federick almonte why does a girl having sex before marriage make them ‘easy’? Do you view guys who do that the same way? Marriage isn’t for everyone and some people just don’t want to get married (for their own different reasons)...so what, because they never plan on getting married they should never have sex then? I’m a guy and I honestly don’t see myself getting married or having children. Am I supposed to not have sex and feel pleasure? Goes same way for females. The whole idea of you ‘have to be married to have sex!’ is absolutely ridiculous if you take time to break it down and think about it. Not everyone lives the exact same life. And this is why I commented with the song WAP at weddings. They are the best place to meet good/attractive/nice girls who might want to hook up and have a good time. It could turn into a relationship or friendship. Or it could just be a great time and memory for the both of you.
I miss her old videos, now she just tells people how to live their lives, and bragging about how she is married. Her old videos were makeup videos and like daily lifestyle, that’s why I stopped watching her...
And, she thinks you can't be beautiful and sexy, and she has twisted opinions that have no support. Edit: I see video talking about her, but God bless. I never have seen a single ad from her, her content, but I got tired of her face and stuff once I see her content somewhere again.
She thinks if you wear certain clothes, (since men apparently will look for visuals) he will think of you as an object, unless you wear fine clothes, he will then look for personality, Wich I find where she also messes up.
Hey there! I honestly like some of your videos but I don’t really like how you bash woman who don’t follow the traditional lifestyle. In your videos you sometimes go along the lines of, ‘Let’s stop dressing like garbage or trash.’ Just because some woman don’t really like the modesty lifestyle, they aren’t dressing as garbage? Just please respect woman who don’t exactly follow your ways or opinions.
I've seen videos where some people say "let's break and stop with the conservative ideas.. dont dress modest anymore" they see that as "opressed" isn't that shaming then too??? Because i have never see someone complain about this kind of videos... why it is only valid to attack a particular group of ideas? Because if you slightly question the opposite ideas people call you out.. saying you are shaming
I honestly feel bad for this woman. She needs therapy. My parents never once instilled in me that marriage makes you a better or more interesting person.
Ellen Bro Blue Heart everyone here is butthurt that this lady is living a happy life that it offend and threatens them. Ellen gotta say “I feel bad for her” like she knows what Abby wants in life. get over yourself, get therapy for that ego. Learn something
@@adelainemay It's a big deal when her brother pays for her dying RUclips channel to be shoved down our throats and she actively shames people for not following the traditional lifestyle 👄🥰😍
@@adelainemay That's alright! Honestly our problem isn't that she's hyperfocused on marriage, because marriage is a wonderful thing and it's perfectly okay to put everything into it, it's just that she shames people. Her fans also attack people in the comments, calling them lonely idiots who will die alone with their cats and tumblr :^)
Queen why is your only hobby being a wife? Like if every woman needs to get married and this is a full time thing, would that make women all the same?? You’re uninteresting????
@Burnt Orange That's part of her brand though. She's also an accomplished woman. She happens to be a conservative wife. And that's something different that many people actually can relate to. It may not be your thing but it's narrow minded to assume this means she has nothing else to offer.
His Mom You can stop digging yourself deeper into that hole now. Her only accomplishments are her piss poor opera performances on RUclips and her idiot brother’s fame. Her “brand” is just being the normal, entitled upper class housewife that tells people how they should live their lives and making herself seem like she’s all for female empowerment when in actuality she just tears others down to please men. I.e. how to dress “classically” video.
@@chaoticnart9922 The only holes being dug are the ones of those critiquing her every word and thought as though she makes videos about killing puppies. If what she's into isn't your thing then that's fine. But for her to receive consistent hate for living the life she chooses is ridiculous. All she's doing is sharing her perspective. What's interesting is if she were extremely liberal with her views I promise you we wouldn't even be having this convo. She sure isn't the norm on RUclips, but she's a voice for others in her own way. Just because she isn't bleeding feminism and hatred for men doesn't make her opinions wrong. It just means they aren't for you.
@@chaoticnart9922 And dressing classically is about preserving your own modesty. Claiming power over your body by feeling like you are the keeper of the key so to speak. That you don't have to show everything to feel feminine and empowered. That your beauty and strength exist beyond how much you reveal. She gave her viewpoint. But she never said a woman was a whore if she didn't dress modestly. Please tell me again how that's wrong now? Not how it's not your cup of tea. Tell me how it's actually wrong as her own opinion.
ThanosOhyeah _ because she talks about being modest, but she’s showing shoulders and stuff. So it’s kind of hypocritical. Not trying to take sides, but that’s what the comment was joking about
To all the people who are hating on her: If you don’t like her then don’t watch it. If you disagree, don’t watch it. If you don’t have something nice to say, then don’t say anything. Saying negative things is literally pointless.
@@vanessat7758 see here’s the problem with that. 1. You don’t know me 2. I don’t spam everyone with videos telling people how to act 💀 You have nothing sweetheart.
U do know that shes not going to stop bc even people who dislike it, are still going to come onto her videos and comment how much they dislike it which still gives her money right lmao. Just stop clicking on it ur literally enabling her lol. And no, im not siding with her. Its just dumb for u to say ur emotionally effected when ur the one who keeps clicking on the vids lol. Kinda assbackwards.
