The HARSH truth about finding your spouse ⏰

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

Комментарии • 39

  • @TheMuslimMarriageCoach
    @TheMuslimMarriageCoach  Месяц назад +3

    ⚠️ If you’re married and your expectations are not being met or you’re single and in need of guidance in finding and choosing a spouse
    🙌 We can help!
    ⬇️ Book a Private Chat (Faceless & 100% Private)
    calendly.com/themuslimmarriagecoach/30min

  • @AdamIdris-le1hf
    @AdamIdris-le1hf Месяц назад +27

    Many of us don’t see Salah as the form of easing our pain and assisting our patience

  • @bushrahussain2361
    @bushrahussain2361 Месяц назад +17

    "We are not here to get what we want we are here to be tested when we don't get what we want"

  • @fawadkhan2953
    @fawadkhan2953 Месяц назад

    one practical tip for the brothers: strive to establish the 5 daily prayers inside the masjid. especially if you have internal problems (with desires, anger etc)
    "Indeed, prayer prohibits immorality and wrongdoing, and the remembrance of Allāh is greater. And Allāh knows that which you do." (Ankabut:45)

  • @nur5475
    @nur5475 Месяц назад +8

    I haven’t heard this perspective before. Jazak’allahu khair. Very beneficial

  • @AR-ds8kr
    @AR-ds8kr Месяц назад +7

    This couldn't have come at a better time. Jzk Khayr

  • @Jenan723
    @Jenan723 Месяц назад +1

    This was such a good reminder. جزاك الله خيرًا

  • @forestsprite30
    @forestsprite30 Месяц назад +2

    This is really excellent advice mashaAllah. May Allah grant you success in this endeavour, my brother.

  • @bushrahussain2361
    @bushrahussain2361 Месяц назад +4

    Subhan'Allah us humankind are ungrateful thank you for this reality check may Allah reward you ameen

  • @Andalusiway
    @Andalusiway Месяц назад +4

    I think indeed we forget that prayer should be a tranquility in the nafs. Instead of just this mandatory obligation. SubhanAllah. This dunya is so temporary. Even me writing this right now, in a split second I could be dyong and nothing will be worth it but your deeds. Your good deeds. May Allah bless you.

  • @HappyQCoins
    @HappyQCoins Месяц назад +1

    JazakumAllah khair for such a beneficial reminder.

  • @here.alhana
    @here.alhana Месяц назад

    ما فيه شي يصبرني قد " أَحَسِبَ النَّاسُ أَنْ يُتْرَكُوا أَنْ يَقُولُوا آَمَنَّا وَهُمْ لَا يُفْتَنُونَ "

  • @mufasahm8238
    @mufasahm8238 Месяц назад +1

    May Allah love you & reward you immensely Ameen. Thank you for your generous advise 🌷

  • @riomuscat
    @riomuscat Месяц назад

    Beautiful voice
    Alhamdulliah 3k 🚀

  • @hamisisalmah8764
    @hamisisalmah8764 Месяц назад +2

    Brother I have given up completely but I still love Allah swt and accept his kadr that i might never find a spouse in this Dunia ihv tried so many times I am tried

    • @TheMuslimMarriageCoach
      @TheMuslimMarriageCoach  Месяц назад +7

      The test is to see if you keep trust in Allah or you give up
      The test is there to get you closer to Allah, otherwise if Allah gives you everything you want, when you want it, there is no gratefulness to it
      Allah uses test to distinguish the believers and their levels
      Constant dua and istikhara are the weapons
      Shaydan wants you to despair and lose hope
      Keep trying and either Allah will give you what you want or will replace it with something better.
      You cannot be sad, there’s no room for sadness. The equation is perfect for mankind

    • @RoyRoy-pl8ev
      @RoyRoy-pl8ev Месяц назад

      Wallahi one of the most deepest things I’ve ever heard.jazakaAllah brother

  • @janetjatta7945
    @janetjatta7945 Месяц назад

    Beautiful voice

  • @theBakinNoob
    @theBakinNoob Месяц назад

    Very true! I needed to hear that, BarakAllahu feek!

  • @tehreemraza123
    @tehreemraza123 Месяц назад +2

    Another thing to focus upon is that interaction of Non-Mehrams is strictly forbidden. So finding a spouse isn't something you need to put in 100 percent effort for, like finding jobs. Since we already have a limited room to stretch our efforts in. So in reality, a lot of it is just Allah providing us from ghaib. Also Allah has used the word ''hubb" for marital relationships, which implies it's a gift by Allah that doesn't require a lot of effort.
    Guys please just trust Allah and His plan for you. When Allah decrees you to find your spouse, they'll drop smack dab from the sky. Don't worry!

    • @fawadkhan2953
      @fawadkhan2953 Месяц назад

      Jazakumullahu Khairan for the reminder

  • @khalidnur6669
    @khalidnur6669 Месяц назад

    Very beneficial 💯

  • @rodaisa7274
    @rodaisa7274 Месяц назад

    Jazakalkhair for this video

  • @mimmss6556
    @mimmss6556 Месяц назад

    Jazakallahu khairan

  • @BlueBlue23
    @BlueBlue23 Месяц назад +1

    I am open to Polygyny but men are not really brave enough to tell their first wives

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 Месяц назад +1

      Maybe their wives don't want it .

    • @TheMuslimMarriageCoach
      @TheMuslimMarriageCoach  Месяц назад +4

      My biggest advice when speaking to somebody who is already married is if they’re not prepared to tell their wife and introduce her to you (islamically they don’t have to do this) then you getting married to him will be a very stressful relationship and he is most likely running from his current relationship and that is not something you can afford to get into

    • @BlueBlue23
      @BlueBlue23 Месяц назад

      @@TheMuslimMarriageCoach it takes a lot of lies to keep a marriage secret and I can't trust a man who is willing to lie that much

  • @chupah93
    @chupah93 Месяц назад +1

    جزاك الله خيرا