How to Correct a mistake without Hurting Others Feelings?| Buddhism In English

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  • Опубликовано: 13 июл 2024
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Комментарии • 237

  • @ms.beverly3905
    @ms.beverly3905 2 года назад +100

    I am a Christian since birth, but honestly Buddhist teaching gives me comfort, wisdom and Inner Peace. I Meditate and it cures my deppression, hatred in my heart, jelousy, greed among many others, thanks to this kind of video, it gives us since of direction in this very chaotic world...

    • @krudoh9610
      @krudoh9610 2 года назад

      Did Buddhist believe in Jesus Christ

    • @csflower
      @csflower 2 года назад +3

      @@krudoh9610 I believe Buddha, Moses and Jesus are best friends in the Heavenly realm. Their being born and living among us teaching us Truth has been a part of God’s overall plan to teach every nation. You read the Torah, the New Testament and Buddha teachings they are all the same - religion can separate us and makes us judgmental, or proud, but the core beliefs are the same. We all serve the The One God who created us all when we serve one another.

    • @mariabejaranomonge2183
      @mariabejaranomonge2183 2 года назад

      Just the same! 🙏

    • @myratravin9588
      @myratravin9588 Год назад +2

      You can be a Buddhist and a Christian. I am. ❤️

  • @SarayHDanh
    @SarayHDanh 2 года назад +8

    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu
    Thank Buddha, and
    Thank You!

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 2 года назад +40

    Show a mistake,
    1. In the proper time (when in calm mind)
    2. In private ( not in public)
    3. Truthfull things to the correct person (correct accusation) using kind & gentle words
    4. In a benificial way (praise his good qualities & show the mistake)
    5. Speak with a compassionate heart

  • @nisargan9535
    @nisargan9535 2 года назад +68

    How to make peace with our own mistakes! Please do video in this

  • @M.Ojha9435
    @M.Ojha9435 2 года назад +8

    Thank you
    Namo Buddhaya

  • @sunilagurung1479
    @sunilagurung1479 2 года назад +7

    Namo buddhaye ❤️

  • @evelin9708
    @evelin9708 Год назад +3

    I am realy getting changed with your encourangment please keep it up

  • @pradnyajadhav4437
    @pradnyajadhav4437 2 года назад +11

    Namo buddhay 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹 vandami bhanteji 🙏🙏🙏🌹💐🌹💐🌹🙏🇮🇳🙏🇱🇰🙏🌹

  • @lenaleong4894
    @lenaleong4894 2 года назад +4

    Namo buddhaya🙏🏻

  • @bhumitaudeshi9660
    @bhumitaudeshi9660 2 года назад +8

    Namo buddhay
    🌻🌺

  • @dollym.8095
    @dollym.8095 2 года назад +22

    1. Talk privately when telling the person. Speak to the person who did the mistake directly
    2. Speak gentle and kind words when explaining mistakes. No harsh or rude words
    3. Speak in the right time, not when they are angry, sad etc
    4. Give value to his profession but you are doing the mistake and they harmful efects of it
    5. Speak of loving kindness

  • @vanisekharjayasriharsha
    @vanisekharjayasriharsha 2 года назад +5

    ☸️ Namo ☸️ Buddhaya ☸️

  • @fx.nugraha9586
    @fx.nugraha9586 2 года назад +6

    Namyo buddha🙏

  • @jenifatavares8761
    @jenifatavares8761 2 года назад +10

    Great are your teachings n very beautifully explained...from Goa.

  • @upekhapeiris4159
    @upekhapeiris4159 2 года назад +5

    Namo buddhaya...Theruwan saranai...

  • @rellisamajam4941
    @rellisamajam4941 2 года назад +6

    Namo buddhaya..🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐💐

  • @suethai7359
    @suethai7359 2 года назад +5

    Namobudhaya thank you so much Ajan🙏🙏🙏

  • @shashanidhanujika6415
    @shashanidhanujika6415 2 года назад +6

    Namo Bhuddhaya🙏🌸

  • @radhasen.animalwelfare.5644
    @radhasen.animalwelfare.5644 2 года назад +14

    Subscribed with happiness..
    Buddhism is truly what religion should be - a peaceful, disciplined, thought provoking way of life.
    So much wisdom in Buddhism.
    And unlike other religions such as Islam, Christianity which uses their texts as a matter of convenience and to control...
    Buddhism is so tolerant, teaches non violence, respect for all forms of life, tranquility and the deeper meaning of life.
    Its the most peaceful religion with a live and let live attitude.
    Though I was born a hindu on my father's death anniversary, I did the buddhist prayer.

