SECOND YEAR OF MARRIAGE WAS TOUGH || TOLULOPE & GBEMIGA ADEJUMO

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  • Опубликовано: 15 янв 2025

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  • @SisiYemmieTV
    @SisiYemmieTV 5 лет назад +135

    At 22:06 , mummy Soteria wants to expose everything!!! 😂😂 It's interesting because the point you were making about not finding closure for everything is what stood out to me the most. Thank you both for your transparency

  • @nobleodinakachi2284
    @nobleodinakachi2284 5 лет назад +149

    I totally relate my dear Aunty Tolu. I got pregnant in August too and gave birth in may as well, the day you gave birth was the day I would have turned 40weeks but I gave birth on the 19th(39weeks 5days).. and in my first trimester I was very sick too and I felt my husband wasn't doing enough, I felt like he didn't care but he was trying in his own way, fast forward to 6months in, my mom died, and my husband fell sick so it was indeed a roller coaster for us but Jesus gave us Victory! Yes He did. I think one thing we have to understand is that Jesus never leaves us during the storm, and He is willing to carry us through to the other side so never let go of Gods hand during any storm, He is with you. Yeah! It wasn't easy but it's a testimony now. Shalom!

  • @bomisojirin6994
    @bomisojirin6994 5 лет назад +57

    God is a faithful God. I also had a miscarriage at week 5. God bless me with identical twins thereafter. God bless and keep your home. Amen

  • @Th3lite
    @Th3lite 5 лет назад +11

    I’m a newlywed not up to my first year. I’m in a intercultural marriage and difficult is an understatement. It’s just now that Im understanding that the issue is cultural, my husband is truly being himself, he’s not being anything outside of that, but the reality of that is weighing heavily on me being a Westerner. But i signed up for this marriage good or bad so we will have to lean on God. Seeing videos like this gives me a renewed hope because people around me are not married, so I feel alone at times.

  • @angelananegbe4645
    @angelananegbe4645 5 лет назад +167

    Who liked before watching?

  • @mydelight15
    @mydelight15 5 лет назад +38

    Can 2 walk together except they be agreed? I see two great friends who knows christ as couple here. It really helps when u marry someone who compliments u. I love u guys and may you remain till eternity.❤❤❤❤

  • @rosemarybello2315
    @rosemarybello2315 5 лет назад +92

    Our nose has reduced oh 💃💏👌👍
    Dont mind me, I just cant help but say you are beautiful Tolu and you have a great husband, I Dont need to tell you. You guys are my numero uno

    • @topelaoye
      @topelaoye 5 лет назад +1

      As in ehn... she made me conscious of the fact that pregnancy increases d nose size...looolz

    • @chiomajuliet4558
      @chiomajuliet4558 5 лет назад +1

      @@topelaoye lol..am even afraid of how my own nose would look like cuz I gat a long nose

    • @rosemarybello2315
      @rosemarybello2315 5 лет назад

      @Chioma Juliet , lol

  • @aisha.hussaini
    @aisha.hussaini 5 лет назад +10

    How come no one has asked what lipstick she’s wearing?
    You look so beautiful 💜

  • @dotunfatinikun7901
    @dotunfatinikun7901 5 лет назад +11

    Your love for each other clearly radiates! May your marriage blossom more and more.

  • @dr.zeedams
    @dr.zeedams 5 лет назад +32

    Congratulations mama.
    A lesson learnt: always remember the bigger picture 👌👌👌

  • @SisterAmaka
    @SisterAmaka 5 лет назад +28

    I love this! I especially love the way his shirt matches the quote on the wall and your lipstick matches the red door. Weird thing to notice but I still did lol! This video is SO REAL! Thank you so much for putting yourselves out there and sharing the truth with humour here and there. You're doing an amazing job and I've definitely subscribed and followed you on Instagram after this. You guys are so cute. This video made me really question if I want to get married at all, like there's so many storms in life no matter what decision you take. Only God can help us tbh

  • @olanosechristiana8388
    @olanosechristiana8388 5 лет назад +29

    Adult wept got me😂😂😂God continue to bless your home

  • @cckalonji
    @cckalonji 5 лет назад +56

    The realest video I have seen in a while. Keep the realness flowing. I would like to see a video on how you dealt with the the miscarriage both from you and your husband's perspective. Side note, you should leave your husband to express his quirkiness it adds to the life of the video.

