Hey everyone 👋🏾. My apologies for the white noise in the background while I am speaking. It was loud outside, but I didn’t want that to stop me from making this video. Thank you for watching!
They are just fun girls. Men know that these ladies are problems. Meb in other country: If men in America don't want you, Why should we take on problems?
The simple truth is that the men who move overseas looking for a wife are fully prepared to 100% provide for that family. They don't expect that Thai or Brazilian woman to contribute financially at all and they are totally fine with that. Women, in general, are NOT looking for this kind of arrangement. No woman wants to move to a third world country to financially support a man. Black women need to stop with the passport thing and accept that they are NOT men.
Appreciate your messages you make me look at black women different coming from a 26 year old black man growing up around nothing black women currently I only date white and foreign women like Mexican only for the submissive nature but thank you
I live in Europe and over here I see White European men paired with BW quite often. However, and this is an important distinction, I don't see the men with American BW. These men are attracted to BW from Europe, the West Indies, and Africa. I'm going to be very blunt here - American women don't have a great reputation globally and American BW even less so. The stereotype of course is loud, obese, aggressive, and classless. I don't say this is fair and I certainly agree it's a stereotype. But unfortunately over here we see it a lot. So if American BW are deciding to do the passport thing, I think they would be well advised to make sure that stereotype doesn't come over here with them and is left back in the States.
People can’t tell your American from looking at you. If you’re already presenting yourself well it probably won’t matter if you’re from the USA if you make a good impression. My husbands family is Soviet (Russian & Ukrainian) but he and his sibling were born it the US. My in laws care very much about the way you appear to be raised, manners, how you present yourself, your natural demeanor, values etc. if you tick the boxes you tick the boxes. If you don’t, you don’t.
Filipino and columbian and african women are black. they themselves are negro so how so are you not continuing black family. when your child will come out with black skin. and both culture are built by the black people .
Black American men are the *least* patriarchal men (which had its pros and cons). If you’re dating overseas, be prepared to be evaluated by patriarchal standards.
@@Haz2288 you said black American men are the least patriarchal men. You either didn't comprehend my question or you didn't comprehend your own statement
They wouldn’t need a “career break” if they weren’t so busy trying to be like men. Certain weights women were not created to carry. This is why the “strong Black woman” narrative is crushing Black women. They are shouldering responsibilities and circumstances they are not designed for.
Question do you have daughters?, I have son and daughter. if you have a daughter and she told you as a Father. She wanted to become an F1 Stealth bomber pilot. Would you tell your daughter no?
@@johnsonedgar333 No, I don’t have daughters but if I did I would not discourage them from being a pilot. There are female pilots in the military. That is not uncommon. However, my post does not imply that women cannot be pilots. Rather, it challenges the ridiculous notion that women and men are interchangeable. They are most definitely not. There are things in this world that women were not created to do nor designed to do. There is nothing wrong with that. It doesn’t make them inferior or superior. Men and women were created to complement one another and not compete. Basically, what we are witnessing in modern times is men and women in rebellion against the roles assigned to them from God from the beginning. And as you can see, our rebellion is not working out too well for either of us.
@@krispyqwiff8161 Yes, there are women flying fighter jets in America. However, jobs/profession such as pilots, firefighter, police officers NFL referees. Were once considered to be the province of jobs strictly for men. Once the artificial barriers were removed. Women could have been doing those " male" jobs all long. Now on the biological and anatomical tip. Men and women are different. For me there is no debate on that. Chromosomes matter. I watch the NBA. I don't watch the WNBA. There is a reason for that. My point is gender should not be a barrier to ambition and opportunity. As for "God" I am not a "religious person. However, I think the friction that exist between the Black men and the Black women is rooted in the ideology of "white supremacy".
This proves that a lot of women can't find their own way and are followers. They try to be masculine like a man. Adopt men sexual mannerism, like a man. Be vulgar, like some men. Be hyper money driven to prove to some men. become a passport bro...like a man. So many women are followers, not all but the majority. If something is trendy, they will follow. Hence why they spend years of their lives unsuccessfully finding themselves.
They are ULTIMATE FOLLOWERS. They actually follow the worst trends; weave, nails, bbls, makeup, lashes, etc. They only allow other women to judge them sp they follow suit and do what others do.
Lol this video hits close to home. Finding a partner is a challenge in general. I’m married now to man from Cuba. For context, I’m a professional Black Caribbean-American woman from the South. I already knew Spanish due to the area in which I live, the schools I went to, my friends, and my paternal grandparents being Cuban and Panamanian. I met my husband through his cousin one day when I was doing some solo kayaking. The whole K-1 visa process is a headache and I literally have some PTSD over it and the trauma of dealing with the politics between the US and Cuba. It’s not for everyone, but anything worth having is worth fighting for. I discussed with my husband what advice he would give to an American woman looking for love. These are the conclusions we came too: "Be a good person so you attract good people. Know your values so you can find someone who shares those values. That matters more than their race, language, nationality, etc. Love trumps all. It is better to find someone through a mutual connection, if possible, for accountability purposes. At least the person will have been vetted somewhat. It is best to find someone who has similar education and political views as you. Make sure to have compatible views on gender roles or it just won't work! Also, engaging in your hobbies will help you find like-minded people who may share similar values. Love will find you when you are not actively searching for it, but working on yourself. Don’t just sleep with just anyone. Get to know them first. See how they treat themselves, friends, strangers, family, animals, nature, etc so you have an idea how they will treat you. Take care of yourself. Keep your body healthy and clean. No one wants to sleep with someone stinky (his words 😂). Love yourself so you will radiate love. There are scammers in Latin America and in the Caribbean too, so going over there is not necessarily going to be successful. There is some sickness in this US society. Communities are broken and there is not as much love between neighbors. Society is more connected in Cuba. People are very distracted here due to easy access to drugs, porn, and prostitution. As you date, you will fall on rocks, but every rock will make you stronger and more discerning (this is a translation of a Spanish saying). When you find a partner, don’t listen too much to what other people say. Work on cultivating the love between you and your partner. Be a united front when people try to tear you down. Respect each other. Love each other. Communicate early and often. Have fun together; laugh always. Avoid fighting.” I’ve also noticed there is just too much toxic division between the sexes here in America. In Cuba they don’t have all this divestment/red pill rhetoric. I’m actually thankful that my husband is not aware of all this negativity. Because it doesn’t really serve any other purpose than to cause strife. Lowkey it is very anti-Black Love (hella sus) and spiritually damaging. I've never heard Cuban men speak badly about their women or vice versa. American society needs a healing.
@@Luxebarbie I had time yesterday lol. Just wanted to spread some positivity and realness. This is a very relevant and important topic. I am thankful that Ms. Onyilofor is bringing this up. Thank you, sweetie 💗.
Hang in there. Soon he will find out how things work here when you divorce him and take house kids and his last penny thru child support and alimony and he will be put in jail if he can’t pay. When he is broke, homeless and his own kids hate him because you tell them their father is a loser, he too will become red pill and will avoid women for rest of his life. 😁 PS: men are not fools anymore. They know the fraud modern women really are. And bs & lies you wrote means nothing to them.
@@KevonnieElaine you may find it funny and laugh but its the reality women have created for men. Even Tom Brady’s wife wasn’t happy and divorced him. Moral of the story is that it’s impossible to please modern women and it’s best to stay clear of these agents of chaos and greed. Marriage holds no benefit for men anymore. Most are ran thru Hos anyhow and who needs that.
1 of the things know one talks about is, if you prioritize your job. Will it prioritize you, when you get slower, your health beigins to fade, and you don't have the energy you had in your 20's & 30's
I wish more black weman could see this and change as it really affecting them negatively , loneliness is no joke it's a life sentence ....may your channel grow i have just subscribed
I believe that the passport bros, quite literally, represent a departure from the modern woman in the sense that they [passport bros] are in search of what harkens back to traditional relationships. With the multiple waves of feminism demonizing masculinity, the strong black woman doctrine, and God knows what else, can you blame them? I am also of the mind that this is a collective problem in the community, men play a role in the demise of mutually beneficial partnerships as well. Fixing it is an all-hands effort, and unfortunately, not a lot of folks are interested.
