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  • @anudiaz6914
    @anudiaz6914 Год назад +1649

    When you are heartbroken cry,forgive ,learn from your expeiences and let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.🙏

    • @LilB.
      @LilB. Год назад +8

      Well said..

    • @moulinyan
      @moulinyan Год назад +2

      how u do u cry

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA Год назад

      Or turn it into a beautiful painful song ruclips.net/video/v2vk1S03MUo/видео.html

    • @prema1009
      @prema1009 Год назад +23

      But I am struggling 😫. My mind says I need to forget and move on... but very difficult to practice

    • @kimberleyjane2338
      @kimberleyjane2338 Год назад +4

      ​@@prema1009 Very difficult and especially when you realize that your needs are not their priority or their problem.

  • @hsmint
    @hsmint Год назад +1162

    1)If you need to cry, is ok to cry. Crying release pressure.
    2) Find a person to share your sorrow. The person should not give hateful comments about your ex partner as that will build up the hatred further.
    3) Always reflect and recollect that one day you will be parted and separated with all the dear people in your life. Alot of people don't like to think about this when they are in a relationship. However, being aware that we have limited time with our loved one(s) will enable one to give the fullest love and compassion.
    4) True love will never break your heart, but attachment will.
    5) If you need to heal the wound, you need to reduce touching it. Therefore, reduce the amount of attention you give to past memories.
    6) No matter how terrible the situation is, it will change one day. You will be ok one day.
    7) Know that this experience will make you stronger.

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA Год назад

      Or turn it into a beautiful painful song ruclips.net/video/v2vk1S03MUo/видео.html

    • @qb6989
      @qb6989 Год назад +13

      Wow! Thank you for this!

    • @marktodd4479
      @marktodd4479 Год назад +3

      #3 is so very helpful. I experienced the most absolutely devastating losses of my life 2 years ago. I did treasure them and many many times while laying in peace with them I felt such gratitude for the moment and for them. The loss is unbearable and I don’t know about others but life is of no use or holds zero attraction to me anymore and I just remain in this maya because of others depending on me

    • @meghnac78
      @meghnac78 Год назад +12

      And what happens when the terrible situation happens over and over again? When life gives you nothing but misery and heartache as soon as you think you are okay?

    • @myversionoftruth
      @myversionoftruth Год назад +2

      Thank you very much. 🙏

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 Год назад +586

    "True love will never break your heart, but attachment does"

    • @sich_verstehen
      @sich_verstehen Год назад +28

      But aren't we all attatched to our loved ones?

    • @nickkaysay
      @nickkaysay Год назад +29

      ​@@sich_verstehen yes, but all of our attachments bring us suffering. We fear of losing what or who we cherish, we feel sad and devastated when we actually lose it, we get used to the temporary feeling of happiness, that when it's over it breaks our heart. All of us should learn to let go and understand that all things that appear, sooner or later will disappear. Including the bad things. Hope I could help you❤

    • @jselenatan9834
      @jselenatan9834 Год назад +1

      Thank you, I needed to hear this.

    • @bankingtricks614
      @bankingtricks614 Год назад

    • @tararathnayake7582
      @tararathnayake7582 Год назад +4

      We attach to people without even love, when we love there is always an attachment. No matter at the end, attachment makes us suffer. Love without any attachment make us free

  • @benazir4425
    @benazir4425 4 месяца назад +109

    Anyone going through a tough time hold on guys You're not alone😊 ( may Allah make it easy for you all) and remember this too shall pass!

  • @ChezzzyChez
    @ChezzzyChez Год назад +218

    I love your quote of “let your tears water the seeds of your happiness.” 🙂thank you

    • @catherinesmith932
      @catherinesmith932 Год назад +1

      Yes great words! Thank You

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA Год назад

      Or turn it into a beautiful painful song ruclips.net/video/v2vk1S03MUo/видео.html

    • @nigithat7803
      @nigithat7803 5 месяцев назад

      True words. It help me... Over come more tension, pressure.... 🙂

  • @yashodaraabeysinghe5437
    @yashodaraabeysinghe5437 Год назад +176

    "When you are heart-broken, cry, forgive, learn from your experiences & let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness"

    • @freidapaynor1641
      @freidapaynor1641 Год назад

      been 2yrs and the tears hasnt dried up.

    • @vanshikadixit5892
      @vanshikadixit5892 Год назад

      Where we can purchase this uniform? He wearing.

    • @yashodaraabeysinghe5437
      @yashodaraabeysinghe5437 Год назад +1

      @@vanshikadixit5892 it's called 'robe'..Sri Lanka..but you can't just buy a robe & just wear like a uniform..First you have to become a monk..it's quite a process..

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA Год назад

      @@yashodaraabeysinghe5437 Or turn it into a beautiful painful song ruclips.net/video/v2vk1S03MUo/видео.html

    • @twilit
      @twilit Год назад

      @@vanshikadixit5892lol it’s not a fashion

  • @jeandaniel4277
    @jeandaniel4277 Год назад +265

    I lost my son 27 years old in an accident two months back ,I am so broken and search for motivational talks. I listen to your speeches and there is a temporary relief I still need to hear more on losing a loved one. You are a great preacher teacher and don't talk about religion but only truths . Thank you.

