Thanks for the video & great words of wisdom. I felt you. I am slightly older than you as I was born in 1951. Don't go so hard on yourself as we can all look back & wished we had made better decisions. I have a book full of mistakes. but it's called LIFE. CHEERS my friend!! Illinois, USA
I am so grateful to my departed Father for instilling his love of motorcycles in me. The 80cc mini bike he bought me when I was 11 and teaching me to ride in the front yard. All the trail bike riding we did. He died in a home from dementia. I also couldn't be there. Miss you dad. Thanks for sharing.
A very thought provoking video, I think we all can look back into the past and regret some of our decisions. My classic 350 is my go to bike if I want to chill out. The bike doesn't egg me on to ride faster so I can plod along at a sedate pace with the bike smoothly coping with the road surfaces, allowing me to enjoy the landscape. The icing on the cake is to stop and have a coffee/pie/fish and chips and savour the views and plan the slow route home. I tend to loose track of time.
Thanks for sharing the story about your father and his last days. I'm your age (or just a bit younger) and my father died last year at age 91. Fortunately, I had visited him the day before and we had a great time catching up, just the two of us. He was so grateful that I had come over to see him (two hours' drive from where I live) and I'll always remember that. He had a love of motorbikes and as a talented engineer and mechanic restored several of them, including a Vincent Black Shadow and several Nortons, in his retirement, after riding British bikes in his younger days. He stopped riding at age 73. He never let me ride motorbikes and I've only recently obtained my motorcycle license. I'm seriously thinking about purchasing a 350 Classic, they remind me so much of my Dad and our relationship. Like you I love riding through the countryside, and the Yorkshire moors are a wonderful setting for your videos. Thanks again.
I agree with everything you say about these little bikes I have the same model and colour as you. I don't think anyone who hasn't owned one could ever understand the positive effect on your mental health they have . I am having treatment for late stage bowel cancer my time is short , luckily I am still able to ride and when I'm on the Enfield it's like I'm not ill and all is right with my world .
As you Brits would say “another cracking video” and I greatly appreciate it. Beautiful final few minutes with the creek. Like you, I have some regrets but don’t we all? I have forgiven myself to an extent but it’s hard to completely let it go. It’s us learning from it. A shame wisdom doesn’t come earlier. My Bullet 350 reborn does exactly the same for me and is why it is my favorite. I’ve had plenty of big bikes over the years but the Bullet just brings such a mind cleansing simple joy. Thanks again!
Much as Ian Johnson said, except I'm 69 and dad was from Lancashire. I'll be honest..when I realised the video wasn't totally bike focused, I nearly stopped watching - but I'm glad I stayed with it.
I've been in very similar circumstances... I missed the chance of being with my wife when she died and it played very heavily on my mind for the longest time. Eventually, I determined that I couldn't fix what had gone before but I could learn a lesson for the future. When my mother died, I made sure I was there to hold her hand as she passed, I consider that I was fortunate to have had the chance to do things right the next time, it helped me enormously. Don't judge yourself too harshly on what's past, we can only try to learn from the hard lessons that life sends our way and if the opportunity ever presents itself again, act upon them differently. It's the best way to achieve closure.
Very moving video Dave and I confess to a moist eye moment. My Dad passed away 46 years ago, one day after his 65th birthday and it’s in those quiet contemplative moments that I realise how much I miss him.
That brought a tear to my eye Dave ....must be some grit?. Don't be too hard on yourself mate, our jobs and pressures of life when we are younger occasionally cause us to make difficult decisions. When we reflect on things past, when we get older, one forgets that we are looking at those periods in time through different eyes Dave?
Fantastic episode. Gets you thinking. You have really grown into this youtube malarkey, your personality has grown and your not shy to show it , myself and other subscribers respect you for that keep up the great work...👍
Beautifully chosen images and closing words. Yes, nature is there for us as a refuge, and to ground ourselves again. And as Amanda Gorman in her poem 'The Hill We Climb': "When day comes we step out of the shade, aflame and unafraid. The new dawn blooms as we free it. For there is always light, if only we’re brave enough to see it, if only we’re brave enough to be it."
Depth and emotion add a dimension to our freedom and reflections whilst riding; alone, but for our thoughts and memories. Thank you for venturing to such a place.
Thanks for sharing such a deeply personal subject with us. In one way or another it's something we all go through. I lost my dad in 2001 but I had the luxury of having him live at my house for a year before he passed on. He had advanced multiple sclerosis so his passing was really the end of his suffering. You are correct about a modern classic motorcycle of choice being the elixir that eases all anguish and stress. Keep the words of wisdom and beautiful scenery coming. BJ
I am a 51 baby too. Life can be hard. We do our best. I am sure you were a good son and he knew that you loved him. I love my 22 350 red/chrome. I enjoy your videos a great deal. Like you, I go to wild places to restore my soul. Four bikes?
Morning from Germany.... A very emotional video I found... I did exactly the same as you for my Mother's death, and my father's too Never ever realising that such moments haunt you for life.... I was in the military for 25 yrs and thought my job was so very important..... Only to actually realise that before your cold, there is somebody sat in your chair and in a bit nobody even noticed you were gone... I'm not religious mate, if you are God bless you.... You have moved me today..... Thank you. Stay safe and don't put yourself to task.... Life is a Huge learning curve.
Hi Dave , Just clicked on your clip this evening looking at getting a classic 350 and was really absorbed in your story . I too have regretted not being there with my mum when she passed away in nursing home (this was during the pandemic ). I visited early afternoon and because of Covid we were all masked up etc . I knew my mother didn’t have long and the nursing staff had confirmed this . I was in my mother’s single room in the afternoon ,she was having end of life care and was sleeping with no recognition I was there . I stayed for a few hours and said all I had to say ,saying that all the family loved her and that it’s time to let go ,i said my goodbyes and said everything would be ok . The phone went at 2am saying my mother had passed . I know the feeling of not being able to be there ,but i’m sure your dad knows about the situation you were in. Kind regards Dave
Thanks Bingley Wheeler. I was born in 46. Dad spoke of Velocette, Ariel, Matchless, BSA etc. Travelled to Scotland from Kingston on his Levis D Special on unmade roads which shredded his tyres. I think they had the best of it in those days! Enjoy your videos very much !
What a lovely honest account Mr Bingly Wheeler! I had to catch a flight back from Abu Dhabi to be with my mum when she departed. I made it with a few hours to spare! Don't be hard on yourself, I can write a bloody novel with all the mistakes I've made. I rode a Scram 411 last week and felt myself relax, and have subsequently bought it! I'm 62 now and had a heart attack two years ago, live your life as YOU want to and forgive yourself in the process.
Hi Dave. I completely understand your mindset and situation on the night your dad passed. People who haven't walked in a copper's shoes probably can't grasp just how much "the job" owns of you whilst you're a serving officer. You made that call on that night because of the your personal allegiance to, and belief in, the Oath of Service that you swore when you graduated. It's an extremely strong part of the moral compass of any good copper. Don't be too hard on yourself mate - your dad would have understood. Cheers from downunder, Russ.
