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  • @EmmaBoglitt
    @EmmaBoglitt 10 месяцев назад +538

    You’re living proof that you can be grown up and still be enchanted with life in a childlike way. Thank you ♥️

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua 10 месяцев назад +18

      Yes!! I love this about Desi so much!! This outlook on life is the best way to be! ✨

    • @DarlingDesi
      @DarlingDesi  10 месяцев назад +38

      Thank you for saying that 🥹🫶🏻 I think it’s the best way to live!

    • @wanya_telborn
      @wanya_telborn 10 месяцев назад

      You don’t sleep WITH YOUR HUBBY why?

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@wanya_telborn
      Because like many people, she knows how important good quality sleep is. Is doesn’t mean they can’t be together anytime they want. :)

  • @blueberrypancakes078
    @blueberrypancakes078 10 месяцев назад +217

    Thank you for not rushing through fall/November. It seems every other content creator is already on to Christmas, and no one is embracing this slow and cozy time. And everyone else has already said it, but I’ll say it too - your videos are worth waiting for. They are well thought out, beautifully made, and every time one of your videos pop up I just know I’m going to be uplifted & swept away by the aesthetic. Thank you for your videos Desi 💖

    • @DarlingDesi
      @DarlingDesi  10 месяцев назад +22

      Thank you so much for saying that 🥹🫶🏻 I think those other content creators who put Christmas content out in November is perfect for those who are already ready for Christmas, just like me putting autumn content out in August is perfect for those who are ready for fall. I love that everyone has their own interests and that there’s something for everyone ☺️ It would be so borning if all content creators were the same 🤍

    • @blueberrypancakes078
      @blueberrypancakes078 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@DarlingDesi I couldn't agree more! I'm from TX and the jump to Christmas is just hard for me when it's still so warm out, so I appreciate a slower transition. Seeing scenery & feeling vibes that are so autumnal is a nice escape from what we tend to have here. But don't get me wrong, I also LOVE Christmas (& it's my birthday month) so I am very much looking forward to your upcoming videos ✨😊

  • @cerridwencottagediary9194
    @cerridwencottagediary9194 10 месяцев назад +286

    A magical video as always. Have you heard of the Japanese art of fixing broken pottery called Kintsugi? They make the repair using a lacquer mixed with gold powder thereby celebrating the break rather than attempting to hide it. I think there is something so powerful and beautiful about that. If we could do that with ourselves wouldn't it be transformative. Blessings from Wales

    • @laurarwhittaker
      @laurarwhittaker 10 месяцев назад +20

      I was just thinking the same thing while watching, such a beautiful sentiment we could apply to our own lives 💛

    • @imaginariumofvanessanicole
      @imaginariumofvanessanicole 10 месяцев назад +16

      Literally came here to say the exact same thing!! Also the phrase “comparison is the thief of joy” applies too! I’m guilty of that as well- try to give yourself grace Desi ❤️ obviously your community loves your work and efforts 🥰🥰

    • @angelac2052
      @angelac2052 10 месяцев назад +7

      Yes, they are so beautiful with the gold painted cracks.

    • @HeatherLaurenCo
      @HeatherLaurenCo 10 месяцев назад +3

      Same thoughts here too!

    • @AnneS508
      @AnneS508 10 месяцев назад +2

      Came here to say the same thing! Lovely video, as always, with a beautiful message!

  • @FreakUsOut
    @FreakUsOut 10 месяцев назад +161

    You guys re-creating the scene between Laurie and Jo was the cutest!

    • @DarlingDesi
      @DarlingDesi  10 месяцев назад +12

      Haha thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed it ☺️

  • @elenatschukes5228
    @elenatschukes5228 10 месяцев назад +226

    You cannot compare your videos to many other creators, who upload their content more often. Your videos are little movies and masterpieces. I cant imagine how time consuming it is.
    And I love this effort so much and would wait months for it. So don't feel pressured. I think all your fans feel the same🧡🧡🧡

  • @brookedotjpg2279
    @brookedotjpg2279 10 месяцев назад +104

    Desi - I actually love the pacing of how your videos are released. It’s not over-saturated and it’s quality. You have magic in your videos and can tell how much love and time you put into them.
    Comparison is the thief of happiness. I know it’s hard to work through, but know you are your worst critic. You have your fans support ♥️

    • @DarlingDesi
      @DarlingDesi  10 месяцев назад +7

      Oh my goodness thank you 🥹😭🫶🏻

  • @lauraa1345
    @lauraa1345 10 месяцев назад +117

    This last section of the video just made me tear up. Thank you so much for this inspirational ending, it really made me feel stronger 🥺❤️
    And Desi, please don't stress yourself when it comes to creating content as fast as possible. You make different kinds of videos that really their take time. Every single one of them is like a very aesthetically pleasing short film. There is a concept behind it and I can imagine that it takes a lot of time to film even the shortest sequences. You produce a very special kind of art that I value a lot. It's a spark of magic that every video of yours have. They are whimsical and enchanting and very well made! They take time and this is absolutely understandable. 🤍 Lots of love ❤️

  • @theworldfrommyperspective
    @theworldfrommyperspective 10 месяцев назад +312

    “She is a beautiful piece of broken pottery, put back together by her own hands. And the critical world judges her cracks while missing the beauty of how she made herself whole again.”
    - JM Storm
    ♥️

  • @lekofo
    @lekofo 10 месяцев назад +170

    What an unexpected and so-much-needed-right-now treat video🧡Thank you, Desi!

