A man lost his wife who just gave birth last year December during my stay at the hospital while my mum was sick, and he was crying and throwing himself on the ground. The next thing we would hear from the people around was, stop crying you are a man. And I was like, you say!!?? For God's sake this man just lost his wife!! His wife!! A culture that won't even allow you mourn your wife in peace because you are a man. I love love love men who are so expressive with their feelings.
This is so apt. After we will complain that our men are not romantic or expressive because we expect them to bottle up their feelings. Take a look at suicidal rate, it more among the male gender. As a mom of two adorable boys, it’s important for me to valid their feelings per time. I mean, why tell a young boy or man to “man up and stop crying” when he is first a human and God creates humans to express themselves and their emotions. I mean John 11:35 specifically said that “Jesus Wept”, (He WEPT- now that’s a higher level of crying). If our savior always expressed Himself to show how human He is, why do culture place such unrealistic expectations on our men? This is a burden and a prayer that a paradigm shift will continually take place in our generation especially in the area of intentional parenting. May we continually incline our heart to wisdom. Amen.
That is so bad of them anybody should be allowed to mourn, groan grief and we should be there to support them always. I'm so glad my fiance is expressive too. I'm sold to him for that.
Yes ooo🔥 It’s totally fine to be emotional!! as a man cry if you want to cry, be expressive as much as you can even Jesus wept 😉 On this channel we are destroying all these yeye social constructs 🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️
I really like how your husband is 100% honest with the stretch mark question. My sister, please take good care of your man oooooooooooooooo, a man like him is rare to find.
This woman was so blushing at the end when he said burn for your spouse that she had to end the video sharply. Hmmm...Lol. Carry go o jare, nothing do you. I just love this couple 👍👍👍
Hi guys! I love what you guys do. Whether married men discuss their wife's sex life with friends, men don't. No matter how bad their wife is in bed, we reverence our wives!
But wait o men also have stretch marks o I used to get irritated by it but what your hubby said about processing what you see is so apt . I dealt with it before I got married only to find out my husband has stretch marks , I was so grateful it didn't irritate me anymore, it's just art stripes on the skin 😁. Someone said if someone says you are useless , think of it this way , "they use you less " and that's on them not on you.
I have been following your channel for like 2 months now, but I am commenting for the first time today. I love your channel so much❤️ Plenty sense dey here and plenty love as well. Waiting for part 2😌
PG is truly a soji Pastor😀😘 I really enjoyed how you answered all the questions. Mama Solution was just starring at his face and saying is it me God blessed with this handsome & Intelligent man like this?
Love the analogy of a building that is not maintained.....fresh paint on a building.....really paints a picture of the importance of working on the relationship on an ongoing basis, not just when the building is already falling....awesome wisdom here. Blessings
I just started watching this video but I have to comment on how stunning you look sis. The makeup, hair and earrings 😍😍. I think you should do a makeup tutorial/GRWM listing out what items you use 💖💖
The way solution looks at PG and how she nods her head whilst he’s talking You sef go dey reason the point Beautiful video 🔥waiting on part 2 I feel like the juicy juicy questions are in that part 🌝
I totally enjoyed this video. The chemistry was just too much. So much wisdom from Pastor Gbemiga. That analogy of the painted house is just so ideal. We have to keep maintaining our relationships. Its the intentionality. Choosing everyday, never living noting to chance. I also think there is no one size fits all approach to things. We all should study how things work for us in our relationships. In summary, I really loved this video. I watch every one of your videos ma, but this one is just at the top of it. I'm waiting for part 2
Thank you PG for your answer regarding what respect means to men. I think respect should be mutual, even though the Bible doesn't command men to respect their wives. Love without respect is toxic in my opinion. I look forward to the submission vs. suppression video! Thanks for sharing!
For a purposeful relationship, the lady might never even get to the point of asking her partner certain questions. The man will be led to disclose them. If it doesn't happen that way and you want to know, please discuss it with your partner. However, a purpose-driven relationship works with both parties involved.
