Computerized dating has given women the idea that commitment is unnecessary, and yet, it is to be a 'good person'. It is a narcissistic era and the older generation went through this change and we are still trying to figure out what went wrong.
Thanks for sharing your vulnerable truth about what it really feels like to have moments of being contented and fulfilled with your girlfriend. It is rare to hear it coming from men these days with all the red pill content going around the internet. I have always believe that there are good men like you out there who still believe in love and what a good relationship can bring for both people involved.
Yes good men still exist,, so good women, but with all those scams on Internet, better choose someone you really know, it will save you time and money. Learning to evolve, is the main purpose of living. With or without someone else.
Thank you for the comment! It is time for good men to step up and speak out. This world is filled with good people, overshadowed by the loudest, most superficial influencers. I always believed in good women and love thanks to my parents’ long marriage. Now I want to educate others that it is indeed still possible to find healthy, loving relationships..
Im the same, but its hard to trust woman nowadays, you never know who you are talking to and what they are up to, same goes for women that search for men, there are alot of false people out there sadly. I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust a woman again, its hard to heal from some of the things I experienced, at least for me. Its the worst if you really found the, in your eyes perfect girl or woman, just to realize after a long time of commitment that she wasn't honest when she said she was honest, in the beginning it wasn't like that but I caught alot of small lies and over time those lies got even bigger until I lost trust in her even so she was the only woman I could connect on on a real deep level. To be honest I don't really believe someone like she was in the beginning will ever be in my life again, and even if, I think my trust issues got so bad I will push her away over time. I mean in this generation is 10x worse than it used to be 50 years ago, and I see even my parents and everyone splitting up all the time, which makes me question if its really worth it
Thanks for sharing your experience. I get where you’re coming from, as my first relationship was quite toxic and in the end my ex even left me for another guy. After that, I had an online “affair” with someone I developed strong feelings for but in the end, she did not wish to take it further and I also found out she had lied to me from the very beginning.. that experience in particular made me feel betrayed, even if I wasn’t perfect myself. Our paths can be very painful at times, but I wish you all the best and hope you will be able to have an open heart when the right woman crosses your path.
Men want purpose worth pursuing. For 95% of men that was family and women - as it's hard to find not run thru ungangbang women under 30 nowadays - most of the men is looking for other purposes but it's hard. As women are not worth pursuing. End of story.
Been single and without sex for 25 years. Been fine until the last few years. Seeing all this mgtow crap has convinced me modern women have impossible to meet standards has me thinking it'd be great if I don't wake up tomorrow. Til then, booze and pot and fingers crossed it all ends sooner rather than later.
I wish you all the best.. if I didn’t see moderately sensible women in my friend groups / family, I also wouldn’t have faith in modern women at all. I want you to know I’m grateful for your comment, because it offers a point of view for other men. Some can relate, others can draw inspiration to work harder or look for opportunities harder. Whatever it may be, I think sharing painful experiences such as yours does good for this world, even if it’s a tiny positive drop in an ocean filled with hurt.
So sad to see this, if a pretty girl is doing this videos she has millions of subscribers, and they are a few videos like this with them cooking and living alone in the woods!
@@indiesorcerer I thought you may be. I've travelled extensively throughout your country, from Helsinki to Oulu, to Rovaniemi, then up to Norway then back down to Kuopio and Savonlinna. Incredible place.
Im going through a lot of what you went through. 24 here. I am 6'2 190 pounds. To put it bluntly I know I am not unattractive but I struggle in the bedroom. I quit watching porn 2 years ago. Still smoke weed and occasionally drink but thats it. Its like I can only be intimate with a women I connect with. I can feel my sexual desire flip off during casual encounters. It sucks cause some of the women are really attractive. It keeps me from going out and trying to meet girls in general.
