Yep. "Thanks for tiding me over while I worked out my next move in life-- which doesn't include you. You helped fill my love tank & kept me going for awhile. You helped me forget my unhappiness, but I'm better now. Bye."
Joe costa I love you and I will always love you. Everybody has there ups and downs. But I no my heart always belong to you. When I am not with you I always think of you . Even when I'm not with you you are always in my heart ♥. You are my life and you are and always will be the only one for me. God has brought us together ❤. Our love matches. I have been with you for 18 yrs and it always feels like the first day we met ♥. A love like ours is rear. I love you so much my love. Always your wife Robin. Xoxo xoxo xoxo xoxo. P.s. True love forever ❤ loopas
Women do not love men. They love what men can do for them. Do not hate them for it. It's their biological nature. Just like we want to have sex with as many women as possible. It's not pretty it just is. That's why they all want the tall guy, it makes her feel safe. Your resources make her feel secure. It's not real. And if your questioning it then you need to leave. It's just going to devour you from the inside out
@@Real2k25 Mine too.. 😂 I seen the signs in the beginning and ignored them. Every dude she dated said she’s a narc so I don’t feel too bad just a waste of ⏰
With all due respect: You probably lied to yourself, didn't care for yourself and wasn't down for yourself. Think about that for a sec!!! Take back your power and look to self improve in all aspects of your life, get your shit together! Only then, will you be a viable player in this game. One last thing, and this is very important..Do not let your emotions get the best of you with women, Once you do that, It's all over. You've just handed over your BALLS!!!! Good Luck
The same thing is gonna happen to her, just remember everyone is different and not all girls are the same. Maybe she wasn’t playing with your feelings but hers, i’m pretty sure she liked u a bit but was insecure about herself... just don’t give okay?
I appreciate that you said PEOPLE are generally shit. Because the exact same thing happens to women over, and over, and over again. 💙 (p.s. Stay strong, find a group of females like your sisters or cousins, and let them cheer you up, because we're PROs at reminding you why you're important, sexy, loved, and worth everything 💪🏾 when a no-good loser takes advantage of your awesomeness.)
Many of these are absolutely true. My exwife never loved me even though we were together for 28 years. She wanted my genes, my income and the things I was capable of doing around the house and to support her hobby of horses. I worked extremely hard to provide for her and my children and give her as much joy as I could with what finances we had. It turned out that nothing was enough. She cheated and filed for divorce. It would have been nice if she’d done that before kids when I was a lot younger.
I’m sorry man! I’ve been married for over 20 now and I have had these feelings for years. I think she is with me for all the reason you stated and for the kids!
You dont need 10 signs you just need 1- If he/she truly loves you then he/she will be there with you no matter what..if she/he doesnt then they will find excuses to leave u
No excuses to leave you..she is gone, gone. Sensible women will express their affection for you, so you understand that it isn't a crime to want to be with somebody who wont deceive her.
You can love someone truely but easily do away with them and move on if the person has a bad character. True love dies in the presence of bad character
@@JayceeGenocide exactly jaycee, that person never loved. . Love is real, but it's like trying to explain color to a blind person or telling a numb person what it's like to be ticklish. They just won't get it
@@collinsmorris1272 then you never loved. You are just the typical cold person. Who knows nothing of love. Love is not something so easy to remove. Also true love can only happen a couple of times in one's life. A person who loves over 15 different partners in a lifetime is clearly not in love.like those who marry more than twice
After watching this video I finally realize that living a single life is much more exiting and fulfilling than being in a relationship. Most relationship nowadays is all based on infatuation and financial/material convenience.
@@chadposey6906 My ex has BPD. They only live in whatever emotions they’re feeling at the time. It’s hard to believe that they can make you feel so loved and appreciated to just change their entire trajectory in an instant. Weirdos
@@chadposey6906 I wish there was something I could see that helped you man but you already know it’s an awful feeling. Hope you get to feeling better man and things work out for you
He’s forgetting that females lose interest, while IN the relationship, over time, and by the time she leaves, she already grieved on her own and easily bounces to a new guy. After building up a support network to confirm all her doubts and fears (mostly imaginary) about her soon to be ex. Which will comfort her once she finally breaks the news.
Because she can't love the guy jus how he makes her feel; she's in love w what the guy can do for her which is why she loses interest; a man's love for a woman is genuine!
@@tiffanyrichards3254 Where is the lie? I think both men and women need to be honest about what love is for them. Men love begins primarily how she looks than how pleasant she is, then the sexual connection. During the babyboomers, time society and our moms reconditioned the "nice guys" to look at women as more than just sexual conquest, to treat y'all good. That isn't bad but on the flip side, women were reconditioned that being wives or being feminine or catering to a man is bad. Besides, I think one of the reasons women like bad boys because they exhibit traits they like in men deep down. They just want a challenge to change him well. That is led by feminism. While I do understand that it was in response to belittling treatment from men for ages. Still, much like racism it nowhere on that level as long ago to be demonizing a whole gender. These days women are empowered and in some ways it's bad. Men or objectified by many of you and you fail to see that it's just as wrong as man objectifying a woman. Even if you go by women picking the bad boys it still boils down to women want men to make her feel a certain way or can do things for her. Once men painfully understand that, is when men say she has to be a 9 or 10 to be even be considered wifey material. That is when women start to get it. Is it all women? No, but too many women think this way, and even those who don't seem to hang around those who do. So that one bad egg can turn a bunch rotten.
That is such bull crap! I've seen so many women cry over and go back to abusive men that were straight up bums. Women aren't attracted to bad guys. That's a myth! Women are just easily manipulated by them because they're so convincing since these guys don't have no conscience. Then after the woman gets screwed she learns that behavior from him and passes it down the table. If you date a damaged, superficial or immature, sextoy woman you're going to get superficial love.
Same here, we grew really fast but broke up a few weeks ago after 5 and a half months together and her sister is saying to me that she may have never really loved me. I don’t want to believe her sister, because I’d rather trust that what we had is real, but it took a lot of pain on my part that I feel could have been avoided if she did truly love me and knew how to treat me. It’s really complex, and since I was the one to break up after fighting a battle between my brain and heart for her since the start of June, it hurts me while she may not even care at all.
1. Missing an idea : Mistaking the reality for the idea, and trying to bend reality accordingly 2. Constant stress : The mood of the relationship, was it fun ? 3. Famillial Distance : No connexions with your partner's important people 4. Total ambivalence : Remembering your past loved-one, stay in touch 5. Refusing to fix your issues : No interest in problem solving 6. Rapid feeling : Mistaking passion from love 7. Sens of relief : Where your trapped in your relation 8. Forgetting your birthday : Still thinking about partner, and use those excuses to keep in contact 9. Moving on : Dating someone new quickly, it takes time to get over a relationship 10. Searching for signs : If you are watching this video, you probably have doubt, love should be cleary visible
You seem to have done your home work gathering all these goodies, she had to make a new relationship align with her lifestyle, things she needs by natural instincts, don't you get it for the fun of it on this channel. Straight connect platform.
Blessed Sunday to all. To all been cheated or never been really loved by her let it be. Love yourself, work on your goal,self-improvement and use it to motivate you! I always knew you(we) can do it. It is better to live a life not using or cheating the feeling of others. You are free. You are blessed.
I was once a victim of heart break. My husband was cheating on me for about 2 years in our marriage. When I became suspicious, he always says that I am looking for excuses since I haven't caught him. But there was allot of red flags and so I talked to a friend. who advised me and connected to some professional. Who helped me uncover everything with proofs, so he can't deny it. I was so devastated when I found out but I am glad I did. Because I was getting so troubled at heart. But after this, I found a way to gain back my inner peace. Sometimes it is better to know than to just keep being troubled at heart. I am happy that I did take those steps.
If she is constantly trying to change you she never liked who you were, she just viewed you as her "project". If she can change you she will despise you!
A woman should only help to change you when it comes to growth. So if you want that new job but are scared she will give you positivity to overcome your fears. But if she can't stand you enjoy metal and goth clothes then kick the bitch to the curb where they belong
Indeed, you are correct. A women who truly cares for you will try to help you change in ways that YOU have decided are GOOD for YOU, because she genuinely wants what's best for you. She may encourage some positive element of your personality, because she is more aware of your potential than you, in some regard. She may do much, but what she will NOT do is try to CHANGE YOU, to suit HER notion of what YOU SHOULD BE, or to garner some REWARD for HERSELF.
