The Way We Used to Be Disciplined || STEVE HARVEY
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- Опубликовано: 17 мар 2019
- Now that he’s a grandpa, Steve noticed that the way kids are disciplined is a lot different than it used to be!
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The 'oh you think I forgot" was the worst one!! lol!
Yep
Lmao
I remember the “stop crying before I give you something to cry about”
I am having a flashback.. 😖😖
Yep that was the last one I needed.
My African parents would tell me to “go and grab the stick.”...you know how psychologically painful it is to fetch the weapon that will be used to destroy you? 😂
-Josh Otusanya
We'd get a whooping like the parents were going for the gold medal.
Eve Mosongo facts!! 💯
I am That I am 🤣🤣🤣 you speak the truth
Truth
😅😅😅
Have yo been whooped and you planned on running away from the house 🤣🤣
Me Man 😂😂😂
Maaan 😂🙌🏾🙌🏾
Casmir Anyanwu yes omg 😂😂😂
Bro I did run away two times but came back hours later
Yes
Hell I remember going to school An we'd share whooping stories 😂😂😂
Yes. I would go to school with temporary lumps and kids be like what happened to you.
I went to school with welts on the backs of my legs, never wore anything above the knees cuz of it. But my dad was super extreme and the state took us out of the house until he got moved out forcefully. Then they gave him a choice between prison or counseling, he chose counseling because in prison they Don't treat child molesters very nicely. Any way I never let anyone see until social services came to my school and asked to see them. I'm starting to remember why I blocked out my childhood.
@cherri stark I’m really sorry about that. That sounds tough.
@@cherristark9995 Omg Cherri that's awful😪 I'm glad u r ok now at least they took him away from you thank God I wish you well and the very best in everything you do 👍
Lol...yoooo you not lying...
So many things in the world can be solved by proper parenting.
Ryan any Suggestions?
Not by whooping their asses and sending them to bed.
@@TheWilDOn31 By using wires to whoop their ass. Am from Africa where the real whoopin comes from, they are very disciplined unlike in Canada, where they abuse their parents, with bad languages, get tattos, go to clubs, drunk all that, just because you don't whoop them,Am gonna whoop my kids real good.
@@davidbadwiz85 even the Bible says it
@@davidbadwiz85 13 year old here! I agree, many things can be solved. Granted, I wasn't a that bad kid but when I was I was put in line. My issues come from the emotional pressure my mom put on me, other then that I'm fine. I know kids who weren't whooped and they:
Slack on school work
Drink
Do drugs (my middle school was something)
Have intercourse
The intercourse thing is just going to be something teens do, but these girls sold their bodies. Did I mention this was middle school. Yeah. Smh
Preach!!! I got wooped soo many times that when my brother and i havent been wooped on a particular day we be like HOLD UP WAIT something doesnt feel right?? Havent been beaten today? Then I ask my bro..and he says "Neither have I" we look at each other and start taking inventory of what we supposed to do...like Homework,Dishes,bathed before 4,..we go round and check if all the Cups,Glases are ok if we havent broken any...We get shocked when my mum or dad just says Helllooooo with out asking us what we did..we be walking on egg shells the whole day..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Aww man But God I thank you for giving us amazing Parents am who i am today coz of them..Thank you Father.
Sad
@@patriciakincaid874 lol we we extremely naughty and trust me all my friend cousins all people in our generation brought up by 100% Africans went through the same..lol..its called discipline. Now adays we got ".com" mums kids speaking back at their parents sone evne insulting their elders....if you did that in our times..I wouldnt be here writing this.
@@peterchileshe9760 you right am not regretful of the beating either, we got morals.
Amen to this! Lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂 we laugh at my whooping stories with my parents now. 😂😂😂
Steve Harvey is the man I have been following you for years I must say u have really inspired me in so many ways. God bless you
he is very educative. as a african guy from the rurals, this episode is exactly my father and mom. whipping was never new anytime. you have to behave or you get some whips. By the way are you from Zambia.?
That is why most kids are so out of control these days!!!
