I’m an INFJ and my husband is ENFP. It’s crazy how immediately we felt that connection once we started getting to know each other. I’m incredibly thankful to have him in my life to understand me, challenge me, and connect on the level that happens so easily.
Im an ENFP (according to similar minds+ ennanegram). I have been married to originally we thought an ISTJ. This will be our 13th year anniversary this october. She was young when I met her, 19 years difference between us. Now at 31 she has realized quite a few things about her upbringing which on the surface to me looked like the perfect traditional parenting. Turns out her Dad has serious issues that she is just now realizing. My understanding is that these tests don't change if taken properly. Lately she took a test and it came out totally different, can being raised by a very narcissistic father who is the stay-at-home dad and very dominating actually cause someone to be a different personality type? She recently tested out as an ISFJ. WTF?
If you are part of this combo, get ready for real intimacy. Be ready to be naked in every way possible. No fights with armor, no lies, no pretending. It's as real and as beautiful as it gets. It's a really deep connection and it feels like coming home. It's a new level of trust and security. I will not give my ENFP away, ever. This INFJ is the happiest she's ever been in a relationship 🥰
I'm infj male and just met an enfp female when looking on dating site. I've never had anyone so curiously challenge my mind in her questions to me about God, life, character, the invasion of Ukraine, suffering, the question of innocence, why God doesn't seemingly answer prayers. I was able to share ideas in my mind that I've NEVER ever shared before, because nobody's ever bothered to go deep with me. I have deep thoughts, I've thought deeply about many subjects over the years. I feel like my mind has been released from solitude. So I'm going to pursue her with all my heart.
He does answer prayers if you ask them in all sincerity ie:- not to win the lottery, oh and by the way sometimes the answer is no but he’s waiting to hear from you and wants to help.
My business partner and I get along AMAZINGLY well. I am an INFJ and he an ENFP. We are both extra considerate when it comes to dealing with one another and never fight, even when we disagree. He points out to me when I am overthinking and not taking enough action, while I help him to slow down at times and consider the possibilities he may be overlooking. We are like opposite twins that balance each other out in a peaceful, productive way. Interesting fact: I (INFJ) seem to talk even more than my ENFP partner when speaking to people that we know. However, when it comes to speaking to and building rapport with strangers, my ENFP partner crushes me in that area.
About the last part, I think it's a matter of boredom when it comes to people ENFPs know (source: am one). Personally, I don't really enjoy talking to people I've talked to millions of times before, unless I find them particularly interesting. Maybe your partner finds the people you both know already to be boring?
OK - what is your definition of fair? "We dont want to win, we want to be heard and things to be fair" ... So who gets to decide what is fair? You are assuming that your interpretation of fairness is absolute? In what regards ? Emotionally ? I am not asking to be rude, I truly want to know what is your definition of 'fair' and what would be considered 'unfair'. I truly am curious about this. What is the difference between what is Right vs. what is Fair ? Are they the same ? What if I told you sometimes it is through 'unfairness' that people actually learn and grow. Then is being unfair a bad thing ?
Nah fam ...we want to win ...lol she's right about the ruminating and judging ...my J is usually about 90/10 preference and I always gotta feel like I'm right or get the last word in even when I kinda know I'm wrong ..alot of times the other person has to remind me I'm pushing it a little.
I have an INFJ friend in my class. We talk every day for WhatsApp. After only two days of talking, she said to me: "Wow, I feel that we compliment each other". I felt special. That's really sweet. She's quite introverted and she doesn't want to hang out with me yet, but I understand and respect her desicion. "We have all the life to meet!", I said. She loved that sentence. I love her. She's kind, compassionate, protective, generous, resilient and also sad, I couldn't describe with words the universe I can see into her eyes. She's incredible. We're really upset, stressed and overwhelmed when we're together, because we die internally by the intensity of our emotions, but that's not a problem. We can communicate without saying a word.
