What a toxic friend looks like
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As an Erik I am very offended
Erik Toland Man pinned comment and it only has 18 likes...
Killian doesn’t matter
only like if you are erik
Ah yes
Erik Toland yo 69 likes
Eric watching this vid: I wonder who he’s talking about
Yah from my experience they don’t realize it’s them
@@elenarexach9236 ikr
@@elenarexach9236 exactly, they will always defend themselves
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Everyone needs a Swoozie in their friend group.
yessir
Unfortunately there isn't enough in the world
bruh didn't even have a car
Facts!!
I appreciate u and everything u do for this country
I think it's important to identify not only toxic people, but toxic groups as well. I've seen both.
It's like the old saying goes "birds of a feather flock together". You can have a good group that becomes polluted by that one douchenoodle, and on the other side of the coin, you can have that one good person who accidentally falls into the wrong crowd. I've learned the hard way.
Used to chill and mingle with a group that seemed really cool on the surface, but really enjoyed talking garbage about others behind their back. Like "this person smells", or "that person is dumb", or "this person is this, that, and the other thing." I even found myself contributing to the conversation and agreeing with these douchenoodles, just so I wasn't "that guy". Overtime I just started slowly building resentment for the kind of people they were, and distanced myself from them more and more each time, until finally I didn't have to deal with them anymore, and it's been great ever since. I still see them around occasionally, but I keep convos extremely short, sometimes only saying "hi" and "bye". Usually acting like I'm too busy to chat, and "I gotta jet outta here".
What that said, I just want to point out that it's perfectly possible for a group to be just as toxic as an individual. The whole "pack mentality" can be a very bad thing. I keep and eye out for that crap now. Anyone, or any group acting the fool/fools, I distance myself from now, before it even starts. Stay safe out there all! Avoid those toxic douchnoodles! Lol
I love this comment as I've been there. Knew this girl who seems cool but I made her mad once on accident she they showed me her group of friends who were very rude, toxic telling me lies about who I am. They just met me. A bunch of trash talkers. I'm glad I kept my distance and she left and I went my own way...I don't miss her either.
I was in a group like that. One half was chill and smoked weed and we did cool things together, the other were emos. I was unproblematic as hell and overfriendly so the emos didn't like me. They all turned on me one day and cut me off and I was so upset. In the end I never spoke to any of them again and hung out with the other half of the group that was cool asf.
just say douchebag bro
I love how he puts all colors/races into his animations :)
hes just drawing his friends..
“Eric” is probably in the comment section rn and we don’t know
That's just what I was thinking.
Is it you?
Yeah I’m right here , why did he have to use my first name lol
Are you Eric?
SomeThing tells me its you...
Is anyone else afraid that they're toxic and just don't know?
Y E S omg that's what i've been thinking
Same
Yeah
Precisely my dear watson
Yeeesssss omg
because like- almost all of my friends are super the opposite of self absorbed, meanwhile I care for myself quite a bit, and I know it's probably way better to care for myself than not but I can't help but think am I selfish? also, my friends buy me gifts n stuff but I can't do the same for them because I don't have any money so most of what I do is handmake things or draw, but I worry that's not good enough. I'm afraid that maybe someone is gonna snap at me one of these days.
I used to have a roommate at university who was pure toxic and guess what, she made all friends turn away from one of the girls in our circle of friends. She turned everyone against her with lies, just because she was jealous to her. It took a while until we all found out what was going on. She is still toxic. She stole another woman's husband and made the stupid man's life hell too.
I knew a toxic person who was so high functioning they did some crazy shit that for some reason no one else even acknowledged. They wanted to date another person, and that person said they were not into them. So they sabotaged their entire social life and made them a laughing stalk. Isolated and alone, the butt of every joke. It took a concerted campaign to make this happen, and I remember just how down and isolated that person was.
I remember going up to them and being like "This isnt you. Someone is trying to destroy you and your self confidence. I dont know what they have in mind, but its more than casual". In those moments, they really appreciated the support because I swear everyone else cared so much about politics they forgot to be decent.
Then that person, having successfully isolated and destroyed the self confidence of this person, moved in. They then became "The only source of support" that person had. The only one lifting them up. I dont count because when I did it, I was just doing it to be decent. This person had an agenda, and they made the person they isolated FEEL that they were alone in the world and only had them. They then transitioned it to a relationship in that "One step at a time" kinda way that doesnt require you actually make a decision. The same way you get addicted to drugs.
