May Allah protect us and help us Stay FAR away from such a disgusting act. So many are addicted to it, it destroys them spiritually AND mentally but also ruins their relationship with their spouse. May Allah safeguard us, assalam aleykoum!
I like this sheikh....So many muslims forget “لا حياء في الدين” First steps for forgiveness is admitting our own mistakes! No human being is perfect except for our beloved prophet (pbuh) by Allah’s permission So, let’s drop our egos and don’t judge other people please! We all have our own issues, but some “muslims” are just better at hiding them!
Afwan akhi, the statement لا حياء في الدين is incorrect, and this is not a hadith of the Prophet ﷺ or a statement of one of his companions. In fact the Prophet ﷺ has said that الحياء شعبة من الإيمان. Rather the more correct ting to say could be لا حياء في الاستفتاء
Is it permissible for me to fast everyday though . The days I don't fast I struggle with my desires . But when I fast I'm good . I heard it's makruh to fast everyday as it goes against the hadith where the prophet SAW said the fasting of dawud AS is the best . So every other day .
@ADISH MUHAMMED Not to mention, as many scholars stated, masterbaition leads to alot of haram things, such as watching...you know. I will admit it, I'm a hypocrite. I'm not a good Muslim, despite that I'm trying my best to become a good Muslim. I follow Islam on alot of things, but I do have few, small, tiny flaws that I keep ignoring or forgetting. One of them is masterbaition. I'm an addict, sadly. I became addict when my friends told me about it back before I made it to puberty. I used to go to the bathroom and do it, only to get nothing out of it. I was doing it out of curiousity. I had no intentions to release anything. I had no idea what I was doing. Day by day, I made it to puberty and I started watching. Ever since that day, I swear my entire life was ruined. I became more clumsy, more nervous and anxious, and more boring than ever. I used to have alot and alot of friends, but once I left my country to go to another to meet new friends, I met many, but only few liked me, and I can see why. When I used to go to school back then, I was always excited to meet everybody, but after getting addicted to masterbaition, I started becoming more of a desperate person looking for attention. It ruined me mentally. From tomorrow, I'll start my best to avoid it (I can keep on for 2 weeks, that's for sure, but it's very hard). Please don't or keep on doing it unless you truly want to suffer socially with everybody and everything.
@ADISH MUHAMMED That's a picture of a superhero from a Comic. How is that haram? Well, these scholars are wrong. The Quran did say it was haram. Not to mention, when you biologically think about it, sperms are children, so you're technically killing unburn children, which is very very bad.
@ADISH MUHAMMED Yes, I read that. I'll try using it whenever I can. I think making myself busy will also decrease it, but fasting is better because I'm barely busy nowdays. Inshallah Allah will forgive me for what I have did. Thanks for you advices❤
Assalaamu'alaikum. I have an urgent question... Someone I know finds herself masturbating quite a lot. It's an extremely strong urge that she gets quite frequently and she finds it extremely hard to fight it. She's almost 20 years old and is unable to get married, because of her current location... Fasting is extremely difficult on her and she finds she gets the urges during her fasts, too. She really needs to get married but she doesn't know what to do... Should she tell her parents about what she's been doing, or should she remain silent about it, because spreading sins is against the sunnah?? Please help, she needs this answer, ASAP. Baarakallahu feekum...
That's tough, because she is addicted to masturbation, so you have to treat it like any other addiction, maybe seek a therapist to help her with the addiction. What can her parent do if she tell them, probably nothing much, unless they can help her get married. It's also not guaranteed she will stop masturbating after getting married because the habit she got into is addictive
Masturbation is a type of فحشاء (fahshaa') obscenity/lewdness. ALLAH says in the Quran in Surah al-A'raf, ayah 33, بعد اعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم "Say, 'My Lord has prohibited fahshaa', whether open or secret, and every sinful act, and unjust aggression, and that you associate with ALLAH anything for which He has not sent any authority, and that you attribute to ALLAH anything about which you do not have sure knowledge.'" Also many times in the Quran, ALLAH warns us not to follow in the footsteps of shaitaan and that shaitaan commands you to do fahshaa'. May ALLAH protect us from shaitaan and guide us to the straight path. Aameen
Based off of the above evidences, in my humble opinion, i would classify masturbation as haraam حرام and sinful. There are also ahadeeths, one I would like to quote right now. Hadith #27 in the 40 hadith of An-Nawawi. "Definition of Righteousness" On the authority of an-Nawwas ibn Sam'an رضي الله عنه that the Prophet صلى الله عليه و سلم said: Righteousness is good morality, and wrongdoing is that which wavers in your heart and which you dislike people finding out about. It was related by Imam Muslim. Does not masturbation fall into this category of wrongdoing? واللّٰه المستعان I ask ALLAH to forgive us, aameen.
