Why Marriage Is Bad For Men - The Marriage Dupe
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- Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024
- The pressure for American men to make the mistake of marriage is profound. Through parents, peers, and various mass media, American men are bombarded with the message that marriage is a good thing for them. It is not. This video explores just the tip of the iceberg as to why men should avoid "The Marriage Dupe."
I am 42, never been married and that is because I have come to know women's dark side, and it is pretty dark. Did you know that around 80 to 90% of married women have affairs that can last for decades, without their spouse ever finding it out. This is a fact that I have come to possess!!! That is right, 80 to 90% are having affairs! I am not making this up, and guess what, they brag about it among their friends. When they enter their death throes of reproductive cycle, that last spike of hormonal surge is misinterpreted as sexual peak and incidentally women are more prone to cheat during mid-life crisis, it is a guarantee, no matter how good a man is, remember, 70% of all divorces are initiated by women. It is time to break the social conditioning.
+George Tsitsiani 30 years old and i wil be heading that way george been in several relationships lived with 2 women for years .. lets just say i learned alot of truth while livin with them. Never again!!!!
+George Tsitsiani Same here. I too know the truth, also screw that stupid brain chemical reaction that clouds judgement! marriage is no better than opting foolishly in to become a slave, marriage is slavery made to sound better, none to mention love is no better than just an annoying emotion that ACTUALLY helps get one into marriage (slavery). And remember what I said about the reaction clouding your judgement? ya it probably stops you from thinking right and no longer becoming aware of the consequences of marriage. My suggestion is don't buy the girl act of being nice (pretending to be nice) and make sure that you avoid any activity around girls, this can greatly reduce the chance of you falling in love( which leads to marriage in the first place!) and make sure that you are not so blind and immature and actually know whats going on so you are aware. Screw marriage, and also avoid any women that may try to trick you. I have no guilt for posting this whatsoever.
George Tsitsiani 80% of statistics are made up. It's pretty pathetic to shoot out statistics with no citations or proof whatsoever. Anybody can do that
Sorry, just to correct one of your facts, 70% of divorces are NOT initiated by women............... It's over 80%!...........
@@MagicJ337 www.divorcesource.com/blog/why-women-file-80-percent-of-divorces/
Got married once, at 21, divorced after 5 years and no way in hell will I ever make that mistake again. I'm glad I learned early on and my marriage didn't last that long. I am luckier than most.
Just Saiyan why did y'all divorce ?
I made the marriage mistake 25 years ago. Got divorced 12 years ago. Still MGTOW today! Only 9 child support payments left ($1,325/MO). Then I can start to build a retirement savings and maybe have a little money to live on.
Don't get married!
+Tony Campbell come check out my channel i have a video called you don't have to pay the bitch one penny
+Tony Campbell $1,325 a month in child support oouch.
+Tony Campbell i was always told when growing up that a man who has a wife and kids is a real man.GLAD I DIDN'T LISTEN!!!
+Walter Strong Is that a fact now ? Or just in a few areas ?
+Tony Campbell You could buy a Ferrari with that kind of monthly payment, or a house of course.
"Every man is allowed to be a sucker once." - Clint Eastwood.
Great video my man! I was a sucker once. Never again. I feel liberated. I've made a 90% recovery.
Not all men can afford to think like Clint!
as for suckers, how can you BECOME one if you already know what the outcomes gonna be?
IMO men work harder, think harder and love harder. Women work at taking advantage of these qualities of men.
Quite refreshing. You brought tears to my eyes!
Its ok baby i brought you a teddy bear to soak up your tears from crying in your eyes.
Women are great to look at. That's about it.
When they are at a certain age.
I was married twice....both were horrible failures......I will die alone before I consider .marriage again.
*I've watched this video a few years ago, and back then I said to myself "Ya know what, he makes a lot of sense here".*
*And NOW... after watching (and subscribing) to many channels around MGTOW, and taking in knowledge of various areas in life (Married men and their attitudes/thoughts), this video now not only makes sense.... it makes DAMN GOOD sense.*
*As men... we benefit in absolutely NO WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM from marriage. All of the benefits that marriage has been said to provide a man, have been found out to be obtainable WITHOUT getting the state, or the courts, or anything that makes your relationship "legitimized".*
*I'm GLAD that this video is still up, and I hope it stays up for a very long time. Because the more men that realize, how the marriage system is NOT setup to benefit them, the better they CAN shape their relationships to be.*
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He's also talking about internal beauty. If I had a wonderful woman, and we aged together, she would be as beuatiful as the day we met in our golden years. Now that I am in my 40's and very sccessful, I find it hard to even consider dating someone my own age. My gut reaction is where were you when you were young and beautiful. Self Improvement is a smart path to go down. I love when a woman approaches me, and i ask what she brings to the table especially when her beauty is but a memory.
The reality is that Marriage has _become_ bad for men. It was good for both parties in the past. It was the Cultural Marxists that founded Feminism who came out of Weimar Germany and goal was the destruction of the healthy social order grounded in Christianity that understood that if you can weaken the family that you can disrupt a whole society. This is why slaveholders sought to sell slave families. They did the same thing by fomenting psychological dissatisfaction and economic incentives.
