Hey thanks for trusting my product. And yes, you can do it. It just takes a bit amount of self discipline and courage. Have a little faith and trust yourself, trust the process, yeah?
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Tried everything including begging? Because that would absolutely dwindle your chances. Anyway getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
I don’t know if this’ll be my last update but I gave up on trying to win him back, I’m in a new relationship with a guy that really cares about me and his made me feel so happy 😊
Good! Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
What if it seems like there is too much hurt and resentment to overcome? I didn't cheat but my ex feels betrayed because I prioritized someone else when she really needed me. In her mind there's no way to come back from that. The good news is there's still anger and tears that come out indicating she's still emotionally invested, but she seems to continue to distance herself.
What were the issues in your relationship and how were you two handling it? Are the issues resolvable? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
The short answer is here: ruclips.net/video/T_W_ilf9x6w/видео.html and how you have little to no control over your ex's actions during this stage, here: ruclips.net/video/WVB0_l60SpM/видео.html The first phase where you employ the 30-day "no contact" rule is the recovery phase, the next two phases are geared towards re-attracting and rekindling that lost attraction with your ex. This is known as my 3R system found in the guide. So to answer your question, yes, your ex can become really distant emotionally, mentally, and physically but this is why you have the two other phases to get an ex back. Here's an overview to help you understand: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html while here's a more condensed version here: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw Good luck!
Hey brad me and my girlfriend broke up 2 days ago .I started no contact (And i wont reach out to her im determined).I have a lot of work to do on myself and im gonna keep myself busy.The problem is that i am chef and i post food on instagram and she likes everything that i post what do i do ?
Don't let it affect you. Just play it cool and let her react to your posts for as long as she wants. It's all about self control. And you can actually leverage social media to your advantage. Here's how: ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html
Nice video, but not helpful, because my ex's desire is for the guy she left me for... she made that clear by not caring about anything that I did after she left me. I proved to her that I could make the changes she wanted me to make by actually making them. She won't see me so I can't be physical with her, but I texted her in the same way that used to get her hot 'n heavy, yet never got reciprocation. I fixed the issues I had, but she didn't care. I can't play on her loneliness because she's already seeing another guy.
Hey brad thanks for your videos, It's been about 3 months since she told me that she wants us to break up, since then at first I was especially desperate and I was sending her messages, then for 2 weeks we didn't talk at all, then I made an effort and she told me that she was giving me a second chance until before 10 days he told me he doesn't want me anymore and told me to stop. From now on I intend to send nothing and look after myself. Do I still have a chance if I apply the no contact rule ?
I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: ruclips.net/video/ZyJRphwDca4/видео.html and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
hey Brad as of right now im following ur tips about no contact and I was wondering about something, I took a picture with another girl and we were like really really close, is it a good idea to post it to make her jealous ?
Hi Brad, thank you for the video. For the last point of keeping distance, would they feel loneliness if they monkey-branched? I am already keeping my distance, but he is with other women, so I am not sure how it will work out. Anyway, been in No Contact for almost 2 months now.
Hey Brad. So my ex dumped me yesterday. We only dated for about a month and a half, but the relationship was extremely healthy and had no issues. Long story short she had a really messy break up with her ex, and it gave her a lot of anxiety issues. I had talked to her several times saying that if she wasn’t emotionally ready that was okay. Long story short, she said that she realized she wasn’t ready for a relationship after all and that she rushed into things. We have not talked in two days and I don’t know where to take things. A reply would be greatly appreciated! Keep up the good work
Hi! Issues won't prop up until you get to know each other better, through time. Consider moving on from this, especially if it was just a fling to either you or your short-term ex. Sorry bit there may not be anything to rebuild here if that's the case because there wasn't any long term bonding or attraction that naturally develops in long term or serious relationships, especially if things got bad between you real quick because of the mistakes. On the brighter side, here's how the "no contact" rule will work for you, though: ruclips.net/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/видео.html However, you may want to improve your dating skills and Amy North may has a ton of tips on what to do about that, so check out her channel, too. Take care!
Hi Brad, I actually subscribed to your 1 on 1 coaching and sent you the first email 2 days ago, it had been more than 48 hours now and i still haven't got anything back yet. Just wondering if I should wait a bit more or something went wrong? I didn't get any kind of email that my first email have been sent neither. All I got is a confirmation of the payment from PayPal, if you could reply back that would be great thank you!
Hi, thanks for signing up. Have you received the coaching form? If you haven't, please contact support at support.exfactorguide.com as it could be a technical issue. Otherwise please take note of the time frame indicated since I need to review your situation thoroughly and have to cater to others who came before you. The timeframe is within 48 to 72 hours from when you submitted the coaching form back to me upon successful signup. Thanks for your understanding and talk soon!
Been in no contact for a few months. Lol he sent money to me without any word. This really made me wonder. I think he is trying to make me initiate a conversation.
my ex broke up with me saying how she didnt feel like we shared enough interests and love isnt enough. We have had been together for 5 years since highschool. She is very indecisive and goes back and forth alot eventually saying now that i think about it we do have alot in common which is why we broke up. when i dropped off her cloths she had at my house she sent a text saying how they still smelled like me and she just sat there and cried untill her face went dumb but she doesnt regret her decision.
