1）If you need to cry, is ok to cry. Crying release pressure. 2) Find a person to share your sorrow. The person should not give hateful comments about your ex partner as that will build up the hatred further. 3) Always reflect and recollect that one day you will be parted and separated with all the dear people in your life. Alot of people don't like to think about this when they are in a relationship. However, being aware that we have limited time with our loved one(s) will enable one to give the fullest love and compassion. 4) True love will never break your heart, but attachment will. 5) If you need to heal the wound, you need to reduce touching it. Therefore, reduce the amount of attention you give to past memories. 6) No matter how terrible the situation is, it will change one day. You will be ok one day. 7) Know that this experience will make you stronger.
#3 is so very helpful. I experienced the most absolutely devastating losses of my life 2 years ago. I did treasure them and many many times while laying in peace with them I felt such gratitude for the moment and for them. The loss is unbearable and I don’t know about others but life is of no use or holds zero attraction to me anymore and I just remain in this maya because of others depending on me
And what happens when the terrible situation happens over and over again? When life gives you nothing but misery and heartache as soon as you think you are okay?
@@sich_verstehen yes, but all of our attachments bring us suffering. We fear of losing what or who we cherish, we feel sad and devastated when we actually lose it, we get used to the temporary feeling of happiness, that when it's over it breaks our heart. All of us should learn to let go and understand that all things that appear, sooner or later will disappear. Including the bad things. Hope I could help you❤
We attach to people without even love, when we love there is always an attachment. No matter at the end, attachment makes us suffer. Love without any attachment make us free
I lost my son 27 years old in an accident two months back ,I am so broken and search for motivational talks. I listen to your speeches and there is a temporary relief I still need to hear more on losing a loved one. You are a great preacher teacher and don't talk about religion but only truths . Thank you.
I feel sorry for your loss. Try to keep yourself on your daily tasks. Cleaning, going to the grocery store, work. Things like that. If you can't find something to do, then take a walk around the park/maybe even jog. It doesn't have to be fast, just moving is good. Keep yourself busy. It's okay to cry at any given time of your day. So what if people see you! You're human. You are allowed to cry. Anyone can understand what you are going through. The most important thing is to give yourself time to mourn, but also to keep yourself moving. Try some yoga/sports. Trust me, out of anything that can help, movement is it. Your brain will release dopamine and that will make sure your body will be more calmed. The movements will also make you tired, wich in turn makes it easier to fall asleep and the tiredness will make it harder for your mind to wander. The best thing is to push your body as hard as it can go, but it's not ideal to do this every time. Especially if you're a beginner at anything, try to take it one step at a time, and it's okay to take breaks. This won't heal your wound, but it can help be a band aid until it gets better, bit by bit. I hope you can give it a place someday and be happy again all the way! And remember. You are never alone. If you want to talk to someone about it, there might be talking groups you can go to/or a psychologist. Don't be afraid to talk to lots of your friends too! Everything will help to give it a place.
That is what budha has taught in his Dhamma….. he teaches way of life which is useful for each and every individual…. He says ,, don’t expect too much,,, attachment’s brings suffering,, expectations brings suffering, be compassionate, be kind , he says 1) there is suffering 2) there is reason for suffering 3) you need to understand the cause of suffering 4) find out solutions or healing for that suffering bz it’s in your hand to reduce your pain and suffering by kindness and compassion for others…..,, then he shows 8 fold pathways to follow for life then in the prayers itself he says….. 1) be away from lies 2) be away from hurting animals 3)be away from addiction, alcohol 4) make your character stronger 5) don’t do robbery…………, so beautiful BUDDHA had taught us……..2500 yrs ago…….. so simple and so true…………
@@vanshikadixit5892 it's called 'robe'..Sri Lanka..but you can't just buy a robe & just wear like a uniform..First you have to become a monk..it's quite a process..
We lost our eldest daughter 26 years ago...when she was 11 years...I am still struggling to overcome our loss....by listening to yr dhamma talks....i feel bit light hearted ....thanks ..Namo Buddhaya
Sending you love and strength, our loved ones never ever leave us, I ask the angels to bring you peace and signs of eternal life. May peace be with you and your family brother 🙏❤
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
After my heart was broken for 4 years ago I went through spiritual awakening. It was a blessing. I would do it again and again. I'm a new person- real me and I love myself unconditionally and every single thing around me. The best gift ever
Hey ...can you please share your experience about spirituality... I'm going through a heartbreak now.. it's really tough for me...but I'm seeking help from yoga meditation and god.. I feel like I'm going to make it my routine...but still I get sudden anxiety attacks specially in morning... I'm just begging God to take the pain away.
@@shivanimallik656 Dearest friend It takes time to find your own strength. It took me 4 years- greatest years of my life too be where I am now. No one can help you with the pain. Take it as a great lesson from life. There is always happiness on the other side. It will shape you. Nothing takes forever. You must know that you are responsible for your life and choices. All the reasons you will recognize later. There is always something to see positive. Start to seek the truth of life. We are supposed to be happy in this life and happiness is a choice. I know you will make it and wish you all the best
When you are alone and sad, you need to save yourself..it is from your own mind..you need to come back to normal....by asking God who is in your mind...can you get rid of it?
Listening to your words of wisdom makes me feel content with your understanding about how people can get together platonically. Never stop preaching about love and lasting relationships...
❤❤❤ Yes, it's the most trending pictures that helped me, we prayed and still pray to the Lord, just to move what hurt me, few days past. Attachment does, but the love stays in the heart forever, but physically is not the cure to it, but distance from the relation is the best thing to do. I choose the Lord to love forever. Lord make me tough now so I choose my ,Lord and Savior. Amen❤
Some one cheated me in horrible way. Someone used to tell me that she can't live without me. She found new option, so she left. I'm crying since 1 months. I was unable to eat anything. I felt like empty and heavy. My weight decreased to 41 kg. My tooth broken. I never thought I would be cheated like this. She showed highest level of cruelty to me. Because she found handsome guy. I came to know this world is unfair and cruel. After listening to you, I feel better. You're very inspiring. Thank you so much 🙏 Master 💙 I'm grateful to you ❤️ from bottom of my heart 🤍 Namo Buddha🙏 My tears came out🌼🌼🌼
Reverend, I'm a Catholic but since I started subscribing this channel through your enlightenment I learned a lot and I got a lot of improvement. Thank you so much 🥰
I'm a minister, and I'm here as well. I've been searching the Bible for dating advice there is none how did the basic instruction before leaving earth leave this out. Marriage is of earth and not of heaven and so must be dating. We are only responsible for our sinful responses
@@JoelPit mmm, well, the 10 commandments are all of earth and not of heaven. As far as I am concerned, the bible offers advice to humans, who all live on earth.
