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Комментарии • 406

  • @saiprabath2788
    @saiprabath2788 27 дней назад +194

    Buddhism is very helpful to those people who are unhappy and having emotional turbulence even though I am Hindu I follow Buddhism and practice meditation namo buddhay ❤

    • @peerguy
      @peerguy 27 дней назад +9

      Happy that Buddhist principles are helping you. Urge you to remember Buddhist teachings when you’re not feeling lonely as well. It doesn’t have to be limited to when you feel lonely

    • @saiprabath2788
      @saiprabath2788 27 дней назад +2

      @@peerguy yes its not limited or reserved to some people it's a vast religion and teaches how to lead happy life

    • @Unknownlll123
      @Unknownlll123 27 дней назад +11

      ​I am looking more into Buddhism and it is really helping me, I don't class Buddhism as a religion but as common sense, the amount of times I have said to people there is more to life than money I believe in my own way it is true because the two things in my eyes that cause the most arguments are money and religion. Like Buddhism and karma they both make perfect sense, the best things in life are free and everything is impermanent, every day i believe this to be true, be nice to each other and you will be rewarded by your actions. Nammo Buddhya. 🙏.

    • @Hs5687
      @Hs5687 27 дней назад

      Not be Naive to seek Spiritual when You know source of Your Problems… Digital Feudalism allows even Governments to Weaponise isolation , loneliness, especially against Political Threats … ie. Key Witnesses, Whistleblowers etc

    • @wilsDav3
      @wilsDav3 27 дней назад +6

      I agree with you I was not good person but my life change when I got married to Thai person and speaking to monks my heart change to warm be very good this Monk change me to

  • @Sunjae32136
    @Sunjae32136 27 дней назад +73

    My biggest dream is to meet you in person sir..Your voice & words are so calming. Whenever I feel alone or sad I just watch your videos it makes me feel so good..Thank you so much for all your wonderful words ..May you live a long life with a good health Sir ❤

    • @JulietDsouza-om3sg
      @JulietDsouza-om3sg 17 дней назад +3

      You are such a lovely person I wish you live long with good health and happiness

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад +2

      Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @chhavigoel8029
    @chhavigoel8029 14 дней назад +6

    All I understand is loneliness is not always a suffering. It can be a blessing as you get time for yourself to develop your personality and to self care about yourself.

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад

      Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @sandunithakshila72
    @sandunithakshila72 25 дней назад +27

    Buddhism have all the solutions for our questions. This is a much needed topic for me nowadays. Beginning from now, I'm gonna focus on myself more than others and definitely I'm gonna correct my faults and hope to get a better version of me. Namo Buddhaya 🙏💐 Thank you for everyone who behind this video ❤❤

    • @jeff_forsythe
      @jeff_forsythe 14 дней назад

      The highest school of Buddhism is Falun Dafa.

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад

      Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @flyme2009
    @flyme2009 27 дней назад +35

    i am lonely since i cam out an atheist in 2001. i lost all of my muslim fake friends, family, siblings and my fake sri lankan muslim community in canada. i never look back and i am very happy the way i am. i have canadians non muslims friends and i cant have muslims friends even from other countries bc of my life style. it is better to be lonely than fake people around you. namo budhayaa

    • @sylviennedelvaux-bi4eu
      @sylviennedelvaux-bi4eu 27 дней назад +4

      Alone does not mean lonely❤

    • @johncarter1150
      @johncarter1150 27 дней назад +8

      What is fake or false to you is real to them.
      Lots of atheist or more open-minded people who would be your friend! Don't stay lonely too long.

    • @metalheadtaz
      @metalheadtaz 22 дня назад

      Muslims are very conservative. They will never mingle with an ex Muslim

  • @shannonpmitchell
    @shannonpmitchell 27 дней назад +20

    I never get lonely. I love being alone, but I did become extremely sad when my grandchildren moved away from me.

    • @RaviRai-tp5fk
      @RaviRai-tp5fk 26 дней назад +1

      Your grandchildren moved away from you and i myself away from my gandapa and grandma to do studies.. 😢😢

    • @enukapasan
      @enukapasan 26 дней назад +2

      U were attached to them. Bless u with health and wellbeing

    • @RaviRai-tp5fk
      @RaviRai-tp5fk 25 дней назад +2

      @@enukapasan 😔🙏🏻🙏🏻 Namaste...