    • @artaleasham4105
      @artaleasham4105 Год назад +25

      I feel sorry for your loss. Try to keep yourself on your daily tasks. Cleaning, going to the grocery store, work. Things like that. If you can't find something to do, then take a walk around the park/maybe even jog. It doesn't have to be fast, just moving is good. Keep yourself busy.
      It's okay to cry at any given time of your day. So what if people see you! You're human. You are allowed to cry. Anyone can understand what you are going through. The most important thing is to give yourself time to mourn, but also to keep yourself moving. Try some yoga/sports.
      Trust me, out of anything that can help, movement is it. Your brain will release dopamine and that will make sure your body will be more calmed. The movements will also make you tired, wich in turn makes it easier to fall asleep and the tiredness will make it harder for your mind to wander. The best thing is to push your body as hard as it can go, but it's not ideal to do this every time. Especially if you're a beginner at anything, try to take it one step at a time, and it's okay to take breaks.
      This won't heal your wound, but it can help be a band aid until it gets better, bit by bit. I hope you can give it a place someday and be happy again all the way! And remember. You are never alone. If you want to talk to someone about it, there might be talking groups you can go to/or a psychologist. Don't be afraid to talk to lots of your friends too! Everything will help to give it a place.

    • @rangerwhite5165
      @rangerwhite5165 Год назад +7

      Best wishes to you and I hope you find peace. I can't imagine how horrific that would be.

    • @sunshineshining4167
      @sunshineshining4167 Год назад +4

      Hope you are fine now.

    • @user-sj9lf2bi1y
      @user-sj9lf2bi1y Год назад

      Cheer up! 🌸🍀

    • @Save-INDIA
      @Save-INDIA Год назад +6

      That is what budha has taught in his Dhamma….. he teaches way of life which is useful for each and every individual…. He says ,, don’t expect too much,,, attachment’s brings suffering,, expectations brings suffering, be compassionate, be kind , he says 1) there is suffering 2) there is reason for suffering 3) you need to understand the cause of suffering 4) find out solutions or healing for that suffering bz it’s in your hand to reduce your pain and suffering by kindness and compassion for others…..,, then he shows 8 fold pathways to follow for life then in the prayers itself he says….. 1) be away from lies 2) be away from hurting animals 3)be away from addiction, alcohol 4) make your character stronger 5) don’t do robbery…………, so beautiful BUDDHA had taught us……..2500 yrs ago…….. so simple and so true…………

  • @thefutureisnow209
    @thefutureisnow209 23 дня назад +2

    Also true love never breaks your heart bc true love doesn’t leave. Thank you for this beautiful video. ❤

  • @manjulapaul5065
    @manjulapaul5065 Год назад +393

    The way you talk with a smile on your face that's very beautiful 😍👌 ❤️

  • @ankitanandi5594
    @ankitanandi5594 Год назад +190

    I am getting addicted to this channel..at the end of every talk I get tears...namo budhdhaya 🌸🌸🌸

    • @doroteotimtim8854
      @doroteotimtim8854 Год назад

      Listening to your words of wisdom makes me feel content with your understanding about how people can get together platonically. Never stop preaching about love and lasting relationships...

    • @kushymathai9821
      @kushymathai9821 Год назад +1

      Yes you are right i watched all videos waiting for next one👍👍👍

    • @PRASHANTSINGH-sh2hn
      @PRASHANTSINGH-sh2hn Год назад +1

      Are u heartbroken?

    • @tharmab4658
      @tharmab4658 Год назад

      🙏

    • @sophiafara5997
      @sophiafara5997 10 месяцев назад

      i have fat tummy

  • @chandramunasinghe4017
    @chandramunasinghe4017 Год назад +215

    We lost our eldest daughter 26 years ago...when she was 11 years...I am still struggling to overcome our loss....by listening to yr dhamma talks....i feel bit light hearted ....thanks ..Namo Buddhaya

    • @ro_boat
      @ro_boat Год назад +6

      My condolences to you 😢 and yours! I lost my sister and brother-in-law to a speeding driver in March 4th 2017. I miss her soooo much.

    • @ro_boat
      @ro_boat Год назад +6

      I feel your pain and your are not alone!

    • @anomakahawandala6816
      @anomakahawandala6816 Год назад +4

      "Nothing is permanent "

    • @anjou6497
      @anjou6497 Год назад +2

      ⚘️💜

    • @Eddieangelj2288
      @Eddieangelj2288 Год назад +4

      Sending you love and strength, our loved ones never ever leave us, I ask the angels to bring you peace and signs of eternal life. May peace be with you and your family brother 🙏❤

  • @ewelinak1575
    @ewelinak1575 Год назад +74

    After my heart was broken for 4 years ago I went through spiritual awakening. It was a blessing. I would do it again and again. I'm a new person- real me and I love myself unconditionally and every single thing around me. The best gift ever

    • @shivanimallik656
      @shivanimallik656 Год назад +6

      Hey ...can you please share your experience about spirituality... I'm going through a heartbreak now.. it's really tough for me...but I'm seeking help from yoga meditation and god.. I feel like I'm going to make it my routine...but still I get sudden anxiety attacks specially in morning... I'm just begging God to take the pain away.