  • @factas7196
    @factas7196 2 года назад +18

    Our kindness and love is the most powerful weapon in our life 🧬namo bhuddhay

  • @matarasriyani9256
    @matarasriyani9256 2 года назад +5

    Namo buddhaya! Theruwan saranai.!🙏🙏🙏

  • @preethimunna894
    @preethimunna894 2 года назад +6

    Namo Buddhaya🦋❤️❤️❤️❤️🦋

  • @herawijaya9709
    @herawijaya9709 2 года назад +4

    Anumodhana Bhante🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @olivermatias2349
    @olivermatias2349 2 года назад +5

    ❤️👌💯thank you! 😊😚🙏

  • @renatobarajasm.3388
    @renatobarajasm.3388 2 года назад +5

    What a lovely person! 😍

    • @kushymathai9821
      @kushymathai9821 Год назад +1

      Yes he is his words are so precious 👍👍

  • @dinalibhagya1570
    @dinalibhagya1570 2 года назад +12

    i started watching this early in the morning and after that this made my whole day and also in future..always be grateful for these words uttered by this thero..Namo Budhhaya

  • @tikagurung9338
    @tikagurung9338 2 года назад +6

    🙏🙏🙏☸️💐💐💐Wandana BhanteJiu Hajur Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu Bhawatu Sabba Manglam!!!

  • @Sollozo1053
    @Sollozo1053 2 года назад +28

    Wisdom is with us. Try to realize that.❤

  • @shrutijoshi553
    @shrutijoshi553 2 года назад +8

    Well explained venerable 🙏

  • @sasikumarthiyagarajah521
    @sasikumarthiyagarajah521 2 года назад +8

    Thanks again for the good lesson 🙏

  • @suram4213
    @suram4213 2 года назад +6

    Thankyou

  • @sushmabele9510
    @sushmabele9510 2 года назад +5

    Namo Buddhay.💕

  • @pemlhamulepcha2815
    @pemlhamulepcha2815 2 года назад +11

    Thank you for such a good lesson.. ❣️

  • @astheticshorts5602
    @astheticshorts5602 2 года назад +3

    Thank you. Namo Buddhaya🙏

  • @shalinibhagat3282
    @shalinibhagat3282 2 года назад +8

    Namo buddhay and Vandami Bhante it’s awesome to hear the words of wisdom.

  • @habibi9223
    @habibi9223 2 года назад +9

    Namo buddhay...!🍁
    bhante can you please teach us 32 parts of body meditation...

  • @thiruselvammalarvizhi5429
    @thiruselvammalarvizhi5429 2 года назад +7

    This is mind blowing. Love from TN (India)

  • @karenng848
    @karenng848 2 года назад +13

    Love listening to your talking and giving your kind advice. They are awesome.🙏🙏🙏

  • @savitanaiken9620
    @savitanaiken9620 2 года назад +8

    Thank you very much . Your videos are excellent, whole day I keep on listening to your videos. Now waiting for your next video.....

  • @navakirandandu6107
    @navakirandandu6107 2 года назад +3

    Great solution sir namo budhaya

  • @geethasandran9543
    @geethasandran9543 2 года назад +5

    Something is connecting with all your topic

  • @bhavanasriram2148
    @bhavanasriram2148 2 года назад +9

    Thank you sir 🙏🙏🙏
    Nammo buddhaya 🙏
    By watching videos I have been motivated ,inspired thankyou sir 🙏

    • @kushymathai9821
      @kushymathai9821 Год назад

      My name is Kushy Mathai live in USA.i really learn a lots of knowledgable informations.you know his name.i want thank him with his precious name.👍👍

  • @jocelynpinatang2665
    @jocelynpinatang2665 2 года назад +8

    it always give peace and wisdom..on how to deal with others..big thank you..

  • @reborn4450
    @reborn4450 Год назад +2

    Thank you for your kind wisdom. I have to say that I watched this video all too late. As I made all of these mistakes with my former boss. I brought up my former bosses mistakes while there were other bosses around. I didn't realize this made the boss look bad. And I regret it but I cannot go back and fix anything because I have already left the job on an unpleasant note. I really wish I knew all of this before. Now I feel really bad. Now I see why the boss thought I was looking for trouble when in actuality, those were not my intentions. I was trying to prove why I was making mistakes because I didn't know better. But now I know better.

  • @erwinmoon9449
    @erwinmoon9449 2 года назад +7

    Thank you for the enlightenment.

