How To Speak More Slowly and Clearly
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- I love a fun game, and I also understand how important it is to take the time to slow down when I speak. In this video, I show you how to make a game out of slowing down your speech-something fun and easy, a game you can start playing today!
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Here because 80% of the time I speak to people they respond with "huh?"
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@@julscheezcracksmylove_ we shall beat this
@@danwekoya9735 yes we shall !
lol anxiety doesnt help in talking slowly without getting nervous
TRUEEEEEEEEE , i cant even speak my own language ;(
Me too bro 😅
Finally I've found pepole I can relate to about talking to fast. I've always talked to fast and slurred my words I'm tired of hearing "what?" "Huh?" "Say it again?" . ITS SOOO embarrassing! What finally made me do something was today when I finally got up the courage to talk to my crush, it was so awkward so I just blurted out "I love elephants" he thought I said I am a elephant. It was cringy weird and embarrassing. Thanks for the tip Ill definatly use it tomorrow.
Update: nothing ever happened with me and that boy he ended getting a girlfriend. But I'm starting to talk more clearly now and its definitely brought up my confidence. I'm happy I found pepole just like me. One huge tip I have is to not give a shit what other people think about you just go with it and whatever happens happens.
Yeah i feel the same
😢 it hurts right?
E M I L Y G R A C E exactly
Ikr. My parents, friends and even teachers don't understand what I say sometimes.
E M I L Y G R A C E I feeel you
I talk like a president alone. But with people i get excited (because i love them a lot) so i speak fast and mumble sometimes.
Julian 💯💯💯💯
Exactly. Even not emotionally excited, my body just reacts as if it’s excited and I talk so fast that by the third or fourth word, they all start stick together and it turns into “hey how was yadaytoday”
Omg 💯💯💯💯💯
I Stan
@@tony_anello did you found anything yet ?
As a fast speaker, i can't resist to speed up this video. I think this methods works really well for me
😂
Bro I feel you, im going crazy listening to someone speaking so slow 😭
@@christophercranefield I feel ya bro 😂
Bruh!
Same I can't watch any video in normal speed,
I don't know why , but my mind automatic say, increase up the speed to 2x
@@christophercranefield yes😓
Now on 27 I have an interview and I want to excel in that,
But the main Blockage is my speech!
I'm here because 99.9% of the time i speak to poeple, i know i didn't even hear myself clearly...
I speak quickly when I have a lot to say and I worry I will forget about somethimg
Same here
HitProof this is me. I’m watching it now because some one comment on my Facebook Live saw I need to slow down.
HitProof same. Everyone will yell at me saying to slow down or they’ll tell me why do you speak so fast. I don’t speak much but when I do I’ll speak sooo fast
I worry some one will cut in on what I’m saying
Me too
Tips:
1. Breathing
2. Opening you more mouth more than you used to.
3. Speak at the same rate as you write or type
4. Extending the sounds of your speech
Try all of these and record and listen and then act accordingly
I will definitely try these out.
Thanks Patrick
Good Luck Everyone!
Umm problem with #3 I write and type really really fast
GreAt thanks
@@baderjuju Imagine someone you know that writes slowly is writing a text for you and every time they complete a word you say it out loud
@@Ren-hd8jd 👍
May I ask you a question? How long do I have to practice this in order for me to improve and speak slower then my usual rate ?
Hi. Let me share some technique for slower and confidently speaking . Imagine that you are explaining things in front of the kindergarten . So its nesessary to speak slower for the children and to try to sound more expresively and understandable . That also reduces the presere of the speraking in front of audience - those are just some kids , you know ;)
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This is great advice! 😃
but don't act like they're dumb! that will be condescending or rude. just act as if they are foreigners who know English if only spoken clearly
Nah that would be kinda condescending 😂 Ever heard of mainsplaining?
wow that's a good one. I don't think I can do the typing excercise
So, I tried the typing technique and I was impressed by my own voice. I am usually an incredibly fast speaker and that technique helps me slow down and actually get the right words out of my mouth..Thank you.
Yasmin Alves did it really ?
I always talk too fast with everyone bc i'm a introvert person, my speaking kill is so bad, just want to talk too fast i can
same dude
Tien Lu I’m not even an introvert, my thoughts just go so fast and that’s just the way they come out
Splucer Exactly the same with me😡!
i feel your pain brother, i dont believe im an introvert but i do have to touch up on my speaking skills.