  • @adesuwaigiehon3200
    @adesuwaigiehon3200 5 лет назад +36

    I think one of the things that helped you guys pull through that difficult phase was that you were first of all FRIENDS.
    Pst Gbemiga please feature more.

    • @missrosejune
      @missrosejune 5 лет назад +4

      its true these guys are buddies...

  • @correttanama2783
    @correttanama2783 5 лет назад +33

    Cute couple ❤️❤️❤️ Tolu darling, nice hair, nice top, nice lipstick colour, nice everything.

  • @designsbygiftyspice4830
    @designsbygiftyspice4830 5 лет назад +57

    Please let all gather for our Sunday Tonic
    Notification gannnngggg!!!!

  • @TheLizzyO
    @TheLizzyO 5 лет назад +34

    Okurr mummy Soteria issa major babe. Thanks for sharing this. Gorgeous couple.

  • @rosemarybello2315
    @rosemarybello2315 5 лет назад +46

    Seriously, which people unliked this video? Na wa oh, see honest couple like this and you Dont like it. I respect you guys seriously because not everyone would be willing to share the 'buts' in their relationship. Especially, in this social media age, hmm. This is great, I love you guys. #Team Solutions. 💑💗

  • @taiyeakinwale-oyegbile3043
    @taiyeakinwale-oyegbile3043 5 лет назад +8

    PG is mature about his feelings and experience. You guys should praise God for seeing you through. It could have been worse. Congratulations to both of you.

  • @ngbachelorineducation9080
    @ngbachelorineducation9080 3 года назад +1

    My husband suffered during our first baby, omo he totally refused we would have another baby, I cried and prayed, thankful to God, we now have 3kids😆😄😂.
    Marriage is actually international hard work rooted on God, watching this 2years later and still enjoying it 🤎❤️🤎❤️

  • @deboraholatunbosun3443
    @deboraholatunbosun3443 5 лет назад +9

    This video is hilarious.
    Oh wow! I'm watching this & I'm like how are they telling my story so well. Pregnancy & all that comes with it. I wasn't so sick sick but then I was cranky like hell. My husband & I would fight over irrelevant things to the extent that I was throwing myself around. Hubby looked at me one day and said "if you let anything happen to this child I'd blame you". That bad! I thank God for the 3fold cord. Dear God. That "3fold cord" is so real, I'm grateful we had that as our toast& has built our marriage on that since. Yes before I forget, I can't be tired & say I'm not going to church o, mehn I will hear preaching & he will hear pregnancy lessons. So so baby Sharon went &dragged baby Soteria & they came months apart.

  • @soniajethro
    @soniajethro 5 лет назад +13

    Honestly you won’t know how much I mean this... GOD BLESS YOU

  • @luciennevifemseh6156
    @luciennevifemseh6156 5 лет назад +24

    I just love the way you are taking care of yourself

  • @dimmailo
    @dimmailo 5 лет назад +44

    This is hands down one of my best videos and I'm soo saving it for future purposes! When I saw the time limit, I was scared because I was conscious of my data but it was worth it. Thanks mama.

  • @sommietheadmirable
    @sommietheadmirable 4 года назад +1

    Mummy Soteria's primary love language is definitely physical touch. Thanks for sharing

  • @deboraholuwasindaraolabode7418
    @deboraholuwasindaraolabode7418 5 лет назад +36

    One thing that struck my heart is how you guys were so happy together and everyone saw your marriage as goals during those trying times. I learnt a lot from today's vlog thanks for sharing.
    Sometimes, I look at my relationship and I just imagine how we will behave during storms everything seems so beautiful and mushy now and I just pray for God's grace and intentionality of growth. I know time is a true test of character and patience will birth that.
    Tolulope, you and your husband are so much inspiration and you are in our prayers. E-kisses to lil madam soteria.
    Please do you mind doing a delivery vlog.