Khalizzi Thank you! No I didn’t realize how this ad thing work but thanks for letting me know. Tho you call me dumb but I truly didn’t know haha. Ok I will stop click in the vid and see maybe one day it will disappear~ I was just trying to do something since I have not click the vid for months but it’s still here~ Hope you’re not angry anymore since I am so dumb. Have a great day.
nvelet koslin how would eating ear wax help with the horrible sound of her voice? You clearly weren’t blessed with intelligence, no wonder you support this channel 😂
This is just a suggestion Abby, these videos aren’t really my thing, and that’s okay I’m not here to hate on your channel, but I have a suggestion. I and a lot of others (as you can see by the comments) are here from ads which it seems as though me and many others can’t seem to stop seeing. And I think why most of your videos are more disliked rather than likes are because people literally can’t avoid your videos, so now ur comment section and your likes are damaged because of it. I understand wanting to get ur content across however I think it’s doing more harm then good. It’s targeting audiences that don’t seem that interested instead of people you want to reach out to, just a thought, maybe stop the ads?
The title makes me think some bridesmaids ruined her wedding by taking all the attention Edit: (I’m not trying to be hateful I was just thinking that it might be a future story)
This video was so strange to me. I’ve been a bridesmaid more than once and it was NOT as “hard” as she’s making it out to be 😂 why would you need tips of your genuinely a good friend and have good friends? “Don’t ever say anything mean!” Um... yeah... I tend to not be mean to my friends 😂
I’ve been a bridesmaid seven times. Two of those times I was the Maid of Honor. I could write the book. I’ve thrown a dozen bridal parties, and bachelorette parties. I also ended up throwing the baby shower for the majority of the women I threw the Bridal Showers, and Bachelorette Parties for. I love throwing the parties.
@Felicity Singleton Love you guys! Maybe you will be one day. I didn't think I was every going to be a bridesmaid when I was younger but now that I am older, I have been a bridesmaid three times now.
leia kw say no to being a bridesmaid if youre just gonna bring negative energy to the table. if youre chill and can put the bride’s feelings before your own cuz it’s her wedding then stay as a bridesmaid
Can you make a series about planning a very religious Jewish wedding? I want to have a very religious ceremony but am not that knowledgeable on customs/unsure where to start. thanks!
Love this video, although I thought all this stuff was just common sense? Of course the big day is about the bride, not the bridesmaids! :) the only exception (imo) is if the bride tries to force you to buy a dress you cant afford to do something you dont want to at the bachelorette party. In those cases, a back and forth is needed.
As I look through these comments, I tend to feel as though people don’t know that different lifestyles do exist. Even if you don’t agree with this woman, you have to give at least some partial credit to put herself out there and even have the courage to say how she likes to live. Many say that everyone is different and we have to accept that as human beings, and yet some are criticizing her content just because she is trying to hit a target audience and to find people who can connect with her.
The same “Yass slay queen” girls hate on women who dress modestly, are Conservative, are feminine, live traditionally, and who actually act like a lady. Abby is not forcing any woman into traditionalism and femininity; she’s just making videos for women who want to live that way or already live that way.
I completely agree. I have commented on several of her videos about the absolute irony of SO many women commenting negatively and disliking her videos so that the RUclips algorithm sees her engagement and keeps prominently recommending her videos; the problem is that none of the women complaining know what irony means or how the algorithm works despite efforts to explain it to them. They complain she is PAYING for ads when in fact THEIR NEGATIVE ENGAGEMENT pushes her recommemdations farther and farther, lol!! Engagement is engagement, whether positive or negative. So I say let them come and dislike and comment!! Each time they do so, Abby's vids are recommended more and reach more people!!
@@angelbarajas9180 Eh, not true. She specifically made a video called "why YOU should dress modestly" and repeatedly implied or even outright said that a woman doesn't respect herself if she's showing skin. If she was like "this is what I like to do but I respect people who want to live differently" then most people wouldn't have a problem with it. Not to mention all the outright sexism she has said.
What colours do u think are best for bridesmaids to wear? to not steal the spotlight from the bride bt also looks beautiful and sophisticated at the same time💜💜💜
most weddings i’ve been to, there is a dress code (bridesmaids all wear red, purple, etc). but if there isn’t, don’t wear anything too bright/saturated that will draw the eye away from the bride. for the dress itself, wear something simple yet sophisticated. nothing too flashy in color or dress
I absolutely love how you make sure to recognise that this day is about the bride! A lot of bridesmaids are just incredibly selfish and its so refreshing to see somebody truly appreciate the bride :) I feel like you're such a considerate person and I love that!
Sydney Gehl in her previous videos she puts down women whose views dont align with her. People aren’t hating her for talking about dressing modestly and stuff. It’s more when she says women are less if they don’t dress modestly get married and stuff.
@@dipdip4322 i haven't heard her say anything that direct, but i also haven't been watching for very long. thanks for bringing that to my attention. but there are, actually, people who hate on her for talking about being modest and getting married and all sorts of things that they should just leave her alone about
It’s honestly so sad that everyone immediately disliked and left a rude comment when there is nothing wrong or controversial with this video. She’s not even really talking about being conservative, it’s literally just about being supportive of your friend during her wedding.
Girl, I am so here for you and this community. I think it's great even though these videos aren't necessarily for me. I'm a fan. Please don't ever stop. You're filling a white space that is truly truly needed in media and the influencer world. So thank you.
