Disciplining Your Kids

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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
  • Is spanking effective? Does it work to send a kid to their room? The hosts get REAL about how they were disciplined while growing up. Plus, moms Tamera and Tamar open up about how they share the disciplinary responsibilities with their hubbies.

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  • @musicismylife320
    @musicismylife320 9 лет назад +2791

    "Logan would bite Vince and Vince would bite him back" Lmfao oh my god

    • @riss5693
      @riss5693 5 лет назад +79

      Kottonmouth Kingsfan me as a parent

    • @Oxymoric
      @Oxymoric 5 лет назад +60

      That takes a whole nother dimension with the reports of vince biting tamar 😳

    • @hargrovehouse_
      @hargrovehouse_ 5 лет назад +38

      My son used to play with my nipples, so I’d grab his back. It helps them see how it feels and they think twice about doing. It tickled him, but he started to see if I keep doing this mommy will do it back and it’s not so fun when it happens to them.

    • @kimberlyarrington5721
      @kimberlyarrington5721 4 года назад +9

      Kottonmouth Kingsfan When my older sister was 2 she bit our mom and she bit her back and then when I was 2 I pinch her and she pinch me back lol 😂

    • @kimberlyarrington5721
      @kimberlyarrington5721 4 года назад +9

      Honey my mom did that to me and my sister lol she was the biter and I was the little picher crap lol 😂

  • @Queen-of-the-Burbs
    @Queen-of-the-Burbs 9 лет назад +9105

    I was spanked as a child and as a result I now suffer from a condition known as respect for others.

    • @aishakamara4999
      @aishakamara4999 9 лет назад +196

      loooooool😂😂😂😂

    • @darealteazy7593
      @darealteazy7593 9 лет назад +30

      Lululululululs

    • @goddessdemon0105
      @goddessdemon0105 9 лет назад +192

      Best Comment Ever

    • @gaby4n6
      @gaby4n6 9 лет назад +75

      well stated

    • @Broccoliclown
      @Broccoliclown 9 лет назад +153

      I want spanked as a child and i have respect for people to its called being nice and having common sense

  • @julianafernandez2455
    @julianafernandez2455 9 лет назад +5698

    "Keep crying or I'm gonna give you something to cry about"

    • @HerHealthyHome
      @HerHealthyHome 9 лет назад +39

      Lol right

    • @HerHealthyHome
      @HerHealthyHome 9 лет назад +72

      Or my mom would tell me to stop moving lol

    • @kamiyaridley257
      @kamiyaridley257 9 лет назад +12

      right .

    • @PSALMSOFSONGS
      @PSALMSOFSONGS 9 лет назад +10

      +kandi preciado right. like ima really stop moving lolol

    • @attitudeprelude5527
      @attitudeprelude5527 9 лет назад +33

      +Juliana Fernandez After a whooping or a scolding my mom would say, "stop sticking that lips out, suck that lip in."

  • @ellayjah
    @ellayjah 10 лет назад +2966

    Tamera and Tamera 😂😂 I Love Them " didn't-I-tell-you-not-to-do-that-again" 😂😭 every Black Household if you got a beating !

    • @ellayjah
      @ellayjah 10 лет назад +97

      Tamar **

    • @TheGwendolynTaylor
      @TheGwendolynTaylor 10 лет назад +46

      I Was weak😂😂😂 that is my mom all the way. You know momma don't play but that grandma. Don't ever do bad her house. She will set sit down before I beat you five minutes later didn't-i-tell-to-sit-down diem sit your tail down. 😂😂😂

    • @liviapope8290
      @liviapope8290 9 лет назад +6

      right !

    • @morgan4410
      @morgan4410 7 лет назад +2

      BeautyByLay PREACG

    • @fatimabarrow1394
      @fatimabarrow1394 7 лет назад +1

      BeautyByLay *Tamar

  • @23imansaray
    @23imansaray 9 лет назад +4140

    I tried to hid the belts and my mom was like, "I got two hands." One time I tried to run out of a room and I figured I could "jump up" past my mom. She smacked me in mid air with a belt!

    • @DemziBabzxx
      @DemziBabzxx 9 лет назад +334

      +Isatu Mansaray MID AIR

    • @shomifochap3
      @shomifochap3 9 лет назад +322

      +Isatu Mansaray i'm dying laughing

    • @yomipratt5083
      @yomipratt5083 9 лет назад +59

      +Isatu Mansaray Wild stab in the dark here.....West African? Sierra Leone, perhaps? Massy!!!

    • @KimmiePie1
      @KimmiePie1 8 лет назад +13

      MANNN

    • @23imansaray
      @23imansaray 8 лет назад +34

      My dad is from Freetown, Sierra Leone. I was born in the States.

  • @MaryTayy
    @MaryTayy 10 лет назад +256

    "Vince, you're 42. You can't be biting him with those grown teeth." LOL! Hilarious!

  • @tinkchilombo3246
    @tinkchilombo3246 8 лет назад +339

    that "didn't i tell you..." in sync had me dying! 😂😂😂

  • @riannew7
    @riannew7 10 лет назад +766

    I love Tamar and Tamera in this section they really capture how it is to discipline and how important it is.

    • @livelove7475
      @livelove7475 10 лет назад +11

      Yeah, it's great for those of us who are preparing our minds for having children

  • @BonesTheProd
    @BonesTheProd 10 лет назад +2759

    The key to surviving a whoopin was to get to the bedroom. if you could get to the bedroom, you could wrap a blanket around to soften the blow lmao

    • @sovannalong5480
      @sovannalong5480 10 лет назад +31

      Lol I use to do that as a kid but I locked the door in my moms face but I didn't get a harsh discipline as bad as my older siblings thank god

    • @BonesTheProd
      @BonesTheProd 10 лет назад +2

      lmaoooo

    • @jbrown8726
      @jbrown8726 10 лет назад +87

      ***** haha my momma used to make me take off my pants

    • @anisaa6373
      @anisaa6373 10 лет назад

      Hhahaha freal

    • @sandyboo2
      @sandyboo2 10 лет назад +88

      naw once the belt came off you can't run away cause the punishment would be worse. Honestly two licks was all it took for me to recognize LMAO!!

