's truths. But then again, I see all of this as a gateway to Stoicism.
The Black is the only good one, it's truth and the path you know about what you are doing and what you can find.
@@Alex-on8yu no you're just fucking idiot buddy I wish you black pillers could here how pathetic you sound but then that would actually lead to growth and you guys don't care about that just bitching and moaning
@@Alex-on8yu that’s only for those who can assume a stoic mindset. For everyone else it’s poison
Unless the pill is adderall
Been depressionmaxxing for a few years and looksmaxxing completly ruined my way of viewing life and i socialskillsminimized unfortunetly
It didnt ruin it it opened your eyes to cause and effect. Remember if you ever have social struggles just remember theres a guy out there who doesnt have to try to not have the same struggles as you and possibly has the inverse of your problem too much success in dating and in life
Social skills are overrated in dating, and in other social settings too though to a lesser degree. All you need is to act semi-normal, the rest is all looks. The fact that people think saying the right thing at the right time will somehow override the deep rooted, subconscious, hardwired reaction of disgust someone feels when looking at you is astonishing to me.
@@swagnegrocongucci134 im not saying that. I'm agreeing with you saying some other dude didnt have to try due to his looks.
@@DestroAzureDx I was replying to the original comment
@@DestroAzureDxyou can't suffer from too much success
It's vain and selfish to the people who are truly suffering
Looksmaxing is the masculine version of makeup but at an obsessive level.
Looks maxing is quite feminine actually.
Tons of women are obsessed with make up and can't even go outside without it affecting how they feel
Ive never been more grateful to have a dad in my life. I couldn't imagine stumbling across something like this at 14-15, I would've definitely fallen for it.
your looks literally determine people's impression on you, determine how you see yourself, your confidence, your everyday life, i could go on and on... anyone who says looks don't matter is hard coping
@@CozyBunniLook. Yes there are dozen examples of looks saving someone’s life or having a big advantage. But how would sugar daddy’s and sugar babes work if „all is about looks“? All these blackpillers just rot in their basement instead of just TRYING to get girls. And yes, I’ll give you the point that they could be treated better slightly by society. However, a rich, famous and smart person will be appreciated more.
@Cozy-Cooking yeah but let me add perspective. If looks are all there is to a person, then there is no need for personality, for friends, for partners who bond. There would be no chance to change impressions or warm up to someone because their appearance in this dystopia is their only value and worth. It's not all that severe, extreme or black or white. Think of all the ugly short billionaires and millionaires and other success stories. Nobody really focuses on their appearance as much as on their story and achievements.
@@en2p187 i said it matters in first impression which is how you meet people
So you are saying ur just in denual of reality ?? 🧐
The internet has become a place of echo chambers for insecurities
Maxxing shouldnt be beyond maintainng a healthy weight,going to the gym ,skin care and a balanced diet.trying to use a hamner to smash ur face or starving yourself is dabgerious .
You think it would be common sense
@@lolasdm6959 skin care for a man is definitely not common sense
Imagine being me and losing 80lbs to still end up ugly. Thats what looksmaxxers don't want
@@DestroAzureDx and how do you know you are ugly ? have you interacted with women to know this or it was a black piller dude who told you that ? We can't all have giant jawlines like handsome Squidward or we would be looking more like clones and less like humans .Just do the basic and you will be fine .All these bone smashing ,starving yourself of food for weeks(starve maxxing) and doin jaw implants and putting scalding hot water on your eyelids to get the famed hunter eyes is just over the top and super cringe .when a woman is attracted to you she is not looking at if u have a huge jawline or perfect cantor tilt .
@@DestroAzureDx you probably still look better than before
Beauty standards are going to get even worse in the future. All I can say is I'm glad I'm comfortable with my physical appearance. It's really sad how much people seem to hate themselves.
your looks literally determine people's impression on you, determine how you see yourself, your confidence, your everyday life, i could go on and on... anyone who says looks don't matter is hard coping
Wanting to improve doesn't mean you hate yourself lol
@Cozy-Cooking They do matter, but they're not the end all be all to life. If someone doesn't want to fuck with me because I don't fit their perception of beauty, then that's a them problem. It's like people are obsessed with wanting the entire world to like them. It's weird. It gives pick me behavior.
