A man lost his wife who just gave birth last year December during my stay at the hospital while my mum was sick, and he was crying and throwing himself on the ground. The next thing we would hear from the people around was, stop crying you are a man. And I was like, you say!!?? For God's sake this man just lost his wife!! His wife!! A culture that won't even allow you mourn your wife in peace because you are a man. I love love love men who are so expressive with their feelings.
This is so apt. After we will complain that our men are not romantic or expressive because we expect them to bottle up their feelings. Take a look at suicidal rate, it more among the male gender. As a mom of two adorable boys, it’s important for me to valid their feelings per time. I mean, why tell a young boy or man to “man up and stop crying” when he is first a human and God creates humans to express themselves and their emotions. I mean John 11:35 specifically said that “Jesus Wept”, (He WEPT- now that’s a higher level of crying). If our savior always expressed Himself to show how human He is, why do culture place such unrealistic expectations on our men? This is a burden and a prayer that a paradigm shift will continually take place in our generation especially in the area of intentional parenting. May we continually incline our heart to wisdom. Amen.
That is so bad of them anybody should be allowed to mourn, groan grief and we should be there to support them always. I'm so glad my fiance is expressive too. I'm sold to him for that.
Yes ooo🔥 It’s totally fine to be emotional!! as a man cry if you want to cry, be expressive as much as you can even Jesus wept 😉 On this channel we are destroying all these yeye social constructs 🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️
I really like how your husband is 100% honest with the stretch mark question. My sister, please take good care of your man oooooooooooooooo, a man like him is rare to find.
Hi guys! I love what you guys do. Whether married men discuss their wife's sex life with friends, men don't. No matter how bad their wife is in bed, we reverence our wives!
But wait o men also have stretch marks o I used to get irritated by it but what your hubby said about processing what you see is so apt . I dealt with it before I got married only to find out my husband has stretch marks , I was so grateful it didn't irritate me anymore, it's just art stripes on the skin 😁. Someone said if someone says you are useless , think of it this way , "they use you less " and that's on them not on you.
This woman was so blushing at the end when he said burn for your spouse that she had to end the video sharply. Hmmm...Lol. Carry go o jare, nothing do you. I just love this couple 👍👍👍
PG is truly a soji Pastor😀😘 I really enjoyed how you answered all the questions. Mama Solution was just starring at his face and saying is it me God blessed with this handsome & Intelligent man like this?
I have been following your channel for like 2 months now, but I am commenting for the first time today. I love your channel so much❤️ Plenty sense dey here and plenty love as well. Waiting for part 2😌
Love the analogy of a building that is not maintained.....fresh paint on a building.....really paints a picture of the importance of working on the relationship on an ongoing basis, not just when the building is already falling....awesome wisdom here. Blessings
For a purposeful relationship, the lady might never even get to the point of asking her partner certain questions. The man will be led to disclose them. If it doesn't happen that way and you want to know, please discuss it with your partner. However, a purpose-driven relationship works with both parties involved.
The way solution looks at PG and how she nods her head whilst he’s talking You sef go dey reason the point Beautiful video 🔥waiting on part 2 I feel like the juicy juicy questions are in that part 🌝
I just started watching this video but I have to comment on how stunning you look sis. The makeup, hair and earrings 😍😍. I think you should do a makeup tutorial/GRWM listing out what items you use 💖💖
On the topic of emotions, the society really does harm. Some years ago I was in a shop with a guy and we were laughing and joking. This random stranger man walked up to us and told him to stop laughing like that, that men are not meant to be laughing and jesting 🙄. I was just imagining what if he was crying nko. Abeg who do us this thing in Africa
I totally enjoyed this video. The chemistry was just too much. So much wisdom from Pastor Gbemiga. That analogy of the painted house is just so ideal. We have to keep maintaining our relationships. Its the intentionality. Choosing everyday, never living noting to chance. I also think there is no one size fits all approach to things. We all should study how things work for us in our relationships. In summary, I really loved this video. I watch every one of your videos ma, but this one is just at the top of it. I'm waiting for part 2
Thank you PG for your answer regarding what respect means to men. I think respect should be mutual, even though the Bible doesn't command men to respect their wives. Love without respect is toxic in my opinion. I look forward to the submission vs. suppression video! Thanks for sharing!
