well, it was in my late teens and early 20s everyone showed me who they really were. but the boys from the neighborhood i grew up in, they showed me who THEY were when we were kids. i just didnt pick up on it until later in life
Sometimes some of us will pull away,detach and distance ourselves because we identify that a person is not genuine, loyal and real to us,not because we are planning to betray them but because we know they have betrayed us...it can go both ways.
Great stuff. One or two of these qualities might just make for a flaky friend, but 3-5 of these traits, especially if they weren’t there at the beginning, and at least put up your guard!!
@Hubert Harmon - thank you! I’m going to give this a go because I deal with exhaustion for another reason. I’ll ask my doctor about it but this could help tremendously! 💕
I feel like one of my childhood friend has all 9 traits. She calls when she wants to talk only, and she would hang up if another call comes in. she tells what you have told her to everyone and if u confront her, she would apologize and mock your sensitivity... I don't take her seriously but I still pick up her call. I might need to change that!?!
That part didn’t make sense to me since I distance myself physically & emotionally all the time but I’ve never planned to betray anyone I simply do it to not feel vulnerable cuz I don’t trust anyone fr or sometimes people just got things going on in they life’s & focus on themselves
Both friends and family have betrayed me in recent months. The ones I would have laid down my life for. I have been sick with disappointment. It’s been the ones that I’ve helped the most.
I can absolutely relate to you. I helped alot of the "so called friends" by helping them financially, emotionally & sacrificing my time. I recently moved to a new city & I must say none of those "so called friends" ever reached me out, one diverted my calls & the other one cames out with excuses. I'll be honest, when it cames to success & achievements not all will be delighted. I'm glad I went to college, found a job now I'm moving to my own apartment. I guess for the "so called friends" it's bitterness because they don't have none of these accolades. I use to tell them go to college before it's to late, they called me Mr serious back when the economy was pretty good instead of spending time studying they were chasing women, while I was applying hard & walking miles to companies to sell myself they enhanced in sexual desires, when I was graduating they were expecting there first kids. Now I know 😅
Same. Even my husband turned out to be two faced .12 years of me being completely trusting of him and his love. The blinders are off now and it sucks. I thought he was the one
I’ve been in your place Sally, it’s time for you to take time for yourself and rediscover your inner values. You have been betrayed by the people you love but have no fear. Focus on the parts of LIFE you LOVE and follow your HEART as these things like Goals or hobbies you love will never let you down. Take time to cross things off your bucket list or if you have one pursue a dream or fill a void in your life. This happened to me during lockdown and what I did was focus on my credit score to help get through the imminent crisis. I took my score from 169 to 731 by sacrificing and paying debts. Good luck ❤
Sally, our misery comes from our attachments. Listen to your heart , it does not lie. If someone makes you feel uncomfortable, it is a physical response to a negative energy source. This condition causes stress & stress weakens the immune system. If being around someone makes you sick,as the saying goes, it is no joke! They are making you sick. Get away from them & stay away. Family or not!
There is no such thing as a "trustworthy" friend anymore. Everybody has their own agenda and you either benefit them somehow or they're just not your friend. I get lonesome af sometimes because I stay away from everyone (for obvious reasons) but as soon as I run into practically anyone in town or something, I remember why I'm a loner. Society has broken so many people
I've learned a long time ago that you can't trust anyone, sometimes even family can be toxic relationships, friends, neighbors etc. I've learned to put my faith and trust in Our Creator of the Whole Universe.
@@NamesZKP Exactly. Our Creator of the Whole Universe is my guide in life and always has been. Many others who doesn't have good intentions don't have respect for my values and my boundaries even though I've told them a million times. My Creator of the Whole Universe is my guide in life and I can't control the bad actions and bad decisions of other people. I stay to myself and pray daily for Our Creator of the Whole Universe for His protection and to watch over me.
Why? All my endless string of betrayal, heartbreak and disillusionment has taught me is that I absolutely HATE "our creator". It's what's responsible for this happening to us, meanwhile other people get everything handed to them and always have things work out. If there is a creator, he/she clearly hates me, so I hate them right back.
The thing is that you never wanna pursue someone who isn’t into you. Relationship has to be mutual. If the other person isn’t into you you never bother them. You should only be with someone who wants to be with you also, not someone who doesn’t. Life is short and you shouldn’t waste your time for someone who isn’t into you. Keep your life drama free and keep it simple. Stay happy and most importantly love yourself first.
Truth. I believe that they should stop sending texts about whom they're with. Or keep hurt away too. Do not give false hopes of love and happiness. Especially when you don't ever know where they are or whom with. Truth.
Crazy thing is I found myself looking at these videos after being such a good person. Handing out, helping people up, lying for people, covering for people, working for people etc. I found myself not having enough time to promote my own goals and duties. I had to fully understand if I was being tricked into kindness or if I had a genuine person in front of me. Which is sad because im witnessing simple things such as honestly getting harder and harder to come by. I literally don’t even recognize the world I live in
I’m sooooo happy when people drop out of my life; it’s one less jerk I have to deal with! Not everyone is meant to move into the next chapter of the story of my life, and I totally accept that! Good Byeeeeeeee!👋
I don't try to screw people over. I don't take undue advantage of people. I know a few people out there who are the same way. But it does seem more and more rare these days, I totally feel you. It can be very disheartening. Let's hang in there and not get dragged down. 🤘
1000%. No matter how much someone shows that they care about you, are there for you, or proves that they won't just up and leave you, they will. Not can, WILL. And it's usually right after you finally give in and trust them completely. Every time I've done that, they up and leave me within a week, usually for a guy they just met. The timing is so consistently cruel, it's made me believe in the simulation hypothesis.
@@UltimateGamer-sl2kx, depends on the individual. If they're someone who you interact with in a professional way, just look at their reactions. Make a minor mistake and see if they exploit it, or use it to show off, etc. There isn't really a default way. It's more like an observation based riddle of sorts. Most people, at least in my experience, have a few 'areas' they can't be trusted with or in, the sooner you spot em, the more pleasant your time together will be.
Right. I HAVE TO PROTECT MY ENERGY. Fake, Creep ass people are all around. And let me tell you from experience, if someone snakes you one time, let them go and do not return. They will do it again. Snakes shed skin to become a bigger snake. I have lived this.
hurt people hurt people. most people who act based off of past experiences, from my knowledge, end up doing the same or a similar thing to you that hurt them. its usually done in the name of "protecting themselves" but thats why you just shouldnt pursue friendships/relationships until you're truly ready.
Dead on! I got co workers I avoid when they want to hang out. Truth is, I value my time by myself so much and I know I'm happier at home than at a bar.