Leonardo Ramos I said I was not interested in her channel a shitload of times and still see it. Yt isn’t doing anything especially when she spends so much on ads
BeddyByeBunny thank you for that mind blowing idea. I usually don’t, just wanted to see how’s she’s putting down women who don’t align with her views today :)
The title literally says “classic girls guide to being a bridesmaid” why would you click on the video if it doesn’t apply to you? Her channel is all got conservatism and helping girls that aren’t conservative become that. Stop coming here to say “what if some girls ---“ well if they don’t want to, then they should click off.
Hey, I lean more towards the left side politically but I like to practice engaging in other perspectives which is why I love your channel! I was wondering what your opinions on social distancing/masks and their connection to politics/postering?
This is a useful video! I do think being excited with your friend is the most important thing someone can do.Also so true it is not about you it is about the bride. P.S.You look so beautiful in white! Also I love your eyebrows!
Off topic, but I was watching one of your old videos when you were cooking dinner and you were discussing kosher guidelines and asked about vegetarian/vegan dishes. If you haven’t checked out minimalist baker I highly recommend their blog. We are Eastern Orthodox Christian and observe vegan fasts throughout the year and that site has been an amazing resource for us. They are simple meals that are either 10 ingredients or less/30 minutes or less to make/ one pot meals. Many (not all are plant based). We love the Thai carrot soup and the chocolate chia seed pudding recipes 😋
IlluminatiMLG We do a lot of Thai/Asian meals as well. There is such variety available for vegan dishes and many times I prefer plant based dishes over a dish with meat. We really enjoy this sweet potato curry with spinach. So easy to make and so good! .elavegan.com/sweet-potato-curry-vegan/
Sun Ria I don’t know if I would go as far to call myself as a Christian Vegan, as I don’t completely abstain from meat and dairy. I could drop meat completely with no problem, but dairy would be a harder transition. I do think Veganism would be considered the ideal diet in our tradition as our hierarchies and monastics eat an predominantly vegan diet (with fish allowed on non fast days) .
This was really cute to watch! Makes me want to get married with my boyfriend but I’m only 21. 😂 Sadly, I’ve never been a bridesmaid... I was only a flower girl when I was in 2nd grade lol! My time will come, hopefully 💐
So apparently, being a "classic woman" is all about getting married, being a good sex object for your husband, and raising his children-- while supporting your friends through the same. Maybe you should just move to Saudi Arabia, there are plenty of women living "classic" lives there. Not by choice, mind you, but a lack of choice for women seems to be the inevitable result of the worldview you seem to subscribe to...
Watched this video because I was recommended your ad. I wanted to watch another video so that I didn't feel so diversive towards your viewpoint, and lo and behold, I've been asked to be a Bridesmaid. I definitely agree with your points on how a Bridesmaid should be. This will be my first role of support since transitioning, and any resource to help make my friend's wedding perfect, I will take.
I support your channel, as you can see my fellow Gen Z’s and younger exhibit a lot of psychopathic traits because of our narcissistic culture. Keep sharing your light
Omg the like and dislike ratio is even 222 and 222... y’all need to stop hating and coming on here just to dislike...people that don’t agree with her needs to go somewhere else..🙄
Generic Username I’m just saying that coming on here just to dislike a video is just a waste of time and dumb.. I don’t agree with a bunch of ads and videos I get in suggestions but I don’t go and hate on there channels.. I just chill and go on..
Hattrick JU JU You’re setting a standard of what “a normal adult is” you’re still a child adults or parents aren’t anything besides people who are trying to figure out the world You’ll learn
girl how much money do you pay youtube to keep bombarding everyone’s recommended with your ads
She spends her money on whatever she wants or wants to control someone else's pocket
@Generic Username She has sixty thousand followers so she will continue for a long time.
Curicosas R. D G. F ...no she doesn’t? Maybe 58 THOUSAND...but not million?
Curicosas R. D G. F 58 million? aha,what?
Got more money than all the moron haters
Yea, definitely play the song ‘WAP’ at the wedding...gets all the females in the room gushy
She is talking about the bridesmaids, and the dresses not about the wedding music.
But if you want to play it at your wedding I think it's fine.
If the easy ones are convenient for men and then marry the women who are really worth it
Bro these replies...have they heard even WAP lmfaooo 😹
federick almonte why does a girl having sex before marriage make them ‘easy’? Do you view guys who do that the same way? Marriage isn’t for everyone and some people just don’t want to get married (for their own different reasons)...so what, because they never plan on getting married they should never have sex then? I’m a guy and I honestly don’t see myself getting married or having children. Am I supposed to not have sex and feel pleasure? Goes same way for females. The whole idea of you ‘have to be married to have sex!’ is absolutely ridiculous if you take time to break it down and think about it. Not everyone lives the exact same life.
And this is why I commented with the song WAP at weddings. They are the best place to meet good/attractive/nice girls who might want to hook up and have a good time. It could turn into a relationship or friendship. Or it could just be a great time and memory for the both of you.
I miss her old videos, now she just tells people how to live their lives, and bragging about how she is married. Her old videos were makeup videos and like daily lifestyle, that’s why I stopped watching her...
