How To Deal With Pain - "Как справиться с болью - Рабби Мэнис Фридман. Разговор с больными"
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We need more people like Rabbi Friedman who can communicate to the hearts of people. I'm not Jewish, but I really appreciate his wisdom and delivery.
I agree with you, I'm a non denomination. Really very spiritual and have interest in ancient scripture, dead sea scrolls and see the bible as a incomplete yet intriguing historical reference.
Rabbi Friedman talks about subjects that everyone no matter color, culture, religion etc can relate to and with. He is wise and has much knowledge. I really enjoy listening to him and have been now for a few days and looking forward to hearing more lifes lessons from him 🛐
You re amazing .. i am a Muslim but still watching you everyday! I love your philosophy! Your sense of humor !
Abderrahim salama we worship the same one and only true God Allah الله Hashem ❤️
I’m Jewish, I pray our peoples can be together and peace. Please god make this happen
Very wise godly words by r friedman
I have to ask.
Why does your Religious label matter?
In the old days, before the Fall.
We were all People of the Book.
These labels, these divisions, are ridiculous.
I'm not telling you what to do, I'm just offering my input from my point of view in my existence living in the world I am.
If your attire doesn't indicate your 'faith', just translate the word. It causes less division.
Just say "I submit".
Any Person of the Book, will know who you are. Regardless of your Attire. But do, by All Means, incorporate it. Make it your own. as We always do, for over Three Millennia. Both your ancestors, and mine. The labels,and adjectives to 'describe us', those are new. Go back to the Old Ways.
Our Forefather was Avraham. He was Hebrew, and a "PLACED" as KING of Egypt to the North and West of UR, BABYLON, that place was north and East of LUXOR. (Do you see the word Play?) They were BOTH EGYPT. United Under the Persian Flag.
Ishmael, He was the Son of a Hebrew and Prince of Egypt.
Isaac, He was the Son of a Hebrew, and a Prince of Egypt.
Avraham was King.
We are Princes of Creation, Servants and Scions of The One God, He that Is and WIll be Forever, and Ever. We are his peacemakers, his philosophers and poets.
We are People of the Book.
Incase you are not Aware, Luxor, and Ur. Mean the same thing. Torah says so, the thing is, it's been this way since the Lines of "SETH" and "QAYIN", It's a punny existence.
Rabbi Friedman, you are full of wisdom and I needed your message today. I am a Christian, and I thank you for the message. God Bless you.
instablaster.
Rabbi Friedman... Your deep insights and wisdom are healing to my soul....God lead me to you. Thank you...
i love listening to you . I am not jewish , but I find your wisdom so helpful. G-d bless you.
I'm a Jewish and I think he is a spiritive leader with positive messages for Jews and poor non-jews. We need people like him in this world.
Dear Rabbi, Thank you for sharing with us your wisdom. I'm Christian but watching almost all of your channels. Thank you!
Some person told me once, that every pain, has a reason in the "last life", (I receive HERE, what I did bad once)...,but I don't see a purpose in it....! Im not jewish, but your words are always so touching and Im happy, that god gives us a good "digital-internet way, to hear good and wise words like yours.Thank u so much and god bless you!!
G-d uses EVERYTHING for His good! I was a heroine addict for 17yrs, by G-d's grace i will have 6yrs clean December 13th, even though every single day was a long lonely struggle within myself I prayed continually and G-d helped me continually and brought people into my path to help me continually, don't give up!!! G-d used people who had previously caused great harm to me to help me get on a program and to restore the relationship with my family that disappeared because of things said by those same folks. G-d took my barren womb and blessed me with a second child against all odds given by doctors and my baby girl is fully healthy. ALWAYS PRAY AND TALK WITH G-D!
G-d bless Rabbi Friedman and his family. Who else can help us face our pain, reveal the truth in an undeniable way while giving us the courage to embrace it and be brutally honest with ourselves in order to set us free from our limitations? This is a very special teacher sent straight from Hashem. Much appreciation and thanks.
I needed this message to help me cope! G-d bless you Rabbi! I listen to you all the time!
So beautiful. The utmost beautiful attribute of a human is kindness and Rebbe Friedman is a prime example of kindness and all else cones with that.
Thanks Rabbi
Stvarno mi je potrebno ovo razumevanje stvari što je ISTINA. Istina moaže da me spase i to se zahvaljem Bogu što sam sve ovo čuo od Rabbi Manisa.
