The Melodist 3,6, maybe 9 mouths It’s gonna be hard! But work on yourself, work out and pursue your passion and When they check on you, you will be a completely different person to them and will Naturally re-attract them Sometimes you You reinventing yourself so much in a positive light you wonder why you even want it I’ll get back with them because they are still the same person when you met them and with the same metal problems that helped the relationship fail in the first place But you could win them back and end up marrying them Either way trust a no contact rule and reinvent yourself
Ricardo I’m trusting no contact because that is all I can do. I’m working on myself every day for myself. In my current state of mind I do not expect my ex to ever come back. It has been something like 70+ days since she dumped me and I have no expectations that she ever will come back. I’m glad that I’ve stopped counting and I’m moving on. She made the mistake and my silence to her will shout volumes in her mind. I will improve my life, I will become more physically fit, I will become smarter, and I will find someone new. Hats off to my ex for dumping me and showing me how much I want to live a better life.
Coach Lee you are the man! My ex dumped me and blocked me. I came across your videos and I did not go around his block! I kept listening to your videos anytime I felt the urge to and was constantly crying but you kept me so uplifted in my time of need. It took 14 days for my ex to reach back to me. He was so apologetic and was afraid I would tell him to go take a hike. I am so glad I listened to all your advice I gained across your various videos. You really know your stuff! You are truly a blessing for the broken hearted! Thank you so much for your words of encouragement and the difference you make in people’s lives!
@@RealCoachLee I tell my broken hearted girlfriends all about you and your channel! An update to my story…he blocked me again due to no apparent reason I can think of and I am done with such immature behavior. However, could you do more videos on self esteem and how to put yourself back out there again after repeated failures? How not to give up on love? I feel like I am giving up and don’t know what to do.
Its works no contact and blocked,,after 5 months no contact and blocked me ,,suddenly he call me last night we talk about 2 hrs and said misses me, he want to see me and go out again after this pandemic,, so true give them more space and respect ,,, thank you so much couch Lee 🙏🙏🙇♀️🙇♀️
Yes,, put post picture on your feed facebook or instagram even your blocked all site and communication show to him you are happy and confident to yourself to look great and beautiful without him and make him feel regret hes leaving you,,,We are together now and start a new beginning we forgive and forget the fast what he's doing put me in a third party situation he's not happy and regret he left me behind,,, no contact rules it's work really all I can say is watch all the videos and I'm thankful I found the site of Coach Lee,,till now I'm watching all his videos 🙇🙇❤❤
Same , he blocking me for 2 months and saying he have gf already when once I reached out him first , before that we had big fight 🙊, he asking me to deleted his number and stop sending his message , buttttttttttt tadaaaaaaaa he the one sending me messages he saying ‘ hey I still have all ur pics on my phone 🙊🤣, he trying everything to get rid of me but none successful hahaha , I’m cool now , wait if he come and apologize
I was blocked on all levels. 1 month. 2.5 years together. I worked on myself.....left a month of no contact. Worked on my part of why the relationship broke down. We talked for hours and we are back together. :)
@@JackIsCool070 he’s making money from our misery. Take everything he says with a pinch of salt. He doesn’t know your situation, or your ex… he’s a con artist who prays on us heartbroken. There’s a reason why he has a “programme” … do yourself a favour and stop listening to this man!
@@Oenumaus Stay strong. Trust the process. Focus on yourself and personal growth. HIT THE GYM! Keep yourself busy! She will come back. And if she doesn’t you’ll still be a better person than u are now. Btw my ex dumped me again about a week after I wrote that comment. I am a little sad but I am ok with it because I’m doing all these things that are making me a better person. Don’t allow yourself to succumb to despair Jason. It will work out. Trust me, something better may come along and you might realize you’re too good for your ex because you’ve found someone better suited for you. This is what keeps me going friend. I can’t lie down and die because someone doesn’t want to be with me. I did that in my youth and spent my best years wallowing in misery over ONE guy. For 4 YEARS. I wish I found these videos back then. You are on the right path Jason. Stay the course and focus on becoming a better version of YOU!
@@smilinthruthepain I'm trying this shit just hurts bad. I don't wanna go into detail about it but simply she didn't have to do all this especially after all she claimed she felt for me. Just makes no sense.
No contact rule is absolutely effective! Trust the process, I am happy I Followed Coach Lee's advice and I Am more happy to be back with the person i love. Thanks again. I still watch your videos to learn more about attraction and relationship advices. God bless you Coach Lee.
OMG! I’ve just been unblocked a few minutes ago after 12 days! I’m still shaking coz of disbelief. Thank you so much coach Lee. If I hadn’t been listening to you for the past days I would’ve went around his block. I’m so grateful to God I found your channel.🙏 I won’t contact him though. I’ll wait and see if he reaches out. I’m not anxious to chat him on WhatsApp coz I’ve been learning intently from coach Lee. I’ll be patient and pray very hard. Hope all the others will be blessed with God’s grace also. Have faith everyone and know that God has a reason for allowing things to happen. Thanks again coach.😘
Update: My ex and I officially got back together today. He unblocked me 12 days after no contact, and talked to me 8 days after unblocking me. We talked 3 straight days with him always reaching out first. Everything went well. I was calm and reserved. However, he stopped reaching out after that. Hence, on the 5th day, I reached out to him coz he had reached out 3 straight times previously anyway. Turned out, he was just waiting for me to reach out back. Thank you Coach Lee! God bless!
we broke up 3 weeks ago, and since then i am in No contact rule, and today i find out that my ex removed me from followers on IG, we are still friends on FB even though my ex is not there so much and since we broke up i posted maybe 2 photos , nothing related to love , or suffering , its general photo of some volunteer work i do over the weekend, nothing else,.. and i find out today that from IG i was removed... well after all i am going thru this is like another punch in the face.. :(
lutche abellana he blocked on social media me after 4 months of no contact even though i didn’t text him or anything I only know that he hid hist stories from me(i followed him with another account)and then he made stories public but i didn’t watch them or like anything on instagram.He would add and then delete people and no reaction came from me. Then after a week after making his stories public he blocked me on everything. And 2 months after that he deleted my number.Did not block me on whatsapp though just deleted my number.I don’t even know what he meant 😢😢
Don’t go radio silent ...text him and ask him for something stupid like “hey do you know the name of that bar we used to go to ? I’m going to be there tonight “
Not true, I blocked because it was causing me so much pain to not hearing from him, it was for my own peace so that I don’t have to keep looking at my phone.. hoping to receive a text from him.. I did it for me to help me heal
Sometimes you're just done with the person, they remind you of bad memories and heartaches so you just want to forget them and take them out of your life completely. I personally blocked my ex on everything because I was so disgusted by what she did has nothing to do with manipulation or none of that
Nah man, she definitely blocked me because I was annoying. I can't help myself but express my feelings, and that's just a mistake I gotta live with. We truly had nothing but 10 years of good memories and overcoming trials together. But she's going through stuff right now, I want desperately to be there for her, but I'm just not in a position to give her what she needs. Hopefully, if she unblocks me, I'll at least be in a position of strength where I can at least offer to lighten her load. But for now, I am the burden, and I have to deal with the painful reality of just backing away for the time being.
“Out of all the exes you have why am I the only one blocked on social media” “Because you were the only one to never do anything wrong to me” Lol makes sense…..
If they block you, dont panick. Happened to me several times. Whatever you do, do not pursue them. It only hurts your chances. Try to think like them. How would oyu feel if someone begged you? Not good. We all like mature people.
I suggest you (Dr. Abuya) he can let your ex come to you, please a second chance, since he helped me, I have been enjoying a perfect relationship and have more promises with my ex, I will I suggest you seek his help.. Thank you 🙏🙏
IT WORKSSSS She had blocked me on everything and it was a long distance but just after 10 days of me not contacting her at all she came back. Trust this guy and what he says 😭😭😭I love you man. Thank you so much man 🙏
My ldr broke up with me for the end time over an argument. He was very emotionally immature but we did have lots of love and great memories and I felt we were soulmates. Its day 2, and yes I begged and I called him and he hung up the first when he heard my voice. Hes really cruel and this is the second time he left me in the dark and blocked me... I know he still loves me but he seriously is mean. It sucks were long distance. We ended by arguing and he blocked me everywhere. I feel like he will never unblock me. I just want us to be happy again.... is there still a chance if I wait??
@@Gyr-fh6wv thank you... I'm just scared he wont fall through and he will always blame me for being toxic just because I struggle with a mental illness.
What if they blocked you? Move on with your life like they did. I’ve blocked people and been blocked. Life goes on either way. Don’t waste time worrying about that mess.
Thats not always the scenario..if they wanted to move on then they wouldnt keep your family and friends on social media..i got blocked cause she wants to keep close to my family and doesnt want me to see it..i deleted her friends and family..social media isnt important to me..but to her hovering and fake internet points are a source of supply..i wasnt a pest and walked away..some block so they can use as a source of punishment..hey here i am talking to your family and im gonna smear you..cause im not leaving even though i dumped you..i need to stay close cause im avoiding guilt..