You guys😍,you keep bursting my brain sha, chai! Bless you MiraOnoja for introducing me to this amazing channel, I always leave here excited and most importantly blessed and imparted.I love you Tolulope and Gbenga Adejumo🧡
This was really enlightening Tolulope! PJ just answered CANDIDLY most of the questions guys would avoid! Kudos to you guys! You have an amazing relationship!
On the topic of emotions, the society really does harm. Some years ago I was in a shop with a guy and we were laughing and joking. This random stranger man walked up to us and told him to stop laughing like that, that men are not meant to be laughing and jesting 🙄. I was just imagining what if he was crying nko. Abeg who do us this thing in Africa
PG is a wise man who uses the mind creatively to mentor in spiritual and philosophical topics especially in relationships and marriage. Well done for dissecting the questions
When she said we have to stop here I actually shouted NOOOOOOO 😭😂😂😂 I WAS ENJOYING NOW. I have subscribed and clicked the bell I cannot wait please 💓💓💓💓💓. Thank you for this by the way LOVE LOVE LOVE IT God bless
I have watched more than 10 videos back to back... working and learning from y'alls well of knowledge. The fact she keeps saying thank you... in all the videos. I love it💞💝💖🤗🤗🤗☺😊 I'm learning Pastor wife duties from you. I'm sure and Pray I do Marry a Pastor. Amen
It’s the “joko oko mi” for me 😁❣️❣️❣️. The channel is already blessed with Solution then PG will now come and make it sweeter. Plenty blessings for only us 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Awnawn past Gbemiga is so full of wisdom. i really love your answers to the questions, mum and dad has really impacted in you. and to tolu solutions you are really doing a great job
If you don't know his mama ,You will be surprise but I know her well well , full of wisdom and I am I addicted to her so I am not surprise.!!!!! Love you and your wife.
Woow,a wonderful pair joined by God.. You can clearly see the wisdom of God at work in your life and marriage. May God continue to honour you🙌🔥.. Though I'm a young and single,you both give me a tit bit of how my future would be with a man after God's heart.❤️ Lots of Love from🇬🇭🇬🇭
A man lost his wife who just gave birth last year December during my stay at the hospital while my mum was sick, and he was crying and throwing himself on the ground. The next thing we would hear from the people around was, stop crying you are a man. And I was like, you say!!?? For God's sake this man just lost his wife!! His wife!! A culture that won't even allow you mourn your wife in peace because you are a man. I love love love men who are so expressive with their feelings.
This is so apt. After we will complain that our men are not romantic or expressive because we expect them to bottle up their feelings. Take a look at suicidal rate, it more among the male gender. As a mom of two adorable boys, it’s important for me to valid their feelings per time. I mean, why tell a young boy or man to “man up and stop crying” when he is first a human and God creates humans to express themselves and their emotions. I mean John 11:35 specifically said that “Jesus Wept”, (He WEPT- now that’s a higher level of crying). If our savior always expressed Himself to show how human He is, why do culture place such unrealistic expectations on our men? This is a burden and a prayer that a paradigm shift will continually take place in our generation especially in the area of intentional parenting. May we continually incline our heart to wisdom. Amen.
That is so bad of them anybody should be allowed to mourn, groan grief and we should be there to support them always. I'm so glad my fiance is expressive too. I'm sold to him for that.
You are truly blessed to be with a man like PG
I pray your marriage continues to be filled with blessings and more laughter. In Jesus name Amen
Pastor G. Pls open a Christian marriage counseling tutor school. You full of wisdom.
PG= Spitting facts on the spot backed up with the scriptures without seeing the questions before now.
A man of God I stan🙌🙌🙌
Celebrate you sir!!
Yes ooo🔥
It’s totally fine to be emotional!! as a man cry if you want to cry, be expressive as much as you can even Jesus wept 😉
On this channel we are destroying all these yeye social constructs 🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️
I tell you...
