5 Ways a Super Empath Destroys a Narcissist
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- Опубликовано: 29 июн 2024
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chapters:
00:00 introduction
01:01 Clip reaction
( Includes 5 ways a Super empath destroys a Narcissist)
01:14 1. A Super empath destroys a Narcissists sense of entitlement
01:52 2.A Super empath sees through a Narcissists mind games
02:33 3. A Super empath destroys a Narcissist ego
03:23 4. A Super empath does not take anything a Narcissist says seriously
03:53 5. Super empaths fight a Narcissist real hard
04:43 How to become a Super empath ?
05:54 All empaths are survivors
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Facts 😂
mistaking kindness for selfishness......they dont fkin deserve attention...i hv been a super empath and seen a lot of changes
They make the mistake of believing that our empathy is our weakness.
Kindness is not weakness,it’s your strength
See, empathy in itself can make someone be less "strong" in how they handle people. Because most generally to be kind and caring means you have less capability to be strong enough to speak out against someone.
This is why they are so easily manipulated or intimidated into doing what the Narcissist wants.
But as the super empath, it's still having that core empathic ability, while still being able to have that strength to not be intimidated and be able to stand up to whoever it is that's seeking to control them
But it’s a super power, a 6th sense
Because they are that dumb, when we stick up for ourselves they are full blown narcs out calling us selfish, my sil even pointed out she was trying to be nice to me, wow I'd hate to see what being mean meant, she'd called and I'd not spoken to her in 5 yrs, the truth sayer, me, repeatedly hung up on, did she think I'd gone 5 yrs with no one being nice to me, undoubtedly!
Well said
Yes this is true - we will "question them without fear" - we "cannot tolerate injustice" - we "take steps required to stop it."
So I got really into Socratic questioning (used in psychotherapy), which *could* poke holes in their arguments/deception. Using psychotherapy in potentially harmful ways is ethically debatable, though.
Really have to let go of the fantasies of justice and possible moral anxiety afterward depending on your ethical views. Because they're *still* not going to change. And chances are you'll be gaslighted in return... Which still wears down on you because psychological abuse is insidious.
So I learned that the best boundary is to stop engaging, use the JADE technique, and focus on your own healing. I think they thrive on the attention, really.
Narcissists think empaths are weak because of the empathy, love, and kindness we have. The narcissists believes empaths are not supposed to make mistakes, and narcissists believe they're perfect because of their false sense of self. Narcissists will use your past against you and they're controlling monsters. Narcissists play the victim in every situation, and blame empaths in every situation, and they're very abusive. Narcissists love to interfere with empaths peace, they love to torment you. They always like to be around a lot of annoying people like them. They'll mess your whole life up, like calling the police on you for no reason, when they're the ones causing problems and bothering you, and the police are narcissists just like them. The best thing to do is to stay away from these monsters and go no contact with them, because they'll mess up your whole life.
My mom has called the police on me about 5 times. My kids were taken away from me. My little 5 month old baby! Bc of my narc mother and her narc bf trying to control my entire life! But this is the year! This is the year to expose these vampires! Once and for all.
@@amart3632
I'm so sorry this happened to you!!
I PRAY your situation makes turn around,and rule in your favor!!
I had situation at my last residence with a run in with the police. From trouble my narc mom created,and other narc family members joined up on me. I had to take my child,and flee to another place.They are always trying to paint one in a negative view. Such as "unstable","crazy"
to try to get my child taking.
My narc mom,and her narc husband are always trying to control my life.
Exactly "vampires" the evil they do they will stop at nothing.
They use the police to weaponize.
They interfere with the best interest of your child/children.So they can be separated from you.
They will mess with a person's place to live. To cause trouble,and get one put out
for rules violations.
Oh great point about “empaths are not supposed to make mistakes” that’s how one started a smear campaign against me. Meanwhile, I was told to let all her mistakes go. 🤷🏽
Don't forget...they force you to forgive. I have no control over what God is entitled to. My forgiveness is simply a sign of weakness....and I no longer afford it to them. That's upto whatever God they believe in. Not me. I have no right to give that gift.
@@beastly.warner Yes they do try to force it on someone to forgive them.
These people never repent of their evil. They continue to abuse,and want you
to forgive & forget about it.
I understand now why my ex husband’s hatred for me grew over the years. I grew stronger and he wasn’t able to break through the shield I built around myself for self protection from his BS. I stopped biting his bait whenever he wanted a fall out, started saying ‘No’ to his flying monkeys, refused to fawn over the enablers he wanted to score points with, ignored his tantrums, disengaged when he was unreasonable and went no contact when divorce was filed. It was almost as if I cut off his oxygen supply when I deprived him of his entitled expectations. He totally went crazy and lost control. At that point, I video recorded his stunts to be used as evidence in court and my children finally saw his true colours.