Wow! What an emotional but beautifully presented video. You just managed to tap into many folks emotions. Me for one. You articulate very well indeed. Keep up your great work, Dave. But don't be too hard on yourself, we are only human. Cheers Dave.
Love this Dave. And you say you love doing the videos, well for me personally, and many others I am sure, we do get a lot of pleasure from what you provide for us. Not just the scenery and riding, but your thoughts and observations. As many have said, most of us carry regrets of one sort or another, and they may be more painful at some times, depending on our state of mind at that moment. But I am sure as eggs is eggs, your Dad was, and always will be, proud of you and what you have achieved. And I am 100% sure that you will both be together again and swapping anecdotes about all sorts of things at some stage in the future, in a place which is not a crazy, mixed up mess that our world has become. God Bless mate, 🙏.
Just realised some friends of mine probably worked with you. On the blue side that is! Nice insightful chat there, I too go to places like that on my bike (usually Meteor 350 - PS 6 is the ideal number....) for a bit of introspection on occasion, the Isle of Man has many beautiful quiet places. I had the good fortune to be with my father as he passed away, but not many people really do, so don't beat yourself up on that one.
I really want to thank you for your travels in Nidderdale. I lived in fellbeck for five years and have been back in the US for over a year and I truly miss it. Your regular jaunts to Pateley Bridge bring back fond memories. Thanks and happy motoring.
Don’t beat yourself up. I had a similar situation with my Dad, but he was let down by Kettering General Hospital. To cut a long story short, I was unable to be with him and he died alone. I left him at three in the morning thinking he was through the worst but he was transferred to an assessment ward who did not keep their eyes on him and he passed away all on his own. If I had known that was going to happen, I would not have left him. I have a drink with him every week from a family tankard he passed down to me and I remember him then. I think of him all the time especially when I’m on my interceptor riding the local lanes. I know he would have accepted this. Don’t beat yourself up! Just remember him.
What a fantastic part of the country you live in. The Enfield is really well suited to those roads. I think you are bang on re memories though. My current bike I've owned 25 years and while it's not ideal for me now it's triggering so many memories for me that I can't sell it. I bought it before we had kids and now my youngest is at uni. It's taken me to 5 bike related funerals although only two were a bike death. It's taken me to the Isle of Man twice and out for breakfast every weekend. Riding it makes me think of friends I have and friends gone.
The Classic 350 is an absolute joy to ride, the riding position, bike manners, engine, exhaust note and style all come together perfectly. You're Dad won't harbour any grudge, he loved you. That bridge is a really nice spot, I usually stop off there as well. All the best!
I always enjoy your words of wisdom, it seems that we are from the same generation, we all have 20/20 vision when we look back. I am sure your Father understands. It takes a special person to give care properly in a nursing home, they get close to people and know they will be leaving soon, yet they still form friendships. I have four bikes in my stable... it is nice to have a choice and variety, just gets hard to keep them all exercised properly, I find myself wanting to take the Classic 350 more often because it is such a calming and vintage ride without the fiddling my actual classic bike requires. Love the videos, thank you for sharing!
Good morning TBW, thanks for sharing a bit more of yourself with us today. We have all made decisions that seemed right in the moment, and later in life upon reflection , we see it differently. I think that’s called wisdom, which comes with age and life experience. All we can do is try to be the very best version of ourselves in that moment, and hopefully grow as we move through this life of ours. These are the things that make us who we are Today…Right safe my friend.
I like the same things as you, my wild place is Dartmoor, just 4 miles from home, my Classic is the older C5 500 and my other is the 1978 XS750 Yamaha, bikes are in the blood, although my family''s affair with 2 wheels was only my Dad having a Vespa until he got a family car, riding on his running board looking out over the handlebars when I was 4, did it for me.
My dad hated motorbikes!! He rode pillion on one once doing military service and froze to death!!. My passion has been bikes 🏍 for long time , but I was glad my dad got to ride pillion with me once in Barcelona ( where I've lived for 35 years) when we we went to see a Barça match at the Camp Nou. Nice memory 😊 my next bike will be the signals green 350 next year or even better a BSA 650 Gold Star depending on budget!! My 60th bidet prezzie
Thank you for the video and opening up to us. I lost my dad when I was only 17 and needless to say my life was never the same again. My mom did an amazing job after that and raised us all fine. I often think about my dad and wonder, What type of conversations would we be having right now if he was still here?? -- I’m new to this bike world, but I’ve come to find that for us, men, living and gathering around two wheels is one of the best medicines we can have. I salute you my good man! Greetings from México! 🇲🇽
Thanks to you and Norman for a lovely, calm start to this day while I have my cornflakes! Two wheeled nostalgia, you can’t beat it. Have a great day mate, cheers!👏😀
Great reflections Dave ! You’re right about the smaller simple bikes going at a pace to enjoy the ride and clear the mind! The 350 obviously fits that category perfectly and yours does look stunning. I like similar ride outs into the Hills of the Antrim Plateau and along the Coastal Road from Larne to Portrush. Things we take for granted just like times we spent with family and friends! I had similar experiences with both my parents passing away in Nursing homes and I did not make it on time! I live for the memory and my next ride out into the HILLS! Keep up with your bike reviews and experiences. Regards John
HI Dave, good morning from Norfolk. Thank you for sharing your reflections today in your inimitable philosophical style. I am sure your Dad would have been proud of his lad who was "on duty" at the time of his passing, your service is appreciated Dave. As for your chosen mode of transport for this upload, it certainly brings into focus, well for me at least, why you enjoy it so much. As i believe i have mentioned in the past, in 1958 i had my first motorcycle, an Ex-WD 350 Royal Enfield, it was registered in 1947 although i am sure it was older and probably saw service in WW2. Thanks again for sharing your reflections this morning, Regards, Roy.
That was a smashing vlog sir. As a boomer myself beautiful little Norman's colour takes me back to my childhood and my dad's Ford Consul Capri classic of the same colour. Born and grew up in a fishing town in Cornwall where my dad had the local garage, so you can imagine the childhood I had there. The cars! Thanks to you, (and Norman), for your story today and for bringing back to mind some stories of my own. ...but to end on a cliffhanger...cruel and unusual punishment I tell ye!
Thanks Dave and don’t be too hard on yourself, like many other people have said we’ve all got regrets and you had a position of great responsibility at the time of dads passing so your heart was in the right place. Dad wouldn’t want you dwelling over it now. Cheers for the great video.
Be easy on yourself, Dave. I'm sure your Dad was proud of you and I've seen many times that people pass when their loved ones are not around. It's as if they're trying to protect us. For me personally, my Dad dropped dead at work, aged 62, back in November 1971 and I still miss him. I had to go to his work, get his car and coat and deal with an HR guy who'd never encountered death before. I was ex-military, so I was better-equipped and had to put him at ease. Life's experience makes us the people we become; the more we experience, the more we grow. Most of us have regrets - at almost 79 I certainly do - but none of us can change the past; it is what it is. It's how we contend with those experiences that gives us our present character and helps define us.
@@thebingleywheeler It was a great pity, particularly as he was really looking forward to retirement. The fact that Mum was a perpetually caustic misandrist certainly didn't help. He was a lovely bloke and deserved much better.