    • @DarlingDesi
      @DarlingDesi  10 месяцев назад +14

      I really hope you enjoy it 🫶🏻🧡

    • @ancillaindigna1273
      @ancillaindigna1273 7 месяцев назад

      You are soooo TALENTED! Thank you for your work! Oh, please do more of those scenes. It was funny because we knew it was not the movie, but it was still soooo much fun. I loved it!

  • @doesntevenliketomatoes
    @doesntevenliketomatoes 10 месяцев назад +123

    Oh, Desi.
    You are the purest, most special soul. Only you could pull me out of Christmas back to November.
    This video is beautiful and Jared’s love for you is so evident. The world needs more Desi’s.

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua 10 месяцев назад +2

      😭 This is the sweetest comment!! Desi is truly so special!!

  • @jessicajordan680
    @jessicajordan680 10 месяцев назад +98

    What a good sport Jared is!! 😂❤ A darling husband for a darling girl. Thank you for the gentle November reminders, Desi 🍂

    • @aquietreality
      @aquietreality 10 месяцев назад +4

      I always think this too. 🥰

    • @ering7530
      @ering7530 10 месяцев назад +4

      yes he seems so dear.

    • @bestlifeever4548
      @bestlifeever4548 10 месяцев назад +3

      I love ❤️ seeing people who have found their people who fit them and who they are so well ,and make one another happy. I am so lucky for my husband and best friend who loves doing things I like and same here, but it's so sweet to have someone you can play with and imagine and be all the parts of yourself. Beautiful 😍

  • @M3Honestly
    @M3Honestly 10 месяцев назад +88

    Oh my, the end of this video really got me and I can relate so much since I've been dealing with a chronic illness the past couple years. I just need to tell you - YOU ARE SO VERY LOVED AND APPRECIATED HERE! You could put out one video a year and I would still be soooo excited to see that notification. I know how hard it is to feel like you're not at your best, but your content is so valuable to me - it reminds me to slow down and savor this beautiful life even when it isn't perfect, and that the little things can add up to big joy. Thank you for continuing to show up for us even though it's harder now! Everything you post is beautiful and inspiring and entirely worth the wait❤❤❤

    • @marmarci510
      @marmarci510 10 месяцев назад +2

      My exact feelings ❤

    • @stephvandermeulen9587
      @stephvandermeulen9587 10 месяцев назад +2

      SAAAAME!!

    • @amywise7568
      @amywise7568 10 месяцев назад +1

      IT is a good morning I get to see your awesome videos they are so beautiful.And as far as little women go I'm so glad you got to see that house.And I actually watched little women last night and I have two little women books.I absolutely love your content.And I also wish there were more people in the world like you.And remember to always do something for yourself.Im just quoting you .🎉🎉😊😊

    • @rebeccarose2179
      @rebeccarose2179 10 месяцев назад +1

      i had the same feeling. I am also dealing with chronic illness and your words Desi, made me cry but in a good way. thank you

    • @tajat866
      @tajat866 10 месяцев назад +3

      As someone dealing with the chronic illness aa well, I feel you ❤ But, we are enough. We are doing more than enough. We love your videos and so not want you to feel pressured to create faster / more.

  • @whitneywatson4409
    @whitneywatson4409 10 месяцев назад +29

    Thank you for your kind words at the end of the video!❤️ please don’t stress about keeping up with other creators, you are so special and nobody creates magic like you. Love you!

  • @gp4424
    @gp4424 10 месяцев назад +46

    Desi, don’t stress about putting out videos. Your videos are waaaay better than anyone else’s IMO and I enjoy them much more. So please take your time we all love you and the effort you make. Every video is special in its own way. I was also sick for 2 years and your health is more important than anything else. ♥️♥️♥️🎄🎄🎄❄️❄️❄️

    • @TheBeatlesToday
      @TheBeatlesToday 10 месяцев назад +3

      Agreed! Desi's videos are like little movies; it feels like she puts more of herself and her heart into one video than some other creators put into a year's worth of videos. I feel lucky that we get to watch her content for free!

