Does "It" Need to End? :: Relationship Goals (Part 8)

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  • Опубликовано: 19 янв 2025

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  • @ErinMBlack
    @ErinMBlack 6 лет назад +5484

    I’m not going into another relationship without God’s blessing.

    • @mirandavioletbagamba9466
      @mirandavioletbagamba9466 6 лет назад +85

      Me too
      I just got out of one en I was so hurt coz I thought it was it.

    • @kidjay2679
      @kidjay2679 6 лет назад +34

      Practically how would you know it's being blessed? That you have green light ...

    • @jeffbizzarro
      @jeffbizzarro 5 лет назад +4

      amen!

    • @naomia5475
      @naomia5475 5 лет назад +3

      👏🏾

    • @TharawP
      @TharawP 5 лет назад +2

      Amen 🌎indeed

  • @sierralafaye
    @sierralafaye 7 лет назад +2795

    “When you don’t wait on the Lord, you give the enemy room to introduce counterfeits” 😱

  • @breemds
    @breemds 7 лет назад +1872

    "All relationships have problems, unhealthy relationships have unaddressed problems" - MIC DROP. Thank you! Blessings!

  • @valej9387
    @valej9387 4 года назад +1186

    "When you cut people off, you gotta trust God with them."
    Man, I needed that reminder.

    • @Barretsmith2133
      @Barretsmith2133 4 года назад +4

      Salute

    • @jmeiahb2608
      @jmeiahb2608 3 года назад +2

      Wow 😖

    • @tilerfreeman2587
      @tilerfreeman2587 3 года назад +4

      This comment right here

    • @teachnyc7937
      @teachnyc7937 3 года назад

      @@Barretsmith2133 p

    • @safehavenroofingrestoratio4838
      @safehavenroofingrestoratio4838 3 года назад +12

      I am getting a divorce that I did not choose or ask for. I just found myself trying to take responsibility for my soon to be ex wife’s problems. That relationship is over after 24 years. She stole $110k from our business and got me $410k in debt and kept the $. I didn’t want a divorce because I made a covenant commitment. She ended it and it was a horrible relationship. I have been using this series to make sure I don’t ever get back into a situation like this.

  • @LillieBella
    @LillieBella 22 часа назад +114

    This is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve been facing trauma from my breakup. We were so compatible together, six years together, and then he called off our engagement just 3 months before our wedding. I’ve been so sad, I still want him so badly, I can still feel his touch around me. I don’t know what to do anymore. I can’t get over him, I need him back.

    • @AmandaSullivan-y8r
      @AmandaSullivan-y8r 22 часа назад

      This is a familiar experience. It was hell for me when my husband left, and if it wasn’t for a spiritual counselor who helped me, I’m not sure how I would have survived.

    • @LillieBella
      @LillieBella 22 часа назад

      For real? Please, how did this counselor help? And how did you find them? It would feel like a miracle if someone could help me.

    • @AmandaSullivan-y8r
      @AmandaSullivan-y8r 22 часа назад

      His name is Father Akabu He is a spiritualist who helps restore broken relationships with his powerful abilities. I’m very certain he can help you get your partner back.

    • @LillieBella
      @LillieBella 22 часа назад

      That’s very kind of you, thank you. Can I find him online? I hope he can help me get my man back.

    • @AmandaSullivan-y8r
      @AmandaSullivan-y8r 22 часа назад

      Yes you can, he is a very powerful man, I’m sure he can help you, he helped me.

  • @tajayatomlinson5298
    @tajayatomlinson5298 6 лет назад +1977

    For anyone scrolling through the comments, I just want to say this: God hears and answers prayers because I He heard and answered mine. Wonderful sermon series

  • @tintswalomhlongo6514
    @tintswalomhlongo6514 5 лет назад +1734

    How to end it:
    1. Quickly
    2. With Blessings
    3. Intentionally
    4. Trusting God

    • @taga8006
      @taga8006 4 года назад +7

      Oh soo true! If only I knew it years ago!

    • @antoinettewhyte3289
      @antoinettewhyte3289 4 года назад +1

      Thanks for joining

    • @Justadudeman22
      @Justadudeman22 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @Cheeselerr
      @Cheeselerr 3 года назад +7

      Literally just did this with a “friend” last week blessed her sent her gifts her baby and moved on…the old me woulda pulled up but I’m learning

    • @KgwittheTEA
      @KgwittheTEA 3 года назад

      Thank you 🙏

  • @BattleTalk123
    @BattleTalk123 6 лет назад +751

    Bad company corrupts good behavior. So deep.

  • @misstnalford6995
    @misstnalford6995 4 года назад +541

    Fasting and praying will lead you to sermons like this even when you don't know what to type in the search box to find them! #ThankYouGod

    • @pastormichaeltodd8486
      @pastormichaeltodd8486 3 года назад +1

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+234 8168950874) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.......

    • @natalielnez9496
      @natalielnez9496 3 года назад

      True

    • @1766584
      @1766584 3 года назад +3

      Amen sister! I’ve had people say that the internet, smartphones, and social media is evil. And I’ll say true, it can be, depending on the person and their heart.
      Just as it can be used for evil, it also can be used for good, a complete blessing. U can find good in everything, because everything TMH made he called it good.
      Heavenly Father, thank u for ur Son, ur Holy Spirit, and ur Word. For everything positive thing u put in our lives, along with self control in Jesus mighty name🙏🏼✝️💙

    • @naomiiomaka4954
      @naomiiomaka4954 3 года назад +1

      @@pastormichaeltodd8486 why do you do this???

    • @cedarrose4345
      @cedarrose4345 3 года назад

      Amen! And thats exactly what it has done for me 🥰

  • @AnnaAnn_
    @AnnaAnn_ 3 года назад +677

    Some once told me if you don’t walk away from the relationship when god give you a sign then he gone make the relationship walk away from you and that really stuck with me♥️

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione 6 лет назад +547

    "Some of the problems you face are because of the people you embrace." ooh, dang.. that's a hard truth.

    • @vancephillipsjr.90
      @vancephillipsjr.90 6 лет назад +12

      Add to that when he said the problems you continue to embrace come with a different face. Guilty!

    • @Leps_
      @Leps_ 6 лет назад +3

      Yaaasss 👏👏👏👏 Pastor Todd was dropping gems throughout this whole series - thank you God for him & using Pastor Todd to deliver your word. Praise God!

  • @ashanataylor8407
    @ashanataylor8407 7 лет назад +1311

    I cried, I laughed, I listened, I pondered, and was encouraged throughout this entire series. I thank God that he allowed a friend to share this message with me. During this season in my life I’m growing ever more closer to God and receiving and believing what he has promised me. Thank you Pastor Todd for allowing God to use you. This series was awesome! 💕

  • @adannaphillip7179
    @adannaphillip7179 6 лет назад +743

    I have no words. All 8 parts were divinely ordained. THIS. IS.WHAT.THE.CHURCH.NEEDS. #writeabook.

