I got blocked while doing 100% no contact. Then found out she was seeing someone else. You pegged it with a great question in this video. Why would I want to be back with someone who, even after a 3 year history with each other, would just shut me completely out of their life and not be willing to deal with things like a rational adult?
Same happened to me. I was blocked because of the guy she monkey branched to. She most likely didn’t want me finding out so she blocked me. I was with her for 3 years and it was hard to understand how she could just cut me out so easily. It’s been two months now since the brake up, but now I feel good and ready to start dating.
My one ex did that. She messaged me 8 months later telling me she made a huge mistake and never stopped thinking of me. I had a new gf who just recently broke up with me. Just working on myself. She will be back too. They usually do. 😂
Being blocked is a good thing. They won't interfere with your healing process. I randomly got blocked in no contact. I'm angry at her because I was very good to her. Quite sure she is an avoidant
My ex had me blocked for a month. Unblocked me today then blocked me again 😅 through watching Coach Craig's videos , something tells me she is in the curiosity stage. A block does not mean it's permanent. I have a new found hope from todays events! Have belief in yourself! Stay strong ❤
I’ve been blocked on everything then had the same people come back and tell me they couldn’t stop thinking about me. I don’t think it means as much as it looks, I think its a very performative statement and shows you care too much.
I am a woman and I too begged and sent lots of messages to my ex after he blocked me. I cringe thinking about it. Now I realise I should just walk away cos only a piece of shit would block you. That dog.
There are a lot of great comments here, but there is one other reason I feel is important to share. If an ex has blocked you on social media, it is possible that they are using that as a tactic to get you to chase them. If an ex broke up with you as a test, throwing this out there will certainly trigger an emotion out of you; don’t fall for it! Just ignore the situation as if nothing happened, and go on about your business. This tactic is typical, when an ex may be trying the “fake breakup” test to see what your true character shows.
Thanks for the reminder. In my case it’s not a fake breakup. My ex seems mad that I went no contact and he knows me and knows that seeing myself blocked would send me into a downward spiral. Thank god I know not to react!
If I block, It’s actually nothing to with the ex. It’s because I’m hurting and I need to disassociate completely for my sanity!!! Blocking is a way of self care- something I need to do to help recovery. Blocking is not always about the man, it’s a way of gaining a sense of control, if detaching.
That’s stupid. It is about the ex. You’re doing it because the ex gives you emotional reactions to them and you’re being selfish. Just mute them. You’re just hurting your ex by doing it. You aren’t “healing by blocking someone if they aren’t harassing you.
That's extremely selfish, it's not all about you. You basically discard your ex like trash and inflicting pain onto them by not communicating. Partners like you are the worst and why there are so many trust issues in dating.
No mate! She hurt… blocking is was if Self care. It’s probably nothing to do with you she needs to do it for herself. It’s not all about you. Get over yourself.
@@izzymeadows1748 It's true what you say, but being understanding, maybe you will help her out to understand her behavior. My opionion. By now, I think no contact will help.
Have gone into no contact for 1 month plus. I deleted her, she blocked me. Everything is super terrible out of nowhere for small reason this happened. Just found out she unblocked me. I am going to continue no contact till she reaches out first. If not will just move on in life. Happy to know she unblocked me but I am not going to reach out to her. I know if I reach out to her.. she will tell me and deny she missed me. This happened many times. So wait for her to reach out and I will be on the upper hand and negotiation will be easier for me and she will cherished more.
2 years of relationship. She dumps me with a text message and refuse to see me cause she would "fall back into temptation again" with me. After 2 weeks, she stops replying to my messages without any reason and she blocks me everywhere. I could wish all the worst things ever to this person but in reality I feel like her behaviour just revealed me the toxic person she was.
@@russellspicer817 yes bro, we had the opportunity to talk like 2 times in this year and a half since we broke up, after a long long period of depression, ptsd and stuff i finally got over it, the more the time passed the more i realized how wrong this person was for me and how wrong was the person i was while i was with her. Trust me: it IS gonna get better for many reasons, you will meet new people that will make you fall in love and you’ll realize that there is nothing to worry about
@@fuelofromthedio that's fucked up. my situation is not as intense, I had a 3 month relationship that led to engagement. We were supposed to get married very soon but she basically just broke it off with a bs text message and ignored my messages and blocked me everywhere. She skirts responsibly and couldn't even give me proper closure. I get so angry sometimes that I wish the worst on her. She basically revealed that she still had some feelings for her ex but that it wasn't gonna work with him. Yet I still wanted to fix things. This is the worst breakup I've ever been in.
She doesn't take any responsibility, her financial situation is a fucking mess, driving without insurance. I was the best she's gotten and this is the treatment I get
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I blocked because it was too painful knowing he wasn't messaging me. If I block, I won't know if he is trying to contact me. He asked for space and I moved aside with dignity and he went right to someone else. I am still deeply in love with him, all I can do is wait but I will not even think about talking to him until I heal and evolve as a person so I can accept a relationship as a whole person.
@@albertodeulofeu5277 yes he cheated and neglected me then discarded me after I confronted him about cheating so I knew bcuz he proceeded to give me the silent treatment along with his being passive aggressive behavior so yes I was done and needed to protect myself this is abuse.
Not everyone finds you before we make those mistakes though, coach lol. The last thing I thought I needed was a relationship coach.. but you've definitely made me realize that I have a problem with anxiety. I've been working hard though, and actually had my first fun date since my breakup in January. Keeping your cool, and not rushing things definitely gets that girl feeling anxious. I got a text back 20 minutes after the date ended! Haha.
I'm a 39 year old, divorce mom of 7. Your videos are helping me make it through. Thank you so much for being a saving grace! Honestly, Coach Craig, some women block in order to get the guy to chase. Or if the guy shows he is chasing hard and crawling back, some women bank on this and turn a cold shoulder, trusting he will keep pursuing. In narcissistic women, we know it is about power and control domination. But when a decent woman does this, it is because the man was very wrong to her for far too long and she is trying to rebalance the power and get him to stop controlling everything.
Meg Schültze thank you 🙏🏽 I’ve dated a narcissist woman for two years and she always does the yo-yo affect and blocks me on everything even tho I don’t chase. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t even bother anymore, I understand it’s time to focus and become a better version of myself. She’s very attractive and she showed up to my work looking like JAYLO standing out getting attention from different sources, thank god I wasn’t there but it got to me cause if she doesn’t want to be with me blocked me on everything why show up to my work lol everyone knows her. Still going no contact cause she finally broke me and I have no more energy to give her 🔥
So if I begged, pleaded and found other ways to contact her asking if we could fix this? While being blocked, it’s been two weeks now of no contact. Feel like a sucker honestly. She literally toyed with me knowing I was suicidal.
@@trebalero9091 You OK now bro? Many of them are ruthless as cats with this these matters. My ex had 2 suicidal exes and she told them both after months of them hinting it and threatening " If you want to do it then it's not my responsibility" women can be emotional but hyper cold too.
Thank you so much coach Craig, I really needed to hear this. If someone blocks you over an argument or for any reason you really shouldn't want to be with them. Even if I am mad I've never went so far to block Any of my ex's. I'm definitely gonna move on and i don't think I will give him another chance if he ever contacts me.
