I would like to add to the list asking about his/her health, are there any healthy issues or any inherited health issues, any health issues that effect you having children, ask about the health of her siblings and look out for health issues that could run in the family and ultimately could effect your children, do some research on what health issues run in families so you can spot them, this is so important and easy to overlook so take it seriously and dont be shy to ask its your right you will be shocked what people forget to mention. May allah bless us all with a healthy spouse and healthy children ameen.
Demanding the girl be living on the same street and the same house and same room after marriage is ridiculous. The husbands responsibility is to take care of her her now. The family must allow her to be marriage and independent with her husband and kids. Not still on their doorstep .
Once bitten twice shy. Instant no, if a large mahr is asked for. Divorces are hard on men in the west - you lose the kids, half of your savings, half or more of your income. The thought of marriage itself makes me jittery. Nikah is ok, but no to paper marriage. Too many legal implications. May be get a prenup.
@@OpenThisChannel It doesn't matter where one gets married. What matters is where the divorce happens and whether one party wants to exact the maximum pain on the other.
If something is written for you, it'll happen regardless "good" or "bad". Your fear is insignificant, if she takes your money make more. If she takes your children then you will have your justice in front of allah.@truthdisseminator
@@truthdisseminator this is not part of islam, do your research on islamic marriages. I foy ulive your whole life like this in fear assuming every woman is coming to destroy you then its a problem with you
Personal family experience The men proposal ask if my sisters have jobs money on the bank The mahr was low because his idea was to move back into his parents home so they and his siblings will provide the extra income to maintain his marriage These men wanted to marry my sisters based in they will live with his parents home after marriage She may work if his moms allows her to If she expects her martial rights if a marital home she is expected to definitely work The fear of not knowing will they husband provide causes women to ask for higher mahr or she’s expected to earn the income to support her marriage
Is it wrong to ask hypothetical questions to your potential wife? E.g. “if you wanted to do something and I said no, how would you react?” And then tell her your expectations Is this okay? The purpose is to see how the other person thinks. Or is it better to just set your conditions directly and not ‘test the waters’.
This is a very important question to ask brother ask it but you could word it like " if we had a disagreement on an issue and a decision had to be made would you follow your husband and accept his decision" something like that.
As a woman, i think this is a good question to ask, and she should do the same to you too. So you both can think & share each other's expectations. Dont be afraid to walk away if he/she is not compatible with you in the worst way.
Even if she says no. She could just lie. How will you ever know. What you should be asking is if any past relationships can cause trouble to your current relationship. The last thing you need is some people from the past causing you & her trouble post marriage
Of i am getting married again i only want the promise from him to lead in Deen. My makr will be the Quran. This is not because i am disable, have low self esteem, or uneducated.
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I would like to add to the list asking about his/her health, are there any healthy issues or any inherited health issues, any health issues that effect you having children, ask about the health of her siblings and look out for health issues that could run in the family and ultimately could effect your children, do some research on what health issues run in families so you can spot them, this is so important and easy to overlook so take it seriously and dont be shy to ask its your right you will be shocked what people forget to mention. May allah bless us all with a healthy spouse and healthy children ameen.
If the Mahr is Unmanageable MOVE ON !!!!
I feel like this question needs to be asked a lot earlier than most people expect it to
💯 this question needs to be asked way earlier in the process
Demanding the girl be living on the same street and the same house and same room after marriage is ridiculous. The husbands responsibility is to take care of her her now. The family must allow her to be marriage and independent with her husband and kids. Not still on their doorstep .
Ye that’s just stupid. Maybe they’re from some village where it’s like super old prehistoric customs.
Ye that’s dumb. Maybe they’re from some village with super old prehistoric customs
Once bitten twice shy. Instant no, if a large mahr is asked for. Divorces are hard on men in the west - you lose the kids, half of your savings, half or more of your income.
The thought of marriage itself makes me jittery. Nikah is ok, but no to paper marriage. Too many legal implications. May be get a prenup.
In Islam there's only nikah marriage anyway without influence of the kufr law government in fact that's the right way to do so.
@@OpenThisChannel It doesn't matter where one gets married. What matters is where the divorce happens and whether one party wants to exact the maximum pain on the other.
If something is written for you, it'll happen regardless "good" or "bad". Your fear is insignificant, if she takes your money make more. If she takes your children then you will have your justice in front of allah.@truthdisseminator
@@truthdisseminator this is not part of islam, do your research on islamic marriages. I foy ulive your whole life like this in fear assuming every woman is coming to destroy you then its a problem with you
Personal family experience
The men proposal ask if my sisters have jobs money on the bank
The mahr was low because his idea was to move back into his parents home so they and his siblings will provide the extra income to maintain his marriage
These men wanted to marry my sisters based in they will live with his parents home after marriage
She may work if his moms allows her to
If she expects her martial rights if a marital home she is expected to definitely work
The fear of not knowing will they husband provide causes women to ask for higher mahr or she’s expected to earn the income to support her marriage
Sheikh could u do vids advising us younger ppl like 21 and below Jaz.
Don’t write jaz. Write JazakAllah Khair instead. Thanks
Is it wrong to ask hypothetical questions to your potential wife? E.g. “if you wanted to do something and I said no, how would you react?” And then tell her your expectations
Is this okay? The purpose is to see how the other person thinks. Or is it better to just set your conditions directly and not ‘test the waters’.
This is a very important question to ask brother ask it but you could word it like " if we had a disagreement on an issue and a decision had to be made would you follow your husband and accept his decision" something like that.
As a woman, i think this is a good question to ask, and she should do the same to you too. So you both can think & share each other's expectations. Dont be afraid to walk away if he/she is not compatible with you in the worst way.
JazakAllahu khayra
Just saying, no girl with past going to open.
Girls are most crafty creation of God.
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That’s why he said don’t expose sins. Rather she should just say they’re not compatible and move on.
Even if she says no. She could just lie. How will you ever know. What you should be asking is if any past relationships can cause trouble to your current relationship. The last thing you need is some people from the past causing you & her trouble post marriage
Salam bro @alromaani
I'm a new subscriber to your channel. Where do you stand on the pre-marriage agreement (prenuptial agreement)?
Of i am getting married again i only want the promise from him to lead in Deen. My makr will be the Quran.
This is not because i am disable, have low self esteem, or uneducated.
50k mahr plus if she n family does fear allah then alimony too 😄