Fabulous shut the Frick up tseleng is right
Allen Reynolds 🤣🤣🤣
Jaime Westmoreland
Fabulous has a lot of pent up anger 🤣🤣🤣
@@YasminMahnaz I agree with you. Not for calling Tseleng a mental case😉 but for the content of your statement. Parents who put hands onto their children are most likely those who have experienced violence themselves. Not having healed from that, they pass this behavior down to their children. And if they don’t whoop their children, they abuse them emotionally, psychologically… it will show one way or the other. And it does not stay with the kids, it shows in every relationship they have. Trying to control, to manipulate, to use their partner, spouse, friends, employees, co-workers. It runs like a thread through all walks of life. Tadaaaa - Welcome to the world we all live in. The only way to improve the situation for all is to heal, and to create healthy and safe relationships from the very beginning. Thanks for sharing!
And they don't mind killing their parents or whomever if they can not get their way. It is a very sad world we live in now days.
Steve's parents raised him sharply & respectfully. Almost every Steve's shows he always mention his lovely parents
🙏❤🙏.
Respect 💕
I was scared to get in trouble because of the whoop ass waiting at home... 😂
Lol!! Yup!
Deuteronomy 5:16 Honor your father and your mother, as the LORD your God has commanded you, that your days may be prolonged and that it may go well with you on the land which the LORD your God gives you.
Gtfo with that bs
He spoke the truth on this one💯💯💯💯💯💯
There is more than one way to parent and discipline. Different things work on different children.
Just don't overdo it nor not at all
I wish this video was longer 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I start to cry before my mum knows my crime...I would just cry, and cry...That was my early warning sign to my mum that a crime has been committed...
That switch one tho😂😂😂
Man-oh-man...the days of gettin my ass whooped...
I dont miss it, but I sure do appreciate it.
Stupid🙄
The 'oh you think I forgot"was the dangerous one of all time😱😱
Thank You Steve. Discipline of the millenniums is crazy. Pray for them.
Nah they do it in such a beautiful kind communicative way that doesn’t involve abuse that’s all (: it’s just as affective except you communicate and gain respect and understanding that’s at instead of your kids just listening to you cause they fear getting abused .. I’m so glad this new generation is breaking so many generation curses
@@madelynmerle1766 how bout we whoop that ass
WOW I remember those days!😭😭😭😭😭
Its traumatizing. Isny it?
I'm so sad my dad did this to me... broke my heart 😞
@@patriciakincaid874 so sad your dad did what?????
Belt, mainly. But the day he whipped my bare legs with a switch until they welped and bled a little was too much. There's no need for this kind of physical discipline on little kids. Steve jokes about it but it can damage a child..
@@patriciakincaid874 yeah making a kid bleeds a little too much but there's nothing wrong with a whooping off your parents I know that. Needs to be brought back. By the way he wasn't joking
@@DeathWish92 oh I know that he was joking and being light about it, I love Steve and hang off his words always. But it just reminded me if that time. It was traumatizing... my dad put so much anger into the whooping. Some kids are too sensitive for those kinds of harsh physical beatings.
I agree kids aren't disciplined enough any more... there is a line that can be crossed and parents need to know where that line is. I felt my dad abused me.
When I spanked my kids with the spoon it was always back of the legs and just once.
My dad kept going, whipping my legs countless tmes and took his rage out on me..
I've never received any of that fancy stuff. There was a belt for me. My dad only physically disciplined me 4 times, yes at the age of 32, I remember them 😁 because he's never had to because my mum was the hammer😂😂, she did all the slapping/licks. Thanks for those beatings because it kept me alive and out of trouble.
U must been real mental x case
@@YasminMahnaz attempt to formulate a proper sentence that's coherent. You're welcome
Licks?
😆My mom raised me the old school way. I raise my son the same way
And I will raise my kids the same way too... You know old school always works
@@kirubaadharshiniselvaraju3765 yes
I love moms who use old school parenting! I bet your awesome! Every child should have you as a mother!
@@perryh.5306 what?
@@texasgirl73goodjob46 what? I didn't say anything to you.
Kikikikiki 😂😂😂 so even in the USA? I thought it was only in Africa and in particular in Zambia where we were disciplined in that manner.
Tell you what we remind our mum how tough she was on us. But you can't believe it the way she is overprotective over her grandchildren.😂😂😂😂 Big up to our parents for the wonderful training. They did a great job.
Ambrosina Nachula yup
zed parents dont play fam lol..............this is literally a story of my life " kaiswile ubwembya"
Kikikikiki 😂
When I remind my mum about how she disciplined us, she always denies it 🤣
and Zimbabwe as well. I am a testimomy to this myself.