What if you blocked your ex and then you find out he blocked you back. His family also blocked me for telling them that I needed to end communication because it is hindering me from moving on... I didn’t expect all of them to block me
I blocked an ex because I was angry with her over something she did - and now feeling guilty because I was maybe too harsh and too hasty. I told her she was a disappointment and said goodbye, but now wondering whether I should unblock and apologise. That was just over a week ago. I think I've fallen into fantasy, wondering whether she's missing me and thinking that, in spite of her behaviour, I should have been a bit more dignified in the way I spoke to her etc. Hmm ... I'm not even sure I *want* her back or not, but the irrational thinking and second-guessing has got me! It's like, I want her to want me and miss me, and can feel myself playing a game to make this happen. I'm crazy aren't I? :/
I gotta be honest, I'm going through this situation. She dare to call the cop and tell her parent if I try to contact her. Back then she love it when I chase her, hug her when she is mad and never give up on her. Now I'm trying my best not to fantasize about her nor trying to hope because it only make things worse. So I am trying to let her go, it's hard but yeah. She even block me so I gotta focus on myself. I was ok before her and I know I will be ok without her after the relationship
I did all of that begged and pleaded. Tried other ways to contact. And had two people write her. But damn I was in a dark place. Literally played with my emotions. Like it was a game. How can you play mind games with someone who is at the weakest point in their life? Then get your ego stroked. Smh 🤦🏽♂️
i felt all of this. i was at such a low point in my life when she wanted a break. didn't block me yet but i was a bit needy and blamed her for not caring. she got more upset and everything and had a bad fight and she said leave her alone. i did. joined a call and her mood changed and realized she was being serious about actually breaking up. left me when i needed her the most and i still feel weak.
Blocked ex on all social media because after a 2 year relationship he ghosted me. He was still looking at my social media, I figured at that point he didn’t deserve to know what I was up to....
I am happy that he blocked me. I want him to move on in a new way. No, I am not feeling powerless cause we have never met face to face.We didn't had any physical intimacy before! It's okay that he blocked me. I don't want him back in my life again.
@@lexicon4u Nothing happend. I chose to maintain no contact and she never broke it. I've moved on, continued to work on myself and now I'm in a new relationship with a gorgeous and loving GF 😉
@@rayf5360 that's great to hear. I'm struggling with a recent breakup and I'm hoping I get to this stage soon to erase this disrespectful piece of trash from my life. Btw I think blocking someone (unless it's harassment) is a shitty method to deal with a person who you've given no closure with (my situation).
@@lexicon4u I think every coach on RUclips will tell you to do NC and work on yourself Sometimes it feels like they gonna give you the one and only advice we are all waiting for but at the end its aaaaalways the same . I would say that don’t contact him or her for 1-2 weeks Than find another way to start the contact but try to neutralise it ! don’t give the person you live to much time to forget about you Serious cause they will if you don’t do something with cleverness and if they call the police because you just reached out in a normal way then you know that person Wasn the right one for you
what if he blocked me after stalking me and seen that im doing good. that happened 3rd week in no contact. i still didnt broke the no contact, pls help me out.
Man this guy's story was serious cringe. My ex blocked me 2 weeks ago after an argument and while it did sting, I've done absolutely nothing to go around the block due to how weak and beta that would make me appear. I didn't even do anything to deserve the block either, she just immediately did it. I'm sticking to no contact with no expected outcome, if she comes back and apologizes cool, if not then so be it I'll be okay regardless.
After 4 months of no contact I thought I have been alright healing n working on myself... Today I saw his Instagram.... He changed his profile and now his profile is private to me. I can see nothing anymore. I wanna die.... Is this the answer. I collapsed n broke down.... I can't do this How can he even see anything when there's zero chances of meeting up now long distance I wanna be sedated or hit by a car tomorrow
Excellent video. Good disclaimer about the legal trouble, but what did it for me is also at 11:30 where you talk about how blocking shows an inability to have conversations. In my case, it's been a month since she got mad for Im not sure what yet and have no answers. I sent a card and she said she appreciated the time/space but then I demanded to know how much longer she needed... I also tried to force a meetup which got me blocked. But I don't feel as bad about it anymore because no matter how attracted I am to her, if she cannot be a "partner" thru thick and thin (which means discussing issues as they arise). then is that really a partnership?
I Fucked up like matey in the vid,I dumped my woman for acting horrible towards me,3 days later started trying everything to get her back...she didn't want to know at all,tried it all,wish i knew about the no contact rule back then,we were together 4 and a half months and i adored her and she loved me too.2 months have gone past now,for the first month like I said i tried all sorts to get her back then for the second month gave it the no contact rule....apart from one major fuck up..I contacted the guy who I thought she was having a fling with whom she had been training for a new job..big mistake.we spoke..I was polite he told me straight that he hadn't been with her and I totally believed him.Next day I was blocked totally on Facebook???I thought ok he has obviously told her and she is pissed with me..it hurt but I sort of got my head round it.The same night a policeman came knocking at my door and came in,he told me she had reported me for harassment...my jaw hit the Fuckin ground guys!!!What a bitch..I had gone almost one month without any contact to HER what so ever and then this was my reward!!!I was Fuckin furious but have now let it go..it made me realize why did I want to be with a bitch who could go that far to hurt me,I have now found a new woman and I am to meet her very soon for the first time and she is absolutely beautiful..but I have learnt a lot from this cock up..I hope guys you don't make the same mistake as me...good luck x PS I miss her dog more than her now..that's a great moving on sign LOL x
Should I remove her friends/family from social media as well as she did to me before blocking? A move like that could be perceived as moving on and accepting the break up. Is this a way to take power back after 6 weeks of no contact?
I do something like that with my ex (I told that her sister is the main reason of the break up) and she removed me from her social media. Now she is angry with me. The good thing is that now is easier to focus on my self growth, this situation helped me to stop stalking her social media and is easier to move on.
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Me and my ex were starting to talk slowly and regularly again after nc, and she blocked me randomly, it's apparently because someone (her new bf most likely, or it could be some youtube relationship guru telling her to implement NC, least likely) doesn't want me and her to talk. It could be a similar situation between you two
I guess it depends on the woman..but for me once I block there's no going back..the offense was so great I wiped my hands for good especially in cases where I have tried to address the issue ..most times it's because I just want to give myself a fresh start..I have done this several times and honestly I have no regrets for doing so..nor have I ever unblocked..
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I only contacted her twice in almost 6 months... and only to send music and some positive mssgs to show her im not mad or anything about the breakup she never replied..two weeks later she blocked me... ive felt and done so much to keep my emotions together that im starting to not care...only some days i truly miss her...but then i just remember that during the breakup ive man up... just starting not to care what she does...at the end she is like doing me a favour and i will not care... i broke no contact only to show her im not mad or needy or angry...i just feel its not my fault...is her problem...
Hi, His under so much pressure in the health care. We were dated b4 , he moved across the country, so we did the long distance thing. I bought him gifts, but I guess when his under stress , he can't multiple stress.