  • @goddesssubliminals3224
    @goddesssubliminals3224 6 лет назад +54

    “I just figured if I popped his hand, it would hurt less than him sticking it in the fire.” That got to me when Tamar said that. That sentence was so symbolic in terms of how a good mother never wants to hurt her baby, but instead teach and discipline the baby so they don’t get hurt 10x more in the real world.

  • @Chickenheadgirl
    @Chickenheadgirl 10 лет назад +1206

    This was the funniest segment they ever had

  • @DearKeith
    @DearKeith 10 лет назад +440

    Dead at Tamera's mother scheduling ass whoopings. My mother always felt bad when it came to disciplining us, so she rarely did so; however, my grandmother was a different story.

  • @JRob594
    @JRob594 10 лет назад +1469

    My mom didn't need to whoop me all she had to do was give me a certain look I was scared to death

    • @loveableteshh
      @loveableteshh 10 лет назад +106

      That only happen when we was out in public lmaooo

    • @altishabarry
      @altishabarry 10 лет назад +20

      I can relate to that. My mom just needed to watch me with that look back then I would already know what's up. #ScaredIndeed

    • @Gossiptgirl
      @Gossiptgirl 10 лет назад +17

      lol I've brought up "the look" with friends from different cultures before and we ALL got it, it's like a universal mom thing

    • @dulcemota7698
      @dulcemota7698 10 лет назад +13

      Same! My parents never whopped me but if I started to act out in public my mom would pinch my arm and give me a look 😹

    • @youaintneverlied
      @youaintneverlied 10 лет назад +7

      I think just about every mom gives the stink eye!

  • @hakeemlyon5615
    @hakeemlyon5615 8 лет назад +823

    Did anyone else notice the shady camera man putting the camera on the Asian girls at 3:11? 😂😂

  • @mouna3242
    @mouna3242 10 лет назад +2405

    I used to pretend to sleep, to avoid getting beatings from my mum.

    • @imancampbell3207
      @imancampbell3207 10 лет назад +25

      LOL me too!

    • @russeluc
      @russeluc 10 лет назад +102

      mouna3242 lol. i bet that didn't work.

    • @mouna3242
      @mouna3242 10 лет назад +133

      Candy Flores Sometimes it would work, but then my mum started to catch on.

    • @sandyboo2
      @sandyboo2 10 лет назад +8

      mouna3242 LMAO

    • @LovelyLexP
      @LovelyLexP 10 лет назад +136

      I tried this once before....it did NOT stop her lol

  • @MrsTatertots
    @MrsTatertots 10 лет назад +430

    I liked that little interaction with Tamar and Jeannie lol

    • @nubiacoco
      @nubiacoco 10 лет назад +30

      me too but they do actually interact sometimes, unfortunately it is not shown on the clips posted on RUclips.

    • @MrsTatertots
      @MrsTatertots 10 лет назад +17

      Oh wow really? I only get to watch on youtube, and most of the interactions they have that I see is Tamar jumping on Jeannie for her opinions. Like 'No no no etc etc etc' they never seem to agree on anything lol like Tamar makes her her job to disagree with anything Jeannie says.

    • @austinfrombustop
      @austinfrombustop 10 лет назад +6

      Well if you only watch on RUclips you shouldn't judge. They always interact.

    • @MrsTatertots
      @MrsTatertots 10 лет назад +9

      I'm not judging. Take a chill pill I'm not saying that they don't speak. All I said is in the girl chats (which I see for alll the episodes via youtube) Tamar always seems to disagree with Jeannie no matter the topic

    • @Thecruisingaquaholics
      @Thecruisingaquaholics 10 лет назад +2

      MrsTatertots I liked it too! I only watch from youtube since I live in Asia currently. It gets really annoying when I constantly see Tamar roller her eyes at Jeannie, but this episode she seems nice to her! Hopefully they will have a better relationship on the show! Tamar is so funny and love her makeuptoday:)

  • @Nou75
    @Nou75 10 лет назад +385

    Never discipline out of anger

    • @lissalissa9246
      @lissalissa9246 10 лет назад +88

      Yes agree. You never know how far it can go. And discipline does not mean beat!!

    • @CB12389
      @CB12389 10 лет назад +12

      Lissa Lissa it did in my house

    • @marclabrie6027
      @marclabrie6027 5 лет назад +3

      @@lissalissa9246 that's well said

    • @kendra3329
      @kendra3329 5 лет назад +41

      Lissa Lissa
      So is spanking like a “cute” beating then? A little swat? I’ve never quite understood this one. They both exist on a continuum of violence. Spanking is linked with the same negative child outcomes as abuse, just to a slightly lesser degree. If spanking is not abuse, when does it become abuse then? When you leave a mark? When you do it daily? How do you really determine this? It’s not a game you want to try to get into. Given that the intent of spanking is to cause your child pain, injuries can easily happen.
      The bottom line is this: When you spank you are teaching your children that you use violence to solve problems, that you lack self-control, and that you are unable to come up with a better way to teach them. Period.
      The word “spank” exists because it is a euphemism to convince yourself that hitting children is acceptable. It is not loving. You don’t hit someone out of love. Is that the message you’re really trying to send?
      Spanking is about a lack of self-control.
      Our children are not property. It is our responsibility to guide them, love them, teach them, and provide for them, but we do not have the right to violate their bodies. It is a basic human right to be free from physical harm, and this certainly should not exclude defenseless children who don’t have a voice.