I broke up with my first love and my selfish actions that were fueled by the attachment led to it ending very badly. She was the one and only person who truly understood me. But it ended so badly, I'm struggling to forgive myself. I wish I could change it. But the past is the past and there's nothing I can do to undo the damage I have caused. However, these great teachings are giving me hope and some direction into healing and moving on with my life. Thank you
I just broke up with the woman I thought would be the one. We were not together a drastically long time. But I failed and let my anxieties from a prior relationship push her away and in the break up hurt her more with my actions. I tried so hard to get her to understand I will work on my anxieties. But she just couldnt give it another shot. I have never been so depressed in my life.
Im am a christian but your talks n lessons of life n philosphy are universal n can b applied by people from all walks of life. U have a very calm n peaceful appearance . Im learning from u n i can apply these lessins in lifev to anyone who is in need of advice. Thank u n please continue with your good work. Amen!
If you love someone don’t you automatically become attached to that person, because you love each other you share your life with them and you want to spend as much time as you can with them so I believe that it would be virtually impossible not to feel the pain once they are gone. Thank you❤
Thank you so much. My beloved husband passed away three years ago. After 33 years very happy marriage. I am healing slowly, slowly. I am blessed to have known such love.💚💙💜🙏🙏🙏
The inner peace i find after watching Your video hit differently... I want peaceful and positive mindset i just wanna delete all negative thoughts inside me😢
Sometimes, heartbreaks are not becoz of the love of our life, sometimes it is by the people who love us. Sometimes our first heartbreak is by our family whome we loved the most in our lives. And its really veryvery painful when your own family doesn't trust u. And it breaks u the most to the extremities. But as said that we should try to forgive things and take experiences to not repeat the same, which is the only thing we can do.🤞🙌
Its 2.03 am now...here iam unable to sleep,crying on my bed remembering all those hurtful words said by someone who i truly loved.thinking am i that bad . now iam feeling less heavy in my heart. thank you🙂
I grew up in an abusive environment and have spent most of my adult life on my own. When I bought a puppy Labrador, I never knew my life would be transformed so drastically. I enjoyed getting out and walking her for hours on end, even meeting and chatting with other dog walkers. I loved coming home from work and being greeted by my best friend, I just loved her so much. Lucy got cancer and I had to have her put to sleep, to say it has turned my life upside down is an understatement. It has been 5 years and I miss her so much and feel like I don't want to be here anymore without her. I am so broken hearted without my girl. I have lost family and close friends but nothing has been so painful as losing my beautiful Labrador, Lucy. I truly loved Lucy and my HEART is BROKEN
My 1st furkid pass away 2 years back and my whole world died. I can't accept it at all. My second furkid came to show me love and always there for me. I am happy with my furkid. You may consider to adopt a furkid and give a lovely life. Lucy may come in another furkid. I am feeling it right now
It would be therapeutic to adopt a pet and bring back the sweet love and companionship that animals add to your life. Lucy will always be your first love and you can rescue an animal who needs You. Let go and love again. Your life will be a gift to share with an animal who is starving for the love and security you have to give. Love again ...Live again. You can do it.💕
Time has come for that pain to be healed. Could you go and get a little rescue doggy? You can heal that little doggies heart. And he will heal yours. Lucy would hate for you to be so broken for so long. Its time to heal your sadness. Xx
I understand what you mean. In my life I have had a lot of animals and I still remember every one of them. Once a year I have a day to remember them. It's on pet's day. I make some sort of prayer and just try to let them know I still love them and that I hope that I will meet them again someday.
I'm sick. I can't believe I let myself go on in this relationship for it to end like this. I learned from this video that we must all part from everybody. It's helping me understand that this was the time for me and my ex to part. I'm tired of hurting
I'm noticing those past memories come up in waves. The moment I notice the process it pops, but there is fear to even let them dissolve and allow peace!
Attachment is the knot Just undo it and let it go No crying just acknowledging the experience Let go and the door that’s meant for me will open This path was not for me apparently I gave unconditionally so I’m proud that I had the opportunity to show openness and wasn’t afraid to be vulnerable It’s an experience I will treasure on my side of true love and kindness to someone who couldn’t reciprocate love Peace
Gosh just found you on RUclips and im so happy I did!! Im greiving really bad!! I lost my two children 22 years old son and 21 year old daughter 4 and 5 years ago thank you for being you
I can feel your pain. I did lose my mom when I was 13 and after one year I did lose my grandmother. Don't lose hope. Your son and your daughter are watching you from heaven and discussing how brave their mom is ❤
I haven't been able to grieve and heal. My heart is broken in many pieces. I'm always busy trying to help others. I was taught that crying is a sign of weakness. I always had to put everyone else before myself. I need time to myself. I need to be by myself to recharge my mental, emotional and physical being. I need time to myself to be able to grieve and heal. I haven't been able to do this in over 30 years because I had to but myself on the back burner and be a caretaker for everyone else my whole life. Now I have to work on self-care and work on myself. Thank you for these encouraging teaching lessons. I appreciate your kind compassionate words and understanding.
Kimberly , it's like you broke out of my brain and wrote about me🥀. I'm broken. I'm all alone. No friends, No family, No Church Family,No Neighbors. It's like I don't exist.
I have learnt my lessons and cried my eyes balls out, neither ami perfect but i have learnt my lessons and lifes lesson, trust is harder now for me, im finding it hard to trust anyone.
The way you deliver the speech with a smile on your face is priceless, gracious and calm, you touch my heart so deeply with your words of wisdom. තෙරුවන් සරණයි
Ven. sir how wonderfully you explain love & attachment according to Lord Buddha's preachings in a very simply and clearly without taking any effort and it absorb to our mind deeply. May you attain to nibbana in very near birth.Namo buddhaya.