So true. The kids seeing and hearing him is the worst part. 😢
Wow sounds like a mini series in 5 mins or less, I'm glad you showed him who he had the misfortune of screwing with, they're bent on trying to make us into persons we are not, I'd never want a puppet, hate guys who act like, no sin being able to think for yourself, mine wanted marriage and kids, time to grow up, it is the shock of their lives!😊
Well done! It’s not easy to put Narc’s in their place and to serve justice where it is due but what you did is master class! Blessings on your healing journey.
Your vivid description of him is parallel to how my mother is. I have yet to be around her anymore.
The video/audio recordings are key to protection from them
Ignore the narcissist. They can't handle it!. ❤️
Yes. This is true as well. Sometimes I put my ear buds in and say.....sorry I can't hear your crap!
They stomp around hahaha, I've got a neighbour who stomps around really angry all the time, it's so funny xxx
@@SillyMoo-uf2ny 😂
@@SillyMoo-uf2nyyeah, they got a weird gait/walk. They are posers. They try hard, but often goes over the top.
@SillyMoo-uf2ny I stomped around too to let him know I knew what he was doing. I think it freaked him out lol
Narcissists are their own worst enemy. They just don't, and won't get it. A Super Empath will take a stand for what is right and wrong, what is just and fair, will challenge the narcissist's nonsense and will make them sit up and pay attention. Again, they are like toddlers. What they fail to recognize is that they probably had the best partner, children, sister, brother and true-blue friend they ever had. Unfortunately, it's their loss. Thank you, Danish
Just came up against narcissist abuse this should be taught in schools.
110% !!!
Exactly 💯
They teach to be narcs in schools. They don't want you successful. Then you wouldn't need Big Daddy government. They punish kids for defending themselves but the bully can punch people all day, every day and the teacher sees it but won't do anything until you defend yourself. Kids get into trouble for being too smart and doing extra work. You are only to do as much as the dumbest, laziest kid in class(you know, the narc!).
Everything revolves around THEM! Now, you have two choices. Do you want to be the narc or the punching bag? That's the only two options allowed! NO authenticity allowed! That offends and upsets the narc.
They never fix schools. They just dump more tax dollars into the hands of corrupt people. Then they say we need more money! Things continue to slide downhill. So they start teaching the kids that the lighter colored ones are causing all this by some vague mystical force that no one can identify, but it's definitely real since the experts said so. You kids hate each other now. Good! Do you feel the love and tolerance? It's "good" to teach kids that definitions of words don't matter. It helps them to become better narcs or punching bag of narcs.
This is so empowering, Danish. It completely resonates. The more aware you are the more powerful you become and that's precisely what narcissists don't want! They constantly need victims to abuse. Set strong boundaries, stand your ground, give them no reaction and see what happens.
A super empath is the only narcs worst nightmare. As you said, in deal with a super empath, chance is 0% for narc! All of these 5 ways that possess by a super empath is the most kryptonite for narcissists!
they nightmare are only psycopaths
narcs dont care about empaths only psycopaths can truly trigger the narcisist
@@fernandosanches3696Well You Don't Know Empaths Really
They implode when they realize they're not playing you but you're one step ahead of them, when they realize you're giving/helping because you genuinely care and not because you're deceived and needy of getting something back, because you know they have nothing to give.
Very very true!
A very abusive childhood caused me to fight every single day of my childhood for my own safety, protection and life. I did so with the trauma based survival skills that C-PTSD uses over it victims as well as being an Empath.
When I was an adult married to a narcissist, he would come up to me out of the blue as I’m doing laundry, dishes, putting clothes away, etc… and he would say ridiculous things to me.
EX: All your friends are lowlifes.
I replied, “Hummmm I don’t think Tom, Donna, Belinda, Joe, Levy, Mike, Bev, etc… will appreciate you calling them lowlifes”. He just walked away without making a sound.
He hated me helping other people and acted like I needed his permission. So he was really mad because I was going to help someone and he didn’t want me to. A couple days later he came to me and said, I forbid it! As in he was forbidding me from helping someone. I coughed sarcastically and asked him to repeat what he just said because I know I misunderstood him. Silence. I said, I’m sorry, you for-what-me? Please say it again, im sure I heard you incorrectly. Silence. Yea I thought so. I’ll pretend you experienced momentary episode of insanity. I added that he knew exactly who I am and knew I don’t ever do orders or demands, I make my own decisions and choices and nobody controls me but me. He never said a word and walked away speechless yet again.