I had a friend that would interrupt me every time I had something to say. Had another friend that said she was interested in doing all kinds of things with me but never did any of them. I can't tell my boyfriend anything that is personal. He tells everybody even though I ask him not to. I can't trust anybody anymore. Probably never will. It seems as though, the more you tell them the more they have to use against you. It really really sucks!!
Feed rats poison, pay attention to body language and observe what people actually attracted to, attached with and speak into existence. Add it up, never substract. Multiply it, never divide. Reading writing and arithmetic are very crucial skill sets in behavioral analysis and prediction. Very distinctively algebra, figuring out exponents, unknown values.
What about cutting off and going no contact from toxic people? You have to cut ties and sometimes disappear just to escape. That whole thing about getting closure and saying "bye" is inviting the toxic person to try and control you. Because they will try to stop you.
ghosting is weak...I did it to toxic family, while they lived next door (not easy to pull off) 🤣but yeah, I think it it's best to tell people you're done. I once moved into an apartment in a new town and was friendly with a neighbor for about 2 months, nice at first but then she was relentless asking for daily favors, dog walking, carrying her groceries up stairs because her back hurt, and constantly knocking on my door, coming over when I had company (in a night gown) and so much more...it was nuts. I finally had to tell her to stay away from me, I'm not her friend and I am not her slave! I don't why I'm sharing that story LOL but yeah, I had to tell her and be firm or she would have continued.
My mom betrayed me all my life I haven't spoken to her in 5 years. I tell my kids grandma is dead and they don't really give a dam so I know they feel the bullshit she's done to me.
I think the biggest and most reliable example is not being able to be yourself around that person, that's always a good indicator someone is not a true friend.
I despise gossips the most. I cut off one person because she started talking about my personal life to others. What is it with people who couldn't keep secrets? I can carry secrets to the grave. It's not that hard.
For real for real. That shit about losing ur power was something I didn't resonate with until bam. Baby daughter snatched right out from under me. I mean. Would u agree or disagree? Once a flakey ass female (dam 5 secs after typing flakey the video says flakey friends haha ) but once a female who her herself can not handle how pretty she dresses her self up , starts to participates in all the thirst, grass is greener on the other side bs etc etc....once their whole games, lies, and bs starts to come to light. ...20-30% of it....they become so worried about the whole 1000% coming out . They catch Flintstones syndrome and tap dance they ass outta there. Cuz pressha don't just bust pipes. It bust egos down into dime bags 3 for 25 . Shit hit me a few hours after and I ain't even know some shit like that was real . Was 22 at the time. 33 now. And shawty I been rocking with the past 6 years just did the same exact shit . The fine ass women be having it made and still find some way to shit all over a mufka. And yea we ain't perfect. But why these gangsta ass chicks think they can be semi gangbanger popping they suck muscle hard , then u pop some shit back ,nothing too hard core all the sudden a big ass list of shit from last week to dam 2016 is the reason. I'm like but hey. That's plural. U said more than 1. Shawty u gotta list right there . I'm just rambling bro . Trying to get myself back down to earth . Ain't gonna let forgeiners to loyalty ,bend ,break, or tarnish mine. . And fellas . Start background checking these broads. If she from some other place. Call her hood ask a few questions, screening process she gotta get cleared before she can enter into our house hold. The collective don't need no rats jeopardizing our safety and security. My Lil 2 cents
Trust nobody and never be used, betrayed, nor painfully treated again. I have trusted nobody since 8 August 2000 at 18:34. I keep everyone a very well defined distance from me. I quit making friends and a girlfriend that day, and deleted the ones I thought I did have. Today, I have no friends, no girlfriend no work aquaintences. I only interact with humans in a manner that a client would interact with a merchant or a service provider. This avoid any sort of familiarity with me. After the transaction ends, I quickly leave the location. What is considered a friend today is nothing but a low level enemy waiting foryou to weaken so they may strike and steal from you. Trust nobody.
That's a whole Lotta NO Nope and hell nah u gonna have to say. With the way some of these thirsty ass Lil grown ass men act as if they have never ever seen a beautiful woman before. Literally fools will try when she right by ya side paying them no attention. But can she do that when she by her self? Yes. How many times tho? A lot of women demand loyalty but be oblivious when it comes to their half of that pie. Not all. But A Hella lot. Chalés con ese pedo. Social media and all these bs secret apps killed faithful relationships. In my opinion
This does make sense I always wondered why people only liked to use me and take my kindness for weakness But anyways God bless everyone who comes across this comment 🙌
This is ALL very, very correct. I've been betrayed, so believe me I know! All of these signs were present when I was set up by my family, and my ex was cheating on me and also getting ready to betray me even further. So that's how I know that this list, every item in fact, is true.
This is interesting. I just recently stopped being friends with a " flaky friend" who has an " inconsistent image" of themselves.This video made good points.
That is such good advice...Use your inner guidance, (wisdom,) Trust your gut. Ask for spiritual assistance in your dreams. Listen. Help is always available, but we have to ask and be open to it. Find the answers for yourself. It makes us strong to depend on God.
Over time , Ive had 3 friends betray Me. All 3 wanted me to contact me to make up but i never cared because it was to big a knife in my back. I would never screw them over like that. They dont deserve a second shot.
We are just people and no one is perfect so we should stop exaggerating people's shortcomings. Have patience to each others growth. If you see this examples to your friends it doesn't mean that they are a fully untrustworthy person don't judge people until you don't know their full story. If you keep on being judgemental to people around you, you will always end up alone.
Good point, but no repeated excuses once one reaches a certain age. People gonna do what people wanna do , can't force loyalty onto someone , unless u hold them to it with the threat of violence I guess u could say. That probably won't even work with how gangsta in all the wrong ways women have become. Love n respect to the ones that still think with their heads tho. Yada
These are characteristics of plain ol shitty “friends” or frenemies. They don’t necessarily portend betrayal, it just means they don’t care about your feelings or being consistent. To really betray someone - you have to care. It’s the ones who act like your best friend and then talk shit behind your back that you have to worry about.
1. They create distance 2. An emotional mask 3. inattentive 4. intentional exclusion 5. Power plays 6. Criminal reaction 7. Flakey 8. inconsistent view of themselves 9. They gossip 10. They project
Some one may nudge someone out of their life also because they want to save them from toxicity of being together and thus they sacrifice them although they love them a lot.