@gj9157 Improving yourself is one thing, but looksmaxxing is another. If you want acceptance from people that bad, be my guess. I hope they pick you.
@@CozyBunni Looks matterbut they are not everything. There's so much more, its also a matter of strenght and choice
your looks literally determine people's impression on you, determine how you see yourself, your confidence, your everyday life, i could go on and on... anyone who says looks don't matter is hard coping
And anyone who says looks are everything I’ll happily avoid such shallow people. Go outside.
looks are most of the equation, yet character is what is necessary to maintain relationships with others
@@noderzleadgenyou're right, that doesn't take away the fact that in order to "mantain" something you first need to get it. That's what bluepillers don't understand. If you're sub5 you wont ever get a chance to prove your worth to anyone, because they wont care.
@@noderzleadgen You can be smart, funny, interesting, a great listener, etc. At the end of the day people just don't want to look at you. If you're persistent enough, people will tolerate your presence so they can appear nice, but it doesn't mean anything.
@@snark567Looks don't get you far with people, it only gets you a good first impression. Ask yourself this question? Do you value people in your life, according to how they look? Is the most good looking person, the most valuable person to you? Our parents age, our friends age, they become less attractive physically, so they are less worthy every year? NO :)
I just wanna mention that whitemaxxing is quite common in Asian countries. Heck, we have ads on TV that claim to make the skin fairer than our original complexion. It's been a thing even before the internet
Kojic acid, glutathione🤯🤯
Hello friend, I haven't visited your channel for a while and I'm so happy to see how you've grown. I started watching your videos 3 years ago and I can assure you that you changed my mentality and that helped change my life. Thank you for existing
Sucks that this looksmaxxing thing is a thing but life has unfortunately taught me looks matters a lot more then we want to believe. Especially in dating. Goes for both sexes but maybe even harsher for men nowadays with dating apps. Nothing wrong with cleaning up one's appearance by having healthy routines (diet, excercise, going outside etc. ) but the difficult thing is where do we set the limit... I myself have had braces, had a hairtransplant and quitted caffeine (gave me dry and itchy skin and lips) and feel good about those changes.
Man it goes even beyond. Look around, most women are using makeups , fillers , surgeries.... It's fake but even a fake beauty is entitled to have a handsome man because it's what she sees in the mirror. It took me a while to realize why suddenly every girl has Angelina jolie lips. How dumb i was.
Men need to find their own way of faking beauty to balance it.
Reminds me of the book "The uglies". In that universe everyone goes through a specific cosmetic procedure to make them more "attractive" (ie exactly the same as everyone else). Later on in the book you discover the consequences of the procedure. In many ways that sort of world is becoming reality. Everyone is so desperate to become MORE, but at what cost?. MORE attractive, MORE wealthy, MORE popular etc. There's no end to it and it isn't until the consequences show up to bite everyone in the ass that they regret it. But by then it's too late...
Dude, prime Chico mogs base Jordan Barret, but prime Jordan has a neutral ramus which mogs Chico's positively tilted cantaloupe 20% tint.
It couldn’t be more over for Jordan
It’s jover 😢
ssj3 chico mogs all prime jordan started off higher but couldn't catch up with choco has higher ceiling
@@ColeHastings😂 It’s overrrrr
It's over for them both... they're old.
Hi Cole, it’s been a while since I last commented. I freaking love that unhinged intro 😂
Haha I appreciate it
This is one of the biggest newer societal/cultural issues of recent that truly disturbs and disgusts me. The sheer amount of narcissism and superficiality surrounding this all is so disgusting. I completely understand why *most* people do this, though, as it revolves around their insecurities and the infinite pressure social media has placed upon society to be perfect and incredible in every aspect of life but my god is our society spiraling down into insanity faster and faster day by day.
nope nobody asked perfection on everything, you completely missed the point. You are only tasked with being attractive, you could literally be a criminal and as long as you are handsome no one will care. You are right about it being superficial tho, but that's just human nature.