    • @ewelinak1575
      @ewelinak1575 Год назад +8

      @@shivanimallik656 Dearest friend
      It takes time to find your own strength. It took me 4 years- greatest years of my life too be where I am now. No one can help you with the pain. Take it as a great lesson from life. There is always happiness on the other side. It will shape you. Nothing takes forever. You must know that you are responsible for your life and choices. All the reasons you will recognize later. There is always something to see positive. Start to seek the truth of life. We are supposed to be happy in this life and happiness is a choice. I know you will make it and wish you all the best

    • @blindjedi4139
      @blindjedi4139 11 месяцев назад +1

      I’m glad you found your happiness, I started mine about an year ago, I know it’s a long journey worth taking.

    • @timbolrey5814
      @timbolrey5814 10 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤

    • @MariaGonzalez-cn4kc
      @MariaGonzalez-cn4kc 8 месяцев назад

      💕 stay strong

  • @deiagraham5510
    @deiagraham5510 10 месяцев назад +28

    #2 True Love will never break your heart, but attachment Will!! NEEDED TO HEAR THIS!!😮

  • @ramyag1043
    @ramyag1043 Месяц назад +11

    Iam Christian girl but I always follow your videos.

  • @FeCadacio
    @FeCadacio Год назад +268

    Reverend, I'm a Catholic but since I started subscribing this channel through your enlightenment I learned a lot and I got a lot of improvement. Thank you so much 🥰

    • @sraddhayoga1
      @sraddhayoga1 Год назад +17

      I am also a Catholic and knowing about Buddhism has made me know another point of view that complements my way of seeing life. Greetings from MEXico.

    • @JoelPit
      @JoelPit Год назад +2

      I'm a minister, and I'm here as well. I've been searching the Bible for dating advice there is none how did the basic instruction before leaving earth leave this out. Marriage is of earth and not of heaven and so must be dating. We are only responsible for our sinful responses

    • @mumtazessa4270
      @mumtazessa4270 Год назад

      Hi thank u so much how much said was very good

    • @iaber1698
      @iaber1698 Год назад

      @@JoelPit mmm, well, the 10 commandments are all of earth and not of heaven. As far as I am concerned, the bible offers advice to humans, who all live on earth.

    • @honestchileshe7098
      @honestchileshe7098 7 месяцев назад +1

      Am also a catholic but I learn alot

  • @alexishoggan2098
    @alexishoggan2098 Год назад +14

    3 times I have been through this and now I know I was attached not in love I'm 41 and now I'm learning to love myself

  • @dianmar8717
    @dianmar8717 Год назад +25

    I am a Muslim, from Indonesia. I like your channel. The way you present is calm, come out from your pure heart. and logical

  • @angelique2653
    @angelique2653 Год назад +116

    Thank you so much. My beloved husband passed away three years ago. After 33 years very happy marriage. I am healing slowly, slowly. I am blessed to have known such love.💚💙💜🙏🙏🙏

  • @Basira_Anwary
    @Basira_Anwary Год назад +13

    The soul usually knows what to do to heal itself.
    The
    challenge is to silence the mind.

  • @skygazer6898
    @skygazer6898 Год назад +37

    I grew up in an abusive environment and have spent most of my adult life on my own. When I bought a puppy Labrador, I never knew my life would be transformed so drastically. I enjoyed getting out and walking her for hours on end, even meeting and chatting with other dog walkers. I loved coming home from work and being greeted by my best friend, I just loved her so much. Lucy got cancer and I had to have her put to sleep, to say it has turned my life upside down is an understatement. It has been 5 years and I miss her so much and feel like I don't want to be here anymore without her. I am so broken hearted without my girl. I have lost family and close friends but nothing has been so painful as losing my beautiful Labrador, Lucy. I truly loved Lucy and my HEART is BROKEN

    • @Happiness-qj3ry
      @Happiness-qj3ry Год назад +3

      My 1st furkid pass away 2 years back and my whole world died. I can't accept it at all. My second furkid came to show me love and always there for me. I am happy with my furkid. You may consider to adopt a furkid and give a lovely life. Lucy may come in another furkid. I am feeling it right now

    • @freestyle7951
      @freestyle7951 Год назад +8

      It would be therapeutic to adopt a pet and bring back the sweet love and companionship that animals add to your life. Lucy will always be your first love and you can rescue an animal who needs You. Let go and love again. Your life will be a gift to share with an animal who is starving for the love and security you have to give. Love again ...Live again. You can do it.💕

    • @leesanderson6885
      @leesanderson6885 Год назад +5

      Time has come for that pain to be healed. Could you go and get a little rescue doggy? You can heal that little doggies heart. And he will heal yours. Lucy would hate for you to be so broken for so long. Its time to heal your sadness. Xx

    • @artaleasham4105
      @artaleasham4105 Год назад +1

      I understand what you mean. In my life I have had a lot of animals and I still remember every one of them. Once a year I have a day to remember them. It's on pet's day. I make some sort of prayer and just try to let them know I still love them and that I hope that I will meet them again someday.

