Family’s struggle with dementia while dining out

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  • Опубликовано: 9 апр 2024
  • Restaurant patrons offer support to a mother and daughter dealing with the mother’s progressing dementia.
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  • @painywainy1942
    @painywainy1942 Месяц назад +793

    The actor is my grandmother!! She's been acting for so long and this is the biggest job she's ever gotten! Thank you for giving her this opportunity!

    • @Asa...S
      @Asa...S Месяц назад +97

      She's great! I totally believed her, and just wanted to take care of her, I hope she's get more parts.

    • @nassman22
      @nassman22 Месяц назад +20

      when was this recorded?

    • @HeatherZeis
      @HeatherZeis 25 дней назад +11

      She was great!

    • @daviddifranco
      @daviddifranco 22 дня назад +8

      That's amazing!

    • @ericaharvey7315
      @ericaharvey7315 21 день назад +5

      She did great

  • @christophercannon2116
    @christophercannon2116 Месяц назад +3290

    Nice to see Traci in non-villainous roles

    • @poalima6527
      @poalima6527 Месяц назад +46

      lol 😂

    • @larrie9491
      @larrie9491 Месяц назад +24

      This is her 3rd or 4th

    • @anotherboringclip
      @anotherboringclip Месяц назад +75

      the o.g villain

    • @ellingtonlover7319
      @ellingtonlover7319 Месяц назад +113

      I love her in everything. But no one plays a Karen like Traci!

    • @lovebug.0_0
      @lovebug.0_0 Месяц назад +49

      you gotta admit tho she’s good at them 😂😂

  • @catrobertsverser
    @catrobertsverser Месяц назад +1773

    Tracy is a staple on this show, a legendary one at that. Watching her past acting work with other scenarios is wonderfully convincing.

    • @MRJMXHD
      @MRJMXHD Месяц назад +30

      She belongs on the big screens. So, so good.

    • @guadalupejazminvilaguillen4786
      @guadalupejazminvilaguillen4786 Месяц назад +11

      I thought she was really good at being the bad person but she can play literally anything.

    • @NikkiJ98
      @NikkiJ98 Месяц назад +11

      She's on too much. How does ppl not recognize her already?

    • @SportsBossMan
      @SportsBossMan Месяц назад +1

      Oh yes she is one of their best actresses! She's incredible.

    • @ManiSBeezy
      @ManiSBeezy Месяц назад +3

      @@NikkiJ98 that’s what I think every time I see her in one of these videos. She probably gets recognized all the time.

  • @jerrymiddlemiss7902
    @jerrymiddlemiss7902 Месяц назад +1567

    traci is ACTINGGGGG what a queen

    • @edithdlp8045
      @edithdlp8045 Месяц назад +52

      Also the actress playing her mom. She really looked like she had Alzheimer's. 👏 👏 👏

    • @australia2754
      @australia2754 Месяц назад +10

      @@edithdlp8045literally the “mum” had me thinking she may be confused to where she was when the cameras came out haha

    • @presumed_guilty
      @presumed_guilty Месяц назад +4

      God DAMN what a Queen! So fucking good!

    • @Wyljesays
      @Wyljesays Месяц назад +1

      Most convincing actress on this show hands down

  • @kimiraikkonen4226
    @kimiraikkonen4226 Месяц назад +1192

    Tracy immerses herself in the roles so perfectly that even though I watched every WWYD episodes in existence, i would still be fooled by her

    • @edithdlp8045
      @edithdlp8045 Месяц назад +30

      I would be fooled too. She is such a great actress, villain or victim.

    • @RachelMLinn
      @RachelMLinn Месяц назад +2

      Same

    • @nuggetsfan007
      @nuggetsfan007 Месяц назад +12

      Ya she has a pretty unremarkable appearance… definitely blends into a crowd, perfect for this show!

    • @mackenzieasbury9216
      @mackenzieasbury9216 Месяц назад +1

      I remember Traci playing the victim in the elderly mother scenario. Where woman Mary played her cantankerous elderly mother. Who berated her caretaker daughter played by Traci.

  • @adi91216
    @adi91216 Месяц назад +740

    Tracy really lived in this character. I cried when she cried. She is a gold asset to this show.

    • @sunnygibbs925
      @sunnygibbs925 Месяц назад +2

      Ikr…i know it’s fake & still crying😂

    • @jorgeenchilada
      @jorgeenchilada Месяц назад +1

      @@sunnygibbs925 same though, it's actually crazy

    • @MoniqueeeeJ
      @MoniqueeeeJ Месяц назад

      She getting that money of course

    • @jbzhummerh2gamer
      @jbzhummerh2gamer Месяц назад +5

      She lives all of the characters, the good, the bad, the ugly, even the dumb & funny.