@@Gian_sasis this satire cus you are not tasked with being more attractive simply because there isn't much you can do as a man to look attractive women can wear makeup and change their face but as a guy the best you can do is go on low bf. Beauty is not a choice you can only control to an extent and accept your place im society
God does not see your looks,he sees your hearts and your deeds❤
Intro had me in stitches man lmao
It's impossible to deny that some people are more beautiful than others but like you said there is major variance plus there are other factors that make people attractive, such as achievements, confidence, sense of humour etc
It sucks that not only women are made to feel insecure by social media, but now men are affected by trends like this too
As long as it is only women, it's ok, right? But now that it also affect men, it's so much worse!! Boo f'ng hoo!! It's about time men deal with the same sh*t women have been dealing with for centuries!!
Equality lol
Beauty is being rewarded more than ever due to social media. Sole social media influencers and OF models earn millions monthly. You live life on a hard mode if you are unattractive
You live life on ohk mode if you're non-white
It’s called face dysmorphia
I used to be on ED Tumblr in the late 2010s, and it was genuinely a kind community of people trying to not be alone in their mental illness (which most of them were aware that they had). Ofc there were some pro ana accounts but the majority were not that bad, this is insanely dark compared to that
One line that struck me is that when you focus on developing more areas of your life and expanding your interests you will feel more confident without the need to enhancing your looks, as so they won't be an obstacle in your life. It resonated with me as when I was young, I felt so insecure because of the dark circles under my eyes because it made me feel like an old man. I would avoid eye contact with people. My voice would unintentionally sound dim and tired "like an old man". Real, your insecurities and fears can affect your behavior and personality. It always made me feel inadequate and awkward when I was about to act like a child.It ruined me. But once I got into self-improvement: going to the gym, practicing gratitude, reading psychology books, connecting with deep people and having deep conversations with my family as well as focusing on my future and my daily life have improvemaxxed my life. I didn't give my eyes a thought since then and the once painful self consciousness eradicated. Felt confidence going through my body like crazy and stopped capitalizing on what superficial people think and say abt me
You're being delusional man.
He is trying to convince you your looks don't matter in other areas of life but that is false. The halo effect and genetic determinism is very real as is the inverse concept of it from jobs, how many friends you make, dating, how easily things come to you, even how much muscle you put on in the gym and how those muscles appear or how quickly you lose weight is effected by your genetics. Even body builders and anyone else that takes steroids is victim to this.
The only way to not have your looks affect your life is to live in complete solitude which is really just other people pushing you away and even how well you handle the solitude is dictated by your genetics
@@DestroAzureDx Well before you say I'm "delusional" I didn't say or mean that I was ever after that careless about my looks. I said it stopped being such a hurdle and having such a negative impact on my realtionships and on my personality. Looks will always matter and as you said , the halo effect is real. But the point of my comment is that it stopped having a big negative impact on my life as I expanded my interests on other things, that doesn't mean I think looks are pointeless
@@gibs40 i see. All I hear from that observation about your looks however is that you don't look as bad as the bottom 10% of males and your genetics weren't bad enough to make you end up below average
Massive cope. Everyone is superficial and everyone judges by your looks whether it's consciously or not, saying the opposite does make your delusional. There no amount of "focusing on yourself bro!" that's gonna make up for you knowing people feel disgusted by you on an instinctual level as soon as they see you. Did doing all that manage to distract you from this horrible reality at least a bit? Good for you. But we have to be honest here and admit that if you're unattractive you miss out on lot crucial things and just focusing elsewhere won't make the cut. And i say this as someone who has plenty of hobbies and loves learning among other productive things. My regrets, bad treatment in the past from my family and my peers, opportunities i missed out on due to my looks haunt me on a daily basis.
