Someone Leaked my Job...and it Sucked.
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
- When my job was leaked it was a scary time for me - here is that experience.
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When my job was leaked it was a scary time for me - here is that experience. I was worried for a while I might lose my main source of income and be exposed to harassment. This is a digital essay about why leaking private information about others is a serious, and not acceptable, action.
Sending virtual hugs ❤❤❤
I'm sorry that this happened to you ;-;
Im so sorry this happened and am very proud of the way you handled it lots of love to you
Hugs and kisses stay strong ma girl
I'm so sorry that you have been harrassed. How dare anyone try to hurt you and your wife! I think you two are freaking beautiful human beings! Sending love and positivity your way. ⭐🌈🦋❤
I never knew you were a flight attendant, until I met you on a flight. xD But I'm sorry someone has made you feel unsafe and made you no longer want to do what you love.
I HOPE I WAS A GOOD FLIGHT ATTENDANT. I know I've met a couple people stressed and sick and I always worry that I didn't make it an awesome experience. Thanks for flying [insert airline here] though! lol XP
@@HeyThere005 It was an amazing flight, and I enjoyed meeting you!
@@patienceisntkey Whew! Yay, so happy to hear that :)
Me too
I didn’t know you said something in one video tho and I just assumed it was some office/call rep job
I thought I recognized you on a flight but I didn't want to distract you and knew you kept your job secret. Wish I'd at least said hi though
SHUCKS. I did love when folks said hi...belated hi hi hi :)
I flew a lot at my past job. Thought I seen you. But I was working as well.
Sebastian Blackbourne you’re a good man...or woman,you’re a good person!
I don't think it ever occurred to me to really sit down and work out what Ash's job was. Every time they talked about it, my brain just supplied a stock photo of Vague Gray Cubical Corporate Office™ and copy pasted them into it. I'm so sorry your job was leaked Ash and I hope you and Grayson are well now.
I dont think I ever tried to guess Ash's job. Once heard corporate I assumed Dunder Mifflin
Negasonic I assumed substitute teacher 😅
I thought she was a waitress/worked in catering
I thought some kind of office/business/sales environment
I thought she was a youtuber...
She’s not a youtuber ?
I knew they were in customer service (due to a uniform mention previously), but I had no idea it was such a high-flying position...
Too soon sweetheart. Too soon. 😂
ba dum tsss
Definitely make a video of your plane stories
Owen Hexley oh 100% I wanna hear these ❤️
Oh please ash do it. I wanna hear them so bad.
If she wants it would be fun to hear. :)
"Boundries are healthy" this is why Ash is one of the most important RUclipsrs.
Tattooed Merman This is a big fact
oml i never seen a tattooed merman before waaaaaahhhhhh so majestic 😮😮😮
Boundaries
@@accaliaferger2319 is she tho?
I relate to this so much. I’m an English tutor and my channel is very small so I never thought it would be a problem. However, one day (when I was working in Korea) I showed up to work and was fired. I was not told why I was fired. After speaking with coworkers, I realized that being openly lesbian on the internet was a “bad look” for my company. South Korea is not a fun place to be gay. I have a great life now in Taiwan. Discriminating against gay people is illegal here.
That's messed up. Glad Taiwan is working out for you!
Proud Taiwanese here!!
Sorry to hear what you had to go through 😢
Hope you have a blast here in Taiwan!!
Holy crap! Liking this comment to boost, but this makes me so sad. I am deeply sorry that happened to you.
I was 100% you were a programmer! I have no idea why but in my mind they were a quiet snazzy programmer!
OH THAT WOULD BE RAD. but no, lol.
That's exactly what I pictured too.
I imagined ash being a wildlife researcher or a an epic pro surfer but ya know a flight assistant is still pretty neat i bet ash made the best flight attendant out there
I honestly thought Ash was a therapist 🤔
Haha that’s exactly what I thought!! I would have never guessed flight attendant. 😛
Pretzel distribution. Very important.
Very, VERY important.
Becky Owen yeeeeees veeeeery important
I prefer cashews, for less crumbs.
Those photoshopped pictures made me SO angry... How can people be so rude to people who did nothing wrong! I'm sorry this happened to you ash, love you
I don't know why I'm so shocked that Ash was a flight attendant... I always pictured a boring desk job whenever work came up in a video.
Hearing the word “corporate” I always thought you had a desk job... hmm 😂
Me too lol
Thinking back on one of Ash's past videos, about their uniform, I think this actually makes a fair amount of sense. The ultra feminine outfit, vs the more masculine one.