“Flakiness” could be a friend who has anxiety though… in that case, it’s not calculated at all… they want to hang out… they just feel too much anxiety and can’t hang out with anyone at the time! Be aware of that too!!! Don’t cast those friends away or punish them. They need your love and support, actually. I’m really surprised (and angered) that it’s even on here when this is a channel that leads one to think that it is versed in matters of the mind…
betrayal is really cruel from people you never expected it..family friends etc it hurts especially when you are ignorant but God is always there to pick your broken pieces up.The sure thing is not to let anyone change your beautiful character and steal your smile you just learn from your mistakes and choose your people wisely💗
My supposed best friend 😬discussing my private life with new judge-mental boyfriend ,needless to say, I no longer discuss with her or anyone else information that could put me at a disadvantage. 🤔lesson learned. Thank you,👍
Even though these could be signs of a relationship going bad, it's not always the case. People have their own lives. People go through their own bs. Half of these describe exactly what someone would do to avoid adding stress into a situation that isnt needed. Inattentive listening? Maybe they're wrapped up with the problems in their head. Creating distance? Yeah, depression. If you have unreasonable high expectations of a person to be there for you 100%of the time than you need to visit the real world once more. Stuff like this causes so many issues with trust in today's society. If you feel as if you shouldnt be friends with someone anymore, than dont be. It's really that simple. If you want answers for certain behaviors, ask. If it doesnt add up, leave. Bottom line.
I've been betrayed by a few friends that I play with online. Plus, there is another"friend" that I used to play with that I don't really play with anymore. He displayed quite a few of the listed characteristics of being a traitorous friend and I had a bad feeling about him anyway. I'm pretty sure he was gonna betray me eventually. He wasn't a true friend. I'm glad that I distanced from him and that he never had the chance to betray me while we were "friends" and still playing together.
I feel what you're saying and agree with you, I too say had I known this then my husband would not have cheated on me for 23 years..I am way too trusting. Hope you are living your best life now.
That's why it's important to learn people not by their words but by their actions. Protect your inner peace and know trust is earned, not everyone who say they for you truly are and that's with partners too. The introverted person is easier to see their faults, but be careful with all people in your circle, especially family. Blessing 🙏🏾
I've been on both sides of the situation. And is quite awkward, and I can't believe and tolerate the rude and inconsiderate behavior. Now my circle of friends is only two. It's nothing more hurtful when it's your mother and siblings.
It’s sad to know that, imagine being betrayed by your parents your whole life, it’s a pain that never truly goes away, u just learn to live with it, and cut them loose
Unfortunately when a child comes in a relationship sometimes the husband feels left behind. Communication is the key but sometimes is too late. The husband can cheat on you for years but the wife could be too naive that the husband can do smth wrong
I hear what you're saying, my husband cheated on me for 23 years and I didn't even realise it!!! Communication is number one for friends, family and everything in-between.
Possibly feeling and seeing a lot of these things right now, with a “friend”. I am not really surprised though. One of the behavioral issues that I’ve seen with them is that, when I’ve told them that I was being mistreated, by my narcissistic mother, whom I’ve now left or by a couple that lives nearby, their immediate reaction is to jump to the other party’s defense. They’ll say, “How can you treat them that way!?” Really? Also, I’m not the type of person that feels that you must agree with me, because you’re my friend. If I’m wrong, I expect to be told why you think I’m wrong. But, turning on me and making it seem as if I am the one who has mistreated it has been disrespectful to someone, who’s actually done those things to me, I can tell you that’s you sit there a bit stunned. Because of all that I’ve even learned about narcissistic behavior, I’m well aware that I’m not in the wrong, no can I control, nor will I apologize, for someone else’s behavior. Nevertheless, this friend, who “appears” to like me very much, does this. What I’m feeling right now is angst, because I feel that, if it has anything to do with something that I did, that made me a bit happy recently, it’s possibly put their panties in a twist. I’ve seen a sudden behavioral change and, unfortunately, it may be meant to counter what made me happy and would then be conscious, as well. That there is jealousy or even envy. But, one way to know if a person is not really your friend is if something good happens for you. Things were fine, when they were comfortable, with your discomfort. But, let something, sometimes even something rather small, happen for you and WOW, the green-eyed monster comes out! Like what is said in this video, what has actually been boiling all along, suddenly combusts. And we’re not talking about The Hulk, who may later return to normal and his senses. We’re talking about someone who consciously, simply needed an excuse to do what they’d long wanted and planned to do. But, again, I saw this coming, probably 2 years ago. I could tell that, since they couldn’t be with the one they love, they’d better not find out, if I found love.
In this generation better be self reliant. I don't mean not to socialize or to have friends but develop this skill since it is rare now to have real true friends.
Creating distance doesn't mean betrayal. Sometimes, People simply exhaust you. You may be an introvert or whatever that you constantly need on your own. Emotional mask doesn't mean they are manipulating you or whatever. Sometimes, people don't want to be a burden to others. Inattentive listening, sometimes people have problems on their own and for them they can't handle when there a lot of things happening.
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So I suffered quite the deep & dangerous betrayal by one of my best friends. So dangerous that I would have wound up dead or in jail because of it. He showed NONE of the above signs. What I'm trying to say is, the human heart goes to extraordinary depths...& in those depths is darkness you never knew could exist.
That's why I show people who I am. The good the bad the ugly flaws and all...so there will be no misunderstanding without me hurting and betraying others which look like a few on the list.
Some of these things could also be ADHD….Many of us have a hard time with some of these things and always feel shitty…I think it’s important to note that some of these overlap with Nero diverse brains as well 😉😎💜
I had some close friends who betrayed me, that showed no signs at all, until it was too late. I was caught off guard. That's why today, I don't have any friends, I just be friendly to every one.
I don't necessarily agree with this because I am the one who pulled back my energy recently from alit of people who toxic & always trying to get something from me & after ignoring THIER behavior for too long I finally decided I had enough & rather then start a bunch of drama or confront them ( because we both know they would just deny ,deny,deny ) so I walked away blocked them & I refuse to have anything to do do with them even tho they ariving & genue all ACTING like I have betrayed them to get out out facing THIER own behavior I was 💯 loyal ,giving & genuine with them - So my point is that the person who is actually distancing themselves is always going to be the "BETRAYER" we just might have a very good reason for creating the distance the distance
Expect others to EARN your trust and candor over a LONG period of time...Initially, divulge a minor(small enough that even a full betrayal has a limited effect on your emotional life and/or everyday life), but juicy piece of disclosure. If they honor this for a period of three months, "loosen the reins" on an initimacy of a slightly increasing consequence , but only slightly...and wait three months.
all great points! also forgot to mention, people who get 3rd parties involved in their intimate,sexual,romantic relationships are more likely to betray you as well!
this is so true, i saw this signs in my ex best friend before she betrayed me and take all my friends. too bad i did not saw this video before she betray me. i wish i understand what her intention was.