No. She just has guys friends I know how it feels being jealous I always get jealous when I see my girlfriend hanging out with other guys but believe in her, and try loving her. I was so jealous I didn’t even want to see her hanging out with guys but I realized that’s such a selfish thing to do and she would probably end up hating me, trust her ❤️ the more u trust the healthier relationship
It's nothing more than a contract. That's what I've learned. I'm a tall, good looking and in shape guy with a good career, but I can't find true love. Admittedly my personality is boring. If you ever do find someone who loves you as much as they love you, you'll be one of the luckiest people to stride on earth. Hold onto them forever
@@warwolf715u guys are sped. Love is real. This generation just doesnt have it all. true love can contain when people stop liking each other but then they start appreciating who they have.
My precious advice to men is, just move on and don’t look back. There are lots of women out there just like there are lots of fish in the ocean; make your choice. Don’t simply get fixated with just one woman. Move on guys
@@carloslopezdesilanes628 Yep. Meanwhile the guy just wants things to stay the same and slowly progress and wants her to treat him with kindness and respect and she can’t even do that much. A lot of women make it about sex especially the young ones. Where as a good man or woman values other things and the sex is just a part of it, something that can be improved and taken slowly. But if it starts off too hot and heavy it can die very quickly because the other foundations aren’t put in place, like respect and commitment.
*10 signs she was never really in love with you :* 1. 0:13 Missing an Idea 2. 1:14 Constant Stress 3. 2:00 Familial Distance 4. 3:06 Total Ambivalence 5. 4:24 Refusing to Fix Your Issues 6. 5:10 Rapid Feelings 7. 6:04 Sense of Relief 8. 6:40 Forgetting Your Birthday 9. 7:26 Moving On 10. 8:19 Searching for Sign
I hate to say it cause its probably unhealthy or something but I honestly have been a lot less stressed and upset since I decided to never trust a woman again and be upfront about only wanting sex
Dont. even if woman broke your heart doesn’t mean don’t trust them all, and asking only for sex is just gonna make woman like you less (they’re gonna think u just want their bodies which is not good!!!) don’t say shit like this, every woman is different (depends how you treat them) so trust yourself and in them. When that happens u will be in a happy relationship
Whoever is reading this, I pray that whatever you’re going through gets better and whatever you’re battling with makes your situation better as you’re continuing to be a better person each day. I have faith that you’ll turn out great as your circumstances will change. Have a fantastic day! You got this! 🤗💪🏼❤
Infidelity is such a bad thing to have in any relationship. My advice will be for anyone having such thought to fully understand that it will always inhibit one giving his or her best in any relationship. So the best thing to do when infidelity issues arises is to find out for sure. I used to have allot of doubt about my partner and had to find out for sure. It was heart breaking what I found out but the best thing to do to keep my already troubled mind at peace. Thanks to the help I got which enable me to find out everything and see things for myself. I was really happy I did take the step and now my heart is peaceful after everything.
So true. We men are the prize. Let’s make ourselves busy and work on ourselves. All other stuff is a waste of time. Never trust what a woman says. Trust only what she does.
80 percent of romantic relationship's are not based on real love there based on lust and what can you do for me they have the illusion of love that's most relationships
@@ernestparham8376 Some females wants a meaningful relationship. Most females lust for guys because they don't know what love is. Their ideal of love, is base on lust. Hell, Females would lust for guy's base on rumor, or how much they got in their wallet. Especially when she knows the guy wants her less than she wants him.
Watch "MGTOW She'll Never Love You Special Edition TFM/Celestina Monkey Mirror" It perfectly explains how and especially why. Best redpill video I've ever seen and I've been watching those since 2014.
And sometimes you can give it you're all, to the point of feeling you have nothing left for yourself. And, all that's left, is to walk away. Pretend you don't remember their bday, fav foods, the smell of their skin; though each night you grasp that pillow, (ingesting their very scent) with the desperation of a dying man trying to live despite his odds.
Definitely not unless all the women you date are prostitutes. Women could say the same thing about men. Listen to women's dating advice. It's literally the same advise these things aren't one-sided only.
Ruben Nava 💯 you smashed my point to elaborate. One of the reasons why she can't really love you is because she has been having sex with so many different guys. Therefore it is difficult to pair bond with a guy because in her mind all guys who had sex with her are competing for her in her mind. So it's not a surprise.
Relationships are easy and straightforward: 1. A man needs a woman to make kids, he should love his kids. Otherwise, he is asking for heartbreak 2. A woman needs financial and emotional care, a man must care for her so that she gives him kids 3. As a man forget being loved by someone you once didn't know, focus on loving your kids coz they're the ones who truly love you
I'm poor and youre telling me I therefore can't ever make a woman very happy. I think you're probably right. The end...I give up. In a way its a release being out of the game.
So forget being loved but give financial support to her? Makes sense seems to be all that woman want these days anyway not a real relationship just money money money and if it's based on that wont get anywhere.
Sometimes when I see or hear that a girl/guy moves on to the next relationship in a matter of a few weeks then they probably were seeing each other before she/he broke up. ALWAYS suspicious of that.
Not true. Broke up with a cheating liar and moved on. Just so happened i found another man after a few weeks. Did not have any connection with him before the breakup except that we were workmates. Sometimes u have to pick urself up and show them you can also move forward, you know. 🙂
Also Patrice: 🛑 I was going to quote him about food, and depression, and remind you of his fate. He, being a comedian, would appreciate the irony. Instead, I’ll remind those who apparently didn’t know much about him, that he felt he owed a *lot* of his life to the love of his life, his fiancée and business partner. I’ll leave you with that. ♾☯️🧠⚖️💜☮️♾
*If she’s emotionally distant, avoids serious conversations, or gives up at the first sign of conflict, it shows a lack of true commitment. Real love means sticking around through challenges, not running at the first sign of discomfort.*
My wife of 10 years just left me for another guy.. When I caught her cheating she didn’t even care.. it’s crazy I gave her everything and traveled to provide everything she needed.. and now she ditched me like I was nothing… it’s crazy… so that’s why I’m here.. I guess she never loved me and I wasted 10 years of my life for nothing
But that doesn't change the way it hurts when you realize that your love was real, and hers was pragmatism. You were a resource she needed. And the feelings she demonstrated we're never real, but just a means to an end - obtaining a resource. In truth, she was really just a very expensive hooker.
I’ve been single for well over three years now,and to be honest I am so happy being single.I had two failed marriages,even with the first one,I could clearly see that I was being conditioned and not being able to be my true self,so that was it,I couldn’t take it anymore.My second marriage I thought wow finally someone who is letting me be who in truly am,but then the signs were showing of her wanting to lead her own life and not sharing it with me anymore,and that so called love was false from the very begging 😪
Two swings with paper (14 & 7) and one without the contract (20). I still can't figure out who these women were but I've learned not to trust anyone anymore. It's a good thing I'm of mature age as I don't need anyone for anything anymore, never did; now I know.
My ex-wife (married for 15 years, divorced now 6 years) hits every one of these "signs." I feel like I'm an intelligent person, yet got played for 15 years....and half of everything. I feel so stupid for not seeing just one of these signs. Could have saved me a lot of heartache, time and money. Ironic that she is now engaged to a boyfriend she was engaged to in high school.
If you have drepression or anxiety you will definitely have these thoughts but she may still love you this is for insecure people if you the best version of yourself then why wouldn’t she get to like you don’t give up ,love isn’t easy and relationships take work,try again even with that person you were unsure about because it could be your depression or aniexty taking not your gut feeling
My only, "girlfriend," never really loved me at all. But I owe her a lot. She is the main one that caused me to socially isolate myself in order to avoid getting hurt ever again. I may have no friends nor a girlfriend now, because of her. But, the lifestyle of social isolation has a lot of benefits I would have never discovered if she had never emotionally devasted me. Do I owe her a thanks after all these years?
@Jamie Amela I socially isolated 8 August 2000 because I promised myself I would never allow myself any possibility of ever getting used, betrayed, and very painfully abandoned. If this means that I will nevef have friends nor a girlfriend again, so be it. There are far worse things than loneliness and I refuse to ever experience them again.
