This was great and very educational. The flawed ways of handling sessions are hilarious and the client is great about letting the counselor know she not getting her right.
that is sometimes known as incorrect questioning. it is used to help the client clarify and correct what it was that they said or to reiterate themselves to clarify the point.
Think this is the correct order: 0:06 Attending - Flawed Open & Closed Reflection of Feeling Confrontation Encouraging, Paraphrasing, Summarizing Empathy Mutual Goal Setting
This is an excellent demonstration of what and what not to do, regarding basic counseling skills. I will be using this in my Introduction to Counseling class which I teach at Germanna Community College in Virginia.
This was great! I’m currently in a Rehabilitation Counseling Graduate program and I have to do a 45 min counseling session to show how I demonstrate the counseling Mircoskills. I love the example of what not to do at 10:00 min I could not stop laughing!
Love this. One minor observation though: I do think there is a fine line on the confronting a client about laughter. Everyone copes with traumatic things differently and some do it with laughter and humor. I think a counsellor needs to be very careful not to invalidate that style of coping because this actually a VERY healthy coping mechanism and should not be dismissed. The correct example is still better than the incorrect one, but I still wonder if such a thing NEEDED to be confronted about at all.) (I'm going to bring up this point in my counselling class on Friday, as we were assigned this video, and I think it would encourage a thoughtful discussion on the subject.)
nah, youre right. the confrontation examples were totally wrong and that section of the video is ridiculous. so... if someone ever decides to rerecord the video, they should think HARD about it sksk
In videos like this one which show a correct way to do something and an incorrect way to do something so that you can know what to shoot for and what to avoid, I never have understood the point of including "incorrect" examples which were so flawed that no one would do them in real life. For example, when the therapist is "empathizing" with her client and she keeps saying the opposite of what she says. What would be a therapist's motivation for making that mistake in the first place? I feel like there would be room for the video to teach its audience more if the negative examples were more realistic. Some of the negative examples were realistic. Like I could see how a therapist might go a little overboard with the self-disclosure in real life. And I've had therapists who have just bombarded me with options like she does in the negative example of "mutual goal setting" instead of honing in on where I was and what I would be capable of. So I thought that those negative examples were effective in achieving the objective of this video. But I couldn't say the same for all of them.
Exactly. But I think they had to exaggerate the differences a bit for us to understand what not to do. This video could have been more helpful if a background explanation were given to verbally differentiate to us how the realistic cons examples differ from the realistic pros/to do examples.
Is it a comedy session, I really enjoyed it. In fact loved, I need some one who can tease me like her, I am bored with my surroundings.☹️🙃 but I am happy.
I am not sure why it was ok for the counselor to make a self-disclosure (the correct part). I felt like the counselor would not share that she was cheated on, not even a little bit?.. It seems like TMI if it's about the counselor and her private life...
I think the issue of self-disclosure might be helpful for clients who may be struggling to open up in the therapeutic setting. A counselor may choose to self-disclose to gain the client’s trust or help build a rapport. Simply put: level the playing field. I’m human just like you are.
Same. I think an appropriate self-disclosure would be "I truly understand how heart-wrenching it is for us to get cheated on, it makes people feel betrayed. I hate the feeling of betrayal as well and I can only imagine how much you must be affected right now by this recent incident". That would be more appropriate.
It would vary per case. It would make sense with some clients and not others. One client might be struggling to feel comfortable with the therapist, so they may self disclose to help build trust. obviously not to carry on about it. but to share a similar situation to show that what they clients dealing with is OK to talk about
It’s very disrespectful that the phone has been placed around and ringing and not paying so much attention to the client . Don’t wanna continue watching this video
You clearly appear not to understand the concept of this video to illustrate what not to do before portraying the correct behavior. I am sorry you missed out on the educational potential from this video. Hopefully, you give the video another shot?
You LGBT people always want the world to only revolve around you. You people want everything to be about the LGBT, even a simple video you wanted to them to talk about LGBT. I get it the world we live in is full of you people but the whole world wont be gays, lesbians, transgenders.
This is so funny, but so informative at the same time.
This was great and very educational. The flawed ways of handling sessions are hilarious and the client is great about letting the counselor know she not getting her right.
that is sometimes known as incorrect questioning. it is used to help the client clarify and correct what it was that they said or to reiterate themselves to clarify the point.
This is a great video on demonstrating attending skills! Very helpful!
Think this is the correct order:
0:06 Attending - Flawed
Open & Closed
Reflection of Feeling
Confrontation
Encouraging, Paraphrasing, Summarizing
Empathy
Mutual Goal Setting
also Self Disclosure
This is an excellent demonstration of what and what not to do, regarding basic counseling skills. I will be using this in my Introduction to Counseling class which I teach at Germanna Community College in Virginia.
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This is an awesome and informative video. I was led here by a link in my masters program.