You guys😍,you keep bursting my brain sha, chai! Bless you MiraOnoja for introducing me to this amazing channel, I always leave here excited and most importantly blessed and imparted.I love you Tolulope and Gbenga Adejumo🧡
This was really enlightening Tolulope! PJ just answered CANDIDLY most of the questions guys would avoid! Kudos to you guys! You have an amazing relationship!
PG is a wise man who uses the mind creatively to mentor in spiritual and philosophical topics especially in relationships and marriage. Well done for dissecting the questions
When she said we have to stop here I actually shouted NOOOOOOO 😭😂😂😂 I WAS ENJOYING NOW. I have subscribed and clicked the bell I cannot wait please 💓💓💓💓💓. Thank you for this by the way LOVE LOVE LOVE IT God bless
Tolulope solution pls my question is what can you do when your partner doesn't want to explore not in time of sex but to learn new things, from other couples or life itself to fantastise your own relationship.
If you don't know his mama ,You will be surprise but I know her well well , full of wisdom and I am I addicted to her so I am not surprise.!!!!! Love you and your wife.
It’s the “joko oko mi” for me 😁❣️❣️❣️. The channel is already blessed with Solution then PG will now come and make it sweeter. Plenty blessings for only us 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Woow,a wonderful pair joined by God.. You can clearly see the wisdom of God at work in your life and marriage. May God continue to honour you🙌🔥.. Though I'm a young and single,you both give me a tit bit of how my future would be with a man after God's heart.❤️ Lots of Love from🇬🇭🇬🇭
That boredom in relationship is my story right now. I have always complained about his energy but right now, I personally don’t have that energy anymore 😌
There could be a reason why the energy has died down. I'm sure it wasnt like that from the begining. Something must have triggered this. It may not be you. May God help heal your relationship!
Awnawn past Gbemiga is so full of wisdom. i really love your answers to the questions, mum and dad has really impacted in you. and to tolu solutions you are really doing a great job
To be honest you both are amazing This is the best “asking my Husband juicy questions” I’ve watched❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love you guys so much. Hope to meet u both one day🙏
My landlady will soon evict me not just from her house but bck to Nigeria with the way an laughing this loud at 1am🤣🤣🤣 from A-men to Are you ss? 🤣 Haa sister should ask with wisdom Abeg😂😂
Thanks for the session... Couples should be booking sessions with you guys soon... Video really on point.... Some spouse really don't open up to change... I feel like sharing this video to my husband but on the other hand...I have his response already which is... "So I should just dance to whatever you feel is right"?... God is our help! Kudos to you solutions and pg
It's good to share with him to get his opinion on these questions. Don't make him feel like u r attacking him n it will be a lovely n fruitful conversation. May God give us wisdom
I have watched more than 10 videos back to back... working and learning from y'alls well of knowledge. The fact she keeps saying thank you... in all the videos. I love it💞💝💖🤗🤗🤗☺😊 I'm learning Pastor wife duties from you. I'm sure and Pray I do Marry a Pastor. Amen
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A man lost his wife who just gave birth last year December during my stay at the hospital while my mum was sick, and he was crying and throwing himself on the ground. The next thing we would hear from the people around was, stop crying you are a man. And I was like, you say!!?? For God's sake this man just lost his wife!! His wife!! A culture that won't even allow you mourn your wife in peace because you are a man. I love love love men who are so expressive with their feelings.
This is so apt. After we will complain that our men are not romantic or expressive because we expect them to bottle up their feelings. Take a look at suicidal rate, it more among the male gender. As a mom of two adorable boys, it’s important for me to valid their feelings per time. I mean, why tell a young boy or man to “man up and stop crying” when he is first a human and God creates humans to express themselves and their emotions. I mean John 11:35 specifically said that “Jesus Wept”, (He WEPT- now that’s a higher level of crying). If our savior always expressed Himself to show how human He is, why do culture place such unrealistic expectations on our men? This is a burden and a prayer that a paradigm shift will continually take place in our generation especially in the area of intentional parenting. May we continually incline our heart to wisdom. Amen.
That is so bad of them anybody should be allowed to mourn, groan grief and we should be there to support them always. I'm so glad my fiance is expressive too. I'm sold to him for that.
You are truly blessed to be with a man like PG
I pray your marriage continues to be filled with blessings and more laughter. In Jesus name Amen
Pastor G. Pls open a Christian marriage counseling tutor school. You full of wisdom.
