My Husband say‘s always: a man must be a lion outside, at home he must be peaceful like a sheep. If a man get‘s aggressive towards his family, it‘s over. And it is not working for women and children at all.
I can personally assure you, as per my own parents. Its not over when a man gets aggressive. Violent and aggressive is not the same thing. An aggressive man is venting, but is not unreasonable. A violent man is a man with no other choice. I think you meant a violent man as opposed to aggressive. Aggressive behaviour is a shutdown to collaboration. It is not consistently present, but periodically. If we're talking about a man who cannot collabobrate but feels threatened, he'll be violent. Else the aggressive behaviour is already an admittance to weakness. Either way, its only over for the women if they have weak personal boundaries. Else they'd see the weakness eating up an aggressive man, and help him cope with it. It is when a man fails to see his women is helping him that he feels constantly pressured and ultimately becomes violent. Then its over. Else that aggression represents a disconnect with his women and children. Use that to help him. It is over the moment everyone, not just the man, is too weak to deal with the scenario at hand; some people who are unable to talk about what they feel and think, and the other unable to accept that. Don't generalise aggressive behaviour as it may have many causes. The more scarcity mindset you have, the more aggressive you are. Get yourself in abundance, and its never over (in the right way).
We gender everything. From my experience, insecure men are comfortable with controlling women. Secure men understand that their wives have God-given gifts and talents that he dare not control. That’s a demonstration of love.
Interesting. In my experience, and I just told my therapist this, I will never date another insecure man again. I find them controlling and full of problems. However, I can also think of one man I know who is very insecure and allows his wife to control nearly everything. He's afraid to stand up to her. Either way, I have learned my lesson. Dating a confident, secure man resulted in the healthiest relationship I ever had. Unfortunately, we did not want the same things in life, but he's one of the best human beings I have ever met.
@@dianaverano7878 What if he doesn't do these things and leaves it for his wife to figure out and get done? What if he gives her money for some of the household bills but then asks for that money back because he overextended himself? What if she praises him and shows appreciation for the smallest things hoping it will encourage him to tackle the bigger things, but he never does? How does a wife handle a husband who doesn't want to lead and provide, but wants the wife to fulfill his obligations as well as hers?
@@starr234as a wife, since she is in love with her husband, she has to gently request out of love the kind of treatment she wants to have. It is on the manner of saying it. Instead of argumentative way, a wife can softly say her needs. In a request. Almost always, a loving husband will do it for his wife. Men provide. Ask for it. They provide. It is not only thru money. Men who wont try to please his wife in any way is not in love with her anymore. Almost always, a guy will figure it how to make the woman he loves happy
@@dianaverano7878 I always gently requested and was not argumentative. I never asked for money for anything other than regular household bills like groceries, mortgage, utilities and I only asked that he pay half. He also cheated so I'm sure he was no longer in love with me. He left me and when he decided to come back two weeks later, I told him no. I could tell he only wanted to come back because life was easier living with me since I did everything. Also, I think the other woman must have told him she didn't want to be with him or that he couldn't move in with her. Not all men are born leaders and providers.
My husband and I have been married for 6 years. He was recently diagnosed with a terminal disease. I never understood this about men and women. Listening to this makes me relive flashbacks of our conversations. Some of it if funny and some of it is heartbreaking, honestly. Especially knowing there's little time left.
They can truly be infuriating!! I think you're doing better than you think though because you have reflected upon it and chosen to act! I think thats a big mazel tov and half the battle
This is so beautiful. My heart goes out to every good man who feels this way to know that there are good women who love and appreciate everything you do and everything you are ❤️💯. Thank you for sharing your wisdom Rabbi. 🙏🏽
When I say “i can do that” it’s my way of apologizing for asking/ receiving/ needing because I was always shamed as a kid for asking/ needing/ wanting/ inconveniencing anyone
This video made me love life, love humans, love men, love women. I love respecting them, I love backing up a little bit so she can shine/feel like herself, live, as the free being, individual they are.
Omg wow this has totally blown my mind! in 30 min, explained SO much about me as a woman, and about the men in my life. An awful lot makes sense now that I hadn't previously understood. Thank you Rabbi Friedman!
@AsantewaaBoateng-iv9yp why would you put down this person and add Trump? That beautiful person loves rabbi...that's it...but you go in w your silly comments
This has been very eye opening and appreciated. I see where I have unconsciously been erroneous in assuming my husband knew I appreciated all of the things he has been doing to make me feel special for all of these years no matter where I was. I have always known he was watching over me. I have always felt like the luckiest woman in the world because of having him on my side. I need and appreciate everything he has done and continues to do for me. We will have to teach "each other" how to treat each other in those very personal intricacies. I need and appreciate hom in every way.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring her back.
You are a BEAUTIFUL Man You are Essential, Brian We as Women NEED YOU we Need Men all of you. We women & Men. wouldn’t be here without you guys. I love exercising & feeling attractive for my husband. I am strong enough to learn how to do manly work. I enjoy knowing how to yet prefer my man to want to do it. MEN PLEASE DO NOT EVER FORGET Today Yesterday and Certainly Tomorrow YOU ARE VALUED AND NEEDED
When the man isnt doing the manly things such as leading the home and taking care of his wife and son, the woman is forced to get out of her feminine role as a wife and step into a mans position. If a woman motivates the man but the man keeps on making immature choices that affect the family stability it eventually will create resentment. In the end the woman will lose respect for a man. Yes life happens and a man might be down but if he's doing nothing to build himself back up even though his woman motivates him thats usually the moment when the man takes offense to her comments.
@@minnesotajude8447 people like you love to regurgitate this and tell it. It’s been about 50 years since the courts made laws to help women compared to thousands of years of recorded history of men walking out on their families and leaving them to fend for themselves in times when a woman’s only form of income was prostitution in order to survive and feed her kids and you modern ignorant men seem to forget that very important part so go cry about why women don’t deserve to have the courts side with her when the laws were changed BECAUSE men made a habit of walking out on their families. These laws even out the playing field for everyone.
What manly things... like work... change tires. Most women do this stuff anyway. Honestly I get what your saying. Obviously your man shouldn't be a total deadbeat. But it also doesn't make you a man to have a job or take care of you a kids, or less feminine somehow to actually work in life. I mean it's nice if your man is a provider, but your not less of a woman if you have to join the rest of us who didn't find a sugar daddy to marry and pay all our bills.
@@karinsvanback7497 Some religious people do lots of good but that doesn't mean religion does any good, on the contrary, it does a lot of bad: Genecide (e.g. crusades, flood), slavery, genital mutilation, misogyny, homophobia etc
The G-d of Christianity and Judaism is the real G-d, that is why they are true religions. They connect with the true G-d. All other "religions" are false religions because the Devil is their "god". They are just not informed because G-d wants to be the G-d of everyone. But it is true, even the Catholic church admits the church is not a perfect example. Especially not with the present "pope". He could very well be the Antichrist (Antimessiah). Only G-d is perfect, but we are called to be perfect!!! That is such a blessing. That is so nice. That gives so much hope, and takes away so much anxiety.