Because Western women believe they are "achieving" some sought of economic gain is the reason why they are defending this form of Cultural Marxism. But as men fight back by withdrawing from marriage or by expatriating (like the poster) or by more men getting harmed and their female family members witnessing this injustice you'll see a rising resistance to feminism and hopefully the rest of the nefarious agendas of Cultural Marxism.
I've garnered much knowledge up to now at age 31, and I'm aware of things that most aren't. Generally, we are all molded, shaped, fashioned, and formed as a product of our culture. Your tastes, your desires, the way you think, the way you are, etc.. have been conditioned meticulously by propaganda all around you since your birth. I look into most people's eyes and see nothing but enslaved souls, walking around as they've been conditioned to do. Knowing this has given me a form of grace towards people, because I realize they are who they are, from no volition of their own.
“The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country. We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of. In almost every act of our daily lives, whether in the sphere of politics or business, in our social conduct or our ethical thinking, we are dominated by the relatively small number of persons, who understand the mental processes and social patterns of the masses. It is they who pull the wires which control the public mind.” - Edward L. Bernays - 1928 (Propagandist and nephew of Sigmund Freud)
Since we're on a dating site and I see so many women complaining, griping and yelling that no men want commitment these days, I will give an apropos example in regards to what I posted above (with the quote by Edward Bernays). I'll address this issue from my own perspective as a male. We now live in the age of Feminism, which came in during the late 60's. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but, ever since then, CHIVALRY HAS DIED. Men have been trained that women don't truly need us around anymore. What we can get, you women can get now too. Also, we have more divorces than ever before and the MEN get shafted most of the time in the court cases, child custody, having to pay alimony, etc..
This is why you (and so many other women) are having problems finding a man who wants commitment. Women have unrealistic expectations and they're confused as to what role a man should play in a relationship (and in society at large). A female's hormones and biology tell them that a man should be the breadwinner, take charge, be the stronger of the two, be a leader, etc.. while at the same time, their feminist indoctrinated teaching since childhood has told women that they are EQUAL with men and demand that they are respected and treated as such. This has caused major confusion for both men and WOMEN alike. While I'm all for equal rights, the lines have been misconstrued as to what responsibilities a man and woman have in a relationship. Men have subconsciously been trained now that they are not truly needed in the home, other than to help propagate more progeny, hence the rate of single motherhood being off the charts here in America.
Let me also not forget to mention that Gloria Steinem was funded by the CIA and The Rockefeller Foundation. If you know anything about the Rockefellers (along with other upper echelon elites), you'll know that this was their whole plan to begin with. Divide and conquer is their motto. Destabilize society, by breaking up the family unit. Even Hitler was quoted in saying, 'FIRST YOU GET THE WOMEN, THEN YOU'VE GOT THE CHILDREN, SO FOLLOW THE MEN.' This is why they've targeted women, because they are the central part of the home. The two primary goals in breaking up the family was to get women into the workplace (to tax both men and WOMEN), and to get children in school longer, so they can be indoctrinated with many ideas, but primarily to start seeing the 'State' or 'Government' as a parent.
Don't shoot the messenger, I'm just telling you why things are the way they are and why you ladies are hard-pressed to find a man who wants a long lasting relationship.
Dating is a prelude to a relationship, but the all prevalent notion, 'YOU WANT WHAT YOU CAN'T HAVE' comes to mind when I think of relationships. Women say they want to fall in love, but I think they are more in love with the IDEA of being in love. Once a man reciprocates and falls in love with a woman, she loses interest, and falls out of love (or takes his love for granted, or BOTH). This is obviously a generalization and doesn't mean it's like this for everyone, but in a general sense, it's true. Most of you reading this right now, don't even know it's true for you too. But a little introspection of your past relationships (as well as your present ones) and you'll think, 'WOW, THAT DUDE FROM POF WAS RIGHT...."
Women have 'FLINGS' just like men do, except, men have flings for one night, women have flings for 6 MONTHS. When the honeymoon stage has worn off, or the guy has made a few mistakes, she puts him in the doghouse for life, becomes cold, and starts looking elsewhere.
And before you ask, 'YOU MUST'VE BEEN HURT OR CHEATED ON HUH?'
I needn't look at my own relationship history to figure out that most people are incapable of staying committed for the long haul. Go look up the divorce rate in America. I rest my case...
Folks put their hand on a Bible or put a priest in front of many witnesses (their friends and family) and make a vow (which that Bible tells them not to do in the first place) that they'll love each other for better or FOR WORSE, through sickness and in health, til DEATH do them part. Then within a few years, they've been divorced and remarried. Some of them, multiple times. Then they'll make excuses, such as their partner cheating on them, so in their mind, they believe they have legal right and moral right (according to the Bible), to divorce because of infidelity.