  • @klaire74
    @klaire74 10 месяцев назад +31

    Finally, a creator that doesn't push Christmas. I am so happy, because is still Autumn! Yes, we can think and dream, but let's enjoy what is given to us 🍂🍂🍂

  • @Sophie-lf9zn
    @Sophie-lf9zn 10 месяцев назад +66

    I actually teared up when you recreated the scene from Little Women, it‘s just too cute 🥹
    You and Jonna Jinton will forever be my favourite RUclipsrs 🍂❄️

    • @Medicinal.Meditations
      @Medicinal.Meditations 10 месяцев назад +5

      They are my faves too! Have you also watched The Cottage Fairy and Valerie Lin? I think you would like them. I feel like those are the youtubers for the quiet, sweet, sensitive, creative types☺️🌻

    • @elizabethanne8729
      @elizabethanne8729 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@Medicinal.MeditationsThe Cottage Fairy🤌🏻🥳❤️
      Also Kirsten and Joerg! They are a German couple who live in England and visit the most beautiful places

    • @Sophie-lf9zn
      @Sophie-lf9zn 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@Medicinal.Meditations Yes I watch the Cottage Fairy too! Also Ruby Granger, Unjaded Jade, Leah‘s Fieldnotes and Morgan Long, they all make this type of cozy, slow living, romanticising life type of content. ☺️

    • @Medicinal.Meditations
      @Medicinal.Meditations 10 месяцев назад

      Oh I haven’t heard of kirsten and Joerg yet, I’ll check them out🥰

    • @Medicinal.Meditations
      @Medicinal.Meditations 10 месяцев назад

      I haven’t heard of them yet, but I’ll check them out. Thanks Sophie for the suggestions!🥰

  • @mschmidt1645
    @mschmidt1645 10 месяцев назад +51

    That skit with Jared was so adorable! Also, I’m glad you put the mug back together and celebrated its brokenness, just like the Japanese with the gold kintsugi. It is more beautiful now! This video was a work of art. We appreciate you!! 🍂🍁❤

  • @janeburkhart4051
    @janeburkhart4051 10 месяцев назад +22

    Oh Desi...I'm crying as I write this. First of all, you are enough just as you are so never compare yourself to others. Listening to your analogy of the mug and our brokenness touched me so deeply. I feel very broken in this season of my life and many days are a struggle. Thank you so much for reminding me to love and care for myself. You are such a sweet and beautiful soul and your videos never fail to bring me joy. ❤

  • @Celticjenn
    @Celticjenn 10 месяцев назад +22

    I came for the autumnal vibes, left in tears because of your beautiful, inspirational words. You are such a gift to us all. Thank you for this beautiful video!

  • @sarahhales1505
    @sarahhales1505 10 месяцев назад +28

    Fav part: you and Jared as Laurie and Jo! It was so cute!

  • @Catherine-111
    @Catherine-111 10 месяцев назад +32

    As a November baby, I appreciate you romanticising this month. I also appreciate that you take your time with your content, it shows!! There’s so many creators out there churning out high consumption/hauls & it can feel overwhelming. I love that you thrift & go to antique stores & that you focus more on living in the moment & not on what to buy next. It’s such a safe place to come & relax & although I’ve often been inspired to buy a book you’re reading or a candle (or a sweatshirt 😉), I never feel pressured or inadequate if I don’t. I hope you see this & know that both you & Jared & your fur babies are providing such quality, inspiring & gentle content & it’s head & shoulders above the rest 🍁🧡💛🤎🍂

    • @TheBeatlesToday
      @TheBeatlesToday 10 месяцев назад +1

      November babies unite! It truly is the best month: autumn + Thanksgiving + the beginning of the Christmas season, all wrapped into one!

    • @Catherine-111
      @Catherine-111 10 месяцев назад

      @@TheBeatlesToday happy Birthday month 🙌🎂 wishing you a great year 🎉

  • @Capricorn152
    @Capricorn152 10 месяцев назад +42

    As someone who has grown to love November and fill it with whodunnits and blankets and candles, this video was a dream ❤

  • @clarissahopkins1148
    @clarissahopkins1148 10 месяцев назад +21

    As a 58 yr old women living with lymphoma, I understand how you feel. I appreciate your time and effort that goes into making videos.....beautiful ones at that. Your little candle holder is charming. Cracks add character ;) Every day is a blessing!
    Thank you.

  • @lalumieredelalune6020
    @lalumieredelalune6020 10 месяцев назад +45

    I couldn't stop smiling when you recreated the Little Women scene, it was so genuine and lovely ! Thanks for always being this ray of joy and beauty. Take care :)

  • @sheilahall7588
    @sheilahall7588 10 месяцев назад +22

    The candle holder story….I swear it was made just for me. Remember faster doesn’t equate to better. Good things come to those who wait, and we are willing to wait.

  • @hannaseiler6100
    @hannaseiler6100 10 месяцев назад +10

    Omg i don’t think I’ve seen this much of Jared in a video before! Your relationship is so wholesome 🥺🧡 Also you’re doing just enough Desi! The content you put out is pure magic and I think we can all agree that we would rather you post content slower than to push yourself in unhealthy ways 🧡🧡🧡

  • @Stephanie-nd7mf
    @Stephanie-nd7mf 10 месяцев назад +9

    Desi, I think this is my favorite video I’ve watched yet! (And I’ve watched A LOT of yours 😊). First of all, thank you for showing those moments of you and Jared together! That hill scene was just adorable. ❤ You are making such wonderful memories together and it honestly just reminds me that these are the things that really matter. Finding magic in the ordinary with those that we love and taking the time to remember all the reasons why we love them. Also, thank you for such a beautiful ending! Your encouraging words bring me to tears and you have such simple but powerful truths to share! I hope you never doubt your worth because your quantity of content might not be the same as others. Trust me, we all know the quality is amazing!! You are such a light to so many people and are loved more than you know! ❤❤❤