  • @sivapalanmayuran3093
    @sivapalanmayuran3093 2 года назад +5

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @sreelakshmisuresh3425
    @sreelakshmisuresh3425 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for being our guru

  • @deepalitambe5008
    @deepalitambe5008 2 года назад +4

    Sadu 🌺🌺 Sadu 🌺🌺 Sadu 🌺🌺 Bhante 💐 Namo Buddhay 💐 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @marciadesouza3314
    @marciadesouza3314 2 года назад +6

    You have taught us something really very nice on how to correct people's mistakes. I just want to say to you in today's world 🌎 people in the first place, should know how to address other people. Can you please talk something about "ANGRY PEOPLE" telling them how control their tempers and how to respect others. I would Love to hear that. 🙏🙌🙏. Thank-you!👏👋👏

  • @yentenzangmo1953
    @yentenzangmo1953 2 года назад +2

    Watching from Bhutan 🙏💜

  • @alicenarengbam4088
    @alicenarengbam4088 2 года назад +3

    Quite correct Thanks

  • @mounikabantu2383
    @mounikabantu2383 2 года назад +4

    🙏🙏🙏 exactly sir but some people are like this to show mistakes around others... what will do... please show mistakes privately or personally... don't show mistakes around others please 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏and also first to know either that mistake or anything is correct or not to show before others please 🙏🙏🙏

  • @lakshmicv9696
    @lakshmicv9696 2 года назад +4

    what a talk! like to hear again & again. All the msgs are mind blowing. I became very quite n soft. Thank you.

  • @jamisedenari2449
    @jamisedenari2449 2 года назад +6

    Some people dont understand nice words.

  • @neciforaleis3090
    @neciforaleis3090 2 года назад +18

    I feel.blessed having these teachings to experience great peace within me.I feel great having you brother who continually shares to all how to live peacefully in different dimensions in life.YOU are perfectly sent to us to reflect ,realize and renew ourselves to a higher level.of being a good person.Thank you and I subscribe to your page in series.

  • @slnaturerelax9364
    @slnaturerelax9364 2 года назад +3

    Namo buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @madhuri2551
    @madhuri2551 2 года назад +5

    Thank you so much❤❤❤

  • @doctorbuddha3023
    @doctorbuddha3023 2 года назад +5

    Jai Bhim Namo Buddhay

  • @rter1568
    @rter1568 Год назад +2

    Namo buddhaya..!

  • @mariabejaranomonge2183
    @mariabejaranomonge2183 2 года назад +4

    Thanks! You are the kindness and compassion in person. 🙏🤗✨✨✨✨

  • @akshatsinha6991
    @akshatsinha6991 2 года назад +2

    Great.

  • @teetrav
    @teetrav Год назад +1

    I used to be harsh on people that made mistakes until I realized that mistakes are what makes us human what makes us have humility what makes us more compassionate towards one another and the opportunity to correct it is even better

  • @manishamotivates
    @manishamotivates 2 года назад +3

    Grateful!

    • @vambaligowda7535
      @vambaligowda7535 Год назад

      Where are you from...looks are from Srilanka...I want to learn sinhalese language, how can I learn it...

  • @k.pathirana.8868
    @k.pathirana.8868 2 года назад +1

    🙏🌺🙏🌺🙏🌺. තෙරුවන් සරණයි. ඔබ වහන්සේට නමස්කාර වේවා. සාදු.සාදු.සාදු.

  • @jennifersmallwood
    @jennifersmallwood Год назад +2

    Thank you for this lecture 🙏🏻 I have written down all 5 points by hand and will pin them towards my fridge. I am usually a very kind and loving person but there is one person in my life, that hurts me so much with her words that it is very hard to follow your advise but I will work on this from now on. Buddha has been a great teacher and still is. Thank you for being there for us on this channel. 🙏🏻 Namaste. ❤

  • @thearcherofjustice1492
    @thearcherofjustice1492 Год назад +1

    This reminds me of how I used to deal with such a situation at my former hospital work : I did figure out instinctively that I had best wait for the proper time of the day or week to choose the perfect timing and tell my (hysterical natured but with sense of humor and in excellent mood on specific days to my woman boss 😂 and add a bit of Chocolate treat just before. It always worked ☺️

  • @tharukahettiarachchi687
    @tharukahettiarachchi687 Год назад +1

    I’m a catholic since birth, but this teaching is helping me to over come depression.

    • @jenswohlgemuth6961
      @jenswohlgemuth6961 8 месяцев назад

      Thats awsome, good work! Many blessinnngs🙏☸✝❤
      Can also reccomend Ajahn Brahm his teachings are very helpfull, sincere and even relaxing. Helps me deal with stuff too.