    • @hirokokepu1091
      @hirokokepu1091 6 лет назад +5

      Souled-Out Sista Adanna phillip completely agree with you.

    • @makaylahill7436
      @makaylahill7436 6 лет назад +2

      YES !

    • @aurauraura
      @aurauraura 5 лет назад +2

      Divinely ordained 100000000%

    • @sarahj164
      @sarahj164 5 лет назад +12

      Souled-Out Sista Adanna Phillip he just announced his book release!!!

    • @royalelily9105
      @royalelily9105 5 лет назад +13

      and this he did. WOW! He heard you girl

  • @tarynstewart8279
    @tarynstewart8279 4 года назад +255

    1. I need to know my purpose. 2. I need to know how to recognize God’s voice.

    • @purpleflowerpodcast9215
      @purpleflowerpodcast9215 3 года назад +3

      Pray and meditate on God' s word

    • @shortybynature28
      @shortybynature28 3 года назад +5

      That's it knowing when it's God saying to leave or stay at his foot and continue to pray for ur marriage .20yrs of knowing this person 12yrs of marriage,3kids later a new born at that.Got into a abusive situation. Im trying to keep the faith ,how I come out this covenant. I'm fighting and it's too much for me to bare.Im trying to hear and obey God.

    • @boutheinamohamed418
      @boutheinamohamed418 2 года назад +4

      To know your purpose, it’s the dream you have that aligns with his word. To recognise god’s voice I recommend watching Robert Morris’s videos on god’s voice

    • @kyrianjoseph1403
      @kyrianjoseph1403 2 года назад

      I’m asking these same questions.

  • @nickym3627
    @nickym3627 4 года назад +559

    Me and my ex we started our relationship without God, we did things we were not purpose to. We realized it but read the Relationship goals book by Mike Todd and it was really convicting. I personally thought we can work things up and walk with God but He broke up with me yesterday. My heart is really broken and it’s not easy but l pray that God will restore my brokenness

    • @micahrandeemaharaj3937
      @micahrandeemaharaj3937 4 года назад +32

      Going through a similar struggle I pray that God has restored you and healed you 🌸

    • @kayrawilliamson5275
      @kayrawilliamson5275 4 года назад +10

      @@micahrandeemaharaj3937 same here, and I wish the same for you both. 💞

    • @kimcruz3889
      @kimcruz3889 4 года назад +17

      same i'm going through it right now it's so hard :(

    • @chikumbimwenda9729
      @chikumbimwenda9729 4 года назад +28

      You will be okay. You are stronger than you think. Trust in the Lord will all your ❤️, don't depend on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your path.

    • @mees2751
      @mees2751 3 года назад +8

      God has a special gift for you. And you are royalty, fine China and Gods best, it’s his lost. You are in Gods perfect will and that’s what matters. You are the daughter of the king baby❤️🌺🌺❤️

  • @dominiquepriscella
    @dominiquepriscella 6 лет назад +1150

    About two hours ago I was in my bfs car crying for a whole 2 hours because of issues we were having.. and I was just praying to God to tell me if this relationship was meant to be. I had felt like God never listens and was frustrated asking him to just "speak" to me. Literally. Once I calmed down and finished my tearful prayer Or really breakdown. I came inside and got on RUclips typed in "when to know when a relationship needs to end" and this video wasn't even the first but a couple videos down... i don't know why or what told me to click on it but TRUST AND BELIEVE God listens because this has made me feel so much better and I truly feel like God directly spoke to me. I am grateful and have now subscribed! I will take this word and use it in my very own relationship. May God bless us all

    • @MARQUITALS03
      @MARQUITALS03 5 лет назад +10

      I’m curious to know as well

    • @daisyainembabazi4949
      @daisyainembabazi4949 4 года назад +3

      Do you end it .

    • @gabrielallen5722
      @gabrielallen5722 4 года назад +1

      Amen

    • @tboykin13tb
      @tboykin13tb 4 года назад +5

      @@dominiquepriscella,
      Good for U. 😇

    • @arleneliftschrist6240
      @arleneliftschrist6240 4 года назад +13

      So much strength good job beautiful happy for you. I’m currently in the boat you was in I walked away once and went back now in the same emotional mess bc I just know he’s not helping...at all. Reading that you left makes me so happy for you building on strength to do the same....

  • @ackimrafael4600
    @ackimrafael4600 7 лет назад +276

    whoever disliked this video, you needed this message and it hurt you.

  • @emmelee8201
    @emmelee8201 6 лет назад +361

    My favorite part “You got insecurities that didn’t even come from people who were supposed to be in your life. Because you hooked up with them now you’re self conscious. You thought you was fine before you got with him. You thought you was banging, & now you were with him for 6 months and you look at yourself worse than you ever have.” ‬

    • @bunchie9703
      @bunchie9703 4 года назад +3

      That touched me and think of my situation.. please look at my comment and tell me what you think..it's at the top. thanks

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 года назад +1

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @Jackie_theRealtor
      @Jackie_theRealtor 3 года назад

      Wow!! I have to watch this over again! I didn’t hear this part but this message spoke to me.

    • @ecirtal4422
      @ecirtal4422 3 года назад

      It this for me

    • @jennasittler3142
      @jennasittler3142 3 года назад

      Oh my !!’ My bf of 6 months just broke up with me and this describes how I’m left right now. Insecure, anxious, self conscious and I Know- KNOW - he is not even right for me . What am I doing !!

  • @ogunmolamayowa9945
    @ogunmolamayowa9945 4 года назад +301

    When the relationship is bullying my purity, it's time for it to end.
    Waoh ✂️

  • @kukhanyafudumele5607
    @kukhanyafudumele5607 4 года назад +213

    This series has me questioning my partners intentions with me. And I knew for a while the relationship is holding me back. It's time. I thank the Lord for speaking to me through you.

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 года назад +1

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @WillBlindYouWithLight
      @WillBlindYouWithLight 3 года назад +1

      Exactly

    • @jeaquintayoung6544
      @jeaquintayoung6544 2 года назад +1

      How did it go ,?

    • @kukhanyafudumele5607
      @kukhanyafudumele5607 2 года назад +11

      @@jeaquintayoung6544 almost two years since we've parted. My relationship with God is closer than before.

  • @caseywills1000
    @caseywills1000 6 лет назад +597

    You know that feeling you get when you finish a really good show and you're like what am I supposed to do with my life now?? That's how I feel after finishing this series

    • @bgtsy
      @bgtsy 6 лет назад +9

      Casey Wills ya it’s awesome. You’re thirsty. this makes ya wanna find a Bible preaching friendly church. People say they’re hypocrites in church; they’re everywhere, at least they’re trying. Take care!

    • @biancahiestermann784
      @biancahiestermann784 4 года назад +8

      They just started a new relationship goals series! :)

    • @carloseliboteo
      @carloseliboteo 4 года назад +4

      Now you apply it 😇

    • @travelwithoconnor
      @travelwithoconnor 3 года назад +1

      You've learned, Go Live!

