I am 69 and have a brain tumor and heart issues, I live alone and never married or had kids and really no family.......some of my closest friends have already died, so I appreciate every day of life and as a Christian I realize how short life is and what a GIFT it is..........................even when I take my morning walks that usually last about one hour thru the neighborhood and a park with woods and a stream, I look at trees and the sky and clouds and wonder if I will ever see them again......I look at the falling red and yellow Maple leaves laying on the ground which just fell off the tree and some even land on my shoulder as I walk under the trees......I know where I am in my walk and one bridge over the stream is a half way point in my walk.............another street corner is the two-thirds point in the walk..................the closer I get to my home in the walk I stop and realize that in reality this is the time clock of my entire life and I am somewhere near the last 10 minutes of a 60 minute walk. ...............without the sorrow of knowing it will all end, it is impossible to fully appreciate each moment......................
Fighting major depression for so many years, for some reason you help me open my bible, pray, I need to be brave and stop the suicide thoughts, thank you 😍
I've been homeless since 2009, the days of the recession. I'm still homeless but I drive a truck now. Being homeless while making a good income is a beautiful thing.
we should change the name of homeless to independent. ppl using van/RV, to be free of debt, save $ etc..do have a home and just a more independent life.....Its a new change from excess use of space and resources.... just a thought here.....We all need to get creative and keep our fellow ppl off the streets and in a safe clean place...Love all these ppl with great advice.
Life is so short. No one is promised a tomorrow. Put God first of all. Over everything. Family, house, job, car. Jesus is for real. God's Word is true. Prophesy is now. No joke.
Ahle, wow, this is incredible...the way you can articulate everything i have been feeling these past few years, the balancing of "why in the world would you do this to yourself?" and "i am happy," the appreciation of your loved ones in front of you presently, the realization that the world is so big and yearning to explore it. You weren't complaining or rambling at all. Thank you for sharing.
Hey Ahle! Just wanted to say I really like when you do these kinds of videos where they're more raw and unplanned, they just show a lot of emotion and personally I really enjoy them. Also, you didnt sound like you were complaining at all. Great video, keep up the amazing content and uplifting attitude!
You’re like Moana, you have a force that drives you, where you feel “you have to go”. I understand you, I have that feeling too, maybe not the same level, but I feel it. It’s the feeling of exploration, for me, wanderlust, the world is so big! And there’s so much to learn!
Zach Zach I could see how you feel about wanderlust given the examples from people in your life. I think you can have both, wanderlust and “mastering” your situation, it all depends on one’s actions. For me, I feel I have wanderlust, I want to explore and learn new things; but I also have obligations, like taking care of my 64 yo disabled mom (disabled from a massive stroke 6 years ago). Now that I have an adventure van, I plan to take her places with me explore the states and Canada. My mom and I could have wanderlust together :)
I can totally relate. I don't drive big trucks anymore, but I used to and even though it's been about 10 years, I still remember going through this exact thing every time I left home. I never knew when I was coming back, as I worked from point to point, wherever freight was available. I came home when I could get something heading back to El Paso. Sometimes I would go up and down the Midwest for weeks, then from one coast to another, yet still not be able to get something going home. I didn't own the truck, so it wasn't up to me to take it home with no paid load to justify the fuel expenditure. You only get about 7 mpg in those trucks, and 300 gallons at 3 or 4 bucks a gallon is too expensive unless you're getting paid to haul something to that destination. So I would often go 6 to 8 weeks before coming home, only to stay for a couple days, then leave again. My grandmother was getting old and I was afraid she would pass away while I was gone and I'd never see her again. The girl I was crazy about found herself another guy, seeing as how I wasn't around enough to be a proper part of her life. Yes, I did love the scenery and the beautiful solitude that comes with the territory, but it was always terribly hard to leave, not knowing when I would return. Then there were all these close calls on the road. For all I knew, maybe it would be the last time I ever went home. That shit would drive me crazy sometimes. So yeah, I know how you feel. I just revisited that familiar feeling as I watched you talk about it. Be safe out there, Ahle. You're an amazing young woman and such a beautiful soul!
I found your comment and this vlog very moving. Both have helped me reflect on just how important my bonds are with other people as opposed to any of my personal ambitions. I don't want to put words in yours or Ahles mouth but if I were a trucker or van lifer I'd probably at least sometimes get really lonely (not that I don't to a lesser degree) and that's just an awful feeling.
@LoveofVelvet No, it didn't work out. It was for the best, though. The way things were in her life at the time, she would've been a handful and that wouldn't have been good for me. She was really wrecking her life and that guy was a big part of it. They both got arrested a number of times before she worked up the guts to leave him and I just don't need that kind of drama in my life.
@@dlotable I actually love solitude, but I also like knowing when I'm coming back. As long as I have the power to come and go when I want to, I can stay away for weeks or months. It's when someone else is holding the cards that it bothers me. My grandmother was getting really old and she would always ask when I was coming back. I couldn't answer her, because I didn't actually know and wouldn't know until I got a load going through my town. I felt really bad about that and it's not the easiest job to quit. I mean, you can quit, but you pretty much have to cut and run, hoping you have enough money to hold you until you get something else. Since you're never home, you can't really make it to interviews, drug tests, etc, or even tell a potential new employer when you'll be available. You'll lose a number of opportunities until you decide to just walk away and take your chances. That's what I ended up doing. Otherwise, I'd still be stuck out there.
Mark, wow that's something nobody shares with you when you set out to be a long haul trucker. Yeah sure the money is good but is it worth it? My dad this this for 20 years, but he is rebel, a loner, even though he had a family. I would see him like 3 times a year.
I've lost my dearest cousin to alcohol recently and one thing I would hear her say while she was beyond drunk...she would say brother we need to travel maybe go fishing or something where I can put my feet in the water. I spoke to her about 7 hours before she passed away. We planned to go fishing the day she passed away...I didnt hear from her and I guess she was beyond intoxicated to where she ended up in the hospital. A few hours later she would pass, and at the time of her passing I was away fishing. I had the best day fishing just thinking about her and what I was going to do to help her enjoy a day of fishing when we got the chance! When I got home maybe 15 min before midnight I got the call at 12:02 am telling me she passed away! RIP Ashley Marie Yazzie 6/3/17 LIVE People
I've been watching your videos for a couple of years now. I love to see how much you have experienced and grown !! Your an amazing person!! God bless you girl !
Listen to your gut, not your heart. Perhaps you two could travel together for a bit? She’s only a text away if you’re lonely. If you’re feeling that it’s time to not be a “Hobo” anymore, then go with that. It’s about the journey, not the destination. There is no wrong decision. The world is yours, best wishes.
I’ve lived in a vehicle before and I know the feelings that you go through. It was hard times, but I found out that doing without security and comfort doesn’t leave you lacking. It gives you strength and teaches you to value the little that you have. I find that I don’t let petty circumstances break me down. How could I? If I can endure such hardships, why would I let small bumps in the road get me down. You’re going to come through your “travels” with belief in yourself. Let the entire thin veneer of society break down, you can rely on yourself and your faith. You have a beautiful heart, defend it and yourself. Keep safe out there and remember that you’re never alone.
I think your talking about attachment and practicing becoming detached which I think is a spiritual exercise and part of being human, not many can find or understand the strength involved with living this way. Keep moving Alexandria.
"I think your talking about attachment and practicing becoming detached which I think is a spiritual exercise and part of being human ..." Exactly! And this feeling--the sadness while saying goodbye--exists for people living in stationary in a sticks-n-bricks dwelling as well. Whenever my sister leaves my home after her week-long visit, I feel the same "sadness" ... it is just part of the human experience.