@@jimdaniel4412 Hi Dan,I just read your comment, I understand what you are saying, don't mind about what that person is saying about "being a pest " they probably punish people and don't deserve love" You will be ok. ☺👍
Yeah..its stupid move..use social media to entertain the flying monkees and create a story about what your doing...look at me im great and he is stupid..although im super needy and i live and exist only on social media..
I truly appreciate your content. Even if I'm not trying to get back with my ex, there are times MONTHS after the break up where I find myself missing him, and it's confusing...especially when I feel like I'm making progress. Your content, your thoughtfulness, and even the sound of your voice truly calms my anxiety when I'm questioning myself. Thank you for your kindness, and for putting this content out there, so that people like myself don't completely go out of our minds hehe. I appreciate you.
Been 1 month with no contact...these videos keep me going.... everytime am on verg of breaking down i end up watching these videos... they are helping with healing
My ex came back after 22 days of no contact. And we had a bad fight. We’re taking it slow as she was my fiancé but things are going better. No contact works.
Kevin Depuy I’m happy to hear that dude. Mine hasn’t contacted me in over 70 days but I’m so happy to hear that it’s worked for the two of you. Good luck, and I wish you both the best.
He’s right you have to attract her again. Someone was hitting on her rudely so she called me; and I came to her rescue and punked the guy. I felt bad for that guy but that’s what my girl likes. A strong assertive guy.
Blocked 7.5 months since his first date with his rebound. Didn't do anything to need blocking, but I got unblocked last week. They broke up. typical. Stay in NC people and live your life. If they're gonna come back, you don't wanna be a shell of yourself and have nothing to show for the past months. Become stronger and better than the person they knew
I hope you didn't take her back, cos she just gonna leave again when she thinks she's found somene better. Your relationship didn't mean much to her, since she didn't even politely call off the relationship to go be with the new guy, she made an extreme act and a classic ghosting by blocking you, and never looked back to unblock you untill her new relationship which almost lasted a year failed. She sees you as the back-up guy
I believe that, depending on the situation, blocking is a form of a boundary being placed. If you are constantly harassing them and not letting them have their space, they may put a boundary because you won’t let them process their thoughts and feelings and as a way for them to protect themselves. It isn’t always a bad thing depending on the situation.
I really like this comment. It's kinda what I feel I'm going through right now. Initially felt we had a breakup/break about three weeks ago. Did no contact for 10 days. Broke it. We got back for a few days. We were intimate. Then a few days later she told me that she was overwhelmed. She had to think. Her mind wasn't at a goof stage. She told me she loved me. Even said to me to have patience with her. We even mentioned that we should try it slow. Later that night she had blocked me again. I'm kinda confused but I'm thinking that's her way of putting up her boundary to process.
@@chrisspears3799 it could be. At the same time though, that block throws you into the unknown. It is best to prepare as if they are never coming back so that you can truly focus on yourself instead of waiting around for her return (if she returns).
my ex blocked me unprompted after about a month and a half after the breakup and no contact. we weren’t even following each other, and it hurts so badly…. but whoever is reading this, i know we’ll get through this together. stay strong everyone. we can pull ourselves together and do this. i’m proud of you for enduring this pain!!!
It will be a week on Friday since he broke up with me. I was totally blindsided. We never had a fight or argument. It's been really hard. We will survive 💪🏾
Honest the truth they block us is because they are hurt everytime they see us. if we made a impact in their life they will remember no matter what even if they move on. And just them looking at our profile hurts them unless you did something wrong like cheat on them or you’re super crazy. But if you think about it we are living “RENT FREE” in their heads they did that because they know they can’t over the factor of what they did to us so they’re thinking In their head like hey Howcome they are trying or chasing me even more. Because that’s what the dumpers want, they want that ego boost or some reason to give everyone a reason to tell everyone why they broke up with us. Don’t do it!! think of it like this if you chase a cat they’ll run away but once you stay calm and just ignore them they’ll come to you. Same way as a dog if you chase them they’ll either do one or two things they’ll play with you or they will runaway but most of the time they’ll runaway but once you start doing your own thing they tend to follow along and they get attached. Same way as our exes they block us now but slowly once they realize “hey I’m the only one running away they aren’t chasing me” they lost that ego boost so they tend to reflect more on their situation and where they put themselves at. That’s how you want it because you can’t fix something that broke but once you can show you’re gone and that you don’t need them like they needed you. they will freak out and that’s when they get curious and they try to contact you trust me I did this many times and it happened to me a lot but the one thing is they left a line open still. Even if it means fb, insta, or your phone don’t you guys wonder why, it’s because you left all your lines open so now they have to get back to you on one of the lines you left open. It’s like you leaving a carrot in front of a maze they don’t see the other carrots on the other side but they do see the carrot in front of them. So again patience is key but silence and absence is the most dangerous part of law attraction your silence says alot so it makes them think a lot more if you moved on or they curious because let’s be real with ourselves they’re still thinking about us so what makes you think they needed to block us they wouldn’t have thought of us in the beginning because if you flip the script around wouldn’t you guys just be moving on with your life if you were in their shoes and you would show your ex that you’re doing good in social media or anything that they can see it’s because they want to see us failing but we aren’t. they need to learn on their own there consequences that they put us through and fix that shit if not they never respected the relationship and you meant nothing but as I see it you’re basically living rent free in their heads. Keep your head high I’m not telling you to move on with your life but moved forward and make them realize what they lost in life but staying silent & absence it’s a powerful thing because the next time you guys talk you’ll be ready.
@@crystopher-aaronricafrente1103my ex just broke up with me out of the blue. We never had an argument. He's stubborn and full of pride. I don't know if he will respond at all. I miss him a lot but I'm still in no contact
@@sharc.9259 if he blocked you there is a reason I wouldn’t ask him but try to recollect what he might’ve said before because as man I did the same but I did not go to the extreme where I blocked her, I was upset for her action that she saw no flaw at. But literally just think about was there anything where he said to you or argue to you about before recently because no one really blocks someone if they truly loved them now that’s being hot and cold he might’ve been upset towards something he found out or that he’s been keeping inside for a long time.
@@crystopher-aaronricafrente1103 No, he acted normal that morning and text me good morning beautiful. When I texted him that afternoon he didn't reply. That evening I received the breakup text. I don't know what happened
Ive noticed the more positive you can look at the most dire situations even if there really is no hope, sometimes just being positive and treat them the same don t let them break ur peace and I've noticed the universe tends to reward you in the end just my opinion it works for me stay positive even when there is every reason to give up jist step back and take a min then remain positive and boom u are always in control of every situation and it's easier than u might think
Just wait for them to unblock you because they will. after they unblock you, it's time for you to retaliate by blocking them. That will make them realize that the world doesn't revolve around them. As for you, just do your best to move on like have some goals or meet people that would help you not think about the ex.
I wouldn't recommend waiting for them to unblock you; because you may be waiting for the rest of your life. There's absolutely no guarantee they will unblock you.
Coach Lee...u r amazing!! U really knw yuh stuff. THANK God i found u first and stick wit your advice and did NOT hav 2 listen 2 any other coaches. My ex had blocked me a week ago. I checked e'day and all day since he blocked me 2 see if he wil unblock me. Today is 7 day No Contact. Woke up around 6am...picked up my phone and checked...only 2 REALIZE he DID unblock me dis morning and we was online at d same time. I smiled and was sooo nervious. I jus came 2 yuh video right away 2 say THANKS so so so much Coach Lee. My hands r literally shakin 2 write dis comment. My HEART skip a beat 2 see his unblock.
Thank you for making me feel better. He unfollowed me, but I didn’t do the same. I’m always silent. I will still be. And will not react the same way or talk about it.
Thanks Coach Lee, I like how he talks straight to the point without working too hard on little emoji and he hardly try to sell himself --- such as book / link etc that needs to be paid. thanks for helping! everything little of your video helps!
My break up was from an honest misunderstanding but I still waited about 2 weeks before going around the block, I don't care what comes from going around the block I just know I feel so much better knowing that she knows how innocent I am
I’ve done this and it made my ex blow up my phone and talking shit to me because I moved on even though she ended it 4 months ago, I said listen I love you but no I’ve moved on, you should too.
Great advice. I am that one who begs and tries to talk . Even though he says leave me alone . This video was helpful. Because he has blocked and unblocked me before . Which means I think he will contact me again . And if he doesnt , I'm getting better at living my life and being happy with or without him.
Ann, if he blocks you "for a game," that sounds way OFF to me. Is he possibly seeing someone else off and on? Just wondering what kind of SICK game that is.
Your video’s have been a life saver Coach Lee. Got dumped 4 days ago. Immediately found your channel and began no contact right away. Could tell that I got blocked on Facebook rather quickly, and I slipped up and sent her a text telling her that I disagree with her decision, but I respect it. Message didn’t go through. I’m blocked there too. Mad at myself for slipping up on no contact, but she will never see it. Hopefully she will unblock and attempt contact in time.