  • @hannahtanig2692
    @hannahtanig2692 6 лет назад +614

    If I watched this before. I would probably not feel the pain that Im feeling right now. From now on, I won't enter a relationship without God's permit. I will wait patiently rather than let my self hurt again. I am single but not alone. I am in a relationship with God and I will enjoy each day with Him. ❤️

    • @maticaburton1030
      @maticaburton1030 5 лет назад

      Amen!

    • @sweetumsDenise
      @sweetumsDenise 5 лет назад

      Amen

    • @aleram5043
      @aleram5043 4 года назад

      Hannah Tanig amén ♥️

    • @coronabremer667
      @coronabremer667 4 года назад +1

      "All relationships have problems, unhealthy relationships have unaddressed problems" - MIC DROP. Thank you! Blessings!

    • @corneliarobinson4650
      @corneliarobinson4650 3 года назад

      Same girl.. I started it .. and didn't finish the series.. and I'm thinking now that I wish i had watched it. . Caz I wouldn't be in the situation I'm in now..

  • @willers001
    @willers001 7 лет назад +697

    I ended it, my two years of turmoil. Thank you, Pastor Todd

  • @kellyogbonna5628
    @kellyogbonna5628 4 года назад +56

    when he mentions how over 10 thousand people have watched the first episode of this series...but now it's millions! Look at God's growth!!

  • @tynisajones982
    @tynisajones982 4 года назад +208

    Struggling...I didnt want a divorce..my husband does so he left because I gave my life to the Lord and this is not how my husband imagined his life so he left so I'm struggling a little bit well a lot but the series helped me so much praise God

    • @RukkyErifeta
      @RukkyErifeta 4 года назад +19

      Ohh I pray God's love guides you maam. I pray God makes his love so real to you that you can feel it around you right where you are. I know it's never so simple but It will be alright I promise, the bible told me so. Much love ❤️ dearest. Love love love you 💕❤💕

    • @Serenitymommy10
      @Serenitymommy10 4 года назад +20

      The unbeliever is free to leave if they don't want to be with the believer. May God heal your hurt. Remember Jesus love you🤗🤗🤗🤗

    • @tynisajones982
      @tynisajones982 4 года назад +2

      @@Serenitymommy10 thank you 🙏🏾 ☺️

    • @naailayoung56
      @naailayoung56 4 года назад +2

      You are very strong and I hope your doing well

    • @tynisajones982
      @tynisajones982 4 года назад +6

      @@naailayoung56 thank you so much God is a healer... nothing is possible without God

  • @alexisforteza_
    @alexisforteza_ 6 лет назад +876

    This hit me HARD. I just ended a 7 years relationship and I’ve been going through it. But, this brought me peace

    • @koconutkirby4135
      @koconutkirby4135 6 лет назад +59

      I just ended a 10yr marriage with 2 children. God is healing me everyday.

    • @edwincapron3560
      @edwincapron3560 5 лет назад +6

      Wow, well done! God bless you

    • @JennMejia
      @JennMejia 5 лет назад +21

      I did the same and having a hard time not wanting to have reconciliation, but I know the Lord has called me to let it go. I just need to be obedient.

    • @sb6644
      @sb6644 5 лет назад +8

      Curly Bella wow! I’m ready to end my unhealthy marriage of 7 years

    • @buikejesus
      @buikejesus 5 лет назад +6

      I thought God hated divorce, and that nothing should split 2 couples

  • @samathasmith4654
    @samathasmith4654 5 лет назад +382

    Just ended a 4 year relationship. I’ve watched this about 5 times now. God really speaks through this man.

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 года назад +2

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @inezapangel9381
      @inezapangel9381 3 года назад +1

      @@pastormichaeltodd7369 pray for me too am young but confused of the relationship I hv been in for almost 3yrs I really don't know what to do or how to end it.

    • @angieperdomo6254
      @angieperdomo6254 3 года назад +3

      @@inezapangel9381 it's a fake account

    • @backtalkwithMs.Treasure
      @backtalkwithMs.Treasure 3 года назад

      Are you saying that God speaks through this man because he gave you a word it was something that you need it and now you view it as we speak and threw him you could’ve spoke that message yourself and I’m sure you knew we all know when it’s time to stop it so he just did a refresher for you that’s it and he put in some scriptures which is great

    • @backtalkwithMs.Treasure
      @backtalkwithMs.Treasure 3 года назад +3

      Were you married or just with somebody for four years if you were married my condolences but if you weren’t married I’m sure you were probably doing everything that married people would do I’ve done it myself so you know right from wrong nobody has to tell you that this is when things get really bad and you can reflect upon what God has said and what his word says and then you wanna act as if it was just horrible I’ve done it it

  • @pookachu99
    @pookachu99 7 лет назад +303

    I finished this amazing series on yesterday! I prayed and asked God to reveal any relationship that wasnt for me. Not even an hour later the guy I was dating called and told me he cheated on me. He was watching this series also and it made him want to tell me the truth. This heartache is temporary and I know God has better for me. I will not get in another relationship God hasn't put me in. I will continue to enjoy my singleness until God brings who has for me to me!

    • @thulanimgabazi3124
      @thulanimgabazi3124 6 лет назад +4

      pookachu99 hope he didn't read this comment...lol

    • @mirandavioletbagamba9466
      @mirandavioletbagamba9466 6 лет назад +2

      I swear to God I will wait on Him to show me my next person but for now I just wanna heal.

    • @emmanuelegyam9665
      @emmanuelegyam9665 5 лет назад +1

      I like this.

    • @merciamisigaro5911
      @merciamisigaro5911 5 лет назад +3

      pookachu99 wow!!! What a testimony girl. Yes, in this time love your single season. I wanna encourage you to keep praying for your future spouse. Your beautiful and I know God has the best for you 😊🙌🏽

    • @terrydominguez3321
      @terrydominguez3321 5 лет назад

      Relationship goals was helpful

  • @sell3100
    @sell3100 4 года назад +73

    One really good sign that a relationship needs to end is when it's abusive and toxic with no signs of any changes for the better...Such relationships are NOT of God and they're NOT His ideal.
    If you're in such a relationship...Get out as fast as you can and never look back, get closer to God and let Him guide and direct all of your steps, words and actions.
    God is all you need!

    • @jamieleebrock4688
      @jamieleebrock4688 2 года назад +1

      What if you are married and figured out how toxic and abusive it really is? My fault for marrying without God being number 1 or even number 10 in my life then.

  • @bentatebasketball
    @bentatebasketball 3 года назад +48

    “some of the problems you face are because of the people you embrace” 🙏🔥

  • @crystaldionnenewman2057
    @crystaldionnenewman2057 7 лет назад +522

    This series RELATIONSHIP GOALS has changed my life. I wish I had this information when I was younger.