Thanks a lot for your wisdom! You make me happy that I am jewish! God bless you! Amen
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A lot of Jews , as well as many peoples are hearing Rabbi Friedman’s wisdom for the first time ... and so we get clarity and can calculate and function better than before. Everyone can be happy when they make our Creator HaSh-m proud of us when we use integrity in decisions. We are all HaSh-m’s creations for Unity and Praise of Him
@Basil Ramel it
There are not many people who will listen to you when you tell how good you feel. Even the best friend will turn the back to you.
So. Much. Wisdom.!!!
He is the best !
Thank you Sir for this clarity.
Era tudo que eu precisava nesse momento da minha vida ! Gratidão ❤️🙏🏻
Thank you Sir!
Thank for those great teachings
Thank you so much, I really needed this ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you, I needed to be reminded that my current sciatica pain, is here to serve me for the good.....somehow.
Yes! Just like my brother dying of ALS is somehow a good thing! Right!
@@jennap530 Hello Jenna, I hear the sarcasm and hurt in your words. I am so sorry that watching your brother go through his this disease process is such a strain on you and your family. But, I do believe he is probably receiving a boat load more love, from you and your family than many others will see in their own lifetime. Good can come from such suffering. May you all be strengthened by the love that binds you.
Thank you Rabbi I needed this
I was brought up to always to help people in needi try the best I can
I have gotten good ideas for this lesson.
Elaheinu baruch attah vaed Amen.
Great master
Well said Rabbi.
Do not boast about tomorrow for you do not know what a day may bring forth
Thank you for liking my comment
Dear Rabbi , can refer to the teaching that even pain has good side, l experienced that. Pain even is not permanent. The best moment for were between two episodes of pain, best time to see reality and truth.
Incredible
one of us my sister a year ago I became very very sick mentally I couldn't do anything I heard voices I thought I was losing my mind then Hashim cleared my mindnd began the long climb upward fr9m insani5y and despair.
I am now coming into my own and am doing what I never thought I could never have done. cBaruch Hashem have gotten better
God bless
Thank you very much for your great ideas Rabbi Friedman. God bless you. My favourite book in Bible is the Book of Job. He was a good man, who suffered a lot and did not know why. However, there was a strong purpose of his pain. That is why people who suffer should believe that their painful existence has a purpose.
Greetings from the Czech Republic.
I always feel bad for Job. I know it's allegorical, but it's almost as if Gd and the devil were acting like the pagan gods, using humans as pawns in a game.
MB9
Why does G-d allow harming the innocent?
To test you. That is why God created Earth. He was surrounded by beautiful ,nice souls, he wanted to test the reality. Now you know why you are here,doing what you do/ did.
I use CBD for physical pain and when it runs out I get emotional pain. Then again I get the physical pain. That’s what taught me to prepare for the pain. You must prepare for the pain.
Thank you.
It is through pain that life improve, you're totally right.
Is there any cure this is killing me chronic nerve pain in my spine shooting out my stomach I've tried everything I've even been told I can cure myself by saying I am cured yet I still have this six years
@@reg8297 I have never known what good health is for a week at least not ever. My mom and I were known at every hospital before she passed away and I can vividly remember that fateful day when my dad came up to me and said young man, if you know you are not going to last long, please let us know so we stop wasting money on your health. Imagine how I felt that moment...but I took it with a smile and told him...'dad no one wants to be sick including me here'. He burst into tears and never gave up on me. When my mother passed away, my dad became that borden bearer until I finally met my wife who has been awesome. I have learned to live with my condition for the better but I have never given up on life because of family. I can't afford to allow myself be drown in that misery because my wife and children will suffer even more nor lose the hope that I will experience good health someday. This has been my strength with the love I get from my family and friends.
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If something is good or bad you only can judge about it from the view of different perspective, from rearview. To me I think never happened bad things. Mostly obviously bad things turned into good things.
Once one experienced GOOD, BAD will follow. There can never be GOOD without BAD. Both goes together everywhere, anywhere, and anytime. It is part of TIME and CREATION. It is part of the NATURAL LAW God created. Who can correct the CROOKED things God created?
Drinking and drugs help alleviate the pain and suffering of human beings (hearts/love) when vampires (greed/hate) suck the joy out of their lives. That is where the drug problem originates.
steve coley Also the trauma of abandonment in all its forms ... Gabor Maté, (also a son of HaSh-m), speaks about this as well. ☮️💚
I really love Rabbi Manis. He really makes the best out of what humans seem to universally believe. This talk was quite inspiring until he included the story about putting the thousand pieces paper in his hat. 999 with yes on them and one with no on it. He said that the same person drew a paper out with no on it 10 times in a row. Then asked what the person should expect on the next try. He tries to use logic for why the person should finally expect a yes on the eleventh try. I believe that the person drew no ten times because he truly felt like a loser. I believe that the things that we experience in our lives directly correspond to how we feel about ourselves. Particularly to wether we feel lovable,loved,and loving.
