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I find it so demeaning that she basically waved off Nikki's feelings like because she's older somehow that makes it okay. That's the type of s*** you see going on in high school, that's probably why Nikki was looking at her sideways.
@@supershepherd that part a lot of older women and specifically older brown women will try to pull this shit like girl just bc ur older dont mean u have to act like u know erthanggg
Obviously sleeping with a married man is a shitty thing to do but it’s also baffling that someone so concerned with being taken seriously as a woman in the corporate world and professionalism would have an affair with her direct supervisor…it’s ridiculously hypocritical 💀
I can’t wrap my head around on how women think messing with married men is okay. This personally happened to me, the girl was coming at me crazy while she was knowingly messing with my ex husband. She didn’t see anything wrong with what she was doing and that is baffling 🤢
I’m sorry to hear that you had to go thru that drama at the hands of someone u thought made a lifelong commitment to u. That girl had to make you a villain in her head in order to sleep at night. Hopefully she has come to that realization and will be carrying herself better going forward.
When I was a junior in high school, I overheard my math teacher (who had been a role model/mentor to me until then) say that he is getting divorced so he can get married. That, along with some disgusting things he said to me, made me lose respect for him.
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Nah that's total BS. Because the company you keep says alot about you as a person. If you're willingly being with a cheater, happily being the other woman, all it says is that you don't care about trust, commitment, or respect for yourself or others. There is no good reason to be with someone who's married or in a relationship. And besides that, he could be lying. How do you know for sure that they're "separated"? What does separated even really mean?
Maybe I’m thinking too deeply, but Tanya sounds jaded by the toxic masculinity in the corporate world. Everyone wants companionship, but she’s so used to “controlling her emotions” that dating is a business transaction. She probably used to be like you when she was younger - authentic, quick witted and energetic - and sometimes you gotta change your personality to survive situations, but I don’t think morals should change with them. Good for you for letting her know you disagreed. I’m sure that left an impression with her.
Unfortunately a lot of women fall victim to shit like this. Where they think that essentially being bitchy towards another woman makes them stronger. When all they're doing in reality is just playing right into what the men want. Cuz the only person that really benefit from any of this is him. It's sad how she doesn't realize that she's actually disrespecting herself and the wife by happily being the other woman.
The defensiveness as soon as you asked if he was married says it all; she knew he wasn’t going anywhere! What a fall from grace. Good on you for not pretending to be okay with it
I don’t think Tanya was right for what she did. I bet she wouldn’t want that being done to her and I’m a big believer in “don’t do to others what you wouldn’t want done to you”
I also just feel like separated is not the same as “married but gonna divorce her (one day maybe but don’t tell her)” To me, separated means both parties are aware they are getting a divorce, they are past reconciliation, and both in a space where if they choose they can date other people. The whole “I’m separated” but actively still trying to work on it with the wife to is NOT being separated and it’s just a man lying about his status in the same way he could say “I’m single” even though he knows damn well he’s not. My parents were separated for a long time before their divorce was final and they were both dating other people casually. I think if the wife doesn’t think they’re dating other people then they’re not separated and he’s lying to someone, either the new chick or the wife but someone’s being lied to and that’s not a true separation.
She was in the wrong for being with a man that is married because a guy could say they are "separated" but never separate. Also it's more so respect for herself. From what it sounded like she could pull any man she wanted and she chose a married man with money vs a single man with money. i don't get it even being a grown woman i never understood side chick culture.
I feel like the only time that “separated” excuse is valid is if the wife is aware and okay with the relationship. Other than that it just seems like something ppl say to cheat
I was in a very similar situation a few years ago. I was friends with a girl who claimed she was a feminist, supportive of other women, etc. She was only three years older than me but I looked up to her. She ended up cheating on her fiance' with a guy who was also in a long-term relationship, and tried to justify it by saying they were on the verge of breaking up anyway. AND she had the audacity to get upset when that guy's now ex blocked her on social media after they became Facebook official. It was a total drama-filled mess and I thought she was better than that. Someone who really supports other women wouldn't do that shit so it was very disappointing.
She wasn't as "grown" as she thought she was. Grown women have more respect for themselves and wouldn't put themselves in that position. It sounds like she let her "boss b**ch" mentality get the best of her and she thought she could literally do whatever she wanted with WHOMEVER she wanted. In my opinion, she looked at you like a little girl but when YOU confronted her with grown woman things, she couldn't handle the heat. So, in my opinion, your core values (at your young age) made you more of a woman than she was. 🤨
Personally I think communication is the key. My ex husband and me were separated in a middle of the divorce and he was dating another woman. I knew about it as he told me. I was never really bothered. He’s still a friend of mine today and the other one is his new wife who also became my friend.