Another time while I’m putting laundry away, he came out of the blue to tell me I am an embarrassment to him causing him to be humiliated at his company parties because I am inappropriate. I asked him to tell me how I am inappropriate causing him embarrassment. He said you don’t behave in an acceptable way. I asked that he tell me what I do that is inappropriate. He says I don’t know how to describe your behavior. I say okay, give me an example of one party where I behaved in an embarrassing way. He got mad and yelled that he can’t give me an example on the spot! I told him whenever I bring something up that he does and causes me discomfort I always have many examples that support what I’m referring to. He got even more frustrated and snapped, not everyone can come up with examples on the spot like you do. I replied I didn’t need an example from everyone, I just needed one from him. I don’t have one! We’ll take your time, think about it and the moment you come up with one example of a situation when I was embarrassing you come back and tell me. Until then your complaint of my embarrassing behavior holds no water and is considered unfounded and without merit. Walked away speechless again and he never came back with that example.
Not one of his attempts to rattle me with completely false attempts at character assassination ever worked on me.
But I love to apply logic, reasoning and rationale thought process in debating illogical, unreasonable and irrational people. So I got A LOT OF PRACTICE in that marriage before divorcing the narcissist.
He walked away because you showed logic and not emotional pain telling him my friends won't like you saying this instead of how can you say this about my friends and act hurt as if he hurt you. If he sees weakness he tries to hurt you even more but not other people that he does not live with.
13 years ago I started off my relationship being almost capable of being a super empath. As I’ve stayed with my girlfriend for this entire time, I’ve found myself regressing back into a immature emotional state from the years of narcissistic abuse. I’ve lost the confidence, communication, self love and empathy I used to have so plentifully when I first met her. Now I’ve been so trauma bonded that I am unable to remove myself from the cycles of toxic emotional immature abuse. I find myself diving head first into the sea of despair with a controlling manipulating narcissist that uses endless empty threats, dismisses all my interests, friends, or dreams. And so much more, if anyone sees the red flags of a narcissist please don’t think you can fix them or overcome it. Find someone else, save yourself the suffering, and move on with your life. Don’t waste a decade like me.
I like these darker videos. What can I say? Suffering narcissists make me happy. We suffered first. Now it’s their turn to understand real suffering. Perfectly balanced as all things should be.
I journal, I keep healing, I tell absolute truth to 1 safe person - including my mistakes/choices so that this person can reflect back to me with words what I share. Then I deeply introspect and take time alone. I exercise, meditate and pray. Then once I’m grounded I strategize. I’m learning how to do all this bc I set the intention of not reacting any more but responding instead. I turn my back on fear and speak out loud “it all works out for my best” and then I do all of these things over and over again until I no longer worry and completely accept myself.
Thank you for sharing this. What you are doing is a roadmap that a lot of people coming out of Narc abuse should follow. I, for one, am inspired by this. ❤
They have no time to spend with you because they are so self important in the community and have to show how Grady they are and extremely accomplished!
This was my ex 😂
Always helping people in the community while he puts his house on fire 😂
We don't need to spend time with them. The enough to make us stronger to the callenge. Who cares if he doesn't spend time with me. Soner or later he will regret and we are helping them for the next relatioship. We are independent by ourselfs no men or woman in this world can make us unworthy because we are not. Our backs are protected with God❤❤and the Universe gives US signs but sometimes we are blind to see It. Once you decide to not Accept beeing treated like a victim and not let people offend you they Universe Will send you help. Just look for the signs. It depends on US always❤
Yes!!! God sees us for who we really are. Not our social status, pay bracket, job titles, lavish vacations. Etc Narcissistic individuals don’t get it!
This is wonderful, it all resonates! I've always loved helping others and despised injustice. There's nothing better than being true to yourself. Narcissists are enslaved to their lies and fears.
Well said.
That's so true, their enslaved to their lies and fears.
This is absolutely true. Not trying to destroy them or use their weakness against them, I have empathy for them too but I can see through their toxic behavioral patterns and call them out. I am very sensitive, intuitive, observe people deeply and I am a deep thinker. I don’t take their BS and counter them.its true I treat everyone equally including animals. I take solace in nature, animals, birds, water. My sense of smell is sensitive and strong so I use aroma to calm my sensory organs. I practice breathing techniques.
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I can relate.. they will not understand your emotions 😢
Thank you for this excellent video. You have been such a blessing. I found that I had to control myself! If I went shopping I found myself thinking I should buy this or that for the narc! Always thinking or noticing things they would like.I had to STOP myself. I had gotten them out of my life but not out of my head. Same thing for negative thinking, their voice of constant criticism. So in the mornings I take a little time to think of MY accomlishments, not theirs. Before I go to sleep I ennumerate what I accomplished this day, not them. These narcs are like ghosts we have to banish, interrupt our own thoughts. I actually say "Stop It!" out loud when I start this. Being mindful is really important bcs the thoughts just arise. When dealing with people there are no more second chances. I am never rude, I have far fewer " friends" but I am much happier and healthier. This takes time and mental energy, so I try not to push myself to perfection like I used to. Nobody loves you any more if you are a doormat. Much love and appreciation❤️
Same here, I used to buy things I know they would like, but no more !