@Jamie Amela It was a long time ago. I parted ways with her 8 August 2000 and all her friends. She insisted I befriend them and it seemed wonderful at first. But they were her minions under her command. Finding out how conniving she was, I can not say I love her. But that was 20 years ago. I can say she changed my life for the better, though. The last twenty years of social isolation have made me extremely self reliant, independent to nearly a fault, and has given me amazing freedom. Yes, their is an element of loneliness. But I have gained so much from her devastating me emotionally. I do not love her nor even know her after all these years. However, perhaps I should be grateful to her. Because of her I can do things I could have never done before, on my own, than when I had friends and was social. She may have mangled me emotionally, but she has my gratitude. I learned one can live a very good life completely alone. Thank you, Angela, for twenty years ago.
Indrid Cold _ you don’t owe your ex anything. Well done you for being so strong. That is all you, she was a cause but YOU are the reason. But friends could enrich your life. Surely you know people at work? Also what about sex? Are you not bothered by no intimacy of any kind?
I've never been with a women who didn't walk away. Maybe coincidence, Maybe it's Me. Either way the End result is the same. When they are Gone, they are *Gone* . I Hate hearing about people talking to their Exes, because mine run away, and NEVER look Back. "I Love you Today, I Hate You Tomorrow." Unfortunately, Mentally the damage is Done, I can't even Help it. When a women says "I Love You" to me, the VERY FIRST THOUGHT in my Fcked up Brain is; *"Until..." even as I speak the same words back to Her. I can't trust them anymore, no matter how Badly I sincerely want to.
That's not you, 9 months ago my fiancee said to me that she wouldn't give up on our relationship so easy. Now I'm here commenting on this video while she's on Tinder looking for another guy. I personally don't know any women from my circle that got dumped, but I know many guys who were. I can't never love a woman again the same way I did before, it's a waste of time.
@@GabZ_98 Love them as much as they Love you, temporarily. I have an invisible shield inside of myself that protects me, basically I don't truly Love anymore, and I found that to be the Key to avoiding heartbreak. You can still enjoy your Life, have good times and smile, I have a baby on the way (my first ever) and I thank fate for it, because guess what? I finally will have someone in my life who can NEVER just walk away. I hope things get better for you brother, for real, society teaches Men to be Sturdy, and teaches Women to be Heartless, but that doesn't have to ruin your life. Good Luck.
It's so true... The illusion of being loved is heartbreaking... It has happened to me so many times... The person who does not miss you or check on you, never really loved you... That's why it took me so long to get in a relationship... First I needed to make sure we share the same feelings... It's way too rare...
Did you happened to get back with somebody that's you used to be with in the past cause if you did that's a good thing I don't knock that's what I'm asking.
@@jerrytravis4044 No. It was nobody I used to date. The persistent scenario that took place was that: -Somebody I barely know approaching me and asking me out - Going out for a walk, or a coffee during daylight -The person asking me inappropriate things, while telling me it is just for having a good time -Me walking away, because giving in somebody who does not feel anything for you, or does not respect you at all, or the other way around, is irrational... The way I see things, love is a gift from God to the people, it is not a comedy to help someone have fun... So, I stayed away from this kind of people, and I waited until I found someone who we shared the same "craziness"
My wife never loved me. 12 years of my life I've wasted with this woman. I feel like I've ruined my life marrying her. I've been trying to please her and I get nothing in return. I don't get birthday, anniversary or christmas presents. The presents I bought her are stacked in the corner of our room still in the box. I hate my life because of her. I never forced her into my life. She said she wanted to marry me and I believed she loved me...... She didn't. She just loved the idea of me. She loved the idea of the person that she wanted me to be and not the person I actually am. She stops me from doing the things I love doing, she constantly complains, she never wants to fix anything, she's hypocritical, I do a lot to try to make her happy but she never appreciates it and she hardly does anything to try to make me happy.
Some of these signs can also mean that she has fallen out of love with you.... saying she was never in love is kinda a big thing. Some people are hurt because of these "signs" because they believe that their (ex) partner never loved them. Some people already move on within the relationship. That is why communication is so very important. Tbh this video is really disappointing because these are not facts. Moving on is a process everyone goes through. Just because someone moves on faster doesnt mean they never loved you. They just might have start the process sooner then you think.
I made a similar comment a few minutes ago before I saw this. Totally agree with you. This video post could actually be kind or damaging to a select few out there. Those few who take this advise seriously. I really hope they read through the comments and find this post and my post.
I completely agree! With my last relationship there was a lot of negativity coming up from his side and I ended up losing a lot of the previous feelings I had.
Despite my ex being one of the kindest people I know, I do recognise many of these signs. She used to tell me that she could never love anyone else, or she would discuss "our" future plans together, which were reay just her own plans and I happened to agree with most, things that I didn't agree on she would be upset about. She just decided our children would carry her surname. That would be fine and all, if only she actually considered my/the father's opinion here. She'd blame me of not compromising for her, yet she expected me to follow her around on all of her plans. I hope that she finds someone that fits her better than me I guess
She sounds a bit of a control freak who only wanted you as a sperm donor. If she's gone for good, then lucky old you. Don't even think about taking her back at some future point....she is what she is, and she won't willingly change, and you'd better believe it. People very rarely do.
I think I may have made her sound worse than she actually is. I mean she was controlling indeed, and it was annoying, but she didn't have bad intentions. She just had a crush on a fantasy of what she hoped I would be while I actually fell in love over time with her as a person. That being said, she was also very nice to me though, she is an incredibly empathetic person, but if you do something that she has an opinion on, than she will let you know, and she will make you feel guilty about things like drinking alcohol or going to bed late. I do think there are better people out there for me but trust me that she doesn't quite deserve hate or anything, she just has a very strong opinion while I am more easy going and that didn't work too well
1. They have the idea of being with you, instead of loving you. They try to change you. 2. Constant stress. Are you playfull or stressfull ? 3. Familial distance. Never try to know them on each part. 4. Total ambivalence. 5. Refusing to fix issues. 6. Rapid feelings. 7. Sense of relief. 8. Forgetting your birthday. 9. Moving on. 10. Searching for signs of her|his love for you.
my most recent ex an I fought constantly, anytime I left the house, in her mind i was cheating. She started acting very unusual, showing cleavage and going to the bar more. She went on vacation to Colorado without saying anything which was out of the ordinary and while in Colorado she texts saying "I'm visiting my cousin in Colorado, we need to get a motel room, can I use your credit card?" my response was that I thought he had a place and she changed her story. she wanted all of my friends to know about her but didnt want hers to know about me. when I asked her about that, her response was "I'm tired of you always accusing me! We ain't together anymore!" The following morning (less than 12 hours later) she texts saying "I met a guy at the bar last night, he took me to the shooting range and he's taking me out again tonight." she's now married to him.
NO 11: If you have searched for this that it is 90% sure that she dosent love you because there is a doubt and if you were happy in a relationship you would never come across this video
This literally summed up my last (and only) relationship and answered the main question on whether I should have stayed together or ended it. Turns out I made the right decision and my gut was right. Thanks for the video, it really helped
What a load of rubbish. I absolutely loved my wife but the relationship was toxic. When I decided to leave I cut contact not because I didn’t love her but because I loved her too much and didn’t want to be pulled back in. I was determined to move on and break the emotional connection. Going back and forth is like pulling a scab off a sore. You are just delaying the healing process.
Very right! Same with my three exes except I didn't fall in love with them. I could see it but before I went that far I cut it off. It's dangerous getting comfortable with abusive behavior even if it's emotional abuse. It's so easy to get addicted to people.You have to do what's best for you and cut that off!
remember women can not love you. they just respect you, and it all means love to a man. they just love you for what you can do for them. only men are capable of love.
She could endure my living habits, she could wash my smaconsum's underwear for me, she could listen to my troubles, but finally departed on another man. That's so sad
I'm here watching this video because I don't feel loved, I feel like she always lies to me and there are so many red flags but somehow i always end up feeling like the bad guy.
I always give my wife nice comments , leave her little letters and make her feel special.But, I stop because I never got it back in return. I ask her why she never show me attention. She belittle me,she say i sound like a woman and a man should never worry about attention, complimens or getting shown love..Is this true?
The truth is love is a decision. That's all. Feelings, sex etc is not love. It's the icing on the cake, but you first need to make a great cake. Real love is this: You wake up every morning and decide you're going to love this person and look after them, regardless. End of story. There ain't much love in people anymore is the simple problem. People's expectations are ridiculous.
constant stress, refusing to fix issue, sense of relief ..... all this in/from my ex wife... my life was just too miserable I am glad she doesnt bother to recall my birthdays which she didnt remember when we were together as well.