    • @maleekizagoat9404
      @maleekizagoat9404 5 лет назад +13

      @@kendra3329 I'm a child and I disagree...

  • @MarciIsRenee
    @MarciIsRenee 8 лет назад +877

    I believe every black kid knows the Didn't. I. Tell. You. Not. To. Do. That. whoopen 😂😂

  • @dfranklin5497
    @dfranklin5497 9 лет назад +691

    "If you gon show out, you gon get woah out"

    • @GodsGirl4K
      @GodsGirl4K 8 лет назад +19

      Woah? Or "wore" as in worn out

    • @dfranklin5497
      @dfranklin5497 8 лет назад +6

      +GodsGirl4K Yea I just noticed Adrienne said that

    • @michaellovely6601
      @michaellovely6601 6 лет назад +2

      I have enjoyed Loni Love ever since I saw her as Rose the Lunch Lady on "Ned's Declassified School Survival Guide."

    • @mercedeswilkins9085
      @mercedeswilkins9085 5 лет назад

      I was told that too

  • @jasmynetyus5134
    @jasmynetyus5134 9 лет назад +308

    Lol, I used to hide belts from my mama when I knew I was about to get whooped! 😂😂

    • @KylaWoodards
      @KylaWoodards 9 лет назад +20

      +Jasmyne Tyus IKR then she would hit you wit that line like"Don't let me find it first. Think Im playing" Then you gotta magically find it.

    • @jasmynetyus5134
      @jasmynetyus5134 9 лет назад +5

      LadyK Lol worst line in history 😂

    • @Evelyn-vh1ex
      @Evelyn-vh1ex 9 лет назад +9

      I used to hide my phone from my mom. Cause Lord knows that it would disappear for a few weeks to a few months if she found it. The best place to hide it from her was pockets of jackets in my closet that I never wore.

    • @jasmynetyus5134
      @jasmynetyus5134 9 лет назад +3

      +Grace Brielle I wish I would've thought of that

    • @KylaWoodards
      @KylaWoodards 9 лет назад +1

      Jasmyne Tyus truuuuu

  • @Diamond-wu5ot
    @Diamond-wu5ot 10 лет назад +547

    Didn't *SMACK* I *SMACK* Tell *SMACK* You *SMACK* Not *SMACK* To *SMACK* Do *SMACK* That *SMACK*Again!? 😂😂 I'm over here dying at work right now.

  • @thiagobailon
    @thiagobailon 10 лет назад +93

    "nothing is like getting chased around with a chuncleta" LMAOOOO
    Adrienne is so naturally funny!!! And I definitely have experienced that lol I was a good runner as a kid 'cause of that lol

  • @shanatruesdale
    @shanatruesdale 10 лет назад +3838

    This new generation kids definitely need that old school whoopings. Lol. For real.

    • @Angelmarie187
      @Angelmarie187 10 лет назад +85

      Yaaaaas honey I'm raising kids during this day and age and mine know I do not play!!!

    • @Shadowlandsdropout
      @Shadowlandsdropout 10 лет назад +30

      They really do

    • @ashleyvasquez7112
      @ashleyvasquez7112 10 лет назад +38

      They really do. I knew I didn't want to get in trouble or else... but my sister does not get the same discipline as I did.

    • @nicolenunya984
      @nicolenunya984 10 лет назад +90

      Yes, they are beating their parents up nowadays...I couldn't even *dream* of doing any of that. All it took was a look from my dad and we all would sit down and shut our mouths lol

    • @jessicaely7903
      @jessicaely7903 10 лет назад +15

      Yes Lord

  • @SacredSocialStudio
    @SacredSocialStudio 9 лет назад +278

    This was HILARIOUS! When they demonstrated the syllable beatings I nearly DIED!! hahahahhaha #memories!

    • @venicevincent5052
      @venicevincent5052 9 лет назад +4

      They so true tho my mama beats to the syllables Nigerians don't play

    • @Evelyn-vh1ex
      @Evelyn-vh1ex 9 лет назад +2

      We never got syllables... We got to view beating dances and got beating songs sung to us as we got beat. Nothing more terrifying I guarantee it.

    • @msjdavisxo
      @msjdavisxo 8 лет назад +1

      Yeah man my parents are Panamanian and we definitely got them syllables lmaoo

    • @ebonyrushharrington2197
      @ebonyrushharrington2197 2 года назад +1

      I use to be scared of certain people though not anymore

    • @ebonyrushharrington2197
      @ebonyrushharrington2197 2 года назад +1

      I will not ever let anyone mistreat me etc…. ever again

  • @bebeheart5128
    @bebeheart5128 10 лет назад +75

    I was in tears when they started talking about how their parents used to discipline them, Adrienne showing how she ran around the table killed me lmao!!!

  • @KING090589
    @KING090589 10 лет назад +247

    This is HILARIOUS!!! They took me right down memory lane!!
    It's funny because I was a pretty good child EXCEPT when I was around my cousin. So my parents would never have to spank or whoop me BUT MY AUNTS AND UNCLES?! Whole nother story!!! Babyyyy I've been chased with extension cords, telephones, switches, rulers, remote controls, EVERYTHING!

    • @PrincessYoung
      @PrincessYoung 10 лет назад +54

      It's always the cousins that get you in trouble 😂

    • @steveladore
      @steveladore 10 лет назад +8

      ***** ikr lol same here even elder siblings, cousins...teachers...geez

    • @TheJayWashExperience
      @TheJayWashExperience 10 лет назад +3

      ***** me too...and I have whooped my younger brother and sister too

    • @pouchonguersaint5289
      @pouchonguersaint5289 3 года назад

      @@TheJayWashExperience Why?? Your not the parent and that isn't your job.