  • @brickgarden
    @brickgarden 10 месяцев назад +10

    Yes!! I adore November. It’s a time life slows down and I think about all the things I’m grateful for in my life. I bake pies, look for acorns with my young son, knit, craft…I love Christmas, but when it’s shoved at you in October, you’re kind of burnt out by the time December gets here, and it makes it less special. Slow down and enjoy what each season has to offer 💛
    PS. I read Little Women 25 years ago and I’m still upset about Jo and Laurie 😆

  • @peachiementos5047
    @peachiementos5047 10 месяцев назад +6

    I wasn’t expecting to cry this evening. I am now crying. I don’t think anything truly matches the emotions I feel while watching Desi’s videos

  • @annielessard4629
    @annielessard4629 10 месяцев назад +7

    Yes November does get somewhat overlooked till Thanksgiving arrives. Your video though celebrates November in such a warm and cozy way. Just enjoyed the scene on the hill. What a neat idea!! Thank you for such a cozy video!!😊

  • @BethanyPlatt322
    @BethanyPlatt322 10 месяцев назад +4

    "To be proud of yourself; to know you wouldn't be here right now if you hadn't been strong..." This is so healing for me. I started crying hearing that. I'm going through a rough mental patch right now because I'm realizing my body cannot do all the things I want to do and be as productive as others seem to be. I have been feeling guilty and useless.. But your words made me remember my worth, my strength. Three times in the past 15 years, I have contemplated suicide, but it was my strength that made me want to fight. Thank you, Desi, for reminding me of this truth.

  • @alisong06
    @alisong06 10 месяцев назад +8

    You are a gift to this world and your videos are well worth waiting for no matter how often they come. You bring such a sense of calm and cosiness to so many of us just when we need it the most and we love you just as you are ❤

  • @melissatreat7935
    @melissatreat7935 10 месяцев назад +4

    Just to let you know, yes you may not get videos out as often as others, but many of us are very excited to find a new video up and ready. And your videos are always such a joy to watch! So always take care of yourself first and don’t worry what other creators are doing. Your doing an amazing job. I will wait for your videos patiently and enjoy them as they come!

  • @sanguinelynx
    @sanguinelynx 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for sharing your struggle with Lyme's disease! I teared up noticing how many in the comments have to deal with chronic illnesses, it lets me know I'm not alone. Illness can be very isolating. I think that's what attracts so many of us to slower living and the small joys in life as well as the large. I always try to appreciate November and Thanksgiving, it's still fall after all! Don't worry about uploading. Your work is such high quality in thought and presentation. Frequent uploaders aren't quite as artistically presented. I notice a difference, even in the one's I enjoy.

  • @PeaceIsYeshua
    @PeaceIsYeshua 10 месяцев назад +8

    🍁🧡 Yes!!! 🙌🏻 I love Autumn, and I don’t understand why people want to rush to Christmas before Thanksgiving! 🤷🏻‍♀️ Autumn is such a cozy & magical time of year! ✨

    • @sundaylibre
      @sundaylibre 10 месяцев назад

      Not everyone celebrates Thanksgiving and some people simply prefer the "magic" of the holidays 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@sundaylibre
      It’s fine to enjoy Autumn and Christmas decor together of course if that makes you happy! 🥰 For me personally, I prefer to enjoy them separately. They are both magical to me. I still have lots of fall leaves, autumn trees, and pumpkins surrounded in fairy lights out. 🍂✨ I also extend Christmas into January, so it lasts a long time for me. 😂 To each their own! Find joy and spread love. I hope you have a wonderful holiday season! ❤️

  • @kellyboudreau7989
    @kellyboudreau7989 10 месяцев назад +6

    Loved it!!!!!! You and Jared acting out the scene was my favorite!!!!!!!!

  • @marrryyyyunknown
    @marrryyyyunknown 10 месяцев назад +8

    It's never about the amount of content. It's about You Just being You :) ❤

  • @darlene1712
    @darlene1712 10 месяцев назад +5

    My favorite video of yours this year so far. What you said at the end of your video touched me in such a way. You brought tears to my eyes. That's how I feel sometimes in my life. Thank you

  • @melanie3958
    @melanie3958 10 месяцев назад +5

    Why do we push autumn aside? Looks out the window: ❄️ No autumn here 😂 Still, lovely video. They always make me feel so cosy inside. Now to cuddle up with a book and watch the snow ❤️

  • @lyriclovercrafts
    @lyriclovercrafts 10 месяцев назад

    When you and Jared re-enacted the hill scene!!! 🥹🧡🧡🧡 Love love love!
    This video is a work of art and your beautiful words at the end really spoke to me. Your videos are absolute treasures…and I look forward to your “November” video all year. You are lovely, darling Desi! 💛 xo Amber

  • @brieannaolder992
    @brieannaolder992 10 месяцев назад +14

    The scene with you and Jared reenacting the Little Women scene made me smile. 😊 Also, I'd just like to say that even though you do produce less content, your content is far superior to any of the other youtubers I watch. The love and care that you put into every video is obvious. I imagine that all the different shots you have takes a ton of time, as does editing I'm sure. You're doing good Desi and you are certainly enough.

