Does Sex Own You? :: Relationship Goals (Part 7)
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- Опубликовано: 17 сен 2017
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This series has changed my LIFE. And came at the RIGHT TIME. I can't describe the peace and faith I feel.
Lilac Roses my thoughts exactly! Glory to God🙌🏼
Amen!!
me too!.. Amen sister!
I know right. My mindset has changed in less then a week!
Lilac Roses ever since i found Pastor Mike..... my SOUL has been on FIRRRRRRRRREE 🔥 do you hear me!!!!
"If He can raise a dead body, He can manage a living one." Preach!!!!!
i wish he had 15 weeks. it has helped me a lot. God bless you.
This series has been Amazing !!!!!!
Ikr girl
N S 👌
Ferrero Reshell 👌
lakeisha d 👌
Pastor, if your reading this - please turn this series into a book or mini docu... so so many people need this... this is the sex talk that EVERYONE needs man woman and child. I can actually say at age 31 this is the first REAL SEX TALK that I ever heard.
J. Vega Vines you can preorder his book!!! Relationship Goals!
same here, age 29 for me
He done did it happen. Book launch happening tomorrow. :)
He has. Glory to God
FACTSSSSSS
You are called for this generation. Fire on sir
Amen he sure is !! He is gifted !
Spreading the word to us young folks
My girlfriend introduced me to one teaching of Pastor Mike...(guess what)...since then I have been going through all his teachings writing down notes...I can't get enough...please pray for me!..I never felt this excited to read the word and hunger to study the word (bible) and I want more of God!!
Same here it's good to keep notes to the better future of your children one day
Same so excited about the wrd
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First can I say that the woman in the church that says “My my my” every service just makes me smile. THIS IS POWERFUL PASTOR. I really needed this. God is good man.
Darlene Chikezie 😂 Ikr!
Darlene Chikezie ikr😂😂😆😆😆
Right??? Like, I wanna go to transformation church and sit next to her 😂😂😂
Lolll same!!!!!!
jazzymaru 😂😂😂😭😭😭🙌🏽 Facts yo!
Found this on social media then after watching half of the series I’m off social media and focusing on my relationship with god.
Jala Laduna girl same here ! Literally deleted all my apps. God bless you !
Amen girl same👏 but I've been binge watching this series tho😂
Jala Laduna amen
Giiiiirllll! Me too i working on letting Him have the control on everything. God bless you
AMEN. God bless
I started looking at this series and I looked at 1,2,3 in the same night, okay. I said okay 1-3 is for me: now I know 4 is not for me, guess what 4, was for me. And I ain't even married. 5 and 6 was for me too. So I decided before I even saw it 7 and 8 is for me. This Series was a 100%
Willie Grant I agree with you.
Willie Grant I could not stop watching as well.
I was the total opposite. I said 'I'm married. I don't need 1-3'. That was false. I needed all of these.
I'm not even married yet too! And I needed all of these!!
This is exactly what I said too😂
He need to do a series on the dangers of social media
Delete delete delete. Once it’s gone you won’t feel any pressure. I promise. It’s the most freeing feeling.
I agree. I only have snap chat now
Agreeeeeed. Deleted mine a couple weeks ago and LORD!!! We thank GOD for freedom! 👏🏾🙌🏾💃🏾
Yesssssss please lord
All of your comment are quite true! Social media carries so many uncensored information that becomes lethal when it gets to the mind. But that's where we can also get to meet wonderful persons like Pastor Mike Todd. I recommend knowing the reason why you are on that social medium and stick with it. And like pastor Mike Todd says, "let God be in control."😇
I was celibate for like a year. Watched 1-6.5 and then stopped. Got in a relationship and messed around. The relationship is now over but God brought me back to this series all these months later. Just shows man may leave but he’ll never leave you or forsake you.
As long as you're back that's what matters.
Same thing happened to me,I felt so guilty for days,I overcame by God's word and prayer.
Amen! Proud of you brother💞
Cedric Hampton Amen. We leave him/God/JeSuS. They don't leave us, but our fellowship/relationship with God/JeSuS Changes. It's not same, til 1 repents of his or her sins.