Haha I thought they worked at FedEx or UPS corporate offices
Angelina Grosenick
Same.
I always imagined Ash sitting at a desk taking calls for a company.
I kinda thought the same. Or some sort of digital and graphic design job. Flight attendant never even crossed my mind. 😂
I'll point out that someone has disliked the video before it has even started
Like, why?
I don’t get it....people on the internet are usually so reasonable, and make sure to really hear people out before making a judgement
It was the person that leaked Ash's job 🗿
Yea...this is a normal thing that happens to me, weee :)
@@HeyThere005 it sucks that it does its probably someone who just dosen't like the content you make but the good thing is you have a lot of people who do
You know what? That video you made on you switching to the men's uniform makes a lot more sense more!
yes yes.. 😍 but i dunno why when Ash posted that I was imagining that they are flight attendant
"I fear this will become beef instead of a meaningful conversation."
I will definitely use this in real conversation
"we have decided to not put our future children online"
Me: *nodding head* mmhmm.. WAIT
Edit: WOWZA thanks for the likes😅
:)
Same.
"Jup, great parenting, good desicion... hmm...
...
DID THEY JUST SAY CHILDREN?!"
They'll both be such good parents! (Even though they already have furchildren XD)
@@HeyThere005 That doesn't get to be taken as an announcement though - does it!? You've already talked about that as a *plan* - we can't read anything more or less into that. Surely? (And ugh - are you comfortable with Airplane jokes? Because I was tempted.)
But we already saw the fur child
I’m sorry that you had this experience. As an old, retired college professor who, for nearly 40 years, tried to create and BE a Safe Zone for all my LGBTQ+ students, it always greatly saddens me to learn how badly people are treated. While I worked very hard all during my career as a psychologist to learn as much about the diverse population I served, finding reliable info about trans persons was difficult at best. Had to learn from only a very few students......
I value enormously your contribution to the education of us all. Yours is the very first RUclips channel I found to help educate me. I do hope that you will continue this work in some way & keep us all up to date on how you intend to do this.
Your gift of yourself is deeply cherished.
Eric Gamble you are a sweetheart! Gd bless you! ❤️🌈
Ok... am I the only one who immediately thought "ohh my gosh they have the voice" (the classic "thank you for flying, buh bye now" flight attendant voice)
ugh. i'm really sorry this happened to you. you were working on a flight I was on once and I didn't say hi because as someone who also does internet and a day job i would probably freak out if someone brought up my internet presence while I was at work, so sending you that delayed hello now.
Hi Taylor
Hey Ash,
I’m so sorry that you have to go through this experience. And i hope the best for you.
Flight attendant makes sense, it's a great cover for Ash's true job - Spy/Secret Agent!!
Also sorry to hear someone shared that info.
Someone once told everyone that I was trans (which is actually true) but I was by no means ready AT ALL to tell ANYONE and i lost all of my friends going into high school
It feels awful when people expose you like that. It's like being naked and not knowing if you're surrounded by armed and shielded enemies.
I was not expecting that AT ALL 0:53 I thought it would be more officey
My guess was a 9-5 office job, about taxes or medical stuff. So cool to learn you did something so unique!!
You could change the name of AshandGraceSpace to AshandGraysonStation
Did grace change their name to Grayson?
@@altatudeanimations8059 I am pretty sure
"I'm trans......... if you're new....."
Best. Moment.
I am new and that comment was what I was looking for so I didn't misgender them, thanks😂
Oh Ash I'm so sorry this happened. I never saw or heard about this which I suppose is a good thing but can only imagine how scary this was for you. I really hope this never happens again to you. Thank you for being open to talking about such a difficult & personal topic. Take care & stay awesome.
🖤💜💛🗯
Really happy that you stress how dangerous it is to leak people's private jobs.
To further spread this beyond youtube spheres, it is also super dangerous to share not only a person's job but also their shifts/schedules!! There are so many cases of abusive partners/family and stalkers hurting people out of their jobs by gaining access to their schedule!
I knew women on the job (24/7, scheduled by quarter hour, 3 to 8 hour tours) who were injured and a few killed by exes because someone "helpfully" gave out their schedule over the phone. An idiot told my mother when I got off saying "But she's your mother!" (A. She said she was my mother, but... B. By that time managers were afraid of my mother, and guards knew her by sight. C. Federal law disallowed such information given out.) People can be stupid and vicious, either or both.
