🚨WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO BEFORE COMMENTING🚨 just gonna drop this here: so after reading some of the comments, ive decided that im going to pick nofap back up again. i suppose this means that im on day 1 now, but ill be back at 9 months in no time. this shit is light work to me. we doing this together 💪🏾
Not getting in your business. But then how and when are you gonna make love with your significant other if you are on nofap/retention. Are you gonna were a strap on or something. Again not trying to be rude. Just curious. Have a great day
@@oldwiseman5785 porn is the issue, masturbation is normal. Watching pixels of other people that aren’t you. When you watch porn you’re tricking your brain that you’re having sex, which is why it’s so addictive and desensitizing
Major respect! He could have kept quiet and faked it like others do but he decided to be open and accountable to his subscribers. You just gained a WHOLE new level of respect from me👏💪.
Honestly I feel like just quitting porn itself is what makes no fap / semen retention successful. Yeah refusing sex or masturbation can help too, but it can seriously mess up true relationships (not lust), and can also give your mind serious brain fog (from refusing natural sexual desires). Quitting porn itself is the best thing you can do, in my opinion porn is a thing that damages people the most not necessarily masturbation or sex. However, you can still become hypersexualized (sexual addiction) through sex and masturbation, but the biggest gateway to being hypersexualized is through being exposed porn.
Completely agree. Porn is the issue, quit that and you’ll be good. Complete ‘Semen retention’ is bs and will end you up in a worse place. ‘Retaining your seed’ is bs and is a placebo. My opinion.
@Cooze Well semen retention, is technically impossible, as eventually your body will just force you to you know what (wet dream). Semen retention main benefit itself is an increase it test, but that increase (based off research) does wear off in about week. A week or 2 weeks is usually the amount of time it takes for you to have a wet dream. An increase in testosterone is obviously a big benefit, but it's not the main benefit when people go on "no fap". I'm not saying you should masturbate or have sex every day, that will also damage you, but I honestly don't think it's bad to masturbate or have sex in moderation (once every 1-2 weeks), because the main benefit of holding in your semen in the first place wears in 1-2 weeks. That's why I think quitting porn is more important, because that's truly where the decrees of anxiety, increase of confidence, and better social skills really comes from.
@@alpe9052 no fap doesn’t do shit it doesn’t increase confidence or testosterone it just gives you more energy ppl think they gone become this powerful guy but still can’t bench 225 while not jacking off
The real deal is porn addiction, not fap addiction . Masturbation is a natural, healthy thing, you can do it without having to look on porn. We are wrongly a generation of vouyers.
You were just nervous. Happens to everyone when it's their first time lol. Dont even worry about it. There are so many songs about this. Don't even sweat it bro
Nah trust me. Retention really decreases your drive. I recommend to let loose at least 1-4 times a month. Especially in over sexualized society. There’s some dreams where you can’t take it. It’s in men’s nature to always have sex/desire. It’s womens fault it’s 20x harder to get. If you’re trying to stay away from porn which is recommended, just use something else.
this man... a virgin. damn. I'm a virgin too but for religious reasons. Seeing people maintain their virginity for other reasons besides religion makes me respect them so much honestly! First video I have watched
Hey Jordan, I’ve been in your shoes before. Not 9 months but around 3 months and I experienced a similar situation. First of all, I wouldn’t relapse. From my perspective, it’s your mindset, your body’s reaction to being in a new/vulnerable state, and the internal battle between yourself questioning nofap in the moment. Even if you don’t realize it you’re probably in your head way too much thinking why can’t it stay up I’ve been on nofap for x months. Just breathe, stay present, feel her skin/hair/breath, notice her beauty, the energy you feel, and just take in the physical experience of it all without “thinking.” Don’t worry about yourself. Just relax and don’t think about the end result of “needing” to get to that point, just enjoy the moment and it will flow naturally. The more you get comfortable with being w the girl and being vulnerable it will come naturally. This is all normal, you’ve only tried it twice, even if in your head your not “nervous” your body still is. Sex is a much more physical experience than it is mental, just feel brotha. Don’t relapse!
@@JordanGreenYT Glad I could help brotha! You’re very healthy mentally and physically based off of your habits, trust your body man. Your car analogy is right but instead of jerking off you need to take the car out in races (experience with the girl) not on the test track (jerkin off alone in ur room) to feel comfortable to perform naturally. Just keep taking the car out on the racetrack and eventually your body will feel comfortable on the track. You’re super fortunate your girl is patient and understanding! Been with you since you first switched your content to self development and you were a big catalyst/motivation in the start of my journey back in March, stoked to see you growing the way you’ve been and I’m happy you’ve found a girl who matches your energy and values my g!
@@JordanGreenYT love this shit brother I agree 100% with this post when my shit couldn’t get up like that I was like overthinking on some shit. It honestly had me feeling gay tbh. Lol the guy who was addicted to porn wit chicks in it think he gay lmao. What I think happened was I was not thinking about how good it felt how pretty she was and how validating the experience was. I was more thinking of how I was in a situation that I’m not usually in and how I haven’t had sex and how it might not get up and also how I am not the kind of guy that fucks chicks. Really weird but just my experience.
You can still practice NoFap and still have sex bro, you dont need to “quit”. NoFap is ultimately the practice of no porn or masturbation, you are releasing through the natural act of sex. Totally normal and nothing you need to worry about, its just not the “Hard Mode”
I deleted mine over a month ago and no looking back . You see plain overweight/underweight chicks that without the filters/makeup and sexy outfits making bank on IG and Onlyfans preying on us guys and not even having to touch or even look at you is what I cannot stand . Like who are you to think you can get money from fans ? Like cḿon your not that hot.
yeaa I deleted all my social media when I was on 17 day streak and I saw this girl on my feed in sport shorts she was listening to dat song cute face wit a slim waist challenge mess and on da slim waist part she jump around and her ass bounce in da Camera dat day I relapse after dat I was done with all social media even on movie sex scenes I mute the TV and close my eyes lol
Retention is not forever, and waiting to find the right one was a end goal . Proud of you man you’ve grown a lot in this one year and inspired many on your way . Keep growing Jordan 👍🏾
Dude I do a lot of things to better my well being as a young man but NOTHING I have ever tried is as powerful as retaining my sexual energy. It heightens your consciousness to a whole new level. I think it’s just key to find that balance of being intimate with your woman and not releasing (easier said than done)
performance anxiety bro, you put so much pressure on your self because it was your first time and it was the moment you were waiting for and preparing for, all your life.