PG dropping nuggets 🔥🔥
A man in Christ would not be intimidated by a woman’s success
P.s I’ll be commenting throughout my watching 😆
I love PG’s energy!!😂😂😂😂
He’s so goofy
Y’all are laughing so genuinely
PG is a true keeper..tolulope: s so blessed..not lucky..oh.. blessed..u make a lovely,real couple..awwh😍🙏🏾
PG is truly a wise man
I agree ❤️
Like!!! I just kept saying hmmmmm 🤔
I really like how your husband is 100% honest with the stretch mark question. My sister, please take good care of your man oooooooooooooooo, a man like him is rare to find.
This woman was so blushing at the end when he said burn for your spouse that she had to end the video sharply. Hmmm...Lol. Carry go o jare, nothing do you. I just love this couple 👍👍👍
PG in the building... The way Mrs tolulope looks at PG... Chai, I go love o.
Hi guys! I love what you guys do. Whether married men discuss their wife's sex life with friends, men don't. No matter how bad their wife is in bed, we reverence our wives!
PG will start talking and be rightly dividing the word of truth.
Especially how he uses scriptures.
Omo,
Wisdom personified 🌟.
But wait o men also have stretch marks o I used to get irritated by it but what your hubby said about processing what you see is so apt . I dealt with it before I got married only to find out my husband has stretch marks , I was so grateful it didn't irritate me anymore, it's just art stripes on the skin 😁.
Someone said if someone says you are useless , think of it this way , "they use you less " and that's on them not on you.
I have been following your channel for like 2 months now, but I am commenting for the first time today. I love your channel so much❤️ Plenty sense dey here and plenty love as well. Waiting for part 2😌
A knowledgeable husband plus a wise woman 🔥🔥🔥. This session is a blessing !!!! I love you both🥰
Thank God for this couple that mirrors the love between Christ and church ❤️ Thank so much PG and Solutions ❤️
PG is truly a soji Pastor😀😘 I really enjoyed how you answered all the questions. Mama Solution was just starring at his face and saying is it me God blessed with this handsome & Intelligent man like this?
Wisdom jam Wisdom!! God really ordained it for you Guys to be together!! You Guys are a Blessing to the World!!!!!!
Your husband is a very wise man, listen to him and allow him to lead. You guys are beautiful together and I enjoyed this segment of video.
I love the second question and how he handled it!!!!! Cause I'll be a successful wife and I don't want any hindrance in a form of a husband.
Please can I like twice!! Gems everywhere!!🔥🔥🔥
Me buying plantain chips and chilled water patiently waiting for part two 🤧🤧 God bless you both and keep your love true, Amen ❤️
Mmmmm action overrides emotion! This is deep on many levels!
God I want a true friend as an husband 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾, it makes marriage easy and fun filled
Honestly. This is just friendship in marriage and I love it.
From his conversations you can tell..... that's so apt
Welldone PG
😂😂 I like this guy. The kind of company I need my husband to keep , wisemen like this. You're blessed sis.
Love the analogy of a building that is not maintained.....fresh paint on a building.....really paints a picture of the importance of working on the relationship on an ongoing basis, not just when the building is already falling....awesome wisdom here. Blessings
A men....That one, I fell off my chair. Love you guys so much.
It’s the mix of wisdom and sarcasm for me 😂
I love this couple ❤️❤️❤️
God bless y’all
PG is an intelligent man . To God be the glory Solution is also super wise
"Respect is understanding"
Gotten!
Thanks for sharing.
Absolutely! Men spell LOVE as respect.
When you tell a man you LOVE him he interprets it as RESPECT.
Can you imagine
I love men who are very emotional. In the good way tho.
They are often thoughtful and considerate.
Watching you and PG makes me super duper happy. God continually strengthen and keep your marriage. Love you loads 😍😍
Thank you for your definition of the most beautiful women in the world. Many mothers need to hear that.