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Honestly, a flight attendant was probably the last thing I’d have expected you to be doing. I’m now trying to imagine the surprise and excitement I’d have felt if I’d have been on a plane and saw the flight attendant and it was you. But I’m really sorry that someone has done this and made you feel unsafe
I like how you make videos.
Wow - I was 95% convinced you were actually an ASL interpreter for a company that contracted with corporate clients! Why, might you ask? You always said you had a very customer/client facing position with a more rigid dress code, and you can't wear items that distract from your signs/communication as an interpreter. Additionally, you had to take off work when you broke your wrist. I even think I remember Grayson mentioning in passing you teaching them some signs once in a video. lol
I thought that for a while to however where I live interpreters just usually need to wear black or white, something that's not distracted and the men in the women don't need to wear different clothes so the one video ruled out that for me
Those hate accounts actually broke my heart 💔 How ANYONE can say anything awful about Ash is beyond me.
TL Travel Here’s something nice about this woman. I HATE her at a cellular level. She embodies everything that’s wrong with this country. It’s because of people like her that President Trump won and will win in 2020. This behavior of hers is not acceptable and the rest of the country will not adopt. She is a poison that will eventually destroy herself and anyone close to her. Oops! I didn’t use her preferred pronouns. Everything about her and people that support her makes the 97% of us SICK!
@@robert_costello So sad to hear that - you are missing out on some great content & a fantastic community of people. I can't say that I agree with you, but as with everyone I respect your right to free speech and hope that in the future you can find a way to respect those that are different from you. Open and honest conversation is the first step towards understanding, so while I do think you could have been a touch kinder with you words ... I will respect that your opinion is your own & simply hope that one day you have the opportunity to feel love for everyone that makes up your beautiful country (not just those that align with your own personal views).
Robert Costello calm down, snowflake
Robert Costello I think you should seek some medical help....
In hindsight, leaving the airline industry before 2020 was actually a really good move.
I like how "pet care" was higher on the list than "food" in terms of things you needed your job to pay for.
"I hate the word influencer"
I've heard so many influencers say that. It usually shows that they are the good kind of influencer.
I prefer to think of them as ‘story tellers’.
Omg Ash, I had no idea you get so much hate. How awful of this perosn to leak your job, why can't people just mind thier own business. I feel your pain though, I was there once. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
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The whole Anti-Ash memes and accounts make me feel completely devastated 😭 I’m so sorry. It literally makes no sense as to why people care so much or hate someone/something that doesn’t affect them directly.
I remember you telling me over our perk Skype chat. I’m sorry this happened. And when you told me, I always hoped I’d run into you in the air. Now my dreams are shattered. But I would never dream of telling someone else’s business to the internet. I just wanted to get some Biscoffs from someone I had a nice conversation with. 🤷🏻♀️
SO messed up on SO many levels. I wish you all the best. You’re such a sweet and compassionate person. I bought your book to help my newly “out” 16 year old granddaughter and I communicate.
.HUGS✨💗✨Grandma Lisa
What a wonderful grandmother! ❤️
You’re a very good grandmother Lisa !!
*gasp* are you gonna be a therapist?
..................................
:)
@@HeyThere005 :D
@@HeyThere005 I am a therapist and I think I read most of those books in grad school, just sayin :D
Ash! That's so great. I have no doubts you'll do wonderful and be an amazing therapist. You have such a compassionate, loving personality. Not to mention your experience in LGBTQ issues and people is SUPER valuable. Aaah! It makes me happy as someone who wants to do the same
@@HeyThere005 I'd talk to u about my problems... :')
I was once on a plane that you were working on. I didn't think that it was appropriate to cause a scene by freaking out and fangirling. I'm sorry that you have been disrespected like this. Also, thanks for the drinks on the flight 😉.
Life with Lala and Ru i felt this way when I served jazz Jennings mom at my restaurant she was with Noelle’s mom and some friends and I felt it would be rude to make a big deal about her being at my table especially because I was working and it would’ve been unprofessional of me
I remember you telling me two years ago and I couldn't believe how you'd managed to keep it private for so long. Really sorry to hear this
If their energy to hate was put in something useful, all problems on Earth would be solved
Whose energy to hate?
Well, people wouldn't have to deal with the problems those people create at the very least. :/
Ash even though there are jerks that do stupid crap remember that you have a community full of love and support and you have helped millions. Hope you feel better ❤❤❤
It's sad to hear your privacy was violated. I cannot imagine anyone not liking you!! You are smart, down to earth, always informative and a pleasure to watch. I am thankful I found your YT channel. Keep the great videos coming!