So do I but I am working on it
I watched the video 2x speed i still understand him
Cboy Gaming me too
@@hikiemafloyd1162 right hahah
I was literally about to comment that
@@livinglife3967 lol😂
Cboy Gaming true xd
This is absolutely phenomenal! I do door knocking for living and sales for living going on 10+ years now. I am told constantly, "sloooow down, why do you talk so fast?" I then think to myself, "I guess I do, I didn't mean to." Then I become to aware and start to feel really bad about myself so much so I feel I have no control or technique, that I start just saying, "I guess this is my life now." My own relationships with friends, partners, and family have been disrupted or hurt because I become annoying with how fast and how much I have to say. This is starting to really teach me to slow down my thoughts and word count in my speech, that I think I will come off as a much more effective and clearer speaker. Thank you for the insight! 🙂
@Kaylee Pershing - thank you for sharing your story! Yes, if speaking too quickly is causing disruptions in your life, knowing that you can change and then actually taking action to do so is incredible. Keep us posted on how it goes. And be kind and patient with yourself!
I am in also technical support and communication with end users same thing happens users repeat again sorry 🙏
When I become nervous, maybe I am talking fast. I should visualize typing while I am talking. Thank you for your advice.
There are so many vocal coaches out there. You are one of the most helpful and pragmatic coaches, handsdown. It's great to see you explain as if you are talking to your followers in person.
Thank you, Puneet - much appreciated!
I can speak very calm and properly with anyone, but when I'm with my best friend I always get hyper and then i start to speak fast and he also speaks fast xd
Bruh, just shut the fuck up...
I'm wondering why did your comment get 6 likes
Haha thats funnyXD
@@Metro248 Fr
Shutup
My anxiety causes me to talk fast because I’m anxious. I have all of this energy. I hate it so much. I just want to talk slower and more calm/confident.
@Lauren - try speaking more slowly. It will have an effect on your anxiety and, I believe, reduce it. Try this for a week and let us know how you feel.
Same with me 😭
I'm a nurse but i find it difficult to handle patients because of my anxiety issue😰 this even can be seen in my hands, they shiver alot sometimes 😔
I am very happy i found this guy. I would always get bullied for my voice and for how i speak fast. I took this guys advise and im currently using it while i type this message. It is helping a lot and i can hear my voice changing a lot. Thank you for uploading this video it helped me a lot.
That’s wonderful to hear, GhostyChills! Slowing down helps you center yourself and be more confident in what you say and how you say it. I’m so glad you’re improving! Keep up the good work!
@@pmz ❤
I alwasy heard complaints about how fast I talk, so finally I decided to start slowing down and after watching this video I measured my normal speed rate and I got 250 words per minute as my normal rate. I also type fast but not that fast so I'm going to try this excersie. My goal is to get an speach rate of 150 words per minute.
Glad i found this bloke.
He's as good with teaching techniques for beginners on how to slow down your speech and speaking clearly, as Chris Voss is at negotiation techniques. Beauty!
Thanks, unfortunately I stammer mainly when I feel under pressure speaking foreign languages. I feel this technique may help to have better outcomes in job interviews and so on.
Every time I watch your video I feel confident about myself that I can speak clearly. Keep up the good work sir!!
That’s awesome, @apoorv chadha! Keep coming back for more!
But how
Speech speed is dependent on natural exhale rate. You speak faster,if you are excited.You can naturally decrease the exhale rate by special breathing exercise.
How
1.Keep it costal app.
2. Make reading exercises by elongating the last letter of each word by 2 seconds.
This certainly sounds interesting. I will give it a go, as I suffer from ADHD and talking far too quickly is a real issue (as well as talking in a high pitched voice).
Hi @JP, if you breathe more deeply and slow down when you’re talking, you’ll be able to relax (lower) your voice and express yourself in a more focused way. Give it a try and let us know how it goes!!!
@@pmz will do. Thanks!
I swear to god it worked sir.. even thou i try to speed up when the speech start to get massive, i stop and breath, open my mouth widely at the begining of the speech to prevent stermering, then continue. Thank you sir
I read out a poem at typing speed and recorded it. Listening it back felt slower but much clearer than my normal speech. Thanks for the video.
I feel rushed and I feel like I want to faint sometimes.
This is genius! I already feel this is going to work;)
Thank you, Constantin!
Speaking at the rate I type is working wonders. My words are actually spread out and I will keep practicing this!
Love that, @flamestar!
Thanks man. I have been talking fast in Arabic for so long and have been finally getting the hang of talking slowly, but after learning and speaking in English the same problem occurred, and I noticed the same while learning French; like it's contagious or something, but this video have taught me a lot, so thank you man.
Glad to hear this happens to other language learners! I started to think I had a speech issue after returning to English from rigorously learning Spanish.
i’m definitely going to use this! i always talk way too fast and end up stuttering and stumbling on my words
Thank you very much for this. I often speak like “Actually” as “Achly” or “Jealous” as “Jels”.