Damn, this was well-timed for me. Was queued up on my playlist when she blocked me, and I know she's deeply in love with me (is just afraid of commitment), is confused and hurting (per your other videos), and is upset that I'm not chasing more. Hopefully this is where she realizes what breakup really means and will put the effort in to figure out what she really wants.
@@RealCoachLee Thanks, already working your program. Per your videos, she's confused, hurting, and married to an abuser and has started to realize it. So missing me hits full force. But I'm also watching to make sure it's worth it (i.e. she knows she needs to do some self-work).
Great video. I was blocked 2 years ago & never looked back and tried not to contact them 🤙changed my number too. Things are much better now. Cuz I’ve moved on - watching this channel helped me out immensely 🙌🤙
Being blocked and ghosted 👻 stinks but shows their immaturity, most of the time it’s not your fault , to this day I never figured out why but watching this channel made me realize it was a character flaw in her and I left it at that .. this channel is great ! Excelsior!!☀️✅
Lmao I moved on around November-ish after my Lil situation back in August , got my shit together , got accepted into college , got my own apartment , was happy , met another girl and then boom I’m back here again watching these videos bc this new chick did me even dirtier, mannnn Update: Doing completely better in general now , not chasing no chick , just focusing on me n I feel great 👍🏾
VNY D they will move on no matter what you do. You more you show you care the more they will move on faster. So NO Interaction. Women want to see strength. Them knowing you don’t need them makes you more attractive
Can i just say something? I think some ex-partners should be blocked and STAY blocked FOREVER. Some people are just bad news, and before you really want to get back with him/her, think why you want to get back with them, and what kind of value will they add to your life if you stay together? Some of them cause so much damage and emotional destruction, they are really not worth it.
Some but not all. And some people are different and want to see if it can still work out in spite of misunderstandings and their ex being confused. Often it works out and the two have learned the valuable lesson that they don’t want to be apart and that they can’t stay away.
I dated a narcissist for 24 years him blocking me was the best thing for me Oh I was able to achieve my goals when that men left he was a Wolf in sheep clothing
My ex blocked me only to go and get married. If it was someone I was in love with, it would have hurt much more. I couldn't even tell nobody 😄 Thank God!
Look, i get the whole "no contact". But the thing is, if the other person is attempting to communicate, they obviously have something to say, get it off their chest, etc. It is such poor form to block people, and I think it's really terrible when one person ignores the other. Can't people just learn how to communicate better???
My ex recently broke up with me due to depression. It was my first serious relationship. I didn't know how to handle it. At the start I did over bare her with messages simply because I did not understand. I did not have coach Lee. Coach lee, your videos have simply saved my mental state. I was spiralling, I was emotional and I simply did not know what any of this meant. Thank you, your videos have educated me and given me some insight to what MAY be going on inside her head. She blocked me but has left her belongings in my house. From watching other videos of yours that has given me some hope. I know now I must play the long game until she reaches out! Thank you so very much
I don´t block, I just delete. That way, she can still call/contact if she wants, but I won´t be reaching out at all. That´s the way I do NC when she "thinks she needs space."
sammmee!!! Way more effective and mature, then when they do contact , im always like who is this? number looks familiar 😂😬 Mine blocked me several times but didnt delete, they cant face that complete delete, they will try to weasel back in, they always do, cause like i say, its best to be the dumped sometimes because it gives u less guilt and regret knowing u did all u can in the relationship and was 💯 honest with them and yourself! Additionally it helps u move through the break up more effectively even in NC and it hands u the cards whether u want them back or not and what really u didnt like after u subside the feelings. As Lee mentioned in his other video, dumpers remorse! I been there and felt it so i know what they are feeling! I always felt more confident and secure being dumped, but when i dumped ughhhh fml i cant even shit! 😂
Thanks for this video. I have been blocked for years, thank God I respected it. About a month ago, he contacted me in social media., I was polite with our conversation. This is really helpful. Thank you! Nice hair, nice look! 👍
Mr Othello, this sounds like a very UNSTABLE person. I cannot diagnose it, however, people like this need help. Count your blessings. You are rid of them...
Coach Lee speaks truth and wisdom. And assuming no abuse was involved, not blocked is much better than blocked. Keep in mind that you might not be fully blocked, but you may be excluded from seeing their updates, which is like them saying "You get to see my life from this point in time backwards".
Been married 4 years. My wife left me on Tuesday this week. Today is Friday. On Monday we were making plans to take a vacation. Nothing I could tell on the surface was even wrong. There were no warning signs I could see. She left to go to her moms house and even invited me to go with her, but I was across town and couldn’t make it. She never came home that night and the next morning she moved out. I’ve never felt pain like this before. Your videos are the only thing getting me through this difficult time. This confusing time. I probably need a coaching call. I wasn’t prepared for this sudden of a change. Both mentally or financially. Abandonment is something I don’t wish on my worst enemy. I’m having to force myself to eat. Thank you for what you do coach. Without you and your videos which I found the day she left, I don’t know where I would be. As hard as is it is, these are what keep me from having a mental breakdown completely. I’ve been watching and listening almost around the clock.
I don’t drink. I’m doing my best to keep my sleeping pattern normal. I’m still up watching videos. I know how important is to take care of myself physically and try to take the best care of myself as I can.
Rhett Carter, it sounds like she may have found someone new. I have heard of many cases like this. Go out with your friends, and keep yourself busy. I am so sorry this happened to you, but give it TIME...GOOD LUCK TO YOU...⚘️
I follow all your great advice. Its been a month of Nc now. I still want her back. But I will not cave in. And I wish her the best any man would be lucky to have her. Also I'm bossing it at the gym. Day by day it gets better. Thank you Coach Lee x
After a year together he dumped me on my first day at a new job. Blocked me on everything, absolutely everything. So I did the stupid thing and sent an email which he received and now I feel like I’ve ruined any chance of us reconciling. I wasn’t rude or mean I just said how badly I was hurting. Thank you for this it was helpful. It’s been two weeks since he broke my heart and I can only hold out hope he’ll come back to me. Hope is all I have left.
Yes those tips work and leaving them alone works also. Coach Lee ist right. 3 years ago I was engaged to someone who ghosted me after a year of our relationship, out of nowhere and didn’t give me any reason. I was begging and pleading and calling his family and tried everything possible for 2 weeks but just like a ghost nothing. I ended up depressing, blocked him everywhere and moved on. He then started reaching out to my family and to me again after a year. He once called me begging for forgiveness. 2 years later he contacted me again begging for forgiveness and admitting what he did was wrong and said he were stressed at that time and needed space (at that time he disappeared without saying anything to me). I told him the pain he caused me is still deep and that I will NEVER forgive him then blocked him again. I didn’t want him anymore, he just disgusted me. So yes, let them go, they will always come back. But till then you might have been moved on already and probably don’t want them anymore
I just wanted to add one more important point that sometimes the rebound person become jealously & crazy during your ex contacts you and they force ur ex to block you social media or phone.But it’s good sign and stay in no contact! Coach Lee please can you make a video about this topic, Thank you so much.
This is exactly what happened to me except I wasn't contacting him at all. He would be the one to contact me but it wasn't very often. She asked him to remove and block my number as well as to unfriend and block both me and my daughter from FB. Sad part is, I live 1,200 miles away from him so for me to be that big of a threat just shows how insecure and crazy she is. We are all in our 40's but she is older than both of us...grow up. That relationship will implode all by itself considering he got with her a month after he suddenly broke up with me after being together for close to 3 years and I was getting ready to relocate and move in with him. Psychological fact: the more you aren't allowed to have something, the more you want it. Blocked me in April 2023 but we broke up July 2022. His daughter told me that he asked about me and my daughter back in July of this year...why do you care sir, you are with little miss insecure.
If you are so happy with the choice you made, why ask if me and my daughter are doing ok? Sounds like someone is feeling guilty for letting her control him. Learn to think for yourself dude, red flag, if your ex gf isn't contacting you and isn't active in FB and neither is her daughter, why would you have to block them especially when you live 1,200 miles away....insecurity thats what. No wonder why she's never been married and is 48...😂 I find it comical even though I am still hurting from all of this. I dodged a bullet and moving on. His loss
No contact works my brothers and sisters! I wouldn’t shut my mouth long enough to do it! Did for exactly one week me a day and boom text from my love! All positive talking now! Stay strong, pray!
Agreed to all what you said coach Lee, but if you are that much emotionally detached or in control of your emotions then there is hardly a chance for the estranged partner of coming back with same status who does not show a stability in a relationship by not only moving out but to go as far as blocking the partner.
In my case, after being together for two and a half years my gf whom I had wanted to marry but who broke up with me in early Jan. ‘23 over a very petty episode but which was yet another drop in the bucket of her not trusting me, decided out of the blue to block me pretty much everywhere. She gave me the reason for doing so as “she didn’t want to see anything from my profile that would hurt her even more than she was hurting”. To me this sounds like a “it’s not you it’s me” kind of statement. Unlike my many previous breakups (I am in my 40’s and so is she) this one wasn’t from feelings fizzling out but due to lack of trust on her part and me having to move to another country soon after due to work and she didn’t want long distance either.