You make content that helps a lot of people, this person included. You should not have to deal with this from others. I am sorry that you do. You deserve better. Hopefully, by sharing some of your experiences you can help yet more people.
Omg i need your glasses btw your amazing ash and deserve so much better than this
awkward emo raisin those glasses are really nice for real
I've always wondered what ash's job was but I would never ever go out of my way to figure it out or even bother asking
I’ve watched over thirty of your videos, and I like them and you, but this is BY FAR the best one you’ve ever published. You’re so well spoken, easy to follow, and beyond all, you’re RIGHT. I hope people respect you moving forward.
I'm so sorry that someone did this to you. Having worked in the service industry I know how vulnerable you are to the opinions of rando crazy people. I'm glad to hear you're doing better. Please take care and know that your followers love and support you.
I just love the casual dropping of Gray's new name
Yuval Nehemia I thought I was the only one who noticed😂
This is kinda cool to hear about what your job was finally. I was hopeful that you were a secret ice cream reviewer though!! Thanks for handling this in a super mature and great way
Eudora J. E. I don’t think she would need a uniform for that 😂
*they
@@hazelm6663 as far as I know, he likes all the pronouns used interchangeably
Eudora J. E. I don’t think they like being called she
i dont get how people can hate such a wonderful, positive, kind, and strong person.
You are incredibly courageous and so articulate when discussing something this stressful ! Thank you for sharing, we love you !
Have I been curious? Yes. Have I rolled guesses around my head? Totally! (Esp when Ash talked about wearing a uniform). Have some of my guesses in my head *actually* come close? I’m weirdly proud to say yes 😂😂 But ultimately, I respect Ash as a human and it’s their right to privacy!!
HOORAY for boundaries! HOORAY for consent!! HOORAY for blaming the persecutor, NOT the victim.
Ash, I am glad to hear that you are safe and settled in this moment. I’m sorry you went through that. It sounds like it sucked. Blehechh.
AND A APPRECIATE YOU FOR ALL THAT!!!!!!!!!
I'm sorry that you were put into such a difficult and tense situation. I hope that this video can help some people who have issues understanding that boundaries do and SHOULD exist, just how important it is to have some privacy.
You could've rightfully made this video a rant, a complaint, a hate video, or anything of that nature. But instead you made it a learning experience to teach, save, and protect others. We need more people like you, Ash. Much love!
I don't think I want to "make it," if it comes at that price. You are a brave wonderful young person and I am happy that you are being strong.
Oh wow, you really changed my view on this. Thank you. I'm sorry this is normalized and thank you for bringing it up and putting everything so eloquently! ❤️
Talk abote invasion of privacy
I am so grateful for your level of maturity and self-awareness in times when way too many people blatantly disrespect basic stuff. Really sorry that you had to make this experience, as I can so imagine and relate to someone violating your boundaries and choices of privacy. Wishing you all the best for the future (:
Fully agree, Ash! I am so sorry to hear you experienced this! If we could only show support and respect! I wish you well in your future.
Hey Ash. I'm so sorry that this has happened. You are so amazing and you don't deserve this💜
That is...terrifying. I am so sorry this rando was such a prick. I wish you nothing but the best.xoxo
I'm not asking to be hateful towards them or anything, I'm just curious. Who was the RUclipsr that leaked Ash's job?
@@OurLadyOfSorrows4 no idea
@@OurLadyOfSorrows4 I think it was Storm Ryan. He has a large following and had a video titled something like "Why People Hate Ash Hardell" which seems to be down now as well, which matches what they say in this video
@@wrenreviewer5370 I think you're right.
I am so sorry to hear this. I am new to your blog and so enjoy it. You are so articulate and so genuine. I greatly appreciate you and hope that things are on the upswing career wise!!!
So sorry your private job info was outed. It's really a credit to your courage for you to share this incident. Good for you and keep up the inspiring work!
Flight attendant, huh? Cool job! I’m very sorry that this happened to you though, I can barely imagine how scary that would be. Much love to you :)
Also, nice glasses
"You do not owe anyone anything that you do not want to share." Preach! As a trans person I have to remind myself that I dont have to be everyone's teacher all the time and I dont have to share the intimate and important aspects of my life just because someone asks or is curious.