  • @miriamm.seun-fadipe996
    @miriamm.seun-fadipe996 10 лет назад +225

    Tamar and Jeannie look so beautiful today😍😍

  • @kmirijana1878
    @kmirijana1878 8 лет назад +155

    Syllable Beatings...damn...the memories.

  • @Sanchie6c
    @Sanchie6c 5 лет назад +285

    I was never spanked, I turned out great!!! But I was also a child that cried if you raised your voice. I didn't like being yelled at so I followed the rules. I think you have to know the child you have.

    • @indiaxlovee
      @indiaxlovee 5 лет назад +28

      Yep or just calmly talk to your child

    • @mr.bandicoot2139
      @mr.bandicoot2139 5 лет назад +32

      Finally!!! I have found a fellow Black Person who also never got whooped but instead just got the hell yelled out of her so bad, anytime they here anyone else yell be it boyfriend/girlfriend/friends/family etc. they automatically have flashbacks too the "discipline" that their guardians gave them. Lucky for me, because I'm part Italian, I can yell for hours. My future children are going too need earplugs!🤬🤬🤬🤬

    • @geegeeme3256
      @geegeeme3256 4 года назад +1

      🙄🙄🙄 okkkkayyyyy. If you say that happened, then it happened.

    • @kemifaith7867
      @kemifaith7867 3 года назад +1

      Thanks for understanding

    • @KikiW89
      @KikiW89 2 года назад +1

      I was whopped and turned out Fine.

  • @willh8682
    @willh8682 9 лет назад +40

    I vividly remember the "syllable beatings" and theven catch phrase "Imma give you something to cry about." I can tell you firsthand that whoopinga do hurt.

  • @TonyTurner
    @TonyTurner 10 лет назад +86

    Tamera and Tamar have some good points and perspectives about discipline as mothers. I like how they were all able to tell their different experiences with getting disciplined (from their culture). I've actually heard about all of those before.

  • @tanito349
    @tanito349 10 лет назад +993

    i literally went through the same struggle and im 18, nigerian parents dont play

    • @Shadowlandsdropout
      @Shadowlandsdropout 10 лет назад +217

      Lol girl, don't get me started on Nigerian parents, they beat you and make you cry then beat you to stop you crying lol 😂 its not easy lol

    • @ida5067
      @ida5067 10 лет назад +125

      Nigerian parents would be stammering while hitting you "How how how how dare you". Every stammer was accompanied with a hit

    • @nicolenunya984
      @nicolenunya984 10 лет назад +17

      Anita lol I remember getting whooped but then had better stop crying or get more. Lol the stutter cry trying to stop crying

    • @ida5067
      @ida5067 10 лет назад +149

      "DID I TOUCH YOU? WHY ARE YOU CRYING?" ...this is after they've beat you

    • @jessalynk5545
      @jessalynk5545 10 лет назад +38

      oh ghanian too ' youll see what ill do to u when we get home'

  • @MsBrooklyn11232
    @MsBrooklyn11232 10 лет назад +52

    I'm black and my parents are from the Caribbean and when I was little my parents will spank me with a belt, and they used to give me a scary death look when I did something wrong. All of those worked for me and I straightened up really quick LOL. I am thankful for my parents disciplining me that way and I appreciate it because I am 25 years old and I am the person I am today because of discipline. It's interesting to see how different cultures/races discipline their children because they all do it differently. Discipline is very much needed because children needs to know structure and boundaries and they also have to know what respect is and they have to give it and it starts at home. 

  • @stajamarie4431
    @stajamarie4431 10 лет назад +9

    "It's rough out there in them streets" LMAO! I replayed her saying that like five times. Too funny, and Tamar's reaction only made it better.

  • @dejasmith9196
    @dejasmith9196 7 лет назад +21

    Tamar reaction to tamera saying “it’s rough in the streets” 😭

  • @321330078
    @321330078 10 лет назад +979

    I can relate to this all to well. I was raised by Jamaican parents so my tail was red for "just in case" purposes, but the worse thing my mother could say after I did something was "do you want me to tell your father?"......Translation: Jesus couldn't save you from his beatings :'(

    • @racheljames4776
      @racheljames4776 10 лет назад +17

      Lol tell it

    • @canadianimmigrationcorner9858
      @canadianimmigrationcorner9858 10 лет назад +46

      Lol! Im Jamaican and I can testify to this! They dont plaaay with disciplining! Ass whooping! They dont care abt time out in a corner! I wish I had time out

    • @lifeisgolden41
      @lifeisgolden41 10 лет назад +22

      STRAIGHT LICKS BREGGIN..these young American kids will never understand

    • @raqraqxox
      @raqraqxox 10 лет назад +52

      or when they tell you walk past them and then they hit you by surprise and then you're so taken back that you don't even make a sound. you mouth is just open and then give it 5 seconds then the bawling begins

    • @321330078
      @321330078 10 лет назад +5

      raqraqxox yeeeees, lawd Jesus these were the worst!!!!!!

  • @Tnazup
    @Tnazup 10 лет назад +11

    I'm LOVING the more serious/important topics lately. GOOD ON YOU PRODUCERS!!!!!!

  • @mitzialpizar7558
    @mitzialpizar7558 9 лет назад +410

    My brother would layer his clothing when he knew he was about to get spank lmao so he didnt feel it soooo he would pretend to cry lmao he tried my mama lmao

    • @EMERALDPMD
      @EMERALDPMD 9 лет назад +48

      I use to do that but my mom was too smart. She told me to take off the pants lol

    • @constanceaurora9513
      @constanceaurora9513 6 лет назад

      Mitzi Alpizar Same!