@elypelowski5670 Right or Wrong would be Morality and it's usually an outside construct someone imposes on you or you learn to assimilate (impose on yourself) Fairness is more fluid but not gray, its definition is unique to each person or the "Us" person in the relationship in a couple. Fairness works off balance-whatever balances the self love in the relationship. For example: if I self love myself to allow myself to eat 5 cakes then the fair thing in the relationship is to extend the same self love I allow to myself to my partner. Ergo-they can also eat 5 cakes with my blessing. But then the partner might have a different self love where they only allow themselves 3 cakes...this where a couple searches for a compromise to keep that Balance I mentioned earlier. (Its not as easy because people are hardly self aware to this level) Morality gets in the way because most humans do not know how to differentiate Right v. Wrong(morality construct) from Good and Bad(personal perceptions/judgments) Plus their self love fighting their Egos. If we wanted to be right; we would just puppeteer you so hard you would be like a Sim or a lab rat. You wouldn't be misbehaving, you would be obliviously happy under the illusion of your "free will" So no, we don't want to be right: we just want to be heard and establish a fairness axis. -INFJ
This in a nutshell is why we INFJ's gravitate to you little social butterfly ENFPs ... you are all very much to us like a real butterfly. Our types are so opposite yet so similar. We INFJs are fascinated by these beautiful creatures out there fluttering around and exploring the world (their E preference) while making the world a better place (their N and F preferences) we hope one slows down enough (their P preference to be a bit over the place) that we get to watch them and be part of their journey. ❤
Fascinating that the ENFP ops are hitting on her telling her she's cute (very true) and equally fascinating that the INFJs ops hit on her telling her she's cute and they admire her ideas , philosophy and see parts of her the world will never know or see. Personality study is fascinating, truly fascinating. 👍 I miss my little ENFP butterfly ...not sure if there will ever be another. GBNF 🙏❤🙏
INFJ here. Had to subscribe - need to hear ENFPs talk and express their thoughts. Ironically, I've never had a relationship with an ENFP nor can even ID one in my life (I"m sure I've met them, have had friendships with one?). But after I'll the the types I've dated, I'm finally ready to meet and potentially date one... But I want to make a counterpoint to the comment about INFJs 'wanting to win' (or that is *seems* that way - and I imagine other INFJs will reinforce that if they read this): I do NOT want to win. I seek common ground and understanding, maybe some validation of my point as being plausible. But win? No... And think about this - if of all the types it is the INFJs who are so concerned about humanity and the well-being of it, why would I want to win? That's domination. When we keep pushing, I suppose, it's because we're not being seen or heard as to the essence of what we're saying. It is NOT about winning. I think that kind of communication (to win) is, ultimately, a way for both to lose.
She was the only person I ever held that it felt she was actually inside of me when I held her. I knew that at that moment we had a high level soul bond. Forever loved ...forever missed. GBNF 🙏❤🙏
There are wants and needs. INFJ's want to win, yes. But we NEED to understand. This is why we brood over something for so long. All the puzzle pieces need to fit together. When they do, we can let go. Please give us time for that. We need it for our stability.
My husband is INFJ! I am clearly the ENFP. We were literally talking about how healthy our communication/arguments are. He is good at all the things I am not! We are made for each other.
The loop you mentioned. Currently in it with my ENFP.(Female) I am the INFJ.(Male) Biggest piece of advice to diffuse this. If you use that Fi and just state how you TRULY feel. It'll break that loop. Whether it hurts us or not. Just wanna know how you TRULY feel. So that the real processing can actually happen. Instead of it remaining in speculation/theory/whatever that specific INFJ calls it in his/her mind. You'll be surprised at the response you get when it can be ingested honestly and not in theory. That's what causes the loop. You know exactly what you feel, but it's too heavy to unload. Walk around and pretend ya don't feel it, but... Someone else does. Wants to know what it is. Not just too heavy for y'all. That's just my theory, I may be wrong. But.... 🧐
I’m an ENFP married to an INFJ. Yea the loop is annoying, because I don’t need to win, I just need to feel understood, acknowledged and affirmed. Once I know that my partner is actively listening then I can let it go or gladly admit I don’t know shit or I need to do more research. I also like to have in-depth talks and chat about many subjects within 1-2 hrs and notice when my partner is shutting down and has met his max. They won’t let me know but I can feel the withdrawal and I’m learning when to quit my hyperactivity. I’m here to learn because although I’m aware of a few things, my guy still surprises me. I appreciate this video ☺️ thank you.
As an INFJ-A I have to say, I find you to be gorgeous both inside and out. Regarding some of the challenges you mentioned, some of us INFJs have worked through the issues you mentioned, have matured beyond our base nature, and it's not so much of a problem. I have never been in a relationship with an ENFP but after watching several videos about ENFP and INFJ I really want to see first hand what being with an ENFP is like (Currently single).