  • @CynicalDuchess
    @CynicalDuchess 10 месяцев назад +1

    Desi, you are not cracked and you are not broken, you are perfect, just the way you are, with a unique set of gifts given to you that only you can contribute to the world. If you do want any help at all with your RUclips channel to speed things up, I'm a RUclipsr myself who's looking for a side job in order to continue doing what I love to do. I went to Film school at BU, and can help with anything from help with filming (I live in your area), to editing, to helping with shorts-- helping you would help me too. But even if thats not something you're looking for, your videos are a gift, you are a gift, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

  • @girlylondonchic6513
    @girlylondonchic6513 10 месяцев назад +3

    Beautiful video ! So uplifting you take us away to beautiful places in your videos ! Love them to pieces ! Can’t wait for your Christmas content and decorating video ! I also can’t wait for your cosy, Christmas book reading list ! I’m looking for new books to read, hallmark style. Love a good romance book around Christmas . I adore the hallmark channel ! I can’t wait to see your Christmas cooking ideas too ! Desi’s you tube is just dreamy and filled with kindness - everyone deserves to feel special especially around the holidays ! X

  • @zenmariac7956
    @zenmariac7956 10 месяцев назад +2

    The commentary about still being valuable even when chipped and broken in places triggered the tears today. I’ve been on the healing journey after Covid as well with weird health issues and unusual diagnoses, and it’s been an ongoing struggle to get back to full strength. Your words of kindness to everyone else - and to yourself - are so appreciated. You truly have one of the sweetest hearts and it shows in your videos, so thank you. I remind my bestie all the time since we’ve both gone through life altering illness: “We did not get sick because we were weak; We survived because we are strong.” I write that in my journal as often as I need to hear it. Love you! 💕

  • @Nina-kr8yc
    @Nina-kr8yc 10 месяцев назад +3

    I have been feeling so low and your words were comforting at the end. Love your videos ❤

  • @kialagro1881
    @kialagro1881 10 месяцев назад +2

    The last part was really moving and totally hit a soft spot in me. I have cancer and some days are harder than others, more painful, so sad that it would be so easy for me to just lay in bed and never do anything again. But exactly like you I remind myself that just because i can't have my life like it was before, just because sometimes i'm too tired or i need extra rest, doesn't mean i can't try and live my best life on my good days. And I will until i can! Let's be strong because we deserve a good, magical life ❤

  • @polanafowdrey3050
    @polanafowdrey3050 10 месяцев назад +3

    Quality, sweet friend, not quantity. Your videos are rare gemstones indeed. ❤️

  • @juileabernathey4861
    @juileabernathey4861 10 месяцев назад +3

    Just wanted you to know how much your videos bring this old vintage girl joy! I’m 53 years old and I absolutely love what you create! My girls and I immerse ourselves in the seasons…especially Fall & winter, and your videos always give us ideas and inspiration. So aesthetic and beautiful. Thank you for all the inspiration over the years! ❤

  • @emeraldheartedgirl
    @emeraldheartedgirl 10 месяцев назад +3

    Another beautiful video! I have a chronic illness too and I didn't know how much I needed to hear what you said at the end. I can relate so very much to what you were saying and I will endeavour to carry your reminder with me. Thank you so much Desi! x
    Also, you and Jared seem like such lovely, sweet, fun people! Hope you're both having a lovely week x

    • @margaretforsey7763
      @margaretforsey7763 10 месяцев назад

      Yes, I have a chronic illness too, so Desi’s words resonated with me very much!

  • @tanliz765
    @tanliz765 10 месяцев назад +3

    Love love love this! 🥺 You and Jared recreating that scene from Little Women was adorable. The whole video was therapeutic and the anecdote about the broken mug was beautiful 💗. Take care, Desi!

  • @federica5651
    @federica5651 10 месяцев назад +2

    You're officially my therapist, I always say this as a joke but I truly feel better when I watch your videos. They give me piece and I feel like I have a purpose and I'm exciting to do things. I felt your words at the end very deeply. I often feel broken and useless and not productive enough, and while I could do more I also want to remind myself that it's okay, that I don't have to be productive all the time to be worthy. So a huge thank you to you Desi, your smile and your words always brighten up my day. Also, I loved the Little Women reenactment! 🥰🥰

  • @stephvandermeulen9587
    @stephvandermeulen9587 10 месяцев назад +3

    I loved this so much, I shared it with my two bffs, and one of my sisters, because I want them to take 15 minutes of their day feeling as I did watching this: slow, relaxed, calm, happy, inspired to seek joy wherever and whenever I can, to be true to my core self, and to take in the reminder that nothing we ever enjoy doing is a waste of time if it doesn't yield the results we want. As a copyeditor, I've worked to deadline for 20 years, always pursuing the end. Only now am I really starting to learn to enjoy process over end result, and doing puzzles has helped me with it. Anyway, your content is so delightful, honest, joyful, humorous, and wondrous, as well as immersive and endearing, that I choose you over all the others. I don't care how often you post. Your quality is worth any wait, and each post is a treat. You are doing everything just right. xo Thank you.