Cedric Hampton & Yes, God 4 gave U & Thank 👐 🙌 God yur back with the Lord! There's none Righteous, No Not 1. JeSuS was the Only Perfect man W/out sin. God Luvs n 4gives if we ask him to, n repent n turn from our wayz, etc...N JeSuS Name Amen.💯 👍 👊
How can he raise a dead body and not manage a living one !!!!!! Yes
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Phumie Gee punchline one of the punchlines of the entire message
God is the God of the living. 🙌
He definitely said something
God is BREAKING strong chains with these sermons, THANK YOU LORD🙌🏾🙌🏾
Daima M Yesss n Amen 2 wat U said abt break'n Soul ties. Also, God is Help'n Us 2 👀 why it's Not Good 2 have sex b4 marriage & why it's Not good for women 2 have sex with more than 1 man, her husband & for Men not 2 have sex with more than 1 woman>his wife...In JeSuS "Victorious" Name, Amen. Bcuz of soul ties, etc. Hard 2 break those with Much 🙏🙏, much Power, faith, etc. Bindn n loosing, declaring, n decreeing it 2 be so. God knows! N JeSuS Name Amen.💯
Indeed God is using this sermon's to clean up his temple's and renewing us
Amen I love this so much! I never knew this about sex and God. I thank God everyday I'm still 20 and a virgin and I will wait until I'm married.
Heeeeey! Some one I can relate to! Girl, let's wait indeed.
Amen wait girl
Lovematters Amen! Please do.
Lovematters 🌺🌺💐👑🙌🏽✊🏽
Lovematters Right me too!!
I now realise I can't just marry anybody. I need God to order my steps.
this series helped me end a bad relationship... a relationship that I wanted to end from a long time, but it was hard thing to do, cause I got too attached to that person, but he was bad for me. He was pushing me away from God! I'll just lay my life at the feet of Christ, and I'm sure he will bring the right one in my life. the one that will make me grow up in my relationship with God! God is amazing! I came at the conclusion that He can be enough! You don't need a person to tell you that you are precious, that you are loved, cause God is already doing that for you, everyday, every morning you wake up, and you feel healthy, and feel God's presence and God's peace in your life. He is more than enough! He will provide everything for me! I trust in Him!
God bless pastor Mike further! ❤
Корина Маковей God Bless You! I Relate To Your Situation.. But God Is All We Need! Amen!!! 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤
+Domo You Know so sweet! thanks honey! amen to that! Blessings to you too!
Same here girl he hated when I talked about god but that’s my father and he honestly manipulated me I’m glad we can rise up god bless those who flee from the devil
Me too
The most substantial point: RUN! Yes Lord. We must run from the temptation of sexual sin to avoid destructive soul ties. I thank God for this message of deliverance and find solace knowing He is the God of all power who is able to strengthen broken spirits. Thank you for supplying this clarity that is helping bring restoration.
N Morris amen ikr! I love how he says Run and not casually walk away because I always do that and I get drawn back.
@@SarahAgapi the guy bj
At only 15 I met a man 7 years older than me. I was insecure, and looking for a male figure in my life, from never having a stable one. I felt all I had to offer was my body. 2 years and it started to go down hill fast. I was being forced to do things I did not want to. I was around drugs, some of the worst.
Finally I started talking to him less once I turned 18 but then I realized he'd be working at the shop in the small right next to me and I'd be seeing him almost everyday again. BEFORE HE EVEN STARTED he told me he had to transfer to a different mall 2 HOURS away from the one I was at. That was the last time I saw him. I'm 18, even though I've done some wrong I'm glad I'm able to change right now.
I'm so glad the Lord took you out of that horrible ble situation... May He guide you to a church that will give you protection and guidance you need
Release me from all soul ties breaking loose
Datladygreen N.Carter praying for you gods joy is your strength
Saaammmeee
15 years old and I watched this 3 times in a row, so powerful.
That's really good
You are blessed!!! 💯💯💯
I saw the part 8 on Facebook, i then decided to search on RUclips, and hey this was the best decision to take i Have watched episode 1-8 in a day. I am totally changed, redeemed, set free...Thank you for allowing God to use you
KITHEU ESTHER I saw part 3 and it brought me here
KITHEU ESTHER Are you in Nairobi?