I'm sorry to hear that. It's heartbreaking indeed when something like this happens. Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/ZuHWCWeG1xs/видео.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my new version of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
How do you do no contact when you have kids and still see eachother everyday and he still acts like he lives at your house but just sleeps in his truck!?
If you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
Hey Brad, thanks for all the work you do. After following your advice, my stubborn and avoidant ex gf are talking again. However she unblocked after going through some heavy traumatic times. While I'd like to get back together I don't know her intentions and feel it's better to help her through the struggle. Is this an issue you've covered? If so are there any articles or links?
No. Only help if you're back in an official relationship together, not when you're still in the process of working things out. If you think your situation is unique, I suggest you sign up form y coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
After my ex ended things I was so needy and I begged and pleaded she ended up blocking me on everything, a few days later I missed her call... I continued with no contact on her birthday I wished her a happy birthday and she replied with a thank you for everything... The last time before her call nd reply I was blocked 😀.... I still think of her a lot more and dreaming of her
You really need to stop all contact for at least 30 days and not push it. Being needy or too forceful for your ex to talk to you will only alienate them further. Here's what may going through your ex's mind and they seem they want nothing to do with you: ruclips.net/video/sd2Lx8uEni8/видео.html
My ex broke up with me like 4 days ago ig, and I beg her:( and ask for the second chance but she say “I will think about it” then I watch all your videos and now I’m not texting to her but she texting and trying to talk and flirt with me:((( what should I do?? Should I text her too??
Give her space. Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ruclips.net/video/ek_4wpkV66c/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/видео.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ruclips.net/video/bgOG9s1fac8/видео.html
That figures. If your ex has the "Grass is Greener" Syndrome, realize and accept that this is outside your control and really the best you can do is becoming the best version of yourself and vibrate higher, which means NOT taking less than what you deserve and not settling to just becoming an option, especially if this used to be a stable relationship between you two. She's likely taken you for granted, so you don't really need that in your life. Use the law of attraction. You deserve love and worth of love, so you can only attract love. If she goes away from it, then you repelled her and will most likely attract her back if she vibrates as high as you. Otherwise, be open to new people who may be on your level. Be strong!
She still contacts me on occasions and asks how I'm doing or will ask about my dog. She said she feels some responsibility towards her. She was recently in a minor car accident and called me to talk and for advice.
Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ruclips.net/video/m27TLeyUmwg/видео.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with her if you can see she no longer wants to try. Take care!
Question! 🙋♂️ I met with my ex after 3 weeks of no contact (on her request and no, I played it cool) I told her that I’ve been back at the gym for a month (I had a 4 month pause after an injury) now and she said she can really see my biceps and chest have gotten bigger, after she asked me to flex for her (funny thing tho, I’ve only been back at gym for a week). Does this have any meaning?
Hi Sir Brad. My ex and I have been dating for about 3 months or so. However, he said that he doesn't want to continue being with me and wanted to stop. His reason was, he doesn't want 'someone' right now if he's still not 'okay'. Then we talked that we should have some space for about a month. However last night, he really wanted to end what we have, he fell out of love, and he doesn't long for me anymore. I still want him back but I don't know what to do. Please help.
Nobody falls out of love that quickly if the feelings were real. Depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html
Thank you brad, this was the video I was searching for. I'm in a wierd situation, my ex finally wanted to talk again after 2 and a half months after the break up. I asked for a little chat 2 weeks ago and she agreed, expecting nothing, just to make the situation lighter. But as we started talking she understood how important I am for her, and decided to stay into contact to see what could be the best solution for both. I did this: I stated what I wanted, why I wanted her back, showed how I improved and learnt the lessons that led to the break up. I really improved a lot (also thanks to you). Now this is the situation: she said that she wants to be sure I am the one, but she stated that the things and actions which belonged to our past realtionship don't thrill her anymore, or at least she doesn't want to feel the pain of a so beautiful bound eventually broken. This morning we agreed on starting all over again, trying to fall in love once more, by treating us as complete strangers who just met. Do you suggest anything, like what is surely best to avoid, how not to be too overwhelming towards her, or banally just how to make her fall in love with me again? Thank you so much ♡
That's good! Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two and there should be a balance. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowningit's my Day 50 of no contact . I started NC after the day we broke up and I planned a trip with my friend.. after a week he started replying on my friends stories asking for me saying how he is missing me but don't want me in his life anymore I didn't react at all. two days ago he texted my friend told that he saw me somewhere...and got jealous because I was on a phone call....and he asked my friend if I am in a new relationship or not....now I am confused what should I do. Should I text him if yes thn how to start a conversation...or should I stay in NC
What if I dumped him 7 months ago and we got into a fight 3 months ago. We Have not made up. We see each other everyday and there’s not really any bad blood just tension
What were you two fighting about? Try to avoid any drama when dealing with an ex because that would be like one step forward, two step backwards dynamic and that will lead you nowhere real fast. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html
