she is 18? WOW ! she sounded much older , so mature , well spoken . She is going to be a very strong and comfortble with herself for every year that goes by.
“What grade did u get?” “An A.” “Of course you did, you’re smart.” “No, I studied.” “But you’re smart, so you didn’t have to.” “But I really did have to take the time to study.” “I wish I was Asian and smart.” No you don’t.
That always happens! “Are you Chinese or Japanese?” “I’m Korean” “Oh cool...where’s that?” “In Asia” “Ohhhhhh....North or South?” Literally every introduction ever
What I about to say is true, no joking. I am 100% Chinese, I hate math, when I was in China, my math is the worst in my class, from elementary to high school. After I came to Canada for university, my math is the best in class.... This is real. The math in the university in Canada is easier than Chinese middle school....
I love this! When teacher talks about racism, it is often referred to darker skin beautiful people who certainly deserve the right to receive the equal behaviors as others, but Asian are often always excluded when racial discriminations and racism problems are discussed probably because of lighter skin than other minorities. However, Asians many times do get treated differently and feel uncomfortable listening to stereotypical jokes.
EXACTLY! I know that darker skin people are greatly discriminated against especially with the stream of terror attacks recently and refugee crisis, and this should be addressed but I always feel that they forget about asians! Our Asian men are emasculated and asian women are always seen as submissive sexual creatures. I HATE IT.
Im Asian,Yes,Im good at maths,I like rice,I drink hot water,I speak English,Mandarin,Shanghainese and 4 Dialets,and I look younger than white as the same age.Why shouldn't I be proud of being Chinese?
I am a white mom, incredibly blessed with a Korean daughter. I've tried to instill in her a love and pride of being Korean as well as being American. Sarang hang da, Yoon Ah!
lord raythirs ya know gangnam style(psy)? Yeah that guy's korean. ( im half korean and im only mentioning that song because a lot of people know it dont hurt me please)
sortedtales And what makes you think that? I'd like to hear why you think she's an idiot when she presented herself powerfully and gave a moving presentation. And are you Asian? I would whole heartedly really like to know. Because if you're not, I don't think you can understand what it's like to find someone who says what you've been feeling for your whole life.
Oh, so now this is about Trump? And for a non-Asian, it can be really hard to understand how we feel. I know that she is a perfectly capable human being, but sometimes Asians are excluded from important conversations in society. We are one of the races that are constantly being mocked, and most people don't bat an eye. As soon as an all white community of some sort includes African Americans they proudly say "We're so diverse!" No, you're not. That's two out of many races on this planet. I've been scared to apply to good schools because I'm afraid they won't accept me not because of my grades, but because they "don't want anymore Asians". People don't believe me when I say I was born in Houston and laugh, thinking they know more about me than myself. People tell me to "Go back to my country!" or tell me I'm not American. Just today, a girl in my brother's class said to him "Speak Japanese!" First, he's told her to stop on multiple accounts. Second, we're Chinese and he's told her this too many times to count. Finally, I said something and a teacher tried to explain to her why this is hurtful. Sadly, I don't think it's going to stop anytime soon. So while us Asians are in this comment section supporting each other and expressing how much we can relate to this video, you decide to come and be the Debbie Downer and make a negative comment on such a positive feed. I think you should really reconsider who's the idiot here.
Of course this is about Trump! Everything you should be thinking right now is about Trump if you are in any way genuinely concerned about the toxic bigotry that is infecting The US right now. And the reason I bring it up here is because it's proclamation like this that are feeding into the Trumpist intolerance. Canwen's lack of self awareness is having the unintended consequence of making your life worse! I live in Toronto - probably one of the most multi-ethnic cities in the world, and the most harmonious. Without even noticing it I often find myself exclusively in the company of Asians. I was at Brunch a few weeks ago and it dawned on us that I was the only non Asian in the room, out of 8 people. Same for the office I used to work at - at least half of my colleagues were from Taiwan, China and Korea (and no conflicts between them!). Whining about feeling different, when your differences have the real-world effect of giving you privilege is not going to win over any of the Trumpkins, it's only going to make them resent you. I empathize with your problems, but believe me, if you politicize it, it's only going to make your situation worse. I'm not suggesting this is the case for racism in general, but Canwen's situation is just daft.
for me the biggest issue is this comment '' are you an international student'' despite hearing me speak perfect swedish , if I was on the phone or white they probably would've answered in swedish.
Random guy: Where are you from? Me: My mother's belly. Are you? 😉 Random guy: Same too... 😒 Me: Oh I didn't know that! Guess that's the joke of the day!
“So are you mixed?” “Yeah!” “What Asians are mixed?” “Vietnamese,Chinese and Cambodian” “So where are you from?” “I was born in China but was raised in Cambodia” “So do you know ____?he’s a friend of mine and he is from China too” “No I don’t but which part of China is he from?” “Seoul” “..........”
@@thegreatmediareplacement5925 I agreed. But having a bunch of people living in a portion in any country doesn't make that portion become a part of their root country. For example in the US, there are many Chinese and there are even China towns but technically we can't say it's China. It's just a Chinese town or community in Singapore as Singapore is an independent country.
North American definition of "Asian" actually refers to "East Asian" only, which is pretty weird as they forget Asia is extremely broad and huge geographically.
@@marksun9469 that makes sense tho. Cuz when someone says American, we think of a person from USA and not Canada or Brazil. While technically American means someone from the American continents- North and South.
Random Dude of course when someone says American we think of someone from the USA because it’s literally the united states of AMERICA and other languages call it America not USA
I'm Asian and I can't believe I actually thought Camwen was describing herself when she stated all those Asian stereotypes in the beginning. I'm ashamed. 😐
boycot gugle White people are not friendly by nature. They are exclusive. But I have faith that a minority are capable of believing that they are not the center of the Universe.
I am asian and i'm proud to be Asian.. If i were given options i would still choose to be myself as an asian girl.. 😊i love my skin colour i love asian language and asian food ..
Parker Westman many do. Many don’t. Whatever floats anyone’s boat is their own business. Also remember the confirmation bias that most “Asian” girls you might interact with, will much more be likely the kind of Asian girl that likes or prefers Caucasian guys. And remember there is a difference between find attractive and prefer.
To anyone saying that this is stupid or ridiculous, I'm mostly betting you're not Asian. As an Asian who's grown up in a predominantly white population, it's so difficult on me. As she mentions, there are only two ways to deal with this situation, join the crowd or meet their expectation, no inbetweens. This steals your identity so much. You feel ashamed to be a part of your own culture. And when you start joining the crowd, it's too late to turn back. You've lost that little bit of yourself you can't get back. Racism towards an Asian may not be something you see as extreme but living as an Asian your entire life it does effect us, in ways you would never understand.
@@MsDiscofever asians are treated pretty well too in the west asians in the west can walk around without being asked of a picture and looked weird permanently white folks in asia or africa are constantly looked at like aliens asked pictures touched their hair and will never be accepted as part of asian or african culture wheres white folks in asian films??? wheres white folks in african films??? western society treats asians the same asian society does not treat whites the same its a huuuuuge difference
@@ojberrettaberretta5314 And yet white people with only high school diplomas somehow get paid 2-3x more than the average college graduate in most of Asia just by teaching English. They get to live in comfortable expat neighborhoods and take advantage of the low living costs with their higher income. Small violin, Objerretta. You wanna become part of the Asian/African culture? Master the language and grow a family. Because guess what? Most white people don't even try to learn the language of the country they decide to move to and most of them don't even stay and build a family. Heck, most of them look at the new country in an ethnocentric view and are unable to adopt and accept the new culture of the country. You know why Western societies "treat Asians" the same? Because Asians learn the language, they build families, and then they grow up living in and adopting that culture (and often they make sacrifices of their old culture in order to do so), and the biggest of it all, they become CITIZENS. How many white people do you know are citizens of an Asian country? Definitely nowhere near the same magnitude as Asians in a Western country. Once you see more white people experiencing and doing the same things in an Asian country, then of course Asians will see them less as an anomaly. But Asians who are not citizens of a Western country, who can not speak its language, and who have a hard time integrating the new culture, are the ones who end up living in poverty. You can't say the same for white people in Asian countries. Millions of people would rather face the "suffering" of their pictures being taken randomly, yet living in a comfortable life style, than the suffering of living day-to-day. This is incomparable.
"SO, you're Asian?" "Wow, so cool! I love K pop" "Well I'm not Korean, I'm Chinese" "Oh Ik ik, you guys eat..." "Lemme finish, I don't eat bats, dogs, pangolins or mice, I don't know your other Chinese friends, Chinese is completely different from Japanese and Korean and I don't speak Cantonese. My face ages just like everybody else's, Kimchi is not Chinese, I'm from Shanghai, I'm not suffering from any poverty. My parents don't force me to study, I hate maths, and Chinese characters are not drawing. Btw, I don't have coronavirus." "ummm, I just wanted to say that, you guys invented sushis don't you?" "......TAT"
@@zhiqianwen I know, I'm Chinese myself. Not speaking on behalf of All Chinese people, but at least, K-pop is not from China right? Some Westerners even don't have that sense. Btw are you Chinese? If you are, I'm not surprised.
my friend's cousin in seventh grade + me + my friend's convo: cousin: so I heard you're Chinese me: yea my friend: u said u were Asian cousin: so ur a mix? both: -u speak asianese? -say hello in Chinese -konnichuwa -corona haha
Dude this is kinda relating to this, but I was having a conversation with my friend keep in mind we are in our teenage years. And so idk what we were talking about, but she was like so you are Chinese and Asian right? And I had to explain to her that Asian is a generic term, and I felt so shocked that she didn’t know that.
"i am korean" "north or south?" "from north. do u wanna listen to my escaping story? i swam 24 hours and got 5 bullets in my arms but i got to china somehow and here i am." "ok you are from south korea." "yes:)"
@@vithuc5754 Just chill bro, Chinese and Vietnamese do share a lot of similarities in the first place no matter in culture, religion, language and something simple as food, they are very similar. When you go to some important events or festivals sometimes you would see Chinese characters around the corner and I bet you have seen this character in a wedding 囍. And back in years ago, Vietnamese used a writing system called Chữ Nôm, it's basically a Han characters writing system but refined to be used in Vietnam. I know you are Vietnamese and you are different than Chinese but it's normal for almost all the people around the world, imagine you go another country and you are lost the you saw a white dude, then you go up and ask him "Do you know the way to Woodbine street?" and turns out this guy is from Germany and do think he would be offended and mad? No! because people share these same experiences around the world. If you see other Chinese people next time greeting at you in Chinese, just greet back at them and kindly say you are Vietnamese and you don't speak the language. It's that simple no need to be so mad and harsh.
I'm Korean. I live in an european country and when i didnt mention that I'm from 'South' Korea when introducing myself, many people would ask 'so which Korea? North or South?'. In the beginning i used to get so frustrated and would explain how it wasnt possible for me to be there if i were north korean(it was pretty much impossible then since it was 2010 or so). Now i kinda gave up and would just go 'nah definately North i dug a hold underground and escaped to china' it's my greatest pleasure at the moment
Oh really? Then if I'm your Professor, A- are enough for you. You have a lot to know, especially when it comes to a cultural differences. Zombies eat brains. You're safe :)
Clementine's Thigh Gap Yea i know it can be an asian thing but people that associate eating with your hands to be an asian thing are just a disappointment. lol soz must have come across wrong
I guess they’re just trying to make conversation, but yeah, there really isn’t any correlation. It’s really just naivity and cluelessness rather than any Ill-intent.
That seems like the type of thing I would say if I didn’t know what to say so I’d mentally freak out and just say anything to make the situation less awkward... But of course it doesn’t work.
well, there IS a correlation - Japan & China are neighbouring countries (we can say that, I know they're divided by the sea), share SOME aspects of culture, history ect. I'm from Poland and I wouldn't feel offended if someone from China or the US had told me: wow you're from Poland? cool! I've a friend in Prague/Berlin/Slovakia/Ukraine/Lithuania or EVEN in R U S S I A.
