I still live with my parents, and while I am grateful to them getting cozy is not the easiest when they are around. So I bought my own electric kettle and a pretty sugar container to create a tea corner in my bedroom. It’s been wonderful to be able to create the cozy atmosphere and make my room a sanctuary for myself and my cats.
hi from rainy chilly Austin Texas.... moved back with my parents after covid. they're 80, readjusting has been a struggle. thank you for the cute idea!
It's still september now, i bought a few fall decorations and scented candles. I love lighting my candles, sit in bed, sip tea and read a book. In september my winter depression also starts to bloom up so making it cozy already helps with that
My 72 year old mom who lives alone usually loses interest in the videos I share with her on RUclips. Yours was the first where she stayed plugged in and she told me she was inspired to cozy up her home. She gets lonely often and said this made her feel so much better. 😭🤗 Thank you!!!
As a Dane, I make sure to hygge daily. My favorite kind of hygge, is when I make a cup of cocoa, grab a new book or my iPad, cozy up under my double duvet, turn on my nightlights and just embrace the feeling of warmth. Hygge is so important to me personally, and I plan to go home and hygge like at work and stuff, to keep sane and happy. Hygge is like self love, and it’s awesome
Danish, to be Danish what a sweet blessing 💚🐠💎💎🏵️💙🇮🇹I wish to visit there. Much love and many blessings 🇮🇹💗💗💗💗💗💗 Please take a second to look at my videos 💗
Totally agree 🐝🦆🦆💙💙 Love and blessings from Mottola south of Italy 🌹💗🌈🇮🇹 Please dearest friend take a little look at my dance funny joyful luxurious videos 🥰🌈
It’s always sad for me when the holiday decorations come down and we’re just left with dark, cold winter days. I’ve heard about hygge for a while, but this winter I’ve really needed it and have made a conscious effort to incorporate it more. I think on some level, I’ve always done it, but I’m learning more and trying new things. I’ve really gotten into teas and I’ve decorated with lots of creams & winter greens, logs, candles, blankets...the whole winter wonderland theme and feel. I do prefer the evenings but I’ve recently started in the morning, too. I wake when it’s still dark, so I’ll listen to a meditation and then start to get ready for the day. Instead of the bright overhead light in my bathroom, I use a nightlight and put soft, gentle music on while I shower using handmade soaps or aromatherapy body washes for energy, stress, relaxation, etc. Then, I’ll head down to make coffee in a very plush robe and slippers. I try to take this time just for me and ease into my day. I’ll sit and enjoy my coffee (or tea) on my loveseat with my trusty feline, and watch all the beautiful, different birds come to my bird feeder for their morning breakfast. After that, it’s time to think about the day ahead and looking forward to coming back home and getting cozy again. On non-work days, I like to write letters and cards to send out to friends. By March, I’ll switch out the greens for spring florals and start a brand new season of comfort. Thank you for so many more suggestions for a happy hygge season!
For fireplaces: I play 10 hour long videos of fireplaces on RUclips on my TV. Doesn’t give me the warmth but it gives me the sound and soothe of the images
To be honest, I’m always happiest in the winter months. I need one of these videos to help with my depression in the summer months. I always just feel so drained in the summer😩
I used to feel that way about summer so i decided i would romantize it for me. I now change my home decor a bit to cottons (sheets, gingham, floral curtains, lace curtains, light and airy vibe), i bought kimonos and cute pjs, i spray rose, lavender, citrus smells, have a fan (with ribbons to blow ou) near my lacy curtains (i spray them with rosewater too), i drink fruit and herb infused waters (and ice cubes with same), eat fruit, have flowers, and sit in garden under a parasol, oh and set a breakfast table outside. Lots more but they're the main ones that come to mind. Relaxed and laid back is the best way to enjoy summer. I 'glam' each season but summer has changed so much for me now. I hope some of the ideas might help you.
I am a summer person with a modern style that has allergies to old things and have to read my books on a tablet and never liked romantic movies .. I am the total opposite of you but at the same time I can’t stop watching your videos they bring me so much joy and relaxation. You made me start paying attention to all the small details and romanticize it 🎞📺🕯
I feel like so many people might think, “how do you have the time?” These are likely the same people spending 4 hours a night using technology/screens. It’s hard to remember that just because it’s the norm, doesn’t mean it’s healthy. Thank you for making this video.
In Ireland we call it 'when the electricity goes and you have to rely on candles to see anything and light a fire for heat and talk to your family because the Internet & TV is gone'.
Every once in a while I still make blanket and pillow forts to cozy up in & read or watch a classic movie like when I was a kid. It makes me think of creatures like squirrels nestled inside a tree (lol). Ahhh…cozy vibes! 🐿 I also have a special tea cup I use in the evenings 🫖
As a second generation Dane on both sides, it’s been great to see these humble yet rewarding practices becoming so popular here in the States. I learned several over the years from my grandparents, mostly by example. Snug memories of love & happiness never to be forgotten. Thanks so much for sharing, Desi! 🇺🇸🇩🇰
We have Hygge in Norway too. It's all about grounding, relaxing and living in the moment. It can be at home, alone or with family, in the forest, hiking or relaxing under a tree, it can be in a cabin, by the sea or wherever makes you feel whole. Thank you for a nice video 🫖🕯️
😌 Lately I’ve actually been filling my room with tons of warm browns and oranges, I’ve also been decorating with stuff from outside, and thrifting my books and clothes. I light candles everyday and play classical music haha. ughh I love this way of life. ❤️☺️
YOU are "Anne with an E"! Have you been told you are perfect for the role of "Anne of Green Gables"? I love everything about you, and you are such a blessing to the whole world. Thanks for all you do and share with us. I'm glad I found your channel, in more than 300 MILLION RUclips channels! :)
Starting my day with warm oats, a tsp of sweet cinnamon ( a gentle version of the usual one) and a drizzle of honey warms me up inside and radiates heat to embrace the cool air of fall and winter, love it :)
One of my favourite period dramas to watch was “Wives and Daughters”. Another good one is “The painted Veil”. I hope you find the time to watch them. My daughter and I also put on our frilly aprons and play “The Andrews Sisters” whilst we bake; it’s a wonderful bonding time and memories I’ll cherish with her for the rest of my life. 💕💕💕
I'm so glad this is a new movement in our culture. So many people are trying to find perfection and entertainment outside of their homes. I've been living this way for over thirty years and find so much inspiration in vintage and antique items and seeing there value when much of our society wants the next best plastic thing. It's funny how we have to be reminded of self care. I have a house full of thrifted items and it makes things so much calmer for me as a mom. If my son accidentally breaks something I know I only bought it for a couple dollars. Our furniture has a cozy, plop yourself and stay feeling. My husband and son LOVE being home and constantly tell me how much they love the home I've made for them. We don't have the next Target home decor everyone else has and I love that.