I have many regrets. Life is a constant struggle to do the right thing by other people. Things are simple but we make them complicated. You are a very good human being. I really enjoyed this video thanks for your honesty. What a beautiful area you ride in. I hope I can ride those roads some day.
Another belter of a vlog. Do you know I have learned so much about the police and what a difficult job they have from your videos that my attitude to them as changed to one of total respect. Your story has many similarities to mine experiences of losing one's perents. You did what you had to do and what you thought best at the time. Sharing this regret can only help others and that's one more thing I am sure your dad will be more proud of you. Another bike? Dave yes go for it you deserve it.
a common thread there, i lost my dad the same year and month as you did he was 86, and ready to go, lost his sight and all his friends, he said to me that he would not be coming back home as they walked him to the ambulance, we came home for our tea after visiting for the afternoon and got a phone call to go back but we were too late he'd gone in 6 hours with a smile on his face when we got there, bless him, i think he had the idea that if he went then he wouldn't ruin christmas for us, ? i too have gone from the big stuff to the classic and a meteor and enjoy both as much as you seem to do and agree that the world as we knew it is going down hill fast, i, being an earlier boomer, 1950, saw more of the 60's than you did, good times and the freedom of the roads, racing your lot on to the dip at skipton, never to be repeated i'm afraid, cheers.
Your story of your Dad really touched me as something very similar happened when my Dad passed away …. The feelings you speak of and that sense of guilt never leaves me either , Hope to see you at squires or somewhere in the future … stay safe buddy
Loved this video. Like you I’m a child of the 60’s and my Dad introduced me and my brother to motorcycles. I often wish he was still around as he would have loved to talk about bikes with me.
Thanks sharing your thoughts in this one Dave, I can relate to a lot of them , but you do what you think best at the time, they know in life that you cared for them and wouldn't want you to beat yourself with regret . I go out on my Classic myself to the hills when life starts to mangle my mind, as you say the peace and the feel of the bike relaxes the soul , none of my other bikes do the same, thoughtful video, Cheers 🍻 Mel
Really enjoyed this video Dave, thought provoking with stunning scenery as always. Lost my Mum and Dad both who passed when I was unable to be with them, each one in hospital in not the best of circumstances, deep regret on my part and, like you, should have done things differently. See you soon, Andy.
Cheers Andy yes the regrets stick with us yet in a strange way shape us for the better with the passage of time. Hope to see you back on the road soon 🤫
I'm about the same age as you and can relate to much of what you said in this video. I put work before family as well when I was younger and have regretted that decision since. What I have learned is to take inspiration from the best qualities of those people who missed out on my time in the past. It's a mistake that doesn't happen twice! Enjoy riding your REs, I think my Interceptor is fantastic😊
Dave im so sorry this story pulls at your heart strings mate , this has hit home this morning to my mother who died in a home at the age of 56 , i also didn't make it , take care & ride safe
Great video, Dave. Like yourself, realised there's more to life than we sometimes perceive. Getting out in the countryside is part of that to me. The sounds of natural beauty are always awe-inspiring. I love your RE Classic. I have a 350 Meteor and a classic Signals Edition in Marsh Grey (looks more olive green to me). This video has influenced me to take a closer look at the Halycon Grey Classic. How many bikes can a man have?! Ride safe, mate. 😊👍
A beautiful vid TBW. Don't beat yourself up. I am a few years older than you but my dad was younger than yours. He passed at 76 years and we nearly lost mum soon after but she bounced back and made it to 96. I missed her passing by half an hour but I know just like your dad she slipped away in peace. Take care Geoff
That was .. I am on the other side of the planet, and of course the season is looking up. I have the same colour 350 and just got back from the lowest point of Aus. Wilson's Promontory National Park. This bike allows me to focus on every blade of and removes the anxiety of being robbed by the state for going a little too fast.
4 Bikes?? Be'ave thee sen. Lovely, poignant video and heart wrenching, too. It's not in the same league but I had to miss my Grandad's funeral three weeks after my Granny's. We had just moved before that, which we did attend. He deteriorated quicky after she passed away but it was 200 miles away and the kids were starting their new schools. It was very upsetting but we just couldn't fit both events in, even though he was a big part of my life whilst I was growing up. Cracking video, lovely scenery! If that's where you do some of your work it's not a bad office!
Seeing your video to the end, after commenting halfway, I realize that we have a great deal in common. 24 years ago, when my father in law passed away, I was there. 10 years later, when my mum passed away, I wasn't. 7 years ago, my dad passed, with me alongside him, and 5 years ago my mother in law joined the former three, again with me being somewhere else. It makes you think and regret, but there's nothing you can do. Taking out a small capacity bike, do more good, than any psycologist ever will, though...
Love mine too Dave 😊. When I'm on the Classic 350, I've nothing to prove. Not to anyone, certainly not to myself. My T120 is a bit of a beast by comparison - not that it's a comparison worth making anyway. Ernie, named after my late father, calms me down. He gives me a pep talk, just like my Dad used to when I needed it. It's like he puts a fatherly arm around my shoulder and says, "Now then Son, let's go for a walk - I think I spotted a wren's nest on Pancake Hill". Riding the Classic 350, brings me back to Earth. Levels me after a difficult time at work. Let's me realise what's important, and what's not so much. My Dad and my Uncle were really into bikes too and a lot of it definitely rubbed off.
Hi dave that was a much heartfelt video must have touched a lot of people don't beat yourself up about it mate your dad would have understood I lost my dad a month before my 21st birthday and when I'm on my bike I always think he is with me that's why I love just riding and chilling out on the bike we are about the same age mate but life don't come with a manual so we live and learn your loved ones are always with you as to the carer who sat with your dad needs a medal they don't get the recognition they deserve my Mrs was a carer and she told me that it's called palative care ride safe mate and ya dad's with you hopefully next spring or summer I'll ride up and have a day or 2 out take care dave
What a touching story , I had a tier in my eye 😢! Unfortunately we all run around like headless chickens thinking our life is more important than anyone else . Age ,experience and nostalgia help us be better people . Anyway What a cracking little bike ! I’m thinking of getting one to potter around on in the winter 👍 great work .
I missed being by my fathers side when he passed away with similar circumstances. I also was on a night shift the morning it happened, I'd called the ward earlier in the shift to see how he was doing and the nurse assured me that all was fine and Dad was doing "really well" it could not have been further from the truth .. I was on night shift in Bristol, dad was in Hospital in Oxford and he'd started deteriorating around 9pm the night before, way before I'd made that welfare call, based on this information I decided to remain at work and go off to Oxford later that morning but to late, fortunately my sister was there by his side when he left us ... my regret like yourself was that I wasn't there. He was an old school biker of the 1950's, one of the original bacon sarnie and tea drinkers at the Ace Cafe so you can imagine the stories I got told ... thanks for your story
We all have certain regrets, it's the learning curve we all experience, my father passed away in a care home alone, he had dementia, riding a motorcycle in solitude is a wonderful thought gathering experience, it does bring joy, happiness and reflection ... God bless. 👌🏻😊
I can totally identify with you thinking of your dad when riding the 350 classic - I find myself thinking of dad when riding my Continental GT 650 - dad used to ride a 500 Velocette in the police (Buckinghamshire Constabulary - now TVP) he was 49 when I was born (1961) and passed in 94. Very moving video - thank you.
