Good as always 🙂 you definitely will help people grow,like you did with me :) thankyou, now we can grow,with the now understanding that being blocked isn't the end of the world,& can learn how to focus on ourselves more, & not focus on being blocked.
good video,myex blocked me in early May have gone no contact.i think it is a shabby thng to do with a person who was part of your life......I called maybe 5-6 times in 2 weeks and never left a message but once
If they blocked you out of no where while you are following no contact, trust me guys these dumpers always expect that we as dumpees will beg and plead until we loose our self respect but when we don't do that as we start following no contact rule they get mad because we have done something unexpected and eventually they block us just for the simple fact that they couldn't able to handle our attitude. So we actually won the game guys, you all should feel happy that you showed them that you are such a high value person and you deserve a pat on your back for this, don't get hurt just for the simple fact that they blocked you😄
@@MS-rd1tn well it's been 1 yr now and i have totally moved on from the breakup and so i can tell that no contact rules actually works! I remember in my initial breakup stage she blocked me( i didn't even texted or called her after the breakup as i started the no contact rule but still got blocked) but after 3 months she automatically unblocked me out of no where, i didn't texted her nor she texted me as for now i have moved on in my life so much that i don't even have her number or anything to contact her nor do i have any interest in getting back together, she is just a past memory for me. Just stay strong and you will get thru this stage✌
It's in your best interest to just move on if you were blocked. Blocking sends a pretty clear message that they are moving on with someone else and/or they just plain want nothing to do with you.
But things can change with time, it’s not set in stone. That being said you shouldn’t wait for someone, it’s best to work on oneself and live one’s life fully.
9 months after breakup and still blocked! 🤦🏻♂️ This is truly the first time I haven't had a second chance from a breakup. Blocking sucks but it's their way of saying "F U" just leave them alone, there's nothing you can do but work on yourself
I'm 8 months blocked myself. Also the first time I've not had a second chance. His reason for the breakup was "I liked him too much but was distant". Don't understand that, but I'm in a way heathier place now. I hope you're doing well yourself.
5:04 She blocked me after one month of no contact. Since I didn't contact her I asume she is trying to forget me but couldn't, so she is doing everything she can. I "think the more you try to forget someone, the harder it is"
It feels like a stab on the chest when you get blocked because you really love that person and way horrible that this person still loves others that don't love em back. Yes, I was the rebound and it sucks! Thank you so much for your work Craig, Margaret and Victoria.
I still can’t believe it ended this way. I’m in so much pain. I miss her so much. I love her so much. I was blocked on all social media on day one, and blocked on the phone 3 days later. I’m devastated. This isn’t supposed to happen to me. I’m a good person. 😢
In my opinion as a woman, fight your urge to contact her it will not change anything she will perceive you as very weak man. We don’t want a weak man with no self control. Let her have her space and when her thoughts are gathered she will come to you. She may or may not come back but use your time without her to be better for yourself.
My ex came back after one and a half year. Thanks coach for helping me through these difficult times. Whatever you are saying worked. I followed your advice, not initially but later on and it helped.Thank you!
I was blocked 2 years ago. It still hurts. One thing for sure is I will never be the same. It was a blessing in a way. All pain lends itself towards growth.... but I still care about her. I miss the feelings we shared. She became attached very quickly, then so did I, then she very rudely and abruptly discarded me. Told me off as bad as possible. Really hurtful. All I could think is for her to act so hurtful towards me... that she must have been very hurt before...
Exact same thing here, it's not your fault. Some people are just like that. She discarded me like I was trash and blocked me after 1 month of no contact. Leave them be, you deserve better.
Was blocked everywhere on socials and by number 2 weeks ago. Was never told we were done, we were breaking up, she wanted out; nope she straight ghosted me and blocked after a small dispute. I didn't talk to her for 1 day because I needed time to collect my thoughts after the dispute and this is how she retaliates. Easily the hardest breakup I've been through because it just feels so unresolved and heartless. I refuse to chase and reach out by other means, she has to face life with my absence.
I got blocked during NC and it’s not like we ended on bad terms. I told him I was going to respect that he no longer wished to be together and I still got blocked. It’s really painful. 8 years together and he’s trying to erase me from his memory 💔
If relationship is all space space space, where is the relationship??? Where is the family prospect??? Where is respect to the other person’s needs? Where is care as a foundation of relationship???
Good question! What I take away from these videos is, you go through all this time and effort with no contact, and then showing them your going on with your life, etc to try to get them back, when there’s probably little to no chance of it happening but by the time you get through with all these steps to win them back, it’s been long enough that you don’t care anymore.
Trust these coaches! Im living proof 90 days of no contact and blocked by my ex. Now ive just been unblocked on facebook... but im not reaching out! He unblocked me ..he has to do the work. He dumped me dismissive avoidant personality. So takes time for this type of person to come around... just leave them alone. You will be unblocked... just waiting for the reach out it has to be their idea. Ok. Hope my input helps others.
I'm finding the whole being blocked situation very difficult, happened after 10 weeks of no contact, now 12 weeks no contact... she told me she still loves me when we broke up, her family issues and her past divorce caused her to get scared of how amazing our relationship was and it felt like she just threw it all away. Listening to these videos help with the anxiety, thanks Craig and Victoria.
It has been over one year and i am still blocked everywhere. Tried to call a few times from a hidden number, she didn't want to talk when she answered.. last time we talked she said she doesn't feel any love towards me, that there is nothing between us anymore, and never will be, and that i should find another girl and be happy.
I've only been into this video 4:36 and all that was said so far is absolutely practical and to the point. The reason for saying this is: My ex of 10 years decided to break up with me. She blocked my landline and cell phone, and even go as far as to block me from her father's phone as well. She didn't even as much as open up and call me on my birthday. This really hurts you know. Now, I'll continue to watch this video.
After a year & 4 months of NC Im still blocked... Even tho it hurt to look, I’m glad I’ve grown so much! My biggest accomplishment has to be quitting drinking, It’s crazy to think I was so out of control with my emotions while intoxicated. Now I’m sober and have no intention on drinking for good. She wouldn’t even recognize the person I’ve become. 🙃 Thanks for helping me get this far Craig, with all you’re videos I am truly glad I took you’re advice.
It's the worst feeling in the world. Being led on so extremely and then ghosted, when asked her about it, didn't exactly get a reasonable answer.. Started no contact and after 2 weeks in she blocked me on everything. I'm still blocked a further 3 weeks later. Pretty sure it's permanent because of how cold she became towards the end. Just want to get her our of my head and move on but she keeps appearing in my mind no matter how hard I try. Before meeting her I was so happy alone and wasn't even looking for anything but she made me feel I had found what I needed so I became attached.
That’s me, I didn’t respect my exes wish for space when she told me to leave her alone so now I’m blocked for two months. I was freaking out when I figured it out but stopped after a day 🙄 I just didn’t know better at that time
Two video suggestions 1. Another (when It's time to let go, because it's been x amount of time and there's no hope they're coming back) 2. Who dumped who? (My ex convinced me I dumped her, and that led me to a lot of self blame, depression, took Margaret in a Skype to hear my opinion to say she dumped me, but my ex was convinced i dumped her) I'd love you to do a video on my story, i think it's quite a good one for others to learn from aswell Craig
Blocking is an emotionally reactive response. If someone left who has made a decision they’re happy with, they wouldn’t feel the need to block you anywhere because they would be too busy getting on with their life without you. This means they’re not indifferent to you and feelings quite clearly are still there
Hi Craig, thank you for the amazing content. Could you possibly do a video on explaining why an ex would mute your social media, restrict you from theirs but not remove or block you completely?