Thank you for this very important message. I have lost my Mother, my spouse and my 23 year old sister all in tragic circumstances. I held on to my tears and lived in solitary for four years. I now understand that my loved ones would want me to live my life. Finding sincere support is difficult when you are without any family support however I am grateful that I am focusing on the good memories and myself now and anyone who has experienced multiple losses, my heart is with you. Your teachings have taught me so much. I am so grateful ❤
I pray your heart heals very soon. Losing them is tragic but God will give you strength and peace very soon. Your loved ones want you to lead a happy life. Please live your life to the fullest. ❤
Thank you for your beautiful messages of support. I feel so grateful that you have taken the time to write these. I wish you all happiness and good health. ❤️🩹
I cried alone for hours. I know certain things, mentally prepared that only myself can truly help me to be more better day by day. I have to find solitude. But there are so many times I have genuinely truly cared for my dearest people and no doubt due to my basic hopes and few expectations from them, my heart really breaks apart so painfully. Many times. I am a sensitive person. But I cry, slowly make myself understand, pray and again begin a new day. Watching this video made me shed so many tears. I hope for myself that all the pain and struggle I am going through will make me stronger and better and enlightened with each day. Love and best wishes to anyone who needs it and everyone who is going through hard days, hold on keep trying, have faith in yourself. You will be okay one day and you can do it❤
Have no words to thank you Ven . Thero. I am a Buddhist...but the way you present all these facts is very interesting , heart touching an logical. More over your smile wipes our sorrow away for a moment ... තෙරුවන් සරනින් ඔබවහන්සෙට උතුම් වූ නිර්වාන දොරටුව වැඩි ඈතක නොවේවා!! Namo Buddhaya !!
Your messaged reached me at the right time. I am suffering from this heartache from two months. Somehow recovered but not fully. Today am again into same old past thoughts. Staying in the middle of life when u have no one around u kills. But i have learnt to stay away frm people.Thank you ur video was quit helpfull.🙏
Attachment/aversion feels like one of my biggest blocks to freedom. Through my practice I am noticing old patterns after a recent breakup, and merging with them means the suffering is immense. There is an attachment to merging with these patterns here. I appreciate the timely reminder of impermanence. But through reflection a lot of pain is here from identifying with the one who wasn't able to give as much love as he wanted to, for whatever reason. Mainly shame. and there is merging with tremendous guilt. So this was a bitter sweet video for me. Started off with an opening, then a contraction, then this comment.
Apart from thinking this is religious based discussion.. this whole idea can make me calm down.. it does everything isn't it! Thank you so much. I love the peace you just delivered.
I don't have any person to share anything. I have only me . I don't have friends. I have my family who will never understand anything. I can't cry because everyone is always around me . I feel horrible
I always say nothing is guaranteed and certain with others. If you love someone, just love them and enjoy the times you have with them. Don't take things so seriously. Always have other outlets to express yourself.
I think about him every morning before my day starts and before I go to sleep every day. it's true love. Crying is good but limit it. As I know when I cry too long, I always get very very sick for weeks. I think I will burn a candle and meditate instead. Acknowledge it but limit it
I have been going through this since 2 and a half year, I didn't find any person to share with, whomsoever I share, they just advice, start judging, I just cry out evry day to remove the pressure!!🥺...with a hope to get healed one day❄️
@@piyushmandal5647 🥺Hope you overcome your situation soon... I hope all the positivity in the world to clear out all the mess which is troubling you... May god bless you to the fullest, heal you to the highest... -your well wisher, who is also trying to overcome the depression...🥺🙂
thank you for this video.. as a muslim I amazed by the words.. it helps me to calm down, feels like he speaks to me privately heart to heart.. I feel touched and heard
times are really tough for me at the moment, it seems and endless pain, sorrow and loneliness that i confront in a daily basis. i just came out from a 10 years Relationship with my wife. thank you so much for this inspiring words teacher. it encourages me to reflect in life that to love is not to be attach nor to own the person that you love. iv learned to forgive and let go, at least ive done my part to fixed things up but as you have said teacher, something are not beyond are control and in life all is impermanent. sending love and comfort to all who have heavy hearts around the world. peace and love in this life journey❤❤❤
Pinwath swamin wahansa our children always hearting us how can we heal our heart from a heart breaks we cannot bear that pain. I also addicted this channel. You are great reverent rev. May the Noble Trple Gem bless.May you attain nibbana🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much for the blessings you’ve given us in this video……..crying isn’t something I usually do although I’m a woman….I have cried over the last 24 hours… as much as when my husband died 3 years ago….. I was too much attached to a person "………my daughter and granddaughter were my strengths and support me whilst I come to terms with it…..the world is a wonderful place….and tomorrow the sun will shine again…💖💖💖
You are preaching the real Buddhism. I was fed up with Jathaka stories and the ways of other monks preaching the Buddhist teaching. Now I can understand the importance of Buddhism for a successful lilfe.
Venorable thero, What you have said is very true. I have experienced same situation. Its been 4 years. Still I couldn't overcome my pain This video will be a big help for me
Dear teacher, thank you so much for your teachings. They are so wise and so helpful and they give me a lot of peace in mind. I am so thankful for your sermons! 🙏🏻☺️
Thank-you! So...much for talking about "Broken-Hearts"💔. My sister was very, very sick, was taken to Hospital and was ill-treated badly and was killed by giving allergic tablets. That death is extremely hard to get over with. I trust in the Lord everyday, taking one day at a time. I am asking for your prayers 🙏 😌.
Oh Ma’am I am so deeply saddened about ur v unpleasant experience that you had to undergo with ur dearest sisters tragic death! I understand ur dilemma as I’m suffering immensely been a guy n the youngest of the family. I lost my dearest darling Mom whom I looked after for past 10 years all by myself. My darling Mom left me all alone in this world! I’m emotionally down, fallen and my mind is frozen too. Pl accept my deepest sympathies on ur great loss.
@@trevordamien1550 Trevor dear ♥ . Thank-you, so very much for being in touch with me. I am really sorry to hear about your mum and your circumstances and you tell me your the last one in the family 👪 it's really heart ❤ breaking. I understand how you must feel. With my sister's death and that they took her life was too much to bear, cause, it was done in front of my eyes. Every, memories of my sister breaks me down completely. This is something, I cannot forget and will never forget. I am sure you must feel the very same. I Sympathise with you. Trevor. The day my sister was killed 😪 😢 I turned to the "Lord" praying day and night. I cried too so...very much. I cannot explain. I can't believe that the hospital's would do such a thing. I am so.....very sorry for taken her to hospital. They ill- treated her and then took life. I am living with a broken💔heart and so must you Trevor. I long, really long to be where my sister is, and I am sure you must feel too. Tc Trevor be in touch whenever you need too. I Love ❤ 😍 💖 you. Don't worry, God will take care of us we hope😘♥️🌹
@@chanpisethsuos1306 Dear chanisethsuos1306. Thank-you! So...very much for your prayers for us. I hope God will bless 🙌 you immensely. I will think of you, when, I am Praying. Thank-you!❤🕯❤😘
this helps soo much, from your videos I have learned soo much, I used to be a rude person who would get angry easily and sad but after watching your videos your tips have all helped me and I feel like a better person. Not the same old angry me but a new me. I appreciate all your hard work on making these videos. Thank you so much 🙂
Wow, amazing wisdom, it really comes to principles of Buddhism: be aware of the law of impermanence [when in love and think this will be forever either in physical sense or emotional sense, remind yourself this too shall pass, we don't use this term for good times but it is true] and know true love is Permanent and not painful, feel joy in letting go, as you know your loved one is inside your heart and memory [even if in romantic sense they chose another person, be happy for them that they are seeking what they feel is better for them]; the law of "source of suffering is attachment : to the past, to good times in the past, to the wants and desires for more and more", and letting go and letting be; Time heals but it means staying in the present moment is the healing prescription, not going to the past, it is like a wound that heals only if you stop picking at it. The saying "if your leg is broken in 3 different places, don't go back to those places", is a corky way of saying don't hold on to the memories that burn you from inside out; and finally as for "crying when you feel sad", I read this as " Accept the present feelings as they are, same for where you find yourself and your reality today". Dear teacher, your sheer photo/presence brings joy and peace to me, the smile, the calm in your facial expressions and delivery of your wisdom all speaks for the message you deliver. Namo Buddhaya.