It can feel so frustrating.. a part of us wants adventure and spontaneous experiences, especially in our youth. But something inside us prevents that. For me, it made me feel overly sensitive and not masculine. But later I figured, to hell with it. I will focus on my one woman now and be the man for us. Thank you so much for the comment, it makes making videos feel worth it!
yo how does porn really affect people? I honestly don't understand when people say it has huge influences in them. Can somebody help me understand that? I've been single and gooning for years now, what i'm into, what i'd watch etc hasn't changed at all... (the only thing it affects is my motivation to go get a woman. easier to jack 1 out, but this is the same scenario with or without porn). Yo grats on finding ur girl though Erno
I would say, go check fight the new drug and their podcast “consider before consuming”. They have pretty good resources to answer your questions and they also shed some light on how porn can have negative effects on the society in general. Thank you for the comment and enjoy yourself- just try to do it as ethically as possible. Porn can offer genuine pleasure for many people but I wish it had less negative consequences.
I DON'T DATE ANYMORE, I LIVE IN FLORIDA AND HAVEN'T DATED IN 13 YRS, WESTERN WOMEN ARE NOT WORTH MY EFFORTS, SPECIALLY AMERICAN WOMEN, I CAN'T WAIT TO EXPLORE VIETNAM AND THE ASIAN CULTURE, THEN I'LL DATE
I have no idea about American women but the funny thing is, my girlfriend is Vietnamese and I have a couple of friends with Vietnamese wives.. and they’re all down to earth and traditional in the best way possible. They have their own jobs and take care of themselves but also have common sense.
Computerized dating has given women the idea that commitment is unnecessary, and yet, it is to be a 'good person'. It is a narcissistic era and the older generation went through this change and we are still trying to figure out what went wrong.
This was a beautiful video, Erno. Thanks for your thoughts and your contribution to the doubting men out there. 👍
Thanks for sharing your vulnerable truth about what it really feels like to have moments of being contented and fulfilled with your girlfriend. It is rare to hear it coming from men these days with all the red pill content going around the internet.
I have always believe that there are good men like you out there who still believe in love and what a good relationship can bring for both people involved.
Yes good men still exist,, so good women, but with all those scams on Internet, better choose someone you really know, it will save you time and money. Learning to evolve, is the main purpose of living. With or without someone else.
Thank you for the comment! It is time for good men to step up and speak out. This world is filled with good people, overshadowed by the loudest, most superficial influencers. I always believed in good women and love thanks to my parents’ long marriage. Now I want to educate others that it is indeed still possible to find healthy, loving relationships..
@@indiesorcerer Your welcome, have a Nice Day and keep focus on achieving your goals.🙏😁
Honestly dont put too much pressure on yourself or the relationship, you know you can survive singie and this just a bonus.
Relatable bro.
Im the same, but its hard to trust woman nowadays, you never know who you are talking to and what they are up to, same goes for women that search for men, there are alot of false people out there sadly. I don't know if I'll ever be able to trust a woman again, its hard to heal from some of the things I experienced, at least for me. Its the worst if you really found the, in your eyes perfect girl or woman, just to realize after a long time of commitment that she wasn't honest when she said she was honest, in the beginning it wasn't like that but I caught alot of small lies and over time those lies got even bigger until I lost trust in her even so she was the only woman I could connect on on a real deep level. To be honest I don't really believe someone like she was in the beginning will ever be in my life again, and even if, I think my trust issues got so bad I will push her away over time. I mean in this generation is 10x worse than it used to be 50 years ago, and I see even my parents and everyone splitting up all the time, which makes me question if its really worth it
Thanks for sharing your experience. I get where you’re coming from, as my first relationship was quite toxic and in the end my ex even left me for another guy. After that, I had an online “affair” with someone I developed strong feelings for but in the end, she did not wish to take it further and I also found out she had lied to me from the very beginning.. that experience in particular made me feel betrayed, even if I wasn’t perfect myself.
Our paths can be very painful at times, but I wish you all the best and hope you will be able to have an open heart when the right woman crosses your path.