Lmaooo im 26 now and im still the youngest person in the office nowadays. I will never forget when i went to the club at 22 and my insurance appraiser (we never met it was phone calls only) was sending me drinks and i realized when we exchanged numbers & my phone pulled up his contact from my emails !!! 😂😂 he had no idea i was his client.
in my opinion, she got offended because she knew what she was: a side chick. and there’s nothing grown about being the side chick and her being defensive with you was proof of that
I don't beleive the "he's more at fault" mentality because right is right and wrong is wrong. At the end of the day she knew what she was doing was just as wrong because she was giving him the ammo to kill his marriage.
Oof I’ve been around for years since I was 12/13 years old and I turned 18 this year, the way you show respect for other women and how no matter what as a fellow woman there are things that are okay and others that are not necessarily.
Okay I’m totally with her about not blaming the other woman but it’s when the other woman DONT KNOW! Her on the other hand KNOW the man is married! BOTH of them would get the 1 2 because if you know someone is married and still pursue them you are ALSO in the wrong and you too will catch these hands. You are knowingly playing a part in a destruction of a marriage! You get what you get at this point!
First off love that saying in the end and secondly even tho the side piece isnt the one who took the vows they are contributing to breaking them. It's like saying the getaway driver isnt as involved with robbing the bank as the one who is inside getting the money. Its an insane logic to think that way. She was just as wrong.
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I agree if married it's a no no. And alot these guys be lying about their situation. Be saying they getting a divorce or they separated and still be having dealings with the wife. And lol when she told you about how you dress. Back then we thought we was doing it
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i can see her side when it comes to separation. like if the other partner is refusing to sign papers, or kids or monetary reasons etc. what i don’t understand is how she said it’s none of your business. it became your business when you see a friend of yours out with a supervisor at your company. especially when she’s giving you advice on how to be taken seriously. if she wants you to value her opinion, she can’t shut you out when you have a valid reason to look at her sideways 🤷🏼♀️
Girl in my opinion I just think that’s morally wrong. I’ve seen so many situations like that in a work place and it’s so bad and wrong I don’t understand people at all.
yesss respect and boundaries is everything I had a friend get mad at me for not communicating to her that I didn't want to talk to her and confronted me sending me paragraphs at work (9am) about how I need to tell her that, when I haven't talked to her in a week like bffr
It depends on the situation. Are they separated and in the PROCESS of getting a divorce? If there is kids involved as well as a lot of money/assets it can take upwards to a year or more. If they are just separated could it also be for the fact of keeping benefits like healthcare, pensions, costing LESS than a divorce, etc. For them to stay married but not actually be together. I feel people jump the gun on situations like this without knowing the whole picture. How long have they been separated? Is the other party ALSO seeing other people? Like I stated above, what are the reasons that you separated rather than divorced? Etc etc. But like Tanya stated. It's no one else's business but the parties involved, so Nikki wouldn't be informed on the specifics. BUT If the person you're looking to be with is married but separated, and is ALSO very secretive about their spouse. Then I'd high tail it out of there. COMMUNICATION IS KEY!!!
Not gonna lie, I would LOVE a video on all the advice Tanya gave you because it really seems like useful information. Also, been rewatching all your videos on shuffle every day and I realized I’ve seen every single one but I can hear em over and over again. You really cheer me up on my bad days. Thank you! I need more videos like this also because girl I’m in my 30’s. And I’m originally from Miami. Nobody has your back there so I can absolutely relate. Love you!
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Always hitting the like button on Nikki's video even before a word comes out of her mouth. Love your videos, MS GLAMOUR-QUEEN! Also, you look GREAT [as always ...]!!!
I'm very on the fence with this one. Because if they were truly separated, go ahead girl (except for the fact he's your direct supervisor.....) but I've known men to say they're separated and still be not only living together but still in functioning relationships with their wives... (not men I've dated, just men I know who were in the dating world) but if they're separated, working thru a divorce, living in separate houses, I don't see why not...