I have a friend that is infj (me as enfp) and when we are talking, I transform that dark cloud into the funny dark reality cloud with best moments 😂😂, I love her and have really good conection, at first was hard this part but after time, after being sure of myself, it was easy to transform this to the other side. All other things are just flow. (I'm spanish, trying my best to translate)
Yes, i'm INFJ and have best friend who is an ENFP. And i love her not in romantic ways. Everything is so smooth when i'm with her and i can express my self really well too ☺🤍
I have 2 people close to me that are this match ENFP and INFJ. When they first met they immediately hit it off and became best friends. When ever we all go out for socializing it is a very interesting dynamic and I barely get a word in edge wise. I suppose me being INTJ male and the ENFP and INFJ are both female also adds to the dynamic too. I very much see the ENFP and INFJ as natural soulmates in a friendship/social capacity. I can see possibly this pair work romantically too, but I think there would be many dead-ends and not enough of the right kind of tension to create that flirtatious build up needed to go to the next level.
That could happen indeed, but I can see that the relationship could work really well as well. There's a lot of people who do not believe that INTJs and ENFPs are a great match. I think it is preferences, what each person needs. I have a video on ENFP best matches, check it out if you haven't yet :) ruclips.net/video/h3te_DR68rs/видео.html
My boyfriend is INFJ and I'm ENFP and to be honest I adore him so much and with every conversation we have I get more and more in love. I just love how compassionate he is and I've never felt more wanted and accepted by anyone. We have different views on so many things but keep it loving and respectful, so whenever we have a disagreement we just solve it with love and I just fall for him more and more after every disagreement, because I can see how much he thinks about my side of things before judging me and I love it about him.
I'm infj an I have just meet a enfp an we've meet once an becuase we both very busy an live couple hours apart we can only talk an can I say we just clicked we find it hard to not speak to early hours of the morning an I'm not a talker but she brings my chatty side out I don't fall for anyone iv been single for nearly 3 years an IV never spoken to anyone an connect with any of my past relationships an she looked up soul mates an it actually explains us even thou it's early days I know who I am an what I'm like an she's exactly what I'm looking for it's an amazing experience
I am an ENFP and I met an INFJ a few years ago. I could tell she was attracted to me as I was to her, but she avoided any kind of romantic relationship with me. We’re still in contact but she’s still at arms length with me.
INFJs are very picky with romantic interests. We need time to open up. If you’re the ENFP, give her space and communicate your feelings openly without trying to force physical intimacy. However, sometimes we (INFJs) need some direct prompting to discuss intentions and expectations. Give space and don’t expect a certain outcome, allow her to examine her heart and values. Then let her communicate those values in her timing.
My fiancé (INFJ) and I understand each other so well… until we are both in our own worlds and we’re talking about two different things LOL but we notice it pretty quickly. We got engaged after about 3 months and it still feels like we have known each other for ages. My BFF/Sister is also INFJ and they both have the same life path #s 1
Soooo I'm INFJ-A and I have a friend and she is ENFP. And literally in my friend circle... I feel if someone really understands me it's her. I usually feel like people don't know me or get me.. But she tho I feel she doesn't get me entirely but she does understands the most part of me! Another thing.. We have never fought! She is a very good friend.. I feel like we complement each other!
I don't get along with all enfps but the ones i get along with we realllly do click like no other , but for some reason with most Enfps we respect each other and we feel the potentiel of the frienship but we just can't click i think it's mostly the humour if we have the same sense of humour the friendship develops so quickly but if not it just doesn't go as smoothly as we want it to
@@Mindimalist 💜🤗. We get that people are bored of it too, we just can't help following our intuition and thinking sometimes but now I know when to stop
I feel this way too.. I usually end up looking for RUclips videos that describe what I’m trying to talk about so my ENFP partner can better understand.. wow, I bet this gets annoying 😳😂. -INFJ
I'm an INFJ. I'm totally guilty of randomly moving things around my house when stressed. 11:25 section made me laugh.... ENFP says: "What are you doing??" Lol - so true
I for one am glad I jyst found your channel hete Mindi I agree with virtually eveything you're saying here! I'm a typical Irish ENFP... 🙂 Just found your Ig account too...I'm 'an Irish dude' there... 😉🙏
I'm an INFJ and I think ENFPs are my soulmates 💜 I love them in a friend but also and mostly romantic way. I also like INTPs and INFPs. Never met an ENFJ of the opposite sex so I can't tell you for romance but I think I have 2 ENFJs friends of the same sex as me and I like them very much in a non romantic way. I know ENTPs of the opposite sex but in general, I like them as aquaintances. I know of some INFJs who love ENTPs as soulmates but it's not my case. My best friend is ISFJ 😁
I am an INFJ...the whole theme of this video is something that has become a really central focus for me in this past year, (soulmates, relationships, etc) to the point it's become painful, ...But I am still keeping faith in God and still staying positive and looking forward...thats all I can say right now, but hope this makes some sense...thanks for the video.
