How to Correct a mistake without Hurting Others Feelings?| Buddhism In English

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

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  • @ms.beverly3905
    @ms.beverly3905 2 года назад +105

    I am a Christian since birth, but honestly Buddhist teaching gives me comfort, wisdom and Inner Peace. I Meditate and it cures my deppression, hatred in my heart, jelousy, greed among many others, thanks to this kind of video, it gives us since of direction in this very chaotic world...

    • @krudoh9610
      @krudoh9610 2 года назад

      Did Buddhist believe in Jesus Christ

    • @csflower
      @csflower 2 года назад +3

      @@krudoh9610 I believe Buddha, Moses and Jesus are best friends in the Heavenly realm. Their being born and living among us teaching us Truth has been a part of God’s overall plan to teach every nation. You read the Torah, the New Testament and Buddha teachings they are all the same - religion can separate us and makes us judgmental, or proud, but the core beliefs are the same. We all serve the The One God who created us all when we serve one another.

    • @mariabejaranomonge2183
      @mariabejaranomonge2183 2 года назад

      Just the same! 🙏

    • @myratravin9588
      @myratravin9588 2 года назад +2

      You can be a Buddhist and a Christian. I am. ❤️

    • @Mootown-lz6uh
      @Mootown-lz6uh 4 месяца назад

      Couldn't agree more!!

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 2 года назад +41

    Show a mistake,
    1. In the proper time (when in calm mind)
    2. In private ( not in public)
    3. Truthfull things to the correct person (correct accusation) using kind & gentle words
    4. In a benificial way (praise his good qualities & show the mistake)
    5. Speak with a compassionate heart

  • @dollym.8095
    @dollym.8095 2 года назад +22

    1. Talk privately when telling the person. Speak to the person who did the mistake directly
    2. Speak gentle and kind words when explaining mistakes. No harsh or rude words
    3. Speak in the right time, not when they are angry, sad etc
    4. Give value to his profession but you are doing the mistake and they harmful efects of it
    5. Speak of loving kindness

  • @SarayHDanh
    @SarayHDanh 2 года назад +8

    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu
    Thank Buddha, and
    Thank You!

  • @radhasen.animalwelfare.5644
    @radhasen.animalwelfare.5644 2 года назад +17

    Subscribed with happiness..
    Buddhism is truly what religion should be - a peaceful, disciplined, thought provoking way of life.
    So much wisdom in Buddhism.
    And unlike other religions such as Islam, Christianity which uses their texts as a matter of convenience and to control...
    Buddhism is so tolerant, teaches non violence, respect for all forms of life, tranquility and the deeper meaning of life.
    Its the most peaceful religion with a live and let live attitude.
    Though I was born a hindu on my father's death anniversary, I did the buddhist prayer.

  • @pradnyajadhav4437
    @pradnyajadhav4437 2 года назад +11

    Namo buddhay 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹 vandami bhanteji 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹🙏🇮🇳🙏🇱🇰🙏🌹

  • @evelin9708
    @evelin9708 2 года назад +4

    I am realy getting changed with your encourangment please keep it up

  • @dinalibhagya1570
    @dinalibhagya1570 2 года назад +12

    i started watching this early in the morning and after that this made my whole day and also in future..always be grateful for these words uttered by this thero..Namo Budhhaya

  • @AstonishingRolex1718
    @AstonishingRolex1718 2 года назад +7

    This is mind blowing. Love from TN (India)

  • @Sollozo1053
    @Sollozo1053 2 года назад +28

    Wisdom is with us. Try to realize that.❤

  • @shalinibhagat3282
    @shalinibhagat3282 2 года назад +8

    Namo buddhay and Vandami Bhante it’s awesome to hear the words of wisdom.