From what it sounds like, perhaps you conditioned your mind to repress your natural sexuality as a human entity through the process known as no fap. No fap doesn’t mean you have to repress your sexuality, you can urge surf in the mind in a healthy way and just not touch yourself. We have to find a balance between enjoying sexuality and controlling the lustful desire for it.
Also remember to not get attached to this girl. You cannot love something if you are attached to it. Nor can you love something that you want something from. And I would suggest breaking things off if no fap becomes a problem again. Perhaps You yourself are not as ready as you may think you are. And this could be a lesson and turning point towards your divine masculinity. If she wants that from you and can’t get it, she’ll have to deal with the urge of not going elsewhere behind your back.
imma drop my opinion on this matter, you was on semen retention for 9 months not nofap. firstly nofap and retention are two different things, id never want to relapse on nofap however id relapse on semen retention. nofap is just no masturbation( and not viewing adult videos), retention is something else retaining your seed and not releasing even in intercourse. i highly suggest that we all go on nofap for the rest of our lives and retain your seed intermittently. theres nothing wrong with releasing your seed with a women, especially in a relationship.
No fap ain’t meant to last forever. Just do it for about 3-6 weeks at a time. Take a testosterone supplement on top of that, eat healthy, exercise, get money. That’s happiness
True bruh, a month seems healthy and good, the thing is just get rid of the addiction of it. Once you can control it, it is easy to do it once or twice in a month without having massive urge.
You can have sex and still retain your seed. Just as long as the partner is good. Women can have sex and not orgasm People think semen retention means never having sex. You can be in a relationship and not ejaculate. Have sex and all.
LMAOO, my guy it happens to everyone. It's called performance anxiety. I've been with my current girlfriend for a year and a half now and every once in a while even I can't get it up sometimes. I get it, your nervous, and sometimes that nervousness can affect the guy downstairs.
I’m so happy you found the right girl Jordan! I know you can fix this problem you are having. And i’m glad this girl understood the situation. I really can’t explain how happy i am for you bro congrats :)
Don't give up, I think nofap is about quiting p*rn and mast urba ti*n, but the relationships with other people is not bad; if you ask me, you didn't fail
Even a regular relapse is not a failure. A relapse is a sign that you're addicted and you need to stop what you're doing. When you do that you learn from it, and know how to avoid it again from happening in the future.
This man seriously deserves more clout like I can't stress this enough on how much of a big help he's been in me getting my life back on track from my diet to getting back into the gym everyday and what u said in this video about u deflating during sex this literally happened to me to and im glad I found out that im not the only one even tho this girl I went to lose my v card with sort of blocked me straight up after I left ur house 😅
For me, nofap is a way to not only practice self control but to get a handle on my pornography addiction. That car analogy you used was perfect frfr. Idk how people be going for months on end doing retention or nofap I don’t think it’s healthy in the long run but better for short term. Fucks wit the channel jus subbed
@@bcgod it's more a discipline aspect as well Humans are wired to seek sex and procreate. Fighting those urges and controlling them will help guide you thru tougher tests.
It's incredible how you are growing as a person and how much subscribers you are getting recently, lot of respect my guy (sorry for the english mistakes, I'm basque)
Hey Jordan, I think this is all psychological and I know you'll find the balance. There are different levels and modes. To not release at all for 9 months would be too extreme for me right now. After 135 days of NoFap now I have decided not to PMO ever again but I do have sex and I do release. I think the next level for me may be to experiment with limiting how often I release because I definitely notice more personal power in many different ways when I go without releasing for longer periods. The longest I practised retention for was in 2019 when I had a 110 day streak and I really noticed some amazing things happening.
That's perfect fine bro just don't get lost in the dopamine and you should be good. Anyway it's good to hear you found that person bro and I appreciate the openness. Thanks man (also day 23 nofap gazer gazer)
I had something similar to this but instead of not getting up, I just couldn’t bust, like she was trying everything and it all felt good but its like I trained my brain to not bust. I mean shit honestly I was happy about it, I had the best of both worlds
Hey bro I totally understand your situation and it seems to me you have a great a relationship that can go far. But bro to be honest your right!! no fap/semen retention might get in the way of a intimate relationship but retaining is still something any man should practice for better results in performance or working out or whatever. But bro I can't quit semen retention...not yet because I feel like this is still a very important practice for me and it's way better than wasting energy on fapping but I have nothing against an orgasm cause that's not a bad relapse because your actually doing it with something instead of wasting it by your hand lol but keep going hard on your journey and I wish nothing but the best on your relationship!
@@lukelamberti4824 I can do a video on this if you'd like. I'm building my channel. I just recently did a video on quitting porn etc. I'd love if you'd check my channel out. Thank you kings
I feel like its different to enjoy sexual intimacy with a partner. The point of NoFap is to avoid hijacking the chemical reward system of your brain. This is the single healthiest and most productive means of "release".
Your no-fap streak doesn't end when you have sex, only when you relapse after watching porn. Leading up to real sex is the whole point of no-fap/retention.
This has nothing to due with nofap. It's anxiety. You got in your head and lost it. Happens to many people. The reason it happened again is because you were thinking it was going to happen...