I just love you and your videos. I have a restless spirit just like you. Let me tell you that feeling never goes away . I am a lot older than you but I see myself in you when I was your age. You won't have any regrets when you look back because you are making your own personal reality experience. You should be very proud of yourself for taking life by the horns. You go girl. Don't quit. Never give up. Make no apologies. Be true to yourself! Your Awesome. I Love you! Peace. ♡
This is why I’ve settled down in AZ for a bit... been in Flagstaff since like April. The wanderlust gets tiring after a while, and sometimes it’s good to stop and stay put for a while.
So I started watching ur vids recently (Nov 2019). I camp a lot and it was probably one of your build vids that initially popped up. I wish you all the best in your travels as you only live once and it is finite. I’m married to the love of my life, with two beautiful daughters. I’m currently 52 yo and realize that I prob have 25 good years left (give or take). And it’s not enough. But I digress. If you’re ever in So Cal, and need help on your vehicle, I have a welder, carpentry tools and I do all of our cars’ maintenance. All the best
You are a California girl yet you are so spiritually grounded and very unneurotic and un-narcissistic. So many young women in Cali are so superficial and talk “Valley”. You are so refreshing and relaxing to listen to.
Trust me . . . the feelings you have are completely normal. Loneliness is a natural part of life. Whether you live in a traditional lifestyle or not, loneliness exists in all of us. Some more than others, but nonetheless it's there. It isn't resolved by lifestyle, or crowds, or social media, or religion . . . it's tamed only when you meet someone you click with and have a relationship that never dies regardless the circumstances. In some ways you're lucky; you're lucky because you have relationships that are forever. Enjoy it! Cherish it! Build on it!
...and that "someone you click with and have a relationship that never dies regardless the circumstances" can only be ourselves!! otherwise, we place the power to make us feel whole on an external source....therefore it can once again go away and cause us to feel lonely. if we can train ourselves to feel complete all within ourselves then we are a solid foundation and externals lose the power to hurt us for too long!
Ahle, this is the first of your videos I've watched, but I do plan to watch others. You spoke off the cuff and from your heart with an honesty that is quite refreshing. Goodbyes can be difficult, and as I tell people, I don't want to ever get good at saying them. I agree completely with you when you said to "live in the moment." That' helps you to not only enjoy that person and time with them, but realize how special the time/friend can be. Keep up the good work. Best wishes!
I follow you because I envy your freedom (in a positive way) and choose to live vicariously through you. I was a long haul truck driver for years, and so I understand the life all too well. I gave it up to be home, and while some things in my life have improved, others have declined. I miss the freedom. I feel trapped in a cage of my own making. Just find the positives, and find a way to make things work, and if it gets to be too much then don't be afraid to change.
You can keep on moving trying to find something, until after looking over every hill and around every bend you realise there is nothing to find, life is what you make xx
It's a real treat to listen to you express your thoughts and feelings so honestly . . . and I know exactly what you're talking about. Some eternal travelers never say goodbye, but just "I'll see you down the road."
Story of my life... I lived in 4 countries, visited more than 30 and have good friends all over the planet. It saddens me that I rarely get to see some of them face-to-face. But then it is magical when we do get together. And even more painful when we say our goodbyes not knowing if that was our last time. In actual fact you never know when there is a last time for anything. I'm getting to an age where a few of these last times have happened already (even more scary is that I may not even be aware that they did). You only live once this life, make it count in the way that makes sense to you.
As a trucker, I've also come to a similar realization. Primarily, I know I have a fair amount of wanderlust and like being a nomad. On the flip side, I also don't have close friends or family, which feeds this strange spiral where I don't shut down frequently, but when I do, I'm quick to meet new people. However, that realization made me understand that these random strangers are fun to hang with, but I'll likely never see them again.
Recommendation: please spend the holidays with family & friends, maybe hangout for a long while. Then go do something different for New Year's Eve. Again, this is only a recommendation. ♥️ Donna
to me, holidays are just pre-ordained dates on a calendar chosen by others, when everyone expected to go to certain places to see certain people to eat certain foods and do certain things and spend certain money. many, many people dread the holidays because of this, and many are miserable the whole time they are 'forced' to participate, and yet others are miserable that they are not there on that particular date and time. but yet we are expected to love our people on a set schedule or else be considered misfits. as a traveler too, i'm already a misfit, which is the way i like it, but most importantly, my 'holidays' are set by me and the people i love, time spent genuinely, enjoyed without expectation or obligation, but with much joy. this comment offered respectfully, as an alternative viewpoint.
@@nonyabizness.original The set dates ALLOW family to get together. Sure many families do not like each other enough. but if they do, and it is "Gosh I wish we could meet _sometime_ " - then holidays are the chance to meet. Also the chances to get time off are better, kids do not have school, etc. The presents are another thing: in family we agreed that adults do not give things to each other, some bring some homemade stuff (cookies in cellophane). The grandparents get their chance to spoil the grandkids, but the parents of smaller children limit what they get (they have more than enough already). And the teenagers will always be glad to get some extra allowance from grandparents and uncle and aunts (if they are so inclined).
You said that being mobile intensifies the sadness of having to leave your friends. But I think it intensifies the friendship while your together for those short times. Makes you appreciate them more. Keep your chin up. Life on the road is not easy.
✨I lived out of my van in West Virginia for 3 months and the humidity was awful. I was attacked by mosquitoes every day. Ticks crawled on me all the time. The rain came almost daily and began to ruin the wood paneling that the previous owner installed. It leaked water on the bed when it rained hard. Mold began to grow and all my clothes stayed damp. It was super hot during the day in summer. It was hard to stay clean and sober minded and to eat healthy. I am so glad I left that all behind. I wish everyone else wanting to do this the best of luck but it isn’t easy and it becomes super expensive if you don’t have a permanent place to park your van / vehicle 🚗 also it was super lonely 😞
Oh girl, I live in my van and travel lots aswell and I resonated with your words SO much. Having loved ones all over the world and saying goodbye over and over again is definitely very hard... and makes the time you do get together THAT much more precious
Your such an amazing young woman. I love all your videos. I we see this amazement in your eyes and how much you feel. We are living this travel through your travels. God has these plans for you and he's blessing you. You are amazing beyond your years. Always treasure the beauty of the lands and travels. Also with your old and dearest friends but also your new friends. Never forget to tell your friends how much you care and love them. Then they will always know how you feel about them. Many happy trails to you and safe passages. 😄😉
It's good to hear you have that perspective. I believe it's the same as living stationary. I think when we travel a lot, we meet more people and friends. I have friends who are stationary and they never see each other even if they are in the same city! Then they tell me they see me more often even though I come from far away. You are living in the moment. Many people never get to live life to the fullest like that. Then, they realize they've never seen their friends for 40 years. It IS very cool to meet so many people like you do. I think that's the best way to live. the best way to live a full and happy life.
Hi Ahle - when you said that you have the feeling of needing to go places but not really having anywhere to be, that hit me hard. I have this all the time. I have been a "digital nomad" for lack of better term for a year now and right now I feel a bit stuck for relationship reasons. It's hard to explain to people who don't live this life that you -need- to move along and it's nothing personal... sigh. I don't know what my point is, just that I don't know anyone personally who lives this life besides myself so I struggle a bit having people to relate to.
Thank you for sharing. I remember when I saw your first videos. You’ve grown and matured in so many ways as well as influenced myself and others. Thanks to you I once lived the car/on the road life style and I traveled much throughout the USA. Best times of my life :) Thank you for being a positive light in a place others won’t understand. Cherish the moments you make and live through them because one day you’ll miss them.