Blocking is the cowards way out. If you don't want to talk, just tell the person. She sounds horrible. He's better off without. Trying to make things right, saying sorry for a wrongdoing, isn't begging. It's a decent human being.
You couldn’t be far from the truth, Craig, that’s exactly how I felt last night! What you described in the beginning of the video, was spot on! Four months into the breakup, my ex still has pictures of us on her Facebook and Instagram. However, I saw last night that she either muted me or blocked me from Facebook but not Instagram and I had noticed that she has the picture of us on our 4 year anniversary up but not our 5th year. What would that mean (to those three things)? I was so confused, just like the time of the breakup, (minus the crying) that I had a hard time with my workout. So, after my workout, I started watching some of Craig’s videos on the subject to ease my mind and anxiety.
pics don’t mean nothing apparently. my ex removed all of ours on fb but kept the pic of me and her daughter on ig and another pics of us on her bday last year which i’m sure will be gone when her bday comes this month.
After my brake up 8 month ago I lost everything house ect then grandfather few weeks later she's blamed me for everything including her being with another man lol but at the new year I got back on my feet new place ect and life is good but her life gone down hill we spoke just after new year and she still angry at me for what I don't know lol iv let her be don't want to know any more. I'm living my life and found someone better and who appreciates me. I say let them go live your life it's too short not to.
hi craig.. how are u? i got good news i follow what u been telling about no contact rule. guess what ? I was surprised last night he send me msgs every minute and trying to call me non stop but i didnot and saying he realise that he miss me and beg me like crazy;) thanks God I found your program .. I will always follow your program .. Keep it up Mwah;)
@@CoachCraigKenneth Craig...what if I up the anti and send him a txt from another number and get the last word and tell him he will not cycle around when he is ready and change my number. He hates not having the last word and his ego will get bruised when I change my number
One of my ex hate me so much, blocked me on all social media and delete my number and it’s like 10 years now...and I’m still blocked. Now I’m worried my recent ex will block me forever too...and yea she doesn’t have my number...great...
Hi. I was dating this girl for 2 years and we just broke up last week. We did a long distance relationship for the first year and I would go visit her when I could. I just moved to her home state to be closer to her and we could take our relationship to the next level. She has been distant with me 2 months before the breakup. In the early stages of our relationship we texted and snapchated everyday. She is 18 years old and I am 20 years old. She is Jewish and I am not. Her parents just found out about me 3 weeks before the break up. I’ve become needy and I haven’t given her the space to miss me since we started dating. She blocked me on facebook,kik,snapchat,instagram and etc. I really love this girl a lot and I care about her alot and I want to get her back and I don’t know what to do
Wennds G Myrtil any news? my girlfriend broke up with me saying she doesn't love me etc and blocked me on everything. this after s 2 year relationship. she wanted marriage and I was too slow to give her that :(
My ex blocked me from everywhere after he broke up with me. First he agreed to be in friendly relation but after 2 days he blocked me from everywhere. what should I do?
So I had initially deactivated my Facebook at the same time I started no contact. I had to do it for my own sanity so I wouldn't keep looking at her page. So Coach, you instructed me to wait and reactivate it then post pictures of me living my happy life and to change my profile picture to one of me with other girls. So I did exactly that. I posted my pictures of my day trip to D.C. alone. Well, I found out that about a day after doing that my ex blocked me. I am thinking this is a test to see how I will react. I'm not worried yet, because I went without Facebook for a month and a half, It's not like I will miss anything. I am pretty sure she saw my posts and couldn't handle seeing me happy. What do you think? Do you think its hopeless? Like I said, I'm not worried yet.
Hello coach, I’m that ex. I couldn’t handle the separation anxiety anymore. I kept looking at his social media for signs of abandonment. Yesterday I was “abandoned”... he is seeing a woman that has a child after saying he didn’t want to be in a committed relationship with me because he didn’t see himself with children or being married. I’m heartbroken, but deleting him is the only way I can stop obsessing. Thank you for the great video! It helps me understand my feelings.
Hi, I went no contact when she told that she dont know what she want and that she isnt ready for something right now, se said that to me when I asked her out and we talked for about 3-4 months and had an amazing holiday togheter in spain, I was confused bc she should say that to me much earlier if she wasnt ready, so I just answered ”ok then I know” and whent no contact, 3 weeks later I saw that she deleted me on snapchat, our only social media we got eachother in, did she do that to grab my attention? Or was this a punishment? What is a action like this? So immature and confusing, and yes it hurt
What if you are the one who blocked him in the first place? I just didn’t want him to see what I’ve been up to and let him wondering. He blocked me on WhatsApp days later too, so???
How do I get my ex back if she has a bf :/ we've been broken up for about a year but we still talk from time to time and she said she still likes me...but idk what to do..
You're giving your ex absolutely no reason to miss you by staying friends. the best cases where people get back together is when you completely disappear out of their life cause by you talking to her, she never misses you enough to leave the other guy. If you really want her back, you gotta cut off all communication.
This guy I see from time to time blocked me from Instagram and fb. A couple of months ago but still communicates with me through Kik and messenger 2 it 3 times a week when we are in good terms. I don't get him. This weekend he made plans to come see me and I was like 🙄 ok . Then no call no show. Hasn't contact me since then and I haven't contacted him either. I'm fed up with the bs . The other day I check my views on my Snapchat and twice already he's one if my viewers. In "other snapchatters". What's up with him. He's so weird.
He blocked me on fb while we are still together.He said it ;s okay since we can connect by phone. On the 3rd month that i was blocked,i really got irritated and angry at him That was the last time we dated. We did not break up. But he suddenly stopped communicating and its been 3 months today.Thanks!
hey coach. my ex blocked me via Facebook WhatsApp etc, calls me, and says she needs time and space, and she promised she will unblock me. I guess it's a waiting game. she said when we broke up there is no future with us I don't love you etc. do I wait to hear from her?
Focus on yourself and improve your self, I'm in the same situation. I never abuse her or hurt her hard emotionally. I have trust issue and jealousy but I still let her do everything and she lied saying I didn't which is bs because she still go places, dress how she wants, and talk to whom ever. She basically contradict herself. I gave her my all and was her beat and handle her when she is mad. When I get mad I calm my self down and even apologize to her and never hurt her. She swear to call the cop if I contact her when she broke up with me....unbelievable. I later realize my problem like trust issue and jealousy but my reason of having them is a good one because she is still friends with guy who used her and called her names but me the good guy got to be blocked...she even friends with same race as I am but out of all of them I am blocked. Her parents don't like me because I'm not their religion and race. But she didn't care and love me in the past but now she is like a whole new person.
How about blocking or at least unfriending your ex if you want them back? How can they develop separation anxiety if they are able to keep tabs on you?
if my ex blocked me because i was very needy or clingy ... he Is a guy , i think he Is in a relationship Will he contact me later if i dont contact him
Craige me and my ex were together for almost 5 yrs and he preset up his rebound relationship before ending it with my and we got in a tiny tiff about the rebound and he only unfriended my on fb but he still still has pics up of me and my daughter in his picture section and his profile is totally open, we were engaged and it was tagged on his profile but since he unfriended me it still says engaged and the year we got engaged. There is no type of sign on his page of his rebound, they work together. What does that mean?