You can continue to see them or it is not your decision
i agree,, now she advertises her ads alot 😒
lol
And, she thinks you can't be beautiful and sexy, and she has twisted opinions that have no support.
Edit: I see video talking about her, but God bless. I never have seen a single ad from her, her content, but I got tired of her face and stuff once I see her content somewhere again.
She thinks if you wear certain clothes, (since men apparently will look for visuals) he will think of you as an object, unless you wear fine clothes, he will then look for personality, Wich I find where she also messes up.
Hey there! I honestly like some of your videos but I don’t really like how you bash woman who don’t follow the traditional lifestyle. In your videos you sometimes go along the lines of, ‘Let’s stop dressing like garbage or trash.’ Just because some woman don’t really like the modesty lifestyle, they aren’t dressing as garbage? Just please respect woman who don’t exactly follow your ways or opinions.
THAT PART!!
I agree with you she has good points on some things but the reason why she gets hate is the way she shames people for not having a lifestyle like hers
She doesn't care what you think lol
Delusional Dreamer Huh? So respecting other woman is just so hard for you?
I've seen videos where some people say "let's break and stop with the conservative ideas.. dont dress modest anymore" they see that as "opressed" isn't that shaming then too??? Because i have never see someone complain about this kind of videos... why it is only valid to attack a particular group of ideas? Because if you slightly question the opposite ideas people call you out.. saying you are shaming
bruh is it just me or is this girl and trumps ads literally EVERYWHERE on yt
yes and it’s making me insane
@@taylorangelinaa same
Same here, Daily Wire and other conservative ads. I've seen the why BLM is bad ad like 10 times already
@gxlilea.d Girl 😭😭😭😭 I am so sorry.
I honestly feel bad for this woman. She needs therapy. My parents never once instilled in me that marriage makes you a better or more interesting person.
She seems happy to me, why would u feel bad for her? Get over your ego, get therapy
Blue Heart Haha I also love how this person says “get therapy” like it’s a bad thing.
Ellen Bro it’s not, your the only bad thing here, get therapy
Ellen Bro Blue Heart everyone here is butthurt that this lady is living a happy life that it offend and threatens them. Ellen gotta say “I feel bad for her” like she knows what Abby wants in life. get over yourself, get therapy for that ego. Learn something
weeknd 7 Her videos are just ads for antiquated conservative values, and I say this as a non-liberal.
Imaging having so little personality your whole Chanel revolves around being marred or being in a wedding.
Alissa Burgan marred lmao
Why is that a big deal? Some channels are all about money, some makeup, some gaming. Why is it a big deal to focus on one thing on a channel?
@@adelainemay It's a big deal when her brother pays for her dying RUclips channel to be shoved down our throats and she actively shames people for not following the traditional lifestyle 👄🥰😍
@@ghbbc4484 gotcha, this is the only video of hers I have watched so I was unaware 🤷♀️
@@adelainemay That's alright! Honestly our problem isn't that she's hyperfocused on marriage, because marriage is a wonderful thing and it's perfectly okay to put everything into it, it's just that she shames people. Her fans also attack people in the comments, calling them lonely idiots who will die alone with their cats and tumblr :^)
bruh i blocked her and keep telling youtube to stop advertising her but here we are... smh🤦🏽♀️
Me too!!
Huh ? BAHAHAHAHHAA
I mean, its like this, if you don't wanna watch her videos then don't click on them. Ain't nobody forcing you to watch it.
Jayla Angel 😔
Vincent Savoye same
Queen why is your only hobby being a wife? Like if every woman needs to get married and this is a full time thing, would that make women all the same?? You’re uninteresting????
Who says this is her only hobby? She's not allowed to share about her married life and perspective?
@Burnt Orange That's part of her brand though. She's also an accomplished woman. She happens to be a conservative wife. And that's something different that many people actually can relate to.
It may not be your thing but it's narrow minded to assume this means she has nothing else to offer.
His Mom You can stop digging yourself deeper into that hole now. Her only accomplishments are her piss poor opera performances on RUclips and her idiot brother’s fame. Her “brand” is just being the normal, entitled upper class housewife that tells people how they should live their lives and making herself seem like she’s all for female empowerment when in actuality she just tears others down to please men. I.e. how to dress “classically” video.
@@chaoticnart9922 The only holes being dug are the ones of those critiquing her every word and thought as though she makes videos about killing puppies.
If what she's into isn't your thing then that's fine.
But for her to receive consistent hate for living the life she chooses is ridiculous.
All she's doing is sharing her perspective.
What's interesting is if she were extremely liberal with her views I promise you we wouldn't even be having this convo.
She sure isn't the norm on RUclips, but she's a voice for others in her own way.
Just because she isn't bleeding feminism and hatred for men doesn't make her opinions wrong. It just means they aren't for you.
@@chaoticnart9922 And dressing classically is about preserving your own modesty. Claiming power over your body by feeling like you are the keeper of the key so to speak. That you don't have to show everything to feel feminine and empowered. That your beauty and strength exist beyond how much you reveal.
She gave her viewpoint. But she never said a woman was a whore if she didn't dress modestly.
Please tell me again how that's wrong now?
Not how it's not your cup of tea.
Tell me how it's actually wrong as her own opinion.