As a nomad, I use "fireplace videos" on youtube to take the cozy fireplace vibe anywhere I go😍. I made my friend a dinner and while eating, we turned off the lights and turned "fireplace" on RUclips on a big phone screen or laptop and it was simple, but magical✨✨
I literally could cry watching your videos. They are so warming, welcoming and such a feel good experience. I also wanted to just let you know how much you have brought me back to life. Seeing you enjoy life at such a simplistic level has made me realize how much I was missing with my life being so chaotic and being lost in my depression. I think social media is filled with perfection and expensive things and lifestyles. Your videos reminded me to enjoy the little things and incorporate passion back to my life...even if that's as simple as reading every night or going out in nature. I mean I started journaling again, writing and even started learning French. I know that was a TMI comment but I just wanted to let you know the major positive effect you have had on me and my life. I love you for it 💕 Thank you!
You are so kind! Thank you!! You wanna know a secret though? It’s actually not wallpaper. It’s a king size sheet that I got at the thrift store 😂 The pattern was so amazing, I couldn’t NOT hang it on my wall ☺️ And MUCH cheaper than wallpaper 🙌🏻 Oh and the cake was a hazelnut/pecan Nutella and cream cheese frosting cake 🍰 so yummy! Anyway, thank you so much for being here and for watching! 🧡🙏🏻
@@DarlingDesi I noticed that it didn't look like it wasn't attached to the wall like wallpaper. That's a good idea. Done right (like yours), it can be really pretty. I love thrift stores and need to do it more. Its just getting out the apartment! 😂
@@DarlingDesi that’s so clever, oh my gosh! A great way to make a room feel cozy and intimate. I will definitely have to try that cake recipe. And of course, love your videos! Can’t wait to see you blow up even more.
@@DarlingDesi I'm just watching some of your old vids and scrolling through the comments, and desi, I am astounded at how genuine and detailed your responses are to your subscribers!! You can tell from the camera that you're a genuine person, but this more than anything show me just how much of a sincere person you are. So admirable.
I looooove this video! but I just wanna say, as a dane and therefore expert on hygge, that hygge can come in all shapes and sizes. Sometimes hygge is everything this video showed us, but other times hygge is literally sitting on a plastic chair, in the sun, listening to music and having a few drinks with your friends. Hygge is so versatile and you'll only really know if you're experiencing hygge, when you're in that present moment and thinking to yourself: I feel good
Desi, I recently found your channel and it’s helped me so much with my seasonal depression. Thank you! I love everything about your channel!! And your taste in books! Much love from NYC! ❤️❤️❤️
Hi Jazmine! Thanks so much for watching! ☺️🧡 I have always struggled with seasonal depression too. January and February are always so hard. But if I can help at all with that, then I feel that what I’m doing and the videos that I make actually matter. If I can make you feel even just a bit of joy and hope, my job is done 🙌🏻☺️🧡
Lovely video as always. As a Dane I always find it funny to see this hygge-trend spread. Hygge really is a wonderful feeling. I am so happy that this trend makes people more aware of that feeling in their daily life. But it is not as complicated as it often sounds. Or maybe I just see it like that because I always have made it my goal to hygge as much as possible and it comes rather easy to me. But your videos are always hyggelige! Thank you for sharing how you bring hygge into your life :)
I definetly drink a hot cup of tea every night after work during the cold months. Thanks for making these winter videos! I continue to be astounded by your cinematography skills. 😍
Yes! But it is such a hard term. I think foreigners really try, but still dont have all the nuances of hygge. It is much more AEsthetic than the danish hygge is, because we have it on the inside, in our soul. I often see the things in this video, but not that much the hyggelig term In its whole
@@whiteedk I have to agree... hygge is more than a mood set by candlelight and calm music... hygge is also me on the floor with my young nephews crawling all over me laughing and a walk with my mom as we talk about the good old days... you know?... I would say Hygge is when the stress of everyday life disappear and you are just happy and content... but even that is not "The Definition" hehe
I've been having a difficult fall/winter and I remembered about this video. For me I love fuzzy socks, warm tea, bookstore shopping, and twinkle lights and candles. I thank you for this reminder to implement this.
I so agree about warm colors and dark wood. Makes me feel so cozy. The trend right now is to have everything white and grey but that feels cold and sterile to me. I also love bringing nature and colors from nature inside. Great video! 💗
We have 2 very young toddlers and winter came early for us. With our heater going out several times and the babies getting cold really easily when we go outside it's been hard to find our sense of coziness. I've found in the past few days that sharing a baked good as a family, dancing in the candle light, and cuddling up on the couch with our girls has helped a lot. The heater was fixed yesterday, and we still turned it down to be a bit chilly in our house to have an excuse to cuddle up as a family and shower our girls in kisses, cuddles, and hugs.
Thank you so much for this video! I struggle with mornings. I am not and never have been a morning person. In the last 7 months since adopting my kitten though, I've had to get up before I wanted to to feed her (they're dusk and dawn predators you know) and though I go back to bed, I end up waking up earlier than I had before having her. I don't have much of a head on my shoulders before noon but I've tried to have something mildly productive to do before the rest of the family wakes up. Then I find your video and I think this is what I want to work towards. A cozy morning where I can bask in the quiet with just the morning light in my room and let my mind and body come to wakefulness.