If sistas want to travel outside the USA to find love and happiness more power to them. Just be ready to adapt to different cultures and customs as the brothers do. Have at it!!!
As a black women (from LA) I lived in Europe for 10 years and felt dating was way easier (Where I met my husband). However I don't think alot of blk women realize that most non black men PERFER thin, slim, athletic women. Which is my body type and is why most black men (in the past) overlooked me but all the non black men walk up and talk to me daily..... The more fit black women (YES even dark-skinned) have been seeing more positive results. I know this isn't something bk ladies wanna talk about but it is a BIG FACTOR in what non black men are looking for..... Great video as always. Thank you for talking on this difficult subject. I would add my husband isn't black just for context.
The pool of men wanting to marry Black females (fit or not) is almost non existent. I am a Black who man lived in Europe for 5 years. You are correct about the Fitness aspect but you’re leaving out the main factor which is race. Racism is global and most men would rather be single than date out of their race.
Even as a black man, I know this. My cousin dated mostly interracially and wound up marrying interracially. Non-black men love her, and a big reason is her figure. Here’s the irony: if black women would pay more attention to their bodies and become more feminine, they would have better results with black men! They wouldn’t need to swirl or travel abroad, and neither would men. But instead, they will start making the changes desired by black men with the goal of attracting white men. They will leverage their new selves in a heartbeat to go to the other side, which is another reason black men lack faith in them. The other men always get black women at their best. So who continues to dog out and devalue whom? I’m going to repost this on the main board. I want to hear from others on my perspective.
Sista, I don't believe non-ghetto black men overlooked a thin slim athletic black woman. The only men I've ever heard express a preference for big-boned chics were 'hood dudes'. I spent 22 years as an engineer for a Fortune 100 company and I never saw any upwardly mobile corporate black man with a thick chic in public.
I am NOT a strong Black woman! I am a woman. My Husband is White and we've been married for 13+ years. I am a Black woman who needs: •My Husband •His Protection •His Provision •His Covering •My Femininity •My Ability to be Soft and Vulnerable •My ability to rest in him.
I know there is a lot of hate for Kevin Samuels, but he used to say that young women in other races focus on both relationship and career while Black women focused only on career. This is the balance it seems you are referencing. His comments on being laser focused on relationships was really for older women who were already out of balance between relationship and career. Keep up the great work!
Wowwwww I’m shocked she is saying this about Honduras 🇭🇳! My family is from there and most of us are darker complexion than her. Maybe it could be the part of Honduras she visited but In Roatan it’s a melting pot. My cousins are down there all the time and have no issues. I think she should specify what part of Honduras 🇭🇳 vs throwing the entire Honduras under the bus as there are many different island parts that make up Honduras. Also remember British Honduras 🇭🇳 became Belize 🇧🇿 many moons ago, but was still British Honduras when my grandfather was born.
Plenty of eligable men want black women, the disconnect is how american black women see what their value is on the global market as mates. They quickly find out even in international waters that men don't like overly carrer focused women, or women who think the money they make adds intrensic or intangible value a man from anywhere would care about. 90% of women over 30 don't qualify for what they want or have had in their 20's. Feminism tries to sell the idea women get better with age, they do; but better is not more valuable. A 20yr old woman with no smell of feminism on her is the sweestest honey in the land, and will command the highest quality of mates.
I've had 1:1 conversation with black sisters living overseas and dating is still rough for them overseas. Many of them flock to American black men who visit or move overseas to have first dibs on a possible relationship. I have heard and had direct conversations with black American women living in Central America and Europe and was told this. If its not black American men, its African men. Either way, I want things to work for them.
I am in my 40's and while the work I do is not overly strenuous or stressful in that I work from home and make my own hours, I recently decided that my most important job is to TAKE CARE OF MY HEALTH. I used to treat it like an afterthought relative to my work. Don't let me give the wrong impression: I eat mostly plantbased and pescstarian and have done so since I was 19. I eat a lot of fruit and avoid fastfood, soda, candy etc. It's more that I did not LOVE myself enough to just eat healthy because I intellectually understood the benefits of doing so, rather than doing it because I CARED deeply about my well being. My work is still important because I still need an income but I don't put so much emphasis on what I do any longer, it's more about what kind of person I am. Peace to all of you out here struggling with "work lofe balance", I decided to prioritize my life.
Even as a black man, I know this. My cousin dated mostly interracially and wound up marrying interracially. Non-black men love her, and a big reason is her figure. Here’s the irony: if black women would pay more attention to their bodies and become more feminine, they would have better results with black men! They wouldn’t need to swirl or travel abroad, and neither would men. But instead, they will start making the changes desired by black men with the goal of attracting white men. They will leverage their new selves in a heartbeat to go to the other side, which is another reason black men lack faith in them. The other men always get black women at their best. Black women understand that they must be on their best behavior with those other groups of men…that they must be fit, feminine, friendly, submissive, cooperative, and nurturing or else. If they won’t do these things naturally for their own men, who is devaluing whom?
I had an ex tell me that she didn't feel like she needed to work out because I didn't make a lot of money She said there was no point of getting snatched in the waist if we weren't going anywhere that required that I didn't know that my economic status was tied to how my girlfriend looks until then So basically I'm not dating till I hit a million in the bank😅
With all due respect, I don’t think that’s necessarily true. I’ve seen amazingly healthy beautiful black women that have been looked over by black men because . It seems that black men are so interested in white skin color that it’s ridiculous.
@@Heartfeltvoice1727There are plenty of good black men who have been over looked by black women. That's why many of them have elected to look elsewhere for happiness, love, etc. What's your point?
@@Heartfeltvoice1727 It's actually the complete opposite. The best looking BW always go and run after Zaddy because they think because they're in-shape/have a nice body, they deserve to be with WM and swirl, while leaving BM alone because they're "dusty."
ABW going on "girls trips" overseas isn't new. They've been going since at least the early 90s. "How Stella Got Her Groove Back" came out of that trend. It's just that now, ABM are doing it as well with greater long-term relationship success.
I love yall but ya'll knoww yall know this doesnt work the same way 😂. Try telling an asian man or a gentleman from honduras or mexico your expectations and standards. As much as yall shit on us(black men) we are by far the most understanding of yall on earth. Most of it due to most being raised by single mothers but also we know how to deal with you.
I ASKED ALL BLACKWOMEN TO PLEASE DON'T COME VISIT ANY OF THE PLACES WHERE THE BLACKMEN HAVE BEEN DOING OUR THING AT AND BUILDING WITH, DO AS A MAN DO, BUT OTHER PLACES WE WON'T COME NOWHERE NEAR AND WON'T.... WE ARE CHANGING OUR IMAGE FROM OUR FATHERS AND WILL CHANGE THE WORLD. 1 BLACKMAN AT A TIME. WE ARE ON OUR OWN. WE HAVE NO WOMEN AND NO HOME, WE WILL BUILD AGAIN, WE HAVE BEEN BREED ON BREEDING FARMS TO BE THE BEST PREDATOR ON THE PLANET, WE ARE SEEING THAT NOW. THE WORLD IS OUR HOME NOW. THANKS FOR LISTENING TO A CARING ADOS/FBA
There is a difference between the black women and black men who get passports to travel. Most of the time, like you said, the women are going abroad for work or for rest NOT to find a man. Like myself. I got a great job abroad when I was in my 20s. If she does find a man its an added bonus. I hear that you said you made this channel for Black women but your comment section seems to state otherwise. A lot of negative towards black women in the comment. A lot of should ofs, could ofs. Live and let live! Everyone is on their own paths and comes to personal realizations at different times. Don't forget we live in a society that was not made for us to succeed in. So the fact that "get a good job" has been instilled in us from birth is no fault of our own. Nor do many women have the luxury to not climb the corporate ladder because its so expensive just to live these days. If you are fortunate to find a partner young and prioritize other things, then wonderful! But don't knock other women down who have had to do otherwise because of the society and environment they live in.