My ex blocked me because got overwhelmed by my messages. I moved on and got married to a new lady. When she found out, she unblocked and rung me and said she was just checking on me. I really loved her and still got fond memories. She said she forgave me and that I am more than welcome to talk to her. She wished me good in life.
I love your sarcastic way of explaining! 💙😂 I'm the one who got dumped and was following NC for almost 52 days, with all hopes to get together again, only to know that she had been physically and emotionally involved with another guy. We had a discussion for almost 10 days, everyday and it ended up in bad terms again and again! I still have hopes to save this relationship and going to do so. I have lost my dignity, ego and self respect and what not in this. Even my parents are against this marriage bcz it's kinda intercaste. Still i have hopes to save it and work on it. Giving infinite chances to her, ik, hurts, but i feel she's worth it.
@@Fans467 hi there... The situation is done for now, I guess. A part of me does want her, but majorly does not. Was having suicidal thoughts, but it wasn't worth it. She realised when I completely broke contact and now wants to 'discuss' it with me. I straight up said no! But as her mom is involved for her respect I'll just go meet them once, but the decision is 99% that it's not happening.
@@Fans467 hope it helps. 🙏🏻💙 All love. Whoever you are buddy. It's a difficult road I know, been there. But it gets better.. you'll realise you also could have been better and it's not the other person's fault totally. Have gratitude to what's left and accept it as life gives it. 😅 Cheers 🥂
@@lethargicguy3374 it's been more than a yr now brother. She contacted a few times during this.. but I'm done with it now. I don't feel like I still want her. Healing well I guess ✌🏻. Time proved again that it heals everything 💙
Im in relationship for a over ten years now. My wife is older and i love her to death. She moved to my place and we live in the undergroind house... God blessed me marverously and im happier then ever before!
Thank God I came across your video,I was recently blocked even after trying to reach out to him to know what was the problem,It was a decision he had made... it was never my problem and I respect his decision, trust me it comes with freedom.
Same too late. I kept in contact for a few months after and made it too easy until I found this channel and I think its too late now but time will make a difference...either on our side or theirs
My ex used to block me everytime we got into an argument. Then unblock, test the waters and if it was positive, store my number again, if it was negative, block me again. Turns out she does that with her other exes still, too. Block them when they dont say what she want, then unblock and message with some sort of "Hey, damsel in distress here, only you can help me with..." If they offer help, the help becomes irrelevant and the fishing expedition for what they still feel for her starts. If its positive, she'll interact again until she doesnt get her way, they'll be blocked again. Grade A narcicisst.
If he or she is not interested in you, then please don't dusturb them anymore. If you chase they will runaway with full speed. So go back in the other direction.
She took me off of her memories on Facebook. I gave her the most incredible birthday ever, and now she won't even remember it. 3.5 years and I'm not even a memory? Why is the world so cruel? And here i am i want her because i am genuinely in love with her
My ex blocked me cause she has another man even though she said she needed space . We already have a daugther and she just destroyed our family just like that. What a conniving woman. good thing no contact is working great.
Hi Coach Lee, I’d love to get some tips on how to date when you’re still hung up on your ex? I have found your videos helpful but I think a moving on video would be really good as getting back together with your ex is not a guarantee and sometimes (not always) can become an unhealthy obsession.
Best $45 I ever spent. Coach Lee’s Emergency Breakup kit !!
The best ❤
What was it ?
Give him time, give him space, dont beg anyone to stay.Let them roam, what's meant for you will always be yours.
Wendy Jordan-Nelson so I pray 🙏
what if I already begged, is it too late?
@@roseaAlisu2000 no....but start now the no contact just start now..I did the same thing
And it ain't him.
Replace him for her thabk you u made feel better i hope this is what I need to do
Say it with me, “Trust no contact.”
The Melodist 3,6, maybe 9 mouths
It’s gonna be hard! But work on yourself, work out and pursue your passion and When they check on you, you will be a completely different person to them and will Naturally re-attract them
Sometimes you You reinventing yourself so much in a positive light you wonder why you even want it I’ll get back with them because they are still the same person when you met them and with the same metal problems that helped the relationship fail in the first place
But you could win them back and end up marrying them
Either way trust a no contact rule and reinvent yourself
I'm laughing so much ahhahhaha!
Ricardo I’m trusting no contact because that is all I can do. I’m working on myself every day for myself. In my current state of mind I do not expect my ex to ever come back. It has been something like 70+ days since she dumped me and I have no expectations that she ever will come back. I’m glad that I’ve stopped counting and I’m moving on. She made the mistake and my silence to her will shout volumes in her mind. I will improve my life, I will become more physically fit, I will become smarter, and I will find someone new. Hats off to my ex for dumping me and showing me how much I want to live a better life.
@@DerMelodist
Well done. Good luck bro 👍
trust no contact
Blocking for no reason is immature and selfish way of dealing with breakup
AGREE💯
Did that happen to you, update?
I gree totally
In my case he blocked me and is gone while im pregnant of our son cuz I asked for some of the money back that he took from me
I don’t think so what if they broke up with you and just want to keep you around to see what your doing
Your ex has blocked you on social media, but won't block you from his mind.
💯💯💯💯💯💯
Preach 😂
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Amen brother 😂❤
Yes but what if you have ADHD and struggle to move on without closure?
If your ex has blocked you on social media, block them in real life.
Hahahhaa
I will do that 🤣🤣
Damn straight ! 🤙coach lee knows his stuff
You dam right
Yess!!
When my wife blocked me - she gave me my freedom. I am grateful and I won't be back
I have a few friends that have had that from their wives. It's an epidemic tbh.
They usually unblock after a while. Just leave them alone and they’ll come around.
Really ? I hope so :(
I was blocked like nine months ago.
I honestly dont believe that
@@sgood1995 definitely wait a while before contacting them. A couple weeks at least.
@@sgood1995 she didnt unnlock me randomly , her friend added me on my socials and i texted him
When ever I feel depressed... I start watching coach Lee videos......it makes me soo motivated
Sameee
Same honestly
@@DuaneCarltonMerrittmusic honestly same, it can somehow ease my mind
Same Here
i reguraly come to this channel.
Same ❤️ 18:18
If they blocked you, they were never yours 💯 so there lost...
@@kevinrowland2904 thats for real
True, its soo childish
Im a adult, move on
Sometimes they were yours at one time. But you both broke up, so they are no longer yours. Which is precisely the reason they chose to block you.
If they block you, they’re immature
Maybe not, my apology.
@@creolakuck3267immature and lame shows their brain isnt fully developed.
True! Run as far as you can from these immature people.
This is pessimistic... its definitely not that.. but your mentality will see it that way..
It depends on the context tbh. I had been pleading and they blocked me so it does make sense. I got better eventually you live and you learn 🎉
Coach Lee you are the man! My ex dumped me and blocked me. I came across your videos and I did not go around his block! I kept listening to your videos anytime I felt the urge to and was constantly crying but you kept me so uplifted in my time of need. It took 14 days for my ex to reach back to me. He was so apologetic and was afraid I would tell him to go take a hike. I am so glad I listened to all your advice I gained across your various videos. You really know your stuff! You are truly a blessing for the broken hearted! Thank you so much for your words of encouragement and the difference you make in people’s lives!
I’m glad I could help. Please don’t keep me a secret!
@@RealCoachLee I tell my broken hearted girlfriends all about you and your channel! An update to my story…he blocked me again due to no apparent reason I can think of and I am done with such immature behavior. However, could you do more videos on self esteem and how to put yourself back out there again after repeated failures? How not to give up on love? I feel like I am giving up and don’t know what to do.
how is going elena
5 months in and I’m grateful these videos exist bc the anxiety to want to contact them is insane at times
Coach Lee is the best breakup coach on RUclips. Listen up folks to all his videos if you want to get your ex back or to move on from your ex.
Its works no contact and blocked,,after 5 months no contact and blocked me ,,suddenly he call me last night we talk about 2 hrs and said misses me, he want to see me and go out again after this pandemic,, so true give them more space and respect ,,, thank you so much couch Lee 🙏🙏🙇♀️🙇♀️
This is so nice, hope I get to experience the same for him to call me out of no where too. Wish you luck!!!
Yes,, put post picture on your feed facebook or instagram even your blocked all site and communication show to him you are happy and confident to yourself to look great and beautiful without him and make him feel regret hes leaving you,,,We are together now and start a new beginning we forgive and forget the fast what he's doing put me in a third party situation he's not happy and regret he left me behind,,, no contact rules it's work really all I can say is watch all the videos and I'm thankful I found the site of Coach Lee,,till now I'm watching all his videos 🙇🙇❤❤
Adika Putri kartikasari hi maybe we can sharing ,I have just been blocked and don’t know what to do
Adika Putri kartikasari do u have Instagram? Maybe we can share each other and make each other strong . My Instagram is @foshired
Same , he blocking me for 2 months and saying he have gf already when once I reached out him first , before that we had big fight 🙊, he asking me to deleted his number and stop sending his message , buttttttttttt tadaaaaaaaa he the one sending me messages he saying ‘ hey I still have all ur pics on my phone 🙊🤣, he trying everything to get rid of me but none successful hahaha , I’m cool now , wait if he come and apologize
I was blocked on all levels. 1 month. 2.5 years together. I worked on myself.....left a month of no contact. Worked on my part of why the relationship broke down. We talked for hours and we are back together. :)
How you got contacted of you were blocked on all levels
@@MidoMido-eo2uk as she states in the comment, after one month he will have reached out to her.