I feel so good and blessed if I just walk out into the woods with nobody else around me, sit on the ground, and paint. Just being by myself in the woods puts everything in order and life just becomes a joy again, oh and I also crank my fake fireplace heater up ridiculously high and sit right in front of it when I have to do homework. Sitting down and letter writing is also a relaxing one for me.
Aww really?! I just recently learned about it this year too! I’ve always loved being extra cozy during winter, but little did I know there was an entire word for it. And not just that, but an entire culture that focuses on cultivating coziness during the dreary months. I love it!
@@DarlingDesi oh wow! That's perfect for people who have been struggling with mental health, especially during quarantine! What a wonderful thing to become more popular! :) thanks for sharing on it!
I love your channel, just discovered it and it makes me feel all warm and cozy, your videos are so aesthetic and make me wanna enjoy my books and the season even more!
That warms my heart!! Thank you so much 🧡✨ If I can make someone feel cozy and happy for just a few minutes out of the day, my job is done 🙏🏻 I hope you have a fantastic week, friend!
I have start changing out my decor for each month. It gives me a reason to do a deep clean and a fresh start for each month. So much glassware and decorative items are just not wanted any more. It gives them and me a new life.
What makes me feel cozy is starting a journal, kinda a junk type of journal that I only write a little bit in each day and scrapbook a little in it. It's a fun craft I've been excited for each day, kinda like the tea cup thing you mention.
Hi Desi! As a Dane I can fully support everything in your video as HYGGE! Excellent suggestions to brighten up the dark months. I myself am a big fan of ASMR (Harry Potter and rainy study sessions mostly), candles and hot beverages. My dream is to one day have my own fireplace, so that I can sit in front of it and drink hot chocolate while reading Dracula. I was thinking of things to add to the hygge-list, and the only thing I can think of is to use the word hygge as a verb "to hygge". It is something we say like, "hey what are you doing?" "I am hygging". Haha terrible to try and bend the word in an English manner, but you get the idea. So you actually state that that is what you are doing. And also, if you are with a friend and you don't know what to do and have nothing planned, you can say "let's just hygge" - and then you both go into the hygge-mode. I hope this suggestion made sense! Thanks for a hyggelig video and "hyg dig!"
It is something I will always miss...surroundung myself, my home with vintage items, ways, sounds etc. candles I've always lit, I worry that it's worrysum, not appreciated by the owner, in my room. Over head lighting is a bummer, (candles) lamps are my thing also. Really appreciate much of your nature, it's much of mine...still I have plans to splash the colors of the season in my room and gathering those small treasures in thrifting that are waiting for someone like me to bring em' home.
What makes me feal cozy is in the spring, on a stormy, rainy night, pushing my bed up to the window opening it listening to the rain, and thunder, drinking tea and reading a good book. then when I'm done, I lay down and fall asleep with the rain hitting my face. 😊😊
I have overcame that feeling about winter and the cold, just after I stoped labeling life. Snow I take it as a magic that is happening, can you imagine how beautiful is that the white sparkly things falling how magical. And when I walk or drive in the dark the ground full with sparkle how beautiful. And when its a bit windy the air will be sparkly shimmery air, isn’t that magical?! ❤️💚💛💙
You can't beat coziness. This is definitely something to incorporate more of! I've been making sure to decorate for the holidays even the small ones it really makes a difference. We are currently coming up with more ideas to make our house feel more like a home. Also you have a beautiful home!
Yes! Decorating even for small holidays is such a great way to make your home even more cozy and full of happiness ☺️ I totally agree. And thank you so much!! 🧡🙏🏻
Danish woman here 😃 I love how you do it, and think foreigners really try, but still dont get all the nuances of hygge. It is often portrayed much more Aesthetic than the danish hygge is, because we have it on the inside, in our soul. I often see the things in this video, but not that much the hyggelig term. Like a hyggelig aunt you really enjoy spending time with, but not a person in a knitted sweater that lights candles everywhere and drinks tea. But Just because she is a person you enjoy being around. Or that hygge also can be watching children’s tv with our kids in th morning in your way to messy house, or eating a cookie, or watching RUclips ect. It is all about doing something that makes you happy for a second in this crazy world
I just wanna say Thankyou. I’ve been having massive anxiety lately and I found your channel randomly and OMG watching your videos have helped me so much. I literally just started binging them because they all have themes of finding happiness in your everyday life, being cozy, and it’s helped a lot. So again, Thankyou Desi. You gained a loyal follower today
Greetings from Alabama. I noticed your "Actually, I Can" coffee mug and it made me smile. I have a set of four and my friends always take pleasure in reading them when I serve coffee :-)
I've been in love with your videos, these fill my heart with warm and love of small things. It also excite me to be more into reading as it has become my new hobby for my me-time. Thank you so much for sharing these experience and cozy and lovely life of yours. I did not believe that anyone of us could have a perfect life but everyone could be more fulfill and serene with gratitude of the everyone huge and little blessings we receive from God. Spread love
Hi desi and I’m a huge nature lover and recently I’ve gotten into the Victorian era and that’s when I found your channel and it’s amazing ❤️ thanks for making me even more interested in cottage core love u bye
I came from the "how to romanticize your life video" I LOVE the music🙏🏾💙😍 It reminds me of a Disney fairtale movie! Or a Broadway play about a princess
I begin each and every morning with the aroma of freshly brewed coffee, the scent and warmth of a lit candle and the sound of quite. Sitting in perfect stillness is so peaceful to me. Always enjoy the dim light of lamps. Myu daughters has an ASMR channel Freshly Brewed, so I will have that on as well. Thaks for sharing your tips! Love your channel!