According to the Bible, Jesus did say you could divorce if there was adultery, but that's not the VOW that you made. You made a vow to be with each other no matter what (better or WORSE) until death do you part. According to your own VOW, you are obligated to stay faithful to them no matter how many times they committed adultery or cheated, or abused or lied, etc.. Your vow is independent of the other person's vow. Therefore, stop making marriage vows / oaths / promises. Simply let your Yes be Yes and your No be No. Stop making vows you can't keep. (Matthew 5:31-37) Same in court too BTW. If they ask you to place your hand on the Bible and swear to tell the truth, simply open the bible and read Matthew 5:33-37 out loud.
If so many are able to break a vow with such ease, it's easy to see why I'm jaded towards LOVE these days. You don't see couples sticking it out for 30, 40, 50+ years like they used to.
Mark Church On the point of "commitment" this is a canard. Women by far TERMINATE the relationship. Women file for divorce at a rate of 4:1 over men and the primary reason is "dissatisfaction" -- not adultery; not abandonment; not abuse; and the allowable reasons when FAULT divorce existed. They are being encourage into this form of narcissism and hedonism by Feminism and cultural Marxism. Women are being told that "divorce" is "liberating" but in reality it is extremely abusive towards men and families -- which is the real intent of cultural Marxism. This is why marriage as currently constructed in law (law that have been changed by feminists and cultural Marxists) makes marriage extremely risky and DISEMPOWERING and risky for men today.
You have opened up a line of thought.
Yes, marriage was a great thing when I got married - but that was in the 70's. Now the contract is poisonous for men. But like commercial contracts, if it isn't good for BOTH parties they will a) Fail or b) not happen.
that is why so many marriages fail and younger men are not signing up.
As for other woman's perspective on how men are abused by the system I have seen the reaction of my female relatives & friends and they are very sympathetic to me over my divorce, it's effects and how my wife behaved.
Tancred de Beaumanoir The one thing that needs to happen to strengthen marriage is the repeal of "no-fault" divorce and the restoration of fault divorce.
My motto has always been: "I can be alone my whole life, or be alone my whole life and pay alimony."
Had to listen to this vid again to remind myself why I'm not married. The friends I have that are married wish they were single and the ones who lived together and planned on marriage have second thoughts. Good vid.
Brain chemistry, phukk'n brain chemistry! AND, it takes about 18 months for that shit to wear off to the point where you can think clearly about that precious princess who is now sporting an engagement ring and looking about for a wedding dress. And even if you manage to stay married for ten years or more the chances you'd describe your marriage as "excellent" are razor thin. The huge overwhelming numbers of married people, when allowed to answer anonymously, will describe their marriage as "average" and the first synonym for "average" you'll see in your dictionary is "mediocre". Most guys, believe it or not, will settle for "mediocre". It sure as hell beats getting dragged into divorce court to get your bank account RAPED by child support payments and/or alimony. Your best bet is stand at the train station of love and wait for that next train that's ALWAYS coming down the track! I'm 72 years old and I'll go to my grave kick'n myself in the ass for being such a fool over "love". Brain chemistry, why didn't somebody just tell me it was nothing but phukk'n brain chemistry? Never mind, I shudda figerd it out for myself.
You can lose lots of money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money.
Are other women really this bad now!?! I'm a woman, and I am in the middle of a divorce. I made it explicitly clear, that my stuff is mine and his, his. Anything we bought together, is also his. I've been this way with all my relationships. No joint anything! I don't have kids, but I had a cat that became attached to one of my ex bfs, so I decided we should share her he gets her for 2 weeks then me for 2 weeks. I've even been the sole bread winner in some cases.
Why buy a cow, when you can get all the milk you need in bottles!
modern day typical marriage in north america is what you discribe for the most part. Some of us (women) see our man as a partner &build a life together. I agree, most of my married girlfriends expect and demand way more than they give. women in many cases have become mean selfish and entilted without realizing that the benefit of marrige is leaning on each other- taking care of your husband, putting his needs first like he does yours. NOT every one of us has become what you protest, peace :)
How can we hold them accountable to the law when the enforcement of the law is so lenient on them. Men and women are held to the same legal standard only in theory.
Yes, my lawyer told me that, in theory, under British law we are both equal..
...however you have a penis, so forget that fantasy.
That is incredible. Yours is a story many young men need to hear before they let their emotions lead them to the same result. Thank you for being courageous enough to sharing that experience with us. Best of luck as you proceed through this temporary ordeal.
and Marriage is on the all time low now
MGTOW Mirror costs the government projectively 500k per mgtow video mgtow is rising.
Marriage is just another name for "legalized prostitution" or "grandiose wealth transfer scheme". I would just as soon marry something I use every day, like a car for instance. Marrying a woman is tantamount to signing a one-sided contract that will leave you bankrupt for the rest of your lives.
Marriage is idolizing a vagina, it is a trap the human trap aaaahhhhh
how do you recover from a marriage if you decide to get a divorce? she'll more then likely take everything from you. there's no recovering from that shit.
I am 17 years old. Often have I contemplated whether or not marriage is something i should blindly pick like so many beyond me. I was leaning towards staying away from it, as I have seen what a toll it has taken on my father before me...and this only confirms my realization of what a trap it truly is. Thank you for steeling my resolve.