Interesting about the negative self talk that these demons park in our minds. I like the command “Stop it”. Seeking ways of how to toss these strong holds.
"Love yourself radically!" Yes! Took a lot of work, a long time, and it's always a work in progress. ❤ Thank you so much for your expertise. You've helped me to become more self-aware and validated my final lap as a survivor and the acceptance of having been diabolically abused. There is no going back to when I was blind trying to figure my parents and others out.
I don't like labels but super empathetic I am. That is something that has saved my life! It's assisted me in not being destroyed by these demons.
For me being an empath is unleashing a weapon of natural resistance to anything or anyone abusive. A bully. A liar. A boundary stepper. A thief etc. Of course with Narcs any form of resistance is not allowed, too bad I gave it, from a very young age. I questioned everything and eventually did things my way. If what they were telling me doesn't feel right or sound right I would not do it. Of course, they smear campaigned me with extended family, friends, and coworkers something I didn't realize until much later. With that said the more I gained exposure to knowledge about their behaviors, and labels about what these behaviors are called, went through the 5 stages of grief [got stuck for a few yrs on anger], and stopped holding out for hope that my parents could change, when I accepted that they did NOT love me, when I accepted that they were evil and processed my entire life with them and saw it for the truth that it was, is when my superpower exploded!
Now, that I see clearly, those tactics of survival and self-actualization have become more powerful, potent, and empowering. I take no prisoners, and yet at the same time I heal with every successful maneuver out of the Narcs trap. Some days I'm better than others. But I'm getting better every time. Self-reflection is key! It's fuel. You have to be aware. Something narcs hate.
I'll shut up now. 😅 Thanks Danish❤
Oh, hun, you really shouldn't shut up! I really liked your post, and applaud all your hard work! Bravo!
@dspine6 Thank you. I wrote that for ALL of us. Heal and be that empowered super empath! ❤️
So very helpful Danish. After a lifetime of narcissistic abuse of one sort or another I know I have boundaries to set and to not fear setting them. That was the key, that phrase hit home and I'm going to do the work to keep myself safe for the rest of my days. No more of that awfulness will I tolerate 😊
This is a stellar description of what an empath/super empath is. IMHO this is what the human experience is all about. Spiritually, this is what we should strive for, as it places the being on a higher frequency level. A benefit to that is the capacity and capability to greater understanding. Thank you, Danish! You've helped me affix this thought in a fluent way.
I let the beast play out itself. They are blind but I see more dimensions, I can move in, dwell in, operate from...
Wow 😳 Thank you ❤
Yes, you are right, thanks!👍
Your observations in so many videos are valuable. This „empath“ narrative is absolutely destructive. It’s ego protective and grandiose.
After we are abused by a narcissist, who has made us feel insignificant, we often go overboard trying to make ourselves feel special by creating a narrative.
Truth is we’re victims of abuse. Disempowered. We’ve often betrayed ourselves by allowing someone unsafe to be so close to us.
To recover from a narcissist, you can’t emulate them. You have to do what a narcissist can’t: exercise humility, take personal responsibility, and heal your broken relationship with your Self. Like you wish the narcissist would.
I have given myself to the Lord and he has healed all my hurt and anger and keeps me safe. After 60 yrs of marriage and betrayal I realize that he at 84 will never change, only get worse. I am happy, very careful and do not let his evilness effect me anymore. For decades he has been prisoning my food to keep me docile and have had some very suspect accidents which have caused serious injury. My family are aware of all this and support me as well as my medical team .
Everything said is true. The narcs return after 4 years was a piece of cake.. they tried everything to convince me that we are just made for each other. Nothing about them has changed, I called them out, shut them down and reminded them plenty of times how awful they are. I knew how to play the game they started from the first time I met them. She would listen very closely to what I had to say and it was like she liked it but in a vampire type way.. kinda spooky. I ignored her for almost a week then she reached out questioning why I’m being silent. Telling me how she realizes that I “balance” her out and how much we are made for each other. I blocked her the next day 😂 I don’t want anything to do with that ever again in my life. Don’t play yourself
VERY helpful video. I have been doing a LOT of inner work and your words were a confirmation for me. I am realizing that the higher I climb up the mountain, the further away the narcs are at the bottom, where they cannot reach me. thank you
Good for you on your healing journey. Narcissists won't go to high altitudes b/c of less oxygen. So, great strategy! 🙂
Yes this makes sense 💯 been taking notes on their behaviour, deeds, and calling it out (calmly) as i see it 💯 , they run , go off spending on extravagant things ,all the new bling ,trips yet wont help with anything in the way of work , paying back way overdue debts ,nor current bills (breadcrumbing me with what they think is ok , when i see them , i see the pattern and know that one day no one will ever replace the loving healing +aware ones ) so ill will keep on being me, do my healing and whats right (forgive myself,set even more firmer boundaries if needed and appreciate just how far ive come and overcome as well 💯) Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏 i am truly grateful for all the information you help us with on this healing journey 🙏🙏🙏🥰
The empath has become expert at keying in on the most unpredictable person in the room--we learned as children that this was best for our own protection.