Thank you Desi for sharing your beautiful light out into the world! Such important work that you do!!! 💖 I woke up feeling so sad and out of sorts and watching your beautiful video has totally made my day better already! For many years I have used the reading of wonderful books and my cozy wood stove to get me through the winter. I love your idea of romanticizing ones life. I used to do this, but had forgotten as I grew up. Thank you so much for the reminder! 😍🌈💐🎵❤️
YOU are the epitome of hygge! I love your videos, they make me feel all's right with the world. Even in these crazy times we are living in right now! Thank you x
You’re too kind! 🙏🏻 Thank you so much for watching! I totally agree that we could all use some extra coziness and happiness during these crazy times. I hope you have a great week full of magic! ✨
My favorite word is Hygge. It just fits so well in too many situations. When I'm making Christmas decorations, go for a walk with a friend, snuggling up in my bed, etc. It is also so "hyggeligt" to see other then Danes use the word. Now when I'm a Dane myself☕
I adore Hygge! It is my way of life! One thing that i've added to my hygge living are a couple of hammock swings that are super cozy. It genuinely feels like a magical ✨️ hug to me! Thank you for the inspiration!🥐☕️🥧
I so agree. I love getting my used things from yard sale one I get to talk about how frugal I am but talk about the person I bought it from now coming into my home
Thank you for sharing that tip about winter! I have always struggled with the sun going down early in the inter months, but romanticizing that aspect by allowing candle light and that fire element to just swirl around me really gives me cozy vibes.
I just came across your channel. I am a young mom of 2 under 2 and I’ve been feeling really blah lately. I’m starting my own business and take care of both of them at home and its been a lot. I miss self care, and coziness, and romanticizing my life everyday. I absolutely love being a mom, but I haven’t been able to take this time. These recommendations are so lovely and so wonderful. I completely loved the b-roll. You’ve sparked something in my heart again. I absolutely LOVE your content. You are so lovely. Thank you!
Your videos have absolutely given me life. I just savor how wonderful and cozy they are. I don't know a lot about my heritage, but my husband's grandpa immigrated to Canada from Denmark, and he helped incorporate a lot of Danish traditions into my husband and his mom's lives. Unfortunately his grandpa passed away this past year, and we've taken on the tradition of some Danish traditions such as the Christmas duck dinner with the risengrød, rødkål, and the karamelliseret kartofler. Since my husband also lost his dad due to cancer recently and as such his mom is a widow, it's been a wonderful tradition to maintain (and we managed to do it in seperate homes over Zoom this year). I always loved the hygge concept even before I met my husband, but it gives us an extra special meaning behind it now
Only found your channel yesterday but so glad I did. Your content makes me smile. Your imagination appears to work in similar ways to my own. Stop, listen to the birds, bake gingerbread and relax to the crackle of logs on the fire...bliss!
I do this all the time and never knew it was a thing and that I wasn’t the only one doing it!!! I do it all year round.. My room is so cozy and the atmosphere is amazing and warm and relaxing!!! It’s very welcoming
I still live with my parents, and while I am grateful to them getting cozy is not the easiest when they are around. So I bought my own electric kettle and a pretty sugar container to create a tea corner in my bedroom. It’s been wonderful to be able to create the cozy atmosphere and make my room a sanctuary for myself and my cats.
I love this! Even reading this comment made me feel cosy!
I love this comment. Nothing like taking tea with a book and a 🐈.
Same!! I'm grateful to live with them but it's not always easy to be more independent
hi from rainy chilly Austin Texas.... moved back with my parents after covid. they're 80, readjusting has been a struggle. thank you for the cute idea!
It's still september now, i bought a few fall decorations and scented candles. I love lighting my candles, sit in bed, sip tea and read a book. In september my winter depression also starts to bloom up so making it cozy already helps with that
My 72 year old mom who lives alone usually loses interest in the videos I share with her on RUclips. Yours was the first where she stayed plugged in and she told me she was inspired to cozy up her home. She gets lonely often and said this made her feel so much better. 😭🤗
Thank you!!!
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Hello Christina 🌹❤️ the Rose is for you for being awesome daughter 😙
Heart is for your sweet momma 💞🤗💕. Love to y'all, from Texas
consider getting her a little cat 🥰
@@sofitocyn100 mah heart mah soul :,,,,,(
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As a Dane, I make sure to hygge daily. My favorite kind of hygge, is when I make a cup of cocoa, grab a new book or my iPad, cozy up under my double duvet, turn on my nightlights and just embrace the feeling of warmth. Hygge is so important to me personally, and I plan to go home and hygge like at work and stuff, to keep sane and happy. Hygge is like self love, and it’s awesome
Danish, to be Danish what a sweet blessing 💚🐠💎💎🏵️💙🇮🇹I wish to visit there.
Much love and many blessings 🇮🇹💗💗💗💗💗💗
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Love hygge. Never heard this 🤍🤍🤍 word before💖🐞🌹🌈🇮🇹🌄🌅💎💙 Same feeling as me though.
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Im also danish
I’m Danish as well, and I completely agree, you described it perfectly 🥰
Honestly it feels like stepping inside a book when I watch your videos
Agreeee 🖤🖤🤍💗💗💗 please take a look at my dance funny joyful luxurious videos 🥰 Much love from South of Italy
I am Danish, and I am so happy to see how many people are benefitting from creating a life with "hygge" :)
SAME
I live in Finland and I know I’m gonna watch this 100 times in the future when I lose my “motivation” for winter, what a beautiful video ❤️
Already on my saved playlist :D
Wow 💜🐠🖤💚 Finland omg must be a magic lovely place.
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Same ! But from Estonia 😅 although without the snow it's a bit sad still..
Totally agree 🐝🦆🦆💙💙 Love and blessings from Mottola south of Italy 🌹💗🌈🇮🇹 Please dearest friend take a little look at my dance funny joyful luxurious videos 🥰🌈
"I can still be beautiful and useful and purposeful without being perfect." Such a great mantra.
I also like your Luke's coffee mug.