PG= Spitting facts on the spot backed up with the scriptures without seeing the questions before now.
A man of God I stan🙌🙌🙌
Celebrate you sir!!
Yes ooo🔥
It’s totally fine to be emotional!! as a man cry if you want to cry, be expressive as much as you can even Jesus wept 😉
On this channel we are destroying all these yeye social constructs 🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️
I tell you...
I really like how your husband is 100% honest with the stretch mark question. My sister, please take good care of your man oooooooooooooooo, a man like him is rare to find.
Hi guys! I love what you guys do. Whether married men discuss their wife's sex life with friends, men don't. No matter how bad their wife is in bed, we reverence our wives!
PG dropping nuggets 🔥🔥
A man in Christ would not be intimidated by a woman’s success
P.s I’ll be commenting throughout my watching 😆
But wait o men also have stretch marks o I used to get irritated by it but what your hubby said about processing what you see is so apt . I dealt with it before I got married only to find out my husband has stretch marks , I was so grateful it didn't irritate me anymore, it's just art stripes on the skin 😁.
Someone said if someone says you are useless , think of it this way , "they use you less " and that's on them not on you.
PG will start talking and be rightly dividing the word of truth.
Especially how he uses scriptures.
Omo,
Wisdom personified 🌟.
This woman was so blushing at the end when he said burn for your spouse that she had to end the video sharply. Hmmm...Lol. Carry go o jare, nothing do you. I just love this couple 👍👍👍
I love PG’s energy!!😂😂😂😂
He’s so goofy
Y’all are laughing so genuinely
PG is a true keeper..tolulope: s so blessed..not lucky..oh.. blessed..u make a lovely,real couple..awwh😍🙏🏾
PG is truly a soji Pastor😀😘 I really enjoyed how you answered all the questions. Mama Solution was just starring at his face and saying is it me God blessed with this handsome & Intelligent man like this?
I have been following your channel for like 2 months now, but I am commenting for the first time today. I love your channel so much❤️ Plenty sense dey here and plenty love as well. Waiting for part 2😌
A knowledgeable husband plus a wise woman 🔥🔥🔥. This session is a blessing !!!! I love you both🥰
PG is truly a wise man
I agree ❤️
Like!!! I just kept saying hmmmmm 🤔
God I want a true friend as an husband 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾, it makes marriage easy and fun filled
Honestly. This is just friendship in marriage and I love it.
Thank God for this couple that mirrors the love between Christ and church ❤️ Thank so much PG and Solutions ❤️
PG in the building... The way Mrs tolulope looks at PG... Chai, I go love o.
I love the second question and how he handled it!!!!! Cause I'll be a successful wife and I don't want any hindrance in a form of a husband.
Your husband is a very wise man, listen to him and allow him to lead. You guys are beautiful together and I enjoyed this segment of video.
Wisdom jam Wisdom!! God really ordained it for you Guys to be together!! You Guys are a Blessing to the World!!!!!!
Love the analogy of a building that is not maintained.....fresh paint on a building.....really paints a picture of the importance of working on the relationship on an ongoing basis, not just when the building is already falling....awesome wisdom here. Blessings
For a purposeful relationship, the lady might never even get to the point of asking her partner certain questions. The man will be led to disclose them. If it doesn't happen that way and you want to know, please discuss it with your partner. However, a purpose-driven relationship works with both parties involved.
Me buying plantain chips and chilled water patiently waiting for part two 🤧🤧 God bless you both and keep your love true, Amen ❤️
Mmmmm action overrides emotion! This is deep on many levels!
😂😂 I like this guy. The kind of company I need my husband to keep , wisemen like this. You're blessed sis.
Please can I like twice!! Gems everywhere!!🔥🔥🔥
From his conversations you can tell..... that's so apt
Welldone PG
The way solution looks at PG and how she nods her head whilst he’s talking
You sef go dey reason the point
Beautiful video 🔥waiting on part 2
I feel like the juicy juicy questions are in that part 🌝
i dey tell you 😂😙
A men....That one, I fell off my chair. Love you guys so much.
Absolutely! Men spell LOVE as respect.
When you tell a man you LOVE him he interprets it as RESPECT.
Can you imagine
I love men who are very emotional. In the good way tho.
They are often thoughtful and considerate.