"So you're a mixed Asian?" "Yeah" "Cool! What are you" "I'm half Korean and half Bengali" "Bengali, what's that? Which country is that?" ""You know, Bangladesh?" "Bangladesh? Is that a country in Asia?" "Yeah, it's a small country besides India" "India? That's not an Asian country, how is Bangladesh an Asian country" "..."
I'm not aisan but I am persian/Irish . I have been accused of being a terrorist by the language I speak and the way I look. people don't think about what they say. I try not to let it get to me but it gets under my skin. I have lived in Ireland since I was 3 and I have developed an Irish accent. whenever I talk normally to anyone new I meet I am always asked "why are you faking an accent?" or "your not Irish!" and this is all due to the way I look. sometimes it pisses me off
that's gotta be beyond annoying sorry to hear that :( don't take it personally they really got no clue about what they're saying. Sending virtual hug to you :D =
I'm Persian too, but I moved to England at the age of 13 and still have a bit of a foreign accent when I speak English even though it has been a couple of years since I've moved. and it's so annoying when some of my friends make fun of me for it ;( and there was a time in high school I was practically mocked daily and being told "you're so foreign" "shut up you're foreign" "I can't understand you speak English"
@Un-broken and victorious The guy is just basically giving his opinion regarding from the video. That is saying, not all asians like math. And that's why there's a reason for having a comment section. People may comment whatever they want to say, and I don't really think that he's considered as a masochist based on what you said.
“Where are you from” Me: Nepal “So you are Indian right” Me: No I am from Nepal a country located in Asia between China and India “ Wait sos re you Indian or Asian” Me: TRIGGERED
Me:I m Asian Person:No ur not, ur Indian Me:Well india is in asia Person:But asian is only china,japan,korea I m tired of this they always forget the fact that we Indians also live in the same continent as china,korea and japan which is Asia.
@@olas3943 yes that's right, Indians could be classified as south asian, but i think saying that "I'm Indian" is the best option, Asians are called Asians because they have similar facial features and people find it difficult to exactly point out their origin/country so hence 'asian' is the easy way out for them. But us Indians do not look the same as Asians, we look like Indians so i don't think we need to tell that we're "asian", just say you're Indian maybe? Nothing wrong with that?
„You could call me an alien, in your kind of lexical words. More precise it would be, someone from another region. No not that kind of region on earth. Another dimension. I came to bring vengeance on humanity, because of them being a threat to all what I think is worth existing. For this I was transcend here before I was sealed away thousands of years ago. Now that I am here... wait what was your question again? Do you still want to know where I came from? It is a secret. If I tell you I may would need to eliminate you...“ *looks serious* I guess this is a way to answer as well... xD
"Hey you looked like asian, are you asian?" "Yes. I am" "Where are you from?" "Russia" "But russia is in europa" "Dont you know that just 15% of russia teritory is in europe?" Now you know.
@@gravity8087 well if they are Russian they could get confused because in Russian Europe is called Европа (pronounced like Evropa). So they might have forgotten about the differences between languages and just translated it the way they could
I am Korean and I have an identical twin. Something we used to do in middle school is say one of us was from South Korea and the other was from North Korea people looked so lost and confused.They believed it until a teacher told them that it was impossible for that to happen.
+brave truther you look so butthurted.. but that's alrigt, cus we have much higher IQ score- intelligence and also higher life style. you are getting what you deserve from the history, Caucasoid. maybe you could blame your ancestours lol farewell.
That was the POINT of her speech. She had a low self-esteem BECAUSE she felt like being white was the default in society and that being anything else was wrong. I'm an Asian, and you can take my word that I've never heard anyone ask a white person "where are you really from". It's always "what's your ethnicity" or maybe even "where's your family from". The difference between the two situations is slight, but indicative of a greater issue. It's not just having a lack of knowledge, or not knowing everythng about Asians, as you said. The issue is that, on a grand scale, a majority of white people from white-dominated societies tend to make exclusive assumptions about Asians. That we are first generation, or even second generation immigrants. That we're intelligent or bad drivers or have tiger parents. I know that there is racism from all sides, but an unacceptable volume of unconscious racism comes from white people.
+seopthelittlegiant Your comment is racist in the least...as well as counterintuitive to the arguments made in the video. Higher IQ? Really? Maybe you're right, on a general consensus, but to use that statistic to insinuate racial superiority is an attack on the ideals of Americanism.
How do you know someone in video or comment demanded white people know everything????? what the time the girl say something like you described in video? show me, rumorer
Why is that a problem? They are mostly American, and majority of Americans are white. Of course there is a lot of them in the audience. You should be happy that the audience was very focused and listening.
When I just got to America, my English wasn't so good that my English teacher said "don't worry you are not the only Asian" and the whole class laughed overly much.
That's such a shame. I kind of know what you mean, I'm generally the shy type and everyone just assumed I was an exchange student from India, just because of the color of my skin and the fact that I struggle with starting conversations. I was born and raised in New Jersey.
Im sorry your teacher was ignorant to how insensitive that was. I teach in Korea now, and I'm trying to give my students the confidence they need. Even if you have an accent, it already means you speak two languages. It's a good thing.
I am a Korean and I came to Canada when I was 6. I don't feel any pressure to fit in and everyone around me are eager to learn about my culture. I'm proud to call myself Korean-Canadian and to be living in a diverse community and country.
When I was in school a boy came up to me and said, "Hey Chinese!" I was so confused bc he had assumed my race. I said to him, "I'm not Chinese," he said ,"What are you then?" The level of disrespect😑 "I'm Korean" He was like, "oh" and walked away looking suprised that I actually talked back to him. To this day I still regret the fact that I didn't raise my middle finger. If your out there, 🖕
I'm Chinese, but even one of my closest friends thought I was Korean for an entire year until I told her I wasn't. And this was after she heard me speaking Chinese.
This made me want to cry, I've always felt this way about my ethnicity (Chinese) and I've never really known what to do. It was just nice to have someone say this all out.
I really loved Xu Wen Can's presentation too. I was married to a Shanghai born woman of 47 (I was 54) whom I met in NM and for the next 29 years I tried hard to see the world we lived in through her eyes. That thinking led us to many discussions about what her new world looked and felt like. She appreciated my many attempts at showing her this new area of the planet as she advanced her knowledge of our way of life and language. That being said, Ping continued to spend her more happy times speaking Mandarin Chinese (Pu Tung hua) to her many Chinese speaking friends in the area. Best wishes and know that you are loved by people of many ethnicities and cultures.
Mmm...prob shouldn't keep your mouth shut. That in-of-itself is part of the "problem" in America, but the explanation would get too deep. Because if you did voice your opinion, your words would have to strike them in the heart and head. That takes work and skill to deliver.
Giving a tedx talk at 18 must've taken so much courage. I'm in my late 20s and still grappling with how growing up an Asian American has shaped my life.
I like that she started with a joke because it made people less guarded and more receptive. This is so relatable, honest, and insightful. Dialogue like this is crucial. We must seek to truly understand each other instead of viewing people in an 'us vs. them' mentality. A society that promotes knowledge, diversity, and shared experience rather than assumptions will be better equipped to tackle the rising problems of the future.
Asians really are the punch-bags of society. This talk (especially about the struggle to fit in) really resonated with me. Besides the strange stereotyping and expectations that west-born Asians have, I've also experienced some sort of racism wherever I went. I was born in the UK as a half Korean, and half Cantonese. I was frequently picked on since I was young. I remember the "Chinese, Japanese, look at me, money please" phrases that kids would casually do, and I would copy that and show it to my parents. Only realised how disturbing that is years later. I moved to South Korea and went to a public school for 2 years. Here I was picked on because I foreign. I didn't and couldn't understand so many things including the culture, language, etc. I couldn't even speak Korean at all and so couldn't defend myself. I then moved to an international school because my English was starting to die out. In Korea, Koreans think that "American" English is the one and only 'English' there is. So when I talked in a funny Northern Irish accent, people thought I was really bad at English. This also happened in the public school when the kids asked me to speak English. Anyhow I was still picked on because I did not fit in any group: the rich wealthy Asians or the completely foreign western kids. I adopted into an American-ish accent despite me never lived in the US. I then moved back to the UK. By then I was a messy mish mash of culture and identity so never really fit in. Edit: I suppose I wrote this when I was younger and trying to figure out my place and identity. I wanted to clarify that I am in no way ashamed of my heritage. I am very much proud to be Asian, be fluent in my mother's tongue and associate myself heavily with Korean culture. My years abroad was an experience that taught me so many things, and can safely say that it was 100% worth it. Edit 2: "stop being a cry baby victim blacks have it 1000 times worse", oppression isn't a competition. The point of my comment was that it's challenging for foreign born Asians to find a place of acceptance.
give u a hug! So sorry for your experience. As a Chinese, I would say that I love the way English people and Ireland people are speaking soooooo much! That's sooo cool
Andrew Li Actually, it's not that all Asians think only American English is the standard English, only Koreans have this weird obsession with American accent.
Well, I am also Korean so I can say understand you a bit. Here, in South Korea, only a few people are not Asian, and that makes Korean with Asian DNA to think they're not one of Korean. But more people are being part of our culture, and the number of people engaging in this problem are increasing. I hope it gets better soon. And English. You're right. In Korea American English is the most popular English. Maybe there is some reason with historical issues like Korean War. Thankfully, we are accepting English with many cultures, like UK or Australia etc. In English subject of national college entrance exam(we called it Sooneung수능 in short of Korean name of it), there is a listening test. Long before, we can only hear American English from the speaker but nowadays your Northern Irish accents also came out. Actually the percent of your English is much more smaller than American English, but almost every people accept the change because we need a variety of English and they are saying it should be balanced. I am really sorry for your experience in here. But we are changing step by step for us and you guys. I hope you to come back to Korea and see the difference some time. (Sorry for bad English. Bottom words are the one that I want to say but couldn't because of language barrier... it was too high;( ) 따돌림을 받게 만든 건 정말 미안해요. 한민족이라는 이유로 너무 폐쇄적이었고, 지금도 그게 남아있는 건 사실이에요. 하지만 우리는 조금씩 '다른' 사람들을 받아들이고 있고, 또 그러려고 노력하고 있어요. 언젠가 한국에 들러 우리가 조금은 달라졌다는 걸 보여주고 싶어요. 당신이 언제 우리나라에 있었는지는 잘 모르겠지만, 적어도 지금은 어느 나라의 영어라도 영어로 받아들이고 있어요. 많이는 아니더라도 아주 조금은 발전한 모습이라 생각되어서 말씀드려 봅니다.
Stephanie J Koreans are used to American English as they have been affected by U.S for a long time. They don’t have ‘ weird obsession’ lol. But I do think they do have certain stereotypes and their culture is quite uptight. For example, quite a lot of them would only pursuit one thing and reject the rest of the stuffs even if it is not wrong. I guess that’s why it’s a bit hard for me to live in Korea as I’ve lived in the UK for such a long time although I am Korean.
"I'm Asian." "So you're Chinese?" "Nope, I'm Vietnamese." "Oh. I never knew it existed. Where is it?" __ "Hey, I got a really good achievement today." "Of course you did. You're Asian." "No, I worked hard for this, it has nothing to do with being Asian." "But you're Asian. You're smart, you don't have to work hard." __ "So you're Asian? Do you even speak English? Do you understand me?" "Yeah, of course I do." "Oh. Have you ever heard what a hamburger is? Ever seen a MacBook?" "Why, yes, actually." "Huh. I thought you guys still eat cats and dogs and live octopi."
It's good that Canwen shared her personal story and true feelings without telling the step-by-step guide to the audience. That made it less of a lecture, but more of a sharing. It's hard to imagine how complicated the immigrant and their children's life is in America and Canwen gave us a glimpse into it.
"Where are you from?" "I'm from China." "Okay, so which part?" "From the north part." "Which Province exactly? Is it Beijing or Hong Kong or Shanghai...?" "Um, Inner Mongolia." "Oh you are from Mongolia, but wait, you speak Chinese though don't you?" "I do speak Chinese but Inner Mongolia is a part of China." "Oh so Mongolia is a part of China? No wait this doesn't make sense." "Um, Mongolia is a country. Inner Mongolia is a part of China." "So you speak Chinese?" "Yes."