Men want purpose worth pursuing. For 95% of men that was family and women - as it's hard to find not run thru ungangbang women under 30 nowadays - most of the men is looking for other purposes but it's hard. As women are not worth pursuing. End of story.
This is a great summary of the current situation for men. Thanks for commenting!
@@indiesorcerer Sure mate. Truth will make us all free. :)
Been single and without sex for 25 years. Been fine until the last few years. Seeing all this mgtow crap has convinced me modern women have impossible to meet standards has me thinking it'd be great if I don't wake up tomorrow. Til then, booze and pot and fingers crossed it all ends sooner rather than later.
I wish you all the best.. if I didn’t see moderately sensible women in my friend groups / family, I also wouldn’t have faith in modern women at all.
I want you to know I’m grateful for your comment, because it offers a point of view for other men. Some can relate, others can draw inspiration to work harder or look for opportunities harder. Whatever it may be, I think sharing painful experiences such as yours does good for this world, even if it’s a tiny positive drop in an ocean filled with hurt.
I feel very sorry for you Mate. Don't do anything stupid.
So sad to see this, if a pretty girl is doing this videos she has millions of subscribers, and they are a few videos like this with them cooking and living alone in the woods!
Very thought provoking Mate. Pardon my ignorance but are you in Finland?The nature looks that way and to me you sound Finnish.
Yup, I’m Finnish!
@@indiesorcerer I thought you may be. I've travelled extensively throughout your country, from Helsinki to Oulu, to Rovaniemi, then up to Norway then back down to Kuopio and Savonlinna. Incredible place.
Great video brother!
Thank you! I appreciate the feedback :)
Im going through a lot of what you went through. 24 here. I am 6'2 190 pounds. To put it bluntly I know I am not unattractive but I struggle in the bedroom. I quit watching porn 2 years ago. Still smoke weed and occasionally drink but thats it. Its like I can only be intimate with a women I connect with. I can feel my sexual desire flip off during casual encounters. It sucks cause some of the women are really attractive. It keeps me from going out and trying to meet girls in general.
It can feel so frustrating.. a part of us wants adventure and spontaneous experiences, especially in our youth. But something inside us prevents that. For me, it made me feel overly sensitive and not masculine. But later I figured, to hell with it. I will focus on my one woman now and be the man for us.
Thank you so much for the comment, it makes making videos feel worth it!
8:00 yeah 😂
Erno talks things that others dont. 👍
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yo how does porn really affect people? I honestly don't understand when people say it has huge influences in them. Can somebody help me understand that? I've been single and gooning for years now, what i'm into, what i'd watch etc hasn't changed at all... (the only thing it affects is my motivation to go get a woman. easier to jack 1 out, but this is the same scenario with or without porn). Yo grats on finding ur girl though Erno
I would say, go check fight the new drug and their podcast “consider before consuming”. They have pretty good resources to answer your questions and they also shed some light on how porn can have negative effects on the society in general.
Thank you for the comment and enjoy yourself- just try to do it as ethically as possible. Porn can offer genuine pleasure for many people but I wish it had less negative consequences.
I DON'T DATE ANYMORE, I LIVE IN FLORIDA AND HAVEN'T DATED IN 13 YRS, WESTERN WOMEN ARE NOT WORTH MY EFFORTS, SPECIALLY AMERICAN WOMEN, I CAN'T WAIT TO EXPLORE VIETNAM AND THE ASIAN CULTURE, THEN I'LL DATE
I have no idea about American women but the funny thing is, my girlfriend is Vietnamese and I have a couple of friends with Vietnamese wives.. and they’re all down to earth and traditional in the best way possible. They have their own jobs and take care of themselves but also have common sense.
@@indiesorcerer YES VIETNAM WOMEN, I'M PLANNING TO LIVE PART TIME IN VIETNAM, SO I'LL MEET SOME THERE, WESTERN WOMEN TURN ME OFF IN MANY WAYS