@@katelynnhopkins9309this whole conversation was cloaked in the idea that BW chose their career over a husband. While I do appreciate the message, Because it seems she has a large male following (with negative comments), the intent gets muddied.
Greetings sis. My wife and I updated our thumbnail ID. Any how, my daughter was an embassy guard in the Marines and she had similar experiences in Macedonia. I don't know how it is for Caucasian women but for black women it is pretty tough. As a father I feel bad for my daughter it doesn't seem like it was like that when I was young. I'm an average guy I met my wife we got married now 27 years later we still married. I have a great marriage. Since the mid-2000s it just seems like men and women happy Come delusional or misinformed about relationships.
Same here and I got taken advantage of, then I became strong and some what passive aggressive and that was not enough. I'm married now my husband is Black British with Nigerian background and I'm Caribbean
Stop. Take responsibility for yourself. You have the personality of a man, but have no idea what a man wants and have no interest in learning. Which is why you can't keep a man outside of sex. A woman's femininity is how she keeps and controls a man. You people have forgotten what has been true for 1000's of years!
No man made u that way u just realized that man won't put up with it blk w are never feminine your think just being the opposite sex makes u soft and nurture, only blk w talk about u have toomake me feminine no lady no men wants to date another men yet alone an overweight 1 😂😂😂
@@SAMack-xd2fn 😆 no but they were. Remember how the those dudes was tricking them to marry them for a green card? Man that was their come up in Jamaica, now they act like the men going over with the purpose of bringing the women back as wives is a issue.
“Like the river that never flows the same way twice, change within is the constant journey of growth and renewal”…these people are going very far to find something that’s within them. They are the constants of their experiences. Is there any self reflection at play? It is truly sad.
I'm a man I was in southeast Asia the black women look to be lost it was sad there was no interactions with them an the men I see the same coming to us in the downturn everyone will be with there own who can get alone with this woman
It's all about intentionality. Black women have prioritized education, careers, hair/nails, etc. Everything but a Black man. And when a Black Man is prioritized, it's pretty much only when he has the whole BAG. Most Black Women have jobs, not careers; thru go in debt and spend countless years chasing a life that was available to them, probably 20 years ago when they were in their 20s. Now, in their 40s, it's the same complaint by the majority of them. Ain't no "good men." The good men are already with the good women. And the ones still single don't want the challenge that comes with trying to date the Black Women who have the mindset of an Eboni K. Williams. There's more Black women than Black men, yet there are half a million more Black men married than Black women. That's shows that Black men are getting married and have options available in other cultures that are Not marrying Black women in a commensurate manner. So, getting a passport won't improve prospects for Black women. Only a change in their intentionality will do that.
Bw are the most race loyal now that bm having been openly speaking on the hate they have for bw there opening their option to others race of men so the marriage rate will rise
@@ladyd6375 - "most race loyal?" Ma'am, black women have historically always capitulated to the British, French, and Spanish slave traders, conquistadores and bourgeoise merchants doing business here since the 1600s. From the Portuguese slave trading Ivory Coast of west Africa, to the creole New Orleans plantation societies, black women have literally sided with racist white supremacists to help enslave and create relations with white men to undermine black men. You obviously never read Daughters of The Trade, or the Destruction of Black Civilization by Chancellor Williams
@@ladyd6375hats completely false y'all have been selling that lie for a century. Studies show that bw respond to nonbm quicker and more frequently so the lie of "bws race loyalty" can be put to bed. Bw produce over a million more babies than bm so obviously be are dealing with nonbm, those men just aren't marrying you. it's ridiculous to try to project y'all's relationship failures on anyone else when you're the only demographic regardless of race or gender to divorce more than they marry. This pathetic gaslighting of bm openly hating on be is also a lie. Y'all have been the ones using bm as a scapegoat for all of your BS for a century and now you're mad we no longer deal with it silently. The fact that y'all NEED a compilation of lies to keep from having to face accountability is tragically pathetic Smmfh
@gmmonomotapa2889 You don't speak for other groups of men. You all are going by a bogus study that probably only included 20 men bm really think they are at the top when their marriages numbers are low
Haven't watched the video but remember how Stella got her groove back or Phat girlz with Monique... Both tv shows are about women using their passport to get sex
@@nnekaonyilofor To add a little detail to Geno's comment above, Terry McMillan met & started dating Jonathan Plummer in Jamaica in 1995 and married him in 1998. Their marriage lasted for 6.5 yrs. She was 42 yo & he was 20 yo when she met him. She wrote the book "How Stella Got Her Groove Back" and it was made into a movie either in 1996 or 1998. BW have been traveling on their Passports for tourism, dating, s3x, and relationships for at least the last 28 yrs. McMillan's book was the first time it was documented, from what I understand. Bianca C. Williams' book "The Pursuit of Happiness" was a scholarly documentation of the experiences of BW traveling abroad & was published in 2018, before the term "Passport Bros" went viral post pandemic. BM were certainly traveling on their Passports for tourism, dating, s3x, and relationships during the 1970s, 80s, and 90s until present. I started traveling on my Passport in the 1990s and so were BM in my family. The result 30 yrs later is a melting pot of adult blk & biracial blk children, American and non-American, BW and non-BW mothers, wives, and girlfriends. Many biracial blk children will be the end result of the influx of Passport Bros seeking relationships & wives in foreign lands, in one generation (20 yrs) on a massive scale, just like my family.
As a 19 year old black woman I find dating relatively easy. I don't look like a model and honestly for me it's like sifting through sand. All this though is because I was surrounded by so much "atypical" beautiful love and marriages through out my life that seemed media wise like they would never work, however in real life they prospered. I decided to ignore the Hollywood standards of men that we're told to believe and I always did my best to stray from the typical "right" path even if that meant I messed up and I hung out with people who seemed to be bums but actually had amazing insight. I've dated 3 amazing people in my life who loved me so fully and were so genuine and I am lucky. No matter where you go, when you believe all men suck or people in general suck or that you suck or that arbitrary values matter, you will internally search for that. I feel like that's why so many 40 year olds who feel they cannot and never did find love are feeling stuck now even with traveling. Just my thoughts though. I cry, I laugh openly, I show my weaknesses to men. I speak openly when I'm unhappy and I tell them the videos I watch and what I believe and whenever I'm around people who seem artificial I stay away as best as I can or see what insights they may have beyond the physical or monetary in their life. If you have no one to spend the money on what's it all worth, and if you're beautiful and hateful what's all of that decoration for then? It's all nothing in the end. I'd rather die with a lot of people by my bed side rather than in a pretty tomb. Alone
'Preciate that perspective, Sis ... 🤔 never quite thought about it like that. The rigors of trying to be a man has worn them out. Just not built for what we have to deal with, I suppose.
Unfortunately feminism has encouraged BW especially to feel like they do not need a man. So much so that there is an overwhelming need to express it to the very people BW supposedly want to have relationships with. How can you truly value anything you don't need? How can you respect a person in a relationship that you don't value? How do you keep a man who values respect?
Very introspective. Many people talk about passport bros in terms of dating, and there is a fair amount of that. But many are drawn to living overseas because of the lifestyle. Its less expensive more relaxed and more social. As a black man as i get older i realize America has many problems that are difficult to overcome unless you are wealthy. They say the average American household makes$70k. That does equates to a stressful life and life should be about more.
I love my black women. The problem with our women is femininity and submissiveness. Period point blank. It doesn't matter what race of man or where he is from. Unfortunately its the stigma that will continue to follow our women until there is a huge shift in mindset and how yall carry yourself. The most beautiful women in the world are my black women. Just gotta reset and fix your mindset.👀👀👀🤷🏾♂️😑
Lots of good jobs available in construction, roofing, highway construction and utilities such as water electric gas construction . Hardly any women applying. Why is that?
