i shared these stories just cuz i think it's interesting that the common assumption is that other ppl have to "accept" the lifestyle of a traveler/vehicle dweller.... but there's also the part where vehicle dwellers/travelers have to accept house dwellers too 😂 👽🍕👽🍕
Very tricky for females, you have a narrow window for youth/beauty and fertility. It's different for men because we can trash our youth and still become fathers in our 40s and 50s or even higher.
Hobo Ahle i have a home in boston, gave it up ( aunt an uncle live it now )Been van dwelling for 3yrs now. The dating scene can be alittle difficult for people that dont understand or have no intensions on wanting to understand. Ive dated twice in the 3yrs an the girl accepted it very well. Ive seen alot, ive done alot since traveling. I do have a steady job. Once i hit the west coast i will go back home ( not happening anytime soon ). Im in orlando florida st the koment.
Hi. Love your post and really admire your bravery and ability to be so independant BUT I think STABILITY means SECURITY in a relationship; which I stand by with your exes on that. Still, I agree also that journey can sometimes be more rewarding than the destination. Stay strong and look forward to your next post.
Totally understand. I live on a boat. I love it. Can stay at marina for 1200 a year. If I dont like my neighbor I can move. Plus I can go anywhere I want. Normal sucks.
The comments like "No real guy would expect you to..." and "Never sacrifice..." or "It's not real if they ask you to sacrifice..." amuse me. To make a lasting serious relationship work and last, there is always an inevitable compromise and sacrifice. What it comes down to is both sides being willing and ready to make those compromises and sacrifices. It takes time, patience, and understanding to get to that point, and the same things to keep it going for the long term.
Those things only come after being with someone for YEARS. If you started dating and guy or girl and a couple months later or even a yr he asked you to sacrifice or expected you to do certain things then what else down the line would they want you to give up. Y’all should have mutual or common interest in the beginning and build upon that and grow after a couple yrs. then and only then should compromise happen to continue for y’all to grow.
@@ohxsimplistic I don't disagree with anything you said. Well put. However, there are always going to be some compromise or sacrifice, otherwise you would never make it to the "years" to begin with. They just get bigger and more serious as the relationship also gets more serious. Stuff like what she talked about in the video is usually the make it or break it point where one person is ready to make that next step and the other person isn't. Nothing wrong with that either. I am aiming my remarks at the people stuck in never never land where relationships are always perfect - girls never fart and guys remember important days and notice what she did with her hair.
She needs someone ok with who she is. Bc I'm the same way. I'm not compromising my freedom. And I'll deal with whatever consequences . Bc I have plans on living a mobile life.
I find it interesting that people assume she dates men. Even though shes being non gender specific by saying they ... but I'm only half way through the video. And you are right. In order for a relationship to work and last there has to be give and take... which really isnt a sacrifice if you feel they are worth it and you love the person. It just kinda happens naturally. And for the most part what ever the sacrifice was.. doesnt seem as important anymore.
Home ownership and apartments can be a blessing and a burden. Four walls and a roof can be limiting, there's only so much you can do in that space. Just like your van, its shelter, but the van is mobile and that means possibilities. I think you're making good choices.
long distance sucks. you dont know how it will affect everything until it actually happens. no amount of talking can truly prepare you for it. so i mean she might find that 1 in a million person who's totally ok with it (might be a while lol)
I love this conversation, it brings me to tears in such a good way, the respect for yourself, the world today, and others in every aspect is so pure and beautiful, the type of vibe and outlook everyone needs. Much respect for the time you have and continue to put into yourself and YOUR life. I cant wait to show this to my daughter, i know she will love your channel and you. Blessings 🤙🏽
I lived in a twin turbo Subaru wagon for two years in New Zealand, met a Filipina and she moved right in, we had so much fun. We now have a baby girl and live in the Philippines.
@@christopherhale5445 Pinays want to have children unlike Western women, that makes the difference. Here we are slaves to the bankers so I don't blame people for not wanting kids.
Hi Velsbasketcase. Have you tried to visit islands or beaches here in the philippines? We have a lot of beautiful places here. Congratulation for having a baby girl.
@@johnrobertson7063 yeah I've been to many small islands in Visaya, we live on one of them, white sand beaches lots of seafood and beautiful women everywhere, I love it.
I want to get in on the subject she is talking about and these comments about older men in this post. By the way I am a male in my 40's. For Ahle, dating is for trying out and breaking up, even when you agree with a mate. More than likely, you will change. My ex was attractive and engineering math smart. We got married in college, too young. I would rather go to a cabin in Colorado. She liked the party crowds at Atlanta's Freaknic and Mardi Gras in New Orleans. We were and are way too different. I get to tell you like I tell my nephews, Breaking up before the marriage, kids and a mortgage is the best thing that can ever happen to you.
Alexandra I always love how you work everything out by reasoning it through. People also do need to accept each other in so many ways. It's never easy being in a Relationship 💕
No one ever died wanting, “I gave up my dream to live the life others wanted for me” placed on their tombstone. Suppose you had a job that took your around the country all the time and you could get an equal job (same pay & benefits) where your boyfriend lived, but you really liked your current job and didn’t want to leave it. Is there a difference between that scenario and your life - No. Relationships are tough no matter the situation. Everyone (regardless of age*) is selfish to some extent, it is natural and no explanation should be necessary. So, yes you were selfish, but so was your boyfriend. Live your dream, what you are doing adds facets to the gem of a person you are making you more interesting. You are young, life is long, it will all work itself out. * why do young people think their life issues are sooo much different than any other age group? 😀
Freedom isn't free. Aways a sacrifice. Glad to hear your staying true to yourself. Many people aren't brave or strong enough to do that. Love your videos. Keep living the dream sister.
100% she’s gay and is referring to girls. She’s wouldn’t be saying “they” and hiding their pronouns so much. And after detecting she’s likes a lot of pretty girls comments on this video. And with her style is makes it obvious. She just probably can’t come out cuz her following is mostly dudes and she has a patron that’s mostly guys supporting her.
Appearance and nice personality are not the only thing that involves a relationship. Remember the first part of the word relationship: *relation* If there is such a divide in how two individuals choose to exist (one consantly traveling, the other staying in one spot), and they do not have a strong connection of knowing each other for years yet, they will likely not choose to sacrifice how they currently live for the other. They think that they will find another person who lives like they live, so they split up. Both individuals spent years building up their own way of living, and to just throw that to the wind and start all over for one person, when there are thousands of other people out there they can meet? They just won't let go very easily.
@@SSL0707Star lol thats not how it works at all. 'a few months of modeling' means earning maybe a couple hundred dollars and having to sleep with every casting agent just for a shot at that.
Stumbled across your channel earlier this summer. I’m officially doing vehicle living now and couldn’t be happier to get out of my previous apt situation where I wasn’t happy in my space with random roommates at all. I’m so much happier being in the backseat of my car and my huge comforter. I hope to be able to buy a used van soon at some point. Your channel makes me feel less alone on my journey and I feel like I’m watching myself bc your words resonate with me so much. I
I've lived in a vehicle for many years now. Being a women it has to be way easier to date than being a dude. Everybody thinks im weird or insane. Sorry to hear about yer breakup. Keep on keepin on. You'll find someone.