ENFP Hand & INFJ Glove ... we have the exact same cogs in the 8 stack just reversed ... your supposed to teach each other the shadow functions make up games. An infj will know this pay attention to the vibrations inside the brain and when you feel it stop every this and focus turning it off and one again. That why a major development of the consciousness step
Good day i just wanna say thank for sharing the video...I have learned so much because my boyfriend which happens to be an American is INFJ,and me a Filipina is ENFP..He is the one who told me about the personality test and i agree to take it and i was quite amazed of the result...And now i was able to watch your video because of him...Your video is wonderful to watch and hope to see more of your videos..Salamat and Godbless
Omg sorry I’ve just been spamming in the comments but mindi you look gorgeous in this video and I love the colors! Also I appreciate and love how much work you put into your videos each week!
Its not that we ( INFJ ) wants to win the arguements. Its about that need to speak it through totally. Atleast I need that. Every arguement is a way to be better as a person. 😊
After watching your videos on your chanel Erik Thor ... you and this lady would be very compatible. You could tell her ...'whoa baby slow down take a breath between words and and stop running over people when you meet them ' (her E preference) and ' stop being so scatterbrained and make a decision' (her P preference) while she would say to you 'get out of your shell and go say hello to the person at the party' ( your Introverted preference) and 'calm down tootsie and relax a little ' (your J Preference) ...the two of you would really hit it off , be a really cute couple and have a great time learning from each other . ❤
Your way of thinking the infj seems like they want to win seems very biased from your end. As an infj we can sense when our partner is trying to ignore major issues that will on linger. So the infj wants to deal with it so we can move on instead of letting it dwell
Coz the J is so futuristic, we have plans to reach the future smoothly. But, the P is about living in the moment, not overanalyzing thing that haven't happened. As INFJ, I need ENFP to balance my thinking and take action more in the present
Hey sure! Your recommendation it’s already contained within this video. I talk about the negative side to their soulmate connection. Plz watch the whole video :)
I've got a real issue my soul mate has no soul but instead imeshed their soul to god, now my soul mate is god but how can I tell god they have no soul and I know more than they do, and people wonder why we suffer😇🙏❤️😀😳
I’m an INFJ and my husband is ENFP. It’s crazy how immediately we felt that connection once we started getting to know each other. I’m incredibly thankful to have him in my life to understand me, challenge me, and connect on the level that happens so easily.
Im an ENFP (according to similar minds+ ennanegram). I have been married to originally we thought an ISTJ. This will be our 13th year anniversary this october. She was young when I met her, 19 years difference between us. Now at 31 she has realized quite a few things about her upbringing which on the surface to me looked like the perfect traditional parenting. Turns out her Dad has serious issues that she is just now realizing. My understanding is that these tests don't change if taken properly. Lately she took a test and it came out totally different, can being raised by a very narcissistic father who is the stay-at-home dad and very dominating actually cause someone to be a different personality type? She recently tested out as an ISFJ. WTF?
If you are part of this combo, get ready for real intimacy. Be ready to be naked in every way possible. No fights with armor, no lies, no pretending. It's as real and as beautiful as it gets. It's a really deep connection and it feels like coming home. It's a new level of trust and security. I will not give my ENFP away, ever. This INFJ is the happiest she's ever been in a relationship 🥰
I hope. I so hope. I have thought about trying some of the dating sites to find ENFP partners, but dunno...
I love INFJs .. They make me all warm and fuzzy inside :)
awww !!
Really? Wow that makes a change. You can message me anytime!
Me Too!!!
I'm infj male and just met an enfp female when looking on dating site. I've never had anyone so curiously challenge my mind in her questions to me about God, life, character, the invasion of Ukraine, suffering, the question of innocence, why God doesn't seemingly answer prayers. I was able to share ideas in my mind that I've NEVER ever shared before, because nobody's ever bothered to go deep with me. I have deep thoughts, I've thought deeply about many subjects over the years. I feel like my mind has been released from solitude. So I'm going to pursue her with all my heart.
THIS IS SO SWEET!!! 💖
He does answer prayers if you ask them in all sincerity ie:- not to win the lottery, oh and by the way sometimes the answer is no but he’s waiting to hear from you and wants to help.