    • @marclabrie6027
      @marclabrie6027 5 лет назад

      @@EMERALDPMD and spanked you good for it

    • @Shayvideos1
      @Shayvideos1 5 лет назад +4

      Lol smart!!..I didn't layer but I would scream so loud off the first hit so she would stop quick lol

    • @tandrinebray8194
      @tandrinebray8194 4 года назад

      Shayvideos1 😂🤣

  • @aaronb2246
    @aaronb2246 10 лет назад +96

    After a certain age, whoopings stop hurting. I would act all over dramatic after every swat, jumping & hollering. My mom, bless her heart, was really putting in work thinking she was tearing me up. I only put on a performance so she would feel satisfied enough not to get my dad involved or whoop me harder.

    • @kaitlyncassidy109
      @kaitlyncassidy109 10 лет назад +5

      omg ahahahahahahaahah!

    • @xaviersimmons510
      @xaviersimmons510 7 лет назад

      I saw a video of my cousin (he's was 16/17 at the time) doing that. It killed me. Eventually she just gave up tho.

    • @elmiratchagop3642
      @elmiratchagop3642 6 лет назад

      Yes this was me every time I got hit after the age of 10

    • @tribal_2692
      @tribal_2692 6 лет назад +6

      Cant whoop a teenager now we can successfully dodge the belt and if you hit me i lowkey wanna hit you back

    • @Zzucia
      @Zzucia 5 лет назад +1

      @@tribal_2692 lmaooo

  • @imancampbell3207
    @imancampbell3207 10 лет назад +15

    I sooo agree with Tamar and Tamera on this one. Black moms , at least my mom and aunts, always beat us in broken syllables while giving us a lecture during our spankings. This so brings back memories

  • @vari5509
    @vari5509 9 лет назад +20

    "He looked at me like I stole his bike" dead I'm ddeeeaaad

  • @ajabbott2020
    @ajabbott2020 5 лет назад +13

    “Wait till yo father come home” LMFAO 😭😭😭

  • @SHAWNA-RAE
    @SHAWNA-RAE 8 лет назад +64

    always run to your grandparents but it's not 100% fool proof lol

  • @melzb3891
    @melzb3891 9 лет назад +450

    I can't save you homie

  • @ICare4Bey
    @ICare4Bey 8 лет назад +144

    It's so sad this show will never have this vibe again.

  • @norrissam2634
    @norrissam2634 4 года назад +7

    This is The Real that I love and miss. Real conversation about real things that happened. Truth and comic relief at the same time

  • @MissJaneBarrow
    @MissJaneBarrow 10 лет назад +18

    They got reeeeeal black on this segment today! Not the switches & talking your way through a whooping! Hilarious! OMG! I can't believe they allowed that on daytime TV! LOL! I'm ALL for it! Now THAT'S keeping it real!

  • @yoneirisberenicesantana7897
    @yoneirisberenicesantana7897 9 лет назад +982

    Latinos are just like black people with the syllables cause my mom would say the same thing in Spanish "YO. NO. TE. DIJE. A TI. QUE..." 😂

    • @andreavaldez7691
      @andreavaldez7691 9 лет назад +11

      OMG so true!

    • @marckid93
      @marckid93 8 лет назад +4

      +Yoneiris Florimon LMAO!!!!

    • @FrannHynard
      @FrannHynard 8 лет назад +5

      hahaha forreals!!! 😂😂😂

    • @crystal-n9p
      @crystal-n9p 8 лет назад +17

      So true!!!!!! I'm Mexican and I remember whenever I did something that would like puss my mom off, she would automatically grabbed the belt or "chancla" (flip flop) and pull my panties down to spank me. Every time she would add syllables. LOL!

    • @alondradejesus8739
      @alondradejesus8739 7 лет назад +3

      YESSSSSS

  • @thatsojordy
    @thatsojordy 10 лет назад +31

    Anyone remember going to "sleep" when you know you're about to get it?

  • @almaguer719
    @almaguer719 9 лет назад +72

    I'm 18 and the chancla never misses. My mom can throw it from 2 rooms away and still hit me in my damn head 😂😂

  • @gomezsa208
    @gomezsa208 10 лет назад +21

    All of this is so true. Especially when every word was enunciated with the belt. Then God forbid they miss! Then you get hit for that and they say stop moving. Which would automatically make you move for the next one. lol

  • @sarahcijntje5067
    @sarahcijntje5067 2 года назад +7

    I love how Jeannie impersonates her momma’s words😂😂😂It’s hilarious

  • @tacobelita
    @tacobelita 8 лет назад +59

    HAHAHA CHANCLETA YESS OMG OR THE WOODEN SPOON😂😂😂

  • @KylaBProductions
    @KylaBProductions 7 лет назад +12

    "DIDN'T I TELL YOU NOT TO DO THAT". That is so true.

  • @kartert.jefferson6759
    @kartert.jefferson6759 6 лет назад +7

    "Keep crying or I'm gonna give you something to cry about" LMAO

  • @jazariathompson3402
    @jazariathompson3402 8 лет назад +46

    2:51 did anyone catch the look that Adrienne and Jeannie have to Tamar 💀😂

    • @LydiaAmbachew
      @LydiaAmbachew 8 лет назад +3

      Also at 2:39 😂

    • @dat1reeree
      @dat1reeree 8 лет назад +2

      They did that look for no reason.

    • @dawncullen0214
      @dawncullen0214 8 лет назад +11

      it was bc tamar trier to make it seem like she was so much older than them lol. jeannie is like a 1-2 years younger. they didn't grow up in different time periods 😂😂😂

    • @dat1reeree
      @dat1reeree 8 лет назад +1

      But she said that they were in their early 30s tho.

  • @RTA6226
    @RTA6226 3 года назад +9

    Tamar is on point, "Wait til your father gets home!"