Connecting with anyone at any level is challenging enough. But to have them accept your current life choices, well, it takes an opening minded individual to truely accept how wonderful it is to live free. You are a wonderful and spirited angel that will have great things coming your way one day. Stay true to yourself and be stronger to overcome all obstacles that you may face.
It really is like being in a Long distance relationship. I feel that everytime my husband visits and then leaves after two weeks. So I feel you girl. 💕😭
We all have this need for connection, and that makes it hard to part when you've had a good time together and yet you have to part for awhile. The good thing is that it's usually very special when your time is short and it creates with bonds with certain people.
I totally feel where you're coming from. I grew up in Hawaii, & moved to Cali 10 yrs ago. Whenever I meet up with my parents or friends I'm always super excited, but sad at the same time, since I know our time together is limited. It's weird...the leading up to seeing them is almost better since I have that to look forward to. Of course when the time comes to Meetup it's totally awesome, but also real heartbreaking once we say goodbye. It's comforting knowing I'm not the only one who feels this way.
I get a similar feeling and I'm living a fixed location lifestyle. Most people I've known moved on in life to new locations, they took on large responsibilities (or interests) that eat their time, and end up sacrificing active friendships along the way. I don't think there is a cure for the heartbreak of the infrequent (planned or random) encounters and it only gets worse when people you dearly love start to die off and the opportunity to spend time together has expired. It's those times that I reflect on the time I've wasted in life. Whatever excuse I had for not spending more time with them suddenly feels shallow no matter the reasoning.
I feel you. Even though I'm not mobile yet I travel a lot and I don't have much family or friends where I live. When I see them it's wonderful but when I leave it's heartbreaking because you don't know when you will see them again. What helps me is contacting them when I miss them checking up and trying to be apart of their lives even if we are thousands of miles apart. I can only imagine that feeling amplified when you live on the road.
Hello Ahle I just started looking at your videos and I find myself wanting to see more and more because you are so loving kind and a beautiful person. I don’t have a daughter but if I had one I would definitely want her to be like you 😊. I may be wrong but I think you should maybe go back home and live there for a while. At least you will have your Mom and your friends and family. And you can still go on your road trips as vacations.I get the Impression that you are a bit lonely. Please think about it and know that this is just a suggestion.
Thank you for sharing your feelings about that subject. It is hard when you’re traveling, because you’re obviously going to meet some amazing people along the way! And it is sad, because you will have to say goodbye eventually. But we all have our own adventures that we are on and our own lives to live so it’s just a part of it, but the memories made with them are such a blessing to look back on. And when you do get to see them again it’s soooo good! Keep the people you love in your heart and they’ll never be far away, safe travels!
Great video! It’s been awhile since you’ve inspired me to go choose my own adventure, Thank you. I’ve been a year on the road and experienced this quit a bit as well. Caved in this past month and ended up in a year lease to regroup, school up and head back out for longer period. Go further. Your inspiration takes effect. While in motion there is always the next thing so every moment has its own lifetime. You have more opportunities to learn an appreciate life fully because more of it becomes available to you. Being complacent, stationary, seems to let it go by while you miss it. Be cool to meet you. I’m in Prescott, AZ if your cruizin through stop in we’ll go climbing. We’ve beautiful climbs and tons of’em 😃... Indoor gym also, Gripstone. Thanks for sharing your experience!
Hi Ahle! I just wanted to tell you that your videos are very motivating and have helped me transition from renting to making my car my home. This marks my 6 months on the road and have learned and experienced so much. I totally understand the whole coming and going of friends. The way I think of it is friends and family who come to visit. Youre excited for them to come visit but bittersweet that they have to leave. What i usually say is "I love you, take care, and I will see you later." Whether its 6 months to a year to 10 years; serendipity. Its never goodbye. Thank you for sharing your experiences and keep up with the inspiration!
I built a tiny house and I’m looking for a place to park it in Northern California right now. I would love to host you when you come through Sonoma County!!
Heart person to heart person I feel you and so appreciate that you were able to share these thoughts. Your sadness when you have to be on your way told me this: The larger the heart, the deeper the sadness. The connection with friends and family is life giving for me as well. My solace on parting is that they remain in my heart even when far away. Love always 💕
I could 90% do the van thing. I've thought about it for 30 years. I am so impressed by both your bravery and your truly honest testimonies about 'real life' facts. It's that reality that has always made me stay in one place; it hasn't been my time yet. But damn girl...you are really an inspiration and hopefully I'll see you out on the road one day. To each their own and never say never, always be open to all and everything for the best things in life are free. Stay safe and do you.
Yes your right , humans also need conections and have some roots in the ground, and have a base is good for our security and heart. I guess in your situation on the road is hard for that i understand.
Nothing in life is permanent, everything is temporary, and as you said, that’s the beauty of it. I believe everyone is on their own journey to find fulfillment and happiness, yet everyone also seeks connection. Nothing is worth having unless you have someone to share it with (temporarily).
I'm glad for you that you're able to travel and do what you love. In order to live your lifestyle, I know you've made several sacrifices...including not being in relationships and not being able to see the people you want to see for x amount of time. I've been watching you for a while now and I know the videos you make are only a very short time of your day...but I am curious, how often to you see people/friends? Do you talk on the phone with anyone often or do you stay isolated more than not? I know you spend a lot of time alone and that's part of being able to do what you want to do, but just make sure you socialize too. Too much time alone can make you sad. It's completely normal to be emotional when you have to leave a friend or family member..because you value your time together. No different than seeing a loved one who lives far away and you only see them on holidays...or even going on vacation and having to leave the place you went to. You value your time there and don't want to leave but have to..yet enjoyed the time spent there. ETC. Like you said, everything comes with pros and cons...just be sure there's more pros than cons in whatever you do. Yes, it's sad leaving friends/family but you're able to do what you love..and you get to see the world....and not everyone is fortunate enough to be in that position. This is all over the place lol sorry...just wanted to let you know that it's ok to be sad or emotional. I'm glad you got to let it out on this video:) be safe and enjoy yourself♡
“Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by every moment that takes your breath away.” I just came back from China being a solo backpacker for 3 weeks, enjoyed every moment with new friends and places. Brought back all good memories. I am shopping for an old van to build a camper van to travel. Ahle - you choose the right path for your own happiness. Proud of you.
Sounds like it can get lonely, but I look at it as building up friends for retirement. Be true to yourself and travel as much and as long as you can. Just keep the family connection the strongest, they’re the most important piece! People live busy lives and I can see even good friends living in the same area once a year/once every few years. Just let it flow: see people when you can, and branch out to some more folks that DON’T live the van life so you have some good local area friends/host families to visit when you’re in town. Especially if you have your own pattern/route. They can share a little home life and stability with you, and you can share some wanderlust and tips with them. Maybe they’ll even hit the road or a flight to get out of their comfort zone and meet you somewhere!
I feel you bro, I really do....you are not alone with those strange feelings. This lifestyle really teaches you to "life live to the fullest" and most importantly, appreciate people you love!
It's very inspiring to see a young girl who is self sufficient and adventurous like you and it's great !!! It's very brave of you to take to the road best of luck and sending positive vibes out there!!!💗
This is real and truly from the heart. I appreciate how introspective you are. You can't grow without reaching within and identifying and reconciling mixed feelings and emotions of sadness and loneliness and well as abandonment. On a small level it can be traumatic. Because you're an introspect, you will soon enough, find comfort and inner peace within yourself to handle this. I wish you well my friend!