Hey brad. Me and and my ex broke up a year and half ago. She got with a new guy a month after the breakup . Went no contact, we haven’t talked for over a year , she reached out to me a month ago . We were texting catching up for a couple weeks & then it died off and she blocked me number . I sent her a letter to her email & then she unblocked my number & responded somewhat positively, saying my letter was sweet and appreciated it. She said she got out of an abusive relationship a couple months ago so she’s struggling right now but would like to continue talking as friends right now …and she texted me saying that maybe we can plan to do something sometime … What should I do ?…
Depends on what's really happening and how well you've been playing your cards, or not. If you've only talked recently, I'd say you two are friends or more appropriately, talking terms for now, but don't let that derail you, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. If you've already reconnected for a while though and your ex is pushing you deeper into that friendship hole, then that's a different story. Getting an ex back is a process. Whatever you do, make sure you don’t resort to doing the things here: y2u.be/jikW4YYC9yo
My girl just broke up with me a few days ago because she said she wants to try to see if her ex has changed and I love her with all my heart she saved me from my lowest of times but we live together and she is waiting on her ex to call her because he is in prison right now but I love her so much I’m hoping for the best for me and her she’s been through a lot she said if he hasn’t changed we can try to us again and that’s all I want she says we are still good and she still loves me but I just want her back I can’t live without her
She's feeding you bullshit man.. The reason she's trying with her ex again is because you've been doing things that turn her off.. By your message it's probably letting her walk all over you. And you've probably begged her to stay when she said all those things. When a woman tells you something like this in your mind you should be offended and tell her "ok I wish you all the best" and move on. She most likely will regret her decision afterwards, but if you begged her to stay or tried to convince her it will only make her more sure of her decision.
You have to be willing to lose her if you're ever gonna win her back, man. It's tough. I understand, but it's completely doable. And it's a different set of rules if you live together. Do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!
Not giving each other distance will not help the situation. That's for sure. I'd still suggest to give the "no contact" rule a shot because that's still really your best bet, which will work in a sense where you BOTH will get to clear your mind to be in a better position to deal with each other when the time comes - instead of letting emotions overrule everything, risking things to get blown out of proportion even further. Makes sense? But will no contact ALONE work to get your ex back? Sometimes it does, but other times (especially if your situation is unique) it won't, because the no contact phase is only part one of the three-step process I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. Learn the basics here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html There's also a risk of you being strung along if you don't cut off contact and give each other that much needed space and while it's beneficial for your ex, it's really detrimental to the dumpee in the end, so be careful. I also made a quick vid to those who are seemingly lost and could use a reminder on what to do: ruclips.net/video/obBIttQSak4/видео.html
What if we still live together but she is talking to someone else and they slept together already and they have only been talking for about a month even though we were just together 2weeks ago oh and we have kids together
It's a different set of rules if you live together. Do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!
I broke up with my bf and after a few months realised I really missed him and wanted him back. Only thing is that he is now Ina new relationship with someone 21 yrs younger. I have been trying to deal with this and it's been extremely difficult. How can I work on building a relationship with him?
What were the issues that plagued the relationship and is it workable? If so then try to reach out to him. IF not, then it's best to let it go and consider it a lost cause. But look, I understand what you're going through. You know moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: ruclips.net/video/01wvLSaS9_I/видео.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com
The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@BradBrowning well, I expressed to him how I felt about him n his response was that I just made things complicated so he needs to sort things out...he just told me he's interested in 2 different women, which I found out at the same time when I expressed how I felt about him..said that with me, the love would be immediate but would take time with someone new. It's quite complicated.
Will I get her come back? Me and my ex are in good terms and we settled to become friends, but I still have feelings for her, and she isn't really moved on, should I still show interests in her but I'll focus on myself 100%? tbh I'm the reason why she was turned off because of my toxic attitudes like being needy and jealous, but there is reason why my toxic attitudes showed to her. She wants me to find someone else but I can't, she says for now she wants to focus on academics rather than getting into a serious relationship.
It's a bad idea to be friends with an ex if you still have feelings for her. The best you can do is heal and date other people and once you're fully ready, you can try to be friends again. However, here are my thoughts on that: ruclips.net/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/видео.html
You're doing those changes for yourself and not for anyone else. Your ex finding out about it is just a bonus. But to answer your question, I'm sure you have mutual friends who have social media, right? Assuming you've been together long enough to have mutual friends. Anyway this is a very common question, I decided to include it in my video here, around the 4-minute mark: ruclips.net/video/XodgaAi8EbM/видео.html
It depends. How long has it been since the breakup? Are you at a stage where you're supposed to be texting again and has the 30-day no contact rule been implemented? I suggest you start with this to give you an overview on how to go about this or where you're at in the process: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but you're also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Good luck!