    • @shannonpmitchell
      @shannonpmitchell 18 дней назад

      @@RaviRai-tp5fk 🙏

    • @shannonpmitchell
      @shannonpmitchell 18 дней назад

      @@enukapasan thank you!

  • @mistyguha
    @mistyguha 27 дней назад +25

    Buddhism is really great ❤

    • @user-xg8tv3fl5x
      @user-xg8tv3fl5x 9 дней назад

      I am 78 yrs old. I am widowed and live alone. Thank you for your wise words and also thank you for the calm way in which you narrate. You are good.

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад +1

      Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @Maximus-mh1ov
    @Maximus-mh1ov 27 дней назад +17

    Namo Buddhaya. After getting to know about anatta and that everyone is interdependent never feel loneliness again.

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад

      Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @shona4252
    @shona4252 27 дней назад +17

    Having Lord Gautam Buddha, his Buddhism & My Dearest Venerable Mahindasiri Thero Bhanteji in my life is really a blessing for me 😊❤️😌🙏Thank you so much to all of you for everything 😊❤️😌🙏Namo Buddhay 😊❤️😌🙏

    • @jeff_forsythe
      @jeff_forsythe 14 дней назад

      Falun Gong has the King of the Buddhas for a master.

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад

      Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @katiadetlinger4753
    @katiadetlinger4753 7 дней назад +1

    Now I begin the loneliness like a positive energy! Gratitude!

  • @samilarungapamestry6466
    @samilarungapamestry6466 27 дней назад +9

    Beautiful..i agree with Sir..i am alone most of the time..but not lonely..i have learned to know myself and i have changed a lot..i am always happy

    • @jeff_forsythe
      @jeff_forsythe 14 дней назад

      You were not put on this earth to be happy..........................Falun Gong

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад

      Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @M.Ojha9435
    @M.Ojha9435 27 дней назад +17

    Thank you❤❤❤❤
    Take care and stay safe❤😊
    Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤❤❤

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад

      Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @helenestyles6561
    @helenestyles6561 5 дней назад +2

    Thank you for your words of wisdom. I feel better just hearing your calm voice.

  • @rajavepuri8007
    @rajavepuri8007 27 дней назад +12

    Please do a video, meditation or breathing exercise before sleep to get good sleep

    • @bibhu939
      @bibhu939 27 дней назад

      Try hatha yoga sleeping meditation

    • @bibhu939
      @bibhu939 27 дней назад

      Try hatha yoga

    • @rajavepuri8007
      @rajavepuri8007 27 дней назад

      @@bibhu939 okay

  • @PyoneThu73
    @PyoneThu73 22 дня назад +3

    Buddha's teachings and paths taught me to accept the good and bad experiences I encounter in life.❤

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад

      Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @Hope1111-c8g
    @Hope1111-c8g 15 дней назад +3

    Bhanthe please make a video about what pride is and how to let go of it, how to be competent but still be humble and how to be capable and not be arrogant without being proud of it and bragging is it worth to completely stop pride or is there a middle way of having pride or how should it be handled, please educate about lord Buddhas teachings on how to be humble and what humbleness can do to you and help with our success. Thank you very much. නමෝ බුද්ධාය

  • @user-dg9ve6lj4o
    @user-dg9ve6lj4o 26 дней назад +3

    Thank you because this time I am alone and most of the time I feel lonely but After listening you now I try to undesrstand my self and make this loneliness into a blessing

    • @jeff_forsythe
      @jeff_forsythe 14 дней назад

      To remove loneliness one must feel lonely, suffering brings wisdom, nothing else...........................Falun Gong

  • @JustinTimeTo
    @JustinTimeTo 27 дней назад +15

    It’s so dangerous, keep telling myself that it will get better.

    • @johncarter1150
      @johncarter1150 27 дней назад +3

      You're not the only one. Keep trying good or bad, Life is for the living! Reality seems fake when you live with an isolated inner/seff directed attitude.

    • @4uveggieclub
      @4uveggieclub 22 дня назад

      ❤❤🎉🎉

    • @4uveggieclub
      @4uveggieclub 22 дня назад

      ❤❤🎉🎉

    • @jeff_forsythe
      @jeff_forsythe 14 дней назад

      Fear is a good thing because it allows us to be courageous, what is so dangerous?

    • @JustinTimeTo
      @JustinTimeTo 12 дней назад

      @@jeff_forsythe it can go either way depending on perspective at the time of fear or loneliness. I agree harnessing it can be extremely beneficial.