Love you niki always looked up to you ❤ I enjoy your story time the amount of energy and explanation you put is entertaining thanks for the story time made my night 😊
Oof. This one hit home for me. Cause I’m pretty sure my ex husband told his side the same thing that we were separated. But to this day no one is gonna make me feel crazy about that because she most definitely knew he was still married cause why else would they have gotten engaged a month later after signing the divorce papers. Dudes ain’t sh!t I’m telling ya 😂. He owed me loyalty but she was also a willing participant 🙄.
She’s low for that. Interesting how she saw you as a friend but then it’s “grown folks business” & she talks to you like you’re less than once you find out her secret. I like the saying you lose em how you get em. Hopefully nobody ever does that to her if she so happened to ever get married. I’ll never understand why women get off on being the other woman/mistress. Correct, they didn’t say the vows but why enable a man to commit the ultimate betrayal to another woman? It’s like they get off on it, which I believe they do. I’ll always alert a woman if her man is being icky behind her back (if I know who the girl is and have evidence but I like to stay anon lmao). If she knows or doesn’t care, that’s her life but at least I let her know bc I’d want the same done for me.
Separation isn't a divorce. It's also a time during which the separated parties can choose to reconcile and remain married. She would have to answer to the wife if it came out because separated or not that is still someone else's husband. She was wrong.
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I was saying "I bet you she's dating a married man, she sounds like the type" when you were describing her, only to find out she was lol. Anyways, a women who goes after a "married man" because he's clearly not presenting divorce papers, screams that she really doesn't have morals or values. Yes she can pull men but, can she keep one? It's one thing to attract men, it's another to actually get one to claim you. Why settle for a side chick role if she had so many prospects? Math ain't mathing.
I think she's a victim of toxic masculinity. The delusion that "beating" another woman for her man's attention is somehow empowering. When in reality, he's the only one that benefits from any of it.
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1. Nikkk your so pretty 😍 please do a story time and do your make up at the same time!!! 2. Pleeeeasse post more story times. You literally help me get through my mornings lol. 3. That woman is wrong and this is where we as women need to hold men accountable. Men do what they do because women allow them to do that. I don’t care how much you wanna be with someone. Once you take that vow before God. It’s a wrap. Once done in the dark will always come to the light!
She pulled out the “he’s separated” because she knows how it looks. Yeah sure it is up to the man to stay faithful and set boundaries but women who do this need to realize they play apart In it also. I’m sure they wouldn’t like it if it was done to them.
ISSA HELL NO FOR ME. Her hands is not as clean as she thinks. Ion give a damn if they are amicably separated and on their way to signing papers ISSA NO. Even recently divorced is iffy to me AND would need to include some healing and time prior to stepping to ME.
I feel like we as people shouldn't hold others to a higher standard because at the end of the day we're all humans who make mistakes. If the man was actually separated from his wife, there's nothing else to say or do but in some aspects she's right it's none of anyone's business. If she was stepping into someone else's marriage she'll reap what she sows.
I just wonder why some women think affairs are so exciting. You said Tonya liked being single and didn’t seem bothered by the other guys. It almost seemed like a game to her. But something about that married man kept her hooked and coming back. I hope he didn’t have any kids.
She knew what she was doing was wrong thats why she came & said it was “grown folk business”. I have no respect towards women who deliberately go for a married man it shows she has no morals nor respect for herself. Shes just allowing herself to be the side piece you know she knew they are not separated because she would’ve said he’s “divorced” or in the process anyways girl i love your story times especially the ones about your times working in the office 😭
I’m gonna be honest….I don’t see an issue with dating, while legally separated. Especially because some divorces can take up to years, to be finalized. Meanwhile, the soon to be ex-husband & wife are already living completely separate lives (I’ve witnessed a few examples of this). However, I will also say it’s *always* best to completely close out a chapter, before opening another (for many reasons) just in-case.💡
She would not like it if it was done to her as a married women. She would not like her man sending another women flowers. Educated or not she was a clown
I always stand by my women 🙌🏼 I always put men in check n say don’t be childish you have a good women (even if I don’t know their women) n tell them you wouldn’t like it if they did the same. Sometimes if they don’t stop I let their women know n ignore their ass. It’s funny cuz girls do this type of shit n don’t care but when they get cheated on they don’t like it. Like what did you expect? If that ever happens to her I hope she remembers what she did to that poor women. Yes it’s his fault but like a women you need to stand up n tell them to respect their women. She’s no women she’s a girl cuz real women don’t do that 🤦🏻♀️
I personally understand her... My brother-in-law and his wife were separathey. Both ended up gettink other partners. They lived separately and they were in a middle of finalizing a divorce after they separated in found new partners... The situation We only know one side of this story.