American - "So, which continent are you from?" Me - "Oh! I am an Asian." American - "What? You can't be Asian! Your eyes are not slanted!" Me - " *_OH MY HOLY LORD WHERE HAS THE WORLD COME TO?!?_* "
“Oh so where are you from?” “Oh I’m from Korea” “Oh no I heard you’re under really strict rules and laws there, if you wear shorts you’ll get executed right?” “No no, I’m from South Korea” “I also heard you guys eat dogs” “....” “I can speak a little bit of Korean” “Oh really?” “Yeah listen! Konichiwaaaa kawaii, Ni hao!” ....
literally the eating dogs thing might be the cringiest stereotype ive ever heard. correct me if im wrong, but isn’t eating dogs like an old thing china? like only 0.001% of the whole Chinese population still do it??
@@user-xr7cu9nm3v Eating dogs actually didn’t originate in China. In ancient times, people not just in China ate dogs. Yes, there are still some people in China who eat dogs, but luckily, it’s not common.
i have lots of people from china at my school. lots of people stereotype them and make fun of them and i feel so bad for them. they are all really lovely girls, kind and funny and my peers treat them really rudely.
It's like that sometimes, especially if the Asian population is very small. Before, I went to two different schools, both with a tiny Asian population- like less than 20 in a school with 200+ ppl. Now, I go to a school where Asians pretty much make up have the student body, so that stuff isn't as common. The most important thing is for you/ their friends to stand by them
No you never need to conform: not to stereotype or whiteness. You conform to yourself. By being you. The real you. When I stay in NYC, nobody thinks I am Chinese (which made me unhappy because they were stereotyping in a sorta negative way) because They see me as a 'fun-driven, ambitious, expressive, fabulous' person, all of the so-called American or 'white' personalities are very evident and--- I can be more 'White' than anyone else If I need to be (if'white' entails critical, questioning, and yelling 'OMG'). You challenge people's stereotype by showing up and simply being you. Amazing you. That's how easy that is. However, Admittedly, growing up in states like Idoha etcetc as a Asian-American is an awkward and uncomfortable thing. Most areas in America are just the opposite of 'diverse' and international.
I'm Russian and I live in China. For me, it's absolutely same, but opposite. "Oh, she doesn't understand us!" "It'll be fun to take a picture of her in a subway". People often clueless about ways to behave with a foreigner of another race. Even though their intentions mostly good, it can be frustrating sometimes.
“You’re Asian” “Yes, I am” “Are you Chinese? You look Chinese” “No, I’m Hmong” “What’s that? Is that short for Mongolian?” “No, we’re our own people” “She only got that because she’s Asian!” “She only understood that because she’s Asian!” “She only received a good grade because she’s Asian!” “No..I got, received, and understood because I worked hard to” I cannot tell you how many times I’ve heard these phrases and went through these dialogues in my life as an Asian American I’m not your regular, stereotypical Asian when it comes to intelligence. I’m not really that smart when it comes to academics and my skill in math is terrible. But I do strongly listen and obey to my parents and I have a talent in performing arts and music, I sing, I can write music, I’m learning how to play the piano and is planning to learn more instruments in the future plus I’m a very passionate and ambitious dancer. But I do not pursue these things because I’m Asian or my Asian parents forced me to because us Asians are known to be forced to do something our parents want us to do. I do these things because I want to not because I feel like it’s something an Asian should do, but because I WANT TO
She LITERALLY SOPKE FOR ME!!!!! That's exactly what I am going through. I'm also too afraid to talk about racist problems because people calls me ' too sensitive ' and even WORSE!! One time, I was taking Chinese VCE class which was filled with Chinese speakers who lives in Australia, our teacher talked to us about her daughter who was born in this country. Our teacher said that her daughter is completely westernized, and she can't communicate with her well, and that annoys her. That's totally normal, I totally get it, and it's not a big deal. Not until my classmate , who byw,was also Chinese. He turned to us and said ' THAT MAKES HER AN ATTRACTIVE FEMALE ' he literally said that out loud!!!!! I was so annoyed by that and I turned to him and said " that's racist." Unfortunately, we goes to the same school. He and his other friends found me the following day after school in the library, and wanted to argue with me about it. He thought it was being fair, but the truth is, he is two years older than me and he threatened me by talking to me ( when I was all alone), but he had more than 5 friends by his side. He keeps on interrupting me when I am giving my point of views while telling me he is not being racist. This video made me realize that this is what is happening in this society to us( a bit Chinese and a bit westernized kids) however, she didn't give me a solution to this problem. I still need to struggle and figure it out myself, sadly.
Nancy Rules I’m sorry I’m late and I hope it’s better now but if it isn’t I’m really sorry unfortunately a lot of us go through this and it will probably only continue for the rest of our lives until we expect it and become truly proud of who we are as Asian Americans and it sucks that we have to go though this but my advice is to just try to walk around with confidence and don’t think twice about youre heritage because I think it’s something that makes us special and ourselves 😊💞please just stay strong I promise it will get better and they have no idea what they’re talking about it’s isn’t being sensitive and you are perfect the way you are 💞💞
Honey, you're a queen for calling him out for that, and I salute you for it. But, if you want to be able to end this problem, maybe having loads of friends with you who will stand by your side and have similar viewpoints would be helpful? I'm Asian too but South Asian, and I'm aware of a lot of stereotypes thrown at y'all and myself. But, if he ever tries to harass you, don't hesitate to report the incidents because he should not be trying to stalk and intimidate you for his peace of mind.
" you are asian righr?" "Yeah?" "Bur you don't look asian" "Well..maybe bc i'm from iran" "So you are arab?" "Eh..no?" "Oh..okey one last question do you speak asian or islam??" " i-"
@@chinares I would guess most people probably haven't even heard of Armenia considering its truly minimal output into world affairs. Bottom line, Armenia is a tiny country, no one really cares about Armenia to begin with.
@@chinares It wouldn't surprise me considering Armenia's relative cultural similarity with other European countries. But most importantly, Armenia was part of the Soviet Union, and when people think of the Soviet Union, they think of Russia. And since Russia is in Europe, it isn't all that surprising how people would draw the parallel between Armenia and Europe.
Elijah Fonzie and the the US colonized the Philippines (I think, never learned Filipino history lol) I’m Philippine and even other Asians at my school can’t guess my ethnicity. They think I’m Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Malaysian and others. I surveyed LOTS of people and no one could guess my background.
@Elijah Fonzie yeah, also Mexico and Philipines also had great trading and good relationships back then. Wouldnt be surprised if a lot of people started to get together increasing the likeness between us. I'am a blonde with very narrow eyes born and raised on Mexico, idk what even is my heritage.
HAHAHA my Philippino friend always gets that especially here in El Paso. She will be at a store and someone will swear she is mexican when she is like..no im not Mexican. But...you....even for me. Im Davis, my skin is white but people here have this pre conceived notion that all mexicans have to speak in broken English, have dark skin, and speak perfect spanish. People put me down so much because I wasn't dark enough.
Where you from? Im from philippines. Wow nice country! Does people in the philippines using hands while eating??? Yaah yes we are???does american uses their feet to eat their meal???
I feel like what a lot of people don't understand or think about is that all Americans, except for Native Americans, were from a different country. All of us are asked where were you originally from? What is your ethnicity/race? But a lot of minority groups believe it's only them, when that's not the reality. I'm an Armenian American. I'm a first generation American alongside my twin brother. When I have told people I'm Armenian (after they asked because they almost always do, and that's okay), those that have met Armenians ask me if I know the Armenian they are talking about. Yes, its ridiculous, but they ask because usually a same cultural community stays together and is tightly knit within America. It's the naive question asked by those that are the n-teeth generation American in their families. Americans ask all races these types of questions because America is a melting pot of cultures/races. That's what makes it so unique and beautiful. I ask a person what ethnicity they are because I know I cannot assume since America is filled with so many different types of people, personally I appreciate it when people ask instead of assuming because then they learn what I actually am or learn about Armenians and Armenia (for the first time). Also the knowledge of meeting someone new and learning their unique and beautiful ethnic/cultural background excites me. Of course I do know that microaggressions and racism exist, and so does the American societal norms, but even though I'm a white woman I don't completely conform to these "white" or Americanized cultural ways because I came from a household of three different cultures. My parents are Armenians that were born and raised in Iran, my brother and I are Armenians born and raised in America in a Iranian/Armenian cultural home. Now, I am an Iranian, Armenian, and American cultural individual, and that makes me my own unique individual. My background has helped me form the person I am today. Of course the expectations Americans have of people in America acting only a certain way is ridiculous, but not all Americans are like this since America, once again, is a melting pot. There are so many individuals such as myself or the woman in the video whom come from a multicultural home. These societal expectations and norms, of course, need to change, but my point is that all people of all races experience this difficulty, not just a certain racial group. I don't act completely Americanized because of the multicultural household I was brought up in and because I never felt the need to conform, I didn't want to, I refused. If any immature individual made fun of me when I was a kid I ignored them because I felt their argument was insignificant and ignorant. I let myself be who I am as an Armenian Iranian American cultured individual. My parents don't want me to be even a bit Americanized, they like others want me to conform to their expectations of their cultural backgrounds, but what people don't understand is that I am not just Armenian, American, or Iranian. I am in a way all three because that was the environment and culture I grew up in. I took the aspects I loved of each and formed myself as I am today. I am Armenian, but I am also Iranian, and I am also American, and I am not ashamed of any of these beautiful things. "Americanized?" Becoming "white?" I only know how to be myself. Plus, there is nothing wrong with being Americanized or white. People need to stop using such degrading terminology for other peoples cultures or race/skin-tone. I'm not just white. I'm not just Americanized. I'm just me. It's time people stop using other peoples cultures, race, and physical/personality characteristics in a negative way. This video is amazing, but it also has its flaws. The Chinese culture is beautiful, as is the American culture, and each have their flaws. Do not degrade one and defend the other. All countries look down upon others that are not from their country or of their race and culture. All countries, including China, including Armenia, including Iran, including America, need to change and stop judging others by the cultural background they come from or act out just because it's different from their own and they don't approve. Accept people. Love. Share. And embrace differences. That's what makes this world so beautiful. And America, though it may have many flaws and needs a lot of work, it is the only country that accepts and consists of all cultures, of so much beautiful diversity, and no other country can say the same.
I was totally moved by introducing yourself. Thank you to be brave. I believe it was not easy at all to stand in front of many people and talk to them about race. Bravo.👍
I’m an Chinese American who broke the stereotypes as a youth. Played high school football was an avid guitar player. Ended up going to a top notch college.
Jesus, how many times can you listen to a pretentious ABC talk about connecting to their roots through "Chow Mein" and "orange sauce" before you lose your mind? 重庆火锅 all the way; maybe I can numb my mouth hard enough to wipe my brain.
Yeah... Being in China all my life I've never heard of such thing here.........The first time I heard anything about orange chicken was from an American TV show. And so are the lucky cookies, we actually don't have those things here. I assume that it was the early immigrants who invented those.
Simiao Wong I KNOW RIGHT fortune cookies r American and Orange chicken only became made in China over the past few years because of the popularity of it in America
Wonderful job, Canwen! I think what you said today is amazing and inspiring for young Chinese children to accept who they are. I stand by what you said 100 percent!
Vietnam is beautiful. I've been there twice to visit and it's hard for me as an outsider to believe the country was at war just one generation ago. It's just such a friendly place. Love the people. Love the food.
I am an Asian too. When I stayed in the US, I got a lot of stereotypical question. So I totally understand that she said. Thank you for the amazing speech. Sorry my broken English;)
There's a laosian guy at my school and everyone thinks he's Mexican and I had to shut them down after they started disrespecting his actual ethnicity. I think it just comes from ignorance. These people don't even listen when you tell them what you actually are..
@@elizabethreyes3599 lol 😂 omg. It also confuses people when you're phenotypically Asian, but you have a Hispanic last name like Philipinos lol! Idk why. Simple geography and talking to people that don't look like you. Just ask! 🙄
"Where are you from?" "Bangladesh" "Oh, I thought you were Spanish at first lol" *a couple days later(another person asking, in front of the previous person)* "What are you?" "...I'm Asian" "You're Asian??" "Yea...Bangladesh is in Asia" "Ohhh, I didn't even know that was a country"
Respect her lots. Many Japanese I know are very inspired by white people and some try to become like them, they think it is cool. I realized it is a shame ignoring its own nationality and its culture when I first came to study abroad. Even though I can never make such am amazing speech like this, I agree with her very much, and she is inspirational.
