Losing a friend to depression: Advice + Resources

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024

Комментарии • 19

  • @AndromanKaya
    @AndromanKaya 2 года назад +10

    You've done so much to help me Joey. Never feel guilty or feel that it was your fault. Also hearing James had 300 people at his memorial made me want to cry. I always think about how no one would care if I died and I wouldn't even have a funeral because who would want to deal with that. Always remember that there is someone out there who loves you and never give up.

  • @lydiabrasser2920
    @lydiabrasser2920 2 года назад +7

    I’m so sorry for your loss Joey, the guilt you’re feeling isn’t your fault as long as you treated James with care and respect as an employee you have a big heart. My husband and I are here for you as friends if you ever want to talk hit us up on DM.

  • @limitbreakcake
    @limitbreakcake 2 года назад +5

    This was an important video thank you for making it. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope you are okay.

  • @MasokittyASMR
    @MasokittyASMR 2 года назад +1

    I'm here for you Joey. Sending you all the hugs and prayers and good vibes. Depression seriously sucks (I have severe depression) but I know you're strong enough to stand above it and not let it beat you. Sending you love and hugs Joey❤‍🩹🙏 You've got the whole Pride behind you too for support 🐾🦁

  • @pinkpotatowarrior
    @pinkpotatowarrior 2 года назад +2

    🥺 "You're Joey." 💖 My heart when his mom said that. You're such a beautiful soul, Joey. Thank you for sharing this story, it definitely will help people more than you ever will realize. I've been so out of it these past few weeks but wanted to wait until I was in the right mood to fully watch this video. You definitely were a beautiful light in your friend's life, and you definitely helped him more than you ever will realize I bet. Please, please don't be hard on yourself for not doing more. He knew he loved you, and he told you he loved you by writing on that on that poster, he wanted you to know and is thankful you helped ease his pain in his life, and that alone is beyond helpful. If you ever want to talk more about this on voice message, I'm here for you. 💖 Ps, your ex-managers are super shitty, I was livid too when you explained the stuff that they both said and did. There's a lot of shitty and dark people in this world, but the people who are full of love and light will always outshine them; love will always win. 💖 As long as we keep fighting 💖 And I'm sure your friend is proud of you for making this video, it definitely will help others. 💖

  • @nozushii
    @nozushii Год назад

    You are very sweet Joey, more people like you should exist. Thank you for sharing this story, it made me think about a lot. I’m sorry for your loss and hope you’ll feel better about it one day. I’ll take your advice

  • @DeathHearts
    @DeathHearts 2 года назад +1

    Sending love to you, Joey. I'm so sorry. God bless 🙏🏻💕

  • @Shadowkillz246
    @Shadowkillz246 2 года назад

    I'm sorry for your Loss Joey Stay Strong it's hard i'm still Dealing with the Death of My Grandma in 2019 and it Still hurts today in 2022 Stay Strong Big Heart's out to you Joey

  • @florpozos2178
    @florpozos2178 2 года назад

    Thank you so much Joey. Many years ago, you've always helped me a lot. I don't know how ppl around me couldn't (even if it's not their fault). But no matter what, your advices are the best in specific moments of my life. And I really appreciate that.
    I'll share this video, and read the books in the description. Again.. Thank you so much.
    *huge huge hugs for the amazing person you are!! * 🤗

  • @pinkpotatowarrior
    @pinkpotatowarrior 2 года назад +1

    🥺 Wow I just got notified, about to watch this. Here for you Joey💖

  • @AzureXEyes64
    @AzureXEyes64 2 года назад +1

    Thank you.. I really needed this.. I know this wasn't easy to talk about.. I always have the suicide hotline a dial away, but I never wanna bother them.. My depression stems from many things, but the most its coming from is a bad breakup, it felt like losing a family member, I just kept calling and text until they got sick of me and blocked me, I was blinded by emotions, the bond we had was 5 years and we've experienced a lot, took breaks, we talked things out, someone I could go to for anything that wasn't easy to say.. and.. its all just.. not there anymore.. At the moment, I'm feeling okay.. or at least I thought I was until I got to the part of the video where you asked "Are you okay..? I'm fine.. Are you okay...?" and.. I broke down.. I'm not really okay.. Listening to this video on repeat helps me cope. I know I'm loved.. but it still hurts.. ya know..? I thought of messaging you on instagram about this but I was scared to bother anyone about this, though I feel comfortable at least saying this while hearing this video. I feel comforted, so I thank you again..

    • @TheBlondewolf2
      @TheBlondewolf2  2 года назад +2

      I'm so sorry you went through that. I know the heartbreak is going to hurt for a while, but over time that does heal. It may not feel like it right now because it's fresh wounds but they do close up.
      And you are loved. Very much so. You deserve someone who will love and appreciate you. In the end keep telling yourself why would you want to be with someone that doesn't feel the same? You want something real and that will last. A love that doesn't make you feel this hurt.
      It will be ok, I have gone through my share of breakups. Just know you are not alone with this pain. Many of us go through with it. I learned to see my breakups as a part of my journey. Each one I don't regret because they shaped me into the person I am today. Think of them as life lessons to build you stronger ❤️

    • @AzureXEyes64
      @AzureXEyes64 2 года назад +1

      @@TheBlondewolf2 Thank you for taking the time to reply, I appreciate you wholeheartedly, you're right and I guess I just need that time.. I sometimes ask and pray how much "character development" do I need to go through, and how much stronger do I need to get and.. its hard to handle at times, it saps my motivation, all I can do is sleep, then bam, I get it in dreams, I ain't safe anywhere so I'm mentally overwhelmed. I do take your advice to heart, I try my hardest to remember. Thank you again for replying, I love you, Joey

  • @sky-ic2xj
    @sky-ic2xj 2 года назад +1

    Sending big hugs to you🫂
    I wish I could've told one of my student, "You can do anything." I knew how it felt like when I was preparing for the college. I wish I could have talked to him more.
    Thanks for sharing your story, Joey.

  • @balramos6276
    @balramos6276 2 года назад

    Hi Joey I always said, what you do comes from a good place. I don't have the answers but; it does my spirit good when you share your life stories cause i think you're trying to do something positive, I know you don't want to make it about you so I'll say no more about that. I'll ask you this though could something else precipitated Jame's choices? You were always positive to him do you think that could have been a positive force in his life? I work in healthcare and my oldest client's ages could be anywhere from 46 to 102 and sometimes I think "If I could be at least a kind friendly face, before they pass I will have done something." I'm just trying to give another perspective. I've seen graphic novels on the subject of suicide and maybe you could make your special point of view, I don't feel everything has been said. Maybe you could talk about the people left behind and how they feel? May you always be well.

  • @kurapika7865
    @kurapika7865 2 года назад +1

    You ok

  • @ruskyalmond1977
    @ruskyalmond1977 Год назад

    I miss this channel. :(

    • @Joeyblondewolf2
      @Joeyblondewolf2 Год назад

      I have a main one I use more. Click on this on I always mentioned it 😩

  • @shawndunlap6177
    @shawndunlap6177 2 года назад

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