  • @ayushjasuja6828
    @ayushjasuja6828 Месяц назад +364

    Tracy cries , john comes to break it up and she takes a bite of whatever she had right away 😂😂

    • @jimmysmom581
      @jimmysmom581 Месяц назад +33

      Yeah, acting until the very end! haha

    • @lilo2373
      @lilo2373 Месяц назад +23

      When she said “eat your taco” I chuckled a little

    • @SansMerci1013
      @SansMerci1013 Месяц назад +12

      This had me cackling- Tracy is AT👏🏾WORK👏🏾🤣

    • @Jyotirmayshuva
      @Jyotirmayshuva Месяц назад +3

      I was looking for the comment if anyone noticed Tracy's bite on the food and found this :D

    • @ciaa8387
      @ciaa8387 18 дней назад

      @@lilo2373I went searching for this comment thank you 😂

  • @elijahtorres2688
    @elijahtorres2688 Месяц назад +299

    Out of all of the roles Traci played, this has to be the best one. The emotions she showed were VERY convincing… I even cried a bit.

  • @Louhasnocash
    @Louhasnocash Месяц назад +480

    I used to work at a call center for an utility company. Time to time I would receive calls from seniors with Alzheimer’s. This one time I received a call from this super nice lady and she was talking to me for about 45 minutes about things that didn’t really connect (My stats were ruined but I didn’t really care at that point). Then out of nowhere she started telling me stories about her and her late husband and started crying saying how much she missed him and how they used to get brunch at IHOP every Sunday after church. Then she said that she was going to be riding in his Bel Air with his arm around her soon. She then asked to be transferred to a supervisor and gave many compliments about me before disconnecting.
    I still think about that call during times that I’m down.

    • @australia2754
      @australia2754 Месяц назад +43

      you’re a wonderful person for taking your time to listen and talk to her, well done

    • @ilovenoodles7483
      @ilovenoodles7483 Месяц назад +29

      Glad you listened to her.
      Sometimes that is all people need - to be listened to.

    • @edithdlp8045
      @edithdlp8045 Месяц назад +18

      Thanks for listening. You are a wonderful person. My dad also has dementia and tells everyone stories about when we were kids. I am 48 and my brother 47. Thanks again. 😭😭😭

    • @edithdlp8045
      @edithdlp8045 Месяц назад

      ​@@australia2754yes she is a wonderful person.

    • @KJay-ql3hq
      @KJay-ql3hq Месяц назад +7

      Interesting I work at a call center for a utility client as well now and there’s one lady mid to late 80s with dementia ..there’s notations on her account to remind her that her balance is paid
      in full because she will call several times a month to pay the same bill multiple times so much that it will result in outstanding credits on her account ..it saddens me that she’s not in her right mind yet has no one that she can trust to handle
      her finances for her

  • @katys6407
    @katys6407 Месяц назад +356

    My grandad suffered from vascular dementia. One night he managed to exit the care home and was walking around in the rain looking for his army base. A young man found him in the the park and went along with his story and guided him to the nearest store where they called an ambulance. He was ok but might not have been if it wasn't for the man that helped him

    • @deeanna8448
      @deeanna8448 Месяц назад +26

      I was going to work one day, and there was a woman with a walker walking down one side of a 2 lane street. Cars were backed up and people were passing her. I pulled over into a parking lot and walked up to her. By then, another woman had stopped to help and guided her off the road. She was trying to go to church. It was a Tuesday. The other lady told the woman that church had been cancelled for the day and I went to the nursing home down the street that she had obviously wandered from. They were already aware and had been looking for her.

    • @MjB12345
      @MjB12345 Месяц назад +1

      Thank goodness for the young kid

    • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
      @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 Месяц назад +3

      I guess it’s better to go along with them than to stress them out? I would love some pointers

    • @deeanna8448
      @deeanna8448 Месяц назад +3

      @@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 this is just my experience. I am not a senior healthcare worker. With my grandmother, it was definitely easier to go along in most cases.
      For example, she would frequently ask about people who had died years ago. If she asked "How are Johnny and Llly?" at first we'd say "remember Grandma? They died a long time ago" it would upset her every time. There was no benefit to making her grieve over and over, so we'd instead say "they're both well and send their love". She used to accuse my Grandpa of never visiting and to argue that he was there every day agitated her, so he finally started saying "I'm sorry honey. I'll do better."
      Obviously if it's something dangerous, you have to respond differently. If she said she was going to walk out the door and go to church like the lady in my earlier post, you can't say "sure, go ahead." You have to try to redirect.

    • @annasofiehjelm6332
      @annasofiehjelm6332 Месяц назад +1

      You know, that really brought tears to my eyes 😥And thank goodness for that young man! Many years ago my dad ran into a former farmer in the parking lot at his job, it was in the middle of the winter and this old farmer was on his way home to check on his cattle. He was in his shirt, didn't know what day or even year it was and hadn't had cattle for decades. Dad managed to get him back inside by turning farmhand and promising to take care of this old man's cattle. However, I do feel greater respect for that (strange?) young man.