My ex has severe BPD and she showed many of these signs. However I know she loved me. The BPD made the relationship so hard to deal with it. She knew something was wrong with her and I would see the war in her. I still loved her but I can’t be with her. The effects on my mental heath were too great.
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I was in a situation once where I was in love with this woman and would do anything for her. I was an option in her life. She was always ending the relationship then calling me to say "I miss my friend" and we would get back together only to repeat that same cycle several times. Upon the last time she split, we were apart for 4 months and I was tired. I met someone and we hooked up and my son was the outcome of that union. When she had enough of whatever she was doing she came back. I sat her down and told her the truth. Needless to say she was hurt and was bothered. She became livid and grew a large animosity for me and we never got back together. Sometimes when we can't remove certain people out of our lives, God will do so.
Her: i'll love you forever and ever until something better comes along or until i get bored.
Yep.
"Thanks for tiding me over while I worked out my next move in life-- which doesn't include you. You helped fill my love tank & kept me going for awhile. You helped me forget my unhappiness, but I'm better now. Bye."
Damn facts
Joe costa I love you and I will always love you. Everybody has there ups and downs. But I no my heart always belong to you. When I am not with you I always think of you . Even when I'm not with you you are always in my heart ♥. You are my life and you are and always will be the only one for me. God has brought us together ❤. Our love matches. I have been with you for 18 yrs and it always feels like the first day we met ♥. A love like ours is rear. I love you so much my love. Always your wife Robin. Xoxo xoxo xoxo xoxo. P.s. True love forever ❤ loopas
Or until your bank account runs out
Even when I die . I will be the ghost behind your eyes.
People with good heart are always unlucky in relationships
You right about that
U might have a good ❤️... but u might not know how to choose correctly
Mad true
Ain’t that the damn Truth!
@@JoseTorres-gs9dn blinded by that good ❤️
I feel like if I was truly loved I wouldn’t be questioning it on a daily basis and here watching this video
same
Same
This comment right here is all I needed to know,
thanks bro/sis,
I've got my answer.
Could be ocd
Women do not love men. They love what men can do for them. Do not hate them for it. It's their biological nature. Just like we want to have sex with as many women as possible. It's not pretty it just is. That's why they all want the tall guy, it makes her feel safe. Your resources make her feel secure. It's not real. And if your questioning it then you need to leave. It's just going to devour you from the inside out
I’m not sure that I have ever been loved by anyone other than my mother.
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You haven't.
My only real true love was my dog.
My ex was a narcissist that can never love anyone. She will always be miserable no matter who she is with.
Mine to
I hope we didn’t date the same person 🤦🏻♂️ lol
@@christiann2776 😂😂
@@Real2k25 Mine too.. 😂 I seen the signs in the beginning and ignored them. Every dude she dated said she’s a narc so I don’t feel too bad just a waste of ⏰
Sameeee HAHAH
Some people don't know how to love anyone outside of themselves.
So don't take it personally.
Impossible not to take it personally.
@@miamitrancemissions6425 lol
Right attitude
She lied to me, pretending to care and was never down for me. I couldn’t understand why she had to play with my feelings, people are generally shit.
Dude man up, don't get to attach to women that's the main thing!!!
With all due respect: You probably lied to yourself, didn't care for yourself and wasn't down for yourself. Think about that for a sec!!! Take back your power and look to self improve in all aspects of your life, get your shit together! Only then, will you be a viable player in this game. One last thing, and this is very important..Do not let your emotions get the best of you with women, Once you do that, It's all over. You've just handed over your BALLS!!!! Good Luck
The same thing is gonna happen to her, just remember everyone is different and not all girls are the same. Maybe she wasn’t playing with your feelings but hers, i’m pretty sure she liked u a bit but was insecure about herself... just don’t give okay?
I appreciate that you said PEOPLE are generally shit. Because the exact same thing happens to women over, and over, and over again. 💙
(p.s. Stay strong, find a group of females like your sisters or cousins, and let them cheer you up, because we're PROs at reminding you why you're important, sexy, loved, and worth everything 💪🏾 when a no-good loser takes advantage of your awesomeness.)
I had literally the same thing happen to me.... and she played the victim
Usually she will already have a new guy before she dumps you.
Not usually just 99.9% of the time!
Big facts...story of my life...these chicks have literally destroyed my life man
@BlackHawk 66 True...not dead yet 🤣🤪🤣but they still trying...
@BlackHawk 66 damn skippy I know now...
That is so true
Many of these are absolutely true. My exwife never loved me even though we were together for 28 years. She wanted my genes, my income and the things I was capable of doing around the house and to support her hobby of horses. I worked extremely hard to provide for her and my children and give her as much joy as I could with what finances we had. It turned out that nothing was enough. She cheated and filed for divorce. It would have been nice if she’d done that before kids when I was a lot younger.
Amazing, Same exact thing with my marriage 28 years also I'm thinking wait a minute did I write this lol.
Unfortunately kids are being used for emotionally and financially manipulation. That’s why they baby trap you or divorce you already have kids.
You were her horse...her workhorse.
I’m sorry man! I’ve been married for over 20 now and I have had these feelings for years. I think she is with me for all the reason you stated and for the kids!
You dont need 10 signs you just need 1-
If he/she truly loves you then he/she will be there with you no matter what..if she/he doesnt then they will find excuses to leave u
bingo!
No excuses to leave you..she is gone, gone. Sensible women will express their affection for you, so you understand that it isn't a crime to want to be with somebody who wont deceive her.
This is bullshit. If u make a person miserable then why would they remain with u? If u truly loved someone , why would u want them to b miserable?
...and there it is....
She's not your girl, it's just your turn.
Omg you never really loved
Oh shut up
Especially if that is being said at a gang bang.
@@jscarpa2002
Epic dude
And women can say the same about a guy.
No one really "falls in love". Love is respect. You don't fall into it. Falling into it says it's a trap.
*NO SUCH THING as LOVE at First Sight!!!!*
*IT is I LOVE your ShapeLy Thighs!!!!!*
You can love someone truely but easily do away with them and move on if the person has a bad character. True love dies in the presence of bad character
@@collinsmorris1272 Yeah you never loved anyone.
@@JayceeGenocide exactly jaycee, that person never loved. . Love is real, but it's like trying to explain color to a blind person or telling a numb person what it's like to be ticklish. They just won't get it
@@collinsmorris1272 then you never loved. You are just the typical cold person. Who knows nothing of love. Love is not something so easy to remove. Also true love can only happen a couple of times in one's life. A person who loves over 15 different partners in a lifetime is clearly not in love.like those who marry more than twice
After watching this video I finally realize that living a single life is much more exiting and fulfilling than being in a relationship. Most relationship nowadays is all based on infatuation and financial/material convenience.
Excellent comment...I’m in same way of thoughts 👍
You seem to have the media tool. She wants to be famous by you giving her your creative talent. WOOO GOT THE FLAVOUR...
"Solitude is the key for inventions"
- Nikola Tesla
"Be alone, be a genius"
- nikola Tesla
Exactly 🤔
My wife was more in love with what I did for her than me.
That's women
@carlos most of women are like that
Mann thats deep...
Unfortunately that usually the case
My wife hated what I did for her more than me. lol.
It definitely sucks when you truly love them and they just pretended the whole relationship. Left the marriage as if it never happened.
:(
That is what happened to me
@@chadposey6906 My ex has BPD. They only live in whatever emotions they’re feeling at the time. It’s hard to believe that they can make you feel so loved and appreciated to just change their entire trajectory in an instant. Weirdos
That's terrible. Mine faked a 8 year marriage
@@chadposey6906 I wish there was something I could see that helped you man but you already know it’s an awful feeling. Hope you get to feeling better man and things work out for you
He’s forgetting that females lose interest, while IN the relationship, over time, and by the time she leaves, she already grieved on her own and easily bounces to a new guy. After building up a support network to confirm all her doubts and fears (mostly imaginary) about her soon to be ex. Which will comfort her once she finally breaks the news.
Because she can't love the guy jus how he makes her feel; she's in love w what the guy can do for her which is why she loses interest; a man's love for a woman is genuine!
Hmmm...sounds like someone really wants to believe this so that losing her doesn't hurt so bad.
@@tiffanyrichards3254 Where is the lie? I think both men and women need to be honest about what love is for them. Men love begins primarily how she looks than how pleasant she is, then the sexual connection. During the babyboomers, time society and our moms reconditioned the "nice guys" to look at women as more than just sexual conquest, to treat y'all good. That isn't bad but on the flip side, women were reconditioned that being wives or being feminine or catering to a man is bad. Besides, I think one of the reasons women like bad boys because they exhibit traits they like in men deep down. They just want a challenge to change him well.