I am actually Catholic and listening to You makes me realise it’s so true what you say about woman and man. One of the best podcast I have listened to. Thank You for sharing with us your words of wisdom! ❤ You are amazing man❤
I have been married happily for ten years now so far and I relate to this. I am not Jewish or any religion per say I just believe in god the almighty but I feel like you are so knowledgeable and I love how y’all write the book like that with the most knowledge about just like life in general I follow you though and love everything you educate me about. Thanks!!
Shalom Rabbi Friedman. I have been watching your videos for a while now and I wanted to thank you because I have learned how understand my husband because of you.
😂 This explains it all. I was raised with three brothers. Didn't understand the weirdness of the opposite sex. Than I got married, still couldn't understand men until now!!😅😂
@@o.revi.this is great to be reminded of… I have been blessed with 4 and I still don’t know how to socialize with my own gender on certain occasions. Almost five decades later I am now learning that a little better though.
It’s important for females to be in their feminine posture which is to nurture and receive 🎉 I never realized the depth of the pain man had as a rating of “0” thank you for this teaching
How can a woman be feminine when the men of today don't let you? We have to be the men in relationships. Never dealing with this trash again. Men are so lost. And they will continue to be until they get right with God.
It's important for people to just be themselves and to be kind and thoughtful to others. No shoving people into boxes where they might not perfectly fit.
Beautiful Teachings ❣️ WISDOM..my goodness I’ve never heard this before. Personal Life, Families and Communities can thrive with this type of educational conversation. 🌹
Man was created from the spoken Word of God out of His heart and love. If a man doesn’t realize that and think he was made out of nothing I can see how this could be true but a lie.
I disagree with the statement that women can’t feel like nothing. Women can definitely feel like nothing. I’ve felt it several times in my life..and every time it was because a man I loved made me feel that way because of his actions, or lack of action, and/or his words. I have to keep telling myself that I’m something to God. That’s the only way I can go on. I’m broken.
I love to learn about male/female relationships. Married 32 years and STILL learning. 🙃 There are LOTS of “helpful” videos on RUclips, but you can identify the people with real knowledge. They have a humility about them, like Rabbi Friedman. A gentleness for both sides! Thank you, Rabbi! You now have a new follower!
Good men need and deserve all the love, respect and attention in the world.❤And all this comes down to childhood trauma. What an insane world we live in.😢
Thank you this is the most useful comment in this whole fucking post, so sick and tired of these whining-ass men. Real men don't whine about having to be a real fucking man.
Rabbi, ive been telling people what im about to say for decades. God put the man to sleep, removed a portion of his body and made the woman A PART OF HIM. Why he said "The two shall become ONE". The man is connected to the woman in spirit by way of this design. Why God told the man to treat the woman as he treats himself. Because she is a part of him. I try so hard not to laugh when I hear men say to women, "We made you. You came from us" (and im in my sixties, grew up in church and have heard them saying this my entire life) I tell them to go into a delivery room when a woman is giving birth and then come back with that statement. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If you treat a woman like you want to be treated as a man, she’ll leave you. I’m certain you’ve not done what you’ve wrote. Your self awareness is low frequency. It’s not an insult, it’s a fact. Some people self monitor often as in 12 times a hour, and some 1 or 2 times a week. Your the later, I’m the former. It’s a +\- situation. Not better or worse.
Very enlightening speech! I was really helped !! I am a Christian Orthodox but i can appreciate the wise people and i can see how good the advices of Rabbi are. Thanks so much!
I was with a man for 4 years and he would consistently say im Jewish my mother was Jewish. He sure did not treat me like what you are teaching.🤔 I am a Christian and I adored him and treated him with the utmost respect to the end.
We repeat our patterns and energetically attract the same partners that match up with how our parents treated us, and they abused their Authority most times. So our bodies think it's familiar to me with someone who does the same. Even though it's not healthy, and we think we're going to get different results but we are the ones that have to change and learn self-love and self-worth, then we will attract different
As a wife, if your husband starts treating you like you are nothing, your first thought isn't, im nothing. your first thought is, he's found someone else to replace me. And if my husband expresses surprise that I can do a basic task..... I'm infuriated, because he must think I'm a total moron.
I knew my fiancé three years ago, since that time he has been teaching us the Torah, he is not Jewish, just that he awoke and started searching for the truth. We have been following the instructions themost we can. The way he treats himself as a man is how you are describing. And through you I’m confirming that he is right, the way he describes our roles are the same as you state, and of course, how the Creator wanted to be. Your channel is very informative in how we can understand men behaviors or how they were Created, in order for us to don’t get frustrated in this journey lol! We have been facing some hard times, I think we have a lot to learn about each other yet😊. Thank you
As men we have to options. Make something of yourself, find an interest, a passion, or a job of any kind. Or become nothing. Even a man at peace finds things to do to further increase that sense of peace. As for the theology of this curse is that it was the unholy knowledge we weren’t meant to know. I suspect that when Adam, not Eve, ate of the tree of knowledge, once the covenant was broken, we unleashed a curse on both male and female. A man’s curse is the constant reminder that we came of nothing and for women is that they came to be at a man’s side. Not above or beneath but alongside. Eves insurrection of authority and place is what cursed her and Adam ignoring his responsibility was the cause of his.
In coding zeros and ones are used.....male & female - the universe (sun - male) and the earth (female) I have understood something deeper. These guys just mimic nature. Thank you a bunch!
Simplicity of wisdom is amazing!! I’m so glad I listened, thank you 🙏 I’m forever putting away “there are no more good man left” Every man is a beautiful creation and a blessing, and I pray that each one know that 🙏🕊️
Truth! Because of the dysfunction in my family of origin, I grew up never feeling valued at all, treated like I was a “zero” and completely expendable so I can fully understand men and why they feel this way at the hands of women sometimes, especially feminazi females. That’s probably why God’s called me to do men’s ministry because I actually get it. I hate the feminazi agenda. When I listened to this teaching everything started to make sense … why other women have a perception of themselves that ranges between 1 and 10 but never ”0”. I always wondered how they could feel that way and I wished I could too. So I think this applies to men in general, and also to women who were raised in abusive environments where they were not valued. Good teaching I really like listening to you!Very insightful!
You hate the feminine agenda because you don’t understand it.Its not about equal rights with men .Feminine agenda is about basic human rights for every group in humanity.Women fighting for the unprotected and underprivileged humsns
I am so glad I ran upon this video. I appreciated the thoughtful way in which the difference between men and women was presented. I want to hear more wisdom from you, Rabbi.