My ex and his rebound ended after 5 months and now he’s reaching out to me again. I just went into NC and he never heard from me being bitter about him going into a rebound a week after I broke up with him. Now he’s going to my city in a few days to hang out with me and even bring me back to his city.
My ex hasn't unblocked me for 8-9 months and that was after he announced relationship with someone else I'm unsure if he will ever unlock me now unless their still in honeymoon faise,was just curious which is why I watched this video,I don't really mind anymore as I have filled my life with more important amazing thing's that make me happy ☺️
My ex blocked me right before his birthday. He broke up with me saying he is in depression and can’t put effort and time in a relationship. He told me he was open to talk to me again when he’ll feel better. He said he never has someone who care that much about him and who try to understand mental health. I still have a hard time accepting he didn’t want me to support him. We are in NC so I dont understand why he blocked me. It’s like I re live the break up again. Now, Im sure he doesn’t want us to be in contact ever again. It hurts so much
I just blocked my ex. Did it for myself so I can move on and also feel some sense of power back. I don’t want his breadcrumbs anymore either. He’s in a rebound relationship anyway so they can have each other. I’m out!
This whole relationship thing sucks and I no longer see a point. It's always the same thing... no one knows how to be honest with themselves let alone others. My ex told me he got drunk and told his new GF that he still loves me alot... then blocked me. WTF? I give up. And that was over a month ago. How much time is needed... Not once have I had an ex every try to reconnect with me so...
Thankyou very much for this. My boyfriend has pathologically blocked me and unblocked me and then blocked me again. He's now blocked me again. Do you think he'll unblock me again? I really upset him this time and I just feel like shit
If he cares about you and thinks about you still. He will definitely unblock you. Depending on how long it takes for him to unblock is up to him. It's been 8 months since you posted you comment. Hopefully you and your ex were able to work things out and if not hopefully you're with someone that is making you happy.
47 days no contact after my ex boyfriend finished with me he has blocked me on everything and all my family and friends. Its so hard wanting to reach out and you can't but they need to contact you first x
So she blocked my number I sent her an email she told me she want no contact so it’s been 3 weeks of no contact once the pain and hurt is gone ill be ok. Stay strong everyone
It won’t be any time soon because she will have phenomenal training! She is currently joining Margaret on most of her calls, so there is a high probability you will meet her if you do a coaching with Margaret!
It's a power move for sure. Take back your power by blocking them and never unblocking them. That way, when they decide they want to play with you again, they can't. Then YOU have the power.
she unblocked me and a week later while i was in no contact she blocked me on everything. I know she is seeing a other guy but my god. We were in a 6 year relationship this hurts on another level
I dated my ex for four years. She did the same thing to me, but I don't know if she is dating some other guy. My memories that I had with my ex always pop up a lot in my head and will think of the good times. I hope somehow that you will be able to recover and be able to be happy again. I've been hurting for a year of missing my ex even though we would still text after the breakup. But I got blocked on everything and have no way to contact her. Wishing you the best.
mine blocked me for an entire year. randomly unblocked for about a month(saw all of my tagged pictures show back up) i kept completely silent and didnt reachout. then randomly got blocked again for seemingly no reason after i shared one single thing. A Teddy Roosevelt quote (man in the arena) much confuse. such wow
@@MrCjchamp when i search my own photos and suddenly realize yhe pictures they posted with me tagged showed back up/seeing them at the top of my messenger
I’m blocked everywhere lol even venmo, ngl coach Craig and Victoria it’s been tough the last 50 days or so. Wish I knew about this channel before the breakup that way I would know how to act or react to the breakup. After block and she threatened to call the cops, I decided it’s best for me to go no contact, well I had to either way 😂. Before the block my ex was breadcrumbing me and being hot and cold. I’m just so confused, we even exchanged our stuff back , i noticed immediately she didn’t give me all my stuff back
@@abolzero311 yeah it might have to do with long distance. I sometimes wonder if she cheated on me because I wanted to leave the country, then later I wanted to just move to the other side of it. I wonder if it helps her keep me blocked that she thinks I'll never return to her city anyways. I think it would be a LOT harder for her if she knew I was very much within reach.
@@andrasziegenham6766 sometimes I also make assumptions like that but it really doesn't help. The feeling that stops them from reaching out might be shame or fear of getting hurt again. Or they think it might hurt us more if they actually would have to tell us that they are with someone else now. However at this point we can't be really sure
@@abolzero311 Yeah, I know it doesn't help. But she didn't even give me a breakup talk, so I've had to make up my own story about her reasons to dump me in the first place. It took me months to finally reach a conclusion that is both realistic and acceptable to me. Unfortunately this messed so much with my head, that I continue to make stuff up to cope. I agree that shame might hold her back. She has plenty of reasons to be ashamed. I wonder how does she even look into the mirror. She was also avoiding all conflicts like the plague even during the relationship, so I also agree she might fear talking about it. She can't face her flaws. If I've made these self improvements before meeting her, I would've ditched her after weeks. She is really not relationship material. I'm 100% sure she doesn't care about hurting me and definitely not about her being with a guy. We "broke up" when I found out she was already dating a "friend" of mine for a month already. I'm pretty sure now that she wanted to make sure it works out with the bastard before she wanted to break up with me. In case it didn't work out, she wouldn't have said a thing and would've just continued her relationship with me as if nothing happened. However I've spoiled her plans when I found out. Now I'm sure she doesn't give a flying crap about my feelings and hurting me. But yeah, I can't be sure sadly. One of the most hurtful things you can do to your ex is not telling them your reasons and she made sure I had the least info possible.
Hi Craig! Does this apply if my avoidant ex just unfollowed me on social media? In my case we have left each other alone but now 2 months later he did this. Is this just his way of dealing with the grief?
Also, I’ve noticed on Instagram, that she has certain pictures of us up (probably the significant ones to her) especially our 4 year anniversary one but not our 5 year anniversary picture. Why would that be? She has more on Facebook the last time I saw.
"... This will escalate to you showing up at their house, and they threaten to call the cops on you." Sigh... That is *exactly* what happened to me. What do I do?? I've left it now. It's been 4 months since I showed up at her house. I feel so bad... I really didn't mean to frighten her...
Ok, but what if she hasn’t blocked you on Instagram, only on Facebook? Now, I don’t know if she blocked me or just muted me on Facebook, because when I see her name on my friends list, but no picture. When I tap on her name though, nothing appears. I’m so confused and I kinda was hyperventilating last night. I was thinking about it so much this morning, that I barely got through my workout. 😢
@@dwightschrute8141 No contact worked… sort of. I made a secondary Facebook just to message him. I explained why I did what I did, and told him that I was willing to maintain a friendship with him if he was comfortable with it. Otherwise I’d respect his decision to stop all contact. After about a week, he unblocked me from instagram only to angrily message me about how I ruined his life. I listened to him, didn’t interject or create conflict. I just told him that I understood his decision, and hopefully he can find his own happiness. And after about a month of very occasionally minimal small talk, he asked me to call him, and we started building our relationship. The trick is to be patient. You gotta nurture that little emotional connection once you get them to want to talk to you again. Don’t ask too many questions. Don’t ask for closure or anything. Just have respect for yourself, and be the bigger man.