Dating is, like my wife taught me, like trying on shoes. You might think they're beautiful and gorgeous but fit like crap. put'm back in the Box & get you another pair because eventually, you'll find the right fit. Good luck sweet girl you are a catch! ❤
I love that you have patience ❤️ it’s the one bit of advice I would give to my younger self is to have patience it would’ve changed my life so much. I really respect you. It’s so refreshing to see a young lady who’s life doesn’t revolve around finding a man and being infatuated with that man.
Watched this when it came out and some of your more recent videos like a month ago this AM. Kudos for you enjoying your life style and not being high maintenance. Kudos.
You sound pretty mature for just how you handled those circumstances. Issues of the heart can be difficult, yet it seems like you are grounded in your vision for yourself. Cheers to you for living your life. Thanks for sharing your experience. Be your best doer self!
Your young do you. Experience what you need to do..don't feel you need to be tied down. The right person will come along at the right time. Live your life.
@@shitmandood Probably because many straight couples stay together because they don't "believe in" divorce and would happily stay miserable for the rest of their lives than deal with a divorce. Lesbians don't have the pressure of 'tradition' hanging over them and can make decisions that are best for their relationships.
I love your honesty and think its amazing what you do...You are such an inspiration to so many people...Your young and have your whole life in front of you....Keep traveling...Love your videos!!!! God Bless and be safe!!!
I've been in a van for about 1.5 years. but... i'm in California. lol. money hit the fan hard here with absorbent over pricing for basic needs, dmv, housing... i travel and love where i am, i'm 2 hours from surf, snow, hiking, racing... its great. but the jobs i find are designed to keep me here...my desire for a AAA national park trek is California unfriendly. dating is like... a negative thing. i'm a pretty chill guy. When girls see me and see how positive my attitude is, chill lax... active survivalist, hunter, surfer, ski dog, Wastelander! the second I tell them my lifestyle its all down hill no matter who i may be. i travel and love where i'm 2 hours from surf, snow, hiking, racing, hunting... its great. but its very lonely being a perceived financial exile! i no longer look or want to date... getting "handled" being subjugated... my heart doesn't really need the hardships, you spoke very eloquently to the reasons not to give into the peer pressure to conform I've felt for these few years. I know who i am. I have never cheated, never done anyone dirty. honest integrity...in a search for beauty I've left behind all that was ugly. i'm happy to search this world as i am. the trade off... it only hurts on cold nights, or when i find a hidden place. who hasn't found themselves staring into the most beautiful landscapes, looked around, and found no one to share it with. love your life girl. i'll get there.
Ahle, as a person who has been homeless and lived in the comforts of my truck I understand how isolating but how rewarding it can be. Just please take good care of yourself and don't listen to the nay sayers.
OK, so I thought about doing the same as you when I was younger, except 4 things come to mind, 1) what do you do about hygiene; showers or bath & brushing teeth? 2) how do you pay for vehicle insurance, auto repairs, food & essentials? 3) are you able to find work & what kind have you found available while your moving around? & 4} do you have a place you get your mail delivered to?(not asking for the address, just wondering how something like that is set up) Might have more if you ever grant me an insight to inner workings of such an extravagant lifestyle. 🤔😇😎
Just looked below and answered 1 of my questions in partial which would be monetary support, but I can only see that as supplemental, even with the limited need for money. Just not sure how you'd collect some of that money without a fixed address for say a bank account in order to have a place for the money to go or cash/deposit checks, also not sure this particular way you'd be able to continually generate cash flow at all times. Go weeks or months at a time not getting anything(hopefully not, but curious if you have a back up way of making ends meet).
It does not sound hoeky to me. I love that you are following your passion. To me you really seem to have clarity about your life and that is a great thing. I hope you always follow your dreams and do what makes you happy. Love and Good Vibes to you
Hi Ahle, It is very hard to find a partner these days that does not try to control.. I am finding that living true to yourself, is a far better choice than living a life of someone elses control..
Ahle, keep being awesome! Relationships make us learn so much. I've been in some pretty bad ones, pretty crazy ones and I had to be near death to learn to value myself and my values.
You are beautiful and I live in my motor home and people will always have a problem because we live a different lifestyle and they can’t handle anything different
@@Mendezfarriercompany306 Exactly. Physical attraction only builds on the foundation of compatibility outside of emotions. Without that compatibility, it can only last for so long... Hence the 53% divorce rate.
I don’t usually comment on many videos, but I’ve watched quite a few of yours now, and you’re honestly such an inspiration. As another young female (19), who’s looking into vehicle dwelling (savin that bread ofc, traveling, having my own space that I can just take with me, etc etc etc) I really appreciate all of your videos, and I really enjoy your energy! Please don’t apologize for rambling videos, post MORE of them if anything! Wishing you well on your journeys to come :) who knows maybe one day we’ll bump into each other in our vans! (Just hopefully not literally, cant afford that insurance spike 😂)
My lady and I have been Together for 21 Years. After being In a Relationship for 30 Months, We Moved in Together. Living Together lasted about 17 Months then We Moved apart, but were still Together. Four Years ago We Moved in Together again and We are still Living Together. The Moral of Our Story is that Long Distance Relationships can Work, Provided that both Parties Work at it.
Beautiful, just find someone who loves the life style as much as you. Most of us are trapped in the need for income, "others" are just programmed to to be boring & can't see the beauty in nature you'll find someone just keep an eye open 😉
I worked on the road for years,I've lived many places. It's in our nature to explore and transcend our minds through experience. I saw glaciers on TV and then I worked in Alaska and walked on one. Traveling is not just an adventure physically it's a spiritual path as well and you can only understand that if you live on the road. Most people dont want to eat the same meal day after day. It's the same with travel life. Some are content with being in one place,seeing the same sunset on the same skyline, seeing the same people etc... However,for others,travel life is like the ocean side. No telling what you come across the next day and that is the magic. That's why we went in boats to discover new land,walk on the moon and such. This woman has pioneer blood in her and that's rather rare these days in a world of instant gratification. Props to you Ahle.
I think you're an incredible person to do what you do Ahle. A true free spirit. You will find the right soul mate for you eventually. All the best for your van life adventures!
I think it's very admirable that you want to continue to pursue your traveling life. I totally get what your saying and I agree it's complicated but knowing what you want at this time is what's most valuable to your life. Anyone who gets to know you will have to understand your choices. In healthy relationships two people should always be understanding and compromise. It takes time to know each others love languages and to adjust to each others thoughts and ideas. It's the sincerity of one who the other has to know. So if you're truly sincere for this time being for how you'd like to do life then that should be taken seriously by the one who is committing themselves to you. Therefore in time the relationship will be pure and open to find the next best plan of action for living. So you have established Y♡U at this point and I think it's obvious Y♡U must continue to live out who Y♡U are at this time. The hearts are there because that is what's going to determine where your mind will rest. It's resting in the fact that Y♡U've made this choice and it fills your soul with happiness. Someone needs to take that as very important substance to the relationship. The right person will totally arrive at the right time and most of this topic will be beautifully solved together well. 😉💖🙏 I have worked so hard to actually be prepared for things like this. To live debt free and to be able to pay cash for things. I feel truly blessed to be in the position I'm in. It was my choice! People will say things to destroy your thoughts for being different, but the thing is we don't have to listen. With that being said.., We make choices that aren't always selfish but instead fulfill the happiness we long for on the inside and in the end it's vital to who we are and who we will become! ✌😇
Very wise advice. Thanks for sharing your experiences. You needed to have those relationships to better understand what you truly desire the most. Putting your happiness first is the most important thing. Having a strong relationship with yourself will help you have a much stronger relationship with another person that’s the right match for you in the future.