Dave, thank you for a very moving and reflective vlog, you made me think a lot about when I lost my own Dad and couldn’t be there at the end. I also process feelings of guilt and regret and wonder if the ‘life decisions’ made at the time were the best? This vlog reminded me of one of my favorite ever books, ‘Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance’ by Robert Pursig and how a journey on a motorcycle can become so much more than the sum of its parts.
Great video Dave with words and experiences that I am sure resonate with many of us. We all make mistakes that we live to regret but we are human and prone to errors of judgement, as many would say 'that's life'. As for the bikes 3 is an odd number whereas 4 is probably better😊
One of your best yet Dave.👍👍🙏 I held my Father's hand as he passed , My wife`s Dad passed suddenly just after she left , Our combined conclusion is both options suck. 😔 I'm sure your Dad is extremely proud of you.😇
Used to love the Otley to Blubber houses run but went over Thruscross reservoir up to stone houses, sometimes down to Pateley Bridge, but always went back via the Sun Inn at Norwood, Good old days they were. 1980's. Gaz North Yorkshire
I just cant comment such and emotional stream and it has made me think about my Dad. He had a Honda C50 and i used to meet up with him at the bottom of our lane and jump on to the back for the 10 mins journey home . A biker ever since its in the blood. Thanks from the bottom of my heart . 👍👍👍
Different times now. Things have changed rapidly over the last few years. Today you wouldn’t think twice about rushing to visit him. I’m a couple of years older than you and my dad was 47 when I was born. Luckily he lived at home all his life and passed away in his chair in the lounge due to a clot on the brain. Like your dad he did his time during the war and saw action in N. Africa & Italy. Never spoke of those times - saw too much much. Never complained - worked until the age of 80. Tough breed!!!👍👍
Very poiniont my man, I love watching you're channel, was in Yorkshire in August, loved it, what a braw county indeed, keep up the good work, I enjoy it immensely, truth be known you're channel is one of my favourites, I was like you and missed my mums last monents, I to was busy with life it's my biggest regret. Still got my dad who's 83 so won't make that mistake again. Well done for sharing 🙏
Thanks for another great video TBW, fantastic scenery as usual and also quite thought provoking as well. Keep em coming. It'll be interesting to find out if there is a bike no. 4. Cheers, Ian
keep up the good work Dave I love your content and your subscription count is rising. I do feel you deserve more though. your intelligence and sincerity always shines through. new bike perhaps a goldster or triumph speed 400 maybe?
Your comment on reflection of life while at ease on your Classic 350 struck a chord in me. I could not do it on 2 wheels as I had to concentrate on the technicalities and skills of riding. However, during the 12 years I had my 2008 CanAm Spyder my thoughts were able to wander (it's is hard to fall off a Spyder or drop it). To think about my past, sort out some of my small problems and just enjoy being out in the countryside (Quebec). Alas I sold it in June and due to my age and infirmities of aging (85) have given up 2/3 wheels now. Not all bad though, I can watch your beautiful Yorkshire countryside videos even if the colour of your 350 is not my choice: tee hee hee, joke.
Wise is the man that realises that life is a most beautiful and precious gift and being in nature with an astonishing piece of man made art is direct contact with the all Mighty, Go in peace sir that was cathartic for me and many others I'm sure. Peace Peace.
You have some lovely countryside in the old country, I wish e had your nice quiet lanes and views like that in AUS instead of endless plains and freeways full of lunatics . Nice video.
Morning Dave, do you recall that in the early 70s . 1976 in my case that a big bike was a 750. I eventually got a Yamaha XJ750 seca in 1982 and thought I was the bees knees. Strange now that a 750 is a middle weight. I do miss the smell of the old 2 strokes though. Oh the morning shudders - those experts in hindsight. Don’t beat yourself up about your dad, we all have our regrets but that of course is life and that is what we learn from. You have obviously learned from your experience and he would have been proud of you for that.
These are beautiful bikes, especially the sand and green army ones, as I don't like chrome. I agree with you about slow bikes. I am about to buy a Honda CRF300L for the back lanes around Chiang Rai in northern Thailand. I'm looking forward to the compliant, soft suspension on these roads.
Great video Dave and something to reflect. We all have made mistakes, me plenty. Wisdom comes with age I guess. And the world - it hasn't changed for 40'000 years. We keep fighting, it's in our nature, sadly. That's why I beleive that no aliens have ever visited this planet. Why would they? Collectively, we are gallactically stupid 😆
Thanks for the video & great words of wisdom. I felt you. I am slightly older than you as I was born in 1951. Don't go so hard on yourself as we can all look back & wished we had made better decisions. I have a book full of mistakes. but it's called LIFE. CHEERS my friend!! Illinois, USA
Thank you Larry much appreciated
I am so grateful to my departed Father for instilling his love of motorcycles in me. The 80cc mini bike he bought me when I was 11 and teaching me to ride in the front yard. All the trail bike riding we did. He died in a home from dementia. I also couldn't be there. Miss you dad. Thanks for sharing.
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Nice words about your father.
Lovely video. Glad you enjoy doing them because I thoroughly enjoy watching them. Cheers.
A very thought provoking video, I think we all can look back into the past and regret some of our decisions. My classic 350 is my go to bike if I want to chill out. The bike doesn't egg me on to ride faster so I can plod along at a sedate pace with the bike smoothly coping with the road surfaces, allowing me to enjoy the landscape. The icing on the cake is to stop and have a coffee/pie/fish and chips and savour the views and plan the slow route home. I tend to loose track of time.
Thanks for sharing the story about your father and his last days. I'm your age (or just a bit younger) and my father died last year at age 91. Fortunately, I had visited him the day before and we had a great time catching up, just the two of us. He was so grateful that I had come over to see him (two hours' drive from where I live) and I'll always remember that. He had a love of motorbikes and as a talented engineer and mechanic restored several of them, including a Vincent Black Shadow and several Nortons, in his retirement, after riding British bikes in his younger days. He stopped riding at age 73. He never let me ride motorbikes and I've only recently obtained my motorcycle license. I'm seriously thinking about purchasing a 350 Classic, they remind me so much of my Dad and our relationship. Like you I love riding through the countryside, and the Yorkshire moors are a wonderful setting for your videos. Thanks again.
Thank you Richard that’s a nice story and yes the Classic 350 really captures these sentiments 👍🏻
When my wife passed away at 54 after 6 week's of illness I realised what's important in life
Sorry to hear of that Phil that is so very young
RIP...I lost someone close to me ... Shit ain't the same
I agree with everything you say about these little bikes I have the same model and colour as you. I don't think anyone who hasn't owned one could ever understand the positive effect on your mental health they have .
I am having treatment for late stage bowel cancer my time is short , luckily I am still able to ride and when I'm on the Enfield it's like I'm not ill and all is right with my world .
Wishing you all the best ✊
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thank you much appreciated
So sorry to hear of your situation and wishing you the very best
@@thebingleywheeler
Thanks Haven't given up yet still hoping for a miracle cure like many others
So sad to hear. Best wishes.