My ex blocked me a week after going no contact and honestly did nothing to even attempt to reach out, even after he liked a few of my posts the day before. It was weird........
I Been block but crazy think about it lol she told me if I text her she going block me in she did I miss her but know I gotta move on it’s best choice I gotta do. I learning a lot from this situation I want to change for my self in to be a better man in relationship next time
Very good video Craig,I’m going through the same thing right now. I was given a reason of cheating on her,never happened not even the thought crossed my mind..treated her better than any man in her past... I’m just confused
hey coach its been two months i had brake up with my ex and i did not try to text her as well as call her neither she did. And its been 20days she has blocked me and my number is on reject list too. and if i call her or text her she is not attending my calls as well as not replying to my messages and she is blocking me if i call her from any number so can you please help me?? to bring her back??
I’d would like to leave this comment from the other perspective….. I blocked someone what may have seen as out of the blue for 5 weeks but it wasn’t out the blue… it was feelings I had been bottling up and the smallest thing made me explode… I blocked him because I cared waayyy to much for him and it was the only way I felt that would help me move on from him because I felt he was toxic for me. So sometimes someone blocked you because you mean so much to them they feel they are putting too much energy into you and not themselves. My advice when getting blocked is the same as the video give it time and space and make sure you create a safe place for them to open up to you about their feelings
Hi Craig, what if my ex blocks me and i started the No Contact the next day? Even if i stick to 30 days NC, i don't know if he'll unblock me, we're using an app where if you block someone they're gone from your list and you won't be able to find them. He still has my number but maybe he'll delete that too. We don't connect on Instagram or Facebook too. What's the best thing to do in my situation?
Hi Craig Kenneth and others, what if my ex blocked me after 8 weeks of no contact from her part after the break up? I did send her messages in the first weeks which she did read but not reply but I stopped contacting her after she called the police when I went to her house to just say hi. I feel really bad because I was leaving her alone now for 3 weeks already and now suddenly she blocks me on facebook and whatsapp. I know she is trying to find someone else but I also know she did not succeed yet. What does this tell and what can I do to get her back?
*#*I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEARD DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX THROUGH THE GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR WILSON, WHO HELPED ME RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE*#*
*#*Hi dear| if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you*#*
Sorry Craig I got no money to pay u to coach me on getting my ex back. Can u just give me advice on here... I miss my ex I broke up with him 8 days ago so that makes me the supper 😔 this is the second time I kick him out of my apartment why? Because of his constant disrespect towards me. Also I caught him lying to me numerous times.. Can we be together? Is this relationship salvageable? He took all of his belongings to his sisters house so he now lives with his family which makes the possibility of us getting back together even more difficult. We know how family can add gasoline to the fire putting down our ex's. Family will almost always not want us to get back with an ex... Craig what are ur thoughts about this?
Clegsta 88 you do and day nothing. allow your ex to come to you. the fact that your ex unblocked you shows that he/she thought about you enough to do that. just chill the fuck out
Sam Smith I gave in and eventually wished her a good new year - blocked again! I should have done NOTHING! Anyone else reading this trust me DO NOT contact them. I have learnt the hard way 😔 I feel she is definitely fine forever....
So ex got bothered i asked him about liking several photos and half naked photos on tiktok, he said im good .im done. Went on TikTok then blocked me, then he decides to make fake profiles and try to be friend me and want to get to know me on my DM, send a weird text about another man ..like what does he want.. leave me alone you broke it off. Not ince bit twice (he came back after breaking itnoff thebfirst time)
Do I really want someone who blocked me out of her life back? No thank you.
I sure do. It was my fault anyways.
Hell yeah you do
She’s blocked you as she’s hurting- she’s ok to do what she needs to do to heal. Get over yourself.
I got blocked while doing 100% no contact. Then found out she was seeing someone else. You pegged it with a great question in this video. Why would I want to be back with someone who, even after a 3 year history with each other, would just shut me completely out of their life and not be willing to deal with things like a rational adult?
Same happened to me. I was blocked because of the guy she monkey branched to. She most likely didn’t want me finding out so she blocked me. I was with her for 3 years and it was hard to understand how she could just cut me out so easily. It’s been two months now since the brake up, but now I feel good and ready to start dating.
Alberto Deulofeu get a hotter girlfriend.
My one ex did that. She messaged me 8 months later telling me she made a huge mistake and never stopped thinking of me. I had a new gf who just recently broke up with me. Just working on myself. She will be back too. They usually do. 😂
@@fabian_2323 try 13
It's over, clown. Move on. There's nothing to deal with. The relationship is over.
Being blocked is a good thing. They won't interfere with your healing process. I randomly got blocked in no contact. I'm angry at her because I was very good to her. Quite sure she is an avoidant
I agree man. It hurts but it helps no contact. Heal and meet someone new. If she comes back great. If not, you’re better off.
Update?
They block ya ,but make the fake profiles and befriend you and try to flirt and get to know you , knowing you will never meet this person..
She blocked me, but guess what? She's done me a huge favour. YAAAAAAAAAY!
Exactly!
BUT I want her seeing me with the gorgeous awesome gal I met right after her 😂😂😂
im glad because he blocks me in social media..its help me so much to forget him...🤗🤗
it's meh! Agree
yi sah some lies like this are healthy lol
My ex had me blocked for a month. Unblocked me today then blocked me again 😅 through watching Coach Craig's videos , something tells me she is in the curiosity stage. A block does not mean it's permanent. I have a new found hope from todays events! Have belief in yourself! Stay strong ❤
I didn’t feel a surge of terror I was like “lol wtf is her problem”
Literally me too 😂
Same lol
When you feel like reaching out to soothe ur anxiety don’t do it
Best advice so far! (Been there, done that 😅🤣🤣)
OK GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST
And when they breadcrumb to soothe their anxiety, ignore it... let them sit in their anxiety and regret their decision...
I’ve been blocked on everything then had the same people come back and tell me they couldn’t stop thinking about me. I don’t think it means as much as it looks, I think its a very performative statement and shows you care too much.
Dude you nailed it
This! Unless you harassed someone insesintly to the point of blocking..it's usually not bad.
I am a woman and I too begged and sent lots of messages to my ex after he blocked me. I cringe thinking about it. Now I realise I should just walk away cos only a piece of shit would block you. That dog.
🤣🤣🤣 don't worry, now you know better.
There are a lot of great comments here, but there is one other reason I feel is important to share. If an ex has blocked you on social media, it is possible that they are using that as a tactic to get you to chase them. If an ex broke up with you as a test, throwing this out there will certainly trigger an emotion out of you; don’t fall for it! Just ignore the situation as if nothing happened, and go on about your business. This tactic is typical, when an ex may be trying the “fake breakup” test to see what your true character shows.
Thanks for the reminder. In my case it’s not a fake breakup. My ex seems mad that I went no contact and he knows me and knows that seeing myself blocked would send me into a downward spiral. Thank god I know not to react!
If I block,
It’s actually nothing to with the ex. It’s because I’m hurting and I need to disassociate completely for my sanity!!! Blocking is a way of self care- something I need to do to help recovery. Blocking is not always about the man, it’s a way of gaining a sense of control, if detaching.