  • @factas7196
    @factas7196 2 года назад +18

    Our kindness and love is the most powerful weapon in our life 🧬namo bhuddhay

  • @reborn4450
    @reborn4450 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for your kind wisdom. I have to say that I watched this video all too late. As I made all of these mistakes with my former boss. I brought up my former bosses mistakes while there were other bosses around. I didn't realize this made the boss look bad. And I regret it but I cannot go back and fix anything because I have already left the job on an unpleasant note. I really wish I knew all of this before. Now I feel really bad. Now I see why the boss thought I was looking for trouble when in actuality, those were not my intentions. I was trying to prove why I was making mistakes because I didn't know better. But now I know better.

  • @jocelynpinatang2665
    @jocelynpinatang2665 2 года назад +8

    it always give peace and wisdom..on how to deal with others..big thank you..

  • @karenng848
    @karenng848 2 года назад +13

    Love listening to your talking and giving your kind advice. They are awesome.🙏🙏🙏

  • @jenifatavares8761
    @jenifatavares8761 2 года назад +10

    Great are your teachings n very beautifully explained...from Goa.

  • @herawijaya9709
    @herawijaya9709 2 года назад +4

    Anumodhana Bhante🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @nisargan9535
    @nisargan9535 2 года назад +70

    How to make peace with our own mistakes! Please do video in this

  • @M.Ojha9435
    @M.Ojha9435 2 года назад +8

    Thank you
    Namo Buddhaya

  • @bhavanasriram2148
    @bhavanasriram2148 2 года назад +9

    Thank you sir 🙏🙏🙏
    Nammo buddhaya 🙏
    By watching videos I have been motivated ,inspired thankyou sir 🙏

    • @kushymathai9821
      @kushymathai9821 2 года назад

      My name is Kushy Mathai live in USA.i really learn a lots of knowledgable informations.you know his name.i want thank him with his precious name.👍👍

  • @neciforaleis3090
    @neciforaleis3090 2 года назад +18

    I feel.blessed having these teachings to experience great peace within me.I feel great having you brother who continually shares to all how to live peacefully in different dimensions in life.YOU are perfectly sent to us to reflect ,realize and renew ourselves to a higher level.of being a good person.Thank you and I subscribe to your page in series.

  • @marciadesouza3314
    @marciadesouza3314 2 года назад +6

    You have taught us something really very nice on how to correct people's mistakes. I just want to say to you in today's world 🌎 people in the first place, should know how to address other people. Can you please talk something about "ANGRY PEOPLE" telling them how control their tempers and how to respect others. I would Love to hear that. 🙏🙌🙏. Thank-you!👏👋👏

  • @lakshmicv9696
    @lakshmicv9696 2 года назад +4

    what a talk! like to hear again & again. All the msgs are mind blowing. I became very quite n soft. Thank you.

  • @savitanaiken9620
    @savitanaiken9620 2 года назад +8

    Thank you very much . Your videos are excellent, whole day I keep on listening to your videos. Now waiting for your next video.....

  • @matarasriyani9256
    @matarasriyani9256 2 года назад +5

    Namo buddhaya! Theruwan saranai.!🙏🙏🙏

  • @k.pathirana.8868
    @k.pathirana.8868 2 года назад +1

    🙏🌺🙏🌺🙏🌺. තෙරුවන් සරණයි. ඔබ වහන්සේට නමස්කාර වේවා. සාදු.සාදු.සාදු.

  • @tikagurung9338
    @tikagurung9338 2 года назад +6

    🙏🙏🙏☸️💐💐💐Wandana BhanteJiu Hajur Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu Bhawatu Sabba Manglam!!!

  • @shashanidhanujika6415
    @shashanidhanujika6415 2 года назад +6

    Namo Bhuddhaya🙏🌸

  • @pemlhamulepcha2815
    @pemlhamulepcha2815 2 года назад +11

    Thank you for such a good lesson.. ❣️

  • @deepalitambe5008
    @deepalitambe5008 2 года назад +4

    Sadu 🌺🌺 Sadu 🌺🌺 Sadu 🌺🌺 Bhante 💐 Namo Buddhay 💐 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @upekhapeiris4159
    @upekhapeiris4159 2 года назад +5

    Namo buddhaya...Theruwan saranai...