Thank you Rabbi! My MOST RECENT ex whenever I would mention what we NEED to WORK on for our RELATIONSHIP, he would ALWAYS SAY, "You ACT LIKE that I CAN'T DO ANYTHING RIGHT!"
As a woman, if there is something we need from a guy, since you love that person, you tell your request with gentleness, expressed in your voice. It is how we say it. A loving man, would understand whether he will comply or not with your request.
Wow... Beautiful explaination of the difference between man and woman.. An eye opener video.. I wish i knew this when i was with him because i always disrespected him for being nothing... I now realise how badly i triggered his fear of nothingness.. Whereas he always he always appreciated me.. God please forgive me..
This make so much sense now and allows me to understand our differences so much better and why our nature's are the way they are. But at the same it's kinda sad. Why would men be made in such a way that would create this constant inner suffering in their psyche? Doesn't seem fair or nice. But I'm sure their is a divine understanding to it, but even if not, there has to be some way to help transform this mental condition. Through some kind of spiritual process. I personally think men need that in their lives even more because of this.
So when a woman is content she is happy and the man sees that he is not needed so he goes and does something like start a war just so he can feel needed. Which will put him women and children (basically everyone) in danger just to prove he is needed and satisfy his ego. How is this love again? It’s not!!
@patricejones7905: That's exactly what the Rabbi speaks to. For centuries, women have been conditioned to think the male is the end all be all. They are not. The ONLY thing a male have over a woman is that they are physically stronger. Women are normally the fuel that gets the job done on any corporate entity. I follow a lady called the Queen Maker. She literally dives deep into the biology of women and what happened to the feminine that put women where we are now.
I think so because even the "protection" women and kids need is also protection from men themselves... so yes they create a problem then pose as the solution
@@DD_MENEN That's what happens when women don't appreciate the positive things men do. The uninitiated will burn the village down to finally feel its warmth.
Yes! Finally clarity on men and women. It is so terrible when I see women talk down to their husbands like they are a child. But some of the men seem just happy with it. Build each other up for a happy life
some of the men you are talking about are OK with it because they no longer believe in their self-worth or they don't want to show their discontent because they wife's will fight them for blaming them of disrespect or just label it as insecurity.
The men are PRETENDING. I'm certain behind their womens ' backs they're acting out. Unfortunately, women these days are encouraged to disrespect men. It's spiritual. I can share more if your interested.
Shalom El echem, and Shabbat Shalom. I am now twice divorced and have never been treated like a woman should, I am the exception, I have been conditioned to know I'm nothing and not worth being loved. I'm the negative number forget the zero. If I ever asked either of my exes to do something especially in regards to being protected or covered from others to include from their family and themselves. I'd be punished and hurt, embarrassed, and shamed many times publicly and sometimes even physically. I'm so damaged that I don't want anyone anymore. I'm done, and am nothing.
You are everything you believe to be. What happened to you isn't a description of who you are. Clearly, you are sensitive and love hard. You are love yourself, you are protected, you're supported by all powers directed by the Divine ❤ you are enough. You are a radiant beam of light, full of peace and positivity ❤
You are not nothing!! My grand daughter was upset one day and she told me “I’m nothing” I looked at her and said in a loud voice “You are EVERYTHING to me” and I meant that. You are everything to someone, you just need to love yourself and find that special person and don’t settle for ANYONE who is disrespectful to you. YOU ARE SOMETHING, YOU ARE ENOUGH.
In order to be "something" to other people, you have to learn to be something to yourself. Work On your trauma, carry yourself with dignity and honor and the rest of the world will take notice and treat you as such.
It's really telling, that in this time and the state of culture, the women in the crowd laugh gleefully at the predicament of men. I'm very glad that I had ego death long ago. I've been made to feel like nothing for a very long time. But I see through it and have anchors where needed.
Sometimes you laugh of the things you are afraid of. But I think I understand what you mean. Another example of what your saying is that at least in Sweden men are often made fun of in the commercials. I hate that, and I am a woman. I cannot stand the TV. I choose to throw it away decades ago, and don't miss it. I would't watch it if I got paid to do so. We have to carefully choose what to listen to/look at. Our Life depends on it. We must only listen to things that edify.
Lol, like males haven't been relentless about their pursuits of self, at the expense/exploitation of both women and children. What a pity to not pity the one who does wrong! You should rejoice that they laugh at your idiosyncrasies rather than seek revenge for where you are lacking, and have always remained unfulfilled in your responsible duties as males.
But….. this video says that. There’s a plethora of women who value men, but they are not valued inhale. The ones who negatively challenge a man are the ones who they want.
Fascinating information. Some were very new to me. About what? Regarding man and woman, husband and wife. But nobody will admit especially men because of the reason you have explained beautifully. Thank you very much, Rabi.
is This WHY some men may make you WAIT for the thing that you asked them to do? so They can FEEL Needed? i hear from Contractors wives often that there are several UNFINISHED works in their homes.
It is about control. If you asked him to do something because you/the house need it, he knows he it needed. If he keeps delaying is about conting you and then demeaning you that you can't do that job. Give him 2 chances, then do the job yourself and he either gets on with the program or you can stop asking him. They plat to many games!
Shalom Rabbi and everybody!! As everyday, always grateful for your teachings Rabbi Friedman!! Thank you!! May you and all here have a Great Month and wonderful day!! May Hashem help bring back the hostages safe and soon!! Amein!! Gut Chodesh!! 💪✡️🙏❤️🔥
A retired old man whom I used to work for has already informed me about what most male persons are like which us women need to be aware of in order to stay safe concerning our self esteem and self worth too. He said that people with that kind of mentality most of whom are male up until the day he could retire were negative affecting him for his whole life too only because of his visible disability. He was for his entire working life before retirement as an accountant got paid less than the men in that same work place were getting paid for doing the same work that they were doing. It took him a while to figure that out since he was brought up by a single mom. A single mom who treated him like a somebody whom she felt grateful to have around.
woman may not have came from nothing, but she can definitely end up feeling like she's nothing, especially when she's been told in every way, by everyone that was suppose to love and be there for her. so I respectfully disagree with you rabbi, woman can most definitely feel like nothing, like they don't matter, or not needed, that there not wanted.
I've seen it many times on YT where men of authority think that women never experience some feelings that they do. It puzzles me, they think women lead easy and joyful lives without self doubt or hints of internal suffering. It shows me that they operate on a just a concept of a woman they have in their minds. Take what they say with a grain of salt
I am a woman, and I've constantly felt like nothing my whole life. I can't say I have accomplished much, and it often feels like the people I put so much into caring for don't appreciate what I do for them. No man has given to me in ages, and honestly, I often feel like I don't deserve it. If you are Christian or raised in a Christian world, it's even worse, because nothing you do will ever measure up, because you are seen as naturally less than a man and everything is wrong with you. So a lot of us just give up on being anything special or important and just try to get by best we can. We give up on finding healthy, loving relationships. Sometimes we can find ourselves again, other times we can't.