    • @skygazer6898
      @skygazer6898 Год назад +1

      @@Happiness-qj3ry I cant think of adopting another dog. no,

  • @kirivrahimi8156
    @kirivrahimi8156 Год назад +14

    If you love someone don’t you automatically become attached to that person, because you love each other you share your life with them and you want to spend as much time as you can with them so I believe that it would be virtually impossible not to feel the pain once they are gone. Thank you❤

  • @NehaKumari-qp6mi
    @NehaKumari-qp6mi Месяц назад +4

    I don't have a single person in my life with whom I can share my pain .

    • @joannamaybe
      @joannamaybe 5 дней назад

      Same here

    • @mounika7911
      @mounika7911 4 дня назад

      Me too 🥲

    • @trishnasethi024
      @trishnasethi024 3 дня назад

      I think you should tell anyone online there are people who listen ..it can be a virtual friend that is haopy to listen

  • @Kk-yn7dk
    @Kk-yn7dk Год назад +10

    we never heal we just learn to live with it

  • @djjess9553
    @djjess9553 2 месяца назад +6

    My 23 year old son is going through a heartbreak,i hope he watched this ..we all been through it..i wish him the best

  • @angelinegeorge275
    @angelinegeorge275 Год назад +80

    Im am a christian but your talks n lessons of life n philosphy are universal n can b applied by people from all walks of life. U have a very calm n peaceful appearance . Im learning from u n i can apply these lessins in lifev to anyone who is in need of advice. Thank u n please continue with your good work. Amen!

    • @amyherr9018
      @amyherr9018 6 месяцев назад +2

      Same here Christian God bless!!!

  • @katherinelydon7306
    @katherinelydon7306 Год назад +9

    Crying is truly the best way to heal. No shame in crying. It reveals the depth of love you felt for that person.

    • @Zorro00444
      @Zorro00444 8 дней назад

      Been weeping for 6months now, like a child.. while the other person is going out and sleeping with her ex that she left me for.

  • @jcd3869
    @jcd3869 Год назад +22

    "Cry, forgive, learn from your experiences, and let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness".

  • @yourfutureisnow6480
    @yourfutureisnow6480 Год назад +33

    I always say nothing is guaranteed and certain with others. If you love someone, just love them and enjoy the times you have with them. Don't take things so seriously. Always have other outlets to express yourself.

  • @shereenmehmood906
    @shereenmehmood906 11 месяцев назад +14

    Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness 🙏🏽

  • @Swadheenta06
    @Swadheenta06 Год назад +26

    1. Someday we have to seperate ourselves from everyone we loved
    2. True love can never break your heart, it's done by attachment

  • @Iamvaishnavi23
    @Iamvaishnavi23 Год назад +14

    I don't have any person to share anything. I have only me . I don't have friends. I have my family who will never understand anything. I can't cry because everyone is always around me . I feel horrible

    • @bhumikamahajan761
      @bhumikamahajan761 Месяц назад +2

      Make personal diary and write down anything what you want to share someone

    • @RPSKLM
      @RPSKLM 17 дней назад

      My sister the same but she passed out last year I saw it what I missed ...so u can share with my mom mam maybe u will be comfortable

    • @bts-shi3382
      @bts-shi3382 10 дней назад

      Same:(

    • @leosworld697
      @leosworld697 8 дней назад

      Yes me too

    • @yogideep07
      @yogideep07 День назад

      U can share me and I can share mine, so we can help each other

  • @bevm8446
    @bevm8446 Год назад +42

    The way you deliver the speech with a smile on your face is priceless, gracious and calm, you touch my heart so deeply with your words of wisdom. තෙරුවන් සරණයි

  • @renukadave7273
    @renukadave7273 Год назад +25

    Namo Budhdhay, Master. 🙏
    So nicely explained..!
    Feel your love and compassion for mankind in each of your words.. 🙏
    Lucky to have such Guru 🙏🙏🙏

  • @STNNurseMikey1990
    @STNNurseMikey1990 Год назад +5

    I'm noticing those past memories come up in waves. The moment I notice the process it pops, but there is fear to even let them dissolve and allow peace!

  • @catherinesmith932
    @catherinesmith932 Год назад +15

    Wow that was real enlightenment for me! True Love never breaks your heart. I see that in my life.

  • @toou332
    @toou332 4 месяца назад +20

    i am muslim but i am inspire of this man🙂

    • @wellplatedsabu
      @wellplatedsabu Месяц назад +1

      Same here❤

    • @Swanselm
      @Swanselm Месяц назад

      Are you allowed to do that?

    • @lilbitotrble
      @lilbitotrble 26 дней назад

      This is a demonstration of your wisdom to consider another's perspective. You are an enlightened being (IMHO) .

  • @kimberlydavis5034
    @kimberlydavis5034 Год назад +23

    I haven't been able to grieve and heal. My heart is broken in many pieces. I'm always busy trying to help others. I was taught that crying is a sign of weakness. I always had to put everyone else before myself. I need time to myself. I need to be by myself to recharge my mental, emotional and physical being. I need time to myself to be able to grieve and heal. I haven't been able to do this in over 30 years because I had to but myself on the back burner and be a caretaker for everyone else my whole life. Now I have to work on self-care and work on myself. Thank you for these encouraging teaching lessons. I appreciate your kind compassionate words and understanding.