@@BradBrowning not spoke in a few months. A friend txt her and got blocked, I'm still unblocked. I think il reach out with a simple txt. I've I get blocked i know the answer
Hello, we broke up a month ago and it has been hard. He says he doesn’t want to get back together but still wants to see me and acts like we are friends. I made the mistake of begging him to not give up on us and It obviously did not work. I am barely starting the no contact in hopes that it will help us get back together. I want to know if this is a good text before no contact, and not a text that will close out my possibility of getting back together.: I went overboard begging you to keep trying, I know it isn’t easy to answer. I don’t want to make the same mistakes I’ve made in the past so I’m taking some time to heal. Maybe this will make more sense to me in time.. I will see you at work but I don’t think being friends is a good idea right now, I hope you understand Please help me know what to say before I ruin things more
A long distance relationship is not easy to maintain, especially if you two had a weak foundation where you don't get to spend time with each other much in person. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html and/or ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
How long have you been blocked? Here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still want to know what your chances are and/or still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz
@@BradBrowning long time now pretty much gave up all hope now at this point sure she is happy in New relationship I just am working on trying to move forward nothing more I can do had to have my buddy get ahold of her when I found out our dog went blind first word out of her mouth was when we putting him down. So I just respect myself and her and stay away. No point to talk to someone that clearly don't care
hey brad, me and my ex broke up nearly a month ago. I was really angry a lot of the relationship and displayed insecurity a lot and acted selfish. When we broke up I begged and pleaded and then gave up after a while. she said we can text every now and then so we did. I would respond to her messages within an hour or 2 and I didn’t say much other than like “that’s nice” and stuff like that. after a bit she blocked me and now it looks like she’s in a rebound relationship with a guy I don’t like and she knows I don’t like him (before the break up I always brought him up and got angry because of him despite her not talking to him at all) I think it’s also important to note that she’s petty but I’m not sure if she’s just doing this out of pettiness or not. she made a playlist full of love songs and the bio of the playlist is the name of one of his social media accounts. This was like a week and a half after the breakup. I see them walking with each other during school and I saw from a friend that follows her that she posted her and him (she has me blocked and her account is private) and I also saw her wearing his sweater one time. Every now and then we walk by each other and we notice each other since we quickly glance at each other and just continue on. And she told her friend that she wore his sweater all day while they were on the school bus. She also looked back at me a few time since I sat a few rows behind and she noticed me when she walked in the bus. About 4 days ago she unblocked me for whatever reason and viewed my stories but didn’t text me. 2 days ago she sat in the seat across from me on the bus and we had a conversation but she started the conversation by asking if I was ok and if I wanted my stuff back, i said no and she can do whatever she wants with my stuff and she responded with “isn’t that rude” and I just said do whatever you want. After that she continues the conversation and ends up showing me her phone lock screen and it’s pictures of her and the other guy hanging out and I just play it cool and say that’s nice and stuff. She still refers to him as friend but she said “friend ish” I decided to play her game and I just put a random picture of a girl she doesn’t know and just placed the phone on my lap and she looked at the screen and asked who’s that and I just said a friend. After a little bit of just chatting about classes (she also has about 2-3 periods with other guy and doesn’t have any with me) we eventually got to her bus stop and she got off and just told me goodluck and I told her goodluck too. oh yeah and she also asked if I told my mother about the breakup and I told her I did and she asked what she said and I said “what is she supposed to say” and then we just went onto the regular conversation. She hasn’t viewed my stories since we had the conversation but I’m still unblocked, any thoughts on the situation?
Hi there! Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
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Thanks for your kind words! :-)
Never thought I will end up watching this video. Thanks for the advise.
Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: ruclips.net/user/bradbrowning”
Hey hey. I bought the kit and I’m doing my best to put it in practice. Fingers crossed.
Hey thanks for trusting my product. And yes, you can do it. It just takes a bit amount of self discipline and courage. Have a little faith and trust yourself, trust the process, yeah?
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Tried everything including begging? Because that would absolutely dwindle your chances. Anyway getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
I don’t know if this’ll be my last update but I gave up on trying to win him back, I’m in a new relationship with a guy that really cares about me and his made me feel so happy 😊
Good! Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
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Thanks for dropping by!
Such, truer words, as always good advice; man. ;-;
Hey thanks for your support. Glad you appreciate it! :-)
What if it seems like there is too much hurt and resentment to overcome? I didn't cheat but my ex feels betrayed because I prioritized someone else when she really needed me. In her mind there's no way to come back from that. The good news is there's still anger and tears that come out indicating she's still emotionally invested, but she seems to continue to distance herself.
What were the issues in your relationship and how were you two handling it? Are the issues resolvable? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@BradBrowning I'm already signed up. Just waiting to connect. It's quite a complicated situation.
On Point always
Thank you!
Does no contact rule works in a 7 months relationship? I’m really into her, but I’m scared she might move on or forget me in 30 days.