I lived in a sprinter van for a year. My gf at the time traveled with me and it was the best year of our lives. We still talk about the memories. That was many years ago.
fortunately, you live a wonderful nomadic (mobile) spontaneous life. pls don't sacrifice your health and lifestyle (happiness) for someone else. Continue to stick to your passion/hobby, and nature and don't feel pressured to adhere to social constructs. Carpe Diem!
This was so incredibly well said! You made some excellent points in a very clear and respectful way and I'm just sitting here shouting YES at the screen haha. Even though I'm 100% a house wren who is most comfortable at her own home, I completely stand by what you said and I admire your sense of self greatly. 💪
Any person who cant see your values and decisions, Really doesnt deserve your time, Your a vibrant young woman whom I started watching just because your cute but a year later im still watching because of your content. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Ms.
So my question is how is it a long distance relationship if you are mobile? I understand you living you're life the way you want to, but being mobile means if you want to see your significant other you just drive or travel there? Makes sense.... I think that even you don't want to live in one certain place or state it gives you more reason to go back to that state. Like you said you aren't obligated to be in one place because of work, home, ect... so at least the relationship gives you reason to go back to where your partner lives. It ain't like he had to wait 6 months to see you, now if that happens then yes, you are the one creating the distance. Now my opinion again... if is a couple of weeks or even a month wherever you want to go, and another couples of weeks to a month where your partner lives is fair, even healthy.... distance sometimes is healthy in a relationship. It makes it better when you see each other cause you missed that person. And whenever he is free he should travel with you as well... a happy medium let's say. The fact that you live whenever you like and experience so many beautiful places sounds awesome, even living a dream... I understand the traveling, but at least it gives you a reason to go back to a place. You are not living in one city when you are visiting, same as when you travel, you stay for a "certain time" like a couple of weeks or a month for example and then you move to another experience. Just that a relationship at least should give you reason to visit a place more than once maybe? I dunno the "mobile lifestyle"but I think if the realtion matters it should be a happy medium where they both compromise to a certain degree to make each other happy...
Creepy dude checking in. I once taped myself to the underside of her van so I could follow her around. It was cool, but the gravel bouncing up from the road really started to hurt. Now I bought my own car to follow her around in!
i think that is her core audience. Like her content isn't mind blowing or anything super fresh - so I think it is just a bunch of guys who are semi in love with her imagining being with her and thinking that is achievable because she is a lonely nomad free spirit or something. Like there are instragrammers who just produce bikini shots with millions of subs.. soo
@@DxsPro - My joke above aside, I'll freely admit I watch her in part because I have a crush on her. I found her videos through other traveling videos. I take a lot of solo road trips every year so I'm sort of part of that life - though I stay in motels and never slept in my car for more than for a nap. I think she's beautiful, really pleasant to listen to, and comes off as super sweet. And if, in some wildly unlikely scenario, an opportunity came along where I had the chance to date her, would I jump on it? Absolutely! But I don't leave creepy comments and I'm under no illusion that it's particularly likely to happen. Is that really so horrible?
I don't do the full time van life thing, never have. But one notable thing across any platform, if he doesn't appreciate you or your life choices, he ain't for you. Consider it a blessing. Theres lots of guys out there. I wouldn't fret it if I was you. Coming from a middle aged happily married laid back dude
Adventure! Exactly. Just being out there & traveling, experiencing & exploring new things, being on the road, around nature. I think we're around the same age, I'm 20 & I'll be 21 next month & I feel you 100%. It's not selfish, it's your lifestyle & if it makes you genuinely happy then keep doing it until you're ready to move on💕
If you can't afford a home, I can understand why living in a car is beneficial. If you can afford a home or rent, then l personally I find it weird. I work to live in a house. I feel like living in a vehicle for a long time isn't healthy. This is my opinion and respect your opinion and choice
Woman care about LMS more so than men, and living in a van, no matter how attractive you are is a 0 on the Money/Status scale. Men care about sexual market value/looks only, they don't care if you are living in a van or a bank president.
Just became a fan. I moved to Washington state. And living in a vehicle in Hawaii was frowned upon so keeping my house was getting me into debt so I decided to move for the better. After arriving here I realized lots of people live in their vehicles. And they do a retry good job at it. So now that I have been here a year I am setting up my truck to live in so I could save money and actually move back to Hawaii and live comfortably. Thanks for the inspiration
Fam never give up the van life unless you find somewhere that is so dope you never want to leave. Changing for people normally doesn't work out. Your nice you will meet tons of cool people that like you.
Trust, support, acceptance and understanding, these are the things you need from the other person and vice versa. Life doesn't have to be complicated and limited. I find that what you're doing is truly who you are. Travelling for some is a get away, holiday etc. But for you, it's naturally a part of your life and who you are which is great because its a challenge and you grow from it. Never give up your lifestyle that you want and that you built, I wouldn't. Stay true and always take care.
Best pick up line...park you're house here! You can park you're house at the four corners monument so you're kitchen can be in Utah and your living room in New Mexico
That's why I only date people in the lifestyle. I think it's selfish and entitled to expect people to change who they are because who they are doesn't work for you. If who I am or who they are doesn't work for the relationship, then we need to part ways. That's the very purpose of dating. To see if you fit. Dating isn't marriage.
It’s hard to find people who fit perfectly into the kind of lifestyle that makes you happy. It’s no one’s fault, it just is. Everyone deserves someone that completes them and makes their dynamic more fulfilling and happy, and I’m sure you’ll find that someday :)
Just found you on recommended. Thank you. I am a bit older than you and I appreciate you breaking it down. I can not say this enough. You really said in the first 5 minutes of where you are and where we should be. Thank you. watching the rest of the vid...I hope that you are happy now :)
@@grazzitdvram this seems like an unfair statement, sir. any male youtuber posting a similar video would not have hundreds of creepy women commenting. it's just a tad gross. good day, sir!
@@eric-mouse That's called human biology... There are a lot of lonely guys out there and ahle is beautiful and interesting and to act like she isn't aware of it is to belittle her intelligence.... She knows what she's doing.
Wise words. I think it is important not to lose yourself for someone else. I'm new to your channel, but it seems you are living the life I think many would like to if they could figure it out and would be willing to give up what is familiar. I want to travel more which is kind of incompatible with my job, and it costs a lot. I have been thinking of starting out staying in my car for some weekend trips and seeing if I like it and try to work my way up from there. Keep your dreams.