I blocked my ex after she blocked unblocked me 4 5 times. ...I'm not gonna unblock her...she unblocked me now ......Don't give second chance...move on u will find another better one .. value yourself... respect your self... remember you are not their 🧸 toy
I contacted my ex because I felt awful how things ended and how he hates me . Then I told him I really wanted to be friends , but not to worry cause I am seeing someone else . I just want to keep a friendship because I am fond of him and needed some travel tips ( he is expert ) and I am traveling soon . He read my message very quickly and then blocked me !!!!! Come on !!!
Can yal please please please do a video on marriage separation and how it works for “limited contact” I see my ex about 10 min a week when we drop off our son to each other. How can I get her back. We’ve been separated going on 2 months in may and I’m on day 24 of no contact with her about the marriage. I want her back, but she has no desire to reconcile at the moment. From some of your other videos she’s doing the drinking and partying and meeting new friends and getting tattoos. She’s never complimented me in years and complimented my new hair cut in front of her new friend the other day when I dropped my son off and it confused me. She’s taken all our photos down off Facebook and family photos down at home, but hasn’t asked me to come get my stuff from the house. Really confused as to what she wants. The marriage hasn’t been great, we had affairs last year but got back together after a month then, but she told me she loves me and always will but can’t do this anymore and she doesn’t wanna be married to me anymore. That was at breakup and 3 weeks after the breakup, but when I call her my wife now she just looks down and looks for my wedding ring. I’m still wearing mine she isn’t wearing hers. She told me if you love me you’ll let me go so after a month I told her I love you and respect you so I’m letting you go. You need time to heal I need time to grow, and if you still don’t think you can be happy with me when my changes are made then I’ll give you the divorce.....some times we meet she’s distant and doesn’t say much, other times she gives me attitude and I just meet her with calm kindness. What yal think?
I think you made the right decision and to keep doing it! What you said probably got to her and she’s not pleased keep being respectful and strong especially around you’re son she will come back
I think i fail my ex unblock me after 3 weeks of no contact i message her short messages i said Goodmorning how are you and a couple minute she block me again i think there is no hope i hope you read this
Pre. Just leave it be. These types of people want to fck other dudes. They are nothing but trouble and broken. Block her on everything as well. Turo kasi ng America yan. Known as Hierarchy basis. Ang plano nila is to decline population. Sadly, nag-increase of fertility rates kasi of having too many partners. May possibility of abortion pero pare... kadiri sobra. Daming mga sexual transmitted diseases tong mga bastos na tao na to! YIKES! 😬
She removed me from snapchat but not instagram or messenger/facebook and i don't know why. It's not like i was going to snap her after that whole ordeal of a breakup anyway.
My ex blocked and deleted me today, we had a few phone calls the first month and a half, that were positive, then I gave her space as I wasn't sure where we were at and felt she was still confused, after 3 weeks, deleted and blocked me -_- My anxiety and depression are killing me. Did I win?
@@philipc7801 honestly wish you were right, 12th of next month will be a year on the dot, will also be a year of being completely sober. Might be another year before I'm ready for another relationship, I did try, but I knew it was just not the right time and it felt overwhelming and unhealthy, I knew it was not in eithers interest to force it. My old relationship was an EXTREMELY unhealthy and co-dependant relationship, (4 years) and I have a lot to sort out in life after the situation I was in, many pieces to pick up. I've got my car licence, lost a tonne of weight, work out more, nearly a year sober, and and doing a certificate in alcohol and drugs, hoping to specialise in counseling. Honestly, it might take months, it might take years or more to be "over it" I've still a lot of regret for my actions caused due to alcohol, ruined a lot of relationships, and caused infinate amounts of self suffering, I was truly unhappy due to lifestyle and self sabotage (no goals, ambitions etc) It's a slow and long journey to improvement, and you NEED to put yourself first ALWAYS, you can't rely on someone else's validation at the end of the day. The important thing is so focus on yourself, don't be too hard on yourself, it takes as long as it takes, try to keep busy, try new things etc. Anyway, don't want my rant to detract from yourself, sorry, just trying to give some perspective, I know how painful it is, really, it's the worst experience I've had in my life. But find the good, learn a D improve until you're even better for the next lucky woman. I promise it gets easier slowly :) Also remove social media and any other BS I PROMISE it's helpful.
What if he blocks you because he found someone new and don't know how to say it so he blocks you I guess he's gonna unblock you when that one doesn't work out
She blocked me and my entire family after getting into a rebound… I hadn’t talked to her in a month and a half and was leaving her alone. Had no plans to “sabotage” her relationship, as I’m trying to grow. I’m kind of bothered by the fact though for whatever reason.
She blocked me when I asked her about this new guy she was with. She told me she wanted to be single her I saw her post pics on instagram like two months after the brake up and her mom said she met the guy in the middle of the month we broke up
Amen. I send her text over text for like 3 days and called her a few times. I deserve that block :D Nevermind i love her mucho grande and i hope well get along sometime in the future!
My ex blocked me out of nowhere but i see it as a good thing bc it tells me that she wasnt able to deal with the fact that she missed having me around. When we broke up it was her who said she wanted to still follow me on ig and also said she'd only unfollow me if i have a new gf and yet she blocked me anyway. A month a half later after the break up. Im good bc i know u miss me girl ;)
What if I as the dumpee dumped her to protect my boundaries but didn’t stop loving her? She reached out after a week of no contact but i told her I wasn’t comfortable meeting her in person and we go back into no contact(she still watched my stories) and i got randomly blocked after 6 months of no contact lol
My ex blocked me immediately on FB after breakup argument. Pretty sure he wanted to hide that change back to single status. He lied to me saying he was in a relationship with someone else (he wasn't). Still unsure if I want him back for purposely setting out to hurt me.
I got blocked for 2 months then unblocked 3 weeks later i got blocked again. And i asked her why does she do it and she said she didn't know lol. The only reason she reached out because her anxiety started kicking in she thought i was with someone else
I'll tell you EXACTLY why she does that. When my girlfriend of 4 years and I split up for the first time back In May she done the same thing and so did I. After we got back together she confessed that she was curious to see what I was up to and knew the whole time that I was coming back home to be with her and our son. Curiosity creates desire. Don't beg her or come off as clingy. Just appear happy on social media and like you're living your best life and she'll be back. She wouldn't keep blocking/unblocking you If she wasn't Interested. Trust me.
My ex recently unfriended me. Thats after i told her that i dont wanna be friends because i still want a relationship with her. Its so odd that she unfriended me when i dont even post anything these days. Most times, i just like/react on other people's posts. I did post a solo photo of myself on my birthday but thats nothing to be upset about, i dont have a girl on the photo to make her jealous or anything to that effect. She's behaving so weird...
Little update about my situation. So on Wednesday I got together with my ex I stay at her place we were talking she said she wa confuse and she didn’t know what was happening that she was considering getting back together but she was not ready for a relationship again. But the next day I found out that she is talking to another guy telling him that she wants to see him ( she was drunk) and I think they already hooked up and they are still hanging out. By the way I found it because she was using my phone to use her Facebook and she forgot to log out so I check her message she has screenshots of the conversation that she sends to her female friend. So discuss that with her or should I just walk away until o get hurt again ?
You know i had almost the ssme, but i dont think u should stay in that situation. I think it's better for you to stay low, eventually u will get used to it and it don't even matter. If she loves u...u know she will come back. But know your worth tho
So my ex and I broke up a month ago we were together for 8 years she blocked me on everything and yes made some mistakes during no contact what should I do now ????