The short answer is here: ruclips.net/video/T_W_ilf9x6w/видео.html and how you have little to no control over your ex's actions during this stage, here: ruclips.net/video/WVB0_l60SpM/видео.html The first phase where you employ the 30-day "no contact" rule is the recovery phase, the next two phases are geared towards re-attracting and rekindling that lost attraction with your ex. This is known as my 3R system found in the guide. So to answer your question, yes, your ex can become really distant emotionally, mentally, and physically but this is why you have the two other phases to get an ex back. Here's an overview to help you understand: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html while here's a more condensed version here: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw Good luck!
Hey brad me and my girlfriend broke up 2 days ago .I started no contact (And i wont reach out to her im determined).I have a lot of work to do on myself and im gonna keep myself busy.The problem is that i am chef and i post food on instagram and she likes everything that i post what do i do ?
Don't let it affect you. Just play it cool and let her react to your posts for as long as she wants. It's all about self control. And you can actually leverage social media to your advantage. Here's how: ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html
Nice video, but not helpful, because my ex's desire is for the guy she left me for... she made that clear by not caring about anything that I did after she left me.
I proved to her that I could make the changes she wanted me to make by actually making them.
She won't see me so I can't be physical with her, but I texted her in the same way that used to get her hot 'n heavy, yet never got reciprocation.
I fixed the issues I had, but she didn't care.
I can't play on her loneliness because she's already seeing another guy.
Hey brad thanks for your videos, It's been about 3 months since she told me that she wants us to break up, since then at first I was especially desperate and I was sending her messages, then for 2 weeks we didn't talk at all, then I made an effort and she told me that she was giving me a second chance until before 10 days he told me he doesn't want me anymore and told me to stop. From now on I intend to send nothing and look after myself. Do I still have a chance if I apply the no contact rule ?
I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: ruclips.net/video/ZyJRphwDca4/видео.html and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
@@BradBrowninghow can I contact y.
Not on your posted,an email address it would be ok..is not good at all,really need some help!!
hey Brad as of right now im following ur tips about no contact and I was wondering about something, I took a picture with another girl and we were like really really close, is it a good idea to post it to make her jealous ?
Yes, you can. This vid is for you: ruclips.net/video/GMc13wJCorM/видео.html
Hi Brad, thank you for the video. For the last point of keeping distance, would they feel loneliness if they monkey-branched? I am already keeping my distance, but he is with other women, so I am not sure how it will work out. Anyway, been in No Contact for almost 2 months now.
No one's like you and if you treated her best, chances are yes, she will miss that. Love yourself first though and take time to heal.
Hey Brad. So my ex dumped me yesterday. We only dated for about a month and a half, but the relationship was extremely healthy and had no issues. Long story short she had a really messy break up with her ex, and it gave her a lot of anxiety issues. I had talked to her several times saying that if she wasn’t emotionally ready that was okay. Long story short, she said that she realized she wasn’t ready for a relationship after all and that she rushed into things. We have not talked in two days and I don’t know where to take things. A reply would be greatly appreciated! Keep up the good work
Hi! Issues won't prop up until you get to know each other better, through time. Consider moving on from this, especially if it was just a fling to either you or your short-term ex. Sorry bit there may not be anything to rebuild here if that's the case because there wasn't any long term bonding or attraction that naturally develops in long term or serious relationships, especially if things got bad between you real quick because of the mistakes. On the brighter side, here's how the "no contact" rule will work for you, though:
ruclips.net/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/видео.html However, you may want to improve your dating skills and Amy North may has a ton of tips on what to do about that, so check out her channel, too. Take care!
Hi Brad, I actually subscribed to your 1 on 1 coaching and sent you the first email 2 days ago, it had been more than 48 hours now and i still haven't got anything back yet. Just wondering if I should wait a bit more or something went wrong? I didn't get any kind of email that my first email have been sent neither. All I got is a confirmation of the payment from PayPal, if you could reply back that would be great thank you!
Hi, thanks for signing up. Have you received the coaching form? If you haven't, please contact support at support.exfactorguide.com as it could be a technical issue. Otherwise please take note of the time frame indicated since I need to review your situation thoroughly and have to cater to others who came before you. The timeframe is within 48 to 72 hours from when you submitted the coaching form back to me upon successful signup. Thanks for your understanding and talk soon!
Been in no contact for a few months. Lol he sent money to me without any word. This really made me wonder. I think he is trying to make me initiate a conversation.
It depends. Was it money he owed you?
@@BradBrowning he didn't owe me anything
my ex broke up with me saying how she didnt feel like we shared enough interests and love isnt enough. We have had been together for 5 years since highschool. She is very indecisive and goes back and forth alot eventually saying now that i think about it we do have alot in common which is why we broke up. when i dropped off her cloths she had at my house she sent a text saying how they still smelled like me and she just sat there and cried untill her face went dumb but she doesnt regret her decision.
I'm sorry to hear that. It's heartbreaking indeed when something like this happens. Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/ZuHWCWeG1xs/видео.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my new version of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
How do you do no contact when you have kids and still see eachother everyday and he still acts like he lives at your house but just sleeps in his truck!?