Love this 💞... My fella is an infj and I'm enfp. He is amazing!
Aww, how nice! She sounds like an INFJ's dream 💖 😊✌️
That’s so beautiful
My business partner and I get along AMAZINGLY well. I am an INFJ and he an ENFP. We are both extra considerate when it comes to dealing with one another and never fight, even when we disagree. He points out to me when I am overthinking and not taking enough action, while I help him to slow down at times and consider the possibilities he may be overlooking. We are like opposite twins that balance each other out in a peaceful, productive way.
Interesting fact: I (INFJ) seem to talk even more than my ENFP partner when speaking to people that we know. However, when it comes to speaking to and building rapport with strangers, my ENFP partner crushes me in that area.
I love this! INFJ & ENFP duo in action!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Thanks...still going strong
I am infj n bout that fact! That's completely trueeee
About the last part, I think it's a matter of boredom when it comes to people ENFPs know (source: am one).
Personally, I don't really enjoy talking to people I've talked to millions of times before, unless I find them particularly interesting.
Maybe your partner finds the people you both know already to be boring?
@@sapokee2830 LOL. I don't think that's the case, as he seems to like talking in general, but I would need to ask him to be sure.
They are my second 'home'💓 -ENFP
This is sweet!!! 😍
We dont want to win, we want to be heard and things to be fair (at least I do). I really get in a knot if I feel a situation is not fair.
OK - what is your definition of fair? "We dont want to win, we want to be heard and things to be fair" ... So who gets to decide what is fair? You are assuming that your interpretation of fairness is absolute? In what regards ? Emotionally ? I am not asking to be rude, I truly want to know what is your definition of 'fair' and what would be considered 'unfair'. I truly am curious about this. What is the difference between what is Right vs. what is Fair ? Are they the same ? What if I told you sometimes it is through 'unfairness' that people actually learn and grow. Then is being unfair a bad thing ?
Nah fam ...we want to win ...lol she's right about the ruminating and judging ...my J is usually about 90/10 preference and I always gotta feel like I'm right or get the last word in even when I kinda know I'm wrong ..alot of times the other person has to remind me I'm pushing it a little.
Right? I dont want to win but if my principles being breached i wont ever go back
I have an INFJ friend in my class. We talk every day for WhatsApp. After only two days of talking, she said to me: "Wow, I feel that we compliment each other". I felt special. That's really sweet. She's quite introverted and she doesn't want to hang out with me yet, but I understand and respect her desicion. "We have all the life to meet!", I said. She loved that sentence. I love her. She's kind, compassionate, protective, generous, resilient and also sad, I couldn't describe with words the universe I can see into her eyes. She's incredible. We're really upset, stressed and overwhelmed when we're together, because we die internally by the intensity of our emotions, but that's not a problem. We can communicate without saying a word.
@elypelowski5670 Right or Wrong would be Morality and it's usually an outside construct someone imposes on you or you learn to assimilate (impose on yourself)
Fairness is more fluid but not gray, its definition is unique to each person or the "Us" person in the relationship in a couple. Fairness works off balance-whatever balances the self love in the relationship. For example: if I self love myself to allow myself to eat 5 cakes then the fair thing in the relationship is to extend the same self love I allow to myself to my partner. Ergo-they can also eat 5 cakes with my blessing.
But then the partner might have a different self love where they only allow themselves 3 cakes...this where a couple searches for a compromise to keep that Balance I mentioned earlier.
(Its not as easy because people are hardly self aware to this level)
Morality gets in the way because most humans do not know how to differentiate Right v. Wrong(morality construct) from Good and Bad(personal perceptions/judgments) Plus their self love fighting their Egos.
If we wanted to be right; we would just puppeteer you so hard you would be like a Sim or a lab rat. You wouldn't be misbehaving, you would be obliviously happy under the illusion of your "free will"
So no, we don't want to be right: we just want to be heard and establish a fairness axis.
