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  • Опубликовано: 26 янв 2022
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  • @raquelparcon4334
    @raquelparcon4334 2 года назад +150

    Hi... Im a filipina a catholic. Im so inspired by your message. Everyday ikeep on following yourmessage ihave my ballpen and a note book then ijot it down. Then i share it to some of my friends. They like it too. Thank s for those inspirable message. God bless.....

    • @wizards8882000
      @wizards8882000 2 года назад +2

      Aq din po… nakaka tulong mga teachings nya..

    • @anojagallage5845
      @anojagallage5845 2 года назад +1

      Great job 👌

    • @jocelynpinatang2665
      @jocelynpinatang2665 2 года назад +1

      me too

    • @formycountry373
      @formycountry373 Год назад +4

      Dear
      you should think of taking some lessons about Buddhism
      when you learn more you will love Buddhism
      truth comes only from Buddhism

    • @urmila16
      @urmila16 Год назад

      True wisdom is universal. Jesus Buddha Krishna Krishna Mohammedall came to earth to teach us wisdom and skilful compassionate living.

  • @sakuta5868
    @sakuta5868 2 года назад +22

    Most peacfull religion.Buddhism indeed. 😇😇 bless you all Buddhist.🙏

  • @shyam9136
    @shyam9136 Год назад +9

    You bring me real buddism. Thank you

  • @kellyli7520
    @kellyli7520 2 года назад +98

    I have been studying Buddhism since 1990. It really helped me overcome a lot of difficulties and enlighten me everyday. I become a very calm and positive person. I watch you everyday now. Really appreciate your teach(开示)🙏🙏🙏

  • @catherinenemoto2605
    @catherinenemoto2605 2 года назад +36

    Hello I’m a Filipina and half Japanese living in Tokyo ,I really love your inspirational advices and I’m always following you.

  • @chonazagala63
    @chonazagala63 2 года назад +119

    Thankyou for inspirable message ..I am a christian catholic but I like and keep listening all the inspirable message from you...🙏🙏🙏

  • @bobbitt8165
    @bobbitt8165 Год назад +9

    I love to listen my suprime Buddha's teachings 😇

  • @jayshriathawale6527
    @jayshriathawale6527 2 года назад +38

    🙏Nmo Buddhay 🙏 it's very diffcult to keep calm ourself when someone makes arguments with you by making excuses .but I try to control myself and I don't say something to that person ,let him happy ,let him win,Lord Buddha says , truth can never hide.

  • @happinessofdhamma7933
    @happinessofdhamma7933 2 года назад +9

    Triple gem bless you monk may you attain the supreme bliss of nibbana🙏🙏🙏

  • @itsmemahesh9451
    @itsmemahesh9451 Год назад +14

    Well said, I argued with one of my friends later that argument turned into a fight now we both are not speaking. If I could have seen this video one month back I could have handled the situation very well. I will follow the methods which have been taught in this video in all situations. Thank you so much for this video 😊

  • @anushkavinoop7b662
    @anushkavinoop7b662 Год назад +4

    Nmo buddhay 🙏 i want to adopt buddhism, when I grow up i want to become a monk like you. I love to stay patient and calm . Supreme Buddha's words are really inspiring.

  • @musungafuture7135
    @musungafuture7135 2 года назад +5

    I just need to sit next to you and listen to your wise words 🙏🏻

  • @thilinianuruddhikajayasing3678
    @thilinianuruddhikajayasing3678 2 года назад +22

    Reverent sir, may you have the noble bliss of supreme buddha!!! නමෝ බුද්ධාය!!! තෙරුවන් සරණයි!!! සාදු! සාදු!! සාදු!!!

  • @vikterathnayaka
    @vikterathnayaka 2 года назад +7

    නමෝ බුද්ධාය ස්වාමීන් වහන්ස තෙරුවන් සරණයි 🙏🙏🙏

  • @satheeshaprethibhani56
    @satheeshaprethibhani56 2 года назад +7

    නමෝ බුද්ධාය තෙරුවන් සරණයි ස්වාමින්වහන්ස 🙏🙏🙏

  • @lidiadimitrijevic7708
    @lidiadimitrijevic7708 Год назад +6

    Hvala puno izgovorenim recima . Negde duboko u sebi otkrivam da verujem u ono sto govorite i da me motivisete uvek kad je ispred mene dva puta a ja nisam sigurna koji mene vodi do mog mira.

  • @faridachitoe7973
    @faridachitoe7973 Год назад +3

    Thank you brother.
    You are to cool.
    Your voice brings so much peace.

  • @jyotivyas9286
    @jyotivyas9286 2 года назад +11

    Beautiful Advice By Great Sant And Rishi Sariputta ✌🏼🕉️🙏🏻Namoh Buddhay ✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼🕉️🙏🏻❤️💐🌞
    Thank you Dear Respectfull Gurujee 🕉️🙏🏻🕉️✌🏼🌞 Aabhar

  • @nishanbarua348
    @nishanbarua348 2 года назад +4

    'Namo Buddhaya" 🙏🙏🙏 love from Bangladesh.