It’s always sad for me when the holiday decorations come down and we’re just left with dark, cold winter days. I’ve heard about hygge for a while, but this winter I’ve really needed it and have made a conscious effort to incorporate it more. I think on some level, I’ve always done it, but I’m learning more and trying new things. I’ve really gotten into teas and I’ve decorated with lots of creams & winter greens, logs, candles, blankets...the whole winter wonderland theme and feel. I do prefer the evenings but I’ve recently started in the morning, too. I wake when it’s still dark, so I’ll listen to a meditation and then start to get ready for the day. Instead of the bright overhead light in my bathroom, I use a nightlight and put soft, gentle music on while I shower using handmade soaps or aromatherapy body washes for energy, stress, relaxation, etc. Then, I’ll head down to make coffee in a very plush robe and slippers. I try to take this time just for me and ease into my day. I’ll sit and enjoy my coffee (or tea) on my loveseat with my trusty feline, and watch all the beautiful, different birds come to my bird feeder for their morning breakfast. After that, it’s time to think about the day ahead and looking forward to coming back home and getting cozy again. On non-work days, I like to write letters and cards to send out to friends. By March, I’ll switch out the greens for spring florals and start a brand new season of comfort.
Thank you for so many more suggestions for a happy hygge season!
For fireplaces: I play 10 hour long videos of fireplaces on RUclips on my TV. Doesn’t give me the warmth but it gives me the sound and soothe of the images
To be honest, I’m always happiest in the winter months. I need one of these videos to help with my depression in the summer months. I always just feel so drained in the summer😩
I feel the same way! I always feel like the odd one out because the summer months are the longest and most draining to me.
I used to feel that way about summer so i decided i would romantize it for me. I now change my home decor a bit to cottons (sheets, gingham, floral curtains, lace curtains, light and airy vibe), i bought kimonos and cute pjs, i spray rose, lavender, citrus smells, have a fan (with ribbons to blow ou) near my lacy curtains (i spray them with rosewater too), i drink fruit and herb infused waters (and ice cubes with same), eat fruit, have flowers, and sit in garden under a parasol, oh and set a breakfast table outside. Lots more but they're the main ones that come to mind. Relaxed and laid back is the best way to enjoy summer. I 'glam' each season but summer has changed so much for me now. I hope some of the ideas might help you.
@@fionamclean6533 This helps a lot! thank you so much ❤
Fairy lights are a real game changer for me when it’s gray and gloomy 🥰
I am a summer person with a modern style that has allergies to old things and have to read my books on a tablet and never liked romantic movies .. I am the total opposite of you but at the same time I can’t stop watching your videos they bring me so much joy and relaxation. You made me start paying attention to all the small details and romanticize it 🎞📺🕯
how sweet is it that we are all so different, yet so similar ? i hope you’re having a relaxing day
I feel like so many people might think, “how do you have the time?” These are likely the same people spending 4 hours a night using technology/screens. It’s hard to remember that just because it’s the norm, doesn’t mean it’s healthy. Thank you for making this video.
I would love to see a collaboration video between Desi and Rachel Maskey!
In Norway we call it “koselig” 😊
And in the Netherlands “gezellig”
And in Switzerland we call it „kuschelig“ 🥰
I’m loving all these different countries versions! ❤️
In Poland we say : "przytulny" ; )
In Ireland we call it 'when the electricity goes and you have to rely on candles to see anything and light a fire for heat and talk to your family because the Internet & TV is gone'.
Every once in a while I still make blanket and pillow forts to cozy up in & read or watch a classic movie like when I was a kid. It makes me think of creatures like squirrels nestled inside a tree (lol). Ahhh…cozy vibes! 🐿 I also have a special tea cup I use in the evenings 🫖
Desi: *amazing, unique aesthetic with a killer hair color and red lip vibes*
My dumb brain: That orange Taylor Swift
Much love from South of Italy 🤍🤍🤍🤍 please take a little look at my dance funny joyful luxurious videos 🥰
Colored or beige & brown lampshades and even amber bulbs give a lovely warm ambience
As a second generation Dane on both sides, it’s been great to see these humble yet rewarding practices becoming so popular here in the States. I learned several over the years from my grandparents, mostly by example. Snug memories of love & happiness never to be forgotten. Thanks so much for sharing, Desi! 🇺🇸🇩🇰
Candles, books, used furniture, and tea are some of my favorite things. I'm once again convinced this is the channel for me to be watching.
We have Hygge in Norway too. It's all about grounding, relaxing and living in the moment. It can be at home, alone or with family, in the forest, hiking or relaxing under a tree, it can be in a cabin, by the sea or wherever makes you feel whole. Thank you for a nice video 🫖🕯️
😌 Lately I’ve actually been filling my room with tons of warm browns and oranges, I’ve also been decorating with stuff from outside, and thrifting my books and clothes. I light candles everyday and play classical music haha.
ughh I love this way of life. ❤️☺️
YOU are "Anne with an E"! Have you been told you are perfect for the role of "Anne of Green Gables"? I love everything about you, and you are such a blessing to the whole world. Thanks for all you do and share with us. I'm glad I found your channel, in more than 300 MILLION RUclips channels! :)
Yessss!!!! That’s exactly what I thought 💭She is Annie with and E 😆😁💓💕
Omg that is so true. I love that movie.
Starting my day with warm oats, a tsp of sweet cinnamon ( a gentle version of the usual one) and a drizzle of honey warms me up inside and radiates heat to embrace the cool air of fall and winter, love it :)
One of my favourite period dramas to watch was “Wives and Daughters”. Another good one is “The painted Veil”. I hope you find the time to watch them. My daughter and I also put on our frilly aprons and play “The Andrews Sisters” whilst we bake; it’s a wonderful bonding time and memories I’ll cherish with her for the rest of my life. 💕💕💕
I'm so glad this is a new movement in our culture. So many people are trying to find perfection and entertainment outside of their homes. I've been living this way for over thirty years and find so much inspiration in vintage and antique items and seeing there value when much of our society wants the next best plastic thing. It's funny how we have to be reminded of self care. I have a house full of thrifted items and it makes things so much calmer for me as a mom. If my son accidentally breaks something I know I only bought it for a couple dollars. Our furniture has a cozy, plop yourself and stay feeling. My husband and son LOVE being home and constantly tell me how much they love the home I've made for them. We don't have the next Target home decor everyone else has and I love that.