  • @rachnatawasthi44
    @rachnatawasthi44 2 дня назад

    Alone living is a valuable asset for me to grow up and be able to live with in!

  • @quin923
    @quin923 26 дней назад +4

    Yes, it's true that loneliness is also a blessing.

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад

      Blessing ... I agree with U...

  • @bobo2.1
    @bobo2.1 25 дней назад +2

    That's absolutely true what u said. All of us should understand about this, I also understand what make me loneliness and thank you so much for feel comfortable us in our lives. I'm Buddhism and I am always trying to change my life with following Load Buddha's way, and it's gets me a better life. Namo Buddhaya !!

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад

      Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @bithikasaha377
    @bithikasaha377 4 дня назад

    I would like to pay my deep reverence to you Sir. I hv' been going through a very tough phase in my life where suddenly I found myself completely abandoned by my near & dear ones mentally though surrounded by them physically. Not knowing what to do I was completely shuttered and then oneday I suddenly came across a valuable speech of you in this youtube channel which is a turning point in my life. You with your valuable words have enlightened my path Sir. Many many thanks to you Sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @melissahouse1296
    @melissahouse1296 27 дней назад +2

    You are such a blessing this channel is helping me so much & i am so grateful. Thank you so very much 💝💖🙏☺

  • @a.s.w.9619
    @a.s.w.9619 22 дня назад +3

    This video came exactly at the correct time I need it..❤

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад +1

      Bless u with health and wellbeing

  • @paulll6512
    @paulll6512 12 дней назад +1

    I am interested in the teachings of the Buddha. The teachings fascinate me because I am taught that in is not a religion, nor a philosophy, but a way of life.

  • @carly-beatz-DJ
    @carly-beatz-DJ 25 дней назад +1

    I thank loneliness daily for the time it affords me to reflect inwards. This video is fantastic, and for me, a fundamental in my practice.

    • @jeff_forsythe
      @jeff_forsythe 14 дней назад

      Falun Gong has much greater wisdom, if that is you wish

  • @user-ke4re1ed4n
    @user-ke4re1ed4n 7 дней назад

    I am so happy to have heard ur voice again! It is so fascinating and educational

  • @cutelittlethings__
    @cutelittlethings__ 20 дней назад +2

    You are not lonely. Nobody has you❤

  • @kpopsweetie8106
    @kpopsweetie8106 27 дней назад +5

    Really needed this...
    Thank you so much...
    Namo Nuddhaya...!!!🙏🌼✨

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад

      Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @michellemachet-philip2801
    @michellemachet-philip2801 19 часов назад

    You are really a very calming person. Thank you so much for your video

  • @JustinTimeTo
    @JustinTimeTo 27 дней назад +2

    This couldn’t have came at a better time. Thank you 🙏 been listening to this over and over today.

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад

      Thank you so much! 🙂 🙏 Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @nikitasharma6796
    @nikitasharma6796 26 дней назад +1

    Hi sir you are very true. Loneliness also gives one ample me time...

  • @sylviennedelvaux-bi4eu
    @sylviennedelvaux-bi4eu 27 дней назад +3

    I like to be with people and i also like to be on my own as i learned about Bhoudism since i was young❤

    • @jeff_forsythe
      @jeff_forsythe 14 дней назад

      Your comment is very superficial, Buddhism teaches that suffering is the key to enlightenment.............................Falun Gong.

  • @thanushree9027
    @thanushree9027 27 дней назад +1

    Namo buddhaya. I had the same feeling till now. I felt lonely even I am with my family. But now I will try to give time for myself and understand the reality and myself. Thank you so much .

    • @jeff_forsythe
      @jeff_forsythe 14 дней назад

      You need a great teacher.......................Falun Gong.

  • @WMkaveeshaSathsarani
    @WMkaveeshaSathsarani 23 дня назад +2

    This is the words of LORD BUDDA...These advices was very
    helpful to me...