It was my favorite teacher at school. I attached to her lot and truly loved her. I know she'll go next February and today was my last day of schooling because I am 17 years old girl and have to sit AL next year. Today I went to say goodbye she didn't pay any attention to me. She knows that I really like her because it was the first time that I love to a teacher. How did she act like this even the last day. We had two dates and those made my life upside down. Whenever passing those places it was really painful. I don't know why people change rapidly like this.
Thanks so much for this teaching, after heartbroken from a failed relationship. Am online looking for how to overcome my difficulties. Now i have learnt that i don't suppose to be too attached to my loved ones but just love them. And always prepare for times of separation from our loved ones because no condition is permanent. I have been worried, whether i will ever be able to forget about the whole thing and move on but now and so happy that my pains will faid away with times and will be happy once again. The most important thing i have learnt is that, even when i find happiness in life again, i will always prepare my mind for a day when I have to loose it because nothing is permanent in this life. Thanks so much, am very happy right now already even when I haven't start practicing, am so sure it will help my situation. May God Almighty continue to bless you for the lives you are touching. ❤❤❤
Namo Buddha ya 🙏🌹 There are lot of things going inside me and most of the time I feel alone , sadness , depression . But after follow your video's I feel much more relaxed . Hope your teaching make me happy. 🙏🙏🙏
1）If you need to cry, is ok to cry. Crying release pressure.
2) Find a person to share your sorrow. The person should not give hateful comments about your ex partner as that will build up the hatred further.
3) Always reflect and recollect that one day you will be parted and separated with all the dear people in your life. Alot of people don't like to think about this when they are in a relationship. However, being aware that we have limited time with our loved one(s) will enable one to give the fullest love and compassion.
4) True love will never break your heart, but attachment will.
5) If you need to heal the wound, you need to reduce touching it. Therefore, reduce the amount of attention you give to past memories.
6) No matter how terrible the situation is, it will change one day. You will be ok one day.
7) Know that this experience will make you stronger.
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Wow! Thank you for this!
#3 is so very helpful. I experienced the most absolutely devastating losses of my life 2 years ago. I did treasure them and many many times while laying in peace with them I felt such gratitude for the moment and for them. The loss is unbearable and I don’t know about others but life is of no use or holds zero attraction to me anymore and I just remain in this maya because of others depending on me
And what happens when the terrible situation happens over and over again? When life gives you nothing but misery and heartache as soon as you think you are okay?
Thank you very much. 🙏
"True love will never break your heart, but attachment does"
But aren't we all attatched to our loved ones?
@@sich_verstehen yes, but all of our attachments bring us suffering. We fear of losing what or who we cherish, we feel sad and devastated when we actually lose it, we get used to the temporary feeling of happiness, that when it's over it breaks our heart. All of us should learn to let go and understand that all things that appear, sooner or later will disappear. Including the bad things. Hope I could help you❤
Thank you, I needed to hear this.
We attach to people without even love, when we love there is always an attachment. No matter at the end, attachment makes us suffer. Love without any attachment make us free
When you are heartbroken cry,forgive ,learn from your expeiences and let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.🙏
Well said..
how u do u cry
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But I am struggling 😫. My mind says I need to forget and move on... but very difficult to practice
@@prema1009 Very difficult and especially when you realize that your needs are not their priority or their problem.
I lost my son 27 years old in an accident two months back ,I am so broken and search for motivational talks. I listen to your speeches and there is a temporary relief I still need to hear more on losing a loved one. You are a great preacher teacher and don't talk about religion but only truths . Thank you.
I feel sorry for your loss. Try to keep yourself on your daily tasks. Cleaning, going to the grocery store, work. Things like that. If you can't find something to do, then take a walk around the park/maybe even jog. It doesn't have to be fast, just moving is good. Keep yourself busy.
It's okay to cry at any given time of your day. So what if people see you! You're human. You are allowed to cry. Anyone can understand what you are going through. The most important thing is to give yourself time to mourn, but also to keep yourself moving. Try some yoga/sports.
Trust me, out of anything that can help, movement is it. Your brain will release dopamine and that will make sure your body will be more calmed. The movements will also make you tired, wich in turn makes it easier to fall asleep and the tiredness will make it harder for your mind to wander. The best thing is to push your body as hard as it can go, but it's not ideal to do this every time. Especially if you're a beginner at anything, try to take it one step at a time, and it's okay to take breaks.
This won't heal your wound, but it can help be a band aid until it gets better, bit by bit. I hope you can give it a place someday and be happy again all the way! And remember. You are never alone. If you want to talk to someone about it, there might be talking groups you can go to/or a psychologist. Don't be afraid to talk to lots of your friends too! Everything will help to give it a place.
Best wishes to you and I hope you find peace. I can't imagine how horrific that would be.
Hope you are fine now.
Cheer up! 🌸🍀
That is what budha has taught in his Dhamma….. he teaches way of life which is useful for each and every individual…. He says ,, don’t expect too much,,, attachment’s brings suffering,, expectations brings suffering, be compassionate, be kind , he says 1) there is suffering 2) there is reason for suffering 3) you need to understand the cause of suffering 4) find out solutions or healing for that suffering bz it’s in your hand to reduce your pain and suffering by kindness and compassion for others…..,, then he shows 8 fold pathways to follow for life then in the prayers itself he says….. 1) be away from lies 2) be away from hurting animals 3)be away from addiction, alcohol 4) make your character stronger 5) don’t do robbery…………, so beautiful BUDDHA had taught us……..2500 yrs ago…….. so simple and so true…………
I love your quote of “let your tears water the seeds of your happiness.” 🙂thank you
Yes great words! Thank You
Or turn it into a beautiful painful song ruclips.net/video/v2vk1S03MUo/видео.html
True words. It help me... Over come more tension, pressure.... 🙂
My 23 year old son is going through a heartbreak,i hope he watched this ..we all been through it..i wish him the best
You are a good mom, I just wanted to say this. I wish I could express to my mom the same way
Buddhism is the best medicine who is suffering from anxiety and depression ❤❤❤
"When you are heart-broken, cry, forgive, learn from your experiences & let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness"
been 2yrs and the tears hasnt dried up.