  • @j.a.damayanthiperera5143
    @j.a.damayanthiperera5143 2 года назад +5

    Teruvan saranai saddu sadu sadu

  • @manjulaniroshinie5257
    @manjulaniroshinie5257 Год назад +6

    I really appreciate ur efforts of teaching Buddhism in this manner.its easy simple language style that even children can understand easily.👍
    Explaining every scripture quotes of Sanskrit is so interestingly done.
    I suggest this kind of sermons should be done in schools during poya programs.
    It's so interesting to listen and we fall in to it magically to listen more and more .
    Theruwan saranai hamuduruwane 🙏🙏🙏
    May u receive more courage to get the people out of the ditch .🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @carmenfonseca6603
    @carmenfonseca6603 2 года назад +6

    I'm really trying hard to rewire my mind to stay cool.

  • @prembikash9948
    @prembikash9948 2 года назад +19

    I am motivating myself by listening your great advice. I bow down my head to you with full of reverence

  • @shrutijoshi553
    @shrutijoshi553 2 года назад +12

    Vandami Bhanteji 🙏🌷 nice dhamma desana . I do agree . I did masters in Clinical Psychology & post graduation in mental health and Counseling as well as post graduation in Buddha's psychology and psychotherapy .... Doing Vipassana meditation since 2017 twice in a day for one hour each ... Doing PhD on topic with alignment of clinical psychology with abhidhamma ... Your all discourses are really to the point , need is application by people to save themselves & others from suffering. Lots of METTA to all kind people

  • @okblve4102
    @okblve4102 2 года назад +5

    Be cool
    Be Truthful
    Thank you for this!

  • @Manike-ub2nw
    @Manike-ub2nw 8 месяцев назад +1

    I will remember these 2 points, thank you. I had a problem with anger but I have controlled it with loving kindness meditation. Namo buddhaya 🙏

  • @christinemaddy6164
    @christinemaddy6164 Год назад +3

    I've experience that family members even accused you for the thing you did not do
    So here, thank you Amitofo for sharing😘🙏

  • @kavindunuwan
    @kavindunuwan 2 года назад +6

    Namo Buddhaya...!!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @kirtirazsolanki984
    @kirtirazsolanki984 2 года назад +7

    🙏☸️NAMO BHUDHAI 🙏☸️

  • @kanchanaranathunga9750
    @kanchanaranathunga9750 Год назад +2

    Marvellous advice. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏

  • @janakachandrasekera39
    @janakachandrasekera39 Год назад +1

    නමෝ බුද්ධාය .
    Venerable Thero,
    May you realize the "Four Noble Truths" in this Gautama Buddha's Dispensation.
    තෙරුවන් සරණයි!

  • @k-stark-star2724
    @k-stark-star2724 9 месяцев назад +1

    Namoo buddhaya. !!!! I am listening your vedios every morning. Very useful for our lives. Really appreciate the way that your explain as every single word touching our heart. තෙරුවන් සරනයි ඔබවහන්සේට නීරෝගීබව, දීර්ඝ ආයුශ ලැබේවා !!!🙏🙏🙏

  • @andrewd1885
    @andrewd1885 Год назад +4

    I am grateful for these wise and succinct videos. I feel they bring the teachings of Buddhism to a practical and understandable level. Thank you.

  • @pavithraprasadanee3316
    @pavithraprasadanee3316 2 года назад +4

    නමෝ බුද්ධාය ...!🙏🙏🙏

  • @anilmallawarachchi9978
    @anilmallawarachchi9978 2 года назад +3

    Thank you.
    Theruwan Saranai hamuduruwane 🙏🏻

  • @Abeysinghe6
    @Abeysinghe6 2 года назад +6

    Namo buddhaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @rogercanik1925
    @rogercanik1925 2 года назад +7

    Thank you Venerable for sharing your profound Dharma talk in English. I’m so grateful 🙏🙏🙏

  • @roscross
    @roscross Год назад +2

    Thankyou for your writeings about arguments, i like to stay quiet and calm when my friend tries to argue with me, i am a peaseful mind, so i listen and say nothing, i find it the best way,thankou, rose

  • @SomosLaNuevaEra
    @SomosLaNuevaEra 2 года назад +38

    Whoever is listening this: May your heart be blessed Whoever is listening this: May your heart be blessed ❤

  • @yasmminkalpesi4605
    @yasmminkalpesi4605 Год назад +1

    Very nice. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹👍👍👍💐💐💐❤️❤️❤️

  • @krishnagurung8408
    @krishnagurung8408 Год назад +1

    I’m Buddhist I followed exactly as videos I have never regrets in my life but remember there is few people in this world and lots of people talking advantage. So I’m quite person.