Because of what I know now, I don’t give any emotional supply he is looking for as I am able to keep myself calm during my interactions with him and don’t take his bad words personally. Thank you for all you do Danish as this is empowering and encouraging!
Being raised by a narcissist came in handy years later when I encountered my narcissistic boyfriend:
1. During the first few months with these people please listen to how they talk about their exes, their stories are usually confessions.
2. Give any new relationship a probation period and observe any changes in behavior, the devaluing incrementally increases over time but may start quite early on.
3. Have a dealbreaker offense, mine was Gaslighting, once he did that it was a wrap...(the relationship lasted a solid 3 months, all in all I had a lucky escape) ❤
Calling them out is a BIG ONE. They can’t stand it. Removing emotion by grey rocking. Equally important and necessary. This will require you to have a support system in place so that you can vomit when you need to and channel your emotions in a safe place. This is exhausting work I’ll tell you, but it eventually builds a platform where you can be like Danish says, their kryptonite. But it also builds areas in you that need to ultimately heal. Danish is right, you will struggle, and sometimes you will breakdown or shutdown too, but the only place you can go is up, so you should go up then. They want you to be miserable because they are miserable, but stay in your lane and “self love”, which is what I teach my child. The best way to show yourself is by being well. Danish said it well “they are developmentally arrested kids in an adult body”.
I smiled, as I listened...I believe I've incorporated each of these methods..with different people (all narcissists). Boyfriend, sisters, mother... and all the same, I would suggest it is healthiest and best to just walk away...leave them. Your mind will have less clutter, and your body will thank you..because you will have so much more peace. Why put yourself in a fenced yard with a bull, when you can protect yourself by being on it's outskirts. Your cortisol levels will balance, you'll sleep better...Ahhh...peace at last. Give yourself the gift of peace. You deserve it! No need to continue the annoying unhealthy charade because it's a habit. Or you feel obligated, because it's family... walk away. I did. Yes, I look back on the few times when I mastered the game...and it does make me smile. But the best way to master the game is to leave.
Empaths play the long game with their life. While the narcissist plays the instant gratification game with theirs. When the clash comes, we've got plans, and they have regrets.
I love this! I always use “long game” in my personal narrative to myself. Reading it form someone else is affirming ❤
very well explained ❤
@christinacatalano Definitely easier said than done, and while the payoffs can happen farther down the road for us. We still have ourselves in the end. Thank-you for your affirmation, I often need it as well.
It's been a long battle, but I think I may have finally got win.
Because now, as a super empath, I'm in charge and have more control "our" relations and can get what "we" want.
I feel like I have succeeded in making him realize that the relationship belongs to both of "us".
All truth, I'm still try to fight out financially. The last phase is the hardest. They keep trying sabotaging you as long as they can. Distract you to concentrate, you know it when see the patterns but to break the trauma feelings and thoughts is very hard. I don't give up but I'm not sure if I become fully free.. be blessed you all❤
I heal myself with the help of your videos.then I heal my mother from my sister in law s abuse .I expose her to my brother.she don't let me marry she practice black magic on mei.i have healed myself then I leave those people who trust her.i make strong bonding
With people with my act of service's,kind,love people whole heartedly,I shine in every aspect of my life,I am super empathetic,born in June like u danish,soi m resilient ,powerful I do things against the wish of sister in law .I am unmarried but confident than ever ,pray a lot,love my self, love others very positive , enjoy every activity,stand tall alone,most happy person in family, people get influenced from my positive attitude, playful Ness and wonder high vibration aura.thankyou danish.may Allah protect u,bless u
Belated Happy Birthday......I also suffering she sabotage everything but one day i will definitely be a super empath.
Love you Danish❤this video give me a lot of boost up,again life becomes soo blissful and now i can breathe peacefully
She tried for 18 years to break me but being able to empathize with her allowed me to see the vulnerabilities hidden behind the behaviour to understand the intent of her actions.
Thank you Thank you Thank you soooooooo much danish
Savings this video ❤❤❤❤❤
Bless you
Please make more videos on how to be a super empath tips and tricks. And how to apply this in examples. ❤❤❤
Strength is Key! Self Assurance! My parents lifted! I believe this is the Medallion ❤
Thanks Danish for this video and the tips you've shared with us so that we can continue on our healing path😊💖😇🙏.
You are doing an Excellent job, plus you are, very brave & you always hit the nail on the head. You know what, I think I am one of those Super Empath. No joke.