Ahle, if (one of) your best friend(s) also has a travelling lifestyle like yours, have you ever thought of caravaning with her? I didn't see anyone mention this and I wasn't clear from what you said if you did.
What is great about your situation is that you get to choose when and if you want to end this lifestyle. You are not forced into this, so you have the flexibility of spending more time with loved ones and you determine when you want to go back on the road..... it is not decided for you by a job that you have to return too. You have a wonderful life. Enjoy every moment, as this will not be your life forever..... one day you will look back at all of these wonderful teachable moments. You are a beautiful girl & I love watching your videos. Be safe & love your life. xo ❤️
Hey Ahle! I think your lifestyle is super cool, and you’re not complaining at all. I’ve been watching your videos for a while now, and you continue to educate and inspire me. think loneliness has become an epidemic in this country whether you’re living in a van or in a mansion. Do you have one person you can call a day or every other day just to talk? It’s honesty in videos like this that restore my faith in humanity!! Sending a big hug your way!
I know it’s trendy to live the way you are right now, but I really think you’d be a lot happier with a roommate or two and a home. I think what you’re missing is a home where you can nest and have neighbors and grow relationships. I know that’s not the thing to do right now, but it’s really nice To have a home and I think you’d love it.
Life is short, and you must live for the moment. You are one of those that have realized this early in your adult life, which will truly benefit you and how you live your life. I learned this only beginning in my 30's. I enjoy your videos, your way of living, and your mind.
Hi Ahle! I just spent 14 days living in the back of my 2001 Toyota Tundra in the High Sierra's . I am 59 and have a wife of 34 years. I don't camp that much any more so it is an adjustment. Just the short time living in the back of truck does bring out a lot of emotions for me. I think of things like why am I living of my truck and dang its cold. The hardest part for me was climbing in and out of my sleeping bag two to three times a night to go pee. It would be tough to do that full time. I think I would need a van, a trailer or a motor home to live full time on the road. I do understand your loneliness in it all. You know just living life comfortably in a home can get you in a rut and you can become lonely as well. My life is a life of loneliness because I am a Christian and my thoughts are about Christ and His return. For the last 10 years I have been seeking the Truth in pretty much everything. Almost everyone I know even family are not as interested in the truth as I am so right there is a separation of priorities. Thanks for sharing your emotions with us. God Bless and God speed!
You are experiencing your life in a way that very few young people get to do. Most people are pushed by their circumstances into the routine commitments of life. Hang onto your freedom and revel in it. It is one of the greatest gifts. Often granted by a truly loving parent or family that was wise enough to let you fly free. That's how it was for me 40 some years ago. Cherish it. Revel in it. Be thankful! -Thanks for sharing these times of your life in the world with us.
Are you Native American? I love your sky. (Freedom Sky - Boundless Sky) Stay hardcore connected with all your friends. It sounds like you are building a solid friend network over your regional and interstate mobile-traveling lifestyle. Your lifestyle is great. Enhance the positives, and minimize the negatives. Your thoughts are beautiful; not complaining. You talk great, speak well. I love listening to you, your expressions, points-of-view, deep thoughts and concerns: Antidotes are great. Peace and purpose, Have a great life journey, friend network, and night, Vincent
Omg 💜 At the ten minute mark is when my mouth dropped and heart fluttered. You explained how and why the process of sorrow and happiness occurs with the traveling lifestyle so well! Via, the joy you get when you see someone you love yet you mourn when you leave them, yet you're filled with excitement and inspiration to continue exploring the world. I'm so happy you know what I feel and that I know what you feel in regards to this topic 💜 I hope we meet someday as we're passing by 🚙⛵🛫 I think we'd be really great friends
You definitely have wanderlust my dear. Some of us have it and some don’t. Maybe we should call you gypsy ahle lol. Maybe it’s time to go home and visit for a while. Get some loves!!!
@@lolabint3411 while there are people who believe it is a derogatory term, the exonym "gypsy" is widely used in the United States to refer to nomads. I have never heard it used as a slur. I can't speak for Europe.
Lola Bint it also means nomadic or free spirited person. If she WAS Romani and I called her a gypsy that would be a slur. She isn’t. So in that usage of it I wasn’t using it in the tense of where it would be offensive. So I’ll go ahead and use it. Thank you for educating me on something I already knew.
Just Me Ashley okay then, I still think in general it probably isn't good to use it at all, you could just say nomadic etc. but whatever, you do as you like ig
ZxiTzLuCkYxZ please don’t make fun of a mental illness its not even about cleaning its about terrifying intrusive thoughts and people desperately finding ways, like cleaning, to make them go away. Even if its all mental it is scary, because your own brain seems to be against you. It’s not a joke
Well explained, I totally feel you since I am a solo traveler as well. I also think that my heart is being trained in being broken and then opening up for the next encounter again and again so it will become this super heart that is capable of bearing anything. At the same time I get more okay with feeling the sadness when leaving and therefore get even more emotional over the years. A very real topic for us solo van dwellers. Thanks for sharing.
Great backdrop by the way. Very enjoyable to hear your thoughts and you express yourself spontaneously. Love your sincerity and inner beauty that radiates even through a camera.
Instead of saying "I live in my car", I would say that "I am a full-time camper". A much more positive response guaranteed.
I am 69 and have a brain tumor and heart issues, I live alone and never married or had kids and really no family.......some of my closest friends have already died, so I appreciate every day of life and as a Christian I realize how short life is and what a GIFT it is..........................even when I take my morning walks that usually last about one hour thru the neighborhood and a park with woods and a stream, I look at trees and the sky and clouds and wonder if I will ever see them again......I look at the falling red and yellow Maple leaves laying on the ground which just fell off the tree and some even land on my shoulder as I walk under the trees......I know where I am in my walk and one bridge over the stream is a half way point in my walk.............another street corner is the two-thirds point in the walk..................the closer I get to my home in the walk I stop and realize that in reality this is the time clock of my entire life and I am somewhere near the last 10 minutes of a 60 minute walk. ...............without the sorrow of knowing it will all end, it is impossible to fully appreciate each moment......................
By the way, today Nov. 2nd is my Birthday (69 wow)..I never thought I would live this long
@j p ...........tnx jp..........every day is a gift I never deserved
Happy Birthday 🎂
That was really beautiful!
Happy Birthday Jim! Thanks for contributing, that was beautiful and it's 100% true. Best wishes to you!
I am a old lady, and I love your video. Love them. Your heart is so clean and beautiful. joyce
Nice page. Come to Tampa.
I want to travel with you 😇 lmk
Little Homestead she has a relatable perspective.
life can be heartbreaking
@@soulife8383, feel better?
Fighting major depression for so many years, for some reason you help me open my bible, pray, I need to be brave and stop the suicide thoughts, thank you 😍
I've been homeless since 2009, the days of the recession. I'm still homeless but I drive a truck now. Being homeless while making a good income is a beautiful thing.
Brother, I'll pray for you and will ask the Lord to continue to bless your income. Be blessed my friend.
A home is where we find it
A home is where we find it. We are never homeless
we should change the name of homeless to independent. ppl using van/RV, to be free of debt, save $ etc..do have a home and just a more independent life.....Its a new change from excess use of space and resources.... just a thought here.....We all need to get creative and keep our fellow ppl off the streets and in a safe clean place...Love all these ppl with great advice.
@@jdjump4744 amen. Get back to the simple life again. Be with God, a bible, and hope.
All of life is temporary. Embrace every moment.