Also, surah al-Noor, ayah 30, "Tell the believing men that they must lower their gazes and guard their private parts; it is more decent for them. Surely, اللَّه is all-aware of what they do." ALLAH is commanding us to protect our private parts, and I think by masturbating, you sure aren't protecting/safeguarding it the way it should be. It requires ghusl afterwards, it breaks a person's fast/صوم, it drains your energy, your mind, your willpower and your time from doing beneficial things. I ask ALLAH to guide us all, protect us from شياطين, forgive us, and strengthen us Muslims to stay far away from this act. Aameen
It's all prone to personal interpretation of Quran at the end of the day. what defines fahshaa, some may argue that masturbation is not fahshaa like what the word was intended originally to mean, maybe the surah was referring to Zina as fahshaa. I agree it's better to avoid masturbation , simply because it's not what god intended us to do, he wanted us to marry and have sex through marriage, and have kids. You can not have kids when you masturbate, you can not build a family either. We have to act like what god wanted us to act so we make him happy
Asalamu alaikum I have a question 🙋♂️ About the right hand possess ملك اليمين According to surah al nisa Quran4chapter24-25 Says that u can marry believing women amongst right hand possess with a contract similar to marriage IF u can’t marry free believing women And that they should be sought in marriage Now I heard some say u can have sex with them without all that Isn’t that haram and this is one of the ayat
@ADISH MUHAMMED I know I doesn’t exist anymore but I wanted to at least defend Islam while knowing it doesn’t need me I’m just saying some say it’s ok while it’s like zina basically which is haram
@Aryan81304 yes That’s exactly what I’m saying The messenger pbuh married what the right hand possess and became his wife she has to have reverted to Islam and agree to the marriage 👍 He didn’t just have a relationship with her before marriage although she was captive of war It’s was after marriage
@ADISH MUHAMMED first of all yes agreement is required and if u do it without that u get punished And secondly if the prophet did it in a way that he recommended, why not do that if it come to it And can u give me references where the companions did that There’s one where a companion did it and he was punished as a zani
@ADISH MUHAMMED لا حولا ولا قوه الا بالله كيف هذا الحديث يقف معك بل انهو يتفق مع ايات القران والسنة على انو لا يحل جماع الجاريه/سبايا الا بعقد نكاح الاستمتاع بالجواري بمجرد ملك اليمين مخالف للقران والسنه استنادًا الى الايه من سوره النساء ٢٥ ٢٤ الأول: الطريق الوحيد للاستمتاع الجواري هو النكاح الصحيح الثاني: يشترط للزواج من الجواري ستة شروط، كما يلي: عدم استطاعة الزواج من الحرة تقديم الأمة المسلمة على الكافرة أن يتم عقد النكاح بإذن أهلها مصحنات غير مسفاحات ولا متخذات أخدان إعطاء المهر لها يجوز نكاح الجارية لمن يخشى العنت الثالث: لا يجوز نكاح الأمة على الحرة الرابع: يجوز نكاح أمته بالمهر وبإذن السلطة المعنية ويعتقها تبعا لذلك الخامس: ويجوز للمرأة الحرة أن تتزوج ممن تملكه من العبيد السادس: يشترط إذن الجارية في النكاح والطلاق السابع: ستر العورة واجب على الجارية مثل الحرة تماما الطريق الوحيد للاستمتاع الجنسي من الجواري هو النكاح الصحيح www.hablullah.com/?p=1955 Check this link out for the full explanation by scholars This is what Isis and other scholars have deemed permissible but they go against the Quran And sunnah To say such a thing is to accuse prophet Mohammad pbuh of such this Istagfarallah
@ADISH MUHAMMED Yes I’m not denying that😕 I’m saying there’s conditions the Quran but and the messenger pbuh 1 is that the captive has to have reverted to Islam 2 it has to be with a (nikah) contract like marriage 3 if the man can’t manage or afford to marry a free believing women then a slave believing women with the marriage contract Surah al-nisa Quran 4 verse 24-25 4 the diary money is given to her 5 as well as for the Muslim women is allowed to marry a slave man that reverted to Islam if there no free men The verses from the Quran23 verse 5-6 And they who guard their private parts(5) Except from their wives or those their right hands possess, for indeed, they will not be blamed (6) It said (OR) because the right hand possess is only if u r unable to marry a free women, it counted down from for wives to one OR what right hand possess Surah Al-Nisa 4 verses 24-25 Also ˹forbidden are˺ married women-except ˹female˺ captives in your possession.1 This is Allah’s commandment to you. Lawful to you are all beyond these-as long as you seek them with your wealth in a legal marriage, not in fornication. Give those you have consummated marriage with their due dowries. It is permissible to be mutually gracious regarding the set dowry. Surely Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise.(24)But if any of you cannot afford to marry a free believing woman, then ˹let him marry˺ a believing bondwoman possessed by one of you. Allah knows best ˹the state of˺ your faith ˹and theirs˺. You are from one another.1 So marry them with the permission of their owners,2 giving them their dowry in fairness, if they are chaste, neither promiscuous nor having secret affairs. If they commit indecency after marriage, they receive half the punishment of free women.3 This is for those of you who fear falling into sin. But if you are patient, it is better for you. And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.(25)
May Allah protect us and help us Stay FAR away from such a disgusting act. So many are addicted to it, it destroys them spiritually AND mentally but also ruins their relationship with their spouse. May Allah safeguard us, assalam aleykoum!
Aleykum salam
Aaaameeen. Walaikumsalam warahmatullahi wabarakathuhu
آمين
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
Ameen.
May Allah help us in guarding our private parts
جزاك الله خيرا
Amin
Aameen
Amen 🙏
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I like this sheikh....So many muslims forget “لا حياء في الدين”
First steps for forgiveness is admitting our own mistakes!
No human being is perfect except for our beloved prophet (pbuh) by Allah’s permission
So, let’s drop our egos and don’t judge other people please!
We all have our own issues, but some “muslims” are just better at hiding them!
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Afwan akhi, the statement لا حياء في الدين is incorrect, and this is not a hadith of the Prophet ﷺ or a statement of one of his companions. In fact the Prophet ﷺ has said that الحياء شعبة من الإيمان. Rather the more correct ting to say could be لا حياء في الاستفتاء
Its best to hide sins for sure. Those who declare their nightly sins openly when Allah concealed them have forgone his forgiveness.
Jazkallahu Khair
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I think it's justifying that it's makrook that makes us to do these🥺
It is haram but hurmat is zanni. It is of the gunnah saghira.
Is it permissible for me to fast everyday though . The days I don't fast I struggle with my desires . But when I fast I'm good . I heard it's makruh to fast everyday as it goes against the hadith where the prophet SAW said the fasting of dawud AS is the best . So every other day .
Best to fast a day and leave a day
@@alihyder6877 BarakAllah feek Akhi
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Fast everyother day... the day you dont fast, exercise hard and eat less meat.
100% haram just don't do it. man up.
@ADISH MUHAMMED The pleasure of Allah and His reward is greater than imagining doing impermissible things and feeling pleasure from it.
@ADISH MUHAMMED
It's haram, mate. There are levels for sins just like there are levels for good acts.
@ADISH MUHAMMED
Not to mention, as many scholars stated, masterbaition leads to alot of haram things, such as watching...you know. I will admit it, I'm a hypocrite. I'm not a good Muslim, despite that I'm trying my best to become a good Muslim. I follow Islam on alot of things, but I do have few, small, tiny flaws that I keep ignoring or forgetting. One of them is masterbaition. I'm an addict, sadly. I became addict when my friends told me about it back before I made it to puberty. I used to go to the bathroom and do it, only to get nothing out of it. I was doing it out of curiousity. I had no intentions to release anything. I had no idea what I was doing. Day by day, I made it to puberty and I started watching. Ever since that day, I swear my entire life was ruined. I became more clumsy, more nervous and anxious, and more boring than ever. I used to have alot and alot of friends, but once I left my country to go to another to meet new friends, I met many, but only few liked me, and I can see why. When I used to go to school back then, I was always excited to meet everybody, but after getting addicted to masterbaition, I started becoming more of a desperate person looking for attention. It ruined me mentally. From tomorrow, I'll start my best to avoid it (I can keep on for 2 weeks, that's for sure, but it's very hard). Please don't or keep on doing it unless you truly want to suffer socially with everybody and everything.