    • @rubytuesday7653
      @rubytuesday7653 Год назад +1

      Kimberly , it's like you broke out of my brain and wrote about me🥀. I'm broken. I'm all alone. No friends, No family, No Church Family,No Neighbors. It's like I don't exist.

    • @rubytuesday7653
      @rubytuesday7653 Год назад +1

      I've been crying allot......I can't stop.

    • @beatleme2
      @beatleme2 2 месяца назад

      @@rubytuesday7653 feel the same since my wife of 13 yrs passed 8 1 23 -hope you're doing better

  • @CL-jb9nd
    @CL-jb9nd Год назад +23

    Dear teacher, thank you so much for your teachings. They are so wise and so helpful and they give me a lot of peace in mind. I am so thankful for your sermons! 🙏🏻☺️

  • @governessenglish2680
    @governessenglish2680 Год назад +22

    Have no words to thank you Ven . Thero. I am a Buddhist...but the way you present all these facts is very interesting , heart touching an logical. More over your smile wipes our sorrow away for a moment ... තෙරුවන් සරනින් ඔබවහන්සෙට උතුම් වූ නිර්වාන දොරටුව වැඩි ඈතක නොවේවා!! Namo Buddhaya !!

  • @jamess8175
    @jamess8175 Год назад +10

    Such profound wisdom is only taught by the supreme Buddha. Namo Buddhaya! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @arupabanerjee2854
    @arupabanerjee2854 Год назад +13

    You have a peaceful way of explaining things..your smile itself gives peace...thank you so much Sir..Namha Buddhhaye.🙏🙏

  • @brandyfuller515
    @brandyfuller515 Год назад +23

    Gosh just found you on RUclips and im so happy I did!! Im greiving really bad!! I lost my two children 22 years old son and 21 year old daughter 4 and 5 years ago thank you for being you

    • @mariianicababaPT
      @mariianicababaPT Год назад +3

      ❤️ you deserve to by happy in this life… for you and for your children ❤️

    • @atuldwivedi3959
      @atuldwivedi3959 Год назад +3

      I can feel your pain. I did lose my mom when I was 13 and after one year I did lose my grandmother. Don't lose hope. Your son and your daughter are watching you from heaven and discussing how brave their mom is ❤

    • @Dreamdr
      @Dreamdr 10 месяцев назад +1

      i feel really sorry abt u 😢❤

    • @brandyfuller515
      @brandyfuller515 9 месяцев назад

      @@Dreamdr thank you im so lost

    • @barbaraseidel4342
      @barbaraseidel4342 3 месяца назад

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @janjust4205
    @janjust4205 11 месяцев назад +8

    When your heart broken. Cry, forgive, learn.
    Let your tear water the seeds of your future happiness.

  • @sliceoflife1111
    @sliceoflife1111 Год назад +8

    True love will never break your heart, but attachment will ❤

  • @mariabejaranomonge2183
    @mariabejaranomonge2183 Год назад +22

    Thank you so much. Your words bring light, peace and confidence. 🙏✨✨👏

  • @malshaabeysekare7357
    @malshaabeysekare7357 Год назад +5

    Apart from thinking this is religious based discussion.. this whole idea can make me calm down.. it does everything isn't it! Thank you so much. I love the peace you just delivered.

  • @thearomunlocker3781
    @thearomunlocker3781 Год назад +4

    Sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🙏🙏🥰
    I'm Buddhism from Cambodia 🇰🇭🙏🥰

  • @STNNurseMikey1990
    @STNNurseMikey1990 Год назад +6

    Attachment/aversion feels like one of my biggest blocks to freedom. Through my practice I am noticing old patterns after a recent breakup, and merging with them means the suffering is immense. There is an attachment to merging with these patterns here.
    I appreciate the timely reminder of impermanence. But through reflection a lot of pain is here from identifying with the one who wasn't able to give as much love as he wanted to, for whatever reason. Mainly shame. and there is merging with tremendous guilt.
    So this was a bitter sweet video for me. Started off with an opening, then a contraction, then this comment.

  • @sutharmian
    @sutharmian Год назад +23

    Thank you for sharing Buddha's wisdom ❤️🙏 !

  • @sandamali8173
    @sandamali8173 Год назад +8

    Pinwath swamin wahansa our children always hearting us how can we heal our heart from a heart breaks we cannot bear that pain. I also addicted this channel. You are great reverent rev. May the Noble Trple Gem bless.May you attain nibbana🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @christrinder1255
    @christrinder1255 11 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you so much for the blessings you’ve given us in this video……..crying isn’t something I usually do although I’m a woman….I have cried over the last 24 hours… as much as when my husband died 3 years ago….. I was too much attached to a person "………my daughter and granddaughter were my strengths and support me whilst I come to terms with it…..the world is a wonderful place….and tomorrow the sun will shine again…💖💖💖