The upbeat intro and voice is totally appropriate for this subject matter... Anyway, the way you know someone will betray you is if they're in your life. The one lesson the universe has pushed on me over and over again is that no matter how much you trust someone, think they're different, think they truly care about you, and believe they'll never up and leave you out of nowhere, EVERYONE is capable of doing exactly that. Watching them go from loving and caring about you one minute to being cold, distant and uncaring the next is one of the hardest things you can experience. It makes it hard to believe that they ever cared about you at all. Especially if they left you without warning for someone else, or to "explore their options".
This video defined everything about my ex boyfriend in a nutshell. He was nice at first, but then changed to betray me over time. It was hard watching this video, but I needed to watch this. Thank you for helping in my process of healing TopThink.
Perhaps he is a narcissist. They are charming and nice in the beginning, (called "lovebombing",) then once they have you sucked in, they completely flip the script. Check out "The Little Shaman," Lisa Romano and Dr. Ramani on RUclips for some great insight about narcissists. Because unfortunately if you have attracted one...more will follow. Good luck.
@lyric gibson Yep you know nothing about relationships! Already moved on. By the way, you don't just tell someone to move on. So hilarious how many tone deaf people there are in this world to relationships and emotions.
This sounds so familiar (some cases with family members and friends). I should have known this many years ago. You should not be too trusting to a fault lest you want to be victimized for a long time.
The world is so cruel it makes you think if yourself when you have been betrayed many times especially if you stay in a relationship you’re not really interested in
Well for Starters there are Some actual Friends But most of All there really isn't Such thing as Friends because in the end They will Find a way to use you While you think Everything is Cool Think again 9 out of 10 their Going to Use you
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One of my friends told me something I would like to pass along..."If it costs you your peace, it's just too expensive."
Yep.
You can't find good friends, good relationships anymore. If you do it's rare and you should treasure it if you have it.
Yes I agree 👍 treasure what we have and make smart choices !
Narcissism and personality disorders are too high in today’s society. Sometimes I wish I were born in a different era 😂
@@lunarsann5499 yes! It’s technology that’s causing self obsession and insecurity 😖sad
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Actions speak louder than words. They can lie with their tongues but their behavior does not lie.
I swear you speaking facts
Word bro
You got that right! 👍
a lesson i learned the hard way so many times in life. and everyone wonders why im not a people person
In my cases, they’re were actually dependable, consistent people and then they change without warning sometimes
Can't trust nobody. Its rarely the enemy that gets you. Its always friends and family.
Amen, that's right
Well said!!!
Watching this and thinking about my twin brother. Don't know why he can't work on things forgive him still.
True
@@kevonhenderson6888 use logic not emotions dealing with people.
When people show you who they are believe them
...the first time. - Maya Angelou
@@ziziroberts8041 I wanted to add this. 🤣🤣
JUST ASK THEM QUESTIONS AND LET THEM TALK. DONT INTERRUPT THEY WILL TELL YOU EVERYTHING.
@@michaelwilliams7907 😱 it's true!!!!
well, it was in my late teens and early 20s everyone showed me who they really were. but the boys from the neighborhood i grew up in, they showed me who THEY were when we were kids. i just didnt pick up on it until later in life
Sometimes some of us will pull away,detach and distance ourselves because we identify that a person is not genuine, loyal and real to us,not because we are planning to betray them but because we know they have betrayed us...it can go both ways.
exactly my sentiment.
True
EXACTLY!!!!!
Yes I totally agree - it is a form of projection
Exactly 💯 true. I had to detach myself from what was my best friend for over 20 years, because of her emotional and financial using behaviors.
The thing about betrayal it never comes from your enemies......
It always ur own people, cuz who knows U best
@@earldouglas4645 Yep.
Exactly!
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0:14 - Creating distance
1:38 - The emotional mask
3:09 - Inattentive listening
4:21 - Intentional exclusion
5:17 - Power plays
6:32 - The criminal reaction
7:26 - The flaky friend
8:13 - An inconsistent image
9:08 - Spilling secrets
9:50 - Behavioral projection
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Great stuff. One or two of these qualities might just make for a flaky friend, but 3-5 of these traits, especially if they weren’t there at the beginning, and at least put up your guard!!
Sounds like a narccist,🏃🏃🏃
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@Hubert Harmon - thank you! I’m going to give this a go because I deal with exhaustion for another reason. I’ll ask my doctor about it but this could help tremendously! 💕
I feel like one of my childhood friend has all 9 traits. She calls when she wants to talk only, and she would hang up if another call comes in. she tells what you have told her to everyone and if u confront her, she would apologize and mock your sensitivity... I don't take her seriously but I still pick up her call. I might need to change that!?!
The distance and the fake smiles have always been the way that I knew even as a child that betrayal was occuring to me.
The big business man smile
Shit most of my smiles are forced cause I smell the bs
That part didn’t make sense to me since I distance myself physically & emotionally all the time but I’ve never planned to betray anyone I simply do it to not feel vulnerable cuz I don’t trust anyone fr or sometimes people just got things going on in they life’s & focus on themselves
SO TRUE 🙂
Both friends and family have betrayed me in recent months. The ones I would have laid down my life for. I have been sick with disappointment. It’s been the ones that I’ve helped the most.
I can absolutely relate to you. I helped alot of the "so called friends" by helping them financially, emotionally & sacrificing my time. I recently moved to a new city & I must say none of those "so called friends" ever reached me out, one diverted my calls & the other one cames out with excuses. I'll be honest, when it cames to success & achievements not all will be delighted. I'm glad I went to college, found a job now I'm moving to my own apartment. I guess for the "so called friends" it's bitterness because they don't have none of these accolades. I use to tell them go to college before it's to late, they called me Mr serious back when the economy was pretty good instead of spending time studying they were chasing women, while I was applying hard & walking miles to companies to sell myself they enhanced in sexual desires, when I was graduating they were expecting there first kids. Now I know 😅
Same. Even my husband turned out to be two faced .12 years of me being completely trusting of him and his love. The blinders are off now and it sucks. I thought he was the one
I’ve been in your place Sally, it’s time for you to take time for yourself and rediscover your inner values. You have been betrayed by the people you love but have no fear. Focus on the parts of LIFE you LOVE and follow your HEART as these things like Goals or hobbies you love will never let you down. Take time to cross things off your bucket list or if you have one pursue a dream or fill a void in your life. This happened to me during lockdown and what I did was focus on my credit score to help get through the imminent crisis. I took my score from 169 to 731 by sacrificing and paying debts. Good luck ❤
Take heart. An investor and a close friend of ten plus years co-founder betrayed me two years ago and left me destitute. Still recovering. It happens.