    • @phatphapai
      @phatphapai 3 дня назад

      Bless u with health and wellbeing

  • @josephwong7103
    @josephwong7103 26 дней назад +2

    Thank you. Learnt so much from this video. 🙏🏼

  • @Muskan-ci2np
    @Muskan-ci2np 27 дней назад +2

    This was needed. Thanks

  • @Sneha_soren_11
    @Sneha_soren_11 27 дней назад +1

    Loneliness is a kind of blessing ✨

  • @wilsDav3
    @wilsDav3 27 дней назад +1

    I love you comments and video helping me myself I I'm a Christian 🙏 thank you

  • @Susan-kt5yc
    @Susan-kt5yc 27 дней назад +1

    Beautifully said. Thank you❤

  • @phatphapai
    @phatphapai 17 дней назад +1

    Thank you so much! 🙏Namo Buddhaya! 🙏

  • @tankhareshbhai3595
    @tankhareshbhai3595 22 дня назад +1

    Your video is amazing, please make how to deal with toxic siblings 😔, please 🙏

  • @user-nx8pe4mn8v
    @user-nx8pe4mn8v 27 дней назад +1

    Thank you "Buddha's teaching..❤🙏

  • @maheshwaribalamurugan4004
    @maheshwaribalamurugan4004 27 дней назад +3

    Namo Bhuddhaya 🙏🙇🏻‍♀️

  • @user-gx6rr8gf4l
    @user-gx6rr8gf4l 26 дней назад +1

    Supreme Buddha the Great. Namo Buddhaya. Thank you Thero. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

  • @saugatnagila8648
    @saugatnagila8648 22 дня назад +1

    Thank you sir for this helpful lecture and also wanna thank the person who put a very soothing background music❤

  • @sithiravishvajith7773
    @sithiravishvajith7773 27 дней назад +5

    Namo budhdhaya 🙏

  • @rahulsinger3262
    @rahulsinger3262 27 дней назад +3

    Om Namo Buddhaya ❤❤❤

  • @nam-sel4149
    @nam-sel4149 27 дней назад +1

    Grateful to you . Really helpful to live

  • @ayechanmoe4738
    @ayechanmoe4738 23 дня назад +1

    Thanks.This is amazing!

  • @user-bu7jh3dk6g
    @user-bu7jh3dk6g 16 дней назад

    Namo Buddha, sir lisening to this video abt loneliness and what you're saying make tears run down my eyes, always lisening to you Namo Buddha

  • @deepshikarathore6724
    @deepshikarathore6724 16 дней назад

    He is life changer for me 🙏🏻♥️
    Namo buddhaya❤

  • @NIKHIL_IITR
    @NIKHIL_IITR 19 дней назад +1

    Namo buddhaye !!

  • @asuznjoozhamattom
    @asuznjoozhamattom 27 дней назад +2

    Thankyou,for the wisdom

  • @VirginiaSado
    @VirginiaSado 7 дней назад

    ❤ For every tear that drifts from our eyes could be a victory ❤ Thank you ❤ Smiles. Amen❤

  • @sasirusankhajaya1795
    @sasirusankhajaya1795 27 дней назад +1

    Truly appreciate!

  • @wendymacklin3225
    @wendymacklin3225 26 дней назад +2

    My pranams to you, your words are true wisdom.

  • @Jhalak42
    @Jhalak42 27 дней назад +1

    thank you so much , namo buddhay🥰

  • @davecameron5355
    @davecameron5355 15 дней назад

    Another really interesting and helpful teaching. Thank you so much for the time you give up helping us to understand how to cope with life.

  • @MonicaHeraghty
    @MonicaHeraghty 15 дней назад

    I would listen to you forever you make me look àt life in a different way you are a wonderful person. ❤

  • @Siddeswaraedu71
    @Siddeswaraedu71 26 дней назад +2

    Namo buddhaya💐💐

  • @whoinlok7664
    @whoinlok7664 27 дней назад +1

    ❤❤Thanks for your teaching Namo buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @DisnaRanaweera-xn6tb
    @DisnaRanaweera-xn6tb 26 дней назад +1

    Great vedio. Thank for sharing this with us.

  • @kelvinth30
    @kelvinth30 27 дней назад +2

    I totally get this as I'm an introvert

  • @KalpaGirihagama
    @KalpaGirihagama 27 дней назад +3

    thank you💓

  • @prophetofthemightysquirrel5434
    @prophetofthemightysquirrel5434 27 дней назад

    May all be truly loved and happy!

  • @SunitaDevi-vf9bs
    @SunitaDevi-vf9bs 26 дней назад +2

    Thank you so much.