17:03 until you're willing to compromise you'll need to find a "doormat". You can find someone 99% for you but if you only worry about your happiness then you let that 1% keep you from building. Maybe you haven't found the right one. Maybe you don't/ shouldn't be in a relationship, maybe you're still finding yourself... Maybe not but maybe.
Seems like you’re gonna have to find someone who is either down to do the nomad life too or someone that does van life too. I admire that you know who you are and don’t want to compromise your traveling lifestyle for a relationship.
I was homeless per say when I was 20, I had a job but lived in my car. I actually really loved it. I chose that way of life for about 9 months of the year and would always stay by the beaches
I'm glad you didn't allow the break up to influence your lifestyle. Just live your best life and be happy, maybe some one will come along you can relate to, maybe not , either way just doing what you want that makes you fulfilled and happy will be enough, love. Safe travels and best wishes from S. Ga.
My advice to you would be to not date for a while. The lifestyle is hard for 95% of people today and most follow Instagramers but can't really do it themselves. It's hard. I would also look for people in different places. There are plenty of travelers and people who are down for traveling and have the ability to do so. If you look for people in conventional ways there is a very slim chance you'll find someone but odds are you'll bounce around to relationships that eventually won't work. If travel is your main priority then just do that. Enjoy friendships. Maybe don't label it. Like there is no need to date necessarily but when you have a chance to get together then get together. Applying labels to it usually brings an added stress when you are trying to make things work. Instead of trying to make things work just go with the flow. Long distance relationships rarely work. And they don't because you sell yourself short of experiences. Whether it be experiences with each other or experiences on your own. I've done it twice and regretted it both times. I'm actually about to end the one I'm in now because I want to travel and she wants to spend all of her money to make her house her personal oasis because she thinks it will make her happy. A lot of times people force things because they prefer to not be alone. I've learned and realized I actually prefer to be alone. I'm not saying don't date, but some people shouldn't depending at what point they are at in their life. Maybe when you are done traveling then actually look for something. And van relationships are different than "normal" relationships for the fact you are living in way 95% or more can not live. So when you date another van dweller maybe it will be more similar but until then you have to understand your lifestyle will not fit with almost everyone you come across. Another issue unfortunately is guys will be willing to date you ignoring everything that comes along with it. They'll tell themselves they can do it. When in fact they know they can't. Being as beautiful as you are IMO will make it more difficult. Guys are willing to lie to themselves or something as simple as beauty. It's how we are wired honestly. I've done it myself. So I would be more careful of who you chose to make that leap with. As genuine as it seems it will not be sometimes. And by genuine I mean accepting how you choose to live. Once you find that guy things will be gravy for you. Good luck.
Ahhh heck no....gotta find one with the same type of world views...you should never have to give up your dreams for someone. You would be miserable in one place.
True. But there are some things in one's life that should [[ never be compromised ]]. If you think everything should be available to even potentially being compromised, that's very unhealthy. She's willing to compromise, but not the very thing that she loves about her life. In this case, anyone, no matter who they are, if they're not open to giving her that, then they're not a healthy partner for her. She's a healthy person. If she did otherwise, she would be unhealthy in my opinion. If what the other person wants isn't happily sustainable, then ending the relationship is the healthy thing to do. The sooner the better. Founder: Art of Thought SolutionsTM - The Anti-Virus For MankindTM
If you live in a vehicle, don't you have to stay in the temperate climate region? Therefore, it limits where you can travel. Also, how do you conduct daily hygiene? The vehicle (non motor home setup) doesn't have a bathroom or sink.
i shared these stories just cuz i think it's interesting that the common assumption is that other ppl have to "accept" the lifestyle of a traveler/vehicle dweller.... but there's also the part where vehicle dwellers/travelers have to accept house dwellers too 😂
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Very tricky for females, you have a narrow window for youth/beauty and fertility. It's different for men because we can trash our youth and still become fathers in our 40s and 50s or even higher.
Hobo Ahle i have a home in boston, gave it up ( aunt an uncle live it now )Been van dwelling for 3yrs now. The dating scene can be alittle difficult for people that dont understand or have no intensions on wanting to understand. Ive dated twice in the 3yrs an the girl accepted it very well. Ive seen alot, ive done alot since traveling. I do have a steady job. Once i hit the west coast i will go back home ( not happening anytime soon ). Im in orlando florida st the koment.
Hi. Love your post and really admire your bravery and ability to be so independant BUT I think STABILITY means SECURITY in a relationship; which I stand by with your exes on that.
Still, I agree also that journey can sometimes be more rewarding than the destination. Stay strong and look forward to your next post.
You are not ready for it and both love not strong enough to sacrifice for each other.
House dweller is offensive. I prefer Vanless
Totally understand. I live on a boat. I love it. Can stay at marina for 1200 a year. If I dont like my neighbor I can move. Plus I can go anywhere I want. Normal sucks.
I'd be interested in learning more about boat life.
Please do tell im sold already
We have a entire shanty boat community on the Tennessee River awesome Life:)
@@craiglee7993 ooooh I bet the fishing is amazing! I think the show River Monsters did a few episodes down that way. Anyone doing vids on boat living?
Craig Lee ,where? I'm on TennTom.
I think when you're "living your life" and not looking for a relationship the RIGHT person will come into your life and share your interest 🤗
The awkward moment when you got into her van and realized there was no candy in it.
Best pick-up line: "Check out this sweet van I live in."
If U ever Come KC area...can aways swing thru and I'll hop in 4a long ride.
The 70s custom van game has come full circle. And flipped.
She is a hidden gem, perfect girl. She dont want to be tied down to one spot or place.
grapla right
Just tied up
@@baroneb5043 😏🍷🥂🍾🍸
The comments like "No real guy would expect you to..." and "Never sacrifice..." or "It's not real if they ask you to sacrifice..." amuse me. To make a lasting serious relationship work and last, there is always an inevitable compromise and sacrifice. What it comes down to is both sides being willing and ready to make those compromises and sacrifices. It takes time, patience, and understanding to get to that point, and the same things to keep it going for the long term.
Those things only come after being with someone for YEARS. If you started dating and guy or girl and a couple months later or even a yr he asked you to sacrifice or expected you to do certain things then what else down the line would they want you to give up. Y’all should have mutual or common interest in the beginning and build upon that and grow after a couple yrs. then and only then should compromise happen to continue for y’all to grow.
@a------------ absolutely
@@ohxsimplistic I don't disagree with anything you said. Well put. However, there are always going to be some compromise or sacrifice, otherwise you would never make it to the "years" to begin with. They just get bigger and more serious as the relationship also gets more serious. Stuff like what she talked about in the video is usually the make it or break it point where one person is ready to make that next step and the other person isn't. Nothing wrong with that either. I am aiming my remarks at the people stuck in never never land where relationships are always perfect - girls never fart and guys remember important days and notice what she did with her hair.
She needs someone ok with who she is. Bc I'm the same way. I'm not compromising my freedom. And I'll deal with whatever consequences . Bc I have plans on living a mobile life.
I find it interesting that people assume she dates men. Even though shes being non gender specific by saying they ... but I'm only half way through the video. And you are right. In order for a relationship to work and last there has to be give and take... which really isnt a sacrifice if you feel they are worth it and you love the person. It just kinda happens naturally. And for the most part what ever the sacrifice was.. doesnt seem as important anymore.