  • @drziyandampetile
    @drziyandampetile 8 лет назад +28

    "...and I can't save you homie"- I miss Tay-tay

  • @afeshiabullen6117
    @afeshiabullen6117 10 лет назад +8

    I am of Trinidadian /Grenadian descent and I got whooped until about nine and then my mom stopped because she said " it was like I had become immune to it lol and I was defying her regardless. So from that point on she started grounding me and let me tell you, honey she so good at it. She would hit me where it hurt, man. You could cry blood and she wouldn't budge . She was the queen of grounding.

  • @Cinderrello32
    @Cinderrello32 7 лет назад +23

    Remember "it hurt me more than it hurts you?"

  • @rockchick128
    @rockchick128 8 лет назад +74

    I'm not completely against spanking but I can understand why some people are. Because let's be honest, spanking can and does turn into physical abuse if the parents emotions are out of control. I'm not saying parents shouldn't be parents but they have to keep in mind that their child is a person too, only younger.

    • @JohnSmith-pl4sf
      @JohnSmith-pl4sf 3 года назад +6

      Researchers from Canada say that spanking a child can put them at risk for developing mental Illnesses.... Spanking doesn't teach children coping skills... It will potentially increase their aggressive behavior,.... Did you know that spanking is banned in 59 countries? That includes most of Europe and other countries.... And a lot of those countries are doing so better than the U.S.

    • @mikesworldtv
      @mikesworldtv 2 года назад

      No not true that's baloney that's an excuse not to discipline our kids. We all were disciplined growing up we never had emotional problems. You don't spank your children they end up being very disrespectful towards others because they had no structure.

    • @Mr.Goodkat
      @Mr.Goodkat 2 года назад

      @@mikesworldtv Treat other's how you'd want them to treat you. If you would like someone dictating to you and hitting you each time you don't comply then you have no right to do it to them. Do unto other's as you'd have them do unto you as Jesus said.

    • @mikesworldtv
      @mikesworldtv 2 года назад

      @@Mr.Goodkat he also said spair the rod you hate the child you don't spair the rod you love the child meaning if you discipline the child when he or she does bad you love them by disciplining them you don't discipline them you pretty don't care what they do. thats straight from the bible

    • @Mr.Goodkat
      @Mr.Goodkat 2 года назад +1

      @@mikesworldtv The bible uses shepherd metaphors all the time, the rod is something shepherds have which they use to guide sheep, they don't hit the sheep with their rods, when you combine this with Jesus saying "Do unto other's as you'd have them do unto you." and also it's description of love as "patient", "kind" "not arrogant or rude", "not irritable" and "does not count wrong doing's" in Corinthians plus the preaching love is the most important thing it clearly doesn't mean we should NOT treat our sons/daughters like we want to be treated.
      It IS "arrogant" to dish out punishments to people because they offended your sensibilities and it is "rude" to hit people, it isn't "patient" to do so either and it is "counting wrong doing's" to remind your son or daughter of the things they've done wrong etc,
      There's also part's of the bible which talk about the wife being subservient to the husband why don't you institute that? or stoning an unruly son to death? not mixing fabrics and other things which our society just flat out ignores because they don't like those parts but you embrace a part which you think is telling you to hit a loved one with a rod? "loved" one remember the bible's description of love? patient, kind, doesn't count wrong doing's, isn't arrogant or rude that is how you're supposed to treat your loved one, don't you ever feel guilt when you "discipline" your son? how many times in your life have you felt guilt after doing something right? it's something you feel only when you've done something deep down you know/sense is wrong.
      So each society looks at the bible and chooses the parts they already agreed with before reading to bring into their lives and ignores the parts they disagree with which is always the ones their society doesn't like because society trumps the bible IT is what decides your morality not the bible.
      Also clearly Jesus thought "do to other's how you'd have them do to you" was more important than any passage about "disciplining" or "punishing" your kids in fact he said nothing about that as far as I know and said lot's about being kind, loving and not hurting other's and when asked what was important that's the sort of stuff he'd empathise you get uncomfortable picturing Jesus hit children with a rod because you know that's not in his character and shouldn't it be his character you're emulating? it feels wrong because it is wrong.

  • @xixxixxi
    @xixxixxi 10 лет назад +7

    I love this segment. Ya know in these days the media discourages disciplining your kids especially physical discipline. It's tough love. I don't agree with that being the only resort. I see that the mothers on the panel really have a good head on their shoulders.

  • @ellearnan
    @ellearnan 10 лет назад +101

    Lool hilarious. My dad would always quote the "spare the rod and spoil the child" verse every time before spanking one of my brothers cuz I rarely got beat lol..But in an African household a spanking is absolutely nothing. What's worse is having your mom ground ginger and put the ginger in your behind for it to burn. Africans don't play at all smh

    • @anitanipah547
      @anitanipah547 10 лет назад +7

      Danielle A. chaleee, you must be ghanian! the akikedro was wicked!! am crying right now just because of me remembering it!

    • @ellearnan
      @ellearnan 10 лет назад +1

      ***** I remember my sister telling me where one time my mom just gave it to her for fun lool No mercy

    • @ellearnan
      @ellearnan 10 лет назад +1

      Nipah ann Yeah I am lol Gh parents or just african parents go in. We have struggled and overcame lol

    • @anitanipah547
      @anitanipah547 10 лет назад

      Yep! And we Thank God for that

    • @MsDudette21
      @MsDudette21 10 лет назад +18

      "What's worse is having your mom ground ginger and put the ginger in your behind for it to burn." What in the world? I hope you know that and beatings are definitely abuse. That sounds incredibly insane...

  • @Ibochic1
    @Ibochic1 4 года назад +1

    Why do I loooovvveee these old videos?? With all of Tamar’s ‘extraness’!!