Don't worry Bro. I had exactly the same Situation with my (First) girlfriend. Went Up, went down right before thing were about to Go down (or in) It will Go away! Yes, maybe 6 month' or so! But you have to practise all the way through. Try until it will Work again. Be Open to your girlfriend about what you think and feel. It WILL Work again 👍👍👍
The reason you couldn't have sex is because it wasn't initiated by you but instead, by her. That's an anomaly, you body was smart enough to realize. The car example is false in that case.
@@carnageon60fps43 semen retention is also no sex... but no fap is no porn/masturbating now obviously don’t be out here jus having sex all the time jus cus u on no fap
That’s ok man! NoFap and Retention allowed you to manifest into something great. NoFap and retention I always see it as the catalyst for the greatest version of ourselves
Just a tip you should always use a condom and the woman should be on brith control. But ur supposed to wait until u get married. The ultimate gift or something like that
Fornicators don’t make it into paradise. Think about how long an eternity is. 2 million years from now you’ll still be suffering b/c u just had to get some ass. But hey do whatever u want, I’m just giving my advice
Bro just because you didn't manage to get your penis up during sex doesnt mean its related to no fap. Many men live life without the fap, but it doesn't mean their penis just stops working.. some men may wait until their late 30s before they even think about having sex and still manage to obtain an erection. The more thought you put into these situations the bigger of a problem you actually create... if its your first time then its natural to have some underlying anxiety whether you be aware of it or not. If you start thinking to yourself, ohh my penis is not working because its in hibernation due to no fap you will start to believe it... Just take it easy bro, don't pressure yourself! Or Mr.D and don't be pressured by external influences. If you have a girl that truly loves you and cares for you she will stand by you and support you - if not, they aren't for you simple. Maintain your self control, its an impressive attribute to have bro. Give your body time to adjust to new experiences. Respect for sharing your video bro and respect for waiting so long to loose your V you are a really good guy, dont let the world of sensualities break you. Piece 👌
it is actually related. not masturbating stops you from getting an erection since your brain gets used to not getting an erection. also, men have sexual thoughts and think about sex when puberty starts, which is when you start getting erections. the real problem is porn since porn is unhealthy for you.
@@sebihuerta5308 Masturbation is equally unhealthy for you man . When your brain gets stimulated constantly by your hand , It will automatically give no response when there is a girl in front of you .
@@vlbxrto_187 exactly I've been on nofap for a year now just to test it out and i feel the same exact same your body is supposed to ejaculate. You're releasing stress. I still meditate the same as before i still respect and love women i still focus i still feel motivated. It's just a goal people set that makes them feel accomplished. Just do what makes you happy
I think this is the reason Jordan. Since you haven't "started" the car in a long time, you couldn't get it up. The erectile tissue isn't used to filling up with blood now because of retention. Performance anxiety is a big factor too. I hope everything gets better Jordan
I quit nofap after 6 months. I think it comes down to self control and confidence. If you take care of yourself you’re going to feel good about yourself. If you feel good other women will sense that energy.
super interesting!! Same shit happened to me when I had like 73 days in NoFap. Now my goal is to hit 90 days (i´m in day 55 now), but after that, I think that I´m going to focus only on NoPorn. Thank you bro, you got my like :D
@@hankpotter3626 I’m into NoFap since i was almost 17 years old, and I have had a lot of streaks on this way, now it’s easier for me to keep a streak. NoFap has bring me a lot of good things, but now that I’m 19 y o i think that I’m going to leave it...
@@senister14 At least for me. It helped me get more ideas for projects, it cleared out my mind a lot. It got my skin super duper smooth, like oh my gosh it's so clear lol. I don't feel like utter trash. It gave me a lot more energy to do things. So in return it made me more active. I kept improving in my hobbys constantly which are art, writing, and music. I learned the power of manifestion. I learned self controll. I think thats about it for me tbh. I just feel overall better man.
@@driplord5871 Like what project? Personally I rather feel like trash than depressed in an open void. Being active doesn't help me because there isn't much to do already. My hobbies have been having a been there done that feeling lately. I did to while also fapping. Just not at that exact moment. Me too, but still fap. I get somewhat of all that, but I was looking for something more.
@@senister14 Like Art projects and such. I've been deppressed for a long time so that doesn't really matter to me. Well I usually workout at home. When I fap its just like 5 seconds of pleasure then I feel like trash for the rest of the day and personaly I wanna constantly improve in my hobbys and no fap has helped in me on that and again I just feel like a better man. But if it isn't for you I comepletely understand this is just my expierence thanks for sharing yours too!
@@driplord5871 yeah art okay but it doesn't help me in the long run. I want to improve to but ,the hard parts is I'm at this feeling where everything feeling like been there done that, even fapping. I want to stop because it feels so empty and played out. Yeah, thanks for sharing, I only ask because I'm looking for something more out there and any ideas from anybody would help. Thanks for being so open with your stuff.
Bro, thanks for making this stuff. Truly an inspiring thing for me, as I can relate to your sentiments and viewpoints on an esoteric spiritual level. This exact thing happened to me too, and I went the nofap route. We just waited it out, and it happened. It was awesome too. I love this girl so much.
@@ockertbrits9830 No, multiple times per week. You need to release the toxins in your prostate through busting nuts. You put yourself at a much greater risk for prostate cancer. Dont be so stupid. You dont use it, you lose it.
@@noremac0575 There isn't any evidence that nofap is harmful. Yes masturbation can release "toxins" and hormones but abstaining from PMO and not releasing isn't going to impact your health. And what does "you dont use it, you lose it" mean?
Love the video. Same type shit happened to me after my 150 day journey but idc I still love doing no fap. My thing was I conditioned my brain basically to think chicks don’t find me sexy it was a terrible mistake. Once a chick found me sexy it like short circuited my brain. I’m not going to make the same mistake again. Nofap is too lit I’m on day 23.