No
@@californiacombativesclub202 "No"?? 😆
That’s stupid. It is about the ex. You’re doing it because the ex gives you emotional reactions to them and you’re being selfish. Just mute them. You’re just hurting your ex by doing it. You aren’t “healing by blocking someone if they aren’t harassing you.
That's extremely selfish, it's not all about you. You basically discard your ex like trash and inflicting pain onto them by not communicating. Partners like you are the worst and why there are so many trust issues in dating.
she blocks you = she's immature = you don't want her.
Alexandru Lupu I haven’t contacted her, did no contact, reached out! Then decided to unfollow her on Snapchat, couple weeks later I was blocked
No mate! She hurt… blocking is was if
Self care. It’s probably nothing to do with you she needs to do it for herself. It’s not all about you. Get over yourself.
@@izzymeadows1748 It's true what you say, but being understanding, maybe you will help her out to understand her behavior. My opionion. By now, I think no contact will help.
Have gone into no contact for 1 month plus. I deleted her, she blocked me. Everything is super terrible out of nowhere for small reason this happened. Just found out she unblocked me. I am going to continue no contact till she reaches out first. If not will just move on in life. Happy to know she unblocked me but I am not going to reach out to her. I know if I reach out to her.. she will tell me and deny she missed me. This happened many times. So wait for her to reach out and I will be on the upper hand and negotiation will be easier for me and she will cherished more.
If you dump someone, expect to be blocked.
True
2 years of relationship. She dumps me with a text message and refuse to see me cause she would "fall back into temptation again" with me. After 2 weeks, she stops replying to my messages without any reason and she blocks me everywhere. I could wish all the worst things ever to this person but in reality I feel like her behaviour just revealed me the toxic person she was.
Same situation dude.... You wrote this a year ago... Got an update?
@@russellspicer817 yes bro, we had the opportunity to talk like 2 times in this year and a half since we broke up, after a long long period of depression, ptsd and stuff i finally got over it, the more the time passed the more i realized how wrong this person was for me and how wrong was the person i was while i was with her. Trust me: it IS gonna get better for many reasons, you will meet new people that will make you fall in love and you’ll realize that there is nothing to worry about
In these 2 times she never really apologized for what she did to me and she always played the victim, such a childish, toxic and useless person
@@fuelofromthedio that's fucked up. my situation is not as intense, I had a 3 month relationship that led to engagement. We were supposed to get married very soon but she basically just broke it off with a bs text message and ignored my messages and blocked me everywhere. She skirts responsibly and couldn't even give me proper closure. I get so angry sometimes that I wish the worst on her. She basically revealed that she still had some feelings for her ex but that it wasn't gonna work with him. Yet I still wanted to fix things. This is the worst breakup I've ever been in.
She doesn't take any responsibility, her financial situation is a fucking mess, driving without insurance. I was the best she's gotten and this is the treatment I get
Blocking you or us online is a clear sign. Continue to improve yourself. Stop chasing the wrong one, the right one won't run.
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Aaaand she blocked me on twitter and instagram. Going great :D
I blocked because it was too painful knowing he wasn't messaging me. If I block, I won't know if he is trying to contact me. He asked for space and I moved aside with dignity and he went right to someone else. I am still deeply in love with him, all I can do is wait but I will not even think about talking to him until I heal and evolve as a person so I can accept a relationship as a whole person.
How can he reach out if you blocked him?
This topic gets a lot of questions (understandably so!) I'm easily available to get help at AskCraig.net
Coach Craig Kenneth i feel like you and Corey Wayne share notes lol
I blocked him bcuz he hurt me so badly and I didnt want to be tempted by his social media and see any one he was dating.
I think that's reasonable
@RedPill_Gaming thats your experience tho. 🤷🏾♀️
I had to do that too because I felt so hurt after he left for another person and I still cared for them, but it was like I didn't even matter
@@albertodeulofeu5277 yes I did
@@albertodeulofeu5277 yes he cheated and neglected me then discarded me after I confronted him about cheating so I knew bcuz he proceeded to give me the silent treatment along with his being passive aggressive behavior so yes I was done and needed to protect myself this is abuse.
Not everyone finds you before we make those mistakes though, coach lol. The last thing I thought I needed was a relationship coach.. but you've definitely made me realize that I have a problem with anxiety. I've been working hard though, and actually had my first fun date since my breakup in January. Keeping your cool, and not rushing things definitely gets that girl feeling anxious. I got a text back 20 minutes after the date ended! Haha.
I'm a 39 year old, divorce mom of 7. Your videos are helping me make it through. Thank you so much for being a saving grace! Honestly, Coach Craig, some women block in order to get the guy to chase. Or if the guy shows he is chasing hard and crawling back, some women bank on this and turn a cold shoulder, trusting he will keep pursuing. In narcissistic women, we know it is about power and control domination. But when a decent woman does this, it is because the man was very wrong to her for far too long and she is trying to rebalance the power and get him to stop controlling everything.
Exactly agree with you
Meg Schültze thank you 🙏🏽 I’ve dated a narcissist woman for two years and she always does the yo-yo affect and blocks me on everything even tho I don’t chase. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t even bother anymore, I understand it’s time to focus and become a better version of myself. She’s very attractive and she showed up to my work looking like JAYLO standing out getting attention from different sources, thank god I wasn’t there but it got to me cause if she doesn’t want to be with me blocked me on everything why show up to my work lol everyone knows her. Still going no contact cause she finally broke me and I have no more energy to give her 🔥
So if I begged, pleaded and found other ways to contact her asking if we could fix this? While being blocked, it’s been two weeks now of no contact. Feel like a sucker honestly. She literally toyed with me knowing I was suicidal.
I bet you're really pretty. Why use a fake avatar of some actress?
@@trebalero9091 You OK now bro? Many of them are ruthless as cats with this these matters. My ex had 2 suicidal exes and she told them both after months of them hinting it and threatening " If you want to do it then it's not my responsibility" women can be emotional but hyper cold too.
Thank you so much coach Craig, I really needed to hear this. If someone blocks you over an argument or for any reason you really shouldn't want to be with them. Even if I am mad I've never went so far to block Any of my ex's. I'm definitely gonna move on and i don't think I will give him another chance if he ever contacts me.
What if you blocked your ex and then you find out he blocked you back. His family also blocked me for telling them that I needed to end communication because it is hindering me from moving on... I didn’t expect all of them to block me
@@anie-christianemayombi8473 well well well, you dumped him, what were you expecting? If you want him back text and let him know how you feel
I blocked an ex because I was angry with her over something she did - and now feeling guilty because I was maybe too harsh and too hasty. I told her she was a disappointment and said goodbye, but now wondering whether I should unblock and apologise.
That was just over a week ago.
I think I've fallen into fantasy, wondering whether she's missing me and thinking that, in spite of her behaviour, I should have been a bit more dignified in the way I spoke to her etc.
Hmm ... I'm not even sure I *want* her back or not, but the irrational thinking and second-guessing has got me! It's like, I want her to want me and miss me, and can feel myself playing a game to make this happen.