@@swagnegrocongucci134 u also didn't get the point did you? I was meaning that I didn't let it get in my way, I found other more meaningful areas in my life to focus on that bring me fulfillment, but did I say I stopped caring about my looks and that people don't or didn't care about my looks anymore ? Ur the cope here
This is what happens when people don't have a purpose. They focus on hyper specific details expecting they will solve their entire life problems. I guarantee your life won't improve if your nose tilt is 1mm different or your jawline 1mm wider. Being a well adjusted member of society and not constantly focus on things you can't control will
This is a lie. Your life will worsen with a misshapen nose amongst other features.
You're hyperfixating saying it people obsessing over 1 feature. First it could be valid that that feature ruins your entire facial attractiveness or contribute to other features being worse. For example a huge nose is rarely helpful to a face. Another example of the latter is how having protruding ears can affect your headshape.
The issue is people still have hope after realising thier less pleasant features. If they didnt have that they wouldn't do things like bonesmashing and accept they're ugly and most people are going to reject them.
@@DestroAzureDx My point is: if someone has a fulfilled life let's say a family, friends, hobbies a nice job, and so on, they will not focus on trivial things they can barely control and don't matter like a small facial "deformity". Fixing someone's life rarely has anything to do with how attractive they are unless that person is genuinely ugly and hard to look at.
The problem with hyper fixating on details that don't matter is that you start viewing all your problems through that lens. This can become a self fulfilling prophecy of low self esteem because of X thing and when getting rejected the justification is "it HAS to be because of this detail I personally obsess over". Kinda like people who think that every criticism has to do with their skin colour, gender and so on. It screams no self awareness.
This is something looksmaxing fosters. If you're thinking of doing it either you are really ugly (which fair enough) or you're very unfulfilled because the thought of optimizing your face shouldn't cross your mind.
Although taking care of yourself and improving your looks is greatly recommended a big part of maturing is accepting you will never be perfect. That, ironically makes you someone way more attractive than someone who obsesses over details that no one will ever notice except you. Part of being confident is, paradoxically, being ok with your imperfections while still trying to become better. And by becoming better, focusing solely on looks is not becoming better, it's becoming shallow
@@ricardvs7329 you assume these looksmaxxers don't do both hard and soft looksmaxxing. Both the healthy and the unhealthy. Alot of the time peoples motivation is like a carpet, you can't pull it out from under them piece by piece,
Looksmaxxing doesn't foster it it is the product and cause and effect of competing for women or even just female validation. Ontop of what makes a good life. What we glorify in music etc. People take it as direct proof of how desired you are unless you are attractive.
None of this is my opinion it is simply fact dictated by peoples actions/ reactions.
Lastly I'll say it again, most of the things you listed outside of sometimes a jobare heavily impacted by your looks, your parents may push you to do certain things depending on your looks, be that if you look good or bad, you may not have any friends due to your demenor from how you were treated in the past/currently, the people you're surrounded with may like something you can't truly partake in due to your looks like partying and clubbing they may not even want you around if they're trying to meet new people or pick up girls or they may want you around just to make themselves look better.
You can argue I have biases and a warped lens of perception, just acknowledge your own as well
I mean... Look at how much one mugshot changed jeremy meeks life. After what happened at that day, people finally woke up and realised how shallow the world is and your looks can literally turn you into a multi millionaire
"I guarantee your life won't improve if your nose tilt is 1mm different or your jawline 1mm wider."
If I had your double digit IQ I'd be blissfully unaware as well.
Mogging a.k.a narcissism
No way bro said "ropemaxxing"
he said it
Real mogger this man
1 percent are pretty, but the thing is, as long as EVERYONE ELSE realize that there is something called pretty privilege, they will more and more be able to see through it. So people should learn about this at school. This is a GREAT vid. So many people are in denial and in stead of waking up and realizing they are scammed, they spend their time emulating the top 1 percent….
1. The only thing I recommend to people is to ALWAYS stay in good shape. Dont need to be fitness, but at least body able to move.