Today for me marks 8 months. Keep retaining to manifest the life you desire. Work hard, protect your energy, be very careful with the friendships/relationships you keep around you.
Man das hella crazy. But you gotta do what you gotta do, especially if it's the right one. Im gonna go for 9 months just because of this. No homo. Ill be back every week to show my progress. On day 20 rn. Btw that clippers vs nuggets analogy... BRO the shaaade. Day 20✅ Day 27✅ Day 34✅ Day 41✅ Day 48✅
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just gonna drop this here: so after reading some of the comments, ive decided that im going to pick nofap back up again. i suppose this means that im on day 1 now, but ill be back at 9 months in no time. this shit is light work to me. we doing this together 💪🏾
Im on day one too and this video threw me off a bit but I have dicided that Im gonna keep doing nofap.
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Isn’t Nofap just not watching pornography and jacking it. Just don’t watch it
Not getting in your business. But then how and when are you gonna make love with your significant other if you are on nofap/retention. Are you gonna were a strap on or something. Again not trying to be rude. Just curious. Have a great day
@@jeffreyowens6518 I’m mf dead 😭 NoFap is masturbation, separate from sexual intercourse.
Honestly the real movement should just be no-porn
Fapping is worse than porn 😂
@@oldwiseman5785 nah porn is the real issue
@@oldwiseman5785 porn is the issue, masturbation is normal. Watching pixels of other people that aren’t you. When you watch porn you’re tricking your brain that you’re having sex, which is why it’s so addictive and desensitizing
@@oldwiseman5785 yea bro watch Attack on Titan not porn
@@l0k180 it's only an issue if you are addicted to it. For the average person, not really a big deal.
It took balls (no pun intended) to tell us this man. Most people would have kept it a secret.
No cap
Basically no fap is good when you are single but when you are together with someone don’t let it get in the way
It sounds like she is a good person. Not every girl would be that understanding
On god😂😭😂😭bro would be getting clowned in the girls group chat rn
@@topflight9182 😂😂😂id be getting flamed on twitter
she 10 toes forreal 😭
prob brown skin
@@benjaminmena323 Facts, but some of these white girls be nice too ngl
Major respect! He could have kept quiet and faked it like others do but he decided to be open and accountable to his subscribers. You just gained a WHOLE new level of respect from me👏💪.
gotta keep it real you feel me
Subscribed!
Honestly I feel like just quitting porn itself is what makes no fap / semen retention successful. Yeah refusing sex or masturbation can help too, but it can seriously mess up true relationships (not lust), and can also give your mind serious brain fog (from refusing natural sexual desires). Quitting porn itself is the best thing you can do, in my opinion porn is a thing that damages people the most not necessarily masturbation or sex. However, you can still become hypersexualized (sexual addiction) through sex and masturbation, but the biggest gateway to being hypersexualized is through being exposed porn.
Exactly what I’m thinkin
Completely agree. Porn is the issue, quit that and you’ll be good. Complete ‘Semen retention’ is bs and will end you up in a worse place. ‘Retaining your seed’ is bs and is a placebo. My opinion.
@Cooze Well semen retention, is technically impossible, as eventually your body will just force you to you know what (wet dream). Semen retention main benefit itself is an increase it test, but that increase (based off research) does wear off in about week. A week or 2 weeks is usually the amount of time it takes for you to have a wet dream. An increase in testosterone is obviously a big benefit, but it's not the main benefit when people go on "no fap". I'm not saying you should masturbate or have sex every day, that will also damage you, but I honestly don't think it's bad to masturbate or have sex in moderation (once every 1-2 weeks), because the main benefit of holding in your semen in the first place wears in 1-2 weeks. That's why I think quitting porn is more important, because that's truly where the decrees of anxiety, increase of confidence, and better social skills really comes from.
@@alpe9052 no fap doesn’t do shit it doesn’t increase confidence or testosterone it just gives you more energy ppl think they gone become this powerful guy but still can’t bench 225 while not jacking off
@@itssmoove9435 it increases my confidence and makes me feel better don’t know what’s wrong with y’all
It’s so comforting knowing that we all just go through the same things in life
The real deal is porn addiction, not fap addiction . Masturbation is a natural, healthy thing, you can do it without having to look on porn. We are wrongly a generation of vouyers.
You were just nervous. Happens to everyone when it's their first time lol. Dont even worry about it. There are so many songs about this. Don't even sweat it bro
I have never heard a song about this
@@josephlamarca9615 fr bro.. what kinds music he listen to
For y'all that aren't cultured there are many songs about your first time. The most popular imo is wet dreamz by j cole
@@butareyousurethough9779 lol
Nah trust me. Retention really decreases your drive. I recommend to let loose at least 1-4 times a month. Especially in over sexualized society. There’s some dreams where you can’t take it. It’s in men’s nature to always have sex/desire. It’s womens fault it’s 20x harder to get. If you’re trying to stay away from porn which is recommended, just use something else.
I’m on NoFap for 12+ months and got no partner because I’m a Muslim. And guys I feel I can fly
My dude has a courage of a fucking lion to post this.
Bro anyone can do it stop caring about what people think you'll lose your mind. It's not a superpower it's a mindset anyone can achieve.
this man... a virgin. damn. I'm a virgin too but for religious reasons. Seeing people maintain their virginity for other reasons besides religion makes me respect them so much honestly! First video I have watched
I virgin because I don’t know how to pickup girls and I have social anxiety
@@basantapandeyy same brother
Lezcer same bro
@@basantapandeyy well just compliment her then ask for name then take it off from there, it aint that bad, its about the confidence u got this
All jokes aside why I'm actually interested? How did you avoid it
Awww he's in a relationship! They grow up so fast😢.