She literally gets more dislikes than likes that’s funny lmao
It has almost sixty thousand subscribers is amazing
Im fan
And she keeps going. Lol
Hi
Suga's pup hi
Uh oh! Are those your SHOULDERS I see!? Not very mOdEsT of you, Abby. 🧚🏻💫
oH mY gOsH yOuR rIgHt! this is not oKaY smh😤😤😤
rensmurfette is iconic looll
Why does her head look smaller than her body?
Maya Melody she does look dumb asf, but is *your* head bigger than your body?
Bennygold 1324 idk
honey can you leave us alone im just trying to listen to motion city soundtrack
shoulders are showing not modest enough
edit: this comment is ✨a joke✨
She looks beautiful
I love how she dresses
So?
ThanosOhyeah _ because she talks about being modest, but she’s showing shoulders and stuff. So it’s kind of hypocritical. Not trying to take sides, but that’s what the comment was joking about
@@localbaddie_8438 yes❤️
To all the people who are hating on her: If you don’t like her then don’t watch it. If you disagree, don’t watch it. If you don’t have something nice to say, then don’t say anything. Saying negative things is literally pointless.
Yes, couldn't agree more!
ben shapiro in a wig
HWNCHWUHSB
yes
If Ben Shapiro was transgender
This girl is really trying to talk about supporting women when she’s a conservative... clownery luv
One minute you’re demolishing gender stereotypes and the next you’re pushing them
Girl, stop spamming us with your ads. Put that money into something more useful. If anything, you’re starting to make people annoyed with you.
Starting to? She BEEN annoying af
@@aleksandragrey6541 You're more annoying than she'll ever be.
@@vanessat7758 that’s so cute 😂 you wish
@@vanessat7758 see here’s the problem with that. 1. You don’t know me
2. I don’t spam everyone with videos telling people how to act 💀
You have nothing sweetheart.
Please stop the ads, I don’t want it. RUclips won’t stop even I report 10 times. Please stop I am emotionally effected...
U do know that shes not going to stop bc even people who dislike it, are still going to come onto her videos and comment how much they dislike it which still gives her money right lmao. Just stop clicking on it ur literally enabling her lol. And no, im not siding with her. Its just dumb for u to say ur emotionally effected when ur the one who keeps clicking on the vids lol. Kinda assbackwards.
Khalizzi Thank you! No I didn’t realize how this ad thing work but thanks for letting me know. Tho you call me dumb but I truly didn’t know haha. Ok I will stop click in the vid and see maybe one day it will disappear~ I was just trying to do something since I have not click the vid for months but it’s still here~ Hope you’re not angry anymore since I am so dumb. Have a great day.
@@Asmrkiwiii Hey hon, not clicking the ads won't help xo. Previous person is dumb; I didn't interact with this channel until I hit 40-50 ads.
Her laugh creeps me out. It seems so forced and fake!!!
This is literally the most boring content anyone could possibly think of
It’s generous of you to call it content
Please get a new opening statement, nails on a chalkboard
brown bird no, “ hey Karen’s”
do you wanna eat my ear wax?? uuuufff pweeeease
nvelet koslin how would eating ear wax help with the horrible sound of her voice? You clearly weren’t blessed with intelligence, no wonder you support this channel 😂
How bout you stop contributing to sexism in the world 🤪
She isn't.
@@vanessat7758 lmao yes she is
@@madelinelovett6723 Nope.
This is just a suggestion Abby, these videos aren’t really my thing, and that’s okay I’m not here to hate on your channel, but I have a suggestion. I and a lot of others (as you can see by the comments) are here from ads which it seems as though me and many others can’t seem to stop seeing. And I think why most of your videos are more disliked rather than likes are because people literally can’t avoid your videos, so now ur comment section and your likes are damaged because of it. I understand wanting to get ur content across however I think it’s doing more harm then good. It’s targeting audiences that don’t seem that interested instead of people you want to reach out to, just a thought, maybe stop the ads?
Yessssss. Get this to the top. There is 100% an audience for this, but it is most definitely NOT the people coming from ads.
RUclips, please, I beg you, stop recommending these videos to meeee
ma’am it will do your channel some good to cut back on the ads ❤️
almost sixty thousand subscribers
no ❤️
@Dylan McKendrick No
@Dylan McKendrick Look at my comments I don't care if I have to write more times I do it with this account.
do you wanna eat my ear wax?? uuuufff pweeeease
First Rule: you need to have friends in order to be a bridesmaid
All of her haters are just giving her more clout. Leave the girl alone and let her have her own opinion!! ❤️
It is true
The title makes me think some bridesmaids ruined her wedding by taking all the attention
Edit: (I’m not trying to be hateful I was just thinking that it might be a future story)
Every person who works at a wedding should take the subject seriously
@愛HiImAmii no
This video was so strange to me. I’ve been a bridesmaid more than once and it was NOT as “hard” as she’s making it out to be 😂 why would you need tips of your genuinely a good friend and have good friends? “Don’t ever say anything mean!” Um... yeah... I tend to not be mean to my friends 😂
@@InTheNameOfLife1 I think she's talking to girls who are used to being the center of attention, or selfish. 🤷♀️
Can you imagine the videos she’ll make when she has a kid
He came out as gay?! [NOT Clickbait] [Teaching him CHRISTIANITY]
As a guy, I dunno how I ended up here, but seems like pretty solid advice! Also you're tremendously beautiful. Have a great day.