Carlos Tru Dat!
@Mike Jones Mike Jones yep
Life is so short. No one is promised a tomorrow. Put God first of all. Over everything. Family, house, job, car. Jesus is for real. God's Word is true. Prophesy is now. No joke.
It reminds me of: "How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard." At the end of the day that is what counts.
Very nice job with 14 minutes of stream of consciousness talking. You're really good at it. Probably better than you think.
"...the world is so big, and I have to go- I just have to go!"
Ahle, wow, this is incredible...the way you can articulate everything i have been feeling these past few years, the balancing of "why in the world would you do this to yourself?" and "i am happy," the appreciation of your loved ones in front of you presently, the realization that the world is so big and yearning to explore it. You weren't complaining or rambling at all. Thank you for sharing.
Hey Ahle! Just wanted to say I really like when you do these kinds of videos where they're more raw and unplanned, they just show a lot of emotion and personally I really enjoy them. Also, you didnt sound like you were complaining at all. Great video, keep up the amazing content and uplifting attitude!
This. loved it
How is this comment from 14 hrs ago and it's only been out for 2 hrs 🤔🤔
Mongolia is in your heart, your videos are entertaining and momnolog funny "i didn t know what i was doing" sounds much like girl.Keep rocking
@@ozielmaldonado79 if you pledge to her patreon you occasionally get to see her videos early 😊
@@zac9933 awe that's nice. I'm jealous 🤣
You’re like Moana, you have a force that drives you, where you feel “you have to go”. I understand you, I have that feeling too, maybe not the same level, but I feel it. It’s the feeling of exploration, for me, wanderlust, the world is so big! And there’s so much to learn!
Zach Zach I could see how you feel about wanderlust given the examples from people in your life. I think you can have both, wanderlust and “mastering” your situation, it all depends on one’s actions. For me, I feel I have wanderlust, I want to explore and learn new things; but I also have obligations, like taking care of my 64 yo disabled mom (disabled from a massive stroke 6 years ago). Now that I have an adventure van, I plan to take her places with me explore the states and Canada. My mom and I could have wanderlust together :)
Loved this talk with us. You aeticulate yourself really well even when you are questioning it.
I can totally relate. I don't drive big trucks anymore, but I used to and even though it's been about 10 years, I still remember going through this exact thing every time I left home. I never knew when I was coming back, as I worked from point to point, wherever freight was available. I came home when I could get something heading back to El Paso. Sometimes I would go up and down the Midwest for weeks, then from one coast to another, yet still not be able to get something going home. I didn't own the truck, so it wasn't up to me to take it home with no paid load to justify the fuel expenditure. You only get about 7 mpg in those trucks, and 300 gallons at 3 or 4 bucks a gallon is too expensive unless you're getting paid to haul something to that destination. So I would often go 6 to 8 weeks before coming home, only to stay for a couple days, then leave again. My grandmother was getting old and I was afraid she would pass away while I was gone and I'd never see her again. The girl I was crazy about found herself another guy, seeing as how I wasn't around enough to be a proper part of her life. Yes, I did love the scenery and the beautiful solitude that comes with the territory, but it was always terribly hard to leave, not knowing when I would return. Then there were all these close calls on the road. For all I knew, maybe it would be the last time I ever went home. That shit would drive me crazy sometimes. So yeah, I know how you feel. I just revisited that familiar feeling as I watched you talk about it. Be safe out there, Ahle. You're an amazing young woman and such a beautiful soul!
I found your comment and this vlog very moving. Both have helped me reflect on just how important my bonds are with other people as opposed to any of my personal ambitions. I don't want to put words in yours or Ahles mouth but if I were a trucker or van lifer I'd probably at least sometimes get really lonely (not that I don't to a lesser degree) and that's just an awful feeling.
@LoveofVelvet No, it didn't work out. It was for the best, though. The way things were in her life at the time, she would've been a handful and that wouldn't have been good for me. She was really wrecking her life and that guy was a big part of it. They both got arrested a number of times before she worked up the guts to leave him and I just don't need that kind of drama in my life.
@@dlotable I actually love solitude, but I also like knowing when I'm coming back. As long as I have the power to come and go when I want to, I can stay away for weeks or months. It's when someone else is holding the cards that it bothers me. My grandmother was getting really old and she would always ask when I was coming back. I couldn't answer her, because I didn't actually know and wouldn't know until I got a load going through my town. I felt really bad about that and it's not the easiest job to quit. I mean, you can quit, but you pretty much have to cut and run, hoping you have enough money to hold you until you get something else. Since you're never home, you can't really make it to interviews, drug tests, etc, or even tell a potential new employer when you'll be available. You'll lose a number of opportunities until you decide to just walk away and take your chances. That's what I ended up doing. Otherwise, I'd still be stuck out there.
Mark, wow that's something nobody shares with you when you set out to be a long haul trucker. Yeah sure the money is good but is it worth it? My dad this this for 20 years, but he is rebel, a loner, even though he had a family. I would see him like 3 times a year.
I've lost my dearest cousin to alcohol recently and one thing I would hear her say while she was beyond drunk...she would say brother we need to travel maybe go fishing or something where I can put my feet in the water. I spoke to her about 7 hours before she passed away. We planned to go fishing the day she passed away...I didnt hear from her and I guess she was beyond intoxicated to where she ended up in the hospital. A few hours later she would pass, and at the time of her passing I was away fishing. I had the best day fishing just thinking about her and what I was going to do to help her enjoy a day of fishing when we got the chance! When I got home maybe 15 min before midnight I got the call at 12:02 am telling me she passed away! RIP Ashley Marie Yazzie 6/3/17
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Wesa Zazoo sorry for your loss
The sky in this video is absolutely amazing!
I've been watching your videos for a couple of years now. I love to see how much you have experienced and grown !! Your an amazing person!! God bless you girl !
I’m going thru a very rough patch in my life and your videos especially this one have been helping me a lot. Thank you
Super insightful. It’s cuz life is like the seasons.
Listen to your gut, not your heart. Perhaps you two could travel together for a bit? She’s only a text away if you’re lonely. If you’re feeling that it’s time to not be a “Hobo” anymore, then go with that. It’s about the journey, not the destination. There is no wrong decision. The world is yours, best wishes.
Awwww 💕 I miss you, Ahle! So good seeing you grow into an inspiring and strong woman! Sending you lots of love!
hope you're doing well Anno !! 💛
I’ve lived in a vehicle before and I know the feelings that you go through. It was hard times, but I found out that doing without security and comfort doesn’t leave you lacking. It gives you strength and teaches you to value the little that you have. I find that I don’t let petty circumstances break me down. How could I? If I can endure such hardships, why would I let small bumps in the road get me down. You’re going to come through your “travels” with belief in yourself. Let the entire thin veneer of society break down, you can rely on yourself and your faith. You have a beautiful heart, defend it and yourself. Keep safe out there and remember that you’re never alone.
I think your talking about attachment and practicing becoming detached which I think is a spiritual exercise and part of being human, not many can find or understand the strength involved with living this way. Keep moving Alexandria.
"I think your talking about attachment and practicing becoming detached which I think is a spiritual exercise and part of being human ..."
Exactly! And this feeling--the sadness while saying goodbye--exists for people living in stationary in a sticks-n-bricks dwelling as well. Whenever my sister leaves my home after her week-long visit, I feel the same "sadness" ... it is just part of the human experience.