  • @MeenAk.
    @MeenAk. Год назад +14

    Your messaged reached me at the right time. I am suffering from this heartache from two months. Somehow recovered but not fully. Today am again into same old past thoughts. Staying in the middle of life when u have no one around u kills. But i have learnt to stay away frm people.Thank you ur video was quit helpfull.🙏

    • @nirmalasanjiv7624
      @nirmalasanjiv7624 Год назад +2

      Same here

    • @arlene-is-here
      @arlene-is-here 3 месяца назад +1

      Me too. It is somewhat comforting to know other people share similar heartache

  • @marciadesouza3314
    @marciadesouza3314 Год назад +56

    Thank-you! So...much for talking about "Broken-Hearts"💔. My sister was very, very sick, was taken to Hospital and was ill-treated badly and was killed by giving allergic tablets. That death is extremely hard to get over with. I trust in the Lord everyday, taking one day at a time. I am asking for your prayers 🙏 😌.

    • @trevordamien1550
      @trevordamien1550 Год назад +4

      Oh Ma’am I am so deeply saddened about ur v unpleasant experience that you had to undergo with ur dearest sisters tragic death! I understand ur dilemma as I’m suffering immensely been a guy n the youngest of the family. I lost my dearest darling Mom whom I looked after for past 10 years all by myself. My darling Mom left me all alone in this world! I’m emotionally down, fallen and my mind is frozen too. Pl accept my deepest sympathies on ur great loss.

    • @marciadesouza3314
      @marciadesouza3314 Год назад +5

      @@trevordamien1550 Trevor dear ♥ . Thank-you, so very much for being in touch with me. I am really sorry to hear about your mum and your circumstances and you tell me your the last one in the family 👪 it's really heart ❤ breaking. I understand how you must feel. With my sister's death and that they took her life was too much to bear, cause, it was done in front of my eyes. Every, memories of my sister breaks me down completely. This is something, I cannot forget and will never forget. I am sure you must feel the very same. I Sympathise with you. Trevor. The day my sister was killed 😪 😢 I turned to the "Lord" praying day and night. I cried too so...very much. I cannot explain. I can't believe that the hospital's would do such a thing. I am so.....very sorry for taken her to hospital. They ill- treated her and then took life. I am living with a broken💔heart and so must you Trevor. I long, really long to be where my sister is, and I am sure you must feel too. Tc Trevor be in touch whenever you need too. I Love ❤ 😍 💖 you. Don't worry, God will take care of us we hope😘♥️🌹

    • @chanpisethsuos1306
      @chanpisethsuos1306 5 месяцев назад

      Sending prayers ❤

    • @marciadesouza3314
      @marciadesouza3314 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@chanpisethsuos1306 Dear chanisethsuos1306. Thank-you! So...very much for your prayers for us. I hope God will bless 🙌 you immensely. I will think of you, when, I am Praying. Thank-you!❤🕯❤😘

  • @rotelco1
    @rotelco1 Год назад +6

    This is one of the most practical sermon i have ever heard on overcoming grief.

  • @kashishagarwal7575
    @kashishagarwal7575 4 месяца назад +4

    Sometimes, heartbreaks are not becoz of the love of our life, sometimes it is by the people who love us. Sometimes our first heartbreak is by our family whome we loved the most in our lives. And its really veryvery painful when your own family doesn't trust u. And it breaks u the most to the extremities.
    But as said that we should try to forgive things and take experiences to not repeat the same, which is the only thing we can do.🤞🙌

  • @wh2204
    @wh2204 Год назад +3

    thank you for this video.. as a muslim I amazed by the words.. it helps me to calm down, feels like he speaks to me privately heart to heart.. I feel touched and heard

  • @MissiJade
    @MissiJade Год назад +16

    Thank you for this very important message. I have lost my Mother, my spouse and my 23 year old sister all in tragic circumstances. I held on to my tears and lived in solitary for four years. I now understand that my loved ones would want me to live my life. Finding sincere support is difficult when you are without any family support however I am grateful that I am focusing on the good memories and myself now and anyone who has experienced multiple losses, my heart is with you. Your teachings have taught me so much. I am so grateful ❤

    • @flaviacogo5627
      @flaviacogo5627 Год назад +2

      Sorry about that 😢

    • @dinethmaaponso8873
      @dinethmaaponso8873 Год назад +3

      sorry to hear that, but they will be proud of you💟

    • @fear_less_2020
      @fear_less_2020 Год назад +2

      I pray your heart heals very soon. Losing them is tragic but God will give you strength and peace very soon. Your loved ones want you to lead a happy life. Please live your life to the fullest. ❤

    • @rosalielopez9138
      @rosalielopez9138 11 месяцев назад +2

      Courage !
      Dont give up !

    • @MissiJade
      @MissiJade 11 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you for your beautiful messages of support. I feel so grateful that you have taken the time to write these. I wish you all happiness and good health. ❤️‍🩹

  • @nilanisiriwardena5019
    @nilanisiriwardena5019 Год назад +4

    THE TRUTH. EXPLAINS EVERYTHING. AS A BUDDHIST I AGREE WITH YOUR ADVICE. GREAT.

  • @talesbywije
    @talesbywije Год назад +6

    My heart felt like getting water to a parched dessert when listening to this, thank you so much.