I am in UK and once met a Mongolian girl living in the same govt apartment building. She was very pretty, polite and nice person. I was so mesmerized about her Chinese but also not so Chinese looks that I actually chatted her up, which is untypical because I am usually shy or super nervous about beauties!
Canwen sounded really serious at the beginning of the vid. Clever, GJ. x'D Good discussion of race and identity. Be proud of you are. Be aware of people's interpretations. Yep.
Well how clueless are african and asians about white people LOL! You demand that white people know evrything and care about everything but its' fine for asian and blacks and muslim to know nothing and to not care about white issues! About the yellow fever thing, only your low self-esteem makes that a credible thing! Why not embrace the fact that some non-asian men like you and make use of it in the search of a life partner... Such first world libtarded nonsense Issues!!
^^ I agree with that for the most part, my main issue is that i see this kinda shit when I'm a white guy who completely respects Asian people and I feel like I'm being talked down on as they don't separate actual racists and white people.
This is so accurate and so on point. As a Asian and a girl to be going to 6th grade everybody would always assume that I was a smart girl and gets perfect grades. I wanted to be normal and not to be living a label by being smart, so I always put pressure on myself to always succeed in life and grades. Sometime being a Asian is a struggle.
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"a little bit american, a little bit chinese, and a whole lot of both." my favorite line
I didn't understand it at all.
@@Averagebum21 I think it means she is blended both American culture and Chinese culture. ANd this makes her personality special.
Miyu this my favorite line too
she is 18? WOW ! she sounded much older , so mature , well spoken . She is going to be a very strong and comfortble with herself for every year that goes by.
You forgot about the ones that ask you " Do you speak Asian?"
@Izuku Midoriya Vietnamese, Japanese, Chinese, Koreanese. Lol
@@nikeedophan6727 a joke.
Matthew She OMG MY FRIEND SHE SAID THE EXACT SAME THING
Matthew She I KNOW HAHAHAHAHHAHAGA
Christianese
“What grade did u get?”
“An A.”
“Of course you did, you’re smart.”
“No, I studied.”
“But you’re smart, so you didn’t have to.”
“But I really did have to take the time to study.”
“I wish I was Asian and smart.”
No you don’t.
My friends always does that to me, I really don’t like when they do that.
iliketrains + apples umm.. thanks?
People are like: It's not fair 🤪🤧🤪❤😤😤🤪😤🤪😤😤🤪 I studied too 🤬🤬🤬🤫🤫😠😠😠
When they sat down for like 1 minute and skimmed through their book.
Isn‘ t smart also something people like to brag about? At least in my school, we work hard without telling others so that people think we are smart.
Oof they think it’s genetics or something- no- if you’re not lazy anyone can get an A* in any subject if they actually work-
"Your Asian?"
"Yes"
"So you Chinese"
"No, Im Korean"
"Ohhhhh I get it, Kon'nichiwa!"
That always happens!
“Are you Chinese or Japanese?”
“I’m Korean”
“Oh cool...where’s that?”
“In Asia”
“Ohhhhhh....North or South?”
Literally every introduction ever
Peachseok Korean girl here MOOOOOOOOOD
I swear to God if someone says my surname is Korean one more time
@@middaysilver5472 it's not at all
I fkn hate it!!!omg hahaha same
What I about to say is true, no joking.
I am 100% Chinese, I hate math, when I was in China, my math is the worst in my class, from elementary to high school.
After I came to Canada for university, my math is the best in class....
This is real. The math in the university in Canada is easier than Chinese middle school....
damn.... you're such a showoff... pffff.... haha... jokin
Zhou Xuan did you parents go with the “I had to cross mountains to go to school too?”
long phung hahaha my grandma told me about how she had to cross the mountain to teach in a middle school.
Sameeeee and I feel so good that I actually got high grades 😂
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈，感觉我们好惨
"I rejected my Chinese identity...and I become more confidence" - damn, that hurts
Tony Tran Are you from Vietnam ?
Story of my life
Storm Johnson shut up
cool aid sipper no u
so true
"Your Asian?"
"Yes"
"So your Chinese, japanese or korean?"
"No, I'm Russian"
"What??"
Are you Yakut? Buryat? Or Tuvinian?
@@liadenn9077 buryat. I wonder who you are?
@@sayaniiv7050 I am a Tuvinian :D
Im Mongolian
I wonder how Russians think about what continent Russia belongs to.
I love this! When teacher talks about racism, it is often referred to darker skin beautiful people who certainly deserve the right to receive the equal behaviors as others, but Asian are often always excluded when racial discriminations and racism problems are discussed probably because of lighter skin than other minorities. However, Asians many times do get treated differently and feel uncomfortable listening to stereotypical jokes.
EXACTLY! I know that darker skin people are greatly discriminated against especially with the stream of terror attacks recently and refugee crisis, and this should be addressed but I always feel that they forget about asians! Our Asian men are emasculated and asian women are always seen as submissive sexual creatures. I HATE IT.
Sit down and stop whining, Asians are racist towards darker skinned people as well
Ant rip ok? but that doesn't eliminate their struggle
They barely have a struggle and they are racist
you say this as if any other race isn't racist
Im Asian,Yes,Im good at maths,I like rice,I drink hot water,I speak English,Mandarin,Shanghainese and 4 Dialets,and I look younger than white as the same age.Why shouldn't I be proud of being Chinese?
😄😄😄
Well said
Ephram Song From Shanghai too.✌️
shanghainese wow(this trans is soooo coool)
@savii seems so, cuz when I show my friends that I am drinking hot water, they are surprised that it is not tea xd
"Do you speak asianese?"
Me: what the fu-
LMAOOOO
Nobody says this
@@leahballard9255 My family are from Pakistan and I get asked if I speak Indian.
That’s funny. What about this:
Me: Guess what country I’m from.
Person: Asia?
🤦♀️
Cindy Ngo really?
“are you chinese?” “yes i am, i dont eat dogs, cats, or bats. and no i do not have the coronavirus”
i don't have a pet panda.
@@sarasun795 gosh🤣
Same answer for me
@@stefbbq1898 I have a pet panda
@@Hero_Alan which is a furry fluffy cotton made one
I am a white mom, incredibly blessed with a Korean daughter. I've tried to instill in her a love and pride of being Korean as well as being American. Sarang hang da, Yoon Ah!
Linda Bowers Yoon-ah is a very pretty name
Megu X ikr
Try and say it like this: sa-lrang ha-da.
Lord raythirs korean is an Asian nationality.
lord raythirs ya know gangnam style(psy)? Yeah that guy's korean. ( im half korean and im only mentioning that song because a lot of people know it dont hurt me please)
I think I've finally found a voice! This is what I have felt for my entire life! Oh my gosh this is like a breath of fresh air...
No, this is bullshit. She's an idiot.
sortedtales And what makes you think that? I'd like to hear why you think she's an idiot when she presented herself powerfully and gave a moving presentation. And are you Asian? I would whole heartedly really like to know. Because if you're not, I don't think you can understand what it's like to find someone who says what you've been feeling for your whole life.
Oh, so now this is about Trump? And for a non-Asian, it can be really hard to understand how we feel. I know that she is a perfectly capable human being, but sometimes Asians are excluded from important conversations in society. We are one of the races that are constantly being mocked, and most people don't bat an eye. As soon as an all white community of some sort includes African Americans they proudly say "We're so diverse!" No, you're not. That's two out of many races on this planet. I've been scared to apply to good schools because I'm afraid they won't accept me not because of my grades, but because they "don't want anymore Asians". People don't believe me when I say I was born in Houston and laugh, thinking they know more about me than myself. People tell me to "Go back to my country!" or tell me I'm not American.
Just today, a girl in my brother's class said to him "Speak Japanese!" First, he's told her to stop on multiple accounts. Second, we're Chinese and he's told her this too many times to count. Finally, I said something and a teacher tried to explain to her why this is hurtful. Sadly, I don't think it's going to stop anytime soon.
So while us Asians are in this comment section supporting each other and expressing how much we can relate to this video, you decide to come and be the Debbie Downer and make a negative comment on such a positive feed. I think you should really reconsider who's the idiot here.
Of course this is about Trump! Everything you should be thinking right now is about Trump if you are in any way genuinely concerned about the toxic bigotry that is infecting The US right now.
And the reason I bring it up here is because it's proclamation like this that are feeding into the Trumpist intolerance. Canwen's lack of self awareness is having the unintended consequence of making your life worse! I live in Toronto - probably one of the most multi-ethnic cities in the world, and the most harmonious. Without even noticing it I often find myself exclusively in the company of Asians. I was at Brunch a few weeks ago and it dawned on us that I was the only non Asian in the room, out of 8 people. Same for the office I used to work at - at least half of my colleagues were from Taiwan, China and Korea (and no conflicts between them!).
Whining about feeling different, when your differences have the real-world effect of giving you privilege is not going to win over any of the Trumpkins, it's only going to make them resent you. I empathize with your problems, but believe me, if you politicize it, it's only going to make your situation worse. I'm not suggesting this is the case for racism in general, but Canwen's situation is just daft.
sortedtales you are a moron.
"Hey do you speak Chinese?" "Yep i'm from China" "Cool, can you translate my Japanese game?"
hahaha~
this
don't the both countries share the same characters?
Raymond S No, Japanese have kanji (idk if I spelt that correctly) and Chinese have Chinese characters.
Did You See His Jams actually, japanese has hiragana, katakana, and kanji. chinese uses hanzi
RUclips traveller: Hey guys, I just came to korea!!
Bgm: Chinese traditional music 😐
“Hey guys I went to Korea!”
**Jpop bgm**
Hmm
@@SlyHikari03 Why yould you put Jpop when Kpop it´s way more popular??
@@mitonaarea5856 WEEBS
ㅜㅜㅜㅜ
IM LAUGHING
"OMFG, you're Chinese? I have a Chinese friend too, do you know him?" "Damn, I probably do.... "
for me the biggest issue is this comment '' are you an international student'' despite hearing me speak perfect swedish , if I was on the phone or white they probably would've answered in swedish.
+Robert Tang Oh my god that's horrible are you ok?
Robert Tang; same with me
Hei C RELATABLE
Im south Asian but people keep calling me Chinese.
I also hate it when someone ask me where I'm from, but I just slap the answer straight to their face:
I'm from earth
clever!
haha true
nice lol
Or, my mother's vagina
Random guy: Where are you from?
Me: My mother's belly. Are you? 😉
Random guy: Same too... 😒
Me: Oh I didn't know that! Guess that's the joke of the day!
“So are you mixed?”
“Yeah!”
“What Asians are mixed?”
“Vietnamese,Chinese and Cambodian”
“So where are you from?”
“I was born in China but was raised in Cambodia”
“So do you know ____?he’s a friend of mine and he is from China too”
“No I don’t but which part of China is he from?”
“Seoul”
“..........”
HᎯN SQUIRREL sur sdey 😘😂
Nich 855 71 887 7554 Cambodian?
HᎯN SQUIRREL bart
Sour sdey my fellow Cambodian!! And also 你好！💖
LOL
"I went to China last month"
"Oh cool!! Which part of China you went to?"
"Singapore!!!!"
"WTF"
They probably just saw Crazy Rich Asians and assumed they were all Chinese
Well large parts of Singapore are full of Chinese people so in that sense, those parts of Singapore are China arent they. People and nation are one.
@@thegreatmediareplacement5925 I agreed. But having a bunch of people living in a portion in any country doesn't make that portion become a part of their root country. For example in the US, there are many Chinese and there are even China towns but technically we can't say it's China. It's just a Chinese town or community in Singapore as Singapore is an independent country.
@@thegreatmediareplacement5925 race doesnt equal national identity
cheers from singapore btw :D
hahahahhaha
THIS IS EVERYTHING THAT I HAVE EVER WANTED TO SAY ABOUT BEING ASIAN OH MY GOD IT'S LIKE SHE TOOK EVERY WORD OUT OF MY MOUTH
"U Asian?"