-INFJ
This in a nutshell is why we INFJ's gravitate to you little social butterfly ENFPs ... you are all very much to us like a real butterfly. Our types are so opposite yet so similar. We INFJs are fascinated by these beautiful creatures out there fluttering around and exploring the world (their E preference) while making the world a better place (their N and F preferences) we hope one slows down enough (their P preference to be a bit over the place) that we get to watch them and be part of their journey. ❤
Aaw exactly how I feel about my ENFP ❤
I love the use of colors in the background and on your dress, it complements your beauty well!! - ENFP
That’s very sweet, thank you! 🌸
Fascinating that the ENFP ops are hitting on her telling her she's cute (very true) and equally fascinating that the INFJs ops hit on her telling her she's cute and they admire her ideas , philosophy and see parts of her the world will never know or see. Personality study is fascinating, truly fascinating. 👍 I miss my little ENFP butterfly ...not sure if there will ever be another. GBNF 🙏❤🙏
INFJ here. Had to subscribe - need to hear ENFPs talk and express their thoughts. Ironically, I've never had a relationship with an ENFP nor can even ID one in my life (I"m sure I've met them, have had friendships with one?). But after I'll the the types I've dated, I'm finally ready to meet and potentially date one... But I want to make a counterpoint to the comment about INFJs 'wanting to win' (or that is *seems* that way - and I imagine other INFJs will reinforce that if they read this): I do NOT want to win. I seek common ground and understanding, maybe some validation of my point as being plausible. But win? No... And think about this - if of all the types it is the INFJs who are so concerned about humanity and the well-being of it, why would I want to win? That's domination. When we keep pushing, I suppose, it's because we're not being seen or heard as to the essence of what we're saying. It is NOT about winning. I think that kind of communication (to win) is, ultimately, a way for both to lose.
She was the only person I ever held that it felt she was actually inside of me when I held her. I knew that at that moment we had a high level soul bond. Forever loved ...forever missed. GBNF 🙏❤🙏
There are wants and needs. INFJ's want to win, yes. But we NEED to understand. This is why we brood over something for so long. All the puzzle pieces need to fit together. When they do, we can let go. Please give us time for that. We need it for our stability.
My husband is INFJ! I am clearly the ENFP.
We were literally talking about how healthy our communication/arguments are.
He is good at all the things I am not! We are made for each other.
The loop you mentioned. Currently in it with my ENFP.(Female) I am the INFJ.(Male) Biggest piece of advice to diffuse this. If you use that Fi and just state how you TRULY feel. It'll break that loop. Whether it hurts us or not. Just wanna know how you TRULY feel. So that the real processing can actually happen. Instead of it remaining in speculation/theory/whatever that specific INFJ calls it in his/her mind. You'll be surprised at the response you get when it can be ingested honestly and not in theory. That's what causes the loop. You know exactly what you feel, but it's too heavy to unload. Walk around and pretend ya don't feel it, but... Someone else does. Wants to know what it is. Not just too heavy for y'all. That's just my theory, I may be wrong. But.... 🧐
I’m an ENFP married to an INFJ. Yea the loop is annoying, because I don’t need to win, I just need to feel understood, acknowledged and affirmed. Once I know that my partner is actively listening then I can let it go or gladly admit I don’t know shit or I need to do more research. I also like to have in-depth talks and chat about many subjects within 1-2 hrs and notice when my partner is shutting down and has met his max. They won’t let me know but I can feel the withdrawal and I’m learning when to quit my hyperactivity. I’m here to learn because although I’m aware of a few things, my guy still surprises me. I appreciate this video ☺️ thank you.
Its not that we want to win, its that we want situations to be resolved. It's the same reason we like to ruminate
As an infj, i agree. We like to find the truth and get to the root of the issue.
As an INFJ-A I have to say, I find you to be gorgeous both inside and out. Regarding some of the challenges you mentioned, some of us INFJs have worked through the issues you mentioned, have matured beyond our base nature, and it's not so much of a problem. I have never been in a relationship with an ENFP but after watching several videos about ENFP and INFJ I really want to see first hand what being with an ENFP is like (Currently single).
You are very kind, thank you 🌸
And awesome that you have worked on those challenges, that’s big! 🙏🏻
Still single? Find me
@@mithatcan10 Is there treasure map?
I have a friend that is infj (me as enfp) and when we are talking, I transform that dark cloud into the funny dark reality cloud with best moments 😂😂, I love her and have really good conection, at first was hard this part but after time, after being sure of myself, it was easy to transform this to the other side.
All other things are just flow.
(I'm spanish, trying my best to translate)
I love this!!!!! 💖
Yes, i'm INFJ and have best friend who is an ENFP. And i love her not in romantic ways. Everything is so smooth when i'm with her and i can express my self really well too ☺🤍
I have 2 people close to me that are this match ENFP and INFJ. When they first met they immediately hit it off and became best friends. When ever we all go out for socializing it is a very interesting dynamic and I barely get a word in edge wise. I suppose me being INTJ male and the ENFP and INFJ are both female also adds to the dynamic too. I very much see the ENFP and INFJ as natural soulmates in a friendship/social capacity. I can see possibly this pair work romantically too, but I think there would be many dead-ends and not enough of the right kind of tension to create that flirtatious build up needed to go to the next level.