  • @becca9728
    @becca9728 Месяц назад +256

    😂😂😂I love how Tracy took a quick bite of food before walking away in the 2nd scene

  • @onemanshowlasthustle
    @onemanshowlasthustle Месяц назад +237

    The older actress is absolutely fantastic.

  • @pattydixon6510
    @pattydixon6510 Месяц назад +87

    Distraction. If you do encounter someone with dementia, remember to gently distract, don't argue with them, they won't understand. I have too much experience with this. Distraction and kindness, just like these great people did here.

  • @Scallle
    @Scallle Месяц назад +340

    Traci again and again and again and ever again 😂 but she so really good person ❤️

    • @ryandiggs750
      @ryandiggs750 Месяц назад +11

      At least she isn't the bad person this time

    • @kluger2222
      @kluger2222 Месяц назад +3

      what about it?we love her

  • @Charlie-bh3yk
    @Charlie-bh3yk Месяц назад +192

    As a former care worker for those with Dementia and having loved ones with Alzheimer’s, this really pierced my heart.

    • @jennareimann300
      @jennareimann300 Месяц назад +2

      Thank you for being a care worker. My grandma passed from dementia this last September and it was really hard to see and the hospice workers were angels. Bless you.

    • @dallasyap3064
      @dallasyap3064 Месяц назад +3

      Respect to u and others who take care of old people in old folks homes. It's definitely not easy.

    • @Charlie-bh3yk
      @Charlie-bh3yk 26 дней назад +1

      I had to leave care work due to my own health, but, I still miss it because I adored my job, however heart-breaking it was at times.
      I now work as a trauma therapist and have supported clients who are grieving the “living death” of their loved ones.

  • @victoriamarx3267
    @victoriamarx3267 Месяц назад +58

    Tracy needs a dam Emmy or golden globe or something for her years of amazing acting, every time in every roll she's handed

  • @NootsaraTomKomOfficial
    @NootsaraTomKomOfficial Месяц назад +100

    Tracy (Traci) IS LITERALLY the best actress on this show. She can play the hero or the villain so well. I love her and I hope the show never gets rid of her (even though everyone recognizes her)...I LOVE TRACY!!! Please let her play the villain roles more because it's always SO GOOD!

  • @NhonyaBSness
    @NhonyaBSness Месяц назад +26

    Tracy went from crying to eating and then low key wiping her hands on her sweatshirt so she could give the lady a hug. 😂 I love it! She's awesome!

  • @owllover15
    @owllover15 Месяц назад +68

    This episode has me in tears thinking about my grandmom with Alzheimer’s, and how stressful it would be to go out in public. Never knowing what she would do or say. So many people gave us grace when she would say something a little inappropriate, or need extra time at restaurants. It’s a scary disease and needs more attention!

  • @MeditationWithAyla
    @MeditationWithAyla Месяц назад +76

    Tracy is queen but the actress playing her mom is amazing too!

  • @UnfilteredV
    @UnfilteredV Месяц назад +144

    Tracy is excellent in this role ❤

    • @edithdlp8045
      @edithdlp8045 Месяц назад +4

      She is great in any role. I have seen WWYD for sime time now and every time she makes me cry or makes me mad depending on her role.

  • @SOK39
    @SOK39 Месяц назад +32

    Traci aged like a fine wine
    What a legendary actor of WWYD

  • @annaann1081
    @annaann1081 Месяц назад +72

    Tracy eating after cameras are out😅 I ❤her

  • @superdragon1101
    @superdragon1101 Месяц назад +67

    My nanny has dementia, and it’s been very difficult taking care of her as a 21 year old.

    • @user-gn6xu4jl1u
      @user-gn6xu4jl1u Месяц назад +14

      You are amazing for doing that. Watching from the UK.

    • @IzhakIb
      @IzhakIb Месяц назад +11

      You’re an absolute trooper and so is your nanny. ❤

    • @superdragon1101
      @superdragon1101 Месяц назад +7

      @@IzhakIb Thank you. I don’t know what harder actually. Taking care of a woman in her late 70s early 80s: as a man in his early 20s or the other way around?

    • @IzhakIb
      @IzhakIb Месяц назад +2

      @@superdragon1101 I feel either would be difficult to handle but as long as you have each other that’s what matters. My grandmother had a stroke and surprisingly she survived it but I’m not too sure of the details but I believe she had another one which catalysed her inevitable passing unfortunately. My only regret was not spending enough time with her when she was still here. I would recommend to surround yourself with as many of your family, friends and relatives so you won’t have to deal with it alone. Hoping for the best brother stay positive as much as you can sending my love your way

    • @clairemann2
      @clairemann2 Месяц назад +1

      ⁠@@IzhakIbI’m so sorry for your loss my love. ❤❤❤ Know that she is watching over you every day!