  • @michaelfabiyi3685
    @michaelfabiyi3685 5 лет назад +36

    Tolulope you look so beautiful now. You're snapping back real fast. Big thumbs up 👍🏽 to Gbemiga. I think you're 'always' funny. Pls keep it up. Tolu, don't let see finish do u. Gbemiga's drama is always funny 🤪🙄

  • @omolaraa
    @omolaraa 5 лет назад +5

    The way he looks at her 25:56. 😍
    Thank you for keeping it real with us.

  • @ntezee229
    @ntezee229 5 лет назад +4

    our sunday dose is here 😊😊

  • @sandraamaole5179
    @sandraamaole5179 5 лет назад +13

    You couples are so adorable. Thanks for always being transparent and honest. You guys are blessed beyond measure.

  • @Abayflo
    @Abayflo 5 лет назад +5

    I believe all new couples should get counsel before pregnancy comes in the picture. Men find it difficult to get along when they begin to see changes in their wives body and mood and ladies should also keep themselves together and be strong by engaging in lots of exercise such as taking a walk together when able.
    I experienced this too and l believe most people do but a proper orientation is needed before getting to that season of life. May God help us all🙏🏽. Great video guys!

  • @Gloradiant
    @Gloradiant 5 лет назад +6

    Thank you for being real and sharing your personal experiences in marriage. It's rare to see this. This is inspiring! Thank you. Please do a video on how you both overcame the miscarriage.

  • @eniolafujah
    @eniolafujah 5 лет назад +6

    Mami you look stunning! Jst staring at your face ! Jst starting watching this

  • @judithomobude2216
    @judithomobude2216 5 лет назад +44

    Nice one dear.please can u film on how u overcame ur miscarriage ,thanks.this vedio is great

  • @leyugabeatricefonyonga4624
    @leyugabeatricefonyonga4624 5 лет назад +29

    Tolu ooo the lipstick jor. lol. late comers let's get ready for a selfie with PG &Soteria's mummy

  • @TakeATrip.
    @TakeATrip. 5 лет назад +4

    You both are dropping gems! I really hope that young married couples are watching and taking major notes. I have been married for 8 years and I can totally tell you all these feelings and facts you’ve experienced are for real.
    Generally in life and in this context marriage, change is inevitable but it requires positive adaptation simple because we’re creatures of habits; we don’t want things to change. These periods of transitioning are definitely trying and very challenging. No clique; Thank God for Jesus!🙏🏾
    I really did enjoy this upload. It briefly validates this unintended pressure of starting a family shortly after marriage especially in Nigeria. #NaThemDeyRushUsO! 🤗
    Thank you both and congratulations on your new blessing!

  • @tiffany1849
    @tiffany1849 5 лет назад +2

    Please please do a video on how the both of you were able to overcome the miscarriage😘🇰🇪

  • @blessingefosa3197
    @blessingefosa3197 5 лет назад +4

    I really admire you both. Never be discouraged by the number of likes. This is my first time of making a comment . Thanks for being sincere and willing to share your experiences publicly. You both are favored to have each other. More videos please. Lol

  • @correttanama2783
    @correttanama2783 5 лет назад +9

    May you both remain knitted in Christ's love. Cheers to your forever 🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂

  • @zaidatibiyeye4816
    @zaidatibiyeye4816 5 лет назад +4

    Shout out to the makeup artist, the makeup is lit and I love your outfit

  • @ruthmuma8693
    @ruthmuma8693 5 лет назад +15

    And so right, just 3 months old in marriage oh...started getting angry that my Husband comes home late. Was even planning that when start work I will do same...but yesterday the "look at the bigger picture" advice just hit my head. Which is he is working hard for our future so this is temporal.
    Thanks PJ...hope I got it right. God blesssssss you all again.
    All the way from Douala Cameroon.