*I can see that you always put so much work into your videos, they're so beautifuly crafted and extremely good!!* 💚
Aww thanks friend!! You have become one of my new favorite channels to watch! So that coming from you is a great compliment! Thank you! 🧡
As a nomad, I use "fireplace videos" on youtube to take the cozy fireplace vibe anywhere I go😍. I made my friend a dinner and while eating, we turned off the lights and turned "fireplace" on RUclips on a big phone screen or laptop and it was simple, but magical✨✨
Teacher: okay, bye then have a nice we-
ME, IMMEDIATELY TURNING OFF THE CAMERA BECAUSE MY DARLING DROPPED A VIDEO
OMG STOP YOU’RE SO SWEET 🙈
As a teacher, I approve of leaving to watch this video. :)
...twosetters are literally everywhere...
@@caroline7420 Ikr! 😂
I literally could cry watching your videos. They are so warming, welcoming and such a feel good experience. I also wanted to just let you know how much you have brought me back to life. Seeing you enjoy life at such a simplistic level has made me realize how much I was missing with my life being so chaotic and being lost in my depression. I think social media is filled with perfection and expensive things and lifestyles. Your videos reminded me to enjoy the little things and incorporate passion back to my life...even if that's as simple as reading every night or going out in nature. I mean I started journaling again, writing and even started learning French. I know that was a TMI comment but I just wanted to let you know the major positive effect you have had on me and my life. I love you for it 💕 Thank you!
Your home is so beautiful! The wallpaper and the fireplace especially. But it was the cake that won me over 😍✨ watching this entire thing!
You are so kind! Thank you!! You wanna know a secret though? It’s actually not wallpaper. It’s a king size sheet that I got at the thrift store 😂 The pattern was so amazing, I couldn’t NOT hang it on my wall ☺️ And MUCH cheaper than wallpaper 🙌🏻 Oh and the cake was a hazelnut/pecan Nutella and cream cheese frosting cake 🍰 so yummy! Anyway, thank you so much for being here and for watching! 🧡🙏🏻
@@DarlingDesi I noticed that it didn't look like it wasn't attached to the wall like wallpaper. That's a good idea. Done right (like yours), it can be really pretty. I love thrift stores and need to do it more. Its just getting out the apartment! 😂
@@DarlingDesi that’s so clever, oh my gosh! A great way to make a room feel cozy and intimate. I will definitely have to try that cake recipe. And of course, love your videos! Can’t wait to see you blow up even more.
@@DarlingDesi I'm just watching some of your old vids and scrolling through the comments, and desi, I am astounded at how genuine and detailed your responses are to your subscribers!! You can tell from the camera that you're a genuine person, but this more than anything show me just how much of a sincere person you are. So admirable.
we are so much into the same cozy-victorian-romantic vibe !! 🤩
It’s the best 😍 And I’m only just getting started on the Victorian/vintage content 😉 more is definitely to come!
my new fav comfort channel & person!
Hygge is my favorite vibe, no question. This makes me very happy! ♥
and when I felt like I was an old cardigan under someone's bed, this video put me on and said I was its favorite
Your hair color is absolutely gorgeous !
I live in Southern California...I'm going to watch this thousands of times!
I looooove this video! but I just wanna say, as a dane and therefore expert on hygge, that hygge can come in all shapes and sizes. Sometimes hygge is everything this video showed us, but other times hygge is literally sitting on a plastic chair, in the sun, listening to music and having a few drinks with your friends. Hygge is so versatile and you'll only really know if you're experiencing hygge, when you're in that present moment and thinking to yourself: I feel good
Desi, I recently found your channel and it’s helped me so much with my seasonal depression. Thank you! I love everything about your channel!! And your taste in books! Much love from NYC! ❤️❤️❤️
Hi Jazmine! Thanks so much for watching! ☺️🧡 I have always struggled with seasonal depression too. January and February are always so hard. But if I can help at all with that, then I feel that what I’m doing and the videos that I make actually matter. If I can make you feel even just a bit of joy and hope, my job is done 🙌🏻☺️🧡
@@DarlingDesi You have been a great help to me as well. Seasonal depression especially in these times is brutal. Many thanks!
This makes me so happy. The little things. It’s amazing.
I love how I'm watching this in Brazil, in the middle of summer, wishing it could get a *little* colder here to use those tips
I got transported to a whole new land while watching this video… so dreamy!!!
Lovely video as always. As a Dane I always find it funny to see this hygge-trend spread. Hygge really is a wonderful feeling. I am so happy that this trend makes people more aware of that feeling in their daily life. But it is not as complicated as it often sounds. Or maybe I just see it like that because I always have made it my goal to hygge as much as possible and it comes rather easy to me. But your videos are always hyggelige! Thank you for sharing how you bring hygge into your life :)
okay. saving to watch a bunch more times. this was delightful.
I definetly drink a hot cup of tea every night after work during the cold months. Thanks for making these winter videos! I continue to be astounded by your cinematography skills. 😍
Hot tea is one of the best things about winter ☕️☺️ And thank you so much! You’re so kind 🧡
@@DarlingDesi you're so welcome! 💕
OMG! this video is so beautiful and aesthetic! thank you desi! :)
OMG YOU’RE SO NICE 😩 Thank you! Thank YOU so much! 🙏🏻
@@DarlingDesi Ahhhh no thank you!!
Waaay too proud Danish person here excited for your take on Hygge, the thing from my home land I can't live without ^-^
Yes! But it is such a hard term. I think foreigners really try, but still dont have all the nuances of hygge. It is much more AEsthetic than the danish hygge is, because we have it on the inside, in our soul. I often see the things in this video, but not that much the hyggelig term In its whole
@@whiteedk I have to agree... hygge is more than a mood set by candlelight and calm music... hygge is also me on the floor with my young nephews crawling all over me laughing and a walk with my mom as we talk about the good old days... you know?... I would say Hygge is when the stress of everyday life disappear and you are just happy and content... but even that is not "The Definition" hehe
@@kialazyeyereader1822 no it is a thing that is soooo hard to explain. I seriously struggle with how I can explain how it feels inside
I've been having a difficult fall/winter and I remembered about this video. For me I love fuzzy socks, warm tea, bookstore shopping, and twinkle lights and candles. I thank you for this reminder to implement this.