  • @ida5067
    @ida5067 10 лет назад +433

    Where are my Nigerians? We didn't call it a switch. it was a "Koboko" or "doctor do good"

    • @fsadeseun
      @fsadeseun 10 лет назад +32

      My moms sister had a koboko that she kept next to her chair at all times. When she started reaching in that direction, everyone was on their best behavior. 😂😂

    • @mariebrii
      @mariebrii 10 лет назад +19

      Lol in Tanzania we called it, kiboko lmao

    • @ida5067
      @ida5067 10 лет назад +13

      marie brii no wayy. lol i love hearing about the similarities/differences between african countries

    • @livelove7475
      @livelove7475 10 лет назад +19

      OMG! I don't know how you just reminded me. The beatings weren't the worst for me! My mum would make me stay in awkward positions like kneeling down with my arms in the air or with one finger touching the ground and one leg in the air and we weren't allowed to move!!! Everyone would be going about their business around me and if I moved she would she would either scream at me or smack me. That was the WORST punishment EVER!!

    • @ida5067
      @ida5067 10 лет назад +17

      C Fas yesss i know those positions. The one with one finger on the ground and one leg up in the air is called "Pick pin" lmao

  • @honeyana2
    @honeyana2 10 лет назад +27

    i can't save you homie! haha

  • @sheleahharris5637
    @sheleahharris5637 10 лет назад +6

    "It's rough out there in them streets." Tamera, bye! Lol

  • @chelseamoore30
    @chelseamoore30 7 лет назад +8

    Now Vince is biting Tamar, lord Vince on a biting rampage again😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jasminewash2468
    @jasminewash2468 10 лет назад +30

    Lol, at Tamera moms writing in her calendar. I

  • @miznikki2u
    @miznikki2u 10 лет назад +2

    Hahaha!! this was TOO good man. they all summed it up pretty well lol especially Tamar and Tamara. wow, memories...smh

  • @DMoni2992
    @DMoni2992 Год назад +3

    1:15 Adrienne has always been a mom. God prepared her 💜💜

  • @queenlolo1384
    @queenlolo1384 10 лет назад +17

    My mom didn't tell me to pick another switch. She made my brothers and sisters pick one, and they were sadistic as hell. They picked one of the thicker ones and laughed when I got my butt whooped. Jokes on them though because I volunteered to pick the switch for them.

  • @catherinecampbell1215
    @catherinecampbell1215 9 лет назад +11

    At 3:54, that described my childhood perfectly.

  • @karleighhurt
    @karleighhurt 3 года назад +4

    every child is different too tbh. some need that whoopin, some it just doesn't work on

  • @safiyasabdul
    @safiyasabdul 10 лет назад +165

    Tamar looks soo freaking beautiful. #ShimmyShimmy I love it...

    • @imancampbell3207
      @imancampbell3207 10 лет назад

      I love that too. Her skin supposed to look dewy and moistened I think it looks pretty on her but apparently we are in the minority on this one.

    • @safiyasabdul
      @safiyasabdul 10 лет назад +2

      Yea we kinda are. But its ok. We are entitled to like what we like girl. 😊

    • @musiclovesoul33
      @musiclovesoul33 10 лет назад +1

      iman campbell nope I think Tamar looks absolutely gorgeous!!!!!

    • @musiclovesoul33
      @musiclovesoul33 10 лет назад +1

      iman campbell let me clarify I'm saying Nope I agree with y'all. Just in case somebody wanted to say I was hating on Tamar 😳just taking precautions

    • @imancampbell3207
      @imancampbell3207 10 лет назад

      musiclovesoul33 LOL I know I understand you were saying the nope in reference to us being in the minority on Tay's look. LOL I got you:)

  • @bb____________
    @bb____________ 4 года назад +7

    Tamar is so effortlessly funny 😂😂😂

  • @amara523
    @amara523 10 лет назад +5

    Tamera's mom is the realest!!

  • @PureAloha78
    @PureAloha78 3 года назад +3

    “ didn’t I tell you not to do that .” Love Tamar.

  • @mw1685
    @mw1685 3 года назад +2

    They was Television Gold!!!! The diversity amongst POC is so dope… Bring Tamar Back!!!

  • @samiv7364
    @samiv7364 4 года назад +1

    ❤ the show hate how much Jeannie & Adrienne ALWAYS!!!!! talk over others and make it ALL about them. Omg if they took it down a bit it will a PERFECT show

  • @N3sh4
    @N3sh4 10 лет назад +74

    Is it me or does Tamar look extra shiny loool

    • @2write2sing2dance
      @2write2sing2dance 10 лет назад

      Highlighter on like woah!

    • @D.Drayton
      @D.Drayton 10 лет назад

      She was channeling her 'let me know' video today

    • @SoulGlamGrl90
      @SoulGlamGrl90 10 лет назад +3

      ***** No ma'am girl it's called too much highlighter!!

    • @imancampbell3207
      @imancampbell3207 10 лет назад +17

      Her skin is supposed to have a dewy glistening look. I think her skin looks very pretty today.

    • @dulcemota7698
      @dulcemota7698 10 лет назад +4

      it's highlighter overload!!!

  • @Theonlyoneatall
    @Theonlyoneatall 6 лет назад +13

    Lmao. I tried to run to my room and lock the door to avoid a whooping once. My mom got a screw driver and not only did I still get whooped I also had to go a month with out my bedroom door.