As someone with a Sister who works in construction and a cousin who is a plumber, some common issues are: sexual harassment, employment discrimination (gatekeeping ) having their skills undermined or under estimated by their colleagues even when certified. Also being discouraged by family and friends as it’s seen as a ‘mans job’ . Other than that, many women do not want those jobs.
@@bigcohiba298 they also cry about pay gap and when asked to name a company that pays men more and women less for same job they can’t come up with not even one company. They just make stuff up as they go.
😢Black women why do you hate hearing anything that doesn’t side with you? Grow up. Not everyone will coddle with or agree with you. It’s life. What if she’s not trying to ‘be picked’?
@@LisePlansandJournals I can tell when someone is giving at vice from the viewpoint of wanting to see women be better vs wanted to garner favor from men. The point in this video is to point out how feminism is backfiring. Blaming feminism for the conditions of black people, when the overarching theme of America is steeped in capitalism, racism, and sexism, is a very Manosphere thing to do.
@@AlexMinor by the look of the comment section it doesn’t seem like she’s targeting women. There’s a lot of men bashing women this will not entice women to listen. Her placement within the Manosphere algorithm appears to be intentional. So again, good luck.
I think the saying goes emulation is the highest form of flattery. Something like that though i would definitely replace flattery, thats not a male word(obviously I'm male) why try to be something lesser than yourself, usually you reach for better. I'm old millennium black, my values do not align with this current age.
Yalll are going to have to find out the hard way, the platform is not the same, here is a question, when are you goin to master getting a keeping a black man?
@CA-tf7tl exactly my brotha a big joke for real 🤡 🤣🤣🤣 black women really all races of women want to be man so bad especially black women are lowkey jealous of black men so bad instead of building a community with a family together they rather compete with us of course not all black women are like that you have great black women as well too💯
Its clear,its really clear that THESE type of women want to take the place of a man,nothing is original or authentic, its all based on what men are doing,just be a woman,its much easier, stop being followers, stop comparing, be what yahweh created you to be,its that simple,BE A WOMAN..
I have made most of my money in my latter years however I have a great career. People need to learn to eat better and take care of themselves. However I have also traveled all my life. It depends on the career. I have also have turned down management positions I prefer my freedom and I still make 6 figures.
Did nobody ask black women to travel nowhere is best as you stay right there in the states where you belong you don't need to go nowhere overseas if you're not going to act accordingly
Women, regardless of ethnicity, geography, age, or socioeconomic status, are hypergamous. (Men are polygamous, but that's another discussion) Women's hypergamous nature, by definition, limits the number of eligible men worldwide. The highest concentration of _eligible & available_ men (men with enough finances among other things) reside in *The U.S. and Western Europe.*
I think when you peel the layers off the "Biological Onion." The human species, men/women are polygamous by nature. There's an artifical double standard when it come to the expression of sexuality by women. The Dog Vs the H-word...
Their (Stephanie, Roshida, and Adalia) whole line of business is too help black women to understand that they don’t have to work until they die. You deserve to live a life of ease. While struggling to make ends meet here in the US, your funds can go a whole lot further in other countries. That is there platform point blank period. They just happened to be talking about dating on that one video. Not to mention just in general, some countries are a hella less toxic than the US. Don’t be fooled, America is not the best place for black women.
How can you say that no one is talking about the failure of feminism? The manosphere has been talking about this for years. If you are going to use manosphere talking points, you can at least give them credit.
The people who I know off-line are not talking about it. Women rarely talk about it. My channel does not simply echo the Manosphere. I make things visible for Black women.
My comment is kind of off subject, but it relates to other videos you have done about beauty and excellence. BEAUTY is a function of two geometric concepts, PROPORTION AND SYMETRY. THAT IS IT. White supremacy has corrupted our values to suit their INSECURITIES. When it comes to achievement, being highly educated is commendable, however, THERE IS NOWHERE ON A DIPLOMA WHERE YOUR CHARACTER IS LISTED.
@@ladyd6375 No one puts up with a BW’s BS more than BM. When you do go to other groups, generally y’all act better because they don’t tolerate the foolishness. That’s if they are checking for you for anything other than sex in the first place.
For chist sake YOU CANNOT BE PASSPORT BROS! What's you main complaint about men? "Oh yall are broke" well guess what the average Venezuelan or Dominican doctor makes as much as a New York taxi driver!😂 it's not gonna work! Stop it😂
I just believe that BM and BW in America are incapable. So the best way is for BAWs to be with WM, and BM moving in our own direction. So i definitely support the end of BM and BW trying to be together. Like BAWs, most BM experience away from BAWs is mind blowing. WM and BW are a team, and I support that union... as long as neither has any influence over BM and the BM race future.
Hey everyone 👋🏾. My apologies for the white noise in the background while I am speaking. It was loud outside, but I didn’t want that to stop me from making this video. Thank you for watching!
Nah you good 👍. I love your content. New subscriber 🎯🫶🏾
They are just fun girls. Men know that these ladies are problems. Meb in other country: If men in America don't want you, Why should we take on problems?
The simple truth is that the men who move overseas looking for a wife are fully prepared to 100% provide for that family. They don't expect that Thai or Brazilian woman to contribute financially at all and they are totally fine with that. Women, in general, are NOT looking for this kind of arrangement. No woman wants to move to a third world country to financially support a man. Black women need to stop with the passport thing and accept that they are NOT men.
Appreciate your messages you make me look at black women different coming from a 26 year old black man growing up around nothing black women currently I only date white and foreign women like Mexican only for the submissive nature but thank you
I live in Europe and over here I see White European men paired with BW quite often. However, and this is an important distinction, I don't see the men with American BW. These men are attracted to BW from Europe, the West Indies, and Africa. I'm going to be very blunt here - American women don't have a great reputation globally and American BW even less so. The stereotype of course is loud, obese, aggressive, and classless. I don't say this is fair and I certainly agree it's a stereotype. But unfortunately over here we see it a lot. So if American BW are deciding to do the passport thing, I think they would be well advised to make sure that stereotype doesn't come over here with them and is left back in the States.
This is also common in the south towards nicer suburban area.
People can’t tell your American from looking at you. If you’re already presenting yourself well it probably won’t matter if you’re from the USA if you make a good impression. My husbands family is Soviet (Russian & Ukrainian) but he and his sibling were born it the US. My in laws care very much about the way you appear to be raised, manners, how you present yourself, your natural demeanor, values etc.
if you tick the boxes you tick the boxes. If you don’t, you don’t.
I hope your channel grows because you are not running with the crowd but delivering valuable insight.
Thank you!
As a Black man who is invested seeing the success and continuation of the Black family, I just want to say keep up the good work sister.
Filipino and columbian and african women are black. they themselves are negro so how so are you not continuing black family. when your child will come out with black skin. and both culture are built by the black people .
Black American men are the *least* patriarchal men (which had its pros and cons). If you’re dating overseas, be prepared to be evaluated by patriarchal standards.
& they already think, american men are “controlling..”
wait, until they go, east & southern europe
worst, africa
They’re not ready for that conversation.
Pros? For whom?
@@eliw6607 Someone financially supporting you for the rest of your life is a huge pro. Even if it's not appealing to you personally
@@Haz2288 you said black American men are the least patriarchal men. You either didn't comprehend my question or you didn't comprehend your own statement
Sometimes I wonder why women love to copy what men are doing. Instead of making your self marriage material
Feminism. Lol aso busy trying to prove we can do “it” too.. when we aren’t and we’re never meant to be the same.
The strong independent I don't need. No man is coming back to haunt our sisters. Which was created by black women, 4 black women.
They wouldn’t need a “career break” if they weren’t so busy trying to be like men. Certain weights women were not created to carry. This is why the “strong Black woman” narrative is crushing Black women. They are shouldering responsibilities and circumstances they are not designed for.
Question do you have daughters?, I have son and daughter. if you have a daughter and she told you as a Father. She wanted to become an F1 Stealth bomber pilot. Would you tell your daughter no?