2. sleep well
3. eat well
4. work/life balance
5. laugh a lot and be honest
It's about men realizing looks matters for attracting the opposite gender just as much as it matters for women, if not more. Women were told to them from their childhood and they know very well how to improve , with makeup, surgeries, fillers...
But so many men are clueless. These looksmaxing communities are just trying to find ways to compete and find ways for men to improve their looks. Men have lost this competition for a long time.
Great point you raised there. It would help if more folk saw through the Pretty Privilege.
that would be the solution to school shooters , bullying and most of our social problems. If women were educated from an early age about what they're attracted to and why they're only attracted to a small percentage of men , this would have a huge impact on the top percent in looks man and thus would balance out dating.
Women are unaware most men are unattractive because they are invisible, they only have eyes for attractive (top 5-10%) of men and this creates a supply-demand issue...all women being part of the rotation of those top 5-10% men making those man players (much harder for them to commit due to the large amount of options these men have) and making the rest of men miserable.
If women could understand the 80-20 rule , they will make MUCH better choices when it comes to relationships.
good points
Bro… you’re fucking hilarious 😂 that intro was spot on… the giga chad music & ai voice talking about the measurements with the photos 😅 nailed it 🤙
I enjoy your content, you’re very good at making engaging videos you must work very hard at it
Thanks bro for making this video..✨🔥🙌
Limb lengthening has been around for 70-80 years now... And its mainly used to fix your imbalance of legs and its not as dangerous as you made it sound. And theres a thing as masseter muscles in the jaw area which do grow if you eat hard food...
Yeah, this side is when things took a bad turn, there's more videos on looksmaxxing than on being of service and a man of value. It's gotten to a point where some coaches have been removed from my notification bell because it's all about looks,
Very good video, fell for looksmaxing myself for months. Glad i was out of it by the time my little brother started getting into his looks and fitness. Trying to be the older brother i wish i had.
Trying to look perfect only makes it more obvious when it Isn't absolutely perfect.
What a great video bro I agree with everything your said It can be really depressed if you think about.
the real original lookmaxing is simply breathing through your nose, not your mouth.
Craniofacial development during childhood makes up half of your beauty in modern society with modern diets. Good craniofacial development = forwardly protruded jaw, defined jawline, compact midface, narrow hunter eyes, hollow cheeks, side cheeks that stick out e.t.c.
The guys on the looksmaxxing forums warning the young kids that wonder on the website remind me of when a young kid (under 12) tries to join edtwt. Everyone else feels like it’s too late for them to ever fully recover so they warn the kids who are just starting to develop an ed because they’re not too far gone.
Actually I had the feeling and was waiting you to make a video about this.
Hope it delivered
6:19,7:18,8:35,8:57,15:22,16:56,17:21-17:42,19:23,20:33,21:21,21:49
Opened a new cole Hastings video just to get mogged
I feel like hardmaxxing (and "self improvement") has gained so much traction because with the world moving faster and faster people can't accept the fact that human body doesn't change as fast as they think it should
I was never insecure like most people. I grew up in different predicaments and talked to others. So, that just led to me not caring half the time.
Narscisim at its best. It will end with people choosing to accept how they look.
Yeah discovering this is making me think I'm a narcissist, I wish I could just forget about this, I'd rather just absorbed with following God instead of making my looks my god
Yes we do it for ego
@@klutchedup9real asf
People need to think about the golden mean, neither over do looks maxing to an unhealthy or become a Lizzo
Ok, one more thing I thought of so I came back to comment this. I admit that I will be more quick to follow someone on social media that looks attractive or has looks that I deem attractive. But it hardly ever lasts because of the lack of substance they have to offer. And the ones I follow despite the way they look is because they actually enrich my life with values beyond anything that sole attractiveness could ever offer.
Doesn't matter. Your follow and if a few hundred people do the same thing as you can lead to someone getting recognition or a career or money from social media. Meanwhile the ugly dude who is actually entertaining has either a much slower start or doesnt start up at all.
I'm sorry, but I can't feel bad for people who automatically think I'm ugly due to my skin color
it's literally brainrot
Like most content produced from short form
Face reveal ??