That is led by feminism. While I do understand that it was in response to belittling treatment from men for ages. Still, much like racism it nowhere on that level as long ago to be demonizing a whole gender. These days women are empowered and in some ways it's bad. Men or objectified by many of you and you fail to see that it's just as wrong as man objectifying a woman.
Even if you go by women picking the bad boys it still boils down to women want men to make her feel a certain way or can do things for her. Once men painfully understand that, is when men say she has to be a 9 or 10 to be even be considered wifey material. That is when women start to get it. Is it all women? No, but too many women think this way, and even those who don't seem to hang around those who do. So that one bad egg can turn a bunch rotten.
Rebmetpes4 that’s very untrue. Dudes are just the same
That is such bull crap! I've seen so many women cry over and go back to abusive men that were straight up bums. Women aren't attracted to bad guys. That's a myth! Women are just easily manipulated by them because they're so convincing since these guys don't have no conscience. Then after the woman gets screwed she learns that behavior from him and passes it down the table. If you date a damaged, superficial or immature, sextoy woman you're going to get superficial love.
Even if I once loved my ex..I'm not getting back to my ex..Nor even gonna text her..An ex is an ex for a reason.
I agree.
Facts
Hard facts. Some of these reasons I'm like ummm, it's a breakup. What if the other person was an abusive jerk??
Unless you guys break up on impulse and there are still feelings, taking a break can be the answer vs never communicating again
Ex Cellent
Yep, my partner was indifferent about how we broke up. She started off with love bombing me, then gradually grew distant.
Narcissist
An avoidant!
Same here, we grew really fast but broke up a few weeks ago after 5 and a half months together and her sister is saying to me that she may have never really loved me. I don’t want to believe her sister, because I’d rather trust that what we had is real, but it took a lot of pain on my part that I feel could have been avoided if she did truly love me and knew how to treat me. It’s really complex, and since I was the one to break up after fighting a battle between my brain and heart for her since the start of June, it hurts me while she may not even care at all.
1. Missing an idea : Mistaking the reality for the idea, and trying to bend reality accordingly
2. Constant stress : The mood of the relationship, was it fun ?
3. Famillial Distance : No connexions with your partner's important people
4. Total ambivalence : Remembering your past loved-one, stay in touch
5. Refusing to fix your issues : No interest in problem solving
6. Rapid feeling : Mistaking passion from love
7. Sens of relief : Where your trapped in your relation
8. Forgetting your birthday : Still thinking about partner, and use those excuses to keep in contact
9. Moving on : Dating someone new quickly, it takes time to get over a relationship
10. Searching for signs : If you are watching this video, you probably have doubt, love should be cleary visible
You seem to have done your home work gathering all these goodies, she had to make a new relationship align with her lifestyle, things she needs by natural instincts, don't you get it for the fun of it on this channel. Straight connect platform.
she forgot my birthday had to go look in our messages
Blessed Sunday to all. To all been cheated or never been really loved by her let it be. Love yourself, work on your goal,self-improvement and use it to motivate you! I always knew you(we) can do it. It is better to live a life not using or cheating the feeling of others. You are free. You are blessed.
Amen
Amen
Well put
Thank you for this! God bless.
I was once a victim of heart break. My husband was cheating on me for about 2 years in our marriage. When I became suspicious, he always says that I am looking for excuses since I haven't caught him. But there was allot of red flags and so I talked to a friend. who advised me and connected to some professional. Who helped me uncover everything with proofs, so he can't deny it. I was so devastated when I found out but I am glad I did. Because I was getting so troubled at heart. But after this, I found a way to gain back my inner peace. Sometimes it is better to know than to just keep being troubled at heart. I am happy that I did take those steps.
so how did you get to find out?
I employed the help of a professional, who helped me to uncover everything. here is the cn below,
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If she is constantly trying to change you she never liked who you were, she just viewed you as her "project". If she can change you she will despise you!
A woman should only help to change you when it comes to growth. So if you want that new job but are scared she will give you positivity to overcome your fears. But if she can't stand you enjoy metal and goth clothes then kick the bitch to the curb where they belong
Goth clothes 🤤
Indeed, you are correct. A women who truly cares for you will try to help you change in ways that YOU have decided are GOOD for YOU, because she genuinely wants what's best for you. She may encourage some positive element of your personality, because she is more aware of your potential than you, in some regard. She may do much, but what she will NOT do is try to CHANGE YOU, to suit HER notion of what YOU SHOULD BE, or to garner some REWARD for HERSELF.
@@cheriann6461 You hit the nail on the head. I couldnt agree more
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If she has all guy friends, you're going to lose.
baaaaad
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Buddy , that's an orbiter , it's toxic .
No. She just has guys friends I know how it feels being jealous I always get jealous when I see my girlfriend hanging out with other guys but believe in her, and try loving her. I was so jealous I didn’t even want to see her hanging out with guys but I realized that’s such a selfish thing to do and she would probably end up hating me, trust her ❤️ the more u trust the healthier relationship
@@iaiaramirez7615
You'll learn eventually.
You're the home base boyfriend.
She's out with her fun guys.
How do you like the ring in your nose?
There's no such thing as love and now I'm starting to get it
It's nothing more than a contract. That's what I've learned. I'm a tall, good looking and in shape guy with a good career, but I can't find true love. Admittedly my personality is boring. If you ever do find someone who loves you as much as they love you, you'll be one of the luckiest people to stride on earth. Hold onto them forever
@@warwolf715u guys are sped. Love is real. This generation just doesnt have it all. true love can contain when people stop liking each other but then they start appreciating who they have.
@@danielplays2998 not wrong cuzzy I just went thru a breakup when I wrote that lol
My precious advice to men is, just move on and don’t look back. There are lots of women out there just like there are lots of fish in the ocean; make your choice. Don’t simply get fixated with just one woman. Move on guys
Lots of what type of women today...😏
Blair Rich
😂🤣😅
Jesus Christ... This com,ent section is 🤬 *sad.* 💯
Wishing you all Healing.
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Bro you can still be friends after a break up, I'm friends with my ex and we don't have romantic feelings for each other
Facts
Amen I can Relate 😊
Once she is gone , who gives a rat's behind if she ever loved you to begin with. Who cares , move on !
doesnt matter is she ever loved you if you didn't love her anyways lol.
Good advice
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It's usually women who want the break up but they find it hard to tell you that's what they really want.
Yeah, bc they in love with an idea, they don’t love you for who you are. These women feel like they deserve all while offering nothing but pssy
@@carloslopezdesilanes628 true
@@carloslopezdesilanes628 Yep. Meanwhile the guy just wants things to stay the same and slowly progress and wants her to treat him with kindness and respect and she can’t even do that much. A lot of women make it about sex especially the young ones. Where as a good man or woman values other things and the sex is just a part of it, something that can be improved and taken slowly. But if it starts off too hot and heavy it can die very quickly because the other foundations aren’t put in place, like respect and commitment.
*10 signs she was never really in love with you :*
1. 0:13 Missing an Idea
2. 1:14 Constant Stress
3. 2:00 Familial Distance
4. 3:06 Total Ambivalence
5. 4:24 Refusing to Fix Your Issues
6. 5:10 Rapid Feelings
7. 6:04 Sense of Relief
8. 6:40 Forgetting Your Birthday
9. 7:26 Moving On
10. 8:19 Searching for Sign
Thank you! You're an angel
Thank you
U're a legend
YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY A LIFESAVER
There’s a special place in heaven for people like u who spoil these videos lol thank you!
I hate to say it cause its probably unhealthy or something but I honestly have been a lot less stressed and upset since I decided to never trust a woman again and be upfront about only wanting sex
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Dont. even if woman broke your heart doesn’t mean don’t trust them all, and asking only for sex is just gonna make woman like you less (they’re gonna think u just want their bodies which is not good!!!) don’t say shit like this, every woman is different (depends how you treat them) so trust yourself and in them. When that happens u will be in a happy relationship
Does it work?
Whoever is reading this, I pray that whatever you’re going through gets better and whatever you’re battling with makes your situation better as you’re continuing to be a better person each day. I have faith that you’ll turn out great as your circumstances will change. Have a fantastic day! You got this! 🤗💪🏼❤
Praying doesn't work.
@@daviniarobbins9298
I respect your opinion .. I am not religious too .. just good wishes and positive vibes
Thank you
Amen.. God bless you.