😂😂😂
im starting 90 days no fap today.. wish me luck boys
Wishing you luck my guy
It’s gonna be a bumpy road but I believe you’ll prevail. Goodluck💯
You’ll probably fail in 30 minutes 🤣
@@stevenday648 im actually at 3rd week now and im looking forward for more
@@boiboi5521 nigga you just commented an hour that you started today shut you’re lyin ass up
Hey Jordan, I’ve been in your shoes before. Not 9 months but around 3 months and I experienced a similar situation. First of all, I wouldn’t relapse. From my perspective, it’s your mindset, your body’s reaction to being in a new/vulnerable state, and the internal battle between yourself questioning nofap in the moment. Even if you don’t realize it you’re probably in your head way too much thinking why can’t it stay up I’ve been on nofap for x months. Just breathe, stay present, feel her skin/hair/breath, notice her beauty, the energy you feel, and just take in the physical experience of it all without “thinking.” Don’t worry about yourself. Just relax and don’t think about the end result of “needing” to get to that point, just enjoy the moment and it will flow naturally. The more you get comfortable with being w the girl and being vulnerable it will come naturally. This is all normal, you’ve only tried it twice, even if in your head your not “nervous” your body still is. Sex is a much more physical experience than it is mental, just feel brotha. Don’t relapse!
i appreciate this comment a LOT. i already relapsed, but comments like this have inspired me to get back on it. day 1 starting today
@@JordanGreenYT Glad I could help brotha! You’re very healthy mentally and physically based off of your habits, trust your body man. Your car analogy is right but instead of jerking off you need to take the car out in races (experience with the girl) not on the test track (jerkin off alone in ur room) to feel comfortable to perform naturally. Just keep taking the car out on the racetrack and eventually your body will feel comfortable on the track. You’re super fortunate your girl is patient and understanding! Been with you since you first switched your content to self development and you were a big catalyst/motivation in the start of my journey back in March, stoked to see you growing the way you’ve been and I’m happy you’ve found a girl who matches your energy and values my g!
@@JordanGreenYT love this shit brother I agree 100% with this post when my shit couldn’t get up like that I was like overthinking on some shit. It honestly had me feeling gay tbh. Lol the guy who was addicted to porn wit chicks in it think he gay lmao. What I think happened was I was not thinking about how good it felt how pretty she was and how validating the experience was. I was more thinking of how I was in a situation that I’m not usually in and how I haven’t had sex and how it might not get up and also how I am not the kind of guy that fucks chicks. Really weird but just my experience.
You can still practice NoFap and still have sex bro, you dont need to “quit”. NoFap is ultimately the practice of no porn or masturbation, you are releasing through the natural act of sex. Totally normal and nothing you need to worry about, its just not the “Hard Mode”
bruh i gotta stop this social media shit, i just saw a half naked girl on ig it broke my 13 day streak immediately
@Loch F facts
My life been happy and easy since I deleted that shit app
I deleted mine over a month ago and no looking back . You see plain overweight/underweight chicks that without the filters/makeup and sexy outfits making bank on IG and Onlyfans preying on us guys and not even having to touch or even look at you is what I cannot stand . Like who are you to think you can get money from fans ? Like cḿon your not that hot.
Lmfaoooo
yeaa I deleted all my social media when I was on 17 day streak and I saw this girl on my feed in sport shorts she was listening to dat song cute face wit a slim waist challenge mess and on da slim waist part she jump around and her ass bounce in da Camera dat day I relapse after dat I was done with all social media even on movie sex scenes I mute the TV and close my eyes lol
So glad you finally found her! You deserve the best
thank you ✊🏾
I respect you for puttin this out there, always keepin it real out here ✊🏽💯 dont what matter what nobody thinks! Stay true to yourself 💪🏽
gotta keep it a stack at all times
Heeeey 🙏 Heeeeey🙏 heeeeyyy🙏
There’s a difference between semen retention and NoFap
What is it?
Yeah dude tell us?
@@jaquaveonandress649 with semen retention you don’t buss, with nofap you don’t fap, with monkmode you do both
@@murkzyt6649 what advice do you give, should I keep my journey on no fab and Semen retention and wait for a relationship?
@@nickcaron3284 don’t focus on a relationship for now , focus on yourself and stay on the journey til you know that you’ve done enough
Here in Alabama,we can't get hard unless the girl is part of the family.
@holdupcomments
bro..
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Retention is not forever, and waiting to find the right one was a end goal . Proud of you man you’ve grown a lot in this one year and inspired many on your way . Keep growing Jordan 👍🏾
beautifully said. a fulfilling and strong relationship is more powerful than nofap.
The one time I expected clickbate...
Dude I do a lot of things to better my well being as a young man but NOTHING I have ever tried is as powerful as retaining my sexual energy. It heightens your consciousness to a whole new level. I think it’s just key to find that balance of being intimate with your woman and not releasing (easier said than done)
performance anxiety bro, you put so much pressure on your self because it was your first time and it was the moment you were waiting for and preparing for, all your life.
If you fap,means you quitted no fap.
You have to change the title to quitting semen retention
It could go both either way. And he said putting those words in the title of his bideos gets him the yellow dollar sign.
@SAI7 what’s the difference?
@SAI7 what's the difference?
@@pochakajeoi8943 you guys are dumb
nigga he clearly said he was doing both so it don’t matter
From what it sounds like, perhaps you conditioned your mind to repress your natural sexuality as a human entity through the process known as no fap. No fap doesn’t mean you have to repress your sexuality, you can urge surf in the mind in a healthy way and just not touch yourself. We have to find a balance between enjoying sexuality and controlling the lustful desire for it.