I just came across this!!! My step-dad always use to say "you gotta sleep sometime" my step siblings would just laugh then after they'd sneak back into the house & were sound asleep... made me wish I had some popcorn!
oh that brought back some memories
Parenting roles has changed drastically. Instead of parenting, we're wanting to be our children friend. We give them a smart phone, computer and the internet or latest fashion's. We think that is good parenting or raising a child. We need to get back to the old fashioned way. It may be dated. But it still works
Old fashioned in terms of what
The belt scared me, for sure, but I was most humiliated when my dad put me in the corner while the rest of my siblings and friends played around me.
I wonder what parents do when the child refuses to stand in the corner and keeps running off to do what they want to do 🤔
@@sensimania abuse I’m sure
@@sensimania my dad physically made it so I couldn’t leave the corner I was basically glued to the floor lol
@@sensimania the more you resist the harder the punishment will be.
@@joe2001 or use a belt which is not abuse you snowflakes
I remember the “Stop crying before I give you something to cry about”
That's just abusive
how is that in any way abusive? My mom and dad used say that same thing to me and my younger brother and we both turned out just fine, plus growing up when my brother and I got in trouble there was no such thing as waiting till our father got home bc our mama would spank us
My siblings and I were raised with an occassional whoop also, although we were not naughty kids. On the other hand, there were no whooping involved in my husband's family. Now, my husband and his siblings have better jobs and positions than any kids in my family... BUT that is not the reason why I never whooped my kids. I always thought abusive parents just want to take a quick and easy way to discipline their kids. While other methods involve thinking process and problem solving are probably wasting too much time for them... My husband and I actually enjoy finding ideas of kids disciplinary so we never lay our hands to our kids. Thank God, our kids are obidient and our relationship with them is just full of love... #justsharing
Good for you for breaking the cycle❤️
The “oh you must thought I forgot” whooping is the scariest one there would be times when I was younger in school getting into trouble and one week passed from that then my father was like “oh you must thought I forgot” lol. He took out that belt told me to turn around saying I was only getting three licks but it turned out to eight licks lol
You always make my day...
No matter how bad my day is I just watched your show and the world seems much better... BVI 🤗😃😃
The only type of time out my parents knew was putting us in a corner on our knees for HOURS. Some times holding our arms in the air or holding a book over our heads the entire time. And this would be after getting whooped.
Now that's abuse for sure!!!! OVERKILL THEIR ANGER NOT YOURS SO SAD
White folks shocked & appalled
DK why because their parents did it too!
😂💀
We got whooped too.
Lols that's basically every African kid childhood.
Omg yes weeping willow branches we use to have to get ..i remember the oh u forgot whoopings to
I was lucky not to have that last one cuz if Mama didn't get me that night she wasn't going to get me the next night or the night after that or a month later.
No child should ever fear for their physical safety from their caretaker. Hitting your kids is against the law and unacceptable
THANK YOU STEVE 😎
MEMORY ! LAUGH RIGHT ON
The you thought I forgot meeting that's funny laughing out loud thank you for sharing
omg it is 3 and i AM STILL BENCH WATCHING HEY STEVE lmao
My dad literally locked me in my room for a week 🤣🤣🤣
Enjoyin my coffee break 😌😘😂
Poor Steve I can relate to everything but not the switch...my dad got switched when he was a boy so not us
Oh yeah, dem days. Boy oh boy
Oh my mom never forgot
My father always asked me how many slaps should be carried out for my wrong doing.
陈泽 🤣🤣🤣.
I'm white but my grandmother was the same way. She would either wash your mouth out with soap, tell you to go get that switch or hit you with a green plastic fly swatter. I only got it once. It was usually my brother and my older cousins. I remember.
Oh you thought I forgot I just be sitting my momma pop In
For real ❤❤❤❤👍
When my kids were growing up I had occasion to beat them five times. And every time I had to do it a little bit of my heart died. There are better ways to discipline kids
FINALLLY SOMEONE WHO GETS IT.......STOP BEATING YOUR KIDS FIND ANOTHER AVENUE👍👍👍👍
@@kellydunn4344 thank you
Taking away privileges is far worse punishment than a whooping nowdays. Disconnecting kids from technology hurts their soul
The sad reality of that is it hurts everyone’s soul now.
