I only partly agree. It's ok to talk a little. The first meeting can just be a "quick glance", one doesnt't need to ask 17 questions right in the first meeting. Vetting is a multi-week process and can't be done within one meeting anyway.
Absolutely spot on! I've had some say to me that they want me to 'woo' them 🤦🏾♂️ all while I'm trying to keep things halal. And others saying they don't feel a 'connection' just because I'm asking real questions and not flirting 🤦🏾♂️
@@Shoryuken_87 marriage meeting is ONLY done in the presence of her mahram. If her mahram was there she wouldnt dare to do this. Involve parents. Thats the right way tog et married...
Yeah and he's right. If being yourself is being a bitter loser on the Internet rather than understanding what the main point is, then absolutely change who you are in terms of personality. The point is not to fake who you want to be but actually take the steps to actually become that person.
I only partly agree. It's ok to talk a little. The first meeting can just be a "quick glance", one doesnt't need to ask 17 questions right in the first meeting. Vetting is a multi-week process and can't be done within one meeting anyway.
Unfortunately some women want you to flirt with them so they can "feel" the vibe.
Absolutely spot on! I've had some say to me that they want me to 'woo' them 🤦🏾♂️ all while I'm trying to keep things halal. And others saying they don't feel a 'connection' just because I'm asking real questions and not flirting 🤦🏾♂️
@Shoryuken_87 Exactly
@@Shoryuken_87 marriage meeting is ONLY done in the presence of her mahram. If her mahram was there she wouldnt dare to do this. Involve parents. Thats the right way tog et married...
good luck to do that in the west aint nobody doing it so if we tried it would feel very alien.....@@taimurahmad
Bro even with her mahram especially in the west they are emotional beings at the end of the day
What is with the bot comments everywhere?
Annoying
YT has always had this problem sadly
BarakAllahu feek wa jazakAllahu khayran.
Jazakallah khair brother
did i just watch a 4 minute advertisement
🙄
Tired hearing about marriage constantly
It’s an important topic, especially these days
bro said be yourself then started yapping about how yourself should be, ight
Yeah and he's right. If being yourself is being a bitter loser on the Internet rather than understanding what the main point is, then absolutely change who you are in terms of personality.
The point is not to fake who you want to be but actually take the steps to actually become that person.
Yeah if being yourself is how you act then change yourself lol
InshaAllah