  • @gabMV
    @gabMV 10 месяцев назад +2

    I was waiting for this! I had the same thought as soon as November 1st came around. Everyone’s talking about winter and Christmas and putting out decorations- but… it’s still autumn! November is such a beautiful month in its own right and it’s usually forgotten and invisible because everyone is in such a rush to be somewhere that, if we’re being honest, hasn’t even remotely gotten here yet. I saw someone post “40 sleeps until Christmas!” And I was like… that’s an entire month plus!! I love November where I live- a lot of the trees are still turning and are even more are at their peak colors, while many others have lost their leaves. The weather is so nice, everything is calm and quiet and there’s rainy days to comfort you and so much to look at before winter comes and everything is frozen and quiet and sleepy… Can we just enjoy the days we’re living as they come and not rush to a moment that WILL eventually get here anyway?

  • @tabithacase
    @tabithacase 10 месяцев назад +3

    This video is a masterpiece, Desi! I really needed to hear that part at the end, thank you for sharing!🧡🧡🧡

  • @babyprincessplayground4250
    @babyprincessplayground4250 10 месяцев назад +1

    Good topic 👏 maybe you can do a wardrobe closet tour of how to dress for fall with nice dresses and skirts and cozy cardigans

  • @fatimabakovic
    @fatimabakovic 10 месяцев назад +3

    Autumn ❤🎃🍁💫❤☕🌧

  • @talesfromtheroad9530
    @talesfromtheroad9530 10 месяцев назад +1

    I saw the video thumbnail and my jaw dropped. This is near where I live!!! Recently found your channel and love it--but didn't realize you were a Mass girl. Now I'm inspired to go to Gibbet Hill ^.^

  • @erynranney
    @erynranney 10 месяцев назад +1

    literally so excited for december desi content. *explodes with holiday joy* ♡♡♡

  • @melindagudino
    @melindagudino 10 месяцев назад +1

    Such a great video! And oh goodness, are you aware of the Japanese art form of kintsugi?? Kintsugi means ‘golden joinery’ in Japanese, and is the art of repairing broken pottery with lacquer dusted or mixed with powdered gold, silver, or platinum. As a philosophy, it treats breakage and repair as part of the history of an object, rather than something to disguise. A most beautiful form of art ❤❤❤

  • @Katieskatesgreat
    @Katieskatesgreat 10 месяцев назад +1

    I also have Lymes and hearing you talk about feeling like you don't have as much energy as others and you're just not fast enough honestly made me start to cry. I feel the same exact way. It just takes so much out of you and no one seems to understand that. It's so reassuring to hear that this is a shared experience. Thank you for speaking on it ❤

  • @theadventurelore
    @theadventurelore Месяц назад +1

    Bancroft castle, that spot is perfect for sunsets during fall foliage, Groton Massachusetts.

  • @theoceanhearts
    @theoceanhearts 10 месяцев назад +1

    I really felt the last part of the video... At the moment I'm not feeling that great and I don't have the energy to do something for myself, because I'm feeling so tired all the time. Working full time, doing a bachelor degree beside it and my dad having cancer is too much lately. This was also a reminder for myself to make time to do the things I like. And to not feel guilty for not being ''productive''... Thank you ❤

  • @foxceles
    @foxceles 10 месяцев назад +1

    november is just so blah for me, thanksgiving in canada is in october...november? november has remebrance day, its either a time to reflect and be somber or just ignore all of that and be immidately christmas, it doesn't feel ike you can enjoy fall.... its cold and rainy and misrable all the leaves are gone but it hasn't snowed yet. it just feels like nothing and you can't just enjoy the quiet time before winter. thank you for making this video. going to try some things to make november special

  • @laurenchristiemary2
    @laurenchristiemary2 10 месяцев назад +1

    Desi, I loved your sentiment at the end of this video. This year brought loss and reinvention to my life, and though it left me feeling broken and disheartened at first, I now realize it gave me the strength to find where I truly am supposed to be! I hope this season brings you joy and continued healing! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

  • @TheAdventurousHermits
    @TheAdventurousHermits 10 месяцев назад +1

    I was just going to look for an old video to comment on and tell you about two movies I wanted to recommend if you haven't seen them. The Bookshop and This Beautiful Fantastic.

  • @ppzxz9339
    @ppzxz9339 10 месяцев назад +2

    I wish i could visit ur place 🥺✨
    Sooo beautiful 🍂

  • @carolinasousa9809
    @carolinasousa9809 10 месяцев назад +2

    The end of this wonderful video was just astonishing. Those truthful words just hit me like no other. Desi, I'm so grateful that you share these incredible videos. I always feel such joy when I see that you have published a video, that I truly just dedicate a special time in my day to watch them and just romanticise the moment. Don't be so hard on yourself, all your videos are masterpieces, and masterpieces take time to create, they don't just come out of thin air. Keep it up girl

  • @breezymango4113
    @breezymango4113 10 месяцев назад +1

    That's the way Little Women should have ended, with Jo and Laurie together!!🥺😍

  • @janjentz1053
    @janjentz1053 10 месяцев назад +1

    What a lovely video. I refuse to rush through fall and Thanksgiving. Plenty of time come December to embrace Christmas and the New Year. In regard to your little candle mug; imperfection has character.