My ex blocked me by phone, snap, Facebook etc Jan 2021. I don’t understand it and never will. We had the best relationship tbh and one fight ruined it.. it’s like she was looking to fight? Idk. I know I miss her like crazy and wish we could work it out
She asked for space because she had so much stuff going on in her life, past ex ect, i came back after 10 months NC without knowing she got outta a relationship prior.. Everything was going well until i got too needy when she asked for space.. now im blocked, all i told her was that the ball was in her court and that i was fed up with the arguing with her, she just said “oki byee” and blocked me everywhere. I feel so lost again..
She senses your neediness. Just let her go she is attached to her past. It hurts but it’s a lesson simps like us need to learn. We need to be ruthless and not get attached
@@GangstalkingReality Yeah it just sucks, but its the only way to move forward. I was doing alright without her before i can do it again. She is also mentally not right at the moment, work schedule and uni schedule is a massive part too. Im not looking for excuses, i think what hurts the most is that she said her feelings for me were coming back just two weeks ago before all this happened.. Oh well
@@kanenufc873 I feel your pain man. I just broke up with my girl TODAY. She has been disrespectful for some time now and I told her we are done because I wanted to put an end to it because i know it will hurt more later. So she blocked me after I said we are over and gave her reasons why. She only defended the reasons where I attacked her narcissistic and controlling sister and my mother in law. As a matter of fact she ignored all my reasons and just defended the ones attacking her family. So I knew her sister or mother told her told block me as a narcissistic power move. I feel bad for her because she is 30 and at this point will never be happy. I’m confident I was her last opportunity. I won’t go back because my balls are made of steel and will bust for no one. I’m down bad but my pride won’t let me. If you ever wanna talk for advice and bounce of experiences let me know bro
@@GangstalkingReality Yeah man that would be great, im sorry to hear that bro, i only got blocked last night too.. Im 22 and shes 21.. She blocked me on everything after i said i was fed up with the arguing and just the crap we went through, i told her that the balls in her court and she fuckin blocked me, cant believe it man, but yeah what way did you want to connect?
@@kanenufc873 yeah man I can really relate and I’ve been trying to send you ways to contact me here but somehow RUclips deletes my comment with my social media or number
Don't know if he blocked me on his phone because I haven't contact him since the breakup and I haven't heard from either. It's been a year and a half already 😂 ..... 😐 What does this mean or say about him? Besides the obvious that's he's done. Wondering if he broke up with me because he found someone else. I shouldn't be thinking anything about him, but if you only knew our relationship, you'd understand how wronged I am and angry from him.
@@MrCjchamp yeah I figured. He wasn't the best to me but it still hurts especially since I let him do whatever he wanted. Didn't try to change him. Just wanted quality time with him in person. Thanks for replying
I suspected once my ex left me 6 days after we broke up because she went out on a date with an ex, I told some friends in comfort and she messaged me saying you’re a joke why have you told people that I cheated on you and then she blocked me, eventually got found out that no one messaged her and she made it up because that’s how I am😂😂
Ex said he would contact me when ready , really don't know what to do it's so hard not talking irs excruciating. Can you do a video on what to do when someone says they will contact you when they are ready blocked on everything but 1 thing
Nah. Just leave him. The "when I am ready" or "I need space" bullcrap is just another word "your a safety net, I "got high standards", and seeing another better grass on the other fence when you don't work out" thing. Hierarchy basis taught by America to decline population. Sadly it is doing the opposite for so many complex relationships instead of sticking to just one partner. Too many sexual diseases. YIKES! 😬
Me and my ex are having a baby and it’s her second one and we were fighting she said she needed space and and didn’t want to talk and blocked me she’s 7 weeks now help me guys
heyy dear, if you seriously want your ex back i can recommend you to the same man that helped me get back my ex without any delay in less than 24 hours 😊
I cut all contact.. then she would ask me for favours I honoured the first two.. then the tired I didn't reply because I was busy with work. And next thing I get blocked everywhere?
@@bhavinpitrola1963 I’m in a similar situation I noticed that my ex look on my snap thru her brother snap but blocked me on her snap and her brother don’t even get on snap 😂
@@moneytime1556 Yeah they have these sneaky habits to try and spy on you so that they feel validated. And as you said no contact whatsoever. Mine is dating someone and still asking for favours. Then blocking me and coming to stalk me on LinkedIn.
@@bhavinpitrola1963 yea you got to make it seem to them you moved on and you not worried about them. Cuz at some point whoever they talking to not gonna last or they going to do something that turns them off.
Coach Craig. My x unfriended me from Snapchat… but kept me on Facebook. Emmanuel what is your experience? I’m 2 weeks into no contact and I truly think it’s just getting worse
I blocked my ex and will never look back😂 she was watching my stories on her birthday didn’t return the favour. Give it time and you’ll probably not want them back
Or you could make your account private. She is clearly disturbing your peace and giving mixed signals, so you might as well block her. Sometimes people just get curious but that doesn't mean they care. I check up on random people for no reason, I do check my exes too, but I don't really care. It's just boredom and curiosity. Maybe she does want you back, but would you take back someone who blocked you and is hiding behind a fake account and doesn't make a first move which is the bare minimum?
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Good as always 🙂 you definitely will help people grow,like you did with me :) thankyou, now we can grow,with the now understanding that being blocked isn't the end of the world,& can learn how to focus on ourselves more, & not focus on being blocked.
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good video,myex blocked me in early May have gone no contact.i think it is a shabby thng to do with a person who was part of your life......I called maybe 5-6 times in 2 weeks and never left a message but once
Just remember no matter how many blocks they put up YOUR MEMORY WILL HAUNT THEM. The best way to deal with it is accept it and move on.
If they blocked you out of no where while you are following no contact, trust me guys these dumpers always expect that we as dumpees will beg and plead until we loose our self respect but when we don't do that as we start following no contact rule they get mad because we have done something unexpected and eventually they block us just for the simple fact that they couldn't able to handle our attitude. So we actually won the game guys, you all should feel happy that you showed them that you are such a high value person and you deserve a pat on your back for this, don't get hurt just for the simple fact that they blocked you😄
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@@MS-rd1tn well it's been 1 yr now and i have totally moved on from the breakup and so i can tell that no contact rules actually works! I remember in my initial breakup stage she blocked me( i didn't even texted or called her after the breakup as i started the no contact rule but still got blocked) but after 3 months she automatically unblocked me out of no where, i didn't texted her nor she texted me as for now i have moved on in my life so much that i don't even have her number or anything to contact her nor do i have any interest in getting back together, she is just a past memory for me. Just stay strong and you will get thru this stage✌
I've been blocked everywhere. I guess I'm doing no contact whether I like it or not 🤣
Same here. 😅
Same here. But eventually she will unblock me. I just got this feeling
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It's in your best interest to just move on if you were blocked. Blocking sends a pretty clear message that they are moving on with someone else and/or they just plain want nothing to do with you.
Rude !
But things can change with time, it’s not set in stone. That being said you shouldn’t wait for someone, it’s best to work on oneself and live one’s life fully.
indeed! i blocked ma ex everywhere cuz i dont wanna be friends also dont wanna hear from him no mo.
Amen!!!!! Let them have what they want --- for good!!!!!
9 months after breakup and still blocked! 🤦🏻♂️ This is truly the first time I haven't had a second chance from a breakup. Blocking sucks but it's their way of saying "F U" just leave them alone, there's nothing you can do but work on yourself
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@@marianmorgan9756 i do not want, nor do I need your help bot.