What’s crazy is that I thought I would be walking into a very male dominated world when I started at a law firm but I was truly surprised when I saw that the majority were women. More than just that, they literally ran the entire office. A few attorneys were male but they would fall apart if the women weren’t there I promise. It was a nice surprise. Not all law offices are like that though. Some are extremely male dominated and luckily I haven’t worked for one of those because yes, they’re brutal.
Fair enough if she didn’t know he was married it wouldn’t be her fault but she did and infidelity takes two, for someone who was trying to teach you how to be a grown woman or whatever she overlooked having respect for other women, also if you’re you already know how to be one it’s in your DNA lol when we put people on peristalsis normally something happens to show us their just as flawed as we are lol I don’t think I look up to anyone specifically I try to learn from everyone, that way you get a whole range of viewpoints and experiences, Tonya maybe was great for job advice but someone else better for life advice, maybe the lesson was not to mingle the two if you find the life advice doesn’t match up with your values, love your story times :)
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crazy how things are “grown folks business” when shit gets very childish
Right 🤣
Yes exactly
That part
I find it so demeaning that she basically waved off Nikki's feelings like because she's older somehow that makes it okay. That's the type of s*** you see going on in high school, that's probably why Nikki was looking at her sideways.
@@supershepherd that part a lot of older women and specifically older brown women will try to pull this shit like girl just bc ur older dont mean u have to act like u know erthanggg
Obviously sleeping with a married man is a shitty thing to do but it’s also baffling that someone so concerned with being taken seriously as a woman in the corporate world and professionalism would have an affair with her direct supervisor…it’s ridiculously hypocritical 💀
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Because it’s all a front lmfao
She was being defensive because she knows she was wrong 😮
Ofc
Exactly
I can’t wrap my head around on how women think messing with married men is okay. This personally happened to me, the girl was coming at me crazy while she was knowingly messing with my ex husband. She didn’t see anything wrong with what she was doing and that is baffling 🤢
sometimes it’s easier to be defensive than admit you’re wrong
It is crazy and they’re messed up
I’m sorry to hear that you had to go thru that drama at the hands of someone u thought made a lifelong commitment to u. That girl had to make you a villain in her head in order to sleep at night. Hopefully she has come to that realization and will be carrying herself better going forward.
When I was a junior in high school, I overheard my math teacher (who had been a role model/mentor to me until then) say that he is getting divorced so he can get married. That, along with some disgusting things he said to me, made me lose respect for him.
@@georgeharrisonlover4300 damn. Sorry to hear that
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Nah that's total BS. Because the company you keep says alot about you as a person. If you're willingly being with a cheater, happily being the other woman, all it says is that you don't care about trust, commitment, or respect for yourself or others. There is no good reason to be with someone who's married or in a relationship. And besides that, he could be lying. How do you know for sure that they're "separated"? What does separated even really mean?
Maybe I’m thinking too deeply, but Tanya sounds jaded by the toxic masculinity in the corporate world. Everyone wants companionship, but she’s so used to “controlling her emotions” that dating is a business transaction.
She probably used to be like you when she was younger - authentic, quick witted and energetic - and sometimes you gotta change your personality to survive situations, but I don’t think morals should change with them.
Good for you for letting her know you disagreed. I’m sure that left an impression with her.
Unfortunately a lot of women fall victim to shit like this. Where they think that essentially being bitchy towards another woman makes them stronger. When all they're doing in reality is just playing right into what the men want. Cuz the only person that really benefit from any of this is him. It's sad how she doesn't realize that she's actually disrespecting herself and the wife by happily being the other woman.
what is toxic masculinity?
wow! this was worded SO beautifully!👏🏾🗣️💯
The defensiveness as soon as you asked if he was married says it all; she knew he wasn’t going anywhere! What a fall from grace. Good on you for not pretending to be okay with it
I don’t think Tanya was right for what she did. I bet she wouldn’t want that being done to her and I’m a big believer in “don’t do to others what you wouldn’t want done to you”
She has zero respect for herself.
This is why you can’t put people on a pedestal, they’ll fall off every time
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Sometimes the separation period can last MONTHS before divorce is even final. Hopefully that's what was going on.
I also just feel like separated is not the same as “married but gonna divorce her (one day maybe but don’t tell her)”
To me, separated means both parties are aware they are getting a divorce, they are past reconciliation, and both in a space where if they choose they can date other people.