Home ownership and apartments can be a blessing and a burden. Four walls and a roof can be limiting, there's only so much you can do in that space. Just like your van, its shelter, but the van is mobile and that means possibilities. I think you're making good choices.
It the job that you need to pay the rent that's the burden .
@@redstreet8012 or the two job's.
Pronoun game is strong 😂
. w0udda bangedbanged her in her seventy sh0wz v a n kkkept her ¡n my frontdrivewayzhh
😂 Lmao!!! I was just thinking... “Whoooo is ‘THEY’”? Like... geez it’s ok to be a lesbian lol. 🌈❤️
Who's they?
Your mom is strong
@@shaylamcgrady1048 She knows the thirsty dudes would stop watching if they knew she was gay
I don't think you should even try to date someone if your traveling unless the person is traveling with you
long distance sucks. you dont know how it will affect everything until it actually happens. no amount of talking can truly prepare you for it. so i mean she might find that 1 in a million person who's totally ok with it (might be a while lol)
She's not stable enough to date- even if she owned a million-dollar home.
Agree
I love this conversation, it brings me to tears in such a good way, the respect for yourself, the world today, and others in every aspect is so pure and beautiful, the type of vibe and outlook everyone needs. Much respect for the time you have and continue to put into yourself and YOUR life. I cant wait to show this to my daughter, i know she will love your channel and you. Blessings 🤙🏽
I lived in a twin turbo Subaru wagon for two years in New Zealand, met a Filipina and she moved right in, we had so much fun. We now have a baby girl and live in the Philippines.
Velsbasketcase fuck yeah man 🤟🏼
Nothing like a pinay for a great relationship
@@christopherhale5445 Pinays want to have children unlike Western women, that makes the difference. Here we are slaves to the bankers so I don't blame people for not wanting kids.
Hi Velsbasketcase. Have you tried to visit islands or beaches here in the philippines? We have a lot of beautiful places here. Congratulation for having a baby girl.
@@johnrobertson7063 yeah I've been to many small islands in Visaya, we live on one of them, white sand beaches lots of seafood and beautiful women everywhere, I love it.
You can't really blame the van. Relationships work out better when both parties consider the happiness of the other more than their own.
You right to the point
I want to get in on the subject she is talking about and these comments about older men in this post. By the way I am a male in my 40's. For Ahle, dating is for trying out and breaking up, even when you agree with a mate. More than likely, you will change. My ex was attractive and engineering math smart. We got married in college, too young. I would rather go to a cabin in Colorado. She liked the party crowds at Atlanta's Freaknic and Mardi Gras in New Orleans. We were and are way too different. I get to tell you like I tell my nephews, Breaking up before the marriage, kids and a mortgage is the best thing that can ever happen to you.
I heard only girls can live in a van since they don't poop.
Alexandra I always love how you work everything out by reasoning it through.
People also do need to accept each other in so many ways.
It's never easy being in a Relationship 💕
No one ever died wanting, “I gave up my dream to live the life others wanted for me” placed on their tombstone.
Suppose you had a job that took your around the country all the time and you could get an equal job (same pay & benefits) where your boyfriend lived, but you really liked your current job and didn’t want to leave it. Is there a difference between that scenario and your life - No. Relationships are tough no matter the situation. Everyone (regardless of age*) is selfish to some extent, it is natural and no explanation should be necessary. So, yes you were selfish, but so was your boyfriend. Live your dream, what you are doing adds facets to the gem of a person you are making you more interesting.
You are young, life is long, it will all work itself out.
* why do young people think their life issues are sooo much different than any other age group? 😀
Freedom isn't free. Aways a sacrifice.
Glad to hear your staying true to yourself. Many people aren't brave or strong enough to do that.
Love your videos. Keep living the dream sister.
The way you said "I got this van!" reminded me of Kelso from That 70's Show with the excitement he had for his van lol.
100% she’s gay and is referring to girls. She’s wouldn’t be saying “they” and hiding their pronouns so much. And after detecting she’s likes a lot of pretty girls comments on this video. And with her style is makes it obvious. She just probably can’t come out cuz her following is mostly dudes and she has a patron that’s mostly guys supporting her.
Nice
Or she can be bisexual or pan.
@Nathan Middleton how is that homophobic? lol yikes...
@Nathan Middleton wow nathan, you seem like heaps of fun...
Makes sense.
There are people who refuse to date you? I find that hard to believe.😍
Appearance and nice personality are not the only thing that involves a relationship. Remember the first part of the word relationship: *relation*
If there is such a divide in how two individuals choose to exist (one consantly traveling, the other staying in one spot), and they do not have a strong connection of knowing each other for years yet, they will likely not choose to sacrifice how they currently live for the other. They think that they will find another person who lives like they live, so they split up.
Both individuals spent years building up their own way of living, and to just throw that to the wind and start all over for one person, when there are thousands of other people out there they can meet? They just won't let go very easily.
Still, she’s as beautiful as a model. If she wants to she could do modeling for a few months and live her own life for the rest of her life, I think?
@@SSL0707Star lol thats not how it works at all. 'a few months of modeling' means earning maybe a couple hundred dollars and having to sleep with every casting agent just for a shot at that.
Stumbled across your channel earlier this summer. I’m officially doing vehicle living now and couldn’t be happier to get out of my previous apt situation where I wasn’t happy in my space with random roommates at all. I’m so much happier being in the backseat of my car and my huge comforter. I hope to be able to buy a used van soon at some point. Your channel makes me feel less alone on my journey and I feel like I’m watching myself bc your words resonate with me so much. I
I've lived in a vehicle for many years now. Being a women it has to be way easier to date than being a dude. Everybody thinks im weird or insane. Sorry to hear about yer breakup. Keep on keepin on. You'll find someone.
I’m glad you understand how someone wouldn’t date you because of that and respect their decision
Dating is, like my wife taught me, like trying on shoes. You might think they're beautiful and gorgeous but fit like crap. put'm back in the Box & get you another pair because eventually, you'll find the right fit. Good luck sweet girl you are a catch! ❤
When the moment is right your heart will tell you to settle down in a "specific place" with whomever.
I love that you have patience ❤️ it’s the one bit of advice I would give to my younger self is to have patience it would’ve changed my life so much. I really respect you. It’s so refreshing to see a young lady who’s life doesn’t revolve around finding a man and being infatuated with that man.
Watching this eating bread sticks, on my bed, in my van.
Watched this when it came out and some of your more recent videos like a month ago this AM. Kudos for you enjoying your life style and not being high maintenance. Kudos.
You sound pretty mature for just how you handled those circumstances. Issues of the heart can be difficult, yet it seems like you are grounded in your vision for yourself. Cheers to you for living your life. Thanks for sharing your experience. Be your best doer self!
Your young do you. Experience what you need to do..don't feel you need to be tied down. The right person will come along at the right time. Live your life.
I love woman who is strong and independent!
You'll find another girl, but it won't work out either unless she is a traveler too.
Ayyy finally someone else who realizes she’s gay.