  • @CooperDianeBob
    @CooperDianeBob Месяц назад +59

    I think this is a perfect scenario because it truly makes sense for a person like that to randomly interact with people asking strange questions.

  • @Ginger18420
    @Ginger18420 Месяц назад +23

    Traci literally is such an incredible actor. Probably the best actor we’ve seen on this show. I’d know her ANYWHERE lol

    • @Kat-mu8wq
      @Kat-mu8wq Месяц назад +1

      And you'd still be fooled by her acting 😂

    • @Ginger18420
      @Ginger18420 Месяц назад +1

      @@Kat-mu8wq totally!!!!!

  • @maryb2311
    @maryb2311 Месяц назад +63

    My mother passed away from dementia. It's hard to be a caretaker of a person with the disease. Even if they wind up in an ALF, the child still has to take care of the parent and that is hard, in and of itself.

    • @clairemann2
      @clairemann2 Месяц назад +1

      I’m so so sorry for your loss my love. Know that your mom is watching over you every day!! Sending you all of my love ❤❤❤

  • @chloenord280
    @chloenord280 Месяц назад +63

    I just lost my grandpa a week and a half ago, and my mom was his caregiver for the last year. Let's just say, this really hit hard for me, and it makes me so happy to see that people are out there in the world to help not just those with the illness, but those taking care of them. It is a really hard job that does not get recognition. Thank you for this episode

    • @dynamiclizard1098
      @dynamiclizard1098 Месяц назад +5

      I’m so sorry about your grandpa ❤

    • @clairemann2
      @clairemann2 Месяц назад +2

      I’m so sorry for your loss my love. Know that he is watching over you forever and that he loves you so much!! ❤❤❤🕊️🕊️

  • @stasiabeez0
    @stasiabeez0 Месяц назад +10

    This reminded me of my grandpa, he had "sundowning dementia". He would go on rants about my grandma's boyfriend, of course she never had a boyfriend because she was married and 92 years old lol. But to stop him from worrying we would tell him the "boyfriend" was just a stalker and the guy had been arrested. Seeing the smile on his face was worth it. I miss them both everyday ❤️

  • @l_Live_In_Oregon
    @l_Live_In_Oregon Месяц назад +32

    Both my parents had dementia at the same time. Both had it in different degrees. My older brother lived in their town and was the primary caretaker. It took a big toll on him emotionally. Mom died in October of 2018 and dad died 3 months later. Now 5 years later, I am beginning to show signs of dementia too. To be honest I am terrified. I am not afraid of death, but losing my memory is another matter. The last guy really got to me, my dad was named Richard too, but everyone called him Dick.

    • @brownskinbeauty.
      @brownskinbeauty. Месяц назад +10

      Take lots of pictures and create memories while you still can. It's been shown that they can help with memory loss. Sorry to hear about your parents, grief is a terrible thing to endure while trying to live life like normal

    • @julieornelas3787
      @julieornelas3787 Месяц назад

      My G-ma had undiagnosed dementia and a severe uti. That mix made her paranoid and very combative. 😢 on the way home, we stopped at a gas station to refuel, she pleaded to the cashier to call the cops saying that her son and his girlfriend (her granddaughter btw,) were holding her captive and threatening her life.
      Tg the cops understood.

  • @Yessi7
    @Yessi7 18 дней назад +2

    This episode had me in tears at work… my grandmother in law, may she rest in peace, had Alzheimer’s…I once took her with me to a dentist appointment, one of the dental assistants is my husbands aunt, I begged her to please not let her out of the office meanwhile I was taken into a room, I was pregnant at the time so I was anxious leaving her alone. Grandma tried to walk out and was upset when my aunt in law made her come into the room with me. She’d walk out of the house multiple times and would get lost but always ended up at a restaurant nearby. I’d be at work meanwhile she would leave and I’d feel so useless even though her husband was there and is extremely healthy. God bless all of those helping hands

  • @danepiazza8828
    @danepiazza8828 Месяц назад +15

    Tracy killed it. These people were fantastic. Great to see good folks out there.

  • @My-Say
    @My-Say Месяц назад +17

    This is touching to me. I lost my mother to Alzheimer's. She would often wake up at 3am, leave the house, and walk across a busy highway wearing nothing but a diaper. I promised her I would never send her to a home, but going against that promise to her was the most painful decision I ever had to make. The illness took her in only about two years, and I was sure to always give her her meds each day.