@@sararatliff7707 I hear you, especially the part as being Christian makes a woman feel like she is naturally inferior to a man. I've been struggling with the same thing, but the older I am, the more I see (and life shows) that it is a lie created to keep women in check. Abrahamic religions are not women friendly and men who spent lives reading and writing holy books think they know the best, while it is women who are close to the stream of life and it's full experience. We can feel many things, but denying that women can feel like nothing shows how disconnected some of these holy men are
You missed the point, people have to tell women she's nothing for her to feel like nothing but for men it is naturally ingrained in them even though no one has told them this
I think that with women it's more important to feel like you belong to a husband/ family/ community then to feel like you are nothing as a person but for man - that are more competitive- you can be more than others or nothing especially today when man can show other men what they have. For women it's less about me and material stuff and more about what do I give as a member in a group.
Do you know how many men complain of being asked to do anything by women and accuse women of being too demanding? It’s a catch 22. They don’t want to be asked but they don’t want to not be asked.
@@mateuszw383 🤣🤣🤣rightttt you know the saying "closed mouths don't get fed". If it doesn't benefit women for the most part they don't care what a man says.
Dear Mr. Rabbi Manis Friedman, thank you very much for your very eloquent and concise thoughts. What you say about men, I can see in myself. What you say about women, I can guess, thanks to a lovely young lady in my life, that makes my life more worth living. Thank you for your bravery in pointing out the difference between females/males. Thank you for being a teacher.
My Husband say‘s always: a man must be a lion outside, at home he must be peaceful like a sheep. If a man get‘s aggressive towards his family, it‘s over. And it is not working for women and children at all.
And aggressive women can be scarier because kids turn to them 1st for solace. The rageaholic woman makes boys not trust females of all ages.
😂😂 and the woman is a lion in the house and a sheep outside... most boys have the strongest impression of their mothers being rageaholics.
@@antiprismatic"Most"? Please point to research on this. A woman saying the opposite would be asked to do so.
@@rejectionisprotection4448 menopause.
I can personally assure you, as per my own parents. Its not over when a man gets aggressive. Violent and aggressive is not the same thing. An aggressive man is venting, but is not unreasonable. A violent man is a man with no other choice. I think you meant a violent man as opposed to aggressive.
Aggressive behaviour is a shutdown to collaboration. It is not consistently present, but periodically. If we're talking about a man who cannot collabobrate but feels threatened, he'll be violent. Else the aggressive behaviour is already an admittance to weakness.
Either way, its only over for the women if they have weak personal boundaries. Else they'd see the weakness eating up an aggressive man, and help him cope with it. It is when a man fails to see his women is helping him that he feels constantly pressured and ultimately becomes violent. Then its over. Else that aggression represents a disconnect with his women and children. Use that to help him. It is over the moment everyone, not just the man, is too weak to deal with the scenario at hand; some people who are unable to talk about what they feel and think, and the other unable to accept that.
Don't generalise aggressive behaviour as it may have many causes. The more scarcity mindset you have, the more aggressive you are. Get yourself in abundance, and its never over (in the right way).
We gender everything. From my experience, insecure men are comfortable with controlling women. Secure men understand that their wives have God-given gifts and talents that he dare not control. That’s a demonstration of love.
Love is patient
Love is Kind
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Wow that is the simplest most profound way of saying exactly what I was thinking... this isnt a man woman thing this is an insecure thing..
You are 💯 percent right
@@Juggalettainsecurity is what drives people to control relationships in a way they cannot be questioned. Needing a “last say”? Extremely insecure
Interesting. In my experience, and I just told my therapist this, I will never date another insecure man again. I find them controlling and full of problems. However, I can also think of one man I know who is very insecure and allows his wife to control nearly everything. He's afraid to stand up to her. Either way, I have learned my lesson. Dating a confident, secure man resulted in the healthiest relationship I ever had. Unfortunately, we did not want the same things in life, but he's one of the best human beings I have ever met.
So, man is the helpmate for woman and not the other way around. This makes more sense being that men need to feel needed by women.
The man is a leader and provider...
He leads to fix things to provide for what the woman needs.
While the woman appreciates all his effort.
No
@@dianaverano7878 What if he doesn't do these things and leaves it for his wife to figure out and get done? What if he gives her money for some of the household bills but then asks for that money back because he overextended himself? What if she praises him and shows appreciation for the smallest things hoping it will encourage him to tackle the bigger things, but he never does? How does a wife handle a husband who doesn't want to lead and provide, but wants the wife to fulfill his obligations as well as hers?
@@starr234as a wife, since she is in love with her husband, she has to gently request out of love the kind of treatment she wants to have.
It is on the manner of saying it.
Instead of argumentative way, a wife can softly say her needs.
In a request.
Almost always, a loving husband will do it for his wife. Men provide. Ask for it. They provide. It is not only thru money.
Men who wont try to please his wife in any way is not in love with her anymore. Almost always, a guy will figure it how to make the woman he loves happy
@@dianaverano7878 I always gently requested and was not argumentative. I never asked for money for anything other than regular household bills like groceries, mortgage, utilities and I only asked that he pay half. He also cheated so I'm sure he was no longer in love with me. He left me and when he decided to come back two weeks later, I told him no. I could tell he only wanted to come back because life was easier living with me since I did everything. Also, I think the other woman must have told him she didn't want to be with him or that he couldn't move in with her. Not all men are born leaders and providers.
I am a woman, and there's NOTHING on earth that could make me feel like nothing. Amen !
For this to be true, one needs to be intimately connected to one's Creator.
My husband and I have been married for 6 years. He was recently diagnosed with a terminal disease. I never understood this about men and women. Listening to this makes me relive flashbacks of our conversations. Some of it if funny and some of it is heartbreaking, honestly. Especially knowing there's little time left.
I’m glad you found him. Some of us are still searching and some will never find love. ❤️
Praying for you and your husband.
Davening for you and your dear husband
@@thebarbieinvestor5428 you'll find it
I hope you and your husband are able to enjoy your marriage and it is prolong. ALWAYS VISUALIZE TOMORROW
I need to be more sensitive to my husband as I can be a bit sharp tongued. I can do better by being more humble. ❤
Your husband is your destiny. You can do nothing about thiS ! 😀
@@kenzo4Ever I am very fortunate to have him for my husband. I just had to grow up and quit being so selfish.
A smart decision.