Who cares if she is....
I think she goes both ways
@@shitmandood Probably because many straight couples stay together because they don't "believe in" divorce and would happily stay miserable for the rest of their lives than deal with a divorce. Lesbians don't have the pressure of 'tradition' hanging over them and can make decisions that are best for their relationships.
@Brandon Taylor I've noticed that.
I love your honesty and think its amazing what you do...You are such an inspiration to so many people...Your young and have your whole life in front of you....Keep traveling...Love your videos!!!! God Bless and be safe!!!
Shoot, I'm jealous of the van-life life style! Yall got me seriously re-evaluating my life style.
I lived in a girls body so she dumped me after 9 months it was rough I hate how superficial people are
themurry17 stfu
@@atodanus8518 lol!
She coulda dumped you at 3 months if she was in the right state 😏
I've been in a van for about 1.5 years.
but... i'm in California. lol. money hit the fan hard here with absorbent over pricing for basic needs, dmv, housing... i travel and love where i am, i'm 2 hours from surf, snow, hiking, racing... its great. but the jobs i find are designed to keep me here...my desire for a AAA national park trek is California unfriendly.
dating is like... a negative thing. i'm a pretty chill guy.
When girls see me and see how positive my attitude is, chill lax... active survivalist, hunter, surfer, ski dog, Wastelander! the second I tell them my lifestyle its all down hill no matter who i may be.
i travel and love where i'm 2 hours from surf, snow, hiking, racing, hunting... its great. but its very lonely being a perceived financial exile!
i no longer look or want to date... getting "handled" being subjugated... my heart doesn't really need the hardships, you spoke very eloquently to the reasons not to give into the peer pressure to conform I've felt for these few years. I know who i am. I have never cheated, never done anyone dirty. honest integrity...in a search for beauty I've left behind all that was ugly. i'm happy to search this world as i am.
the trade off... it only hurts on cold nights, or when i find a hidden place.
who hasn't found themselves staring into the most beautiful landscapes, looked around, and found no one to share it with.
love your life girl. i'll get there.
Try tinder maybe you'll find some van fun. Vans aren't the most conducive manner for the white picket dream. It's survivalism really
Sometimes when I read the comment section of your videos I cringe at what some of these guys say.
I am having a blast responding to comments. Let them congregate
“i’ll be your huckleberry ;)”
But she makes money from RUclips so she deals with it.
Ahle, as a person who has been homeless and lived in the comforts of my truck I understand how isolating but how rewarding it can be. Just please take good care of yourself and don't listen to the nay sayers.
Glad you stayed true to yourself
@Michael M. mmm. Maybe. I know I would. But maybe she's more independent than I am.
Who else wants to date cool people like her🙈👀
OK, so I thought about doing the same as you when I was younger, except 4 things come to mind, 1) what do you do about hygiene; showers or bath & brushing teeth? 2) how do you pay for vehicle insurance, auto repairs, food & essentials? 3) are you able to find work & what kind have you found available while your moving around? & 4} do you have a place you get your mail delivered to?(not asking for the address, just wondering how something like that is set up)
Might have more if you ever grant me an insight to inner workings of such an extravagant lifestyle. 🤔😇😎
Just looked below and answered 1 of my questions in partial which would be monetary support, but I can only see that as supplemental, even with the limited need for money. Just not sure how you'd collect some of that money without a fixed address for say a bank account in order to have a place for the money to go or cash/deposit checks, also not sure this particular way you'd be able to continually generate cash flow at all times. Go weeks or months at a time not getting anything(hopefully not, but curious if you have a back up way of making ends meet).
It does not sound hoeky to me. I love that you are following your passion. To me you really seem to have clarity about your life and that is a great thing. I hope you always follow your dreams and do what makes you happy. Love and Good Vibes to you
Yes. I can only hope to have the clarity of her life, stead fastness and will power that she has.
Hi Ahle, It is very hard to find a partner these days that does not try to control..
I am finding that living true to yourself, is a far better choice than living a life of someone elses control..
Amen !! 👍😎
I think you need to consider when you’re dating someone, you’re needs won’t always be first.
Bbsurf37 If any man loves a woman enough, they will be willing to make concessions for the matters that are important to the woman.
Michael M. 😂 you must have bitched up in all your relationships. Good luck with that.
Michael M. Nobody cares of your 13 year cuckholding experience. Seriously eww
Life is so much easier living on a sailboat simply because if you explain to someone that you live on a yacht they seem to think it is classy.
Ahle, keep being awesome! Relationships make us learn so much. I've been in some pretty bad ones, pretty crazy ones and I had to be near death to learn to value myself and my values.
You are beautiful and I live in my motor home and people will always have a problem because we live a different lifestyle and they can’t handle anything different
Gary Evans facts
You're so cute I wouldn't dump you if you lived in a shoebox.
@tim tom she has a home(van). She doesn't want to have someone elses.
Looks dont keep a relationship working. Its important but not the main factor in keeping a relationship working
@ETB your a sad human being
@@Mendezfarriercompany306
Exactly. Physical attraction only builds on the foundation of compatibility outside of emotions.
Without that compatibility, it can only last for so long... Hence the 53% divorce rate.
@@Mendezfarriercompany306 Why do so many people not understand the difference between your and you're. Both you and @tim tom
I don’t usually comment on many videos, but I’ve watched quite a few of yours now, and you’re honestly such an inspiration. As another young female (19), who’s looking into vehicle dwelling (savin that bread ofc, traveling, having my own space that I can just take with me, etc etc etc) I really appreciate all of your videos, and I really enjoy your energy!
Please don’t apologize for rambling videos, post MORE of them if anything! Wishing you well on your journeys to come :) who knows maybe one day we’ll bump into each other in our vans! (Just hopefully not literally, cant afford that insurance spike 😂)
Same here its just different but I graduated in May and I'm ready to do something different
Yo ashmarie808
u two should meet up and share....
"This person" and "they" must be a woman. That's fine with us.
Disgusting
What does it matter?
@@rebecca.m6068 yeah, that's the whole point of my comment, thanks.
You are so incredibly wise for your age. I am proud of you like a sister would be. Keep doing you, girl.
My lady and I have been Together for 21 Years. After being In a Relationship for 30 Months, We Moved in Together. Living Together lasted about 17 Months then We Moved apart, but were still Together. Four Years ago We Moved in Together again and We are still Living Together. The Moral of Our Story is that Long Distance Relationships can Work, Provided that both Parties Work at it.
Don’t worry you’ll find the right girl when the times right! Keep being inspirational and most important KEEP BEING YOU! ❤️🤘🏼
WTFFFF do you mean??
She's a Lesbian??
NOOOOOOO 😢😭😭😭
I was so in love then I found this comment!!
@Brandon Taylor trippin
Beautiful, just find someone who loves the life style as much as you. Most of us are trapped in the need for income, "others" are just programmed to to be boring & can't see the beauty in nature you'll find someone just keep an eye open 😉
I’m glad ur mindful about this, ur not playing just one side. You take both sides in account.