Brainrotmaxxing
cole is white, tall, average face with a wide frame. he's a 6 minimum, keep that in mind while listening to someone talk about looks. the well-fed never understand the hungry.
Exactly. A better looking Asian man gets far less women than Cole does. All this video did was prove the looks max communities point. You never see ugly men making these videos.
If he wasn't tall he'd be an incel lmao
@@TiktokBro154 true lol
he said why looks are moer important than ever. the well fed can understand the hungry
We're living in a barbie world.
as a 15 year old guy who lost 40lbs this is stupid i prefer health over looks now since dying because i went under the knife for surgery is not what you want on your grave
dont diet when you are young it will greatly stunt your growth long term, eat in a caloric surplus and do physical activities(you can go to the gym but dont lift heavy)
I don’t understand why suddenly the notion that women too prioritise looks over any other attribute and men are trying to improve their looks to increase their chances in dating as standards get progressively higher and higher is taboo. It’s widely accepted that men prioritise looks in women, and thus have products to improve their appearance (makeup, etc), so why can’t men increase theirs without ridicule? I know people think face ratings are weird but at the end of the day certain ratios on faces are objectively attractive. People in general only care about and will treat you according to looks, something I learnt the hard way, both good and bad. I went from being seen as a loser to then getting direct compliments on my looks once I started taking care of myself. It sucks the way the world is, but we live in it at the end of the day, you might as well try to play by the rules.
What an amazing video! thank you so much!
Hard maxing is pure depression fuel, i would need hundreds of thousands dollars to make meaningful changes with surgeries height, jaw, face symmetry
And some random guy got a wide jaw for no reason
Never began
@@FarazTheMindfullwomp womp
I have one thing to be depressed it is my underbite (It is medically confirmed). I'll have double jaw surgery after 2 months
You got few things wrong. Hard maxing is only spending money on surgeries or fillers or some cosmetic procedures but softmaxxing is mewing, chewing and and jelqing
Love yourself the way God created you. Yes you can find natural ways to improve yourself like with skin care, good hygiene, haircut, etc. but dont become obsessed with your looks to the point where you neglect showing compassion and love to others or you start comparing yourself to others..
Learn to smile a lot. It lights up the face. It is the best looksmaxxer and the best attire accessory. Smile pays!
Not if you have crooked and crowded teeth due to malformed jaw, a problem for millions of people.
I was cute til about 12, ugly all through puberty, and finally became a chad around 18.
Looksmaxxing is the darkside of having attention at every moment of ones life.
I'm soooooo Glad I'm not obsess with the pretty boy trend. I'm completely free for it.
Than again I am a total introvert, the last thing I want is attention.
I once knew a woman who was the girlfriend to relatively chubby guy but he was still pretty good looking. I guess attraction is subjective!
Attraction for majority of parts is objective.
I hope you realize there are some type of women who deliberately choose unattractive partners, thats because they want to always be seen as the most attravtive partner and these type of women would hate it if their partner is.more attractive than them.
Subjectivity is influenced by culture for example.
In some countries it's seen good if a woman is obese, others no
@@ksilofo Hey I guess it someway there’s that less competition in some way shape or form in a dating perspective. Of course the culture stuff in one way to think about it.
Fun Fact: I look like so many characters from both video-games and anime, and here I never knew I had look-alikes especially from video-games and animes together
That means you need to try make yourself as attractive as possible be best version of self
Very good and important video from you my brother 👌🏽
Thanks brother
Cole I love youmax.
As someone whi does soft lookmaxxing and mewing. I never knew of that side of the lookmaxxing community and I dont think its as common as you think.
Bro this has existed for a veeeery long time
Looksmaxing is good alsong as you don’t obsess over it and also improve yourself in other aspects of life
Also mewing is soft maxing not hard maxing it’s just having proper tongue posture
Terrific video
Wake up mom, Cole Hastings just uploaded!