  • @blessingoluwaseunedema3742
    @blessingoluwaseunedema3742 5 лет назад +3

    That's y,u need to marry who u really love naturaly or affection for ,u ll take him for who he/she is and build ur relationship on Gods rock cos wen d storm comes u ll be able to stand firmly. Though I am not married yet ,even in normal relationships we face lots of challenges that if you ain't strong u ll fall out of the race. Communication, trust,forgiveness and patience is d key. U ll be tired at some point but the love ll hold u firmly on the root.🥰 cheers

  • @IyanuFolorunshoice
    @IyanuFolorunshoice Год назад +1

    I Think that stage is what now bring separation between husband and wife, that makes the wife now transfr all the love seen or have for the husband to the child, and they now find it difficult to come back instead they will now beging to se each other differences, you know thats the work f the destroyer, very cunny devil. i really thank God for you yu guys that you healed and even to the ppont of been able to share the story. like it really blessed me. im so touched, i have always have fear of that moment, not maried yet tho however i always pray for that season, more to that from my end i have learnt a lot, NOT EVERYTHING SHOULD BE TALKED INTO WORDS LET SOMETHING SLIDE AND MOVE ON.... THANK YOU TLULOPE SOLUTIOS AND GREAT PGGGGGGGGG

  • @jovitamomodu49
    @jovitamomodu49 5 лет назад +6

    Lovely as usual. I always like PG's jokes, he makes the vlog more interesting. Learnt a lot, wish my future hubby could be watching from wherever he is and learn. Big ups guysssss

  • @dinmaodah
    @dinmaodah 5 лет назад +2

    Tolu truly i always watch you video without leaving a comment but for this particular video, i cant help but say i love you. Thank you for being real and letting us single ladies see the journey ahead and buckle up to prepare for it. You also are showing us the advantage of marrying in Christ. If to say na all this omo wobe guys........matter for long. I love you and God keep your family

  • @BabyBaby8794
    @BabyBaby8794 5 лет назад +11

    Great video!!! You can see the magic when you're together. Thank you for making the rest of us not feel like perfection is the goal rather growth is key.

  • @faithkuria7539
    @faithkuria7539 5 лет назад +1

    Great video. ma always says that forgiveness is needed in marriage than in any other institution. On our 8th year and it's becoming sweeter every day coz of forgiveness. Let's keep the fire of marriage burning. Kenya

  • @gracemartin8525
    @gracemartin8525 7 месяцев назад

    U look like husband Sanguine, wife melancholic
    Love you guys❤❤❤

  • @ttlopehsofiat2670
    @ttlopehsofiat2670 5 лет назад +9

    Actually I get your husband... He expresses his emotions differently

  • @adelanialice8615
    @adelanialice8615 4 года назад +1

    this is wonderful

  • @dimmailo
    @dimmailo 5 лет назад +4

    First position goes to me🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @LammyJane
    @LammyJane 5 лет назад +12

    I love you guys so much. Thanks for being so real here. 💓💓💓

  • @Abiola_Ayodeji
    @Abiola_Ayodeji 5 лет назад +6

    See how you are looking beautiful.. I love you Tolulope.

  • @GhanaViAku
    @GhanaViAku 5 лет назад +2

    Nice one. 💃💃💃💃

  • @lucyakomiah9306
    @lucyakomiah9306 5 лет назад +12

    Hi Tolu hope the baby is doing well tnx for always inspiring us God bless you and ur hubby.