Also remember to not get attached to this girl. You cannot love something if you are attached to it. Nor can you love something that you want something from. And I would suggest breaking things off if no fap becomes a problem again. Perhaps You yourself are not as ready as you may think you are. And this could be a lesson and turning point towards your divine masculinity. If she wants that from you and can’t get it, she’ll have to deal with the urge of not going elsewhere behind your back.
imma drop my opinion on this matter, you was on semen retention for 9 months not nofap. firstly nofap and retention are two different things, id never want to relapse on nofap however id relapse on semen retention. nofap is just no masturbation( and not viewing adult videos), retention is something else retaining your seed and not releasing even in intercourse. i highly suggest that we all go on nofap for the rest of our lives and retain your seed intermittently. theres nothing wrong with releasing your seed with a women, especially in a relationship.
No fap ain’t meant to last forever. Just do it for about 3-6 weeks at a time. Take a testosterone supplement on top of that, eat healthy, exercise, get money. That’s happiness
True bruh, a month seems healthy and good, the thing is just get rid of the addiction of it. Once you can control it, it is easy to do it once or twice in a month without having massive urge.
True man
Why are you suggesting healthy 20-year olds take testosterone supplements? That’s not safe lmao
You can have sex and still retain your seed. Just as long as the partner is good. Women can have sex and not orgasm People think semen retention means never having sex. You can be in a relationship and not ejaculate. Have sex and all.
RESPECT TO YOU FOR SHARING YOUR EXPERIENCE. MUST DUDES OUT THERE ARE PASSING THROUGH SIMILAR SITUATION
Gotta have respect for you man! Lotta people would’ve kept that a secret✊
It’s in the mind man. Stage fright, I’ve had it many times.
It’s most likely just anxiety bro. It will happen! Happy you found a good girl
yea you right bro. just gotta be a little more patient. i appreciate that ✊🏾
Imma carry on the streak for you
Thank you for your sacrifice.
So does no fap mean no jerking off to porn but can still have sex?or nothing at all?
It's probably performance anxiety to be honest. Doesn't have to do with no fap.
Exactly
Nope if you dont work what you got itll eventually stop functioning properly like how all yall act like doctors
@@retrogamingdudes gtfo
@@herimen3153 your stupid and a virgin incel you know nothing about science and human anatomy you get tf out
For me, I'm just after post nut calirty. I don't do it out of pleasure or boredom, I simply do it to clear my mind and my thoughts
Brooo you’ve got guts. Thanks a lot for sharing this!
Semen Retention Gang. Lets Get It Kings Hold On To Your Energy💪🏾💯🔥‼️
LMAOO, my guy it happens to everyone. It's called performance anxiety. I've been with my current girlfriend for a year and a half now and every once in a while even I can't get it up sometimes. I get it, your nervous, and sometimes that nervousness can affect the guy downstairs.
I’m so happy you found the right girl Jordan! I know you can fix this problem you are having. And i’m glad this girl understood the situation. I really can’t explain how happy i am for you bro congrats :)
Don't give up, I think nofap is about quiting p*rn and mast urba ti*n, but the relationships with other people is not bad; if you ask me, you didn't fail
My thoughts exactly.
Even a regular relapse is not a failure. A relapse is a sign that you're addicted and you need to stop what you're doing. When you do that you learn from it, and know how to avoid it again from happening in the future.
@@DavidLoveOfficial should I keep on doing no fab and Semen retention until I get into a relationship?
This man seriously deserves more clout like I can't stress this enough on how much of a big help he's been in me getting my life back on track from my diet to getting back into the gym everyday and what u said in this video about u deflating during sex this literally happened to me to and im glad I found out that im not the only one even tho this girl I went to lose my v card with sort of blocked me straight up after I left ur house 😅
I really hope u see this 😆
For me, nofap is a way to not only practice self control but to get a handle on my pornography addiction. That car analogy you used was perfect frfr. Idk how people be going for months on end doing retention or nofap I don’t think it’s healthy in the long run but better for short term. Fucks wit the channel jus subbed
Jordan is a legend bro. He proved that you can manifest literally anything.
Facts!
tryna inspire my people ✊🏾
What did he manifest? He is ugly an still virgin
@@matteocicaloni keep your hate out of here
No fap is a lifestyle 💪 only the strong survive
Nothing happens dude, i am on day 151 😫
@@bcgod u get superpowers 😂
@@fouinylantigua5701 😂, but i feel more active in every work than before, less anxiety.
@@bcgod it's more a discipline aspect as well
Humans are wired to seek sex and procreate. Fighting those urges and controlling them will help guide you thru tougher tests.
Nofap isn’t what makes the world go round dude. It’s good but isn’t a necessity
It's incredible how you are growing as a person and how much subscribers you are getting recently, lot of respect my guy (sorry for the english mistakes, I'm basque)
What english mistakes😂
respect u keeping it real bro, still sticking to my semen retention journey 💯
Respect ✊🏿 you have officially won the hypnotic dual against the succubus. You’re the stronger person! You’re not a loser no more!🧘🏾♂️
It's good that you have someone who is patient and understanding as you both navigate your ways through this wonderful time in your lives!!!
Hey Jordan, I think this is all psychological and I know you'll find the balance.
There are different levels and modes. To not release at all for 9 months would be too extreme for me right now. After 135 days of NoFap now I have decided not to PMO ever again but I do have sex and I do release.
I think the next level for me may be to experiment with limiting how often I release because I definitely notice more personal power in many different ways when I go without releasing for longer periods. The longest I practised retention for was in 2019 when I had a 110 day streak and I really noticed some amazing things happening.
Facts
That's perfect fine bro just don't get lost in the dopamine and you should be good. Anyway it's good to hear you found that person bro and I appreciate the openness. Thanks man (also day 23 nofap gazer gazer)
if you ever think of quitting remember why you started
I don’t know why people start no fap, care to elaborate?
Yes true.