  • @idukkatuamma6003
    @idukkatuamma6003 2 года назад +2

    🙏🙏🙏Thank you

  • @chathuriniyapa691
    @chathuriniyapa691 2 года назад +4

    ❤️🙏

  • @morungzkanz3665
    @morungzkanz3665 2 года назад +10

    Wanna meet you in real life my Guru

  • @jyotibharti8449
    @jyotibharti8449 Год назад +1

    Buddha's teaching give me peace whenever I watch. Thank you🙏

  • @nadz5182
    @nadz5182 2 года назад +3

    🌸🙏

  • @sridarmogar89
    @sridarmogar89 2 года назад +3

    Thank you so much sir.

  • @yasmminkalpesi4605
    @yasmminkalpesi4605 Год назад +1

    Very nice. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹👍👍👍💐💐💐❤️❤️❤️

  • @ratnabahadurgurung9850
    @ratnabahadurgurung9850 6 месяцев назад +1

    Namo Buddhaya.

  • @dec66.18
    @dec66.18 2 года назад +2

    As always , great lesson Bhante.Thank you.

  • @sudhakarreddypolam2432
    @sudhakarreddypolam2432 Год назад +2

    🛕🙏NAMO BUDDHAYA 🙏🙏NAMO NARAYANA 🙏🛕

  • @BCJeewantha
    @BCJeewantha Год назад +1

    Namo Bhuddhay I am one of his dama students his indiveidual videos give me peace and solve my everyday problums😊

    • @BCJeewantha
      @BCJeewantha Год назад +1

      That is very true he does solve problums with his videos😂😅😊

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 День назад

    What a wonderful teacher you are I so needed to see and hear this lesson right now I will take it on board and follow your advice nammobudyha sir ❤️😊🙏

  • @lambenyengir9673
    @lambenyengir9673 Год назад +1

    Wish you always be healthy n happy

  • @siskazikekana5819
    @siskazikekana5819 Год назад +1

    You are exceptional. Stay blessed

  • @lazzodan9915
    @lazzodan9915 2 года назад +2

    Thank you soo sooooo soooo much

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 2 года назад +1

    බොහෝම පින් ස්වාමීනි .

  • @dr.rachnaarora4498
    @dr.rachnaarora4498 2 года назад +3

    🙏🙏

  • @sirikorngulati455
    @sirikorngulati455 2 года назад +5

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @DC-cb6pf
    @DC-cb6pf 2 года назад +4

    🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️

  • @mysilentpoetry
    @mysilentpoetry 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much 💖🙏

  • @nancyparena1685
    @nancyparena1685 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing it's such a great lesson to learn what we need to do especially to our childrens to correct their wrong deeds❤️,🙏

  • @flowergirl7260
    @flowergirl7260 Год назад +1

    thank you.

  • @shaguftasheikh5337
    @shaguftasheikh5337 9 месяцев назад

    What a wonderful a sweet and wonderful way of correcting people, to keep moving forward, without offending. Thank you. 💐❤️💐❤️🙏🙏11:42

  • @abdullaheusufzai4149
    @abdullaheusufzai4149 Год назад

    Why a brilliant and wise approach …thank you!!

  • @themiserykid
    @themiserykid Год назад +2

    Sadly, I dropped out of college and never returned after being humiliated by a professor because I didn't understand the lesson fast enough. He is so right, it damaged my personality. I was so crushed in front of my peers, I left school and still have a phobia of classroom setting to this day! I actually started my own business to avoid college and having to be taught anything I couldn't teach myself, sigh.

    • @Rita-Flora
      @Rita-Flora Год назад

      Io venni umiliato da un professore universitario davanti a tutta la classe e quindi me ne andai.
      Non potevo fare diversamente. Ancora oggi non rieco a dimenticare quanto mi accadde 45 anni fa!

  • @jsuleman4595
    @jsuleman4595 Год назад

    This is true wisdom & kindness.
    Do we all not wish to be treated this way.
    Thank you.

  • @user-mr9eb5dr1i
    @user-mr9eb5dr1i 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for this message. YOU ARE SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON.😊😊

  • @jawaharpawar1425
    @jawaharpawar1425 5 месяцев назад

    Pujaneey bhanteji trivar panchyang parnam namo Buddha namo dhammay namo sanghay Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu

  • @nuwansampath7348
    @nuwansampath7348 2 года назад +5

    Sadu Sadu Sadu!!!

  • @vishakhawadavrao2461
    @vishakhawadavrao2461 2 года назад +4

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @MartinezGodhand
    @MartinezGodhand 2 года назад +2

    💕

  • @enymlang3095
    @enymlang3095 Год назад

    Thank you for your great job, and of course for your kind words 🙏

  • @virginiacosta1998
    @virginiacosta1998 Год назад

    feel immensely grateful for the messages you convey. With all the knowledge, all the reflection and wisdom that are already part of my daily life. Thanks a thousand!!!🙏🙏💯👏👏💐🤩🇧🇷