As you Brits would say “another cracking video” and I greatly appreciate it. Beautiful final few minutes with the creek. Like you, I have some regrets but don’t we all? I have forgiven myself to an extent but it’s hard to completely let it go. It’s us learning from it. A shame wisdom doesn’t come earlier. My Bullet 350 reborn does exactly the same for me and is why it is my favorite. I’ve had plenty of big bikes over the years but the Bullet just brings such a mind cleansing simple joy. Thanks again!
Thank you yes it gets easier but never leaves
'ey up. 77yr old biking Yorkshireman here. Just wanted to tell you how much I appreciated this video. Many fine resonances for me and I'm grateful.
Thank you Ian much appreciated 🙏
Much as Ian Johnson said, except I'm 69 and dad was from Lancashire. I'll be honest..when I realised the video wasn't totally bike focused, I nearly stopped watching - but I'm glad I stayed with it.
I've been in very similar circumstances... I missed the chance of being with my wife when she died and it played very heavily on my mind for the longest time. Eventually, I determined that I couldn't fix what had gone before but I could learn a lesson for the future. When my mother died, I made sure I was there to hold her hand as she passed, I consider that I was fortunate to have had the chance to do things right the next time, it helped me enormously. Don't judge yourself too harshly on what's past, we can only try to learn from the hard lessons that life sends our way and if the opportunity ever presents itself again, act upon them differently. It's the best way to achieve closure.
Very moving video Dave and I confess to a moist eye moment. My Dad passed away 46 years ago, one day after his 65th birthday and it’s in those quiet contemplative moments that I realise how much I miss him.
That brought a tear to my eye Dave ....must be some grit?. Don't be too hard on yourself mate, our jobs and pressures of life when we are younger occasionally cause us to make difficult decisions. When we reflect on things past, when we get older, one forgets that we are looking at those periods in time through different eyes Dave?
Very true thank you
Fantastic episode. Gets you thinking. You have really grown into this youtube malarkey, your personality has grown and your not shy to show it , myself and other subscribers respect you for that keep up the great work...👍
Thank you Jim that’s really nice of you to say 😊
Beautifully chosen images and closing words. Yes, nature is there for us as a refuge, and to ground ourselves again. And as Amanda Gorman in her poem 'The Hill We Climb':
"When day comes we step out of the shade,
aflame and unafraid.
The new dawn blooms as we free it.
For there is always light,
if only we’re brave enough to see it,
if only we’re brave enough to be it."
Depth and emotion add a dimension to our freedom and reflections whilst riding; alone, but for our thoughts and memories. Thank you for venturing to such a place.
Thank you ! Always appreciate riding the beautiful Classic 350 in the charming light blue 😃
Love me ‘24 classic 350 , and it’s precisely that classic English style from the 60s that was etched in my mind , that made me buy mine in July
Thanks for sharing such a deeply personal subject with us. In one way or another it's something we all go through. I lost my dad in 2001 but I had the luxury of having him live at my house for a year before he passed on. He had advanced multiple sclerosis so his passing was really the end of his suffering. You are correct about a modern classic motorcycle of choice being the elixir that eases all anguish and stress. Keep the words of wisdom and beautiful scenery coming.
BJ
I am a 51 baby too. Life can be hard. We do our best. I am sure you were a good son and he knew that you loved him. I love my 22 350 red/chrome. I enjoy your videos a great deal. Like you, I go to wild places to restore my soul. Four bikes?
I appreciate your thoughtful and insightful commentary.
Thanks from Kentucky, USA.
Morning from Germany....
A very emotional video I found...
I did exactly the same as you for my Mother's death, and my father's too
Never ever realising that such moments haunt you for life....
I was in the military for 25 yrs and thought my job was so very important.....
Only to actually realise that before your cold, there is somebody sat in your chair and in a bit nobody even noticed you were gone...
I'm not religious mate, if you are God bless you.... You have moved me today..... Thank you. Stay safe and don't put yourself to task.... Life is a Huge learning curve.
Cheers buddy yes once you’ve put away the uniform you’re soon forgotten
Hi Dave ,
Just clicked on your clip this evening looking at getting a classic 350 and was really absorbed in your story .
I too have regretted not being there with my mum when she passed away in nursing home (this was during the pandemic ).
I visited early afternoon and because of Covid we were all masked up etc .
I knew my mother didn’t have long and the nursing staff had confirmed this .
I was in my mother’s single room in the afternoon ,she was having end of life care and was sleeping with no recognition I was there .
I stayed for a few hours and said all I had to say ,saying that all the family loved her and that it’s time to let go ,i said my goodbyes and said everything would be ok .
The phone went at 2am saying my mother had passed .
I know the feeling of not being able to be there ,but i’m sure your dad knows about the situation you were in.
Kind regards
Dave
Thank you Dave it must have been doubly difficult for you during lockdown but you did the right thing 🙏
Thanks Bingley Wheeler. I was born in 46. Dad spoke of Velocette, Ariel, Matchless, BSA etc. Travelled to Scotland from Kingston on his Levis D Special on unmade roads which shredded his tyres. I think they had the best of it in those days! Enjoy your videos very much !
What a lovely honest account Mr Bingly Wheeler! I had to catch a flight back from Abu Dhabi to be with my mum when she departed. I made it with a few hours to spare! Don't be hard on yourself, I can write a bloody novel with all the mistakes I've made. I rode a Scram 411 last week and felt myself relax, and have subsequently bought it! I'm 62 now and had a heart attack two years ago, live your life as YOU want to and forgive yourself in the process.
Thank you so much for those kind and wise words 👍🏻
Hi Dave. I completely understand your mindset and situation on the night your dad passed. People who haven't walked in a copper's shoes probably can't grasp just how much "the job" owns of you whilst you're a serving officer. You made that call on that night because of the your personal allegiance to, and belief in, the Oath of Service that you swore when you graduated. It's an extremely strong part of the moral compass of any good copper. Don't be too hard on yourself mate - your dad would have understood. Cheers from downunder, Russ.
Cheers Russ really appreciate that pal 👍🏻
Wow! What an emotional but beautifully presented video. You just managed to tap into many folks emotions. Me for one. You articulate very well indeed. Keep up your great work, Dave. But don't be too hard on yourself, we are only human. Cheers Dave.
Love this Dave. And you say you love doing the videos, well for me personally, and many others I am sure, we do get a lot of pleasure from what you provide for us. Not just the scenery and riding, but your thoughts and observations. As many have said, most of us carry regrets of one sort or another, and they may be more painful at some times, depending on our state of mind at that moment. But I am sure as eggs is eggs, your Dad was, and always will be, proud of you and what you have achieved. And I am 100% sure that you will both be together again and swapping anecdotes about all sorts of things at some stage in the future, in a place which is not a crazy, mixed up mess that our world has become. God Bless mate, 🙏.
Thank you for those kind words very much appreciated 👍🏻
Just realised some friends of mine probably worked with you. On the blue side that is! Nice insightful chat there, I too go to places like that on my bike (usually Meteor 350 - PS 6 is the ideal number....) for a bit of introspection on occasion, the Isle of Man has many beautiful quiet places. I had the good fortune to be with my father as he passed away, but not many people really do, so don't beat yourself up on that one.