They can truly be infuriating!! I think you're doing better than you think though because you have reflected upon it and chosen to act! I think thats a big mazel tov and half the battle
😢humility is being able to say sorry. Go in to the memories you have ask for apologies and give apologies to learn.
I’m only 3 minutes in and what he said about “being nothing” is PROFOUND 🤯 … RUclips came through with another random but great video suggestion
This is so beautiful. My heart goes out to every good man who feels this way to know that there are good women who love and appreciate everything you do and everything you are ❤️💯.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom Rabbi. 🙏🏽
When I say “i can do that” it’s my way of apologizing for asking/ receiving/ needing because I was always shamed as a kid for asking/ needing/ wanting/ inconveniencing anyone
This video made me love life, love humans, love men, love women. I love respecting them, I love backing up a little bit so she can shine/feel like herself, live, as the free being, individual they are.
To many in the audience smirking at hearing the man say we’re afraid of being nothing. I feel it to my very core.
I didn't like hearing the laughter and smirking, and also realize that some people do that when they are nervous or don't know what else to do. 🙂
Yes, I was thinking the same thing. I was wondering why their laughing at something so serious.
Omg wow this has totally blown my mind! in 30 min, explained SO much about me as a woman, and about the men in my life. An awful lot makes sense now that I hadn't previously understood. Thank you Rabbi Friedman!
You should ask the men in your life if it's true. 😊
Lol ya got a point there😄
Actions do speak louder than words tho...
@@mjey1U can also look at the men how they lived in Ur family
@emj850 don't ask just watch....u will see the truth not hear what they want u to
I love you rabbi you are making me laugh to sleep
I am a born again Christian and I just love this Rabbi! Bless your heart Rabbi Manis, I do love you!!
Born again? And, you love Trump? Asking for a friend
@AsantewaaBoateng-iv9yp why would you put down this person and add Trump? That beautiful person loves rabbi...that's it...but you go in w your silly comments
@@AsantewaaBoateng-iv9ypI love Trump myself
@@AsantewaaBoateng-iv9ypWhere in this person’s comment did they mention Trump? I love Trump myself.
This has been very eye opening and appreciated. I see where I have unconsciously been erroneous in assuming my husband knew I appreciated all of the things he has been doing to make me feel special for all of these years no matter where I was. I have always known he was watching over me. I have always felt like the luckiest woman in the world because of having him on my side. I need and appreciate everything he has done and continues to do for me. We will have to teach "each other" how to treat each other in those very personal intricacies. I need and appreciate hom in every way.
I still feel this way and yearn for him. Want to touch and embrace him. ❤❤❤😘
“The woman doesn’t need to give as much as she needs to receive.”
As much as she needs to receive
@@enadiedericks2006 good call my friend
This makes soo much sense As a woman I was a master at justifying my abuse and now thanks to you,, I get this thank you !!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring her back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is *Shelly renee white* , and she is a great spiritual counsellor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
Fake ad 😂
What a gem of wisdom, my mind is so relaxed. How come I missed his teachings all these years. Feeling so blessed.
Me too ⭐
Me too
Me too ❤
I know that I should not find it surprising that this is exactly the message I needed to hear this morning - it happens so often. Thank you!
It takes a sensitive soul to appreciate when messages come to you at exactly the right time 😊
Remarkable thing. Ditto. I’ll be joining the community soon. Perhaps for Sunday.
God speaks through him directly
Some woman transforms their man in nothing sometimes.
You are a BEAUTIFUL Man You are Essential, Brian We as Women NEED YOU we Need Men all of you.
We women & Men. wouldn’t be here without you guys. I love exercising & feeling attractive for my husband. I am strong enough to learn how to do manly work. I enjoy knowing how to yet prefer my man to want to do it.
MEN PLEASE DO NOT EVER FORGET Today Yesterday and Certainly Tomorrow YOU ARE VALUED AND NEEDED
When the man isnt doing the manly things such as leading the home and taking care of his wife and son, the woman is forced to get out of her feminine role as a wife and step into a mans position. If a woman motivates the man but the man keeps on making immature choices that affect the family stability it eventually will create resentment. In the end the woman will lose respect for a man. Yes life happens and a man might be down but if he's doing nothing to build himself back up even though his woman motivates him thats usually the moment when the man takes offense to her comments.
This right here is so true.
Government and family courts are on her side. That puts her in a dominant role.
@@minnesotajude8447 people like you love to regurgitate this and tell it.
It’s been about 50 years since the courts made laws to help women compared to thousands of years of recorded history of men walking out on their families and leaving them to fend for themselves in times when a woman’s only form of income was prostitution in order to survive and feed her kids and you modern ignorant men seem to forget that very important part so go cry about why women don’t deserve to have the courts side with her when the laws were changed BECAUSE men made a habit of walking out on their families. These laws even out the playing field for everyone.
@@minnesotajude8447wrong. Government and family courts are on her side just in case the man becomes reduced to dust.
What manly things... like work... change tires. Most women do this stuff anyway.
Honestly I get what your saying. Obviously your man shouldn't be a total deadbeat. But it also doesn't make you a man to have a job or take care of you a kids, or less feminine somehow to actually work in life.
I mean it's nice if your man is a provider, but your not less of a woman if you have to join the rest of us who didn't find a sugar daddy to marry and pay all our bills.
I am a women. I have been treated like I am a nothing and had totally lost all feelings of worth or value.
That's religion for you
Is that a good or bad thing for you?
@@karinsvanback7497 Some religious people do lots of good but that doesn't mean religion does any good, on the contrary, it does a lot of bad: Genecide (e.g. crusades, flood), slavery, genital mutilation, misogyny, homophobia etc
The G-d of Christianity and Judaism is the real G-d, that is why they are true religions. They connect with the true G-d. All other "religions" are false religions because the Devil is their "god". They are just not informed because G-d wants to be the G-d of everyone. But it is true, even the Catholic church admits the church is not a perfect example. Especially not with the present "pope". He could very well be the Antichrist (Antimessiah). Only G-d is perfect, but we are called to be perfect!!! That is such a blessing. That is so nice. That gives so much hope, and takes away so much anxiety.
You are who GOD SAYS YOU ARE. Not how anyone treats you!
Wow. Such deep words of wisdom. Feels like common sense and yet not recognized enough in the modern world. Thank you Rabbi Manis.
I am actually Catholic and listening to You makes me realise it’s so true what you say about woman and man. One of the best podcast I have listened to. Thank You for sharing with us your words of wisdom! ❤ You are amazing man❤
I have been married happily for ten years now so far and I relate to this. I am not Jewish or any religion per say I just believe in god the almighty but I feel like you are so knowledgeable and I love how y’all write the book like that with the most knowledge about just like life in general I follow you though and love everything you educate me about. Thanks!!