At that point they then went the other way, lifting this person up and blaming everyone else for attacking them because they were jealous. They made sure they never got too close to their friends after that. Always second teir, leaving early kinda stuff. Keeping them dependant.
Sometimes when we were just alone in the room for whatever reason, it would all stop and we would just look at eachother and say nothing. They couldnt get me with their games and I refused to play, so we just existed around eachother. The lack of pretense in those memories still freaks me out, even though at the time I recognized it was a predator face off an I had to make sure they knew I was not prey.
They strait isolated that person from the pack, hunted them, and claimed them. They made the political landscape such that everyone had short memories about it. Then they went about consuming others. Shit was scary. Especially the short memories part.
This really makes me feel more confident in my decision of leaving my friend group. For years we've been great friends but I was someone who wasn't very confident about myself. I was also someone who was suffering with anxiety and depression. These friends were twins and there parents weren't the greatest but basically every argument that we had it felt as it was always my fault, that I was the problematic one, or that they were the victim, and they practically gaslighted me and took advantage of my self-consciousness to make them feel good about themselves probably. They were always the ones trying to get me into things, and when we did stuff together, they always seemed to be bored with my ideas rather than there's. Of course, I was naive and not in the right mindset but neither were they. When I finally said my goodbyes in the nicest way possible, they just kept being bitches and saying that it's my fault and that anxiety has nothing to do with the way I act which, spoiler alert, mental health does a lot. I was a supportive friend, even in my worst times, and they never did much for me so seeing this makes me realize how similar this Eric was. For those who are struggling, please be careful with the friends you choose, otherwise, they might make your life even worse. Thankfully I'm in better spot in my life and recovering better with the support of my mom so I can honestly say, I made the right decision and even gained a lot of self confidence in myself.
Why is this comment so long
Be safe and I'm proud you did the right thing for a better mental health and life positively in short, ignore the haters and do what you love as long with your true friends support you 100% with happiness! 👍💗😉
I had a very similar experience with twin girls, I wonder if they’re the same people?
toxic guy: there is no war here, in ba sing se, yall are the problem.
*omg swoozie commented on my new video*
I see you are a man of culture
@@riskyy2657 Imma do what swoozie did in his last video when somebody said something this stupid
"HuH"
Peep the reference. Nice one 👍🏾
Lol
This is a sign. i was thinking about what to do about a toxic friend of mine, you da goat ngl
wavy Christina it never came to your mine to cut them off lol
Penny don’t judge you don’t know what others go through
He has said his piece.
Tbh, I'm glad he's out of my life now
SAME
I had a toxic friend who was an attention seeker. It got to the point of where she started faking depression and DID, and thats' where I crossed the line and cut her off. She'd always guilt me and my friends, she was hypocritical, tried to basically become me, and was disrespectful to others. So glad I cut her off
I had a toxic friend once. He was always jealous of me and thought I was holding him back. And when his wife saw he was having problems he totally flipped out! He started yelling at her and then got mad at me! He claimed that I "turned her against" him and the psycho got so mad he actually tired to kill me!
Needless to say I had to end our friendship there is then. I *_cut_* things off with him both literally and figuratively. Word is he's still _smoldering_ about the entire confrontation.
😶
Was he the chosen one
Emphasis on the word “cut” 🤣
Obi Wan’s talking about Anakin (episode 3)
You had to do what you had to king
I hate you!
“Toxic friend” is a code word for narcissist. Simple
Yesss I've always thought that
anixxxxxxxxxx
No sociopath
And i ask my co-worker what does narcissist mean, and she is like, "theres many different types" UGH WROOONG
Toxic friends are usually narcissists due to probability. But not all narcissists are toxic (just 99%). The difference is whether you take advantage of others or not.
toxic people are toxic, they cannot maintain friendships or love because they are immature but they have a talent for passing their problem on to people who have never asked for it, but the point is that if you are too naïve or too protective, it's the same as toxic people
you should be able to let your friends learn their own lessons
Just discovered this channel today and I'm in love. Very charismatic and engaging storytelling. Love it❤️❤️❤️
Everyone in the comments talking about his message at the end but can we talk about the amazing new art style it’s fire
Yessss mannn 🔥🔥🔥 love the style I’m definitely gonna try to do the same with my own stories
U mean firr not fire
It is legit the best style he's
Had🔥🔥🔥
Faaacts
Fi-re. Once again straight up fi-re
bro it’s actually crazy how much swoozie evolved and the animation is just incredible 👏 props to you swoozie
It’s because he doesn’t animate anymore 😂
Am here thinking the same thing
Yes! I noticed!