I'm 8 months blocked myself. Also the first time I've not had a second chance. His reason for the breakup was "I liked him too much but was distant". Don't understand that, but I'm in a way heathier place now. I hope you're doing well yourself.
This is such a immature thing. I can’t believe adults does this.
5:04 She blocked me after one month of no contact. Since I didn't contact her I asume she is trying to forget me but couldn't, so she is doing everything she can. I "think the more you try to forget someone, the harder it is"
She unblocked me again a week later, and now she blocked me again😂
My ex told me that I was his world, but after sometime I realised that he was creating a solar system & I was 4th planet in it ✌🏼😇
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Back in the late 80s, an ex gf kicked me to the curb hard. 2 years later, she reached out and wanted to get back together again. My response: Nope.
2 years ????????? Omg
It feels like a stab on the chest when you get blocked because you really love that person and way horrible that this person still loves others that don't love em back. Yes, I was the rebound and it sucks! Thank you so much for your work Craig, Margaret and Victoria.
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It’s a horrible pain 😔 sorry you went through that
@@coachvictoria6405 thanks for your support coach Vicky ✨
I still can’t believe it ended this way. I’m in so much pain. I miss her so much. I love her so much. I was blocked on all social media on day one, and blocked on the phone 3 days later. I’m devastated. This isn’t supposed to happen to me. I’m a good person. 😢
Same thing
In my opinion as a woman, fight your urge to contact her it will not change anything she will perceive you as very weak man. We don’t want a weak man with no self control. Let her have her space and when her thoughts are gathered she will come to you. She may or may not come back but use your time without her to be better for yourself.
My ex came back after one and a half year. Thanks coach for helping me through these difficult times. Whatever you are saying worked. I followed your advice, not initially but later on and it helped.Thank you!
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I was blocked 2 years ago. It still hurts. One thing for sure is I will never be the same. It was a blessing in a way. All pain lends itself towards growth.... but I still care about her. I miss the feelings we shared. She became attached very quickly, then so did I, then she very rudely and abruptly discarded me. Told me off as bad as possible. Really hurtful. All I could think is for her to act so hurtful towards me... that she must have been very hurt before...
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Exact same thing here, it's not your fault. Some people are just like that. She discarded me like I was trash and blocked me after 1 month of no contact. Leave them be, you deserve better.
Was blocked everywhere on socials and by number 2 weeks ago. Was never told we were done, we were breaking up, she wanted out; nope she straight ghosted me and blocked after a small dispute.
I didn't talk to her for 1 day because I needed time to collect my thoughts after the dispute and this is how she retaliates. Easily the hardest breakup I've been through because it just feels so unresolved and heartless.
I refuse to chase and reach out by other means, she has to face life with my absence.
I got blocked during NC and it’s not like we ended on bad terms. I told him I was going to respect that he no longer wished to be together and I still got blocked. It’s really painful. 8 years together and he’s trying to erase me from his memory 💔
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If relationship is all space space space, where is the relationship??? Where is the family prospect??? Where is respect to the other person’s needs? Where is care as a foundation of relationship???
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Good question! What I take away from these videos is, you go through all this time and effort with no contact, and then showing them your going on with your life, etc to try to get them back, when there’s probably little to no chance of it happening but by the time you get through with all these steps to win them back, it’s been long enough that you don’t care anymore.
Amen, Amen, Amen!!!!! 💯 At what point is it about intimacy and affection?????!!!!!
There is no relationship!!!!! If the people what to be together , no space needed
Trust these coaches! Im living proof 90 days of no contact and blocked by my ex. Now ive just been unblocked on facebook... but im not reaching out! He unblocked me ..he has to do the work. He dumped me dismissive avoidant personality.
So takes time for this type of person to come around... just leave them alone. You will be unblocked... just waiting for the reach out it has to be their idea. Ok.
Hope my input helps others.
I'm finding the whole being blocked situation very difficult, happened after 10 weeks of no contact, now 12 weeks no contact... she told me she still loves me when we broke up, her family issues and her past divorce caused her to get scared of how amazing our relationship was and it felt like she just threw it all away. Listening to these videos help with the anxiety, thanks Craig and Victoria.
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It has been over one year and i am still blocked everywhere.
Tried to call a few times from a hidden number, she didn't want to talk when she answered.. last time we talked she said she doesn't feel any love towards me, that there is nothing between us anymore, and never will be, and that i should find another girl and be happy.
I've only been into this video 4:36 and all that was said so far is absolutely practical and to the point. The reason for saying this is: My ex of 10 years decided to break up with me. She blocked my landline and cell phone, and even go as far as to block me from her father's phone as well. She didn't even as much as open up and call me on my birthday. This really hurts you know. Now, I'll continue to watch this video.
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After a year & 4 months of NC Im still blocked...
Even tho it hurt to look, I’m glad I’ve grown so much!
My biggest accomplishment has to be quitting drinking, It’s crazy to think I was so out of control with my emotions while intoxicated.
Now I’m sober and have no intention on drinking for good. She wouldn’t even recognize the person I’ve become. 🙃
Thanks for helping me get this far Craig, with all you’re videos I am truly glad I took you’re advice.
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It's the worst feeling in the world. Being led on so extremely and then ghosted, when asked her about it, didn't exactly get a reasonable answer.. Started no contact and after 2 weeks in she blocked me on everything. I'm still blocked a further 3 weeks later. Pretty sure it's permanent because of how cold she became towards the end. Just want to get her our of my head and move on but she keeps appearing in my mind no matter how hard I try.
Before meeting her I was so happy alone and wasn't even looking for anything but she made me feel I had found what I needed so I became attached.
was her name selena because i had this just happen to me 😂😂
sounds like my ex i had multiple women when i met her she kept pursuing until
i gave them up that’s when she stopped trying
That’s me, I didn’t respect my exes wish for space when she told me to leave her alone so now I’m blocked for two months. I was freaking out when I figured it out but stopped after a day 🙄 I just didn’t know better at that time
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Two video suggestions
1. Another (when It's time to let go, because it's been x amount of time and there's no hope they're coming back)
2. Who dumped who? (My ex convinced me I dumped her, and that led me to a lot of self blame, depression, took Margaret in a Skype to hear my opinion to say she dumped me, but my ex was convinced i dumped her)
I'd love you to do a video on my story, i think it's quite a good one for others to learn from aswell Craig
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“if it’s meant to be in the future it will be” and went on to say she doesn’t wanna hinder my growth or change, or stop me from moving on.
Blocking is an emotionally reactive response. If someone left who has made a decision they’re happy with, they wouldn’t feel the need to block you anywhere because they would be too busy getting on with their life without you. This means they’re not indifferent to you and feelings quite clearly are still there
Hi Craig, thank you for the amazing content. Could you possibly do a video on explaining why an ex would mute your social media, restrict you from theirs but not remove or block you completely?
I have been in no contact for 36 days, he blocked and unfriended me today...couldn't understand what went wrong
My ex and his rebound ended after 5 months and now he’s reaching out to me again. I just went into NC and he never heard from me being bitter about him going into a rebound a week after I broke up with him. Now he’s going to my city in a few days to hang out with me and even bring me back to his city.