That's false
My lil bro doesn't get whoopins like we did, he just gets his tablets and stuff taken. But guess what, he's in the 7th grade reading on a twelfth grade level and actually likes to read books so his behavior doesn't change as a result. We're living with a future sociopath
zero using the technology is hurting our souls. As planned.
Nailing it!
God bless you
Oh yes, Steve, especially when you're from the carribean like Jamaica 🇯🇲 😅
Too true!!!
Speaking facts.
Thanks, mom I never got, Oh you thought I forgot
I think like Pryor, that walk to get the switch was great psychological punishment.
man i can relate
I don’t understand why my parents stop disciplining my brothers before I would get a whooping and now my brothers get a 1 hour break of no electronics it makes not sense.
I feel the struggle it’s because you’re their favorite as long as you’re succeeding they’re fine it’s really annoying my grandma refuses to discipline my younger brother I’m 21 she’s 15 playing sibling favorites not cool and I know she can discipline because every time I piss her off she has no problem being authoritative but my younger brother it’s excuse after excuse it needs to stop. Stop promoting bad behavior 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
I’m so blessed to have had parents that didn’t want to inflict pain or abuse on me
You forgot...the beat and speech. Where every work is a whipping. 😂
Oh man! I got whooped even before I did the "crime" that I didn't have sex until I left High School, and knew about birth control pills. I was that scared that my father will carry out his threat that if I got pregnant, he will cut my head off. Believe it, I never talked to any man after that. Straight and narrow! You know what, I turned out best for it. Fortunately, my friends were also in the same boat. Those were the days.
As a kid, my mom had the whacker. She only had to use it a few times to get the message across. Many kids are in desperate need of Vitamin S.
This is so accurate these Caribbean parents don't make joke, I tell yah from the time my mother call me am crying lol
Steve your the best
I break a table leg off 😂
Oh You thought i forgot type whooped 😂😂😂😂
Sleeping one bad 🤣🤣
I can relate 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Know bout all the above!!! 😂
Anyone remember the whoopings when one get trouble you all get trouble get whopping all together. When you had hold your clothes and get whopping. The worse one when got thick switches braided the all together or sometimes the wrap the belt around switches. I hate when my aunt gave whopping with her hand. She very havey handed when whoop it harded, but string hurt the worse it last for days.
Yes especially back in my 3rd grade days I remember them days I cut up so bad a couple days especially when I would laugh at other students lol as soon as I got on the bus I did not want to get off at my stop but as soon as I got off the bus oh boy as soon as I got to the apartment I knew what was coming next 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That was called abuse knowing it would hurt you for days so 😥
Real talk lol
I God all of them
We need this!
I did too
Thank You Steve we need more parents to be parents and not friends you are not their friend you are their parents I’m trying to get my Grandma to understand that. I’m 21 my grandma apparently I don’t know what her deal is but she keeps constantly promoting my younger brother who’s 15 bad behavior and allows him to get away with it and it’s getting real annoying allows him to cut up in school be disruptive in class and cut up and the police had to bring him home one night I was so pissed and got on her and told her you need to stop being his friend and be his grandma. And I been getting on him too about his bad behavior and my grandma always be upset and continues to promote his bad behavior and always be like you weren’t perfect when you were his age. And I’m like yes I wasnt perfect but at the end of the day there were consequences for my actions and I was disciplined for it. I refuse to let my little bro be a statistic in jail especially because we’re Black. I’m getting tired of the sibling favorite yes I’m grown now but you have other grandchildren now give them the discipline you gave me so they too can be successful and stop approving him of doing drugs and being grown when he’s not. And I know Im the older brother if y’all want to be mad at me go ahead I don’t care. And also had I had been doing the things my younger brother was doing she would have no problem disciplining me and I know she can discipline my younger bro she just refuses playing favorites. With that being said stop the sibling favorites and discipline your kids quit promoting we’ll discipline the oldest for wrong doings but the other siblings leave them be enough is enough these kids yes they need friends but they need discipline as well.
My mom told me that :
My beloved grandpa used to wip me with the dame hose lol
We would get the wake up switch. We would act up in school. And the next morning we would wake up getting beaten with a switch.☹️😭😭
Ohhhh
Yuppp , Nigerian parents and that discipline mannn. I got stories for dayss
He cut his beard I knew it was somethin different lol
I got those kind of whooping Steve is talking about, damn African parents are still the best in whooping hahah
Mine was wait till your father gets home 😂
Not anymore, child protective services at your door now. You mention in school you got spanked you are in big trouble.