Where we can purchase this uniform? He wearing.
@@vanshikadixit5892 it's called 'robe'..Sri Lanka..but you can't just buy a robe & just wear like a uniform..First you have to become a monk..it's quite a process..
@@yashodaraabeysinghe5437 Or turn it into a beautiful painful song ruclips.net/video/v2vk1S03MUo/видео.html
@@vanshikadixit5892lol it’s not a fashion
We lost our eldest daughter 26 years ago...when she was 11 years...I am still struggling to overcome our loss....by listening to yr dhamma talks....i feel bit light hearted ....thanks ..Namo Buddhaya
My condolences to you 😢 and yours! I lost my sister and brother-in-law to a speeding driver in March 4th 2017. I miss her soooo much.
I feel your pain and your are not alone!
"Nothing is permanent "
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Sending you love and strength, our loved ones never ever leave us, I ask the angels to bring you peace and signs of eternal life. May peace be with you and your family brother 🙏❤
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
Crying is truly the best way to heal. No shame in crying. It reveals the depth of love you felt for that person.
Been weeping for 6months now, like a child.. while the other person is going out and sleeping with her ex that she left me for.
#2 True Love will never break your heart, but attachment Will!! NEEDED TO HEAR THIS!!😮
True❤
After my heart was broken for 4 years ago I went through spiritual awakening. It was a blessing. I would do it again and again. I'm a new person- real me and I love myself unconditionally and every single thing around me. The best gift ever
Hey ...can you please share your experience about spirituality... I'm going through a heartbreak now.. it's really tough for me...but I'm seeking help from yoga meditation and god.. I feel like I'm going to make it my routine...but still I get sudden anxiety attacks specially in morning... I'm just begging God to take the pain away.
@@shivanimallik656 Dearest friend
It takes time to find your own strength. It took me 4 years- greatest years of my life too be where I am now. No one can help you with the pain. Take it as a great lesson from life. There is always happiness on the other side. It will shape you. Nothing takes forever. You must know that you are responsible for your life and choices. All the reasons you will recognize later. There is always something to see positive. Start to seek the truth of life. We are supposed to be happy in this life and happiness is a choice. I know you will make it and wish you all the best
I’m glad you found your happiness, I started mine about an year ago, I know it’s a long journey worth taking.
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💕 stay strong
Anyone going through a tough time hold on guys You're not alone😊 ( may Allah make it easy for you all) and remember this too shall pass!
I hope so 😢😢
In Sha Allah
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When you are alone and sad, you need to save yourself..it is from your own mind..you need to come back to normal....by asking God who is in your mind...can you get rid of it?
The soul usually knows what to do to heal itself.
The
challenge is to silence the mind.
I am a Muslim, from Indonesia. I like your channel. The way you present is calm, come out from your pure heart. and logical
I am getting addicted to this channel..at the end of every talk I get tears...namo budhdhaya 🌸🌸🌸
Listening to your words of wisdom makes me feel content with your understanding about how people can get together platonically. Never stop preaching about love and lasting relationships...
Yes you are right i watched all videos waiting for next one👍👍👍
Are u heartbroken?
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i have fat tummy
12:01 let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness ❤❤❤
3 times I have been through this and now I know I was attached not in love I'm 41 and now I'm learning to love myself
I wish I could 🥲
❤❤❤ Yes, it's the most trending pictures that helped me, we prayed and still pray to the Lord, just to move what hurt me, few days past. Attachment does, but the love stays in the heart forever, but physically is not the cure to it, but distance from the relation is the best thing to do. I choose the Lord to love forever. Lord make me tough now so I choose my ,Lord and Savior. Amen❤
Some one cheated me in horrible way. Someone used to tell me that she can't live without me. She found new option, so she left. I'm crying since 1 months. I was unable to eat anything. I felt like empty and heavy. My weight decreased to 41 kg. My tooth broken. I never thought I would be cheated like this. She showed highest level of cruelty to me. Because she found handsome guy. I came to know this world is unfair and cruel.
After listening to you, I feel better. You're very inspiring. Thank you so much 🙏 Master 💙 I'm grateful to you ❤️ from bottom of my heart 🤍
Namo Buddha🙏
My tears came out🌼🌼🌼
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God bless you
Take care of yourself bro.
You are amazing...Listen to you make me feel better.❤
I'm crying when you say cry but when I heard that you say true love will not break your heart then I realized yeah you're right and I feel better now
Reverend, I'm a Catholic but since I started subscribing this channel through your enlightenment I learned a lot and I got a lot of improvement. Thank you so much 🥰
I'm a minister, and I'm here as well. I've been searching the Bible for dating advice there is none how did the basic instruction before leaving earth leave this out. Marriage is of earth and not of heaven and so must be dating. We are only responsible for our sinful responses
Hi thank u so much how much said was very good
@@JoelPit mmm, well, the 10 commandments are all of earth and not of heaven. As far as I am concerned, the bible offers advice to humans, who all live on earth.
Am also a catholic but I learn alot
I broke up with my first love and my selfish actions that were fueled by the attachment led to it ending very badly. She was the one and only person who truly understood me. But it ended so badly, I'm struggling to forgive myself. I wish I could change it. But the past is the past and there's nothing I can do to undo the damage I have caused. However, these great teachings are giving me hope and some direction into healing and moving on with my life. Thank you
Same thing happened with me.😭 I cannot forgive myself 😭😭😭
I just broke up with the woman I thought would be the one. We were not together a drastically long time. But I failed and let my anxieties from a prior relationship push her away and in the break up hurt her more with my actions. I tried so hard to get her to understand I will work on my anxieties. But she just couldnt give it another shot. I have never been so depressed in my life.
Im am a christian but your talks n lessons of life n philosphy are universal n can b applied by people from all walks of life. U have a very calm n peaceful appearance . Im learning from u n i can apply these lessins in lifev to anyone who is in need of advice. Thank u n please continue with your good work. Amen!
Same here Christian God bless!!!