@@johnsonedgar333 No, I don’t have daughters but if I did I would not discourage them from being a pilot. There are female pilots in the military. That is not uncommon. However, my post does not imply that women cannot be pilots. Rather, it challenges the ridiculous notion that women and men are interchangeable. They are most definitely not. There are things in this world that women were not created to do nor designed to do. There is nothing wrong with that. It doesn’t make them inferior or superior. Men and women were created to complement one another and not compete. Basically, what we are witnessing in modern times is men and women in rebellion against the roles assigned to them from God from the beginning. And as you can see, our rebellion is not working out too well for either of us.
@@krispyqwiff8161 Yes, there are women flying fighter jets in America. However, jobs/profession such as pilots, firefighter, police officers NFL referees. Were once considered to be the province of jobs strictly for men. Once the artificial barriers were removed. Women could have been doing those " male" jobs all long. Now on the biological and anatomical tip. Men and women are different. For me there is no debate on that. Chromosomes matter. I watch the NBA. I don't watch the WNBA. There is a reason for that. My point is gender should not be a barrier to ambition and opportunity. As for "God" I am not a "religious person. However, I think the friction that exist between the Black men and the Black women is rooted in the ideology of "white supremacy".
This proves that a lot of women can't find their own way and are followers. They try to be masculine like a man.
Adopt men sexual mannerism, like a man.
Be vulgar, like some men.
Be hyper money driven to prove to some men.
become a passport bro...like a man.
So many women are followers, not all but the majority. If something is trendy, they will follow. Hence why they spend years of their lives unsuccessfully finding themselves.
A lot of women envy men. They literally wish they had a d***
They are ULTIMATE FOLLOWERS. They actually follow the worst trends; weave, nails, bbls, makeup, lashes, etc.
They only allow other women to judge them sp they follow suit and do what others do.
Lol this video hits close to home. Finding a partner is a challenge in general. I’m married now to man from Cuba. For context, I’m a professional Black Caribbean-American woman from the South. I already knew Spanish due to the area in which I live, the schools I went to, my friends, and my paternal grandparents being Cuban and Panamanian. I met my husband through his cousin one day when I was doing some solo kayaking.
The whole K-1 visa process is a headache and I literally have some PTSD over it and the trauma of dealing with the politics between the US and Cuba. It’s not for everyone, but anything worth having is worth fighting for.
I discussed with my husband what advice he would give to an American woman looking for love. These are the conclusions we came too:
"Be a good person so you attract good people. Know your values so you can find someone who shares those values. That matters more than their race, language, nationality, etc. Love trumps all.
It is better to find someone through a mutual connection, if possible, for accountability purposes. At least the person will have been vetted somewhat.
It is best to find someone who has similar education and political views as you. Make sure to have compatible views on gender roles or it just won't work!
Also, engaging in your hobbies will help you find like-minded people who may share similar values.
Love will find you when you are not actively searching for it, but working on yourself.
Don’t just sleep with just anyone. Get to know them first. See how they treat themselves, friends, strangers, family, animals, nature, etc so you have an idea how they will treat you.
Take care of yourself. Keep your body healthy and clean. No one wants to sleep with someone stinky (his words 😂).
Love yourself so you will radiate love.
There are scammers in Latin America and in the Caribbean too, so going over there is not necessarily going to be successful. There is some sickness in this US society. Communities are broken and there is not as much love between neighbors. Society is more connected in Cuba. People are very distracted here due to easy access to drugs, porn, and prostitution.
As you date, you will fall on rocks, but every rock will make you stronger and more discerning (this is a translation of a Spanish saying).
When you find a partner, don’t listen too much to what other people say. Work on cultivating the love between you and your partner. Be a united front when people try to tear you down.
Respect each other. Love each other. Communicate early and often. Have fun together; laugh always. Avoid fighting.”
I’ve also noticed there is just too much toxic division between the sexes here in America. In Cuba they don’t have all this divestment/red pill rhetoric. I’m actually thankful that my husband is not aware of all this negativity. Because it doesn’t really serve any other purpose than to cause strife. Lowkey it is very anti-Black Love (hella sus) and spiritually damaging. I've never heard Cuban men speak badly about their women or vice versa. American society needs a healing.
Aww this is lovely
@@Luxebarbie I had time yesterday lol. Just wanted to spread some positivity and realness. This is a very relevant and important topic. I am thankful that Ms. Onyilofor is bringing this up. Thank you, sweetie 💗.
Hang in there. Soon he will find out how things work here when you divorce him and take house kids and his last penny thru child support and alimony and he will be put in jail if he can’t pay. When he is broke, homeless and his own kids hate him because you tell them their father is a loser, he too will become red pill and will avoid women for rest of his life. 😁
PS: men are not fools anymore. They know the fraud modern women really are. And bs & lies you wrote means nothing to them.
@@user-wm2twLMAO
@@KevonnieElaine you may find it funny and laugh but its the reality women have created for men. Even Tom Brady’s wife wasn’t happy and divorced him. Moral of the story is that it’s impossible to please modern women and it’s best to stay clear of these agents of chaos and greed. Marriage holds no benefit for men anymore. Most are ran thru Hos anyhow and who needs that.
As a guy from the Caribbean I will say all the best.
Passport sis travel lifestyle is very expensive
1 of the things know one talks about is, if you prioritize your job. Will it prioritize you, when you get slower, your health beigins to fade, and you don't have the energy you had in your 20's & 30's
No one
We are starting to see more balanced and realistic views opposed to the extreme men-hating and women-hating views.
I wish more black weman could see this and change as it really affecting them negatively , loneliness is no joke it's a life sentence ....may your channel grow i have just subscribed
Women is the word.
You did great!!! Again on point with what the US has push into the head of my black women, and it has separated us black men from them..😢😢😢
I believe that the passport bros, quite literally, represent a departure from the modern woman in the sense that they [passport bros] are in search of what harkens back to traditional relationships. With the multiple waves of feminism demonizing masculinity, the strong black woman doctrine, and God knows what else, can you blame them? I am also of the mind that this is a collective problem in the community, men play a role in the demise of mutually beneficial partnerships as well. Fixing it is an all-hands effort, and unfortunately, not a lot of folks are interested.
Very sad and true.
If sistas want to travel outside the USA to find love and happiness more power to them. Just be ready to adapt to different cultures and customs as the brothers do. Have at it!!!
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I think it’s only fair that American black women explore the world to look for love. Just remember, you gotta adapt. We all do.
As a black women (from LA) I lived in Europe for 10 years and felt dating was way easier (Where I met my husband). However I don't think alot of blk women realize that most non black men PERFER thin, slim, athletic women. Which is my body type and is why most black men (in the past) overlooked me but all the non black men walk up and talk to me daily..... The more fit black women (YES even dark-skinned) have been seeing more positive results. I know this isn't something bk ladies wanna talk about but it is a BIG FACTOR in what non black men are looking for..... Great video as always. Thank you for talking on this difficult subject. I would add my husband isn't black just for context.
The pool of men wanting to marry Black females (fit or not) is almost non existent. I am a Black who man lived in Europe for 5 years. You are correct about the Fitness aspect but you’re leaving out the main factor which is race. Racism is global and most men would rather be single than date out of their race.
@@John_X_77Absolutely correct. Women say a lot to say nothing.
Thank you sis! Great points made and hard truths we need to accept.
Even as a black man, I know this. My cousin dated mostly interracially and wound up marrying interracially. Non-black men love her, and a big reason is her figure.
Here’s the irony: if black women would pay more attention to their bodies and become more feminine, they would have better results with black men! They wouldn’t need to swirl or travel abroad, and neither would men.
But instead, they will start making the changes desired by black men with the goal of attracting white men. They will leverage their new selves in a heartbeat to go to the other side, which is another reason black men lack faith in them.
The other men always get black women at their best.
So who continues to dog out and devalue whom?
I’m going to repost this on the main board. I want to hear from others on my perspective.
Sista, I don't believe non-ghetto black men overlooked a thin slim athletic black woman. The only men I've ever heard express a preference for big-boned chics were 'hood dudes'. I spent 22 years as an engineer for a Fortune 100 company and I never saw any upwardly mobile corporate black man with a thick chic in public.