    • @LoveLove-yf6yq
      @LoveLove-yf6yq 7 лет назад

      Crystal Dionne Newman Me too!

    • @ajobeo
      @ajobeo 7 лет назад

      It’s never too late to amends!

    • @sunnyfunny6426
      @sunnyfunny6426 7 лет назад +1

      Still 17

    • @beronnyboyd9903
      @beronnyboyd9903 6 лет назад

      Crystal Dionne Newman Me too, I am so happy that I started listening to him

    • @nfgatorgal
      @nfgatorgal 6 лет назад +5

      Me too!! Could've saved me 20 years of cluelessness and heartbreak! Focusing on my "singleness" now, long overdue!

  • @yashicawarner9828
    @yashicawarner9828 6 лет назад +223

    I have avoided this message literally for months because I already knew I needed to end a relationship. I have to pray for courage to end it correctly as shared in this message. I want all of my promises. Thank you! God Bless!

    • @godsfavourite164
      @godsfavourite164 4 года назад

      You and me both

    • @ohyessunshine
      @ohyessunshine 4 года назад

      Same here

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 года назад +1

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @nikeyawashington4332
      @nikeyawashington4332 4 года назад

      You can do it love!! You can do anything through Christ !! ❤️❤️

    • @b.m.1949
      @b.m.1949 3 года назад +1

      I know how you feel because I was in the same situation. I was in a friendship that robbed me of my voice. But believe me, you have enough courage in you to take it back, since you are much more powerful than you think. What gave me the courage to stand up for myself and end it was me being physically distant from the person. We didn't meet or text as much, which was intentional from my part. This made me realize how happy I was in her absence. But when we met, I was sooo annoyed. This feeling increased the more I saw her, so much that I was just done with the friendship. I was so done that I wasn't scared anymore to say something. I was so done that if I had had to meet her one more time and acted like everything was cool while that wasn't the case for years, I would have gone crazy. So believe me when I say you can do that! All of you guys can!

  • @rachelharris891
    @rachelharris891 7 лет назад +318

    Is anybody else crying because this series is over?😩 God is so amazing, and I am so beyond blessed to have come across this!!! I needed this in order to grow and to be content in where God has placed me. God bless Pastor Mike!!!

  • @phillirich585
    @phillirich585 4 года назад +72

    Believe me god brings clarity, for couple months I was confused as to what my relationship was and today I woke up with prayer asking God for clarity and simply the answer to my question "what are we and to let me know if this is worth it" .....couple minutes later my now ex and I got on a call and my questions were answered.
    Thank you for this I am in shambles but this brought me peace. God I trust will bring me to a place and I will enter no more relationships without him. To anyone hurting including myself LET GO and LET GOD

    • @RukkyErifeta
      @RukkyErifeta 4 года назад +1

      Much love to you❤❤, it'll work together for your good. God loves you so much and I pray his love embraces you right where you are. 💕

    • @bekihussien7166
      @bekihussien7166 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/G4ofcqeygXw/видео.html

  • @M.o.o.n_Dragon
    @M.o.o.n_Dragon 3 года назад +96

    "When you started it and God didn't." well there goes 99% of my relationships 😅
    thank God for the 1%!

    • @mersilene10
      @mersilene10 2 года назад +1

      I know! Lol. Gotta clean out my entire list save maybe 2

    • @M.o.o.n_Dragon
      @M.o.o.n_Dragon 2 года назад

      @@mersilene10 ihu

  • @Theeflawlesswallace
    @Theeflawlesswallace 5 лет назад +2479

    How do you know when a relationship needs to end: “When you started it and God didn’t”
    Me:That’s my que 💀👀

  • @miriamfischer1983
    @miriamfischer1983 5 лет назад +163

    „When you started a relationship and God didn’t.“ gotta throw the whole man away now

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 года назад +1

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @lizhenen5395
      @lizhenen5395 3 года назад

      Please don't lol just let him go peacefully and u both will be blessed 🙏

  • @tashiadavis9884
    @tashiadavis9884 6 лет назад +193

    God knows I am not ready for a relationship right now...when I am Lord please be the one who starts it. Thank you for this message!

  • @watuwashengaaz6244
    @watuwashengaaz6244 3 года назад +23

    Am a 31yr old widow has been for the last 6yrs and I have been telling myself I don't need to remarry but this series has affirmed that God doesn't want me to be alone his intentions are better than my thoughts.

  • @agi-news
    @agi-news 4 года назад +32

    Took me a couple of failed relationships that went no where to really realize that putting God in something instead of before something is never going to be the right choice. My current girlfriend and I are having some problems and I was suggested by a friend to watch this series. And instantly was reminded of how I first met this girl. I prayed a whole week after I first met her before persuing her. I had doubts in my head but God like the pastor said, gave me peace and understanding. The problems we have right now are revealing a lot of hurt that I had inside of me because of the way I was raised up. Despite the outcome of what happens to our relationship from this point and on, I know that God meant for us to be together, atleast for a period of time. I am madly in love with this girl and I know I want things to go a certain way between us, but I know that Gods will is bigger than mine. I trust him and am glad in his will whatever that may be. Pray for me y’all!

  • @YaaOwusua
    @YaaOwusua 6 лет назад +188

    "When you end the relationship that's taking from you, everyone gets blessed." Glory, glory, glory! 🙌🙌🙌 God bless you for this powerful message.

    • @thealluretribe4678
      @thealluretribe4678 5 лет назад

      That part was a aha moment for

    • @mariellyevelazquez7813
      @mariellyevelazquez7813 4 года назад

      Amen!!! I really needed this message. I've been thinking I could save my friends but the Holy Spirit is the one that saves and transforms people. The first time I watched this I didn't listen. Now a year later I'm rewatching this series and it helped me end relationships I had too much emotional dependence and gave them power over my life. So now I'm learning to ask God if it's ok to pursue a relationship before getting into one and be completely honest in all my relationships.

    • @mswifey1410
      @mswifey1410 3 года назад

      Relationship or marriage?

  • @KarwirwaLaura
    @KarwirwaLaura 7 лет назад +726

    I "bumped into" this channel, straight into this series. God is King, even over my RUclips suggestions😀 I found my new virtual church ☺ God bless Pst Mike, His team and this entire ministry.
    ~Laura, from Kenya with love 😊❤

    • @jabezkieru927
      @jabezkieru927 7 лет назад

      Karwirwa Laura I saw you recommend this channel on your instagram story and Woow am blessed

    • @KarwirwaLaura
      @KarwirwaLaura 7 лет назад +1

      To God's glory!

    • @marvamoseley899
      @marvamoseley899 7 лет назад +1

      Same!

    • @regisnyder
      @regisnyder 7 лет назад +2

      Karwirwa Laura the same with me! I’ve watched other videos on relationships with a faith base premise, but THIS serious has truly spoke to my spirit, heart and mind.