I recently got unadded on snap after I messaged them once after 4 months no contact . seeing your comment gave me hope and happyenss
, thank you!
@@JackIsCool070 he’s making money from our misery. Take everything he says with a pinch of salt. He doesn’t know your situation, or your ex… he’s a con artist who prays on us heartbroken. There’s a reason why he has a “programme” … do yourself a favour and stop listening to this man!
@Glidezz_ ignore the comment on here. I've followed no contact and it's pretty much true.
Got my ex back last year from watch Coach Lee's videos. I like to come back and watch them from time to time to keep my skills sharp.
It's so hard to not contact her though. Idk how it's so easy for her.
@@Oenumaus Stay strong. Trust the process. Focus on yourself and personal growth. HIT THE GYM! Keep yourself busy! She will come back. And if she doesn’t you’ll still be a better person than u are now.
Btw my ex dumped me again about a week after I wrote that comment. I am a little sad but I am ok with it because I’m doing all these things that are making me a better person.
Don’t allow yourself to succumb to despair Jason. It will work out. Trust me, something better may come along and you might realize you’re too good for your ex because you’ve found someone better suited for you. This is what keeps me going friend. I can’t lie down and die because someone doesn’t want to be with me. I did that in my youth and spent my best years wallowing in misery over ONE guy. For 4 YEARS. I wish I found these videos back then.
You are on the right path Jason. Stay the course and focus on becoming a better version of YOU!
@@smilinthruthepain I'm trying this shit just hurts bad. I don't wanna go into detail about it but simply she didn't have to do all this especially after all she claimed she felt for me. Just makes no sense.
I know of a great powerful love spell caster that can manifest your ex back within 48hours without no delay
He heIped me few days ago he does a perfect work, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 🙏🙏🙏
No contact rule is absolutely effective! Trust the process, I am happy I Followed Coach Lee's advice and I Am more happy to be back with the person i love. Thanks again. I still watch your videos to learn more about attraction and relationship advices. God bless you Coach Lee.
OMG! I’ve just been unblocked a few minutes ago after 12 days! I’m still shaking coz of disbelief. Thank you so much coach Lee. If I hadn’t been listening to you for the past days I would’ve went around his block. I’m so grateful to God I found your channel.🙏
I won’t contact him though. I’ll wait and see if he reaches out. I’m not anxious to chat him on WhatsApp coz I’ve been learning intently from coach Lee. I’ll be patient and pray very hard.
Hope all the others will be blessed with God’s grace also. Have faith everyone and know that God has a reason for allowing things to happen. Thanks again coach.😘
Update: My ex and I officially got back together today. He unblocked me 12 days after no contact, and talked to me 8 days after unblocking me.
We talked 3 straight days with him always reaching out first. Everything went well. I was calm and reserved. However, he stopped reaching out after that. Hence, on the 5th day, I reached out to him coz he had reached out 3 straight times previously anyway. Turned out, he was just waiting for me to reach out back.
Thank you Coach Lee! God bless!
we broke up 3 weeks ago, and since then i am in No contact rule, and today i find out that my ex removed me from followers on IG, we are still friends on FB even though my ex is not there so much and since we broke up i posted maybe 2 photos , nothing related to love , or suffering , its general photo of some volunteer work i do over the weekend, nothing else,.. and i find out today that from IG i was removed... well after all i am going thru this is like another punch in the face.. :(
lutche abellana he blocked on social media me after 4 months of no contact even though i didn’t text him or anything
I only know that he hid hist stories from me(i followed him with another account)and then he made stories public but i didn’t watch them or like anything on instagram.He would add and then delete people and no reaction came from me.
Then after a week after making his stories public he blocked me on everything.
And 2 months after that he deleted my number.Did not block me on whatsapp though just deleted my number.I don’t even know what he meant 😢😢
Don’t go radio silent ...text him and ask him for something stupid like “hey do you know the name of that bar we used to go to ? I’m going to be there tonight “
My ex unblocked me but just leave it like that. He didn't even contact me, I did. He broke up with me.
Loving people don't blocked each other.. Passive-agressive, manipulative tactics to get control of us. Strong boundaries and self love important to me
Not true, I blocked because it was causing me so much pain to not hearing from him, it was for my own peace so that I don’t have to keep looking at my phone.. hoping to receive a text from him.. I did it for me to help me heal
I begged the man to work with me. I HAD to block him.
Mine has ghosted and blocked me for 2 years
Sometimes you're just done with the person, they remind you of bad memories and heartaches so you just want to forget them and take them out of your life completely. I personally blocked my ex on everything because I was so disgusted by what she did has nothing to do with manipulation or none of that
Nah man, she definitely blocked me because I was annoying. I can't help myself but express my feelings, and that's just a mistake I gotta live with.
We truly had nothing but 10 years of good memories and overcoming trials together. But she's going through stuff right now, I want desperately to be there for her, but I'm just not in a position to give her what she needs. Hopefully, if she unblocks me, I'll at least be in a position of strength where I can at least offer to lighten her load. But for now, I am the burden, and I have to deal with the painful reality of just backing away for the time being.
Best blocked video on RUclips, Coach. I passed the test. I got unblocked. No Contact works. Wish me luck!
If they blocked you, it's probably best to take a hint
“Out of all the exes you have why am I the only one blocked on social media”
“Because you were the only one to never do anything wrong to me”
Lol makes sense…..
If they block you, dont panick. Happened to me several times. Whatever you do, do not pursue them. It only hurts your chances. Try to think like them. How would oyu feel if someone begged you? Not good. We all like mature people.
May not be reasonable. Sorry.
How long b4 they unblocked you asking for help from someone who's been thru it like you.
That rush of wanting to contact them 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 universe please give me strength
I suggest you (Dr. Abuya) he can let your ex come to you, please a second chance, since he helped me, I have been enjoying a perfect relationship and have more promises with my ex, I will I suggest you seek his help.. Thank you 🙏🙏
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Yea it’s hard but be strong
How are you doing now
Shout out to my broken hearted gs
@@kevinrowland2904 no thanks. Satanic. Seek the true Lord Jesus. Witchcraft is wicked and from the devil.
Dame I'm not gonna lie I was being to creepy and desperate I wish I've seen this video before I decided to invade my ex space
Don't worry
I did the same thing
Me too
I did the same..even went to hishouse😂
@@dancewithpenny7505 same 🤣
Hey any updates? Did she unblocked you?
IT WORKSSSS
She had blocked me on everything and it was a long distance but just after 10 days of me not contacting her at all she came back. Trust this guy and what he says 😭😭😭I love you man. Thank you so much man 🙏
Yep I did it
I blocked for a while then I’m coming back but what I get is a big nope 👎 🙁
My ldr broke up with me for the end time over an argument. He was very emotionally immature but we did have lots of love and great memories and I felt we were soulmates. Its day 2, and yes I begged and I called him and he hung up the first when he heard my voice. Hes really cruel and this is the second time he left me in the dark and blocked me... I know he still loves me but he seriously is mean. It sucks were long distance. We ended by arguing and he blocked me everywhere. I feel like he will never unblock me. I just want us to be happy again.... is there still a chance if I wait??
@@marielchavez6337 yes there is. Just please have faith. And do no contact. It will all work out
@@Gyr-fh6wv thank you... I'm just scared he wont fall through and he will always blame me for being toxic just because I struggle with a mental illness.
@@marielchavez6337update?
What if they blocked you? Move on with your life like they did. I’ve blocked people and been blocked. Life goes on either way. Don’t waste time worrying about that mess.
It works out for me
I got my ex lover back within 48hours. He can help you too
Send him on whatsApp him right now
They blocked you because they wanted to move on and did not want a pest constantly interfering with their lives
Thats not always the scenario..if they wanted to move on then they wouldnt keep your family and friends on social media..i got blocked cause she wants to keep close to my family and doesnt want me to see it..i deleted her friends and family..social media isnt important to me..but to her hovering and fake internet points are a source of supply..i wasnt a pest and walked away..some block so they can use as a source of punishment..hey here i am talking to your family and im gonna smear you..cause im not leaving even though i dumped you..i need to stay close cause im avoiding guilt..
@@jimdaniel4412 Hi Dan,I just read your comment, I understand what you are saying, don't mind about what that person is saying about "being a pest " they probably punish people and don't deserve love" You will be ok. ☺👍
@@kevinrowland2904 Hi kevin,what area code is that on what's ap? I'm in Ireland.
MrIranian1, you are right. Some people want to keep hope alive.
If they blocked you ...who cares it's stupid move on it's a trap to get you in trouble .show them you don't care it's a two way street .