He don’t animate his vids no mo
ok but still how swoozie has grown so much is still pretty amazing, even if he doesn’t do ALL the work
I like how you said your protective of your friends. A true sign of a truly nice friend :)
Putting that smile on my face like the helpful friend you are, thanks sWooZie.
the fact that he animated himself positioning the camera in the beginning is everything.
he hired animators
@@RecordToDeathToBoredom Still pretty dope though :P
Lol. Yh. And immediately fell of the ladder and had a band aid on his head in the next frame.
"Toxic people only hit you up when they need something”
*Me contemplating my relationship with God*
@@socials1687 facts... sadly
@@socials1687 what he say?
God? He told me u are shady
@@xuan.1611 damn God sounds kinda toxic
Humans invented God
Watching this right after breaking a friendship with a toxic friend-this was extremely validating. Thank you!
this is why I always ask why someone is "shady" cuz once they gotta explain why they don't like someone and neither should you everyone else starts picking up on how shady the toxic friend is
I love this guys animations they are so funny and smooth 👍
“I have said my, peace I have spoken” bout to be the ending line to any argument I get into in the future 😭🔥
Love your videos dude.
Bro I love your videos to give me a shout out
I love your animations
DANG ITS STANLEY BRO I LOVE YOUR VIDS MAN KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DOOOOOOOOO!
AEOMATIONZ I also love your videos too
I imagine "eric" watching this and being so toxic he thinks "nah hes not talking about me"
lmaoooo that's def what's happening he prolly thinks he's talking about omar
Or being like. "Man, who is he talking about? That guy sounds like a jerk"
I love how real you keep it in your videos. It's good vibes, and helps a lot of people (including myself) process different things going on in their lives through relatability. I love your videos. Keep up the amazing work 👍
I've been watching this video since it came out... I find myself coming back to it because I feel like I've had a lot of epiphanies when it comes to toxic people and need to be reminded that I'm not crazy I am seeing the signs they are just gaslighting. Right now I'm dealing with my cousin who is just being nasty and my whole family is struggling because she is family but it's gotten to the point where it's just impossible to be around her without something being a problem because she's always portraying herself as the victim like you said. This video has been very eye opening and I hope you know that you're really helping people out here who struggle with the little things. Thank you Swoozie.
The “toxic friend” I think we should instead call them the “Charmingly manipulative victim”
True shit
Sounds like Tati Westbrook 😂
....Self Proclaimed Victim"
yhyh
Thanks for the likes😂 this is a first time for me
"I have said my peace, Ive voiced my concerns, I have spoken." love that
*I H A V E S P O K E N*
Literally gave me chills, dude
complete wiv mando guy
I know right. It's perfect, know where and when to speak and when to stop speaking and when to choose silence.
@Catherine Ling THIS IS SWEAZIE! instead of Sparta kick its sweazie spoke.
There will always be this toxic in society, you are so right !, what I knew so far that they are at least in a big social circle such as Classes and so on.
What I understood today, is that they do not stop there but find a way to crawl into a normal social circle,
I had a friend who always kept an eye on my actions - feels almost a kind of parent - I'm kind of successful in school, thank God, and he would get upset every time I missed or did not show up for one reason or another, Not to mention that when he was missing out, it's usually because he spent all night at the bar or went to At sea or to the pool, and that guy, feels the need to criticism me,
Nice to know that more people understand this kind of people and are careful about it...
Really love your content By the way!!!!
thanks for helping me break off so many people. and improve myself. W swoozie
When you cut off toxic friends or people from your life, a huge weight is lifted off from you. It feels great
Word, i cut off my dad and im literally so happy that i dont have to pretend to like or respect him anymore.
@@littleinfinitie4146 damn
its like expelling a demon from your house
Does anyone have any tips I have a toxic friend and none sees it but me.
The thing is isnt everyone toxic at times?
This is so great - a subject a that needs a little levity! It does suck that if you point out someone is toxic, people raise and eyebrow at you. I’ve learned to just take actions on boundaries and wait for people to find out themselves. OR just tell stories with facts - no labels or judgment-and then let other people come to their own conclusions. Be an ear and source of validation when they’re ready.