"Yes"
Where u from?"
"India"
"Dats not Asian"
"WTF
Xd
North American definition of "Asian" actually refers to "East Asian" only, which is pretty weird as they forget Asia is extremely broad and huge geographically.
@@marksun9469 that makes sense tho. Cuz when someone says American, we think of a person from USA and not Canada or Brazil. While technically American means someone from the American continents- North and South.
Random Dude of course when someone says American we think of someone from the USA because it’s literally the united states of AMERICA and other languages call it America not USA
On meee i dont like those people😂 where im from even adults say this
When you can relate so much that it hurts
Same! I kinda felt embarrassed listening to this
look...... a thread full of retards
wow someone got triggered harder than an ISIS suicide vest
Well, the world wants us all to look the same in the end don't us all? Excluding race, we are taught to not act weird and to not take big risks, etc.
Rachel Hwang beauty
"im Filipino"
"wait, so you're not Asian?"
" i am "
"why your eyes aren't narrow?"
*"WTF"*
HOW!!
🥺
Lmao I'm Indian with typical East asian features.
@@kanishkagunjiyal3237 Northeastern?
@@mchoudhury6447 Their are other places too where you can find people of said physical features.
Don't just assume north-eastern India directly 🤦🏻♀️
I'm Asian and I can't believe I actually thought Camwen was describing herself when she stated all those Asian stereotypes in the beginning. I'm ashamed. 😐
Baelish B
Don't be . It's socially constructed so you believe. White majority is to blame not yourself.
boycot gugle
White people are not friendly by nature. They are exclusive. But I have faith that a minority are capable of believing that they are not the center of the Universe.
Nah, she was just a bitch about it. Those things may have been true.
That's pretty fucking racist bro.
Baelish B lel
I am asian and i'm proud to be Asian.. If i were given options i would still choose to be myself as an asian girl.. 😊i love my skin colour i love asian language and asian food ..
I am proud for myself as Chinese!
you my friend have the right attitude to life.
Parker Westman many do. Many don’t. Whatever floats anyone’s boat is their own business.
Also remember the confirmation bias that most “Asian” girls you might interact with, will much more be likely the kind of Asian girl that likes or prefers Caucasian guys. And remember there is a difference between find attractive and prefer.
Me too
No matter how many lives I’m given,
please just let me be this East Asian girl
I am not proud to be asian
To anyone saying that this is stupid or ridiculous, I'm mostly betting you're not Asian. As an Asian who's grown up in a predominantly white population, it's so difficult on me. As she mentions, there are only two ways to deal with this situation, join the crowd or meet their expectation, no inbetweens. This steals your identity so much. You feel ashamed to be a part of your own culture. And when you start joining the crowd, it's too late to turn back. You've lost that little bit of yourself you can't get back. Racism towards an Asian may not be something you see as extreme but living as an Asian your entire life it does effect us, in ways you would never understand.
imagine being white in south kore or china...
@@ojberrettaberretta5314 funny you should say that because they are actually treated pretty well...
@@MsDiscofever asians are treated pretty well too in the west asians in the west can walk around without being asked of a picture and looked weird permanently
white folks in asia or africa are constantly looked at like aliens asked pictures touched their hair and will never be accepted as part of asian or african culture wheres white folks in asian films??? wheres white folks in african films???
western society treats asians the same
asian society does not treat whites the same its a huuuuuge difference
@@ojberrettaberretta5314 And yet white people with only high school diplomas somehow get paid 2-3x more than the average college graduate in most of Asia just by teaching English. They get to live in comfortable expat neighborhoods and take advantage of the low living costs with their higher income. Small violin, Objerretta. You wanna become part of the Asian/African culture? Master the language and grow a family. Because guess what? Most white people don't even try to learn the language of the country they decide to move to and most of them don't even stay and build a family. Heck, most of them look at the new country in an ethnocentric view and are unable to adopt and accept the new culture of the country. You know why Western societies "treat Asians" the same? Because Asians learn the language, they build families, and then they grow up living in and adopting that culture (and often they make sacrifices of their old culture in order to do so), and the biggest of it all, they become CITIZENS. How many white people do you know are citizens of an Asian country? Definitely nowhere near the same magnitude as Asians in a Western country. Once you see more white people experiencing and doing the same things in an Asian country, then of course Asians will see them less as an anomaly. But Asians who are not citizens of a Western country, who can not speak its language, and who have a hard time integrating the new culture, are the ones who end up living in poverty. You can't say the same for white people in Asian countries. Millions of people would rather face the "suffering" of their pictures being taken randomly, yet living in a comfortable life style, than the suffering of living day-to-day. This is incomparable.
Chigozirim ᴖᴥᴖ those people have serious issues
"SO, you're Asian?"
"Wow, so cool! I love K pop"
"Well I'm not Korean, I'm Chinese"
"Oh Ik ik, you guys eat..."
"Lemme finish, I don't eat bats, dogs, pangolins or mice, I don't know your other Chinese friends, Chinese is completely different from Japanese and Korean and I don't speak Cantonese. My face ages just like everybody else's, Kimchi is not Chinese, I'm from Shanghai, I'm not suffering from any poverty. My parents don't force me to study, I hate maths, and Chinese characters are not drawing. Btw, I don't have coronavirus."
"ummm, I just wanted to say that, you guys invented sushis don't you?"
"......TAT"
get outta here, Chinese do like K-pop especially teens raised in urban cities
@@zhiqianwen I know, I'm Chinese myself. Not speaking on behalf of All Chinese people, but at least, K-pop is not from China right? Some Westerners even don't have that sense. Btw are you Chinese? If you are, I'm not surprised.
@@sabrinaxie1736 被你发现了XD
Poker Face Haha 看得出来哦
I do speak Cantonese.But I can't play Kungfu.
“are you chinese or asian?”
me: what
my friend's cousin in seventh grade + me + my friend's convo:
cousin: so I heard you're Chinese
me: yea
my friend: u said u were Asian
cousin: so ur a mix?
both:
-u speak asianese?
-say hello in Chinese
-konnichuwa
-corona haha
A wise man in my school once said...
"But Asia's part of China right?"
I GOT THAT ASKED FJEWIJEQ
Dude this is kinda relating to this, but I was having a conversation with my friend keep in mind we are in our teenage years. And so idk what we were talking about, but she was like so you are Chinese and Asian right? And I had to explain to her that Asian is a generic term, and I felt so shocked that she didn’t know that.
@@brentshi1544 wtf😂
westrener : r u a japanese?
me: yep
westrener: y u dOn'T LoOk liKE aNiMe?
weebs be like
hahhahaha the best
hahhahaha the best
I am Japanese and that happens to me all the time lol
But I like anime so it’s usually
Do you like anime?
Do you like sushi?
Konnichiwa?
@Ezio Auditore No, Blade of the Darkmoon is from a manga, the anime hasnt came out yet
I am 100% Asian and my grade in math is always F 😂
Same
As a chinese, same
50% of being Asian :)
mb you are Pillipino or something?
feel u on another level omg
"you're asian ?"
"yes i am"
"so you chinese, korean or japanese ?
"im malaysian"
"ouh indonesia ?"
"forget abt it im not asian, i came from pluto"
LOOOOLLLL
Hi sya pun dari pluto tee hee XD
gosh
Hahahaha
Ok ok @@majykaltime
"i am korean"
"north or south?"
"from north. do u wanna listen to my escaping story? i swam 24 hours and got 5 bullets in my arms but i got to china somehow and here i am."
"ok you are from south korea."
"yes:)"
LMAO😂😂😂
This is how I answer everytime idiots ask me am I from south and north with laugh
I'm using this from now on lmao
Yea...and if the U.S. and Russia had stayed put there might have been just Korea.😉 Thanks guys
Believe or not, there was a northern korean kid in my high school and he seemed cool.
Amazing how an 18 yr old girl of my age can speak so well
Lol
Lolol
yes she is very articulate. at 18 i still spoke in broken english!
"Are you Chinese?"
"No. I'm Vietnamese"
"But you look just like Chinese"
:)
Not to mention countless times people talk to me in Chinese.
Yes me too 😔
I am Vietnamese
So true! It's Chinese --> Japanese --> Korean --> Who are you then?
Well they are right.... Chinese and Vietnamese do look similar... what is your point?
@@thegreatmediareplacement5925 but we are different. Saying we Vietnamese are Chinese is rude. Ask before making decision.
@@vithuc5754 Just chill bro, Chinese and Vietnamese do share a lot of similarities in the first place no matter in culture, religion, language and something simple as food, they are very similar. When you go to some important events or festivals sometimes you would see Chinese characters around the corner and I bet you have seen this character in a wedding 囍. And back in years ago, Vietnamese used a writing system called Chữ Nôm, it's basically a Han characters writing system but refined to be used in Vietnam. I know you are Vietnamese and you are different than Chinese but it's normal for almost all the people around the world, imagine you go another country and you are lost the you saw a white dude, then you go up and ask him "Do you know the way to Woodbine street?" and turns out this guy is from Germany and do think he would be offended and mad? No! because people share these same experiences around the world. If you see other Chinese people next time greeting at you in Chinese, just greet back at them and kindly say you are Vietnamese and you don't speak the language. It's that simple no need to be so mad and harsh.
”Where are you from?”
“USA”
“Where are your parents from?”
“USA”
“???”
*adopted Asian*✌🏼
im also an adopted asian ✌️ white parent tingz
"Usa" is the name of a town in Kyushu, Japan. I presume you *meant* to say "USA".
That's nothing. Imagine being Asian and your Asian parents are from the states! Mind blown.
No, asians have coronavirus
@@Covid-ip1xy Hahaha pathetic. Your screen name too? Get a life. Lol
I'm Korean. I live in an european country and when i didnt mention that I'm from 'South' Korea when introducing myself, many people would ask 'so which Korea? North or South?'. In the beginning i used to get so frustrated and would explain how it wasnt possible for me to be there if i were north korean(it was pretty much impossible then since it was 2010 or so). Now i kinda gave up and would just go 'nah definately North i dug a hold underground and escaped to china' it's my greatest pleasure at the moment
haha
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I usually say I'm from both because if I don't, they ask "Is that the good one or the bad one?"
I’m half Korean and half British but ur spitting facts here😂😂 feels like everyone just gives up over time
Lol.
"You're Asian? "
"Yes"
"Which Country?"
"Philippines "
"Do Filipinos really eat with their bare hands?"
" Why? do you eat using your foot?"
min hoseok Eating with your hands ain’t even an Asian thing tho??? Actually sad how clueless people are
Oh really? Then if I'm your Professor, A- are enough for you. You have a lot to know, especially when it comes to a cultural differences. Zombies eat brains. You're safe :)
Clementine's Thigh Gap We also do boodle fights but very rarely. My parents know how to use chopsticks though, but I’m still learning.
Clementine's Thigh Gap Yea i know it can be an asian thing but people that associate eating with your hands to be an asian thing are just a disappointment. lol soz must have come across wrong
Docter Rin yeahh ikr in Somalia we also eat with our hands and a lot of people in Africa do the same
"are you chinese"
"yes"
"cool, i have a friend from japan"
me: ?? no correlation
nobody:
a foreigner who hasnt been a full blown-out weeb for a second: HFUKHAFJKSHJKFHAKJSFHSI!!!! JAPUUUUUUUUNEEESEEEE *U* UWU OWO
I guess they’re just trying to make conversation, but yeah, there really isn’t any correlation. It’s really just naivity and cluelessness rather than any Ill-intent.
That seems like the type of thing I would say if I didn’t know what to say so I’d mentally freak out and just say anything to make the situation less awkward... But of course it doesn’t work.
Better than...
“Where you from?”
“The Middle East”
“Watch out he got a BOMB!”
“ʅ（◞‿◟）ʃ”
well, there IS a correlation - Japan & China are neighbouring countries (we can say that, I know they're divided by the sea), share SOME aspects of culture, history ect. I'm from Poland and I wouldn't feel offended if someone from China or the US had told me: wow you're from Poland? cool! I've a friend in Prague/Berlin/Slovakia/Ukraine/Lithuania or EVEN in R U S S I A.