That could happen indeed, but I can see that the relationship could work really well as well.
There's a lot of people who do not believe that INTJs and ENFPs are a great match. I think it is preferences, what each person needs. I have a video on ENFP best matches, check it out if you haven't yet :) ruclips.net/video/h3te_DR68rs/видео.html
@@Mindimalist I am pretty sure I am ENFP. I will go check out that link.
I think them both being female (and presumably straight) might have influenced the lack of tension?
@@the1dbumblebee317 Sure. That makes sense.
Trust me, as an INFJ woman seeing an ENFP man, the tension is intense.
My boyfriend is INFJ and I'm ENFP and to be honest I adore him so much and with every conversation we have I get more and more in love. I just love how compassionate he is and I've never felt more wanted and accepted by anyone. We have different views on so many things but keep it loving and respectful, so whenever we have a disagreement we just solve it with love and I just fall for him more and more after every disagreement, because I can see how much he thinks about my side of things before judging me and I love it about him.
I'm infj an I have just meet a enfp an we've meet once an becuase we both very busy an live couple hours apart we can only talk an can I say we just clicked we find it hard to not speak to early hours of the morning an I'm not a talker but she brings my chatty side out I don't fall for anyone iv been single for nearly 3 years an IV never spoken to anyone an connect with any of my past relationships an she looked up soul mates an it actually explains us even thou it's early days I know who I am an what I'm like an she's exactly what I'm looking for it's an amazing experience
I am an ENFP and I met an INFJ a few years ago. I could tell she was attracted to me as I was to her, but she avoided any kind of romantic relationship with me. We’re still in contact but she’s still at arms length with me.
INFJs are very picky with romantic interests. We need time to open up. If you’re the ENFP, give her space and communicate your feelings openly without trying to force physical intimacy. However, sometimes we (INFJs) need some direct prompting to discuss intentions and expectations. Give space and don’t expect a certain outcome, allow her to examine her heart and values. Then let her communicate those values in her timing.
Infj-enfp couple is made in heaven
My fiancé (INFJ) and I understand each other so well… until we are both in our own worlds and we’re talking about two different things LOL but we notice it pretty quickly. We got engaged after about 3 months and it still feels like we have known each other for ages. My BFF/Sister is also INFJ and they both have the same life path #s 1
wow I've met ‘my’ enfp and she really asks me to help her to be kinder, softer
Soooo I'm INFJ-A and I have a friend and she is ENFP. And literally in my friend circle... I feel if someone really understands me it's her. I usually feel like people don't know me or get me..
But she tho I feel she doesn't get me entirely but she does understands the most part of me!
Another thing.. We have never fought!
She is a very good friend.. I feel like we complement each other!
I don't get along with all enfps but the ones i get along with we realllly do click like no other , but for some reason with most Enfps we respect each other and we feel the potentiel of the frienship but we just can't click i think it's mostly the humour if we have the same sense of humour the friendship develops so quickly but if not it just doesn't go as smoothly as we want it to
We don't want to win but we know when we are right but can't explain it so we'll think and think and think on how to explain it
I love this answer 😊❤️
@@Mindimalist 💜🤗. We get that people are bored of it too, we just can't help following our intuition and thinking sometimes but now I know when to stop
I feel this way too.. I usually end up looking for RUclips videos that describe what I’m trying to talk about so my ENFP partner can better understand.. wow, I bet this gets annoying 😳😂. -INFJ
So in other words ...you want to win 😉
I'm an INFJ. I'm totally guilty of randomly moving things around my house when stressed. 11:25 section made me laugh.... ENFP says: "What are you doing??" Lol - so true
LMAO I literally just did this earlier.
Seeing a neater and prettier home always makes an INFJ feel happy and safe!!!