The whole “I’m separated” but actively still trying to work on it with the wife to is NOT being separated and it’s just a man lying about his status in the same way he could say “I’m single” even though he knows damn well he’s not. My parents were separated for a long time before their divorce was final and they were both dating other people casually. I think if the wife doesn’t think they’re dating other people then they’re not separated and he’s lying to someone, either the new chick or the wife but someone’s being lied to and that’s not a true separation.
She was in the wrong for being with a man that is married because a guy could say they are "separated" but never separate. Also it's more so respect for herself. From what it sounded like she could pull any man she wanted and she chose a married man with money vs a single man with money. i don't get it even being a grown woman i never understood side chick culture.
not you describing my mom then giving the character my moms name 😂😂😂😂 I literally hollereddd
I feel like the only time that “separated” excuse is valid is if the wife is aware and okay with the relationship. Other than that it just seems like something ppl say to cheat
I was in a very similar situation a few years ago. I was friends with a girl who claimed she was a feminist, supportive of other women, etc. She was only three years older than me but I looked up to her. She ended up cheating on her fiance' with a guy who was also in a long-term relationship, and tried to justify it by saying they were on the verge of breaking up anyway. AND she had the audacity to get upset when that guy's now ex blocked her on social media after they became Facebook official. It was a total drama-filled mess and I thought she was better than that. Someone who really supports other women wouldn't do that shit so it was very disappointing.
She wasn't as "grown" as she thought she was. Grown women have more respect for themselves and wouldn't put themselves in that position. It sounds like she let her "boss b**ch" mentality get the best of her and she thought she could literally do whatever she wanted with WHOMEVER she wanted. In my opinion, she looked at you like a little girl but when YOU confronted her with grown woman things, she couldn't handle the heat. So, in my opinion, your core values (at your young age) made you more of a woman than she was. 🤨
Personally I think communication is the key. My ex husband and me were separated in a middle of the divorce and he was dating another woman. I knew about it as he told me. I was never really bothered. He’s still a friend of mine today and the other one is his new wife who also became my friend.
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"You are very very young." honey what! She was TOO old to be messing with married men.
“I didn’t make the vows” you shouldn’t have to make vows to have decent respect for another person.
Ooohh she was slick with the “I only answer to the wife” statement. My face would’ve balled up at that 😂
And I wonder what she'd say to the wife lol
Lmaooo im 26 now and im still the youngest person in the office nowadays. I will never forget when i went to the club at 22 and my insurance appraiser (we never met it was phone calls only) was sending me drinks and i realized when we exchanged numbers & my phone pulled up his contact from my emails !!! 😂😂 he had no idea i was his client.
I’ve been in corporate, customer service, and now public servant. I swear, the public servant sector is WORSE than HS!
in my opinion, she got offended because she knew what she was: a side chick. and there’s nothing grown about being the side chick and her being defensive with you was proof of that
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I don't beleive the "he's more at fault" mentality because right is right and wrong is wrong. At the end of the day she knew what she was doing was just as wrong because she was giving him the ammo to kill his marriage.
Oof I’ve been around for years since I was 12/13 years old and I turned 18 this year, the way you show respect for other women and how no matter what as a fellow woman there are things that are okay and others that are not necessarily.
Okay I’m totally with her about not blaming the other woman but it’s when the other woman DONT KNOW! Her on the other hand KNOW the man is married! BOTH of them would get the 1 2 because if you know someone is married and still pursue them you are ALSO in the wrong and you too will catch these hands. You are knowingly playing a part in a destruction of a marriage! You get what you get at this point!
First off love that saying in the end and secondly even tho the side piece isnt the one who took the vows they are contributing to breaking them. It's like saying the getaway driver isnt as involved with robbing the bank as the one who is inside getting the money. Its an insane logic to think that way. She was just as wrong.
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I agree if married it's a no no. And alot these guys be lying about their situation. Be saying they getting a divorce or they separated and still be having dealings with the wife. And lol when she told you about how you dress. Back then we thought we was doing it
Yessss thank you! In the middle of creating and scheduling shorts and you are always such an inspiration for me to keep going. Busy mommas unite!
Definitely isn't for the faint of heart. I'm so proud of you for creating all while being a momma and handling family business on top of everything else. Don't quit and when you begin to really question "Why am I doing this" it's a sign that you're really close to reaching something big so above everything else, keep going or I'll beat you up. K love you!! 💕
@@NikkiGlamour God bless you girl, thank you so much. Love you!