I just love you and your videos. I have a restless spirit just like you. Let me tell you that feeling never goes away . I am a lot older than you but I see myself in you when I was your age. You won't have any regrets when you look back because you are making your own personal reality experience. You should be very proud of yourself for taking life by the horns. You go girl. Don't quit. Never give up. Make no apologies. Be true to yourself! Your Awesome. I Love you! Peace. ♡
This is why I’ve settled down in AZ for a bit... been in Flagstaff since like April. The wanderlust gets tiring after a while, and sometimes it’s good to stop and stay put for a while.
So I started watching ur vids recently (Nov 2019). I camp a lot and it was probably one of your build vids that initially popped up. I wish you all the best in your travels as you only live once and it is finite. I’m married to the love of my life, with two beautiful daughters. I’m currently 52 yo and realize that I prob have 25 good years left (give or take). And it’s not enough. But I digress. If you’re ever in So Cal, and need help on your vehicle, I have a welder, carpentry tools and I do all of our cars’ maintenance. All the best
You are a California girl yet you are so spiritually grounded and very unneurotic and un-narcissistic. So many young women in Cali are so superficial and talk “Valley”. You are so refreshing and relaxing to listen to.
Trust me . . . the feelings you have are completely normal. Loneliness is a natural part of life. Whether you live in a traditional lifestyle or not, loneliness exists in all of us. Some more than others, but nonetheless it's there. It isn't resolved by lifestyle, or crowds, or social media, or religion . . . it's tamed only when you meet someone you click with and have a relationship that never dies regardless the circumstances. In some ways you're lucky; you're lucky because you have relationships that are forever.
Enjoy it!
Cherish it!
Build on it!
100% correct! You can feel lonely and have 100 people around you and in your life. It comes in many forms
...and that "someone you click with and have a relationship that never dies regardless the circumstances" can only be ourselves!! otherwise, we place the power to make us feel whole on an external source....therefore it can once again go away and cause us to feel lonely. if we can train ourselves to feel complete all within ourselves then we are a solid foundation and externals lose the power to hurt us for too long!
You have inspired me to not only pursue life in a vehicle on the road, but to fully EMBRACE everything that goes with it. Thank you!
Ahle, life is one day at a time.. Letting things go is not easy.. Just remember you are number one.. Take care of you..
You are a wise soul. It is wonderful to appreciate every minute at such a young age. It will help you your whole life.💜
When I lived in my van I was super lonely but I always had a constant conversation with God every day. He was my friend when I had nobody else.
Same here❤🙏
Amén.
He is a friend in all seasons of our life. Always ready to hear from Us.
Ahle, this is the first of your videos I've watched, but I do plan to watch others. You spoke off the cuff and from your heart with an honesty that is quite refreshing. Goodbyes can be difficult, and as I tell people, I don't want to ever get good at saying them. I agree completely with you when you said to "live in the moment." That' helps you to not only enjoy that person and time with them, but realize how special the time/friend can be. Keep up the good work. Best wishes!
I follow you because I envy your freedom (in a positive way) and choose to live vicariously through you. I was a long haul truck driver for years, and so I understand the life all too well. I gave it up to be home, and while some things in my life have improved, others have declined. I miss the freedom. I feel trapped in a cage of my own making. Just find the positives, and find a way to make things work, and if it gets to be too much then don't be afraid to change.
You can keep on moving trying to find something, until after looking over every hill and around every bend you realise there is nothing to find, life is what you make xx
Your soul is everything thank you for sharing your beautiful mindset to others.
It's a real treat to listen to you express your thoughts and feelings so honestly . . . and I know exactly what you're talking about. Some eternal travelers never say goodbye, but just "I'll see you down the road."
Story of my life... I lived in 4 countries, visited more than 30 and have good friends all over the planet. It saddens me that I rarely get to see some of them face-to-face. But then it is magical when we do get together. And even more painful when we say our goodbyes not knowing if that was our last time. In actual fact you never know when there is a last time for anything. I'm getting to an age where a few of these last times have happened already (even more scary is that I may not even be aware that they did). You only live once this life, make it count in the way that makes sense to you.
As a trucker, I've also come to a similar realization. Primarily, I know I have a fair amount of wanderlust and like being a nomad. On the flip side, I also don't have close friends or family, which feeds this strange spiral where I don't shut down frequently, but when I do, I'm quick to meet new people. However, that realization made me understand that these random strangers are fun to hang with, but I'll likely never see them again.
Recommendation: please spend the holidays with family & friends, maybe hangout for a long while. Then go do something different for New Year's Eve. Again, this is only a recommendation. ♥️ Donna
This is so right, this is the spirit of holidays, for us humans to gather together and enjoy each others company.
to me, holidays are just pre-ordained dates on a calendar chosen by others, when everyone expected to go to certain places to see certain people to eat certain foods and do certain things and spend certain money. many, many people dread the holidays because of this, and many are miserable the whole time they are 'forced' to participate, and yet others are miserable that they are not there on that particular date and time. but yet we are expected to love our people on a set schedule or else be considered misfits. as a traveler too, i'm already a misfit, which is the way i like it, but most importantly, my 'holidays' are set by me and the people i love, time spent genuinely, enjoyed without expectation or obligation, but with much joy. this comment offered respectfully, as an alternative viewpoint.
@@nonyabizness.original The set dates ALLOW family to get together. Sure many families do not like each other enough. but if they do, and it is "Gosh I wish we could meet _sometime_ " - then holidays are the chance to meet. Also the chances to get time off are better, kids do not have school, etc.
The presents are another thing: in family we agreed that adults do not give things to each other, some bring some homemade stuff (cookies in cellophane). The grandparents get their chance to spoil the grandkids, but the parents of smaller children limit what they get (they have more than enough already).
And the teenagers will always be glad to get some extra allowance from grandparents and uncle and aunts (if they are so inclined).
You said that being mobile intensifies the sadness of having to leave your friends. But I think it intensifies the friendship while your together for those short times. Makes you appreciate them more. Keep your chin up. Life on the road is not easy.
✨I lived out of my van in West Virginia for 3 months and the humidity was awful. I was attacked by mosquitoes every day. Ticks crawled on me all the time. The rain came almost daily and began to ruin the wood paneling that the previous owner installed. It leaked water on the bed when it rained hard. Mold began to grow and all my clothes stayed damp. It was super hot during the day in summer. It was hard to stay clean and sober minded and to eat healthy. I am so glad I left that all behind. I wish everyone else wanting to do this the best of luck but it isn’t easy and it becomes super expensive if you don’t have a permanent place to park your van / vehicle 🚗 also it was super lonely 😞
I don’t have that problem where I live ...
As someone who travels a lot and lives abroad, I completely know how you're feeling! xoxo
We understand. 🙏🏽Safe travels Ahle. 👍🏽👌🏽✌🏽
Oh girl, I live in my van and travel lots aswell and I resonated with your words SO much. Having loved ones all over the world and saying goodbye over and over again is definitely very hard... and makes the time you do get together THAT much more precious
Your such an amazing young woman. I love all your videos. I we see this amazement in your eyes and how much you feel. We are living this travel through your travels. God has these plans for you and he's blessing you. You are amazing beyond your years. Always treasure the beauty of the lands and travels. Also with your old and dearest friends but also your new friends. Never forget to tell your friends how much you care and love them. Then they will always know how you feel about them. Many happy trails to you and safe passages. 😄😉
It's good to hear you have that perspective. I believe it's the same as living stationary. I think when we travel a lot, we meet more people and friends. I have friends who are stationary and they never see each other even if they are in the same city! Then they tell me they see me more often even though I come from far away. You are living in the moment. Many people never get to live life to the fullest like that. Then, they realize they've never seen their friends for 40 years. It IS very cool to meet so many people like you do. I think that's the best way to live. the best way to live a full and happy life.