@@ReflexPlay3611 ❤️
I always knew my ex never truly loved me, but I lied to myself and gave her the benefit of doubt. Damn!
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I feel you bro. Did the same thing.
If she hit you with that "I wish I could be with someone like you" she aint the one
Then you tell Her "I cant wait to find someone better than you"
Makes em go apeshit hahahaha
She is the one..not someone else. What she is thinking about is not your appearance, but her dreams for you. Mr pathetic twat.LOL
Infidelity is such a bad thing to have in any relationship. My advice will be for anyone having such thought to fully understand that it will always inhibit one giving his or her best in any relationship. So the best thing to do when infidelity issues arises is to find out for sure. I used to have allot of doubt about my partner and had to find out for sure. It was heart breaking what I found out but the best thing to do to keep my already troubled mind at peace. Thanks to the help I got which enable me to find out everything and see things for myself. I was really happy I did take the step and now my heart is peaceful after everything.
how did you find out?
I employed the help of a professional, who helped me to uncover everything with evidence. Here is his contact no. below
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Self improve people. That should be your first and most important goal, don’t let drama get in the way of it
Otay
So true. We men are the prize. Let’s make ourselves busy and work on ourselves. All other stuff is a waste of time. Never trust what a woman says. Trust only what she does.
To live longer and happier just stay away from toxic humans.
Self improvement only to a certain point. And not trust and buy any gurus product
Roodsteam advice and self improvement doesn’t necessarily need to involve buying anyone’s product. Just listen and take in the truth and apply it. 👍🏽
80 percent of romantic relationship's are not based on real love there based on lust and what can you do for me they have the illusion of love that's most relationships
Reminds me of my first relationship!!!
@@Dragonflyjones67 I just feel like it is women's narture in general to just lust for guys and use them and not really love them
@@ernestparham8376 Some females wants a meaningful relationship. Most females lust for guys because they don't know what love is. Their ideal of love, is base on lust. Hell, Females would lust for guy's base on rumor, or how much they got in their wallet. Especially when she knows the guy wants her less than she wants him.
@@Dragonflyjones67 ya I think they have a flawed view on real love
Fact!
This was highly interesting. And important.
Don't take a partner with whom you can't have deep conversations.
She never loved you, and she never will. Women don’t love how you expect them too
Watch "MGTOW She'll Never Love You Special Edition TFM/Celestina Monkey Mirror"
It perfectly explains how and especially why. Best redpill video I've ever seen and I've been watching those since 2014.
A man who had a narcissist for a mother will never know unconditional love, as that was his only opportunity
And they also don't love like they say they do. Actions speak louder than words.
And sometimes you can give it you're all, to the point of feeling you have nothing left for yourself. And, all that's left, is to walk away. Pretend you don't remember their bday, fav foods, the smell of their skin; though each night you grasp that pillow, (ingesting their very scent) with the desperation of a dying man trying to live despite his odds.
Urbanist love affair..mango taste sweet and women love that you like it.
I don't know why my brain went, "let's get hurt today," and clicked on this.
Me too
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love the sense of humor in this comment.
Exactly😂😂😂😂
Now I know I never really loved her. 🌹
I understand your feelings
let them go if it's easy for them to walk away from you then there is no reason to hold on in the first place.
Love yourself
its easy people" A WOMAN IS NOT YOURS IT'S JUST YOUR TURN". That's how its always been
100%?
Definitely not unless all the women you date are prostitutes. Women could say the same thing about men. Listen to women's dating advice. It's literally the same advise these things aren't one-sided only.
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Ruben Nava 💯 you smashed my point to elaborate.
One of the reasons why she can't really love you is because she has been having sex with so many different guys. Therefore it is difficult to pair bond with a guy because in her mind all guys who had sex with her are competing for her in her mind. So it's not a surprise.
Cheryl Powell .. nope, women’s dating advice is horrible..
I just realised I was never in love too
Yes
Same here! It had to end. Sometimes we just get too invested
It might be just dopamine made you feel "in love" who knows.
@@craiver00 "Love" is just a myth. It is nothing more than hormones telling us to mate.
Well it could happen, but the biggest mistake people do it's to go the bed in the first date.
Fun fact, some guys future wife is telling her current boyfriend that they'll be together forever.
LMFAO!!!!
😂😭
Yeah how is your mum btw
Divorce > breakup, I assume?
Fun fact some womens future baby-daddy is telling the women they're currently with they're ready for marriage.
Relationships are easy and straightforward:
1. A man needs a woman to make kids, he should love his kids. Otherwise, he is asking for heartbreak
2. A woman needs financial and emotional care, a man must care for her so that she gives him kids
3. As a man forget being loved by someone you once didn't know, focus on loving your kids coz they're the ones who truly love you
This the realist comment especially number 3
@Prashant M you ain’t lying
I'm poor and youre telling me I therefore can't ever make a woman very happy.
I think you're probably right.
The end...I give up.
In a way its a release being out of the game.
@@gushutchinson8758 I feel that
So forget being loved but give financial support to her? Makes sense seems to be all that woman want these days anyway not a real relationship just money money money and if it's based on that wont get anywhere.
Sometimes when I see or hear that a girl/guy moves on to the next relationship in a matter of a few weeks then they probably were seeing each other before she/he broke up. ALWAYS suspicious of that.
Not true. Broke up with a cheating liar and moved on. Just so happened i found another man after a few weeks. Did not have any connection with him before the breakup except that we were workmates. Sometimes u have to pick urself up and show them you can also move forward, you know. 🙂
Only black and Puerto Rican women do this
definitely. They wanna make sure the replacement is "better" than what they have.
Depends. Some people better heal when not alone
Sadly this is true
Do y'all ever feel that sharp pain in your chest when watching these vids 😭
I think you’re breaking your own heart bro😭
Used to, but now its funny. Give it time, homie
Pay attention to the red flags of narcissistic personalities next time..and dump her first..
I don't feel it in the heart but more like in the soul 😭
It's called a bullet
Patrice O'neal: "Never let a woman waste your time"
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That’s right. We men are the prize society really wants us to put women on a pedestal. It’s sickening and ruining us.
👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼😎🍻
Even if she is your mother.
Also Patrice: 🛑
I was going to quote him about food, and depression, and remind you of his fate.
He, being a comedian, would appreciate the irony.
Instead, I’ll remind those who apparently didn’t know much about him, that he felt he owed a *lot* of his life to the love of his life, his fiancée and business partner.
I’ll leave you with that.
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Few people today know what love really is.
So what is love exactly?
@@riturajkalita4828 Well if you have to ask I’d say you haven’t experienced it yet.
@@dannymeyer3256 so please explain to me what love is in brief ?
@@riturajkalita4828 Look up Agape Love.
*If she’s emotionally distant, avoids serious conversations, or gives up at the first sign of conflict, it shows a lack of true commitment. Real love means sticking around through challenges, not running at the first sign of discomfort.*
*May anyone who sees this comment have a wonderful day.* 💐
And a Grateful day ✌️🌞
Forever and Always, thank you 👑
May you have a wonderful day yourself
Thanks you too
You as well lovely lady
"She's looking for someone like you... But she wasn't looking for you"... Let that sink in for a minute....
Sum deep shit 💯🤝🏾🤝🏾🤝🏾
Facts
😂😂😂😂😂😂 that really got me scratching my head too
Yep
That goes hand in hand with "I wish I could find someone like you"
My wife of 10 years just left me for another guy.. When I caught her cheating she didn’t even care.. it’s crazy I gave her everything and traveled to provide everything she needed.. and now she ditched me like I was nothing… it’s crazy… so that’s why I’m here.. I guess she never loved me and I wasted 10 years of my life for nothing
Should be 10signs she was a narcissist and got bored
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You could be wrong,... but your probably right! -for that alone-“I Thank You”!
I can't tell you how many time my ex boring Narc told me she was bored. True statement.
EXACTLY!MY EX FEM COVERT MALIGNARCOPATH HAD THE ATTENTION SPAN OF A GOLDFISH!
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In other words, you can't lose something that you never had.
But that doesn't change the way it hurts when you realize that your love was real, and hers was pragmatism.
You were a resource she needed. And the feelings she demonstrated we're never real, but just a means to an end - obtaining a resource.
In truth, she was really just a very expensive hooker.
Love isn't just a feeling it's an ability, some don't have it.