Yeah, I know, or at least I think I do. I've already started noticing the mental stuff happening, even with'em at my own age...kinda crazy how young they start'em.
Well thats the plan right now. Staying away from the trap that is marriage, and the enormous risk that having kids is.
wait until you're 28 before you even consider marriage. If you can, wait til you're 30--it's not old.
Women will always change for the worst once they get you to sign the legal contract. The less attachment a man has to a woman the happier he will be. Mgtow for life!
Watch "Divorce Corp." (2014 documentary). It sheds a light excellently to the insanity of divorce courts in the US.
+Thimmet ive watched it twice. its viewing should be required of ALL men
2 things: 1. ive been skeptical about Marriage all my life, even at 30 years old.
2. When this guy says women do not stay in the same attractive state they were in when you first fall for them. I dont think hes talking about when women lose their looks as they get older, that happens to everyone. I think hes referring to "bait and switch". When women look their best until you marry them
Put all your assets in a corporation nobody can prove you own. Pretend you rent your house, so she doesn't want to get it.
women need men more than men need women.. just like James Brown said, this.is a man's world.. why do you think so many married guys are gay now? Cus they are tired of putting up with women.. women make men miserable.. I honestly don't know any of my friends that are married and happy.. singles guys are happy.. the best times in my life are being single.. my brother used to be the funniest most happiest guy I know and for the 5 yrs he been with his chick he looks miserable.. he only laughs and smiles when she's gone
You say the smartest of us make the mistake once however the smartest are the one who have never made the mistake by learning from other peoples mistakes
Take out the legality of marriage. Make all prenups mandatory with no chance of them being reversed by a judge. And ladies, get off your sense of entitlement. Maybe then will men say yes to marriage.
Mine is not a feeling at all, it is a conclusion based on empirical evidence and common sense. That you see marriage as nearly perfect institution tends to show that you too are brainwashed by the media and pop culture.
Smart men are seeing the light by remaining unmarried.
I was watching this video and at first, I thought it was going to be just another anti-marriage video, which are all the rage now. But then I noticed the date. This video is over seven years old. You created an anti-marriage video ahead of the curve.
And you're absolutely right. Depending on the state you live in, a woman who divorces you will get your house, your car, and your kids (except on alternate weekends). She will get half your income, plus child support. If you have retirement, she will get ALL of that. If you have savings and investments, she will get those, too. Not half of them. ALL of them.
Basically, the courts ENCOURAGE women to divorce their husbands. At the first sign of difficulty, women can simply decide. "I get half his income, the house, the car, the kids, all his retirement, investments and savings if I just divorce him."
But imagine her attitude if the courts suddenly started telling women, "You get out of divorce only what you brought into marriage, and an equal split of jointly acquired assets." She'd be much more motivated to work on her marriage difficulties if she realized that he's going to keep his house, car, retirement, investment and savings, and she's not going to get any alimony, if she divorces him.
Yes, that video was quite controversial then, but the viewpoint is becoming almost mainstream now. It is a view that has resonated more strongly over the years and I am quite gratified about that.
ContrarianExpatriate I think you should be. You were MGTOW before MGTOW was cool.
My brotha. Let me ask you something. What country do you live in? I listen to this video each and every time I even THINK of getting into a relationshit with a broad. This video is the cold shower in the morning after a drunken night. I am going to come up soon after suing a feminist. I will only move to a non feminist nation. I was thinking Brazil. Do you have any suggestions?
As far as suggestions, the countries of the Anglosphere are the worst in terms of feminism. Northern and Western Europe are horribly bad too.
Stick to Central and Eastern Europe, Latin America (If you are white), and Asia.
I travel around the world and move all the time so the world is my oyster.
Thanks for the advice. I want to stick to the Black woman. I have zero interest in a Black feminist. Have you been to Africa or a nation with a high Black population? Like yourself, I want to read about what is going on in America. I do not want to remain here in The Matrix forever.
I don’t marry because the laws are so lopsided in favor of women. If things don’t work out I am screwed financially & I have to pay the price for her poor choices/decisions in life.
I might consider marriage if she would sign a prenup, but most women don’t want to because it makes things fair and forces them to take responsibility for their actions.
They don’t want to “women up” so to speak
If you ask her to sign a prenup you might hear things like, “If you really loved me you wouldn’t ask me sign such a document”. Well the same could be said to her also. If she loved you she wouldn’t ask you to sign such a one sided document called marriage in her favor either.
I am not asking for things to be unfair, I just want a level playing field & things fair for both of us. Women keep saying that they are equal don’t they?
You also might hear, “You’re expecting the marriage to fail or you wouldn’t be asking me to sign this”. She might throw in some tears for effect. Again this could be turned around to say, “If you weren’t expecting to “screw me” you would sign the prenup. So am I to understand that you don’t want to sign this prenup so that in the event things don’t work out you can screw the hell out of me? See what I am saying? All this could be turned around & thrown right back at her.
If she argues these very valid points with you, that should tell you where her head is & you should really think about taking a “time out” and consider what you are about to do. Do you really want to legally connect yourself to a person who wants the cards stacked in her favor, nothing for you, everything for her, and won’t sign a document changing this to make it fair? She won’t’ sign a prenup agreeing not to screw you if “things” don’t work out? Sounds a little selfish & one sided to me. Just saying.