    • @clairemann2
      @clairemann2 Месяц назад +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss my love. Know that your mom is watching over you every day and is at peace. Sending love and hugs ❤️❤️❤️🕊️🕊️❤️

    • @My-Say
      @My-Say Месяц назад

      @@clairemann2 Thanks, Claire. I sometimes dream of the dead and had a very realistic dream that I talked to her. She tells me things in my dreams but she can never seem to understand how I just show up. Her last words before I wake are usually "I don't know how you are here because you aren't dead yet." There is a bridge that we pass after we fall asleep, and it diverges off to those who are no longer with us in life. I seem to be able to explore across that bridge during the period of time when I'm having my most vivid dreams but I never stay very long because it is so very loud there.

  • @australia2754
    @australia2754 Месяц назад +15

    I work at a golf club so it’s mainly regular older folks, I will always give them my full attention and absolutely love their stories etc. A tiny part of your day can make their day, it’s always worth the while.
    Most of them are very wise and funny too, I hope everyone that see’s this video/comment will take some extra time for the older folks around them, loved this video ❤

  • @this80sgeek
    @this80sgeek Месяц назад +90

    The fact that Traci is not berating her in this skit is crazy

    • @hilarytsai7415
      @hilarytsai7415 Месяц назад +8

      Mom u r having too much dementia right now. Stahhhhhp ittttttttt

  • @meand1983
    @meand1983 Месяц назад +16

    As someone working in a home with people with dementia for 24 years now. Its really touching to see this scenario. Glad they finally made this.

    • @gemmabryden4864
      @gemmabryden4864 25 дней назад

      I was 17 years old when I worked in a nursing home and I came across Dementia.now Mostly everyone I know or knew has or had Dementia My late nan had Vascular dementia and she died of it in November 2018 and that really upset me who I heard she died I think about my nan everyday

  • @miguelespinozacid
    @miguelespinozacid Месяц назад +7

    Both Tracy and the older lady were absolutely amazing

  • @SamA-ep9go
    @SamA-ep9go Месяц назад +7

    Tracy should be nominated for an oscar or golden globe or any award which would recognize her stellar performances on WWYD over the years

  • @heraldofnone
    @heraldofnone Месяц назад +48

    So glad this channel is back 😍

  • @user-gh5zk8er5h
    @user-gh5zk8er5h 24 дня назад +1

    Tracy is such a good actress!! So was so real, and natural!

  • @enfphealer21
    @enfphealer21 Месяц назад +26

    Traci not playing the villain? Don't see that everyday!

  • @alirezafarokhiyan4545
    @alirezafarokhiyan4545 Месяц назад +37

    I punched a guy who was stealing from a shop. Now in hospital with a broken arm still waiting for John Quiñones to show up. Anyone know how long it takes for him to "break the act?" I must admit they are really good in acting.

  • @ChimaEnwere
    @ChimaEnwere Месяц назад +27

    Traci needs to retire 😭 (not in a bad way lol she’s just so recognizable)

    • @Priya3
      @Priya3 Месяц назад +21

      Get my girl Traci a wig and coloured eye contacts. I don't want Traci to leave 😢

    • @denzileuceda5765
      @denzileuceda5765 Месяц назад

      @@Priya3 she needs to leave

  • @karatekidakakatelyn8114
    @karatekidakakatelyn8114 Месяц назад +16

    ❤ This is def tear jerking. Off topic my grandmother has mild dementia. When she visits sometimes after my bath me still unclothed I’ll go sit down on the kitchen floor while she sits in her chair. She’ll cover me with a quilt and we’ll talk about life & happiness and she’ll tell me about her memories. I know I’m weird but I feel so happy during that hour. ❤

  • @dallasyap3064
    @dallasyap3064 Месяц назад +7

    Dealing with people with dementia is incredibly difficult, especially for those caretakers at retirement homes.

  • @LivingHistorysMysteries
    @LivingHistorysMysteries Месяц назад +6

    OMG this episode made me cry sooo hard. 9 years ago my wife and I got married and a month later her grandma had a massive stroke and rapidly developed Alzheimer's. My wife worked a much better job than me so I quit my job and cared for grandma since the family wouldn't pay for a home health aid and even though Michigan didn't have the program to compensate family members for caring for an ill relative I took care of that wonderful woman for 7 years until her passing in January 2023.
    Even though I couldn't financially contribute to my new family the memories and stories that surfaced on grandma's "better days" will live with me forever.

  • @Chido_CO
    @Chido_CO Месяц назад +9

    All I can say is that Tracy is a natural. Well played!