If you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
Hey Brad, thanks for all the work you do. After following your advice, my stubborn and avoidant ex gf are talking again. However she unblocked after going through some heavy traumatic times. While I'd like to get back together I don't know her intentions and feel it's better to help her through the struggle. Is this an issue you've covered? If so are there any articles or links?
How long did you no contact?
No. Only help if you're back in an official relationship together, not when you're still in the process of working things out. If you think your situation is unique, I suggest you sign up form y coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@dirtydouglas8671 I broke it to no response at the 5 week mark, unblocked at the 9 week mark and we started talking again at the 10 week mark
Hi Brad, can u make videos about being in a relationship with Narcissist and how can we deal with them
Dr Ramani has great videos on narcissism.
I agree.@@cherylu9716
I already posted one. Here: ruclips.net/video/0jBl_lD35JQ/видео.html
After my ex ended things I was so needy and I begged and pleaded she ended up blocking me on everything, a few days later I missed her call... I continued with no contact on her birthday I wished her a happy birthday and she replied with a thank you for everything...
The last time before her call nd reply I was blocked 😀....
I still think of her a lot more and dreaming of her
You really need to stop all contact for at least 30 days and not push it. Being needy or too forceful for your ex to talk to you will only alienate them further. Here's what may going through your ex's mind and they seem they want nothing to do with you: ruclips.net/video/sd2Lx8uEni8/видео.html
My ex broke up with me like 4 days ago ig, and I beg her:( and ask for the second chance but she say “I will think about it” then I watch all your videos and now I’m not texting to her but she texting and trying to talk and flirt with me:((( what should I do?? Should I text her too??
Give her space. Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ruclips.net/video/ek_4wpkV66c/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/видео.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ruclips.net/video/bgOG9s1fac8/видео.html
My ex told she can't stick to 1 but she don't wanna be relay with anyone but I do still luvv her 6month couple 5days break up wht should I do 😢😢😢
thanks for the advice but if im still good friends with his sister, should i also limit the contact with his sister?
If the breakup is fresh, I say yes. Do limited contact so you can heal.
My ex is looking for a spark, she found it recently on her vacation, but according to her, it fizzled out with the other guy
That figures. If your ex has the "Grass is Greener" Syndrome, realize and accept that this is outside your control and really the best you can do is becoming the best version of yourself and vibrate higher, which means NOT taking less than what you deserve and not settling to just becoming an option, especially if this used to be a stable relationship between you two. She's likely taken you for granted, so you don't really need that in your life. Use the law of attraction. You deserve love and worth of love, so you can only attract love. If she goes away from it, then you repelled her and will most likely attract her back if she vibrates as high as you. Otherwise, be open to new people who may be on your level. Be strong!
She still contacts me on occasions and asks how I'm doing or will ask about my dog. She said she feels some responsibility towards her. She was recently in a minor car accident and called me to talk and for advice.
What if you were together 2 years and he backs out of the engagement because he met someone else at his workplace? I guess that's a done deal 😆🤦
Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ruclips.net/video/m27TLeyUmwg/видео.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with her if you can see she no longer wants to try. Take care!
Also I'm a girl, not a guy actually
Question! 🙋♂️
I met with my ex after 3 weeks of no contact (on her request and no, I played it cool) I told her that I’ve been back at the gym for a month (I had a 4 month pause after an injury) now and she said she can really see my biceps and chest have gotten bigger, after she asked me to flex for her (funny thing tho, I’ve only been back at gym for a week). Does this have any meaning?
Sounds like good interaction. Keep it light!
Hi Sir Brad. My ex and I have been dating for about 3 months or so. However, he said that he doesn't want to continue being with me and wanted to stop. His reason was, he doesn't want 'someone' right now if he's still not 'okay'. Then we talked that we should have some space for about a month. However last night, he really wanted to end what we have, he fell out of love, and he doesn't long for me anymore.
I still want him back but I don't know what to do. Please help.
Nobody falls out of love that quickly if the feelings were real. Depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html
Thank you brad, this was the video I was searching for. I'm in a wierd situation, my ex finally wanted to talk again after 2 and a half months after the break up. I asked for a little chat 2 weeks ago and she agreed, expecting nothing, just to make the situation lighter. But as we started talking she understood how important I am for her, and decided to stay into contact to see what could be the best solution for both.
I did this: I stated what I wanted, why I wanted her back, showed how I improved and learnt the lessons that led to the break up. I really improved a lot (also thanks to you). Now this is the situation: she said that she wants to be sure I am the one, but she stated that the things and actions which belonged to our past realtionship don't thrill her anymore, or at least she doesn't want to feel the pain of a so beautiful bound eventually broken. This morning we agreed on starting all over again, trying to fall in love once more, by treating us as complete strangers who just met.