  • @thearcherofjustice1492
    @thearcherofjustice1492 Год назад +1

    This reminds me of how I used to deal with such a situation at my former hospital work : I did figure out instinctively that I had best wait for the proper time of the day or week to choose the perfect timing and tell my (hysterical natured but with sense of humor and in excellent mood on specific days to my woman boss 😂 and add a bit of Chocolate treat just before. It always worked ☺️

  • @jennifersmallwood
    @jennifersmallwood 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for this lecture 🙏🏻 I have written down all 5 points by hand and will pin them towards my fridge. I am usually a very kind and loving person but there is one person in my life, that hurts me so much with her words that it is very hard to follow your advise but I will work on this from now on. Buddha has been a great teacher and still is. Thank you for being there for us on this channel. 🙏🏻 Namaste. ❤

  • @suethai7359
    @suethai7359 2 года назад +5

    Namobudhaya thank you so much Ajan🙏🙏🙏

  • @rellisamajam4941
    @rellisamajam4941 2 года назад +6

    Namo buddhaya..🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐💐

  • @sunilagurung1479
    @sunilagurung1479 2 года назад +7

    Namo buddhaye ❤️

  • @sasikumarthiyagarajah521
    @sasikumarthiyagarajah521 2 года назад +8

    Thanks again for the good lesson 🙏

  • @renatobarajasm.3388
    @renatobarajasm.3388 2 года назад +5

    What a lovely person! 😍

    • @kushymathai9821
      @kushymathai9821 2 года назад +1

      Yes he is his words are so precious 👍👍

  • @fx.nugraha9586
    @fx.nugraha9586 2 года назад +6

    Namyo buddha🙏

  • @jyotibharti8449
    @jyotibharti8449 2 года назад +1

    Buddha's teaching give me peace whenever I watch. Thank you🙏

  • @tharukahettiarachchi687
    @tharukahettiarachchi687 2 года назад +1

    I’m a catholic since birth, but this teaching is helping me to over come depression.

    • @jenswohlgemuth6961
      @jenswohlgemuth6961 Год назад

      Thats awsome, good work! Many blessinnngs🙏☸✝❤
      Can also reccomend Ajahn Brahm his teachings are very helpfull, sincere and even relaxing. Helps me deal with stuff too.

  • @sushmabele9510
    @sushmabele9510 2 года назад +5

    Namo Buddhay.💕

  • @erwinmoon9449
    @erwinmoon9449 2 года назад +7

    Thank you for the enlightenment.

  • @sreelakshmisuresh3425
    @sreelakshmisuresh3425 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for being our guru

  • @mounikabantu2383
    @mounikabantu2383 2 года назад +4

    🙏🙏🙏 exactly sir but some people are like this to show mistakes around others... what will do... please show mistakes privately or personally... don't show mistakes around others please 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏and also first to know either that mistake or anything is correct or not to show before others please 🙏🙏🙏

  • @vanisekharjayasriharsha
    @vanisekharjayasriharsha 2 года назад +5

    ☸️ Namo ☸️ Buddhaya ☸️

  • @BCJeewantha
    @BCJeewantha 2 года назад +1

    Namo Bhuddhay I am one of his dama students his indiveidual videos give me peace and solve my everyday problums😊

    • @BCJeewantha
      @BCJeewantha 2 года назад +1

      That is very true he does solve problums with his videos😂😅😊

  • @navakirandandu6107
    @navakirandandu6107 2 года назад +3

    Great solution sir namo budhaya

  • @shrutijoshi553
    @shrutijoshi553 2 года назад +8

    Well explained venerable 🙏

  • @habibi9223
    @habibi9223 2 года назад +9

    Namo buddhay...!🍁
    bhante can you please teach us 32 parts of body meditation...