Sally, our misery comes from our attachments. Listen to your heart , it does not lie. If someone makes you feel uncomfortable, it is a physical response to a negative energy source. This condition causes stress & stress weakens the immune system. If being around someone makes you sick,as the saying goes, it is no joke! They are making you sick. Get away from them & stay away. Family or not!
There is no such thing as a "trustworthy" friend anymore. Everybody has their own agenda and you either benefit them somehow or they're just not your friend. I get lonesome af sometimes because I stay away from everyone (for obvious reasons) but as soon as I run into practically anyone in town or something, I remember why I'm a loner. Society has broken so many people
So true, that’s why I am a loner too, it’s so hard for me to trust anyone, been betrayed by my own parents, let alone friends 😡
Im in your situation, I help all of them whenever they needs help. Fuck them, when I need help, no one fucking cares.
I am you my friend I don't do ppl at all they to weird to me these days I find more pleasure in being alone majority of the times
I've learned a long time ago that you can't trust anyone, sometimes even family can be toxic relationships, friends, neighbors etc. I've learned to put my faith and trust in Our Creator of the Whole Universe.
The only god I know is love and compassion. That's what guides me.
@@NamesZKP Exactly. Our Creator of the Whole Universe is my guide in life and always has been. Many others who doesn't have good intentions don't have respect for my values and my boundaries even though I've told them a million times. My Creator of the Whole Universe is my guide in life and I can't control the bad actions and bad decisions of other people. I stay to myself and pray daily for Our Creator of the Whole Universe for His protection and to watch over me.
I try but over and over again it gets harder
@@rickcarp5453 doesn’t it? There are still good ones out there. Perhaps pull back and let them reveal themselves to you
Why? All my endless string of betrayal, heartbreak and disillusionment has taught me is that I absolutely HATE "our creator". It's what's responsible for this happening to us, meanwhile other people get everything handed to them and always have things work out. If there is a creator, he/she clearly hates me, so I hate them right back.
*When you focus on problems, you will have more problems. When you focus on possibilities you will have more opportunities!!*
Oooh, I like that!
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Hi actually Business,!what Christmas cracker did you get that from,? It's snake oil,
Thankyou, that was inspirational.
Touche!!
The thing is that you never wanna pursue someone who isn’t into you.
Relationship has to be mutual. If the other person isn’t into you you never bother them. You should only be with someone who wants to be with you also, not someone who doesn’t. Life is short and you shouldn’t waste your time for someone who isn’t into you. Keep your life drama free and keep it simple. Stay happy and most importantly love yourself first.
Great points, this information applies to all relationships as well
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Also dont connect with a person who does not have vision because you can have all of the vision and their insecurities will pull you down
Truth. I believe that they should stop sending texts about whom they're with. Or keep hurt away too. Do not give false hopes of love and happiness. Especially when you don't ever know where they are or whom with. Truth.
I agree 💯%
Crazy thing is I found myself looking at these videos after being such a good person. Handing out, helping people up, lying for people, covering for people, working for people etc. I found myself not having enough time to promote my own goals and duties. I had to fully understand if I was being tricked into kindness or if I had a genuine person in front of me. Which is sad because im witnessing simple things such as honestly getting harder and harder to come by. I literally don’t even recognize the world I live in
You are not alone.
I’m sooooo happy when people drop out of my life; it’s one less jerk I have to deal with! Not everyone is meant to move into the next chapter of the story of my life, and I totally accept that! Good Byeeeeeeee!👋
I feel the same way, hit the road jack, 👢
The biggest sign that someone is gonna betray you is that they're breathing. People are only in it for themselves in the end.
I don't try to screw people over. I don't take undue advantage of people. I know a few people out there who are the same way. But it does seem more and more rare these days, I totally feel you. It can be very disheartening. Let's hang in there and not get dragged down. 🤘
Most maybe but not all!
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1000%. No matter how much someone shows that they care about you, are there for you, or proves that they won't just up and leave you, they will. Not can, WILL. And it's usually right after you finally give in and trust them completely. Every time I've done that, they up and leave me within a week, usually for a guy they just met. The timing is so consistently cruel, it's made me believe in the simulation hypothesis.
I don't trust anyone, but I give everyone the feeling I trust them to see at which point they will try to take advantage of it.
Yeah, there's a limit to everything
That's pretty smart ngl, but how do you give them that feeling ?
@@UltimateGamer-sl2kx, depends on the individual. If they're someone who you interact with in a professional way, just look at their reactions. Make a minor mistake and see if they exploit it, or use it to show off, etc.
There isn't really a default way. It's more like an observation based riddle of sorts.
Most people, at least in my experience, have a few 'areas' they can't be trusted with or in, the sooner you spot em, the more pleasant your time together will be.
@@nixonsprguy3629 thanks ✌️.
Just wait until you stop that too, when you're sick of stupid people all the time.
Some Create distance: because someone backstabbed them in past and doesn’t want to hurt again .
Right. I HAVE TO PROTECT MY ENERGY. Fake, Creep ass people are all around. And let me tell you from experience, if someone snakes you one time, let them go and do not return. They will do it again. Snakes shed skin to become a bigger snake. I have lived this.
@@tweetdaone4450 my husband family is like snakes , no love talking good to you and bad talk after, old people say snake in house
This is so true. This video of a whole lot of nothing.
hurt people hurt people. most people who act based off of past experiences, from my knowledge, end up doing the same or a similar thing to you that hurt them. its usually done in the name of "protecting themselves" but thats why you just shouldnt pursue friendships/relationships until you're truly ready.
True
does not apply for introverts, they just want to be alone most of the time
This 🔥
As introvert i can confirm it
True.I wish I care
Bro Yes !
Dead on! I got co workers I avoid when they want to hang out. Truth is, I value my time by myself so much and I know I'm happier at home than at a bar.
I had a friend that would interrupt me every time I had something to say. Had another friend that said she was interested in doing all kinds of things with me but never did any of them. I can't tell my boyfriend anything that is personal. He tells everybody even though I ask him not to. I can't trust anybody anymore. Probably never will. It seems as though, the more you tell them the more they have to use against you. It really really sucks!!
Feed rats poison, pay attention to body language and observe what people actually attracted to, attached with and speak into existence. Add it up, never substract. Multiply it, never divide.
Reading writing and arithmetic are very crucial skill sets in behavioral analysis and prediction. Very distinctively algebra, figuring out exponents, unknown values.