13:14 cosmetic surgeries are strictly prohibited in Islam, including fillers. Only corrective procedures for health reasons are allowed.
There’s two type of anime pfps. The semi sane ones or the insecure ones
I can never judge a looksmaxxer
Unless you are fine with surgeries or smashing your face in so it melds 'better', the best you can do is enhance your natural features.
Shitty Tiktok and Reels increased that 😢🤬
Looks ARE everything, unfortunately
They are important, but they are not everything. Too reductionist of a statement
@@ColeHastingsI think they’re a lot more important than you imply in this video.
I see far too many people live incredible lives due to their appearance / genetics, and far too many people with mediocre or crappy lives due to their genetics.
Most of the “looksmaxxers” you were talking about on that website are people that were probably dealt shit genetics and refuse to give up on life without a fight. Too me that’s a lot more admirable than throwing in the towel 🤷🏽♂️
@ColeHastings Cole if you didn't look the way you do then would you keep making these videos?
@@ColeHastings If you were a balding sub 5 subhuman you wouldnt be making videos😅
@@eanderson9599 Imagine having great genetics and then your face gets destroyed by your environment
People need to know that they are only temporary stewards in life.
The thing jelqmaxxing actually works. I have thousands of 🐔 that has seen growth but it takes 2-3 years for1.25 inches growth thats maxx you can do girth its upto you.
Mewing also works.
You did just a tad bit above the surface level research cole but some of things like bome smashing is stupid doing surgeries is stupid.
But there are something you can do. its upto you in the end to action
I am pretty sure mewing doesn't work at my age anymore (mid 20's) for improving facial features, but I guess it's worth doing for other benefits. And if it happens to improve facial features down the line that's a nice bonus
Awesome video
All i want is to be lean, Don't care about looksmaxx
Mewing works, at least it is for me and I am 42 years old. I have been doing it for a little over 2 months and my haw line is way better, my cheek bones are more chiseled and my under eye support is better, my teeth are stronger and straighter and my double chin is almost gone.
KIDOLOGY MENTIONED!
Hi men, your inner beauty radiates. You can't hide it from those who see. And we respond. Much love to you
Nobody talks about the other side of being "extremely attractive". You let go of yourself, shave your head bald because you can't handle the pressure that comes with it. It's mentally tiring getting attention everytime you go out I just want to feel normal & treated like a normal person
Chico Lachowski is an example of this
I had that treatment for 2 yrs of my life. Felt like a leper. No joke, took a major bump to my mental health. Couldnt even have a normal dining in a restaurant without people staring and looking hypnotized. It definitely should be talked more how we need beautiful people to be respected in their privacy.
Privelege is invisible to those who have it@@fauberkaupfmann982
This is like billionaires saying they're on the same boat as everyone else
@@Alanpoeta I know but it's the truth. The only perk is that I can apply for any job, say that I didn't finish college or high school...and i still get the job
Hey Cole, waht's your opinion on leg lengthening surgery? And would you do a video about it?
It's probably hard to relate for you at 6'2.
But I have empathy for guys who are like 5'5 or shorter and are living in europe for example.
I live in Scandinavia where the average male height is just shy of 6ft (182cm) and I feel tiny being 5'8.
I don't know if this topic is relevant enough for you to make a whole video about it, but I would definitely be interrested
Too specific for me to make a whole video on. I personally think it's very dangerous and not worth the benefits, though I am biased.
It's like steroids, or lying on your resume. It's fake. It won't provide you with lasting satisfaction.
You HAVE to accept your circumstances to ever get anywhere.
It's really dangerous
5'3 guy here. I would do it in a heartbeat if I had the money, full stop.
I will give you a advice do it with paley he has a 100% track record with the exception of one post in a forum, even then the probability of dying in a plane is probably greater than getting botched by him, you can get 6 inches with 200k, moneymaxx and do it, iam from a rquite rich family if I could black pill my parents I would do it, fortunately iam young and I am right now average height at my country@@bro918
"men being perceived as more attractive when they have a bit of wrinkles on their face"
lmao no, cope grandpa