I really want to thank you for your travels in Nidderdale. I lived in fellbeck for five years and have been back in the US for over a year and I truly miss it. Your regular jaunts to Pateley Bridge bring back fond memories. Thanks and happy motoring.
Don’t beat yourself up. I had a similar situation with my Dad, but he was let down by Kettering General Hospital. To cut a long story short, I was unable to be with him and he died alone. I left him at three in the morning thinking he was through the worst but he was transferred to an assessment ward who did not keep their eyes on him and he passed away all on his own. If I had known that was going to happen, I would not have left him. I have a drink with him every week from a family tankard he passed down to me and I remember him then. I think of him all the time especially when I’m on my interceptor riding the local lanes. I know he would have accepted this.
Don’t beat yourself up! Just remember him.
What a fantastic part of the country you live in. The Enfield is really well suited to those roads. I think you are bang on re memories though. My current bike I've owned 25 years and while it's not ideal for me now it's triggering so many memories for me that I can't sell it. I bought it before we had kids and now my youngest is at uni. It's taken me to 5 bike related funerals although only two were a bike death. It's taken me to the Isle of Man twice and out for breakfast every weekend. Riding it makes me think of friends I have and friends gone.
The Classic 350 is an absolute joy to ride, the riding position, bike manners, engine, exhaust note and style all come together perfectly. You're Dad won't harbour any grudge, he loved you. That bridge is a really nice spot, I usually stop off there as well. All the best!
I always enjoy your words of wisdom, it seems that we are from the same generation, we all have 20/20 vision when we look back. I am sure your Father understands. It takes a special person to give care properly in a nursing home, they get close to people and know they will be leaving soon, yet they still form friendships. I have four bikes in my stable... it is nice to have a choice and variety, just gets hard to keep them all exercised properly, I find myself wanting to take the Classic 350 more often because it is such a calming and vintage ride without the fiddling my actual classic bike requires. Love the videos, thank you for sharing!
Thank you yes they are saints in those care homes
Good morning TBW, thanks for sharing a bit more of yourself with us today. We have all made decisions that seemed right in the moment, and later in life upon reflection , we see it differently. I think that’s called wisdom, which comes with age and life experience. All we can do is try to be the very best version of ourselves in that moment, and hopefully grow as we move through this life of ours. These are the things that make us who we are Today…Right safe my friend.
I like the same things as you, my wild place is Dartmoor, just 4 miles from home, my Classic is the older C5 500 and my other is the 1978 XS750 Yamaha, bikes are in the blood, although my family''s affair with 2 wheels was only my Dad having a Vespa until he got a family car, riding on his running board looking out over the handlebars when I was 4, did it for me.
I hope my lad thinks back on our time with such fondness and love 😊
My dad hated motorbikes!! He rode pillion on one once doing military service and froze to death!!. My passion has been bikes 🏍 for long time , but I was glad my dad got to ride pillion with me once in Barcelona ( where I've lived for 35 years) when we we went to see a Barça match at the Camp Nou. Nice memory 😊 my next bike will be the signals green 350 next year or even better a BSA 650 Gold Star depending on budget!! My 60th bidet prezzie
IMHO - The RE Classic 350 really pops in the halcyon grey.
The colour looks vintage adding to the bikes ethos.
Thank you for the video and opening up to us. I lost my dad when I was only 17 and needless to say my life was never the same again. My mom did an amazing job after that and raised us all fine. I often think about my dad and wonder, What type of conversations would we be having right now if he was still here?? -- I’m new to this bike world, but I’ve come to find that for us, men, living and gathering around two wheels is one of the best medicines we can have. I salute you my good man! Greetings from México! 🇲🇽
Thank you Joe a poignant story and great to hear from Mexico 😎
I have the same feelings when riding my benelli imperiale, I just love the exhaust note and that feeling of freedom and reflection
Thanks to you and Norman for a lovely, calm start to this day while I have my cornflakes! Two wheeled nostalgia, you can’t beat it. Have a great day mate, cheers!👏😀
Great reflections Dave ! You’re right about the smaller simple bikes going at a pace to enjoy the ride and clear the mind! The 350 obviously fits that category perfectly and yours does look stunning.
I like similar ride outs into the Hills of the Antrim Plateau and along the Coastal Road from Larne to Portrush. Things we take for granted just like times we spent with family and friends!
I had similar experiences with both my parents passing away in Nursing homes and I did not make it on time! I live for the memory and my next ride out into the HILLS!
Keep up with your bike reviews and experiences.
Regards John
Thank you John much appreciated sir 👍🏻
HI Dave, good morning from Norfolk. Thank you for sharing your reflections today in your inimitable philosophical style. I am sure your Dad would have been proud of his lad who was "on duty" at the time of his passing, your service is appreciated Dave. As for your chosen mode of transport for this upload, it certainly brings into focus, well for me at least, why you enjoy it so much. As i believe i have mentioned in the past, in 1958 i had my first motorcycle, an Ex-WD 350 Royal Enfield, it was registered in 1947 although i am sure it was older and probably saw service in WW2. Thanks again for sharing your reflections this morning, Regards, Roy.
Thank you Roy much appreciated
Very very thought provoking and so well put across...Thank you....
That was a smashing vlog sir. As a boomer myself beautiful little Norman's colour takes me back to my childhood and my dad's Ford Consul Capri classic of the same colour. Born and grew up in a fishing town in Cornwall where my dad had the local garage, so you can imagine the childhood I had there. The cars! Thanks to you, (and Norman), for your story today and for bringing back to mind some stories of my own. ...but to end on a cliffhanger...cruel and unusual punishment I tell ye!
Consul Capri in baby blue now you’re talking! 😎👍🏻
Thanks Dave and don’t be too hard on yourself, like many other people have said we’ve all got regrets and you had a position of great responsibility at the time of dads passing so your heart was in the right place. Dad wouldn’t want you dwelling over it now. Cheers for the great video.
Thank you Mark I appreciate that 👍🏻
Thank You for sharing. Very thought provoking in my situation.
Be easy on yourself, Dave. I'm sure your Dad was proud of you and I've seen many times that people pass when their loved ones are not around. It's as if they're trying to protect us. For me personally, my Dad dropped dead at work, aged 62, back in November 1971 and I still miss him. I had to go to his work, get his car and coat and deal with an HR guy who'd never encountered death before. I was ex-military, so I was better-equipped and had to put him at ease. Life's experience makes us the people we become; the more we experience, the more we grow. Most of us have regrets - at almost 79 I certainly do - but none of us can change the past; it is what it is. It's how we contend with those experiences that gives us our present character and helps define us.
Thank you Chris that’s a sad story re your dad so sudden
@@thebingleywheeler It was a great pity, particularly as he was really looking forward to retirement. The fact that Mum was a perpetually caustic misandrist certainly didn't help. He was a lovely bloke and deserved much better.