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My ex hasn't unblocked me for 8-9 months and that was after he announced relationship with someone else I'm unsure if he will ever unlock me now unless their still in honeymoon faise,was just curious which is why I watched this video,I don't really mind anymore as I have filled my life with more important amazing thing's that make me happy ☺️
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@@brandonlynn8770 yeah phone changes my wording thanks for pointing that out hey
My ex blocked me right before his birthday. He broke up with me saying he is in depression and can’t put effort and time in a relationship. He told me he was open to talk to me again when he’ll feel better. He said he never has someone who care that much about him and who try to understand mental health. I still have a hard time accepting he didn’t want me to support him. We are in NC so I dont understand why he blocked me. It’s like I re live the break up again. Now, Im sure he doesn’t want us to be in contact ever again. It hurts so much
I just blocked my ex. Did it for myself so I can move on and also feel some sense of power back. I don’t want his breadcrumbs anymore either. He’s in a rebound relationship anyway so they can have each other. I’m out!
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I’ve been blocked for 3 months I Really miss him
Great video full of excellent advice, thanks.
This whole relationship thing sucks and I no longer see a point. It's always the same thing... no one knows how to be honest with themselves let alone others.
My ex told me he got drunk and told his new GF that he still loves me alot... then blocked me.
WTF? I give up.
And that was over a month ago. How much time is needed... Not once have I had an ex every try to reconnect with me so...
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Thankyou very much for this. My boyfriend has pathologically blocked me and unblocked me and then blocked me again. He's now blocked me again. Do you think he'll unblock me again? I really upset him this time and I just feel like shit
He probably will YAHUAH (God) willing give him time all things are possible you know!
If he cares about you and thinks about you still. He will definitely unblock you. Depending on how long it takes for him to unblock is up to him. It's been 8 months since you posted you comment. Hopefully you and your ex were able to work things out and if not hopefully you're with someone that is making you happy.
47 days no contact after my ex boyfriend finished with me he has blocked me on everything and all my family and friends. Its so hard wanting to reach out and you can't but they need to contact you first x
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@@danielszikora1345 nope I'm at 6 months nearly now and still nothing.
@@cherylwright2575 And are you still hoping? That sounds kinda long
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U got it
So she blocked my number I sent her an email she told me she want no contact so it’s been 3 weeks of no contact once the pain and hurt is gone ill be ok. Stay strong everyone
I needed to hear that. Can’t wait till coach Victoria starts coaching sessions.
It won’t be any time soon because she will have phenomenal training! She is currently joining Margaret on most of her calls, so there is a high probability you will meet her if you do a coaching with Margaret!
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It's a power move for sure. Take back your power by blocking them and never unblocking them. That way, when they decide they want to play with you again, they can't. Then YOU have the power.
she unblocked me and a week later while i was in no contact she blocked me on everything. I know she is seeing a other guy but my god. We were in a 6 year relationship this hurts on another level
I dated my ex for four years. She did the same thing to me, but I don't know if she is dating some other guy. My memories that I had with my ex always pop up a lot in my head and will think of the good times. I hope somehow that you will be able to recover and be able to be happy again. I've been hurting for a year of missing my ex even though we would still text after the breakup. But I got blocked on everything and have no way to contact her. Wishing you the best.
@@GrimsGamingAdventures you too buddy, we didn't deserve this
mine blocked me for an entire year. randomly unblocked for about a month(saw all of my tagged pictures show back up) i kept completely silent and didnt reachout. then randomly got blocked again for seemingly no reason after i shared one single thing. A Teddy Roosevelt quote (man in the arena)
much confuse. such wow
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I’m blocked everywhere lol even venmo, ngl coach Craig and Victoria it’s been tough the last 50 days or so. Wish I knew about this channel before the breakup that way I would know how to act or react to the breakup. After block and she threatened to call the cops, I decided it’s best for me to go no contact, well I had to either way 😂. Before the block my ex was breadcrumbing me and being hot and cold. I’m just so confused, we even exchanged our stuff back , i noticed immediately she didn’t give me all my stuff back
Sometimes they block to punish you and get what they want
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How effective is no contact and the anxiety of loosing you when blocked? Does it play out the same way?
I've got blocked a year ago. We were together for nearly 6 years. Still blocked. Go figure. :D
@@andrasziegenham6766 I'm very sorry to hear that. I feel you. I got blocked after a long distance break up and after two years I am still blocked
@@abolzero311 yeah it might have to do with long distance. I sometimes wonder if she cheated on me because I wanted to leave the country, then later I wanted to just move to the other side of it. I wonder if it helps her keep me blocked that she thinks I'll never return to her city anyways. I think it would be a LOT harder for her if she knew I was very much within reach.
@@andrasziegenham6766 sometimes I also make assumptions like that but it really doesn't help. The feeling that stops them from reaching out might be shame or fear of getting hurt again. Or they think it might hurt us more if they actually would have to tell us that they are with someone else now. However at this point we can't be really sure
@@abolzero311 Yeah, I know it doesn't help. But she didn't even give me a breakup talk, so I've had to make up my own story about her reasons to dump me in the first place. It took me months to finally reach a conclusion that is both realistic and acceptable to me. Unfortunately this messed so much with my head, that I continue to make stuff up to cope.
I agree that shame might hold her back. She has plenty of reasons to be ashamed. I wonder how does she even look into the mirror. She was also avoiding all conflicts like the plague even during the relationship, so I also agree she might fear talking about it. She can't face her flaws. If I've made these self improvements before meeting her, I would've ditched her after weeks. She is really not relationship material.
I'm 100% sure she doesn't care about hurting me and definitely not about her being with a guy. We "broke up" when I found out she was already dating a "friend" of mine for a month already. I'm pretty sure now that she wanted to make sure it works out with the bastard before she wanted to break up with me. In case it didn't work out, she wouldn't have said a thing and would've just continued her relationship with me as if nothing happened. However I've spoiled her plans when I found out. Now I'm sure she doesn't give a flying crap about my feelings and hurting me.
But yeah, I can't be sure sadly. One of the most hurtful things you can do to your ex is not telling them your reasons and she made sure I had the least info possible.
Hi Craig!
Does this apply if my avoidant ex just unfollowed me on social media? In my case we have left each other alone but now 2 months later he did this. Is this just his way of dealing with the grief?
He’s probably dating someone new and doesn’t want you to know his business.
Also, I’ve noticed on Instagram, that she has certain pictures of us up (probably the significant ones to her) especially our 4 year anniversary one but not our 5 year anniversary picture. Why would that be? She has more on Facebook the last time I saw.
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"... This will escalate to you showing up at their house, and they threaten to call the cops on you."
Sigh... That is *exactly* what happened to me.
What do I do?? I've left it now. It's been 4 months since I showed up at her house. I feel so bad... I really didn't mean to frighten her...
Ok, but what if she hasn’t blocked you on Instagram, only on Facebook? Now, I don’t know if she blocked me or just muted me on Facebook, because when I see her name on my friends list, but no picture. When I tap on her name though, nothing appears. I’m so confused and I kinda was hyperventilating last night. I was thinking about it so much this morning, that I barely got through my workout. 😢
Meanwhile, I'm just hoping my ex isn't watching that video. There's no way in hell I'm unblocking that jerk! 😆
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Unless you got money or know your way around the bedroom. She not coming back
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I blocked my ex off Instagram and Snapchat because I felt overwhelmed watching their stories. And he retaliated by blocking me everywhere.
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@@dwightschrute8141 No contact worked… sort of.