  • @_ammy_7708
    @_ammy_7708 Месяц назад +26

    Love this channel. I always get emotional. There's still good humans out there. ❤😊

  • @bodhiswayze1892
    @bodhiswayze1892 Месяц назад +2

    Oh wow, this show has made me feel emotional for years, but this episode made me cry my eyes out. Everyone was so kind…

  • @ej02830
    @ej02830 Месяц назад +1

    Glad that WWYD is back on air after 3 years and still seeing some of the best actors like Traci

  • @mesharimj5190
    @mesharimj5190 Месяц назад +5

    Like we all know Tracy so far but the minute she start her acting skills we literally forget that we ever knew her!! She is so convincing and we love it 😂.

  • @hannah7841
    @hannah7841 Месяц назад +2

    My nana is currently going through dementia. Thank you all that stepped in to support, real life angelsz

  • @paulalewis3389
    @paulalewis3389 Месяц назад +9

    This hit close to home. Just buried my loved one with dementia.

  • @ForeverGhibli
    @ForeverGhibli Месяц назад +4

    How has Tracy not gotten her break-out role in a movie yet she is so good!

  • @TheDylls
    @TheDylls Месяц назад +1

    2nd woman's face was amazing! "What the heck am I doing?! Am I doing the right thing?! I hope so!" ❤

  • @kayanna8629
    @kayanna8629 Месяц назад +3

    I cried on this video! It really touched me! I never cried on none of the WWYD, videos.. I’ve been around senior citizens, I’ve worked with them. And it’s very tough, it can be really stressful! They need us, and I’ll always support them. ❤

  • @night_sued5981
    @night_sued5981 Месяц назад +4

    One of the best episodes! Very heart warming.. My eyes can't stop crying..

  • @MjB12345
    @MjB12345 Месяц назад +3

    2:17 what a sweet guy. Not belittling but just helping

  • @dustinadair7893
    @dustinadair7893 Месяц назад +10

    6:21 Tracey was hungry she don’t GAF once they break it

  • @djgrant8761
    @djgrant8761 Месяц назад +3

    Thankfully I never went through this but I know people who have. Bless them.

  • @davids7252
    @davids7252 Месяц назад +3

    “What was his name?” That was so sweet 😭😭🥹

  • @Lewielewie8
    @Lewielewie8 Месяц назад +2

    I adore how people are so willing to help out
    I also adore how the first two scenarios the man and woman did not put a hand on her , they gently reached out to show her back to her seat
    Bless

  • @SportsBossMan
    @SportsBossMan Месяц назад +2

    Traci is an incredible actress! Fully emerses herself in the role. Great to see people step up to help. It's a very serious issue. I have a friend thats 76 years old, and his memory is very bad. It is frustrating, but you have to remind yourself he doesn't remember things that even happened 5 minutes ago. Very exhausting/

  • @143HaleyB
    @143HaleyB Месяц назад +4

    This episode is so important to bring awareness to how hard it is.

  • @zymbotictoot
    @zymbotictoot Месяц назад +1

    That lady in the blue shirt was AMAZING ! Sometimes a simple hug can make you feel better. Even if it's from a complete stranger.

  • @real_lampcap
    @real_lampcap Месяц назад +2

    I love Traci. Shes such an icon. Her acting just gets better and better each season. Im glad they've kept her on this long. Shes a staple of the show at this point.

  • @Swansong321
    @Swansong321 Месяц назад +2

    Lovely kind people!❤just wonderful to see

  • @PBWK
    @PBWK Месяц назад +2

    omg...the man at the end was sharing his story and a tear just snuck out of my eye.

  • @jaimereyes1897
    @jaimereyes1897 Месяц назад +1

    watching this makes me shed tears, glad theres a lot of good people out there

  • @hebleclef1709
    @hebleclef1709 Месяц назад +3

    I love what would you do and I watch all the videos. This one touched me because my Grandad has lewy body dementia and seeing how it has affected some of the people in this one makes you feel less alone. It's a horrible illness. I love my Grandad and he has his good days and bad, I'm thankful I still have him but I miss the old him sometimes.

  • @F-Khan491
    @F-Khan491 Месяц назад +5

    You see Traci, you know it's gonna be a great act !

  • @em1osmurf
    @em1osmurf Месяц назад +2

    i'm 73. my wife has vascular dementia. the mental strain is horrible--above the physical. our living room looks like a medical supply locker. i've resorted to malwart's grocery delivery, because i've gotten to where even shopping is too much extra physical stress for me. thank you john and crew for this episode. the second segment brought tears to my eyes. with 2 exceptions, everyone on both sides of my family have died from dementia. it's a soul destroying and dehumanizing tragedy. again, thank you.

  • @Moezychan
    @Moezychan Месяц назад

    This brought me to tears...my mom was diagnosed with late onset dementia 2 years ago and I was forced into the role of caring for her. This was a perfect depiction of what caring for a loved one with dementia looks like. You're tired all the time, you feel the need to explain yourself to strangers...thank you for bringing awareness to this awful disease.