I have many regrets. Life is a constant struggle to do the right thing by other people. Things are simple but we make them complicated. You are a very good human being. I really enjoyed this video thanks for your honesty. What a beautiful area you ride in. I hope I can ride those roads some day.
Another belter of a vlog. Do you know I have learned so much about the police and what a difficult job they have from your videos that my attitude to them as changed to one of total respect.
Your story has many similarities to mine experiences of losing one's perents. You did what you had to do and what you thought best at the time. Sharing this regret can only help others and that's one more thing I am sure your dad will be more proud of you.
Another bike? Dave yes go for it you deserve it.
Cheers pal I appreciate your candour there much appreciated
This is a fantastic video, with stunning landscapes, a superb motorcycle and a beautiful reflection. I totally agree, mate.
Best regards from Brazil.
Thank you Valter I really appreciate that and it’s great to hear from Brazil best regards to you
a common thread there, i lost my dad the same year and month as you did he was 86, and ready to go, lost his sight and all his friends, he said to me that he would not be coming back home as they walked him to the ambulance, we came home for our tea after visiting for the afternoon and got a phone call to go back but we were too late he'd gone in 6 hours with a smile on his face when we got there, bless him, i think he had the idea that if he went then he wouldn't ruin christmas for us, ? i too have gone from the big stuff to the classic and a meteor and enjoy both as much as you seem to do and agree that the world as we knew it is going down hill fast, i, being an earlier boomer, 1950, saw more of the 60's than you did, good times and the freedom of the roads, racing your lot on to the dip at skipton, never to be repeated i'm afraid, cheers.
Your story of your Dad really touched me as something very similar happened when my Dad passed away …. The feelings you speak of and that sense of guilt never leaves me either , Hope to see you at squires or somewhere in the future … stay safe buddy
I’m sure we’ll cross paths Gary shout up if you see me 😊👍🏻
Another fantastic video, and thank you for your service 👍
Loved this video. Like you I’m a child of the 60’s and my Dad introduced me and my brother to motorcycles. I often wish he was still around as he would have loved to talk about bikes with me.
A very heart felt video. Yes I do enjoy watching your video's much appreciated. Thank you!
Thanks sharing your thoughts in this one Dave, I can relate to a lot of them , but you do what you think best at the time, they know in life that you cared for them and wouldn't want you to beat yourself with regret .
I go out on my Classic myself to the hills when life starts to mangle my mind, as you say the peace and the feel of the bike relaxes the soul , none of my other bikes do the same, thoughtful video,
Cheers 🍻 Mel
Cheers Mel wise words there 🥳
Really enjoyed this video Dave, thought provoking with stunning scenery as always.
Lost my Mum and Dad both who passed when I was unable to be with them, each one in hospital in not the best of circumstances, deep regret on my part and, like you, should have done things differently.
See you soon,
Andy.
Cheers Andy yes the regrets stick with us yet in a strange way shape us for the better with the passage of time. Hope to see you back on the road soon 🤫
Totally agree Dave, only had mine 3weeks and your explanation of the bike is exactly how I feel when I'm riding too, bloody love it 😊👌
I'm about the same age as you and can relate to much of what you said in this video. I put work before family as well when I was younger and have regretted that decision since. What I have learned is to take inspiration from the best qualities of those people who missed out on my time in the past. It's a mistake that doesn't happen twice! Enjoy riding your REs, I think my Interceptor is fantastic😊
Dave im so sorry this story pulls at your heart strings mate , this has hit home this morning to my mother who died in a home at the age of 56 , i also didn't make it , take care & ride safe
Cheers Steve yes it’s hard isn’t it that was very young for your mother to pass must have been devastating
Thank You for that ! I am moved beyond belief. 100% agree with everything said. It hit all the right nerves. Such is life. (Scram owner)
Great video, Dave. Like yourself, realised there's more to life than we sometimes perceive. Getting out in the countryside is part of that to me. The sounds of natural beauty are always awe-inspiring. I love your RE Classic. I have a 350 Meteor and a classic Signals Edition in Marsh Grey (looks more olive green to me). This video has influenced me to take a closer look at the Halycon Grey Classic. How many bikes can a man have?! Ride safe, mate. 😊👍
Thank you Jonathan
A beautiful vid TBW. Don't beat yourself up. I am a few years older than you but my dad was younger than yours. He passed at 76 years and we nearly lost mum soon after but she bounced back and made it to 96. I missed her passing by half an hour but I know just like your dad she slipped away in peace.
Take care
Geoff
Thank you Geoff 😊
Brilliant words. Many thanks for sharing your experiences and thoughts 🙏
Awesome commentary complimenting the ride. I think your personal thoughts, musings, ramblings and observations are awesome. An absolute delight.... 👌😎
Thank you Andy
That was .. I am on the other side of the planet, and of course the season is looking up. I have the same colour 350 and just got back from the lowest point of Aus. Wilson's Promontory National Park. This bike allows me to focus on every blade of and removes the anxiety of being robbed by the state for going a little too fast.
4 Bikes?? Be'ave thee sen. Lovely, poignant video and heart wrenching, too. It's not in the same league but I had to miss my Grandad's funeral three weeks after my Granny's. We had just moved before that, which we did attend. He deteriorated quicky after she passed away but it was 200 miles away and the kids were starting their new schools. It was very upsetting but we just couldn't fit both events in, even though he was a big part of my life whilst I was growing up. Cracking video, lovely scenery! If that's where you do some of your work it's not a bad office!
Lovely scenery - thanks for sharing your story - the 350 does the same to me every time
Seeing your video to the end, after commenting halfway, I realize that we have a great deal in common. 24 years ago, when my father in law passed away, I was there. 10 years later, when my mum passed away, I wasn't. 7 years ago, my dad passed, with me alongside him, and 5 years ago my mother in law joined the former three, again with me being somewhere else. It makes you think and regret, but there's nothing you can do. Taking out a small capacity bike, do more good, than any psycologist ever will, though...
Love mine too Dave 😊. When I'm on the Classic 350, I've nothing to prove. Not to anyone, certainly not to myself. My T120 is a bit of a beast by comparison - not that it's a comparison worth making anyway. Ernie, named after my late father, calms me down. He gives me a pep talk, just like my Dad used to when I needed it. It's like he puts a fatherly arm around my shoulder and says, "Now then Son, let's go for a walk - I think I spotted a wren's nest on Pancake Hill". Riding the Classic 350, brings me back to Earth. Levels me after a difficult time at work. Let's me realise what's important, and what's not so much. My Dad and my Uncle were really into bikes too and a lot of it definitely rubbed off.
Thank you Philip a lot in common there
Hi dave that was a much heartfelt video must have touched a lot of people don't beat yourself up about it mate your dad would have understood I lost my dad a month before my 21st birthday and when I'm on my bike I always think he is with me that's why I love just riding and chilling out on the bike we are about the same age mate but life don't come with a manual so we live and learn your loved ones are always with you as to the carer who sat with your dad needs a medal they don't get the recognition they deserve my Mrs was a carer and she told me that it's called palative care ride safe mate and ya dad's with you hopefully next spring or summer I'll ride up and have a day or 2 out take care dave
Thank you David for those kind words 👍🏻
What a touching story , I had a tier in my eye 😢! Unfortunately we all run around like headless chickens thinking our life is more important than anyone else . Age ,experience and nostalgia help us be better people . Anyway What a cracking little bike ! I’m thinking of getting one to potter around on in the winter 👍 great work .