Hi Ahle - when you said that you have the feeling of needing to go places but not really having anywhere to be, that hit me hard. I have this all the time. I have been a "digital nomad" for lack of better term for a year now and right now I feel a bit stuck for relationship reasons. It's hard to explain to people who don't live this life that you -need- to move along and it's nothing personal... sigh. I don't know what my point is, just that I don't know anyone personally who lives this life besides myself so I struggle a bit having people to relate to.
Thank you for sharing. I remember when I saw your first videos. You’ve grown and matured in so many ways as well as influenced myself and others. Thanks to you I once lived the car/on the road life style and I traveled much throughout the USA. Best times of my life :) Thank you for being a positive light in a place others won’t understand. Cherish the moments you make and live through them because one day you’ll miss them.
Ahle,
May G-d Bless you in every way and put a smile on your face and joy in your heart. 🙂
Connecting with anyone at any level is challenging enough. But to have them accept your current life choices, well, it takes an opening minded individual to truely accept how wonderful it is to live free. You are a wonderful and spirited angel that will have great things coming your way one day. Stay true to yourself and be stronger to overcome all obstacles that you may face.
It really is like being in a Long distance relationship. I feel that everytime my husband visits and then leaves after two weeks. So I feel you girl. 💕😭
Your vocabulary is impressive and your speaking style and voice are so natural and pleasant. Enjoyed your video.
just watched the house sitting clip. sounds like the pets got to your heart. pets do make good companions.
We all have this need for connection, and that makes it hard to part when you've had a good time together and yet you have to part for awhile. The good thing is that it's usually very special when your time is short and it creates with bonds with certain people.
Cherish every second. Your time is precious.
Ur amazing u expressed wat alot of ppl feel thank u n im rly happy ur following ur heart
That was very real and honest, Thankyou :)
I totally feel where you're coming from. I grew up in Hawaii, & moved to Cali 10 yrs ago. Whenever I meet up with my parents or friends I'm always super excited, but sad at the same time, since I know our time together is limited.
It's weird...the leading up to seeing them is almost better since I have that to look forward to. Of course when the time comes to Meetup it's totally awesome, but also real heartbreaking once we say goodbye.
It's comforting knowing I'm not the only one who feels this way.
I get a similar feeling and I'm living a fixed location lifestyle. Most people I've known moved on in life to new locations, they took on large responsibilities (or interests) that eat their time, and end up sacrificing active friendships along the way. I don't think there is a cure for the heartbreak of the infrequent (planned or random) encounters and it only gets worse when people you dearly love start to die off and the opportunity to spend time together has expired. It's those times that I reflect on the time I've wasted in life. Whatever excuse I had for not spending more time with them suddenly feels shallow no matter the reasoning.
I feel you. Even though I'm not mobile yet I travel a lot and I don't have much family or friends where I live. When I see them it's wonderful but when I leave it's heartbreaking because you don't know when you will see them again. What helps me is contacting them when I miss them checking up and trying to be apart of their lives even if we are thousands of miles apart. I can only imagine that feeling amplified when you live on the road.
Hello Ahle I just started looking at your videos and I find myself wanting to see more and more because you are so loving kind and a beautiful person. I don’t have a daughter but if I had one I would definitely want her to be like you 😊. I may be wrong but I think you should maybe go back home and live there for a while. At least you will have your Mom and your friends and family. And you can still go on your road trips as vacations.I get the Impression that you are a bit lonely. Please think about it and know that this is just a suggestion.
Thank you for sharing your feelings about that subject. It is hard when you’re traveling, because you’re obviously going to meet some amazing people along the way! And it is sad, because you will have to say goodbye eventually. But we all have our own adventures that we are on and our own lives to live so it’s just a part of it, but the memories made with them are such a blessing to look back on. And when you do get to see them again it’s soooo good! Keep the people you love in your heart and they’ll never be far away, safe travels!
Great video! It’s been awhile since you’ve inspired me to go choose my own adventure, Thank you. I’ve been a year on the road and experienced this quit a bit as well. Caved in this past month and ended up in a year lease to regroup, school up and head back out for longer period. Go further. Your inspiration takes effect.
While in motion there is always the next thing so every moment has its own lifetime. You have more opportunities to learn an appreciate life fully because more of it becomes available to you. Being complacent, stationary, seems to let it go by while you miss it.
Be cool to meet you. I’m in Prescott, AZ if your cruizin through stop in we’ll go climbing. We’ve beautiful climbs and tons of’em 😃... Indoor gym also, Gripstone.
Thanks for sharing your experience!
Hi Ahle! I just wanted to tell you that your videos are very motivating and have helped me transition from renting to making my car my home. This marks my 6 months on the road and have learned and experienced so much. I totally understand the whole coming and going of friends. The way I think of it is friends and family who come to visit. Youre excited for them to come visit but bittersweet that they have to leave. What i usually say is "I love you, take care, and I will see you later." Whether its 6 months to a year to 10 years; serendipity. Its never goodbye. Thank you for sharing your experiences and keep up with the inspiration!
I built a tiny house and I’m looking for a place to park it in Northern California right now. I would love to host you when you come through Sonoma County!!
Heart person to heart person I feel you and so appreciate that you were able to share these thoughts. Your sadness when you have to be on your way told me this: The larger the heart, the deeper the sadness. The connection with friends and family is life giving for me as well. My solace on parting is that they remain in my heart even when far away. Love always 💕
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I could 90% do the van thing. I've thought about it for 30 years. I am so impressed by both your bravery and your truly honest testimonies about 'real life' facts. It's that reality that has always made me stay in one place; it hasn't been my time yet. But damn girl...you are really an inspiration and hopefully I'll see you out on the road one day. To each their own and never say never, always be open to all and everything for the best things in life are free. Stay safe and do you.
Yes your right , humans also need conections and have some roots in the ground, and have a base is good for our security and heart. I guess in your situation on the road is hard for that i understand.
Nothing in life is permanent, everything is temporary, and as you said, that’s the beauty of it. I believe everyone is on their own journey to find fulfillment and happiness, yet everyone also seeks connection. Nothing is worth having unless you have someone to share it with (temporarily).
I'm glad for you that you're able to travel and do what you love. In order to live your lifestyle, I know you've made several sacrifices...including not being in relationships and not being able to see the people you want to see for x amount of time. I've been watching you for a while now and I know the videos you make are only a very short time of your day...but I am curious, how often to you see people/friends? Do you talk on the phone with anyone often or do you stay isolated more than not? I know you spend a lot of time alone and that's part of being able to do what you want to do, but just make sure you socialize too. Too much time alone can make you sad. It's completely normal to be emotional when you have to leave a friend or family member..because you value your time together. No different than seeing a loved one who lives far away and you only see them on holidays...or even going on vacation and having to leave the place you went to. You value your time there and don't want to leave but have to..yet enjoyed the time spent there. ETC. Like you said, everything comes with pros and cons...just be sure there's more pros than cons in whatever you do. Yes, it's sad leaving friends/family but you're able to do what you love..and you get to see the world....and not everyone is fortunate enough to be in that position. This is all over the place lol sorry...just wanted to let you know that it's ok to be sad or emotional. I'm glad you got to let it out on this video:) be safe and enjoy yourself♡
“Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by every moment that takes your breath away.”
I just came back from China being a solo backpacker for 3 weeks, enjoyed every moment with new friends and places. Brought back all good memories. I am shopping for an old van to build a camper van to travel.