  • @starlight100-o2l
    @starlight100-o2l 2 года назад

    That baby carries a great destiny "soteria" that's why all the frictions were happening because the devil knew what you were carrying... Glory to God who gave you strength to overcome and bring that life to this world💃

  • @comfortoluwamoyin7971
    @comfortoluwamoyin7971 5 лет назад +4

    God bless your home and your seeds, may Jesus Christ continue to be the centre of it all

  • @elsiebehavioristhagan2444
    @elsiebehavioristhagan2444 4 года назад +1

    so much glory in one video .. God bless your family

  • @folakemioshinnaya3775
    @folakemioshinnaya3775 2 года назад

    People need to legitlly check back your videos... love you both the "closure" its helped my marriage

  • @Ayomi_Olaniran
    @Ayomi_Olaniran 5 лет назад +4

    You guys are the best.. You inspire me

  • @maryfavor7751
    @maryfavor7751 5 лет назад +14

    Too much to learn from you guys in this video 👌👌😯 thanks so much for sharing but the truth is, we really love seeing you guys together on set please oo cuz honestly you both inspire a lot us here and am sure even out there. I must say I really do enjoy the video as well 🙌🙌🤩 God continue to bless and keep your home in peace IJN 🙏#teamsolutions 💖

    • @hosannaoki
      @hosannaoki 4 года назад

      Sorry, I'm new here is her name "Solutions" ?

  • @ellakay977
    @ellakay977 2 года назад +1

    As a single lady, when married couples say Marriage is no joke, I wonder how real it is and what are some of the things some couples do that helped them overcome whilst others aren't able to? (These are my own mental thoughts and I believe for some ppl too) but this video calms me and opens my eyes too. Thanks Maa and Sir. The Lord is your Combined Strength in Jesus' Name.

  • @adeoluwagbenro8422
    @adeoluwagbenro8422 5 лет назад +2

    Wa ooooo. I love you tooo. I don't even know how l got to this page. I was busy playing with my phone and suddenly saw this your video l was moved to go back to watch your wedding video, then l knew it was the holy spirit leading me. I am not young like both of you. 😄 l am 52 plus looking forward to see my children doing same too. Both of you are real. I pray God keep both of you till eternity. You shall be fulfilled in everything in Jesus name.You shall continue to grow in love in Jesus name.

  • @lovetha4484
    @lovetha4484 5 лет назад +2

    Amazing video. So brave and smart of u to discuss this rough patch in such a real way and not ‘christianize it’. WTG tolu! One of ur best videos.
    Pls stop telling oga to stop. His jokes were funny. He brings a good comic relief.

  • @thegodfidentlady
    @thegodfidentlady 5 лет назад +4

    Yasss first like and comment 😩💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @kusimooluwayomi6394
    @kusimooluwayomi6394 5 лет назад +1

    Love your dress

  • @ejibunmiadetola7464
    @ejibunmiadetola7464 5 месяцев назад

    I like how you guys are down to earth. I see lots of couples with miscarriages or trying to start a family. And I hear this a lot from the men, saying they feel used, intimacy was now a chore
    Also pregnancy can bring a lot of strain on relationship.
    The season does pass as you say and remain positive and supportive of each other.
    Thanks for sharing

  • @dearyoungprofessional
    @dearyoungprofessional 5 лет назад +3

    I can hardly describe how much of a blessing this video has been to me and my relationship. Thank u so much for taking time to share. Love you both loads!

  • @seyeakos
    @seyeakos 5 лет назад +1

    The way your husband looks at you got me blushing on your behalf. love you both

  • @tegaabigaildoghor7334
    @tegaabigaildoghor7334 5 лет назад +1

    Wow!!!I I have not seen couples that are this real for a long time now,thank God for you..I am really inspired..

  • @damioni1095
    @damioni1095 5 лет назад +1

    THANK YOU FOR BEING EXTREMELY TRANSPARENT.

  • @ebereagbanusi2475
    @ebereagbanusi2475 5 лет назад +1

    U guys are great. U just earned a new subscriber

  • @totalglory668
    @totalglory668 4 года назад

    I'm always looking forward to the bloopers💯💯💯

  • @adeyinkasanni4488
    @adeyinkasanni4488 5 лет назад +4

    Just love your family.

  • @Gloriablessy
    @Gloriablessy 5 лет назад +7

    I really enjoyed watching this video. Learned so much today and I admire you two. May God keep you two and our little princess. God bless y'all.