I am NOT a strong Black woman! I am a woman. My Husband is White and we've been married for 13+ years.
I am a Black woman who needs:
•My Husband
•His Protection
•His Provision
•His Covering
•My Femininity
•My Ability to be Soft and Vulnerable
•My ability to rest in him.
Many Black women will never experience most of what you named. They definitely won’t experience it at the same time either.
I know there is a lot of hate for Kevin Samuels, but he used to say that young women in other races focus on both relationship and career while Black women focused only on career. This is the balance it seems you are referencing. His comments on being laser focused on relationships was really for older women who were already out of balance between relationship and career. Keep up the great work!
BW have always worked; however, today careerism have become the new religion. Also women use their careers to leverage power in relationships.
@@yepyep6916 Money changes everything.The person who has the "Bag". Sits in the catbird seat
@@yepyep6916 no, they do that to not be homeless.
Wowwwww I’m shocked she is saying this about Honduras 🇭🇳! My family is from there and most of us are darker complexion than her. Maybe it could be the part of Honduras she visited but In Roatan it’s a melting pot. My cousins are down there all the time and have no issues. I think she should specify what part of Honduras 🇭🇳 vs throwing the entire Honduras under the bus as there are many different island parts that make up Honduras. Also remember British Honduras 🇭🇳 became Belize 🇧🇿 many moons ago, but was still British Honduras when my grandfather was born.
Plenty of eligable men want black women, the disconnect is how american black women see what their value is on the global market as mates.
They quickly find out even in international waters that men don't like overly carrer focused women, or women who think the money they make adds intrensic or intangible value a man from anywhere would care about. 90% of women over 30 don't qualify for what they want or have had in their 20's. Feminism tries to sell the idea women get better with age, they do; but better is not more valuable. A 20yr old woman with no smell of feminism on her is the sweestest honey in the land, and will command the highest quality of mates.
I've had 1:1 conversation with black sisters living overseas and dating is still rough for them overseas. Many of them flock to American black men who visit or move overseas to have first dibs on a possible relationship. I have heard and had direct conversations with black American women living in Central America and Europe and was told this. If its not black American men, its African men. Either way, I want things to work for them.
I am in my 40's and while the work I do is not overly strenuous or stressful in that I work from home and make my own hours, I recently decided that my most important job is to TAKE CARE OF MY HEALTH. I used to treat it like an afterthought relative to my work. Don't let me give the wrong impression: I eat mostly plantbased and pescstarian and have done so since I was 19. I eat a lot of fruit and avoid fastfood, soda, candy etc. It's more that I did not LOVE myself enough to just eat healthy because I intellectually understood the benefits of doing so, rather than doing it because I CARED deeply about my well being. My work is still important because I still need an income but I don't put so much emphasis on what I do any longer, it's more about what kind of person I am. Peace to all of you out here struggling with "work lofe balance", I decided to prioritize my life.
Even as a black man, I know this. My cousin dated mostly interracially and wound up marrying interracially. Non-black men love her, and a big reason is her figure.
Here’s the irony: if black women would pay more attention to their bodies and become more feminine, they would have better results with black men! They wouldn’t need to swirl or travel abroad, and neither would men.
But instead, they will start making the changes desired by black men with the goal of attracting white men. They will leverage their new selves in a heartbeat to go to the other side, which is another reason black men lack faith in them.
The other men always get black women at their best. Black women understand that they must be on their best behavior with those other groups of men…that they must be fit, feminine, friendly, submissive, cooperative, and nurturing or else. If they won’t do these things naturally for their own men, who is devaluing whom?
I had an ex tell me that she didn't feel like she needed to work out because I didn't make a lot of money
She said there was no point of getting snatched in the waist if we weren't going anywhere that required that
I didn't know that my economic status was tied to how my girlfriend looks until then
So basically I'm not dating till I hit a million in the bank😅
With all due respect, I don’t think that’s necessarily true. I’ve seen amazingly healthy beautiful black women that have been looked over by black men because . It seems that black men are so interested in white skin color that it’s ridiculous.
There's a very small percentage of black women who date interracially. Most black women are single and probably will never get married.
@@Heartfeltvoice1727There are plenty of good black men who have been over looked by black women. That's why many of them have elected to look elsewhere for happiness, love, etc. What's your point?
@@Heartfeltvoice1727 It's actually the complete opposite. The best looking BW always go and run after Zaddy because they think because they're in-shape/have a nice body, they deserve to be with WM and swirl, while leaving BM alone because they're "dusty."
ABW going on "girls trips" overseas isn't new. They've been going since at least the early 90s. "How Stella Got Her Groove Back" came out of that trend.
It's just that now, ABM are doing it as well with greater long-term relationship success.
Yes a large number have come back with hiv and other diseases from their carribian vacations 😂😂
Long term success? Didn't your Chinese wife divorce you?
@@user-wm2tw according to the CDC website as we speak, BW lead the ENTIRE country in those diseases 😂
@@suziepickes702 BM are significantly more married than BW
@@bzb8554 so? What does marrige matter if you get divorced 5 years later? Lol
I love yall but ya'll knoww yall know this doesnt work the same way 😂. Try telling an asian man or a gentleman from honduras or mexico your expectations and standards. As much as yall shit on us(black men) we are by far the most understanding of yall on earth. Most of it due to most being raised by single mothers but also we know how to deal with you.
There’s a video right here on YT showing a black chick getting dumped by her Dominican boyfriend because he couldn’t stand her attitude.
I ASKED ALL BLACKWOMEN TO PLEASE DON'T COME VISIT ANY OF THE PLACES WHERE THE BLACKMEN HAVE BEEN DOING OUR THING AT AND BUILDING WITH, DO AS A MAN DO, BUT OTHER PLACES WE WON'T COME NOWHERE NEAR AND WON'T.... WE ARE CHANGING OUR IMAGE FROM OUR FATHERS AND WILL CHANGE THE WORLD. 1 BLACKMAN AT A TIME. WE ARE ON OUR OWN. WE HAVE NO WOMEN AND NO HOME, WE WILL BUILD AGAIN, WE HAVE BEEN BREED ON BREEDING FARMS TO BE THE BEST PREDATOR ON THE PLANET, WE ARE SEEING THAT NOW. THE WORLD IS OUR HOME NOW. THANKS FOR LISTENING TO A CARING ADOS/FBA
There is a difference between the black women and black men who get passports to travel. Most of the time, like you said, the women are going abroad for work or for rest NOT to find a man. Like myself. I got a great job abroad when I was in my 20s. If she does find a man its an added bonus. I hear that you said you made this channel for Black women but your comment section seems to state otherwise. A lot of negative towards black women in the comment. A lot of should ofs, could ofs. Live and let live! Everyone is on their own paths and comes to personal realizations at different times. Don't forget we live in a society that was not made for us to succeed in. So the fact that "get a good job" has been instilled in us from birth is no fault of our own. Nor do many women have the luxury to not climb the corporate ladder because its so expensive just to live these days. If you are fortunate to find a partner young and prioritize other things, then wonderful! But don't knock other women down who have had to do otherwise because of the society and environment they live in.
I guess I heard her comments differently. I thought she was saying question any narrative to make sure it’s what you want or need.
& welcome to the real world, where accountability exist.
This ❗️
@@katelynnhopkins9309this whole conversation was cloaked in the idea that BW chose their career over a husband.
While I do appreciate the message, Because it seems she has a large male following (with negative comments), the intent gets muddied.
This is cap! BW who go abroad are looking for men.
If a person is a big part of his/her problems, no matter where he/she is problems will be there also.
Greetings sis. My wife and I updated our thumbnail ID. Any how, my daughter was an embassy guard in the Marines and she had similar experiences in Macedonia. I don't know how it is for Caucasian women but for black women it is pretty tough. As a father I feel bad for my daughter it doesn't seem like it was like that when I was young. I'm an average guy I met my wife we got married now 27 years later we still married. I have a great marriage. Since the mid-2000s it just seems like men and women happy Come delusional or misinformed about relationships.