That's because she was with somebody else when she was with you
Of course it was so great to spend time together as last year
Yes, as true friend when she could not make head or tail about you.
I’ve been single for well over three years now,and to be honest I am so happy being single.I had two failed marriages,even with the first one,I could clearly see that I was being conditioned and not being able to be my true self,so that was it,I couldn’t take it anymore.My second marriage I thought wow finally someone who is letting me be who in truly am,but then the signs were showing of her wanting to lead her own life and not sharing it with me anymore,and that so called love was false from the very begging 😪
This is my story perfectly. I'm looking forward to a future of celibacy
Two swings with paper (14 & 7) and one without the contract (20).
I still can't figure out who these women were but I've learned not to trust anyone anymore.
It's a good thing I'm of mature age as I don't need anyone for anything anymore, never did; now I know.
I'm sure she loved me for the first year, but i'm amazed how quickly she stopped loving me after that.
My ex-wife (married for 15 years, divorced now 6 years) hits every one of these "signs." I feel like I'm an intelligent person, yet got played for 15 years....and half of everything. I feel so stupid for not seeing just one of these signs. Could have saved me a lot of heartache, time and money. Ironic that she is now engaged to a boyfriend she was engaged to in high school.
Thats the story of my life...have u been spying on me? lol
People dont see these signs because they forgive many things and dont have distance to be objective
Dude stop and think that she gave you 15years of that ass at least
10 signs you are dealing with the female sex in 2020
If you really love each other she will always have time for you...
That "Im going through alot" card is a nasty 1 guys...Run😂😂😂
If you have drepression or anxiety you will definitely have these thoughts but she may still love you this is for insecure people if you the best version of yourself then why wouldn’t she get to like you don’t give up ,love isn’t easy and relationships take work,try again even with that person you were unsure about because it could be your depression or aniexty taking not your gut feeling
My only, "girlfriend," never really loved me at all. But I owe her a lot. She is the main one that caused me to socially isolate myself in order to avoid getting hurt ever again. I may have no friends nor a girlfriend now, because of her. But, the lifestyle of social isolation has a lot of benefits I would have never discovered if she had never emotionally devasted me. Do I owe her a thanks after all these years?
@Jamie Amela I socially isolated 8 August 2000 because I promised myself I would never allow myself any possibility of ever getting used, betrayed, and very painfully abandoned. If this means that I will nevef have friends nor a girlfriend again, so be it. There are far worse things than loneliness and I refuse to ever experience them again.
@Jamie Amela It was a long time ago. I parted ways with her 8 August 2000 and all her friends. She insisted I befriend them and it seemed wonderful at first. But they were her minions under her command. Finding out how conniving she was, I can not say I love her. But that was 20 years ago. I can say she changed my life for the better, though. The last twenty years of social isolation have made me extremely self reliant, independent to nearly a fault, and has given me amazing freedom. Yes, their is an element of loneliness. But I have gained so much from her devastating me emotionally. I do not love her nor even know her after all these years. However, perhaps I should be grateful to her. Because of her I can do things I could have never done before, on my own, than when I had friends and was social. She may have mangled me emotionally, but she has my gratitude. I learned one can live a very good life completely alone. Thank you, Angela, for twenty years ago.
@Jamie Amela THX 1138, 3.14, 73, KBX1339, 2.718281828459
Indrid Cold _ you don’t owe your ex anything. Well done you for being so strong. That is all you, she was a cause but YOU are the reason.
But friends could enrich your life. Surely you know people at work?
Also what about sex? Are you not bothered by no intimacy of any kind?
I just realized that every girl I ever had in a relationship did not really love me
I've never been with a women who didn't walk away. Maybe coincidence, Maybe it's Me. Either way the End result is the same. When they are Gone, they are *Gone* . I Hate hearing about people talking to their Exes, because mine run away, and NEVER look Back. "I Love you Today, I Hate You Tomorrow."
Unfortunately, Mentally the damage is Done, I can't even Help it. When a women says "I Love You" to me, the VERY FIRST THOUGHT in my Fcked up Brain is; *"Until..." even as I speak the same words back to Her. I can't trust them anymore, no matter how Badly I sincerely want to.
That's not you, 9 months ago my fiancee said to me that she wouldn't give up on our relationship so easy. Now I'm here commenting on this video while she's on Tinder looking for another guy. I personally don't know any women from my circle that got dumped, but I know many guys who were. I can't never love a woman again the same way I did before, it's a waste of time.
@@GabZ_98 Love them as much as they Love you, temporarily. I have an invisible shield inside of myself that protects me, basically I don't truly Love anymore, and I found that to be the Key to avoiding heartbreak. You can still enjoy your Life, have good times and smile, I have a baby on the way (my first ever) and I thank fate for it, because guess what? I finally will have someone in my life who can NEVER just walk away. I hope things get better for you brother, for real, society teaches Men to be Sturdy, and teaches Women to be Heartless, but that doesn't have to ruin your life. Good Luck.
I’m in the same spot dood
@@GabZ_98 man i really feel you . your last string of words really struck me . The damage is done
@Jacky absolutely. She's already with her new "big better deal", a single Dad guy father of two who's got more money than me.
Love yourself an this video won't matter.
Very very good advice 👍👌 something us Men should remember.
That's the problem every one loves themselves . Love Jesus
@@JamesBond-ko7cc One person's angel is another person's demon.
@@ronaldfitzsimmons9902 ☮
Period bro
The person that cares less controls the relationship.
wish that wasnt true, but it is.
You shouldn't have told me this...I am crying after realizing her fake love
It's so true...
The illusion of being loved is heartbreaking...
It has happened to me so many times...
The person who does not miss you or check on you, never really loved you...
That's why it took me so long to get in a relationship...
First I needed to make sure we share the same feelings...
It's way too rare...
Did you happened to get back with somebody that's you used to be with in the past cause if you did that's a good thing I don't knock that's what I'm asking.
@@jerrytravis4044
No. It was nobody I used to date.
The persistent scenario that took place was that:
-Somebody I barely know approaching me and asking me out
- Going out for a walk, or a coffee during daylight
-The person asking me inappropriate things, while telling me it is just for having a good time
-Me walking away, because giving in somebody who does not feel anything for you, or does not respect you at all, or the other way around, is irrational...
The way I see things, love is a gift from God to the people, it is not a comedy to help someone have fun...
So, I stayed away from this kind of people, and I waited until I found someone who we shared the same "craziness"
Wow......my last break up checked every block in this video. This opened my eyes to the truth. She never loved me
She was a narcissist--it’s alright!! See ya
99.3% of relationships today.
That is because you are attracting what you are and not what you want, work on yourself and the right one will come along.
Yep
Fact due to selfish human nature
@@BlueSteel07 Want is a state of lack.
You shouldnt have to put up a fake facade to attract someone decent.
@@BlueSteel07 not surprised coming from a girl with this bs quote
My wife never loved me. 12 years of my life I've wasted with this woman. I feel like I've ruined my life marrying her. I've been trying to please her and I get nothing in return. I don't get birthday, anniversary or christmas presents. The presents I bought her are stacked in the corner of our room still in the box.
I hate my life because of her. I never forced her into my life. She said she wanted to marry me and I believed she loved me...... She didn't. She just loved the idea of me. She loved the idea of the person that she wanted me to be and not the person I actually am. She stops me from doing the things I love doing, she constantly complains, she never wants to fix anything, she's hypocritical, I do a lot to try to make her happy but she never appreciates it and she hardly does anything to try to make me happy.
Some of these signs can also mean that she has fallen out of love with you.... saying she was never in love is kinda a big thing.
Some people are hurt because of these "signs" because they believe that their (ex) partner never loved them.
Some people already move on within the relationship. That is why communication is so very important.
Tbh this video is really disappointing because these are not facts. Moving on is a process everyone goes through. Just because someone moves on faster doesnt mean they never loved you. They just might have start the process sooner then you think.
I made a similar comment a few minutes ago before I saw this. Totally agree with you. This video post could actually be kind or damaging to a select few out there. Those few who take this advise seriously. I really hope they read through the comments and find this post and my post.
Others, like me, found the video informative and constructive.
I completely agree! With my last relationship there was a lot of negativity coming up from his side and I ended up losing a lot of the previous feelings I had.
Also signs of NPD. If you don’t see an issue with this, it’s very telling.