  • @nancydavis4618
    @nancydavis4618 Месяц назад +5

    Traci is a great actress

  • @Stig69
    @Stig69 Месяц назад +2

    I'll admit I was crying on Sunday, watching this while taking care of grandma. I'd never, ever leave her alone for a second anywhere (even at home), but this episode does a good job at showing some of the reasons why.

  • @rebeccachapman1557
    @rebeccachapman1557 Месяц назад +1

    Love seeing Tracy as not the bad guy for a change! Also, I watched my grandfather deal with this with his mom when she got much older. They moved her into a retirement home for her last few years. I was told once about the time when she mistook a tv remote for a cordless phone. That's when it really hit me how awful the conditions are and can be, not just the sufferers but the families witnessing it. He seemed exhausted after every visit my family would have with them to see her. She passed away after her 93rd birthday.

  • @eslestariofficial
    @eslestariofficial Месяц назад +10

    Yeeeeee my Tracy is back love it❤❤

  • @sunnyelanders9338
    @sunnyelanders9338 Месяц назад +2

    I love to see how many kind people there really are.

  • @_lavender_muse
    @_lavender_muse Месяц назад +1

    Incredible. Lotta love out there, man.

  • @Captain_Crusade
    @Captain_Crusade Месяц назад +3

    My grandfather had Alzheimer’s, he used to wander away, now my mother has it. She was diagnosed at 49 and is now 53. It’s been tough. She wandered away once and it was terrifying. It’s a struggle but we do what we can and take it day by day.

  • @SupernaturalLove100
    @SupernaturalLove100 Месяц назад +18

    The new concepts are definitely..new…

  • @barbarawilliams7999
    @barbarawilliams7999 Месяц назад

    This touched me because I was my mom’s caregiver. I was hard and frustrating at times but so well worth it!

  • @christinacumpian952
    @christinacumpian952 Месяц назад +2

    I would love to see a WWYD on schizophrenia, dissociative identity disorders, or other serious mental disorders (besides OCD, since I know they did that a long time ago). It's pretty commonplace in film/TV and just normal social situations for people to be pretty demeaning/insensitive toward people who struggle with those types of mental disorders. I've struggled with both OCD and depression for years and have really noticed the difference between how depression is discussed (in my experience, typically sympathetically, though we still have a lot further to go to reduce stigma surrounding that) versus how OCD is discussed (usually either with apprehension or with offhanded, callous comments like, "I'm so OCD" when they just like their coffee a specific way). Even though I don't struggle with it personally, I feel like discussing something like schizophrenia or dissociative identity disorder would definitely help bring a light to the stigma surrounding those illnesses and would help the people who struggle with them feel less alone/demonized by society.

  • @JoeCambo
    @JoeCambo Месяц назад +1

    Love that family that helped.

  • @dakritic
    @dakritic Месяц назад +3

    This was one of the best episodes.

  • @passerby9255
    @passerby9255 Месяц назад +5

    Traci nailed this one as usual 💅💅

  • @yvonnelee2656
    @yvonnelee2656 Месяц назад +1

    This is really touching, my mom had Alzheimer’s and you have to have a caring heart.

  • @lambsquad_9047
    @lambsquad_9047 Месяц назад +4

    This was very good. Tracy got me balling my eyes out.

  • @candidfellow
    @candidfellow Месяц назад +15

    you guys are so kind at the end lol, that woman just looked at her and turned back, she's not kind

  • @ughgowonsscalpandcrunchyvo4926
    @ughgowonsscalpandcrunchyvo4926 Месяц назад +3