  • @okeakusu4366
    @okeakusu4366 5 лет назад +8

    Omg! Ur hubby is hilarious, solutions looking yummy, luv u guys❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @belindaboameh6692
    @belindaboameh6692 5 лет назад +10

    Funny how I’ve been checking my notifications right after church

  • @jayntaho5771
    @jayntaho5771 5 лет назад +5

    Yaaaaay Tolu!!! I always like even before watching lol..you guys are a blessing.. 🇰🇪

  • @Pearl_aishah
    @Pearl_aishah 5 лет назад +6

    Congratulations guys♥️♥️♥️
    Now the DO that you did gave us a beautiful smile on our face♥️♥️♥️

  • @NaanepDapoet_
    @NaanepDapoet_ 5 лет назад +6

    You look so beautiful Tolu
    I enjoyed this video. Thank you for this.

  • @ayomideayoola5545
    @ayomideayoola5545 11 месяцев назад

    I really enjoyed this blog💖💖💖

  • @atiwe44
    @atiwe44 5 лет назад +6

    Thank you for sharing, I know a lot of people are learning from you

  • @ruthmuma8693
    @ruthmuma8693 5 лет назад +1

    A friend of mine sent me a video lately to learn from, I was just angry. Cause I hate stories of my life!!!. But as for TOLU, just watch and listen on the road like mumu...laughing and smiling alone. God bless you!!!!

  • @twinkledimpleaolatoyinkans5277
    @twinkledimpleaolatoyinkans5277 5 лет назад +3

    I just love this awesome family, they are so real, the love is so obvious, God will keep increasing the love between you both, wishing to see these faces really in August in Akure, please do grant my wish

  • @nkechiemelumadu618
    @nkechiemelumadu618 2 года назад

    Ist time commenter- “you can’t always get to the root of everything with words” this statement should be framed ! God bless you both !

  • @thelmayankam1949
    @thelmayankam1949 5 лет назад +3

    i like your truthfulness..... its the boom.. you mke.me love you so much and i keep coming back to watch ur channel😍😍

  • @kateofmanycolours
    @kateofmanycolours 2 года назад

    May God keep on keeping you ❤️

  • @favourbenson86
    @favourbenson86 2 года назад

    God really sees our heart, I needed to listen to this. I just got married.

  • @wendyshika8078
    @wendyshika8078 4 года назад

    I share the same birthday as your child😀😀😀. My birthday twin 😀😀.

  • @oluwafemiomotosho6893
    @oluwafemiomotosho6893 4 года назад

    Just seeing this guys...great one

  • @euniceagyekum-oduro7587
    @euniceagyekum-oduro7587 3 года назад

    Really blessed by your genuineness and scriptural basis

  • @ThisisJamJam
    @ThisisJamJam 5 лет назад +1

    Lovely makeup 💕💕💕💕💕💥

  • @obeyatta7674
    @obeyatta7674 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much!!! Welcome back😍😍

  • @auntypelz
    @auntypelz 5 лет назад +5

    "An adult wept" 😂😂😂 Love you guys so much. ❤

  • @reginakotoka3730
    @reginakotoka3730 5 лет назад +4

    God bless you guys for being real....please do a video on how you handled the miscarriage...

  • @dajigrace6924
    @dajigrace6924 3 года назад

    Interesting and encouraging... I can relate. God help us all. Good to see you again and good to know you are doing great, my bunkie that year #ToladnowSOLUTIONS#

  • @EstherUkeme
    @EstherUkeme 5 лет назад +7

    Soooo relatable. Thank you so much for sharing. Hugs to baby Soteria ❤️❤️❤️

  • @MeetMoyele
    @MeetMoyele 5 лет назад +1

    All I need to hear is your voice and I am swept away 🎈💐💗🌸

  • @mawuenabenedictaaborchie8421
    @mawuenabenedictaaborchie8421 2 года назад

    “You cannot always talk to the root of everything” that’s marriage real marriage. God bless you guys

  • @itohanovensehi7307
    @itohanovensehi7307 4 года назад

    This is great