THIS LITERALLY DESCRIBES MY “friend” 😨
“toxic people only reach out to you when they need something” *realization sets in*
Good for you
Toxic women only date girly, artsy "men" who they can control and use and marry men just to divorce them to take half of their assets. They accuse us alpha males of "toxic masculinity" because they know we won't fall for any of that and that the world was a tougher and better place when we were in control. Very selfish
@@Zenigundam lemme introduce chad as a counterargument
Yo
IK
“With a group of friends tryna pick a movie and that person’s seen it and those two people haven’t”. SO RELATABLE!!!
Logo mmuvu,
Logo bc I i99 dzikir yg
I wish I had seen this video before I had a toxic friend, SERIOUSLY that shit lasted for over three years and luckily I cut off contact with him and from now on whenever I feel guilty about it, I'll watch this video and remember why I cut ties with that dude, you're absolutely incredible and I wish I was your friend irl, you seem like an incredibly fun guy to be around
I love how he just sits here and throws a fit about his backstory it’s so funny and awesome
“Toxic” in this case is basically just extreme narcissism
I'm pretty sure I know a few people like that, and the majority of those people are in my family
Narcissistic people are NOT inherently toxic. Narcissism is a disorder. And obviously, you shouldn't be ableist and say "everyone with this disorder is like this". People can be toxic WITHOUT having disorders.
@@oofuwu2666 “A disorder in which a person has an inflated sense of self-importance”. Can you explain to me how that’s NOT a toxic trait?
@@oofuwu2666 fair enough, and that's true, but they can tie into each other
me but I did a personality test and it came out as ''egoistic, dominant, leader, signs of narcissism'' so I might actually BE the toxic one lol
also it said I am mildly depressed :(
I need an “EVERYBODY STAP!” friend... maybe I should be the “EVERYBODY STAP!” friend...
be what u seek
Bro you know I have tried this and unfortunately, my toxic friend was so manipulative that it sort of backfired. So like be careful and keep distance when that’s the only sensible thing to do.
Something to remember is that if you like that person or genuinely don't feel bad about being a toxic persons friend, that's okay! I've been told I was being manipulated before, even though I was doing a lot for them and not for my self, I was tired of working on me and I enjoy acts of services for others even if there's not visible return, conversations with them were amazing and their still my friend right now. Although if you feel like your being hurt it's unhealthy to stick around, but if you feel like you want to stay (don't let hat urge push you to) but its okay to talk to them about altering. No one wakes up and says "I'm gonna be a horrible person today!" and if they do its for the lols, keep in mind that the most annoying, toxic and/ or rud people are the ones that need the most help and probably need a lot of therapy of just someone who understands them, most toxics are broken, not villons. I didn't mean to get all deep like that bc its a partially silly video, and that's just my opinion so please don't hate
I had a toxic person in my group…tip 1 and 2 were spot on. Always played the victim and their original friend group of yrs cut her off…this video was spot on. I have said my piece, I have voiced my concerns, and my real friends and I removed her from our lives after that. Good video Swoozie. You never miss!
ITS ALWAYS THE “Thanks for the invite” text 😂 😭
OHMYGOSH i know right ? ?
On god🤦🏻♂️
I dont get it
I get that text when it’s actually somebody that fw u but in this instance it’s annoying asf
Bruh I carnt I have nobody I can text thanks for the invite 😂😭
"Limit their access to you." is the BEST advice ever. YES!
i have said my peace. i have voiced my concerns. i have spoken
That’s actually making things worse. They will obsess over contacting you and they will be worse. Just say, hey! Here are the things that I don’t think are good traits.
Goes for Family too
I have had a friend who constantly talks down on me. He keeps disrespecting everything he can about me and end up making me feel guilty for things i am not guilty for. Then i apologize for things that aren't my fault and the cycle continues. Been like that for more than a year now and i finally cut him out.
I wrote a song about toxic friendships and the feelings you go through when you get let down by a close friend.
it’s called friend and my name is Jolina if you want to hear it on Spotify (or wherever you listen to music).
maybe the song can help you heal the way it helped me.
YOU DESERVE BETTER.
@@jolina942 Thanks i will check the song out!
@@jolina942 Just listened to the song and its way better than i expected! You should have more views its amazing!