@ADISH MUHAMMED
That's a picture of a superhero from a Comic. How is that haram?
Well, these scholars are wrong. The Quran did say it was haram. Not to mention, when you biologically think about it, sperms are children, so you're technically killing unburn children, which is very very bad.
@ADISH MUHAMMED
Yes, I read that. I'll try using it whenever I can. I think making myself busy will also decrease it, but fasting is better because I'm barely busy nowdays.
Inshallah Allah will forgive me for what I have did. Thanks for you advices❤
So it’s makrooh or haram?
Assalaamu'alaikum. I have an urgent question... Someone I know finds herself masturbating quite a lot. It's an extremely strong urge that she gets quite frequently and she finds it extremely hard to fight it. She's almost 20 years old and is unable to get married, because of her current location... Fasting is extremely difficult on her and she finds she gets the urges during her fasts, too. She really needs to get married but she doesn't know what to do... Should she tell her parents about what she's been doing, or should she remain silent about it, because spreading sins is against the sunnah?? Please help, she needs this answer, ASAP. Baarakallahu feekum...
Just tell her to tell her family that she wants to get married.
That's tough, because she is addicted to masturbation, so you have to treat it like any other addiction, maybe seek a therapist to help her with the addiction. What can her parent do if she tell them, probably nothing much, unless they can help her get married. It's also not guaranteed she will stop masturbating after getting married because the habit she got into is addictive
She should fast, if she cannot do that, she should seek marriage.
Tell her parents to get married
@@RAGEHXARAGO akhi its the other way around. She should seek marriage, if she cannot. Than she should fast.
Masturbation is a type of فحشاء (fahshaa') obscenity/lewdness.
ALLAH says in the Quran in Surah al-A'raf, ayah 33,
بعد اعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم
"Say, 'My Lord has prohibited fahshaa', whether open or secret, and every sinful act, and unjust aggression, and that you associate with ALLAH anything for which He has not sent any authority, and that you attribute to ALLAH anything about which you do not have sure knowledge.'"
Also many times in the Quran, ALLAH warns us not to follow in the footsteps of shaitaan and that shaitaan commands you to do fahshaa'.
May ALLAH protect us from shaitaan and guide us to the straight path. Aameen
Based off of the above evidences, in my humble opinion, i would classify masturbation as haraam حرام and sinful.
There are also ahadeeths, one I would like to quote right now.
Hadith #27 in the 40 hadith of An-Nawawi. "Definition of Righteousness" On the authority of an-Nawwas ibn Sam'an رضي الله عنه that the Prophet صلى الله عليه و سلم said: Righteousness is good morality, and wrongdoing is that which wavers in your heart and which you dislike people finding out about.
It was related by Imam Muslim.
Does not masturbation fall into this category of wrongdoing?
واللّٰه المستعان
I ask ALLAH to forgive us, aameen.
Also, surah al-Noor, ayah 30, "Tell the believing men that they must lower their gazes and guard their private parts; it is more decent for them. Surely, اللَّه is all-aware of what they do."
ALLAH is commanding us to protect our private parts, and I think by masturbating, you sure aren't protecting/safeguarding it the way it should be.
It requires ghusl afterwards, it breaks a person's fast/صوم, it drains your energy, your mind, your willpower and your time from doing beneficial things.
I ask ALLAH to guide us all, protect us from شياطين, forgive us, and strengthen us Muslims to stay far away from this act.
Aameen
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@@amgadragab6584 so it is
It's all prone to personal interpretation of Quran at the end of the day. what defines fahshaa, some may argue that masturbation is not fahshaa like what the word was intended originally to mean, maybe the surah was referring to Zina as fahshaa. I agree it's better to avoid masturbation , simply because it's not what god intended us to do, he wanted us to marry and have sex through marriage, and have kids. You can not have kids when you masturbate, you can not build a family either. We have to act like what god wanted us to act so we make him happy
It’s haram. This is concensus. This man needs to fear Allah. There are Quranic clear evidences and the prophet ﷺ
There is no consensus. However the majority say haram.