I made a secondary Facebook just to message him. I explained why I did what I did, and told him that I was willing to maintain a friendship with him if he was comfortable with it. Otherwise I’d respect his decision to stop all contact. After about a week, he unblocked me from instagram only to angrily message me about how I ruined his life. I listened to him, didn’t interject or create conflict. I just told him that I understood his decision, and hopefully he can find his own happiness. And after about a month of very occasionally minimal small talk, he asked me to call him, and we started building our relationship.
The trick is to be patient. You gotta nurture that little emotional connection once you get them to want to talk to you again. Don’t ask too many questions. Don’t ask for closure or anything. Just have respect for yourself, and be the bigger man.
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I contacted my ex because I felt awful how things ended and how he hates me . Then I told him I really wanted to be friends , but not to worry cause I am seeing someone else . I just want to keep a friendship because I am fond of him and needed some travel tips ( he is expert ) and I am traveling soon . He read my message very quickly and then blocked me !!!!! Come on !!!
Can yal please please please do a video on marriage separation and how it works for “limited contact” I see my ex about 10 min a week when we drop off our son to each other. How can I get her back. We’ve been separated going on 2 months in may and I’m on day 24 of no contact with her about the marriage. I want her back, but she has no desire to reconcile at the moment. From some of your other videos she’s doing the drinking and partying and meeting new friends and getting tattoos. She’s never complimented me in years and complimented my new hair cut in front of her new friend the other day when I dropped my son off and it confused me. She’s taken all our photos down off Facebook and family photos down at home, but hasn’t asked me to come get my stuff from the house. Really confused as to what she wants. The marriage hasn’t been great, we had affairs last year but got back together after a month then, but she told me she loves me and always will but can’t do this anymore and she doesn’t wanna be married to me anymore. That was at breakup and 3 weeks after the breakup, but when I call her my wife now she just looks down and looks for my wedding ring. I’m still wearing mine she isn’t wearing hers. She told me if you love me you’ll let me go so after a month I told her I love you and respect you so I’m letting you go. You need time to heal I need time to grow, and if you still don’t think you can be happy with me when my changes are made then I’ll give you the divorce.....some times we meet she’s distant and doesn’t say much, other times she gives me attitude and I just meet her with calm kindness. What yal think?
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I think you made the right decision and to keep doing it! What you said probably got to her and she’s not pleased keep being respectful and strong especially around you’re son she will come back
I think i fail my ex unblock me after 3 weeks of no contact i message her short messages i said Goodmorning how are you and a couple minute she block me again i think there is no hope i hope you read this
Pre. Just leave it be. These types of people want to fck other dudes. They are nothing but trouble and broken. Block her on everything as well.
Turo kasi ng America yan. Known as Hierarchy basis. Ang plano nila is to decline population. Sadly, nag-increase of fertility rates kasi of having too many partners. May possibility of abortion pero pare... kadiri sobra. Daming mga sexual transmitted diseases tong mga bastos na tao na to! YIKES! 😬
She removed me from snapchat but not instagram or messenger/facebook and i don't know why. It's not like i was going to snap her after that whole ordeal of a breakup anyway.
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This happened to me
Iv been blocked for a little over 4 months. Been in NC the entire time.
I think sometimes guys block women knowing they won’t have future together and won’t be friends either so why bother all that emotional engagement
Because straight men don't know how to emotionally engage!!!!!
My ex blocked and deleted me today, we had a few phone calls the first month and a half, that were positive, then I gave her space as I wasn't sure where we were at and felt she was still confused, after 3 weeks, deleted and blocked me -_-
My anxiety and depression are killing me.
Did I win?
@Dominic Francis who knows honestly. Good luck and good riddance.
Update?
@@philipc7801 She unblocked at around the 6 month mark, sent a "
@@everilliem3292 nice man. I guess you've likely moved on and got over it now. I'm not there yet
@@philipc7801 honestly wish you were right, 12th of next month will be a year on the dot, will also be a year of being completely sober.
Might be another year before I'm ready for another relationship, I did try, but I knew it was just not the right time and it felt overwhelming and unhealthy, I knew it was not in eithers interest to force it.
My old relationship was an EXTREMELY unhealthy and co-dependant relationship, (4 years) and I have a lot to sort out in life after the situation I was in, many pieces to pick up.
I've got my car licence, lost a tonne of weight, work out more, nearly a year sober, and and doing a certificate in alcohol and drugs, hoping to specialise in counseling.
Honestly, it might take months, it might take years or more to be "over it"
I've still a lot of regret for my actions caused due to alcohol, ruined a lot of relationships, and caused infinate amounts of self suffering, I was truly unhappy due to lifestyle and self sabotage (no goals, ambitions etc)
It's a slow and long journey to improvement, and you NEED to put yourself first ALWAYS, you can't rely on someone else's validation at the end of the day.
The important thing is so focus on yourself, don't be too hard on yourself, it takes as long as it takes, try to keep busy, try new things etc.
Anyway, don't want my rant to detract from yourself, sorry, just trying to give some perspective, I know how painful it is, really, it's the worst experience I've had in my life.
But find the good, learn a D improve until you're even better for the next lucky woman.
I promise it gets easier slowly :)
Also remove social media and any other BS I PROMISE it's helpful.
What if he blocks you because he found someone new and don't know how to say it so he blocks you I guess he's gonna unblock you when that one doesn't work out
She blocked me and my entire family after getting into a rebound… I hadn’t talked to her in a month and a half and was leaving her alone. Had no plans to “sabotage” her relationship, as I’m trying to grow. I’m kind of bothered by the fact though for whatever reason.
She’s for the streets
She blocked me when I asked her about this new guy she was with. She told me she wanted to be single her I saw her post pics on instagram like two months after the brake up and her mom said she met the guy in the middle of the month we broke up
Called my ex 20 times after we broke up…I guess she had to block me hahaha.
Amen. I send her text over text for like 3 days and called her a few times. I deserve that block :D
Nevermind i love her mucho grande and i hope well get along sometime in the future!
My ex unfollowed me from insta because i wasn't contacting her due to no contact. What should i do?
My ex blocked me out of nowhere but i see it as a good thing bc it tells me that she wasnt able to deal with the fact that she missed having me around. When we broke up it was her who said she wanted to still follow me on ig and also said she'd only unfollow me if i have a new gf and yet she blocked me anyway. A month a half later after the break up. Im good bc i know u miss me girl ;)
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What if I as the dumpee dumped her to protect my boundaries but didn’t stop loving her? She reached out after a week of no contact but i told her I wasn’t comfortable meeting her in person and we go back into no contact(she still watched my stories) and i got randomly blocked after 6 months of no contact lol
Im blocked on FB since jan. And my ex never followed me on IG but removed me from followers..i dont watch and stalk...
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Update?
My ex blocked me immediately on FB after breakup argument. Pretty sure he wanted to hide that change back to single status. He lied to me saying he was in a relationship with someone else (he wasn't). Still unsure if I want him back for purposely setting out to hurt me.
True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope isn't lost.
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I got blocked for 2 months then unblocked 3 weeks later i got blocked again. And i asked her why does she do it and she said she didn't know lol. The only reason she reached out because her anxiety started kicking in she thought i was with someone else
I'll tell you EXACTLY why she does that. When my girlfriend of 4 years and I split up for the first time back In May she done the same thing and so did I. After we got back together she confessed that she was curious to see what I was up to and knew the whole time that I was coming back home to be with her and our son. Curiosity creates desire. Don't beg her or come off as clingy. Just appear happy on social media and like you're living your best life and she'll be back. She wouldn't keep blocking/unblocking you If she wasn't Interested. Trust me.