Great video! I agree with the video that slowing down speech could help outgrow stuttering. The positive effect is that speaking slower makes you feel more comfortable, whereas other people who speak slower have more time to double down on doubt to say a feared letter which means that 'confidence that you can move articulators during a speech block' helps in outgrowing stuttering
Patrick, just listening to your videos makes me feel more confident. I can't wait to make an appointment to see you.
I recorded myself reading a scripture from the bible. It sounded pretty good. I often find myself speaking fast and pronouncing words wrong. My s and t sometimes are the worse. I saw in your video and I learn I need to slow now speaking. I am in law school currently and I want to speak clearly, so that others can understand me. I get excited about things in life and start to pronounce words wrong. Thanks for you video.
You’re very welcome, @Tiffany Kemp. Congrats on law school!!! You’ll only get better in all!
Thank you for this! I always felt like something was off when I was talking to people. They often had trouble understanding me or I would be frustrated in not being able to get a point across in a conversation. Someone would ask me a question and I would think "I just said the answer to that.. weren't you even listening??" but now I realize its not their fault. When you talk quickly you sacrifice clarity in your speech. Slowing down using this technique has helped a lot
That’s wonderful to hear, @Talon Mann!
I watched this tutorial at x2 speed which was kinda ironic, I think
Hi I'am Brazilian you speak portuguese?
Sure, take a look into his Channel
Thanks, I'm working hard to become better and more understanding. Whenever I speak to quickly and people dont seem to understand me, I get abit more frustrated with myself because I am not making sense to them and they can hear my frustration in my tone and it scares them, and it scares me that its scaring them
"Okay as i was saying you are amazingly very confident about your self because i don't know where i was going to be at life if i havent watched your video" Btw I'm practicing right now
When we are in front of an Audience nerves cause us to Talk fast , I try to be conscious of that fact and speak slowly while thinking one word ahead ✌️❤️
This is such great advice...and you can practice it, every time you text someone...via voice.
After searching for hours, I've finally found the right video! I speak really fast followed by stuttering and tripping over words. OwO Unless those are the same thing.
I just tried writing technique and I already love my voice! Off course I need to know how to take away the apparent 'pause sounds' between words
THIS IS AMAZING, OH MY! 🎉 improved my speech a lot
I don’t know 🤷♀️ how I stumbled across this video. But I needed to watch this ‼️😭 Thank You 🙏🏽 so much ‼️ I’m tired of talking fast ❤️
Thanks, @Sister Delia! Keep on coming back for more!
Wow.. will definitely be practicing typing and reading out-loud poetry!
Thanks Patrick I needed this very much everyone around me say I talk to fast it been so painful embarrass to me These are people's that's very education smart teachers and friends I appreciate this Video bless you bring more please
Very good suggestion for me as i've been trying to slow down my speech for way too long !
Slowing down just a bit will give you more control and authority.
Great tips.Thank you so much
Very informative video. Thanks for sharing. Have an amazing day. 👍
I think of thee! - my thoughts do twine and bud
About thee, as wild vines, about a tree,
Put out broad leaves, and soon there's nought to see
Except the struggling green which hides the wood.
Yet. O my palm-tree, be it understood
I will not have my thoughts instead of thee
Who art dearer, better! Rather, instantly
Renew thy presence; as a strong tree should,
Rustle thy boughs and set thy trunk all bare,
And let these bands of greenery, which insphere thee
Drop heavily down, - burst, shattered, everywhere!
Because, in this deep joy to see and hear thee
And breathe within thy shadow a new air, I do not think of thee - I am too near thee.
This is wonderful technique
I have practiced the same technique in my office meetings and I could see the difference
IMO speaking fast, even though it's often cool, it really makes a person seem like they are no confident enough. That's why I came to this video to get tips on how to speak slowly and CLEARLY.
Best thing I've ever seen on communicating properly
This helps me so much. I am a fast talker. Thank you sir from Philippines🙂
I watched this at 1.75x, is something wrong with me 😢
This worked 100%! And an added bonus, the audience I spoke at also believes I know sign language
Thisisabsolutelysousefultome....... that I can slow down and sound coherent and be understood by people thanking you for the advice.
Great advice. I got an idea on how to solve this issue... Reading Out Loud articulating the words - also breathing is important and recording yourself. I will try and if you guys want I'll let you know what's happening
Yes, we would. Let us know how it goes!
I’m here because I want to advance and become more of a leader at the restaurant I work at. I’ve worked there for three years but I never made any effort to try to become a leader because my communication is so bad. And I also would like to improve general communication
Welcome, @Harlan. All those things are possible. You can become a better, clearer more confident and speaker. Check out my other videos on the subject! I look forward to hearing about your improvement!