    • @khiilara
      @khiilara 7 лет назад

      Girl, me too...stay blessed ❤.

  • @ItsMeLearyB
    @ItsMeLearyB 6 лет назад +122

    I see why this church is called Transformation because goodness!

  • @aldrich7235
    @aldrich7235 3 года назад +77

    my gf and I have been together for 4 years and we’re taking a break to implement god in our lives because we started our relationship without god
    we both miss each other and want to get back together but we’re unsure if it’s in gods will or his timing or plans for the both of us.
    Pray for us.

    • @malloriereyes-ek1nj
      @malloriereyes-ek1nj Год назад +4

      Wow going through this exact same situation!

    • @zajahdivine1520
      @zajahdivine1520 Год назад

      I would love to hear how it’s going I’m starting to deal with the same thing my self

    • @katierowe
      @katierowe Год назад

      Me too

    • @amygilliam644
      @amygilliam644 6 месяцев назад

      I believe God will make a way if it's right. I had a boyfriend who I started taking to church and after we broke up he continued to go, we went separate ways and didn't talk for a while but a few years later we met up and found ourselves in the same position, the same amount of time sober and both following our walks with God, he's a great lifelong friend now and if the timing is ever right I know God will make a way for us too of it's in his will. Blessings to you both

  • @17736tja
    @17736tja 4 года назад +289

    My first date is today. I got permission to pursue! 😍 I’m so excited to see how this goes :)
    Update: the relationship ended after 1.3 years, but it ended with blessing and we both walked with God during the whole relationship it was worth it. Thank you for this message pastor Mike!!! It helped so much before, during, and after ❤️

  • @moniquebrandon-smith2634
    @moniquebrandon-smith2634 6 лет назад +101

    My Lord... Bad relationships can change you for the worse and help you lose yourself. Especially when you start off good, by the end of it you won't even recognize yourself believe me I no. It's as toxic as poison. Thank you for the word this AM.

  • @theobserver_224
    @theobserver_224 6 лет назад +783

    This is legit my virtual church I love their message so much .... pastor mike out here slaying with fashion ........ 😂😂😂 very good pastor and I’ve learnt so much from this series honestly - love from Nigeria and ireland depending on where I’m at ❤️❤️❤️

    • @unnamed7570
      @unnamed7570 6 лет назад

      ireland? why ireland? im from ireland

    • @TrePrince333
      @TrePrince333 6 лет назад +3

      I agree. I wish that I could go to their church. I live in LA and it's been so hard finding a church home out here.

    • @theterrygilbertjr
      @theterrygilbertjr 6 лет назад +1

      wow look at god thats amazing!

    • @TL-kt2ye
      @TL-kt2ye 6 лет назад +1

      Me too! Its changed me.

    • @lukaspaul3624
      @lukaspaul3624 6 лет назад +2

      Amen!!! Great Pastor!!!. I'm from Ireland too. Watching for a year. Praise God😇

  • @alexandriamercer
    @alexandriamercer 7 лет назад +342

    I started watching this series Jan. 10, 2018 at 11 pm. I am not on this last part Jan 11 2018 - 😩 yes it’s THAT God. This series just “so happen” to pop up on my RUclips Feed, after I prayed about relationships. 🙌🏾 God is good. I plan on following this church now.

    • @dahliaherrod4301
      @dahliaherrod4301 7 лет назад +3

      Literally the same thing happened to me. I've been charged with strengthening my financial health and this journey led me to this series. It didn't seem to link to my situation at first but now I see how my relationships with people, food, money and God really effects me positively and negatively. I feel blessed for having seen this series.

    • @amystrickland1538
      @amystrickland1538 7 лет назад +3

      I started last night. Jan 11 and I’m on the last one now on Jan 12...it’s just that good i agree!

    • @tabithaelaine8931
      @tabithaelaine8931 7 лет назад +5

      Same for me. I just finished watching and will never look at relationships the same again. ✌💜

    • @FARO.11711
      @FARO.11711 7 лет назад +3

      I’m so glad I’m not the only one! I started it yesterday and ended it today!

    • @tisha7252
      @tisha7252 7 лет назад +6

      Funny thing... I had been praying as well about sending my future husband to me and keeping all others away. One night I had a dream about this man who was being nice to me. It wasn't anything weird, or anything, strictly platonic, he was just nice. The man even has these personality characteristics. The next morning I woke up and opened up RUclips... Why was I drawn to this series showing in my feed because Pastor Mike looked like the man in my dream! God is GREAT! KNEW JUST what I NEEDED to HEAR and SEE!

  • @victorolatunji3973
    @victorolatunji3973 4 года назад +46

    God directed me to this... i just needed it as im in a mess.. please pastor, pray for me.. i need the strength to make strong decisions cos im too emotional.

  • @terinaitamai
    @terinaitamai Год назад +28

    I’m the bad person in this scenario. I had a wonderful person and I didn’t reciprocate the same love. I can testify, as the bad person, just how much sense this makes. I was definitely number 3, a red flag. I gave myself to God last year and I pray for a second chance. 🙏🏼

    • @amyk6275
      @amyk6275 Год назад

      Same😢

    • @naomiowesme6447
      @naomiowesme6447 11 месяцев назад +2

      I love the accountability I pray you’re an better person for opening condemnation of your past ❤

    • @terinaitamai
      @terinaitamai 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@naomiowesme6447 Thank you sis! Wow I posted that comment 10 months ago and I am definitely in a much better place - mentally, emotionally, spiritually and even physically. Chasing God is the best remedy for everything.

  • @traceyrenee7816
    @traceyrenee7816 6 лет назад +56

    5 minutes in to listening I was weeping. I had the strength to walk away from a relationship that needed to end.

  • @MissTlash
    @MissTlash 7 лет назад +82

    😂😂 Lord! I absolutely love the way he reads the Bible - makes you pay attention to details and not miss the message. Bless Him.

  • @m.f.409
    @m.f.409 6 лет назад +76

    "Don't do anything without PERMISSION to pursue." Check your acknowlegement and your heart posture!

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 года назад

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @goodauragoodvibes8654
      @goodauragoodvibes8654 2 года назад

      Clap👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @murieldawkins8295
    @murieldawkins8295 3 года назад +88

    I’m watching this in Jan 2022. Part of the 21 days of fast and praying. Thanks 🙏🏾 HolySpirit for leading me to watch this I finally got my confirmation.

    • @md8111
      @md8111 2 года назад +3

      I saw this right after the 21 days of fasting and prayer, but GOD was speaking to me during the 21 days that it was time for it to end.

  • @elizabethcornell5745
    @elizabethcornell5745 5 лет назад +263

    Dating Same person but different faces ... Oh lord!

    • @sell3100
      @sell3100 4 года назад +3

      Making the same choices and expecting different results...It never works.