In Mombasa
KITHEU ESTHER and
This series is literally blessin’ the mess out of me!👏🏼😭❤️
Same here😭😀💖
Ohh my..... I'm just sitting here in Hungary, whispering "Amen! Amen! Amen!" and crying. Oh-my! God is wonderful.
The two pieces of paper joined together was a really good example!
Janeth Jackson Yes, especially for a visual learner like myself😀
I know right it was really helpful😀
How can He manage a dead body, and not be able to manage a living one?? YOU BETTA PREACH!!! I wish I lived closer so I could visit!!
This sermon help me a lot that it is so much normal to be virgin even at 24 and i will remain my purity until i found my husband and make a covenant.
Same here sis
People think it's weird that I'm a virgin at 24
@@achiaaowusuansah9053 amennn sis a virgin at 20
im going to focus on not being a slave to my sexual desires
Go view Steven Furtick's "FIX YOUR FOCUS"...it will bless your soul.❤
AMEN
I am doing this too with you Serena been a slave for too long now
He said Christ is not enjoying but enduring what you're doing whew! chile!
When he tried to rip the papers apart and said “I just can’t get you off of me” that shook me to my core.
Wow!!! The 1st video had me clutching my pearls chile' he called me out and I was the only one in the room!!! I needed this, a single mother with three children "hear me" I needed this!! Thank you Pastor Mike.
Katrina Kelliebrew yes girl!!! I feel you completely ❤️
The moment you became saved, you became a wife
Right here with you, girlie!! Its not too late. We got this!! #SingleMommyof3 🤗 #1Timothy2:15 #Isaiah54:5
Katrina Kelliebrew I loved ur response. He called me out and I was the only one in the room. I hope 2 years later. Ur still walking in Gods presence. Bless you. God loves you x
When someone say if you want to Netflix and chill you say heaven no 😂😂 I love his message and passion 🙌🏼😊
I'm just so glad that when I was dating my ex's we didn't Netflix and chill. I didn't even invite them into my bedroom. Nope! My bedroom was off limits.
This series is blessing me so much.
"Pastor Mike, why are you going so hard on this? Because I want you freed" God bless your heart Pastor Mike!
I was doing good for 5 months since I decided to be celibate and then not too long ago i slipped up. I had to re watch this to remind myself why it was worth the wait. I needed to hear this. Thank you.
I think sometimes we consider ourselves abstinent because we don’t have anyone at the time to engage in sexual sin, but once we have a person we fall into sin yet again.
Good Lord do I struggle with sexual immorality. I will have to watch this more than once. And although I fear that I have gone too far...have committed too many sexual immoralities, it got me when it said "you were once like that", because I know God knows I was ONCE like that. But I do not have to be any longer. I also take great comfort knowing that my sexual relations with my wife is what God wants and is worshipping God. This video was for me.
I'm happy being single, saved & celibate☺
I've experienced personal growth with this series. Definitely have to share this with all of my friends...married, single, divorced...and etc.
This relationship series has truly changed my mindset on dating and sexual immortality. I'm so glad I found these videos on youtube
I just didn’t want this to end 💕 ...someone said this before on one if the videos for this series but this should definitely be a book. 📚
Leina Sol I know this is from 5 months ago but he’s coming out with a Relationship Goals book! Can’t wait!
Really?! I'm so excited now!! 😀
Leina Sol z. Cv. Nvm vCardImporter I gotta f.
And now it's finally out!
Seeing and hearing how we all struggle with sexual temptation reminds me that I’m not alone and that God is my redeemer🙏🏽
This series has been life changing! Telling all my family and friends to binge watch this instead of Netflix!
Saw this whole series a year ago......
Back again 😐😐😐
Girl welcome to humanhood
This comment just made me happy knowing I’m not the only one
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Same.
I knew that God was in us and I just thought that during moments like those that God just stepped away. But then again why do something that will cause God to step away from us even if it’s just for a moment.
I was confused too. I don't think God is with me when I sin. If that's the case then why do we have to run back to God if He was always right there
I have never had sex or anything like this in general ever explained to me like this...I never understood it this way. It has shaken me...it has just opened a new understanding and I needed to hear this. Everyone needs to watch this.