Thanks for sharing this Pat
Thanks for the great technique...
so much useful in real life ☺
Thank you! Always glad to know it helps.
Wow...Very helpful...Thanks...
Thank you, Rahim!
I'm presently prepping myself for a round of interviews. My rushed speech is always my Achilles heel and I need to get that in check asap.
@Kechiwam - I’m glad you’re prepping yourself. Practice, practice, practice! You’ll only get better! Let us know how it goes!
Same here
For me I feel like i have too much info I want to share and the other person/people don't have time
מחר אני צריכה לאמר נאום מול כל ההורים של השיכבה ומול המנהלת חמול ראש העיר יש לי ביטחון אבל אני תמיד תמיד מדברת מהר כם אם אני עצובה שמחה מיתרגשת מפחדת פשוט בכל מצב אני מדברת מהר עכשיו את הקטקסט שאני אמורה לאמר אני עושה אותו מושלם חוץ מהקצב דיבור אני צריכה לעשות אותו לאט לאט אני עכשיו ניסיתי את השיטה שלך וניראה לי זה עבד מחר אני יעדכן אותכם איך היה לי שם כי בכל זאת ברגעי לחץ ופחד קהל די מדברים מהר אבל אל דאגה אני ידמין כיאלו אני בחדר שלי! אני יעדכן מחר איך היה לי בכל זאת תודה על השיטה
excellent tip....im excited to try this .
thanks for sharing.
You deserve a subscribe and like! Thanks for introducing the typing technique as a way to slow down my speaking speed. I've been attempting several ways to speak clearly and slowly, but no methods seem to work in my case. I'll try your method tomorrow with a big hope to reduce stuttering, pauses, and hesitation during my speech.
SP Signature You are most welcome! Let me know how it goes - I’m excited to hear!
I’m a very passionate person. When I speak it gets real ugly lol. I barely finish the word I’m on to get to the next one. I know it stems from me having the feeling of not being heard. People can be rude and impatient. I think it’s important for us in the fast talking community to have clearance to have the floor to speak. If people interrupt, we ask for a second to finish. And when we feel like a conversation I’d about to happen l, remember to breathe and speak clearly . Good luck everyone.
That’s great advice, Versatile Mind! One more thing to try is slowing down and centering ourselves. That way we can be more present with
our thoughts, words and feelings. And we lessen the chances of overwhelming our listener. Let me know your thoughts!
Thankyou kind sir
I'll really try these tips.Thanks Patrick!
Thank you to your excited thinking
Thank you very much sir , I will practice this technique untill I'll learn to speak slowly and clearly.
Terrific, Kumar! Let me know how it goes for you!
Thank you.
Thankyou So Much
, Although English Is Not My Native Language , But Your Consideration Helps Me A lot
The best so far.
Its also helping me to talk without stuttering.🙂
Wow ! The extending the sound of ur words technique.....thisss iss simply genius...
Thank You Sir I will start this technique today
I am happy to learn it
I will try this
i spent one minute watching an advertisement.
Then i noticed the skip button 🤦🏻♂️
RUclips is driving me crazy these days
V A N C E D.
Here because I'm an actor in theater and they said I need to slow down cuz the Judges couldn't understand me last year. Thanks
Awesome!
I will try it
Day one, I’ve slowed down reading disclosures I read a lot all day for work. I will comment back in one week to see how it goes.
you dont know how much this helped me my nigga.
I speak fast because I have alot to say and do not want to forget, nor do I want to be cut off soI feel the need to hurry up. In doing that, I often stutter or stumble. Really embarrassing, but it's funny because I still love talking
Good stuff, @Genelle Corum - you should love talking - it’s a gift we don’t think about too often. But what an amazing gift it is. And to embrace it with all its quirks and possibilities is the key to ENJOYING it!
Imagine that you're a teacher, speak just like you're writing on the whiteboard, and speak out loud what you're writing to your student simultaneously. "Let me type it down for you"
Thank u i will try this
Great tip!
@CourageousCoachingGroup, I’m glad it was helpful!
Started online school and I need to train my voice thanks
Wanted to extend my answers in interviews by slowing down so here I am😂
Very well described.Thanks for the tips.
When I sing together with my friend she said that I sing very fast and I told I am singing nightcore version 😂😂
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I’m glad to find some people who also have trouble speaking slowly I always thought I was the only one who had trouble with this.
Haha, oh lord I need this!
Really helpful and useful one piece of advice. Thank you so much! :-)
love it!! very good! thank you for sharing!
Will try the trick thank you
thanks boss
Excellent instructions