Holy moley I have done every single thing you said!!! Especially the documenting their toxic behavior I used to video or voice record the fights and rage and injury behaviors from my ex narc…and I use this all to tell him I’m going to show everyone I can find to show them who you really are. I told him I will tell all his new supply all his red flags to watch out for and to get std tests results from him before he touches you…yeah he gets super scared of me Exposing him!!!!! I also got in social media and screenshot all the messages I could that showed how sick his mind is! Thank you Danish!!!!❤
We took my narcissistic neighbors to court because of their abuse and control. They lost control of our property because I called them out, and it ended up costing them thousands of dollars (13,000) in arbitration. The court will conclude the case once they recieve the arbitrators report. I suspect my neighbor will loose this as well, again costing them thousands of dollars due to not following court orders or the rules of court.
What did they do? Mine claims the property line is half way into my yard and when I get the grass he called the law and I got a warning for trespass.
@@Jessica-J.ones. Did you get my last messages?
@@gailhare790 no I didn't. I only see where you asked if I have.
@@Jessica-J.ones. Get a qualified property survey done. File it as a matter of public record.
@@pamelalynn5955 thankyou. I appreciate you for this information. I'm assuming it means have the property surveyed? I was wondering if I went to the courthouse if I could veiw property line/surveys? I don't know much about this. If it's been surveyed before why would it need to be surveyed again? Surely there is a line that hasn't changed. I don't understand these things.
Dear Danish, I really enjoyed watching this video. I have learned a lot. I am a Super Empath and you thought me a lot about my self to understand myself. ❤❤❤
Thank you so much, Danish. I am setting boundaries, and of course it triggers the narcissist saying I'm selfish. Growing up with all the guilt making and manipulation, I would normally responds with once again, putting them first, jeopardizing my job, etc because I would be manipulated into doing things NOW. I am trying very hard to break the old patterns. I have gentle boundaries where I'm still kind and loving, but the boundaries are firm. The hardest thing for me is over coming the guilt so I'm trying to remind myself in a very loving way that I matter too and I am not selfish for not saying yes all of the time. It's a constant work in process and thank you again for reminding me to not give into guilt and manipulation. The manipulation is so subtle but with the deepest look of disappointment that gets me every time. I'm praying for strength at every step. Thank you for your amazing videos. God bless you
Thank you for you talks … I’ve received much from these explanations. Truth is a super power around a narcissist 🫶🏼
Absolutely.....but they hate Truth taller.....
Can you explain more about how they are developedly arrested as a kid? My ex’s dad (who he idolized) died when he was 13 & I know that pivoted his life. His mother had 7 other children to care for & she was an enigma-very empathetic but didn’t care about people, she could pretend so easily but was ruthlessly self serving. My ex was just like her minus the empathy.
Nothing to really add, just wanted to say everything here had me agreeing heartily 😊 🙏💙❣️ & "hi!!"
It’s too much to be on a relationship with a narcissist. It’s not worth it . Leave, don’t look back . Love YOU
True. Thank you for your observations, support and advice Danish . God bless you ❤
Yes, I found that supportive because I am so completely healed but of course I have my horrifying set backs with my own inside feelings. Because of the wounds. But that little dissertation of yours was very supportive. I come out of it real fast and firmly state what is obvious to me, but not to them.
when I state it out loud, every once in a great while the one who bothers me the most acknowledges that I won. I would say that’s once out of every 110 horrifying efforts on his part to control any situation at all. He’s younger, and in charge of his children, the grandchildren of my beloved consort, and it’s just awful, but I don’t need to put up with it.
As an empath who had a narcissistic father, narcissistic best friend, narcissistic colleagues, it's a given that I've attracted a narcissistic community.
I loved in a community home with 3 demons and 1 flying monkey for nearly 2 years. They robbed me of my time, energy and health.
How did I resolve it completely?
Tedious process but no contact. Absolutely zero. No middle ground. Middle ground or the occasional meeting means permission to continue their behaviour no matter how small.
Healing began the moment I removed these scheming parasites from my life.
Best health and body I've had in years.
Danish, thank you for speaking the truth! Your channel is saving lives!
Super Empaths aka Demon Slayers Unite!( In Our Own Peaceful Homes, Far Away From Narcissists )🦸✨
Hey, I completely Resemble that Remark!
ithink the whole show, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, was about dealing with different types of energy sucking beings including sociopaths and narcissists.... its a great show, i heartily recommend having daughters watch it. and yes we should teach about the shitpersonality disorders in high school
mine liked to watch vampire movies but wouldn’t listen to positive wordly music. perhaps because what I like is to be disliked by him. of course i told him “how can you dislike this positive music but watch vampire movies? don’t you think they are going to affect your soul?!”.. ridiculous
good comment only problem i see is isolation in our sweet home which is also not good..
Danish, this is excellent! One of your very, very best. Just when I think you can't get any better, you DO! Blessings and peace❤❤❤
Thank you Danish!