When he said that no matter what we did, the love of God will never change. I cried. I’ve never felt so grateful before😭
yo he broke down 1 Corinthians 6:13 on point! Jesus is the best translator
Part 1 and 3 has truly changed my life. Its amazing how watching one thing can change your whole concept and thought. I now see where i have been going wrong for sooooooo long....
"If you believe that what you are dealing with is bigger than God then stop serving him." this part hit me so hard. Nothing is bigger than the God I worship and serve. God bless you pastor mike.
This man has changed my life mr. Todd you speck to my soul and by the grace of god I will be getting married on feb.28th ,2018 after 11 years of being with my fiancée I can say I’m going into this marriage with so much knowledge and having a stronger connection to god. Bless you brother.
Latisha Johnson I just wanna say I'm gald I ran across your post I'm so happy for you. This spoke to me I've been with my significant for almost 9 yrs and I'm hoping for marriage and he wants to but I been putting pressure and I shouldn't pray for me to let God do his perfect will.
I'm going to show this series to my high schoolers (Bible Club) 🙏🏽❤ thank you Lord for these messages!
Im glad i came across this whole series on RUclips... Thank you Pastor Todd & Transformation Church... For once i found a church that has understand the youth and truth...
Yes exactly this ministry has so much truth and power💖💖
How I wish I had learned this 20 years ago! Truly blessing my spirit!! Will definitely share with my daughter and hopefully help save her from so much pain.
I wish they did a live stream. Would love to see the whole service!
Gerlyne Louis Jacques Join on Sunday mornings, 9am or 11:15am at transformchurch.us live streamed. :)
Chris Harvey thanks so much for the information!! :) God bless you
Thanks I'm definitely going on the live stream this Sunday!
This series needs to be turned into a book Pastor Mike. Thank God for his work through you.
The book is available April 28th!!!!!!!
This series has really revealed how I have made such a mess of my life. I am currently going through a very low place but hearing this word has given me enough strength to get on my knees and seek God for help.
God is able to deliver you! Go to Him! His love for you never changed! Accept the forgiveness of God in your life!
God brought me to this series at the right time. I'm seeing it 4 years later but I believe its the right time! I am currently in a period of fasting and praying in my single season and this series is nothing but ordained. Thank you, Lord! 🙌🏼
This was meant for me from God. Literally on my phone the verse of the day showed up (romans 8:35) and as soon as it did he brought up the verse himself in his sermon. This has helped me so much.
I wish I had this teaching fifty nine years ago. Thank God I’m still here to hear it and surrender to God.
Wow, great life changing series ever.
Even more proud to wait till marriage
I’m 24 and struggle to stay pure. I’ve never been intimate with anyone but God knows I’m tempted daily. This series was what I needed to wait for my husband. Wouldn’t want a soul tie with anyone else. Thank you Pastor Mike.
This series is such a huge blessing! Thank you pastor Mike for going deeper and explaining sex from a Biblical standpoint without preaching “don’t do it”.
May God increase your territory for being obedient to him and his will.
You are so right about the don't do it part
Yoo I was literally just asking myself the other day if the enemy was omnipresent.. God really answers our questions in the most random time
"How can God raise a dead body to life and not be able to manage a living one?" Profound! God can help us maintain sexual purity. Hallelujah!
I have no idea what lead this series to pop up in my " watch next feed" but I am so glad that it did. This series is powerful and I love pastors honest but bible based approach. I wish that I could visit this ministry and attend on a regular basis. #thankGodforyoutube
Im a muslim but its crazy to see how much similarities we do have, especially on this topic ..Keep it up! God bless.
Satoou2 AMEEN
I hope you surrender to Christ as Savior!!!
Some similarities but no where near the same confess and repent to Jesus Christ the one and true God!!! God Bless you!!!
Satoou2, I, personally, am SO HAPPY you got to hear the truth about Jesus Christ!! He's amazing. Love you and be sure to watch his other sermons if you havent❤
@@305thief8 love the series and I agree the message is very similar. As a muslim we love love and revere Prophet Jesus, but he was just a man. Allah is the almighty and powerful he doesn't need his creations to give salvation to his other creations.
Sex is powerful. The devil perverted it. God created sex and put it in the container it belongs (marriage) to produce a life giving service!