Steve Mellin easy to say but hard to leave if you’re so much in love, trust me.
They may be blocked because they were disrespectful to you over an extended period of time and they don't deserve you. So you block them.
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Yeah..its stupid move..use social media to entertain the flying monkees and create a story about what your doing...look at me im great and he is stupid..although im super needy and i live and exist only on social media..
Not true, I blocked because I was hurting, I needed time to heal and move on ..
I truly appreciate your content. Even if I'm not trying to get back with my ex, there are times MONTHS after the break up where I find myself missing him, and it's confusing...especially when I feel like I'm making progress. Your content, your thoughtfulness, and even the sound of your voice truly calms my anxiety when I'm questioning myself. Thank you for your kindness, and for putting this content out there, so that people like myself don't completely go out of our minds hehe. I appreciate you.
Been 1 month with no contact...these videos keep me going.... everytime am on verg of breaking down i end up watching these videos... they are helping with healing
how did it go?
@@byunsdale he got back in touch but things didnt work out but this time i was the who had courage to walk away. And its getting better...
My ex came back after 22 days of no contact. And we had a bad fight. We’re taking it slow as she was my fiancé but things are going better. No contact works.
Kevin Depuy I’m happy to hear that dude. Mine hasn’t contacted me in over 70 days but I’m so happy to hear that it’s worked for the two of you. Good luck, and I wish you both the best.
He’s right you have to attract her again. Someone was hitting on her rudely so she called me; and I came to her rescue and punked the guy. I felt bad for that guy but that’s what my girl likes. A strong assertive guy.
Happy for you bro..wish all the best to you and your special one..hopefully I will have my success story as well..
Great
Did either of you see anyone else during that time?
Blocked 7.5 months since his first date with his rebound. Didn't do anything to need blocking, but I got unblocked last week. They broke up. typical. Stay in NC people and live your life. If they're gonna come back, you don't wanna be a shell of yourself and have nothing to show for the past months. Become stronger and better than the person they knew
I hope you didn't take her back, cos she just gonna leave again when she thinks she's found somene better.
Your relationship didn't mean much to her, since she didn't even politely call off the relationship to go be with the new guy, she made an extreme act and a classic ghosting by blocking you, and never looked back to unblock you untill her new relationship which almost lasted a year failed.
She sees you as the back-up guy
I believe that, depending on the situation, blocking is a form of a boundary being placed. If you are constantly harassing them and not letting them have their space, they may put a boundary because you won’t let them process their thoughts and feelings and as a way for them to protect themselves. It isn’t always a bad thing depending on the situation.
I really like this comment. It's kinda what I feel I'm going through right now. Initially felt we had a breakup/break about three weeks ago. Did no contact for 10 days. Broke it. We got back for a few days. We were intimate. Then a few days later she told me that she was overwhelmed. She had to think. Her mind wasn't at a goof stage. She told me she loved me. Even said to me to have patience with her. We even mentioned that we should try it slow. Later that night she had blocked me again. I'm kinda confused but I'm thinking that's her way of putting up her boundary to process.
@@chrisspears3799 it could be. At the same time though, that block throws you into the unknown. It is best to prepare as if they are never coming back so that you can truly focus on yourself instead of waiting around for her return (if she returns).
@@chrisspears3799 she's with another dude.
@@chrisspears3799 well, how did it go at the end?
Blocked him on social media so he can't get any information that I don't want him to have. A control thing 😏
my ex blocked me unprompted after about a month and a half after the breakup and no contact. we weren’t even following each other, and it hurts so badly…. but whoever is reading this, i know we’ll get through this together. stay strong everyone. we can pull ourselves together and do this. i’m proud of you for enduring this pain!!!
It will be a week on Friday since he broke up with me. I was totally blindsided. We never had a fight or argument. It's been really hard. We will survive 💪🏾
Honest the truth they block us is because they are hurt everytime they see us. if we made a impact in their life they will remember no matter what even if they move on. And just them looking at our profile hurts them unless you did something wrong like cheat on them or you’re super crazy. But if you think about it we are living “RENT FREE” in their heads they did that because they know they can’t over the factor of what they did to us so they’re thinking In their head like hey Howcome they are trying or chasing me even more. Because that’s what the dumpers want, they want that ego boost or some reason to give everyone a reason to tell everyone why they broke up with us. Don’t do it!! think of it like this if you chase a cat they’ll run away but once you stay calm and just ignore them they’ll come to you. Same way as a dog if you chase them they’ll either do one or two things they’ll play with you or they will runaway but most of the time they’ll runaway but once you start doing your own thing they tend to follow along and they get attached. Same way as our exes they block us now but slowly once they realize “hey I’m the only one running away they aren’t chasing me” they lost that ego boost so they tend to reflect more on their situation and where they put themselves at. That’s how you want it because you can’t fix something that broke but once you can show you’re gone and that you don’t need them like they needed you. they will freak out and that’s when they get curious and they try to contact you trust me I did this many times and it happened to me a lot but the one thing is they left a line open still. Even if it means fb, insta, or your phone don’t you guys wonder why, it’s because you left all your lines open so now they have to get back to you on one of the lines you left open. It’s like you leaving a carrot in front of a maze they don’t see the other carrots on the other side but they do see the carrot in front of them. So again patience is key but silence and absence is the most dangerous part of law attraction your silence says alot so it makes them think a lot more if you moved on or they curious because let’s be real with ourselves they’re still thinking about us so what makes you think they needed to block us they wouldn’t have thought of us in the beginning because if you flip the script around wouldn’t you guys just be moving on with your life if you were in their shoes and you would show your ex that you’re doing good in social media or anything that they can see it’s because they want to see us failing but we aren’t. they need to learn on their own there consequences that they put us through and fix that shit if not they never respected the relationship and you meant nothing but as I see it you’re basically living rent free in their heads. Keep your head high I’m not telling you to move on with your life but moved forward and make them realize what they lost in life but staying silent & absence it’s a powerful thing because the next time you guys talk you’ll be ready.
@@crystopher-aaronricafrente1103my ex just broke up with me out of the blue. We never had an argument. He's stubborn and full of pride. I don't know if he will respond at all. I miss him a lot but I'm still in no contact
@@sharc.9259 if he blocked you there is a reason I wouldn’t ask him but try to recollect what he might’ve said before because as man I did the same but I did not go to the extreme where I blocked her, I was upset for her action that she saw no flaw at. But literally just think about was there anything where he said to you or argue to you about before recently because no one really blocks someone if they truly loved them now that’s being hot and cold he might’ve been upset towards something he found out or that he’s been keeping inside for a long time.
@@crystopher-aaronricafrente1103 No, he acted normal that morning and text me good morning beautiful. When I texted him that afternoon he didn't reply. That evening I received the breakup text. I don't know what happened
They may be blocked because they were disrespectful to you over an extended period of time and they don't deserve you. So you block them.
Ive noticed the more positive you can look at the most dire situations even if there really is no hope, sometimes just being positive and treat them the same don t let them break ur peace and I've noticed the universe tends to reward you in the end just my opinion it works for me stay positive even when there is every reason to give up jist step back and take a min then remain positive and boom u are always in control of every situation and it's easier than u might think
Just wait for them to unblock you because they will. after they unblock you, it's time for you to retaliate by blocking them. That will make them realize that the world doesn't revolve around them. As for you, just do your best to move on like have some goals or meet people that would help you not think about the ex.
It's been six months it hopeless now
I wouldn't recommend waiting for them to unblock you; because you may be waiting for the rest of your life. There's absolutely no guarantee they will unblock you.
Coach Lee...u r amazing!! U really knw yuh stuff. THANK God i found u first and stick wit your advice and did NOT hav 2 listen 2 any other coaches. My ex had blocked me a week ago. I checked e'day and all day since he blocked me 2 see if he wil unblock me. Today is 7 day No Contact. Woke up around 6am...picked up my phone and checked...only 2 REALIZE he DID unblock me dis morning and we was online at d same time. I smiled and was sooo nervious. I jus came 2 yuh video right away 2 say THANKS so so so much Coach Lee. My hands r literally shakin 2 write dis comment. My HEART skip a beat 2 see his unblock.
Thank you for making me feel better. He unfollowed me, but I didn’t do the same. I’m always silent. I will still be. And will not react the same way or talk about it.
Any update?
Thanks Coach Lee, I like how he talks straight to the point without working too hard on little emoji and he hardly try to sell himself --- such as book / link etc that needs to be paid. thanks for helping! everything little of your video helps!
My break up was from an honest misunderstanding but I still waited about 2 weeks before going around the block, I don't care what comes from going around the block I just know I feel so much better knowing that she knows how innocent I am
QUESTION: What to do if your ex blocked you????
ANSWER: Get a way hotter girl.
Okay, Narcissist
Nat Alie Nope, just telling it like it is.
I’ve done this and it made my ex blow up my phone and talking shit to me because I moved on even though she ended it 4 months ago, I said listen I love you but no I’ve moved on, you should too.