  • @anthonymartyn5590
    @anthonymartyn5590 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hi,my name is Kate but I use my husband account lol, I live in the UK and I have been so ill this last couple of weeks, this is such a lovely surprise and the best medicine ❤, I love your vlogs so much, they have made me enjoy all the little things in life, I love to kick the leaves and walk through the puddles just like a child 😊thanks so much for a truly wonderful channel, Kate 😊❤

  • @shaiveekamat8640
    @shaiveekamat8640 10 месяцев назад +3

    I love that you appreciate November for itself. I find it really annoying when everyone jumps directly from Halloween to Christmas. For me, November is a time for self reflection and self care and one of my favourite holidays, Thanksgiving. It is the most dark academia month ever!

    • @sundaylibre
      @sundaylibre 10 месяцев назад +1

      There’s nothing annoying about people being excited to move on to Christmas decors and activities. What’s weird is criticizing what people find joy and enjoyment in.

    • @shaiveekamat8640
      @shaiveekamat8640 10 месяцев назад

      @@sundaylibre I prefer to spend my November appreciating the transition from fall to winter, without any Christmas involved in the mix, but to each their own :)

  • @irnsmz
    @irnsmz 10 месяцев назад +1

    November is not Christmas. THANK YOU 🧡🍂🌰🥧🍁🪺🪵

  • @gabMV
    @gabMV 10 месяцев назад +1

    And thank you so much for your beautiful words at the end- we’re all so valuable, even if we are broken. It reminds me of Lilo & Stitch, when Stitch says this is his family, “little and broken, but still good.”

  • @cthulhuuhoop
    @cthulhuuhoop 10 месяцев назад +2

    Ah, another Desi November video.😊
    I love that you celebrate November each year with a magical vlog. Fall doesn’t end with Halloween! & as a later-season Scorpio, I highly appreciate your appreciation for November 🧡🍁🍂🧣✨

  • @AnaiseRose
    @AnaiseRose 10 месяцев назад +1

    I struggled with Lyme for a very long time and I can’t express enough how calming your videos have been for my mental state & how I feel I can connect with you even more after this video. I’ve also used thrive in the past to help ❤️. Thank you for being you 🫶🏽

  • @babyprincessplayground4250
    @babyprincessplayground4250 10 месяцев назад +1

    You should check out the Catskills upstate New York

  • @good_thrifts
    @good_thrifts 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for the broken clay story at the end. It was beautiful. It reminded me of the Japanese art Kintsugi where a piece of broken pottery is put back together and they mend the cracks with gold, making it more beautiful than before. I have a disability and chronic pain is a part of that but every day I thank God I am here and I have a purpose.

  • @newenglandfineliving
    @newenglandfineliving 10 месяцев назад

    As soon as I saw your thumbnail, I knew where you were. We almost got married at the inn since we love old properties. The scene of little woman... you can see the antique house we remodeled and moved from a couple of years ago. I have some amazing shots from standing on the hill through the years. I've been watching your channel from the start and I loved seeing your move here. I knew you would fit right in!!!! My channel is all about my love of old New England and I still have so much to see, even after being here 58 years. When you return to Concord, if you did not get to poet hill at Sleep Hollow Cemetery, many famous New England writers are there, including Louisa. PS: the amount of content you are sharing with us now, makes us look forward to them. Taking care of yourself is more important. "do as I say, not as I do" LOL

  • @oheymich
    @oheymich 10 месяцев назад +2

    This was so magical and inspiring as always - you truly have a gift

  • @Theslowishdiaries
    @Theslowishdiaries 10 месяцев назад +1

    As a November baby I've always LOVED November and while as a child I was just so excited for Christmas, the last few years I've loved savouring the Novemberness of the month. There's plenty of time for Christmassy things. Last weekend we had our wedding celebration and I couldn't have picked a better month for it! It was so magical with the dark skies and the autumnal colours 🥰

  • @debbiea.2923
    @debbiea.2923 10 месяцев назад +1

    I agree with everything you said about November!