"So you're a mixed Asian?"
"Yeah"
"Cool! What are you"
"I'm half Korean and half Bengali"
"Bengali, what's that? Which country is that?"
""You know, Bangladesh?"
"Bangladesh? Is that a country in Asia?"
"Yeah, it's a small country besides India"
"India? That's not an Asian country, how is Bangladesh an Asian country"
"..."
I'm Indonesian-Bangali and yeap, I do understand thst situation.
@@kimdaechwita4856 exactly, it's so annoying, countries like bangladesh should get more recognition
@@yureiisu their face when I say Bangladesh be like, huh , is that even a country?
It feels bad.
@@kimdaechwita4856 my science teacher a few years ago was talking about bangladesh and started insulting the country, like, hello? i'm right here
@Khushi Bidhuri bangladesh is a whooole different country from india
I'm not aisan but I am persian/Irish . I have been accused of being a terrorist by the language I speak and the way I look. people don't think about what they say. I try not to let it get to me but it gets under my skin. I have lived in Ireland since I was 3 and I have developed an Irish accent. whenever I talk normally to anyone new I meet I am always asked "why are you faking an accent?" or "your not Irish!" and this is all due to the way I look. sometimes it pisses me off
smelly taetae thank you. no one should have to deal with that ☺
that's gotta be beyond annoying sorry to hear that :( don't take it personally they really got no clue about what they're saying. Sending virtual hug to you :D =
I'm Persian too, but I moved to England at the age of 13 and still have a bit of a foreign accent when I speak English even though it has been a couple of years since I've moved. and it's so annoying when some of my friends make fun of me for it ;( and there was a time in high school I was practically mocked daily and being told "you're so foreign" "shut up you're foreign" "I can't understand you speak English"
sarah k don't worry this will only happen in high school. Everyone will be more understanding by college
You are technically Asian because Iran is in Asia.
i hate math tbh. im 100% asian xd and im not that smart
Cool story bro
@Un-broken and victorious What's the point of the comment section?
@Un-broken and victorious The guy is just basically giving his opinion regarding from the video. That is saying, not all asians like math. And that's why there's a reason for having a comment section. People may comment whatever they want to say, and I don't really think that he's considered as a masochist based on what you said.
and i see BTS =))))
same!!
_watches video:_ wow that was rlly inspiring and uplifting!
_reads hate comments:_ ...my faith in humanity is long gone
I think they joke
I just love the people in the comments sharing their personal stories. I’ve never felt more proud to be Asian. :)
“Where are you from”
Me: Nepal
“So you are Indian right”
Me: No I am from Nepal a country located in Asia between China and India
“ Wait sos re you Indian or Asian”
Me: TRIGGERED
oMFG FINALLY--
Haha
goodness people need to understand that south asia is still in asia *facepalm*
OMG a Nepali Army!
Nepalese people look more mixed of Asian and Caucasian. Beautiful features altogether. And Nepalese are generally much brighter than Indian
Me:I m Asian
Person:No ur not, ur Indian
Me:Well india is in asia
Person:But asian is only china,japan,korea
I m tired of this they always forget the fact that we Indians also live in the same continent as china,korea and japan which is Asia.
Ikr!
In fact there are 48 countries in asia. Lol
thank you
To be fair, India is not generally considered an "asian country", even if it is technically in asia. Like Russia.
@@olas3943 yes that's right, Indians could be classified as south asian, but i think saying that "I'm Indian" is the best option, Asians are called Asians because they have similar facial features and people find it difficult to exactly point out their origin/country so hence 'asian' is the easy way out for them. But us Indians do not look the same as Asians, we look like Indians so i don't think we need to tell that we're "asian", just say you're Indian maybe? Nothing wrong with that?
Where are you really come from
Earth?
I am from 23 E 12th St, Happy?
Mars
„You could call me an alien, in your kind of lexical words. More precise it would be, someone from another region. No not that kind of region on earth. Another dimension. I came to bring vengeance on humanity, because of them being a threat to all what I think is worth existing. For this I was transcend here before I was sealed away thousands of years ago. Now that I am here... wait what was your question again? Do you still want to know where I came from? It is a secret. If I tell you I may would need to eliminate you...“ *looks serious*
I guess this is a way to answer as well... xD
My moms womb
Gang up bois
"Hey you looked like asian, are you asian?"
"Yes. I am"
"Where are you from?"
"Russia"
"But russia is in europa"
"Dont you know that just 15% of russia teritory is in europe?"
Now you know.
Я ждала этот коммент 😀
💫 THE MORE YOU KNOW 💫
@@gravity8087 well if they are Russian they could get confused because in Russian Europe is called Европа (pronounced like Evropa). So they might have forgotten about the differences between languages and just translated it the way they could
i didnt know this.
Now I will have to look because all the Russians I see there’s a white Very white
Person: Are you from North Korea or South Korea??? What's the difference??? Aren't they the same thing???
Me:😒😒😒
leslie chung 🤦♀️ lacking common sense
My answer to white people on this question: South Korean. Are you Confederate or Union?
Whoever thinks that must live under the rock ugh
I am Korean and I have an identical twin. Something we used to do in middle school is say one of us was from South Korea and the other was from North Korea people looked so lost and confused.They believed it until a teacher told them that it was impossible for that to happen.
@@juliadevney140 lmao that's funny af
wow you rock, girl
+brave truther
you look so butthurted..
but that's alrigt, cus we have much higher IQ score- intelligence and also higher life style.
you are getting what you deserve from the history, Caucasoid.
maybe you could blame your ancestours lol
farewell.
wtf he just said "you rock girl". No need to vent your irrelevant insecurities
That was the POINT of her speech. She had a low self-esteem BECAUSE she felt like being white was the default in society and that being anything else was wrong.
I'm an Asian, and you can take my word that I've never heard anyone ask a white person "where are you really from". It's always "what's your ethnicity" or maybe even "where's your family from". The difference between the two situations is slight, but indicative of a greater issue.
It's not just having a lack of knowledge, or not knowing everythng about Asians, as you said. The issue is that, on a grand scale, a majority of white people from white-dominated societies tend to make exclusive assumptions about Asians. That we are first generation, or even second generation immigrants. That we're intelligent or bad drivers or have tiger parents. I know that there is racism from all sides, but an unacceptable volume of unconscious racism comes from white people.
+seopthelittlegiant Your comment is racist in the least...as well as counterintuitive to the arguments made in the video. Higher IQ? Really? Maybe you're right, on a general consensus, but to use that statistic to insinuate racial superiority is an attack on the ideals of Americanism.
How do you know someone in video or comment demanded white people know everything????? what the time the girl say something like you described in video? show me, rumorer
WHEN THEY ZOOMED INTO THE WHITE PEOPLE GJERHFANRWBGJF
michelle what
Duh they wanted to be accepted by" whites" the most but that's ok
michelle because there most if America
LMAO
Why is that a problem? They are mostly American, and majority of Americans are white. Of course there is a lot of them in the audience. You should be happy that the audience was very focused and listening.
- You're Asian?
- Yes
- How to say "hello" in Chinese?
- Dude Im from Kyrgyzstan
- ????Is this a real county???? I think you're not asian
Dark Lady Hahahahh
Central asia is nonexistent to westerners.
+
I am laughing in tears😂😂😂omg...that actually happens? Anyways, lemme laugh now😂😂
lol
Not only was the topic interesting, but she was a very good oral speaker too!
When I just got to America, my English wasn't so good that my English teacher said "don't worry you are not the only Asian" and the whole class laughed overly much.
That's such a shame. I kind of know what you mean, I'm generally the shy type and everyone just assumed I was an exchange student from India, just because of the color of my skin and the fact that I struggle with starting conversations. I was born and raised in New Jersey.
I'm from Eastern Europe and they used to say that as well. Big deal. Just laugh and ignore it. When you grow up you won't know any of them.
Im sorry your teacher was ignorant to how insensitive that was. I teach in Korea now, and I'm trying to give my students the confidence they need. Even if you have an accent, it already means you speak two languages. It's a good thing.
When I just got to US,I knew my English was terrible,but they always say'ur English is So good',hmmm,liars...
Lilian Angelia 14 ~ 15
I am a Korean and I came to Canada when I was 6. I don't feel any pressure to fit in and everyone around me are eager to learn about my culture. I'm proud to call myself Korean-Canadian and to be living in a diverse community and country.
@@littlepieces4186 no its not. They're saying their experience. Dont put them down for it. Everyone experiences things differently.
@@littlepieces4186 same for the person that commented.
I'm glad your environment was conducive of such a mentality
Dude, Canada is not the US, they aren’t as stereotypical as Americans😂
I think it was more because of the Korean wave?
When I was in school a boy came up to me and said, "Hey Chinese!" I was so confused bc he had assumed my race. I said to him, "I'm not Chinese," he said ,"What are you then?" The level of disrespect😑 "I'm Korean" He was like, "oh" and walked away looking suprised that I actually talked back to him. To this day I still regret the fact that I didn't raise my middle finger. If your out there, 🖕
I'm Chinese, but even one of my closest friends thought I was Korean for an entire year until I told her I wasn't. And this was after she heard me speaking Chinese.
I mean a lot of people here think that if you're not chinese, japanese or korean you're not Asian ig
@LMAO LMAO yh shud've said i was from west korea
i think even if you are really Chinese this is still rude
I love koreaboos like you..
"Your English is so good."
Uhm, thanks I guess?
Why not? She is native speaker
Man I hope so I have been learning it for the past 11 or 12 years in school (I'm 16)
@@mawlamyineinstitudeofphysi1508 read the quotations...
I hope so I've been learning it basically my whole life 😂
This made me want to cry, I've always felt this way about my ethnicity (Chinese) and I've never really known what to do. It was just nice to have someone say this all out.
I really loved Xu Wen Can's presentation too. I was married to a Shanghai born woman of 47 (I was 54) whom I met in NM and for the next 29 years I tried hard to see the world we lived in through her eyes. That thinking led us to many discussions about what her new world looked and felt like. She appreciated my many attempts at showing her this new area of the planet as she advanced her knowledge of our way of life and language. That being said, Ping continued to spend her more happy times speaking Mandarin Chinese (Pu Tung hua) to her many Chinese speaking friends in the area.
Best wishes and know that you are loved by people of many ethnicities and cultures.
Maybe let’s just repopulate
Me: gets 99% on a math test i had been working towards for years
Classmate: Uh thats only cause your an asian
Me: 🙄🤨😔(Keeps mouth shut)
No one:
Other people : Hey MIYU you got no.1 on Science, math and English?
Me: Yeah
Them : of course you are half Japanese
Me: .....
So..is is true that people living in America or europe aren't good at anythig!! ??
Mrs.Mochiksjksjksj 24
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Mmm...prob shouldn't keep your mouth shut. That in-of-itself is part of the "problem" in America, but the explanation would get too deep. Because if you did voice your opinion, your words would have to strike them in the heart and head. That takes work and skill to deliver.
Giving a tedx talk at 18 must've taken so much courage. I'm in my late 20s and still grappling with how growing up an Asian American has shaped my life.
I like that she started with a joke because it made people less guarded and more receptive. This is so relatable, honest, and insightful. Dialogue like this is crucial. We must seek to truly understand each other instead of viewing people in an 'us vs. them' mentality. A society that promotes knowledge, diversity, and shared experience rather than assumptions will be better equipped to tackle the rising problems of the future.
Asians really are the punch-bags of society. This talk (especially about the struggle to fit in) really resonated with me. Besides the strange stereotyping and expectations that west-born Asians have, I've also experienced some sort of racism wherever I went.
I was born in the UK as a half Korean, and half Cantonese.
I was frequently picked on since I was young. I remember the "Chinese, Japanese, look at me, money please" phrases that kids would casually do, and I would copy that and show it to my parents. Only realised how disturbing that is years later.
I moved to South Korea and went to a public school for 2 years. Here I was picked on because I foreign. I didn't and couldn't understand so many things including the culture, language, etc. I couldn't even speak Korean at all and so couldn't defend myself.