Ricardo Atta boy!!!! 👍🏻
I wish
Great advice. I am that one who begs and tries to talk . Even though he says leave me alone . This video was helpful. Because he has blocked and unblocked me before . Which means I think he will contact me again . And if he doesnt , I'm getting better at living my life and being happy with or without him.
My ex would block me like playing a sick game. He did it to hurt me and as a way to control me.
true sometimes he wants to control and ply your mind , give him the block , if thatt makes him happy, jsut ignore and lve the best way you are
Ann, if he blocks you "for a game," that sounds way OFF to me. Is he possibly seeing someone else off and on? Just wondering what kind of SICK game that is.
Isn't that a narcissist?
Your video’s have been a life saver Coach Lee. Got dumped 4 days ago. Immediately found your channel and began no contact right away. Could tell that I got blocked on Facebook rather quickly, and I slipped up and sent her a text telling her that I disagree with her decision, but I respect it. Message didn’t go through. I’m blocked there too. Mad at myself for slipping up on no contact, but she will never see it. Hopefully she will unblock and attempt contact in time.
Any news bro ?
Update
she never contacted him again lol, no contact doesn’t mean shit when you’re blocked. they don’t know or care that you never messaged them
lol you literally made this video right after my ex blocked me good call coach lee
update?
did she unblocked you already?
Been watching these for over a year. It’s hopeless. But the videos calm me down, AND make me anxious at the same time. Pathetic.
Damn, this was well-timed for me. Was queued up on my playlist when she blocked me, and I know she's deeply in love with me (is just afraid of commitment), is confused and hurting (per your other videos), and is upset that I'm not chasing more. Hopefully this is where she realizes what breakup really means and will put the effort in to figure out what she really wants.
Don’t chase. Give her over to the breakup and its consequences since it was her choice. Give her the breakup she said she wanted. Be strong!
@@RealCoachLee Thanks, already working your program. Per your videos, she's confused, hurting, and married to an abuser and has started to realize it. So missing me hits full force. But I'm also watching to make sure it's worth it (i.e. she knows she needs to do some self-work).
she loved you, but did she respect you? think about that did you respect yourself
Great video. I was blocked 2 years ago & never looked back and tried not to contact them 🤙changed my number too. Things are much better now. Cuz I’ve moved on - watching this channel helped me out immensely 🙌🤙
Being blocked and ghosted 👻 stinks but shows their immaturity, most of the time it’s not your fault , to this day I never figured out why but watching this channel made me realize it was a character flaw in her and I left it at that .. this channel is great ! Excelsior!!☀️✅
GOOD FOR YOU! 👍
Lmao I moved on around November-ish after my Lil situation back in August , got my shit together , got accepted into college , got my own apartment , was happy , met another girl and then boom I’m back here again watching these videos bc this new chick did me even dirtier, mannnn
Update: Doing completely better in general now , not chasing no chick , just focusing on me n I feel great 👍🏾
you need to love yourself more and not accept these kind o people
Death by a Thousand Cuts yeah I know , I’m still learning I’m only 22 going on 23
Still fresh in the learning women stages
@@XVNRX very young, i'm 27 and still discovering a lot a things, don't ever be needy of too available this is the key
Death by a Thousand Cuts yup I’m still learning the availability thing
I just feel like if I disappear or whatever they’ll move on or whatever
VNY D they will move on no matter what you do. You more you show you care the more they will move on faster. So NO Interaction. Women want to see strength. Them knowing you don’t need them makes you more attractive
coach lee out here making me forget about my ex with that smoov haircut
Sometimes they do this because they want you to chase them subconsciously...Even after they blocked you...I heard women even say this...Sadly...Smh..
I’m a woman and yes, many women do this and it’s childish
@jud2152 Thank you for more clarity..
Can i just say something? I think some ex-partners should be blocked and STAY blocked FOREVER. Some people are just bad news, and before you really want to get back with him/her, think why you want to get back with them, and what kind of value will they add to your life if you stay together? Some of them cause so much damage and emotional destruction, they are really not worth it.
Some but not all. And some people are different and want to see if it can still work out in spite of misunderstandings and their ex being confused. Often it works out and the two have learned the valuable lesson that they don’t want to be apart and that they can’t stay away.
Some of these may not be proper. My apology.
Coach Lee = Slick
The first 5mins is more than enough advice, the next 10mins is a life changing, so listen to him.
I dated a narcissist for 24 years him blocking me was the best thing for me Oh I was able to achieve my goals when that men left he was a Wolf in sheep clothing
Let them go and work on yourself.
Love yourself before you love someone else
The Captain. You cannot Love someone if you don't love yourself! ❤
My ex blocked me only to go and get married. If it was someone I was in love with, it would have hurt much more. I couldn't even tell nobody 😄 Thank God!
Lololololol😂😂😂😂
lol are they still together?
Look, i get the whole "no contact". But the thing is, if the other person is attempting to communicate, they obviously have something to say, get it off their chest, etc. It is such poor form to block people, and I think it's really terrible when one person ignores the other. Can't people just learn how to communicate better???
Right it’s sad I’m in the same position right now
right
So true it shows up your level of immaturity
@@Rage448 me too!
Mine ignored me a few times and i lost all desire to reach out
My ex recently broke up with me due to depression. It was my first serious relationship. I didn't know how to handle it. At the start I did over bare her with messages simply because I did not understand. I did not have coach Lee. Coach lee, your videos have simply saved my mental state. I was spiralling, I was emotional and I simply did not know what any of this meant. Thank you, your videos have educated me and given me some insight to what MAY be going on inside her head. She blocked me but has left her belongings in my house. From watching other videos of yours that has given me some hope. I know now I must play the long game until she reaches out! Thank you so very much
Your hair looks great Coach Lee!
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Yes, much better!
Omg yeah I didn’t expect that
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Coach lee has hair like Robert Redford
I don´t block, I just delete. That way, she can still call/contact if she wants, but I won´t be reaching out at all. That´s the way I do NC when she "thinks she needs space."
I agree completely
I didn’t respond to her birthday text, and then she blocked me
Me too 😂
sammmee!!! Way more effective and mature, then when they do contact , im always like who is this? number looks familiar 😂😬 Mine blocked me several times but didnt delete, they cant face that complete delete, they will try to weasel back in, they always do, cause like i say, its best to be the dumped sometimes because it gives u less guilt and regret knowing u did all u can in the relationship and was 💯 honest with them and yourself! Additionally it helps u move through the break up more effectively even in NC and it hands u the cards whether u want them back or not and what really u didnt like after u subside the feelings. As Lee mentioned in his other video, dumpers remorse! I been there and felt it so i know what they are feeling! I always felt more confident and secure being dumped, but when i dumped ughhhh fml i cant even shit! 😂
Im the same, i dont Block its soo childish, im 45 not 15, move on
If she blocked u that's easy for u to applying NOC.. Don't worry later she unblock u and start texting and calling you.
How do you know that tho
They will see you as a ‘creepy stalker’ 😂. When you said this It made me crack up. Love the brutal honesty
Thanks for this video. I have been blocked for years, thank God I respected it. About a month ago, he contacted me in social media., I was polite with our conversation. This is really helpful.
Thank you! Nice hair, nice look! 👍
Was it literally for years? If so how long? I am just wondering why it took him that long
Yes, as in almost 4 years. I just thought of moving on, but surprising, he reached out through messenger, but sadly he stopped contacting again.
@@faithcharity9564 maybe you need to response his reaching out too
Nothing is worse than when some changes thier phone number, moves on in silence, & ignores you, by throwing u under the bus like u never exist.
Feel you there on thank. But if they can act like that,that's someone you don't want in your life. If ppl can't see your value why worry?
@@lolliman21 Who said OP has value? You don't know why they're being ignored
Omg that’s the worst, that’s what happened to me
Mr Othello, this sounds like a very UNSTABLE person. I cannot diagnose it, however, people like this need help. Count your blessings. You are rid of them...
I feel so motivated and better now after watching this .
Coach Lee speaks truth and wisdom.
And assuming no abuse was involved, not blocked is much better than blocked.
Keep in mind that you might not be fully blocked, but you may be excluded from seeing their updates, which is like them saying "You get to see my life from this point in time backwards".
Been married 4 years. My wife left me on Tuesday this week. Today is Friday. On Monday we were making plans to take a vacation. Nothing I could tell on the surface was even wrong. There were no warning signs I could see. She left to go to her moms house and even invited me to go with her, but I was across town and couldn’t make it. She never came home that night and the next morning she moved out. I’ve never felt pain like this before. Your videos are the only thing getting me through this difficult time. This confusing time. I probably need a coaching call. I wasn’t prepared for this sudden of a change. Both mentally or financially. Abandonment is something I don’t wish on my worst enemy. I’m having to force myself to eat. Thank you for what you do coach. Without you and your videos which I found the day she left, I don’t know where I would be. As hard as is it is, these are what keep me from having a mental breakdown completely. I’ve been watching and listening almost around the clock.
Stay calm. Eat. Go to the gym. Don't drink alcohol.
I don’t drink. I’m doing my best to keep my sleeping pattern normal. I’m still up watching videos. I know how important is to take care of myself physically and try to take the best care of myself as I can.