This entitlement behavior/mentality shows that she is selfish & only thinking of herself. She wants all the marbles, wants to be in control, and will hand out only what marbles she allows you to have.
If she won't sign a document making things fair & equal this shows that money is more important to her than love. It also shows that the marriage is not her primary concern, she is more concerned with material things and what she can get, not what she is bringing to the table, if anything at all. She’s a taker not a giver.
She’s asking you to sign a document that says if things don’t work out she can screw you. If she really loved you she wouldn’t ask you to sign such an unbalanced document and would want what is fare for you and herself. Not all the rules and everything in her favor and nothing for you and you get screwed legally and financially.
She gets the car, the house, the kids, half if not more of your savings you earned before you married her (Paul McCartney anyone?), child support, half your retirement, future income, alimony, bad mouths you to the kids, makes you out to be a monster to the court so that you have limited access to your children or supervised visits. What kind of moron would enter into a contract like that outside of marriage? So why should it be any different in marriage?
She’s asking you to sign a document that says if things don’t work out she can screw you. If she wasn’t expecting to screw you why would she ask you sign such a document? If she was only thinking of love and not money and material things, then turn off the tears “Honey” and sign the prenup.
Oh but now you’re being accused of taking all the romance out of it by asking her to sign a prenup that makes things level and fair for both of you. She can’t have that. Well, she could also be accused of taking the romance out of it by making money and material things more important to her than this vague “love” that she is talking about. If she truly is in love with you then why is she so concerned about getting at least half your stuff if things don’t work out? Doesn’t she think the marriage will last? She’s taking all the romance out of it by insisting you agree to give her half your stuff plus more if it doesn’t work out.
She might say, “If you really love me you would marry me”.
You could respond, “Okay, I’ll prove my love to you and marry you, & if you really love me you will sign this prenup agreeing not to screw me. When she starts crying and saying that you don’t love her, remind her that if she “really” loved you she wouldn’t be concerned about money and material things and would sign the prenup.
If she really loved you, she would sign the prenup.
Enough said.
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50% of marriages end in divorce and in most of these divorces men pay all alimony and get half their shit taken this is why more and more men are boycotting marriage we roll the dice and find it to be not worth it
Anything that prevents men from being exploited by women in marriage is a darn good thing. As to your comment that women have the "power" to make more money than men, I retort, but most never will.
Women can sqawk about power all they wish, but most of them still languish in part-time, labor-lite jobs that require little skill or thought...... ....And they always will!
I have watched and listened to many videos on You Tube and I don't believe that I've watched any that rings truer than this one. This chap is right on the mark. Any man who allows himself to be impressed into a modern marriage deserves...and very likely will get...everything he has coming to him. How do I know? I went through it. I finally got out after 13 years and have remained single ever since (26 years). I have remained single and I'm very happy. I'd never marry again. Not ever!
I got married AND got divorced. BOTH experiences were WONDERFUL!
@birthdayring Those "benefits" are illusory and misleading. The fact is that most men who marry are already more healthy and wealthy, however, they are less so because of marriage. Any "study" that claims marriage is good for men is not worth the paper it is printed on.
@PageofLegend Absolutely correct. Feminists are unconcerned with not having to register for the draft while many men are imprisoned for not doing so. Feminists never mention paternity leave rights for men, so long a women can take maternity leave at will. Feminists never mention sentencing disparities between men and women because they just don't give a darn.
Well, the tide is turning and the charade is coming to a horrific demise.
there is absolutely NO REASON.... to get married....... or start a family.... in this country....anymore. any guy whos having 0 luck finding someone in this country (myself included) needs to jump on those foreign languages, grab a passport , make tons of cash, and LEAVE this place.....and DO NOT come back! besides, the way things are goin' now, 10 years from now we may not have a country to come back TO! assuming this country even last another year that is. i am DEAD SERIOUS!
I'm divorced. Lost my home, family, money and nearly my sanity all because the greedy vindictive bitch I was married to ' changed ' and was supported by equally greedy and vindictive verbal prostitutes. I don't know who was the cruelest, my ex wife or the lawyers, both sucked the life out of me.
Marriage = commerical contract + fairy tale.
Do not forget that.
Damn it man, I found that to be sooo true. I was with a woman who I felt was fine. I felt that every time I got near her, I wanted her clothes off for sex..I wanted to kiss her, hold her. I found out 6 months later, she was still cute, but I knew too much about her. In your 3:15 area, I was that guy who married 3 times and it was sooo stupid of me to marry every cute woman I met. The best thing is to date. You may spend $50 to $300 in maybe 2 or 3 dates, but you will not be strapped with child support and other stupid shit we men get anchored to
C'mon man, the difference between a hooker and a so called date, the hooker wants the money up front. When you go on dates and spend money on her, you are advertising the ability of paying alimony and/or child support. Granted, if both parties are attractive or not, the woman have the advantage. They are not obligated to offer sex for dinner. After all, the man invited the woman for company. If you hoping to get sex on the first date and get none, you'd probably should have called a hooker. At least they have the money you gave her to eat! Our penis needs a companion and the body part we have been neglecting that brings these two together is our hand. Make that two hands if you are hung like a King Kong!