    • @joanaavi6575
      @joanaavi6575 3 года назад +1

      @@sell3100 I have tested it and if seen it....same person.same results.same characters.same attitude.same behaviours..oh God🤦‍♀️

  • @santanasoria4591
    @santanasoria4591 6 лет назад +83

    Isn't it amazing how God gives you exactly what you need to hear at exactly the right time! God is so good❤

    • @pastormichaeltodd6261
      @pastormichaeltodd6261 4 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+234 9150344209) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..................

  • @cutiepie13216
    @cutiepie13216 6 лет назад +71

    “Our own ideas grow up to torment us” 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @ChiChi-sb4ys
    @ChiChi-sb4ys 2 года назад +24

    Listening to this in October 2022, I’m so glad I happened upon this series, it has truly been a blessing. At 31, I will not make a move without God’s permission to pursue. I know that my single stage right now isn’t punishment but protection and preparation. Thank you God 😊🙌🏽

  • @MilanoP777
    @MilanoP777 7 лет назад +57

    I have allowed so many things to rob me of God promises for my life......but no more because I TRUST you GOD🙌🏾

  • @BlackFox15
    @BlackFox15 5 лет назад +128

    Makes me want to move to Tulsa just to attend this church. Absolutely blown away by his messages. He has opened my mind and my heart to things I wish I had known. I hope God still has a purpose for me because I want to serve him.

    • @niellouw4080
      @niellouw4080 4 года назад +5

      As long as you are here on earth, it means that God still has a purpose for you here, otherwise he would have taken you back to Him already!

    • @nappyqueen86
      @nappyqueen86 4 года назад

      Niel Louw amen. thx for that comment

  • @jamesmulbah4255
    @jamesmulbah4255 4 года назад +83

    Oh my God!
    I just came across this.
    End it quickly,
    End it with blessings,
    End it intentional and
    End it trusting God for everything..
    So inspiring!!!

  • @illseeyouinmarslo9561
    @illseeyouinmarslo9561 3 года назад +33

    There’s no perfect relationship. You work through it if you really want it.

    • @mswifey1410
      @mswifey1410 3 года назад +8

      If 1 person is working to fix it, & the other working to keep it broken, what do you do then?

    • @snugglebunny8772
      @snugglebunny8772 3 года назад +3

      @@mswifey1410 it takes both to fix it if one is working against it then it won't work because they obviously don't want it anymore both parties have to work together to make things move ahead otherwise you are wasting time n goin in circles best advice is to pray and ask the Lord for guidance and clarity read the word, pray n fast 🙏🏼

    • @shortybynature28
      @shortybynature28 3 года назад +4

      You may really want it but is it worth the more pain and agony it will bring if you continue 🤔. MARRIED w/ 3kids. NO RESPECT 4RM SPOUSE U KNOW FOR 20YRS,SINCE HIGH SCHOOL IS IT ATTACHMENT & FEAR OF OVERALL EVEYTHNG.DONT want to be a single parent like what you witnessed as a child.Trauma.Dont want to pass that along to the kids.Tired of the disrespect and hands being put on me,torture of my pass mistakes as if I tortured him through his pass mistakes.Im drained emotionally, mentally, & physically.

  • @Pam-ry4xx
    @Pam-ry4xx 4 года назад +14

    i ended it yesterday, and there's peace when i watched this showing me how right my decision is.

  • @kimalterego3463
    @kimalterego3463 7 лет назад +128

    I was sidetracked and in covenant with the wrong person until 2014. I felt my faith was so strong before that relationship commenced in 2010 and since it ended, I have not believed I could ever make the right decisions about relationships. As a result, I've isolated myself. So from the very first sermon in this series to the last, various aspects of my struggle have been highlighted and explained from a biblical perspective. God's perspective is everything! I believe the healing process has begun!

    • @veronicaquinones1539
      @veronicaquinones1539 7 лет назад

      Kim Lewisalterego 🙌🏽 glory

    • @TheAnomalyPod
      @TheAnomalyPod 7 лет назад +2

      Kim Lewisalterego God is a healer!! Now is the time for you to experience healthy, thriving relationships! God bless you! 😘❤️

    • @keeshabrown7353
      @keeshabrown7353 7 лет назад +2

      Kim Lewisalterego May God have His way in your life in His way in His time. May His Peace be with you forevermore and saturate every crevice of your being.

    • @kristinejohnarcangeli9187
      @kristinejohnarcangeli9187 6 лет назад

      Kim Lewisalterego and

    • @clemenciajaune981
      @clemenciajaune981 6 лет назад +1

      God is good! A healer indeed

  • @NoLimitSim
    @NoLimitSim 5 лет назад +91

    I asked god to show me a sermon I needed and refreshed the page this popped up. I’m hurt 😔 but i have to obey 🤷🏾‍♀️💃🏾

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 года назад

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @nikeyawashington4332
      @nikeyawashington4332 4 года назад +1

      It will be okay. I know the truth is hard to accept at first but you will get through
      it❤️

  • @angela.iranna
    @angela.iranna 7 лет назад +104

    I've witnessed this channel grow over one week from 14k subs to now 30k subs. I'M SO HAPPY because this message should be taught in EVERY CHURCH! This is powerful!..With that being said, I ended my 2-year relationship 1 day prior to discovering this series. After watching Toure Roberts' "Keys on Identifying your Soulmate", I was feening for more and God blessed me with this video series. Thank you, Pastor Mike. My world has been changed permanently.

    • @ebonessbelin9167
      @ebonessbelin9167 7 лет назад +3

      ActressAngie bless you sister!! God has more in store, so excited for you. I first started listening to Toure this summer and it absolutely gave me the boost in growth that I needed in my walk with God......I'm one of those 15k subs that joined this week ! May we continually move toward alignment! 💚

    • @angela.iranna
      @angela.iranna 7 лет назад +2

      Eboness Belin thank you! God has amazing things in store for you too, sis. Stay aligned and stay blessed ❤️

    • @ebonymccalla5769
      @ebonymccalla5769 6 лет назад

      Hey, I watched that video as well! it was amazing!

    • @nessloba3269
      @nessloba3269 4 года назад

      ActressAngie It’s now to almost 1,000,000 subscribers

  • @leneeseknight591
    @leneeseknight591 3 года назад +42

    Listening one more time to start off 2022!
    Ended all liability relationships.
    Looking forward to my relationship with God and prepping for a good man.

  • @Gods_Child_52
    @Gods_Child_52 2 года назад +4

    I have a 4yrs relationship that has been difficult. I'm praying now and inviting God into my life. I dont know ou w what the outcome will be but I want marriage. Lord willing.

  • @ketinafleming2948
    @ketinafleming2948 7 лет назад +56

    My BF sent this series after I discussed with her about a relationship. My first thought was, this young pastor is anointed! You are blessed beyond your years. I pray you continue allowing God to use you to give powerful and understanding Word. After listening and taking notes, my Relationship Goals have and will change. Thank you Pastor!