Do you suggest anything, like what is surely best to avoid, how not to be too overwhelming towards her, or banally just how to make her fall in love with me again? Thank you so much ♡
That's good! Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two and there should be a balance. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowningit's my Day 50 of no contact . I started NC after the day we broke up and I planned a trip with my friend.. after a week he started replying on my friends stories asking for me saying how he is missing me but don't want me in his life anymore I didn't react at all. two days ago he texted my friend told that he saw me somewhere...and got jealous because I was on a phone call....and he asked my friend if I am in a new relationship or not....now I am confused what should I do. Should I text him if yes thn how to start a conversation...or should I stay in NC
What if I dumped him 7 months ago and we got into a fight 3 months ago. We Have not made up. We see each other everyday and there’s not really any bad blood just tension
What were you two fighting about? Try to avoid any drama when dealing with an ex because that would be like one step forward, two step backwards dynamic and that will lead you nowhere real fast. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html
Can you make video about the bf who is talking to his ex ? And his disloyal gf also want to come back ? To spoil the relationship
Set some boundaries and talk to him about it.
@@BradBrowning plz make video about this topic 😮
Hey brad. Me and and my ex broke up a year and half ago. She got with a new guy a month after the breakup . Went no contact, we haven’t talked for over a year , she reached out to me a month ago . We were texting catching up for a couple weeks & then it died off and she blocked me number . I sent her a letter to her email & then she unblocked my number & responded somewhat positively, saying my letter was sweet and appreciated it. She said she got out of an abusive relationship a couple months ago so she’s struggling right now but would like to continue talking as friends right now …and she texted me saying that maybe we can plan to do something sometime …
What should I do ?…
Depends on what's really happening and how well you've been playing your cards, or not. If you've only talked recently, I'd say you two are friends or more appropriately, talking terms for now, but don't let that derail you, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. If you've already reconnected for a while though and your ex is pushing you deeper into that friendship hole, then that's a different story. Getting an ex back is a process. Whatever you do, make sure you don’t resort to doing the things here: y2u.be/jikW4YYC9yo
You say that you've heard it all with your clients. Lol. I bet I have a breakup that you haven't dealt with before. 😊
Consider signing up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hello 👋😢 yes some things are going through with me and that' so true ❤️ about what you saying about what you talking
Sorry to hear you're going through this. Be sure to check out my other vids for more tips. Take care!
My girl just broke up with me a few days ago because she said she wants to try to see if her ex has changed and I love her with all my heart she saved me from my lowest of times but we live together and she is waiting on her ex to call her because he is in prison right now but I love her so much I’m hoping for the best for me and her she’s been through a lot she said if he hasn’t changed we can try to us again and that’s all I want she says we are still good and she still loves me but I just want her back I can’t live without her
She's feeding you bullshit man..
The reason she's trying with her ex again is because you've been doing things that turn her off..
By your message it's probably letting her walk all over you.
And you've probably begged her to stay when she said all those things.
When a woman tells you something like this in your mind you should be offended and tell her "ok I wish you all the best" and move on.
She most likely will regret her decision afterwards, but if you begged her to stay or tried to convince her it will only make her more sure of her decision.
You have to be willing to lose her if you're ever gonna win her back, man. It's tough. I understand, but it's completely doable. And it's a different set of rules if you live together. Do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!
What if it’s been 4 months and we’ve been in contact the entire time. Would distance help at this point?
Not giving each other distance will not help the situation. That's for sure. I'd still suggest to give the "no contact" rule a shot because that's still really your best bet, which will work in a sense where you BOTH will get to clear your mind to be in a better position to deal with each other when the time comes - instead of letting emotions overrule everything, risking things to get blown out of proportion even further. Makes sense? But will no contact ALONE work to get your ex back? Sometimes it does, but other times (especially if your situation is unique) it won't, because the no contact phase is only part one of the three-step process I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. Learn the basics here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html There's also a risk of you being strung along if you don't cut off contact and give each other that much needed space and while it's beneficial for your ex, it's really detrimental to the dumpee in the end, so be careful. I also made a quick vid to those who are seemingly lost and could use a reminder on what to do: ruclips.net/video/obBIttQSak4/видео.html
What if we still live together but she is talking to someone else and they slept together already and they have only been talking for about a month even though we were just together 2weeks ago oh and we have kids together
It's a different set of rules if you live together. Do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!
I broke up with my bf and after a few months realised I really missed him and wanted him back. Only thing is that he is now Ina new relationship with someone 21 yrs younger. I have been trying to deal with this and it's been extremely difficult. How can I work on building a relationship with him?
What were the issues that plagued the relationship and is it workable? If so then try to reach out to him. IF not, then it's best to let it go and consider it a lost cause. But look, I understand what you're going through. You know moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: ruclips.net/video/01wvLSaS9_I/видео.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com
@@BradBrowning thank you so much for your reply ❤ 🙏 I will take a look at both. Thank you again
How do you do that when they're 1300 miles away?
The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@BradBrowning well, I expressed to him how I felt about him n his response was that I just made things complicated so he needs to sort things out...he just told me he's interested in 2 different women, which I found out at the same time when I expressed how I felt about him..said that with me, the love would be immediate but would take time with someone new. It's quite complicated.