If you love someone don’t you automatically become attached to that person, because you love each other you share your life with them and you want to spend as much time as you can with them so I believe that it would be virtually impossible not to feel the pain once they are gone. Thank you❤
Thank you so much. My beloved husband passed away three years ago. After 33 years very happy marriage. I am healing slowly, slowly. I am blessed to have known such love.💚💙💜🙏🙏🙏
@@swastikmohanty7370 thanks for the encouragement, God'sblessing
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May God give you strength
You are a lucky person
Happy for you that you got a wonderful husband thank God
The inner peace i find after watching Your video hit differently... I want peaceful and positive mindset i just wanna delete all negative thoughts inside me😢
The way you talk with a smile on your face that's very beautiful 😍👌 ❤️
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Nice
True I felt to become monk
I know right!! 😊😊
@@devikarani8316 To become a monk is a toughest job in reality..
I am a heart broken mother which my daughter who pass away thank you for advice and may God bless . ❤
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we never heal we just learn to live with it
My experience too ...
I found this true. They say time heals but it doesn't
Have been crying two days now but God knows And he will bless me with what is mine i trust him.
Sometimes, heartbreaks are not becoz of the love of our life, sometimes it is by the people who love us. Sometimes our first heartbreak is by our family whome we loved the most in our lives. And its really veryvery painful when your own family doesn't trust u. And it breaks u the most to the extremities.
But as said that we should try to forgive things and take experiences to not repeat the same, which is the only thing we can do.🤞🙌
Its 2.03 am now...here iam unable to sleep,crying on my bed remembering all those hurtful words said by someone who i truly loved.thinking am i that bad . now iam feeling less heavy in my heart. thank you🙂
I grew up in an abusive environment and have spent most of my adult life on my own. When I bought a puppy Labrador, I never knew my life would be transformed so drastically. I enjoyed getting out and walking her for hours on end, even meeting and chatting with other dog walkers. I loved coming home from work and being greeted by my best friend, I just loved her so much. Lucy got cancer and I had to have her put to sleep, to say it has turned my life upside down is an understatement. It has been 5 years and I miss her so much and feel like I don't want to be here anymore without her. I am so broken hearted without my girl. I have lost family and close friends but nothing has been so painful as losing my beautiful Labrador, Lucy. I truly loved Lucy and my HEART is BROKEN
My 1st furkid pass away 2 years back and my whole world died. I can't accept it at all. My second furkid came to show me love and always there for me. I am happy with my furkid. You may consider to adopt a furkid and give a lovely life. Lucy may come in another furkid. I am feeling it right now
It would be therapeutic to adopt a pet and bring back the sweet love and companionship that animals add to your life. Lucy will always be your first love and you can rescue an animal who needs You. Let go and love again. Your life will be a gift to share with an animal who is starving for the love and security you have to give. Love again ...Live again. You can do it.💕
Time has come for that pain to be healed. Could you go and get a little rescue doggy? You can heal that little doggies heart. And he will heal yours. Lucy would hate for you to be so broken for so long. Its time to heal your sadness. Xx
I understand what you mean. In my life I have had a lot of animals and I still remember every one of them. Once a year I have a day to remember them. It's on pet's day. I make some sort of prayer and just try to let them know I still love them and that I hope that I will meet them again someday.
@@Happiness-qj3ry I cant think of adopting another dog. no,
I'm sick. I can't believe I let myself go on in this relationship for it to end like this. I learned from this video that we must all part from everybody. It's helping me understand that this was the time for me and my ex to part. I'm tired of hurting
I'm noticing those past memories come up in waves. The moment I notice the process it pops, but there is fear to even let them dissolve and allow peace!
Attachment is the knot
Just undo it and let it go
No crying just acknowledging the experience
Let go and the door that’s meant for me will open
This path was not for me apparently
I gave unconditionally so I’m proud that I had the opportunity to show openness and wasn’t afraid to be vulnerable
It’s an experience I will treasure on my side of true love and kindness to someone who couldn’t reciprocate love
Peace
Gosh just found you on RUclips and im so happy I did!! Im greiving really bad!! I lost my two children 22 years old son and 21 year old daughter 4 and 5 years ago thank you for being you
❤️ you deserve to by happy in this life… for you and for your children ❤️
I can feel your pain. I did lose my mom when I was 13 and after one year I did lose my grandmother. Don't lose hope. Your son and your daughter are watching you from heaven and discussing how brave their mom is ❤
i feel really sorry abt u 😢❤
@@Dreamdr thank you im so lost
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"Cry, forgive, learn from your experiences, and let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness".
I haven't been able to grieve and heal. My heart is broken in many pieces. I'm always busy trying to help others. I was taught that crying is a sign of weakness. I always had to put everyone else before myself. I need time to myself. I need to be by myself to recharge my mental, emotional and physical being. I need time to myself to be able to grieve and heal. I haven't been able to do this in over 30 years because I had to but myself on the back burner and be a caretaker for everyone else my whole life. Now I have to work on self-care and work on myself. Thank you for these encouraging teaching lessons. I appreciate your kind compassionate words and understanding.
Kimberly , it's like you broke out of my brain and wrote about me🥀. I'm broken. I'm all alone. No friends, No family, No Church Family,No Neighbors. It's like I don't exist.
I've been crying allot......I can't stop.
@@rubytuesday7653 feel the same since my wife of 13 yrs passed 8 1 23 -hope you're doing better
Since I met this podcast, I must say that I am addicted to it, and am loving it 🤩.
‘’True love will never break your heart’’. That hit home. Guess I haven’t found true love yet…always heartbroken 💔
I have learnt my lessons and cried my eyes balls out, neither ami perfect but i have learnt my lessons and lifes lesson, trust is harder now for me, im finding it hard to trust anyone.
The way you deliver the speech with a smile on your face is priceless, gracious and calm, you touch my heart so deeply with your words of wisdom. තෙරුවන් සරණයි
What a creep..move on.
Yeah right.. it's not monotonous.
THE TRUTH. EXPLAINS EVERYTHING. AS A BUDDHIST I AGREE WITH YOUR ADVICE. GREAT.
Ven. sir how wonderfully you explain love & attachment according to Lord Buddha's preachings in a very simply and clearly without taking any effort and it absorb to our mind deeply.
May you attain to nibbana in very near birth.Namo buddhaya.
Thank you for this very important message. I have lost my Mother, my spouse and my 23 year old sister all in tragic circumstances. I held on to my tears and lived in solitary for four years. I now understand that my loved ones would want me to live my life. Finding sincere support is difficult when you are without any family support however I am grateful that I am focusing on the good memories and myself now and anyone who has experienced multiple losses, my heart is with you. Your teachings have taught me so much. I am so grateful ❤
Sorry about that 😢
sorry to hear that, but they will be proud of you💟
I pray your heart heals very soon. Losing them is tragic but God will give you strength and peace very soon. Your loved ones want you to lead a happy life. Please live your life to the fullest. ❤
Courage !
Dont give up !
Thank you for your beautiful messages of support. I feel so grateful that you have taken the time to write these. I wish you all happiness and good health. ❤️🩹
I cried alone for hours. I know certain things, mentally prepared that only myself can truly help me to be more better day by day. I have to find solitude. But there are so many times I have genuinely truly cared for my dearest people and no doubt due to my basic hopes and few expectations from them, my heart really breaks apart so painfully. Many times. I am a sensitive person. But I cry, slowly make myself understand, pray and again begin a new day. Watching this video made me shed so many tears. I hope for myself that all the pain and struggle I am going through will make me stronger and better and enlightened with each day. Love and best wishes to anyone who needs it and everyone who is going through hard days, hold on keep trying, have faith in yourself. You will be okay one day and you can do it❤
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1. Someday we have to seperate ourselves from everyone we loved
2. True love can never break your heart, it's done by attachment
Have no words to thank you Ven . Thero. I am a Buddhist...but the way you present all these facts is very interesting , heart touching an logical. More over your smile wipes our sorrow away for a moment ... තෙරුවන් සරනින් ඔබවහන්සෙට උතුම් වූ නිර්වාන දොරටුව වැඩි ඈතක නොවේවා!! Namo Buddhaya !!
Wow that was real enlightenment for me! True Love never breaks your heart. I see that in my life.
Buddha taught us so much and this kind monk is explaining everything learned in simple but in English. How wonderful is that! Namo Buddhaya🙏🏽❤️🌸🌺☸️
Your messaged reached me at the right time. I am suffering from this heartache from two months. Somehow recovered but not fully. Today am again into same old past thoughts. Staying in the middle of life when u have no one around u kills. But i have learnt to stay away frm people.Thank you ur video was quit helpfull.🙏
Same here
Me too. It is somewhat comforting to know other people share similar heartache
When your heart broken. Cry, forgive, learn.
Let your tear water the seeds of your future happiness.
Sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🙏🙏🥰
I'm Buddhism from Cambodia 🇰🇭🙏🥰
Such profound wisdom is only taught by the supreme Buddha. Namo Buddhaya! 🙏🙏🙏
Attachment/aversion feels like one of my biggest blocks to freedom. Through my practice I am noticing old patterns after a recent breakup, and merging with them means the suffering is immense. There is an attachment to merging with these patterns here.
I appreciate the timely reminder of impermanence. But through reflection a lot of pain is here from identifying with the one who wasn't able to give as much love as he wanted to, for whatever reason. Mainly shame. and there is merging with tremendous guilt.
So this was a bitter sweet video for me. Started off with an opening, then a contraction, then this comment.
great monk gave buddha teaching to modern generation in easy way in simple and depth , thanks a lot ,namo buddhaya
Apart from thinking this is religious based discussion.. this whole idea can make me calm down.. it does everything isn't it! Thank you so much. I love the peace you just delivered.
Yes sir,
I am experiencing a broken heart. But it isn't about losing a girlfriend, but it is about my life. Life ingeneral.
I don't have any person to share anything. I have only me . I don't have friends. I have my family who will never understand anything. I can't cry because everyone is always around me . I feel horrible
Make personal diary and write down anything what you want to share someone
My sister the same but she passed out last year I saw it what I missed ...so u can share with my mom mam maybe u will be comfortable
Same:(
Yes me too
U can share me and I can share mine, so we can help each other
I always say nothing is guaranteed and certain with others. If you love someone, just love them and enjoy the times you have with them. Don't take things so seriously. Always have other outlets to express yourself.
Thank you!❤I needed to hear this today
I think about him every morning before my day starts and before I go to sleep every day. it's true love. Crying is good but limit it. As I know when I cry too long, I always get very very sick for weeks. I think I will burn a candle and meditate instead. Acknowledge it but limit it
That's true. I'm in the same situation. Hope things will get better soon! Stay safe.
@@ovz197 God bless, be safe, be well❤️
@@debbie6533 Thanks a lot
I have been going through this since 2 and a half year, I didn't find any person to share with, whomsoever I share, they just advice, start judging, I just cry out evry day to remove the pressure!!🥺...with a hope to get healed one day❄️
Same here 😖🥺😭
@@piyushmandal5647 🥺Hope you overcome your situation soon...
I hope all the positivity in the world to clear out all the mess which is troubling you...
May god bless you to the fullest, heal you to the highest...
-your well wisher, who is also trying to overcome the depression...🥺🙂
thank you for this video.. as a muslim I amazed by the words.. it helps me to calm down, feels like he speaks to me privately heart to heart.. I feel touched and heard
times are really tough for me at the moment, it seems and endless pain, sorrow and loneliness that i confront in a daily basis. i just came out from a 10 years Relationship with my wife. thank you so much for this inspiring words teacher. it encourages me to reflect in life that to love is not to be attach nor to own the person that you love. iv learned to forgive and let go, at least ive done my part to fixed things up but as you have said teacher, something are not beyond are control and in life all is impermanent. sending love and comfort to all who have heavy hearts around the world. peace and love in this life journey❤❤❤
Pinwath swamin wahansa our children always hearting us how can we heal our heart from a heart breaks we cannot bear that pain. I also addicted this channel. You are great reverent rev. May the Noble Trple Gem bless.May you attain nibbana🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much for the blessings you’ve given us in this video……..crying isn’t something I usually do although I’m a woman….I have cried over the last 24 hours… as much as when my husband died 3 years ago….. I was too much attached to a person "………my daughter and granddaughter were my strengths and support me whilst I come to terms with it…..the world is a wonderful place….and tomorrow the sun will shine again…💖💖💖
Beautiful messages. So many people mistake attachment for true love. True love is another love entirely. Thank you 🙏
Thank you for sharing Buddha's wisdom ❤️🙏 !
You are preaching the real Buddhism. I was fed up with Jathaka stories and the ways of other monks preaching the Buddhist teaching. Now I can understand the importance of Buddhism for a successful lilfe.
Iam Christian girl but I always follow your videos.
I am a Christian too..
I have been blessed by Lord Buddha today.
He has heard and answered my prayer for help.🙏🏻
Thank you Brother.💞
Venorable thero,
What you have said is very true. I have experienced same situation. Its been 4 years. Still I couldn't overcome my pain
This video will be a big help for me
I love seeing all of us from around the world, all learning from the same video. I hope everyone is healing well.