Or you loved him but over time it faded and you stay with him because you're afraid to hurt him even though you're miserable ☹️
Despite my ex being one of the kindest people I know, I do recognise many of these signs. She used to tell me that she could never love anyone else, or she would discuss "our" future plans together, which were reay just her own plans and I happened to agree with most, things that I didn't agree on she would be upset about. She just decided our children would carry her surname. That would be fine and all, if only she actually considered my/the father's opinion here. She'd blame me of not compromising for her, yet she expected me to follow her around on all of her plans. I hope that she finds someone that fits her better than me I guess
You'll find ur true love when the time is right
Love and light
That sound toxic, lucky to get out of that relationship.
She sounds a bit of a control freak who only wanted you as a sperm donor. If she's gone for good, then lucky old you. Don't even think about taking her back at some future point....she is what she is, and she won't willingly change, and you'd better believe it. People very rarely do.
I think I may have made her sound worse than she actually is. I mean she was controlling indeed, and it was annoying, but she didn't have bad intentions. She just had a crush on a fantasy of what she hoped I would be while I actually fell in love over time with her as a person. That being said, she was also very nice to me though, she is an incredibly empathetic person, but if you do something that she has an opinion on, than she will let you know, and she will make you feel guilty about things like drinking alcohol or going to bed late. I do think there are better people out there for me but trust me that she doesn't quite deserve hate or anything, she just has a very strong opinion while I am more easy going and that didn't work too well
Women get what Men allow them and they allow a lot. How about saying no to something?
1. They have the idea of being with you, instead of loving you. They try to change you.
2. Constant stress. Are you playfull or stressfull ?
3. Familial distance. Never try to know them on each part.
4. Total ambivalence.
5. Refusing to fix issues.
6. Rapid feelings.
7. Sense of relief.
8. Forgetting your birthday.
9. Moving on.
10. Searching for signs of her|his love for you.
Damn, and this entire time I thought this is how real marriages were supposed to be like. Thanks a lot, TopThink.
The last point 👉🏼 "The Sign" was really an eye opener 👏🏼😁
my most recent ex an I fought constantly, anytime I left the house, in her mind i was cheating. She started acting very unusual, showing cleavage and going to the bar more. She went on vacation to Colorado without saying anything which was out of the ordinary and while in Colorado she texts saying "I'm visiting my cousin in Colorado, we need to get a motel room, can I use your credit card?" my response was that I thought he had a place and she changed her story. she wanted all of my friends to know about her but didnt want hers to know about me. when I asked her about that, her response was "I'm tired of you always accusing me! We ain't together anymore!" The following morning (less than 12 hours later) she texts saying "I met a guy at the bar last night, he took me to the shooting range and he's taking me out again tonight." she's now married to him.
NO 11: If you have searched for this that it is 90% sure that she dosent love you because there is a doubt and if you were happy in a relationship you would never come across this video
4.5 year relationship forgotten in 4 months. hahahahahaha story of my life.
3.5 year relationship here, forgotten in less than a month, yeeeep
@@AkaSwayze my G i feel you. Exactly same thing happen to me. Stay up bro!
Try 25 and one day
@@lovehope2460 noooooooo!
We just need to do the same they did, theres no other way.
Describes my relationship with ex-fiance exactly. It's toughened me emotionally, which is both good and bad.
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This literally summed up my last (and only) relationship and answered the main question on whether I should have stayed together or ended it. Turns out I made the right decision and my gut was right. Thanks for the video, it really helped
Your guy is always right if you’re a man.
What a load of rubbish. I absolutely loved my wife but the relationship was toxic. When I decided to leave I cut contact not because I didn’t love her but because I loved her too much and didn’t want to be pulled back in. I was determined to move on and break the emotional connection. Going back and forth is like pulling a scab off a sore. You are just delaying the healing process.
Very right! Same with my three exes except I didn't fall in love with them. I could see it but before I went that far I cut it off. It's dangerous getting comfortable with abusive behavior even if it's emotional abuse. It's so easy to get addicted to people.You have to do what's best for you and cut that off!
Then your love was 1 sided. Thats why its titled "10 reasons SHE never was in love with you"
Learn to read people
Joshua R. Maybe listen to the video then get back to me mate
The relationship was toxic because she was never in love with you. You already know that and that's why you left. You're angry because she fooled you.
@@FreedomUninterrupted Were are you when i need you.
remember women can not love you. they just respect you, and it all means love to a man. they just love you for what you can do for them. only men are capable of love.
Wow, you completely nailed my current relationship.
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She could endure my living habits, she could wash my smaconsum's underwear for me, she could listen to my troubles, but finally departed on another man. That's so sad
Where can I buy “Smaconsum” underwear?
Let's get this straight. Narcissists don't love ANY one..and they ARE unlovable!!
Beer never broke my heart ❤️
That should’ve been a bonus tip on the video. 😔
Lol
Beer breaks mine..he drinks too much. Im considering breaking up.
embraced chimera Luke Combs reference
Bryan Tav_ just your liver?
This hurts to hear, but makes sense. One of my first relationships ended (to me) randomly. I never even found out why she wanted to leave.
Do you need help , I know of someone who can help you ) he helped me get my ex back
Whrsapp him
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Hello Barbara @@barbarajolie9358
I'm here watching this video because I don't feel loved, I feel like she always lies to me and there are so many red flags but somehow i always end up feeling like the bad guy.
I just needed to hear the truth and fully let her go! Thank you
Me having a nice relationship
RUclips: " you want some stress ?"
good one !
I always give my wife nice comments , leave her little letters and make her feel special.But, I stop because I never got it back in return. I ask her why she never show me attention. She belittle me,she say i sound like a woman and a man should never worry about attention, complimens or getting shown love..Is this true?
There was a time, when most men were at fault........nowadays almost every man is merely her prey and love is just a manipulation tool.
Love never dies. 1 Corinthians 13:8
Sure.. quote the first tabloid ever written. The Bible is nothing but man written BS.
Yes it does.
Love doesn't die unless it was never true love to begin with. Just unlucky I guess.
The truth is love is a decision. That's all. Feelings, sex etc is not love. It's the icing on the cake, but you first need to make a great cake. Real love is this: You wake up every morning and decide you're going to love this person and look after them, regardless. End of story. There ain't much love in people anymore is the simple problem. People's expectations are ridiculous.
constant stress, refusing to fix issue, sense of relief ..... all this in/from my ex wife... my life was just too miserable
I am glad she doesnt bother to recall my birthdays which she didnt remember when we were together as well.
My ex has severe BPD and she showed many of these signs. However I know she loved me. The BPD made the relationship so hard to deal with it. She knew something was wrong with her and I would see the war in her. I still loved her but I can’t be with her. The effects on my mental heath were too great.
Even though i have discourage my friends severally about hiring a private investigator to catch their cheating partners, i resorted to hiring one during my divorce. My husband hid his affair too well and i had no evidence to prove his infidelity to the court so i had to go back to my friend who am grateful didn’t listen to me back then to refer me to the private investigator she is working with named Ben with the email Webhubghost (@) gmailcom and i told him my problem. His service are topnotch which made working with him very easy,he got me everything i needed within 6 hours and it was amazing, i paid upfront cause the trust was already there and i got great results because i currently have my husband’s messages diverted to my phone, call logs, Facebook messenger, WhatsApp,instant chat,Viber, Skype, password, retrieved all his deleted messages.The best part about his service is that you do not need any physical access or installation to the phone you wish to hack, so it was all hell break loose for my husband when i presented the evidence in court and i got everything i deserve. I'm writing this because it only happened last month. I'm still in so much pain that I'm physically hurt. He's the love of my life and I fell so hard for him. I'll recommend for all spying, tracking and investigatory services don't hesitate to contact Ben for help him via call or text him at (nine zero four) four one seven - seven two one four.You can also contact him via his mail Webhubghost (@) gmailcom.
I feel your pain. My ex-gf has PDD 🤕
It takes awhile to identify. At first I thought it was another one of those shit test/random assignments that girls give you.
Quit throwing the word "love" around for everything you point out on this video. Most of it only has to do with maturity and mutual respect .
I was in a situation once where I was in love with this woman and would do anything for her. I was an option in her life. She was always ending the relationship then calling me to say "I miss my friend" and we would get back together only to repeat that same cycle several times. Upon the last time she split, we were apart for 4 months and I was tired. I met someone and we hooked up and my son was the outcome of that union. When she had enough of whatever she was doing she came back. I sat her down and told her the truth. Needless to say she was hurt and was bothered. She became livid and grew a large animosity for me and we never got back together. Sometimes when we can't remove certain people out of our lives, God will do so.