20 Signs of Fake Love

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024

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  • @BpppaSk
    @BpppaSk 2 месяца назад +341

    That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *brian hacks online*

    • @DanielFord-uw8ho
      @DanielFord-uw8ho 2 месяца назад

      I'm impressed with the quick response from *Brian* . He also delivers quickly and at speculated time. Rock & Roll Champ. I was trying to look into his account and I did it in a legitimate way. Brian did it in a way that my hubby don't know I'm seeing all his chats. I really can't wait to mess with him now.

    • @KennethBender-zi9tf
      @KennethBender-zi9tf 2 месяца назад

      I really want to appreciate this guy Brian hacks online for giving me uninterrupted access to my partner's Locations. I always had a suspicion that she was seeing someone else. Good job

    • @AndrewMcnally-mb3wv
      @AndrewMcnally-mb3wv 2 месяца назад

      Dealing with suspicions of infidelity, I sought Brian's assistance in revealing hidden messages that hinted at my partner's unfaithfulness. With their expert help, they decoded secret conversations that had been puzzling me, bringing clarity about the cheating. Thanks to *BRIAN* , I gained insight into the situation

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 года назад +1381

    My girlfriend broke up with me awhile back. She's absolutely gorgeous and recently contacted me again wondering if I've found anyone and wants to see me again. I decided I've been happier without her and told her no thank you. Even her beauty couldn't bring me back, which she thought surely it would. I took my power back. My checkbook is a lot healthier now.

    • @Iamhimbutyouarenot
      @Iamhimbutyouarenot 3 года назад +40

      Alright bro, we get it.

    • @alex-xd5bn
      @alex-xd5bn 3 года назад +55

      @@Iamhimbutyouarenot why so rude?

    • @joelkaben
      @joelkaben 3 года назад +12

      Bravo 👏

    • @dannym6552
      @dannym6552 3 года назад +25

      you clearly didnt love her, so i guess it was good for both of you.

    • @MrEccentricities
      @MrEccentricities 3 года назад +3

      u again hi

  • @ShibamNama
    @ShibamNama 2 месяца назад +386

    Thank you my friend. I just found out the girl I’ve been with for a year cheated on me. I loved her more than I loved myself, and I ended up losing myself to the relationship. When I caught her in the act all she did was laugh and smirk, and it absolutely killed me. What was crazy is that she would tell me all these wonderful things, like how she wanted my children, and how she wanted to marry me and build a home with me. I keep blaming myself, but from your video I see that this was a blessing in disguise. You’re right, I deserve so much better, so thank you for putting out videos like this. It helps so much with the recommendation *Johnsonspy* . Much love my friend, take care

    • @MaryJane-qx7pk
      @MaryJane-qx7pk 2 месяца назад

      Before marrying, I wish someone had told me this. My husband of 25 years acted like a dictator, with clear warning signs. Emotional abuse is serious and leads to cheating. Thanks to *Johnsonspy* for collecting the evidence

    • @jobseekerm8675
      @jobseekerm8675 2 месяца назад

      I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the Great work mate well done respect....

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 года назад +1354

    *5 things to quit right now:*
    *1. Overthinking*
    *2. Trying to make everyone happy*
    *3. Living in the past*
    *4. Worrying*
    *5. Doubting yourself...*

    • @seankelly378
      @seankelly378 3 года назад +47

      Ah yes if only I could simply try not worrying and overthinking , why didn’t I ever try that before

    • @im.parvan
      @im.parvan 3 года назад +29

      Wow i do all of these..

    • @lisahannekennedy5130
      @lisahannekennedy5130 3 года назад +13

      Yeah thank you upset right now going through allot stuff so appreciate this .

    • @yepimtray601
      @yepimtray601 3 года назад +7

      Thank u

    • @OTMaraH
      @OTMaraH 3 года назад +3

      Thank you 💓

  • @AnmicJ
    @AnmicJ 3 года назад +597

    If someone can’t be with you thru the bad times, then they can’t be with you thru the good times

    • @jot84476
      @jot84476 3 года назад +17

      Lots of ppl been together from good time and apart for the bad time

    • @saga2828
      @saga2828 3 года назад +13

      I was by my ex side when was going thru the bad times but he still dumped me for another girl... -_-

    • @pragyasingh7668
      @pragyasingh7668 3 года назад +2

      Yep bro

    • @amberwilson5769
      @amberwilson5769 3 года назад +8

      @@saga2828 same. I found someone over 9,000 times better though. I never dreamed of a relationship to this quality.

    • @saga2828
      @saga2828 3 года назад +4

      @@amberwilson5769 I'm so happy for you! ^^

  • @DeepakKumar-cl8fq
    @DeepakKumar-cl8fq 2 месяца назад +396

    Even for the recognition *brian hacks online* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.

    • @sandrakem-uw7qn
      @sandrakem-uw7qn 2 месяца назад

      Thanks for your help. Without Brian hacks online hard work and resilience, I wouldn’t have been able to receive his texts and calls to my phone. You rock!!

    • @sandrakem-uw7qn
      @sandrakem-uw7qn 2 месяца назад

      Thanks for your help. Without Brian hacks online hard work and resilience, I wouldn’t have been able to receive his texts and calls to my phone. You rock!!

  • @MemaNPappy
    @MemaNPappy 3 года назад +510

    A lot of people don't even know how to love themselves so they surely can't truly love anyone else.

  • @sarahcortez2524
    @sarahcortez2524 3 года назад +193

    Unrequited love is so hurtful. It never ends well and usually they go with someone else.. Every effort will be in vain. Excuses all they give. Worst pain I've felt

    • @claudiacarley4050
      @claudiacarley4050 3 года назад +9

      Same here...😔hang In there!

    • @sarahcortez2524
      @sarahcortez2524 3 года назад +3

      @@claudiacarley4050 thank you. You also

    • @derekrideaux6020
      @derekrideaux6020 3 года назад +9

      These things will happen. Put it in GODS hands.

    • @mistiquecreations2546
      @mistiquecreations2546 3 года назад +9

      Exactly…. This is my first time experiencing this F%ckery…. Never again. I’ll never see him in a positive light again

    • @SpontaniuzProductions2
      @SpontaniuzProductions2 3 года назад +5

      this is real talk.

  • @elleaar1798
    @elleaar1798 3 года назад +715

    You can experience all these in a NARCISSISTIC partner.