Dude, it’s not ganna happen
offbrandpunk she’s married dude
@@MothManGlowsintheDark and that matters why? It was just a compliment man, don't read into it so much lol.
Zach W nice save
@@kelseys9536 If I could laugh react your comment, I would. Why is it that a simple compliment is suddenly turned into being a simp?
PLEASE DO A REACTION TO WAP
YES 😂😂
Wet ass p-word 🥵
YEEAHHHH😭
Why don’t you go play in traffic?
Jenna Denjern chill out.
I’ve been a bridesmaid seven times. Two of those times I was the Maid of Honor. I could write the book. I’ve thrown a dozen bridal parties, and bachelorette parties. I also ended up throwing the baby shower for the majority of the women I threw the Bridal Showers, and Bachelorette Parties for. I love throwing the parties.
You should seriously consider posting videos about the bridal and bachelorette parties that you have thrown.
Tobi-Velicia Johnson haha! I don’t like being in front of the camera, but if you ever need any tips just ask!
@Felicity Singleton Love you guys! Maybe you will be one day. I didn't think I was every going to be a bridesmaid when I was younger but now that I am older, I have been a bridesmaid three times now.
do you wanna eat my ear wax?? uuuufff pweeeease
Hey, what do they do for the bachelorette parties?
What if I'm not excited about the wedding? I'm not great at pretending...
How bad is a great experience
leia kw say no to being a bridesmaid if youre just gonna bring negative energy to the table. if youre chill and can put the bride’s feelings before your own cuz it’s her wedding then stay as a bridesmaid
Then go eat poop.
leia kw Why would she ask you if you don’t want to be the bridesmaid? A bridesmaid is suppose to be the brides BFF, right...🤔😅
@@sullysaints2337 thanks for the advice.
I SEE SHOULDERS. THAT IS NOT MODEST
It’s ok. She’s an adult. Not 12.
How come when i block this user I'll still see the videos uhmmm
That “Hello” is cringe worthy
I’m surprised she got invited to NOT ONE BUT TWO weddings.
I’m surprised she got invited to any wedding at all
A classy and modest bride will always look stunning
nice username
cheese toasties 💙💙
Can you make a series about planning a very religious Jewish wedding? I want to have a very religious ceremony but am not that knowledgeable on customs/unsure where to start. thanks!
Love this!
@ガチャauralex lmaaaao
@ガチャauralex Ah yes, anime profile picture questioning other's choice of role model. Classic.
Datbro Corp ah yes, a person with no profile pic whatsoever questioning other’s choice of profile pic. Classic.
Datbro Corp I know “datbro Corp” isn’t talking
It kind of feels like her entire reasoning is that a women’s life is supposed to be dedicated to marriage and children. Yikes.
Love this video, although I thought all this stuff was just common sense? Of course the big day is about the bride, not the bridesmaids! :) the only exception (imo) is if the bride tries to force you to buy a dress you cant afford to do something you dont want to at the bachelorette party. In those cases, a back and forth is needed.
As I look through these comments, I tend to feel as though people don’t know that different lifestyles do exist. Even if you don’t agree with this woman, you have to give at least some partial credit to put herself out there and even have the courage to say how she likes to live. Many say that everyone is different and we have to accept that as human beings, and yet some are criticizing her content just because she is trying to hit a target audience and to find people who can connect with her.
The same “Yass slay queen” girls hate on women who dress modestly, are Conservative, are feminine, live traditionally, and who actually act like a lady. Abby is not forcing any woman into traditionalism and femininity; she’s just making videos for women who want to live that way or already live that way.
If she would leave me alone, I would leave her to do her thing. Alas...
I completely agree. I have commented on several of her videos about the absolute irony of SO many women commenting negatively and disliking her videos so that the RUclips algorithm sees her engagement and keeps prominently recommending her videos; the problem is that none of the women complaining know what irony means or how the algorithm works despite efforts to explain it to them. They complain she is PAYING for ads when in fact THEIR NEGATIVE ENGAGEMENT pushes her recommemdations farther and farther, lol!! Engagement is engagement, whether positive or negative. So I say let them come and dislike and comment!! Each time they do so, Abby's vids are recommended more and reach more people!!
@@angelbarajas9180 Eh, not true. She specifically made a video called "why YOU should dress modestly" and repeatedly implied or even outright said that a woman doesn't respect herself if she's showing skin. If she was like "this is what I like to do but I respect people who want to live differently" then most people wouldn't have a problem with it. Not to mention all the outright sexism she has said.
Ruby Red And guess what.... you don’t have to watch it! End of story.
What colours do u think are best for bridesmaids to wear? to not steal the spotlight from the bride bt also looks beautiful and sophisticated at the same time💜💜💜
personally i like muted colors, like dusty blue or dusty rose
most weddings i’ve been to, there is a dress code (bridesmaids all wear red, purple, etc). but if there isn’t, don’t wear anything too bright/saturated that will draw the eye away from the bride. for the dress itself, wear something simple yet sophisticated. nothing too flashy in color or dress
Never been a bridesmaid but I think light or dusty pink is gorgeous 😍
I like black or crimson--but I prefer a more formal look in general, so it's preference
Jillian Phillips The dusty pink would be great 💖💖💖
I love your style Abby
I absolutely love how you make sure to recognise that this day is about the bride! A lot of bridesmaids are just incredibly selfish and its so refreshing to see somebody truly appreciate the bride :) I feel like you're such a considerate person and I love that!
i don’t know why you get so much hate!! i’m a big fan!!!💗
I also love your videos
I'm also a fan
@@kelseys9536 okay, that's fair. the ads are a little much haha
Sydney Gehl in her previous videos she puts down women whose views dont align with her. People aren’t hating her for talking about dressing modestly and stuff. It’s more when she says women are less if they don’t dress modestly get married and stuff.