When I was feminine and vulnerable, men wanted me to be 'stronger.' Now Im just me. Independent not by choice. But by necessity and Im ok with it.
Same here and I got taken advantage of, then I became strong and some what passive aggressive and that was not enough. I'm married now my husband is Black British with Nigerian background and I'm Caribbean
@fungsho12 Yayy Good that you met someone on yr wavelength. Its too late for me. But finding that middle ground very important!
Stop. Take responsibility for yourself.
You have the personality of a man, but have no idea what a man wants and have no interest in learning. Which is why you can't keep a man outside of sex.
A woman's femininity is how she keeps and controls a man. You people have forgotten what has been true for 1000's of years!
No man made u that way u just realized that man won't put up with it blk w are never feminine your think just being the opposite sex makes u soft and nurture, only blk w talk about u have toomake me feminine no lady no men wants to date another men yet alone an overweight 1 😂😂😂
U hit the wall just be honest
Um if I remember correctly wasn't the late 80' and 90's all about BLK women going to Jamaica to find a man?
They weren't looking for men...they were looking for pole...lol😅
@@SAMack-xd2fn 😆 no but they were. Remember how the those dudes was tricking them to marry them for a green card? Man that was their come up in Jamaica, now they act like the men going over with the purpose of bringing the women back as wives is a issue.
“Like the river that never flows the same way twice, change within is the constant journey of growth and renewal”…these people are going very far to find something that’s within them. They are the constants of their experiences. Is there any self reflection at play? It is truly sad.
I'm a man I was in southeast Asia the black women look to be lost it was sad there was no interactions with them an the men I see the same coming to us in the downturn everyone will be with there own who can get alone with this woman
Don't try it ladies! You Will Lose🙈🙉🙊
It's all about intentionality. Black women have prioritized education, careers, hair/nails, etc. Everything but a Black man. And when a Black Man is prioritized, it's pretty much only when he has the whole BAG. Most Black Women have jobs, not careers; thru go in debt and spend countless years chasing a life that was available to them, probably 20 years ago when they were in their 20s. Now, in their 40s, it's the same complaint by the majority of them. Ain't no "good men." The good men are already with the good women. And the ones still single don't want the challenge that comes with trying to date the Black Women who have the mindset of an Eboni K. Williams. There's more Black women than Black men, yet there are half a million more Black men married than Black women. That's shows that Black men are getting married and have options available in other cultures that are Not marrying Black women in a commensurate manner. So, getting a passport won't improve prospects for Black women. Only a change in their intentionality will do that.
Bw are the most race loyal now that bm having been openly speaking on the hate they have for bw there opening their option to others race of men so the marriage rate will rise
@@ladyd6375 - "most race loyal?" Ma'am, black women have historically always capitulated to the British, French, and Spanish slave traders, conquistadores and bourgeoise merchants doing business here since the 1600s. From the Portuguese slave trading Ivory Coast of west Africa, to the creole New Orleans plantation societies, black women have literally sided with racist white supremacists to help enslave and create relations with white men to undermine black men. You obviously never read Daughters of The Trade, or the Destruction of Black Civilization by Chancellor Williams
@@ladyd6375it's not about race loyalty, it's about the simple ugly facts that outside of BM, BW (especially from the west) have very few options.
@@ladyd6375hats completely false y'all have been selling that lie for a century. Studies show that bw respond to nonbm quicker and more frequently so the lie of "bws race loyalty" can be put to bed. Bw produce over a million more babies than bm so obviously be are dealing with nonbm, those men just aren't marrying you. it's ridiculous to try to project y'all's relationship failures on anyone else when you're the only demographic regardless of race or gender to divorce more than they marry. This pathetic gaslighting of bm openly hating on be is also a lie. Y'all have been the ones using bm as a scapegoat for all of your BS for a century and now you're mad we no longer deal with it silently. The fact that y'all NEED a compilation of lies to keep from having to face accountability is tragically pathetic Smmfh
@gmmonomotapa2889 You don't speak for other groups of men. You all are going by a bogus study that probably only included 20 men bm really think they are at the top when their marriages numbers are low
Haven't watched the video but remember how Stella got her groove back or Phat girlz with Monique...
Both tv shows are about women using their passport to get sex
Hey Geno 👋🏾! It’s good to see your comment.
@@nnekaonyilofor To add a little detail to Geno's comment above, Terry McMillan met & started dating Jonathan Plummer in Jamaica in 1995 and married him in 1998. Their marriage lasted for 6.5 yrs. She was 42 yo & he was 20 yo when she met him. She wrote the book "How Stella Got Her Groove Back" and it was made into a movie either in 1996 or 1998. BW have been traveling on their Passports for tourism, dating, s3x, and relationships for at least the last 28 yrs. McMillan's book was the first time it was documented, from what I understand. Bianca C. Williams' book "The Pursuit of Happiness" was a scholarly documentation of the experiences of BW traveling abroad & was published in 2018, before the term "Passport Bros" went viral post pandemic. BM were certainly traveling on their Passports for tourism, dating, s3x, and relationships during the 1970s, 80s, and 90s until present. I started traveling on my Passport in the 1990s and so were BM in my family. The result 30 yrs later is a melting pot of adult blk & biracial blk children, American and non-American, BW and non-BW mothers, wives, and girlfriends. Many biracial blk children will be the end result of the influx of Passport Bros seeking relationships & wives in foreign lands, in one generation (20 yrs) on a massive scale, just like my family.
As a 19 year old black woman I find dating relatively easy. I don't look like a model and honestly for me it's like sifting through sand. All this though is because I was surrounded by so much "atypical" beautiful love and marriages through out my life that seemed media wise like they would never work, however in real life they prospered. I decided to ignore the Hollywood standards of men that we're told to believe and I always did my best to stray from the typical "right" path even if that meant I messed up and I hung out with people who seemed to be bums but actually had amazing insight. I've dated 3 amazing people in my life who loved me so fully and were so genuine and I am lucky. No matter where you go, when you believe all men suck or people in general suck or that you suck or that arbitrary values matter, you will internally search for that. I feel like that's why so many 40 year olds who feel they cannot and never did find love are feeling stuck now even with traveling. Just my thoughts though. I cry, I laugh openly, I show my weaknesses to men. I speak openly when I'm unhappy and I tell them the videos I watch and what I believe and whenever I'm around people who seem artificial I stay away as best as I can or see what insights they may have beyond the physical or monetary in their life. If you have no one to spend the money on what's it all worth, and if you're beautiful and hateful what's all of that decoration for then? It's all nothing in the end. I'd rather die with a lot of people by my bed side rather than in a pretty tomb. Alone
'Preciate that perspective, Sis ... 🤔 never quite thought about it like that. The rigors of trying to be a man has worn them out. Just not built for what we have to deal with, I suppose.
Unfortunately feminism has encouraged BW especially to feel like they do not need a man. So much so that there is an overwhelming need to express it to the very people BW supposedly want to have relationships with.
How can you truly value anything you don't need?
How can you respect a person in a relationship that you don't value?
How do you keep a man who values respect?
The answer is you dont get any results with that mindset. I need a wife and feel no shame or sense of being lesser in saying so.
Sorry to hear this god bless them
Is this the only thing in the world that black people are concerned about???
Very introspective. Many people talk about passport bros in terms of dating, and there is a fair amount of that. But many are drawn to living overseas because of the lifestyle. Its less expensive more relaxed and more social. As a black man as i get older i realize America has many problems that are difficult to overcome unless you are wealthy. They say the average American household makes$70k. That does equates to a stressful life and life should be about more.
Passport Sis. Biggest delusion ever.