Will I get her come back? Me and my ex are in good terms and we settled to become friends, but I still have feelings for her, and she isn't really moved on, should I still show interests in her but I'll focus on myself 100%? tbh I'm the reason why she was turned off because of my toxic attitudes like being needy and jealous, but there is reason why my toxic attitudes showed to her. She wants me to find someone else but I can't, she says for now she wants to focus on academics rather than getting into a serious relationship.
It's a bad idea to be friends with an ex if you still have feelings for her. The best you can do is heal and date other people and once you're fully ready, you can try to be friends again. However, here are my thoughts on that: ruclips.net/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/видео.html
If were in No Contact how is he going to know what I am or am not doing?
You're doing those changes for yourself and not for anyone else. Your ex finding out about it is just a bonus. But to answer your question, I'm sure you have mutual friends who have social media, right? Assuming you've been together long enough to have mutual friends. Anyway this is a very common question, I decided to include it in my video here, around the 4-minute mark: ruclips.net/video/XodgaAi8EbM/видео.html
I've noticed I'm unblocked, should I reach out and msg her?
It depends. How long has it been since the breakup? Are you at a stage where you're supposed to be texting again and has the 30-day no contact rule been implemented? I suggest you start with this to give you an overview on how to go about this or where you're at in the process:
y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but you're also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Good luck!
@@BradBrowning not spoke in a few months. A friend txt her and got blocked, I'm still unblocked. I think il reach out with a simple txt. I've I get blocked i know the answer
Hello, we broke up a month ago and it has been hard. He says he doesn’t want to get back together but still wants to see me and acts like we are friends. I made the mistake of begging him to not give up on us and It obviously did not work. I am barely starting the no contact in hopes that it will help us get back together. I want to know if this is a good text before no contact, and not a text that will close out my possibility of getting back together.:
I went overboard begging you to keep trying, I know it isn’t easy to answer. I don’t want to make the same mistakes I’ve made in the past so I’m taking some time to heal. Maybe this will make more sense to me in time.. I will see you at work but I don’t think being friends is a good idea right now, I hope you understand
Please help me know what to say before I ruin things more
That's a good message. Go for it!
How about long distance relationship
A long distance relationship is not easy to maintain, especially if you two had a weak foundation where you don't get to spend time with each other much in person. Not to state the obvious, but the distance is often the main culprit. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html and/or ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
No I am blocked everywhere in possible
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
how do you do that when blocked
How long have you been blocked? Here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still want to know what your chances are and/or still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz
@@BradBrowning long time now pretty much gave up all hope now at this point sure she is happy in New relationship I just am working on trying to move forward nothing more I can do had to have my buddy get ahold of her when I found out our dog went blind first word out of her mouth was when we putting him down. So I just respect myself and her and stay away. No point to talk to someone that clearly don't care
@@BradBrowning nothing more I can do figure if she misses me she will get ahold of me but probably not normal avoident
hey brad, me and my ex broke up nearly a month ago. I was really angry a lot of the relationship and displayed insecurity a lot and acted selfish. When we broke up I begged and pleaded and then gave up after a while. she said we can text every now and then so we did. I would respond to her messages within an hour or 2 and I didn’t say much other than like “that’s nice” and stuff like that. after a bit she blocked me and now it looks like she’s in a rebound relationship with a guy I don’t like and she knows I don’t like him (before the break up I always brought him up and got angry because of him despite her not talking to him at all) I think it’s also important to note that she’s petty but I’m not sure if she’s just doing this out of pettiness or not. she made a playlist full of love songs and the bio of the playlist is the name of one of his social media accounts. This was like a week and a half after the breakup. I see them walking with each other during school and I saw from a friend that follows her that she posted her and him (she has me blocked and her account is private) and I also saw her wearing his sweater one time. Every now and then we walk by each other and we notice each other since we quickly glance at each other and just continue on. And she told her friend that she wore his sweater all day while they were on the school bus. She also looked back at me a few time since I sat a few rows behind and she noticed me when she walked in the bus. About 4 days ago she unblocked me for whatever reason and viewed my stories but didn’t text me. 2 days ago she sat in the seat across from me on the bus and we had a conversation but she started the conversation by asking if I was ok and if I wanted my stuff back, i said no and she can do whatever she wants with my stuff and she responded with “isn’t that rude” and I just said do whatever you want. After that she continues the conversation and ends up showing me her phone lock screen and it’s pictures of her and the other guy hanging out and I just play it cool and say that’s nice and stuff. She still refers to him as friend but she said “friend ish” I decided to play her game and I just put a random picture of a girl she doesn’t know and just placed the phone on my lap and she looked at the screen and asked who’s that and I just said a friend. After a little bit of just chatting about classes (she also has about 2-3 periods with other guy and doesn’t have any with me) we eventually got to her bus stop and she got off and just told me goodluck and I told her goodluck too. oh yeah and she also asked if I told my mother about the breakup and I told her I did and she asked what she said and I said “what is she supposed to say” and then we just went onto the regular conversation. She hasn’t viewed my stories since we had the conversation but I’m still unblocked, any thoughts on the situation?
Hi there! Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching