How To Know If A Narcissist Is Done For Good

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  • @sylwiakleczkowska8220
    @sylwiakleczkowska8220 29 дней назад +236

    The final discard takes place when the victim finally says: enough!

  • @hannahspeaksup
    @hannahspeaksup 28 дней назад +112

    It only lasts for as long as you put yourself last… once you start respecting yourself it’s game over for the abuser.

  • @marilynmonheaux
    @marilynmonheaux 28 дней назад +27

    It was over as soon as it started because the entire relationship is an illusion

  • @tiphanieseantay958
    @tiphanieseantay958 28 дней назад +65

    This last discard was vicious!! But he did not break me , although he tried he failed!

  • @Lee2c
    @Lee2c 28 дней назад +34

    I'm glad the final discard was so harsh so that i could finally walk away.

    • @irinaivanovic9792
      @irinaivanovic9792 27 дней назад +6

      Same here. I was NEVER in my life treated so horribly by a boyfriend than with my ex. He was insufferable and he KNEW it, so that I was forced to break it off. He was HAPPY it was over, meanwhile I was devastated that he wasn't hurt at all, and was already over me months before it ended. He just began treating me like shit and neglecting my needs more and more. I was starved. And yet somehow I AM THE BAD GUY? smh. I hate him..!

    • @Broken_No_More
      @Broken_No_More 16 дней назад

      ​@@irinaivanovic9792
      Romans 12:19 KJV
      Proverbs 24:17-18 KJV ❤

    • @line0520
      @line0520 6 дней назад

      Mine too. He broke up with me on Xmas eve and we have children together

  • @Orchidluv0217
    @Orchidluv0217 28 дней назад +37

    He saw me out, smiling, laughing, and looking good the next week🤣✌️

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  28 дней назад +5

      🤭🤭

    • @eternalriver7866
      @eternalriver7866 27 дней назад +2

      Dangerous woman ❤

    • @ccagrad2002
      @ccagrad2002 26 дней назад

      Strange response

    • @ccagrad2002
      @ccagrad2002 26 дней назад +1

      Some ppl I guess love narcs and the sick game playing

    • @ccagrad2002
      @ccagrad2002 26 дней назад +1

      Some ppl I guess love narcs and the sick game playing

  • @annascorpio117
    @annascorpio117 28 дней назад +88

    We have gone back and forth for years. But this time he put his hands on me and I finally discarded him ❤

    • @rabbit3212010
      @rabbit3212010 28 дней назад +9

      I wasn't so smart. He put his hands on me and I stayed but not long enough for him to do it again!! The trauma bond was real! I waited until he left the country for work and I went NC within two weeks of him leaving. Almost three months NC and counting.

    • @mannyt409
      @mannyt409 28 дней назад +4

      Im glad you left him! My ex-lover put her hands on me, and I still forgave her. She did it again, and she discarded me. If I would have hit her in self-defense, I would have gotten arrested, and my career and life would have been ruined. I'm glad she discarded me, she did me a favor.

    • @annascorpio117
      @annascorpio117 28 дней назад +2

      @@rabbit3212010 stay strong believe me I made plenty of mistakes and I know it’s hard, but I learn to put myself first❤️

    • @annascorpio117
      @annascorpio117 28 дней назад +6

      @ i’m sorry you went through that but she didn’t discard you. God removed her from your life. Stay positive stay strong.💪🏾

    • @beautifulone4904
      @beautifulone4904 28 дней назад +3

      Sorry but good.....he did... didnt deserve you...

  • @phyllisbrown4270
    @phyllisbrown4270 28 дней назад +19

    They will always try to keep you as an option. Only you can control that. Block and forget them forever.

  • @jonhutchinson2902
    @jonhutchinson2902 28 дней назад +63

    It's over when we say it is. The narc has no say.

    • @beautifulone4904
      @beautifulone4904 28 дней назад +1

      Next ones problem...I survived I
      had 2 learn ..............n....so will .they ...i just pray for them...entering sonethn so .
      So...cruel n intended...so harsh for all the 9nes goin thru head up chin up get thru it learn study dig.......repeat ....stay eyes open no blind eyes....no excuses see it recognize it end it...u know better now ...move better i pray for all associated with a Jarc its not easy fought fa my lungs n heart 10 years ...smfh
      Clueless.....now... im free ima testimony walking baby chile neva again i c it im on it..im checkin it im moving ...in on my target ..
      N.....u done......

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  28 дней назад +3

      🙏🏽

  • @free-thinker4875
    @free-thinker4875 28 дней назад +55

    Who cares what the Narc thinks. Once I realised that this person was severely flawed and cannot give me the deep connection that I require, I am no longer interested in him 😂

    • @beautifulone4904
      @beautifulone4904 28 дней назад +2

      Yup dismissed but i ran same bs right bk knowing in it what i was learning bout his snake a.....oh baby the wrath the gaslighting the lies the playin dumb i ran it all right bk.....fo i discarded n got ghost ...like Casper he was not ready he know now im not b toyed around with lol

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  28 дней назад +2

      🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️

    • @Jojoshanny
      @Jojoshanny 28 дней назад +1

      Omg same!!!

    • @1987MRGEO
      @1987MRGEO 27 дней назад +4

      The problem sometimes is that they emulate very good a deep connection and at the same time make you feel that you are the flawed. Before realizing it you reach a point that you try so hard to change yourself to meet their expectation but everytime you make something "right" a new flaw appears that needs fixing unless you totally lose yourself on their meticulous strategically game. What I learned from my disastrous experience with the narcissist is that I should never again fall victim of anyones love bombing. It is never normal when a stranger names you "the man of my life" at first sight. Most of the times is a narcissist or a dismissive avoidant who releases suppressed feelings.

  • @M.c.n.h
    @M.c.n.h 28 дней назад +17

    After 2 years I got discarded it's traumatising and so confusing. I appreciate these videos so much they are what is getting me through to remind myself it's not me as that's what they want and make out .

  • @susancrowther2268
    @susancrowther2268 28 дней назад +52

    My husband falsely accused me of having an affairs while all along, he is the adulterer. We just got separated, thank God. However, he continues to spread lies about me.

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  28 дней назад +15

      The projection can be appalling

    • @mysticasmr3700
      @mysticasmr3700 28 дней назад +10

      Same. He tells people that I was cheating even tho I never did , and he was cheating the whole time.

    • @seameology
      @seameology 28 дней назад +4

      Same.

    • @AriaPlez
      @AriaPlez 28 дней назад

      ​@mysticasmr3700 my baby mother was doing the same. It's not you. ❤️‍🔥💯🫂

    • @mcostilla7603
      @mcostilla7603 28 дней назад

      So crazy how all our men accused us of cheating. I can’t stand men !! 💯

  • @candyc6057
    @candyc6057 28 дней назад +29

    The final discard was when I called him a coward and to run because that's the only thing he was actually good at.

    • @beautifulone4904
      @beautifulone4904 28 дней назад +2

      Yup thatll do it too n screwin up peoples minds....but u go good one ..

    • @candyc6057
      @candyc6057 28 дней назад

      @beautifulone4904 he(they) screw with ppl lives but ty

    • @beautifulone4904
      @beautifulone4904 28 дней назад +1

      @@candyc6057 yeah itsnso unfair but theyll pay.....

    • @ccagrad2002
      @ccagrad2002 26 дней назад

      They won't get it, that's what you're not getting. Just ghost
      You won't have a need to half ass your response when you've finally and truly made up your mind
      Still finding it a game shows you ain't ready to leave

    • @candyc6057
      @candyc6057 26 дней назад +1

      @@ccagrad2002 me losing my baby wasn't a game nor my response but thank you & I have been no contact.

  • @suttonfamilypoodles
    @suttonfamilypoodles 28 дней назад +37

    We have 3 kids but its like living with 4 kids and 3 dogs. Narcissist will sleep play the game and watch cartoons daily . Sneak and watch PHub and say i was bored. But has no romatic bone in the body. Oh loves to leave home to visit parents when unpresent at home. Go with brother to get out the house. But never connects with any of us in the home. I find that strange that the narcissist knows hiw to communicate with parents and siblings but wont say one word to his wife and children. Like we dont exist. 😮its embarrassing and pathetic.

    • @JenMS7
      @JenMS7 8 дней назад

      It’s like living with a roommate. Won’t assist with food shopping, wont pay bills, wont clean just an empty robot…🥴

  • @gangGreenthumb
    @gangGreenthumb 28 дней назад +30

    The most cruelest, viscious discard ever.... she sent a friend request 26 years later. No thankyou.. blocked.

  • @oceanevedrenneenjalbert8871
    @oceanevedrenneenjalbert8871 28 дней назад +10

    I have the power to say no... How I want to handle the situation... Thank you for saying that.

  • @nancydrew5
    @nancydrew5 28 дней назад +14

    Lee Hammock
    Thank you for opening my eyes!
    I am healing from narcissistic abuse thanks to you! I have finally discarded that toxic narcissistic fool.
    Thank you!!

  • @tammyp2782
    @tammyp2782 28 дней назад +12

    My ex messed with the wrong lady. He didn't think I could walk away and grow bigger than ever! He tried to come back, but the answer was NO! I'm sure he will pop up again, but I'm beyond OK now. Sucks to be him :)

  • @InGodseyesHolloway
    @InGodseyesHolloway 27 дней назад +6

    He really did try to break me, especially when he threw my deceased son's ashes away, but kept my name brand shoes as if I cared more for them than my son.

    • @seasons1650
      @seasons1650 15 дней назад

      No way ☹️ I'm so sorry

  • @philiciawatson5398
    @philiciawatson5398 26 дней назад +2

    I said I was done then ignored him and about two weeks later he said he was done and blocked me. Thank god. I hope he has moved on so I don’t have to worry about him popping up or stalking me. I’m free. Now it’s time to heal ❤

  • @joychastity
    @joychastity 28 дней назад +16

    Never hearing from them again sounds good.
    I been Moved on and I'm very happy.
    If they don't go I'll make sure they wished they had.
    I'm not interested in them anymore.
    Their ship has sailed.
    Their so boring !!!

  • @jaredmartina9107
    @jaredmartina9107 28 дней назад +8

    I think he was about to discard me the worst way possible but i discard him first because i just couldn’t take it anymore. He left the house one day, i changed my locks, packed his things and text him that he can come pick his stuff outside because he’s not entering my home anymore. Because he knew i was always afraid of him, he didn’t expect that move so he was in chock. So he came home and tried to enter the home with his key even tho i told him i changed to locks hahahah. He wanted to talk i said i there’s nothing to talk about.
    He left that day, 2 years ago, and i never hear from him ever since. I blocked him every where and was ready to heal fron this evil evil creature.

  • @moniqueteal7153
    @moniqueteal7153 28 дней назад +10

    Well, it was very very vicious ... he already had a new girl quickly ( probably there all along) ... but he won't leave my family circle .... wish he would move and go to his own family !!!
    I will make sure it's final no matter how painful 💔 💯...I'm done !!

  • @allisoncook1340
    @allisoncook1340 28 дней назад +49

    2 kids and myself.. ghosted just like that. And he moved on with a new supply like his kids don't even exist.. I had to explain to our kids why he never came back and why he left to begin with... Which is very unfair to the kids and me ...

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  28 дней назад +15

      I hate that so much

    • @Merbella
      @Merbella 28 дней назад +10

      Sadly, it's a blessing in disguise but a very painful blessing. I'm so sorry😢❤

    • @allisoncook1340
      @allisoncook1340 28 дней назад +7

      @Merbella I absolutely agree, and although the most pain my heart ever felt especially for my children I've learned how to appreciate that lesson while not letting it turn me vengeful.. Thank you

    • @beautifulone4904
      @beautifulone4904 28 дней назад +1

      He will have to answer for all of it one...day...

    • @allisoncook1340
      @allisoncook1340 28 дней назад

      @beautifulone4904 just knowing that the most high is who he will have to answer to makes me feel better. I do try to remind myself this often and have also said to him also... He doesn't believe in god. But I do 🙏🕊️❤️

  • @sophisticatedbeauty8334
    @sophisticatedbeauty8334 28 дней назад +5

    Left my narcisst for the 3rd and final time yesterday thank you for videos ❤

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
    @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 11 дней назад

    IM SOOOO CONFUSED!!!

  • @HoneySz-q5p
    @HoneySz-q5p 27 дней назад +1

    Today 2 years ago I went no contact with certain person. At the beginning it was hard, but I learned so much and have grown so much emotionally that I dont ever see myself being in that situation again. These videos helped me a lot understand but I also feel like I don't need them anymore ❤

  • @SzilviK
    @SzilviK 28 дней назад +13

    I was discarded today ( for the 100+ X now) for the last 8 years . Lots of name calling. This happens every year, like clock work, 2 to 3 weeks b4 Christmas. Hopefully, he won't pop up in 3 months 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

    • @mariakaige1234
      @mariakaige1234 28 дней назад +18

      Well you need to stop taking him back. If he has discarded you 100+ times it’s because you have allowed him to.

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  28 дней назад +18

      If he does pop up, YOU have to be strong

    • @jjones4314
      @jjones4314 28 дней назад +10

      The ball is in YOUR court! Only YOU can put an end to his abuse once & for all (and what he's doing to you IS abuse)! As long as you keep putting up with his crap & taking him back, he'll continue to use/abuse you! Block block block & never look back! You deserve better!

    • @SzilviK
      @SzilviK 28 дней назад

      @jjones4314 thanks ❤️❤️❤️

    • @SzilviK
      @SzilviK 28 дней назад

      @Loyalty-ofc 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kimberlycollier6611
    @kimberlycollier6611 28 дней назад +3

    I finally stood up to my elderly narcissist dad..said NO. He raged. Then I got silent treatment...I evicted him out of my apt and my life feb 2023. No contact. He's blocked.but still tries hoovering. I ignore his pitiful pleas on voicemail...I will NOT make amends or forgive him!

  • @TomCollins-i1o
    @TomCollins-i1o 28 дней назад +4

    "No, I don't think I will!" Roll credits! 🤣
    I worry that my narcissist will change their mind and start the ding-ding boxing match again. It felt like too clean of a break, too peaceful. It puts you on edge, expecting that it's the calm before the storm. In reality, it's finally a nice, sunny day.

  • @annetallegrand5656
    @annetallegrand5656 23 дня назад +2

    When you hurt them deep enough, when the narcissistic injury was that deep, they’ll NEVER come back. If you mortify them, It’s too scary, they become forever afraid. Some NEVER LEAVE. They never let go, it’s like you’re in a forever dance with them.
    Yes narcs are crazy as hell Lee😂

  • @Natanecov
    @Natanecov 25 дней назад

    This is so true! I’ve gotten the, “We were in a bad place” speech so many times, meanwhile, he was the only one who knew that and we managed to have a baby during those “horrible” times.

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  25 дней назад +1

      that sucks

    • @Natanecov
      @Natanecov 24 дня назад

      @ Good news is: that was over 10 years ago and I have been free of that pain for the 2 years.

  • @majalettahsadler6677
    @majalettahsadler6677 7 дней назад

    Thank you so much for your content it’s been so helpful. I currently have been discarded it’s been three weeks now. He said, “ I need space and time and that we’ll talk eventually. I’m not in the talking to YOU mood” then he started ignoring my text and calls after I waited a few days to give him the space and time and another week later changed his number. I’m still so confused cause he never asked for his key back but hasn’t changed his locks but when I went to his place I see he removed any pictures or anything that represents me. But still has me on his social media.

  • @hannakarpf4955
    @hannakarpf4955 25 дней назад +1

    Thank you, Lee. It's not the first video you've done that I've watched, and it's not the last, either. Your style of describing our journey is unique and engaging! Keep it up

  • @eternalriver7866
    @eternalriver7866 27 дней назад +1

    I love how real you are about it all

  • @line0520
    @line0520 6 дней назад

    Last time we argued he said he would break me and I will be submissive to him. He broke up with me on Xmas eve and I couldn't even cry because was so disgusting that I realised it was a Xmas gift from him to me and OUR children

  • @mannyt409
    @mannyt409 28 дней назад +3

    My ex-lover put her hands on me in an arguement, and I still forgave her. She did it again, and she discarded me. If I would have hit her in self-defense, I would have gotten arrested, and my career and life would have been ruined. I'm glad she discarded me, she did me a favor.

  • @wolfhernedez7739
    @wolfhernedez7739 25 дней назад +1

    I call cap. I’ve had SEVERAL of breaks ups with my narcissistic ex. 3-6 months later we have gotten back together. And ALL From the first to recent OF MY DISCARDS HAVE BEEN BRUTAL!

  • @Baker-m9y
    @Baker-m9y 26 дней назад +2

    I’m suing my father for my disabled sister’s care ( his daughter). Our mother (divorced) was caring for her and she passed away recently. He promised to pay for my sister’s care ( he’s worth over 5 million and he’s 90 years old). He recently stopped paying and his wife wants her son to inherit his total estate. She said now that his ex (our mom) is dead he doesn’t owe her anything anymore. Let’s go to court.

  • @andreamorrow77
    @andreamorrow77 21 день назад

    😅😂😂 Love your message it really speaks multitudes

  • @internaltuning9914
    @internaltuning9914 26 дней назад

    Letting go of the idea of the relationship is so hard. I'm ready to go because I can't move on at this point from all the trauma. I feel so guilty like I'm abandoning them.

  • @tonilavoh904
    @tonilavoh904 17 дней назад

    Yessss🎉🎉 because this is my exact question.. like when does it END😂🥴🗣️

  • @beautypablotamarini7315
    @beautypablotamarini7315 28 дней назад +2

    Listening you I can see I have a problem with psychopat narc. Everything is exactly what you say but much much worse and dangerous in all ways.

    • @sarahharris6536
      @sarahharris6536 27 дней назад

      What about researching Dark Triad/ Tetrad personality? This might give you some information to keep yourself safe 🥰

  • @lolxd9396
    @lolxd9396 27 дней назад

    Thank you Lee. You are truly a beautiful soul. 💯🙏♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹😎

  • @nana2647
    @nana2647 27 дней назад +1

    I did abandon him !!! For sure is over 😅

  • @MG-gq2rs
    @MG-gq2rs 28 дней назад +22

    He didn’t get a chance to viciously discard me. I found out he was monkey branching while still holding on to me and I walked away silently.
    He showed up at my door wanting to know why he hadn’t heard from me.
    Then he started blowing up my phone with calls and I ignored them.
    I haven’t heard about any smearing and I haven’t been blocked yet, but hey!!!
    I don’t even want to hear him, much less see his sorry behind!

    • @helenmcclay2622
      @helenmcclay2622 26 дней назад +1

      A narc injury you caused haha too bad 😂🤭

  • @kathiwebb2030
    @kathiwebb2030 25 дней назад

    Damn!! Your wisdom astonishes me young one

  • @belladonfinique
    @belladonfinique 28 дней назад +3

    Well, I changed my phone number and honestly I did this for myself and he probably got upset about this because he lost access. It’s been a year now…. So hopefully it stays this way….

  • @jonhutchinson2902
    @jonhutchinson2902 28 дней назад +4

    As if we care when the narc is done. Haha. Good one Lee

  • @louisasmiles
    @louisasmiles 28 дней назад +4

    I stopped the nonsense. Week later, he had a new supply lolol. She can have him.

  • @hopeforever0717
    @hopeforever0717 28 дней назад

    Makes a lot of sense. Thank you.

    • @hopeforever0717
      @hopeforever0717 28 дней назад

      @Loyalty-ofc I didn't ask for your opinion.

  • @Kaymichaela0
    @Kaymichaela0 27 дней назад +1

    The last thing he did was take me to court for a restraining order then 6 months later dropped it. Then he got married and their still together the restraining order wasn’t a problem I knew he wouldnt win. Getting married was really when I knew it was the final discard

  • @seameology
    @seameology 29 дней назад +16

    I hope a final divorce is the end. It is for me, anyway.

  • @margatetrahn1724
    @margatetrahn1724 27 дней назад +2

    My x kept me on the hook because I didn't know what was really going on. His brother was not sick and he used the covid pandemic to pull off the best con of his life until he got caught. He owes me over $20,000 but refuses to discuss things and records me anytime I confronted him. I ended things kicked him out and he acted like a wounded puppy but he set out to destroy my life. Since I filed a protection order things are quiet

  • @EnchantedWinter13
    @EnchantedWinter13 28 дней назад +7

    I want my ex to be completely done and to leave me alone to live my life.

    • @seasons1650
      @seasons1650 15 дней назад

      YOU be done.

    • @EnchantedWinter13
      @EnchantedWinter13 15 дней назад

      @seasons1650 I am done, but we have a child together, so he uses our son to try to get to me.

    • @EnchantedWinter13
      @EnchantedWinter13 15 дней назад

      @seasons1650 I am done. We have a child together, and he uses our child to try to get to me. I'm trying to live life, take care of our child and heal, but he threatens to get into a custody battle when I am not doing what he wants. He makes comments (baiting) to try to get a reaction. I still ignore it. Thus, I wish he would leave me alone and allow me to live my life.

  • @manzanitaverde5455
    @manzanitaverde5455 8 дней назад

    I recall after one of our breakups, he refused to share his new address because he didn't want any "drama". When I asked him what he meant he was not able to give me a clear answer. I later found out that he was "talking" to a neighbor....stupid me.

  • @QueenItShallBe
    @QueenItShallBe 27 дней назад

    Final discard was yesterday... when I filed for divorce. 🖤

  • @joannturi3968
    @joannturi3968 3 дня назад

    Hey when you both get tired it's a truce. Not too shabby of a deal.

  • @DhyanaIris-du1nu
    @DhyanaIris-du1nu 28 дней назад +2

    They are scared of me (group of pwNPD) as I name them as narcissists. My feeling is I won’t see them again.

  • @_generalbudman9672
    @_generalbudman9672 4 дня назад

    She left all her stuff here , and messaged me saying she hates me for washing and spraying her fathers sweatshirt and sons stocking its funny she hates me but left me and took no accountability for any of her wrong doings its great that she left because im 10000% stronger then ever before

  • @Godoftruth1221
    @Godoftruth1221 27 дней назад

    My husband compares me to every woman, his ex's and I am always not good enough. He praise people from outside but never heard him saying something positive about me.
    When I get new opportunities, he will compare me with Maria or whoever is doing better than me, which he knows.

  • @rossmarlin4947
    @rossmarlin4947 28 дней назад +4

    My ex-wife ghosted me only after 2 years of marriage
    Came home and she was gone next day papers on the front door
    What a coward
    I didn't see it coming

  • @seameology
    @seameology 28 дней назад +4

    Don't think you won't be hoovered just because your kids are grown. I got hoovers from exes thirty years later. My dad hit on my mother in the nineties. They were divorced in 1969. Dad had recently went through another divorce.

    • @Merbella
      @Merbella 28 дней назад +3

      In their mind, once supply, always supply. 😮

  • @joanbennett7371
    @joanbennett7371 28 дней назад +3

    Lied as he walked out the door!! #Godknows #myhusband #JohnnyBennett #maskofffuture #AngelaSpeight #Bennettforlife #heusedme

  • @Kadesbattleground
    @Kadesbattleground 28 дней назад +1

    Getting accused of cheating for years and then dating after the relationship imploded was enough proof for her that I WAS cheating. Right? Whatever mental gymnastics she has to do to sleep at night is not my problem anymore.

  • @DEEJOJOHNSON
    @DEEJOJOHNSON 28 дней назад +4

    My narcissistic ex-wife hopefully is done with me because she is embarrassed from the evidence that I have of her committing adultery. The way he disrespected her and she still committed adultery was diabolical. And he was in a relationship with another chick

    • @melisentiapheiffer3034
      @melisentiapheiffer3034 28 дней назад

      Everyone in these kinds of relationships should document what has been done to them. The biggest mistake one can make is to not report a physical attack by a narcissist.

  • @Pamela-mb6bj
    @Pamela-mb6bj 21 день назад

    I wish you would address... What should a person do early on in the relationship when they pull back... John st walk away?!

  • @rabim106
    @rabim106 25 дней назад +2

    With my traumas, I traumatize narcissists! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @God_Leads_My_Way
    @God_Leads_My_Way 28 дней назад +1

    I discarded the narc and it was a pleasant feeling because there was a audience of his family and friends caused a narc injury landed me in a pointless custody battle and 3 yrs later the narc still looking for the 1 up ⬆️ I never looked back my peace and freedom was way more important than going back to that weird relationship I wish the narc abandoned our son I worry about possible damage my son can face being around this monster 👹

  • @alanniellsberry545
    @alanniellsberry545 27 дней назад +1

    What happens when you share kids together they block you on everything but when you suggest no physical contact they get upset and refuse. He gave me his current address but everytime we do drop off for the kids he is always upset and fighting about something new but he isn’t responsive to any texts or calls about the kids

    • @stephaniespotts5766
      @stephaniespotts5766 26 дней назад

      My ex wanted me to end the pregnancies, never wanted children but goes on and on about being this amazing father.. even has people complimenting him. He discarded us and doesn’t help financially, he even asked me for $300 yesterday. He has this death grip of control on my life and I hate it so much.

  • @Orchidluv0217
    @Orchidluv0217 28 дней назад +3

    I said “I’m done.” He said “I’m done too”. Who discarded who????

  • @rebeccamilligan8659
    @rebeccamilligan8659 27 дней назад

    Smear campaign before the break up sounds like they done for good😅sounds about right

  • @Utternonsense1238
    @Utternonsense1238 27 дней назад

    It’s over when YOU are

  • @samia6888
    @samia6888 12 дней назад

    Idk if they done for good, I just know that I am.

  • @alanniellsberry545
    @alanniellsberry545 27 дней назад

    I have told him a dozen times I don’t wanna see him anymore but he refuses to do drop offs with anyone other than me! If he’s done done then why won’t he go directly through the daycares

  • @Pinkyymonroe
    @Pinkyymonroe 25 дней назад

    He blocked me on everything but when call me from a block number just to breath on the phone , or when he see me in person he always following me around he will try to get my attention, what does that mean

  • @dennishaas4745
    @dennishaas4745 24 дня назад

    When she monkey branched to a coworker, I immediately went into radio silent and hope I never see her again !

  • @stephaniespotts5766
    @stephaniespotts5766 26 дней назад

    He discarded me, went back to a female he cheated on me with when I was pregnant with our second child. We have two sons, he says he is done with me and I’m separate from our kids.

  • @michellethompson9112
    @michellethompson9112 28 дней назад +2

    My ex blocked me off his social media and his WhatsApp after been together for sixteen years i find out about the third party so thats the reason why we broke up and we didnt talk to each other and now its one month but only last week he email me and to let me know he got a beautiful sweet loving caring woman and he happy now that he wasn't happy when we were together he what you call a narcissist

  • @reallifeexperienceforwomen461
    @reallifeexperienceforwomen461 27 дней назад

    My ex popped up after me blocking him. And I sent him a closure message, he agreed. So why pop up? After he realized I no longer wanted to deal with him, “well this will be the last time you see or hear from me.” And he blocked me 😭😂 like I did something. Like you said, he probably has someone else, good luck to her.

  • @kennetha6484
    @kennetha6484 26 дней назад

    can you tell me about narcissist on drugs

  • @lawrencethees7208
    @lawrencethees7208 28 дней назад

    Can it end amicable/ civilly? What would that look like?

  • @tommyburley5860
    @tommyburley5860 25 дней назад

    After she put her abusive affair partner in jail for the 3rd time she asked for a hug..we were divorced..told her not to go back..she didn’t press charges and went back again. I posted a vid on abusive relationships..she went off me. Sent her affair partner the police reports of the bruises he put on her She started a smear campaign.. she filed a restraining order.. I never put hands on her, never put a gun to my head, never cheated, she stayed with the guy that mentally, financially, physically abused her..crazy

  • @isobelangeli2053
    @isobelangeli2053 27 дней назад

    When they see that you can hurt them without remorse 😂 mine stays away

  • @tamika358
    @tamika358 26 дней назад

    I found out the smear campaign was going on 15-years into the relationship and he started it right after we started dating

  • @jencastillo
    @jencastillo 11 дней назад

    Do they make you go through three years of pain and what was assumed to be a relationship and blame you for everything and say that it was just sexual

  • @joannturi3968
    @joannturi3968 24 дня назад

    It's all superficial. You can only hope that the might want to recognize how flawed they are. I think it's about embarrassment. If you set them free peacefully it may help break the vicious cycle, especially when it's their fault. None of us are perfect, but with them they act perfect and try to guilt trip you and have you feeling sorry for them when they should be feeling sorry for you. I think it's a no win situation either which way you slice it. They're just too selfish and self centered to care either way. Just do whatever you can to look out for number one, yourself. Love thy neighbor as thyself. You can't even serve God if you don't love yourself, let's get real.

  • @suttonfamilypoodles
    @suttonfamilypoodles 28 дней назад +1

    GHOSTING casper the friendly ghost lives here 👻 👽 😱

  • @1deep7
    @1deep7 28 дней назад

    What it means when we was on good terms then they bring up something I’ve done 8yrs ago & discard you?

    • @MentalHealness
      @MentalHealness  28 дней назад +2

      seems like they are looking for an excuse

  • @unomeecj
    @unomeecj 27 дней назад

    I wish this message was a little more cut-and-dry. I know it varies between and definitely visuals, but I wish there were more signs than that

  • @LinMeulen
    @LinMeulen 26 дней назад

    It would be a blessing done for good and leave us alone for good. Bye

  • @allisoncook1340
    @allisoncook1340 28 дней назад +6

    Do they discard all supply the same way ?

  • @derekazyan9942
    @derekazyan9942 28 дней назад

    What does it mean if I set boundaries and they dumped me? Pretty sure she was cheating again. It was a polite discard though, not a brutal one like the previous time.

  • @deniserandall4397
    @deniserandall4397 3 дня назад

    Ignoring but won't block. Why?

  • @buildfireforchrist
    @buildfireforchrist 25 дней назад

    Omg she said " God knows what my heart wants" she was following Gods will .. lying cheating.. is Gods will..😈

  • @mischief1970
    @mischief1970 28 дней назад +1

    Why do they compare us to their old supply

    • @marilynmonheaux
      @marilynmonheaux 28 дней назад +5

      That’s called triangulation it’s a manipulation tactic to get more supply out of you

  • @annascorpio117
    @annascorpio117 29 дней назад

    FYI: you have two videos at the same day & time.

  • @ThriveMentoring
    @ThriveMentoring 27 дней назад

    ❤😂 6:25

  • @PiscesSun24
    @PiscesSun24 26 дней назад

    I just want my daughter back

  • @PiscesSun24
    @PiscesSun24 26 дней назад

    It’s funny I’m fighting a Lee