I just started watching this video but I have to comment on how stunning you look sis. The makeup, hair and earrings 😍😍. I think you should do a makeup tutorial/GRWM listing out what items you use 💖💖
Yes ooo
You spoke my mind dear
hmmm, I didn't know your husband was this loaded and such a wise man. Keep loving the Lord you both
Wow, its my first time here. God bless ur hubby with more wisdom and understanding.
Sis seriously I must admit, u've Gold in ur home
"Surprises tweak your expectations and lead to disappointment"...... PG!!!!!
When I say wisdom you say Pastor
Gbemiga 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾thank you this we learnt soo much and sincerely appreciate ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I can feel the love through the screen 😍. May God Jehovah bless your home all the days of your lives.
The way solution looks at PG and how she nods her head whilst he’s talking
You sef go dey reason the point
Beautiful video 🔥waiting on part 2
I feel like the juicy juicy questions are in that part 🌝
i dey tell you 😂😙
The response to that question on respect!!! Aghnn oh hit me gaann. It's all about understanding for me!! Pastor Gee with the word.
PG is a blessed man and truly wise. My favorite couple
My realest family ever. Always giving us that hit back to back. Kudos guys.
Pls put out more videos like this!!! So enlightening!🙌🙌🤗
That sex question was answered as soon as yesterday....... It dropped n picked the answer immediately. Lovely couple, stay blessed.
I totally enjoyed this video. The chemistry was just too much.
So much wisdom from Pastor Gbemiga. That analogy of the painted house is just so ideal. We have to keep maintaining our relationships. Its the intentionality. Choosing everyday, never living noting to chance.
I also think there is no one size fits all approach to things. We all should study how things work for us in our relationships.
In summary, I really loved this video. I watch every one of your videos ma, but this one is just at the top of it. I'm waiting for part 2
Indeed you are a seed of Pastor Funke and our beloved Bishop. Mennn I love mummy Funke more💕💕
Thank you PG for your answer regarding what respect means to men. I think respect should be mutual, even though the Bible doesn't command men to respect their wives. Love without respect is toxic in my opinion. I look forward to the submission vs. suppression video! Thanks for sharing!
For a purposeful relationship, the lady might never even get to the point of asking her partner certain questions. The man will be led to disclose them. If it doesn't happen that way and you want to know, please discuss it with your partner. However, a purpose-driven relationship works with both parties involved.
Ok... How is it just now that I'm finding these amazing set of people.
I love you guys and I also love this episode.👍👍
You guys😍,you keep bursting my brain sha, chai! Bless you MiraOnoja for introducing me to this amazing channel, I always leave here excited and most importantly blessed and imparted.I love you Tolulope and Gbenga Adejumo🧡
The wisdom here..🔥🔥
Definitely sharing this to my friends!
Awesome vid, guys. I laughed all through. PG is a character. Always a delight. God bless you both for teaching and loving.
Pg i Respect you. You are so real and true. Vulnerable people are the most beautiful PEOPLE in the world.
“It’s the rolls for them” got me 😂😂😂
This was really enlightening Tolulope! PJ just answered CANDIDLY most of the questions guys would avoid! Kudos to you guys! You have an amazing relationship!
SUBMISSION NOT SUPPRESSION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EHH we can't wait.
PG said OPG.... 😂😂😂😂 looking forward to the 'Married to a Millennial Pastor' video
On the topic of emotions, the society really does harm. Some years ago I was in a shop with a guy and we were laughing and joking. This random stranger man walked up to us and told him to stop laughing like that, that men are not meant to be laughing and jesting 🙄. I was just imagining what if he was crying nko. Abeg who do us this thing in Africa
I've had someone asks, "why are you sleeping like a woman?"
I just weak.
Loool!!
Awwnnnñ u both are so sweet nah really man of wisdom he tackled all the questions I love that more grace sir
This was 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Loved every part of it. Please do more!
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PG never disappoints!👍 I learnt alot while also having a good laugh - "A men!" Lol. Thanks, @Solutions❤ for sharing.