Amen 🙏💖
Will God change his mind..I've head so many sadness..might he change his mind abt yet another sentence..
life isn't fair but at least it's not fair on everyone
I am Buddhist from India, I watch you.. feels as you are saying about Buddha's Vipassana Teachings
If i'm in pain i like to make other people laught because i don't want them know and it makes me happy that they are happy it helps me deal with the pain and makes it alot less painfull for me And takes my mind off the pain .You should try it .It works .He is wright about people not giving up on disabilities I was disabled when i was born But god sent me someone that turned my life around .just takes a lot of work .3 time i could have been impaired doctors said it was perment I just worked harder at being normal .It was a inconvenient at the time .You can find people that have wisdom to help you or god might send them to you .Just don't give up
Thanks for helping. Unless it's clinical, then it's not in our control. Life intermingles with our excistance to enable us to have an outside life, but this does not always come about through circumstances in our world. But it does help to understand the 2. Love and close friendships and talking can pull you out of the hole if you can find it.
You make slot of sense
It's a contradiction! If I choose "bad" doesn't it mean I should have done it?
It means you should make a better decision next time . Talk to G-d about helping in areas of clarity & focuss & enthusiasm to make the right choices
Pain don't hurt
Rabbi is the rape of a child bad? I would like to see how you could justify it is not
Pain in itself doesn't have value, our interpretation of the context it occurs in, however, does. Sure, it might be possible to be used as a tool of teaching, making somebody aware, that carelessness in certain situations is a bad idea, but those instances are a vast minority. In the majority of cases, pain is there without reason, without a positive side to it.
An example: A soldier is thrown into his first battle, his ears ringing unbearably with the sound of explosions and gunfire. After a couple of hours of exhausting fighting, his squadmates fall one by one until he stands alone. He is injured by a grenade detonating nearby, surviving only by some stroke of luck, but he can't defend himself anymore and has to give up, causing him to become the enemy's prisoner. Kept barely alive, he sustains months of torture until his will is broken and he spills all the requested information. Then he dies, left in the knowledge, that he had to suffer through all of this, only to have the enemies get what they wanted, dooming that which he was fighting for.
This might not be a story that happens often, but lucky heroes, making it back home victorious a rarer than those, who suffer similar fates to this hypothetical soldier, becoming just another casualty, just another number in the history books.
It is pain like that, which is undoubtebly bad, as there is nothing positive to be found in it. The instances of such pain are plenty, as such "there is always a good reason for pain" is not a universally applicable argument. The fact, that this kind of pain exists is also contrary to the idea of there being an omnibenevolent God, as there would be no way for this to occur in a world created and / or ruled over by such a being. What we observe today fits more with either a silent, neutral watcher, a being, that does not interfere with the universe, regardless of what happens, but might have set it into motion just to see what happens, or alternatively, it might even fit with a being, which relishes in chaos, as the world never seems to find a state of absolute calmness. It can't be something entirely evil, since that would lead to only total apocalypse being the only state of existence, but it also can't be all good.
What the world would have to be like to support the theory, that an omnibenevolent God is watching over it, is very different from our own: A place without pain, hunger, thirst, illness and death, but with feelings, joy, love and beauty. An unshakable, uncorruptable paradise without limits, full of creative freedom. Any attempts at disturbing the peace kept from ever even being conceived.
Such a world would be easy to create for a God and would be the only logical thing for an omnibenevolent one.
I don't answer where Jewish souls go in the afterlife, but aza meshumed vee ach geyt in ayer tuckhus arayn, eyder ir geht in drerd.
there is no such a thing as 'good or bad' it is a persons judgements, that get everyone emotional. Anger is emotion, caused by how one think or imagine ... has nothing to do with observable reality, what ever happens is stimulus, but not cause of the anger. may be a trigger but not the cause. TV gives you stimulus and respond training every time you watch it and when something happens similar in real life we react as we trained our minds, while lying on sofa.
When we serve life we feel relieve, satisfaction, joy and when we do something for imaginary reasons, suggested by other gangs of people, then usury happens, because no one even consider your needs and there is no awareness what life is in order to serve it. So what ever we do with out awareness how it serves life we serve other peoples life in our own expanse. Every human being is a receptor about what life is and everything what happens require awareness about what life is. Like in a Garden of Eden awareness prevents from stamping on beautiful flowers and gently kiss soil with our feet choosing where to step. Keep your eyes on the road while you drive and watch life in order to know where to contribute or participate.