  • @katylloyd1616
    @katylloyd1616 Год назад

    I just really royally messed up by speaking harshly with someone I was angry with. I immediately felt bad and apologised but I know I have done wrong and want to do better in the future. Thank you for this video

  • @mariabejaranomonge2183
    @mariabejaranomonge2183 2 года назад +4

    Thanks! You are the kindness and compassion in person. 🙏🤗✨✨✨✨

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 2 года назад +1

    බොහෝම පින් ස්වාමීනි .

  • @yasmminkalpesi4605
    @yasmminkalpesi4605 Год назад +1

    Very nice. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹👍👍👍💐💐💐❤️❤️❤️

  • @jsuleman4595
    @jsuleman4595 2 года назад

    This is true wisdom & kindness.
    Do we all not wish to be treated this way.
    Thank you.

  • @shatveekareddy3497
    @shatveekareddy3497 Год назад

    today this teaching gave big awareness ,this teaching saved my friendship , thanks a lot ,Namo buddhaya

  • @shaguftasheikh5337
    @shaguftasheikh5337 Год назад

    What a wonderful a sweet and wonderful way of correcting people, to keep moving forward, without offending. Thank you. 💐❤️💐❤️🙏🙏11:42

  • @olivermatias2349
    @olivermatias2349 2 года назад +5

    ❤️👌💯thank you! 😊😚🙏

  • @Beadbags06
    @Beadbags06 2 года назад +3

    Thank you. Namo Buddhaya🙏

  • @madhuri2551
    @madhuri2551 2 года назад +5

    Thank you so much❤❤❤

  • @alicenarengbam4088
    @alicenarengbam4088 2 года назад +3

    Quite correct Thanks

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 5 месяцев назад

    What a wonderful teacher you are I so needed to see and hear this lesson right now I will take it on board and follow your advice nammobudyha sir ❤️😊🙏

  • @abdullaheusufzai4149
    @abdullaheusufzai4149 Год назад

    Why a brilliant and wise approach …thank you!!

  • @dec66.18
    @dec66.18 2 года назад +2

    As always , great lesson Bhante.Thank you.

  • @nancyparena1685
    @nancyparena1685 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing it's such a great lesson to learn what we need to do especially to our childrens to correct their wrong deeds❤️,🙏

  • @dawnmyatmyint4885
    @dawnmyatmyint4885 Год назад

    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu 🙏🙏🙏Thank you Bhante for your teaching ofBuddha's saying. I Realize five ways of `How to correct a mistake without hurting other's feeling '.🌹🙏

  • @ratnabahadurgurung9850
    @ratnabahadurgurung9850 11 месяцев назад +1

    Namo Buddhaya.

  • @siskazikekana5819
    @siskazikekana5819 2 года назад +1

    You are exceptional. Stay blessed

  • @geethasandran9543
    @geethasandran9543 2 года назад +5

    Something is connecting with all your topic

  • @lambenyengir9673
    @lambenyengir9673 Год назад +1

    Wish you always be healthy n happy

  • @jawaharpawar1425
    @jawaharpawar1425 10 месяцев назад

    Pujaneey bhanteji trivar panchyang parnam namo Buddha namo dhammay namo sanghay Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu

  • @yentenzangmo1953
    @yentenzangmo1953 2 года назад +2

    Watching from Bhutan 🙏💜

  • @SarahBlaylock-u8g
    @SarahBlaylock-u8g Год назад

    Thank you so much for this message. YOU ARE SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON.😊😊

  • @Kaveen4213
    @Kaveen4213 2 года назад +6

    Thankyou

  • @themiserykid
    @themiserykid 2 года назад +2

    Sadly, I dropped out of college and never returned after being humiliated by a professor because I didn't understand the lesson fast enough. He is so right, it damaged my personality. I was so crushed in front of my peers, I left school and still have a phobia of classroom setting to this day! I actually started my own business to avoid college and having to be taught anything I couldn't teach myself, sigh.