  • @RedditEdd1
    @RedditEdd1 8 лет назад +3

    when Tamera jumped in on that "didn't I tell you no to do that part" with Tamar I was just instant flash back to my mom she used to say that all the time when she was whooping me and my sisters lol

  • @brittneyclay5021
    @brittneyclay5021 12 дней назад +1

    All of them have kids on the panel nowadays except Loni. Loni says she’s just Auntie Loni 😂

  • @colnag2158
    @colnag2158 9 лет назад +1

    DIDNT I TELL YOU NOT TO DO THAT!!!!!
    I started crying 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 6 лет назад +18

    For me there is nothing wrong with disciplining your own kids because it's your responsibility to teach them what is good and bad.

  • @shaymisty1508
    @shaymisty1508 10 лет назад +7

    For some odd reason I just thought it was funny when Jeannie was telling her story about how Asian parents want their child to learn while they getting hit and then at 3:12 the cameraman showed all the Asians that were in that row who were laughing and I just died laughing.

  • @MasonPerry7
    @MasonPerry7 8 лет назад +52

    I had two different ways of discipline.
    My mom had a Spanking cane and my Dad had his belt.
    Anyone ever dare defend themselves?
    I Broke my Mom's cane and deflected all of her swings with the broken end, and Stopped my Dad's belt by grabbing it as he swung, it hurt my hand but I didn't let go.
    they tried using their hands and I blocked grabbed their hands/wrists. I'll never forget the look of defeat

    • @asseater0077
      @asseater0077 8 лет назад +11

      Mason Perry what are you a goddamn ninja

    • @littlejoe9381
      @littlejoe9381 8 лет назад +11

      So did you get the beat down or not? In my experience, if you grab the belt or broke any instrument of discipline, it only got worse for you. Therefore, it was better to just get the whipping over with and hopefully learn a lesson. ( such as not to do what you did to get in trouble in the first place)

    • @muna712boulos
      @muna712boulos 8 лет назад +3

      Mason Perry LOL my dad was with the flip flop and my mom was the belt queen

    • @MarciIsRenee
      @MarciIsRenee 8 лет назад +1

      Mason Perry Hell no I didn't defend myself but my mom used to say "take those pants off" before we got a whoopen and I used to think to myself oh hell nah she's gonna have to work to get these pants off of me. So I put on a belt and made her struggle until she was too tired to keep going.

    • @deathpresent101
      @deathpresent101 7 лет назад

      Mason Perry good, fight back

  • @t0nysilver.
    @t0nysilver. 10 лет назад +19

    So nobody comments when Tamar and Jeannie get along but once Tamar gives her a "look" the comments are filled with "Why does Tamar always gotta be a bitch, etc, etc." ☕️🐸

  • @Daydreamroses
    @Daydreamroses 8 лет назад +72

    And then if they hit themselves in the back with the belt oooooooh they hit you harder lmfao

    • @sammyy9223
      @sammyy9223 7 лет назад +8

      I snorted and dropped my Gatorade on the bed 😂😂😂😂

    • @faridaagot8691
      @faridaagot8691 4 года назад +2

      True

  • @knp814
    @knp814 10 лет назад +325

    I can't deal with Tamar's shine and theme makeup. It's like she's at a costume party by herself

    • @imancampbell3207
      @imancampbell3207 10 лет назад +42

      Oh interesting b/ c I think it looks pretty on her. Her skin is supposed to look dewy

    • @knp814
      @knp814 10 лет назад +8

      Maybe if she were at a sports illustrated shoot but sitting around a desk it looks out of place to me

    • @ministryofmakeup
      @ministryofmakeup 10 лет назад +14

      ahhhh yes. it looks ridiculous.. and a professional makeup artist is doing that to her face? man.

    • @knp814
      @knp814 10 лет назад +2

      ***** Maybe that's it. Too much at once

    • @ministryofmakeup
      @ministryofmakeup 10 лет назад +7

      knp814 for sure.. she's going dramatic on the eyes, and the lips, AND the skin, AND the hair.. Lesson is- focus on one feature @ a time.

  • @daysofdaynahslife
    @daysofdaynahslife 7 лет назад +6

    tamar and tamera got it so right "in the black culture it goes like didn't ! I ! Tell! You! not ! to !......." the accuracy

  • @ladycoco473
    @ladycoco473 10 лет назад +19

    The Real is defiantly "Real" for talking about this topic. I applaud them. Other talk shows would be like "It's wrong to hit your child, because then later on in life they may hit you and become violent." BS!! Kids need discipline. If you disagree, I'm wishing you the best with your children lol

  • @Gioxtream
    @Gioxtream 4 месяца назад +1

    My dad took away my disrespect for my teachers and my autism.
    Autism = Ignore authority and do whatever you want.Do not pay attention to no one, answer to no one.
    But....On the first 3 whips. My father could hear the real change.
    I am sorry dada, I promise to you....I will never do it again dad. Please. I am sorry.
    Now. That's a change a real father can really hear and feel.
    It made me realize as a son ....quickly how wrong I was.

  • @unfaithfullyyours
    @unfaithfullyyours 5 лет назад +2

    The look Jeannie gave Tamar at 2:51 lololol! I love Jeannie.

  • @autumncloud6362
    @autumncloud6362 3 года назад +3

    This was so entertaining. Everything they said was true. I love Tamar's hair in this video

  • @VONiiE8
    @VONiiE8 10 лет назад +11

    Tamar went super 90s, early 00s with that damn lip liner

  • @livelove7475
    @livelove7475 10 лет назад +12

    I for one am going to learn the art of THE LOOK. Some parents have it mastered. The threat can be more powerful than the act itself. Still, I don't believe the rod should be spared.

  • @yeddeharies2264
    @yeddeharies2264 4 года назад +2

    So did anybody Peep that when Jeannine started talking the camera went directly to the Asian people in the audience. Lol 😂

  • @rickidenise
    @rickidenise 3 года назад

    “logan would bite him.. and then vince would bite him back.. vince you’re 42!” never gets old 🤣🤣🤣