@@francisthomas8506 those who put us down are below us
I swear to God I feel same way
Indeed
@Kathy Mary, I understand and feel your pain! Please know you're not alone.
The workplace is the most common place to experience these types of behaviors.
True that...
Yes! Watch out for the snakes AKA co-workers! 🐍
Yup and very toxic
You are so right about that!🎯
Facts
My best friend of more than 30 years. Just incredible how they can be like that. Needless to say we're no longer friends
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I feel you....they are monsters....as well as some of my siblings and relatives.....
Going through this right now
What about cutting off and going no contact from toxic people?
You have to cut ties and sometimes disappear just to escape.
That whole thing about getting closure and saying "bye" is inviting
the toxic person to try and control you. Because they will try to stop you.
Just stay solid
ghosting is weak...I did it to toxic family, while they lived next door (not easy to pull off) 🤣but yeah, I think it it's best to tell people you're done. I once moved into an apartment in a new town and was friendly with a neighbor for about 2 months, nice at first but then she was relentless asking for daily favors, dog walking, carrying her groceries up stairs because her back hurt, and constantly knocking on my door, coming over when I had company (in a night gown) and so much more...it was nuts. I finally had to tell her to stay away from me, I'm not her friend and I am not her slave! I don't why I'm sharing that story LOL but yeah, I had to tell her and be firm or she would have continued.
kinda hard sometimes for weaker minded people
I 100% agrree. Move according to how you feel.
When you are friends with your parents and they betray you, you have to find the pieces of not only your broken heart, but also psyche, and self
God loves you more than your parents , it's written that he said trust no one only him for a reason he knows everything.
My mom betrayed me all my life I haven't spoken to her in 5 years. I tell my kids grandma is dead and they don't really give a dam so I know they feel the bullshit she's done to me.
Wow that is sad but courageous
I don't understand
And it begins to feel like Groundhog's Day
I think the biggest and most reliable example is not being able to be yourself around that person, that's always a good indicator someone is not a true friend.
My mom use to say”don’t trust anyone “
You think you have friends but Watch out !!!
She was right in spades!!!
Your mother is right
Yes it is, i have learnt it on hard way
kindness may be contagious but sometimes its only a smokescreen
I despise gossips the most. I cut off one person because she started talking about my personal life to others. What is it with people who couldn't keep secrets? I can carry secrets to the grave. It's not that hard.
Don’t ignore the red flags
For real for real. That shit about losing ur power was something I didn't resonate with until bam. Baby daughter snatched right out from under me. I mean. Would u agree or disagree? Once a flakey ass female (dam 5 secs after typing flakey the video says flakey friends haha ) but once a female who her herself can not handle how pretty she dresses her self up , starts to participates in all the thirst, grass is greener on the other side bs etc etc....once their whole games, lies, and bs starts to come to light. ...20-30% of it....they become so worried about the whole 1000% coming out . They catch Flintstones syndrome and tap dance they ass outta there. Cuz pressha don't just bust pipes. It bust egos down into dime bags 3 for 25 . Shit hit me a few hours after and I ain't even know some shit like that was real . Was 22 at the time. 33 now. And shawty I been rocking with the past 6 years just did the same exact shit . The fine ass women be having it made and still find some way to shit all over a mufka. And yea we ain't perfect. But why these gangsta ass chicks think they can be semi gangbanger popping they suck muscle hard , then u pop some shit back ,nothing too hard core all the sudden a big ass list of shit from last week to dam 2016 is the reason. I'm like but hey. That's plural. U said more than 1. Shawty u gotta list right there . I'm just rambling bro . Trying to get myself back down to earth . Ain't gonna let forgeiners to loyalty ,bend ,break, or tarnish mine. . And fellas . Start background checking these broads. If she from some other place. Call her hood ask a few questions, screening process she gotta get cleared before she can enter into our house hold. The collective don't need no rats jeopardizing our safety and security. My Lil 2 cents
All my family have ignored me🥺😤💔
I thought we were best friends. However, she just wanted me to buy everything when we go out. She would say she forgot her money everytime
Trust nobody and never be used, betrayed, nor painfully treated again. I have trusted nobody since 8 August 2000 at 18:34. I keep everyone a very well defined distance from me. I quit making friends and a girlfriend that day, and deleted the ones I thought I did have. Today, I have no friends, no girlfriend no work aquaintences. I only interact with humans in a manner that a client would interact with a merchant or a service provider. This avoid any sort of familiarity with me. After the transaction ends, I quickly leave the location. What is considered a friend today is nothing but a low level enemy waiting foryou to weaken so they may strike and steal from you. Trust nobody.
This is why I am not letting anyone in in my life friends or partners i had enough better off alone
You don't have to. Just that you don't value the people who truly love you. That's life for us. Enjoy it while it last
That's a whole Lotta NO Nope and hell nah u gonna have to say. With the way some of these thirsty ass Lil grown ass men act as if they have never ever seen a beautiful woman before. Literally fools will try when she right by ya side paying them no attention. But can she do that when she by her self? Yes. How many times tho? A lot of women demand loyalty but be oblivious when it comes to their half of that pie. Not all. But A Hella lot. Chalés con ese pedo. Social media and all these bs secret apps killed faithful relationships. In my opinion
1.creating distance
2.The emotional mask
3.inattentive listening
4.intentional excluding
5.power plays
6.the criminal reaction
7.the flaky friend
8.an inconsistent image
9.spilling secrets
10.behavioural projection
Your welcome✨
Just know yourself and Trust energy ... that’s all I can say ... you’ll be alright!
This does make sense I always wondered why people only liked to use me and take my kindness for weakness
But anyways God bless everyone who comes across this comment 🙌
GOD bless you.
Stay blessed
God bless you ❤
Lmao all these negative traits remind me of literally every single person I’ve ever known.
And this is why I’m always alone. 👏🏽
This is ALL very, very correct. I've been betrayed, so believe me I know! All of these signs were present when I was set up by my family, and my ex was cheating on me and also getting ready to betray me even further. So that's how I know that this list, every item in fact, is true.
This is interesting. I just recently stopped being friends with a " flaky friend" who has an " inconsistent image" of themselves.This video made good points.
People Pray for DISCERNMENT so you will not have to come in contact with these flaky folks
That is such good advice...Use your inner guidance, (wisdom,) Trust your gut. Ask for spiritual assistance in your dreams. Listen. Help is always available, but we have to ask and be open to it. Find the answers for yourself. It makes us strong to depend on God.