@@rhettcarter1372 how are you doing now?
Rhett Carter, it sounds like she may have found someone new. I have heard of many cases like this. Go out with your friends, and keep yourself busy. I am so sorry this happened to you, but give it TIME...GOOD LUCK TO YOU...⚘️
I follow all your great advice. Its been a month of Nc now. I still want her back. But I will not cave in. And I wish her the best any man would be lucky to have her. Also I'm bossing it at the gym. Day by day it gets better. Thank you Coach Lee x
I contacted her after 5 weeks nc. And now I'm blocked! I'm an idiot and am in more pain for it ahhhhhhhhhhhh! Coach Lee knows best guys
Sorry to hear that:(
@@stangreyjoy5033 sorry to hear that, I'm trying to control myself to contact my ex during nc.
After a year together he dumped me on my first day at a new job. Blocked me on everything, absolutely everything. So I did the stupid thing and sent an email which he received and now I feel like I’ve ruined any chance of us reconciling. I wasn’t rude or mean I just said how badly I was hurting. Thank you for this it was helpful. It’s been two weeks since he broke my heart and I can only hold out hope he’ll come back to me. Hope is all I have left.
How is everything now ?
Yes those tips work and leaving them alone works also. Coach Lee ist right. 3 years ago I was engaged to someone who ghosted me after a year of our relationship, out of nowhere and didn’t give me any reason. I was begging and pleading and calling his family and tried everything possible for 2 weeks but just like a ghost nothing. I ended up depressing, blocked him everywhere and moved on. He then started reaching out to my family and to me again after a year. He once called me begging for forgiveness. 2 years later he contacted me again begging for forgiveness and admitting what he did was wrong and said he were stressed at that time and needed space (at that time he disappeared without saying anything to me). I told him the pain he caused me is still deep and that I will NEVER forgive him then blocked him again. I didn’t want him anymore, he just disgusted me. So yes, let them go, they will always come back. But till then you might have been moved on already and probably don’t want them anymore
"Wait, it's all blocked?"
"Always has been."
Lee with the brad Pitt swag
Lmao the comments are funny sometimes like this lol
I just wanted to add one more important point that sometimes the rebound person become jealously & crazy during your ex contacts you and they force ur ex to block you social media or phone.But it’s good sign and stay in no contact!
Coach Lee please can you make a video about this topic, Thank you so much.
This is exactly what happened to me except I wasn't contacting him at all. He would be the one to contact me but it wasn't very often. She asked him to remove and block my number as well as to unfriend and block both me and my daughter from FB. Sad part is, I live 1,200 miles away from him so for me to be that big of a threat just shows how insecure and crazy she is. We are all in our 40's but she is older than both of us...grow up. That relationship will implode all by itself considering he got with her a month after he suddenly broke up with me after being together for close to 3 years and I was getting ready to relocate and move in with him. Psychological fact: the more you aren't allowed to have something, the more you want it. Blocked me in April 2023 but we broke up July 2022. His daughter told me that he asked about me and my daughter back in July of this year...why do you care sir, you are with little miss insecure.
If you are so happy with the choice you made, why ask if me and my daughter are doing ok? Sounds like someone is feeling guilty for letting her control him. Learn to think for yourself dude, red flag, if your ex gf isn't contacting you and isn't active in FB and neither is her daughter, why would you have to block them especially when you live 1,200 miles away....insecurity thats what. No wonder why she's never been married and is 48...😂 I find it comical even though I am still hurting from all of this. I dodged a bullet and moving on. His loss
No contact works my brothers and sisters! I wouldn’t shut my mouth long enough to do it! Did for exactly one week me a day and boom text from my love! All positive talking now! Stay strong, pray!
I'm in so much pain...can't take it anymore☹️☹️😰
Michal Sterenberg sorry to hear that hope you are fine now
Why r u so devastated?? This is the 2nd video i saw your comment on
Hope your doing better. I'm going thru the same.
How are you doing now Michal ?
Same !
Agreed to all what you said coach Lee, but if you are that much emotionally detached or in control of your emotions then there is hardly a chance for the estranged partner of coming back with same status who does not show a stability in a relationship by not only moving out but to go as far as blocking the partner.
In my case, after being together for two and a half years my gf whom I had wanted to marry but who broke up with me in early Jan. ‘23 over a very petty episode but which was yet another drop in the bucket of her not trusting me, decided out of the blue to block me pretty much everywhere. She gave me the reason for doing so as “she didn’t want to see anything from my profile that would hurt her even more than she was hurting”. To me this sounds like a “it’s not you it’s me” kind of statement. Unlike my many previous breakups (I am in my 40’s and so is she) this one wasn’t from feelings fizzling out but due to lack of trust on her part and me having to move to another country soon after due to work and she didn’t want long distance either.
My ex blocked me because got overwhelmed by my messages. I moved on and got married to a new lady. When she found out, she unblocked and rung me and said she was just checking on me. I really loved her and still got fond memories. She said she forgave me and that I am more than welcome to talk to her. She wished me good in life.
I love your sarcastic way of explaining! 💙😂
I'm the one who got dumped and was following NC for almost 52 days, with all hopes to get together again, only to know that she had been physically and emotionally involved with another guy. We had a discussion for almost 10 days, everyday and it ended up in bad terms again and again! I still have hopes to save this relationship and going to do so. I have lost my dignity, ego and self respect and what not in this. Even my parents are against this marriage bcz it's kinda intercaste. Still i have hopes to save it and work on it. Giving infinite chances to her, ik, hurts, but i feel she's worth it.
@@Fans467 hi there... The situation is done for now, I guess. A part of me does want her, but majorly does not. Was having suicidal thoughts, but it wasn't worth it. She realised when I completely broke contact and now wants to 'discuss' it with me. I straight up said no! But as her mom is involved for her respect I'll just go meet them once, but the decision is 99% that it's not happening.
@@Fans467 hope it helps. 🙏🏻💙 All love. Whoever you are buddy. It's a difficult road I know, been there. But it gets better.. you'll realise you also could have been better and it's not the other person's fault totally. Have gratitude to what's left and accept it as life gives it. 😅
Cheers 🥂
Hope you are doing fine now buddy.
@@lethargicguy3374 it's been more than a yr now brother. She contacted a few times during this.. but I'm done with it now. I don't feel like I still want her. Healing well I guess ✌🏻. Time proved again that it heals everything 💙
Im in relationship for a over ten years now. My wife is older and i love her to death. She moved to my place and we live in the undergroind house... God blessed me marverously and im happier then ever before!
Thank God I came across your video,I was recently blocked even after trying to reach out to him to know what was the problem,It was a decision he had made... it was never my problem and I respect his decision, trust me it comes with freedom.
Wish I would have had this information earlier. I made a lot of mistakes already...
Same 😞
hey bro. any updates? did she unblocked you?
Ya me too
Hope you’re doing okay now
Same too late. I kept in contact for a few months after and made it too easy until I found this channel and I think its too late now but time will make a difference...either on our side or theirs
My ex used to block me everytime we got into an argument. Then unblock, test the waters and if it was positive, store my number again, if it was negative, block me again. Turns out she does that with her other exes still, too. Block them when they dont say what she want, then unblock and message with some sort of "Hey, damsel in distress here, only you can help me with..." If they offer help, the help becomes irrelevant and the fishing expedition for what they still feel for her starts. If its positive, she'll interact again until she doesnt get her way, they'll be blocked again. Grade A narcicisst.
Coach lee,
U have been played a great part in my life to come out of pain n break up..really thanks..
This man makes A LOT of sense, and his videos are quite accurate and on point. Thanks, this actually works.
No contact only works if the relationship was a serious one and not one sided
Exactly
I have watched all of your videos. Many of them more than once. Thank you for helping me through some very hard dark times xox
If he or she is not interested in you, then please don't dusturb them anymore. If you chase they will runaway with full speed. So go back in the other direction.
She took me off of her memories on Facebook. I gave her the most incredible birthday ever, and now she won't even remember it. 3.5 years and I'm not even a memory? Why is the world so cruel? And here i am i want her because i am genuinely in love with her
Been blocked for 4 months .. I win .. don’t care anymore!
“I’m so glad you came in here to talk to me” lol
My ex blocked me cause she has another man even though she said she needed space . We already have a daugther and she just destroyed our family just like that. What a conniving woman. good thing no contact is working great.
People block you for a reason, and the reason is they want some space best to give it to them and keep finding a way to continue with your own life.
Hi Coach Lee, I’d love to get some tips on how to date when you’re still hung up on your ex? I have found your videos helpful but I think a moving on video would be really good as getting back together with your ex is not a guarantee and sometimes (not always) can become an unhealthy obsession.
Remember that your ex is an ex for a Reason .
You dont. You work on your trauma and then when you're ready you can try again.
@@dave7mmhunter105 no ONE is PERFECT.. We are all flawed human beings. Forgiveness!
Renata, DO NOT DATE YET. YOU WOULD BE REBOUNDING. DON'T DO IT...