Asalamu alaikum
I have a question 🙋♂️
About the right hand possess ملك اليمين
According to surah al nisa Quran4chapter24-25
Says that u can marry believing women amongst right hand possess with a contract similar to marriage IF u can’t marry free believing women
And that they should be sought in marriage
Now I heard some say u can have sex with them without all that
Isn’t that haram and this is one of the ayat
@ADISH MUHAMMED I know I doesn’t exist anymore but I wanted to at least defend Islam while knowing it doesn’t need me
I’m just saying some say it’s ok while it’s like zina basically which is haram
@Aryan81304 yes
That’s exactly what I’m saying
The messenger pbuh married what the right hand possess and became his wife she has to have reverted to Islam and agree to the marriage 👍
He didn’t just have a relationship with her before marriage although she was captive of war
It’s was after marriage
@ADISH MUHAMMED first of all yes agreement is required and if u do it without that u get punished
And secondly if the prophet did it in a way that he recommended, why not do that if it come to it
And can u give me references where the companions did that
There’s one where a companion did it and he was punished as a zani
@ADISH MUHAMMED
لا حولا ولا قوه الا بالله
كيف هذا الحديث يقف معك
بل انهو يتفق مع ايات القران والسنة على انو لا يحل جماع الجاريه/سبايا الا بعقد نكاح
الاستمتاع بالجواري بمجرد ملك اليمين مخالف للقران والسنه استنادًا الى الايه من سوره النساء ٢٥ ٢٤
الأول: الطريق الوحيد للاستمتاع الجواري هو النكاح الصحيح
الثاني: يشترط للزواج من الجواري ستة شروط، كما يلي:
عدم استطاعة الزواج من الحرة
تقديم الأمة المسلمة على الكافرة
أن يتم عقد النكاح بإذن أهلها
مصحنات غير مسفاحات ولا متخذات أخدان
إعطاء المهر لها
يجوز نكاح الجارية لمن يخشى العنت
الثالث: لا يجوز نكاح الأمة على الحرة
الرابع: يجوز نكاح أمته بالمهر وبإذن السلطة المعنية ويعتقها تبعا لذلك
الخامس: ويجوز للمرأة الحرة أن تتزوج ممن تملكه من العبيد
السادس: يشترط إذن الجارية في النكاح والطلاق
السابع: ستر العورة واجب على الجارية مثل الحرة تماما
الطريق الوحيد للاستمتاع الجنسي من الجواري هو النكاح الصحيح
www.hablullah.com/?p=1955
Check this link out for the full explanation by scholars
This is what Isis and other scholars have deemed permissible but they go against the Quran And sunnah
To say such a thing is to accuse prophet Mohammad pbuh of such this
Istagfarallah
@ADISH MUHAMMED
Yes I’m not denying that😕
I’m saying there’s conditions the Quran but and the messenger pbuh
1 is that the captive has to have reverted to Islam
2 it has to be with a (nikah) contract like marriage
3 if the man can’t manage or afford to marry a free believing women then a slave believing women with the marriage contract
Surah al-nisa Quran 4 verse 24-25
4 the diary money is given to her
5 as well as for the Muslim women is allowed to marry a slave man that reverted to Islam if there no free men
The verses from the Quran23 verse 5-6
And they who guard their private parts(5)
Except from their wives or those their right hands possess, for indeed, they will not be blamed (6)
It said (OR) because the right hand possess is only if u r unable to marry a free women, it counted down from for wives to one OR what right hand possess
Surah Al-Nisa 4 verses 24-25
Also ˹forbidden are˺ married women-except ˹female˺ captives in your possession.1 This is Allah’s commandment to you. Lawful to you are all beyond these-as long as you seek them with your wealth in a legal marriage, not in fornication. Give those you have consummated marriage with their due dowries. It is permissible to be mutually gracious regarding the set dowry. Surely Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise.(24)But if any of you cannot afford to marry a free believing woman, then ˹let him marry˺ a believing bondwoman possessed by one of you. Allah knows best ˹the state of˺ your faith ˹and theirs˺. You are from one another.1 So marry them with the permission of their owners,2 giving them their dowry in fairness, if they are chaste, neither promiscuous nor having secret affairs. If they commit indecency after marriage, they receive half the punishment of free women.3 This is for those of you who fear falling into sin. But if you are patient, it is better for you. And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.(25)
Is Ecchi Haram?
cmon bro, you know it all is
100%
Assalamualaikum
Walaikum asawlam
Wa alaikum assalaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu
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Walay kaum salaam rahmutallah
well i mean my right hand technically posseses itself
Fear allah in mocking the quran
السلام عليكم !
Lol my london rush hour crush 👍
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