Yeah it's like you apologize to smooth things over but it just makes it worse and worse. Because the wrong person is taking responsibility.
"Its important to not just have people come in and exit your life, and you learn nothing"
🗣 PREACH SWOOZIE ‼
Anxiety: What if you're actually toxic?
Me: *Acts overfriendy to my friends now*
I felt that no cap.
Yep, I felt that-
fr
yu dont accidentally be toxic, you be toxic with malicious intent
@@zeebeeplayz that's not true but ok. Not all toxic people are aware they are toxic. A lot of the time it can be someone who grew up in a toxic household and just think it's how everyone should/will act.
I had a toxic friend in middle school but I didn’t realize she was toxic until Highschool.
I didn’t have middle school but I did have a story like that until we annoyed him
I had one in elementary school
Same but in elementary I realized at 4th and 5th
Likewise. Been friends with a girl since elementary school, but her dark side wasn't made obvious to me until my 16th birthday party. She wanted nothing to do with me the entire day, instead spending a majority of her time on my computer chatting on Facebook. Two years later, she didn't even invite me to her 16th. Her parents felt guilty because they assumed we were very close, and so they were the ones that came to my house to apologize, even giving me a slice of her cake.
Come to think of it, her parents were better friends than my "best friend" was...>
@@nancychun2395 4th and 5th grade is still elementary school
SWooZie you r amazing
Ur content is awesome
And I love how you give these simple animations so much life and expression.
imagine having a friend who is genuinely a good person, but is also toxic.
Haven't you noticed that everybody who is toxic is always angry, always stressed, and never progresses in life? Like they are literally always in the same area talk in the same shit about the same people. I take joy in knowing this.
LOJIXX so in otherwords your a toxic person because you take joy in knowing people have problems lol
@@awaiting_YHWH_return no he take joy in the fact that he can see signs before its bad
I in joy it to
Penny OoooOoohh
@@awaiting_YHWH_return I take joy in the fact that people who manipulate and people who are generally toxic, get what they deserve. keep in mind I did NOT say that everyone who had problems is toxic, I said everyone who's toxic have problems.
Swoozie: I have spoken.
My mind: THE MAN HAS SPOKEN EVERYONE
😂😂😂
5:57 the face, mixed with the quote, mixed with the tone makes this perfect
Love the small details in the animation Good work!
It’s sad that there’s actually people like this in the world
Y boy LEAFY that’s good bruh don’t get roped into toxicity
I honestly don’t think he can control it
There’s much worse than this in the world
No duh
My mom is that kind of person toxic as hell.
SWooZie talking about “we all have a group of friends.” I’m over here like “yeah, sure we do.”
My only friend this year is my face mask :(
JoshBoop Vlogs 'n' Stuff now this is a mood i can relate to
@@erickbarraza3580 Ong
😂😂💔
Swoozie telling his stories on his bed is very entertaining on its own, but with the right exaggerated animation, it goes PAST being perfect! Hope I get to be an animator for someone who tells stories like these one day but I need to get my act and work together first.
sWooZie so wholesome always love rewatching the vids
This not only was an interesting story, this also helped me recognize AND deal with toxic people. Thanks!
In an hour?
*omg swoozie commented on my new video*
Bruh maybe I'm getting wooshed but you commented less than an hour after he posted, how tf are you dealing with people that fast
These videos have actually helped me realise that I can be pretty toxic sometimes so I've actually started improving as a person thank you Swoozie
Props to you dude you reconized it and DO SOMETHING about it. Some really don't care men
so glad you've admitted it, unlike some people who always wanna be the victim
First step is always being self aware. Good for you( and your friends ) dude
Good 4 u
respect
bro how this man so wise yet so chill
Just came back to this vid 2 years later. Still just as funny and as good as when I first watched it. This is actually the first vid of yours I've ever seen and it's what had me sub.
I feel bad for the people watching this and realizing they’re the toxic friend
NOOOOOOOOO
That’s how they *want* you to feel!!!!
You think Eric saw this?
They most likely won’t 😭
Narcissists can’t be called out. They don’t have the brain chemistry to have feelings for other people.
Don't feel bad for them. They need to see stuff like this. Realize that's them, and grow as a person. If they don't they're going to be like that to other people.
"I have said my peace,
I have voiced my concerns,
I have spoken."