I love my black women. The problem with our women is femininity and submissiveness. Period point blank. It doesn't matter what race of man or where he is from. Unfortunately its the stigma that will continue to follow our women until there is a huge shift in mindset and how yall carry yourself. The most beautiful women in the world are my black women. Just gotta reset and fix your mindset.👀👀👀🤷🏾♂️😑
All over the internet ' y'all getting your ass beat...🤔 '
Happy Buff day Nneka, enjoy your day
NEWS 📰 FLASH.....The passport doesn't work the other way.....Ask all the poor whyt women who fall in love with African men.
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it works if you go to Europe LOL
Lots of good jobs available in construction, roofing, highway construction and utilities such as water electric gas construction . Hardly any women applying. Why is that?
As someone with a Sister who works in construction and a cousin who is a plumber, some common issues are: sexual harassment, employment discrimination (gatekeeping ) having their skills undermined or under estimated by their colleagues even when certified. Also being discouraged by family and friends as it’s seen as a ‘mans job’ . Other than that, many women do not want those jobs.
@@1991-present yeah right . Excuses excuses. Reality is they want more money but not harder jobs 😂😂
@@user-wm2tw 👍🏾
they want the plush jobs. They don't want to get they hands dirty
@@bigcohiba298 they also cry about pay gap and when asked to name a company that pays men more and women less for same job they can’t come up with not even one company. They just make stuff up as they go.
Happy Birthday! Thank you for the awesome content!🎉❤🎈
Oh I get now. This is Manosphere channel. Good luck at getting picked. ✌🏾
She’s engaged and getting married this year if I’m not mistaken.
And her content is aimed towards encouraging and uplifting black women.
😢Black women why do you hate hearing anything that doesn’t side with you? Grow up. Not everyone will coddle with or agree with you. It’s life. What if she’s not trying to ‘be picked’?
@@LisePlansandJournals I can tell when someone is giving at vice from the viewpoint of wanting to see women be better vs wanted to garner favor from men. The point in this video is to point out how feminism is backfiring. Blaming feminism for the conditions of black people, when the overarching theme of America is steeped in capitalism, racism, and sexism, is a very Manosphere thing to do.
@@AlexMinor by the look of the comment section it doesn’t seem like she’s targeting women. There’s a lot of men bashing women this will not entice women to listen. Her placement within the Manosphere algorithm appears to be intentional. So again, good luck.
So intelligent. I love this woman. 😎
Passport single single 😂😂😂
I hope sisters change the narrative and behavior cuz those of us with standards will continue to travel abroad or just not date within.
Travel. Lol
Go enjoy yourself. Bye. 😊
Thanks sister for your channel you be keeping it 💯
I think the saying goes emulation is the highest form of flattery. Something like that though i would definitely replace flattery, thats not a male word(obviously I'm male) why try to be something lesser than yourself, usually you reach for better. I'm old millennium black, my values do not align with this current age.
Really sad
Yalll are going to have to find out the hard way, the platform is not the same, here is a question, when are you goin to master getting a keeping a black man?
Passport Sis 🤣👀 Passport Sisters
@CA-tf7tl exactly my brotha a big joke for real 🤡 🤣🤣🤣 black women really all races of women want to be man so bad especially black women are lowkey jealous of black men so bad instead of building a community with a family together they rather compete with us of course not all black women are like that you have great black women as well too💯
Another great video sis!!!😎
The American BW best choice is to appreciate the black men they have access to in the states in your neighborhood.
Happy birthday sis
Black women getting men's midlife crisis now. Totally understand it. Did the same
Bruh if dating is ghetto worldwide, it’s you
as a bk wm I AGREE!!!
Its clear,its really clear that THESE type of women want to take the place of a man,nothing is original or authentic, its all based on what men are doing,just be a woman,its much easier, stop being followers, stop comparing, be what yahweh created you to be,its that simple,BE A WOMAN..
These women wanna tighten up for other cultures but give they own culture HELL,I absolutely love what looks like me,period 💪🏾yes love it
Has anyone here watched Kevin Samuel’s videos??
I have made most of my money in my latter years however I have a great career. People need to learn to eat better and take care of themselves. However I have also traveled all my life. It depends on the career. I have also have turned down management positions I prefer my freedom and I still make 6 figures.
I love this woman's mouth
#Nneka, anything except working w/a black American man for positive outcomes right⁉️ We understand the assignment therefore #WeOWT2023 🫡✈️🌏
What is your definition of an Eligible Man??
Did nobody ask black women to travel nowhere is best as you stay right there in the states where you belong you don't need to go nowhere overseas if you're not going to act accordingly
Women, regardless of ethnicity, geography, age, or socioeconomic status, are hypergamous. (Men are polygamous, but that's another discussion) Women's hypergamous nature, by definition, limits the number of eligible men worldwide. The highest concentration of _eligible & available_ men (men with enough finances among other things) reside in *The U.S. and Western Europe.*
Very logical point made here.
I think when you peel the layers off the "Biological Onion." The human species, men/women are polygamous by nature. There's an artifical double standard when it come to the expression of sexuality by women. The Dog Vs the H-word...
I'm a strong sweet smart hardworking family oriented black African man. If they were really looking love, I could have been married by now already.
You are a black woman saying I thought I was going to meet people in Asia and Europe..smh..Asian and Europeans are not looking for strong black women
Yup!
Their (Stephanie, Roshida, and Adalia) whole line of business is too help black women to understand that they don’t have to work until they die. You deserve to live a life of ease. While struggling to make ends meet here in the US, your funds can go a whole lot further in other countries. That is there platform point blank period. They just happened to be talking about dating on that one video. Not to mention just in general, some countries are a hella less toxic than the US. Don’t be fooled, America is not the best place for black women.
How can you say that no one is talking about the failure of feminism? The manosphere has been talking about this for years. If you are going to use manosphere talking points, you can at least give them credit.
The people who I know off-line are not talking about it. Women rarely talk about it. My channel does not simply echo the Manosphere. I make things visible for Black women.
9:30 you should have told them STRAIGHT sis
Whao what about the six figure requirement they put on Americans
They will fail be used for green cards
Just like how foreign women use american black men. Lol
They was always taken trips and what are yall talking about they was passport h0ez before bros
thank you , thank you , please talk to our African women please
My comment is kind of off subject, but it relates to other videos you have done about beauty and excellence. BEAUTY is a function of two geometric concepts, PROPORTION AND SYMETRY. THAT IS IT. White supremacy has corrupted our values to suit their INSECURITIES. When it comes to achievement, being highly educated is commendable, however, THERE IS NOWHERE ON A DIPLOMA WHERE YOUR CHARACTER IS LISTED.
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The title is an Oxymoron.
Date other races of men overseas
A Black woman’s best chance at love is a Black man. 🤷🏿♂️
The old scare tactics
@@ladyd6375naw that's y'all's game. He's just stating the facts
@@aaronanderson3076 stating lies
@@ladyd6375 again...that's y'all's game
@@ladyd6375 No one puts up with a BW’s BS more than BM.
When you do go to other groups, generally y’all act better because they don’t tolerate the foolishness.
That’s if they are checking for you for anything other than sex in the first place.
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For chist sake YOU CANNOT BE PASSPORT BROS! What's you main complaint about men? "Oh yall are broke" well guess what the average Venezuelan or Dominican doctor makes as much as a New York taxi driver!😂 it's not gonna work! Stop it😂
Yes I'll say it for you they are pitiful... 😁
I just believe that BM and BW in America are incapable. So the best way is for BAWs to be with WM, and BM moving in our own direction.
So i definitely support the end of BM and BW trying to be together. Like BAWs, most BM experience away from BAWs is mind blowing.
WM and BW are a team, and I support that union... as long as neither has any influence over BM and the BM race future.
You know that’s because black Americans are hella indoctrinated with unhealed trauma?
Men in Western countries need to avoid dating women. Solution? Passport Brothers.
I like your content but the racist thing at work kind of lost me.
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It’s very interesting that you have not used the word RUDE, BW throughout this podcast at anytime, very Interesting indeed.
I could see a lot of them Missing over there with that Attitude 🤷🏽
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and the weight!
Love for the relationship don't expire but a career of a job it will so Define it ad where you are in it