I worked on the road for years,I've lived many places. It's in our nature to explore and transcend our minds through experience. I saw glaciers on TV and then I worked in Alaska and walked on one. Traveling is not just an adventure physically it's a spiritual path as well and you can only understand that if you live on the road. Most people dont want to eat the same meal day after day. It's the same with travel life. Some are content with being in one place,seeing the same sunset on the same skyline, seeing the same people etc... However,for others,travel life is like the ocean side. No telling what you come across the next day and that is the magic. That's why we went in boats to discover new land,walk on the moon and such. This woman has pioneer blood in her and that's rather rare these days in a world of instant gratification. Props to you Ahle.
I think you're an incredible person to do what you do Ahle. A true free spirit. You will find the right soul mate for you eventually. All the best for your van life adventures!
Damn girl you look good and you travel around. Your living the dream. That's how I want to live.
I think it's very admirable that you want to continue to pursue your traveling life. I totally get what your saying and I agree it's complicated but knowing what you want at this time is what's most valuable to your life. Anyone who gets to know you will have to understand your choices. In healthy relationships two people should always be understanding and compromise. It takes time to know each others love languages and to adjust to each others thoughts and ideas. It's the sincerity of one who the other has to know. So if you're truly sincere for this time being for how you'd like to do life then that should be taken seriously by the one who is committing themselves to you. Therefore in time the relationship will be pure and open to find the next best plan of action for living.
So you have established Y♡U at this point and I think it's obvious Y♡U must continue to live out who Y♡U are at this time. The hearts are there because that is what's going to determine where your mind will rest. It's resting in the fact that Y♡U've made this choice and it fills your soul with happiness. Someone needs to take that as very important substance to the relationship.
The right person will totally arrive at the right time and most of this topic will be beautifully solved together well. 😉💖🙏
I have worked so hard to actually be prepared for things like this. To live debt free and to be able to pay cash for things. I feel truly blessed to be in the position I'm in. It was my choice! People will say things to destroy your thoughts for being different, but the thing is we don't have to listen. With that being said.., We make choices that aren't always selfish but instead fulfill the happiness we long for on the inside and in the end it's vital to who we are and who we will become! ✌😇
Always look forward to Your videos Ahle. Thanks for sharing with us ❤️
Very wise advice. Thanks for sharing your experiences. You needed to have those relationships to better understand what you truly desire the most. Putting your happiness first is the most important thing. Having a strong relationship with yourself will help you have a much stronger relationship with another person that’s the right match for you in the future.
I lived in a sprinter van for a year. My gf at the time traveled with me and it was the best year of our lives. We still talk about the memories. That was many years ago.
fortunately, you live a wonderful nomadic (mobile) spontaneous life. pls don't sacrifice your health and lifestyle (happiness) for someone else. Continue to stick to your passion/hobby, and nature and don't feel pressured to adhere to social constructs. Carpe Diem!
This was so incredibly well said! You made some excellent points in a very clear and respectful way and I'm just sitting here shouting YES at the screen haha. Even though I'm 100% a house wren who is most comfortable at her own home, I completely stand by what you said and I admire your sense of self greatly. 💪
I just bought my van 2 days ago my condo on wheels... I got the 3.5 diesel inline 6
Good for you !
Any person who cant see your values and decisions, Really doesnt deserve your time, Your a vibrant young woman whom I started watching just because your cute but a year later im still watching because of your content.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Ms.
Ahle, your self-awareness is remarkable. Way to stay true to yourself. Love yourself first, and love will always be in your life.
So my question is how is it a long distance relationship if you are mobile? I understand you living you're life the way you want to, but being mobile means if you want to see your significant other you just drive or travel there? Makes sense.... I think that even you don't want to live in one certain place or state it gives you more reason to go back to that state. Like you said you aren't obligated to be in one place because of work, home, ect... so at least the relationship gives you reason to go back to where your partner lives. It ain't like he had to wait 6 months to see you, now if that happens then yes, you are the one creating the distance. Now my opinion again... if is a couple of weeks or even a month wherever you want to go, and another couples of weeks to a month where your partner lives is fair, even healthy.... distance sometimes is healthy in a relationship. It makes it better when you see each other cause you missed that person. And whenever he is free he should travel with you as well... a happy medium let's say. The fact that you live whenever you like and experience so many beautiful places sounds awesome, even living a dream... I understand the traveling, but at least it gives you a reason to go back to a place. You are not living in one city when you are visiting, same as when you travel, you stay for a "certain time" like a couple of weeks or a month for example and then you move to another experience. Just that a relationship at least should give you reason to visit a place more than once maybe? I dunno the "mobile lifestyle"but I think if the realtion matters it should be a happy medium where they both compromise to a certain degree to make each other happy...
When me meet the RIGHT guy, you will have no question in you ur heart as to what to do.
What's with all the creepy dudes in here?
Planting Freedom - athatcher85 Creepy guys? On RUclips? Whaaaaat?!
@@s0567840 lol
Creepy dude checking in. I once taped myself to the underside of her van so I could follow her around. It was cool, but the gravel bouncing up from the road really started to hurt. Now I bought my own car to follow her around in!
i think that is her core audience. Like her content isn't mind blowing or anything super fresh - so I think it is just a bunch of guys who are semi in love with her imagining being with her and thinking that is achievable because she is a lonely nomad free spirit or something. Like there are instragrammers who just produce bikini shots with millions of subs.. soo
@@DxsPro - My joke above aside, I'll freely admit I watch her in part because I have a crush on her. I found her videos through other traveling videos. I take a lot of solo road trips every year so I'm sort of part of that life - though I stay in motels and never slept in my car for more than for a nap.
I think she's beautiful, really pleasant to listen to, and comes off as super sweet. And if, in some wildly unlikely scenario, an opportunity came along where I had the chance to date her, would I jump on it? Absolutely! But I don't leave creepy comments and I'm under no illusion that it's particularly likely to happen. Is that really so horrible?
I don't do the full time van life thing, never have. But one notable thing across any platform, if he doesn't appreciate you or your life choices, he ain't for you. Consider it a blessing. Theres lots of guys out there. I wouldn't fret it if I was you. Coming from a middle aged happily married laid back dude
Adventure! Exactly. Just being out there & traveling, experiencing & exploring new things, being on the road, around nature. I think we're around the same age, I'm 20 & I'll be 21 next month & I feel you 100%. It's not selfish, it's your lifestyle & if it makes you genuinely happy then keep doing it until you're ready to move on💕
If you can't afford a home, I can understand why living in a car is beneficial. If you can afford a home or rent, then l personally I find it weird. I work to live in a house. I feel like living in a vehicle for a long time isn't healthy. This is my opinion and respect your opinion and choice
I legit admire you so much, AHHHH I wanna travel with you
Worse if you're a man, I think. Date another van life person.
She probably just doesn't want to go out with a jerk.
Woman care about LMS more so than men, and living in a van, no matter how attractive you are is a 0 on the Money/Status scale. Men care about sexual market value/looks only, they don't care if you are living in a van or a bank president.
Don't think women don't care about looks too. But I get the point, agree.