I am christian but jewish ethnically and the rebbe is wise. He helps me too. Tell me what helped you keep married ten years?
God. With a capital G. Or Yahweh. Or “I am”. 😊
This man is a GENIUS. God bless him
The compliment has to be true and non manipulative.
Men need to be honored by theur wives. Wives need to be loved by their husbands.
Funny how the vows are to love, honor, and obey...
Sir, you are my own personal Jewish Gandalf. You could certainly comfort me with a wise and kind word in the mines of Moriah🤘
I second this. Very cute and 100% spot on. He has one lucky/blessed wife. :)
I love my husband SO MUCH and am completely contented-this has JUST explained my husband! I’m amazed.
Shalom Rabbi Friedman. I have been watching your videos for a while now and I wanted to thank you because I have learned how understand my husband because of you.
😂 This explains it all. I was raised with three brothers. Didn't understand the weirdness of the opposite sex. Than I got married, still couldn't understand men until now!!😅😂
They’re very fragile beings.
Bahaha ❤ You go sister lol Brothers are great to grow up with lol We learn by a lot as women who grew up with decent brothers.
@@o.revi.this is great to be reminded of… I have been blessed with 4 and I still don’t know how to socialize with my own gender on certain occasions. Almost five decades later I am now learning that a little better though.
@@ladybug3380that is why they are not suitable for leadership
❤"that thing" is to treat other's as you would have them treat you.❤Matthew 7:12❤
It’s important for females to be in their feminine posture which is to nurture and receive 🎉 I never realized the depth of the pain man had as a rating of “0” thank you for this teaching
Are u feminine urself. And are u looking to get married
How can a woman be feminine when the men of today don't let you? We have to be the men in relationships. Never dealing with this trash again. Men are so lost. And they will continue to be until they get right with God.
We’re 😪
It's important for people to just be themselves and to be kind and thoughtful to others. No shoving people into boxes where they might not perfectly fit.
Let’s start by not referring to ourselves as “females” while calling men “men”. 🙄
Beautiful Teachings ❣️ WISDOM..my goodness I’ve never heard this before. Personal Life, Families and Communities can thrive with this type of educational conversation. 🌹
Man was created from the spoken Word of God out of His heart and love. If a man doesn’t realize that and think he was made out of nothing I can see how this could be true but a lie.
Right on ! Created for a purpose too and an intimate relationship with the Father
The breath of god right?
Wow that’s brilliant. I am a non-jewish french speaker and I just drank all what you said. Thank you.
I disagree with the statement that women can’t feel like nothing. Women can definitely feel like nothing. I’ve felt it several times in my life..and every time it was because a man I loved made me feel that way because of his actions, or lack of action, and/or his words. I have to keep telling myself that I’m something to God. That’s the only way I can go on. I’m broken.
Praise Be To God, that He alone is Something. Because of God Only: We are something, and anyone thats something, is truly nothing.
Yes, I have had the same experience especially when I was in an abusive relationship.
@@melasmontanayogahomestead7818 Same.
Wow. This has been soo eye opening. I now understand things about men a little better.
I love to learn about male/female relationships. Married 32 years and STILL learning. 🙃
There are LOTS of “helpful” videos on RUclips, but you can identify the people with real knowledge. They have a humility about them, like Rabbi Friedman. A gentleness for both sides!
Thank you, Rabbi! You now have a new follower!
As a man I can say this is utterly true
Good men need and deserve all the love, respect and attention in the world.❤And all this comes down to childhood trauma. What an insane world we live in.😢
Yup, people don't pick the most healthy partners, perpetuating toxic dynamics. Healthy people pick healthy partners.
They don’t exist. Too stuck in ego.
That was one of the most important knowledge about men and women❤ thank you
I've worried about what men want for decades and it got me nowhere. They can go stuff themselves.
Thank you this is the most useful comment in this whole fucking post, so sick and tired of these whining-ass men. Real men don't whine about having to be a real fucking man.
You haven't found me yet....
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Don't be a pushover
You are a delight to watch. Such wisdom. I would love to sit at your feet and absorb your vibration in person. Blessings. Peace.
Rabbi, ive been telling people what im about to say for decades.
God put the man to sleep, removed a portion of his body and made the woman A PART OF HIM. Why he said "The two shall become ONE". The man is connected to the woman in spirit by way of this design. Why God told the man to treat the woman as he treats himself. Because she is a part of him.
I try so hard not to laugh when I hear men say to women, "We made you. You came from us" (and im in my sixties, grew up in church and have heard them saying this my entire life) I tell them to go into a delivery room when a woman is giving birth and then come back with that statement. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If you treat a woman like you want to be treated as a man, she’ll leave you.
I’m certain you’ve not done what you’ve wrote. Your self awareness is low frequency.
It’s not an insult, it’s a fact. Some people self monitor often as in 12 times a hour, and some 1 or 2 times a week.
Your the later, I’m the former. It’s a +\- situation. Not better or worse.
Very enlightening speech! I was really helped !! I am a Christian Orthodox but i can appreciate the wise people and i can see how good the advices of Rabbi are. Thanks so much!
May God continue to bless you and yours and keep his loving arms wrapped around you. Traveling grace to you. You explained so very well.
Such a beautifully wise lesson.
I was with a man for 4 years and he would consistently say im Jewish my mother was Jewish. He sure did not treat me like what you are teaching.🤔 I am a Christian and I adored him and treated him with the utmost respect to the end.
He miss you yet? Or maybe he misses a mean person
We repeat our patterns and energetically attract the same partners that match up with how our parents treated us, and they abused their Authority most times. So our bodies think it's familiar to me with someone who does the same. Even though it's not healthy, and we think we're going to get different results but we are the ones that have to change and learn self-love and self-worth, then we will attract different
What a great man! His wisdom is incredible.
As a wife, if your husband starts treating you like you are nothing, your first thought isn't, im nothing. your first thought is, he's found someone else to replace me.
And if my husband expresses surprise that I can do a basic task..... I'm infuriated, because he must think I'm a total moron.
😂
What a wise man! I wish every men and women could listen to you and understand this ❤
I have been listening to other videos, I love the way you explain things. I love the humor, I never knew significance of creation to women and men
I knew my fiancé three years ago, since that time he has been teaching us the Torah, he is not Jewish, just that he awoke and started searching for the truth. We have been following the instructions themost we can. The way he treats himself as a man is how you are describing. And through you I’m confirming that he is right, the way he describes our roles are the same as you state, and of course, how the Creator wanted to be. Your channel is very informative in how we can understand men behaviors or how they were Created, in order for us to don’t get frustrated in this journey lol! We have been facing some hard times, I think we have a lot to learn about each other yet😊. Thank you
As men we have to options. Make something of yourself, find an interest, a passion, or a job of any kind. Or become nothing. Even a man at peace finds things to do to further increase that sense of peace. As for the theology of this curse is that it was the unholy knowledge we weren’t meant to know. I suspect that when Adam, not Eve, ate of the tree of knowledge, once the covenant was broken, we unleashed a curse on both male and female. A man’s curse is the constant reminder that we came of nothing and for women is that they came to be at a man’s side. Not above or beneath but alongside. Eves insurrection of authority and place is what cursed her and Adam ignoring his responsibility was the cause of his.