Unfollow, delete a whole lot of people!
I realized this a little too late, but I think that was the plan all along. I've suffered deep emotional consequences and of course, a disease. Deep shame and regret and confusion, society was telling me it was okay. But God called me back through me stumbling upon a book out of the book that explained it all. He said it's okay, just come back to me. I now know, for myself, for truth, why Hes called this to be the way that it is. I have repented and am in the process of redemption and healing. I'm so glad i've been brought back to faith and self worth. Hope this helps someone else too.
There is no process of redemption and it seems for your case that you once accepted Christ but became fake against him and kept him at bay so you lost salvation. But the moment you came back to Jesus Aka God you were saved. And that is the good thing about God he tells us to come back to him no matter how bad we messed up!!!
305 Theif
Unless you're a mature believer and renounce your salvation, you cannot lose your salvation (check out Hebrews 6.) God doesn't do us like that. Redemption is a one time thing, yes, but you've got to remember we have three parts - spirit, soul, and body. Our spirit is the part of us that got changed at salvation, not the other two. So out of our spirits, God gives life to our mortal bodies (check out Romans 8.) Combined with the renewing of our minds (which, our un-renewed minds is the reason we still sin after salvation,) the outworking of it is very much a process. It's one thing to be holy, and another thing entirely to know it and believe it.
B B, keep up the fight! If God is for you, who can be against you?
One thing I'd like to say is that God would that you'd learn these things without having to go through them - pain and suffering (or us going through sin) is never part of His plan for us. The better way is through the examples in the Word, as well as what other people have been through. Though, He understands it happens and uses it to teach us.
Regardless, however, it's so awesome to hear you're getting through and that God is teaching you! You've got this, because He's got you!
So you just said it is impossible for people who once believed in God believe in him again? I am confused?
305 Thief
No, that's not what I said. Did you read it?
I said you can only lose your salvation if you are a mature believer and renounce it (as described in Hebrews 6.)
To carry the thought: the one who made the comment never lost their salvaton - they did not renounce their salvation, nor are they probably mature enough to.
This message has helped deliver me from participating in adultery and sinful desires. I needed this message more than you can know. God has me and He has given me grace.
"How can He raise a dead body and not manage a living one" ooo this sermon right here! I needed to hear this!
I found this series at the perfect time. I've watch a video every day and it has seriously changed my life. The best part of my day is watching these videos and taking notes and there has been so many times i've looked back over my notes and been like wow this applies to this situation or this situation and used it to get me through those situations. This series has changed my outlook on relationships and has definitely brought me closer to God.
"Choo choo... Just chugging along." Lol. Soul Ties to a substance... Powerful! Your SO good on demonstration!
This man is hilarious.
Feel like the girl I was before corona virus and the girl I am now are completely 2 different people thank you God for this period.... It sucks that some of us needed it to get to know you deeply
AMEN 🙏🏼
Father, I trust you with my FINANCES! I trust you with my TIME! I trust you with my LIFE! Thank you Jesus for taking control!
After 3 years when I began abstinence again because God led me to hear this message, I needed it again. I am hitting a sexual peak and I can either break the tension or I can love and follow God. This message hits my heart!
Anyone in October 2019. Feeling blessed by this thank you God for this series I'm learning so much.
this series is AMAZING! I wish he could go on for about 20 weeks.
LaKeisha Wallace Agreed!
Best 54 mins ever spent on RUclips!
God knows I needed this I struggle with sexual impurity in my mind everyday God will give me the power to expel those thoughts thank You Lord 🙌
I understand such struggles.
this hit my core and made me sit down...wow this made me have a NEW LENSES when it comes to God. Oh Lord Jesus Thank you. Thank You
47:21 This spoke to me so much. There is no metaphorical hippy subtext to this verse; it’s blunt and simple: Run.
Run from sexual sin.
He really used my name and called me out at 6:25. Man this series has been sooo eye opening and confirming that the decisions I’ve made to remove sin had to be made for the glory of God.