I just started watching this video but I have to comment on how stunning you look sis. The makeup, hair and earrings 😍😍. I think you should do a makeup tutorial/GRWM listing out what items you use 💖💖
Yes ooo
You spoke my mind dear
PG is an intelligent man . To God be the glory Solution is also super wise
Thank you for your definition of the most beautiful women in the world. Many mothers need to hear that.
On the topic of emotions, the society really does harm. Some years ago I was in a shop with a guy and we were laughing and joking. This random stranger man walked up to us and told him to stop laughing like that, that men are not meant to be laughing and jesting 🙄. I was just imagining what if he was crying nko. Abeg who do us this thing in Africa
I've had someone asks, "why are you sleeping like a woman?"
I just weak.
Loool!!
hmmm, I didn't know your husband was this loaded and such a wise man. Keep loving the Lord you both
"Respect is understanding"
Gotten!
Thanks for sharing.
It’s the mix of wisdom and sarcasm for me 😂
I love this couple ❤️❤️❤️
God bless y’all
Watching you and PG makes me super duper happy. God continually strengthen and keep your marriage. Love you loads 😍😍
When I say wisdom you say Pastor
Gbemiga 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾thank you this we learnt soo much and sincerely appreciate ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I totally enjoyed this video. The chemistry was just too much.
So much wisdom from Pastor Gbemiga. That analogy of the painted house is just so ideal. We have to keep maintaining our relationships. Its the intentionality. Choosing everyday, never living noting to chance.
I also think there is no one size fits all approach to things. We all should study how things work for us in our relationships.
In summary, I really loved this video. I watch every one of your videos ma, but this one is just at the top of it. I'm waiting for part 2
"Surprises tweak your expectations and lead to disappointment"...... PG!!!!!
Thank you PG for your answer regarding what respect means to men. I think respect should be mutual, even though the Bible doesn't command men to respect their wives. Love without respect is toxic in my opinion. I look forward to the submission vs. suppression video! Thanks for sharing!
I can feel the love through the screen 😍. May God Jehovah bless your home all the days of your lives.
Wow, its my first time here. God bless ur hubby with more wisdom and understanding.
Sis seriously I must admit, u've Gold in ur home
That sex question was answered as soon as yesterday....... It dropped n picked the answer immediately. Lovely couple, stay blessed.
The response to that question on respect!!! Aghnn oh hit me gaann. It's all about understanding for me!! Pastor Gee with the word.
PG is a blessed man and truly wise. My favorite couple
My question is, no question 😀, just prayers to meet and marry the right person
Amen
Amen
You guys😍,you keep bursting my brain sha, chai! Bless you MiraOnoja for introducing me to this amazing channel, I always leave here excited and most importantly blessed and imparted.I love you Tolulope and Gbenga Adejumo🧡
Awesome vid, guys. I laughed all through. PG is a character. Always a delight. God bless you both for teaching and loving.
Pls put out more videos like this!!! So enlightening!🙌🙌🤗
Your husband is so handsome with beautiful eyes and a nice smile.
I love how he looks at you
Youre a lucky woman
PG said OPG.... 😂😂😂😂 looking forward to the 'Married to a Millennial Pastor' video
Ok... How is it just now that I'm finding these amazing set of people.
I love you guys and I also love this episode.👍👍
This was really enlightening Tolulope! PJ just answered CANDIDLY most of the questions guys would avoid! Kudos to you guys! You have an amazing relationship!
Indeed you are a seed of Pastor Funke and our beloved Bishop. Mennn I love mummy Funke more💕💕
My realest family ever. Always giving us that hit back to back. Kudos guys.
I literally laughed hard when PG said "A Men" Mama Told couldn't even pretend she didn't hear that. Gbas Gbos. See outburst of laughter😂😂😂
🥰❤️
PG is a wise man who uses the mind creatively to mentor in spiritual and philosophical topics especially in relationships and marriage. Well done for dissecting the questions
The "A men" part got me lol 😂 😂 😂 Just love u both !
A men..I had to put it on repeat😂😂😂😂
4.00 to 4.07...I loved that part too. Watched it several times. The body language n the laughter was ligit. Love it
@@angelaboateng5287 It was like I was laughing with my friends :D
PG never disappoints!👍 I learnt alot while also having a good laugh - "A men!" Lol. Thanks, @Solutions❤ for sharing.