    • @wilconradnorinradd
      @wilconradnorinradd 3 года назад +18

      Indeed!
      Now I am certain and will continue my healing and give the Narcissist my Silence and Indifference. Don't frak with this Empath. Karma told me she will never learn. I tried not to laugh🤭🤭😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @cathythomas8546
      @cathythomas8546 3 года назад +34

      @@wilconradnorinradd Im trying really hard to come to the realization that the 3+ years I spent with My Covert Narc were fake. Its a horrible feeling when you give your all to someone and then you realize they could barely tolerate you.. Much less Truly Love You!

    • @cathythomas8546
      @cathythomas8546 3 года назад +12

      Definitely!!!! 110%

    • @ingridstowers7378
      @ingridstowers7378 3 года назад +20

      Omg yes..is why i left mine 5 months ago after 7 years!!!

    • @DALivi-dc7jz
      @DALivi-dc7jz 3 года назад +19

      @@cathythomas8546 I went through this in my last relationship gave me ptsd real bad to the point I haven’t really dated since then. She was so inconsistent and always wanted to argue about bs or nothin. Just little to no respect for me. I’ll tell her things that bothered me but she’d make excuses or lie and say she would change, then maybe for a few weeks later she’d go back to secretly doing things.
      Still maintaining friendships with old flings or guys she dated just a bunch of drama from her and her family, lazy unless it was something that was about her or if she really wanted to do something she was gonna do it no matter my input or thoughts or lie about it to get her way. She started out so loving and caring and attentive. Thought she was my other half until I figured out all the lies, games, and deceit she had been projecting on to me.
      She knew she didn’t deserve me but would try to mirror my behaviors to make it seem like she was really accepting my leadership and role as a man. It only would last for so long seeing as how she couldn’t stay consistent. Just a waste of my time and life, I kept it 💯 with this girl never cheated, probably did her better than any of her past guys as she claimed but yet that’s the trash she treated the best I’m sure of seeking their validation.
      Her family is toxic so it makes sense to see why she was attracted to more toxic men. I grew up out of all that and I realized I was dating a childish girl not a woman she definitely was dealing with a form of npd or bpd. The crazy part is her bf got diagnosed with bpd and I told her she needed to get checked out too.
      She claimed her doctor said she had no issues with that because he tested her for that. Mind you this was a regular family doctor. Not a licensed psychiatrist or therapist and it’s only so much he will know since that’s not his field of experience. Knowing her that was a lie too. Stay away from these ppl when you date ppl just constantly look for red flags in those first 3 months. Now no one is perfect but if you feel like those flags aren’t something you can’t tolerate once you’ve figured out who that person is. Run as fast as you can. You might have just saved a lot of time, money, and heartache, possibly even your life.

  • @actuallybusiness1622
    @actuallybusiness1622 3 года назад +157

    *Your mindset is the most important thing! If you don't control it, it controls you!*

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 года назад +399

    Once upon a time a man asked a beautiful woman to marry him.
    She said, "No."
    And he lived happily ever after.

    • @carolopez4127
      @carolopez4127 3 года назад +22

      She was smart

    • @KingKong-od8nn
      @KingKong-od8nn 3 года назад +1

      Lol

    • @youtold7727
      @youtold7727 3 года назад +5

      Hear about the lady who lost her brain? Her husband died. Just a joke I love women and I have a daughter and mom and cousins and aunts and grandma’s and great grandma’s and female friends, I love them all. Well the one aunt, by marriage is not a favorite 😻

    • @FUNNYMANERICWHITE
      @FUNNYMANERICWHITE 3 года назад

      😂

    • @fridayteresateresa8647
      @fridayteresateresa8647 3 года назад

      😂😂😂✌️

  • @fdfyujmjjuogdy9564
    @fdfyujmjjuogdy9564 3 года назад +129

    Love them for who they are, yes. But them disrespecting you is, A BIG NO.

    • @sophiabrown11
      @sophiabrown11 2 года назад +7

      That right there 💯🗣👍

    • @jennyjenjen_420
      @jennyjenjen_420 Год назад +2

      Still doesn’t mean you get to change him or her because they are disrespecting you. If you are being disrespected then leave. Some people forget that they have that option in the relationship. Don’t tolerate disrespect by anyone. You shouldn’t have to feel the need to change them they should just subtly change in their own will without you ever asking verbally or non verbally for you because they truly love you and want to be the man or woman of your dreams. Otherwise don’t try and change them and if you don’t love who they are (including them disrespecting you because that’s who they are and they are only showing you who they are) then leave. It means you’re not compatible together.

    • @timothyguy8237
      @timothyguy8237 Год назад

      So he saying your girlfriend flaw is she keeps things secret, conversating with other guys and lying is a flaw we suppose to accept that no thanks

    • @MrDavidgiar
      @MrDavidgiar 11 месяцев назад

      I think a lot of doubles in relationships, fake love because for sexual pleasure and they don’t want to be alone and somehow they think they’ll eventually love that person, and it’ll will all workout and lie about their true intentions.

  • @xialee5703
    @xialee5703 Год назад +76

    Ik was heel blij toen ik het initiatief nam om erachter te komen of mijn partner vreemdgaat. Al doet het pijn om alles te ontdekken. Maar het is echt de moeite waard. Zonder dit had ik niet geweten dat hij vals speelde. Ontrouw is iets dat moet worden opgeruimd.

    • @phawtakhun3652
      @phawtakhun3652 Год назад

      Alsjeblieft, hoe ben je erachter gekomen?

    • @xialee5703
      @xialee5703 Год назад

      Ik heb de hulp ingeroepen van een professional, die me heeft geholpen om alles te ontdekken. hier is zijn contactpersoon hieronder,

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  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 года назад +115

    *Most Important lesson:*
    *you don’t need anything external to be happy.*
    *Happiness comes from within.*

    • @Maria_9789
      @Maria_9789 3 года назад +2

      Do you mean ny this that we do not need a partner? Just wonder??

    • @tutsybassista
      @tutsybassista 3 года назад +7

      @@Maria_9789 Sometimes, it's better to be alone and happy than with someone who makes you feel unhappy.

    • @JohnEpi
      @JohnEpi 3 года назад +1

      BS

    • @lenebrantley221
      @lenebrantley221 3 года назад +4

      @@tutsybassista I agree. I was so tired of my cheating, lying boyfriend. Now ex boyfriend. I'll admit to missing him. But, it's nice not to have someone disrespectfing me. His loss.

  • @flowerpower4944
    @flowerpower4944 3 года назад +38

    Yea they make the choices for you,one way street , controlling,.minimisimg things all the time

  • @kimridenour3380
    @kimridenour3380 3 года назад +13

    So many have Fake love Relationships, unrequited love" it sucks" But no more for me! I'd rather Remain on my own"

  • @Shanaevaz
    @Shanaevaz 3 года назад +102

    It took me 29 years to find a guy that really loves me
    .went through alot of heart break but I did it

    • @mumbirose2877
      @mumbirose2877 2 года назад +4

      You mean it's possible to get true love after a wastage of 29 years

    • @oluolatunde342
      @oluolatunde342 2 года назад +3

      @@mumbirose2877 that's what she just said! 😂

    • @mom2seventhgnn471
      @mom2seventhgnn471 2 года назад

      🥰🙏🏽🤞

  • @lacie623
    @lacie623 2 года назад +20

    I feel so ashamed because I’m in love with a man who isn’t in love with me 💔

    • @East_L.A_Ivy
      @East_L.A_Ivy Год назад

      I’m going through opposite got a guy in love with me that I don’t love romantically. I let him down easy but he’s not happy with my choice

    • @KERRY2014
      @KERRY2014 11 месяцев назад +1

      (Saw comment...)
      * BREAK UP with HIM!!! 👍
      * LYFE is "TOO DAM SHORT!!!" with THE BULLSHIT!!!...
      * IN THE FUTURE... HE'S GONNA: "BREAK UP with YOU ANYWAY!"
      * SOMEBODY, "OUT THERE!", will LOVE YOU for YOU... And YOU will LOVE THEM for THEM! 👍

  • @ramlasis7358
    @ramlasis7358 3 года назад +319

    20 Sings Of Fake Love
    1- REFUSING COMPROMISE 0:13
    2- INTENTIONAL SPONTANEITY 0:38
    3- THE WHITE FLAG 1:07
    4- GUARDING THEIR FEELING 1:44
    5- CREATING DISTANCE 2:20
    6- PUBLIC NEGLECT 2:47
    7- EMOTIONAL DISCOMFORT 3:14
    8- INVISIBLE ROMANCE 3:59
    9- PASSING THE BLAME 4:26
    10- THE ATTENTION DEFICIT 4:47
    11- SUBCONSCIOUS PRONOUNS 5:10
    12- MUTUAL UNHAPPINESS 5:55
    13- INVASIONS OF PRIVACY 6:24
    14- HIDING SECRETS 7:10
    15- DEMANDING CHANGE 7:52
    16- UNLOVING LANGUAGE 8:15
    17- PETTY CONFLICT 8:42
    18- TAKING BREAKS 9:07
    19- THE PRIORITY LIST 9:26
    20- DRAWING COMPARISONS 9:55

    • @DR_ibtissamghar
      @DR_ibtissamghar 3 года назад +13

      Thank you 🙏🏻♥️

    • @lugmanmohammed5544
      @lugmanmohammed5544 3 года назад +5

      @@DR_ibtissamghar Thank you 🙏 ♥

    • @ramlasis7358
      @ramlasis7358 3 года назад +11

      My pleasure guys 🥰

    • @nanali7245
      @nanali7245 3 года назад +5

      Thank you very much for that! Your time is greatly appreciated! 👍

    • @susangeorge9244
      @susangeorge9244 3 года назад +3

      @@ramlasis7358 you are amazingly thoughtful. Thank you very much. I so appreciate that you wrote out this list cuz I really wanted to make a list of my own. Thanks to y’all I will happily Copy and Paste 🌹

  • @KrishnaKumar-lh7fk
    @KrishnaKumar-lh7fk 2 месяца назад +4

    The efficiency of this *Brian hacks online* is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work Brian!!

  • @mertbam502
    @mertbam502 Год назад +242

    Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.

    • @andrewkelly4153
      @andrewkelly4153 Год назад +1

      The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you. Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. I got full access of my girl’s account through the help of Johnson on *Brian hacks online* . I strongly recommend him y’all.. Highly Recommended for tracking and spying. .

  • @CyberPunkBadGuy
    @CyberPunkBadGuy 3 года назад +22

    Good thing a sensible person does not fall in any form of romantic love.

    • @LGKids
      @LGKids 3 года назад

      Wish I would have heard this a long time ago! Now I’m really in the thick of it!

  • @MA-yz7ef
    @MA-yz7ef 3 года назад +245

    One-sided relationship survivor here🙂 wonder how it feels to both love and be loved back or vice versa.

    • @aneesahendricks2853
      @aneesahendricks2853 3 года назад +24

      I too came from a one sided, abusive relationship and now I'm in a pretty healthy and secure one and it feels fucking amazing !! To be heard and seen and to actually feel like you matter to at least one person on this cold earth is priceless

    • @MA-yz7ef
      @MA-yz7ef 3 года назад +3

      @@aneesahendricks2853 Happy for you, Aneesa!

    • @tanzinatazulrenesa3264
      @tanzinatazulrenesa3264 3 года назад +4

      I can feel you, I'm married to one.Don't know how long I can carry this one sided burdened relationship. But for you, I pray and know for sure that ,you will soon find out how feel love and loved back simultaneously, by the will of Almighty God. Just hold on a little bit longer, and please don't give up hope.

    • @tanzinatazulrenesa3264
      @tanzinatazulrenesa3264 3 года назад +1

      @@aneesahendricks2853 Good for you, I pray that this happiness will be with you and your partner till death and beyond.

    • @aneesahendricks2853
      @aneesahendricks2853 3 года назад

      @@tanzinatazulrenesa3264 💕💕💕

  • @kimmergonzales9792
    @kimmergonzales9792 2 года назад +21

    Its really hard to pretend that you're in love, when you're not. Don't live a lie Its not fair for the other person 💯😴😒

    • @sofiaroland2922
      @sofiaroland2922 2 года назад +1

      Yes it’s hard cause the next person would notice

    • @TopTierQueen_50
      @TopTierQueen_50 Год назад

      Unless he is trying to get a greencard, and citizenship he will fake it for the required 2 years lol. I've seen it done

    • @kimmergonzales9792
      @kimmergonzales9792 Год назад +1

      @@TopTierQueen_50 That's what I did to get a marriage visa, so I could stay in Japan legally, and make money teaching English conversation I wish I had never done that!! It wasn't right for her. I'll never live it down 👇!! I'm back in California,she's back in Japan, doing a lot better with out me. But I got to be careful someone doesn't use me for the same reason!

    • @TopTierQueen_50
      @TopTierQueen_50 Год назад +2

      @@kimmergonzales9792 a guy from germany tried to USE me to stay in the states a few years ago, but I watched 90 day fiance and figured out his LOVE bombing game, but a person I was working with took my leftovers lol and USED her and got married in his backyard and now she is getting her KARMA , and walking on eggshells with him I could Neva! Lol. But I wish them well 😊

  • @lupitalomeli1834
    @lupitalomeli1834 3 года назад +59

    I’ve watched this before but I didn’t understand it till today.... the stuff you see when you open your eyes!!

    • @ArthurH11
      @ArthurH11 3 года назад +1

      Right

    • @wesleytyler9599
      @wesleytyler9599 2 года назад +1

      GOOD LESSON LEARNED 👌 HOPEFULLY YOU'LL PAY CLOSER ATTENTION NEXT TIME . ( THE SIGNS )
      STAY WOKE , OBSERVE (THE SIGNS ) LISTEN CAREFULLY AND GET TO THE POINT AND ASK MAJOR QUESTIONS .

  • @jmaster6827
    @jmaster6827 3 года назад +138

    much of this describes a relationship with a narcissist

    • @bbn4k56
      @bbn4k56 3 года назад +11

      Exactly what it is

    • @ryans.4715
      @ryans.4715 3 года назад +14

      I am thinking I might be in a relationship with a narcissist

    • @CrazyLilGemini
      @CrazyLilGemini 3 года назад +10

      I'm am in one with one NOW 😒 and experience at least 16 of these

    • @MsAnchovey
      @MsAnchovey 3 года назад +8

      @@bbn4k56 you might want to study up on narcissists so you dont get in a relationship with one. You'll become addicted. Its crazy.

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 3 года назад +2

      @@ryans.4715 Go to the channel Narc Survivor ‼️

  • @th3p00r5
    @th3p00r5 3 года назад +70

    Oh man, my last relationship hits all 20 signs. 😭

  • @Theshortshowpodcast
    @Theshortshowpodcast 3 года назад +112

    I'm glad me and my wifey don't go through this thank you lord 🙏

  • @longlivedabosslady7420
    @longlivedabosslady7420 3 года назад +27

    I’m not comfortable and have only been married on 8 months. He throws my past in my face.. so no I don’t think he loves me. He definitely doesn’t take the blame for anything. He wants what he can get. He’s very verbally abusive.. I just want OUT!

    • @roberthowell2502
      @roberthowell2502 3 года назад +3

      The first year is usually the hardest KDee, seek God for guidance, don't be hasty, and certainly don't seek another person😬
      This too shall pass, give it to God, and B Still and watch what happens😇🙌🛡️
      Mathew 6:33

    • @MsAnchovey
      @MsAnchovey 3 года назад +10

      Omg! Get out!!! Dont listen to that comment.
      Get out. It only gets worse

    • @MsAnchovey
      @MsAnchovey 3 года назад +7

      @@roberthowell2502 Are you crazy dude!! Telling her to stay in an abusive marriage??

    • @nayendyguity6244
      @nayendyguity6244 3 года назад +4

      Go nowwwww!!!!

    • @longlivedabosslady7420
      @longlivedabosslady7420 3 года назад +6

      It’s been 2 weeks and it’s has gotten worse.. he gave me a black eye swell lip, swell my hand, he body slammed me twice and it’s was terrible, I had to call the police, made a complaint he got locked up we went to court he was charged for abuse. One the 14th July we are going to court for a legal separation and bound over the peace. I have never been more happy that he’s out my house and eventually out my life… I don’t think I can ever date again. I’m scared of what’s out there. I have a good heart and only want to be love appreciated and respected.. is that so hard???😢

  • @PS-xb9hc
    @PS-xb9hc 7 месяцев назад +3

    You really need to observe people. Because words lie but observing them will give u answers.

  • @nickf9392
    @nickf9392 3 года назад +146

    Fake love usually starts with a fake person. Thats right, if you sense the person you are with is disingenuous with other people, odds are they are playing you too. Majority of times its a narcissistic personality, sprinkled with passive / aggressive behavior disorder. Its a losing battle and in the end a total waste of your time and resources.

    • @WorldOfARandomVegan
      @WorldOfARandomVegan 2 года назад +4

      Facts!

    • @pianoangel4
      @pianoangel4 2 года назад +4

      Bingo :)

    • @sammi82m
      @sammi82m 2 года назад +3

      Exactly 😉

    • @MrDuckskin
      @MrDuckskin 2 года назад +5

      Hit the nail on the head

    • @heatherfulmore3412
      @heatherfulmore3412 Год назад +3

      These same people point fingers at others while they sit and plot. I don't always repeat what I just happen to hear.

  • @dominickAvega
    @dominickAvega 3 года назад +39

    Once you experience any one of these 20 things in a relationship, it's time to pack yo shit! You can do so much better!

    • @nightlee627
      @nightlee627 3 года назад +3

      Lol nobody is perfect, humans do all of these things all the time without one of these I would think you were a alien 👽

    • @amberwilson5769
      @amberwilson5769 3 года назад +1

      @@nightlee627 this

    • @nightlee627
      @nightlee627 3 года назад +1

      @@amberwilson5769 Doesn't make it right, but also doesn't make them a horrible person! unless it's actual abuse or cheating and stuff.

  • @xxsadmittensxx4082
    @xxsadmittensxx4082 3 года назад +67

    It took me 4years to get out a loveless situation ship 🤷‍♀️

    • @janetduncan87
      @janetduncan87 3 года назад +4

      It took me 32 years...

    • @greyballs
      @greyballs 3 года назад +2

      I suppose I’ll never understand what I’ve just been thru with someone who I don’t know.

    • @thatseve0828
      @thatseve0828 3 года назад +1

      same here . Im glad Im not there anymore

  • @tuyetstormy51
    @tuyetstormy51 Год назад +8

    Demanding change ❗️
    Demanding unreasonable change is one thing but after 10 years, demanding change may be a sign of real love. When you’ve seen that person fall under drug addictions, is it not your job to want the best for them? Staying and demanding change instead of just throwing away the relationship may be dumb but I would never call it fake love.

    • @East_L.A_Ivy
      @East_L.A_Ivy Год назад

      Depends on how you go about it. If you demand change in a loving caring private way ok 👍 but if it’s mean demeaning and publicly shaming then why would someone want to change?

  • @pyramidhead138
    @pyramidhead138 2 года назад +15

    if your partner wants a break from you its a warning sign that shes already messing around with other guys

    • @marysarianides8150
      @marysarianides8150 2 года назад +1

      100 % correct. That is what mine said and he was cheating on me behind my back. It was awful how he discarded me. Beware when they say that they need a break. You are correct, that usually means they are cheating.

    • @84Melara
      @84Melara Год назад

      Not always. My partner was the one always on social media flirting and exchanging pictures with other females. I asked for a break so he could do what he wanted and leave me out of it. No point in having a relationship with multiple energies in it.

    • @pyramidhead138
      @pyramidhead138 Год назад

      @@84Melara well in MY case i didnt break it off with MY gf back in the day cause i was seeing other women. i cut her loose cause our relationship wasnt really going anywhere. if you compare our relationship to two ppl sitting in a car; cars started and ready to go, but the car doesnt move cause you dont have a destination. you ask your girl "So are we going anywhere?" she doesnt answer. so finally one day you get fed up with it and just get out of the car (exit the relationship) and just walked away. i dunno, me and her had nothing common, we were 2 different ppl, and she was a spoiled brat in general. i was 17 then. hittin' 40 next month. and throughout these years, i havent dated anyone. women these days have gone from fish, to sharks and now their becoming demons

    • @84Melara
      @84Melara Год назад

      I can understand bcus that’s exactly how I feel about men they’re so evil. I also will b 40 in a yr so this really sucks. My last partner was a huge narcissist with head injuries so yea it was a nightmare makes me afraid to date. 😂😂😂

  • @a.w.3689
    @a.w.3689 3 года назад +114

    This is my soon to be ex-husband, this describes him perfectly covert narcissistic! Thank you for this message, they make you feel like you're doing all this to them when it's them all the long!

    • @zek280
      @zek280 3 года назад +5

      Mine too

    • @hypehillbilly4704
      @hypehillbilly4704 3 года назад +7

      How do I know if it was me or her. I blame myself for so much. She was in a relationship the day we broke up.
      I never cared as much for someone. But she blames me for everything. Says I'm crazy which I admit I did go insane the energy was so bad nothing I did could go right. I lost my business during covid and she still has my dog how fucked up.

    • @hitit8660
      @hitit8660 2 года назад +4

      @@hypehillbilly4704 wow I thought I was the only one smh 🤦🏻‍♀️ bad shits happened to me when I met my boyfriend and we’re still together there’s no luck came to my life 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @june012006
      @june012006 2 года назад

      @@hypehillbilly4704 if you are asking yourself that question, it probably isn't you. Narcissists almost never self reflect.

  • @mubeen1500
    @mubeen1500 3 года назад +71

    Sad to know every single point applicable to my spouse for a long time now.

  • @mistiquecreations2546
    @mistiquecreations2546 3 года назад +15

    I was in a situation like this…. I saw it was Narcissistic within the first month. I ignored the red flags. After a few months he told me… maybe I should see other people. I was shocked because his actions said otherwise & he was trying to define the relationship. I went on a few dates & when he looked through my phone when I was sleeping 1 night, he said I betrayed him. He just wanted me as a back up option I found out. He was an opportunist looking for a female that made more money than me. He was super materialistic

    • @hypehillbilly4704
      @hypehillbilly4704 3 года назад +1

      If we were dating for 2yrs lived together and I went threw your phone cuz you been hiding it. Is that narcissistic?
      Well I did found out she cheating at work. She wasn't even worth my trouble
      But damn I fell in love

  • @alexiswalker3721
    @alexiswalker3721 3 года назад +17

    This is really informal for people who don’t have a boyfriend. They know what to look for in a boy or girl to show that they don’t love you.

  • @emilydillingham2573
    @emilydillingham2573 3 года назад +96

    This video helped solidify for me what I've been coming to terms with for the last year or so: all of the men I've been in relationships with never truly loved me - likely at all, as evidence suggests. Five relationships and not one of them honestly loved me - certainly not when it would have mattered. Love is so disappointing. I'm just done with it. My life was so much better before I started dating and I was a better person (not so damaged and hurt). I had hope and dreams before I ever gave love a chance. Now I don't even recognize who I've become. I hope that everyone else out there finds true and lasting love. I really do. I hope y'all never feel the disappointment and defeat I feel. God bless you!

    • @TheMaiah13
      @TheMaiah13 3 года назад +6

      Same. I realized all the men I ever had a relationship with, including my husband, are controlling. I must attract these kind of men because I look mellow and shy. I am at a stage in my life that I realize I dont need men in my life to be happy and content. Some women are lucky...sadly not one of them.

    • @hitit8660
      @hitit8660 2 года назад +6

      I feel you you’re not the only one here I was better when I was still single I was never been damaged before until I entered into toxic relationships I’m not perfect person but I tried my best for them to appreciate me as their girlfriend I wasn’t being material girlfriend or after their money I was taking care of them like a wife material… cleaning and cooking for them I thought my exes would appreciate my efforts but they didn’t appreciate me until at some point I gave up but now I’m in 9 months relationship and the same bullshits happened to me 😭😢

    • @marihunt4314
      @marihunt4314 2 года назад +8

      I know exactly how you feel. Every man I have been involved with has turned out to be a Narcissist. I’m done with relationships!

    • @marihunt4314
      @marihunt4314 2 года назад +9

      @@hitit8660 Seems like men never appreciate it when they have a good woman! I can relate to everything your saying! I was a good and supportive girlfriend/fiancée but it doesn’t mean shit to them. They just take advantage of your niceness and treat you like a doormat!

    • @kevinshank4222
      @kevinshank4222 2 года назад +7

      Women do the same thing because I was in a relationship with my wife ho used me and made me feel like shit every day and she didn't do anything for me I had to do everything in the loveliness relationship so it not just men it's women to

  • @ello34
    @ello34 3 года назад +62

    relationships may be the worse decision you ever make in your life

    • @sofiaroland2922
      @sofiaroland2922 2 года назад +1

      Why would you say so relationship is really sweet and nice that’s if you are with the right person

    • @ericfreshcorn3590
      @ericfreshcorn3590 Год назад +1

      @@sofiaroland2922 Are You Looking for the right man?

    • @East_L.A_Ivy
      @East_L.A_Ivy Год назад

      Exactly that’s why it’s better to be single

    • @jacquespatterson8887
      @jacquespatterson8887 3 месяца назад

      Lesson learned

  • @shydude93
    @shydude93 2 года назад +67

    I've been married and divorced twice. Throughout my whole life I've experienced nothing but loveless relationships. It made me realize true love doesn't exist for me.

    • @wordlife1997
      @wordlife1997 2 года назад +13

      I found true love within myself.

    • @lisacranmer8005
      @lisacranmer8005 2 года назад +3

      Yes, I agree, but you are your best friend and Jeh God will bless you with so much and they reap what they sowed, no one can mock Jeh God..

    • @michaelmendez6308
      @michaelmendez6308 2 года назад +3

      It can man you just gotta get lucky

    • @joesmith4050
      @joesmith4050 2 года назад +6

      True love is a fairytale

    • @lacie623
      @lacie623 2 года назад

      I still believe in true love. I feel tru love for my boyfriend. I just wish he felt it for me.

  • @rawknvegan1990
    @rawknvegan1990 3 года назад +25

    Man o man. This described my last narc relationship. What a lesson learned

  • @spiritualguidance8817
    @spiritualguidance8817 3 года назад +62

    This also goes for friends or even family members!

  • @willylowman99
    @willylowman99 2 года назад +3

    Anxiety and fear of abandonment has silently ruined a lot of my relationships. I’ve worked hard over the years and have progressed tremendously, but it may be something that I live with forever.

  • @iskenderoter2127
    @iskenderoter2127 Год назад +198

    Great stuff. I'm in a rut here though. You say before starting any of this, the spouse must end the affair. So in my husband's offense, it's ended but he still talks and texts the woman because they still work together and it's only about work and he no longer has feelings for her😥. I keep trying to make him understand all the above that you mention about my hurt and everything but he doesn't take empathy or compassion in my pain. How can I make him understand that keeping her around is pretty much making me replay the infidelity over and over again and I was able to move on with the help of *Brian Hacks* when he give me access to the text messages.

    • @andrewkelly4153
      @andrewkelly4153 Год назад

      The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you. Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. I got full access of my girl’s account through the help of Johnson on *Brian hacks online* . I strongly recommend him y’all.. Highly Recommended for tracking and spying. .

    • @lilydsa.std4quiz228
      @lilydsa.std4quiz228 Год назад

      I happy and pray it's true he gave you access to his msg but are you sure he does not delete them before giving you or use another name to carry one or another phone number altogether but just double check that so that you are not fooled and taken advantage of.

  • @skylersadventures
    @skylersadventures 3 года назад +58

    It's so sad.. I was in a realtionship with all this....

    • @joanalensonorin8672
      @joanalensonorin8672 3 года назад

      Same to you

    • @LGKids
      @LGKids 3 года назад

      Sorry you had to go through that!

    • @sofiaroland2922
      @sofiaroland2922 2 года назад

      It’s really hurts right?

    • @chamsAd
      @chamsAd 5 месяцев назад

      i was in RS like this for 8 years

  • @andrehaholcombe8865
    @andrehaholcombe8865 2 года назад +4

    I didn’t know fake love was out here this is so dangerous and it can leave people damage

  • @lorretta3519
    @lorretta3519 3 года назад +40

    this describes my current relationship, I feel trapped

  • @llararulens8895
    @llararulens8895 2 года назад +4

    It's ok to demand change when you realize your partner has a substance abuse problem; either i support you through your sobriety or I walk. Nothing else

  • @seankelly378
    @seankelly378 3 года назад +26

    Well this is depressing

    • @CyberPunkBadGuy
      @CyberPunkBadGuy 3 года назад

      @@seankelly378 its relaxing and cool to me wdym?

    • @patriciamurphy9691
      @patriciamurphy9691 3 года назад +1

      I think Sean might mean that he's now identified that someone doesn't really love him. Be nice to know Sean.

  • @doreenlane2370
    @doreenlane2370 3 года назад +45

    Everything listed on this video is true

  • @nareshpatel2384
    @nareshpatel2384 Год назад +4

    YOU GET CHEATED WHEN YOU TRUST SOMEONE TOO MUCH .

  • @teezyk5745
    @teezyk5745 3 года назад +14

    Emotional Walls go down when your instincts are not screaming "RUN" most times lol

  • @nealmaxwell790
    @nealmaxwell790 3 года назад +15

    Watching this while also watching my parents

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 3 года назад

      If you grew up wt two Narcissistic parents and where the Scapegoat in a family, you are an Heyoka Empath, look to the channel Empath Uprising and find the signs of a Heyoka ‼️If so, videos of Kryon are for you, Trent Genius, Cristina Lopes have videos about self - help ‼️💎Starseed from Pleiades, Heyoka. 🔺

    • @sofiaroland2922
      @sofiaroland2922 2 года назад +1

      That must be fun

  • @J.M..
    @J.M.. 3 года назад +11

    He just described my ex husband 100%.

    • @cityguy6307
      @cityguy6307 3 года назад

      Did you ever stop ? wonder why he was that person with you?

  • @lornahaynes7886
    @lornahaynes7886 3 года назад +36

    Love 🤩 respect and compromise are the glue that holds a relationship together.

    • @DALivi-dc7jz
      @DALivi-dc7jz 3 года назад +5

      Don’t forget trust and good communication

    • @sofiaroland2922
      @sofiaroland2922 2 года назад +2

      You are very right but you forgot something understanding it’s very important for two partners to understand themselves in a relationship.

  • @Daveybaby2888
    @Daveybaby2888 3 года назад +3

    KNOWTHYSELF! And always look at ourself thoroughly from past to present BEFORE we look at others!

  • @marcuslittle4428
    @marcuslittle4428 3 года назад +42

    Many of these same clues can be used to judge friendships as well.

  • @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939
    @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 3 года назад +14

    I would say that MOST of the comments are from people who had their heart broken by someone who demonstrated one of the above mentioned traits!
    Really sad that there are sssooooo many people who had this happen to them.....

    • @man_of_lawlessness
      @man_of_lawlessness 2 года назад +1

      It's life bro 😂

    • @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939
      @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 2 года назад

      @@man_of_lawlessness
      Agree! It doesn’t have to be this way, but sadly it is!!!!

    • @man_of_lawlessness
      @man_of_lawlessness 2 года назад

      @@robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 Just don't think about any of it... It's pointless thinking about the past coz it can't be changed. All it does is turn your thoughts into negative thoughts and batters your self-esteem.

  • @randybroussard2277
    @randybroussard2277 3 года назад +9

    Some don't realize their in lust with someone that in fake love.
    A Narcissist person that has u n their life to for what it can do for her. How it look to others.
    He thought it was love. But soon realized it was just lust n it turned to pure hate on both sides.
    A cheater that only thought of herself n who her next away of targets was.
    Infatuation to say the least. Finally ... Too long it took. But FINALLY MADE THE SMART N LOVING DECISION TO RETURN TO THE 19 YR LOVE OF HIS LIFE THAT NEVER STOPPED LOVING, CARING N PRAYING FOR HIM.
    RANDY LOVE TRACEE AND NO ONE ELSE.
    SANDRA M KOLAR CAN GO STRAIGHT TO HELL .
    WHERE SHE CAME FROM.
    IVE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER.

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 3 года назад +1

      An Psychologist told that Narcissists use the lovebombing phase to create Dopamine in the brain of a victim, to make them believe they are in love wt them ‼️Everything is about control and manipulation ‼️

  • @junieboom602
    @junieboom602 3 года назад +4

    Yet every time I bring this up to me he GASLIGHTS me... I have no choice but stay because he won't let me go. I'm the only one in love.

    • @pinkeymiller8591
      @pinkeymiller8591 2 года назад +2

      How he won't let you go? Blank twice if you're being held without your will

    • @josmclove4426
      @josmclove4426 2 года назад

      Junie you don't want him to let you go,because you love him.Not his fault....

  • @ministermadden
    @ministermadden 3 года назад +21

    Im in a loveless relationship smhhhh

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 3 года назад +2

      Leave, no one can be happy wt that‼️Find another persons, one you can be happy wt, life is to short for bad relationships‼️🌱🌺

    • @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939
      @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 3 года назад +2

      To be honest, judging from the comments, it appears a HIGH PERCENTAGE of people are in the same boat!!

  • @yashu6428
    @yashu6428 Год назад +273

    Your dedication, dedication, enthusiasm, and insight are shown in your work. Keep on doing great works like this, and there’s no looking back for you! The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you . *Brian Hacks* Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. Congrats and best wishes for a promising future.

    • @andrewkelly4153
      @andrewkelly4153 Год назад +1

      The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you. Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. I got full access of my girl’s account through the help of Johnson on *Brian hacks online* . I strongly recommend him y’all.. Highly Recommended for tracking and spying. .

  • @craneshashaw
    @craneshashaw 3 года назад +13

    wow. He fits every number, which makes me do number 13. He's always asking me and my kids to change, but can not self reflect. And yes, this is you in a narcissistic relationship.

    • @berifan390
      @berifan390 3 года назад

      My ex said he going to control me and change me in his style he said I'm going to make u like a donkey whatever I want u must do it olmast 6 years was together about one week I move on. I'm so dippers 💔😢 sorry for my English and grammar

  • @funtimeproduction8151
    @funtimeproduction8151 3 года назад +4

    Love conquers all petty differences

    • @hazelengland9295
      @hazelengland9295 Год назад +2

      Nope love doesn't conquer all when people are in one sided love 🙃💔

  • @tikitiktok7777
    @tikitiktok7777 2 года назад +7

    The average person falls in love 4 through 6 times in their lifetime. Practice makes perfect...make the last love💘 count!🥰

    • @robertgrahan6913
      @robertgrahan6913 2 года назад

      *i pray for the universe grant your heart desire I know of a great man in Africa💮that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay. he just help me restore my relationship of 2 years back with law of attraction manifestation last week*

    • @robertgrahan6913
      @robertgrahan6913 2 года назад

      *➕2348145827647⏭⏭⏭*

    • @robertgrahan6913
      @robertgrahan6913 2 года назад

      ±²³⁴⁸¹⁴⁵⁸²⁷⁶⁴⁷

    • @robertgrahan6913
      @robertgrahan6913 2 года назад

      What sapp ✍✍

  • @EskimoLady870
    @EskimoLady870 3 года назад +2

    Been together 5 years, don't acknowledge anniversary never remember wen we met,don't celebrate any holidays worst of all Christmas & new years.He only remember his friends females

  • @johnctatum3999
    @johnctatum3999 3 года назад +24

    You, Aaron Doughty, Victor Oddo, and Clark Kegley are a good start for getting back into alignment. From there I can just start doing the normal things I enjoy doing on the day-to-day. I love you all and I wish you all the best!

  • @dakota-rt8kd
    @dakota-rt8kd Месяц назад +1

    I cannot handle anymore heartbreaking relationships of any type 😢

  • @aedini.
    @aedini. 3 года назад +35

    What a happy and non-depressing video!

    • @lauravaco3728
      @lauravaco3728 3 года назад +2

      Love the sarcasm...lol

    • @karenmendheim195
      @karenmendheim195 3 года назад +5

      Isn't it though?
      I watched and realized I had a relationship like this with lots of the negative behaviors. I knew intuitively that it was not love, but I hung in there. Never again!

    • @mistiquecreations2546
      @mistiquecreations2546 3 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @josmclove4426
      @josmclove4426 2 года назад

      Yes...very delightful🤣🙌

  • @malikaailes988
    @malikaailes988 3 года назад +3

    Im going through this, He watch my calls, He has gps ổn my car. He come home and grill me every night. He argues all the time.He really insecure. He picks with every little thing. Im having trouble leaving him. He always use the guilt trip technique ổn me. So l dont leave him. He try to put me down like all the time. I was raised to stick in thêre with your partner. This is toxic. There so much more l held in for thêre for years. Yes this video is helping me.Thank you for this video.l was so caught up.

    • @dorib.3367
      @dorib.3367 3 года назад +3

      My love this a toxic relationship if you can leave pack your bags wait till he is gone to work. walk away please and never look back.

    • @nayendyguity6244
      @nayendyguity6244 3 года назад +2

      When he’s out the house. Leave have a master plan and go

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 3 года назад +2

      Narcissistic abuse gives Ptsd, bcs the situasion are so stressful, others even get Fatique and that's an total burn out ‼️Try to get proves and witnesses, recordings ‼️Seek help from an psychologist to leave, if it's difficult for you, you can get support there, if he has isolated you from friends and family ‼️💎👍Look to the channel Narc Survivor ‼️

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 3 года назад +1

      I heard about a woman who said she where going to the grocerie, and she never went back ‼️👍

  • @MrSpvdes
    @MrSpvdes 3 года назад +9

    I was that guy before, really ruined a good thing for myself, I didn't know how to love and communicate. I've learned but its crazy how cold I was

  • @jaydominguez1637
    @jaydominguez1637 3 года назад +3

    You can tell if the relationship is one way . Get the fake out of him/her.

  • @Tony-dh
    @Tony-dh 3 года назад +10

    I have never seen real love, so I don’t have a clue.
    Is it good?
    Must be.
    I don’t even know how to.

    • @MsAnchovey
      @MsAnchovey 3 года назад +1

      Take it from me. Study study study up on how to be in a healthy relationship. It will save you a lot of heartache like what's happened to me.

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 3 года назад +1

      Self-love come first‼️

  • @thatseve0828
    @thatseve0828 3 года назад +6

    my God this is all he did. Im glad Im not there anymore

  • @expresatupersona8109
    @expresatupersona8109 2 года назад +1

    I know you don’t think this of me, I do everything I can. I never run away, I’ve been there always

  • @liquidcane3745
    @liquidcane3745 3 года назад +3

    6 years of this type of "love"

  • @janinaabuhat3095
    @janinaabuhat3095 2 года назад +1

    At some point, i would tell my partner to keep on changing for the better. But i do still love him every change he made on himself. Good or bad. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jessicaadkins5663
    @jessicaadkins5663 3 года назад +10

    Yeah I need to drops this relationship . Thank this video really showed me .

  • @Cgm40
    @Cgm40 2 года назад +2

    You’re supposed to care about yourself more than anybody 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @randybroussard2277
    @randybroussard2277 3 года назад +6

    Tracee and Randy TRUE LOVE GOING STRONG 20 YRS

    • @nanali7245
      @nanali7245 3 года назад +1

      Awwwh! Congrats! I dream of that kind of love

  • @akugizibwefortunateowiti6483
    @akugizibwefortunateowiti6483 2 года назад +2

    Thanks my brother for sharing with the entire protocol.
    My girlfriend could show and do me all but we separated and am recovering from those scars she left me with.

    • @sofiaroland2922
      @sofiaroland2922 2 года назад

      Yea it’s really those hurt some times I wonder why do good people always come across bad people as partners

  • @djtye8379
    @djtye8379 3 года назад +6

    This is so informative. TFS. keep up the good work.

  • @alexandriawalkley594
    @alexandriawalkley594 3 года назад +1

    Described my daughters mother no compromising what so ever ran away when things got tough

    • @barbaralandis479
      @barbaralandis479 2 года назад

      She's a runner shes a trackstar..she gonna runaway when it gets hard🎶

  • @lisamickens345
    @lisamickens345 3 года назад +3

    I didn't need this video to tell me what i I all ready knew how my partner feels but it just let me know i am not crazy for thinking that he doesn't care about me

    • @biancadelarosa7986
      @biancadelarosa7986 3 года назад

      What a magic I couldn't believe I and my husband fall in love all thanks to the man of his world l agdice you having relationship issues

    • @biancadelarosa7986
      @biancadelarosa7986 3 года назад

      Text me I should explain how it works

  • @nat_candy
    @nat_candy 2 года назад +1

    It’s sad that I’ve experienced 75% of this list… if I only I had paid more attention

  • @yvonnebunch8800
    @yvonnebunch8800 3 года назад +6

    Wow I identified with 17 out of 20, I feel like such an idiot. And I feel sad.

  • @user-sk9sp7pe4y
    @user-sk9sp7pe4y 2 года назад +2

    Feel bad for anyone being in a relationship in 2022

  • @iamsil5793
    @iamsil5793 3 года назад +3

    It’s weird cuz I can’t relate to anything, except number 18. No wonder I’ve been cut in two but is so drawn to my loving relationship

  • @erikbartlett2147
    @erikbartlett2147 2 года назад +1

    Usually the one pointing the finger is actually insecure because it's something they may do or, already have!

  • @claudiacarley4050
    @claudiacarley4050 3 года назад +4

    That was some good Feedback...only 1 was right about him the rest failed..so I had to break it off!

  • @myraandrews9875
    @myraandrews9875 3 года назад +2

    how sad..am doing some of these to my partner..am very sorry😥 am gonna make it up to you,hope it's not yet too late to make things right..am sincerely sorry..

  • @SpontaniuzProductions2
    @SpontaniuzProductions2 3 года назад +38

    my ex shows me this fake love stuff. I knew it was over when IG is more important than a simple Good morning while laying in bed next to me.

    • @santana901parker4
      @santana901parker4 3 года назад +3

      facts post on Facebook before they know if you woke up

    • @jessd956
      @jessd956 2 года назад +1

      That is truly awful, I am so sorry.

    • @santana901parker4
      @santana901parker4 2 года назад +1

      @@jessd956 yep

    • @SpontaniuzProductions2
      @SpontaniuzProductions2 2 года назад

      @@jessd956 it is what it is. I get to watch her on IG now, living her best life, like a celebrity now all of a sudden. I just push the like button from time to time I guess to show no hard feelings... even though their still there.

  • @tanyastainbrook
    @tanyastainbrook 2 года назад +13

    I disagree with the “change” one. Sometimes partners pretend to love you and then violate your trust with lies and deceit. There is nothing wrong with asking them to change these behaviors. Asking them to quit lying and to stop treating you bad is not manipulative. Sometimes change needs to happen. If i didn’t ask them to change these behaviors and just tolerated it...that would be me not caring to save the relationship. If someone presents themselves one way at the beginning and then lies about who they are...asking them to change is very reasonable.

  • @wiiiii9398
    @wiiiii9398 2 года назад +3

    Everything that were mentioned in this video, I have it all. Feeling really guilty, don't know how to tell him. He's really a good guy, but my heart is numbed. 😔

    • @sofiaroland2922
      @sofiaroland2922 2 года назад +3

      If you don’t want to keep on hurt that innocent guy I think it’s best to tell him now

    • @entrthedragon
      @entrthedragon Год назад

      I hope you did. If you’re not in love with them be honest and break up. It’s cruel to pretend to say you love someone when you don’t.

  • @samalvarado3957
    @samalvarado3957 2 года назад +1

    As a man, when I start getting those feelings about someone, I learned a long time ago, and that's to "RUN FORREST! RUN! And be happy.

    • @esterdalpiaz8073
      @esterdalpiaz8073 Год назад

      To my greatest surprise, I had a similar heartbreaking experience with my psychotic husband, even with all the signs and clear red flags he'll still confidently deny it to my face. He also lied about the affair he was having…I spoke to my sister about this and she referred me to a friend of hers who happens to be some tech weirdo from her school. This guy remotely linked my husband's phone directly to mine without him knowing... I found out tons of disturbing texts, photos and videos, I was right about his secret affair and still feel a bit sad that I was reluctant at first... I'm just glad that it's all over now and I've moved on from such a heartless man

  • @brownpunk1794
    @brownpunk1794 3 года назад +64

    ill be having a chat tonight to my wife....
    Guys don't attempt to chat to ur wife about this when she's on her period..i did and know I'm dead (frying pan assault)

  • @meanneperea8031
    @meanneperea8031 2 года назад +1

    Your partner will always tell you , old people don't have to be sweet and caring and loving because it's awkward ...
    Always tired , unhappy , always shouting angry and blaming and has tons of secrets and flirts a lot ,... gaslightjng and unrespectful and lying normal ..
    Not planning for future and not worrying about anything , always broke..

  • @treeoflife2582
    @treeoflife2582 3 года назад +8

    Well, gut instinct I invade their privacy... and actually found secret flirty messages! And then I'm suddenly the controlling one? Nothing is ever their fault. lol I'm glad I got out of that. It's a tad narcissistic.