“Boots with the fur times” 😅
Apple bottom jeans alllll the way and the crop top jacket with the fur trimmed hood tysm lol
@@NikkiGlamour I wish I was a teen during those times 😩 but the music brings it back
I haven’t even began watching your story time yet but when I tell u I’m going through something with my mentor in placement it’s like the universe is sending me a message. This isn’t the first time as well
Been here since 7th grade and just graduateddddd I love youuu nd she knew she was wrong
Girl I’ve been coming on RUclips everyday to see if you uploaded, you’re the ONLY RUclipsr I watch now the best story teller!
I'm putting away my groceries and come to find out Nikki posted. hell yeah I'mma have a good time
Still don’t understand how you haven’t reached 1M subscribers yet you have it well deserved been subscribe for years ! ❤️😩
YYEESSSS! thanks for finally hitting us with a little longer story cuz u had me messed up😂 but seriously tho your RUclips fam needs longer videos
Ok so this is so interesting..social media managers have reached out to me and swear up and down that short form content is THE WAY TO GO. I keep trying to tell them..mmm I think that depends lmao
@@NikkiGlamour Well i have no knowledge about that but as a subscription of over 6 years, personally i miss your longer videos 😅btw love you😘
@@NikkiGlamourAlso because of financial reasons i can't support you on your only fans and i feel left out as you give the people on your Only fans what seems to be the best content and just give us the meh stories on RUclips.
@@NikkiGlamour their wrong..I need the unnecessary details, please 💛
@@Purple.cyclops I understand your concern and you and I are in the same boat. I would hardly call my experience stories “meh” or even describe the work that’s put into the videos posted here in that way. The quality of content is the same however the restrictions in the community guidelines have changed…a lot..multiple times…in a short period with absolutely no warning on this platform that hinders creators and their ability to speak freely on our channels and it’s more than just demonetization of my content. I’m a one man show here with three kids and I run two platforms + a podcast. Also I can partake in other things while doing my stories and true crime over there as well which is pretty cool! I understand your frustration girl and I will continue to strive to bring you the best content I can while also hopefully being of help in some way or another for people who may need it 💞 I love you
i can see her side when it comes to separation. like if the other partner is refusing to sign papers, or kids or monetary reasons etc. what i don’t understand is how she said it’s none of your business. it became your business when you see a friend of yours out with a supervisor at your company. especially when she’s giving you advice on how to be taken seriously. if she wants you to value her opinion, she can’t shut you out when you have a valid reason to look at her sideways 🤷🏼♀️
Nikki we need more heather , Robert , and Ariel stories !!!
Girl in my opinion I just think that’s morally wrong. I’ve seen so many situations like that in a work place and it’s so bad and wrong I don’t understand people at all.
yesss respect and boundaries is everything I had a friend get mad at me for not communicating to her that I didn't want to talk to her and confronted me sending me paragraphs at work (9am) about how I need to tell her that, when I haven't talked to her in a week like bffr
That’s why I’m happy about work from home don’t have to deal with this drama and mess from coworkers
It depends on the situation.
Are they separated and in the PROCESS of getting a divorce? If there is kids involved as well as a lot of money/assets it can take upwards to a year or more.
If they are just separated could it also be for the fact of keeping benefits like healthcare, pensions, costing LESS than a divorce, etc. For them to stay married but not actually be together. I feel people jump the gun on situations like this without knowing the whole picture.
How long have they been separated? Is the other party ALSO seeing other people? Like I stated above, what are the reasons that you separated rather than divorced? Etc etc.
But like Tanya stated. It's no one else's business but the parties involved, so Nikki wouldn't be informed on the specifics.
BUT If the person you're looking to be with is married but separated, and is ALSO very secretive about their spouse. Then I'd high tail it out of there. COMMUNICATION IS KEY!!!
Not gonna lie, I would LOVE a video on all the advice Tanya gave you because it really seems like useful information.
Also, been rewatching all your videos on shuffle every day and I realized I’ve seen every single one but I can hear em over and over again. You really cheer me up on my bad days. Thank you!
I need more videos like this also because girl I’m in my 30’s. And I’m originally from Miami. Nobody has your back there so I can absolutely relate. Love you!
1st like! Omg I love you girl. I have lupus and was out of work for a year and I binged all of your videos ❤
You are the sweetest soul. Thank you for being here and supporting my content early and commenting...your love for me means everything. If I could be there for any moment of your life that you needed me then I did my job well! Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your healing journey and I pray for many healthy and happy days ahead! I love you but God loves you infinitely more 💕
Always hitting the like button on Nikki's video even before a word comes out of her mouth. Love your videos, MS GLAMOUR-QUEEN! Also, you look GREAT [as always ...]!!!