Ash, you are such a kind person. You are a ray of sunshine in a world of hatred. You don't deserve any of this, I'm so sorry about the hate. Stay strong, you inspire me to live my life and be a better person.
I'm so glad you're sharing this story. All viewers need to consider this
I’m so sorry this has happened to you Ash. I hope everything ends up working out for you and Grayson. Your videos help me and have really helped recently especially. Best of luck!
I’m sorry this happened to you. One of the things I’ve always admired about you is your ability to be honest and vulnerable about the parts of you that you choose to be, while keeping your boundaries around the rest of your life. It’s something that I’m aspiring to achieve in my own personal relationships.
Cheers to following your dreams! And feeding your floofs, of course 😸😸
I really enjoyed this video, although I'm sorry to hear about your job loss. I've always had the same thought about youtubers and privacy and was so glad to see that you had expressed this very idea! I hope that one day, the internet world will change and become a better and safer place for all. And hopefully, you two may be able to help with that with your platform and wisdom. Love you guys!
I am so sorry your privacy was invaded, and your boundaries cruelly crossed...all the best to you!!
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It’s been awhile since we had a nice beer and chat!!
You have encouraged me to review my privacy settings and batten down the hatches a little more. Thank you for being brave through this challenging ordeal. We're all rooting for you and Grayson!
I was sitting on a flight once and heard a voice I recognized saying something to me...looked up and saw you :) I was too startled to say anything though! My roommate at the time loved you and was disappointed in me when I told her, haha.
People can be awful, you handled this so gracefully. Sorry you had to experience this! You are an amazing speaker that's why we love watching you.
Love you Ash I'm sorry you're dealing with such garbage!
Im so sorry that happened to you but i hope everything is good now xx
This is a fantastic video that goes in great detail. I'm sorry this happened to you. Thank you for explaining everything so clearly!
Ash, I have been watching your videos for years and I am so sorry that someone leaked your job and that there are people out there who treat you and Grace so horribly. You are both so amazing and deserve so much more love and respect. I love you both and hope that everything works out well ❤
Thank you for sharing. Privacy is important and it's terrible that yours was violated.
You make great content and I always appreciate what you share with us.
I'm sorry for this happening to you. You deserve happiness no matter what. I hope your day is better than than what it was.
I'm so sorry for what you have endured on RUclips. It is absolutely not acceptable. You are an inspiration for the wise mature and gracious way you have dealt with it. Well done Ash. Whatever you do from here on in you and Grayson have my support. Hugs xx
I am sorry all this happened to you because situations like these are hard to handle. I love the way you can express how you feel/felt so clearly and how you prepare the build-up of the stories you tell us in your videos. Love and respect from Barcelona ♥️
"The internet is not entitled to know everything about me." Words to live by. Keep Calm & Carry On.
I think u were right in making this video...everyone deserves privacy no matter what...!
I love u and wish u nothing but the best
I'm so sorry Ash. Full support through all this. And you definitely got this 💕
The way people have treated you disgusts me, I'm so sorry
The photoshopping is vile and the exposing of your job must have been so distressing
Idk how anyone can dislike you, even if people don't agree with all of your views, you're such a sweet and genuine person
Ugh, No. I'm so sorry this happened to you. I'm looking forward to part two. You're appreciated and I hope that everyone who watches this video learns something. I feel like I did.
You have been a real inspiration to me. I've learned so much from you and I really enjoy your content.
Thank you for setting a great example!
I am so sorry you had to go through something so stressful and scary. It really bothers me when people just try to make something big about someone else’s business. You handled everything very well❤️🤟🏻
I saw that video. I was under the impression that it was possible that it wasn’t true or at least not true anymore so I didn’t think much of it. Having a lot of family members in that industry, I know how important it was to keep it a secret. You were an authority on flights and if someone harasses you, that can affect everyone’s safety
Could you please tell us who made the video?
I want to know who to avoid supporting in any way...
Omg I’m so sorry that happened to you. That sounds terrible. I hope you feel better. You helped me figure out who I am and thank you. Good luck getting a new job btw. Love you!
Thank you for sharing this experience, I'm so sorry you were put through such a terrifying ordeal :(
You're an amazing human being and I am sorry you had to go through that. Like all your work, I feel like I am coming away with something - of course this is squeegly sense of trepidation as I ponder content creation. Thanks for the warning.
Really sorry this happened. That’s a solid gig but you made something extremely positive out of it. Thank you for a wonderful video essay about over sharing!!!