  • @mbsagard
    @mbsagard 10 месяцев назад +1

    "Something being broken or weak does not deem it useless or of little value" during the part with the clay candle holder... omg. That made me so emotional 🩷

  • @lunatonkens7933
    @lunatonkens7933 10 месяцев назад +1

    Don't get me wrong, I love your videos and you should absolutely do what makes you happy. But couldn't the same be said for the end of summer? You tried rushing to autumn, while late summer is so magical in it's own right. And it's definitely not "wrong" in any way that you were already in the autumn mindset, it's your favourite season so that's totally fair. But that means, while it's sad for you because autumn is your favourite season, you can't judge others for already being excited for Christmas. It's always sad when others try taking the "validity" of the seasons in your head away. But it goes both ways, right? So I'm going to cozy up and decorate for Christmas while I wholeheartedly wish you a wonderful magical end of fall!
    P.s: You and Jared are so cute on that hill, re-enacting that scene ❤ you got a good one! Also I hope you bought that little vintage mouse it was adorable 😍

    • @DarlingDesi
      @DarlingDesi  10 месяцев назад +1

      I realize now that by praising autumn it might have sound like I was saying to not celebrate Christmas yet, and that’s absolutely not what I meant at all and so sorry I made you or anyone feel that way. I 10000% believe people should live and celebrate seasons and holidays however makes them happiest 🤍 If that means celebrating Christmas in July, please do so! Or if someone loves Halloween and wants to celebrate it all year long, I think they absolutely should. In my love letter for November at the beginning of the video I should have included that. I will definitely comment more on it next time 🫶🏻

  • @skye4743
    @skye4743 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sweet girl! I love your spirit. It's great to know there are people out there who love books, imagination & Nature. You're not broken, you're full of genius (originality + creativity + intelligence.) ❤️ ❤️

  • @panienkashy
    @panienkashy 10 месяцев назад +1

    Oh Desi, you are incredible. You’ve moved me to tears with the clay story. Please know you are of value no matter how much content you put out or how much you post on social media. Lots of love to you and thank you for creating just as much as you are able at a given moment. ❤

  • @windowsopenpeter
    @windowsopenpeter 10 месяцев назад +1

    Regarding the broken mug: I highly recommend looking into the japanese art of "Kintsugi"!

    • @windowsopenpeter
      @windowsopenpeter 10 месяцев назад

      Aah, now I see that someone already commented on that.

  • @Jeon_mimikook
    @Jeon_mimikook 2 месяца назад +1

    You are the best at making videos about fall ♕

  • @katierobinson8175
    @katierobinson8175 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you. Always love your videos but the end of this one made me feel so loved and seen. Chronic illness is hard but it doesn’t make us less. Sending love ❤

  • @autumngeorge3255
    @autumngeorge3255 10 месяцев назад +1

    That Jo and Laurie segment was gold! ❤ Desi, you and your husband are Oscar-worthy! Was not something I expected, but was very fun 😌

  • @heatherdean5475
    @heatherdean5475 10 месяцев назад +1

    I just wanted to say (as a videographer myself), I'm so glad you don't post as often as other youtubers because the care and time you've put into your videos SHOWS. Pushing out content for its own sake is a creativity killer, but you put out something truly beautiful and stunning every. single. time. because you paced yourself to achieve the end result you want. Keep going at your own pace - it's working out for you in such a gorgeous way.

  • @eurydice72
    @eurydice72 10 месяцев назад +1

    also at around 8:30 i noticed some sort of audio overlapping

  • @gingerspath3565
    @gingerspath3565 10 месяцев назад +1

    You made the most beautiful little candle mug I have ever seen. You turned brokenness into joy! I love your zest for life. Thank you for sending a little New England our way, and for taking us along with you on your journeys. I think that other content creators should emulate you…not the other way around. Your videos are a cherished gift when they arrive. Don’t pressure yourself to mass produce content…do what makes you happy! Besides…if I need a dose of Desi…I can always go back a view your previous videos…for the millionth times. Happy November. 🍁

  • @krissyn.3366
    @krissyn.3366 10 месяцев назад +1

    November is one of my favorite times during autumn! Thank you for capturing it so beautifully! I'm not ready for Christmas until after Thanksgiving. Until then, I want to keep enjoying my favorite season. 🍁🍂❤️

  • @kindlelight
    @kindlelight 10 месяцев назад +1

    I know you might tend to worry about your content vs others, but I'm genuinely saying that you are the best creator for cozy joyful videos. Even if you're not uploading as many as you'd like to, your videos still are my favorite to see pop up in my notifications. They are so great and even like watching a mini movie now. Thank you!!

  • @itskimberlyrodriguez
    @itskimberlyrodriguez 10 месяцев назад +1

    This was beautiful to watch, Desi ❤ I appreciate and loved your message at the end of the video 🥹 Thank you for the reminder!

  • @The_Super_NOVA
    @The_Super_NOVA 9 месяцев назад +1

    Awww you two acting out the Little Women scene was too cute!

  • @colleenwestbrook8848
    @colleenwestbrook8848 10 месяцев назад +1

    Are you still living in Rhode Island?? Such beautiful countryside ❤

  • @Mary-Contrary
    @Mary-Contrary 10 месяцев назад +1

    That wifi sign is giving Luke's diner vibes! 😂

  • @ayeshaleephotography
    @ayeshaleephotography 10 месяцев назад +1

    I started sobbing when you glued the mug together. That’s something I would have done. Your message at the end was profound and it touched my heart. Thank you for your warmth and your wisdom.

  • @LifeofFallon
    @LifeofFallon 10 месяцев назад

    This was literally such a beautiful video! I was really hoping you would act out the scene on the hill and was pleasantly surprised when you did!!