  • @mimikoo5197
    @mimikoo5197 Год назад +24

    Whenever I feel down, after listening to your sharing of Buddha's wisdom, it always made me feel very touched n very humbled. Thank you.

  • @borange588
    @borange588 Год назад +5

    I broke up with my first love and my selfish actions that were fueled by the attachment led to it ending very badly. She was the one and only person who truly understood me. But it ended so badly, I'm struggling to forgive myself. I wish I could change it. But the past is the past and there's nothing I can do to undo the damage I have caused. However, these great teachings are giving me hope and some direction into healing and moving on with my life. Thank you

    • @EduverseAca
      @EduverseAca 3 месяца назад

      Same thing happened with me.😭 I cannot forgive myself 😭😭😭

    • @DarkWolfWRX
      @DarkWolfWRX Месяц назад

      I just broke up with the woman I thought would be the one. We were not together a drastically long time. But I failed and let my anxieties from a prior relationship push her away and in the break up hurt her more with my actions. I tried so hard to get her to understand I will work on my anxieties. But she just couldnt give it another shot. I have never been so depressed in my life.

  • @treesdeschout1190
    @treesdeschout1190 Год назад +10

    Every day YOU encourage me with Your wise and helpful lessons, to give up our expectations and attachment 🙏❤️

  • @pritichaporkar
    @pritichaporkar Год назад +1

    Your presence & smile does half of the healing. Thanks 🙏

  • @belovegems
    @belovegems Год назад +10

    Let the tears water the seeds of your future happiness 🙏

  • @bestrongandloveyourself2370
    @bestrongandloveyourself2370 Год назад +18

    These advices are very helpful! Thank you so much! 🙏☺️

  • @shivanjalirana7912
    @shivanjalirana7912 Год назад +11

    your videos are soothing. and relieve us like magic. thanks a lot for such great words of wisdom

  • @sukanyabarua1231
    @sukanyabarua1231 Год назад +4

    Namo Buddha ya 🙏🌹 There are lot of things going inside me and most of the time I feel alone , sadness , depression . But after follow your video's I feel much more relaxed . Hope your teaching make me happy. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @abhijitha7246
    @abhijitha7246 Год назад +6

    Your words bring peace and confidence.🌟

  • @happydays3678
    @happydays3678 Год назад +9

    Thank you. It's hard to feel love without attachment. I will look at your other video which explains more. Beautiful words, thanks again. 🙏❤

  • @antonietamariainaciagomes4230
    @antonietamariainaciagomes4230 Год назад +4

    May God bless you abundantly dear Buddha 🌷

  • @shank1321
    @shank1321 Год назад +18

    Right message at the right time.. soo grateful that I had a chance listening to your speech! Namo Budhaya 🙏🏽

  • @RobinLahoe-pj2uq
    @RobinLahoe-pj2uq Год назад +5

    I am a heart broken mother which my daughter who pass away thank you for advice and may God bless . ❤

  • @AnnaJackson50
    @AnnaJackson50 Год назад +3

    I feel like you healed me ! Thank you for your wonderful words. They made me think.

  • @almafernandez5915
    @almafernandez5915 Год назад +6

    May u be blessed more . .my brother🙏❣️❣️. .i' ve learned a lot from ur teachings or channel🙏 honestly all pains within me. .🙏little by little melted because of ur words❣️🧘🙏

  • @puja7776
    @puja7776 Год назад +5

    An amazing motivational video. Especially the last quote...
    Namo Buddhaya.🙏

  • @gayanbuddhika2021
    @gayanbuddhika2021 Год назад

    සාදු..සාදු..සාදු...ඔබ වහන්සේට පින් ....

  • @thyservant2310
    @thyservant2310 Год назад +5

    forgiveness and acceptance is the key, let go of what you must 🤗

  • @maheshab7042
    @maheshab7042 Год назад +6

    Venorable thero,
    What you have said is very true. I have experienced same situation. Its been 4 years. Still I couldn't overcome my pain
    This video will be a big help for me

  • @msmotivation6040
    @msmotivation6040 16 дней назад +1

    True love will never break your heart but attachment does.

  • @Suneetha527
    @Suneetha527 Год назад +4

    this helps soo much, from your videos I have learned soo much, I used to be a rude person who would get angry easily and sad but after watching your videos your tips have all helped me and I feel like a better person. Not the same old angry me but a new me.
    I appreciate all your hard work on making these videos. Thank you so much
    🙂

  • @seethakalahasthi1821
    @seethakalahasthi1821 Год назад +12

    So beautifully u have explained...the last sentence is a perfect punch line.I adore your way of speaking.

  • @nethmikumburegama7294
    @nethmikumburegama7294 Год назад +21

    It always feel very peaceful to listen to these videos in this channel. As a buddhist i have listen to many darma deshana. But this channel makes me feel better everytime somehow differently. ♥️නමෝ බුද්ධාය!