I'm crazy aren't I? :/
We all get a little crazy during break ups lol. If you ever want my help personally just sign up for a coaching :)
I gotta be honest, I'm going through this situation. She dare to call the cop and tell her parent if I try to contact her. Back then she love it when I chase her, hug her when she is mad and never give up on her. Now I'm trying my best not to fantasize about her nor trying to hope because it only make things worse. So I am trying to let her go, it's hard but yeah. She even block me so I gotta focus on myself. I was ok before her and I know I will be ok without her after the relationship
Got an update on what happened after
I did all of that begged and pleaded. Tried other ways to contact. And had two people write her. But damn I was in a dark place. Literally played with my emotions. Like it was a game. How can you play mind games with someone who is at the weakest point in their life? Then get your ego stroked. Smh 🤦🏽♂️
i felt all of this. i was at such a low point in my life when she wanted a break. didn't block me yet but i was a bit needy and blamed her for not caring. she got more upset and everything and had a bad fight and she said leave her alone. i did. joined a call and her mood changed and realized she was being serious about actually breaking up. left me when i needed her the most and i still feel weak.
@@albertodeulofeu5277 this is some andrew Tate nonsense. No
What happened then man?
Blocked ex on all social media because after a 2 year relationship he ghosted me. He was still looking at my social media, I figured at that point he didn’t deserve to know what I was up to....
I am happy that he blocked me. I want him to move on in a new way. No, I am not feeling powerless cause we have never met face to face.We didn't had any physical intimacy before! It's okay that he blocked me. I don't want him back in my life again.
So what is the best thing you can do when your ex UNblocked you? Do you reach out or go no contact until she reaches out herself?
I guess still wait until they reach out. They have to initiate contact What happened?
@@lexicon4u Nothing happend. I chose to maintain no contact and she never broke it. I've moved on, continued to work on myself and now I'm in a new relationship with a gorgeous and loving GF 😉
@@rayf5360 that's great to hear. I'm struggling with a recent breakup and I'm hoping I get to this stage soon to erase this disrespectful piece of trash from my life.
Btw I think blocking someone (unless it's harassment) is a shitty method to deal with a person who you've given no closure with (my situation).
@@lexicon4u I think every coach on RUclips will tell you to do NC and work on yourself
Sometimes it feels like they gonna give you the one and only advice we are all waiting for but at the end its aaaaalways the same .
I would say that don’t contact him or her for 1-2 weeks
Than find another way to start the contact but try to neutralise it !
don’t give the person you live to much time to forget about you
Serious cause they will if you don’t do something with cleverness and if they call the police because you just reached out in a normal way then you know that person Wasn the right one for you
Don't reach out. He unblocked me on his own and then 2 weeks later messaged me.
My ex blocked me on everything but still watches all of my snapchat stories..
Oh this is an embarrassing story lol. Buddy, if she doesn’t want to be in your life let her walk. Never beg or plead. Screw ‘em!
Factz💯
what if he blocked me after stalking me and seen that im doing good. that happened 3rd week in no contact. i still didnt broke the no contact, pls help me out.
Same in mycase. Did he reached out?
Man this guy's story was serious cringe. My ex blocked me 2 weeks ago after an argument and while it did sting, I've done absolutely nothing to go around the block due to how weak and beta that would make me appear. I didn't even do anything to deserve the block either, she just immediately did it.
I'm sticking to no contact with no expected outcome, if she comes back and apologizes cool, if not then so be it I'll be okay regardless.
I am really thankful I found you because your advice and videos are really extraordinary
After 4 months of no contact I thought I have been alright healing n working on myself... Today I saw his Instagram.... He changed his profile and now his profile is private to me. I can see nothing anymore. I wanna die.... Is this the answer. I collapsed n broke down.... I can't do this
How can he even see anything when there's zero chances of meeting up now long distance
I wanna be sedated or hit by a car tomorrow
Homeboy blocked me because I was purely trying to communicate 🤨🙄 I guess he didn’t know how to be a mature adult and communicate back?!
Oh man I hope the girl I just broke up doesn't do this. Never try to get an ex back.
phenomenal video coach
sometimes your video make me feel much better,but sometimes i will think about her,hopefully she will be unblock me ,and be friend with me
Excellent video. Good disclaimer about the legal trouble, but what did it for me is also at 11:30 where you talk about how blocking shows an inability to have conversations. In my case, it's been a month since she got mad for Im not sure what yet and have no answers. I sent a card and she said she appreciated the time/space but then I demanded to know how much longer she needed... I also tried to force a meetup which got me blocked. But I don't feel as bad about it anymore because no matter how attracted I am to her, if she cannot be a "partner" thru thick and thin (which means discussing issues as they arise). then is that really a partnership?
This is exactly how I feel. Do I want a relationship with someone unwilling to talk about issues?
I Fucked up like matey in the vid,I dumped my woman for acting horrible towards me,3 days later started trying everything to get her back...she didn't want to know at all,tried it all,wish i knew about the no contact rule back then,we were together 4 and a half months and i adored her and she loved me too.2 months have gone past now,for the first month like I said i tried all sorts to get her back then for the second month gave it the no contact rule....apart from one major fuck up..I contacted the guy who I thought she was having a fling with whom she had been training for a new job..big mistake.we spoke..I was polite he told me straight that he hadn't been with her and I totally believed him.Next day I was blocked totally on Facebook???I thought ok he has obviously told her and she is pissed with me..it hurt but I sort of got my head round it.The same night a policeman came knocking at my door and came in,he told me she had reported me for harassment...my jaw hit the Fuckin ground guys!!!What a bitch..I had gone almost one month without any contact to HER what so ever and then this was my reward!!!I was Fuckin furious but have now let it go..it made me realize why did I want to be with a bitch who could go that far to hurt me,I have now found a new woman and I am to meet her very soon for the first time and she is absolutely beautiful..but I have learnt a lot from this cock up..I hope guys you don't make the same mistake as me...good luck x PS I miss her dog more than her now..that's a great moving on sign LOL x
You sir are a STALKER!!!
Should I remove her friends/family from social media as well as she did to me before blocking? A move like that could be perceived as moving on and accepting the break up. Is this a way to take power back after 6 weeks of no contact?
I say yes
I do something like that with my ex (I told that her sister is the main reason of the break up) and she removed me from her social media. Now she is angry with me. The good thing is that now is easier to focus on my self growth, this situation helped me to stop stalking her social media and is easier to move on.
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I didn’t bombard him. I was in NC and he blocked me. Whyyyy
Aquarian Same here
Why ? It hurts
Me and my ex were starting to talk slowly and regularly again after nc, and she blocked me randomly, it's apparently because someone (her new bf most likely, or it could be some youtube relationship guru telling her to implement NC, least likely) doesn't want me and her to talk. It could be a similar situation between you two
same here
I guess it depends on the woman..but for me once I block there's no going back..the offense was so great I wiped my hands for good especially in cases where I have tried to address the issue ..most times it's because I just want to give myself a fresh start..I have done this several times and honestly I have no regrets for doing so..nor have I ever unblocked..
That’s a bitch move
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My ex would block me on FB even when we were together. When she was mad at me
Same here. It's a power trip....and shows extreme immaturity.