    • @Rita-Flora
      @Rita-Flora Год назад

      Io venni umiliato da un professore universitario davanti a tutta la classe e quindi me ne andai.
      Non potevo fare diversamente. Ancora oggi non rieco a dimenticare quanto mi accadde 45 anni fa!

  • @sridarmogar89
    @sridarmogar89 2 года назад +3

    Thank you so much sir.

  • @YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he
    @YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he Год назад

    ❤ never talk about mistakes, we all make them😊. Instead incourage people to create new positive steps. Everybody deserves a second chance nobody is perfect! Nobody and know that we all try our best!

  • @YeniPratiwiSastroDihardjo
    @YeniPratiwiSastroDihardjo Год назад

    In real life, my boss complaining and blaming and yelling at me in front of the whole department. But i won't do the same way. Thank you, Mr. Monk 🙏

  • @virginiacosta1998
    @virginiacosta1998 Год назад

    feel immensely grateful for the messages you convey. With all the knowledge, all the reflection and wisdom that are already part of my daily life. Thanks a thousand!!!🙏🙏💯👏👏💐🤩🇧🇷

  • @Annm9346
    @Annm9346 Год назад

    My problem is dealing with negative people who find joy in trying to make you look bad or place blame on others or are happy to point out your mistakes to make you look bad infront of superiors. It just increases my stress, dealing with a toxic work environment. I am trying to learn to deflect but it is hard.

  • @geraldaligumikiriza6213
    @geraldaligumikiriza6213 2 месяца назад

    Value of profession of some one very good thanks

  • @lizahgondwe4489
    @lizahgondwe4489 2 года назад

    Great teaching and I'm learning from each presentation. Thank you

  • @slnaturerelax9364
    @slnaturerelax9364 2 года назад +3

    Namo buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 Год назад

    Wonderful lesson thankyou 😊❤️

  • @JenniferHobbs-yo2tr
    @JenniferHobbs-yo2tr 7 месяцев назад

    There comes a time when others feelings about a situation do not matter. Know thyself, be thyself, protect thyself by walking your own path without interfering in others paths. 🐍

  • @HH-80
    @HH-80 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing your valuable words and please never stop 🙏🏻

  • @lazzodan9915
    @lazzodan9915 2 года назад +2

    Thank you soo sooooo soooo much

  • @idukkatuamma6003
    @idukkatuamma6003 2 года назад +2

    🙏🙏🙏Thank you

  • @manishamotivates
    @manishamotivates 2 года назад +3

    Grateful!

    • @vambaligowda7535
      @vambaligowda7535 2 года назад

      Where are you from...looks are from Srilanka...I want to learn sinhalese language, how can I learn it...

  • @mebrhithadush
    @mebrhithadush 5 месяцев назад

    thank you very much for your great advice thank again.

  • @VirginiaSado
    @VirginiaSado 4 месяца назад

    Namo Buddaya.🙏Namo Buddaya 🙏

  • @akshatsinha6991
    @akshatsinha6991 2 года назад +2

    Great.

  • @enymlang3095
    @enymlang3095 2 года назад

    Thank you for your great job, and of course for your kind words 🙏

  • @pheachdavuth7474
    @pheachdavuth7474 Год назад

    Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🙏🙏

  • @grannyblaylock623
    @grannyblaylock623 Год назад

    THANK YOU FOR THIS. GREAT MESSAGE.🤗🌹

  • @nandanialgoda9670
    @nandanialgoda9670 Год назад

    Saadhu saadhu saadhu !!!
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @doctorbuddha3023
    @doctorbuddha3023 2 года назад +5

    Jai Bhim Namo Buddhay

  • @oukrojano7390
    @oukrojano7390 2 года назад

    Many thanks for explanation. It is a good advice.

  • @marshalmandi8426
    @marshalmandi8426 Год назад

    Nomo Buddhaya 🙏

  • @barbaravanderkooi7548
    @barbaravanderkooi7548 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