- Adande "sWooZie" Thorne
for future reference, it's piece :)
Swoozie: I said my piece, I have spoken.
Palpatine: You ever hear the tragedy of Darth Swoozie the Wise?
He could save others from Eric,
but not himself..
Ikr? Swoozie is a great friend.
Notice how he's slowly moving up the trending board
It honestly scares me that this many people need to know what a toxic friend looks like
@yee haw it’s not that’s it’s just a good vid
I once had this toxic friend who talked bad about everyone so one day she was “testing me” saying
“How do you go to bed knowing you talk bad about everyone?”
And I was like
“Shouldn’t you know?”
we stan you for having a good comeback 😌💅🏽✨
Oof girl almost the same thing happened to me this one friend I had started talking bad about one of our other friends in front of a bunch of us like “ever since she went to college all she does is have sex and smoke weed” and I snapped back with “isn’t that you? Oh wait no you don’t smoke weed, you vape, which is addictive so it’s worse” Haven’t been good with her since, and she tells everyone I called her a drug addicted whore (even the sister of the girl she was talking bad about, who of course took my side) 🤷♀️ didn’t need that in my life anyway
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The volume inside of this bus...... IS ASTRONOMICAL
And then?
I like how swoozie draw and colour shade and everything :)
Everyone needs a friend like you
Swoozie’s channel animation has evolved
Also, this is really relatable because I had a toxic friend, even in the 5th grade
Check the description for the ones that worked on the animations lately. They’re some pretty hard working people and the system them and Swoozie set up is pretty interesting
Eric be like "guys he's so shady"
Amazon: Dear Eric, ur umbrella that u purchased is now ready to be picked up
This is the best 😂
SunOnShine Defunding the Police makes it worse
Atleast you stood up for yourself I lost all my friends due that person cuz they said stuff about me and I did nothing about it
I love how when swoozie is at Eric’s party and he’s carrying the dog while arguing with Eric. Lmao that’s such a mood
What's a mood?
@@Noah-hx9oi Something all the "cool" kids say til they find a different trend lol
Noah I don’t understand either.. as far as I know “mood” is a state of mind.. I must be too old to understand kids’ slangs
@@dwatsonj93 I dont do trends, but carrying a dog at a party issa mood
Meaning, you dont wanna deal with people, so you only care about the dog there. Not sure if you been to a party, but some people have dogs, and I chill with that dog🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@@keroro2611 I'm not even that old it's just that I don't spend my day looking at memes all day and creating new words with existing words xD
Yoooo this video just made me kinda realize I got a toxic ass homie. I’ve thought about it, but this has confirmed it. This man always complaining about how all his other friends left him, and always trying to make me feel shitty if he ever thinks I do him wrong in the slightest. He’s always the victim. Whenever I call him he talks for like 90% of the time, barely asks about me. Idk if he even realizes it. He has his moments of being a real homie, but fits the description of a toxic friend quite well. Damn, I’m kinda sad😔😔
It ain’t worth it trust
He is toxic bro. I’ve dealt w the same people. I would tell you to talk about it with him, and it’s worth a try, but usually the problem with those people is even if they know they’re in the wrong they will do leaps and bounds in their own head to make themselves believe that they’re not. That’s much easier for them than actually going through a realization that they’re being toxic
Bruh i remember i passed out first thing at school and went to the hospital
I got discharged about 6 hours later
And he called me while i was laying down at home (turns out i had pneumonia i dont even wanna get into that situation cause that involves him too more than you would think)
The first thing this man asks me was if I checked his snap cuz he screen recorded a fight he was in
And bragging and shit
And we were on the phone for about 3 hours and not once did this man ask what was up wit me and whyd o pass out.
So yea im just like eyup 90% of the convo cuz im starting to realise this man for himself and dont give af about me
And hes supposedly my best friend
He wasnt always like that but he started actin like i wronged him greatly and if did he never said nun
And then on top of that
My grandma died last year in april
And when i was feeling like shit
He hugged me an said
And i quote
"Dont worry im going through tougher things than you"
I wouldve chopped that bad social etiquette
So i said i get the gesture but thats no something you say to people
Cuz people who dont know you might take it a different way which wont always be positive
And he follows that up with
Wow i try to be nice to your ass and youre being a judgemental asshole
I honestly dont know why were still friends
But i think im still gonna try
*omg swoozie commented on my new video*
felt brooo
Funny and sad that the whole thing that is pointed out happened to me.