  • @heyyyme100
    @heyyyme100 6 лет назад +268

    This series made me feel like I was in some type of training course. So equipped ✋🏾😩🤚🏾

  • @iamdominiquealexis
    @iamdominiquealexis 5 лет назад +207

    Whew chile! This series blew my wig clean off my head 😂😂😂😂 POWERFUL and right on time!!!

    • @candidlycamille
      @candidlycamille 5 лет назад +2

      Dominique Haughton me too sis 😂

    • @aggymaka9628
      @aggymaka9628 4 года назад +2

      🤣🤣thought only my wig got snitched

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 года назад

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @susanparker4011
      @susanparker4011 3 года назад

      @@pastormichaeltodd7369 PLEASE GET A LIFE, ALREADY & GET A JOB WHILE YOU'RE AT IT. 😳

    • @TYPthePYT
      @TYPthePYT 2 года назад

      I can't fool with you 😆 I feel the same way though

  • @Sly_Sennie24
    @Sly_Sennie24 2 года назад +22

    Watching five years later. But I'm never late. I'm learning and I thank God for this.

    • @ChiChi-sb4ys
      @ChiChi-sb4ys 2 года назад

      Same here! I’m glad I found it now, it came at a perfect time because I’ve been trying to get closer to God and not be distracted anymore

    • @nicholasrobinson.
      @nicholasrobinson. 2 года назад

      New. Creation. Church. Of. God /flint mich

  • @itsshaye999
    @itsshaye999 2 года назад +36

    I found this video 2 days after my bad relationship with someone . And it relates so closely .. my ex partner was avoidant , didn’t want to communicate or be honest with me when something was wrong . They’d keep saying nothing was wrong when i wanted to talk so for 7 months they kept up this behavior and our relationship ended horribly . I remember weeks before the breakup I prayed to God that i was hurt my partner was confusing me and I asked him to reveal to me if the relationship would work or not .. and it didn’t 🙏 Relationships need to end and that’s ok

  • @cecipleitez
    @cecipleitez 6 лет назад +90

    So that you can screenshot:
    HOW DO YOU KNOW A RELATIONSHIP NEEDS TO END?
    1. When you started it, but God didn’t.
    2. When no one wants to deal about the real issue.
    3. When what the relationship produces it’s picking on your promises.
    Do yourself a favor and watch the “relationship goals” series on RUclips from Transformation Church.

  • @marygeniusz6929
    @marygeniusz6929 5 лет назад +32

    How to know when it needs to end?
    1. when you started it and God didnt: this allows the devil to bring in counterfeits
    2. When nobody wants to deal with the real issues: you just argue but never fix the issues
    3. When the relationship produces things that pick on Gods promise for you. Example: A relationship that produces lust...It picks on Gods promise for you to live a pure life.

    • @joannericoph
      @joannericoph 2 года назад +1

      thank you for sharing the summary points.

  • @madamanita2110
    @madamanita2110 7 лет назад +62

    This is MY virtual church, I pray I find one like this in my hometown

  • @jasmine-qf9hl
    @jasmine-qf9hl 4 года назад +59

    Just ended a relationship. It was very hard and I’m still heartbroken but I know God’s plan is better than mine.

    • @queenmaz7nomusa411
      @queenmaz7nomusa411 2 года назад +1

      I'm in this same space ❤️

    • @monetgiarge1738
      @monetgiarge1738 Год назад

      Same here❤

    • @judithkeme1728
      @judithkeme1728 Год назад +1

      How are you today 😢

    • @meleanahart3474
      @meleanahart3474 Год назад

      Same on this day, and I continue to profess the same thing. His plans are better than mine. I trust him completely and fully. Even through the disappointment ❤️

    • @CherieChrist
      @CherieChrist 20 дней назад

      Same here…

  • @MrsKing45
    @MrsKing45 11 дней назад

    7 years later and God's word is still working!! I needed this today. Saw a clip of it on IG and Googled it to find the full message. God keeps looking out for us even in our mess! Thanks, Pastor Todd, for sharing such a powerful message.

  • @Chloegiselleee
    @Chloegiselleee 7 лет назад +227

    I truly enjoyed the entire Relationship Goals series. Thank you Pastor Michael for be so obedient to God and also showing that God is not so serious and he has humor too. I hope to see you preaching live soon. May God continue to bless you and your ministry. This series has made a significant impact on my walk with Christ.

  • @tonyah626
    @tonyah626 7 лет назад +40

    Thank you so much Pastor Mike. It's about time church stops avoiding tough topics. You are a great teacher. I broke ties with two men I loved and God brought this series to me. It helped me see the loss as a blessing. Now I'm living without distraction of those relationships.
    Please keep being a pastor that preaches truth to help us navigate through this craxy world.

  • @MegaSwagg4life
    @MegaSwagg4life 6 лет назад +73

    I've been watching this series for the last week and its been on my heart to completely let go and end things with my ex, so I did it last night and it was hard but I prayed myself through it. Thank you so much for this word, it has truly shifted my life.

    • @thulanimgabazi3124
      @thulanimgabazi3124 6 лет назад +2

      Kel Nichole ...lm having a hard time with that too

    • @raveybabii1843
      @raveybabii1843 6 лет назад +9

      I had to do the same yesterday. It was hard because he's a good man by world standards but not a godly man . It hurt but I had to let him go

    • @ledubois6
      @ledubois6 6 лет назад +4

      How are things now? I'm so curious how people are doing months after the decisions they've made as a result of this series. I hope the choices have brought peace to you and others.

    • @pastormichaeltodd6261
      @pastormichaeltodd6261 4 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+234 9150344209) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..................

  • @conniek1039
    @conniek1039 4 года назад +38

    This whole series has changed my life. I’m no longer pining after men who won’t give me a moment’s notice, I’m in a new relationship with my Saviour Jesus Christ who paid for my sins and healed all my hurt 2000 years ago on the cross. THANK YOU JESUS

  • @follow777jesus
    @follow777jesus 3 года назад +56

    Started my relationship with a christian man, went to church, watched some sermons online together, prayed together every night, and it still ended as one of the worst relationships ive ever had. I feel very let down. I really thought God wanted us to be together since he put him into my life, but i came out a worse person and he came out better at least. Perhaps God used me to make him a better man for someone else. I feel forsaken but i remember God is not finished with me yet! Praise God

    • @GeekSourceHD
      @GeekSourceHD 2 года назад +3

      So sorry to hear that. You're in God's plan, and he knows the correct path for you.

    • @follow777jesus
      @follow777jesus 2 года назад +6

      @@GeekSourceHD thank you for the kind words 🖤 Update! We have been back together and he is no longer abusive. His values have altered and we went to church together this last Sunday. I feel so much safer with him now and we have a future seen ahead of us :) literally only God could change a man like this. I finally have husband material now only a few months later after the final break

    • @lourdeschavez7202
      @lourdeschavez7202 2 года назад +4

      The same is happening to me. We pray together, read the bible but it's hard to trust in him.