In coding zeros and ones are used.....male & female - the universe (sun - male) and the earth (female) I have understood something deeper. These guys just mimic nature. Thank you a bunch!
I fear that the ladies in his audience don't truly get it.
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They’re disrespectful.
nope just disrespectful, egotistical
I keep thinking, "why are they laughing?"
It’s like a comedy show 😢it’s pretty sad for a man to feel like nothing.
Simplicity of wisdom is amazing!!
I’m so glad I listened, thank you 🙏
I’m forever putting away “there are no more good man left”
Every man is a beautiful creation and a blessing, and I pray that each one know that 🙏🕊️
Truth! Because of the dysfunction in my family of origin, I grew up never feeling valued at all, treated like I was a “zero” and completely expendable so I can fully understand men and why they feel this way at the hands of women sometimes, especially feminazi females. That’s probably why God’s called me to do men’s ministry because I actually get it. I hate the feminazi agenda. When I listened to this teaching everything started to make sense … why other women have a perception of themselves that ranges between 1 and 10 but never ”0”. I always wondered how they could feel that way and I wished I could too. So I think this applies to men in general, and also to women who were raised in abusive environments where they were not valued. Good teaching I really like listening to you!Very insightful!
You hate the feminine agenda because you don’t understand it.Its not about equal rights with men .Feminine agenda is about basic human rights for every group in humanity.Women fighting for the unprotected and underprivileged humsns
I really enjoy when he explains things like this. It’s so practical and important. I never knew men felt this way.
I wish, I had this wisdom before my husband passed away.
I am so glad I ran upon this video. I appreciated the thoughtful way in which the difference between men and women was presented. I want to hear more wisdom from you, Rabbi.
Hashem Bless Rabbi Friedman and Israel Forever ♾️🙏🙏🙏
Choose one only .
Thank you Rabbi! My MOST RECENT ex whenever I would mention what we NEED to WORK on for our RELATIONSHIP, he would ALWAYS SAY, "You ACT LIKE that I CAN'T DO ANYTHING RIGHT!"
Did you listen or did you just brush it off ? Is that why you are no longer together?
As a woman, if there is something we need from a guy, since you love that person, you tell your request with gentleness, expressed in your voice.
It is how we say it.
A loving man, would understand whether he will comply or not with your request.
Finally - some sane talk on RUclips.
Princella Clark is reviewing him tonight at 9pm cst. You should come over.😊
Wow... Beautiful explaination of the difference between man and woman.. An eye opener video.. I wish i knew this when i was with him because i always disrespected him for being nothing... I now realise how badly i triggered his fear of nothingness.. Whereas he always he always appreciated me.. God please forgive me..
This make so much sense now and allows me to understand our differences so much better and why our nature's are the way they are. But at the same it's kinda sad. Why would men be made in such a way that would create this constant inner suffering in their psyche? Doesn't seem fair or nice. But I'm sure their is a divine understanding to it, but even if not, there has to be some way to help transform this mental condition. Through some kind of spiritual process. I personally think men need that in their lives even more because of this.
Personal relationship with their creator and understanding of HIS purpose for them
Rabbi is full of wisdom!!
God bless u
So when a woman is content she is happy and the man sees that he is not needed so he goes and does something like start a war just so he can feel needed. Which will put him women and children (basically everyone) in danger just to prove he is needed and satisfy his ego. How is this love again? It’s not!!
A Fine Balancing act, between two parts, always.
@patricejones7905: That's exactly what the Rabbi speaks to. For centuries, women have been conditioned to think the male is the end all be all. They are not. The ONLY thing a male have over a woman is that they are physically stronger.
Women are normally the fuel that gets the job done on any corporate entity.
I follow a lady called the Queen Maker. She literally dives deep into the biology of women and what happened to the feminine that put women where we are now.
Men are incapable of loving
I think so because even the "protection" women and kids need is also protection from men themselves... so yes they create a problem then pose as the solution
@@DD_MENEN
That's what happens when women don't appreciate the positive things men do.
The uninitiated will burn the village down to finally feel its warmth.
He is such a wise man. I will consume anything and everything he has produced and is publicly available.
Yes! Finally clarity on men and women. It is so terrible when I see women talk down to their husbands like they are a child. But some of the men seem just happy with it. Build each other up for a happy life
some of the men you are talking about are OK with it because they no longer believe in their self-worth or they don't want to show their discontent because they wife's will fight them for blaming them of disrespect or just label it as insecurity.
The men are PRETENDING. I'm certain behind their womens ' backs they're acting out. Unfortunately, women these days are encouraged to disrespect men. It's spiritual. I can share more if your interested.
WOW. Rabbi you are amazing. Your teaching gave me a lightbulb moment. Thank you ❤
Shalom El echem, and Shabbat Shalom. I am now twice divorced and have never been treated like a woman should, I am the exception, I have been conditioned to know I'm nothing and not worth being loved. I'm the negative number forget the zero. If I ever asked either of my exes to do something especially in regards to being protected or covered from others to include from their family and themselves. I'd be punished and hurt, embarrassed, and shamed many times publicly and sometimes even physically. I'm so damaged that I don't want anyone anymore. I'm done, and am nothing.
You are everything you believe to be. What happened to you isn't a description of who you are. Clearly, you are sensitive and love hard. You are love yourself, you are protected, you're supported by all powers directed by the Divine ❤ you are enough. You are a radiant beam of light, full of peace and positivity ❤
You are not nothing!!
My grand daughter was upset one day and she told me “I’m nothing” I looked at her and said in a loud voice “You are EVERYTHING to me” and I meant that.
You are everything to someone, you just need to love yourself and find that special person and don’t settle for ANYONE who is disrespectful to you.
YOU ARE SOMETHING, YOU ARE ENOUGH.
In order to be "something" to other people, you have to learn to be something to yourself. Work On your trauma, carry yourself with dignity and honor and the rest of the world will take notice and treat you as such.
ABSOLUTELY well said
ABSOLUTELY well said
This is such psychology😊!!! Wow I am impressed ❤❤❤😊! Will follow ❤althoug I am othodox Christian❤!
It's really telling, that in this time and the state of culture, the women in the crowd laugh gleefully at the predicament of men. I'm very glad that I had ego death long ago. I've been made to feel like nothing for a very long time. But I see through it and have anchors where needed.