🤣. I literally laughed throughout the video and also learn something.may God continue to bless your home IJN
I thoroughly enjoyed watching this video 😄..PG is the real MVP 🙌🏽
Immediately i saw PG on the thumbnail, i knew its a video not to be missed! 😌. I'm a huge huge fan sir, God bless you.
The "A men" part got me lol 😂 😂 😂 Just love u both !
A men..I had to put it on repeat😂😂😂😂
4.00 to 4.07...I loved that part too. Watched it several times. The body language n the laughter was ligit. Love it
@@angelaboateng5287 It was like I was laughing with my friends :D
Your husband is hilarious 😂! Hits the table are you ss , it’s the rolls for them 🤣😂🤣 .... thanks for sharing your light
I literally laughed hard when PG said "A Men" Mama Told couldn't even pretend she didn't hear that. Gbas Gbos. See outburst of laughter😂😂😂
🥰❤️
PG is a wise man who uses the mind creatively to mentor in spiritual and philosophical topics especially in relationships and marriage. Well done for dissecting the questions
My fav Pg feature of all times. E deep sir!
I just love seeing PG and Solutions Mama together in videos.
Vibes yẹn ta lẹnu 😉😉
PG & Tolulope Solution are amazing person.
When she said we have to stop here I actually shouted NOOOOOOO 😭😂😂😂 I WAS ENJOYING NOW. I have subscribed and clicked the bell I cannot wait please 💓💓💓💓💓. Thank you for this by the way LOVE LOVE LOVE IT God bless
Ohhh my ! I love when your hubby is around.. a very jolly fellow full of wisdom! 😂😂😂😂 God bless you both for us oo 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Solutions, looking so much like her mom with the hairstyles.
My question is, no question 😀, just prayers to meet and marry the right person
Amen
Amen
No dislike, let it remain like that. Nothing to dislike here ❤️
Your husband is so handsome with beautiful eyes and a nice smile.
I love how he looks at you
Youre a lucky woman
Love the explanation on respect.so true. It's a language.
I have watched more than 10 videos back to back... working and learning from y'alls well of knowledge. The fact she keeps saying thank you... in all the videos. I love it💞💝💖🤗🤗🤗☺😊
I'm learning Pastor wife duties from you. I'm sure and Pray I do Marry a Pastor. Amen
PG and his unending funny expressions😂. Thank you for these great lessons.
It’s the “joko oko mi” for me 😁❣️❣️❣️.
The channel is already blessed with Solution then PG will now come and make it sweeter. Plenty blessings for only us 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
It's the earrings for me! Totally love them Tolu!
Awnawn past Gbemiga is so full of wisdom. i really love your answers to the questions, mum and dad has really impacted in you. and to tolu solutions you are really doing a great job
After waiting since morning to be the first to comment.. here I come as the 64th commenter... Isoright
If you don't know his mama ,You will be surprise but I know her well well , full of wisdom and I am I addicted to her so I am not surprise.!!!!!
Love you and your wife.
Woow,a wonderful pair joined by God.. You can clearly see the wisdom of God at work in your life and marriage. May God continue to honour you🙌🔥..
Though I'm a young and single,you both give me a tit bit of how my future would be with a man after God's heart.❤️
Lots of Love from🇬🇭🇬🇭
Tolu I must say this is the best proposal I have ever seen in my life
I enjoyed this session so much. God bless you and thank you for sharing 🙏
that last answer really got me thank you, i wish all men will see this
I like the burnnn part PREACH!!!!!😍😂
This is insightful... PG is sooo funny 😂
PG's wiseness aswear na MOG, the way he answered the stretch mark question the you don doam got me 🤣🤣🤣
Y'all are the cutestttt,I love you!!!,God 's grace shall be upon you everyday🙏
Matured and realistic responses. Nice.
I buurrrrnnnnn for the bloopers 😍🔥 thank you so much for this video🙏🏾 can’t wait for the part two......wisdom OPG!!!😂😂
It's the rolls for them 😂🤣😂 Too much wisdom in this episode! I enjoyed watching 💕