@@dipdip4322 i haven't heard her say anything that direct, but i also haven't been watching for very long. thanks for bringing that to my attention. but there are, actually, people who hate on her for talking about being modest and getting married and all sorts of things that they should just leave her alone about
I literally went straight to my bff and asked her if there’s anything I can do to help her, I love this video so much! So needed.
Why tf she keep poppin in my ads
It’s honestly so sad that everyone immediately disliked and left a rude comment when there is nothing wrong or controversial with this video. She’s not even really talking about being conservative, it’s literally just about being supportive of your friend during her wedding.
Girl, I am so here for you and this community. I think it's great even though these videos aren't necessarily for me. I'm a fan. Please don't ever stop. You're filling a white space that is truly truly needed in media and the influencer world. So thank you.
Please go find someone else to watch please don’t give this sexist conservative woman any more ✨hype✨
Can you do a video on how to be a classic bride ? I’m already married but I would still love to see your advice and thoughts.
Classic is just code for ‘traditional’ and traditional just means taking a trip back to the 20s.
Nope. You're just clueless.
Imagine conversing with this classic lady on a Friday night with a glass of wine... 🥱
My uncle,is getting married soon and I’m attending. Not a bridesmaid. What colors you recommend?
Rainbow girl 😻😻😻
@@chloe-dt6yh You can send some links with the idea, I love that idea sounds different
Dusty pink or white. Pastel pink or blue is cute too.
I feel like it depends on the season!
Never been a bridesmaid and I don’t know if I ever will be, but this is great advice!
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Hey can you stop spamming your ads everywhere they’re annoying and I can’t get rid of them no matter what I try.
ok thx bye
You can look for help on youtube support they can help you with the problem
Leonardo Ramos I said I was not interested in her channel a shitload of times and still see it. Yt isn’t doing anything especially when she spends so much on ads
@@dipdip4322 The problem is RUclips content creators do not decide who receives ads
Just don’t click on them it’s so simple LOL
BeddyByeBunny thank you for that mind blowing idea. I usually don’t, just wanted to see how’s she’s putting down women who don’t align with her views today :)
you people need to stop attacking this woman for the way she lives her life and start attacking her for thinking her way is the only way lmao
Hello Abby! I was wondering is you could make a video on hairstyles and dressing up for the winter also a closet tour would be nice!
She is really good at hair! I would like that too
I love this theme I have been a bridesmaid for three weddings and it is the best experience.
It is so special!
Classically Abby Why did you marry your brother ben shapiro
@@juice_1871 Will you marry?
@@juice_1871 bens wife is a dr. She isn't a dr
it's me No her name is Dr classically abby
abigail dance to wap for us ✨
But what if some girls don’t want to get married?
Es sobre damas de honor
The title literally says “classic girls guide to being a bridesmaid” why would you click on the video if it doesn’t apply to you? Her channel is all got conservatism and helping girls that aren’t conservative become that. Stop coming here to say “what if some girls ---“ well if they don’t want to, then they should click off.
Hey, I lean more towards the left side politically but I like to practice engaging in other perspectives which is why I love your channel! I was wondering what your opinions on social distancing/masks and their connection to politics/postering?
I’m glad you’re respectful 😊
A lot of us on the right welcome you into the conversation :)
This is a useful video! I do think being excited with your friend is the most important thing someone can do.Also so true it is not about you it is about the bride. P.S.You look so beautiful in white! Also I love your eyebrows!
😐plz stop popping up on my ads. yk ur vids ain’t makin it nowhere with us so plz lay back and save your money
Off topic, but I was watching one of your old videos when you were cooking dinner and you were discussing kosher guidelines and asked about vegetarian/vegan dishes. If you haven’t checked out minimalist baker I highly recommend their blog. We are Eastern Orthodox Christian and observe vegan fasts throughout the year and that site has been an amazing resource for us. They are simple meals that are either 10 ingredients or less/30 minutes or less to make/ one pot meals. Many (not all are plant based). We love the Thai carrot soup and the chocolate chia seed pudding recipes 😋
IlluminatiMLG We do a lot of Thai/Asian meals as well. There is such variety available for vegan dishes and many times I prefer plant based dishes over a dish with meat. We really enjoy this sweet potato curry with spinach. So easy to make and so good!
.elavegan.com/sweet-potato-curry-vegan/
@@classicalhomeschoolcorner4505 Are you perhaps christian vegan?
Sun Ria I don’t know if I would go as far to call myself as a Christian Vegan, as I don’t completely abstain from meat and dairy. I could drop meat completely with no problem, but dairy would be a harder transition. I do think Veganism would be considered the ideal diet in our tradition as our hierarchies and monastics eat an predominantly vegan diet (with fish allowed on non fast days) .