You better PREACHHHHHHHHHH!! The part when you mentioned about how the devil even tries to attack you as young as the age of 3 or 4, I FELT THAT. He started with me around 6 and I have never been the same ever since. My perspective on life in general has been so twisted and I hurt so many people along the way. God is so Great though & he has been merciful to me. This series has been a blessing to me. Grateful for you pastor Mike. Thank you so much for sharing & being an obedient child of God. Thank you for allowing God to use you for His purpose.
“How can he raise a dead body, and not manage a living one” that hit different with everything going on rn
I should have heard this before went to university the entire series is a blessing .
I feel the same. This is my last year and I feel like I could've avoided so many mistakes. I just got out of a long term relationship and this sermon is the only thing helping me with the pain.
God will Restore, Support & Strengthen you and set you on a sound foundation
I just got out of a relationship a month ago that had me doing sexual things I have never did before. I was always the girl to never be out there and doing any and everything but I met this one boy and it completely changed me. I started to lose focus of myself and started feeling drained in every kind of way because I was so focused on pleasing him instead of my relationship with God. Now that I decided to break things off with him I see so many things clearer. This series really helped me realize that God took him out of my life and removed me from that situation for a reason because that boy was leading me away from God and not to him. I now feel better than I have in a long time and not only starting to feel like myself again but a way better version of myself.
Love this guy because he keeps it real which is rare from a pastor these days. Speak that real word!
Died at Trey Songz 😂😂
Started this video feeling like he was very, even OVERLY, passionate on the subject... The closer to the end, the more I'm thinking and listening. I know this to be true. I know the truth of soul ties and the issues of committing to fun while first committing to God..
I hear you, God
I went from being “I don’t want God to own me” to “I’m yours God” ❤️ love this message
I wanna thank God for making and letting me watch this series. Cause it has helped me a lot like...I was frustrated at first that I’m single, my friends are dating posting pictures and videos writing relationships goals😒you know(all bout 21st century generation) I was envying them and at the same time happy for them 😊 but I was so desperate to find a boyfriend😤and just try to have sex and see what my friends says bout sex is true😝but I truly thank God that.. he made me watch this video and know pastor mike😊and ever since I started part 1 of this series....my desperation, cravings for all bout dating and having sex it’s all over.. as I have let God to be in the middle of my life journey, letting him serve for me a spot, purpose, provision to meet my future baby😝😌
I am so focused on myself I feel God has changed me a different perspective on sex relationship marriage. I believe god has someone for me but for now I have my faith in God
I can never be more grateful for this series, it has changed my life completely
I thank you Lord
Can there be more leaders like this
Amen!!!!
23:45
this is part of my story
When you are introduced to pornography and sexually abused by a family member, it really messes with your head
it makes you feel like God hates you for letting that happen.
so I threw away my virginity, because it's not like I had it to begin with
I understand now that was a ploy from the enemy to keep me from the special bond God intended for me to have with my future wife
I'm resting in His Peace and Joy, hoping and trusting that He will lead me to the exquisitely beautiful wife he promised me so many years ago
Don't dwell on what the enemy has intended to destroy you with in the past, even if you feel like you were complicit. God's grace has you covered, you can always turn back and pray for him to meet you. Remember the parable of the prodigal son, this is God's earnest desire for everyone that is being kept back by shame. Your shame and guilt died on the cross with Jesus, and your future can still be resurrected!
I suffered from this and I dealt with shock and depression. I was in the darkness but I found the light. With God anything is possible.
cette série a changé ma perception sur beaucoup de chose. c’est bien de voir comment Dieu t’utilise pour passer son message. continue ton ministère et que toi et ta famille sois bénie grandement. merci pour ces paroles de sagesse.
Alors
These series have changed a lot in my life, thank you for letting God use you to pass on his message to our generation, really been impacted. I think if had heard this in 2017 the toxic relationships I had wouldn’t have happened but am glad that God let me pass through the funnel to redeem me and open my eyes to this. Thank you Pastor Mike
Are the "Uncut" versions going to be released ever? I wouldn't even mind purchasing it as a series with everything included. I hope that has already been part of the thought process.
These are life changing
teachings. Many people are going astray for not having someone to tell this
incorruptible truth in black and white. I encourage you Pastor Michael to come up
with a book about Relationship goals and any other material that God will
reveal to you. I'm eternally blessed.
Purity Muthoki Looks like he has a book called Relationship Goals now!!!