I'm very on the fence with this one. Because if they were truly separated, go ahead girl (except for the fact he's your direct supervisor.....) but I've known men to say they're separated and still be not only living together but still in functioning relationships with their wives... (not men I've dated, just men I know who were in the dating world) but if they're separated, working thru a divorce, living in separate houses, I don't see why not...
I’ve missed these office story times & I miss your ask nikki videos! 🥹💕
MY FAVORITE RUclipsR EVER!! Love you girl ! Sending nothing but loveee💕💕
Love you niki always looked up to you ❤ I enjoy your story time the amount of energy and explanation you put is entertaining thanks for the story time made my night 😊
You know it’s going to be a good night when Nikki uploads!🥰
im so in love with your hair and how amazing your makeup looks!!
Oof. This one hit home for me. Cause I’m pretty sure my ex husband told his side the same thing that we were separated. But to this day no one is gonna make me feel crazy about that because she most definitely knew he was still married cause why else would they have gotten engaged a month later after signing the divorce papers. Dudes ain’t sh!t I’m telling ya 😂. He owed me loyalty but she was also a willing participant 🙄.
I love your storytimes! I could watch them for HOURS!
I love hearing your story times andddd just a thought think about making this into audio for Spotify
I have been waiting for another corporate story time!! I love them!!
Yesss hey girl ! I’m here for the tea & weekly dosage of Nikki cus young adulthood is a struggle lol!
She’s low for that. Interesting how she saw you as a friend but then it’s “grown folks business” & she talks to you like you’re less than once you find out her secret. I like the saying you lose em how you get em. Hopefully nobody ever does that to her if she so happened to ever get married.
I’ll never understand why women get off on being the other woman/mistress. Correct, they didn’t say the vows but why enable a man to commit the ultimate betrayal to another woman? It’s like they get off on it, which I believe they do. I’ll always alert a woman if her man is being icky behind her back (if I know who the girl is and have evidence but I like to stay anon lmao). If she knows or doesn’t care, that’s her life but at least I let her know bc I’d want the same done for me.
Funny how she said she dont mix business with pleasure and did just that 😂
MY QUEEEEEN THIS IS JUST WHAT I NEEDED
Separation isn't a divorce. It's also a time during which the separated parties can choose to reconcile and remain married. She would have to answer to the wife if it came out because separated or not that is still someone else's husband. She was wrong.
I've never been here this early 💖 recently started watching your videos and binge watching
omgg😭been binge re watching all your stories & literally in the middle of me listening to one of the last ones before i run out…you post another!!!😭❤️
She living that sprinkle sprinkle lifestyle 😭😭
Yess, my SAHM Ass waits for your story times alll the timeee!! Thanks for taking me out my reality for a bit❤
I always learn something valuable from each story you tell ❤
First! Love from a fellow Dallas girl across the pond in London 🇬🇧
No wayyy!! OMG It's one of my biggest dreams to visit London! I'm so proud of you girl!
@@NikkiGlamour you replied 🥹 thank you I’ve been watching since 2016 when I was 18 and starting college. I hope you get a chance to visit London, I love it out here
I was saying "I bet you she's dating a married man, she sounds like the type" when you were describing her, only to find out she was lol.
Anyways, a women who goes after a "married man" because he's clearly not presenting divorce papers, screams that she really doesn't have morals or values. Yes she can pull men but, can she keep one? It's one thing to attract men, it's another to actually get one to claim you. Why settle for a side chick role if she had so many prospects? Math ain't mathing.
I think she's a victim of toxic masculinity. The delusion that "beating" another woman for her man's attention is somehow empowering. When in reality, he's the only one that benefits from any of it.
Girl, you are always right on time 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Not me watching David’s comedy then you post 😂 I love it here
Girl we're trying to take over the internet bit by bit lmao! Thank you for the support of both of us we really really appreciate it! 🥰
NIKKIII making my weekend start on the best note ♥️♥️
ahhhhh yes i love watching your vids they are so comforting too cause i’ve been watching since your step sister videos and your beaded door background i love you!!!!
1. Nikkk your so pretty 😍 please do a story time and do your make up at the same time!!! 2. Pleeeeasse post more story times. You literally help me get through my mornings lol. 3. That woman is wrong and this is where we as women need to hold men accountable. Men do what they do because women allow them to do that. I don’t care how much you wanna be with someone. Once you take that vow before God. It’s a wrap. Once done in the dark will always come to the light!