@@trent2kg813 in order to change who was and better the person you once was
I had something similar to this but instead of not getting up, I just couldn’t bust, like she was trying everything and it all felt good but its like I trained my brain to not bust. I mean shit honestly I was happy about it, I had the best of both worlds
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😂😂 atleast she got to bust first
I just recently did a video on this. I'd love if you'd check my channel out. Thank you king
King
@@spotr6193 Let me know what you think of the channel in the comments G
Hey bro I totally understand your situation and it seems to me you have a great a relationship that can go far. But bro to be honest your right!! no fap/semen retention might get in the way of a intimate relationship but retaining is still something any man should practice for better results in performance or working out or whatever. But bro I can't quit semen retention...not yet because I feel like this is still a very important practice for me and it's way better than wasting energy on fapping but I have nothing against an orgasm cause that's not a bad relapse because your actually doing it with something instead of wasting it by your hand lol but keep going hard on your journey and I wish nothing but the best on your relationship!
relationship temporary, no fap forever
the car explanation was a good one lol
This is the most real video that I have seen in a while. Appreciate it bro, heavy.
Bro bro bro....Semen retention is waaaaaaaaaaaaay another thing from nofap
explain me the difference pls
What’s is semen rentention ?
@@lukelamberti4824 sr=no nutting including sex and no porn, no fap = no fap, can have sex with girl?
@@liar-888 pretty much
@@lukelamberti4824 I can do a video on this if you'd like. I'm building my channel. I just recently did a video on quitting porn etc. I'd love if you'd check my channel out. Thank you kings
I feel like its different to enjoy sexual intimacy with a partner. The point of NoFap is to avoid hijacking the chemical reward system of your brain. This is the single healthiest and most productive means of "release".
Your no-fap streak doesn't end when you have sex, only when you relapse after watching porn. Leading up to real sex is the whole point of no-fap/retention.
i like the novelty of it and faps ruin this for me
He trained retention so hard he became sexually omnipotent...
Stop counting the days and make the days count
This is a bold video to make. I respect your confidence.
You was nervous bro. That anxiety got to you. It happens to the best of us
U can relapse but just don't watch porn
Phonography is toxic in my opinion
Quitting porn is the main key to this journey
thank you
Yea I think wanking and thinking about a special person u have a crush on is fine porn is toxic and ran by chewish ppl
The best thing to do is to fap without Watching anything
I told you you was gonna be drilling cheeks in a matter of time bro, its all part of growing up. Welcome to the club
This has nothing to due with nofap. It's anxiety. You got in your head and lost it. Happens to many people. The reason it happened again is because you were thinking it was going to happen...
there was a nofap ad b4 this video
Same for me
I think he can choose what ads he wants in his videos
Don't worry Bro. I had exactly the same Situation with my (First) girlfriend. Went Up, went down right before thing were about to Go down (or in)
It will Go away! Yes, maybe 6 month' or so! But you have to practise all the way through. Try until it will Work again. Be Open to your girlfriend about what you think and feel.
It WILL Work again 👍👍👍
Thanks for being so transparent!
Relax guys every body is different!!!
major respect for being so transparent with your personal life
The reason you couldn't have sex is because it wasn't initiated by you but instead, by her. That's an anomaly, you body was smart enough to realize. The car example is false in that case.
That makes sense!
Doesn’t mean you have to quit nofap, just quit semen retention
@Rvqsx - yea same 😏
So wym just fap with no porn?
@look at carti man so inspirational what does semen retention mean?
She got other dudes she can hit up so it's ok. Females never have one dude they talking too
@@carnageon60fps43 semen retention is also no sex... but no fap is no porn/masturbating now obviously don’t be out here jus having sex all the time jus cus u on no fap
bruv you've gotten so much fitter in the past year i've been watching you....great job man
It’s called performance anxiety, and women have to deal with it a lot too, that’s why they spend 30 or 40 minutes in the bathroom.
Ngl u choked like Nate Robinson did when he fought jake Paul, but she’s a real 1 so it doesn’t even matter 😂 low key a W in disguise
That’s ok man! NoFap and Retention allowed you to manifest into something great. NoFap and retention I always see it as the catalyst for the greatest version of ourselves
This man had like 5 chances to lose his vCard and something always happens lol
FORREAL BRO
@@JordanGreenYT maybe ur destined to lose it only after marriage?
@@Hyouseff nigga no
Just a tip you should always use a condom and the woman should be on brith control. But ur supposed to wait until u get married. The ultimate gift or something like that
Fornicators don’t make it into paradise. Think about how long an eternity is. 2 million years from now you’ll still be suffering b/c u just had to get some ass. But hey do whatever u want, I’m just giving my advice
Bro just because you didn't manage to get your penis up during sex doesnt mean its related to no fap.
Many men live life without the fap, but it doesn't mean their penis just stops working.. some men may wait until their late 30s before they even think about having sex and still manage to obtain an erection.
The more thought you put into these situations the bigger of a problem you actually create... if its your first time then its natural to have some underlying anxiety whether you be aware of it or not.
If you start thinking to yourself, ohh my penis is not working because its in hibernation due to no fap you will start to believe it...
Just take it easy bro, don't pressure yourself! Or Mr.D and don't be pressured by external influences. If you have a girl that truly loves you and cares for you she will stand by you and support you - if not, they aren't for you simple.
Maintain your self control, its an impressive attribute to have bro. Give your body time to adjust to new experiences.
Respect for sharing your video bro and respect for waiting so long to loose your V you are a really good guy, dont let the world of sensualities break you.
Piece 👌
it is actually related. not masturbating stops you from getting an erection since your brain gets used to not getting an erection. also, men have sexual thoughts and think about sex when puberty starts, which is when you start getting erections. the real problem is porn since porn is unhealthy for you.
@@sebihuerta5308 The opposite is true where excessive porn consumption causes erectile dysfunction.
@@sebihuerta5308 Masturbation is equally unhealthy for you man . When your brain gets stimulated constantly by your hand , It will automatically give no response when there is a girl in front of you .