Just became a fan. I moved to Washington state. And living in a vehicle in Hawaii was frowned upon so keeping my house was getting me into debt so I decided to move for the better. After arriving here I realized lots of people live in their vehicles. And they do a retry good job at it. So now that I have been here a year I am setting up my truck to live in so I could save money and actually move back to Hawaii and live comfortably. Thanks for the inspiration
Props to you for staying true to yourself and your dreams and not to change because anyone wants you to do that. Totally fine and not selfish!
Always find someone who accepts you for who you are. Saves a lot of trouble down the road.
Was the pun intended
@@touxiong519 Some people say, "Spare me," but I never tire of hearing a good pun.
Interesting to hear this perspective 😜👊🏻
I’ve never seen so many old dudes on a channel
old dudes loves young girls.... LOL
Your keeping count.... That's kinda creepy.
Rob Kitchen lol mad late, relax.
Sean Keovongsa my grandson will probably direct the same comment to you one day🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
how can you tell someone's age?
Fam never give up the van life unless you find somewhere that is so dope you never want to leave. Changing for people normally doesn't work out. Your nice you will meet tons of cool people that like you.
Trust, support, acceptance and understanding, these are the things you need from the other person and vice versa. Life doesn't have to be complicated and limited. I find that what you're doing is truly who you are. Travelling for some is a get away, holiday etc. But for you, it's naturally a part of your life and who you are which is great because its a challenge and you grow from it. Never give up your lifestyle that you want and that you built, I wouldn't. Stay true and always take care.
Well done.! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 you’re to young to settle. Live life!
Best pick up line...park you're house here!
You can park you're house at the four corners monument so you're kitchen can be in Utah and your living room in New Mexico
That's why I only date people in the lifestyle. I think it's selfish and entitled to expect people to change who they are because who they are doesn't work for you. If who I am or who they are doesn't work for the relationship, then we need to part ways. That's the very purpose of dating. To see if you fit. Dating isn't marriage.
It’s hard to find people who fit perfectly into the kind of lifestyle that makes you happy. It’s no one’s fault, it just is. Everyone deserves someone that completes them and makes their dynamic more fulfilling and happy, and I’m sure you’ll find that someday :)
Just found you on recommended. Thank you. I am a bit older than you and I appreciate you breaking it down. I can not say this enough. You really said in the first 5 minutes of where you are and where we should be. Thank you. watching the rest of the vid...I hope that you are happy now :)
604 comments and 550 of them are likely wannabe suitors...
its how she pays the bills...
@@grazzitdvram this seems like an unfair statement, sir. any male youtuber posting a similar video would not have hundreds of creepy women commenting. it's just a tad gross. good day, sir!
@@eric-mouse That's called human biology... There are a lot of lonely guys out there and ahle is beautiful and interesting and to act like she isn't aware of it is to belittle her intelligence.... She knows what she's doing.
thank you for your insight. had i known this day would come, i’d have saved the cash i dropped on tuition 😉
probably half+ of her subscribers are. she is attractive, seems very nice she just has a quirky lifestyle.
His loss! I would have went with you, but that's just me! I live in my van too!😀
The right person will compliment your life, not complicate it. You will know when you meet them because it's easy - just is.
terrible advice. utter nonsense.
@@nickc3856 Thank you for reading my comment..:-)
Wise words. I think it is important not to lose yourself for someone else. I'm new to your channel, but it seems you are living the life I think many would like to if they could figure it out and would be willing to give up what is familiar. I want to travel more which is kind of incompatible with my job, and it costs a lot. I have been thinking of starting out staying in my car for some weekend trips and seeing if I like it and try to work my way up from there. Keep your dreams.
17:03 until you're willing to compromise you'll need to find a "doormat". You can find someone 99% for you but if you only worry about your happiness then you let that 1% keep you from building.
Maybe you haven't found the right one. Maybe you don't/ shouldn't be in a relationship, maybe you're still finding yourself... Maybe not but maybe.
Learn to live on the basis of your own desires of reality: Solitarianism.
I would love to be in a relationship with a woman that loves traveling and living on the road...🤞
Seems like you’re gonna have to find someone who is either down to do the nomad life too or someone that does van life too. I admire that you know who you are and don’t want to compromise your traveling lifestyle for a relationship.
I was homeless per say when I was 20, I had a job but lived in my car. I actually really loved it. I chose that way of life for about 9 months of the year and would always stay by the beaches
I'm glad you didn't allow the break up to influence your lifestyle. Just live your best life and be happy, maybe some one will come along you can relate to, maybe not , either way just doing what you want that makes you fulfilled and happy will be enough, love. Safe travels and best wishes from S. Ga.
My advice to you would be to not date for a while. The lifestyle is hard for 95% of people today and most follow Instagramers but can't really do it themselves. It's hard. I would also look for people in different places. There are plenty of travelers and people who are down for traveling and have the ability to do so. If you look for people in conventional ways there is a very slim chance you'll find someone but odds are you'll bounce around to relationships that eventually won't work. If travel is your main priority then just do that. Enjoy friendships. Maybe don't label it. Like there is no need to date necessarily but when you have a chance to get together then get together. Applying labels to it usually brings an added stress when you are trying to make things work. Instead of trying to make things work just go with the flow. Long distance relationships rarely work. And they don't because you sell yourself short of experiences. Whether it be experiences with each other or experiences on your own. I've done it twice and regretted it both times. I'm actually about to end the one I'm in now because I want to travel and she wants to spend all of her money to make her house her personal oasis because she thinks it will make her happy. A lot of times people force things because they prefer to not be alone. I've learned and realized I actually prefer to be alone. I'm not saying don't date, but some people shouldn't depending at what point they are at in their life. Maybe when you are done traveling then actually look for something. And van relationships are different than "normal" relationships for the fact you are living in way 95% or more can not live. So when you date another van dweller maybe it will be more similar but until then you have to understand your lifestyle will not fit with almost everyone you come across. Another issue unfortunately is guys will be willing to date you ignoring everything that comes along with it. They'll tell themselves they can do it. When in fact they know they can't. Being as beautiful as you are IMO will make it more difficult. Guys are willing to lie to themselves or something as simple as beauty. It's how we are wired honestly. I've done it myself. So I would be more careful of who you chose to make that leap with. As genuine as it seems it will not be sometimes. And by genuine I mean accepting how you choose to live. Once you find that guy things will be gravy for you. Good luck.
Ahhh heck no....gotta find one with the same type of world views...you should never have to give up your dreams for someone. You would be miserable in one place.
News flash! Relationship come with compromises.. shocking.
True. But there are some things in one's life that should [[ never be compromised ]]. If you think everything should be available to even potentially being compromised, that's very unhealthy. She's willing to compromise, but not the very thing that she loves about her life. In this case, anyone, no matter who they are, if they're not open to giving her that, then they're not a healthy partner for her. She's a healthy person. If she did otherwise, she would be unhealthy in my opinion. If what the other person wants isn't happily sustainable, then ending the relationship is the healthy thing to do. The sooner the better.
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If you live in a vehicle, don't you have to stay in the temperate climate region? Therefore, it limits where you can travel. Also, how do you conduct daily hygiene? The vehicle (non motor home setup) doesn't have a bathroom or sink.
You echo a lot of the same feelings I have! Thank you for putting so well in a video!:)