Awwnnnñ u both are so sweet nah really man of wisdom he tackled all the questions I love that more grace sir
🤣. I literally laughed throughout the video and also learn something.may God continue to bless your home IJN
Immediately i saw PG on the thumbnail, i knew its a video not to be missed! 😌. I'm a huge huge fan sir, God bless you.
Pg i Respect you. You are so real and true. Vulnerable people are the most beautiful PEOPLE in the world.
Your husband is hilarious 😂! Hits the table are you ss , it’s the rolls for them 🤣😂🤣 .... thanks for sharing your light
The wisdom here..🔥🔥
Definitely sharing this to my friends!
“It’s the rolls for them” got me 😂😂😂
Solutions, looking so much like her mom with the hairstyles.
I thoroughly enjoyed watching this video 😄..PG is the real MVP 🙌🏽
When she said we have to stop here I actually shouted NOOOOOOO 😭😂😂😂 I WAS ENJOYING NOW. I have subscribed and clicked the bell I cannot wait please 💓💓💓💓💓. Thank you for this by the way LOVE LOVE LOVE IT God bless
Tolulope solution pls my question is what can you do when your partner doesn't want to explore not in time of sex but to learn new things, from other couples or life itself to fantastise your own relationship.
PG & Tolulope Solution are amazing person.
If you don't know his mama ,You will be surprise but I know her well well , full of wisdom and I am I addicted to her so I am not surprise.!!!!!
Love you and your wife.
My fav Pg feature of all times. E deep sir!
It’s the “joko oko mi” for me 😁❣️❣️❣️.
The channel is already blessed with Solution then PG will now come and make it sweeter. Plenty blessings for only us 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
This was 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Loved every part of it. Please do more!
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SUBMISSION NOT SUPPRESSION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EHH we can't wait.
No dislike, let it remain like that. Nothing to dislike here ❤️
Ohhh my ! I love when your hubby is around.. a very jolly fellow full of wisdom! 😂😂😂😂 God bless you both for us oo 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I just love seeing PG and Solutions Mama together in videos.
Vibes yẹn ta lẹnu 😉😉
Love the explanation on respect.so true. It's a language.
PG and his unending funny expressions😂. Thank you for these great lessons.
Woow,a wonderful pair joined by God.. You can clearly see the wisdom of God at work in your life and marriage. May God continue to honour you🙌🔥..
Though I'm a young and single,you both give me a tit bit of how my future would be with a man after God's heart.❤️
Lots of Love from🇬🇭🇬🇭
PG's wiseness aswear na MOG, the way he answered the stretch mark question the you don doam got me 🤣🤣🤣
That boredom in relationship is my story right now. I have always complained about his energy but right now, I personally don’t have that energy anymore 😌
There could be a reason why the energy has died down. I'm sure it wasnt like that from the begining. Something must have triggered this. It may not be you. May God help heal your relationship!
@@NumexP Amen. Thank you
Awnawn past Gbemiga is so full of wisdom. i really love your answers to the questions, mum and dad has really impacted in you. and to tolu solutions you are really doing a great job
To be honest you both are amazing
This is the best “asking my Husband juicy questions” I’ve watched❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love you guys so much. Hope to meet u both one day🙏
Tolu I must say this is the best proposal I have ever seen in my life
I literally laughed all thru. God bless PG for the insights.
It's the earrings for me! Totally love them Tolu!
I enjoyed this session so much. God bless you and thank you for sharing 🙏
My landlady will soon evict me not just from her house but bck to Nigeria with the way an laughing this loud at 1am🤣🤣🤣 from A-men to Are you ss? 🤣 Haa sister should ask with wisdom Abeg😂😂
Thanks for the session... Couples should be booking sessions with you guys soon... Video really on point.... Some spouse really don't open up to change... I feel like sharing this video to my husband but on the other hand...I have his response already which is... "So I should just dance to whatever you feel is right"?... God is our help!
Kudos to you solutions and pg
It's good to share with him to get his opinion on these questions. Don't make him feel like u r attacking him n it will be a lovely n fruitful conversation. May God give us wisdom
This is a nice session and you are doing well. To support your hustle, I refused to skip the advertisement on the video.
I have watched more than 10 videos back to back... working and learning from y'alls well of knowledge. The fact she keeps saying thank you... in all the videos. I love it💞💝💖🤗🤗🤗☺😊
I'm learning Pastor wife duties from you. I'm sure and Pray I do Marry a Pastor. Amen
PG Is a whole mood 😂👏🏼