Raised by a narcissist, attracted a narcissistic husband (now ex) and siblings also attracted narcissists. I recently came to the aid of my niece who stood up to her super narcissistic mother. I must finally be healed because I handled it like a super empath. Thank God!
🥰 I doing it 😆 I’m handling a person like this as a champ! 🤣 I decided to start saying, Thank you and walk away smiling to the insults… I never thought I’d see a person like this have their jaw drop, but it happened 😂 Lort 🙏🏻 I hope I can keep it up.
Thanks for all your guidance 😁
Thank you, Danish. This was very helpful.
I did this to my husband, he got angry & ran out the front door!
How did you do that please explain me
My husband narc
Yep mine took off and left. Snuck out, in fact, as if I would've bothered to stop him.
@@fatimaahmed445 see grey-rocking, it's about giving the smallest reply necessary, and also not reacting emotionally (fighting back) with them
Brother thank you for arming me to fight my narcissistic wife. You are a Light. Bless you
Thanks a lot Bro❤ That is trueee they have no ideia that they are messing with us. Saying this not in a bad way the fact that we are super empaths we can anilate they're dícease. Cause what people need to know is that they also need help because they can be healed every dícease IS spiritual and there's nothing more beautiful than helping others getting free. The time and the type of abuse Will depend on people's strong mind. Thanks a lot for the video. Let's keep fighting because people think that Narcicists are only fam mostly but no...stop them. Even in a supermarket or a coffee we can find them we just have to face them. No need to be rude only NO FEAR❤❤
I just want to say thank you for helping me through this difficult situation with your videos ❤ you help so many people and you are awesome 👏🏽
I do everyone this list..I'm an hsp Empath lifted to know things I wish I didnt..I would love to be wrong..I do believe that Empaths have a gift..I'm not healed but I'm strong..be strong too!!
I wouldn't have believed Danish a few years ago. I don't think that I can count the number of narcissists that have been in my life, including close family members. Recently, my new boss at work turned out to be a narcissist. I realized it quickly and didn't fall for her games or let myself be diminished. The situation was not great for my career, but I proudly stood up for myself and others. The other bosses and HR always took her side, but fortunately, she decided that I was not worth preying on, and began to ignore me. Even if HR would not protect me, I protected myself with words and facial expressions that scared her away.
If I had not done all of the things that Danish suggested, I would have been confused and scared. Please know that, eventually, you WILL be able to stand up for yourself. You WILL be able to stay calm and know exactly what is happening in any situation with a narcissist. You WILL have so much self-respect that the narcissist will seem like a child.
Even if you are in a situation now, in which you are dependent on, or stuck with the narcissist, you can do as Danish suggests and gain back your self -confidence. Maybe you won't be able to show it on the outside, but you will feel it inside!
Every thing you said is true. We go Super Nova when pushed to far. Not a pretty site once a Empath has had enough. I am a super empath
Thank you for all of your videos! You help many ppl recognize, cope and separate from toxic demons🖤🇺🇸
I had to start my own healing as I kept attracting narcissistic females. The last one tried really hard to get under my skin but I rejected her
😂❤God is so Good, to bring you along, Danish! Love Ya, man!
To some that are commenting....just because you were in a bad relationship or dealing with a jerk, doesn't mean that person was actually a narcissist. 🤷♀️
TALK What You KNOW and NOT What You Don't. When They talk about Narcissist they have proof
I dont know about npd before 8:26 2yrs but i saw they enter house and always ready for fight so i try to less contact do all work self nothing said him to do all my intuition i thought something wrong with that person he always give silent treatment for small things but no way to escape god nothing give me iamhopeless
Healing is the key ,I walk in my power now,I do right by them now,but they can't play their games one,I keep them at their level,and still showing them love,,I am thankful for healing
I just started therapy to start healing. The realization that I was with one for years if very fresh.
I already had CBT for a year so I’m a bit more self aware.
So, what really hit the most that you mentioned about healing is
Really searching deep down who you are”
Thanks, now I have a lot of processing to do.
Very helpful! Thank you.
I am so happy to hear that I’m on track with all 5 ways a super empath uses these methods to stay true to themselves when dealing with a narcissist.
Thank you Danish and
God bless you.
From JANESVILLE, WI
Recently, I've had to show one how they had treated me. I had to explain all the lies I had caught them in (they admitted to others I was unaware of), the manipulation I fell for, and how these affected me and made me feel. They immediately tried to turn it around in a way. They admitted they were a narcissist, they were no good, and that's what they'd always be and even thanked me for telling them the truth as to what a piece of s**t they are. Now, I feel terrible. They didn't apologize for the things they had done or for the pain it caused me. They are also caught in a narcissistic relationship with their sort of ex. So, a narcissist feeding on another narcissist/codependent who is feeding off a codependent empath.
Thank you. thank you for the work you do, thank you for being a healer and helping other healers heal...