Remember what ever ((( Money ))) touches, turns in to not serving life, anything from horrible to supper exiting and always useless and harmful.
We will be better of if we use imagination in order to finger out how to serve life instead of everyone like ants follow suggested imagination , social gossip and money, ignoring life it self.
First we need to see what life is , then identify needs and only then use imagination to finger out how to serve it. Now we have world where everything is up side down, first we imagine then do and then have what ever happens and leaders already suggest to imagine next .
((( Money ))) it is even difficult to imagine that it is imaginary not real and How would usury work with out money? People just change objective instead seek well paid jobs will do what they need to live. The whole point of weeding party on the whole village is that same people builds house for new family. Yes whole village and everyone know how to do it and for kids is life skill learning. Look around you all things are done by other peoples hands, it means that we live in each others hands what is a point of usury = money ? I don't want more then I need and I don't want any one sacrificed . You need a lots of poor people in order to have one rich
and there for there is suggested imagination in between in order to make it less obvious.
Chronic pain can kill the person's ability to live on and cope I injured my spine six years ago and nothing could prepare me for the kind of chronic pain I would suffer from I want to scream from the trauma of it I get up everyday feel a sensation like a knife going out thru me I can't lift anything or the stabbing gets more intense I ended up with high blood pressure and suffer collapses from how bad this pain is
@@reg8297 So you live 6 years, long time with pain in your back , sharp sensation every morning and pain, that prevents you from lifting things. You have got high blood pressure and you collapse in times when it is very painful.
That is what life is in you at the moment?
@@anabelcamacho6584 yes the pain is horrendous it's the same all the time dosent come and go it's constant
@@reg8297 yes I hear you saying that you are in pain
If nothing is bad then I can't do anything wrong. This is irrational. If I can do wrong then what I did wrong should not have happened. It wasn't God's best for me and very likely it will yield unnecessary suffering, suffering outside the humanly manageable. Such suffering is beyond corrective reaching the level of punishing. God will use it for good but it wasted resources.
Watch his previous video "how to handle people who hurt you"; Rabbi Friedman addresses your point.
Well after you made a choice then it becomes gods will bad that is not really bad. But it was bad before you choose it.
@@danielmedina3128 I did see it after I wrote that and while he makes an excellent argument, the fact remains that we don't put people in jail for hoping or trying to kill someone but for successfully killing someone. We do hold them responsible and the Bible demands it.
@@gulibuf I don't think God's will is that we murder or steal from people and in fact we can be guilty for negligence even if there was no intent.
Not keeping Shabbat as a Jew is bad.
So what about rape "it have to happend
Pain doesnt always serve a known purpose . If we get cheated what purpose is there ?
Seagull Livingstone there’s always a purpose to everything. You just have to understand that you can’t know and understand everything and that even the perceived bad is actually more good than the good you can tangibly see
@@migueljayne8261 Bitachon (trust) and emuna (faith) are the hardest parts of our relationship with Hashem.
@@yvettemoore1228 I agree, it's very easy to slip and let the ego take over in that split second that we are tested in terms of trust and faith. I'll always be working on that for sure as well as my level of fear and love for g-d especially in those moments. Thank you for your words Yvette
This is just nonsense. What about destiny? What if it's destined to always pick up a no?
In another video you say that our loved ones go with us to their Graves just to comfort us, then in another video you say that part of their souls are still connected to their bodies and they wait for us to visit their Graves.
Somethings you say are true but most of it is just your philosophy and not real.
If your 2 children die through being poisoned by someone's else's negligence wud u be telling yourself to just see the good side of life?
Hope you reply to me yourself
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Apart from the good reasonings of the rav, I was just wondering.. (1.) Are the inmates Jewish? (2.) Were the inmates there because of their own free choice or were they there because they were forced to be there?
ETERNAL PAIN IN HELL:
And the smoke of their torment will
rise for ever and ever. There will be no rest day or night .....(Revelation 14:11)
your race claiming to be the real Hebrew Israelites when you are really esau, edom, amalek, that's bad
"Rabbi" Friedman should do what John the Baptist is commanding him to do, John the Baptist is here in the spirit of Elijah.
Son of Josiah 😂 you are beyond help 😂
@@MayaAMorella That's because people like you aren't good enough for me.
@@sonofjosiah3349 very *Christian*. Why are you here? And yes, the Rabbi is a Rabbi. He teaches. That's what Rabbi means.
@@yvettemoore1228 Hashem led me here.
@@sonofjosiah3349 hmm RUclips got you here with recommended. unless you want to get all spiritual and so the Heavenly council did. So be it. God speed brother in Chirst
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