I had what I was considering to me the Closest friend (almost like a brother) and the person was similar to an "Erik" in this situation (my apology to all Eriks in the whole world).
We cut ties eventually and I felt depressed for years until I've decided to do some research, looking for answers if I was the problem and if everything that I've done was not being a good friend. I took some time to reflect plus reading about toxic/false friendship and this video was the tip of the ice cream for me to cement the conclusion. My "Friend" was Toxic as F and he acted the same way this video have shown. I've distanced myself to the person and move on with my life.
Toxic friends are bad and Thanks for the video :D
It helped me a lot.
I just really like watching this video over and over again once a month
literally no one:
swoozie: “i have spoken.”
Jaylen Easter no they didnt
Jaylen Easter you act like a comment is like stealing your million dollars
@Jaylen Easter I mean great minds think alike lol
that's from the mondolorian
I just started to watch and I'm already in enjoying the stories
Changed my friendship with someone to an ex-friend after this video. Toxic people arent worth it especially if they dont want to change after informing them
He sounds like a narcissist. When he can’t manipulate you, he tries to manipulate everyone around you.
@@cornloin9732 talk to someone about it, professionally.
cornloin yeah cause for some people its a BIG problem
@@cornloin9732 You should always think in the other person's perspective and be open-minded to where they are coming from. You don't have to agree with everything they say, but you should still respect their boundary and just leave as that. Understand that the world does not revolve around you, and most people honestly don't care about you or what you do because they have their own problems to worry about. It doesn't mean you aren't important; it just means you just need a couple true friends that are there for you when you need it. Relationship is a both way. You need to be there for them when they are going through a rough time just like they would for you. Those are the ones that's worth your time to reach out to; otherwise, don't bother.
so true..
@@cornloin9732 /Troll
I had a toxic friend back in art school who was comically bad.
-I sent him a concept I'd been working on to proofread, and he submitted it as his own project
-He'd ask people to see what they were working on, then steal the good parts claiming "Oh I'd always had this idea, I just never drew it until now"
-Never contributed to group projects, he'd go out at lunch breaks to buy manga, then read it DURING school hours when we were waiting on his work.
-When he'd get in trouble for slacking off, he'd always blame someone else. It was NEVER his fault, he was "only slacking because people were harsh to him for slacking."
-He stayed with friends but barely ever paid rent, and kept mooching off other people for food, never got a job.
-When people weren't giving him attention, he'd get really upset and start being an asshole, spreading stories and revealing secrets of his other friends, just to get attention back.
-He thought very highly of himself, and thought there was something wrong with women for not wanting to date him. "I'm so smart and handsome, I'm like an elvish prince, if you don't want a piece of this, then you're dumb as shit".
After a year, almost the entire class wanted nothing to do with him lol
I literally know someone like this I recently told her to back off🙄
Damn lowkey scared of this I’m an art major😭😭😭
@Berre Vanriest Same here bro,
That last point sounds like an r/niceguys post.
I had a friend who was 10 years old and called a 16 year old mother f er
I remember in middle school there was this girl I became friends with. Now I lived a short ways from the school, within walking distance. So I started inviting her over to my place to hang out after school. We'd watch movies, play games, etc. Eventually she starts talking about bringing crafting materials over so we can make stuff. I'm like, "Hmm, not something I've done much, but sure, why not". But then, a couple hang outs later, we're watching a movie or smthn (I don't remember) and she starts getting really passive aggressive about how we never did those crafts. I talk to her, she calms down, but I'm like "red flag". Another time she actually managed to convince my dad to download Roblox on his computer so we could play. Not the family computer that I used, his computer. She wanted to play multiplayer, and she would not have it any other way. This girl was wild, man. I went over to her house a couple times, and every time I did, there was something that I did wrong. She started taking over my life, and eventually I just had to shut the whole thing down. Shit like that sucks
TL;DR Had a friend who was the definition of toxic white girlfriend
I actually really like these kinds of videos because now I know like what not to do or what to do with toxic friends or how u would not be one
I don’t get why people want to be the centre of attention, people will like you for who you are. You can’t force it
fax
Insecurity.
It’s called trying to hard
You literally have the same name as me.
I have the Louis, I have the c. What an epic coincidence.
I recognized that in the past (and even in the recent past) that I was often the toxic one.