Ross Geller, is that you?!
This is the first time I've heard a woman who grows out of her cuteness after marriage likened to a puppy who grows out of its cuteness, demands greater upkeep as a grown dog and is no longer wanted by its master for whatever reasons, with such abandoned dogs the very ones found at the pound, but damn it, the analogy fits! Bro, you called this one right; and I'm a woman saying this!
Yeah, they do, because the only thing put in a girl’s head from birth -- and usually with no contributing self-sufficiency of her own -- is the acquisition of a husband and children, with every woman’s biological clock ending at age 50 and menopause fueling this urgency.
But thanks to man’s ability to father children until old-age death, the only thing put in a boy’s head from birth is *sexual irresponsibility with its urging to dishonor his procreative seed and the virginity of every potential wife-to-be in mere want of the temporary enjoyment of the ejaculation of his seed with no reward of children* - and the earliest in age he can corrupt himself and whatever girl of his experimentation and the more non-wife virgins he can dishonor as himself and unwanted babies with he can keep them all unclean for life, the better.
men kiss woman: police case
woman kiss men: it's flirting
Thank you, sir. All men need to listen to this.
if women want to get married, then they should propose!
IF, as women here are claiming, marriage is a good thing and divorce is not so lopsided and biased. Why are men the only ones with an anti marriage movement, and women are getting pissy about it? Because the only difference in marriage, and just cohabitating is that piece of paper. The insurance policy. The lottery ticket. There is no argument against this. Period.
20 - 30 years down the road she's going to be nothing like the cute thing you chased after but your money will spend just as good.
Hell, marriage isn't all hearts and flowers for women either. I'm feeling a bit trapped until my daughter grows up. I just can't break her heart like that. My husband probably feels the same way.
if some random woman ever asked ME, "Isn't it a WONDERFUL day to be in love?" Im gonna say, "I wouldnt know, never BEEN in love. Im 29 years old and ive never felt that way about anyone." Well, ive had plenty of crushes but its never gone any further. Its like being in love is an emotion that wasnt wired into my brain
If you are unfortunate enough to have a girlfriend or fiancee, and she tries to coerce you into marriage, just tell her the TRUTH:
That marriage (as defined by the Supreme God) is against the "law" because under the so-called "law" of the state, a man is not permitted to exercise his God-given authority as head of the house in any way, shape or form.
Never even think about marrying an American woman.
You sir, deserve a standing ovation. Amen!
Ive just bought started reading Nietzsche and recognise the image so im guessing we may have similar views. Where have you travelled to in Asia and eastern Europe?
You have hit the nail on the head. Sadly most men will never come to this realization to their great detriment.
Esther Vilar wrote "The Manipulated Man" which details this motivation to dupe in women. This book should be required reading for any man planning to marry.
mere property? historically speaking women were the most valuable commodity to walk to earth. men are worth the labor they provide, but the value of a woman is far greater than he can achieve through a lifetime of work. men traditionally inherit property in an attempt to compensate for his lack of value in a marriage. basically if he didn't have something worth marrying over, he didn't get married. however the woman was assumed to have intrinsic value even if she had no property.
thanks mate for this audio. I've made a good good point, thank you
The first thing my Wife did in our marriage is quit working and didn't care to ever work again. She is divorcing me now after six years and 2 children because I'm never around. I have to work 10 to 14 hours a day sometimes 6 days a week not because I want to but because I have to make enough money for four people and pay child support from a previous marriage. Listen Gentlemen do not get married!
Thanks for the video. Sometimes I get lonely and wish I could hug and kiss a nice girl but then need to realize the price is too high and makes no rational sense. This video is a good reminder.
absolutely, when I met my ex I had a house, boat and nice car, 6 years later I had $54k of debt, no house no boat and cheap car plus 2 kids costing me $1200 per month in child support, 3 years on I am almost debt free and determined it will not happen again.
Had I had a cystal ball I would have had a vasectomy at the age of 16
I have seen more men who crash and burn than I'd care to remember. I knew it within myself that this was not what I wanted for myself. Even so, my own mother grieves me with marriage proposals(that is, nagging the shit out of me to go marry someone).
But my dad sees nothing wrong with me being unmarried(he's on his third marriage now). "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" was his frequent advice.
"To those in successful, happy marriages, it DOESN'T MATTER how skewed the legal system is in favor of women."
It SHOULD matter though. That's the point. There is no balance of power.
What do you mean by "dead beat Dad?" A father who has been unilaterally expelled from the family by his wife? The same father who lives in poverty to pay ex-wife support? Marriage is an evil alliance of the government and woman to act in the best interest of the woman and against the man. The best interest of the children is not a consideration and never has been.
after my divorce I was hit hard for child support. Had to move in with my brothers extra room. Took an extra job at night to driving Domino's pizza to help make ends meet. And when my ex found out, she hauled me back into court to more CS money. they added $46 more each week, almost half of my take home money, so I quit, and went back to court for lower modification. They said no, since I demonstrated that I can potentially make more money for my kids. Dont get married
i don't even tell people my story because people find it so hard to believe what my X and the court system has done to me !