Karen Hardie ikr!
This is relate time because I got them all and earned everyone of them. I'm better for it. Thank you Lord! ! !
Thank You
@@robertwhite9028 BRAINWASHED
These kids today don't know how easy they got it!!!!!! My mom is 5'10" and all her brothers are over 6'3".........my mom didn't have to worry about not catching me because her brothers would and then its "Community Ass Whooping" time 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It helped me become a better man because I had to be held accountable for my actions
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@j-man4132 how is this funny
This generation don't really have a clue.
Not true stop it with the stereotypes some of us 90’s and 00’s cats were given the same discipline especially me I’m 21 I was sparked with Belts Extension cords and hangers sometime spoons.
I would always hear this is going to hurt me then you
LMBO, 😂 😂😂 😂😂 😂😂 😂😂 😂😂 😂 😂😂 😂😂 😂😂 😂😂 😂😂😂 😂
The controversy in 3.... 2.....1
Lord have times changed, where a whoopin is considered "Abuse" now. (Depending on how far adults take it.) A whoopin ain't abuse, it's called discipline back in the day. That's why kids are growing up disrespectful because they're not being whooped enough. Parents are hardly (If ever) sparing the rod. I keep thinking back in my day, if I did ANY of what kids are doing now, I'd be lucky if I ever seen the sun again. No phone, no TV, no games, no friends aka being grounded. All that with an ass whoopin coming right behind it. Hell, sometimes even before being grounded.
How is beating your child ok if they make a mistake in life ?
@@lonewolfislit it was called discipline back in the day, that's how we grew up, if we make a mistake our parents whooped us for it. Parents didn't play back then.
In Romania in our days after a good whoopie if our mama saw us crying they beat us harder.
I’m not native speaker
Plz put subtitles in all video stave
I support whooping a 100%.. my children will enjoy all of it because it sets them right
I am glad they don’t use the paddle anymore in class 🔥🔥
UNLEASHING POTENTIAL - PSYCHOLOGY VIDEOS most of these kids need the damn paddle😁😁
@@JRob594 nope
Bruh at work we share our whooping stories lmao. Ever got that come out the shower whooping.
Well another abusive set of parents out of the shower beating like they did to the slaves because it hurt more oh but they love you that's their anger not yours that's super sick
@@kellydunn4344 You do realize my ancestors was slaves to white people..yeah. Plus not really abusive. At the end of the day I am so glad they whoop me. I mean I would've been in gangs or who knows. I'm living a good life, better yet. I'll go back in time if I could and thank my mom for whooping me.
@@itsyaboi1846 So very sad for you that you think that's ok for one human being to do to another......brainwashed...I never hit my kids I have 2 both went to college in high-school don't drink smoke or do drugs thank God parents need to find another avenue...taking privileges away works so much better and that don't resent you later in life good luck🙄
@@itsyaboi1846 if my mom ever hit me I would hit back twice as hard
"Oh, you thought I forgot...😈"
We even got wooped in advance can u imagine ? coz our teacher knew we'd still cause chaos in future (most probably in her absence)
Hahahahahah.......yeahhhh
These are the reasons for trauma
Yep many abusive parents out there so very sad😔
@@kellydunn4344 yeah 😔
Im dead set against discipline that involves weapons!! Belts, extension cords, pots, pans, switches, etc. A belt is acceptable if the child is being disrespectful from the mouth and being disobedient! But as for little things like making a bad grade, accidentally spilling something or doing something you not suppose to be doing with your friends, you can be mild with the discipline.
Physical discipline is never acceptable
@@ihavetheworldssmallestdick4568 I believe in spankings and discipline. Children need to learn that disobedience and disrespect will not be tolerated. A spanking with a fly swatter, switch with no limbs and a comb is ok. I'm not a fan of the belt but I will use it on my child if they get smart at the mouth. Other than that, I agree with you.
@@shaedavis53 what about all the studies that prove it psychologically damages kids
@@ihavetheworldssmallestdick4568 Discipline doesn't psychologically damages kids. ABUSE DAMAGES KIDS! Spanking your child for doing something wrong is not going to hurt them. Using a WEAPON to discipline kids is wrong and should be punishable by law.
@@ihavetheworldssmallestdick4568 I don’t know a single person that has been physiologically damaged from a whooping that sounds so stupid