  • @hasipin6340
    @hasipin6340 2 года назад +4

    May the tripple Gem bless you venerable thero 🙏🙏🙏

  • @jeyanthishanmugam2447
    @jeyanthishanmugam2447 Год назад +1

    Right from my childhood onwards I love Buddha's preaching which I studied in Social science subject

  • @cindypen3426
    @cindypen3426 Год назад +1

    Namo Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹thank you for teaching us

  • @armiroseserioso4820
    @armiroseserioso4820 26 дней назад

    Im a catholic frm Philippines,im always watching ur video

  • @sapumalwimalasiri4013
    @sapumalwimalasiri4013 2 года назад +6

    Venerable Sir I appreciate the way you interpret Lord Buddhas message the way people can practice .
    නමෝ බුද්ඨාය,
    තෙරැවන් සරණයි !

  • @antonietamariainaciagomes4230
    @antonietamariainaciagomes4230 Год назад +2

    God bless you dear Buddha 🙏 for the lovely quotes 🙏 ❤️

  • @uvsourcing2251
    @uvsourcing2251 2 года назад +4

    🙏 most valuable lesson for my life

  • @ucheuguru4084
    @ucheuguru4084 Год назад +2

    You're helping me a lot. I was feeling down in the past but your videos are uplifting. Thank you so much

  • @dhirajwagh7050
    @dhirajwagh7050 День назад

    U r back ground music flows so melodious that sometimes I forgot ur sermon and just go with the music...Naamo Budhya Monk ji ur fabulous..

  • @diluweragoda3848
    @diluweragoda3848 Год назад +7

    Venerable sir, so glad to hear your explanations. I would be grateful if you could tell me how to deal with a person who is acussing continously for about years for some thing i didn't do. I am tried of listening to those things. Can't even go away from him . Please explain this .

    • @mariehaverty8209
      @mariehaverty8209 Год назад

      What people do or say to us is none of our business❤🙏🏽

  • @AC-gn9vn
    @AC-gn9vn 2 года назад +3

    You have such a peaceful face,your parents must be so proud of you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sujatashroff6385
    @sujatashroff6385 2 года назад +2

    Just love your voice and the way you say it. You are very very coooool. And sweet. ❤️💗😀

  • @murthyds5878
    @murthyds5878 2 года назад +2

    I have seen people who are very calm in an argument, but they bluff and have their way. Hence, the second tip is an important learning in this. Thank you bhante

  • @JB-ox7ib
    @JB-ox7ib 2 года назад +4

    It’s a big ask not to be angry in a difficult situation. I think we all know not to get angry, and that anger is destructive.

    • @padmarao5563
      @padmarao5563 2 года назад +1

      I appreciate ur calm and composed presentation
      With an endearing. Voice.thank u very much

  • @lisadeker6489
    @lisadeker6489 Год назад +1

    Great thoughts/insights. No music needed.

  • @rebeccajamieson4069
    @rebeccajamieson4069 2 года назад +6

    NAMO BUDDHAYA 🙏🙏🙏

  • @marinasharma782
    @marinasharma782 2 года назад +7

    O LEARNED ONE Sometimes i argue to save my child from beating
    And in the bargain i hurt myself i hear harsh words and cry all to myself
    Yes i do that very often at time yes i feel hurt i lied to my husband
    I REGRET LATER and repent as well thankyou thankyou thankyou God bless you

  • @parvathiiyer9759
    @parvathiiyer9759 2 года назад +4

    What a great explanation ji 🙏

  • @daisydaruwalla4189
    @daisydaruwalla4189 2 года назад +8

    Thank you for the inspiring messages. I am not a Catholic or a Christian but I still get a great deal of inspiration from these messages. They teach us the true facts about life amd the correct way of living it. Thanks you once again.

  • @basavarajkaujalgi3947
    @basavarajkaujalgi3947 11 месяцев назад

    🙏😇||नमो बुद्धाय|| 😇🙏

  • @kalwantkaur4802
    @kalwantkaur4802 2 года назад +5

    Awesome thanks for beautiful advice well said keep inspiring all of us God bless you always

  • @johnpanakaldominic7009
    @johnpanakaldominic7009 Год назад +1

    Very useful in every ones daily life. Thank you so much for your wonderful message

  • @grannyblaylock623
    @grannyblaylock623 Год назад +1

    THANK YOU. I NEED TO HEAR THIS NOW ..🙏🙏🌹❤️🤗

  • @dilukamadusanka
    @dilukamadusanka Год назад +1

    පින්වත් ස්වාමීන් වහන්සේට මාගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා !

  • @maddalaashokkumar5197
    @maddalaashokkumar5197 Год назад +2

    Anger is failure.. Anger Is a fault.. People are angry always are weak 🙏🙏🙏its true nice words guruji

  • @maryoconnell4698
    @maryoconnell4698 2 года назад +20

    Excellent advice and wisdom! I so feel benefitted from listening to you!

  • @eleanortan3366
    @eleanortan3366 6 месяцев назад

    My new year resolution . listening to ur teaching .This is to improve myself. I felt I need to change my persona after listening to ur teaching . I have full of anger and blaming g others. Thank you for ur teaching .

  • @KVVijay-ol8oy
    @KVVijay-ol8oy 2 года назад +3

    Very true .Thanks a lot for the message.

  • @latharajan8132
    @latharajan8132 2 года назад +3

    Thankyou for your message really it's very essential now for me i m with full stressed with family problems so inspiring messages brother i once thankyou for your message

  • @latharajan8132
    @latharajan8132 2 года назад +1

    Full depression i m with full of worries and very burdened heart i relaxed by hearing your words

  • @j.a.damayanthiperera5143
    @j.a.damayanthiperera5143 2 года назад +4

    Namo Buddaya

  • @gayatrimohapatra1203
    @gayatrimohapatra1203 2 года назад +3

    Thank you sir for sharing this noble message

  • @hindipatang8204
    @hindipatang8204 2 года назад +3

    Thank you so much for these inspirational video and tips. Thank you

  • @donnaowen8417
    @donnaowen8417 2 года назад +8

    Thank you! So nice to listen to your loving calm voice. Glad I found this channel!

  • @SarayHDanh
    @SarayHDanh 2 года назад

    Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu
    Thank Buddha, and
    Thank You

  • @soumyas7677
    @soumyas7677 2 года назад +3

    Thanks you so much for your valuable message.. I love your videos 😊

  • @prempehama
    @prempehama 2 года назад +2

    Thank you great Teacher 🙏🏽

  • @radhiuamkhan5709
    @radhiuamkhan5709 2 года назад

    thank you very much sir , God bless you given your life fatefully. 🙏🏻

  • @happycorner850
    @happycorner850 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for your valuable words. 🌸

  • @normacarballo1608
    @normacarballo1608 2 года назад +1

    Thanz to ur message very touching God bless

  • @kasunisasanthika6493
    @kasunisasanthika6493 2 года назад +3

    Namo Buddhaya🙏☸️

  • @suethai7359
    @suethai7359 2 года назад +1

    Sathu Sathu Sathu 🙏🙏🙏 Thank thank so much Ajan🙏

  • @hasipin6340
    @hasipin6340 2 года назад +3

    Namo Budhdaya 🙏🙏🙏

  • @StepOFFGeorge.
    @StepOFFGeorge. 5 месяцев назад

    I tell my kids this is what it means to be cool. Cool is the ability to understand, accept, and make the most of the situation

  • @rezinaakhter9915
    @rezinaakhter9915 Год назад

    Hi suprim dear always speak the truth it is good for life !! U teach us ! Thanks 🙏🙏🙏

  • @bamangbam7408
    @bamangbam7408 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much. 😇.... Jst now I got into argument..i got angry little bit.. And this video pop out for me. Thankyou god.😇

  • @PriyaSingh-dc2qb
    @PriyaSingh-dc2qb 2 года назад +1

    Thankyou so much universe ❤️❤️

  • @gkukel
    @gkukel Год назад

    What a valuable advice. Anyone can relate to it. Both religious or atheist can relate to it.

  • @virgiaventajado244
    @virgiaventajado244 2 года назад

    Imrelated this and im laughing becauseirs true.thanks GOD BLESSED.

  • @arlenebautista1934
    @arlenebautista1934 Год назад +1

    thanks you very much for your inspiring advice

  • @satyaratnashaurya062
    @satyaratnashaurya062 Год назад +1

    Vandami Bhante ji
    It is very inspiring and useful video for our daily life.

  • @rajrajput8989
    @rajrajput8989 2 года назад +1

    I really like your simple explanation it's needed

  • @prabhakark2642
    @prabhakark2642 2 года назад

    Thanks for making me cool & wise.

  • @rubynewby3519
    @rubynewby3519 Год назад +3

    Very interesting and inspiring 👏love your messages ❤

  • @tempesnyder6243
    @tempesnyder6243 Год назад +6

    As always, wonderful information; presented so lovingly and beautifully!

  • @madisoncarrillo777
    @madisoncarrillo777 Год назад +1

    this was great advice, thank you for the message

  • @judethomas4216
    @judethomas4216 Год назад +2

    Thank you Buddha for answering this question. You were God sent in my life🙏🙏😊😊❤️❤️

  • @universe4242
    @universe4242 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much 💕💕🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @awaremotivation5468
    @awaremotivation5468 Год назад

    Namo buddhaye Bhante ji 🙏🌷🙏