RedRexxius same lol. And on Instagram
@@MariNate1016 same here got blocked all the time :(
@@MariNate1016 my potential fwb blocked me on sc so i blocked her back includeing ig.
Will she unblock any time?
I only contacted her twice in almost 6 months... and only to send music and some positive mssgs to show her im not mad or anything about the breakup she never replied..two weeks later she blocked me... ive felt and done so much to keep my emotions together that im starting to not care...only some days i truly miss her...but then i just remember that during the breakup ive man up... just starting not to care what she does...at the end she is like doing me a favour and i will not care... i broke no contact only to show her im not mad or needy or angry...i just feel its not my fault...is her problem...
Hi,
His under so much pressure in the health care.
We were dated b4 , he moved across the country, so we did the long distance thing.
I bought him gifts, but I guess when his under stress , he can't multiple stress.
Blocking is the cowards way out. If you don't want to talk, just tell the person. She sounds horrible. He's better off without. Trying to make things right, saying sorry for a wrongdoing, isn't begging. It's a decent human being.
What if he just unfriended/ unfollowed you, but not block?
You couldn’t be far from the truth, Craig, that’s exactly how I felt last night! What you described in the beginning of the video, was spot on!
Four months into the breakup, my ex still has pictures of us on her Facebook and Instagram. However, I saw last night that she either muted me or blocked me from Facebook but not Instagram and I had noticed that she has the picture of us on our 4 year anniversary up but not our 5th year. What would that mean (to those three things)?
I was so confused, just like the time of the breakup, (minus the crying) that I had a hard time with my workout. So, after my workout, I started watching some of Craig’s videos on the subject to ease my mind and anxiety.
pics don’t mean nothing apparently. my ex removed all of ours on fb but kept the pic of me and her daughter on ig and another pics of us on her bday last year which i’m sure will be gone when her bday comes this month.
I feel for the guy in the video. Damn I feel his pain. But you need to be self aware of your situation.
What if they blocked you after 2 years but you blocked them 1st and took them 2 yeaers to do so?
Then you shouldn’t worry if you blocked them considering your the one who doesn’t want them
Why would u block them in the first place ur not making sense haha
After my brake up 8 month ago I lost everything house ect then grandfather few weeks later she's blamed me for everything including her being with another man lol but at the new year I got back on my feet new place ect and life is good but her life gone down hill we spoke just after new year and she still angry at me for what I don't know lol iv let her be don't want to know any more. I'm living my life and found someone better and who appreciates me. I say let them go live your life it's too short not to.
The story is HILARIOUS!!
He blocked me on Whatsapp but still views all my Instagram stories... duhh🤦 what's the point of blocking me on whatsapp 🤣🤣🤣🤣
How is that possible ?
He's playing mind games and breadcrumbing. Dont react or block him back if he's toxic....
If your ex blocks you online, you block her in real life.
hi craig.. how are u? i got good news i follow what u been telling about no contact rule. guess what ? I was surprised last night he send me msgs every minute and trying to call me non stop but i didnot and saying he realise that he miss me and beg me like crazy;) thanks God I found your program .. I will always follow your program .. Keep it up Mwah;)
Great news! Just remember that a break up is a symptom of a problematic relationship. If the problems are not fixed it will end again!
Ilieknoodles Ⓥ do not , I repeat do not contact.
Ilieknoodles Ⓥ update on your situation?
@@CoachCraigKenneth Craig...what if I up the anti and send him a txt from another number and get the last word and tell him he will not cycle around when he is ready and change my number. He hates not having the last word and his ego will get bruised when I change my number
One of my ex hate me so much, blocked me on all social media and delete my number and it’s like 10 years now...and I’m still blocked. Now I’m worried my recent ex will block me forever too...and yea she doesn’t have my number...great...
Block her back give her the same treatment she gives you
Exactly that's what I did
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if my ex after 3 months, unblock me from social media, is it a good sign that she is gonna comeback?
Hi. I was dating this girl for 2 years and we just broke up last week. We did a long distance relationship for the first year and I would go visit her when I could. I just moved to her home state to be closer to her and we could take our relationship to the next level. She has been distant with me 2 months before the breakup. In the early stages of our relationship we texted and snapchated everyday. She is 18 years old and I am 20 years old. She is Jewish and I am not. Her parents just found out about me 3 weeks before the break up. I’ve become needy and I haven’t given her the space to miss me since we started dating. She blocked me on facebook,kik,snapchat,instagram and etc. I really love this girl a lot and I care about her alot and I want to get her back and I don’t know what to do
Wennds G Myrtil any news? my girlfriend broke up with me saying she doesn't love me etc and blocked me on everything. this after s 2 year relationship. she wanted marriage and I was too slow to give her that :(
My ex just deleted me from social media after she saw me going kayaking with a friend. Lol
Wtf lmao 😂. She’s jealous
My ex blocked me from everywhere after he broke up with me. First he agreed to be in friendly relation but after 2 days he blocked me from everywhere. what should I do?
Did he contacted you since then?
What happened up date ?
Any update Sanjana ?
Exact thing am dealing with
How’s it now
Nice video good advice it actally work
So I had initially deactivated my Facebook at the same time I started no contact. I had to do it for my own sanity so I wouldn't keep looking at her page. So Coach, you instructed me to wait and reactivate it then post pictures of me living my happy life and to change my profile picture to one of me with other girls. So I did exactly that. I posted my pictures of my day trip to D.C. alone. Well, I found out that about a day after doing that my ex blocked me. I am thinking this is a test to see how I will react. I'm not worried yet, because I went without Facebook for a month and a half, It's not like I will miss anything. I am pretty sure she saw my posts and couldn't handle seeing me happy. What do you think? Do you think its hopeless? Like I said, I'm not worried yet.
How is he only block you in whatsapp only? And the other contact is still ok but the worst he never contact since he block me in whatsapp
Hello coach, I’m that ex. I couldn’t handle the separation anxiety anymore. I kept looking at his social media for signs of abandonment. Yesterday I was “abandoned”... he is seeing a woman that has a child after saying he didn’t want to be in a committed relationship with me because he didn’t see himself with children or being married. I’m heartbroken, but deleting him is the only way I can stop obsessing. Thank you for the great video! It helps me understand my feelings.
Wendy Oliva hi Wendy how are you how it been ??
Hi, I went no contact when she told that she dont know what she want and that she isnt ready for something right now, se said that to me when I asked her out and we talked for about 3-4 months and had an amazing holiday togheter in spain, I was confused bc she should say that to me much earlier if she wasnt ready, so I just answered ”ok then I know” and whent no contact, 3 weeks later I saw that she deleted me on snapchat, our only social media we got eachother in, did she do that to grab my attention? Or was this a punishment? What is a action like this? So immature and confusing, and yes it hurt
What if you are the one who blocked him in the first place? I just didn’t want him to see what I’ve been up to and let him wondering. He blocked me on WhatsApp days later too, so???
How do I get my ex back if she has a bf :/ we've been broken up for about a year but we still talk from time to time and she said she still likes me...but idk what to do..