@@classicalhomeschoolcorner4505 have you tried vegan dairy
do you wanna eat my ear wax?? uuuufff pweeeease
taking a shot a shot everytime this woman says “classic” i finna be wasted
You’re going to kill someone
GAY RIGHTS TRANS RIGHTS i’m gonna go anywhere 😭😭
*NOT opps
At this point, I'm starting to think this is a social experiement.
This is a lot of good advice! Would it be passive aggressive or helpful to send this to all my future bridesmaids?
♥️
please don't,,, just let them be
👍
This was really cute to watch! Makes me want to get married with my boyfriend but I’m only 21. 😂 Sadly, I’ve never been a bridesmaid... I was only a flower girl when I was in 2nd grade lol! My time will come, hopefully 💐
The best bridesmaids know how to POP their WAP if you know what I mean 👶🏼 #tradition
HAHAHAH
Nooo
😂
So apparently, being a "classic woman" is all about getting married, being a good sex object for your husband, and raising his children-- while supporting your friends through the same. Maybe you should just move to Saudi Arabia, there are plenty of women living "classic" lives there. Not by choice, mind you, but a lack of choice for women seems to be the inevitable result of the worldview you seem to subscribe to...
👎 for you
You’re so cute Abby! 🥰🥰🥺 and you inspire me so much. Thank you for being who you are
AND white looks so good on you omg
Watched this video because I was recommended your ad. I wanted to watch another video so that I didn't feel so diversive towards your viewpoint, and lo and behold, I've been asked to be a Bridesmaid. I definitely agree with your points on how a Bridesmaid should be. This will be my first role of support since transitioning, and any resource to help make my friend's wedding perfect, I will take.
I’ve clicked not interested in her ads, blocked her whole account, and yet some how this little white girl still worms her way back in omg
So what if she's white (not saying I agree with her)?
OMG HER SHOULDERS!!!
It’s so scandalous🤬🤬
I support your channel, as you can see my fellow Gen Z’s and younger exhibit a lot of psychopathic traits because of our narcissistic culture. Keep sharing your light
I don’t care abt this I’m not even old enough to get married 😐
no❤️
Yes❤️
Kpop incel
Dhaarok imagine judging someone by their taste in music💔
Dhaarok imagine caring about the what music i like💔 sad
Omg the like and dislike ratio is even 222 and 222... y’all need to stop hating and coming on here just to dislike...people that don’t agree with her needs to go somewhere else..🙄
They are one professional stalkers they are terrible people
Generic Username I’m just saying that coming on here just to dislike a video is just a waste of time and dumb.. I don’t agree with a bunch of ads and videos I get in suggestions but I don’t go and hate on there channels.. I just chill and go on..
here before the dislike mob 🥰 i like it here when the comments section is positive
kireiidante 👁👄👁
i hate that the dislikes dont show on commments
I also have many people there with so much instability and hatred in their hearts.
Exactly so much toxicity of people gives a little hurt the hatred they feel
Same
This is great advice!! Thanks Abby!
Finally a normal women, I mean I’m only 15 but finally I get to see what a normal adult is suppose to be like
Honey nooo
lisa colon honey yesss
Hattrick JU JU no one and nothing is “normal “ in this world be yourself
lisa colon What are you talking about honey?? What does being myself have to do with this, I am myself otherwise I wouldn’t of posted that comment
Hattrick JU JU You’re setting a standard of what “a normal adult is” you’re still a child adults or parents aren’t anything besides people who are trying to figure out the world
You’ll learn
I do dream of being a bridesmaid one day 👗
Does this girl get on any of y’all nerves too ? 😃✌️
✨💞🧚🏼♂️She’s clearly never been held back due to Conservatives🧚🏼♂️💞✨
Lady Ackerman idk but something about her is annoying 😂😭😭😭
And you're going to put up with it because it has fifty-eight thousand people and counting like that, it will continue for a long time on the internet
Yes!!!! Really wish her ads would stop popping up!!! 🤮
@@zenaidaaaaaaa Racist
I actually really liked this video !!
hey can your ads pls stop popping up all over my youtube thanks
Talk to RUclips support, they are in charge of that, the content creator does not know where the ads arrive
Go to RUclips support
Fale!! The first rule is make sure you hook up with the best looking groomsmen.
Not how you spell Fail. Lol
i love you abby 😊
Hope you get well soon 🤧
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Oh my god! No way! Are those SHOULDERS!!
I can’t control myself!!
Not that modest Abby!!!
How dare you!
*this is a joke everyone*
I love your content ❤️
This is perfect timing! I was recently asked to be a bridesmaid in a wedding, thanks for posting this! Keep ignoring the haters and keep being you!
do you wanna eat my ear wax?? uuuufff pweeeease
I DONT WANT TO SEE YOUR FACE AGAIN:(
plz stop wasting your coin on these ads, honey 😕
Great topic as always 🤗
Good advice, thanks Abby :)
Stop buying ads
This is such a "basic white girl in America with a famous brother" video.
WHY DOES SHE KEEP POPPING OUT ON MY RUclips I BLOCKED HER AND ALL HER VIDEOS RUclips TAKE A HINT
😂😂😂😂This is rich. Glad I clicked on this. Now I know how to be a classic lady.😅