I’m a 28 year old man and this helped me a lot. Keep it up my g
Man it's OK to relapse with your partner. You are built to do that! Never relapsing is such a bull shit
Fr we are all humans we are not gods nor perfect beings
@@vlbxrto_187 exactly I've been on nofap for a year now just to test it out and i feel the same exact same your body is supposed to ejaculate. You're releasing stress. I still meditate the same as before i still respect and love women i still focus i still feel motivated. It's just a goal people set that makes them feel accomplished. Just do what makes you happy
I think this is the reason Jordan. Since you haven't "started" the car in a long time, you couldn't get it up. The erectile tissue isn't used to filling up with blood now because of retention. Performance anxiety is a big factor too. I hope everything gets better Jordan
yea this is pretty much the conclusion that i came to as well. i appreciate it!
I understand the car not working when you need it, you're not alone brother
Started since 10/16/21, 4 days in so far
Very noice, I’m 240 days so far
Literally same bruh, dunno who you are but we're in the same boat
Iam on day 9 we got this Bois😊
Huuuh we started the legit same day 😂
Think I'll start today
EVERYTHING in moderation. even nofap
I quit nofap after 6 months. I think it comes down to self control and confidence. If you take care of yourself you’re going to feel good about yourself. If you feel good other women will sense that energy.
Exactly
These comments really give NoFap a bad and cultish image let me tell you.
It's because it was your first time, it happens man, it happened to me first time, no fucking deal, it wasn't because of no fap or retention
super interesting!! Same shit happened to me when I had like 73 days in NoFap. Now my goal is to hit 90 days (i´m in day 55 now), but after that, I think that I´m going to focus only on NoPorn. Thank you bro, you got my like :D
I was thinking of starting but only for like a week then I, you know. Kind of like semen retention for like a week
@@hankpotter3626 I’m into NoFap since i was almost 17 years old, and I have had a lot of streaks on this way, now it’s easier for me to keep a streak. NoFap has bring me a lot of good things, but now that I’m 19 y o i think that I’m going to leave it...
Honestly no fap has done too much good for my life. I respect your choice though.
Like what? Besides some physical benifits i don't see anything so great about it.
@@senister14 At least for me.
It helped me get more ideas for projects, it cleared out my mind a lot.
It got my skin super duper smooth, like oh my gosh it's so clear lol.
I don't feel like utter trash.
It gave me a lot more energy to do things. So in return it made me more active.
I kept improving in my hobbys constantly which are art, writing, and music.
I learned the power of manifestion.
I learned self controll.
I think thats about it for me tbh. I just feel overall better man.
@@driplord5871
Like what project?
Personally I rather feel like trash than depressed in an open void.
Being active doesn't help me because there isn't much to do already.
My hobbies have been having a been there done that feeling lately.
I did to while also fapping. Just not at that exact moment.
Me too, but still fap.
I get somewhat of all that, but I was looking for something more.
@@senister14 Like Art projects and such. I've been deppressed for a long time so that doesn't really matter to me. Well I usually workout at home. When I fap its just like 5 seconds of pleasure then I feel like trash for the rest of the day and personaly I wanna constantly improve in my hobbys and no fap has helped in me on that and again I just feel like a better man. But if it isn't for you I comepletely understand this is just my expierence thanks for sharing yours too!
@@driplord5871 yeah art okay but it doesn't help me in the long run. I want to improve to but ,the hard parts is I'm at this feeling where everything feeling like been there done that, even fapping. I want to stop because it feels so empty and played out. Yeah, thanks for sharing, I only ask because I'm looking for something more out there and any ideas from anybody would help. Thanks for being so open with your stuff.
if you don't use it, you lose it.
Bro, thanks for making this stuff. Truly an inspiring thing for me, as I can relate to your sentiments and viewpoints on an esoteric spiritual level. This exact thing happened to me too, and I went the nofap route. We just waited it out, and it happened. It was awesome too. I love this girl so much.
You’re lucky man, I’m 13 and still no girlfriend
@@freddieparrydrums Hey, you're barely 13. I'm 21 and people still call me a baby. Everything is gonna work out if you try real hard man.
Whatever you do as long as you don't watch po*n you're good
Facts bro, DO NOT WATCH FKN PORN!!!
Masturbating one time per month is good😌
Exactly bro, p*rn tricks your mind and you expect something totally different from the real experience!
@@ockertbrits9830 nah maybe like once a day or once every 2 days
@@ockertbrits9830 No, multiple times per week. You need to release the toxins in your prostate through busting nuts. You put yourself at a much greater risk for prostate cancer. Dont be so stupid. You dont use it, you lose it.
@@noremac0575 There isn't any evidence that nofap is harmful. Yes masturbation can release "toxins" and hormones but abstaining from PMO and not releasing isn't going to impact your health. And what does "you dont use it, you lose it" mean?
Video starts at 1:35
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Wow, such a good testimony. That car analogy 🤔 makes sense. I never thought about it like that.
Jordan is the kind of guy to say "i didn't kill her ,the trigger was pulled directed to her head
Love the video. Same type shit happened to me after my 150 day journey but idc I still love doing no fap. My thing was I conditioned my brain basically to think chicks don’t find me sexy it was a terrible mistake. Once a chick found me sexy it like short circuited my brain. I’m not going to make the same mistake again. Nofap is too lit I’m on day 23.
haha thats an interesting mindset XD, thanks for sharing
Today for me marks 8 months. Keep retaining to manifest the life you desire. Work hard, protect your energy, be very careful with the friendships/relationships you keep around you.
Man das hella crazy. But you gotta do what you gotta do, especially if it's the right one. Im gonna go for 9 months just because of this. No homo. Ill be back every week to show my progress. On day 20 rn.
Btw that clippers vs nuggets analogy... BRO the shaaade.
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24 days for me
@@yahoudy1200 I’m about to be on day 24 just been feeling happier in general with this shit
@@yahoudy1200 das how we do bro💪
@@jakematthews257 thats awesome man!