    • @chibugoemenike8702
      @chibugoemenike8702 2 года назад +3

      God is not done dear. The best is yet to come. Remember that the glory of the latter shall be greater than that of the former. Also remember Prov4:18… things will keep getting better unto perfection.

    • @ehayes79
      @ehayes79 2 года назад

      Check out rc Blake's you tube channel

  • @oliviah960
    @oliviah960 7 лет назад +260

    I loved this series! I’m a 22 Year old college student and i finished this series in a day and a half and it has really opened my eyes up to a lot of things. I enjoyed this. I thank you for this. I’m going to continue to follow your channel. ❤️

    • @TheAnomalyPod
      @TheAnomalyPod 7 лет назад +2

      Olivia Hobbs This series blessed me too! I pray you’ll find your strength in God! 😘❤️❤️❤️

    • @akingunolubunmi3798
      @akingunolubunmi3798 5 лет назад +1

      Same timeline. I started yesterday and I'm on the last one now

  • @naturallyme5048
    @naturallyme5048 7 лет назад +115

    God I thank you for allowing Pastor Michael to deliver this series . This series has spoke volumes to my heart and I am a newbie in Christ and now I have more guidance. This was excellent.

  • @riseup_n_walk
    @riseup_n_walk 7 лет назад +105

    I never comment but this series is amazing!!!!!!! I have laughed, cried, prayed, etc. Thank you soo much. To think that I clicked on this by mistake is crazy. I will definitely recommend this to my friends.

    • @marleejohn3519
      @marleejohn3519 6 лет назад +1

      (I totally agree with you, this series is truly beyond words!!) It wasn't a mistake that you clicked on this video!! God's got you 😉
      God bless!!

  • @soverdadero
    @soverdadero 4 года назад +46

    I felt God tell me to finally be honest about a relationship that I was in. I ended it, but afterwards, I had a lot of regret and anxiety because of how the other person received what I said. This message gave me comfort and hope.

    • @joycerm9575
      @joycerm9575 3 года назад +3

      Currently going through the same, regret and anxiety 😔

    • @KgwittheTEA
      @KgwittheTEA 3 года назад +9

      The enemy want you to feel guilty, if God placed it on your heart your doing the right thing and sometimes submitting to God isn’t easy at first it will get easier

    • @cia3837
      @cia3837 2 года назад +4

      Going through the same thing, I followed the Lord but now the enemy is trying me with my emotions of regrets and anxiety

    • @joycerm9575
      @joycerm9575 2 года назад

      @@KgwittheTEA thanks, ur reply has strengthened me 🙏.

    • @jenniferlopez4245
      @jenniferlopez4245 2 года назад

      I’m going through the same, I feel like God is telling me to leave but yet I see the father of my children such a great father which makes me feel like I am losing someone good.

  • @ThicKaSsKHLoe
    @ThicKaSsKHLoe 3 года назад +5

    Currently going through a breakup and can’t function . Sat in my car and prayed !!! Walked in the house and bumped into this sermon !! Well needed ! God may i heal soon and let go of the love i have for this person who isn’t my person!!!!

  • @Catsndogsz
    @Catsndogsz 7 лет назад +171

    I finished it in 3 days and I loved it! Pure gems in this series like I can’t believe it’s free! I’m going to watch it again and take notes and really study this. It will have a million views soon

  • @annishab5597
    @annishab5597 6 лет назад +96

    "Dont make friends with angry people, and end it when God didnt start it". Noted!

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 года назад +1

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

  • @catherinemockler6774
    @catherinemockler6774 6 лет назад +72

    Folks I'm watching this from ireland 🇮🇪 and wow has it seriously blessed me ✨🙏🏻 love the way He is so Funny but straight to the point we young people really need real life Guidance we can apply to our lives and this was it !.. pastor mike is a Breath of Fresh air and a change to my perspective ! Xx

    • @lukaspaul3624
      @lukaspaul3624 6 лет назад +1

      Praise God for His life. Great Pastor😇and great message. I'm from Ireland too. This Saturday in All Nations Church in National Boxing Stadium will be play King is Born about Jesus Christ!You welcome😊

  • @lewamtesfamariam6270
    @lewamtesfamariam6270 4 года назад +30

    I started a relationship, and had to learn the hard way. May God help me with patient endurance...

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 года назад +2

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

  • @lilianmacharia4101
    @lilianmacharia4101 2 года назад +4

    I first saw part 2 of these series early January 2021 but for some unknown reason I never watched it. I thank God for allowing me to watch it July/August 2022, a season when everybody thinks I am an awkward person staying single and pursuing my dreams.
    The affirmation that "being single is not a punishment for doing something wrong" has blessed.
    I look forward to pursuing a Godly relationship in the future and raise a Godly family.
    Thanks Pator Mike for these. God bless you abundantly.

  • @dinahwilliams4256
    @dinahwilliams4256 7 лет назад +41

    This relationship goals series has had such an impact on my life, it has opened my eyes and I can't thank God enough for showing me this.

  • @lifewithtaye371
    @lifewithtaye371 6 лет назад +23

    I just want to public thank God that he let me come across this series and I pray he continues to break strongholds off my life! God bless this man for allowing Jesus to use him to give such a needed sermon.

  • @KevinGDividend
    @KevinGDividend 5 лет назад +47

    It's so difficult to let go.

    • @theresac9099
      @theresac9099 5 лет назад +1

      This.

    • @W諭
      @W諭 5 лет назад

      Yes

    • @emillyngarama3713
      @emillyngarama3713 5 лет назад +12

      Facts. But I believe that's where God shows us His strength, in that moment of pain is when we learn to lean on God.

  • @tylerrauwolf4691
    @tylerrauwolf4691 3 года назад +9

    My girlfriend and I decided to part ways last night because I came to love God and she didn’t. We had one last sleepover (wouldn’t recommend after a break up and I know it’s not recommended in general, I’m learning), but this morning I got up early, packed her things, and peacefully sent her on her way. It’s tough saying goodbye to someone you love but I know God has a plan for me. Thank you Father Mike for an amazing series!

  • @siphokazimashasha4524
    @siphokazimashasha4524 3 года назад +8

    This series has truly changed the way I view relationships. I have been in a relationship since 2012 so much has happened and this is God's confirmation to just let it go.

  • @enau.7635
    @enau.7635 6 лет назад +30

    I am going through the hardest time in my life ever and I whish I woud have heard this message 15 years ago. These sermons have opened my eyes and I know that it's time for big changes in my life. Thank you Transformation Church and thank GOD!

  • @iatuhaire369
    @iatuhaire369 5 лет назад +37

    Best way to start my twenties... I'm so grateful. Have tried to spread the word of this series to so many people and many have ignored. I'm still really blessed!
    Thank you Jesus.

    • @iatuhaire369
      @iatuhaire369 5 лет назад +1

      @@kristenobrien2647 thank you so much. Sometimes you just need someone to encourage you. i appreciate.