@@eagleeye2300 Yes Say it
Over time , Ive had 3 friends betray Me. All 3 wanted me to contact me to make up but i never cared because it was to big a knife in my back. I would never screw them over like that. They dont deserve a second shot.
I can relate to that.
We are just people and no one is perfect so we should stop exaggerating people's shortcomings. Have patience to each others growth. If you see this examples to your friends it doesn't mean that they are a fully untrustworthy person don't judge people until you don't know their full story. If you keep on being judgemental to people around you, you will always end up alone.
Good point, but no repeated excuses once one reaches a certain age. People gonna do what people wanna do , can't force loyalty onto someone , unless u hold them to it with the threat of violence I guess u could say. That probably won't even work with how gangsta in all the wrong ways women have become. Love n respect to the ones that still think with their heads tho. Yada
Not a repeated behavior and betrayal
Good timing. Helped me realize something about three particular people I know who act like friends but don't give me any real vibe that they are.
You just described every person I know 😂😂😂😂
These are characteristics of plain ol shitty “friends” or frenemies. They don’t necessarily portend betrayal, it just means they don’t care about your feelings or being consistent. To really betray someone - you have to care. It’s the ones who act like your best friend and then talk shit behind your back that you have to worry about.
Yep 😍😍😍
Exactly 💯 same goes for relationships. The people who have hurt me the most are those who acted like they cared the most.
Amen. I grew up in an environment filled with these kinds of friends.
I have a friend like that.Says I hope you didnt mind after she told so so after the fact.
i have no frenemies. they're either friends or enemies, never a combination of the two.
1. They create distance 2. An emotional mask 3. inattentive 4. intentional exclusion 5. Power plays 6. Criminal reaction 7. Flakey 8. inconsistent view of themselves 9. They gossip 10. They project
Some one may nudge someone out of their life also because they want to save them from toxicity of being together and thus they sacrifice them although they love them a lot.
Id rather have no friends than these "toxic" people who call themselves "friends."
You are not alone.
Being alone has certain benefits in some ways actually
Some of these “signs” may just because your friend is an introvert and or has social anxiety
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I agree Dom808
I know for a fact that I'm a bit of an introvert, and I still try to meet up with friends and do things, but they always got some lame excuse.
Introverts united
Introverts don’t normally try to knife you in the back. Most health introverts do not act this way
“Flakiness” could be a friend who has anxiety though… in that case, it’s not calculated at all… they want to hang out… they just feel too much anxiety and can’t hang out with anyone at the time! Be aware of that too!!! Don’t cast those friends away or punish them. They need your love and support, actually.
I’m really surprised (and angered) that it’s even on here when this is a channel that leads one to think that it is versed in matters of the mind…
I have an intense hatred of flaky people. I just ended a so-called friendship with someone who consistently disrespected and wasted my time.
This was really helpful especially for people like us who don’t have many ppl to vent too.
This was great information a real friend would say.
betrayal is really cruel from people you never expected it..family friends etc it hurts especially when you are ignorant but God is always there to pick your broken pieces up.The sure thing is not to let anyone change your beautiful character and steal your smile you just learn from your mistakes and choose your people wisely💗
Wise words.
My supposed best friend 😬discussing my private life with new judge-mental boyfriend ,needless to say, I no longer discuss with her or anyone else information that could put me at a disadvantage. 🤔lesson learned. Thank you,👍
Betrayal? You think you can teach me betrayal! It is not the first, not the last! Bring it on!
I have people like this in every aspect of my life, hence why they're being treated like loose ends.
Even though these could be signs of a relationship going bad, it's not always the case.
People have their own lives.
People go through their own bs.
Half of these describe exactly what someone would do to avoid adding stress into a situation that isnt needed.
Inattentive listening? Maybe they're wrapped up with the problems in their head.
Creating distance? Yeah, depression.
If you have unreasonable high expectations of a person to be there for you 100%of the time than you need to visit the real world once more.
Stuff like this causes so many issues with trust in today's society. If you feel as if you shouldnt be friends with someone anymore, than dont be. It's really that simple.
If you want answers for certain behaviors, ask. If it doesnt add up, leave. Bottom line.
I've been betrayed by a few friends that I play with online. Plus, there is another"friend" that I used to play with that I don't really play with anymore. He displayed quite a few of the listed characteristics of being a traitorous friend and I had a bad feeling about him anyway. I'm pretty sure he was gonna betray me eventually. He wasn't a true friend. I'm glad that I distanced from him and that he never had the chance to betray me while we were "friends" and still playing together.
Had I known this info before I got married I could have possibly avoided major heartache and many months of therapy.
I am sorry for you.
I feel what you're saying and agree with you, I too say had I known this then my husband would not have cheated on me for 23 years..I am way too trusting. Hope you are living your best life now.
That's why it's important to learn people not by their words but by their actions. Protect your inner peace and know trust is earned, not everyone who say they for you truly are and that's with partners too. The introverted person is easier to see their faults, but be careful with all people in your circle, especially family. Blessing 🙏🏾
I've been on both sides of the situation. And is quite awkward, and I can't believe and tolerate the rude and inconsiderate behavior. Now my circle of friends is only two. It's nothing more hurtful when it's your mother and siblings.
It’s sad to know that, imagine being betrayed by your parents your whole life, it’s a pain that never truly goes away, u just learn to live with it, and cut them loose
Unfortunately when a child comes in a relationship sometimes the husband feels left behind. Communication is the key but sometimes is too late. The husband can cheat on you for years but the wife could be too naive that the husband can do smth wrong
I hear what you're saying, my husband cheated on me for 23 years and I didn't even realise it!!! Communication is number one for friends, family and everything in-between.
Sounds like all my "friends".
#8 goes both ways. If the person thinks to highly of themselves or thinks to low of themselves it’s usually hard to trust.
Sign 11:
When someone knows 10 signs of betrayal 👀
the fact you,re watching this is a good sign "there betraying you already".
Possibly feeling and seeing a lot of these things right now, with a “friend”. I am not really surprised though.
One of the behavioral issues that I’ve seen with them is that, when I’ve told them that I was being mistreated, by my narcissistic mother, whom I’ve now left or by a couple that lives nearby, their immediate reaction is to jump to the other party’s defense. They’ll say, “How can you treat them that way!?” Really? Also, I’m not the type of person that feels that you must agree with me, because you’re my friend. If I’m wrong, I expect to be told why you think I’m wrong. But, turning on me and making it seem as if I am the one who has mistreated it has been disrespectful to someone, who’s actually done those things to me, I can tell you that’s you sit there a bit stunned. Because of all that I’ve even learned about narcissistic behavior, I’m well aware that I’m not in the wrong, no can I control, nor will I apologize, for someone else’s behavior. Nevertheless, this friend, who “appears” to like me very much, does this.