I let my pride, my ego, and my narcissism get the best of me for years and it hurt a lot of the people I loved.
I did things I thought were right at the time, but turned out to be in self interest. I have since apologized to my group of friends, and I asked them for help. I realized it wasn't something I could do alone. I needed people to call me out on my bull shit.
I still have a few tendensies, but over all, I am getting better. I am more humble. But I still have a ways to go. This helps me to know what to look for better. This helps a toxic person rehabilitate.
Thank you.
People change, and it is also important for you to reflect on where those actions might have stemmed from. Although it is not an excuse, going back in time can help you fix broken pieces and rebuild yourself.
Don’t write yourself off just yet. You could be a confused victim. Narcissists often make their victims identify with them. And narcissists don’t usually change. So it’s more likely you never were a narcissist and were gas lighted.
Same
Gg
I had a lot of toxic tendencies from my upbringing, understanding the origins can really help someone release the bad habits and accept new ones. Most importantly we should keep trying to be a better person everyday, life’s a marathon not a sprint.
this video makes me want to re-evaluate myself as a person and make sure I haven't acted like eric before. thanks a bunch dude! :)
Bro this bro is funny asf. Your my fav RUclipsr man
The dislikes are the toxic people getting called out on their bullshirt
Hey dont be dissing peoples bullshirts. Thats rude.
Wow I own a bullshirt, you really making fun of me rn?
Bullshirt
Clean people: 🧼 🧽 🧼
Hey not everyone is like you, some of us actually take pride in our bullshirts
YES BULLSHIRT.
some toxicity is much more subliminal. i knew someone who had a lot of emotional issues and they said their friends stopped texting them so i flung myself at them to be a shoulder to cry on and everything, i just care about people yknow what i mean? and we text and chat A LOT. but not just friend texts, it was always helping them work through their problems and i was like "i get it fam youre going through a lot, i GOTCHU homie." but no matter how much advice i gave and reassurance, its like everything i put into our relationship grew no fruit. it was ALWAYS me doing stuff to make them feel better, and then when i needed someone to talk to about stuff in MY life --- nothing. it got so draining, i dreaded their messages and phone calls because of the emotional toll. eventually they went to inpatient therapy for self harm and couldnt text me and it was kind of a relief. after they got out we just kind of drifted apart and i havent heard from them since.
like i get it they needed help, but no matter how much help i gave (and i gave my EVERYTHING you must understand) i just ended up feeling used. so yeah, people can feed on your kindness sometimes.
Did we have the same “friend”? I swear you described our friendship perfectly! No inpatient therapy though but good riddance!!
I feel you're pain. Especially if you do share with the toxic person, then they decide to share it or make fun of your pain.
I recommend talking with mutual friends and tell them the advice because I can guaranty you the toxic person probably shared it with them also.
that’s long af
Sorry, too long, failed 3rd grade English
Same thing happened to me when I was in school and boy it gave me loads of emotional damage. I'm glad I managed to get out but it took me a long time to heal. Years later we did reconcile, spoke about our true feelings but still kept our distance because we were better off without each other.
Dude it’s crazy, I remember when this video came out, THIS VIDEO CAME OUT WHEN I WAS 12
And I’m so proud of how far you’ve come since then KEEP IT UP
#SWAGMASTER
Nah 30 second fade right their when he called u shady 🤣🤣
I watched the “inner thug” scene like 7 times. Thats a cool animation if I’ve ever seen one.
5:44
@@devoid4661 thanks bro i actually needed this
He’s a stand user
FRFR
I know I don’t have any toxic friends. The second best upside of having no friends.
... Oh sorry I just didn't hear you because no one ask
@@mariololtroll3820 man shut up
@@eboy4216I'm 15
@@eboy4216 kids these days 🙄
@@mariololtroll3820 I’m 12.
this is actually good advice bro your a legend
Can some please count the amount of times he has said “I have spoken”
Four times
"they're very self serving - they only want you to do stuff for them" OMG the relatability
Very true
*omg swoozie commented on my new video*
I actually clicked because I wanted to know if I had some of the toxic traits or if I'm a toxic friend! Thanks for making the video man
Ditto, though in hindsight, I suppose if we actually were that toxic friend, we never would have cared enough to click it in the first place. ^.^;
My friend say im a phsycopath but im not im sad :(
Wish they were dead
@@tudeslildude that's very true man
@@inbd157 damn, that's dark!!