This is great! Thank you for putting this together to help others in the study of counseling. Thank you, thank you!
This was great! I’m currently in a Rehabilitation Counseling Graduate program and I have to do a 45 min counseling session to show how I demonstrate the counseling Mircoskills. I love the example of what not to do at 10:00 min I could not stop laughing!
Lol
Thanks so much! I use this in the Counselling Techniques class I facilitate in Jamaica. Nuff thanks! :-)
Verrrry helpful while preparing for my techniques class. Thank you!
"Do you ever get on Pinterest?" That made me laugh way too hard lol
Great input about what do to and avoid for a effective therapy
This is
very educative for a counselor in training
I am very happy to hear this - that is my hope.
Love this. One minor observation though: I do think there is a fine line on the confronting a client about laughter. Everyone copes with traumatic things differently and some do it with laughter and humor. I think a counsellor needs to be very careful not to invalidate that style of coping because this actually a VERY healthy coping mechanism and should not be dismissed. The correct example is still better than the incorrect one, but I still wonder if such a thing NEEDED to be confronted about at all.)
(I'm going to bring up this point in my counselling class on Friday, as we were assigned this video, and I think it would encourage a thoughtful discussion on the subject.)
nah, youre right. the confrontation examples were totally wrong and that section of the video is ridiculous. so... if someone ever decides to rerecord the video, they should think HARD about it sksk
totally agree. it felt like the counselor was scolding her for coping.
its a good introduction to good counselling .
loved it! amazing example for what not to do!!!
Must have been such fun filming this. How did you get through the filming without bursting into laughter!? 😅
The beginning.. That's every single one of my "friends" to a T. Pretending to want to listen.
I enjoyed the video..thank you so much!!!
Thank you so much for this, I have learned a lot! :)
Great video!
The client said she has a husband and a boyfriend :-) Freudian slip :-)
Maybe she has both :-)
Thank you for the tips
I am happy to hear that you found them helpful!
In videos like this one which show a correct way to do something and an incorrect way to do something so that you can know what to shoot for and what to avoid, I never have understood the point of including "incorrect" examples which were so flawed that no one would do them in real life.
For example, when the therapist is "empathizing" with her client and she keeps saying the opposite of what she says.
What would be a therapist's motivation for making that mistake in the first place?
I feel like there would be room for the video to teach its audience more if the negative examples were more realistic.
Some of the negative examples were realistic. Like I could see how a therapist might go a little overboard with the self-disclosure in real life. And I've had therapists who have just bombarded me with options like she does in the negative example of "mutual goal setting" instead of honing in on where I was and what I would be capable of.
So I thought that those negative examples were effective in achieving the objective of this video. But I couldn't say the same for all of them.
Exactly. But I think they had to exaggerate the differences a bit for us to understand what not to do. This video could have been more helpful if a background explanation were given to verbally differentiate to us how the realistic cons examples differ from the realistic pros/to do examples.
Is it a comedy session, I really enjoyed it. In fact loved, I need some one who can tease me like her, I am bored with my surroundings.☹️🙃 but I am happy.
Let me put away my cell phone. --farts--
I am not sure why it was ok for the counselor to make a self-disclosure (the correct part). I felt like the counselor would not share that she was cheated on, not even a little bit?.. It seems like TMI if it's about the counselor and her private life...
I think the issue of self-disclosure might be helpful for clients who may be struggling to open up in the therapeutic setting. A counselor may choose to self-disclose to gain the client’s trust or help build a rapport. Simply put: level the playing field. I’m human just like you are.
Same. I think an appropriate self-disclosure would be "I truly understand how heart-wrenching it is for us to get cheated on, it makes people feel betrayed. I hate the feeling of betrayal as well and I can only imagine how much you must be affected right now by this recent incident". That would be more appropriate.
It would vary per case. It would make sense with some clients and not others. One client might be struggling to feel comfortable with the therapist, so they may self disclose to help build trust. obviously not to carry on about it. but to share a similar situation to show that what they clients dealing with is OK to talk about
Good reminder on how we shall not work with cliant ;-)...
It’s very disrespectful that the phone has been placed around and ringing and not paying so much attention to the client . Don’t wanna continue watching this video
Do you understand this video is showing what not to do and then what to do? Lol.
You clearly appear not to understand the concept of this video to illustrate what not to do before portraying the correct behavior. I am sorry you missed out on the educational potential from this video. Hopefully, you give the video another shot?
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so many interruptions, counselor not being attentive to patient's needs at all.
+1 οποίοι ήρθαν από Ίσαρη 😅
🤣 hahaha
Always boy cheats huh?🤔😒
I know right, no LGBTQ+ representation. These women could have been with women.
You LGBT people always want the world to only revolve around you. You people want everything to be about the LGBT, even a simple video you wanted to them to talk about LGBT. I get it the world we live in is full of you people but the whole world wont be gays, lesbians, transgenders.