Ahle - you choose the right path for your own happiness. Proud of you.
Sounds like it can get lonely, but I look at it as building up friends for retirement. Be true to yourself and travel as much and as long as you can. Just keep the family connection the strongest, they’re the most important piece! People live busy lives and I can see even good friends living in the same area once a year/once every few years. Just let it flow: see people when you can, and branch out to some more folks that DON’T live the van life so you have some good local area friends/host families to visit when you’re in town. Especially if you have your own pattern/route. They can share a little home life and stability with you, and you can share some wanderlust and tips with them. Maybe they’ll even hit the road or a flight to get out of their comfort zone and meet you somewhere!
You make good points here.
I feel you bro, I really do....you are not alone with those strange feelings. This lifestyle really teaches you to "life live to the fullest" and most importantly, appreciate people you love!
It's very inspiring to see a young girl who is self sufficient and adventurous like you and it's great !!! It's very brave of you to take to the road best of luck and sending positive vibes out there!!!💗
HI Ahle don't have to see entire vid now because i know it's going to be GOOD
This is real and truly from the heart. I appreciate how introspective you are. You can't grow without reaching within and identifying and reconciling mixed feelings and emotions of sadness and loneliness and well as abandonment. On a small level it can be traumatic. Because you're an introspect, you will soon enough, find comfort and inner peace within yourself to handle this. I wish you well my friend!
Ahle, if (one of) your best friend(s) also has a travelling lifestyle like yours, have you ever thought of caravaning with her? I didn't see anyone mention this and I wasn't clear from what you said if you did.
Stay Strong💪🏼❤️dont think about other people saying as long as youre happy of what you are doing then keep it going
Work on not being attached to anything and anyone.. That is called freedom.. 🔆🍀😊
What is great about your situation is that you get to choose when and if you want to end this lifestyle. You are not forced into this, so you have the flexibility of spending more time with loved ones and you determine when you want to go back on the road..... it is not decided for you by a job that you have to return too. You have a wonderful life. Enjoy every moment, as this will not be your life forever..... one day you will look back at all of these wonderful teachable moments. You are a beautiful girl & I love watching your videos. Be safe & love your life. xo ❤️
God bless you hobo alie
Hey Ahle! I think your lifestyle is super cool, and you’re not complaining at all. I’ve been watching your videos for a while now, and you continue to educate and inspire me. think loneliness has become an epidemic in this country whether you’re living in a van or in a mansion. Do you have one person you can call a day or every other day just to talk? It’s honesty in videos like this that restore my faith in humanity!! Sending a big hug your way!
I know it’s trendy to live the way you are right now, but I really think you’d be a lot happier with a roommate or two and a home. I think what you’re missing is a home where you can nest and have neighbors and grow relationships. I know that’s not the thing to do right now, but it’s really nice To have a home and I think you’d love it.
Life is short, and you must live for the moment. You are one of those that have realized this early in your adult life, which will truly benefit you and how you live your life. I learned this only beginning in my 30's. I enjoy your videos, your way of living, and your mind.
Hi Ahle! I just spent 14 days living in the back of my 2001 Toyota Tundra in the High Sierra's . I am 59 and have a wife of 34 years. I don't camp that much any more so it is an adjustment. Just the short time living in the back of truck does bring out a lot of emotions for me. I think of things like why am I living of my truck and dang its cold. The hardest part for me was climbing in and out of my sleeping bag two to three times a night to go pee. It would be tough to do that full time. I think I would need a van, a trailer or a motor home to live full time on the road. I do understand your loneliness in it all. You know just living life comfortably in a home can get you in a rut and you can become lonely as well. My life is a life of loneliness because I am a Christian and my thoughts are about Christ and His return. For the last 10 years I have been seeking the Truth in pretty much everything. Almost everyone I know even family are not as interested in the truth as I am so right there is a separation of priorities.
Thanks for sharing your emotions with us. God Bless and God speed!
What a beautiful, positive, strong person. Some people are really made for life!
You'll be good homie🤙 time heals all situations
Best post you’ve put out there. Deep connection to those you haven’t met!
You are experiencing your life in a way that very few young people get to do. Most people are pushed by their circumstances into the routine commitments of life. Hang onto your freedom and revel in it. It is one of the greatest gifts. Often granted by a truly loving parent or family that was wise enough to let you fly free. That's how it was for me 40 some years ago. Cherish it. Revel in it. Be thankful!
-Thanks for sharing these times of your life in the world with us.
Are you Native American? I love your sky. (Freedom Sky - Boundless Sky)
Stay hardcore connected with all your friends. It sounds like you are building a solid friend network over your regional and interstate mobile-traveling lifestyle.
Your lifestyle is great.
Enhance the positives, and minimize the negatives.
Your thoughts are beautiful; not complaining. You talk great, speak well. I love listening to you, your expressions, points-of-view, deep thoughts and concerns: Antidotes are great.
Peace and purpose,
Have a great life journey, friend network, and night,
Vincent
Omg 💜 At the ten minute mark is when my mouth dropped and heart fluttered. You explained how and why the process of sorrow and happiness occurs with the traveling lifestyle so well! Via, the joy you get when you see someone you love yet you mourn when you leave them, yet you're filled with excitement and inspiration to continue exploring the world. I'm so happy you know what I feel and that I know what you feel in regards to this topic 💜 I hope we meet someday as we're passing by 🚙⛵🛫 I think we'd be really great friends
You definitely have wanderlust my dear. Some of us have it and some don’t. Maybe we should call you gypsy ahle lol. Maybe it’s time to go home and visit for a while. Get some loves!!!
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I just want to let you know that g***y is slur for the Romani! You really shouldn't use it. :)
@@lolabint3411 while there are people who believe it is a derogatory term, the exonym "gypsy" is widely used in the United States to refer to nomads. I have never heard it used as a slur. I can't speak for Europe.
Lola Bint it also means nomadic or free spirited person. If she WAS Romani and I called her a gypsy that would be a slur. She isn’t. So in that usage of it I wasn’t using it in the tense of where it would be offensive. So I’ll go ahead and use it. Thank you for educating me on something I already knew.
Just Me Ashley okay then, I still think in general it probably isn't good to use it at all, you could just say nomadic etc. but whatever, you do as you like ig
She is the most attractive person in the universe. I am wishing her the happiest new year
4:15 who else has OCD like me an wants to pick that thing off her hair lol
ZxiTzLuCkYxZ please don’t make fun of a mental illness its not even about cleaning its about terrifying intrusive thoughts and people desperately finding ways, like cleaning, to make them go away. Even if its all mental it is scary, because your own brain seems to be against you. It’s not a joke
Well explained, I totally feel you since I am a solo traveler as well. I also think that my heart is being trained in being broken and then opening up for the next encounter again and again so it will become this super heart that is capable of bearing anything. At the same time I get more okay with feeling the sadness when leaving and therefore get even more emotional over the years. A very real topic for us solo van dwellers. Thanks for sharing.
Every Rose Has Its Thorn 🌹
Wrong. Some roses doesnt have thorns, sir.
I just watched Bill and Ted's Bogus Journey last night. 😂
Every cowboy sings a sad, sad song?
Great backdrop by the way. Very enjoyable to hear your thoughts and you express yourself spontaneously. Love your sincerity and inner beauty that radiates even through a camera.
So a young adult you are really DEEP! totally understand you! Awesome honesty and wisdom!
Aw! You are too cute and funny. You don't take things or ppl for granted and that is rare for someone your age. Love your videos! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You should spend the winter in Arizona.