What should I do since my ex has unblocked me recently?
Nothing, she has to reach out. Do you have any update?
My ex recently unfriended me. Thats after i told her that i dont wanna be friends because i still want a relationship with her. Its so odd that she unfriended me when i dont even post anything these days. Most times, i just like/react on other people's posts. I did post a solo photo of myself on my birthday but thats nothing to be upset about, i dont have a girl on the photo to make her jealous or anything to that effect. She's behaving so weird...
Wow that's really weird, sorry she did that to you.
Little update about my situation. So on Wednesday I got together with my ex I stay at her place we were talking she said she wa confuse and she didn’t know what was happening that she was considering getting back together but she was not ready for a relationship again. But the next day I found out that she is talking to another guy telling him that she wants to see him ( she was drunk) and I think they already hooked up and they are still hanging out. By the way I found it because she was using my phone to use her Facebook and she forgot to log out so I check her message she has screenshots of the conversation that she sends to her female friend. So discuss that with her or should I just walk away until o get hurt again ?
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You know i had almost the ssme, but i dont think u should stay in that situation. I think it's better for you to stay low, eventually u will get used to it and it don't even matter. If she loves u...u know she will come back. But know your worth tho
You deserve better. Leave the relationship, focus on yourself and find someone who values you
Walk away
So my ex and I broke up a month ago we were together for 8 years she blocked me on everything and yes made some mistakes during no contact what should I do now ????
My ex blocked me by phone, snap, Facebook etc Jan 2021. I don’t understand it and never will. We had the best relationship tbh and one fight ruined it.. it’s like she was looking to fight? Idk. I know I miss her like crazy and wish we could work it out
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She asked for space because she had so much stuff going on in her life, past ex ect, i came back after 10 months NC without knowing she got outta a relationship prior.. Everything was going well until i got too needy when she asked for space.. now im blocked, all i told her was that the ball was in her court and that i was fed up with the arguing with her, she just said “oki byee” and blocked me everywhere. I feel so lost again..
She senses your neediness. Just let her go she is attached to her past. It hurts but it’s a lesson simps like us need to learn. We need to be ruthless and not get attached
@@GangstalkingReality Yeah it just sucks, but its the only way to move forward. I was doing alright without her before i can do it again. She is also mentally not right at the moment, work schedule and uni schedule is a massive part too. Im not looking for excuses, i think what hurts the most is that she said her feelings for me were coming back just two weeks ago before all this happened.. Oh well
@@kanenufc873 I feel your pain man. I just broke up with my girl TODAY. She has been disrespectful for some time now and I told her we are done because I wanted to put an end to it because i know it will hurt more later. So she blocked me after I said we are over and gave her reasons why. She only defended the reasons where I attacked her narcissistic and controlling sister and my mother in law. As a matter of fact she ignored all my reasons and just defended the ones attacking her family. So I knew her sister or mother told her told block me as a narcissistic power move. I feel bad for her because she is 30 and at this point will never be happy. I’m confident I was her last opportunity. I won’t go back because my balls are made of steel and will bust for no one. I’m down bad but my pride won’t let me. If you ever wanna talk for advice and bounce of experiences let me know bro
@@GangstalkingReality Yeah man that would be great, im sorry to hear that bro, i only got blocked last night too.. Im 22 and shes 21.. She blocked me on everything after i said i was fed up with the arguing and just the crap we went through, i told her that the balls in her court and she fuckin blocked me, cant believe it man, but yeah what way did you want to connect?
@@kanenufc873 yeah man I can really relate and I’ve been trying to send you ways to contact me here but somehow RUclips deletes my comment with my social media or number
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True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope isn't lost.
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Don't know if he blocked me on his phone because I haven't contact him since the breakup and I haven't heard from either. It's been a year and a half already 😂 ..... 😐
What does this mean or say about him? Besides the obvious that's he's done. Wondering if he broke up with me because he found someone else. I shouldn't be thinking anything about him, but if you only knew our relationship, you'd understand how wronged I am and angry from him.
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@@MrCjchamp yeah I figured. He wasn't the best to me but it still hurts especially since I let him do whatever he wanted. Didn't try to change him. Just wanted quality time with him in person. Thanks for replying
Does the same logic apply for deleting and reading someone?
it really works our for me get my ex back
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my ex come back to me within 48hours..
I suspected once my ex left me 6 days after we broke up because she went out on a date with an ex, I told some friends in comfort and she messaged me saying you’re a joke why have you told people that I cheated on you and then she blocked me, eventually got found out that no one messaged her and she made it up because that’s how I am😂😂
Ex said he would contact me when ready , really don't know what to do it's so hard not talking irs excruciating. Can you do a video on what to do when someone says they will contact you when they are ready blocked on everything but 1 thing
Nah. Just leave him. The "when I am ready" or "I need space" bullcrap is just another word "your a safety net, I "got high standards", and seeing another better grass on the other fence when you don't work out" thing.
Hierarchy basis taught by America to decline population. Sadly it is doing the opposite for so many complex relationships instead of sticking to just one partner. Too many sexual diseases. YIKES! 😬
Me and my ex are having a baby and it’s her second one and we were fighting she said she needed space and and didn’t want to talk and blocked me she’s 7 weeks now help me guys
Does your ex still go through the same stages and feelings of no contact if they've blocked you? Thanks
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Well, i block my ex and after 25 days he blocked,what should i do in this case
I cut all contact.. then she would ask me for favours I honoured the first two.. then the tired I didn't reply because I was busy with work. And next thing I get blocked everywhere?
Let them sit with there decisions don’t reach out at all or try to contact that or anything I know it’s hard. You can do it. 💯
@@moneytime1556 thank you for the kind words
@@bhavinpitrola1963 I’m in a similar situation I noticed that my ex look on my snap thru her brother snap but blocked me on her snap and her brother don’t even get on snap 😂
@@moneytime1556 Yeah they have these sneaky habits to try and spy on you so that they feel validated. And as you said no contact whatsoever. Mine is dating someone and still asking for favours. Then blocking me and coming to stalk me on LinkedIn.
@@bhavinpitrola1963 yea you got to make it seem to them you moved on and you not worried about them. Cuz at some point whoever they talking to not gonna last or they going to do something that turns them off.
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Coach Craig. My x unfriended me from Snapchat… but kept me on Facebook.
Emmanuel what is your experience? I’m 2 weeks into no contact and I truly think it’s just getting worse
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*(walter white voice)* I am the one who blocks.
I am not blocked but he erased my number after 10 months of no contact. I am not getting it.
I blocked my ex and will never look back😂 she was watching my stories on her birthday didn’t return the favour. Give it time and you’ll probably not want them back
True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope isn't lost.
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Hey @craig he is blocked me on all platforms and I don’t know whether he will speak to me again
True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope isn't lost.
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Shes blocked me for like 8/9 months but is now watching my stories with a fake account. Do I block this account??
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Or you could make your account private. She is clearly disturbing your peace and giving mixed signals, so you might as well block her. Sometimes people just get curious but that doesn't mean they care. I check up on random people for no reason, I do check my exes too, but I don't really care. It's just boredom and curiosity. Maybe she does want you back, but would you take back someone who blocked you and is hiding behind a fake account and doesn't make a first move which is the bare minimum?
It feels like she never existed lol all I got now is memory’s it kinda makes it easier to move on tbh
He won’t block me he refuses to block me and he with someone else 🤦🏾♀️
I actually got blocked after my secret burner accounts were discovered 😂.