  • @dangubappo4163
    @dangubappo4163 27 дней назад +1

    I really love your advice ❤

  • @bernardsangma89
    @bernardsangma89 27 дней назад +1

    Full support Sir 👍❤️❤️🙏

  • @ginimajo5964
    @ginimajo5964 27 дней назад

    One of my bucket lists is to meet you

  • @samuelrodrigues2939
    @samuelrodrigues2939 24 дня назад

    What he says about our expectation of other people acting as we wisg is so true and that unmet expectation is what creates suffering.. it is obvious, but something that is easy to be unconcious about and go back to the circle of suffering

  • @Sapnagoyalmotivation
    @Sapnagoyalmotivation 8 дней назад

    I m hindu. But I like your videos very much. I m inspired. To u.

  • @brys.3131
    @brys.3131 27 дней назад

    Thank you so much, this has helped me.

  • @MuralitharanDakshinamoorthy
    @MuralitharanDakshinamoorthy 27 дней назад

    Thanks for the video. I would like to understand the difference between self love and selfishness according to buddhism.

  • @Shonda-y7c
    @Shonda-y7c 2 дня назад

    Excellent teaching! 🌱

  • @hsmint
    @hsmint 2 дня назад

    Use the time alone to understand yourself, what are your values, what matters to you

  • @katriendesmetdesantiago6413
    @katriendesmetdesantiago6413 27 дней назад

    Thank you dear Monk , you help me so much, I try to live more like you told us but it is not easy with all these bad habits I have

  • @liyanageperera9290
    @liyanageperera9290 25 дней назад +1

    Thank you so much🙏

  • @user-dq2ok6nk2q
    @user-dq2ok6nk2q 26 дней назад +1

    In my loneliness I am interested, why am I here, this is very incredible, because in loneliness I understand myself better, it is easier to let go of my pain and be healthy, I am 💙 Myself

    • @jeff_forsythe
      @jeff_forsythe 14 дней назад

      Falun Dafa can answer all your questions concerning creation.

  • @matarasriyani9256
    @matarasriyani9256 17 дней назад

    Namobuddhaya .Theruwan saranai .

  • @maryamfincher1851
    @maryamfincher1851 3 дня назад

    Great teach. For first time I understood loneliness. I thank you so very much 💙💜💚❤🤍

  • @PhassangAnu
    @PhassangAnu 27 дней назад +1

    Namo bhuddhaya❤

  • @Arjun3mg
    @Arjun3mg 26 дней назад

    Very true it lies within our source we should change

  • @user-tg8zr9mr4q
    @user-tg8zr9mr4q 22 дня назад

    Just trying to take care of myself 😊😊

  • @dumeshiellawidana9486
    @dumeshiellawidana9486 16 дней назад

    Thank you so much..!!

  • @meeranandagopalan
    @meeranandagopalan 21 день назад +1

    Thank you❤

  • @aravindadharsh
    @aravindadharsh 27 дней назад +1

    Namo Buddhaaya... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @lisadao3593
    @lisadao3593 День назад

    That is amazing !

  • @orrphase77
    @orrphase77 27 дней назад

    Thank you so much dear😊 💗

  • @manishmandhotra5888
    @manishmandhotra5888 22 дня назад

    Namo buddhaya.Kindly make video on how to be disciplined with daily targets and how to be consistent in efforts.

  • @NatasaJanser
    @NatasaJanser 23 дня назад

    Great advice - thanks ❤

  • @shubhamkumer-he5vf
    @shubhamkumer-he5vf 12 дней назад

    thank u monk for this beautiful guidance namo budhay🥰

  • @tuna5287
    @tuna5287 26 дней назад

    Thank you very much! I would prefer your teaching without the background music. That way I can create a deep thinking inside of me.

  • @janetmiller2980
    @janetmiller2980 17 дней назад

    I had an insight in a meditation
    Sure there were friends I've needed to let go. They were time and energy vampires, not friends.
    But there have also been decent people I've pushed away out of resistance to change, or fear of more negative experiences and I regret that.
    Maybe time with my little family, two cats and meditation group at the temple are all I need at this time.

  • @sourishsourish1019
    @sourishsourish1019 26 дней назад +5

    This is the most useful video for Introverts like me

  • @johncarter1150
    @johncarter1150 26 дней назад +2

    Be brave, reconnect with your friends, or meet new friends. Don't wait for loneliness to go away!

  • @mphophori1043
    @mphophori1043 17 дней назад

    Opportunity to build better love ❤

  • @sanjanam8220
    @sanjanam8220 17 дней назад

    Thank you sir❤very helpful video

  • @kristincabanaw6747
    @kristincabanaw6747 16 дней назад

    Thank you.❤

  • @andrewwater5836
    @andrewwater5836 27 дней назад +1

    Namo Buddhaya 🙏