What I’m feeling right now is angst, because I feel that, if it has anything to do with something that I did, that made me a bit happy recently, it’s possibly put their panties in a twist. I’ve seen a sudden behavioral change and, unfortunately, it may be meant to counter what made me happy and would then be conscious, as well. That there is jealousy or even envy.
But, one way to know if a person is not really your friend is if something good happens for you. Things were fine, when they were comfortable, with your discomfort. But, let something, sometimes even something rather small, happen for you and WOW, the green-eyed monster comes out! Like what is said in this video, what has actually been boiling all along, suddenly combusts. And we’re not talking about The Hulk, who may later return to normal and his senses. We’re talking about someone who consciously, simply needed an excuse to do what they’d long wanted and planned to do.
But, again, I saw this coming, probably 2 years ago. I could tell that, since they couldn’t be with the one they love, they’d better not find out, if I found love.
This totally describes a few so called friends I've know since we were kids.
In this generation better be self reliant. I don't mean not to socialize or to have friends but develop this skill since it is rare now to have real true friends.
Creating distance doesn't mean betrayal. Sometimes, People simply exhaust you. You may be an introvert or whatever that you constantly need on your own. Emotional mask doesn't mean they are manipulating you or whatever. Sometimes, people don't want to be a burden to others. Inattentive listening, sometimes people have problems on their own and for them they can't handle when there a lot of things happening.
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My betrayer got closer to me. In fact she called me one the phone and betrayed me 24 hours later.
Its sad when your own mother is the perpetrator of gossiping your privacy....total power play.
So I suffered quite the deep & dangerous betrayal by one of my best friends. So dangerous that I would have wound up dead or in jail because of it. He showed NONE of the above signs.
What I'm trying to say is, the human heart goes to extraordinary depths...& in those depths is darkness you never knew could exist.
You mean just like blowing up whole country 😆✌️?
By a nuclear bomb
That's why I show people who I am. The good the bad the ugly flaws and all...so there will be no misunderstanding without me hurting and betraying others which look like a few on the list.
Some of these things could also be ADHD….Many of us have a hard time with some of these things and always feel shitty…I think it’s important to note that some of these overlap with Nero diverse brains as well 😉😎💜
I had some close friends who betrayed me, that showed no signs at all, until it was too late. I was caught off guard.
That's why today, I don't have any friends, I just be friendly to every one.
how about the Seven sisters, goddesses. deception .strife. battle. jealousy. power. error. the worst
This video has been accurately put together from the frustrations in life.
I don't necessarily agree with this because I am the one who pulled back my energy recently from alit of people who toxic & always trying to get something from me & after ignoring THIER behavior for too long I finally decided I had enough & rather then start a bunch of drama or confront them ( because we both know they would just deny ,deny,deny ) so I walked away blocked them & I refuse to have anything to do do with them even tho they ariving & genue all ACTING like I have betrayed them to get out out facing THIER own behavior I was 💯 loyal ,giving & genuine with them - So my point is that the person who is actually distancing themselves is always going to be the "BETRAYER" we just might have a very good reason for creating the distance the distance
It’s not just friends it can be toxic family members too.
Expect others to EARN your trust and candor over a LONG period of time...Initially, divulge a minor(small enough that even a full betrayal has a limited effect on your emotional life and/or everyday life), but juicy piece of disclosure. If they honor this for a period of three months, "loosen the reins" on an initimacy of a slightly increasing consequence , but only slightly...and wait three months.
all great points! also forgot to mention, people who get 3rd parties involved in their intimate,sexual,romantic relationships are more likely to betray you as well!
this is so true, i saw this signs in my ex best friend before she betrayed me and take all my friends. too bad i did not saw this video before she betray me. i wish i understand what her intention was.
The upbeat intro and voice is totally appropriate for this subject matter...
Anyway, the way you know someone will betray you is if they're in your life. The one lesson the universe has pushed on me over and over again is that no matter how much you trust someone, think they're different, think they truly care about you, and believe they'll never up and leave you out of nowhere, EVERYONE is capable of doing exactly that.
Watching them go from loving and caring about you one minute to being cold, distant and uncaring the next is one of the hardest things you can experience. It makes it hard to believe that they ever cared about you at all. Especially if they left you without warning for someone else, or to "explore their options".
Create distance... because they're going through their own shit and is taking time to themselves?
I just have social anxiety but I still ask questions to try to overcome it so I'm working on it
This video defined everything about my ex boyfriend in a nutshell. He was nice at first, but then changed to betray me over time. It was hard watching this video, but I needed to watch this. Thank you for helping in my process of healing TopThink.
Perhaps he is a narcissist. They are charming and nice in the beginning, (called "lovebombing",) then once they have you sucked in, they completely flip the script. Check out "The Little Shaman," Lisa Romano and Dr. Ramani on RUclips for some great insight about narcissists. Because unfortunately if you have attracted one...more will follow. Good luck.
@lyric gibson Yep you know nothing about relationships! Already moved on. By the way, you don't just tell someone to move on. So hilarious how many tone deaf people there are in this world to relationships and emotions.
This is one of the best pages I scene in a long time I'm happy to say I'm not the only one but I can't say happy because just really truly sad
Hang in there. It sucks but
The more you know 💫
You know?
This sounds so familiar (some cases with family members and friends). I should have known this many years ago.
You should not be too trusting to a fault lest you want to be victimized for a long time.
Good video to lose people who assumes too much. People who follow this guide is worth to lose.
That's why I don't have friends. People are evil. Period.
This is actually really true I used to think people were my friends who weren’t relationships as well . Now I get to know people first .
I don't pick up because I'm busy! I distance myself from everyone to have time alone and they think I'm betraying them. Cmon plain and simple. Smh
The world is so cruel it makes you think if yourself when you have been betrayed many times especially if you stay in a relationship you’re not really interested in
This is why I only have 2 friends in my life.
Families and very close friends can be foes too
I've been betrayed so much that I could not trust anybody . Remember that Koo Koo has punishment . If it doesn't getcha here it will getcha there .
What?
Wonderful video to describe many personality disorders. BEWARE!
Well for Starters there are Some actual Friends But most of All there really isn't Such thing as Friends because in the end They will Find a way to use you While you think Everything is Cool Think again 9 out of 10 their Going to Use you
Every point was precise!
This is triggering because I just went though this, this person pushed me into a spiritual awakening but I’m at peace now.
Unintentional exclusion!!!! Yes spot on
Isolating the victim, narc 101