I so agree about warm colors and dark wood. Makes me feel so cozy. The trend right now is to have everything white and grey but that feels cold and sterile to me. I also love bringing nature and colors from nature inside. Great video! 💗
We have 2 very young toddlers and winter came early for us. With our heater going out several times and the babies getting cold really easily when we go outside it's been hard to find our sense of coziness. I've found in the past few days that sharing a baked good as a family, dancing in the candle light, and cuddling up on the couch with our girls has helped a lot. The heater was fixed yesterday, and we still turned it down to be a bit chilly in our house to have an excuse to cuddle up as a family and shower our girls in kisses, cuddles, and hugs.
Thank you so much for this video! I struggle with mornings. I am not and never have been a morning person. In the last 7 months since adopting my kitten though, I've had to get up before I wanted to to feed her (they're dusk and dawn predators you know) and though I go back to bed, I end up waking up earlier than I had before having her. I don't have much of a head on my shoulders before noon but I've tried to have something mildly productive to do before the rest of the family wakes up. Then I find your video and I think this is what I want to work towards. A cozy morning where I can bask in the quiet with just the morning light in my room and let my mind and body come to wakefulness.
The aesthetic in this video is what I aspire to
Canadian winter? Now far more bearable. Thank you for such a beautifully made video!
I love ASMR before i go to sleep. it helps me sleep cause i have trouble sleeping.
I feel so good and blessed if I just walk out into the woods with nobody else around me, sit on the ground, and paint. Just being by myself in the woods puts everything in order and life just becomes a joy again, oh and I also crank my fake fireplace heater up ridiculously high and sit right in front of it when I have to do homework. Sitting down and letter writing is also a relaxing one for me.
I never knew what Hyyge was! This was such a sweet video! I love this art of being cozy
Aww really?! I just recently learned about it this year too! I’ve always loved being extra cozy during winter, but little did I know there was an entire word for it. And not just that, but an entire culture that focuses on cultivating coziness during the dreary months. I love it!
@@DarlingDesi oh wow! That's perfect for people who have been struggling with mental health, especially during quarantine! What a wonderful thing to become more popular! :) thanks for sharing on it!
@@DarlingDesi hygge happens in all seasons 😉
I love your channel, just discovered it and it makes me feel all warm and cozy, your videos are so aesthetic and make me wanna enjoy my books and the season even more!
That warms my heart!! Thank you so much 🧡✨ If I can make someone feel cozy and happy for just a few minutes out of the day, my job is done 🙏🏻 I hope you have a fantastic week, friend!
Oh my I want to see outside again I can’t stop loving the snow falling making me feel like wow 🤩
I have start changing out my decor for each month. It gives me a reason to do a deep clean and a fresh start for each month. So much glassware and decorative items are just not wanted any more. It gives them and me a new life.
Life is wonderful in any season
What makes me feel cozy is starting a journal, kinda a junk type of journal that I only write a little bit in each day and scrapbook a little in it. It's a fun craft I've been excited for each day, kinda like the tea cup thing you mention.
Hi Desi!
As a Dane I can fully support everything in your video as HYGGE! Excellent suggestions to brighten up the dark months. I myself am a big fan of ASMR (Harry Potter and rainy study sessions mostly), candles and hot beverages. My dream is to one day have my own fireplace, so that I can sit in front of it and drink hot chocolate while reading Dracula.
I was thinking of things to add to the hygge-list, and the only thing I can think of is to use the word hygge as a verb "to hygge". It is something we say like,
"hey what are you doing?"
"I am hygging".
Haha terrible to try and bend the word in an English manner, but you get the idea. So you actually state that that is what you are doing. And also, if you are with a friend and you don't know what to do and have nothing planned, you can say "let's just hygge" - and then you both go into the hygge-mode. I hope this suggestion made sense!
Thanks for a hyggelig video and "hyg dig!"
It is something I will always miss...surroundung myself, my home with vintage items, ways, sounds etc. candles I've always lit, I worry that it's worrysum, not appreciated by the owner, in my room. Over head lighting is a bummer, (candles) lamps are my thing also. Really appreciate much of your nature, it's much of mine...still I have plans to splash the colors of the season in my room and gathering those small treasures in thrifting that are waiting for someone like me to bring em' home.
What makes me feal cozy is in the spring, on a stormy, rainy night, pushing my bed up to the window opening it listening to the rain, and thunder, drinking tea and reading a good book. then when I'm done, I lay down and fall asleep with the rain hitting my face. 😊😊
Yay! Perfect way to start the week ☺️♥️
Awww yay!! I’m just now going to bed after editing this video all night/morning 😂 I hope you have a beautiful and magical week! ✨
@@DarlingDesi thank you for taking the time to put some joy, light and warmth into this world. Your videos help lift my spirits so much! Sleep well 💜
Your videos never fail to make me happy, you are such an inspiration 🤎🤎
I have overcame that feeling about winter and the cold, just after I stoped labeling life. Snow I take it as a magic that is happening, can you imagine how beautiful is that the white sparkly things falling how magical. And when I walk or drive in the dark the ground full with sparkle how beautiful. And when its a bit windy the air will be sparkly shimmery air, isn’t that magical?! ❤️💚💛💙
You can't beat coziness. This is definitely something to incorporate more of! I've been making sure to decorate for the holidays even the small ones it really makes a difference. We are currently coming up with more ideas to make our house feel more like a home. Also you have a beautiful home!