She pulled out the “he’s separated” because she knows how it looks.
Yeah sure it is up to the man to stay faithful and set boundaries but women who do this need to realize they play apart In it also. I’m sure they wouldn’t like it if it was done to them.
ISSA HELL NO FOR ME. Her hands is not as clean as she thinks. Ion give a damn if they are amicably separated and on their way to signing papers ISSA NO. Even recently divorced is iffy to me AND would need to include some healing and time prior to stepping to ME.
I feel like we as people shouldn't hold others to a higher standard because at the end of the day we're all humans who make mistakes. If the man was actually separated from his wife, there's nothing else to say or do but in some aspects she's right it's none of anyone's business. If she was stepping into someone else's marriage she'll reap what she sows.
I’m here for it bestie!!! I love you, Nikki.
I just wonder why some women think affairs are so exciting. You said Tonya liked being single and didn’t seem bothered by the other guys. It almost seemed like a game to her. But something about that married man kept her hooked and coming back. I hope he didn’t have any kids.
She knew what she was doing was wrong thats why she came & said it was “grown folk business”. I have no respect towards women who deliberately go for a married man it shows she has no morals nor respect for herself. Shes just allowing herself to be the side piece you know she knew they are not separated because she would’ve said he’s “divorced” or in the process anyways girl i love your story times especially the ones about your times working in the office 😭
Being seperated could mean that they’re taking a break. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
8:38 lmao rewatching bc its so funny homegirl really said “nah we have some decorum round deez parts!” 😅😂
Btw nikki your hair is STUNNING!
I’m gonna be honest….I don’t see an issue with dating, while legally separated. Especially because some divorces can take up to years, to be finalized. Meanwhile, the soon to be ex-husband & wife are already living completely separate lives (I’ve witnessed a few examples of this). However, I will also say it’s *always* best to completely close out a chapter, before opening another (for many reasons) just in-case.💡
She would not like it if it was done to her as a married women. She would not like her man sending another women flowers. Educated or not she was a clown
My thing is she needs to take into account that a man that’s willing to do that behind his wife’s back will most likely do it again
Gnex was the spot girl 😂😂
I always stand by my women 🙌🏼 I always put men in check n say don’t be childish you have a good women (even if I don’t know their women) n tell them you wouldn’t like it if they did the same. Sometimes if they don’t stop I let their women know n ignore their ass. It’s funny cuz girls do this type of shit n don’t care but when they get cheated on they don’t like it. Like what did you expect? If that ever happens to her I hope she remembers what she did to that poor women. Yes it’s his fault but like a women you need to stand up n tell them to respect their women. She’s no women she’s a girl cuz real women don’t do that 🤦🏻♀️
I personally understand her... My brother-in-law and his wife were separathey. Both ended up gettink other partners. They lived separately and they were in a middle of finalizing a divorce after they separated in found new partners... The situation We only know one side of this story.
new storytime while i finish my humanities hw for the night gracias hermosaaaa!!
Girl ! Your outfit is everythinggggggg❤️
Ahh thank you! I was definitely feeling my barbie moment lol
What’s crazy is that I thought I would be walking into a very male dominated world when I started at a law firm but I was truly surprised when I saw that the majority were women. More than just that, they literally ran the entire office. A few attorneys were male but they would fall apart if the women weren’t there I promise. It was a nice surprise.
Not all law offices are like that though. Some are extremely male dominated and luckily I haven’t worked for one of those because yes, they’re brutal.
totally off topic but you look amazing in this video!! youre literally glowing❤❤
This color is stunning on you 😍😍😍💕
Que bonita amiga🫶♥️
Fair enough if she didn’t know he was married it wouldn’t be her fault but she did and infidelity takes two, for someone who was trying to teach you how to be a grown woman or whatever she overlooked having respect for other women, also if you’re you already know how to be one it’s in your DNA lol when we put people on peristalsis normally something happens to show us their just as flawed as we are lol I don’t think I look up to anyone specifically I try to learn from everyone, that way you get a whole range of viewpoints and experiences, Tonya maybe was great for job advice but someone else better for life advice, maybe the lesson was not to mingle the two if you find the life advice doesn’t match up with your values, love your story times :)
Nikki I just wanna say I’ve watched your videos since middle school and I’m ab to graduate! 💗🥰