    period Traci omg the queen is back 🤩✨

  • @masey423
    @masey423 Месяц назад +3

    Traci was moved to tears by that first family

  • @LeahRice-fl8lh
    @LeahRice-fl8lh 21 день назад

    This really is heartwarming

  • @TheBlacksheep2020
    @TheBlacksheep2020 Месяц назад +2

    The first family.....wonderful people ❣

  • @poeticsolstice
    @poeticsolstice Месяц назад +2

    I have been a fan of this show for years and these are some ideas which i think could be great:
    1) Autistic child is wearing autism awareness/acceptance month shirts with parents and get’s called out for celebrating a neurodivergent disorder they have.
    2) Young women reveals she is autistic on third date
    3) Teenager feels pressured to smoke in club with friends
    4) Autistic child starts “tantrum” in store but is actually a meltdown
    5) Autistic person goes on a job interview but gets turned down because of neurodivergent disorder.
    6) Women gets scammed and pays ridiculous money for a car repair
    7) Women steals church money savings
    8) Daughter reveals DNA paternity test results finding out they aren’t her birth parents
    9) Mom says she won’t pay for daughters wedding if she doesn’t have the things she wants
    10) Girls point out friends acne
    11) Girl starts crying in restaurant because she took boyfriend for granted
    12) Mom and daughter has discussion that she will run away if she doesn’t get laptop for her birthday
    13) Husband yells at his wife showing he doesn’t appreciate her
    14) A dad starts hitting his daughter at restaurant because of bad grades
    15) Dad hesitates to throw out daughter because his girlfriend says too
    16) Husband says he will leave his pregnant wife if she doesn’t lose weight after birth
    17) Wife wants more child support so doesn’t let dad see his child
    18) Latino son hates his own culture
    19) Mean kids harass elderly lady at restaurant
    20) Mom kicks out pregnant teen daughter
    21) Mom tells daughter to have abortion
    22) Women judges elderly pregnant lady
    23) Bald girl gets shamed for having cancer at restaurant
    24) Rich kids laugh at girl in thrift store
    25) Employee fakes grandma’s death to skip work but meets boss at restaurant
    26) Babysitter abandons child
    27) Delivery man is caught eating costumer food
    28) Gymnast and coach discuss gymnast’s diet which leads coach to suggest gymnast to starve her self
    29) Performers fight over street corner
    30) Teens shame disabled soccer player
    31) Girl in hijab kicked of restaurant
    32) Emo student is shamed in restaurant
    33) Bad kids ruins moms interview in restaurant
    34) Busy mom puts boss over kids
    35) tattooed dad is shamed in store
    36) Man hides second child from wife but brings second child too meet wife in restaurant and gets shamed
    37) Spoiled girl won’t eat fastfood In restaurant
    38) Bride removes overweight bridesmaid from wedding
    39) Foster mom won’t let kid see birth mom
    40) Parents reveal son is going to a boarding school
    41) Young mom is shamed by older mom
    42) Mom shamed by her family for adopting
    43) Spoiled girl shames boyfriend for dressing like a slob
    44) Single dad dumped for having a kid
    Let me know if i should change something or remove it! :D

    • @CoffeeaddictWriting
      @CoffeeaddictWriting 20 дней назад

      These are all good, especially date ones. I had suggested an autistic person revealing they're autistic (one played by a neurotypical actor, and the other played by an actually autistic actor) but people responding to me were like "autistic people can't date" so i just deleted the comment.
      I am an autistic man in Scotland and I wear the invisible disability lanyard and I get stuff yelled at me from people for it. I even had a lady call me a "thing" and "it" as soon as I told her I have autism.

  • @hollypilon5522
    @hollypilon5522 Месяц назад +2

    Traci! You are amazing!

  • @christopherhenrywratten1395
    @christopherhenrywratten1395 Месяц назад

    As someone with a Grandparent with dementia, this hits very close to home as if I’m seeing my own family. My heart goes out to all families going through this, together we are stronger ❤

  • @christigmc
    @christigmc Месяц назад +2

    My husband lost his paternal grandmother to dementia and his maternal grandmother to Alzheimer’s. I had only been dating my husband for a year when he invited me over for thanksgiving. His paternal grandmother kept calling me his ex girlfriend’s name. That’s when he told me she had dementia. A few years later she had a stroke and couldn’t talk or swallow. It took a year but we convinced his grandfather to let her go. Fortunately his grandfather had a lot of money so getting in home care wasn’t a big deal.
    We ended up putting his maternal grandmother in a nursing home that specializes in Alzheimer’s and dementia. Best decision we made. She constantly had someone to talk to and hang out with. The place had a lot of art, music, cooking events going on. Had she lived with us she’d be at home all day watching TV. Plus she had a cat and we’re all allergic. The nursing home allowed pets. She also had long term care insurance so paying for the nursing home was taken care of. I highly recommend buying long term care insurance, especially if you have a family history of Alzheimer’s or dementia.

  • @Mimoo7
    @Mimoo7 Месяц назад +2

    i work in assisted living for seniors, and we have a lot of residents that also have dementia/alzheimers. its hard when you see them worsen over time, but even then they are still so sweet and fun to be around. just this morning i got into work and they finished breakfast, and one of our residents with dementia came by my office and was holding his unopened pudding cup out towards me. i thought he wanted help opening it like he usually does but he was like "nope i am giving this to you. its a gift :) cause youre doing good." its the little things but i love them so much haha

  • @anniearbogast148
    @anniearbogast148 Месяц назад

    As a born and raised WV Girl (45) AND a daughter who lost her Father (My Best Friend, to this slow & cruel disease, Dementia) I’m proud to see so many from our state step up & help. I’m honestly not too surprised though. Thank you for shedding light on this topic, bc this disease is NOT for the faint of heart, trust me. 💙💛

  • @travelingcatman2089
    @travelingcatman2089 Месяц назад

    What an incredible family!!!
    No hesitation from the gentleman to stop to from going outside them from the lad bro chat to chat to make her feel comfortable and stay at her table still the daughter got back.
    Actually felt emotional