I for one am glad I jyst found your channel hete Mindi I agree with virtually eveything you're saying here! I'm a typical Irish ENFP... 🙂 Just found your Ig account too...I'm 'an Irish dude' there... 😉🙏
Heyyyy thank you for stopping by, glad to have you on board. And thank you for your support here and on IG 😊
I'm an INFJ and I think ENFPs are my soulmates 💜 I love them in a friend but also and mostly romantic way. I also like INTPs and INFPs. Never met an ENFJ of the opposite sex so I can't tell you for romance but I think I have 2 ENFJs friends of the same sex as me and I like them very much in a non romantic way. I know ENTPs of the opposite sex but in general, I like them as aquaintances. I know of some INFJs who love ENTPs as soulmates but it's not my case. My best friend is ISFJ 😁
That the best video I've seen so far , I'm definitely INFJ
Yeihhh 🙌🏻 and thank youuu
I am an INFJ...the whole theme of this video is something that has become a really central focus for me in this past year, (soulmates, relationships, etc) to the point it's become painful, ...But I am still keeping faith in God and still staying positive and looking forward...thats all I can say right now, but hope this makes some sense...thanks for the video.
ENFP Hand & INFJ Glove ... we have the exact same cogs in the 8 stack just reversed ... your supposed to teach each other the shadow functions make up games. An infj will know this pay attention to the vibrations inside the brain and when you feel it stop every this and focus turning it off and one again. That why a major development of the consciousness step
Good day i just wanna say thank for sharing the video...I have learned so much because my boyfriend which happens to be an American is INFJ,and me a Filipina is ENFP..He is the one who told me about the personality test and i agree to take it and i was quite amazed of the result...And now i was able to watch your video because of him...Your video is wonderful to watch and hope to see more of your videos..Salamat and Godbless
Omg sorry I’ve just been spamming in the comments but mindi you look gorgeous in this video and I love the colors! Also I appreciate and love how much work you put into your videos each week!
Much love to you, thank you very much! 🙏🏻😊
Simping Sam you are forgiven 🙏🏼
Are there any ENFPs looking a soul mate? ☺️
Awww i need to meet an ENFP (I’m am INFJ-t) in my life. All these awesome connections that I’m reading are wonderful.
10 minutes is the perfect amount of time to meditate
I love enfp alot
I heavily agree with your points.!
I’m an infj. Would be to meet an enfp lady out there. If I can past the social
Anxiety
Its not that we ( INFJ ) wants to win the arguements. Its about that need to speak it through totally. Atleast I need that. Every arguement is a way to be better as a person. 😊
The end of the video is deep.
The be yourself, resonates with me
You can't just invites like alone... there is lots to learn from dislikes and opposing opinions. More genuine people have oposing views... much love
Yaaaaaay!
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Am I the only one that read This is why! + Prosecco?
Haha Cheers then! 🥂
After watching your videos on your chanel Erik Thor ... you and this lady would be very compatible. You could tell her ...'whoa baby slow down take a breath between words and and stop running over people when you meet them ' (her E preference) and ' stop being so scatterbrained and make a decision' (her P preference) while she would say to you 'get out of your shell and go say hello to the person at the party' ( your Introverted preference) and 'calm down tootsie and relax a little ' (your J Preference) ...the two of you would really hit it off , be a really cute couple and have a great time learning from each other . ❤
Being a infj in Africa is like being an Alien! Maybe in America it's cool but in Africa you feel like you have been cursed !
Your way of thinking the infj seems like they want to win seems very biased from your end. As an infj we can sense when our partner is trying to ignore major issues that will on linger. So the infj wants to deal with it so we can move on instead of letting it dwell
Coz the J is so futuristic, we have plans to reach the future smoothly. But, the P is about living in the moment, not overanalyzing thing that haven't happened. As INFJ, I need ENFP to balance my thinking and take action more in the present
Hey mindi! Nice vid 😚If you take recs please check this reply section :)
Rec: could you make a video on the bad sides of infj and enfp dating?
I think it will be very interesting
Hey sure! Your recommendation it’s already contained within this video. I talk about the negative side to their soulmate connection. Plz watch the whole video :)
@@Mindimalist oh yes I did! I was just wondering if there was a video you could do with all the bad sides and how to overcome- stuff like that
@@marblebloc1943 sure I’ll keep it in my list for when I’m working on creating new content 😊
i love infj and infp and enfj and enfp. and i like other types if they are very open minded and positive.
INFJ here, yoyo 🎉
INFJ runs off for weeks/months at a time or even years! Sorry...I haven't got time for that
I've got a real issue my soul mate has no soul but instead imeshed their soul to god, now my soul mate is god but how can I tell god they have no soul and I know more than they do, and people wonder why we suffer😇🙏❤️😀😳
you could be projecting
Where's my ENFP🤷♂️🤔
Isn't it ENFP & INFP?
INFJ Misophonia ENFP. Loud
INFJ organized ENFP NOT.