I then moved to an international school because my English was starting to die out. In Korea, Koreans think that "American" English is the one and only 'English' there is. So when I talked in a funny Northern Irish accent, people thought I was really bad at English. This also happened in the public school when the kids asked me to speak English. Anyhow I was still picked on because I did not fit in any group: the rich wealthy Asians or the completely foreign western kids. I adopted into an American-ish accent despite me never lived in the US.
I then moved back to the UK. By then I was a messy mish mash of culture and identity so never really fit in.
Edit:
I suppose I wrote this when I was younger and trying to figure out my place and identity. I wanted to clarify that I am in no way ashamed of my heritage. I am very much proud to be Asian, be fluent in my mother's tongue and associate myself heavily with Korean culture. My years abroad was an experience that taught me so many things, and can safely say that it was 100% worth it.
Edit 2:
"stop being a cry baby victim blacks have it 1000 times worse", oppression isn't a competition. The point of my comment was that it's challenging for foreign born Asians to find a place of acceptance.
give u a hug! So sorry for your experience. As a Chinese, I would say that I love the way English people and Ireland people are speaking soooooo much! That's sooo cool
Andrew Li Actually, it's not that all Asians think only American English is the standard English, only Koreans have this weird obsession with American accent.
Well, I am also Korean so I can say understand you a bit. Here, in South Korea, only a few people are not Asian, and that makes Korean with Asian DNA to think they're not one of Korean. But more people are being part of our culture, and the number of people engaging in this problem are increasing. I hope it gets better soon.
And English. You're right. In Korea American English is the most popular English. Maybe there is some reason with historical issues like Korean War. Thankfully, we are accepting English with many cultures, like UK or Australia etc. In English subject of national college entrance exam(we called it Sooneung수능 in short of Korean name of it), there is a listening test. Long before, we can only hear American English from the speaker but nowadays your Northern Irish accents also came out. Actually the percent of your English is much more smaller than American English, but almost every people accept the change because we need a variety of English and they are saying it should be balanced.
I am really sorry for your experience in here. But we are changing step by step for us and you guys. I hope you to come back to Korea and see the difference some time.
(Sorry for bad English. Bottom words are the one that I want to say but couldn't because of language barrier... it was too high;( )
따돌림을 받게 만든 건 정말 미안해요. 한민족이라는 이유로 너무 폐쇄적이었고, 지금도 그게 남아있는 건 사실이에요. 하지만 우리는 조금씩 '다른' 사람들을 받아들이고 있고, 또 그러려고 노력하고 있어요. 언젠가 한국에 들러 우리가 조금은 달라졌다는 걸 보여주고 싶어요. 당신이 언제 우리나라에 있었는지는 잘 모르겠지만, 적어도 지금은 어느 나라의 영어라도 영어로 받아들이고 있어요. 많이는 아니더라도 아주 조금은 발전한 모습이라 생각되어서 말씀드려 봅니다.
Stephanie J Koreans are used to American English as they have been affected by U.S for a long time. They don’t have ‘ weird obsession’ lol. But I do think they do have certain stereotypes and their culture is quite uptight. For example, quite a lot of them would only pursuit one thing and reject the rest of the stuffs even if it is not wrong. I guess that’s why it’s a bit hard for me to live in Korea as I’ve lived in the UK for such a long time although I am Korean.
\(^○^)/ *hugg* It's okay, I feel you bro
Stranger: Are you Asian?
Me: Yes.
Stranger: So you speak Chinese?
Me: No.
Stranger: But you said you're asian.
Me: I'm Filipino dude.
stranger goes like: "isn't the same?")
you: (in your head): I wanna smack him!
hahaha i feel you kababayan. !!!!!
@@shaneruanto4747 hahah true. You just got those moments hahhahah
@@Lavista21 hahahhaha! That's so truwe
Filipinos are Asian
"I'm Asian."
"So you're Chinese?"
"Nope, I'm Vietnamese."
"Oh. I never knew it existed. Where is it?"
__
"Hey, I got a really good achievement today."
"Of course you did. You're Asian."
"No, I worked hard for this, it has nothing to do with being Asian."
"But you're Asian. You're smart, you don't have to work hard."
__
"So you're Asian? Do you even speak English? Do you understand me?"
"Yeah, of course I do."
"Oh. Have you ever heard what a hamburger is? Ever seen a MacBook?"
"Why, yes, actually."
"Huh. I thought you guys still eat cats and dogs and live octopi."
lol bold of you to assume that I got an A just because I'm Asian
sb: "what's Asian are u?"
tui: "Vietnamese"
sb: "Oh! Ní hảo, xia xỉa..."
tui: "địt con mẹ nhà mày bố vả vỡ mẹ mồm bây giờ"
@@LinhMai-xo3px uầy ngôn từ bạn ei :0
@@LinhMai-xo3px =)))) cục súc vcl
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It's good that Canwen shared her personal story and true feelings without telling the step-by-step guide to the audience. That made it less of a lecture, but more of a sharing. It's hard to imagine how complicated the immigrant and their children's life is in America and Canwen gave us a glimpse into it.
meanwhile me when i'm in china...
"You live in America?"
"Yes."
"I have an American friend, do you know him?"
"Where are you from?"
"I'm from China."
"Okay, so which part?"
"From the north part."
"Which Province exactly? Is it Beijing or Hong Kong or Shanghai...?"
"Um, Inner Mongolia."
"Oh you are from Mongolia, but wait, you speak Chinese though don't you?"
"I do speak Chinese but Inner Mongolia is a part of China."
"Oh so Mongolia is a part of China? No wait this doesn't make sense."
"Um, Mongolia is a country. Inner Mongolia is a part of China."
"So you speak Chinese?"
"Yes."
陈烈 啧啧啧
Hahahaha🤣
Hhhhhhhh，我也是内蒙人😂😂
I’m very confused
陈烈 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈
American - "So, which continent are you from?"
Me - "Oh! I am an Asian."
American - "What? You can't be Asian! Your eyes are not slanted!"
Me - " *_OH MY HOLY LORD WHERE HAS THE WORLD COME TO?!?_* "
My jaw has dropped after reading this comment. HOLY-
@@serena4136 Hello there! You must be an Asian too, I suppose?
Relatable. Apparently Kazakstan, Uzbekistan, India, Pakistan, and a whole lot of south and central asian countries are non-existent to these guys.
“Oh so where are you from?”
“Oh I’m from Korea”
“Oh no I heard you’re under really strict rules and laws there, if you wear shorts you’ll get executed right?”
“No no, I’m from South Korea”
“I also heard you guys eat dogs”
“....”
“I can speak a little bit of Korean”
“Oh really?”
“Yeah listen! Konichiwaaaa kawaii, Ni hao!”
....
@@Lala22-h7n ive never seen a single place that serves dog food i think i heard about it like once from my friends friend
앗씨..
The Kawaii makes me cringe everytime i hear it from that *one* white girl
literally the eating dogs thing might be the cringiest stereotype ive ever heard. correct me if im wrong, but isn’t eating dogs like an old thing china? like only 0.001% of the whole Chinese population still do it??
@@user-xr7cu9nm3v Eating dogs actually didn’t originate in China. In ancient times, people not just in China ate dogs. Yes, there are still some people in China who eat dogs, but luckily, it’s not common.
"Where are you from?"
"Thailand!"
"Where is that in China?"
"....It is a country actually..."
"Ah... you are Thaiwanese!"
"Bingo."
@God of the Eternal light. god isn’t real
LOL so funny
i have lots of people from china at my school. lots of people stereotype them and make fun of them and i feel so bad for them. they are all really lovely girls, kind and funny and my peers treat them really rudely.
well, the fact that you treat them nicely is very great already!
Then stand up and become an ally.
It's like that sometimes, especially if the Asian population is very small. Before, I went to two different schools, both with a tiny Asian population- like less than 20 in a school with 200+ ppl. Now, I go to a school where Asians pretty much make up have the student body, so that stuff isn't as common. The most important thing is for you/ their friends to stand by them
Which school you are in
Cindy Boston Latin school, also ^half* of student population
"Are you Japanese?"
"No, i'm Chinese"
"Oh yeah it's the same"
I am Japanese and was often asked to speak Mandarin because "it is the same"
"What type of Asian are you?"
😨I hate when people say this
No you never need to conform: not to stereotype or whiteness. You conform to yourself. By being you. The real you. When I stay in NYC, nobody thinks I am Chinese (which made me unhappy because they were stereotyping in a sorta negative way) because They see me as a 'fun-driven, ambitious, expressive, fabulous' person, all of the so-called American or 'white' personalities are very evident and--- I can be more 'White' than anyone else If I need to be (if'white' entails critical, questioning, and yelling 'OMG'). You challenge people's stereotype by showing up and simply being you. Amazing you. That's how easy that is. However, Admittedly, growing up in states like Idoha etcetc as a Asian-American is an awkward and uncomfortable thing. Most areas in America are just the opposite of 'diverse' and international.
I like your charming confidence!
I'm Russian and I live in China. For me, it's absolutely same, but opposite. "Oh, she doesn't understand us!" "It'll be fun to take a picture of her in a subway". People often clueless about ways to behave with a foreigner of another race. Even though their intentions mostly good, it can be frustrating sometimes.
That obsession with foreigners and preference for people of lighter skin, frustrate me as a Chinese as well.
@@ziconghuang7139 if someone tried to take my picture without permission, their phone would be shattered.
“You’re Asian”
“Yes, I am”
“Are you Chinese? You look Chinese”
“No, I’m Hmong”
“What’s that? Is that short for Mongolian?”
“No, we’re our own people”
“She only got that because she’s Asian!”
“She only understood that because she’s Asian!”
“She only received a good grade because she’s Asian!”
“No..I got, received, and understood because I worked hard to”
I cannot tell you how many times I’ve heard these phrases and went through these dialogues in my life as an Asian American
I’m not your regular, stereotypical Asian when it comes to intelligence. I’m not really that smart when it comes to academics and my skill in math is terrible. But I do strongly listen and obey to my parents and I have a talent in performing arts and music, I sing, I can write music, I’m learning how to play the piano and is planning to learn more instruments in the future plus I’m a very passionate and ambitious dancer. But I do not pursue these things because I’m Asian or my Asian parents forced me to because us Asians are known to be forced to do something our parents want us to do. I do these things because I want to not because I feel like it’s something an Asian should do, but because I WANT TO
"Are you Chinese?"
"Yes"
"Cool! Can you translate my name in Chinese?"
...
??? (Like wha..)
I get asked that all the time
i think they are thinking like harry potter and 哈利波特
ikr I’m Vietnamese and people ask me to do that all the time
Like I dunno, can you translate my name into English?
MsKogūshi LOOOOLLL IKR
omg, yes!! how to do that!! and can you even translate my name in english lol. If you ask how to write it, then ok, but translate?????
She LITERALLY SOPKE FOR ME!!!!! That's exactly what I am going through. I'm also too afraid to talk about racist problems because people calls me ' too sensitive ' and even WORSE!! One time, I was taking Chinese VCE class which was filled with Chinese speakers who lives in Australia, our teacher talked to us about her daughter who was born in this country. Our teacher said that her daughter is completely westernized, and she can't communicate with her well, and that annoys her. That's totally normal, I totally get it, and it's not a big deal. Not until my classmate , who byw,was also Chinese. He turned to us and said ' THAT MAKES HER AN ATTRACTIVE FEMALE ' he literally said that out loud!!!!! I was so annoyed by that and I turned to him and said " that's racist." Unfortunately, we goes to the same school. He and his other friends found me the following day after school in the library, and wanted to argue with me about it. He thought it was being fair, but the truth is, he is two years older than me and he threatened me by talking to me ( when I was all alone), but he had more than 5 friends by his side. He keeps on interrupting me when I am giving my point of views while telling me he is not being racist. This video made me realize that this is what is happening in this society to us( a bit Chinese and a bit westernized kids) however, she didn't give me a solution to this problem. I still need to struggle and figure it out myself, sadly.