Yes! Decorating even for small holidays is such a great way to make your home even more cozy and full of happiness ☺️ I totally agree. And thank you so much!! 🧡🙏🏻
Danish woman here 😃
I love how you do it, and think foreigners really try, but still dont get all the nuances of hygge. It is often portrayed much more Aesthetic than the danish hygge is, because we have it on the inside, in our soul. I often see the things in this video, but not that much the hyggelig term. Like a hyggelig aunt you really enjoy spending time with, but not a person in a knitted sweater that lights candles everywhere and drinks tea. But Just because she is a person you enjoy being around. Or that hygge also can be watching children’s tv with our kids in th morning in your way to messy house, or eating a cookie, or watching RUclips ect. It is all about doing something that makes you happy for a second in this crazy world
you are living the cottage cozy life that I dream to have one day
I just wanna say Thankyou. I’ve been having massive anxiety lately and I found your channel randomly and OMG watching your videos have helped me so much. I literally just started binging them because they all have themes of finding happiness in your everyday life, being cozy, and it’s helped a lot. So again, Thankyou Desi. You gained a loyal follower today
New here. Learning about Hygge. I smiled at all of the books stacked on the floor.
This video came at the exact perfect time. You just sprinkle happiness everywhere you go Desi!
No screen time is my favourite time of the day for me. It's really calming and it has improved my sleep and mindset so much.
Greetings from Alabama. I noticed your "Actually, I Can" coffee mug and it made me smile. I have a set of four and my friends always take pleasure in reading them when I serve coffee :-)
I've been in love with your videos, these fill my heart with warm and love of small things. It also excite me to be more into reading as it has become my new hobby for my me-time. Thank you so much for sharing these experience and cozy and lovely life of yours. I did not believe that anyone of us could have a perfect life but everyone could be more fulfill and serene with gratitude of the everyone huge and little blessings we receive from God. Spread love
Hi desi and I’m a huge nature lover and recently I’ve gotten into the Victorian era and that’s when I found your channel and it’s amazing ❤️ thanks for making me even more interested in cottage core love u bye
I came from the "how to romanticize your life video" I LOVE the music🙏🏾💙😍 It reminds me of a Disney fairtale movie! Or a Broadway play about a princess
7:55 That's the perfect imperfection. In Swiss German we have a word called "heimelig" which is about being in a place that feels like a home.
I begin each and every morning with the aroma of freshly brewed coffee, the scent and warmth of a lit candle and the sound of quite. Sitting in perfect stillness is so peaceful to me. Always enjoy the dim light of lamps. Myu daughters has an ASMR channel Freshly Brewed, so I will have that on as well. Thaks for sharing your tips! Love your channel!
Thank you Desi for sharing your beautiful light out into the world! Such important work that you do!!! 💖 I woke up feeling so sad and out of sorts and watching your beautiful video has totally made my day better already! For many years I have used the reading of wonderful books and my cozy wood stove to get me through the winter. I love your idea of romanticizing ones life. I used to do this, but had forgotten as I grew up. Thank you so much for the reminder! 😍🌈💐🎵❤️
YOU are the epitome of hygge! I love your videos, they make me feel all's right with the world. Even in these crazy times we are living in right now! Thank you x
You’re too kind! 🙏🏻 Thank you so much for watching! I totally agree that we could all use some extra coziness and happiness during these crazy times. I hope you have a great week full of magic! ✨
A home without books is like a body without a soul....don't know who said that, but YES it's true!
Your videos are the epitome of warmth and cosyness. I can't talk you how much I enjoy watching them ! Thank you for making them !
hands down the best RUclipsr EVER!! every video is you make is sooo aesthetic
This video just healed my inner being
My favorite word is Hygge. It just fits so well in too many situations. When I'm making Christmas decorations, go for a walk with a friend, snuggling up in my bed, etc. It is also so "hyggeligt" to see other then Danes use the word. Now when I'm a Dane myself☕
I adore Hygge! It is my way of life! One thing that i've added to my hygge living are a couple of hammock swings that are super cozy. It genuinely feels like a magical ✨️ hug to me! Thank you for the inspiration!🥐☕️🥧
I so agree. I love getting my used things from yard sale one I get to talk about how frugal I am but talk about the person I bought it from now coming into my home
you have a little Hummel in your life! My grandmother got me hooked on Hummel paintings and figurines.
That dance scene with your dog was waaaay to cute !
This is the cosiest video ever! Thank you so much Desi 💖 the style and vibes are immaculate ✨🕯🌾
Thank you for sharing that tip about winter! I have always struggled with the sun going down early in the inter months, but romanticizing that aspect by allowing candle light and that fire element to just swirl around me really gives me cozy vibes.
I just came across your channel. I am a young mom of 2 under 2 and I’ve been feeling really blah lately. I’m starting my own business and take care of both of them at home and its been a lot. I miss self care, and coziness, and romanticizing my life everyday. I absolutely love being a mom, but I haven’t been able to take this time. These recommendations are so lovely and so wonderful. I completely loved the b-roll. You’ve sparked something in my heart again. I absolutely LOVE your content. You are so lovely. Thank you!
Rewatching and loving this all over again!
Your videos have absolutely given me life. I just savor how wonderful and cozy they are. I don't know a lot about my heritage, but my husband's grandpa immigrated to Canada from Denmark, and he helped incorporate a lot of Danish traditions into my husband and his mom's lives. Unfortunately his grandpa passed away this past year, and we've taken on the tradition of some Danish traditions such as the Christmas duck dinner with the risengrød, rødkål, and the karamelliseret kartofler. Since my husband also lost his dad due to cancer recently and as such his mom is a widow, it's been a wonderful tradition to maintain (and we managed to do it in seperate homes over Zoom this year). I always loved the hygge concept even before I met my husband, but it gives us an extra special meaning behind it now
Lovely. It's simular to "gezellig". The Dutch way of Hygge. Making your home a warm and inviting place to be.
This made me feel so comforted, like you're a friend that is there for me!!
Only found your channel yesterday but so glad I did. Your content makes me smile. Your imagination appears to work in similar ways to my own. Stop, listen to the birds, bake gingerbread and relax to the crackle of logs on the fire...bliss!
I do this all the time and never knew it was a thing and that I wasn’t the only one doing it!!! I do it all year round.. My room is so cozy and the atmosphere is amazing and warm and relaxing!!! It’s very welcoming