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You're giving your ex absolutely no reason to miss you by staying friends. the best cases where people get back together is when you completely disappear out of their life cause by you talking to her, she never misses you enough to leave the other guy. If you really want her back, you gotta cut off all communication.
Calamity Raps did you get with her 3 times or did you do Skype 3 times
This guy I see from time to time blocked me from Instagram and fb. A couple of months ago but still communicates with me through Kik and messenger 2 it 3 times a week when we are in good terms. I don't get him. This weekend he made plans to come see me and I was like 🙄 ok . Then no call no show. Hasn't contact me since then and I haven't contacted him either. I'm fed up with the bs . The other day I check my views on my Snapchat and twice already he's one if my viewers. In "other snapchatters". What's up with him. He's so weird.
He blocked me on fb while we are still together.He said it ;s okay since we can connect by phone. On the 3rd month that i was blocked,i really got irritated and angry at him That was the last time we dated. We did not break up. But he suddenly stopped communicating and its been 3 months today.Thanks!
Hannah umm, y'all are broke up. tf?
hey coach. my ex blocked me via Facebook WhatsApp etc, calls me, and says she needs time and space, and she promised she will unblock me. I guess it's a waiting game. she said when we broke up there is no future with us I don't love you etc. do I wait to hear from her?
Matthew Richards no move on
Focus on yourself and improve your self, I'm in the same situation. I never abuse her or hurt her hard emotionally. I have trust issue and jealousy but I still let her do everything and she lied saying I didn't which is bs because she still go places, dress how she wants, and talk to whom ever. She basically contradict herself. I gave her my all and was her beat and handle her when she is mad. When I get mad I calm my self down and even apologize to her and never hurt her. She swear to call the cop if I contact her when she broke up with me....unbelievable. I later realize my problem like trust issue and jealousy but my reason of having them is a good one because she is still friends with guy who used her and called her names but me the good guy got to be blocked...she even friends with same race as I am but out of all of them I am blocked. Her parents don't like me because I'm not their religion and race. But she didn't care and love me in the past but now she is like a whole new person.
How’d it end up man?
Craig is brilliant
Do a video on - can a physically abusive bf get her ex back
What if they block you out of the blue and you already haven’t spoken to them in months
Then you were definitely on their mind. Maybe if was them burning a bridge that they are worried they will cross if they don’t.
How about blocking or at least unfriending your ex if you want them back? How can they develop separation anxiety if they are able to keep tabs on you?
ainoviere I tried that and it backfired completely.
+Francis Steitz (PsykoGhost)
how?
If you unfriend someone and your setting are set to private, how can they keep tabs?
Great question
what if my ex blocked me after i posted a video of a guy playing guitar on my story?
Than he’s a loser
if my ex blocked me because i was very needy or clingy ... he Is a guy , i think he Is in a relationship Will he contact me later if i dont contact him
Erika Rossana did he contact you ?
Craige me and my ex were together for almost 5 yrs and he preset up his rebound relationship before ending it with my and we got in a tiny tiff about the rebound and he only unfriended my on fb but he still still has pics up of me and my daughter in his picture section and his profile is totally open, we were engaged and it was tagged on his profile but since he unfriended me it still says engaged and the year we got engaged. There is no type of sign on his page of his rebound, they work together. What does that mean?
My ex blocked me a week after going no contact and honestly did nothing to even attempt to reach out, even after he liked a few of my posts the day before. It was weird........
Did you eventually get unblocked?
@a2kaid yes I did!
@@c.j.erickson9647 thats awesome! How long did it take and why did you get blocked? Mine was out of the blue.
I Been block but crazy think about it lol she told me if I text her she going block me in she did I miss her but know I gotta move on it’s best choice I gotta do. I learning a lot from this situation I want to change for my self in to be a better man in relationship next time
Very good video Craig,I’m going through the same thing right now. I was given a reason of cheating on her,never happened not even the thought crossed my mind..treated her better than any man in her past... I’m just confused
hey can i email you about something that i need help with ex lover
Thanks Craig youve made it very clear.
hey coach its been two months i had brake up with my ex and i did not try to text her as well as call her neither she did. And its been 20days she has blocked me and my number is on reject list too. and if i call her or text her she is not attending my calls as well as not replying to my messages and she is blocking me if i call her from any number so can you please help me?? to bring her back??
I’d would like to leave this comment from the other perspective….. I blocked someone what may have seen as out of the blue for 5 weeks but it wasn’t out the blue… it was feelings I had been bottling up and the smallest thing made me explode… I blocked him because I cared waayyy to much for him and it was the only way I felt that would help me move on from him because I felt he was toxic for me. So sometimes someone blocked you because you mean so much to them they feel they are putting too much energy into you and not themselves. My advice when getting blocked is the same as the video give it time and space and make sure you create a safe place for them to open up to you about their feelings
Hey my Ex unblocked me from what app and social media after the no contact it was 3week now , what should I do???
Hi Craig, what if my ex blocks me and i started the No Contact the next day? Even if i stick to 30 days NC, i don't know if he'll unblock me, we're using an app where if you block someone they're gone from your list and you won't be able to find them. He still has my number but maybe he'll delete that too. We don't connect on Instagram or Facebook too. What's the best thing to do in my situation?
Hi Craig Kenneth and others, what if my ex blocked me after 8 weeks of no contact from her part after the break up? I did send her messages in the first weeks which she did read but not reply but I stopped contacting her after she called the police when I went to her house to just say hi. I feel really bad because I was leaving her alone now for 3 weeks already and now suddenly she blocks me on facebook and whatsapp. I know she is trying to find someone else but I also know she did not succeed yet. What does this tell and what can I do to get her back?
If she blocks you you have just won the game bro,don't worry
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my ex blocked me on Whatsapp out of the blue on the 4th week of no contact....
Sorry Craig I got no money to pay u to coach me on getting my ex back. Can u just give me advice on here... I miss my ex I broke up with him 8 days ago so that makes me the supper 😔 this is the second time I kick him out of my apartment why? Because of his constant disrespect towards me. Also I caught him lying to me numerous times.. Can we be together? Is this relationship salvageable? He took all of his belongings to his sisters house so he now lives with his family which makes the possibility of us getting back together even more difficult. We know how family can add gasoline to the fire putting down our ex's. Family will almost always not want us to get back with an ex... Craig what are ur thoughts about this?
Your cute i can help you get past him. Were are you from?
Thank you for this.one ..my ex blocked straight up ..didnt get time to.say anything .but it's true in whst you said ..
Can you do a video how to act when an Ex unblocks you? 😊
Clegsta 88 you do and day nothing. allow your ex to come to you. the fact that your ex unblocked you shows that he/she thought about you enough to do that. just chill the fuck out
Sam Smith I gave in and eventually wished her a good new year - blocked again! I should have done NOTHING! Anyone else reading this trust me DO NOT contact them. I have learnt the hard way 😔 I feel she is definitely fine forever....
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So ex got bothered i asked him about liking several photos and half naked photos on tiktok, he said im good .im done. Went on TikTok then blocked me, then he decides to make fake profiles and try to be friend me and want to get to know me on my DM, send a weird text about another man ..like what does he want.. leave me alone you broke it off. Not ince bit twice (he came back after breaking itnoff thebfirst time)