  • @pranamum3109
    @pranamum3109 Год назад +5

    Yes. You are correct.In family relationships it is painful.🙏🏻💐

  • @thilannguyen9217
    @thilannguyen9217 Год назад +3

    It’s a fact of human being that being together In one moment, and the next is separation
    Nothing in life is lasting forever.
    We must let go of attachments and so much of expectation.
    Thank you so much for your teaching

  • @tejasmeshram7128
    @tejasmeshram7128 Год назад +4

    Some one cheated me in horrible way. Someone used to tell me that she can't live without me. She found new option, so she left. I'm crying since 1 months. I was unable to eat anything. I felt like empty and heavy. My weight decreased to 41 kg. My tooth broken. I never thought I would be cheated like this. She showed highest level of cruelty to me. Because she found handsome guy. I came to know this world is unfair and cruel.
    After listening to you, I feel better. You're very inspiring. Thank you so much 🙏 Master 💙 I'm grateful to you ❤️ from bottom of my heart 🤍
    Namo Buddha🙏
    My tears came out🌼🌼🌼

  • @chhatrapatichauhan6621
    @chhatrapatichauhan6621 Год назад +3

    True Love only gives pain , you can't get over it , never ever 💆😓 no one cares your feelings , go ghost and grind bro 🧘

  • @dridweekend4338
    @dridweekend4338 Год назад

    I always like how *Dr sabo love* answers questions. He just say couple of things and makes u think for your self. He isn't trying to entice anyone by preaching perfection... much love from Dr. Sabo..

  • @sutraandseed4078
    @sutraandseed4078 9 месяцев назад +2

    I have been blessed by Lord Buddha today.
    He has heard and answered my prayer for help.🙏🏻
    Thank you Brother.💞

  • @dionihenry6182
    @dionihenry6182 Год назад +3

    I don't think anyone can explain like this , Thank you 😊 🙏

  • @mrhotot
    @mrhotot Год назад +11

    We ended up 8 years of our relationship. Ending up couldn't have hurt me but she cheated on me which hurt me alot. If she was really not interested on me then she could have told me. People ending relationship to, not working out get less hurt than those who get cheated. It cuts so deep. It's been more than a year. Still can't find way to get on my track. It complete made me lost. It hurts so much. God should show her karma. Thank you for everything we share.

  • @maxinesobers2606
    @maxinesobers2606 Год назад +1

    You are an incredibly beautiful.person with a beautiful serene heart. I feel very calm listening to you. I'm a Christian, but I like the philosophy which is very similar, shedding light on the Truth and Love. 🦋💕🌹🌷🌻🏵️🌼🇬🇧🕊️

  • @carolinetoppari7090
    @carolinetoppari7090 7 месяцев назад +2

    I have learnt my lessons and cried my eyes balls out, neither ami perfect but i have learnt my lessons and lifes lesson, trust is harder now for me, im finding it hard to trust anyone.

  • @delfinacabagui2260
    @delfinacabagui2260 Год назад +2

    I always watch your video. I feel comforted whenever I hear your messages. You cure my searching soul. Thanks. Looking forward to your another episodes. 🍀

  • @GagandeepSingh-ju6zd
    @GagandeepSingh-ju6zd Год назад +3

    so patiently nicely you explain brutal reality of crucial life's subjects its marvellous and your dimple smile always kills me ❤

  • @shatveekareddy3497
    @shatveekareddy3497 Год назад +2

    great monk gave buddha teaching to modern generation in easy way in simple and depth , thanks a lot ,namo buddhaya

  • @AlrizSusulan
    @AlrizSusulan 6 месяцев назад +1

    times are really tough for me at the moment, it seems and endless pain, sorrow and loneliness that i confront in a daily basis. i just came out from a 10 years Relationship with my wife. thank you so much for this inspiring words teacher. it encourages me to reflect in life that to love is not to be attach nor to own the person that you love. iv learned to forgive and let go, at least ive done my part to fixed things up but as you have said teacher, something are not beyond are control and in life all is impermanent. sending love and comfort to all who have heavy hearts around the world. peace and love in this life journey❤❤❤

  • @anithagladis5559
    @anithagladis5559 Год назад +4

    Namo Budhaye brother your face is very graceful, smiling. Listening to you , it conects us to Almighty God. Keep inspiring brother. Thank you for your Cristal clear explanation.

  • @suethai7359
    @suethai7359 Год назад +3

    Yes True love never break my heart ❤️ 💕😃😍😄.
    Namobudhaya ka Ajan 🙏🙏🙏

  • @so_shruti
    @so_shruti 7 месяцев назад +2

    ‘’True love will never break your heart’’. That hit home. Guess I haven’t found true love yet…always heartbroken 💔

  • @nanaibrahim4045
    @nanaibrahim4045 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks so much for this teaching, after heartbroken from a failed relationship. Am online looking for how to overcome my difficulties. Now i have learnt that i don't suppose to be too attached to my loved ones but just love them. And always prepare for times of separation from our loved ones because no condition is permanent. I have been worried, whether i will ever be able to forget about the whole thing and move on but now and so happy that my pains will faid away with times and will be happy once again. The most important thing i have learnt is that, even when i find happiness in life again, i will always prepare my mind for a day when I have to loose it because nothing is permanent in this life. Thanks so much, am very happy right now already even when I haven't start practicing, am so sure it will help my situation. May God Almighty continue to bless you for the lives you are touching. ❤❤❤