@embracingreality You are quite fortunate to have honest married men around you. Most married men are in denial about their misery and they perpetuate the myth of marital bliss to justify their own poor decisions.
Marriage is a rental agreement that requires you to keep paying even after you no longer possess the car. Often - even after some other man is driving it.
Marriage AS WE KNOW IT is a religious construct so you are right, but only in a round-about way. Marriage within itself isn't the issue. The legality behind marriage literally limits a man's ability to act through legal means successfully. Our society and legal system has deemed women more fit to raise children, while simultaneously stating that these women need assistance through child support. Now if she's more capable of raising the kids, shouldn't she be able to provide for them?
I was saying the same thing too from a young age, and my parents saying the exact same thing. Now I am 28 and still single, and it's co-workers saying the same thing my parents used to. What age do I have to reach before they will finally be like "whoa, guess you are really serious about the whole not getting married thing!"
I almost got married in 1992. But I bailed out in the nick of time. Best decision I ever made.
My dad told me to stay single and I listened. Cool vid. :)
I post this to inform the public about the current antiquated alimony laws still in existence around the country. This is my alimony horror story. In the no fault divorce state of Florida, the ex had many adulterous affairs with other women (while pregnant with the second and last child) and including her incestuous relationship with her own 20 year old female cousin. She gets rewarded for this and her changed sexual orientation with lifetime alimony by the Hillsborough County Court (Tampa Case No: 05-DR-013627) and I get punished financially. How is this right and just? It certainly isn't and the time to fix such an injustice is now. The duplicity continues and she blogs and writes as well as conducts her day to day life under an assumed last name, only using her legal last name on the driver's license and to cash the hefty checks I write. If you are outraged about this avaricious hypocrite, please get involved to fight the unjust alimony laws around the country. There is no reason why a judge can't order her to return to the workforce. She is a four year university graduate. The children are adults and no longer living in the home. There's no reason why an able bodied, healthy, educated woman can't be instructed by new law and guidelines to fully financially support herself.
Please support alimony reform.
Elvina and Lee Kallett of St. Pete Beach, FL - Pays lifetime alimony to woman unable to remarry Lee Kallett of St. Pete Beach, FL - Pays $4K in permanent alimony to lesbian ex-wife Lee Kallett of St. Pete Beach, FL - Pays $4K in permanent alimony to lesbian ex-wife
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This is Lee Kallett and Elvina Kallett. He pays permanent alimony to a woman who left the marriage because she chose to live a lesbian
I wonder about the average lifespan of men in the following circumstances:
- Never Married
- Married
- Divorced
- Divorced Twice
We are told that women lived longer than men, but stressed-out single moms have got to have closed the gap. Maybe even women who "have it all" with executive job, kids, and husband have taken a hit.
If only I had seen this video before my marriage.
Very true, a friend of mine once told me of a time he had sex with his girlfriend (who had agreed that they did not want any children) after the sex, she excused herself to the bathroom (after he had gone himself to dispose of the condom) he headed out of the room for something else and saw her in the bathroom quickly trying to extract the semen from the condom. Insanely scary.
@warwolfii I wish more men had the courage to acknowledge the mistake of marriage, but suck is rare. Younger men could immeasurably gain from their insight, but instead, most formerly-married men are content to repeat their errors until it lands them in the poor house and an early grave.
Thank you for sharing the wisdom of your experience here. Clear-thinking men would be smart to take heed.
@ManSpeakOut Very well said! your completely correct. I cant believe more isnt being done in general to stop the cycle its pretty much going to end the family as we know it.
If you are happily married (and I doubt you really are), good for you. Let's see if you have the same opinion in ten years.
You got that right. American women must be viewed as a rotten monolith. Even though there may be exceptions to the vile norm, the fact that these exceptions can choose to unjustly bring down the power of the state against men is the reason that they ALL must be viewed as a menace to the well-being of men.
Professional. In shape Former model but working with my BBA in Finance. I live like a king and have no complaints but looking to move abroad - my german is good. Thoughts on expatriating brother? Any reputable forums or resources you can link me to?
RE:Think The best resource is HappierAbroad.com which is a community of like-minded men who see life as do you. However, the decision to expat is one thing, where to actually go is another. I would recommend you do some exploratory traveling before you decide. Don't listen to country recommendations from others who I find to be universally wrong.
Good luck......
ContrarianExpatriate Been to Germany a bunch. Have a ton of friends there I love it more everytime I go.
Thank you!
If only i met you six years ago.
Another problem about this is that our society also puts pressure on our men to get married.
Currently in my own life I face constant pressure by my mother and sister that I go out and find a girlfriend.