Nancy Rules I’m sorry I’m late and I hope it’s better now but if it isn’t I’m really sorry unfortunately a lot of us go through this and it will probably only continue for the rest of our lives until we expect it and become truly proud of who we are as Asian Americans and it sucks that we have to go though this but my advice is to just try to walk around with confidence and don’t think twice about youre heritage because I think it’s something that makes us special and ourselves 😊💞please just stay strong I promise it will get better and they have no idea what they’re talking about it’s isn’t being sensitive and you are perfect the way you are 💞💞
Sounds like he has a crush on you, to be completely honest. (Young boys are pretty clueless.)
Honey, you're a queen for calling him out for that, and I salute you for it. But, if you want to be able to end this problem, maybe having loads of friends with you who will stand by your side and have similar viewpoints would be helpful? I'm Asian too but South Asian, and I'm aware of a lot of stereotypes thrown at y'all and myself. But, if he ever tries to harass you, don't hesitate to report the incidents because he should not be trying to stalk and intimidate you for his peace of mind.
"Are you Asian?"
Me: "Yes"
"What kind of nese are you?"
Me: "What?"
"You know: Chinese, Japanese, Koreanese..."
Me:( /ಠ ͜ʖಠ)/
"I'm not any type of knees."
@@octave11thpianist58 You're the bee's knees 😎
@@Kyrmana 👏👏👏
koreanese omg
nah those eyes are too big. /s
" you are asian righr?"
"Yeah?"
"Bur you don't look asian"
"Well..maybe bc i'm from iran"
"So you are arab?"
"Eh..no?"
"Oh..okey one last question do you speak asian or islam??"
" i-"
OMG THATS SOO TRUEEEE
What should I say they don’t even know that Armenia is in Asia🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♀️
@@chinares I would guess most people probably haven't even heard of Armenia considering its truly minimal output into world affairs. Bottom line, Armenia is a tiny country, no one really cares about Armenia to begin with.
Lmao Zedong I know you are right but I didn’t mean that I meant if they even know about my country many of them think it’s in Europe
@@chinares It wouldn't surprise me considering Armenia's relative cultural similarity with other European countries. But most importantly, Armenia was part of the Soviet Union, and when people think of the Soviet Union, they think of Russia. And since Russia is in Europe, it isn't all that surprising how people would draw the parallel between Armenia and Europe.
"you're asian?"
"yes"
"you look Mexican"
"oh uh... yeah"
"where you from?"
"Philippines"
"where is that????"
"ಠ ل͟ ಠ"
Elijah Fonzie and the the US colonized the Philippines (I think, never learned Filipino history lol) I’m Philippine and even other Asians at my school can’t guess my ethnicity. They think I’m Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Malaysian and others. I surveyed LOTS of people and no one could guess my background.
@Elijah Fonzie yeah, also Mexico and Philipines also had great trading and good relationships back then. Wouldnt be surprised if a lot of people started to get together increasing the likeness between us.
I'am a blonde with very narrow eyes born and raised on Mexico, idk what even is my heritage.
HAHAHA my Philippino friend always gets that especially here in El Paso. She will be at a store and someone will swear she is mexican when she is like..no im not Mexican. But...you....even for me. Im Davis, my skin is white but people here have this pre conceived notion that all mexicans have to speak in broken English, have dark skin, and speak perfect spanish. People put me down so much because I wasn't dark enough.
Where you from? Im from philippines. Wow nice country! Does people in the philippines using hands while eating??? Yaah yes we are???does american uses their feet to eat their meal???
Hahahha 😂👍
boom!!! haahaha
Facts
they may have meant instead of chopsticks because we use hands for certain things in america
Hahah I always eat on my hand 😂but went in go to school I eat on spoon
I feel like what a lot of people don't understand or think about is that all Americans, except for Native Americans, were from a different country. All of us are asked where were you originally from? What is your ethnicity/race? But a lot of minority groups believe it's only them, when that's not the reality. I'm an Armenian American. I'm a first generation American alongside my twin brother. When I have told people I'm Armenian (after they asked because they almost always do, and that's okay), those that have met Armenians ask me if I know the Armenian they are talking about. Yes, its ridiculous, but they ask because usually a same cultural community stays together and is tightly knit within America. It's the naive question asked by those that are the n-teeth generation American in their families. Americans ask all races these types of questions because America is a melting pot of cultures/races. That's what makes it so unique and beautiful. I ask a person what ethnicity they are because I know I cannot assume since America is filled with so many different types of people, personally I appreciate it when people ask instead of assuming because then they learn what I actually am or learn about Armenians and Armenia (for the first time). Also the knowledge of meeting someone new and learning their unique and beautiful ethnic/cultural background excites me. Of course I do know that microaggressions and racism exist, and so does the American societal norms, but even though I'm a white woman I don't completely conform to these "white" or Americanized cultural ways because I came from a household of three different cultures. My parents are Armenians that were born and raised in Iran, my brother and I are Armenians born and raised in America in a Iranian/Armenian cultural home. Now, I am an Iranian, Armenian, and American cultural individual, and that makes me my own unique individual. My background has helped me form the person I am today. Of course the expectations Americans have of people in America acting only a certain way is ridiculous, but not all Americans are like this since America, once again, is a melting pot. There are so many individuals such as myself or the woman in the video whom come from a multicultural home. These societal expectations and norms, of course, need to change, but my point is that all people of all races experience this difficulty, not just a certain racial group. I don't act completely Americanized because of the multicultural household I was brought up in and because I never felt the need to conform, I didn't want to, I refused. If any immature individual made fun of me when I was a kid I ignored them because I felt their argument was insignificant and ignorant. I let myself be who I am as an Armenian Iranian American cultured individual. My parents don't want me to be even a bit Americanized, they like others want me to conform to their expectations of their cultural backgrounds, but what people don't understand is that I am not just Armenian, American, or Iranian. I am in a way all three because that was the environment and culture I grew up in. I took the aspects I loved of each and formed myself as I am today. I am Armenian, but I am also Iranian, and I am also American, and I am not ashamed of any of these beautiful things. "Americanized?" Becoming "white?" I only know how to be myself. Plus, there is nothing wrong with being Americanized or white. People need to stop using such degrading terminology for other peoples cultures or race/skin-tone. I'm not just white. I'm not just Americanized. I'm just me. It's time people stop using other peoples cultures, race, and physical/personality characteristics in a negative way. This video is amazing, but it also has its flaws. The Chinese culture is beautiful, as is the American culture, and each have their flaws. Do not degrade one and defend the other. All countries look down upon others that are not from their country or of their race and culture. All countries, including China, including Armenia, including Iran, including America, need to change and stop judging others by the cultural background they come from or act out just because it's different from their own and they don't approve. Accept people. Love. Share. And embrace differences. That's what makes this world so beautiful. And America, though it may have many flaws and needs a lot of work, it is the only country that accepts and consists of all cultures, of so much beautiful diversity, and no other country can say the same.
Glad this is being voiced
I was totally moved by introducing yourself. Thank you to be brave. I believe it was not easy at all to stand in front of many people and talk to them about race. Bravo.👍
I’m an Chinese American who broke the stereotypes as a youth. Played high school football was an avid guitar player.
Ended up going to a top notch college.
but do you still eat egg fly lice?
Shocking
I realized she's just a normal Chinese-American when saying 'orange chicken'.
Jesus, how many times can you listen to a pretentious ABC talk about connecting to their roots through "Chow Mein" and "orange sauce" before you lose your mind? 重庆火锅 all the way; maybe I can numb my mouth hard enough to wipe my brain.
I did not lose my mind at all lol, this is just a classic ABC stereotype, I'm so used to it.
Yeah... Being in China all my life I've never heard of such thing here.........The first time I heard anything about orange chicken was from an American TV show. And so are the lucky cookies, we actually don't have those things here. I assume that it was the early immigrants who invented those.
Simiao Wong I KNOW RIGHT fortune cookies r American and Orange chicken only became made in China over the past few years because of the popularity of it in America
你头像好可爱呀 (///u///)
Wonderful job, Canwen! I think what you said today is amazing and inspiring for young Chinese children to accept who they are. I stand by what you said 100 percent!
Me: I am Vietnamese
Ppl: oh. Are u soldier in Vietnam War?
Me: .... ok
Can relate.
Hanh gilkun..I'm still cracking up..🤣
Vietnam is beautiful. I've been there twice to visit and it's hard for me as an outsider to believe the country was at war just one generation ago. It's just such a friendly place. Love the people. Love the food.
Muốn chửi thề
:)))))
I am an Asian too. When I stayed in the US, I got a lot of stereotypical question. So I totally understand that she said. Thank you for the amazing speech. Sorry my broken English;)
lmao im Asian American but everyone thinks im Mexican I have no idea why
Because Asians don't look one certain way.
There's a laosian guy at my school and everyone thinks he's Mexican and I had to shut them down after they started disrespecting his actual ethnicity. I think it just comes from ignorance. These people don't even listen when you tell them what you actually are..
I'm Mexican and people think I look Asian lol.
@@elizabethreyes3599 lol 😂 omg. It also confuses people when you're phenotypically Asian, but you have a Hispanic last name like Philipinos lol! Idk why. Simple geography and talking to people that don't look like you. Just ask! 🙄
My sister's 1st grade teacher thought I was Hispanic.
love this, and relate to it so much...thank you for your bravery in speaking such truth and shedding light on this!!
"Where are you from?"
"Bangladesh"
"Oh, I thought you were Spanish at first lol"
*a couple days later(another person asking, in front of the previous person)*
"What are you?"
"...I'm Asian"
"You're Asian??"
"Yea...Bangladesh is in Asia"
"Ohhh, I didn't even know that was a country"
I feel bad our country doesn't get enough recognized
As a child it was always like “hey is this person your sister?”
No... No she is not... in fact she’s Filipino and I’m Chinese...
Respect her lots. Many Japanese I know are very inspired by white people and some try to become like them, they think it is cool. I realized it is a shame ignoring its own nationality and its culture when I first came to study abroad. Even though I can never make such am amazing speech like this, I agree with her very much, and she is inspirational.
"where are you from?"
"Korea"
"South or North?"
"South..."
"Oh okay, I like kbbq"
"...????"
Yu Na Lee XD That’s exactly what I experienced
Ack so relatable
Yu Na Lee I always wonder why people ask “North or south?” Like, what are you expecting?? When have you ever met someone from the north part?
bro ive said the same thing so many times :) lol
LOL
Me: I'm half Japanese
"Omg you are?? SAY SOMETHING IN JAPANESE"
Me, who hadn't learned how to say any sentences in Japanese at the time: :/
Nami ahhhhhhh you’re the best
You should've just made up some gibberish on the spot. x´D
Also - cool avatar! ;-D
When people ask i say I'm a human wtf are you???!!😂🙄🙄
"Your asian?"
"Yeah im Mongolian"
"Oh is that in China or in Russia?"
"Umm neither"
"Oh okay your Chinese then"
"...."
Its rare to see mongolians
@@nomadictanker8100 i was just thinking that
LOL
I am in UK and once met a Mongolian girl living in the same govt apartment building. She was very pretty, polite and nice person.
I was so mesmerized about her Chinese but also not so Chinese looks that I actually chatted her up, which is untypical because I am usually shy or super nervous about beauties!
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Canwen sounded really serious at the beginning of the vid. Clever, GJ. x'D Good discussion of race and identity. Be proud of you are. Be aware of people's interpretations. Yep.
Well how clueless are african and asians about white people LOL! You
demand that white people know evrything and care about everything but
its' fine for asian and blacks and muslim to know nothing and to not
care about white issues! About the yellow fever thing, only your low
self-esteem makes that a credible thing! Why not embrace the fact that
some non-asian men like you and make use of it in the search of a life
partner... Such first world libtarded nonsense Issues!!
^^ I agree with that for the most part, my main issue is that i see this kinda shit when I'm a white guy who completely respects Asian people and I feel like I'm being talked down on as they don't separate actual racists and white people.
This is so accurate and so on point. As a Asian and a girl to be going to 6th grade everybody would always assume that I was a smart girl and gets perfect grades. I wanted to be normal and not to be living a label by being smart, so I always put pressure on myself to always succeed in life and grades. Sometime being a Asian is a struggle.
Me Japanese living in America. Friend: “Can you say McDonald?” Me:”(Here comes..)Ma ku do na lu dooooo!!”
マクドナルド
that was cute ndosksis
say refrigerator😂