Sometimes you laugh of the things you are afraid of. But I think I understand what you mean. Another example of what your saying is that at least in Sweden men are often made fun of in the commercials. I hate that, and I am a woman. I cannot stand the TV. I choose to throw it away decades ago, and don't miss it. I would't watch it if I got paid to do so. We have to carefully choose what to listen to/look at. Our Life depends on it. We must only listen to things that edify.
I was wondering why are they laughing so much at a serious discussion
Women often laugh to indicate their nervousness, not their approval.
Lol, like males haven't been relentless about their pursuits of self, at the expense/exploitation of both women and children. What a pity to not pity the one who does wrong! You should rejoice that they laugh at your idiosyncrasies rather than seek revenge for where you are lacking, and have always remained unfulfilled in your responsible duties as males.
But….. this video says that. There’s a plethora of women who value men, but they are not valued inhale. The ones who negatively challenge a man are the ones who they want.
Fascinating information. Some were very new to me. About what? Regarding man and woman, husband and wife. But nobody will admit especially men because of the reason you have explained beautifully. Thank you very much, Rabi.
Why are most laughing…I see no humor in what he states. His wisdom is beautiful. I would sit quietly and take notes.
Thank you for this gift. ❤️
This is brilliant. Rabbi, thanks for this, from a Lutheran. 😊
A very great message for you Rabbi Manis Friedman, it is very much true
Thank you for this!!!! So powerful!!!! Truely helpls me understand my husband on a much deeper level.
is This WHY some men may make you WAIT for the thing that you asked them to do? so They can FEEL Needed? i hear from Contractors wives often that there are several UNFINISHED works in their homes.
@@WorstDruidEU he’s Actually Said That to me🤯🤯 ‘I don’t have anybody to Impress’
I was like ‘ Yes You Do!’
He looked SURPRISED 🙁🙁
It is about control. If you asked him to do something because you/the house need it, he knows he it needed. If he keeps delaying is about conting you and then demeaning you that you can't do that job. Give him 2 chances, then do the job yourself and he either gets on with the program or you can stop asking him. They plat to many games!
Mind-blowing explanation 👌👌👌
Shalom Rabbi and everybody!! As everyday, always grateful for your teachings Rabbi Friedman!! Thank you!!
May you and all here have a Great Month and wonderful day!!
May Hashem help bring back the hostages safe and soon!! Amein!!
Gut Chodesh!!
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Amen 🩵🇮🇱💙
Amein!!!
Rabbi Friedman,Please keep talking about the relationship between a Man and Women.
This talk was so clear, full of wisdom and depth. Thank you❤
I love this 👏 👏 appreciating a man goes a long way in every relationship 😊makes them feel much important
A retired old man whom I used to work for has already informed me about what most male persons are like which us women need to be aware of in order to stay safe concerning our self esteem and self worth too. He said that people with that kind of mentality most of whom are male up until the day he could retire were negative affecting him for his whole life too only because of his visible disability. He was for his entire working life before retirement as an accountant got paid less than the men in that same work place were getting paid for doing the same work that they were doing. It took him a while to figure that out since he was brought up by a single mom. A single mom who treated him like a somebody whom she felt grateful to have around.
woman may not have came from nothing, but she can definitely end up feeling like she's nothing, especially when she's been told in every way, by everyone that was suppose to love and be there for her. so I respectfully disagree with you rabbi, woman can most definitely feel like nothing, like they don't matter, or not needed, that there not wanted.
I've seen it many times on YT where men of authority think that women never experience some feelings that they do. It puzzles me, they think women lead easy and joyful lives without self doubt or hints of internal suffering.
It shows me that they operate on a just a concept of a woman they have in their minds. Take what they say with a grain of salt
I am a woman, and I've constantly felt like nothing my whole life. I can't say I have accomplished much, and it often feels like the people I put so much into caring for don't appreciate what I do for them. No man has given to me in ages, and honestly, I often feel like I don't deserve it. If you are Christian or raised in a Christian world, it's even worse, because nothing you do will ever measure up, because you are seen as naturally less than a man and everything is wrong with you. So a lot of us just give up on being anything special or important and just try to get by best we can. We give up on finding healthy, loving relationships. Sometimes we can find ourselves again, other times we can't.
@@sararatliff7707 I hear you, especially the part as being Christian makes a woman feel like she is naturally inferior to a man. I've been struggling with the same thing, but the older I am, the more I see (and life shows) that it is a lie created to keep women in check. Abrahamic religions are not women friendly and men who spent lives reading and writing holy books think they know the best, while it is women who are close to the stream of life and it's full experience.
We can feel many things, but denying that women can feel like nothing shows how disconnected some of these holy men are
You missed the point, people have to tell women she's nothing for her to feel like nothing but for men it is naturally ingrained in them even though no one has told them this
@@kazania7653 he says that when a woman hears she is nothing, it doesn't compute. Which is not true
Hashem put it on our hearts it is hard yet needed for our heart beats together. Hashem loves us.
I know a lot of women who have felt like a nothing myself included and believe me I completely understand.
I think that with women it's more important to feel like you belong to a husband/ family/ community then to feel like you are nothing as a person but for man - that are more competitive- you can be more than others or nothing especially today when man can show other men what they have. For women it's less about me and material stuff and more about what do I give as a member in a group.
I don’t agree. Studies show that the self esteem of women goes down as early as the age of 8. At the end of the day we all crave love and kindness.
So true
I agree. We all do. It's human.
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I always reqognized men are more sensitive and needs more uplifting and motivation.
This is very enlightening
Do you know how many men complain of being asked to do anything by women and accuse women of being too demanding? It’s a catch 22. They don’t want to be asked but they don’t want to not be asked.
Perhaps it's the way you're asking them?
It's about appreciation I think, and not demands
When you demand something to be done it is not the same as asking for something to be done.
"When you stop demanding what you are not given. You are open to receiving what you deserve".
@@mateuszw383 🤣🤣🤣rightttt you know the saying "closed mouths don't get fed". If it doesn't benefit women for the most part they don't care what a man says.
I’m not Jewish.. most likely I’ll never be Jewish… but i enjoy higher learning and wisdom❤
Dear Mr. Rabbi Manis Friedman, thank you very much for your very eloquent and concise thoughts. What you say about men, I can see in myself. What you say about women, I can guess, thanks to a lovely young lady in my life, that makes my life more worth living. Thank you for your bravery in pointing out the difference between females/males. Thank you for being a teacher.
The greatest Rbbai❤❤❤
Many women feel invisible.
What do you mean?
Thank you very very much! 🇧🇷 Best regards from Brazil!
It simply means that a man is FULLY dependent on GOD to treat a woman like who she is