What they do not know though is that I have already tried and ran into women of which I questioned their priorities often, I did some reading and checked into this further, this is when I discovered the truth.
thank you so much for warning other men about this. I am currently going throught the woodchipper (family court: were lawyers and judges only care about fees, fees and more feesand perpetuate the conflict by giving emotional, vindictive, selfish, and destructive women all the power). If only one man is spared this emotional (you go numn after a while out of dispair) and financial nightmare (have spent so much money don't even know how I will recovery) it will be worth it.
That is correct. I suggest you do some research on family courts in the US and their power to destroy men who will not or cannot pay huge monthly sums to the unwed mothers of their children.
In many ways, having children out of wedlock has worse consequences than being married without children.
Marriage exposes you to alimony payments and the risk of false allegations of domestic abuse when the wife can't get her way, but more men are jailed for lack of child support payments.
"Married" and "poison" is the same word in Danish (gift). Coincidence? I think noot...
I feel you brother on the never getting married again part but not the never be with a woman part.
providing if i ever DO date again, on my first date, im just gonna tell my date up front; "If your looking for husband, IM not the guy for you." and see how much longer she stays with me.
Just my opinion; marriage is good if you're "working together", you have "joint ventures" and you're not stuck with some selfish person. You have to take your time, especially these days, get to know them first (friends first) and it's a must that you can both communicate openly. I believe everyone has some type of hurt, habit or hang-up which is why you have to get to know them. I've been single again for more than five years and I love it, but i love "the concept of marriage"; however, seems these days the concept has faded a great deal. If i got to know that one woman who believes in the above mentioned issues I would do it again, but there'd be no rush. It seems we've lost the idea of "you and I against the world" and/or the concept of have that "better-half" who has our backs against bad bosses, silly friends, nasty co-workers, etc, etc.
@pyramidhead138 The bubblegum analogy is a good one. I think you are well along the correct path in ensuring your well-being and wealth. Marriage destroys that in men.
Great work, I made a similar video and you made a positive comment
That's one way of looking at it. I prefer the practice of "serial monogamy" with the relationship lasting as long as both people find it mutually fulfilling. But the minute the woman changes for the worse, the man is free to go without legal and financial consequence.
Hey, I'm a young guy and I love women to put it bluntly basically for the sex. I absolutely agree with your ideology on marriage but I do have a question. Theoretically if I wanted to have a child but I wanted to avoid marriage what could I do? I don't want to be a baby daddy to some low quality woman, and women whom I would want to have a baby with would do so on the condition that they imprison me in marriage. Do you have an answer around this?
find a woman who loves you. one who would do anything for you. not all women will con you into marrying. my bf and I have been together about 5 years. we have a 2 1/2 yr old daughter. I use to ask him when are we gunna get married? but after a while I quit asking. I quit wanting to be married, because of the problems that can come with it. although, at times I do wish we were married for the benefits, I know it's not gunna happen any time soon.
also, if you do get married, while she still loves you and doesn't want to ruin your life, make her sign a prenuptial agreement so she can't take anything from you. marriage is a commitment to someone. but you commit to someone without being legally bound to it.
At that moment I then put on the brakes on a lot of things, and saved myself from walking down the same path many men have, the path of self destruction.
Every time now when my mother and sister hit me with pressure to find a relationship, I hit them with the facts as to why I am being hesitant, like many other men of my generation. Ironically they never step up to challenge my beliefs, because they don't disagree, I don't know but that there proves this pressure needs to end now.
It works for many so I don't think your arguments are that valid
As if the marriage license is what makes it work. Show me any relationship that couldn't be exactly that same as it is without marriage. marriage does nothing. It often makes the relationship worse. It had been found that long term relationships out of marriage are happier.
Why are people clinging to the idea of marriage being a good thing? it can only be one or two things. you either see the power that marriage gives you over the man and use it to your selfish needs, or you are just brainwashed into thinking marriage makes a relationship better or is necessary for a good relationship. What is scary is that most women think at least one of those things.
It does not work for far, far more so your argument is dead on arrival.
Women can sometimes go down dark alleys without getting raped. So it's bad advice to tell women to be cautious as to where they walk at night. Nice try, gal.
Tell me how marrying; paying money to a vagina, wpuld work? Huhh
Please check out the Tom Leykis Show at www.blowmeuptom.com if you have interest in these kinds of issues. He is spot on.
i don't know who screwed you over (cause i'm sure some chick broke your heart or left you pennyless after a divorce) but i don't agree that marriage is a bad thing. my parent are happily married for 22 years and they never had a serious fight. and the secret is this: don't marry someone only for their looks. you can have attraction on a mental level too.
...Did i miss something, or is there like almost 6 straight minutes of complete silence after the 4:21 mark..? O.o
The Silence is the sound of dead men from being killed and sucked dry by their wives
+OtherSyde That is a moment of silence for all the men currently suffering from the inane nagging of some special snowflake.
Done I'm not marrying now
Take it from me, I am a single father of twins not getting squat from my sons mother and society enables her to feel like she will never face consequences for being a deadbeat like men do all the time. NEVER GET MARRIED!. Preserve your freedom, your wealth, your energy, your sense of hope in life and every dream you have of accomplishing anything and don't lock yourself down with a woman who can legally rob you of all that and your soul.