Suddenly one day, I think it was God's plan that i came across a video of yours on youtube and my eyes opened and after that got a great insight. I easily understood when he
wanted to pull me in an argument, when he gas lighted me or when he tried to provoke me but totally stopped talking to him and responding to him. He has realised that she's not going to stay for long so as always trying to behave nicely and started the trauma bonding techniques. I am married for 40 yrs. and am very frustration that i couldn't understand this toxic man for such a long time but I have accepted that too as God's plan.
LOVE THIS SO MUCH !
Thank you..
As a distant thunder rumbles across the atmosphere saying "You are a powerhouse now!"
This video is gold, so accurate
Danish thank you my friend...i am in fierce battle with this demon..who thinks it has rights by birth to me. You are a light..keep shining. 💜💜💜
I saw the signs since High School, but I thought I was stronger. Empathy is my weakness and he knew it which is why during one of his nonsensical rages last year, I attempted suicide, it was a cry for help but the response I got showed me how little I actually mattered; what was weird was I had said it, he screamed while daring me to do it as he walked away and down the hall but then he came back and acted like me being his friend was actually different from me being his wife. He started getting emotional and said he was scared and depressed because his wife was threatening suicide and out of instinct I started consoling him as if I were a different person. Reassuring and calming him down, and I had to double back because I realized how self centered he really was. Didn't try to console me, talk me out of it or even just stop me....just jumped over me so that we could focus on his emotions. ... He knew that, he knew I would just jump over myself every time so he felt free to tear me into pieces to the point that I thought I was so horrible that the world would do better without me, and then he would turn it around to make himself the victim of my selfishness, I had no boundaries. We'd been married for 15 year (separated now) so he knew exactly what buttons to push and how to benefit the most from it. Empathy is my weakness, he knew if it looked like he was hurting then I would forget myself to go and make sure he was fine....
Fantastic video!!!
I have done all these- 👍👍👍 I first discovered & honed my divine qualities.
For that , I saw life as a mirror.
A mirror reflects 2 things .
1.. it shows you, who you are on the surface
2… who you are in actuality . Your inner qualities. ( which only can be seen through the inner lens. ).
Then it’s a matter of time to turn the mirror on the narc . 🎉 and see the fun.
I directly address their actions. Stick to the facts. Don't allow them to derail the topic of discussion towards something that isn't about the topic of discussion. Don't allow them to shift the blame on you. Stand strong in your boundaries. Don't show any emotional reactions. Stay calm, don't defend yourself. Truth needs no defense. Don't be afraid and don't allow gaslighting. Don't take anything personally. I have learned every narcissistic trick and tactic through experience. Being a healed super empath i have grown to understand and realize that their actions aren't my fault. Remember it's not your fault. Trust what you see not what you hear from them. You cant help them heal, they must want to do that for themselves. Stay strong, always remember your stronger than them.
yes very true. i have been healing and becoming a super empath since i left the final narcissist and now have a very loving partner. when you look back and realize all that we put up with in the past...
I have implemented it all and it works 100% , Empathy is power but should be allowed to be Mis used , not any more - “Developmentally stunted child “ in an adult body with a fragile ego - perfectly defines them - Thank you Danish - I am sorted with no intent of destroying anyone let karma take over that bit - just need sometime to claim my own self , God bless you !!
It took me decades to figure out what was up with Npd mother. I did challenge the crazy all my life, and took so many hits. Once I ID’d and accepted the betrayals, etc, I went no contact. Truly it’s the only way to move forward and away from these people.
I find this video hilarious. One man silent on one screen listening to himself give out advice on another screen. That equals an out of control ego.
or trying to get double money for the same video 🤷🏽♀️
i feel like i've finally healed. i find energy for love and joy. and i see narcissists clear as day and say goodbye or simply ignore pretty quickly.
I was a very bad guy.I was a nercissist.I didnt even recognised that i was narcissist.Then my wife left me taking away with my son...
It was such a huge blow on me, that i even thought of dying...I suffered and is still suffering from various psychological issues..
But one thing i really get, is that i am now an extremely compassionate , loving and empathetic person....
Thank you, Danish Bashir. ❤
all of em ^.^ yeah.!!!!!! . i still healing wounds day by day
Shattered the entitlement. For awhile he said he was literally chosen by God and only he understood what God wanted. I was like why? What makes you so special. He told me because he was the most honest, kind, humble (yea lost on him) person that ever lived. He was serious. I countered with examples of bad things he'd done to me just that month. He got mad and left.
That’s awesome 😎
Once they've discovered you're after seeking justice, their true superpower of digging themselves even deeper reaches extraordinary measures...it's almost painful to watch how really stupid and immature they are, and how they end up handing themselves to you on a silver platter without realising it. You nearly believe that you're so smart to be able to break them, but in reality, you're stronger than ever and they are extremely naive to believe they're smarter than you, than anyone else on this planet. Ouch.
Thank you 💜💪🏾