Whenever I feel down, after listening to your sharing of Buddha's wisdom, it always made me feel very touched n very humbled. Thank you.
I have strated to listen to you.thank you.you always help
We are blessed to have you. Thank yoy for yoyr comforting talks.
Dear teacher, thank you so much for your teachings. They are so wise and so helpful and they give me a lot of peace in mind. I am so thankful for your sermons! 🙏🏻☺️
My heart felt like getting water to a parched dessert when listening to this, thank you so much.
This is one of the most practical sermon i have ever heard on overcoming grief.
Thank-you! So...much for talking about "Broken-Hearts"💔. My sister was very, very sick, was taken to Hospital and was ill-treated badly and was killed by giving allergic tablets. That death is extremely hard to get over with. I trust in the Lord everyday, taking one day at a time. I am asking for your prayers 🙏 😌.
Oh Ma’am I am so deeply saddened about ur v unpleasant experience that you had to undergo with ur dearest sisters tragic death! I understand ur dilemma as I’m suffering immensely been a guy n the youngest of the family. I lost my dearest darling Mom whom I looked after for past 10 years all by myself. My darling Mom left me all alone in this world! I’m emotionally down, fallen and my mind is frozen too. Pl accept my deepest sympathies on ur great loss.
@@trevordamien1550 Trevor dear ♥ . Thank-you, so very much for being in touch with me. I am really sorry to hear about your mum and your circumstances and you tell me your the last one in the family 👪 it's really heart ❤ breaking. I understand how you must feel. With my sister's death and that they took her life was too much to bear, cause, it was done in front of my eyes. Every, memories of my sister breaks me down completely. This is something, I cannot forget and will never forget. I am sure you must feel the very same. I Sympathise with you. Trevor. The day my sister was killed 😪 😢 I turned to the "Lord" praying day and night. I cried too so...very much. I cannot explain. I can't believe that the hospital's would do such a thing. I am so.....very sorry for taken her to hospital. They ill- treated her and then took life. I am living with a broken💔heart and so must you Trevor. I long, really long to be where my sister is, and I am sure you must feel too. Tc Trevor be in touch whenever you need too. I Love ❤ 😍 💖 you. Don't worry, God will take care of us we hope😘♥️🌹
Sending prayers ❤
@@chanpisethsuos1306 Dear chanisethsuos1306. Thank-you! So...very much for your prayers for us. I hope God will bless 🙌 you immensely. I will think of you, when, I am Praying. Thank-you!❤🕯❤😘
Agree...
When you are heartbroken:
Cry.
Forgive.
Learn from your experiences.
Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness. 🙏
You have a peaceful way of explaining things..your smile itself gives peace...thank you so much Sir..Namha Buddhhaye.🙏🙏
I’ve learned so much about compassion and mindfulness from your channel. Deep gratitude
this helps soo much, from your videos I have learned soo much, I used to be a rude person who would get angry easily and sad but after watching your videos your tips have all helped me and I feel like a better person. Not the same old angry me but a new me.
I appreciate all your hard work on making these videos. Thank you so much
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Wow, amazing wisdom, it really comes to principles of Buddhism: be aware of the law of impermanence [when in love and think this will be forever either in physical sense or emotional sense, remind yourself this too shall pass, we don't use this term for good times but it is true] and know true love is Permanent and not painful, feel joy in letting go, as you know your loved one is inside your heart and memory [even if in romantic sense they chose another person, be happy for them that they are seeking what they feel is better for them]; the law of "source of suffering is attachment : to the past, to good times in the past, to the wants and desires for more and more", and letting go and letting be; Time heals but it means staying in the present moment is the healing prescription, not going to the past, it is like a wound that heals only if you stop picking at it. The saying "if your leg is broken in 3 different places, don't go back to those places", is a corky way of saying don't hold on to the memories that burn you from inside out; and finally as for "crying when you feel sad", I read this as " Accept the present feelings as they are, same for where you find yourself and your reality today". Dear teacher, your sheer photo/presence brings joy and peace to me, the smile, the calm in your facial expressions and delivery of your wisdom all speaks for the message you deliver. Namo Buddhaya.
Namo Budhdhay, Master. 🙏
So nicely explained..!
Feel your love and compassion for mankind in each of your words.. 🙏
Lucky to have such Guru 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much for this. It makes a lot of sense to me. I’m six months into loss on my wife for 37 years and I had to start thinking like this.
Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness 🙏🏽
Thank you so much for the great reminders for me who is among the heartbroken in this world.
Dimple vale prabhuji Thank you for this lecture Hare Krishna
Nmo Budhay
Hari Bol🙌🙌🙌
It was my favorite teacher at school. I attached to her lot and truly loved her. I know she'll go next February and today was my last day of schooling because I am 17 years old girl and have to sit AL next year. Today I went to say goodbye she didn't pay any attention to me. She knows that I really like her because it was the first time that I love to a teacher. How did she act like this even the last day. We had two dates and those made my life upside down. Whenever passing those places it was really painful. I don't know why people change rapidly like this.
True love will never break your heart, but attachment will ❤
Thanks so much for this teaching, after heartbroken from a failed relationship. Am online looking for how to overcome my difficulties. Now i have learnt that i don't suppose to be too attached to my loved ones but just love them. And always prepare for times of separation from our loved ones because no condition is permanent. I have been worried, whether i will ever be able to forget about the whole thing and move on but now and so happy that my pains will faid away with times and will be happy once again. The most important thing i have learnt is that, even when i find happiness in life again, i will always prepare my mind for a day when I have to loose it because nothing is permanent in this life. Thanks so much, am very happy right now already even when I haven't start practicing, am so sure it will help my situation. May God Almighty continue to bless you for the lives you are touching. ❤❤❤
forgiveness and acceptance is the key, let go of what you must 🤗
I like this man,the way he talk,his very soft spoken👍👍😘😘
i am muslim but i am inspire of this man🙂
Same here❤
Are you allowed to do that?
This is a demonstration of your wisdom to consider another's perspective. You are an enlightened being (IMHO) .
Namo Buddha ya 🙏🌹 There are lot of things going inside me and most of the time I feel alone , sadness , depression . But after follow your video's I feel much more relaxed . Hope your teaching make me happy. 🙏🙏🙏
I really like your advice. Even though my wife had left us leaving her two children. But i have change my life.
I don't have a single person in my life with whom I can share my pain .
Same here
Me too 🥲
I think you should tell anyone online there are people who listen ..it can be a virtual friend that is haopy to listen
Pray and talk with god
Same here😢