I missed being by my fathers side when he passed away with similar circumstances. I also was on a night shift the morning it happened, I'd called the ward earlier in the shift to see how he was doing and the nurse assured me that all was fine and Dad was doing "really well" it could not have been further from the truth .. I was on night shift in Bristol, dad was in Hospital in Oxford and he'd started deteriorating around 9pm the night before, way before I'd made that welfare call, based on this information I decided to remain at work and go off to Oxford later that morning but to late, fortunately my sister was there by his side when he left us ... my regret like yourself was that I wasn't there. He was an old school biker of the 1950's, one of the original bacon sarnie and tea drinkers at the Ace Cafe so you can imagine the stories I got told ... thanks for your story
That’s a very similar story thank you for sharing it here 😊👍🏻
We all have certain regrets, it's the learning curve we all experience, my father passed away in a care home alone, he had dementia, riding a motorcycle in solitude is a wonderful thought gathering experience, it does bring joy, happiness and reflection ... God bless. 👌🏻😊
I can totally identify with you thinking of your dad when riding the 350 classic - I find myself thinking of dad when riding my Continental GT 650 - dad used to ride a 500 Velocette in the police (Buckinghamshire Constabulary - now TVP) he was 49 when I was born (1961) and passed in 94.
Very moving video - thank you.
Be kind to yourself TBW. We've all made mistakes that in hindsight seem avoidable. But we are human and we err.
Great video, KBO!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Great video. Keep on keeping on. 👍
Dave, thank you for a very moving and reflective vlog, you made me think a lot about when I lost my own Dad and couldn’t be there at the end. I also process feelings of guilt and regret and wonder if the ‘life decisions’ made at the time were the best? This vlog reminded me of one of my favorite ever books, ‘Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance’ by Robert Pursig and how a journey on a motorcycle can become so much more than the sum of its parts.
My favourite book too for sure though I couldn’t quite grasp the sequel “Layla”
A powerful video and very thought provoking
Great video Dave with words and experiences that I am sure resonate with many of us. We all make mistakes that we live to regret but we are human and prone to errors of judgement, as many would say 'that's life'. As for the bikes 3 is an odd number whereas 4 is probably better😊
One of your best yet Dave.👍👍🙏
I held my Father's hand as he passed , My wife`s Dad passed suddenly just after she left , Our combined conclusion is both options suck. 😔
I'm sure your Dad is extremely proud of you.😇
An absolute classic on so many fronts. Thanks for this, a lot to take from a great video.
Exactly as I say on mine, always brings a grin to my face, "When ya know, ya know" as they say 👌👌
Used to love the Otley to Blubber houses run but went over Thruscross reservoir up to stone houses, sometimes down to Pateley Bridge, but always went back via the Sun Inn at Norwood, Good old days they were. 1980's.
Gaz North Yorkshire
trouble with the fast bikes is you get there before you left, the enfield gives you a chance to enjoy the scenery .
A truly exceptional vlog Dave thank you. Regards, Mo 😊👍
What a beautiful spot! Thank for you the silent footage, except for the sounds of nature, at the end 🙂
Great video. You spoke about things we face. The 'Great and the Good' are lacking in the good part for sure. 4 bikes sounds promising.
I just cant comment such and emotional stream and it has made me think about my Dad. He had a Honda C50 and i used to meet up with him at the bottom of our lane and jump on to the back for the 10 mins journey home . A biker ever since its in the blood. Thanks from the bottom of my heart . 👍👍👍
You’re most welcome 😊👍🏻
Different times now. Things have changed rapidly over the last few years. Today you wouldn’t think twice about rushing to visit him.
I’m a couple of years older than you and my dad was 47 when I was born. Luckily he lived at home all his life and passed away in his chair in the lounge due to a clot on the brain. Like your dad he did his time during the war and saw action in N. Africa & Italy. Never spoke of those times - saw too much much. Never complained - worked until the age of 80. Tough breed!!!👍👍
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Very poiniont my man, I love watching you're channel, was in Yorkshire in August, loved it, what a braw county indeed, keep up the good work, I enjoy it immensely, truth be known you're channel is one of my favourites, I was like you and missed my mums last monents, I to was busy with life it's my biggest regret. Still got my dad who's 83 so won't make that mistake again. Well done for sharing 🙏
Thank you Douglas I appreciate those words 👍🏻
Thanks for another great video TBW, fantastic scenery as usual and also quite thought provoking as well. Keep em coming. It'll be interesting to find out if there is a bike no. 4. Cheers, Ian
Thank you Ian 👍🏻
keep up the good work Dave I love your content and your subscription count is rising. I do feel you deserve more though. your intelligence and sincerity always shines through. new bike perhaps a goldster or triumph speed 400 maybe?
Thank you Graeme for those kind words
Your comment on reflection of life while at ease on your Classic 350 struck a chord in me. I could not do it on 2 wheels as I had to concentrate on the technicalities and skills of riding. However, during the 12 years I had my 2008 CanAm Spyder my thoughts were able to wander (it's is hard to fall off a Spyder or drop it). To think about my past, sort out some of my small problems and just enjoy being out in the countryside (Quebec).
Alas I sold it in June and due to my age and infirmities of aging (85) have given up 2/3 wheels now. Not all bad though, I can watch your beautiful Yorkshire countryside videos even if the colour of your 350 is not my choice: tee hee hee, joke.
Thank you sir 🙏😊
Wise is the man that realises that life is a most beautiful and precious gift and being in nature with an astonishing piece of man made art is direct contact with the all Mighty, Go in peace sir that was cathartic for me and many others I'm sure. Peace Peace.
❤felt story ...we've all done somet we not proud of your not alone .....
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You have some lovely countryside in the old country, I wish e had your nice quiet lanes and views like that in AUS instead of endless plains and freeways full of lunatics . Nice video.
Morning Dave, do you recall that in the early 70s . 1976 in my case that a big bike was a 750. I eventually got a Yamaha XJ750 seca in 1982 and thought I was the bees knees. Strange now that a 750 is a middle weight. I do miss the smell of the old 2 strokes though.
Oh the morning shudders - those experts in hindsight.
Don’t beat yourself up about your dad, we all have our regrets but that of course is life and that is what we learn from. You have obviously learned from your experience and he would have been proud of you for that.
Thank you my friend that means a lot coming from you. Yes hard to believe 750 was a very big bike!
These are beautiful bikes, especially the sand and green army ones, as I don't like chrome. I agree with you about slow bikes. I am about to buy a Honda CRF300L for the back lanes around Chiang Rai in northern Thailand. I'm looking forward to the compliant, soft suspension on these roads.
Great video Dave and something to reflect. We all have made mistakes, me plenty. Wisdom comes with age I guess. And the world - it hasn't changed for 40'000 years. We keep fighting, it's in our nature, sadly. That's why I beleive that no aliens have ever visited this planet. Why would they? Collectively, we are gallactically stupid 😆